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Speaker 2: I feel good?
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Speaker 2: welcome to Horrible Lady.
Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy b aka Full corpor'ms aka that bitch.
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Speaker 1: Y'all? I'm weasy. Welcome back to another episode. We have
Speaker 1: a guest in the building today that came highly recommended
Speaker 1: from a Wolf who's one of our engineers at WCF,
Speaker 1: and he literally was like, she gonna fit in with y'all.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, what do you mean by that? Not?
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? Said? We have Jody
Speaker 1: in the building, and Jody, I want to ask you
Speaker 1: what do he mean by that?
Speaker 2: I think he means that I'm amazing and cleaning it up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he means that I'm amazing, I'm honest
Speaker 3: about my experiences and I ain't gonna.
Speaker 1: Hold you, Jody. You sounded like the emails that we
Speaker 1: be getting when they be like, I want to come
Speaker 1: on the podcast because I'm just awesome. Me and my
Speaker 1: friends we do cool shit. So really get into the ship.
Speaker 1: Why the fuck you on the podcast?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: So I want to say that he probably said that
Speaker 3: I would fit in because he heard me talk about
Speaker 3: some of my stories and he was like wait what
Speaker 3: he did?
Speaker 1: What? He basically called you a whror?
Speaker 4: Basically yeah, I mean, but I call myself a whore.
Speaker 4: I like, like, I know who I am.
Speaker 2: I embrace that, don't we all?
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 2: On your flat form?
Speaker 1: Like you have like a sex positive platform on I G.
Speaker 1: So what kind of stuff do you do?
Speaker 2: I am a throtologist, oh girl these days?
Speaker 1: Okay, thronologist.
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm a throtologist.
Speaker 4: Yes, throtologists nctrician.
Speaker 2: What do you mean? What do you mean about?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like I really I really be sucking dick like I
Speaker 2: enjoyed real bad.
Speaker 4: Where'd you learn how to suck dick? I actually studied
Speaker 4: sucking dick?
Speaker 1: Where I would like to know?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So university was that I would like to see it.
Speaker 2: Wasn't a university.
Speaker 3: But I am a sexpert. So I went through sexpert
Speaker 3: consultants and I learned that part of it. And I
Speaker 3: also studied under doctor Rachel's she has a sexologist uh program.
Speaker 4: I studied under her as well. So you have a
Speaker 4: certificate like in texology. Really okay, interesting?
Speaker 1: Wait, so what's it like?
Speaker 2: Like? What's class Like?
Speaker 1: Are you like on zoom?
Speaker 2: Do you sit down? Do you have a pencil?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: What's it like? So you got a pencil and my.
Speaker 3: Notebook and I even outside of that, I'm someone where
Speaker 3: it's like I love sex so much that I'm always
Speaker 3: studying and wanting to know more about it.
Speaker 1: So yeah, taking that Like while studying, you were like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I never knew.
Speaker 2: This semen has melotonin in it?
Speaker 1: What I could believe it puts you to sleep? Yeah, bitch,
Speaker 1: you swallowed some not you be tied, you be ready.
Speaker 2: So I don't believe it look enough to put you
Speaker 2: to sleep.
Speaker 4: I don't think there there are it's traceable.
Speaker 1: So we're sitting here thinking it's putting us to sleep,
Speaker 1: but it's it's.
Speaker 2: What, bitch, don't do this. I don't be knowing. I
Speaker 2: was supposed to just know what serotonin is makes you happy?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I mean Oxytocin makes you feel I thought
Speaker 1: that one made you feel happy like love.
Speaker 2: Oxytosin like release you feel love? Sound crazy?
Speaker 1: Yeah it's oxy no no no. Serotonin is like the happiness.
Speaker 1: That's what when you're taking any s SR eyes like
Speaker 1: a pill. It boosts up the serotonin for you, like
Speaker 1: if you're on an antidepressant. Oxytocin is the chemical that
Speaker 1: releases when you're like feeling when. That's how I fall
Speaker 1: in love with niggas.
Speaker 4: Yeah you're happy.
Speaker 1: I ain't got that in me. Oxytoastin don't exist, Yes
Speaker 1: you do, babe, podcast. The last three years, I've pissed
Speaker 1: it all up. Okay, so we got all the tens
Speaker 1: in it and then what else?
Speaker 3: So for me again, because I feel like when I
Speaker 3: started studying this, it made me like sucking it even more.
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, this might be so happy okay.
Speaker 3: Like for me, it's really like, yeah, you're getting like
Speaker 3: the things that you need out of seamen to horder,
Speaker 3: because I'm sure you have more.
Speaker 1: We want to know right now, were on it. Tell
Speaker 1: me some things that are not redundant, like the twisting
Speaker 1: your hand or pressing the front of him. Tell me
Speaker 1: tell me some things you've learned or you do sucking
Speaker 1: dick that you know, maybe something we may not have
Speaker 1: seen yet that y'all.
Speaker 2: May not have seen it. I know for me, I
Speaker 2: like to use like my rolls.
Speaker 4: On him, like while I'm sucking, like putting it like
Speaker 4: on the gouch.
Speaker 1: The vibration. Girl, we knew that. I'm pretty sure I
Speaker 1: speaking that we talked about vibrators. I don't know about
Speaker 1: rolls on the go. I haven't heard that. You.
Speaker 2: Oh, that's just a specific toy.
Speaker 1: But it's the vibration, well, vibrating, it's sucking, That's what's
Speaker 1: what you're saying. Okay, So and it's focusing on second
Speaker 1: that's interesting. Okay, Yeah, what are you be doing day
Speaker 1: kicking and screaming? No, Like.
Speaker 3: I actually just recently did it this week and it
Speaker 3: was cool, Like and this is like someone where he
Speaker 3: like he a hood nick so.
Speaker 2: He'd be like, no, you can't really do this, but then.
Speaker 1: With that but didn't but then motherfucker and do it
Speaker 1: like he definitely opened.
Speaker 2: And yeah, like I was like no, so it was no,
Speaker 2: it was no.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna go through a few things and I
Speaker 1: want you to tell me if it matters yes or no?
Speaker 2: Okayco no, I agree?
Speaker 1: No, Dick's size yes, yes, here too, bank account yes yes,
Speaker 1: marital status no.
Speaker 2: Same okay, So then we gotta pause that.
Speaker 1: So let's talk about Dick's size. I've recently been sleeping
Speaker 1: with someone that I realized maybe sleeping with too many
Speaker 1: other people, and I think his body count is actually
Speaker 1: affecting our sex life. Here's why.
Speaker 2: Maybe body count is too specific of like a term.
Speaker 1: However, he's been saying ship like how he doesn't he
Speaker 1: tries to preserve come and he's try not to come
Speaker 1: or like whatever you would come. Canceler is crazy. He
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you're not just be trying to hold it.
Speaker 1: IM just trying to be reserved it. And then I realized, like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're fucking that many bitches. You're probably exhausted. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh, And so it's been like.
Speaker 1: A common theme right where like he keeps like holding
Speaker 1: it or can't or whatever, and I'm like, I know
Speaker 1: it's supposed to good, starting to realize interesting.
Speaker 2: Are you are? Did he share how many other women
Speaker 2: there are? No?
Speaker 1: I didn't ask how many others, but I know there
Speaker 1: are others, right, And so that particular thing that hit me.
Speaker 1: I was like, that's it, Like he actually can't he
Speaker 1: doesn't have the bandwidth, And so I realized there is
Speaker 1: a point where body count it's probably too much, like
Speaker 1: if your dick is being so spread thin, and I
Speaker 1: get it, like you're finding it's good that you can't
Speaker 1: fuck me the way I want to be fucked because
Speaker 1: I like the nut. Oh, now you're using a word
Speaker 1: that look as you're turning into me right before my try. No,
Speaker 1: but like that's the thing, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like I want to see it right and I really
Speaker 1: like I feel like that's a part of the sex
Speaker 1: that turns me on.
Speaker 2: So the fact that he can't even deliver at this point,
Speaker 2: it's kind of.
Speaker 1: Like i'd be curious if that's the experience though with
Speaker 1: the other partners, Like maybe it's not the body count,
Speaker 1: Maybe there's some other psychological factor keeping him from doing it,
Speaker 1: or maybe he likes to edge. Maybe maybe.
Speaker 2: Like he might enjoy doing that. And I know that
Speaker 2: we've talked about really but were.
Speaker 1: Trying to open your brain and now we're trying to
Speaker 1: open our brain. I don't think he's that smart.
Speaker 2: No, edging doesn't take that they're going.
Speaker 1: To be smart being like very like, I'm not trying
Speaker 1: to be insulting, like I think edging is a conscious
Speaker 1: thing that you're trying to in order to please yourself.
Speaker 2: And I don't believe that he's thinking that deeply.
