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Speaker 1: Hi, and it's Matt too. And this is a really

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Speaker 1: fun episode. We're about to get into it, but wanted

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Speaker 1: to just say up top, this is with Tyler Henry Hollywood.

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Speaker 2: Medium, and we had such a great time with him.

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Speaker 2: And part of the setup for the episode is that

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Speaker 2: he gave us a reading that was captured on audio

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Speaker 2: and video. So once the YouTube comes out, check that

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Speaker 2: out on video. But we're going to put that audio

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Speaker 2: portion at the beginning of this episode.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then we start the episode with Tyler. So

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Speaker 1: we walked in, we really didn't like say much to him.

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Speaker 1: We sat down, we started the reading. That's what we

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Speaker 1: were told to do. And here are our readings followed

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Speaker 1: by the episode with Tyler.

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Speaker 3: Enjoy Now, the less I know, the better generally going

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Speaker 3: into all of these things because I never want to

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Speaker 3: have bias kind of impede what I do. So with

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Speaker 3: two people, kind of go back and forth, scribbling just

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Speaker 3: kind of my way of turning on and I aim

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Speaker 3: for about eighty percent to connect, but there might be

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Speaker 3: a twenty percent portion we check with other friends or family.

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Speaker 4: I want to go I'm going to go back and forth.

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Speaker 4: I gotta highlight this guy that's coming through. I'm already

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Speaker 4: starting to smith. That's good. I'm going to start with you,

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Speaker 3: So when we talk with you, I want to kind of,

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Speaker 3: this guy that's coming through who's hitting me on a

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Speaker 3: This is not a recent passing, something that would have

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Speaker 3: been kind of long ago. They showed me this dichotomy

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Speaker 3: So if somebody wasn't able to meet a grandparent or

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Speaker 3: There is an aspect there that does come through within family,

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Speaker 3: and it would have been quite some time ago. Without

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Speaker 3: I don't mean to laugh, but there's kind of a

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Speaker 3: That basically indicates that someone's physicality felt older than they

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Speaker 4: A little past middle age. If I had to say.

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Speaker 3: Just in the realm that it's kind of hitting me,

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Speaker 4: So that guy pops in really really clearly.

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Speaker 3: There's a funniness around a confusion of you know, when

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Speaker 3: it's kind of a feeling like it's all good. I

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Speaker 4: To kind of do that.

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Speaker 3: But it definitely comes in as a feeling of wanting

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Speaker 3: this is good to keep in mind for you, Bowen.

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Speaker 3: Within family, keep in mind they do put an emphasis

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Speaker 3: And some of these things might like immediately connect. Some

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Speaker 3: The way I would word this is it doesn't seem

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Speaker 3: There is this dynamic people coming together. There's acknowledgement of

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Speaker 4: They're bringing that up in a very very positive, hopeful sense.

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Speaker 3: There is kind of an odd element that comes through

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Speaker 3: And then I'm seeing funny but history. So if there's

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Speaker 4: There is an acknowledgment.

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Speaker 3: Do you have a sister, I do, okay, So just

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Speaker 3: I do want to bring up also an acknowledgement around

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Speaker 3: to talk about your grandpa's namesake and how his name

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Speaker 3: She has me feeling thin, like I got thin and

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Speaker 3: It's very much that this would be something that would

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Speaker 4: I was bringing one up.

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Speaker 3: And the way I would word this is there just

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Speaker 1: Get on the thousands of people along way in the

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Speaker 1: he's a television star, he's incredible at what he does.

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Speaker 1: We're going to get into it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just launched the collective, he's going on tour. Yes,

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Speaker 3: Henry, Oh my goodness, I saw this coming.

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Speaker 1: How was that for you?

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Speaker 3: It's so interesting going into because you never know what's

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you were saying that you view what you do

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Speaker 2: like for you to sort of go there?

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00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like what happens? Yeah?

443
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 3: Well, you know, it's not like Oda Mae Brown. My

444
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,880
Speaker 3: head doesn't spin around and the spirits are in my ear.

