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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make.

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Speaker 2: Horrible decision?

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Speaker 1: What it is? What's up?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to horrible decision. Let's restart why he said you

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Speaker 2: hate the song?

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Speaker 1: I love it?

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Speaker 2: I hate I love it. It's all my mama, bitch.

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Speaker 2: I feel good?

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Speaker 1: All right, Okay, just say we want her on the show,

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Speaker 1: and do and her Man.

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Speaker 2: I want her and her Man on the show. Anyways, guys,

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Speaker 2: welcome to Horrible Lady.

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Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy b aka Full corpor'ms aka that bitch.

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Speaker 2: What's the hope? What? What's up?

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Speaker 1: Y'all? I'm weasy. Welcome back to another episode. We have

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Speaker 1: a guest in the building today that came highly recommended

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Speaker 1: from a Wolf who's one of our engineers at WCF,

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Speaker 1: and he literally was like, she gonna fit in with y'all.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, what do you mean by that? Not?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? Said? We have Jody

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Speaker 1: in the building, and Jody, I want to ask you

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Speaker 1: what do he mean by that?

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Speaker 2: I think he means that I'm amazing and cleaning it up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he means that I'm amazing, I'm honest

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Speaker 3: about my experiences and I ain't gonna.

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Speaker 1: Hold you, Jody. You sounded like the emails that we

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Speaker 1: be getting when they be like, I want to come

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Speaker 1: on the podcast because I'm just awesome. Me and my

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Speaker 1: friends we do cool shit. So really get into the ship.

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Speaker 1: Why the fuck you on the podcast?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So I want to say that he probably said that

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Speaker 3: I would fit in because he heard me talk about

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Speaker 3: some of my stories and he was like wait what

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Speaker 3: he did?

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Speaker 1: What? He basically called you a whror?

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Speaker 4: Basically yeah, I mean, but I call myself a whore.

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Speaker 4: I like, like, I know who I am.

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Speaker 2: I embrace that, don't we all?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: On your flat form?

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Speaker 1: Like you have like a sex positive platform on I G.

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Speaker 1: So what kind of stuff do you do?

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Speaker 2: I am a throtologist, oh girl these days?

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Speaker 1: Okay, thronologist.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm a throtologist.

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Speaker 4: Yes, throtologists nctrician.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? What do you mean about?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like I really I really be sucking dick like I

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Speaker 2: enjoyed real bad.

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Speaker 4: Where'd you learn how to suck dick? I actually studied

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Speaker 4: sucking dick?

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Speaker 1: Where I would like to know?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So university was that I would like to see it.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't a university.

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Speaker 3: But I am a sexpert. So I went through sexpert

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Speaker 3: consultants and I learned that part of it. And I

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Speaker 3: also studied under doctor Rachel's she has a sexologist uh program.

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Speaker 4: I studied under her as well. So you have a

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Speaker 4: certificate like in texology. Really okay, interesting?

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Speaker 1: Wait, so what's it like?

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Speaker 2: Like? What's class Like?

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Speaker 1: Are you like on zoom?

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Speaker 2: Do you sit down? Do you have a pencil?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: What's it like? So you got a pencil and my.

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Speaker 3: Notebook and I even outside of that, I'm someone where

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Speaker 3: it's like I love sex so much that I'm always

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Speaker 3: studying and wanting to know more about it.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, taking that Like while studying, you were like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I never knew.

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Speaker 2: This semen has melotonin in it?

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Speaker 1: What I could believe it puts you to sleep? Yeah, bitch,

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Speaker 1: you swallowed some not you be tied, you be ready.

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Speaker 2: So I don't believe it look enough to put you

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Speaker 4: I don't think there there are it's traceable.

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Speaker 1: So we're sitting here thinking it's putting us to sleep,

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Speaker 1: but it's it's.

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Speaker 2: What, bitch, don't do this. I don't be knowing. I

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Speaker 2: was supposed to just know what serotonin is makes you happy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I mean Oxytocin makes you feel I thought

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Speaker 2: Oxytosin like release you feel love? Sound crazy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's oxy no no no. Serotonin is like the happiness.

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Speaker 1: That's what when you're taking any s SR eyes like

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Speaker 1: if you're on an antidepressant. Oxytocin is the chemical that

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Speaker 1: releases when you're like feeling when. That's how I fall

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Speaker 4: Yeah you're happy.

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Speaker 1: I ain't got that in me. Oxytoastin don't exist, Yes

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Speaker 1: you do, babe, podcast. The last three years, I've pissed

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Speaker 1: it all up. Okay, so we got all the tens

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Speaker 1: in it and then what else?

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Speaker 3: So for me again, because I feel like when I

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Speaker 3: started studying this, it made me like sucking it even more.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, this might be so happy okay.

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Speaker 3: Like for me, it's really like, yeah, you're getting like

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Speaker 3: because I'm sure you have more.

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Speaker 1: We want to know right now, were on it. Tell

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Speaker 1: me some things that are not redundant, like the twisting

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Speaker 1: your hand or pressing the front of him. Tell me

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Speaker 1: tell me some things you've learned or you do sucking

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Speaker 1: dick that you know, maybe something we may not have

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Speaker 1: seen yet that y'all.

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Speaker 2: May not have seen it. I know for me, I

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Speaker 2: like to use like my rolls.

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Speaker 4: On him, like while I'm sucking, like putting it like

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Speaker 1: The vibration. Girl, we knew that. I'm pretty sure I

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Speaker 1: speaking that we talked about vibrators. I don't know about

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Speaker 1: rolls on the go. I haven't heard that. You.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's just a specific toy.

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Speaker 1: But it's the vibration, well, vibrating, it's sucking, That's what's

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Speaker 1: what you're saying. Okay, So and it's focusing on second

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Speaker 1: that's interesting. Okay, Yeah, what are you be doing day

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Speaker 1: kicking and screaming? No, Like.

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Speaker 3: I actually just recently did it this week and it

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Speaker 3: was cool, Like and this is like someone where he

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Speaker 2: He'd be like, no, you can't really do this, but then.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, like I was like no, so it was no,

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna go through a few things and I

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Speaker 1: want you to tell me if it matters yes or no?

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Speaker 2: Okayco no, I agree?

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Speaker 1: No, Dick's size yes, yes, here too, bank account yes yes,

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Speaker 1: marital status no.

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Speaker 2: Same okay, So then we gotta pause that.

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Speaker 1: So let's talk about Dick's size. I've recently been sleeping

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Speaker 1: affecting our sex life. Here's why.

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Speaker 2: Maybe body count is too specific of like a term.

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Speaker 1: However, he's been saying ship like how he doesn't he

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Speaker 1: or like whatever you would come. Canceler is crazy. He

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Speaker 1: IM just trying to be reserved it. And then I realized, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you're fucking that many bitches. You're probably exhausted. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh, And so it's been like.

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Speaker 1: A common theme right where like he keeps like holding

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Speaker 2: Are you are? Did he share how many other women

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Speaker 2: there are? No?

