WEBVTT - Some Time With... Whit Hertford! (Part 1)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, Fanarritos, Welcome back to How Rude Tanertos. Today,

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<v Speaker 1>one of Fullhouse's most iconic guest stars is joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>We have wit Hertford aka duck Face with us on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast. Duckface's signature look arguably started a movement that

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<v Speaker 1>still floods our Instagram feeds to this day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true, it all started here.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a legendary look.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't wait to talk to wit about his time

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<v Speaker 1>on Full House and the other incredible projects he was

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<v Speaker 1>a part of. Please put your hands together for Wit.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so old. I'm so old that I'm literally doing

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<v Speaker 4>this off like the desktop screen top and the oh

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm eighty.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, No, you're in the right place. We are.

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<v Speaker 5>We really discuss every time on this show how old

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<v Speaker 5>we feel because technology is not our strong suit and

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<v Speaker 5>uh yeah it's you.

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<v Speaker 4>I try not to let that cat out of the bag,

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<v Speaker 4>like I really try to take it. I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm super good at it, right, I'm really really, really right,

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<v Speaker 4>because I don't want anybody to like I think he's lying.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we're also trained as actors, you know, to put

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<v Speaker 5>it on your special skills. Yes, I fire juggling, totally

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<v Speaker 5>done it make it work.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're like, yeah, technology, I'm great. I mean, what's happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we just watched your episode.

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<v Speaker 1>We just watched your episode last night, the first one

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<v Speaker 1>we're introduced, and oh.

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<v Speaker 3>My gosh, Yeah, you are just a vision.

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<v Speaker 1>You are a vision in your color blocking that outfit,

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<v Speaker 1>oh the sweater.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. We we make fun of ourselves a lot, and.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just giving Willy Wonka a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>It's really good wardrobe.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't it great?

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<v Speaker 5>The glasses, the corduroy pants. I mean I could hear

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<v Speaker 5>him from I could hear him from here.

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<v Speaker 4>It was good.

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<v Speaker 5>And did they have a It looked like they had

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<v Speaker 5>a patch on them. Did they have a patch on

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<v Speaker 5>them or were they like cargo corduroy.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I'd have to look at a photo.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, because there was like on the side of

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<v Speaker 5>them there was I was like, oh, is that a patch?

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like, is that Like are we trying

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<v Speaker 5>to show that maybe Walter like maybe doesn't have well

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<v Speaker 5>or that maybe he doesn't have a lot of money,

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<v Speaker 5>and so like that's part of it, you know what

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<v Speaker 5>I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like maybe his answer it.

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<v Speaker 4>Was poorly, poorly last were right?

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<v Speaker 5>Like I didn't know that, or if it was just

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<v Speaker 5>a fashion choice or just something on my screen.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It could have been any of those.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you were history is at all. I really would

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<v Speaker 4>have loved if we met mom and dad duck.

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<v Speaker 3>Face, mister and missus Duckface.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, the senior duck Face.

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<v Speaker 3>And why are his lips stuck in that position? I

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<v Speaker 3>want to know that who knows? Who knows that?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>Like sort of like my like classical training.

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<v Speaker 4>Later in life, I would have asked all of these questions,

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<v Speaker 4>but at ten, I was just sort of like I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>On TV, right, Yes, the same, It's all the same.

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<v Speaker 3>I just did the thing like this is fun. Now

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<v Speaker 3>win's lunch.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>So let's go let's go back back back because we

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<v Speaker 5>want to talk to you obviously about like your first

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<v Speaker 5>appearance as Duckface, but I mean you've you and your

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<v Speaker 5>your siblings have been actors and in the business for

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<v Speaker 5>quite a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>How old were you when you started acting?

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<v Speaker 4>The first thing I ever did was that four we

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<v Speaker 4>had moved here. My dad got a job at pepper

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<v Speaker 4>Dye teaching. He's a theater director and I auditioned like

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<v Speaker 4>crazy and did all the normal stuff, did the headshots,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think I had business cards with like an

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<v Speaker 4>ice cream cone that was falling, like really really cringe.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was a care Bear shoe commercial. It was

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<v Speaker 4>remember those remember this is how old we are too,

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<v Speaker 4>by the way, guys remember those shoe stores called Buster Brown.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a copro with Buster Brown and care Bears and

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<v Speaker 4>I was in a commercial with that, so I had

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<v Speaker 4>to like imagine care Bears and that was my first,

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<v Speaker 4>my first thing, and I remembered it. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was good that it was my first

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<v Speaker 4>thing because it was fun and it was a little weird.