445
00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:40,719
Speaker 3: But it is one of those things where I get

446
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,439
Speaker 3: into an altered state of consciousness where I basically just

447
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,800
Speaker 3: actively daydream and it's what a lot of people do

448
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,120
Speaker 3: in high school and they're sitting there and the teachers

449
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,200
Speaker 3: more I want. Yeah, But in my case, I've learned

450
00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,719
Speaker 3: how to kind of refine it paired with scribbling, and

451
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,159
Speaker 3: that allows me to kind of pick up on subtle nuances,

452
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,159
Speaker 3: things that I think we all are exposed to but

453
00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,440
Speaker 3: often miss because of our own implice biases. So when

454
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,720
Speaker 3: I get in that state, I oftentimes will get parallels

455
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 3: between my own life and the person I'm reading. Then if,

456
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,879
Speaker 3: for example, someone has a Henry and my name is

457
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 3: Tyler Henry, sometimes I'll see myself as an image.

458
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 1: Did you just see that that's weird. O.

459
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,119
Speaker 2: Mind, God, I've got I've got a Henry.

460
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 1: That's important.

461
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:19,639
Speaker 4: It's funny because of that name and the way it

462
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 4: comes through. It's just like right there.

463
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:24,000
Speaker 3: But they use me as a way to kind of

464
00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:27,440
Speaker 3: communicate their message. So my own lived experiences, things have

465
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 3: gone through, they draw parallels and it reflects that consciousness

466
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:32,920
Speaker 3: is so much more than just one thing.

467
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have to say, like just to speak about

468
00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:39,000
Speaker 1: the reading right now, Like I don't know if this

469
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,200
Speaker 1: is something that you like to have after the reading,

470
00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,439
Speaker 1: but I do want to let you know that my

471
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,199
Speaker 1: grandfather's name was John. So was his son. So was

472
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 1: his son. So when you talked about the namesake being

473
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:53,360
Speaker 1: passed down, that really resonated. And also my grandfather did

474
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 1: pass away of a heart attack when my mother was

475
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,439
Speaker 1: twenty seven, the year before I was born. And actually

476
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,640
Speaker 1: as a result of that tragic happening, it was actually

477
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 1: my parents had broken up and they got back together

478
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: because I think they realized that like life was too

479
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 1: short and they were in love. And so you spoke

480
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 1: a little bit about the grandmother. They were divorced, and

481
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 1: it was like a tougher family situation because my uncle was,

482
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 1: he had many problems. He's also deceased, and it was

483
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: a tough relationship with my grandfather, who I didn't know.

484
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 1: But when you talk about the passing down of the

485
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: name and that toughness down the patriarchal line and on

486
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 1: my mother's side of the family, it is really really hard.

487
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: And my mother has a sister, Katrina and Christina, you know, like,

488
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 1: so I think that the du out like like kind

489
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: of a thing, and that rang true as well. And

490
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 1: to hear that she's on the other side feeling chill

491
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: and especially wanting them to know that she was not

492
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 1: in pain at the end of her life, because she

493
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: did kind of waste away, I mean.

494
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 5: Dementure got very very bad for her.

495
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 1: So to hear that she wasn't hungry and suffering is

496
00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,919
Speaker 1: really going to help because I think that obviously she

497
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:03,200
Speaker 1: couldn't communicate what she was feeling. Right, So that's all

498
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 1: really really interesting. And you also said I'll watch my stomach,

499
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 1: and I will watch that, yes, but I have to

500
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: say I was really struck by what you received.

501
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got some pretty pretty poignant stuff, are you.

502
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 2: I mean, as it's coming to you, I think extemporaneously

503
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 2: you are saying very sophisticated You're expressing very sophisticated ideas,

504
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,199
Speaker 2: and I wonder if there is a lag between what

505
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 2: you're receiving and how you put it into words.

506
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:30,679
Speaker 3: Do you feel that, Yeah, I kind of like in

507
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 3: my job to that of like a mailman in the

508
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 3: sense that I don't write the letters.

509
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 4: I just kind of deliver the message.

510
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 3: I also drop parallels kind of between asl interpreters, right,

511
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:41,199
Speaker 3: So there's an interpretive element for sure, And when I

512
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 3: do my job correctly, the message gets delivered, but there

513
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 3: is a period of kind of having to assess, you know,

514
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 3: do I deliver it exactly as I'm receiving it?