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Speaker 1: I didn't ask how many others, but I know there

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Speaker 1: I was like, that's it, Like he actually can't he

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Speaker 1: get it, like you're finding it's good that you can't

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Speaker 1: fuck me the way I want to be fucked because

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Speaker 1: I like the nut. Oh, now you're using a word

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Speaker 1: that look as you're turning into me right before my try. No,

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Speaker 1: but like that's the thing, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Like I want to see it right and I really

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Speaker 2: So the fact that he can't even deliver at this point,

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Speaker 1: Like i'd be curious if that's the experience though with

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Speaker 1: Maybe there's some other psychological factor keeping him from doing it,

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Speaker 1: or maybe he likes to edge. Maybe maybe.

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Speaker 2: Like he might enjoy doing that. And I know that

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Speaker 2: No, edging doesn't take that they're going.

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Speaker 1: To be smart being like very like, I'm not trying

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Speaker 2: And I don't believe that he's thinking that deeply.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that that's really something that takes it's

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Speaker 1: This It does because if you know that you're doing

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Speaker 3: You won't say it like yeah.

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Speaker 4: Like men again, they're simple.

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Speaker 3: So if he say like, na, like I really like

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Speaker 1: But my thing is too though. I just think that

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Speaker 1: it to him, Hey, I really like the action and

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Speaker 1: where you were at that point, you knows, But.

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Speaker 2: Mattering how small is too small for you she might

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Speaker 2: like small. How big is to I said this, dick

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Speaker 2: sizes matter and you both said yes, right, So it

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Speaker 2: could mean she might not. She might, but I don't

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Speaker 2: feel that. I don't like Okay, Okay, I wasn't.

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Speaker 4: Taking you know, Yeah, I definitely know. That's not what

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Speaker 3: I say that it definitely it matters, but it doesn't

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Speaker 3: it matters only to the extent that you actually know

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Speaker 3: how to use what you have. So the average dick

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Speaker 3: size is five and a half inches, that's this average.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna run if it's a true five

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Speaker 1: and a half, it's not as bad if you know

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Speaker 3: Exactly because a lot, I feel like a lot of

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Speaker 4: So if we know that the G.

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Speaker 3: Spot is only like two three inches in fight, you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like if that's just what I want, then that's

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Speaker 2: Like I don't feel no type of way about it.

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Speaker 1: And we're doing that. Yeah, we're doing it like, you know,

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Speaker 4: Like, oh, yeah, it is me, and no, if it

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Speaker 1: But it's because a lot of us have not grown

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Speaker 1: all learning it on the fly. Right. Actually, you got

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Speaker 1: And I tell you why I think that polyamory throwing

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Speaker 1: Because women have been hearing that, they know that that

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Speaker 3: That's the issue with that is that people are referring

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Speaker 1: But it's why I'm also not mad at Okay, if

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Speaker 1: let's be real, like there's a lot of women that

440
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: a will accept it, but a woman, a woman will

441
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 1: put themselves.

442
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 2: With a title with a man before the man puts

443
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 2: the title on her. Anyway.

444
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 1: So if he's coming to you and being like, yeah,

445
00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 1: like I fuck with you, because that's all a nigga

446
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 1: really got to say, Like yo, I really fuck with you.

447
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 1: But I also you know, I'm fucking old girl too,

448
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean we're in a situationship. If I've expressed it,

449
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 1: I'm Polly, I'm in relationships with I think six situationships

450
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: like maybe I said that and I want to move

451
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:53,879
Speaker 1: on from me because I feel like I want to

452
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 1: get more into ho shit. But situationships to me are

453
00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:00,680
Speaker 1: when someone is in a relationship with some one that's

454
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 1: not necessarily where they want it to be back, but

455
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 1: they're holding on for it to grow.

456
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 3: And I believe men use polly in order to keep Yeah. Yeah,

457
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 3: they're definitely weaponizing it for no more like and are no.

458
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: For Vanella shit?

459
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 1: Like last month, I saw this thing circulating and I

460
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 1: thought it would really be fun to talk about. Are

461
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:29,159
Speaker 1: you single? Yes, Okay, this will be great. Do so?

462
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,959
Speaker 1: Did you see the list of places that women wouldn't

463
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 1: go on the date?

464
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 2: Like one out of twenty eight? No, I didn't see that. Okay,

465
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,120
Speaker 2: I'm a list of twenty eight.

466
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Speaker 1: Now. I think this came about because of the cheesecake

467
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 1: Factory girl okay, which, by the way, if anybody remembers

468
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 1: the flea market dude that I was dating, even though

469
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,239
Speaker 1: he turned out to be an asshole, he did have

470
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 1: money and our first day was at the cheesecake factory

471
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 1: and I remember we were laughing about it because it

472
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: was like, oh, we know we could eat somewhere better,

473
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:53,240
Speaker 1: but like, this is really what we want to eat,

474
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 1: and I love that spot. So when I saw that

475
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: bitch acting like that was crazy. So I want to

476
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,439
Speaker 1: go through some of these things on the list. But

477
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 1: I also instead of being like places that we hate,

478
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,439
Speaker 1: I want to talk about places we would love to go.

479
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:07,400
Speaker 1: On this list, I only see two cheesecake factory, Applebe's,

480
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,640
Speaker 1: Chili Chotlet, Olive Garden, the movies, your house, any fast

481
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: food chain, Buffalo, Wild Wings, Wingstop, Red Lobster, a buffet,

482
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 1: I Hop, Denny's, the gym, church, coffee dates, Starbucks, ice

483
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 1: cream dates, family functions, movie night, somewhere that requires a

484
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: long drive, bowling, nightclubs, hookah bar, a bar just for drinks,

485
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 1: waffle house, sporting events.

486
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:31,479
Speaker 4: So there's three so of this list, I think bowling

487
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 4: is great, sporting events, bowling sporting events, and a bar

488
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 4: just for drinks. Everything else on it hookah bar, I

489
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 4: guess falls into barges for drinks because sometimes there's hookah there.

490
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 1: I'm good with a movie date too. I don't want

491
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 1: a movie date, not at this age. I actually want

492
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: to get to know someone. I think movie dates help

493
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: people who are socially awkward at dinner in movie.

494
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 2: Sorry that's what? Yeah, so a movie by itself? No, right,

495
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 2: I don't use my friends. I'm kind of good.

496
00:23:58,560 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: I go with myself.

497
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've done that.

498
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: I love going by myself.

499
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 2: I love going to the movies with people.

500
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 3: I like going by myself, but I like going like

501
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 3: with my friends. I feel like we are so used

502
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 3: to making, like movie something that you're supposed to do

503
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 3: in a romantic setting, and it's not just to consume it.

504
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: I also think it's it's very it's an amateur date now,

505
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: Like I'm in my thirties, I don't want to go

506
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 1: to the movie.

507
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 2: I don't know, you know what I mean.

508
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 1: But a friend of mine, who's recently single and does

509
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: make a lot of money, told me that he's loving

510
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: coffee dates right now because he said that he's meeting

511
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: a lot of women out.

512
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 2: And he's like, I understand they.

513
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: May not be meeting a lot of men out, but

514
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,120
Speaker 1: I'm meeting a lot of women out. And if I'm

515
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: meeting you for a second and I get your number,

516
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: I'd rather meet you for coffee right just to be like, okay, cool,

517
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll have dinner at a later point. Time.

518
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 2: It's also a safe date.

519
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 3: It's a safe first date because how many how many

520
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 3: times do you like go out with someone and you're like,

521
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 3: oh not, it ain't gonna work. At least, it's like

522
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 3: kind of like minimal investment. I actually get to know

523
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 3: who you are.