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<v Speaker 3>So was this your choice to begin?

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<v Speaker 1>I get four, I don't know how much choice you

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<v Speaker 1>have to be like I'm going to be an actor?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no to your parents pushing you or.

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<v Speaker 2>This was all you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah no, I was precocious as hell, and like because

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<v Speaker 4>my parents' ractors, it just felt like, well, this is

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<v Speaker 4>what we do. This isn't our DNA. Thankfully, like in

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<v Speaker 4>a big sweeping sort of overview, you know, my parents,

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<v Speaker 4>especially my mom because she kind of raised this as

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<v Speaker 4>a single parent for majority of my life kept us

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<v Speaker 4>in public school. We didn't live in the city and

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<v Speaker 4>that was crucial. We lived in a Goora before it

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<v Speaker 4>was like Bougie and Erowong, when it was like Tumbleweeds,

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<v Speaker 4>and so that was cool because it was the beach

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<v Speaker 4>and it was horses, and it was public school. And

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<v Speaker 4>I think without that I would have been in a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of trouble. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think all three of us kind of had

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<v Speaker 5>that experience. We did like regular school, and all three

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<v Speaker 5>of us lived outside of a kind of Yeah we were

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<v Speaker 5>the Orange County, that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, you were the other side of the town.

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<v Speaker 5>But but yeah, I think I do think that that

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<v Speaker 5>helped a ton because it wasn't like quote unquote real

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<v Speaker 5>life was something that we had zero connection to or

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<v Speaker 5>that you know what I mean. It wasn't like we

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<v Speaker 5>were in this bubble of just only being in entertainment.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like, oh no, we knew what like regular

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<v Speaker 5>school people did you know?

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that was that was key.

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<v Speaker 1>It keeps you ground It keeps you grounded, and it

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<v Speaker 1>gives you perspective too of like hey, you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be fond over all the time or told you're

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful every single day, or you know, get people however.

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<v Speaker 4>You will, Yeah, totally, totally.

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<v Speaker 5>How So let's go, let's get to duck Face, because

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<v Speaker 5>I know that that is what people are dying to hear.

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<v Speaker 2>But let's get to duck base.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's get to duck Face. That's actually that's actually the

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<v Speaker 4>stint off. Let's get to duck fast.

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<v Speaker 2>But let's get to duck face.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's the new that. Yeah, that's the newest one.

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<v Speaker 5>And we find that really duck Face has been behind

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<v Speaker 5>all manner of things in the Tanner Fuller Future. He's

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like he's definitely their account for show easily.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like duck Face is helping that family figure

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<v Speaker 5>out how they pay for that house. Well, no one

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<v Speaker 5>really appears to be working that much, So good on you.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go. Now we're really getting you know.

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<v Speaker 5>Me, I'll I'll just start off in a direct and

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<v Speaker 5>a fanfic and we'll have a show in seven minutes.

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<v Speaker 5>But what do you remember what the casting process was

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<v Speaker 5>like for that episode for that character?

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<v Speaker 4>Simultaneously, vaguely and vividly, I remember going to the lot,

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<v Speaker 4>and I remember that it might have been pretty quick

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<v Speaker 4>from the initial to the callback. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>say same day, but there were a lot of times

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<v Speaker 4>that there were same day stuff and my poor mom

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<v Speaker 4>had to take her Thomas Brother Guide in her pager

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<v Speaker 4>and figure out we're paid for and I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>how that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we we have talked many times about the Thomas Guide.

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<v Speaker 2>And about how as kids we could.

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<v Speaker 5>I could navigate you cross country using a Thomas Kid

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<v Speaker 5>by the age of six, my mom my mom.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like, hey, dude, you're not getting your learners permit

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<v Speaker 4>unless you've got this thing fronted back. And I was

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<v Speaker 4>like brutal. Okay, oh I was.

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<v Speaker 2>We were at literally at five years old.

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<v Speaker 5>My mom was like okay, Jay four, okay, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>and it was like rating it and I remember, oh god,

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<v Speaker 5>finding knowing the best routes across town and which one's

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<v Speaker 5>like okay, we can't take the ten, but we can

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<v Speaker 5>take you know, will share all the way down or

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<v Speaker 5>something like just things like that that As a kid

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<v Speaker 5>navigating auditions, you you definitely learn. But yeah, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 5>it was a pretty quick thing.