515
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,439
Speaker 4: Do I keep in mind a bedside manner? You know?

516
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 3: And this job has made me very diplomatic in my

517
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 3: ability to relay sometimes really tough things in ways where

518
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 3: I understand what's being said, the person I'm reading understands

519
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 3: what's being said, but maybe everyone else watching doesn't.

520
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 2: How is it to like, I feel like people direct

521
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 2: a lot of emotion at you. Yes, in the physical world,

522
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 2: not to mention, you know, everything beyond that, but like,

523
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: is that a little is there a stress test that

524
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 2: you've sort of like familiarized yourself with, like, there has

525
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 2: to be a point where that kind of buckles a bit.

526
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 4: It's intense, you know.

527
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 3: I think by nature what I do is pretty ambiguous, right.

528
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 3: It exists out of really this quantifiable thing. It's not

529
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 3: scientifically proven as of yet, and I don't even think

530
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:39,239
Speaker 3: it's necessarily a scientific claim for me. This exists more

531
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 3: in the realm of creativity than it does science.

532
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 1: Now.

533
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 3: I have had my brain scan during a reading by

534
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 3: scientists who have acknowledged that there's something weird going on

535
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 3: in this noggin as I scribble and essence to go

536
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 3: into a sleep state, and it was covered in the

537
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 3: actual last episode of my show Hollywood Medium.

538
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 4: So I've been kind of.

539
00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 3: Put to the test in essence, I've shown a willingness

540
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 3: to to go to a laboratory get hooked up see

541
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:02,879
Speaker 3: if anything's happening.

542
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 4: But I really view it more subjective.

543
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 3: It's like a piece of art in that if I

544
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 3: paint you a picture, it's going to have more meaning

545
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 3: because it's for you.

546
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 4: And if someone else sees.

547
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 3: That picture, they might go, oh I could paint that,

548
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 3: or oh that's not a very great picture. But if

549
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,439
Speaker 3: it means something the person I'm reading, then that for

550
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,120
Speaker 3: me is the point implicitly, would.

551
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 1: Do you remember the first time that you felt something

552
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 1: was different about the way you were perceiving the world

553
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 1: and the beyond, Like, do you remember the first time

554
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 1: that that happened?

555
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 4: You know?

556
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 3: I found that when I really was ten years old,

557
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 3: in April of two thousand and six, I had my

558
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 3: first premonition of my grandmother's death. But there were so

559
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 3: many moments as a kid, as an only child who

560
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 3: very much was a loner and very much kept to myself,

561
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 3: that I found that I would just so often see

562
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 3: myself and other people. And it's kind of a hard

563
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 3: thing to explain, but I never truly felt alone, despite

564
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 3: spending a lot of time alone. And when I would

565
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 3: say with people, we'd oftentimes go into these really deep conversations.

566
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 3: Even when I was a kid, and even when talking

567
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,479
Speaker 3: to adults, I could just tell was not normal. And

568
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 3: so I found that often what I was guided to

569
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 3: discuss with people, they would acknowledge as being timely or

570
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,120
Speaker 3: maybe important, or maybe something on their heart.

571
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 4: And then I kind of learned, Okay, there's something to this.

572
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 3: There's an intuition behind why I'm bringing up the things

573
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 3: I bring up.

574
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: Yes, now on that topic of like guidance or being guided,

575
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 2: how much of what your reception is is like your

576
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: own intuition, something in the form of a guide, something

577
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 2: in the form of what is kind of like kinetically

578
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 2: happening through the scribbles, Like how does that all come

579
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 2: together for you on sure Cauria, Well.

580
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 3: The scribbles just kind of act as a process that

581
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 3: allows me to open up and kind of turn on,

582
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 3: so that when I'm not scribbling, I can kind of

583
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,639
Speaker 3: turn off and maintain a conversation.

584
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 4: But when I open.

585
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 3: Up, you know, it's basically a process in which there

586
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 3: are a lot of impressions that I have to navigate

587
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 3: and then deliver and very oftentimes you know, it'll be

588
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 3: very clear, and then other times I have to make

589
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 3: inferences based off of the symbology that comes through, so

590
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 3: it gets kind of convoluted sometimes in an in certain explanations.