524
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 2: Coffee to me. I feel like that's way to interviewee.

525
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 1: But what's interesting is he had a coffee date today

526
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: and me and him were on the phone. He was like, Nigga,

527
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: this vis just texted me and said, how about dinner instead.

528
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: He's like, it's fine, I'll make a plan. I was like, oh,

529
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 1: her homegirls told her that I want a coffee date.

530
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 1: Her homegirls went through your page. Her homegirls found out

531
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: who you are and were like, let him take you

532
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 1: to dinner. I was like, if she was cool with

533
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 1: a coffee date yesterday, and she changed her mind. Someone

534
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: got in her head about no, he needs to be

535
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: doing x yo.

536
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:35,439
Speaker 2: They didn't go on the coffee date.

537
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: No, it was supposed to be today, and literally she

538
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 1: was like, let's do dinner instead.

539
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 3: And I'm like, it's you supposed to Let go through

540
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 3: with the coffee date and then be like all right,

541
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 3: this was fun. Have about dinner next time, but like

542
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 3: just like no dinner instead like.

543
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: No coffee, no coffee.

544
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm okay with saying no, not even a

545
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 3: coffee drinker, but I still do it if I'm actually

546
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 3: trying to get to another person.

547
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: I mean, there is a Starbucks in uh the district

548
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: here in New York, and I think they have they

549
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: have them a few in major cities where there's literally

550
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:10,400
Speaker 1: coffee cocktails and there's like flights of coffee and that's

551
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 1: exactly so, and you get to see like how like

552
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 1: that it's huge.

553
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 2: It looks like the Willy Wonka of coffee.

554
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 3: I think that's I think that's honestly why I'm saying

555
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 3: I would do a coffee date because I have a

556
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 3: friend who works at a Decadent in Chicago, which is

557
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 3: a dessert and coffee bistro.

558
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 4: So it's like it's the look at.

559
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: Us moving the goal posts. Yeah, like coffee. And I

560
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 1: was gonna say the other one that I liked was, uh,

561
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: I would drive is someone that has been living between

562
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: New York and l A. I have had men try

563
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 1: to take me on dates in Malibu and that's about

564
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 1: an hour or Santa Monica.

565
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 2: That feels like an hour and honestly, the long.

566
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 1: Drive if it's worth it. I also was thinking too,

567
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: I remember when I was living in Florida, like if

568
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: someone wanted to take you to the beach, like I

569
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: think the long drive, it's got to be a good destination.

570
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: But this list is for first date.

571
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even think I feel safe being with

572
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: somebody on a long drive.

573
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 2: Sometimes not knowing where you're going.

574
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: Like if it's a.

575
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 2: I'm not driving long for a day, I'm okay with that.

576
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: If it's like it feels like a beach, or like

577
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 1: if there's some fantasy, I'm okay with that. Also, so

578
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 1: it's Cheesecae factories I know for you, No.

579
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 2: I like the Cheesecae Factory.

580
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So they've got a few on this list. You

581
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 1: would just I said, like three or four? Oh okay, yeah,

582
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 1: And I said bowling, I said, I said, a bar

583
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: for drinks. And of the food places, I like Cheesecake factory.

584
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: They chicken pikata slat bit bitch. That is the one

585
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 1: thing I motherfucking give you that motherfucker chicken I like.

586
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 2: I like the Buffalo cheese chicken.

587
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: Bomber stomach.

588
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 2: Now I'll take I'll take the cheesecake Factory.

589
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: Now what I won't do, and here's why.

590
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 2: And I just want a few people to hear this.

591
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 1: I do find that. I know some people may say, well,

592
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: the apple Bee's and the Chilis and the Cheesecake Factory

593
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 1: look something about Applebee's and Chili's feels so casual. Cheesecake

594
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: Factory is a little more of a step up. At

595
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: least they fucking dress up a little bit. You know,

596
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: they're a uniform, I don't know, not a T shirt.

597
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,199
Speaker 1: Something about it makes me feel like I am on

598
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 1: a better version of a date. I don't know, but

599
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 1: the gym. I wouldn't meet someone at the gym, however,

600
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: I would do like a certain type of workout, like

601
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: if we were meeting up to do like some I

602
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: don't know, like maybe some class or some shit. That's

603
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: okay for me too, Okay, I've worked. I've went hiking

604
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 1: on a first date with someone. I thought that was

605
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: really yeah, oh that was it was the pandemic.

606
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that today.

607
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: Really, No, I'm surprised. To take me out somewhere. I

608
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 1: want to drink bitch.

609
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 3: I like an active so I feel like for me,

610
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 3: I would look at it as we're having fun and

611
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 3: I want to see you in that type of setting,

612
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 3: so I would I would definitely something for nightclubs.

613
00:28:58,240 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 2: I did want to tell y'all this.

614
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: I went on a first date with the famous person

615
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: a few nights ago who we followed each other for

616
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: a bit and he was like, uh, oh, you're in

617
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: town like I thought. I was like, oh, yeah, I'm

618
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: here for ten days like London got canceled. We should

619
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: finally meet. He said, well, I'm going to be at

620
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: blah blah blah for drink Later. I was like, okay,

621
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: well let me know where you want me to meet you.

622
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: Then he's like, come here, come there. So I'm like,

623
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: I fuck it. I pull up.

624
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 2: It's a lounge club.

625
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to say where it is in New York. However,

626
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,239
Speaker 1: he did at a table. I kind of thought there

627
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: was gonna be bitches there. There were none. He was

628
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: with two homeboys. It was intimate. We sat and talked

629
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: the whole time. He barely was talking to his friends,

630
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: and I think when we were in the middle of it,

631
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: I realized because he was like, how's dating for you,

632
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I've always found them like men maybe

633
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: don't want to take me serious because of my work.

634
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: What about you? Like, is dating easy for you? He's like,

635
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: I mean it's easy to fuck people because I meet

636
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: a lot of people. And he was like, so everything

637
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: kind of just feels like this because it's just a meet.

638
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: He's like going on a date.

639
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, that doesn't sound like a date.

640
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: Well, it wasn't until afterward. He then after we were vibing,

641
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: was like, oh yeah, like I want to see you again.

642
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: So I realized the coffee date, the night club. Shit,

643
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 1: what's happening now with high value? Man, I'm gonna throw

644
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: up in my mouth.

645
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 2: These niggas have so many bitches.

646
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: Because I was talking to my homewhel like I when

647
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: I was so and so he's like, oh yeah, like

648
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: you pulled up on the middle. I don't think that that's

649
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Maybe he already had plans, but he was like,

650
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: free date. I feel like a pre date. It's a date,

651
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: but it's not a date. It's a pre date. And

652
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 1: I think that that's the problem too. Like I just

653
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: went on eighty five South, y'all. I hear somebody thought

654
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:44,719
Speaker 1: they took me on a date and it wasn't a date.

655
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 1: We were grabbing food and so I think, yeah, like, it's

656
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: not a date. If I pull up on you and

657
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: friends are there, this is not a date. It's not

658
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: intimating because we talk and you ignore your friends, Like

659
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: I think these are pre dates. Let me a maybe

660
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: see you in person, especially if we met online first.

661
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it. Let me pull up on me.

662
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,959
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be outside and there's no pressure. You might

663
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: be able to have a drink, but to me, there's

664
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: no pressure doing it that way, to just be like,

665
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: pull up, I'll already be here. I've done that to people.