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<v Speaker 4>So I remember being on a lot and then I

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<v Speaker 4>remember they were like, Okay, we're going to take it

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<v Speaker 4>to the soundstage. I don't even think i'd been on

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<v Speaker 4>a sound stage yet. I'd literally just done commercials the

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<v Speaker 4>Maybes and Peterson, and I knew, you know, I knew

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<v Speaker 4>the show is gigantic, and they were like, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>do warder fitting right now, like what? And I met

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<v Speaker 4>you and they like, I don't know if you remember that,

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<v Speaker 4>but I do remember. They like, had us have our

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<v Speaker 4>first little meet cute and it was like right, it

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<v Speaker 4>was it was big jokes, it was big, it was real,

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<v Speaker 4>big man, and I mean, we'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, do you remember this, Jodie. You have to say yes, because.

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<v Speaker 2>It was me.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember, and I don't remember what I had for

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<v Speaker 5>breakfast this morning, but I I, that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, let's do, let's go. I can act

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<v Speaker 4>with this check, Let's go.

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<v Speaker 5>And I do remember you and I had a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of fun together. Like you were a few years older

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<v Speaker 5>than me, so there was a little bit of an

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<v Speaker 5>age difference, but it never felt like.

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<v Speaker 4>Two younger sisters. And the one closest to me was

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<v Speaker 4>you know, my first best friend in life, and so

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<v Speaker 4>for together it was just me and her and we're

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<v Speaker 4>very different. She's I explained Chelsea as like if Ruth

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<v Speaker 4>Bader Ginsburg and Amy Poehler had a baby. She is

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<v Speaker 4>like a little four eleven tyrants, but very very funny,

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<v Speaker 4>the funniest of us all. And she's very stoic and

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<v Speaker 4>very pragmatic and I'm a limatic, So like we're very different.

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<v Speaker 4>But we were we and quick on and I think

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<v Speaker 4>that that's probably why you and I we we had

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<v Speaker 4>a good rapport.

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<v Speaker 2>So what was it like being that that first day?

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<v Speaker 2>Like was it?

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<v Speaker 5>I guess too, Like I we didn't the whole reason

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<v Speaker 5>we're doing this podcast because we didn't really watch the show,

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<v Speaker 5>So the whole idea that this show was like we

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<v Speaker 5>knew we got recognized, and we knew it was doing well.

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<v Speaker 2>But as little kids, you're.

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<v Speaker 5>Kind of you know, you're just like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>this is the thing I do and I go and

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<v Speaker 5>you know, so whenever guest stars would come or people

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<v Speaker 5>and they were like this is huge for us, it's

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<v Speaker 5>I still think of it as like really our little show,

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<v Speaker 5>like with our little people, you know, because it was

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<v Speaker 5>so normal and so not a huge thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I I remember it well, you can hear in

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<v Speaker 4>the taping. I haven't watched it for a long, long time.

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<v Speaker 4>I watch it every Sunday Night episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Right right, just to keep it fresh in case you're

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<v Speaker 2>asked to reprise the role.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I give myself a note.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, guy, Yeah, I mean thirty some odd years

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<v Speaker 5>of notes.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like at this point it's really dissected.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't nail it, you know, I didn't nail it, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm pretty upset about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's because you didn't have a backstory.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, you didn't know. You didn't know was it

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<v Speaker 5>a patch on his pants or not that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you can hear them when I when I the intro,

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<v Speaker 4>when I first arrived, there's like gasps and like there's

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<v Speaker 4>audible things and like very secluded laughter from you can

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<v Speaker 4>tell young boys, and those are all of them. They

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<v Speaker 4>all came to this. It was like my Scout troop.

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<v Speaker 4>They all came and you can hear their ice. I

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<v Speaker 4>can like say, oh, that's Ryan or that's Oh I'm.

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<v Speaker 5>Going to have to go back and hear that now,

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<v Speaker 5>because it's really really cute.