591
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 3: I think there's an aspect of intuitive poll that one

592
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 3: might have sometimes just to say things, and even if

593
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 3: you don't know where it's coming from, if it makes sense,

594
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 3: you know it has.

595
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: I wonder too, like so when this is when you

596
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 1: were very young that you first realized is what.

597
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 4: Nine ten years old?

598
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: Yes, So that's usually the age too when you start

599
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: realizing a lot of things about yourself. So there's a

600
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 1: lot to reconcile. You're becoming yourself and you're stepping into

601
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: your identity. And also there's this other thing. I wonder like,

602
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: when you were younger, did you experience like overwhelm and

603
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,640
Speaker 1: anxiety about this stuff and like your mother figures into

604
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: your show, Yes, but I wonder like, how difficult was

605
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 1: that to have not only the burden of growing up

606
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: and everything that comes with that no matter who you are,

607
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 1: but also this other thing and how did that manifest

608
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: itself in your life?

609
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:48,400
Speaker 4: Yeah?

610
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 3: You know, I think in many ways I'm thankful for

611
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,719
Speaker 3: being gay, Yeah, because I feel like it helped me,

612
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 3: from a very early age understand that there are going

613
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 3: to be people who inherently don't like you for being different,

614
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 3: and coming to that conclude vision was tough pill to swallow,

615
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 3: especially if someone was sensitive and still very sensitive.

616
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I learned to kind of reframe it.

617
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 3: To view it as something that was worth having courage for,

618
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 3: and that individuality and that self sacrifice ultimately was worth it,

619
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 3: and I think is worth it for anybody who can

620
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 3: live and be true to who they are, you know,

621
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 3: the world responds. But it was a challenge a group

622
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 3: in a very conservative household who a lot of Christians,

623
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 3: in particular of the denomination I came from, you know,

624
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 3: were not into mediums, felt that it was the devil

625
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 3: and being villainized in that way. I think a lot

626
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 3: of gay people can't relate to being told there's.

627
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 4: Something wrong with you.

628
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 3: But to be able to then take a step back

629
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 3: and realize that what makes us unique is our superpower,

630
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 3: that it's one of the greatest gifts we can give

631
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 3: to the world, is that courage to be true to

632
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 3: who we are and what makes us different. And that's

633
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 3: the lesson I learned in California.

634
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 4: I did Central California. It's a lot of agriculture.

635
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 3: We got cows, we got prisons, we got we got

636
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 3: colcim persons. If you get in trouble, you just walk

637
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 3: across the street and they just put you in the

638
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

639
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 1: I mean, like growing up there, do.

640
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 2: You feel this like directional poll to the cities in

641
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 2: the state, Like right, Like was that always like a

642
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 2: target you were calling? Like if I had my brothers.

643
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 2: Once I get them, I'm gonna I'm gonna skip up town.

644
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 3: Yes, well, you know I was looking if Hanford had

645
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 3: a train station and they would take us to LA.

646
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 4: When I was but a munchkin. I was a I

647
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 4: don't know that's politically correct.

648
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 5: I was little.

649
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 4: I was I was under eighteen, I was around sixteen seventeen.

650
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 3: I would hop on the train and go to LA

651
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 3: and sometimes I'd tell my parents sometimes I wouldn't be

652
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 3: like later. And you know, that allowed me to both

653
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 3: have an identity, have some individuality, have some freedom, never

654
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 3: got in any trouble short.

655
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 4: Of a couple of things. Yeah, but that allowed me

656
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 4: to really put it to the test and be able

657
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 4: to see that I can rely on myself, that there

658
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 4: is hope, and that if you stick around, you know,

659
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 4: life generally does get better.

660
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. And so at what point, like you talk about

661
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: growing up in California, you know you're drawn to LA.

662
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Speaker 1: Eventually you do move there. And we have Tyler Henry

663
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: Hollywood Medium, which is really the show that puts you

664
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: on the map. So the conceit of that show is

665
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,959
Speaker 1: Tyler doesn't know celebrities, like he doesn't know who these

666
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: people are. He's coming in blind. I wonder, like, now

667
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: clear of that show, like how true was that? And

668
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: also when someone walked in and you did know them,

669
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Speaker 1: does that change your process totally?