Speaker 1: I don't think that that's really something that takes it's
Speaker 1: the dick like man are not, Like, it doesn't take
Speaker 1: intelligence for a man to realize I like holding this.
Speaker 1: This It does because if you know that you're doing
Speaker 1: it for your own pleasure, like yeah, I do think.
Speaker 3: You won't say it like yeah.
Speaker 4: Like men again, they're simple.
Speaker 3: So if he say like, na, like I really like
Speaker 3: holding my nut, it don't take too much to say.
Speaker 1: But my thing is too though. I just think that
Speaker 1: a lot of men are not honest in the fact
Speaker 1: that they have sex to please themselves. So knowing that
Speaker 1: you are really maybe sexual and you clearly want to
Speaker 1: be pleased, if he knows that this is something that
Speaker 1: you that isn't pleasing you, I think it would make
Speaker 1: him like stop, Like, I think you have to voice
Speaker 1: it to him, Hey, I really like the action and
Speaker 1: where you were at that point, you knows, But.
Speaker 2: Mattering how small is too small for you she might
Speaker 2: like small. How big is to I said this, dick
Speaker 2: sizes matter and you both said yes, right, So it
Speaker 2: could mean she might not. She might, but I don't
Speaker 2: feel that. I don't like Okay, Okay, I wasn't.
Speaker 4: Taking you know, Yeah, I definitely know. That's not what
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 3: I say that it definitely it matters, but it doesn't
Speaker 3: have to be the end all be all, Okay, So
Speaker 3: it matters only to the extent that you actually know
Speaker 3: how to use what you have. So the average dick
Speaker 3: size is five and a half inches, that's this average.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna run if it's a true five
Speaker 1: and a half, it's not as bad if you know
Speaker 1: how to stroke is.
Speaker 3: Exactly because a lot, I feel like a lot of
Speaker 3: women's ideas of what a like size is it's kind
Speaker 3: of like skewed.
Speaker 4: So if we know that the G.
Speaker 3: Spot is only like two three inches in fight, you
Speaker 3: could technically if that's what you.
Speaker 1: Want, yeah, because you can reach it with a finger
Speaker 1: exactly like.
Speaker 3: And then if you moan it off a finger, but
Speaker 3: then you like, no small dick, It's like, come.
Speaker 2: That's a good point.
Speaker 1: It's giving hypocrite, right, like, Okay.
Speaker 3: So for me, it's like you all, and here's the
Speaker 3: thing is, well, you run into someone with a big
Speaker 3: dick that don't know how to use it as well.
Speaker 3: So then then and it's like, all right, you say
Speaker 3: size matters, So it's like if you just go with a.
Speaker 1: Big dick, man, I think the big dick issue that
Speaker 1: I realized when men don't know how to use it
Speaker 1: because I've been sleeping with someone who has a big
Speaker 1: dick for years, right, and what I realized is more
Speaker 1: to his benefit than men that have larger dicks, I
Speaker 1: mean have dick's size, is he understands that long strokes
Speaker 1: can be painful. And when you're long stroking and you're
Speaker 1: like doing that way too much, like that like kind
Speaker 1: of like I need you to let the dick milk
Speaker 1: for a second, you know what I'm saying for real,
Speaker 1: Because if you don't like just kind of like ease
Speaker 1: into it and let someone's pussy stretch, I feel like
Speaker 1: sexy red it really like can be painful. So I think,
Speaker 1: like once he's now that we've even known each other
Speaker 1: for so long and been able to fucking get it
Speaker 1: them long strokes come right to the end. Bitch, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like he takes his time and
Speaker 1: definitely slower push is it. But you and I also
Speaker 1: know this from even fucking women. You gotta almost feel
Speaker 1: a point where the pussy starts to open.
Speaker 3: I was just then to get to that because Chicago,
Speaker 3: so a lot of people have sex before they're all
Speaker 3: the way around or all the way right. And you
Speaker 3: know you have the people out there like, no for playing,
Speaker 3: only go the last fat ten minutes. If you wait
Speaker 3: until that pussy is robbing, that's when you're gonna get
Speaker 3: the ultimal that's the that's the that's the optimal.
Speaker 4: Version of the pussy that you're going to get.
Speaker 3: But why would you not want optimal pussy?
Speaker 1: Why? Yeah, like optimism exactly like.
Speaker 3: And it goes both ways. But even men like me
Speaker 3: and maybe all right, I'm hard a little bit. I
Speaker 3: don't feel like relax. I want to be as hard
Speaker 3: as they can get.
Speaker 1: I feel like niggas be doing that because they're thinking
Speaker 1: they're gonna get harder while they're in you. No, No,
Speaker 1: that's awesome over Amazon Prime.
Speaker 2: Not too period.
Speaker 1: Now, you did getting into dating just a little bit.
Speaker 1: You said marital status does not fucking matter. Why and
Speaker 1: what are your views on marriage?
Speaker 3: So just based off of what I've experienced so far,
Speaker 3: a lot of people, and it actually kind of scares
Speaker 3: me about marriage. People be marrying people they don't really like,
Speaker 3: valid they be marrying people they don't like, and then
Speaker 3: they end up cheating.
Speaker 1: I wish I could talk about it. I've been having
Speaker 1: so many conversations with friends that are in long term
Speaker 1: marriages same not even friends, but like just it could
Speaker 1: be someone at a bar even right, And I do
Speaker 1: feel that the common theme is they marry that person
Speaker 1: for them on paper. Really are they talking about the
Speaker 1: way that person makes them feel or attributes that they
Speaker 1: like about them that have to do with their character? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but more so like great job, great mom? Great?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, A lot of times they don't.
Speaker 3: And I know, like even just hearing people talk about
Speaker 3: their spouse, I'm like, oh my god, this is like terrible,
Speaker 3: Like this makes me not want to participate in a
Speaker 3: conventional version of what marriage is.
Speaker 2: Like have you been the side chick to a married man?
Speaker 4: I don't accept that, Okay, Yeah, And by that, I
Speaker 4: mean like, all right, if we do what we do,
Speaker 4: I don't have to You're not gonna label me as
Speaker 4: your side, like you're not going to put that late
Speaker 4: like we friends and we just so happen to fuck.
Speaker 4: But here's the thing too, like you can't hit me up.
Speaker 3: Like you're sagic either, like if I hit it, like
Speaker 3: if its just the lines and we fucked being.
Speaker 4: Cool but not like no, oh yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 1: Feeling where you're going. But I want to know what
Speaker 1: you think the differences you maybe I would say side
Speaker 1: chick maybe gets like.
Speaker 2: See that, maybe sorry to gets the purse. Do you
Speaker 2: feel like you just wanted them?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like if that's just what I want, then that's
Speaker 3: just what I want.
Speaker 4: Don't try to put no label on what we do.
Speaker 1: Not allow me to have a role.
Speaker 2: And now I got like, so you.
Speaker 1: Was like a married man, but you wouldn't be in
Speaker 1: any sort of emotional connection to a man, not even
Speaker 1: transactionally either. Yeah, okay, you just gonna the married man
Speaker 1: and send him on his way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like to be cool and don't we beat And
Speaker 3: I actually I've only had sex with one married man.
Speaker 4: And this was somebody that I've known like even before
Speaker 4: he was married.
Speaker 3: It just so happened he had sex and then he
Speaker 3: was like hitting me up and I'm like, whoa, wait,
Speaker 3: what are you doing? Like this was like a one
Speaker 3: and done type thing, like I'm kind of it.
Speaker 2: Was all right, it was fun?
Speaker 1: Why not?
Speaker 2: Okay? Why not? What I mean?
Speaker 1: I don't want to have sex with someone marry either,
Speaker 1: But I'm just like a crazy believer in karmel, like
Speaker 1: I feel like so just for some context that anyone,
Speaker 1: for anyone's listening, and another if ever told the story.
Speaker 1: But my first boyfriend was separated when I met him. Well,
Speaker 1: I didn't know he was married. Then he was separated,
Speaker 1: which for sure because I had been in their home
Speaker 1: and they weren't together. But I remember while we were dating.
Speaker 2: And it's crazy. I was eighteen, he was twenty eight.
Speaker 2: That's insane.