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<v Speaker 4>They were very you know it was. I mean, I've

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<v Speaker 4>always been a run I've always been the shortest due

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<v Speaker 4>in my class. I'm the shortest dude in my existence

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<v Speaker 4>as a forty five year old and but you know,

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<v Speaker 4>school was like a mixed bag, and most of the

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<v Speaker 4>time the friends were super supportive until you know they

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<v Speaker 4>you know, they'd be five or six yogals that we

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<v Speaker 4>get threatened. But when that gig happened, it was huge.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, and I you know, that was like kind

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<v Speaker 4>of a period. I would say, like this is when

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<v Speaker 4>I peaked of like ten to like fifteen, and then

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<v Speaker 4>I went and I did a lot of different stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>So Bohas is definitely the one who was like, all right,

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<v Speaker 4>let's go.

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<v Speaker 5>Was it like when you read the part of Duckface

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<v Speaker 5>where you like, oh, because I know, like as a

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<v Speaker 5>child actor, you know when we talked about it before too,

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<v Speaker 5>like there's things that you have to do where you're like,

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<v Speaker 5>it's fun in the moment and you're like, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>an actor and I'm having fun and being silly, but

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<v Speaker 5>then like you have this thought as pep where you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to pay for this when everyone sees it,

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<v Speaker 5>like everyone's gonna make.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun of me.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you not have any of that fear? And if not,

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<v Speaker 5>how did you do it? And how can I do

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<v Speaker 5>it now? Now?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I've just always been a freak. So I

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<v Speaker 4>think I took my jobs weirdly serious at time, and

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<v Speaker 4>so I knew that that was a character and it

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<v Speaker 4>was such a good, weird, specific character that I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I get to do a physical thing, I get to

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<v Speaker 4>wear glasses, I get to be kind of like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the patheticthetic part of it that I thought it was juicy,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was really I was happy about that. I

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<v Speaker 4>would pay for it later and I got routinely cast

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<v Speaker 4>as like nerd boy for a minute. But you know again,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm still that guy where like I've never you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I went to college for undergrad classical acting and then

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I've had a couple other lives seven of

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<v Speaker 4>my nine cat lives already, and and I've never been

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<v Speaker 4>the guy that's like, oh I want to win Best Actor.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, no supporting actor, Like I want to know what,

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<v Speaker 4>like the sidekick side Yeah, that's all.

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<v Speaker 5>You always get to have the most fun with that,

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<v Speaker 5>with the not the main character, but the one that's

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<v Speaker 5>a little quirky and offbeat totally.

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<v Speaker 4>And I also look in the mirror every day and

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<v Speaker 4>so I know my face looks like so it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>But you know what, though, I always think that there

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<v Speaker 5>is something to be said for being a consistently working

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<v Speaker 5>character or theater actor where you're like, I just get

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<v Speaker 5>to do what I love in all different kinds of variations,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't have to, like, you know, be perfect

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<v Speaker 5>for it. I don't have like I feel like that sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you know when.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the goal is to like be this thing, it's

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<v Speaker 5>you know, you lose some of the fun and the

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<v Speaker 5>playfulness and the outrageousness of acting and playing and doing

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<v Speaker 5>all that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think, you know, as kids, we got to

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<v Speaker 2>do it all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>I had a mentor in college that she was great.

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<v Speaker 4>She was from Britain and she I remember she cast

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<v Speaker 4>me in this one role that was like the leading

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<v Speaker 4>name and I looked at her and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>what are you doing? And she was like, I think

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<v Speaker 4>you need to work on Well. I'll get emotional about

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<v Speaker 4>it because it's kind of stayed with me forever that

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<v Speaker 4>you're not and that you have the strength, and I

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<v Speaker 4>think you're handsome, and I think that you're charming, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think you're all the qualities of the leading man.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't know that yet, and you need to. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>good God, what a lesson.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know, a good teacher and a good acting

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<v Speaker 5>class is really just on your feet therapy, working through

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<v Speaker 5>various things.

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Sarah Ship and she's not dead. She's

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<v Speaker 4>still loves but she yeah she was. She was incremental

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<v Speaker 4>and yeah, so I'll drop her.

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<v Speaker 1>Like being the leading man for the first time, did

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<v Speaker 1>you end up believing in yourself that you're enough?

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<v Speaker 4>I started filing into this thing because then during my

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<v Speaker 4>second tour of duty here in La I started a

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<v Speaker 4>film company, like in my twenties, because I was just

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<v Speaker 4>I was auditioning for a lot of physical gags, right,

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<v Speaker 4>So I was doing improv in my twenties. I was

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<v Speaker 4>at UCB when it first started. Did that for seven years,

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<v Speaker 4>ran the gamut because I was like, you know, when

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<v Speaker 4>you're five to one, you should at least be funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's figure it out. So did all that and we

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<v Speaker 4>started this little, tiny independent film company. And I remember

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<v Speaker 4>telling the guy that ended up directing all of it

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<v Speaker 4>was doing a lot of the camera operating. I said,

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<v Speaker 4>I want to do the non traditional man Ben Stiller

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<v Speaker 4>or not as saving to save these days Woody Allen.