666
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: Heloton Like all of my niggas to my show pull

667
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: up to my show because they dont want see you.

668
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 2: Be really.

669
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: Sorry that.

670
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, people pull up so much.

671
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: I didn't have about three pole niggas never met pull

672
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: up to my show. Niggas then drove hours to come

673
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:26,239
Speaker 1: to my mother.

674
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 2: Fuckho.

675
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, and I'm gonna say this, and

676
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: y'all ain't gonna like hearing this, but I'm gonna keep

677
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: it a buck, Mandy, someone should be driving to come

678
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: and see you, Like I'm not a regular bitch. Bro

679
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, or.

680
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 2: Fly to me.

681
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: And that's what that's what necessarily I mean. You definitely

682
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: ain't a regular nigga, you know what I'm saying. So

683
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: I say that to say I may not have jumped

684
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 1: through that hoop with another person.

685
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: Maybe I wouldn't pull up on you at the club.

686
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 1: However, I know this nigga's busy and I know we're

687
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: just chatting. Oh shit, you're in death. I put it

688
00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: on my close friends. I'll be in New York this

689
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: many days. Oh word, blow it up. I understand.

690
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: Now. I hate to say it because it might sound

691
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 2: like it's.

692
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: Some bird shit like, oh well, I'm gonna do it

693
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 1: for this nigga because he's rich or famous or whatever.

694
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 2: But it's more so that I understand.

695
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: When I have a fucking few days in a city,

696
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: you really do have to come to where the fuck

697
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm at. Yep, do you know on any people I've

698
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: met me at my homeboys parties, Andre power party, come

699
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: to link up, come to this, come to that, because

700
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: I do just want to see you.

701
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 2: But I say all that to say we have a

702
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: date this week.

703
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm really looking forward to it. There will be no

704
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: friends there also, I'm sure his friends in which I

705
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,719
Speaker 1: kind of liked. This really blew my head up.

706
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 2: I walked in and his homeboys.

707
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: Looked at me and they was like, oh, nigga, we're

708
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: on our own. This bitch is bad period. All right,

709
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 1: let's get to the horror derve. So we want your sex.

710
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 2: She gave us a sex sip.

711
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: No, I was gonna say, we want your sex tip

712
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: for sex not sucking dick. I would love to know

713
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: what is something you do in bed that makes these

714
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: niggas or these bitches. I don't know you fucking go crazy.

715
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 4: I'm kinky, So pull out a lot of like ship.

716
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 1: Rope.

717
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:11,239
Speaker 4: I like time people up surprised me.

718
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 2: Just yeah, like, where do you try men.

719
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: That make them feel comfortable or safe?

720
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 4: I start off with one hand because men are like

721
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 4: one hand. Yeah, like I'll do one hand. Let's let's

722
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 4: restrict this one hand over here. You ease into it

723
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 4: because they're not gonna sit there and just like what

724
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 4: am I gonna do?

725
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 1: Right?

726
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 3: But I feel like if you ease them into stuff

727
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 3: so where it's like, okay, I feel safe.

728
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: Then I love this tip.

729
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

730
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 3: I like that as someone who I'm a switch, but

731
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 3: I do like to dominate people that typically don't want

732
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 3: to they identify as dom themselves. So I'm like, oh,

733
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 3: I kind of really want to do this with you now,

734
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 3: because if you relinquish that power to me, that means

735
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,479
Speaker 3: you trust me, and I don't take that for granted.

736
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: And for me, I'm like, oh, I'm really.

737
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 3: Like for me, that just makes the sex like it's

738
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 3: all the way up here now because now we have

739
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 3: this trusting relationship, so rope for sure.

740
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 2: And uh.

741
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 3: And this is also someone who likes to be tied

742
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 3: up and gagged and all of that as well. Like

743
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,760
Speaker 3: I like it, but I really appreciate when someone allows.

744
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 2: Me to do it.

745
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,399
Speaker 1: You like the gag bigga.

746
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 3: I have not gagged someone yet. I haven't gotten to

747
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 3: that point, but I feel like with if you ease

748
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 3: into it, they'll damn your legend.

749
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 1: I only don't once, but it was with my foot,

750
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,280
Speaker 1: so I don't know if that counts. But that's crazy.

751
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: He's like, try to fit my I got it on

752
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: video too. He tried to put his whole no because

753
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: it's my ex and I don't I'm not watching it,

754
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: And that's that's the same. It's the same concept. You

755
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,479
Speaker 1: literally went to put my whole foot in his mouth

756
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: and was like.

757
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 2: Okay, wait when you made the video, were y'all like laughing?

758
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 2: It was it was in the morning.

759
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: Oh he was really fucking.

760
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 2: Oh we'd be fucking in the morning, bitch, I told

761
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 2: you he was.

762
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 1: Going about fucking the morning. I'm saying, like he I

763
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: feel like if I made a video of that, it'd

764
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: be like again. No, it was like he got up

765
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 1: on both knees and I'm like rubbing my feet all

766
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: over him, and then he goes to start sucking my

767
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: toes and look at my toes, So mind you is

768
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: also playing with my pussy while my foot is in

769
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: his mouth. And so I literally am like with the

770
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 1: phone like this like and it's so sexy, and it was.

771
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 2: It was. It was a good time.

772
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: And then literally so he went from sucking it, so

773
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 1: I was like pushing it to go further in his mouth,

774
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 1: and he.

775
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 2: Started opening up.

776
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: He started opening up his mouth water to fit.

777
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 2: My whole foot in his mouth.

778
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was great, popped the nigga's teeth, and I

779
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 1: realized his foot play is not for me.

780
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 2: I understand a lot of people love my feet.

781
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: Also, I've opened up like my my foot.

782
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: So I have a TV show called sex Cells on Fuse.

783
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 1: Season three, November twenty ninth, bitch anyway, So basically, uh,

784
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,720
Speaker 1: the first episode is the only episode season one episode.

785
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: It's the only one you can watch for free, so

786
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 1: you can get a vibe at the show, which is elevated,

787
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: by the way, but it is the foot episode and

788
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 1: that has opened me to a demographic of people that

789
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,240
Speaker 1: I never thought I would see.

790
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 2: And I feel guilty because I'm just learning about the business.

791
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: Uh huh, and niggas really think I'm about this foot life.

792
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 1: So with that said, I had text with someone that

793
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: when they had my toes in their mouth, wanted me

794
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: to like do shit with my foot and the mouth

795
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: is so small and my foot is so much bigger

796
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 1: than your mouth that I'm like, they're.

797
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 2: Only seven and a half.

798
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,280
Speaker 1: But I still like, damn, I'm about to hit the tooth.

799
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,760
Speaker 2: I can feel the console like it was too much,

800
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 2: and I think that shit is really a large and

801
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 2: I don't want to kill these niggas. Yeah, that's what

802
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 2: I do.

803
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 3: My second thing, I would say, I'm an exhibitionist, so

804
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 3: I like doing stuff in front of people. Is well

805
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 3: me too, so I really like masturbating in front of somebody,

806
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 3: like really like I've done it in front of women.

807
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 4: I've done it in front of men, like I like

808
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 4: you yeah that's why.

809
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like we're doing it like like that's

810
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 2: not a sex.