Speaker 1: But he got served divorce papers and I remember thinking, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm like the reason for this, even though they weren't
Speaker 1: together when we met, and I had a crazy, abusive
Speaker 1: relationship with him, really bad luck. He was also a cheater,
Speaker 1: and I remember thinking this is my karma. And maybe
Speaker 1: that's not necessarily true, but I believed that because I
Speaker 1: kept pursuing it. And again eighteen, I was like, this
Speaker 1: is my fault. So if I'm engaging with this married person,
Speaker 1: I'm bound to have some fucked up shit happen in
Speaker 1: my relationship or the relationships thereafter, So it was fucking
Speaker 1: terrifying me to do it again. Now niggas with a girlfriend,
Speaker 1: This is fucked up because I haven't really slept with
Speaker 1: many niggas with a girlfriend. But that to me is
Speaker 1: a little more excusable because sometimes reallytionship seems so like
Speaker 1: this marriage, I guess in my brain is way more
Speaker 1: committal and serious. So that's why it's been my hard No, yeah,
Speaker 1: went on that rat because I'm curious to know why
Speaker 1: you would fuck them, but where the emotional comes in,
Speaker 1: like why not just trickle on the niggas?
Speaker 3: So for me because I compartmentalize sex in a way
Speaker 3: that it's like, if this is just what I want
Speaker 3: to do, then I'm cool with that. I think that's
Speaker 3: also where I'm cool with the out after the fact, right,
Speaker 3: Like a lot of people are like, oh, we just
Speaker 3: did this now, Like, no, it ain't know now what
Speaker 3: because I've already I've accepted that this is just a
Speaker 3: sexual experience. We fulfilled a sexual human need for each other.
Speaker 2: And that that's just what it was.
Speaker 3: So I compartmentalize it, and it works because especially if
Speaker 3: I know where I'm at mentally and I'm not looking
Speaker 3: for anything.
Speaker 4: Serious anyway, why would I. Like, it don't matter you
Speaker 4: gonna you gonna, You're gonna cheat regardless, Like that's the
Speaker 4: thing that's gonna stop someone from cheating is someone that
Speaker 4: does not want to cheat. It does not matter who
Speaker 4: they with, what the situation is that's going on. So
Speaker 4: it's like, all right, you didn't fuck me, You're gonna
Speaker 4: fuck somebody else.
Speaker 2: Like I don't feel no type of way about it.
Speaker 3: Also, I don't think that we do monogamy right, like
Speaker 3: for monogamy to be the standard where we suck at it,
Speaker 3: sucking it up, like we we're terrible at monogamy. So
Speaker 3: maybe we need to rethink what the standard is.
Speaker 1: And we're doing that. Yeah, we're doing it like, you know,
Speaker 1: one step at a time.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, there's shows now that like polyamory is
Speaker 4: being talked about more, polygamy is being talked about more,
Speaker 4: and we're seeing it more on our television screen.
Speaker 1: That's the problem though, because now that we're in the
Speaker 1: era of sexual liberation, people have found these different ways
Speaker 1: of relationships and we're now all forced to think that's
Speaker 1: the standard, you know, Like I think that that's what's
Speaker 1: ruining dating to It's not necessarily that people like us
Speaker 1: that me enjoy this type of relationship or sex life
Speaker 1: can't pursue it openly. It's more that now these regular
Speaker 1: niggas they never motherfucker heard of polyamory, are.
Speaker 4: Like, oh, yeah, it is me, and no, if it
Speaker 4: ain't too, you're a liar.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But but actually a bit of me is feeling
Speaker 1: like now they're showing up a little bit more honest,
Speaker 1: I can't just be with just Lee, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: think they're they're necessarily lying. There's this umbrella term that
Speaker 1: maybe they don't fully understand that still comes with boundaries,
Speaker 1: that still comes with respecting your partner, but they're kind
Speaker 1: of leaning in more into I can't just be with you.
Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna cheat. I may have other partners I
Speaker 1: want to pursue at the same time. So this is
Speaker 1: a term that I'm hearing and it kind of aligns
Speaker 1: with this. So let me sit here and say I'm
Speaker 1: poly now. I don't think everyone understands it. I don't
Speaker 1: think they know how to show up in those relationships.
Speaker 1: But it's because a lot of us have not grown
Speaker 1: up seeing it. We don't really have many examples. We're
Speaker 1: all learning it on the fly. Right. Actually, you got
Speaker 1: me thinking of something. I'm gonna tell you why I
Speaker 1: don't like it. I think men are using polyamory as
Speaker 1: a way to almost cover up situationships.
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that.
Speaker 1: And I tell you why I think that polyamory throwing
Speaker 1: that on to someone but not you know, saying I'm
Speaker 1: in other relationships basically makes it a lot easier for
Speaker 1: someone to digest that they're in a situationship with you.
Speaker 1: Because women have been hearing that, they know that that
Speaker 1: means it won't turn into a relationship. It's very loose terms.
Speaker 1: You don't know what you are, blah blah blah. Polyamory
Speaker 1: is like, oh yeah, you and these other people. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you right now.
Speaker 3: That's the issue with that is that people are referring
Speaker 3: to themselves, is they're labeling themselves as Polly and they
Speaker 3: actually don't understand what comes with it. So if you're
Speaker 3: labeling yourself as something and you don't truly understand it,
Speaker 3: meaning that you still lying. Because here's name it poly
Speaker 3: being polyamorous or polygamous, or whether it be a polyfidelity
Speaker 3: situation like whatever type of it's an umbrella, right. You
Speaker 3: have to be honest with whoever you're engaged with, and if.
Speaker 2: You're not being honest, you're not Polly. You're just a
Speaker 2: fucking liar. But it's why I'm not mad.
Speaker 1: But it's why I'm also not mad at Okay, if
Speaker 1: you're you're, I don't think it's a situationship anymore. If
Speaker 1: I'm being honest with you, you are a partner to me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: with the title, that's what your need, and we are
Speaker 1: and here we are. I also have other people because
Speaker 1: let's be real, like there's a lot of women that
Speaker 1: a will accept it, but a woman, a woman will
Speaker 1: put themselves.
Speaker 2: With a title with a man before the man puts
Speaker 2: the title on her. Anyway.
Speaker 1: So if he's coming to you and being like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like I fuck with you, because that's all a nigga
Speaker 1: really got to say, Like yo, I really fuck with you.
Speaker 1: But I also you know, I'm fucking old girl too,
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean we're in a situationship. If I've expressed it,
Speaker 1: I'm Polly, I'm in relationships with I think six situationships
Speaker 1: like maybe I said that and I want to move
Speaker 1: on from me because I feel like I want to
Speaker 1: get more into ho shit. But situationships to me are
Speaker 1: when someone is in a relationship with some one that's
Speaker 1: not necessarily where they want it to be back, but
Speaker 1: they're holding on for it to grow.
Speaker 3: And I believe men use polly in order to keep Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 3: they're definitely weaponizing it for no more like and are no.
Speaker 2: For Vanella shit?
Speaker 1: Like last month, I saw this thing circulating and I
Speaker 1: thought it would really be fun to talk about. Are
Speaker 1: you single? Yes, Okay, this will be great. Do so?
Speaker 1: Did you see the list of places that women wouldn't
Speaker 1: go on the date?
Speaker 2: Like one out of twenty eight? No, I didn't see that. Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm a list of twenty eight.
Speaker 1: Now. I think this came about because of the cheesecake
Speaker 1: Factory girl okay, which, by the way, if anybody remembers
Speaker 1: the flea market dude that I was dating, even though
Speaker 1: he turned out to be an asshole, he did have
Speaker 1: money and our first day was at the cheesecake factory
Speaker 1: and I remember we were laughing about it because it
Speaker 1: was like, oh, we know we could eat somewhere better,
Speaker 1: but like, this is really what we want to eat,
Speaker 1: and I love that spot. So when I saw that
Speaker 1: bitch acting like that was crazy. So I want to
Speaker 1: go through some of these things on the list. But
Speaker 1: I also instead of being like places that we hate,
Speaker 1: I want to talk about places we would love to go.
Speaker 1: On this list, I only see two cheesecake factory, Applebe's,
Speaker 1: Chili Chotlet, Olive Garden, the movies, your house, any fast
Speaker 1: food chain, Buffalo, Wild Wings, Wingstop, Red Lobster, a buffet,
Speaker 1: I Hop, Denny's, the gym, church, coffee dates, Starbucks, ice
Speaker 1: cream dates, family functions, movie night, somewhere that requires a
Speaker 1: long drive, bowling, nightclubs, hookah bar, a bar just for drinks,
Speaker 1: waffle house, sporting events.
Speaker 4: So there's three so of this list, I think bowling
Speaker 4: is great, sporting events, bowling sporting events, and a bar
Speaker 4: just for drinks. Everything else on it hookah bar, I
Speaker 4: guess falls into barges for drinks because sometimes there's hookah there.
Speaker 1: I'm good with a movie date too. I don't want
Speaker 1: a movie date, not at this age. I actually want
Speaker 1: to get to know someone. I think movie dates help
Speaker 1: people who are socially awkward at dinner in movie.
Speaker 2: Sorry that's what? Yeah, so a movie by itself? No, right,
Speaker 2: I don't use my friends. I'm kind of good.
Speaker 1: I go with myself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've done that.