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<v Speaker 4>But that I kind of got addicted to the idea

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<v Speaker 4>of making that work. And the first short film we

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<v Speaker 4>did is just like a little round commerce me in

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<v Speaker 4>a five 't ten blonde actress that I met in

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<v Speaker 4>improv class. Her name is Norika Patrick and she used

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<v Speaker 4>to play in Edward Sharp and she's a phone director.

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<v Speaker 4>Now that was a just on this, you know theme

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<v Speaker 4>of sort of me figuring that out. I remember when

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<v Speaker 4>to a couple of festivals and these old ladies, and

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<v Speaker 4>the audiences they were like I forgot how short you

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<v Speaker 4>were within five minutes because the chemistry was so good,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, okay, cool, gool cool, cool.

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<v Speaker 5>What an amazing I mean that what a testament to

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<v Speaker 5>like reminding people that it's you know, the outer stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>the outer package is not the most interesting part of anything.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it's not the most interesting part to watch

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<v Speaker 5>on screen. It's not the most interesting part to you know,

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<v Speaker 5>watch in real life. Like it's the underneath stuff that

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<v Speaker 5>makes someone attractive or interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. And because I you know, I'm like semi retired

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<v Speaker 4>from acting, I get pulled out once in a while,

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<v Speaker 4>but I might have like a resurgence in my brain

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<v Speaker 4>and then my old here because I've kind of felt

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<v Speaker 4>like the older gray or balder I get, the more

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<v Speaker 4>interesting I am, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you know what it is.

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<v Speaker 5>It's the it's uh the less you give too, Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>you get like as all I am in my forties

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<v Speaker 5>now and it's I'm they're just they're flying off daily

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<v Speaker 5>and it's so great. But I think that makes for

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<v Speaker 5>like a whole It's sort of a creative resurgence because

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<v Speaker 5>all of a sudden you're like, wait, all the stuff

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<v Speaker 5>that I kind of didn't try or think I could

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<v Speaker 5>or what I want to do it now?

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<v Speaker 2>Like what do I have to lose? Who cares?

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<v Speaker 5>It's sort of like the good side of a of

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<v Speaker 5>a a midlife crisis, but a midlife questioning, a midlife

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<v Speaker 5>digging deeper of what's next.

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<v Speaker 4>Forty five year old is the best version if you're

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<v Speaker 4>buying action figures, that's the one we get. And like

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<v Speaker 4>it took a bit, I mean, you know, not to

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<v Speaker 4>be like overly whatever, but my my pizza and valleys.

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<v Speaker 4>I really have lived seven of my nine cat lives.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm not tired, and I feel like it's it's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of the killer second half of my book that

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<v Speaker 4>I'm excited about because and this is going to sound

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<v Speaker 4>really hippie dippy and preach, you know, I lived a

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<v Speaker 4>part of my life and not even though I was healthy.

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<v Speaker 4>I lived a large part of my life not only

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<v Speaker 4>growing up in the industry, as you guys know, but

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<v Speaker 4>I also grew up very, very religious, and although we

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<v Speaker 4>didn't really wear it on our sleeves, it was a

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<v Speaker 4>part of my life every day week and my friends

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<v Speaker 4>were a part of it, all that stuff. And so

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<v Speaker 4>when I came to that sort of crossroads late in life,

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<v Speaker 4>like in my twenties, where I was like is this

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<v Speaker 4>for me? I just learned a lot about them myself.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I think that most people, or at least

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<v Speaker 4>a fall amount of people, don't get the opportunity to

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<v Speaker 4>push pause on their life and really separate and do

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<v Speaker 4>it's kind of a cliche term, but to do their

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<v Speaker 4>work and to to really figure out who you are internally,

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<v Speaker 4>so the second half of your life can be for

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<v Speaker 4>you rather than the expectation of other people.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's brilliant, as I think the three of us

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<v Speaker 5>here have all done a lot of that work.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, yay therapy, yay therapy.