811
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 4: Club, I mean just in a badroom, Like I'll randomly

812
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 4: do it in a bedroom. I definitely did it at

813
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 4: a sex club, which was fire.

814
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 2: I watched it. Yeah, it was like maybe thirty people. Yeah,

815
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 2: like it was.

816
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 3: It was very and it was I made it like

817
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 3: a performance almost like I asked the girl to like

818
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 3: come and like rub on my TVs while I was

819
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 3: doing it too, like Super six.

820
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 4: When you do it in your bedroom, do you like

821
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 4: ask your friends to watch you?

822
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Do you have his friends

823
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:41,439
Speaker 1: watch you?

824
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 3: The very first time I masturbated in front of in

825
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 3: front of someone, it was a friend.

826
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 2: It was a female friend.

827
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 4: And she's she was she wait for real, yeah, like

828
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 4: this home girl. But we actually ended up having sex

829
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 4: after that.

830
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just happened, but.

831
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 3: So she was she said like, oh, I'm horny, I

832
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 3: want to masturbate or whatever.

833
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 2: And I was like, god, dude, you think I want

834
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 2: to watch TV?

835
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 3: Like I was cool because I'm also a boy or

836
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 3: so it's like but also I'm like, no, if you

837
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 3: if that's how you want to be right now.

838
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 2: That's we were at her house a.

839
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 1: Lot of left my friends and been like, I'm going

840
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 1: to go to my room and take a quick nap,

841
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: real quick. Yeah.

842
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 3: I've done that before too, like when we've been out

843
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 3: of town and I'm like, yeah.

844
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 2: Give me go, get one off real quick.

845
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. I turned to her manager and my best friend

846
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: Vinnie that nigga I was having a rough day and

847
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:38,479
Speaker 1: he was like, Babe, I'm gonna go for a walk,

848
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 1: and I texted him. I was like I actually needed

849
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: to come.

850
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 3: He's like, I know, girl, Yeah, I love that. So

851
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 3: she was like, yeah, you know, I'm gonna do that.

852
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 3: And she then was like wait did you say that

853
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 3: you be masturbating for like twenty like thirty minutes, and

854
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 3: I was like yeah, because I'm an edger.

855
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 2: So she was like, can I watch you?

856
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh yeah, Like so then I.

857
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 2: She was being checking for you. Yeah, after the fact,

858
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, wait.

859
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: She's said, can I'll watch it?

860
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:12,360
Speaker 2: Y'all are got drunk?

861
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: No?

862
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 2: I wasn't drunk, Okay, So you're there. Are you over

863
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 2: your phone up? You're looking at her? What do you

864
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 2: how are you masturbating? Yeah? So I don't masturbate to porn.

865
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 3: I masturbate to my imagination because I feel like I

866
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 3: can be as creative as I want if I know

867
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 3: the outcome of something I'm not.

868
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, the kind of ruins it for me? I

869
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 4: want to be able to think of those.

870
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 2: Are my most intense master betrayal orgasms.

871
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 3: Yes, like I need, I need to watch. Yeah, Like

872
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 3: I let my mind go wild. So I'm like, all right, cool.

873
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 3: So I'm masturbating and she's watching me, and then eventually

874
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 3: she just like moves the toy out of the way

875
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 3: and started eating my pussy and I was like, well,

876
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 3: this is happening, like I was it.

877
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: If you want to fuck your friends, how you do it? Yeah?

878
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 4: Like for me, I feel like it's.

879
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 2: Nothing sounds friendly about this. This sounds very friendly. That's

880
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 2: a good friend. That is a good friend. So for me,

881
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 2: I'm someone that.

882
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 3: If I'm super comfortable with you and you ask me

883
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,399
Speaker 3: something and I'm like, oh, you know what.

884
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 2: That'll be sexy, that'll be lit Like I'm.

885
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: I'll do it. And then however that ends is do

886
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: you have to be attracted to that person to let

887
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: them watch you? I feel like I can't be repulsed

888
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: by them. I don't No one has a face in

889
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: the sex club to me, you ever want to watch?

890
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:31,399
Speaker 2: I don't.

891
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't care what they look like. That's interesting

892
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: because I say that because like I was thinking about it,

893
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was in a sex club

894
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: and I remember thinking, oh, I can't have sex in

895
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: this room because I don't want to fuck anyone in here.

896
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, if I'm.

897
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 4: Not Actually, I've been to sex clubs a couple of

898
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 4: times in Chicago, and I've not never actually had sex

899
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 4: at a sex club.

900
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 2: I've only actually masturbated or why don't want I.

901
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 4: Just watched now, Yeah, and I watch, And I even

902
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 4: enjoy watching people that I wouldn't fuck, like the way

903
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 4: like two bodies come together, like the intimacy. I think

904
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 4: when I took well, when I took Incidet to a

905
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 4: sex club for the first time, I think that's what

906
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 4: she enjoyed most.

907
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: She said, everyone looks like they're making love. Everyone is

908
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: so passionate, Like it doesn't look just like a fuck house,

909
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 1: like everyone was just literally they were making love, they

910
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 1: were massaging each other, they were slow stroking, and she

911
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: was like, this is beautiful. She was like, this is

912
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: not at all what I've imagine. I mean, most most,

913
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: there's only very few nights where they allow single men

914
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: what you're talking about, though, it's not necessarily you know,

915
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: if you guys have a sex club in your in

916
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 1: your town or something like that, it may not necessarily

917
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,280
Speaker 1: come like that. You know, the sex clus.

918
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 4: That we've been going to, it depends on a day.

919
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 1: Does depend on the day. But these these particular sex

920
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 1: clubs that you know you've been going to are curated

921
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: by people that do care about their community. There are

922
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: definitely sex clubs that even that I've covered.

923
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 2: For shared Trapeze in Atlanta, y'all won't ever catch me

924
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 2: there again. Oh like, no, I've shared other clubs.

925
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,760
Speaker 1: There's definitely some experiences that can be a little more abrasive,

926
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: and I think that you kind of got to go

927
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:13,919
Speaker 1: into it. So maybe for Intonet, I don't know her well,

928
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: but I would assume that maybe she would enjoy something

929
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: like that more than something super raw. But what's interesting

930
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: is I actually think some women when they're going to

931
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 1: a sex club. The two that I've spoken to recently

932
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: that just at a little moment. They were like, oh,

933
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: because I'm in a relationship and I have sex intimately.

934
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: I liked seeing the gang bang. I like seeing the train,

935
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: like you almost want to see the wild shit. So

936
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: I think for myself, I just wanted to see someone

937
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 1: I would want to fuck. That kind of made it

938
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: hard for me because I was like, damn, if I'm

939
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: going to be watched, I want to know, like maybe

940
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm fantasized. That's why I'm going with partners. I never

941
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: want to fuck guys in the sex club. I like

942
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: to come with my very looking but that was fucking.

943
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: But I just didn't want to fuck my nigga ugly.

944
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 2: Okay, So I want to go through ho Fax really quick.