Speaker 1: I love going by myself.
Speaker 2: I love going to the movies with people.
Speaker 3: I like going by myself, but I like going like
Speaker 3: with my friends. I feel like we are so used
Speaker 3: to making, like movie something that you're supposed to do
Speaker 3: in a romantic setting, and it's not just to consume it.
Speaker 1: I also think it's it's very it's an amateur date now,
Speaker 1: Like I'm in my thirties, I don't want to go
Speaker 1: to the movie.
Speaker 2: I don't know, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But a friend of mine, who's recently single and does
Speaker 1: make a lot of money, told me that he's loving
Speaker 1: coffee dates right now because he said that he's meeting
Speaker 1: a lot of women out.
Speaker 2: And he's like, I understand they.
Speaker 1: May not be meeting a lot of men out, but
Speaker 1: I'm meeting a lot of women out. And if I'm
Speaker 1: meeting you for a second and I get your number,
Speaker 1: I'd rather meet you for coffee right just to be like, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll have dinner at a later point. Time.
Speaker 2: It's also a safe date.
Speaker 3: It's a safe first date because how many how many
Speaker 3: times do you like go out with someone and you're like,
Speaker 3: oh not, it ain't gonna work. At least, it's like
Speaker 3: kind of like minimal investment. I actually get to know
Speaker 3: who you are.
Speaker 2: Coffee to me. I feel like that's way to interviewee.
Speaker 1: But what's interesting is he had a coffee date today
Speaker 1: and me and him were on the phone. He was like, Nigga,
Speaker 1: this vis just texted me and said, how about dinner instead.
Speaker 1: He's like, it's fine, I'll make a plan. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: her homegirls told her that I want a coffee date.
Speaker 1: Her homegirls went through your page. Her homegirls found out
Speaker 1: who you are and were like, let him take you
Speaker 1: to dinner. I was like, if she was cool with
Speaker 1: a coffee date yesterday, and she changed her mind. Someone
Speaker 1: got in her head about no, he needs to be
Speaker 1: doing x yo.
Speaker 2: They didn't go on the coffee date.
Speaker 1: No, it was supposed to be today, and literally she
Speaker 1: was like, let's do dinner instead.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, it's you supposed to Let go through
Speaker 3: with the coffee date and then be like all right,
Speaker 3: this was fun. Have about dinner next time, but like
Speaker 3: just like no dinner instead like.
Speaker 2: No coffee, no coffee.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm okay with saying no, not even a
Speaker 3: coffee drinker, but I still do it if I'm actually
Speaker 3: trying to get to another person.
Speaker 1: I mean, there is a Starbucks in uh the district
Speaker 1: here in New York, and I think they have they
Speaker 1: have them a few in major cities where there's literally
Speaker 1: coffee cocktails and there's like flights of coffee and that's
Speaker 1: exactly so, and you get to see like how like
Speaker 1: that it's huge.
Speaker 2: It looks like the Willy Wonka of coffee.
Speaker 3: I think that's I think that's honestly why I'm saying
Speaker 3: I would do a coffee date because I have a
Speaker 3: friend who works at a Decadent in Chicago, which is
Speaker 3: a dessert and coffee bistro.
Speaker 4: So it's like it's the look at.
Speaker 1: Us moving the goal posts. Yeah, like coffee. And I
Speaker 1: was gonna say the other one that I liked was, uh,
Speaker 1: I would drive is someone that has been living between
Speaker 1: New York and l A. I have had men try
Speaker 1: to take me on dates in Malibu and that's about
Speaker 1: an hour or Santa Monica.
Speaker 2: That feels like an hour and honestly, the long.
Speaker 1: Drive if it's worth it. I also was thinking too,
Speaker 1: I remember when I was living in Florida, like if
Speaker 1: someone wanted to take you to the beach, like I
Speaker 1: think the long drive, it's got to be a good destination.
Speaker 2: But this list is for first date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even think I feel safe being with
Speaker 1: somebody on a long drive.
Speaker 2: Sometimes not knowing where you're going.
Speaker 1: Like if it's a.
Speaker 2: I'm not driving long for a day, I'm okay with that.
Speaker 1: If it's like it feels like a beach, or like
Speaker 1: if there's some fantasy, I'm okay with that. Also, so
Speaker 1: it's Cheesecae factories I know for you, No.
Speaker 2: I like the Cheesecae Factory.
Speaker 1: Okay, So they've got a few on this list. You
Speaker 1: would just I said, like three or four? Oh okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: And I said bowling, I said, I said, a bar
Speaker 1: for drinks. And of the food places, I like Cheesecake factory.
Speaker 1: They chicken pikata slat bit bitch. That is the one
Speaker 1: thing I motherfucking give you that motherfucker chicken I like.
Speaker 2: I like the Buffalo cheese chicken.
Speaker 1: Bomber stomach.
Speaker 2: Now I'll take I'll take the cheesecake Factory.
Speaker 1: Now what I won't do, and here's why.
Speaker 2: And I just want a few people to hear this.
Speaker 1: I do find that. I know some people may say, well,
Speaker 1: the apple Bee's and the Chilis and the Cheesecake Factory
Speaker 1: look something about Applebee's and Chili's feels so casual. Cheesecake
Speaker 1: Factory is a little more of a step up. At
Speaker 1: least they fucking dress up a little bit. You know,
Speaker 1: they're a uniform, I don't know, not a T shirt.
Speaker 1: Something about it makes me feel like I am on
Speaker 1: a better version of a date. I don't know, but
Speaker 1: the gym. I wouldn't meet someone at the gym, however,
Speaker 1: I would do like a certain type of workout, like
Speaker 1: if we were meeting up to do like some I
Speaker 1: don't know, like maybe some class or some shit. That's
Speaker 1: okay for me too, Okay, I've worked. I've went hiking
Speaker 1: on a first date with someone. I thought that was
Speaker 1: really yeah, oh that was it was the pandemic.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that today.
Speaker 1: Really, No, I'm surprised. To take me out somewhere. I
Speaker 1: want to drink bitch.
Speaker 3: I like an active so I feel like for me,
Speaker 3: I would look at it as we're having fun and
Speaker 3: I want to see you in that type of setting,
Speaker 3: so I would I would definitely something for nightclubs.
Speaker 2: I did want to tell y'all this.
Speaker 1: I went on a first date with the famous person
Speaker 1: a few nights ago who we followed each other for
Speaker 1: a bit and he was like, uh, oh, you're in
Speaker 1: town like I thought. I was like, oh, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: here for ten days like London got canceled. We should
Speaker 1: finally meet. He said, well, I'm going to be at
Speaker 1: blah blah blah for drink Later. I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: well let me know where you want me to meet you.
Speaker 1: Then he's like, come here, come there. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: I fuck it. I pull up.
Speaker 2: It's a lounge club.
Speaker 1: I don't want to say where it is in New York. However,
Speaker 1: he did at a table. I kind of thought there
Speaker 1: was gonna be bitches there. There were none. He was
Speaker 1: with two homeboys. It was intimate. We sat and talked
Speaker 1: the whole time. He barely was talking to his friends,
Speaker 1: and I think when we were in the middle of it,
Speaker 1: I realized because he was like, how's dating for you,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I've always found them like men maybe
Speaker 1: don't want to take me serious because of my work.
Speaker 1: What about you? Like, is dating easy for you? He's like,
Speaker 1: I mean it's easy to fuck people because I meet
Speaker 1: a lot of people. And he was like, so everything
Speaker 1: kind of just feels like this because it's just a meet.
Speaker 1: He's like going on a date.
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, that doesn't sound like a date.
Speaker 1: Well, it wasn't until afterward. He then after we were vibing,
Speaker 1: was like, oh yeah, like I want to see you again.
Speaker 1: So I realized the coffee date, the night club. Shit,
Speaker 1: what's happening now with high value? Man, I'm gonna throw
Speaker 1: up in my mouth.
Speaker 2: These niggas have so many bitches.
Speaker 1: Because I was talking to my homewhel like I when
Speaker 1: I was so and so he's like, oh yeah, like
Speaker 1: you pulled up on the middle. I don't think that that's
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Maybe he already had plans, but he was like,
Speaker 1: free date. I feel like a pre date. It's a date,
Speaker 1: but it's not a date. It's a pre date. And
Speaker 1: I think that that's the problem too. Like I just
Speaker 1: went on eighty five South, y'all. I hear somebody thought
Speaker 1: they took me on a date and it wasn't a date.
Speaker 1: We were grabbing food and so I think, yeah, like, it's
Speaker 1: not a date. If I pull up on you and
Speaker 1: friends are there, this is not a date. It's not
Speaker 1: intimating because we talk and you ignore your friends, Like
Speaker 1: I think these are pre dates. Let me a maybe
Speaker 1: see you in person, especially if we met online first.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it. Let me pull up on me.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be outside and there's no pressure. You might
Speaker 1: be able to have a drink, but to me, there's
Speaker 1: no pressure doing it that way, to just be like,
Speaker 1: pull up, I'll already be here. I've done that to people.