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<v Speaker 5>If we're always on the show, like therapy is, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>talk to people, talk to do the work.

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<v Speaker 2>Do the work.

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<v Speaker 4>I started painting in my forties. Yes, I have no training.

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<v Speaker 4>My sister's the painter. She has two visual arts degrees.

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<v Speaker 4>I was doing. I was doing a player. I was

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<v Speaker 4>playing Oedipus and it's really fed up thing I wrote

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<v Speaker 4>with Antigony and Oedipus and it was sort of I

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<v Speaker 4>fictionally called it lars w and Sophocles because it looked

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<v Speaker 4>like a lars warm true right, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>for this, like research, I want to like fiddle around

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<v Speaker 4>the painting I've literally never taken seriously. So I asked

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<v Speaker 4>my sister. I was like, what do I get? Where

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<v Speaker 4>I get them? What do I go to Michael's? Do

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<v Speaker 4>I go to blin?

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<v Speaker 2>What I did?

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<v Speaker 4>And she was giving me some pointed She's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>how fun. And I started banging it out and because

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<v Speaker 4>full circle, I got zero to good. I can approach

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<v Speaker 4>this art form which normally you're gonna get stuck and

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<v Speaker 4>tricky if you overthink it and if you judge it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't care. So I just threw it down. I

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<v Speaker 4>showed her a picture of this guy and she didn't

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<v Speaker 4>tunk me for three weeks because she was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>so pissed that you're just like good at you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I like I started selling them stuff and

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<v Speaker 4>she was I was like, look, also, we can't get

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<v Speaker 4>the ten and bombs and we can't have like sibling

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<v Speaker 4>rivalry in authority. You're always going to be better than me.

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<v Speaker 4>But I have to do this for my swit. So like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>this is the reason I bring it up is not

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<v Speaker 4>to tell promote, but like this is an example of

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<v Speaker 4>me not caring, not care.

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<v Speaker 5>I have a dear friend of mine, Jen passed alof

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<v Speaker 5>who is an incredible author and wrote a book, a

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<v Speaker 5>memoir called On Being Human, which I highly recommend if

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<v Speaker 5>you're looking to do it. But she's a dear friend

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<v Speaker 5>of mine, and she did the same thing. She was

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<v Speaker 5>going through a divorce and all of a sudden, it's

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<v Speaker 5>like she just has all of this energy. She's more

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<v Speaker 5>probably add than I am, but I love her and

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<v Speaker 5>she just started painting and like she's really great.

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<v Speaker 2>And.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's that reminder that like, just try new things,

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<v Speaker 5>try new ways of expressing yourself, particularly at this time

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<v Speaker 5>in your life when you're like, oh wait, I actually

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<v Speaker 5>care a lot less about what people think. Go find

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<v Speaker 5>ways to be create, are artistically creative, and let that

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<v Speaker 5>part of your soul out, because I think we spend

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<v Speaker 5>like the first half of our lives really trying to

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<v Speaker 5>fit in the box that everyone else builds for us,

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<v Speaker 5>and then we spend the second half like taking that

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<v Speaker 5>box apart and building our own, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Well totally, And that's the thing that like not to

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<v Speaker 4>get into the weeds about, but like with a a

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<v Speaker 4>giant backplack of religious trauma, I really had to figure

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<v Speaker 4>out you know, oh my gosh, some of these little

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<v Speaker 4>tic tac things were literally things I was just saluting to.

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<v Speaker 4>These decisions were not my decisions at all, and they

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<v Speaker 4>formed a lot of stuff. So there has been a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of untethering. And they call it with faith crisis

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<v Speaker 4>is deprogramming, and it's been really interesting. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 4>not right for everybody. I don't want to like talk

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<v Speaker 4>about that and then be a hypocrite by preaching about

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<v Speaker 4>not doing that.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I think, well, I think like with anything that

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<v Speaker 5>you know, de feminism all that the thing is that

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<v Speaker 5>you have the choice if this is something of a

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<v Speaker 5>journey that you want to take and something that isn't

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<v Speaker 5>working for you, then go go take that journey. If

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<v Speaker 5>the faith is working for you, you feel cool with it,

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<v Speaker 5>then that works for you. You know, it's all about choice.