945
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: I just did an HIV awareness dinner with black influencers

946
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:15,240
Speaker 1: in Central Florida with a company called Talk Test Treat,

947
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: And when I posted it, the dinner's called risky and

948
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 1: it's just about conversations about how you can be at risk,

949
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 1: and somebody was like, well, why is the conversation with

950
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: black women and calling their sex risky? But what was

951
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: so dope about it was I learned so much about

952
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: our own risks, so I just wanted to share these

953
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: few facts. The HIV rate amongst black women is twelve

954
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:39,720
Speaker 1: times higher than compared to white women. Black women continue

955
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: to be disproportionately impacted by HIV. Nearly sixty percent of

956
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: new HIV infections are from black women, despite that Black

957
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 1: women make up less than fifteen percent of the female population.

958
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: So I just wanted to bring that up because there

959
00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 1: are so many at home kits or HIV. You also

960
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 1: have to opt into HIV testing. Every time I get tested.

961
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: They do not test me for HIV. I have to

962
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: ask I literally for my last test. When I asked

963
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: for HIV testing, he said, oh, are you Are you

964
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: involved in any sex work? And I was like, why

965
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: is that relevant to me wanting an HIV test right?

966
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: And he literally took his words back. He's like, oh,

967
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's just you know, most of the time

968
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: HIV people like HIV testing is a lot of homelessness

969
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 1: or you know, people using street drugs, drugs or sharing needles.

970
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm a woman in the world having

971
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: sex with.

972
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 3: Men, period, and that's problem I feel like that's problematic

973
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 3: that I really normalized, like everybody should get tested for everything.

974
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 3: We should be very comfortable having these conversations. That is

975
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 3: why the rates are so high, because people are.

976
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: Like, oh, away from here, and that's literally like the

977
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 1: dinner and so, and it's not a dinner you guys

978
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: can come to. I didn't know that when I did

979
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 1: it last time. But it it's really just influencer that.

980
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: So we can't influence everybody to talk about it. So

981
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: I would implore you to talk about it with your daughters,

982
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 1: your sons, and encourage your friends and family to you know,

983
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 1: have some HIV dialogue.

984
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 2: All right, now let's get into the horrible decision.

985
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: Yes, I really want to hear about some of your

986
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 1: horror stories with sex. I want to hear about some

987
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: crazy moments. I want to just I want to know

988
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 1: it all because it's someone who's so sexually free and open.

989
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: I know you've got some tea, so give us the

990
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: one that comes to mind.

991
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 2: I mean, having sex while driving is always lead girl.

992
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 3: You here on these roads out here, Yeah, be careful,

993
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 3: but it's something like I get off on the danger

994
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 3: of doing something like that, Like that's yeah.

995
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 1: But you're putting a lot of I do like, second,

996
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: that's more risky.

997
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you did it.

998
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,280
Speaker 3: So the first time I did it, I was facing him,

999
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 3: so he was in control.

1000
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 4: That was way more dangerous. That's way more dangerous.

1001
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 3: And the second time that I did it, so the

1002
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 3: second time I did it, he was like under me

1003
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 3: and I was this way, so I was in control

1004
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 3: of the snareing will while I was riding.

1005
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:19,760
Speaker 2: Oh you were riding dick ump? Yeah, a tesla? Okay,

1006
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 2: that was he a little man?

1007
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 1: They better bean a tesla. Why let me ask you something.

1008
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: I have a wife, for real, Yeah, because I have

1009
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: a Model three, I can't do it. Yeah, too low.

1010
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 1: I think that if I'm thinking about someone fucking while driving,

1011
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 1: I always imagine a dude driving a girl, like in

1012
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 1: hetero sex and a girl facing the back seat.

1013
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 2: Right like when you just said you were sitting on

1014
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 2: a dick driving.

1015
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: That's kind of fire. Yeah, that feels less risky. Yeah, Like.

1016
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 3: I was so yeah, like I'm literally doing everything because

1017
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 3: he was like, oh I'm gonna die, He's like, no.

1018
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 4: Relax, don't say that. We're nowhere. I know exactly what

1019
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 4: I'm doing.

1020
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 3: So I literally I put it into drive and then

1021
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 3: I put it on cruise control that way.

1022
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:07,959
Speaker 2: Anytime I needed to like.

1023
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 3: Put my foot on drila, So no, it wasn't self driving,

1024
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 3: like it was just on cruise control that way. If

1025
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 3: I needed to stop, like I could just put a

1026
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 3: foot down on the pedal. So I'm still very mindful

1027
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 3: of what's going on.

1028
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 1: Have you ever had an orgasm like that?

1029
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 2: No, he didn't let us finish.

1030
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 3: He was like, no, let's pull over, right, but we

1031
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 3: we were doing it for a good like fifteen minutes,

1032
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 3: so we were like rap down driver.

1033
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: This yeah highway drivingucker Red like.

1034
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll be too much going on.

1035
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 3: So what we literally we got like to like a

1036
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 3: block away from the expressway and I was like, all right, cool,

1037
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 3: get like, let's let's prepare ourselves for this.

1038
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 4: So it was very much planned. Like I was like, Wow,

1039
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 4: have you ever had.

1040
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,320
Speaker 2: An embarrassing moment during sex?

1041
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: Embarrassing or maybe an embarrassing moment on the other end,

1042
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,399
Speaker 1: have you ever had someone embarrassed during sex with you

1043
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 1: or and just been like really shy or like, tell

1044
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: me about maybe an awkward or uncomfortable moment you've had.

1045
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 3: I definitely feel like it was this one time I

1046
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 3: was getting head in my car.

1047
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:14,479
Speaker 1: I bitch, do you have a home?

1048
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 3: Like I really like carsaks, Like, there's a lot of

1049
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 3: people that don't like car sak.

1050
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 2: Like, how big are these niggas?

1051
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: The niggas I'd be fucking are way too big for

1052
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: like car sacks for real real like now they.

1053
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 3: Even But also I'm small, so even if they're bigger

1054
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 3: than me, because I'm.

1055
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 2: Like, we couldn't. I can never drive, Like my ex

1056
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 2: was six seven and had a.

1057
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 1: Really big truck and we would have to literally lay

1058
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 1: down the seats, push one all the way, Like we

1059
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,439
Speaker 1: would have to literally create space even in the back

1060
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: seat for us to be able to do anything.

1061
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and still sometimes a door would have to be

1062
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: left open or something like.

1063
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 1: We would normally do it after the beach, but it

1064
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 1: would take moving a lot of.

1065
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 4: Shit make Yeah, but six seven is he's huge? Yeah yeah,

1066
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 4: neither one of these people were.

1067
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 3: Definitely you run into some issues. But again with me

1068
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 3: being I'm fast feet, I'm like I can move around,

1069
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 3: like I can't really maneuver.

1070
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 2: In a car.

1071
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: She's she's really fun sized, y'all.

1072
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, so and we be having fun.

1073
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:23,720
Speaker 3: So what made it awkward was that he was giving

1074
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,919
Speaker 3: me head and then he like pulled his dick out,

1075
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 3: and then I looked at it and I was like, oh, yeah, no,

1076
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 3: I'm not doing that.

1077
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: Wait why what it looked like? What?

1078
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 2: It was like a pencil dick? Oh you just didn't like.

1079
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't. I was like, oh no, I think

1080
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 3: it's like.

1081
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 1: You said, Oh no, I need to know how you

1082
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: got out of the dick is pulled out the pants.

1083
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 2: You look at it, you don't like it?

1084
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:54,439
Speaker 1: What exactly? And never again? No, but she said she said,

1085
00:49:55,040 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 1: yeah I couldn't. I would How exactly did you say? Yeah, no,

1086
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:01,879
Speaker 1: that's not going in my mouth.