Speaker 1: Heloton Like all of my niggas to my show pull
Speaker 1: up to my show because they dont want see you.
Speaker 2: Be really.
Speaker 1: Sorry that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, people pull up so much.
Speaker 1: I didn't have about three pole niggas never met pull
Speaker 1: up to my show. Niggas then drove hours to come
Speaker 1: to my mother.
Speaker 2: Fuckho.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, and I'm gonna say this, and
Speaker 1: y'all ain't gonna like hearing this, but I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: it a buck, Mandy, someone should be driving to come
Speaker 1: and see you, Like I'm not a regular bitch. Bro
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, or.
Speaker 2: Fly to me.
Speaker 1: And that's what that's what necessarily I mean. You definitely
Speaker 1: ain't a regular nigga, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: I say that to say I may not have jumped
Speaker 1: through that hoop with another person.
Speaker 2: Maybe I wouldn't pull up on you at the club.
Speaker 1: However, I know this nigga's busy and I know we're
Speaker 1: just chatting. Oh shit, you're in death. I put it
Speaker 1: on my close friends. I'll be in New York this
Speaker 1: many days. Oh word, blow it up. I understand.
Speaker 2: Now. I hate to say it because it might sound
Speaker 2: like it's.
Speaker 1: Some bird shit like, oh well, I'm gonna do it
Speaker 1: for this nigga because he's rich or famous or whatever.
Speaker 2: But it's more so that I understand.
Speaker 1: When I have a fucking few days in a city,
Speaker 1: you really do have to come to where the fuck
Speaker 1: I'm at. Yep, do you know on any people I've
Speaker 1: met me at my homeboys parties, Andre power party, come
Speaker 1: to link up, come to this, come to that, because
Speaker 1: I do just want to see you.
Speaker 2: But I say all that to say we have a
Speaker 2: date this week.
Speaker 1: I'm really looking forward to it. There will be no
Speaker 1: friends there also, I'm sure his friends in which I
Speaker 1: kind of liked. This really blew my head up.
Speaker 2: I walked in and his homeboys.
Speaker 1: Looked at me and they was like, oh, nigga, we're
Speaker 1: on our own. This bitch is bad period. All right,
Speaker 1: let's get to the horror derve. So we want your sex.
Speaker 2: She gave us a sex sip.
Speaker 1: No, I was gonna say, we want your sex tip
Speaker 1: for sex not sucking dick. I would love to know
Speaker 1: what is something you do in bed that makes these
Speaker 1: niggas or these bitches. I don't know you fucking go crazy.
Speaker 4: I'm kinky, So pull out a lot of like ship.
Speaker 1: Rope.
Speaker 4: I like time people up surprised me.
Speaker 2: Just yeah, like, where do you try men.
Speaker 1: That make them feel comfortable or safe?
Speaker 4: I start off with one hand because men are like
Speaker 4: one hand. Yeah, like I'll do one hand. Let's let's
Speaker 4: restrict this one hand over here. You ease into it
Speaker 4: because they're not gonna sit there and just like what
Speaker 4: am I gonna do?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 3: But I feel like if you ease them into stuff
Speaker 3: so where it's like, okay, I feel safe.
Speaker 1: Then I love this tip.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I like that as someone who I'm a switch, but
Speaker 3: I do like to dominate people that typically don't want
Speaker 3: to they identify as dom themselves. So I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: I kind of really want to do this with you now,
Speaker 3: because if you relinquish that power to me, that means
Speaker 3: you trust me, and I don't take that for granted.
Speaker 2: And for me, I'm like, oh, I'm really.
Speaker 3: Like for me, that just makes the sex like it's
Speaker 3: all the way up here now because now we have
Speaker 3: this trusting relationship, so rope for sure.
Speaker 2: And uh.
Speaker 3: And this is also someone who likes to be tied
Speaker 3: up and gagged and all of that as well. Like
Speaker 3: I like it, but I really appreciate when someone allows.
Speaker 2: Me to do it.
Speaker 1: You like the gag bigga.
Speaker 3: I have not gagged someone yet. I haven't gotten to
Speaker 3: that point, but I feel like with if you ease
Speaker 3: into it, they'll damn your legend.
Speaker 1: I only don't once, but it was with my foot,
Speaker 1: so I don't know if that counts. But that's crazy.
Speaker 1: He's like, try to fit my I got it on
Speaker 1: video too. He tried to put his whole no because
Speaker 1: it's my ex and I don't I'm not watching it,
Speaker 1: And that's that's the same. It's the same concept. You
Speaker 1: literally went to put my whole foot in his mouth
Speaker 1: and was like.
Speaker 2: Okay, wait when you made the video, were y'all like laughing?
Speaker 2: It was it was in the morning.
Speaker 1: Oh he was really fucking.
Speaker 2: Oh we'd be fucking in the morning, bitch, I told
Speaker 2: you he was.
Speaker 1: Going about fucking the morning. I'm saying, like he I
Speaker 1: feel like if I made a video of that, it'd
Speaker 1: be like again. No, it was like he got up
Speaker 1: on both knees and I'm like rubbing my feet all
Speaker 1: over him, and then he goes to start sucking my
Speaker 1: toes and look at my toes, So mind you is
Speaker 1: also playing with my pussy while my foot is in
Speaker 1: his mouth. And so I literally am like with the
Speaker 1: phone like this like and it's so sexy, and it was.
Speaker 2: It was. It was a good time.
Speaker 1: And then literally so he went from sucking it, so
Speaker 1: I was like pushing it to go further in his mouth,
Speaker 1: and he.
Speaker 2: Started opening up.
Speaker 1: He started opening up his mouth water to fit.
Speaker 2: My whole foot in his mouth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was great, popped the nigga's teeth, and I
Speaker 1: realized his foot play is not for me.
Speaker 2: I understand a lot of people love my feet.
Speaker 1: Also, I've opened up like my my foot.
Speaker 2: So I have a TV show called sex Cells on Fuse.
Speaker 1: Season three, November twenty ninth, bitch anyway, So basically, uh,
Speaker 1: the first episode is the only episode season one episode.
Speaker 1: It's the only one you can watch for free, so
Speaker 1: you can get a vibe at the show, which is elevated,
Speaker 1: by the way, but it is the foot episode and
Speaker 1: that has opened me to a demographic of people that
Speaker 1: I never thought I would see.
Speaker 2: And I feel guilty because I'm just learning about the business.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, and niggas really think I'm about this foot life.
Speaker 1: So with that said, I had text with someone that
Speaker 1: when they had my toes in their mouth, wanted me
Speaker 1: to like do shit with my foot and the mouth
Speaker 1: is so small and my foot is so much bigger
Speaker 1: than your mouth that I'm like, they're.
Speaker 2: Only seven and a half.
Speaker 1: But I still like, damn, I'm about to hit the tooth.
Speaker 2: I can feel the console like it was too much,
Speaker 2: and I think that shit is really a large and
Speaker 2: I don't want to kill these niggas. Yeah, that's what
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 3: My second thing, I would say, I'm an exhibitionist, so
Speaker 3: I like doing stuff in front of people. Is well
Speaker 3: me too, so I really like masturbating in front of somebody,
Speaker 3: like really like I've done it in front of women.
Speaker 4: I've done it in front of men, like I like
Speaker 4: you yeah that's why.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like we're doing it like like that's
Speaker 2: not a sex.
Speaker 4: Club, I mean just in a badroom, Like I'll randomly
Speaker 4: do it in a bedroom. I definitely did it at
Speaker 4: a sex club, which was fire.
Speaker 2: I watched it. Yeah, it was like maybe thirty people. Yeah,
Speaker 2: like it was.
Speaker 3: It was very and it was I made it like
Speaker 3: a performance almost like I asked the girl to like
Speaker 3: come and like rub on my TVs while I was
Speaker 3: doing it too, like Super six.
Speaker 4: When you do it in your bedroom, do you like
Speaker 4: ask your friends to watch you?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Do you have his friends
Speaker 1: watch you?
Speaker 3: The very first time I masturbated in front of in
Speaker 3: front of someone, it was a friend.
Speaker 2: It was a female friend.
Speaker 4: And she's she was she wait for real, yeah, like
Speaker 4: this home girl. But we actually ended up having sex
Speaker 4: after that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just happened, but.
Speaker 3: So she was she said like, oh, I'm horny, I
Speaker 3: want to masturbate or whatever.
Speaker 2: And I was like, god, dude, you think I want
Speaker 2: to watch TV?