670
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Speaker 3: So when it came to that, I genuinely was never

671
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 3: told where I was going or who I was reading,

672
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 3: And especially in season one, I was a baby. I

673
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 3: came in this little town that it really just wasn't

674
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 3: very interested in pop culture or even really television. And

675
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 3: so naturally, as my career started being warrented around celebrities,

676
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 3: it became one of the more frustrating aspects of my

677
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 3: job reading people who have everything about them on the

678
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 3: internet and even fans of them who oftentimes know their

679
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 3: entire history, and then by genuinely not knowing who they were,

680
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 3: I wouldn't know what they discussed in an interview or

681
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 3: what was public or what was even obvious sometimes and

682
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 3: that was one of the downsides of actually not knowing

683
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 3: what I was going into.

684
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Speaker 1: And I guess that would feed like a skepticism on

685
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Speaker 1: the audience's part, where you know, Khlae Kardashkian comes in

686
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: and sits down and then there's you like and the

687
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: conceit is he doesn't know who that is, but I

688
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: believe that, yeah.

689
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 4: Well there was one of you recognizing Megan Fox though.

690
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 4: That was very horrible and totally and I love you.

691
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 3: And to be fair too, I came on, you know,

692
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 3: the Kardashians as one of my first gigs ever, and.

693
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 4: So I definitely knew them, knew Chloe, you know, and

694
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 4: all of that.

695
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 3: But by and large, I mean, there were a lot

696
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 3: of instances where people would come and answer the door

697
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 3: and they look like an older version of themselves.

698
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 4: I remember Bobby Brown answered the.

699
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 3: Door when he was dressed in like sweatpants and like

700
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 3: a T shirt, and like the Bobby Brown of the

701
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 3: eighties is very different in appearance than.

702
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 4: The Bobby Brown and Whitney came through, and Whitney came through.

703
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 3: So it just reflects to me this idea that we're

704
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 3: all human, we're all looking for the same things. And

705
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 3: what I always found so substantiating in those readings was

706
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 3: the things that couldn't be googled, couldn't have been told

707
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 3: from an interview that someone gave, and that you know,

708
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 3: they know celebrities are oftentimes the first to look themselves

709
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 3: up and see what was out there. So I always

710
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 3: had to kind of go for those things that were

711
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 3: largely unknown.

712
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 2: What happened in the space between you moving to LA

713
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 2: and I might be getting the order of events wrong,

714
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 2: but you make a name for yourself as medium, how

715
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: does that turn into the show?

716
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 4: It was a work in progress, you know.

717
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,239
Speaker 3: My first celebrity client was with Sarah Paulson and I

718
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 3: I read her and that came through a phone call.

719
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 4: One day. She called me up and said, hey, I

720
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 4: heard that you're a medium. Wow, I like reading, and

721
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 4: so I gave her one.

722
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: My hand was shaking, and she has had any love

723
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 3: life advice for Jessica Lang And then I about poot

724
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 3: my pants.

725
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oh my god, I'm going into gay purgatory.

726
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 4: This is amazing. I was like transitioning.

727
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 5: That was the first celebrity event was about Jessica.

728
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 4: I was so iconic. And then from there, you know,

729
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 4: just kind of evolved.

730
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,959
Speaker 3: I ended up getting interest from the network, which being

731
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 3: a celebrity based platform, they only wanted to show about

732
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 3: me reading celebrity, which for me wasn't really my passion

733
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 3: or my goal at the beginning, of.

734
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 4: Course, but it allowed for good exposure.

735
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 3: It allowed me to ultimately connect with demographics of people

736
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 3: that would have never even known what a medium was.

737
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

738
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 3: I mean I was so proud to be able to

739
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 3: sit with Little Kim Yeah, and Biggie Yes, and Biggie

740
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 3: and you know, little John, And there were just so

741
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,959
Speaker 3: many different groups of people that we were able to

742
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: tap into, but in a way that reflected a universal need.

743
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 3: Everybody has these questions.

744
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: I remember watching that Little Kim interview and I was like,

745
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: is Tyler Henry gonna.