1087
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 2: But I had a TikTok today and I don't want

1088
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 2: another one.

1089
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I actually I didn't suck his dick.

1090
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: I didn't.

1091
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, actually, it's getting late, Like I

1092
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:18,240
Speaker 3: Justin's out of the entire situation. You like, pretty sure

1093
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 3: because we never did anything after that.

1094
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 4: So yeah, I just I feel about.

1095
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: A memorable group sex story or threesome or something that

1096
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: maybe either you orchestrated or you got pulled in it.

1097
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 3: Okay, So my favorite threesome was with a married couple.

1098
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: Okay, it was super lit.

1099
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 3: Like me and the woman we had met when I

1100
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:48,720
Speaker 3: had hosted like a dungeon party, and she was like, oh,

1101
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 3: let's be friends now, and I'm like, all right, whatever,

1102
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 3: like scirpy up, like she.

1103
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 1: Was another spider my nig.

1104
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 3: So just bogging off like she her birthday a couple

1105
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 3: days before for a mile.

1106
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, scorpios. So it's still like we we vabing.

1107
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:06,240
Speaker 3: And then she was like, oh, me and some people

1108
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 3: we all going to the strip club. This was like

1109
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 3: maybe a week or so after I had met her,

1110
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 3: and she was like, oh, we're going to a strip

1111
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 3: club later. You on a slide And I was like sure,

1112
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 3: I ain't doing nothing, So go.

1113
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:17,240
Speaker 1: To our house.

1114
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 3: Uh. Her her husband, they're there, two other another couple

1115
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 3: was going to come to the club, and they actually

1116
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:27,480
Speaker 3: did come to the club. But I was like, I'm

1117
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 3: not gonna drive in y'all driving, so I'll just park

1118
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 3: my car at child house. I'll hop in the car

1119
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 3: with y'all. We can go to the club. So we

1120
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,800
Speaker 3: goes to the club, babbing at the club. Her husband

1121
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 3: like you hungry, I'm paying for everything, and I'm like yeah.

1122
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, like we eating like you still?

1123
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 1: Girl Like yeah, actually, I'll take this too.

1124
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 4: Like we eating, we drinking. Then now I'm getting like

1125
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 4: a little tipsy.

1126
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 3: We goes in the bathroom, like uh, me and the

1127
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 3: two ladies that were there and the guys they just

1128
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 3: like there. So I'm the only person that's there, single

1129
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 3: and solo. We go to the we in a bathroom

1130
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 3: and we just having girl talk. We end up talking

1131
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 3: about sucking dick. I'll just just talking. No, that's not

1132
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 3: what happens. She talked about how like she doesn't like

1133
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 3: sucking dick, and I was like.

1134
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 1: Oh, I love it.

1135
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 2: I'm not antian.

1136
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,360
Speaker 4: So she says that again.

1137
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, we're just I'm having regular casual conversation to

1138
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 3: me because I casually talk about sex. So then it

1139
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 3: gets later. The one couple leaves because she was like, oh,

1140
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 3: I got homework and be cause she in nursing school whatever.

1141
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 3: She's like, I gotta leave. So then we are still

1142
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 3: together and then I'm like, all right, yeah, it's getting late.

1143
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 3: I need to get to my car so I could

1144
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:54,280
Speaker 3: bounce anyways. So I gets in the back seat because

1145
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 3: that's where I was the first time we came here.

1146
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 3: But the wife gets in the back seat with me.

1147
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 3: So the husband is driving Oh, they orchestrated it.

1148
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know at what point, just know they

1149
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 1: orchestrated it. When she met you and a dune, probably

1150
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 1: they orchestrated it.

1151
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 3: So we're in the back seat and then like, next thing,

1152
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,399
Speaker 3: I know, she like rubbing on my titties and I'm like, well,

1153
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 3: I got nice tds. I'm still not like whatever. And

1154
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,959
Speaker 3: then we started kissing in the back seat. So now

1155
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 3: we kissing.

1156
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, sex again.

1157
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 2: You see this girl, get a rum, get you a room, girl.

1158
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 2: So we we kissing. The next thing, I know, the

1159
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 2: husband starts speeding.

1160
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 1: Y'all in the back seat.

1161
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 3: Really like yeah, we just back there kissing, and then

1162
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 3: we we he pulls into his garage. He slings the

1163
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 3: door open, so now like he grabbed my face, he

1164
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 3: kissed me, and I'm like rubbing on I'm like, oh,

1165
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 3: this is happening.

1166
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:56,839
Speaker 4: So we didn't even make it in the house yet,

1167
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:58,280
Speaker 4: we just sitting there garage.

1168
00:53:58,760 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: Then we had to.

1169
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:02,240
Speaker 2: Go into the house, so it wasn't I'm.

1170
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,479
Speaker 1: Glad y'all made it to a room. Yeah.

1171
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1172
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 4: We eventually made it to the room and it was

1173
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 4: super It was like, what made.

1174
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 2: What made the threesome so much better than the others.

1175
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:19,440
Speaker 3: I would say, just honestly, it was probably the vibe

1176
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 3: that me and the wife head because yeah, I only

1177
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 3: have three if I connect with the woman, like I'm not.

1178
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 3: I did have a bad threesome experience when I did

1179
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 3: connect with the woman because she got super weird after

1180
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 3: the fast jealous. Yeah, yeah, like it was and it's like, no,

1181
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 3: I'm showing up. How I show up?

1182
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:43,839
Speaker 4: And I feel like.

1183
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 1: She said, I woke up like this like that, like no,

1184
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 1: I treat women. I'm showing.

1185
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 2: Show up, show up, how you show up?

1186
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 4: And let's all just enjoyed the experience business.

1187
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 1: I think, finally, what I would want to know, So

1188
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: you describe yourself as a wayor an exhibitionist for people

1189
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: that may not be in the lifestyle scene or able

1190
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: to access a sex club, how are some ways that

1191
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: they can I don't know, kind of tap into that

1192
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: a little bit. Where's where's friends?

1193
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 2: Well, no, no, no.

1194
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:26,240
Speaker 3: I feel like that's literally how I realized that Noah

1195
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 3: enjoy it am because I literally ask someone if I

1196
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 3: could watch them have sex way before I even went

1197
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 3: I've done that to my friends.

1198
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 2: Next man woman First.

1199
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 3: It was a man I asked one of my he

1200
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 3: we were like talking to each other that night or whatever.

1201
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 3: He was like, oh man, these two chicks I met

1202
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 3: at the club, they trying to take me down.

1203
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 2: I was like, am I gonna watch that? I want to?

1204
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: My young friends are probably one of the easiest. Of course,

1205
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 1: you gotta make sure well, make sure the girl knows

1206
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm just coming to watch at the situation. But I've

1207
00:55:56,000 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 1: had homeboys literally like FaceTime me and snapchat me while

1208
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 1: they're having sex as well to watch.

1209
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 2: Homeboy.

1210
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:06,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, that homie shit.

1211
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,359
Speaker 2: I mean niggas that be like, I'll be getting these

1212
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 2: holes like it comes. It's a part of this.

1213
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 3: If a guy has ever shared their sex video with somebody.

1214
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 2: They probably do.