Speaker 3: Like I was cool because I'm also a boy or
Speaker 3: so it's like but also I'm like, no, if you
Speaker 3: if that's how you want to be right now.
Speaker 2: That's we were at her house a.
Speaker 1: Lot of left my friends and been like, I'm going
Speaker 1: to go to my room and take a quick nap,
Speaker 1: real quick. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I've done that before too, like when we've been out
Speaker 3: of town and I'm like, yeah.
Speaker 2: Give me go, get one off real quick.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I turned to her manager and my best friend
Speaker 1: Vinnie that nigga I was having a rough day and
Speaker 1: he was like, Babe, I'm gonna go for a walk,
Speaker 1: and I texted him. I was like I actually needed
Speaker 1: to come.
Speaker 3: He's like, I know, girl, Yeah, I love that. So
Speaker 3: she was like, yeah, you know, I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 3: And she then was like wait did you say that
Speaker 3: you be masturbating for like twenty like thirty minutes, and
Speaker 3: I was like yeah, because I'm an edger.
Speaker 2: So she was like, can I watch you?
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh yeah, Like so then I.
Speaker 2: She was being checking for you. Yeah, after the fact,
Speaker 2: I'm like, wait.
Speaker 1: She's said, can I'll watch it?
Speaker 2: Y'all are got drunk?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: I wasn't drunk, Okay, So you're there. Are you over
Speaker 2: your phone up? You're looking at her? What do you
Speaker 2: how are you masturbating? Yeah? So I don't masturbate to porn.
Speaker 3: I masturbate to my imagination because I feel like I
Speaker 3: can be as creative as I want if I know
Speaker 3: the outcome of something I'm not.
Speaker 4: I'm like, the kind of ruins it for me? I
Speaker 4: want to be able to think of those.
Speaker 2: Are my most intense master betrayal orgasms.
Speaker 3: Yes, like I need, I need to watch. Yeah, Like
Speaker 3: I let my mind go wild. So I'm like, all right, cool.
Speaker 3: So I'm masturbating and she's watching me, and then eventually
Speaker 3: she just like moves the toy out of the way
Speaker 3: and started eating my pussy and I was like, well,
Speaker 3: this is happening, like I was it.
Speaker 1: If you want to fuck your friends, how you do it? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Like for me, I feel like it's.
Speaker 2: Nothing sounds friendly about this. This sounds very friendly. That's
Speaker 2: a good friend. That is a good friend. So for me,
Speaker 2: I'm someone that.
Speaker 3: If I'm super comfortable with you and you ask me
Speaker 3: something and I'm like, oh, you know what.
Speaker 2: That'll be sexy, that'll be lit Like I'm.
Speaker 1: I'll do it. And then however that ends is do
Speaker 1: you have to be attracted to that person to let
Speaker 1: them watch you? I feel like I can't be repulsed
Speaker 1: by them. I don't No one has a face in
Speaker 1: the sex club to me, you ever want to watch?
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't care what they look like. That's interesting
Speaker 1: because I say that because like I was thinking about it,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was in a sex club
Speaker 1: and I remember thinking, oh, I can't have sex in
Speaker 1: this room because I don't want to fuck anyone in here.
Speaker 1: And I was like, if I'm.
Speaker 4: Not Actually, I've been to sex clubs a couple of
Speaker 4: times in Chicago, and I've not never actually had sex
Speaker 4: at a sex club.
Speaker 2: I've only actually masturbated or why don't want I.
Speaker 4: Just watched now, Yeah, and I watch, And I even
Speaker 4: enjoy watching people that I wouldn't fuck, like the way
Speaker 4: like two bodies come together, like the intimacy. I think
Speaker 4: when I took well, when I took Incidet to a
Speaker 4: sex club for the first time, I think that's what
Speaker 4: she enjoyed most.
Speaker 1: She said, everyone looks like they're making love. Everyone is
Speaker 1: so passionate, Like it doesn't look just like a fuck house,
Speaker 1: like everyone was just literally they were making love, they
Speaker 1: were massaging each other, they were slow stroking, and she
Speaker 1: was like, this is beautiful. She was like, this is
Speaker 1: not at all what I've imagine. I mean, most most,
Speaker 1: there's only very few nights where they allow single men
Speaker 1: what you're talking about, though, it's not necessarily you know,
Speaker 1: if you guys have a sex club in your in
Speaker 1: your town or something like that, it may not necessarily
Speaker 1: come like that. You know, the sex clus.
Speaker 4: That we've been going to, it depends on a day.
Speaker 1: Does depend on the day. But these these particular sex
Speaker 1: clubs that you know you've been going to are curated
Speaker 1: by people that do care about their community. There are
Speaker 1: definitely sex clubs that even that I've covered.
Speaker 2: For shared Trapeze in Atlanta, y'all won't ever catch me
Speaker 2: there again. Oh like, no, I've shared other clubs.
Speaker 1: There's definitely some experiences that can be a little more abrasive,
Speaker 1: and I think that you kind of got to go
Speaker 1: into it. So maybe for Intonet, I don't know her well,
Speaker 1: but I would assume that maybe she would enjoy something
Speaker 1: like that more than something super raw. But what's interesting
Speaker 1: is I actually think some women when they're going to
Speaker 1: a sex club. The two that I've spoken to recently
Speaker 1: that just at a little moment. They were like, oh,
Speaker 1: because I'm in a relationship and I have sex intimately.
Speaker 1: I liked seeing the gang bang. I like seeing the train,
Speaker 1: like you almost want to see the wild shit. So
Speaker 1: I think for myself, I just wanted to see someone
Speaker 1: I would want to fuck. That kind of made it
Speaker 1: hard for me because I was like, damn, if I'm
Speaker 1: going to be watched, I want to know, like maybe
Speaker 1: I'm fantasized. That's why I'm going with partners. I never
Speaker 1: want to fuck guys in the sex club. I like
Speaker 1: to come with my very looking but that was fucking.
Speaker 1: But I just didn't want to fuck my nigga ugly.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I want to go through ho Fax really quick.
Speaker 1: I just did an HIV awareness dinner with black influencers
Speaker 1: in Central Florida with a company called Talk Test Treat,
Speaker 1: And when I posted it, the dinner's called risky and
Speaker 1: it's just about conversations about how you can be at risk,
Speaker 1: and somebody was like, well, why is the conversation with
Speaker 1: black women and calling their sex risky? But what was
Speaker 1: so dope about it was I learned so much about
Speaker 1: our own risks, so I just wanted to share these
Speaker 1: few facts. The HIV rate amongst black women is twelve
Speaker 1: times higher than compared to white women. Black women continue
Speaker 1: to be disproportionately impacted by HIV. Nearly sixty percent of
Speaker 1: new HIV infections are from black women, despite that Black
Speaker 1: women make up less than fifteen percent of the female population.
Speaker 1: So I just wanted to bring that up because there
Speaker 1: are so many at home kits or HIV. You also
Speaker 1: have to opt into HIV testing. Every time I get tested.
Speaker 1: They do not test me for HIV. I have to
Speaker 1: ask I literally for my last test. When I asked
Speaker 1: for HIV testing, he said, oh, are you Are you
Speaker 1: involved in any sex work? And I was like, why
Speaker 1: is that relevant to me wanting an HIV test right?
Speaker 1: And he literally took his words back. He's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's just you know, most of the time
Speaker 1: HIV people like HIV testing is a lot of homelessness
Speaker 1: or you know, people using street drugs, drugs or sharing needles.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm a woman in the world having
Speaker 1: sex with.
Speaker 3: Men, period, and that's problem I feel like that's problematic
Speaker 3: that I really normalized, like everybody should get tested for everything.
Speaker 3: We should be very comfortable having these conversations. That is
Speaker 3: why the rates are so high, because people are.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, away from here, and that's literally like the
Speaker 1: dinner and so, and it's not a dinner you guys
Speaker 1: can come to. I didn't know that when I did
Speaker 1: it last time. But it it's really just influencer that.
Speaker 1: So we can't influence everybody to talk about it. So
Speaker 1: I would implore you to talk about it with your daughters,
Speaker 1: your sons, and encourage your friends and family to you know,
Speaker 1: have some HIV dialogue.
Speaker 2: All right, now let's get into the horrible decision.
Speaker 1: Yes, I really want to hear about some of your
Speaker 1: horror stories with sex. I want to hear about some
Speaker 1: crazy moments. I want to just I want to know
Speaker 1: it all because it's someone who's so sexually free and open.
Speaker 1: I know you've got some tea, so give us the
Speaker 1: one that comes to mind.
Speaker 2: I mean, having sex while driving is always lead girl.
Speaker 3: You here on these roads out here, Yeah, be careful,
Speaker 3: but it's something like I get off on the danger
Speaker 3: of doing something like that, Like that's yeah.