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<v Speaker 5>But I love that, like, this is the journey that

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<v Speaker 5>you've been on, and I think so many of our

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<v Speaker 5>listeners will really connect with that, and also the idea

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<v Speaker 5>of like knowing you as sort of this you know,

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<v Speaker 5>Walter Duckface character and then like you had to deal

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<v Speaker 5>with some of those real life things in your own

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<v Speaker 5>life and come through it just like Walter would have

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<v Speaker 5>probably had we followed along on his story and figured

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<v Speaker 5>out who he was at forty five.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, so like I'm not I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>Lying what I'm telling you that in was it college

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<v Speaker 4>or was it high school? I think it was like

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<v Speaker 4>early college. I went on two separtates. I remember this vividly,

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<v Speaker 4>and and they both said, you know, and moments where

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<v Speaker 4>it's like, oh, okay, maybe this is when we kiss

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<v Speaker 4>and they said, am I your secret girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, no, right, no, yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah yeah, Ben, Yeah, that's paying that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh And I was like shops clothed, shops closed, that

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<v Speaker 4>was real weird. Yeah, that's a deal breaker, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like that's that's a note for Meg.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's you know, it's amazing how many people out

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<v Speaker 5>there think that that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I guess, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I think they're intentional. I think the intention is fir.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess it's always the thing that I say to

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<v Speaker 5>people where I go, you know, people like, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 5>you're famous, Like, isn't that cool? And I always say that, like,

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<v Speaker 5>I think the idea of being known and famous, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>is really great. But when you try that on, there

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<v Speaker 5>are definitely certain parts of it that that irritate, you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>That are great.

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<v Speaker 5>Certain parts of it look amazing and fabulous and it's

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<v Speaker 5>all you know, you feel great, and but then certain

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<v Speaker 5>parts of it are just constantly irritating and itchy as

0:25:48.119 --> 0:25:50.399
<v Speaker 5>you wear that that idea of There was.

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<v Speaker 4>A long time when I really really tried desperately to

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<v Speaker 4>separate myself from being a kid actor, even I was

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<v Speaker 4>still acting, even though I still love theaters and I

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<v Speaker 4>was entrenched in it and discovering it like having a

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<v Speaker 4>love affair with it for the first time all over again.

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<v Speaker 4>But I tried really hard to kind of separate myself.

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<v Speaker 4>And then the pandemic happened and I had and I

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<v Speaker 4>think you guys know this world too. Now. I'd never

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<v Speaker 4>done any conventions, and because I have some horror stuff

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<v Speaker 4>and some animation stuff and nostalgia stuff like that, Like

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<v Speaker 4>I could go and kind of reach a bunch of

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<v Speaker 4>different boxes, but I'd never done it because I was

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<v Speaker 4>maybe pretentious, maybe just like shy about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, there is a certain element of being like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, do it like does this feel weird?

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<v Speaker 5>Does it feel you know? And now I actually love

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<v Speaker 5>doing them because the fans.

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<v Speaker 4>Love it, like I do them now all the time,

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<v Speaker 4>and they're so sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>It's such a joy to be able to go and

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<v Speaker 5>have people respond so positively. And I think also that

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<v Speaker 5>is something that comes with age, I will say it,

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<v Speaker 5>the the understanding and.

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<v Speaker 2>Appreciation of just what these characters mean to people.

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<v Speaker 5>I think does it hit you until you're of that

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<v Speaker 5>age where you go, oh yeah, yeah, Like my childhood

0:27:13.000 --> 0:27:17.200
<v Speaker 5>memories are like that too, you know, and it once

0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:19.040
<v Speaker 5>you have enough distance from it, you're like, Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 5>not all I am. But I'm okay with leaning into

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<v Speaker 5>that part.

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<v Speaker 4>Well. And here's a really cool thing that I've been

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<v Speaker 4>sort of obsessed with lately. This thought is that you know. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>it's great to not live your life in sort of

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:40.000
<v Speaker 4>a narcissistic, self serving way, but also to be of service. Right, So, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in a play right now that I wrote that

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to do here in September, here in La.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a big bucket list thing for me, and I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to act in it. And I've directed eighteen of

0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 4>my theater company's shows previously, all of them. And it's

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<v Speaker 4>a checkoff play. I'm obsessed with check off. I could

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<v Speaker 4>do four hours.

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<v Speaker 2>What plays that. I love Chekhov It's Van.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I'm playing Van. Yet you have to come.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to come, okay.