746
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 5: Solve Biggie's murder right now? I say, cuts a commercial on.

747
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: Her being like, well, I think everyone will want to

748
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: know who killed him, honestly. But then you did say

749
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: a lot of things like it was definitely somebody he knew,

750
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: and that is you know, I think as time goes by,

751
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,719
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say anything, but it becomes clearer that

752
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: that may have been the case. I feel like it's

753
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: gotta be kind of surreal when it becomes like a

754
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: really big question or when it comes to fruition and

755
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: you were correct in such an alarming way, like, for example,

756
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: when you mentioned to Alan Thick that he needed to

757
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: watch his heart. That was that had to be very

758
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: like sobering to realize what had happened for you, And

759
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: I wonder, do you ever hedge when you're telling someone

760
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: what is really going on, Like you don't want to

761
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: tell Alan think that you see a massive heart attack

762
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: coming his way.

763
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 4: Right. All I can really do is deliver the information.

764
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 3: And it's been one of the most challenging parts of

765
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 3: my job because there'sn't a school you can go to

766
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 3: to like become a medium writer or read a book

767
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 3: and understand the ins and outs of the complexities of

768
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 3: that job. So when I say it with someone, I

769
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 3: viewed as a responsibility to impart with them something valuable,

770
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 3: something they can take and apply in a practical way

771
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 3: in their life. And in that case with Alan, it

772
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 3: was you go get your heart checked. But I went

773
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 3: on about it for about two or three minutes, and

774
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 3: even I saw the unedited clip thereafter they had sent it,

775
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 3: and I just was railing on him about going and

776
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 3: doing this, and he just laughed it off and said, oh, thanks,

777
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 3: doctor Tyler.

778
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 4: Yeah he was.

779
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: He did not take it serious.

780
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 3: And you know, and and it was frustrating because the

781
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 3: bottom line is all older men should keep in mind

782
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 3: their heart. Everyone at the bottom line should get a

783
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 3: check up if you have health insurance, like, could you know,

784
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 3: be on top of your.

785
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 2: Health if you can, and you need to book the

786
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 2: ET So I need to book the NT. I literally

787
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 2: got off a plane the other day and I am

788
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 2: my throat.

789
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: Well, it's so funny and like you know, he he

790
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: often does need more rest after Oh my god, you do.

791
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 1: He flies a lot and he travels a lot. I'm

792
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: saying that is the thing.

793
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 5: Like him mentioning air travel and needing to rest.

794
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 4: My god, you're mister worldwide. You're all over.

795
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 1: Trying to make it so that he can be.

796
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 5: That was crazy. I mean like, and I will be

797
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 5: watching my stomach now because my stomach has changed. I

798
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 5: mean I'm a thirty four year old man.

799
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: Yes, but like it is.

800
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 5: I will say, like, if you see something really dark

801
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 5: with my stomach, you can tell me.

802
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no nothing there, just you know, just to

803
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 4: watch the inflammation.

804
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,919
Speaker 1: That's not what you want to be the thing that's wrong.

805
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: No stomach, that is so, that is true.

806
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 4: No no hemorrhoids here.

807
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, no thing, no, No. Do you ever see this

808
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: stuff for yourself?

809
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 4: Sometimes?

810
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there has been times that actually life or

811
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 3: death situations I find are able to kind of bypass

812
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 3: that inherent bias that I have about myself. So I'm

813
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 3: a bit of like a hypochondriac. I'm always worried that

814
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 3: something's wrong with me. But there have been times where

815
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 3: my intuition superseded that. I remember I was in the

816
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 3: car with my mom one day and it was like, Mom,

817
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,439
Speaker 3: I think my brain swelling, I have water on the brain,

818
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 3: and she was like, okay, drama queen, whatever.

819
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 4: And I ended up.

820
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 3: Actually a couple of weeks later, getting hospitalized with hydrocephalus,

821
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 3: which is water on the brain, and I'd had a

822
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 3: brain cyst near my brain stem that was cutting off

823
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 3: cerebral spinal fluid from flowing when new emergency brain surgery.

824
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 4: Still have the scar, and.