Speaker 1: But you're putting a lot of I do like, second,
Speaker 1: that's more risky.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you did it.
Speaker 3: So the first time I did it, I was facing him,
Speaker 3: so he was in control.
Speaker 4: That was way more dangerous. That's way more dangerous.
Speaker 3: And the second time that I did it, so the
Speaker 3: second time I did it, he was like under me
Speaker 3: and I was this way, so I was in control
Speaker 3: of the snareing will while I was riding.
Speaker 2: Oh you were riding dick ump? Yeah, a tesla? Okay,
Speaker 2: that was he a little man?
Speaker 1: They better bean a tesla. Why let me ask you something.
Speaker 1: I have a wife, for real, Yeah, because I have
Speaker 1: a Model three, I can't do it. Yeah, too low.
Speaker 1: I think that if I'm thinking about someone fucking while driving,
Speaker 1: I always imagine a dude driving a girl, like in
Speaker 1: hetero sex and a girl facing the back seat.
Speaker 2: Right like when you just said you were sitting on
Speaker 2: a dick driving.
Speaker 1: That's kind of fire. Yeah, that feels less risky. Yeah, Like.
Speaker 3: I was so yeah, like I'm literally doing everything because
Speaker 3: he was like, oh I'm gonna die, He's like, no.
Speaker 4: Relax, don't say that. We're nowhere. I know exactly what
Speaker 4: I'm doing.
Speaker 3: So I literally I put it into drive and then
Speaker 3: I put it on cruise control that way.
Speaker 2: Anytime I needed to like.
Speaker 3: Put my foot on drila, So no, it wasn't self driving,
Speaker 3: like it was just on cruise control that way. If
Speaker 3: I needed to stop, like I could just put a
Speaker 3: foot down on the pedal. So I'm still very mindful
Speaker 3: of what's going on.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had an orgasm like that?
Speaker 2: No, he didn't let us finish.
Speaker 3: He was like, no, let's pull over, right, but we
Speaker 3: we were doing it for a good like fifteen minutes,
Speaker 3: so we were like rap down driver.
Speaker 1: This yeah highway drivingucker Red like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll be too much going on.
Speaker 3: So what we literally we got like to like a
Speaker 3: block away from the expressway and I was like, all right, cool,
Speaker 3: get like, let's let's prepare ourselves for this.
Speaker 4: So it was very much planned. Like I was like, Wow,
Speaker 4: have you ever had.
Speaker 2: An embarrassing moment during sex?
Speaker 1: Embarrassing or maybe an embarrassing moment on the other end,
Speaker 1: have you ever had someone embarrassed during sex with you
Speaker 1: or and just been like really shy or like, tell
Speaker 1: me about maybe an awkward or uncomfortable moment you've had.
Speaker 3: I definitely feel like it was this one time I
Speaker 3: was getting head in my car.
Speaker 1: I bitch, do you have a home?
Speaker 3: Like I really like carsaks, Like, there's a lot of
Speaker 3: people that don't like car sak.
Speaker 2: Like, how big are these niggas?
Speaker 1: The niggas I'd be fucking are way too big for
Speaker 1: like car sacks for real real like now they.
Speaker 3: Even But also I'm small, so even if they're bigger
Speaker 3: than me, because I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, we couldn't. I can never drive, Like my ex
Speaker 2: was six seven and had a.
Speaker 1: Really big truck and we would have to literally lay
Speaker 1: down the seats, push one all the way, Like we
Speaker 1: would have to literally create space even in the back
Speaker 1: seat for us to be able to do anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and still sometimes a door would have to be
Speaker 2: left open or something like.
Speaker 1: We would normally do it after the beach, but it
Speaker 1: would take moving a lot of.
Speaker 4: Shit make Yeah, but six seven is he's huge? Yeah yeah,
Speaker 4: neither one of these people were.
Speaker 3: Definitely you run into some issues. But again with me
Speaker 3: being I'm fast feet, I'm like I can move around,
Speaker 3: like I can't really maneuver.
Speaker 2: In a car.
Speaker 1: She's she's really fun sized, y'all.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so and we be having fun.
Speaker 3: So what made it awkward was that he was giving
Speaker 3: me head and then he like pulled his dick out,
Speaker 3: and then I looked at it and I was like, oh, yeah, no,
Speaker 3: I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1: Wait why what it looked like? What?
Speaker 2: It was like a pencil dick? Oh you just didn't like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't. I was like, oh no, I think
Speaker 3: it's like.
Speaker 1: You said, Oh no, I need to know how you
Speaker 1: got out of the dick is pulled out the pants.
Speaker 2: You look at it, you don't like it?
Speaker 1: What exactly? And never again? No, but she said she said,
Speaker 1: yeah I couldn't. I would How exactly did you say? Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: that's not going in my mouth.
Speaker 2: But I had a TikTok today and I don't want
Speaker 2: another one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I actually I didn't suck his dick.
Speaker 1: I didn't.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, actually, it's getting late, Like I
Speaker 3: Justin's out of the entire situation. You like, pretty sure
Speaker 3: because we never did anything after that.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I just I feel about.
Speaker 1: A memorable group sex story or threesome or something that
Speaker 1: maybe either you orchestrated or you got pulled in it.
Speaker 3: Okay, So my favorite threesome was with a married couple.
Speaker 1: Okay, it was super lit.
Speaker 3: Like me and the woman we had met when I
Speaker 3: had hosted like a dungeon party, and she was like, oh,
Speaker 3: let's be friends now, and I'm like, all right, whatever,
Speaker 3: like scirpy up, like she.
Speaker 1: Was another spider my nig.
Speaker 3: So just bogging off like she her birthday a couple
Speaker 3: days before for a mile.
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, scorpios. So it's still like we we vabing.
Speaker 3: And then she was like, oh, me and some people
Speaker 3: we all going to the strip club. This was like
Speaker 3: maybe a week or so after I had met her,
Speaker 3: and she was like, oh, we're going to a strip
Speaker 3: club later. You on a slide And I was like sure,
Speaker 3: I ain't doing nothing, So go.
Speaker 1: To our house.
Speaker 3: Uh. Her her husband, they're there, two other another couple
Speaker 3: was going to come to the club, and they actually
Speaker 3: did come to the club. But I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna drive in y'all driving, so I'll just park
Speaker 3: my car at child house. I'll hop in the car
Speaker 3: with y'all. We can go to the club. So we
Speaker 3: goes to the club, babbing at the club. Her husband
Speaker 3: like you hungry, I'm paying for everything, and I'm like yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like we eating like you still?
Speaker 1: Girl Like yeah, actually, I'll take this too.
Speaker 4: Like we eating, we drinking. Then now I'm getting like
Speaker 4: a little tipsy.
Speaker 3: We goes in the bathroom, like uh, me and the
Speaker 3: two ladies that were there and the guys they just
Speaker 3: like there. So I'm the only person that's there, single
Speaker 3: and solo. We go to the we in a bathroom
Speaker 3: and we just having girl talk. We end up talking
Speaker 3: about sucking dick. I'll just just talking. No, that's not
Speaker 3: what happens. She talked about how like she doesn't like
Speaker 3: sucking dick, and I was like.
Speaker 1: Oh, I love it.
Speaker 2: I'm not antian.
Speaker 4: So she says that again.
Speaker 3: I'm like, we're just I'm having regular casual conversation to
Speaker 3: me because I casually talk about sex. So then it
Speaker 3: gets later. The one couple leaves because she was like, oh,
Speaker 3: I got homework and be cause she in nursing school whatever.
Speaker 3: She's like, I gotta leave. So then we are still
Speaker 3: together and then I'm like, all right, yeah, it's getting late.
Speaker 3: I need to get to my car so I could
Speaker 3: bounce anyways. So I gets in the back seat because
Speaker 3: that's where I was the first time we came here.
Speaker 3: But the wife gets in the back seat with me.
Speaker 3: So the husband is driving Oh, they orchestrated it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know at what point, just know they
Speaker 1: orchestrated it. When she met you and a dune, probably
Speaker 1: they orchestrated it.
Speaker 3: So we're in the back seat and then like, next thing,
Speaker 3: I know, she like rubbing on my titties and I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: I got nice tds. I'm still not like whatever. And
Speaker 3: then we started kissing in the back seat. So now
Speaker 3: we kissing.
Speaker 1: I'm like, sex again.
Speaker 2: You see this girl, get a rum, get you a room, girl.
Speaker 2: So we we kissing. The next thing, I know, the
Speaker 2: husband starts speeding.
Speaker 1: Y'all in the back seat.
Speaker 3: Really like yeah, we just back there kissing, and then
Speaker 3: we we he pulls into his garage. He slings the
Speaker 3: door open, so now like he grabbed my face, he
Speaker 3: kissed me, and I'm like rubbing on I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: this is happening.