0:28:12.640 --> 0:28:14.960
<v Speaker 4>Because here's the other thing. I love Chekov And not

0:28:15.040 --> 0:28:16.840
<v Speaker 4>to like throw a shade or seem like I'm a

0:28:16.840 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 4>bitter dude. I'm just really punk rock this way. Like

0:28:19.520 --> 0:28:21.600
<v Speaker 4>there's been a couple Bondies this year. It seemed quite

0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:24.439
<v Speaker 4>precious and quite American, and what I wanted was to

0:28:24.440 --> 0:28:27.480
<v Speaker 4>get to like the teeth and the backbone. Anyway, point

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<v Speaker 4>of this whole story, outside of clearly pleasure.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that you should We would ask you do you

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:33.920
<v Speaker 5>have stuff to play?

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<v Speaker 2>And this? Yeah? This, I will be there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is it there and my company is called

0:28:39.880 --> 0:28:43.400
<v Speaker 4>a Riot Act and we're on Instagram or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 4>the part of it was that, like I, I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>want to do double duty and direct and a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of acting. I just not I didn't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>So I wrote the adaptation. And then I met this dude.

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<v Speaker 4>He's he's a kid, twenty three. He took this sort

0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 4>of weirdo acting workshop I taught last year, and he's

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<v Speaker 4>a cal Arts grad and he's he's a genius. And

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, you know what, here's where people at our

0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:16.720
<v Speaker 4>age go. They don't look towards the past from the

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 4>people that inspired them, and they certainly don't look at

0:29:19.480 --> 0:29:21.960
<v Speaker 4>like the younger generation and going like you have something

0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:24.920
<v Speaker 4>to say that I really need to hear. They're finished products,

0:29:25.240 --> 0:29:29.000
<v Speaker 4>they're baked in and that is totally where you get

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<v Speaker 4>in trouble.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, as we get older, we get more set in

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<v Speaker 5>our ways, and that's like the worst possible thing for

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<v Speaker 5>creativity and just humans really like always be learning and

0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:40.800
<v Speaker 5>changing addition stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm excited because I've just kind of said, hey, man,

0:29:44.440 --> 0:29:47.840
<v Speaker 4>here's my brand, here's my baby that I established in

0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:50.440
<v Speaker 4>London that like, you know, I don't have kids, so

0:29:50.520 --> 0:29:55.600
<v Speaker 4>my plays are my kids. And I said, I'm gonna

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:57.680
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna let you take them for the weekend. And

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<v Speaker 4>I want you to like, take this play and do

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<v Speaker 4>it your way, don't try to impress me. And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just gonna be of service to you to send the

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<v Speaker 4>elevator back down to give it to people, and to say,

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<v Speaker 4>here's the stuff I've learned, take it or leave it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's kind of what I live for these days. I

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<v Speaker 4>live for being like some strange stage guru pirate. That's

0:30:22.680 --> 0:30:23.320
<v Speaker 4>what I want to be.

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<v Speaker 5>I am totally here for your strange sage guru pirate era.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's excellent.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we all need a stage guru pirate in

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<v Speaker 5>our corner who will tell us the truth. And I

0:30:35.680 --> 0:30:39.160
<v Speaker 5>love hearing about your all of your nine lives. And

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<v Speaker 5>this wraps up part one of our interview with the

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<v Speaker 5>beloved wit Hertford, known to our dear fan of Rito's

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<v Speaker 5>as Duckface. Although I hate that he still has that moniker, but.

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<v Speaker 3>It just it's gonna follow him every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, it's what it is.

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<v Speaker 5>But wit has shared so many incredible memories with us already,

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<v Speaker 5>but there's still so much more to dive into, so

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<v Speaker 5>make sure to join us this Friday for part two

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<v Speaker 5>with Wit and We're so glad you joined us for

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<v Speaker 5>another episode of how Rude Tanner Rito's. If you're looking

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<v Speaker 5>of How Rude Tana Rito's. Now, I feel like we

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<v Speaker 5>changed the outro?

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<v Speaker 4>We did?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you write it down?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh crap?

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<v Speaker 3>And we don't have a bracelet. We don't have a

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<v Speaker 3>cheat sheet.

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<v Speaker 5>You see this is I'm out here, I'm flying blind.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh oh wait, I remember what it was. It was?

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<v Speaker 5>It was, uh, the world is the world is full,

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<v Speaker 5>but the door is always open.

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<v Speaker 2>Now the world is small, but the door is always open.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that was I think that might sounds right.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, we'll go with that this week until you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I get a braceletter, write it down.