1215
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 1: But I don't always want to fuck exactly, just they

1216
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: just not fucking because you friends on them. But they

1217
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 1: they definitely a lot of times will fuck if you

1218
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:29,959
Speaker 1: let them. I a home boy that has a sex

1219
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: tape that my other friends seeing that I refuse to

1220
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: see because I think I don't want to fuck that again.

1221
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 2: They but women too.

1222
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 1: I think friends has been the easiest way for me

1223
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: to inch into knowing that I enjoy either being watched

1224
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:45,399
Speaker 1: or watch it. Yes, and I think that's the You're

1225
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 1: not gonna ask your coworkers, You're not gonna ask family

1226
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: members outside of the sex club. The easiest way is

1227
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,800
Speaker 1: for some of the people that you choose to have

1228
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 1: into your life and the people that you trust the most,

1229
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: and those are friends exactly.

1230
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 3: I totally agree with that, Like whether it be all

1231
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:02,479
Speaker 3: right you asking somebody four video of them when they're off.

1232
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:04,839
Speaker 4: Like so with me, if I say like.

1233
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 2: Oh man, I ship out of some big.

1234
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:09,399
Speaker 3: Last night and the girl like, oh, let me see

1235
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 3: the video because I know you got.

1236
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 1: I my pegging videos, I do the same. Yeah, I do.

1237
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: I think you're pegging videos though, like many people don't

1238
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: get to see that.

1239
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 2: We've seen a dick stucking video a lot of people.

1240
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. So what I was gonna say, though, if

1241
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: it's not for like involving other people, how what's the

1242
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: vanilla way somebody can get into it? Whether it be

1243
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 1: like what kind of public sex? Would you recommend things

1244
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 1: like that? M I want to start baby steps, yeah,

1245
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 1: because like I think that.

1246
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 2: I even think involving friends is like next level. You's

1247
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 2: baby step baby.

1248
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 4: I definitely think it's baby step by step. I think

1249
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 4: the share of the videos is like the first layer.

1250
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:55,440
Speaker 4: Face time is probably the next day in the room.

1251
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna say, a hotel balcony. Okay, girl,

1252
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 1: oh no, that's public, someone can record.

1253
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:02,960
Speaker 2: That's not the stuff that they're being leaked onto the internet.

1254
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: Like damn, you know. Public sex is risky now because

1255
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: people have their phones out and don't respect anyone's privacy.

1256
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 1: They're not just watching, they're pulling out their phone to

1257
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 1: be like what I see me? Like, that's the way

1258
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 1: to get it off when you're like maybe the risk

1259
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 1: of getting caught type things.

1260
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 2: So that's why that came to fun. I did actually

1261
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 2: before we get down here.

1262
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: I know I said it was the last thing, but

1263
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: I saw a clip of you talking about how you

1264
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: went on a mission to have sex with every zodiac sign.

1265
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 2: Uh huh, best, worse, let's talk about it.

1266
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 4: Sorry, bitch, Scorpio your birthday.

1267
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: Okay, A wish zodiac the best dick? Like, I gotta know, bitch,

1268
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 1: we all want to know. Everybody listening to this, God

1269
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:48,920
Speaker 1: damn shore right now. I bet you we all have

1270
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 1: different answers. I don't fucked a lot of zodiac signs.

1271
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 3: I'm curious to hers so I would say I have

1272
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 3: not fucked the eeries that didn't have a big dick. Wow,

1273
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 3: I would say that. I'm that it's like March going

1274
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 3: into April. Okay, so I have not fucked the aries

1275
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 3: that didn't have a big dick.

1276
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 2: Okay.

1277
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 3: The Scorpio that I had sex with very toxic sex

1278
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 3: for sure, like super toxic, super intense, and uh.

1279
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 2: Pisce's was fire. Pisces was fire.

1280
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 1: Men are different, men and women are different in the bedroom.

1281
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 3: I actually prefer I prefer Scorpio women over Scorpio men.

1282
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 2: Okay, see that's what. Yeah, why is that there's a difference.

1283
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 4: It's a difference. It's a difference.

1284
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 3: The vibe is there, but for some reason, what happens

1285
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 3: after the sex is like.

1286
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 2: Completely like well they were two different people.

1287
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, I definitely prefer Scorpio, and I feel

1288
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 3: like Scorpio women are freakier than Scorpio men.

1289
00:59:54,360 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 2: Okay, bad sex with bad sex. I don't think I've

1290
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 2: ever had a Burgo man.

1291
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, Burgo be super like underwhelming, Like I be underwhelmed

1292
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 4: with Burgo.

1293
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: I had my most intense sex with a season a

1294
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,320
Speaker 1: water Aquarius and Libra for me.

1295
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 3: Those are air signs, so and that's I actually like

1296
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 3: air signs.

1297
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 4: So that's Aquarius.

1298
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 3: Libra, and Gemini are all air signs. They very much

1299
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 3: like all right, I'm gonna they kind of come with whatever.

1300
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: And do oh whatever do zobia mean? It also was

1301
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 1: just them niggas, big dicks and niggas sign you, Jody.

1302
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 1: And if you have any events coming up in November,

1303
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: where can people listen find you?

1304
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Sure, so I'm on Instagram. That's where I frequent.

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Speaker 3: So my I G is j O D Y p

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Speaker 3: R h O E v O C A T I

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Speaker 3: v E. I spell it with hoe in the middle

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Speaker 3: because I feel like we all should embrace our inner home.

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Speaker 2: Well pronounce your Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Yes, j D provocative phonetically, it's still provocative, it's.

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Speaker 2: Just the whole is. Yeah, where does the hope into that?

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Speaker 4: P R h O E. The o is replaced with

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Speaker 4: a whoe?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I heard I heard that?

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Speaker 4: So uh yeah on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: The provocative podcast is wherever you listen to podcasts, Apple, Spotify, Yes,

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Speaker 3: and we are h O.

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Speaker 1: E V O C.

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Speaker 2: What do you what do you talk about it on

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Speaker 2: your podcast?

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Speaker 4: All think sex?

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Speaker 2: I love it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like whether it be from a sexual health perspective,

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Speaker 3: because I actually like if I have I actually had

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Speaker 3: doctor Rachel on there, so like I talked about I

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Speaker 3: talk about sex health, I talk about kinks here like

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Speaker 3: Daddy have Jess and Jasmine on there.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 3: I also tell my own story, so like if I

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Speaker 3: hear like a wild night, I get real into it,

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Speaker 3: all right, I love Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 1: Well, y'all, if you'll want to support Horrible Decisions, make

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Speaker 2: We have some dope content coming your way.

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Speaker 1: We're like vamping it. Yeah, we're revamping in a bit,

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Speaker 1: so y'all will see different I said that different types

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Speaker 1: of of content that we record, but also a lot,

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Speaker 1: a lot, a lot of bts from our Climax tour.

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Speaker 1: So if you want to go see some behind the

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Speaker 1: that we had during the Climax, go on there. Car,

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Speaker 1: getting a fight in a car. It's only fifty dollars.

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Speaker 2: I don't remember that. I'm joking. Oh, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: come on, I'm like.

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Speaker 1: You' Also go on over to patreon dot com backslash

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions and we will see y'all next week puts

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Speaker 1: the ass i'se. Thank you for tuning into yet another

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Speaker 1: episode of Horrible Decisions. Everybody. Bye The Hong Kong Cang

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