Speaker 4: So we didn't even make it in the house yet,
Speaker 4: we just sitting there garage.
Speaker 1: Then we had to.
Speaker 2: Go into the house, so it wasn't I'm.
Speaker 1: Glad y'all made it to a room. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: We eventually made it to the room and it was
Speaker 4: super It was like, what made.
Speaker 2: What made the threesome so much better than the others.
Speaker 3: I would say, just honestly, it was probably the vibe
Speaker 3: that me and the wife head because yeah, I only
Speaker 3: have three if I connect with the woman, like I'm not.
Speaker 3: I did have a bad threesome experience when I did
Speaker 3: connect with the woman because she got super weird after
Speaker 3: the fast jealous. Yeah, yeah, like it was and it's like, no,
Speaker 3: I'm showing up. How I show up?
Speaker 4: And I feel like.
Speaker 1: She said, I woke up like this like that, like no,
Speaker 1: I treat women. I'm showing.
Speaker 2: Show up, show up, how you show up?
Speaker 4: And let's all just enjoyed the experience business.
Speaker 1: I think, finally, what I would want to know, So
Speaker 1: you describe yourself as a wayor an exhibitionist for people
Speaker 1: that may not be in the lifestyle scene or able
Speaker 1: to access a sex club, how are some ways that
Speaker 1: they can I don't know, kind of tap into that
Speaker 1: a little bit. Where's where's friends?
Speaker 2: Well, no, no, no.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's literally how I realized that Noah
Speaker 3: enjoy it am because I literally ask someone if I
Speaker 3: could watch them have sex way before I even went
Speaker 3: I've done that to my friends.
Speaker 2: Next man woman First.
Speaker 3: It was a man I asked one of my he
Speaker 3: we were like talking to each other that night or whatever.
Speaker 3: He was like, oh man, these two chicks I met
Speaker 3: at the club, they trying to take me down.
Speaker 2: I was like, am I gonna watch that? I want to?
Speaker 1: My young friends are probably one of the easiest. Of course,
Speaker 1: you gotta make sure well, make sure the girl knows
Speaker 1: I'm just coming to watch at the situation. But I've
Speaker 1: had homeboys literally like FaceTime me and snapchat me while
Speaker 1: they're having sex as well to watch.
Speaker 2: Homeboy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that homie shit.
Speaker 2: I mean niggas that be like, I'll be getting these
Speaker 2: holes like it comes. It's a part of this.
Speaker 3: If a guy has ever shared their sex video with somebody.
Speaker 2: They probably do.
Speaker 1: But I don't always want to fuck exactly, just they
Speaker 1: just not fucking because you friends on them. But they
Speaker 1: they definitely a lot of times will fuck if you
Speaker 1: let them. I a home boy that has a sex
Speaker 1: tape that my other friends seeing that I refuse to
Speaker 1: see because I think I don't want to fuck that again.
Speaker 2: They but women too.
Speaker 1: I think friends has been the easiest way for me
Speaker 1: to inch into knowing that I enjoy either being watched
Speaker 1: or watch it. Yes, and I think that's the You're
Speaker 1: not gonna ask your coworkers, You're not gonna ask family
Speaker 1: members outside of the sex club. The easiest way is
Speaker 1: for some of the people that you choose to have
Speaker 1: into your life and the people that you trust the most,
Speaker 1: and those are friends exactly.
Speaker 3: I totally agree with that, Like whether it be all
Speaker 3: right you asking somebody four video of them when they're off.
Speaker 4: Like so with me, if I say like.
Speaker 2: Oh man, I ship out of some big.
Speaker 3: Last night and the girl like, oh, let me see
Speaker 3: the video because I know you got.
Speaker 1: I my pegging videos, I do the same. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 1: I think you're pegging videos though, like many people don't
Speaker 1: get to see that.
Speaker 2: We've seen a dick stucking video a lot of people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. So what I was gonna say, though, if
Speaker 1: it's not for like involving other people, how what's the
Speaker 1: vanilla way somebody can get into it? Whether it be
Speaker 1: like what kind of public sex? Would you recommend things
Speaker 1: like that? M I want to start baby steps, yeah,
Speaker 1: because like I think that.
Speaker 2: I even think involving friends is like next level. You's
Speaker 2: baby step baby.
Speaker 4: I definitely think it's baby step by step. I think
Speaker 4: the share of the videos is like the first layer.
Speaker 4: Face time is probably the next day in the room.
Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna say, a hotel balcony. Okay, girl,
Speaker 1: oh no, that's public, someone can record.
Speaker 2: That's not the stuff that they're being leaked onto the internet.
Speaker 1: Like damn, you know. Public sex is risky now because
Speaker 1: people have their phones out and don't respect anyone's privacy.
Speaker 1: They're not just watching, they're pulling out their phone to
Speaker 1: be like what I see me? Like, that's the way
Speaker 1: to get it off when you're like maybe the risk
Speaker 1: of getting caught type things.
Speaker 2: So that's why that came to fun. I did actually
Speaker 2: before we get down here.
Speaker 1: I know I said it was the last thing, but
Speaker 1: I saw a clip of you talking about how you
Speaker 1: went on a mission to have sex with every zodiac sign.
Speaker 2: Uh huh, best, worse, let's talk about it.
Speaker 4: Sorry, bitch, Scorpio your birthday.
Speaker 1: Okay, A wish zodiac the best dick? Like, I gotta know, bitch,
Speaker 1: we all want to know. Everybody listening to this, God
Speaker 1: damn shore right now. I bet you we all have
Speaker 1: different answers. I don't fucked a lot of zodiac signs.
Speaker 3: I'm curious to hers so I would say I have
Speaker 3: not fucked the eeries that didn't have a big dick. Wow,
Speaker 3: I would say that. I'm that it's like March going
Speaker 3: into April. Okay, so I have not fucked the aries
Speaker 3: that didn't have a big dick.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: The Scorpio that I had sex with very toxic sex
Speaker 3: for sure, like super toxic, super intense, and uh.
Speaker 2: Pisce's was fire. Pisces was fire.
Speaker 1: Men are different, men and women are different in the bedroom.
Speaker 3: I actually prefer I prefer Scorpio women over Scorpio men.
Speaker 2: Okay, see that's what. Yeah, why is that there's a difference.
Speaker 4: It's a difference. It's a difference.
Speaker 3: The vibe is there, but for some reason, what happens
Speaker 3: after the sex is like.
Speaker 2: Completely like well they were two different people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, I definitely prefer Scorpio, and I feel
Speaker 3: like Scorpio women are freakier than Scorpio men.
Speaker 2: Okay, bad sex with bad sex. I don't think I've
Speaker 2: ever had a Burgo man.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Burgo be super like underwhelming, Like I be underwhelmed
Speaker 4: with Burgo.
Speaker 1: I had my most intense sex with a season a
Speaker 1: water Aquarius and Libra for me.
Speaker 3: Those are air signs, so and that's I actually like
Speaker 3: air signs.
Speaker 4: So that's Aquarius.
Speaker 3: Libra, and Gemini are all air signs. They very much
Speaker 3: like all right, I'm gonna they kind of come with whatever.
Speaker 1: And do oh whatever do zobia mean? It also was
Speaker 1: just them niggas, big dicks and niggas sign you, Jody.
Speaker 1: And if you have any events coming up in November,
Speaker 1: where can people listen find you?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Sure, so I'm on Instagram. That's where I frequent.
Speaker 3: So my I G is j O D Y p
Speaker 3: R h O E v O C A T I
Speaker 3: v E. I spell it with hoe in the middle
Speaker 3: because I feel like we all should embrace our inner home.
Speaker 2: Well pronounce your Instagram.
Speaker 3: Yes, j D provocative phonetically, it's still provocative, it's.
Speaker 2: Just the whole is. Yeah, where does the hope into that?
Speaker 4: P R h O E. The o is replaced with
Speaker 4: a whoe?
Speaker 2: Okay, I heard I heard that?
Speaker 4: So uh yeah on Instagram.
Speaker 3: The provocative podcast is wherever you listen to podcasts, Apple, Spotify, Yes,
Speaker 3: and we are h O.
Speaker 1: E V O C.
Speaker 2: What do you what do you talk about it on
Speaker 2: your podcast?
Speaker 4: All think sex?
Speaker 2: I love it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like whether it be from a sexual health perspective,
Speaker 3: because I actually like if I have I actually had
Speaker 3: doctor Rachel on there, so like I talked about I
Speaker 3: talk about sex health, I talk about kinks here like
Speaker 3: Daddy have Jess and Jasmine on there.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 3: I also tell my own story, so like if I
Speaker 3: hear like a wild night, I get real into it,
Speaker 3: all right, I love Yeah, I love that.
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