825
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 3: Still actually have the cyst, which has grown a little

826
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 3: bit since. But Yeah, that awareness was bizarre and clearly

827
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 3: something else was looking out for me at a very

828
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 3: integral time.

829
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, is anyone else in your family touched with this gift?

830
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: How do you explain it? Like when you say touched

831
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 1: with the gift, Like, what do you say?

832
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 5: Just like, you know, I.

833
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 3: Consider it an ability, just like anything else, right, And

834
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 3: we all have instincts, right, we all can shake someone's

835
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 3: hand and get a feeling, or you give someone a

836
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 3: hug and you kind of pull back and you get

837
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 3: a fleeting moment of a sense of something, and I

838
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 3: think people just don't really take it beyond that.

839
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 4: I think we all could, oh, interesting.

840
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 1: Interesting.

841
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were so attuned to this moment with your

842
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 2: grandmother as a child that kind of was undeniable.

843
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, And being an only child and being a loner

844
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 3: actually helped me. I think in some ways it allowed

845
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 3: me to not be influenced by other people's ideas of

846
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 3: what is okay and what's not okay, and what's appropriate

847
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 3: and what's inappropriate. And so I would, you know, sometimes

848
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 3: tell my teachers things about themselves. My algebra teacher in

849
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 3: ninth grade, I shared with her message from her former

850
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 3: mother in law and got into descriptions of what led

851
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 3: to her divorce and various things. And it was very humbling, because,

852
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 3: you know, in a certain way, she had tears in

853
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 3: her eyes, and the tables kind of turned from a

854
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 3: kind of power dynamic of you know, you're there with

855
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 3: your teacher. But I realized in that moment that it

856
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,959
Speaker 3: was something that, when applied in the right way, could

857
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 3: really have an impact on someone's life. And this was

858
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 3: someone who did not have a biological mother of her

859
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 3: own who really loved her. So when she got into

860
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 3: this family and got into this marriage, you know, she

861
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 3: thought she'd finally got that mom that she always wanted,

862
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 3: and she did.

863
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 4: That didn't end just because the divorce.

864
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,399
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, this is the thing that I think

865
00:37:55,480 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 2: kind of transcends any skepticism around this idea of clairvoyance. Right,

866
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: It's like, well, not to make this comparison. It's such

867
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 2: a gross comparison. But like like with astrology, it's like

868
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 2: it is in ways pseudo scientific, but it is giving

869
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: meaning to people. It's giving people a way to model

870
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 2: themselves and their behavior and examine.

871
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 4: Parts of their life.

872
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 2: I feel like you having this impact on people the

873
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 2: world over and on such a large scale is so meaningful.

874
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,399
Speaker 2: Talk about what you're excited about with this four what's

875
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 2: the run of show going to be? What's that going

876
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: to want to look like?

877
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 3: Absolutely, well, there's a lot, we have thirty two cities

878
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 3: across the US. Busy, yes, But basically it's it's a

879
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 3: show generally goes ninety to an hour and a half.

880
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 4: Let's see how I'm bad with math, yeah, but you

881
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 4: know an hour and a half to two hours.

882
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 3: Yes, gifts, math is not one of them all day,

883
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 3: but I get to travel and basically read audience members

884
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 3: and you know, sometimes there's two thousand people, sims, there's

885
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 3: five thousand, and the big crux of that is going

886
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 3: and figuring out where I'm at in the audience, delivering

887
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 3: the message in a timely way, and then moving on.

888
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 3: You know, it's almost like the clock is ticking when

889
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 3: you're on stage. For any performer, you know you can relate.

890
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 3: And so with my job, I have to be able

891
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 3: to kind of go to the clearest line of connection,

892
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 3: generally the path of least resistance. Yes, and I have

893
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 3: a whole bunch of ways that I kind of do

894
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 3: that mentally. But it ultimately allows us to have a

895
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 3: shared experience where, whether you're read or not, seeing the

896
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 3: process live unedited can be really cathartic and really interesting

897
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 3: because you see how many similarities people have, both with

898
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 3: the people being read and oftentimes the experiences that are

899
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 3: informing it. The amount of people who have had an

900
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 3: experience with a ghost but don't believe in ghosts, it

901
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 3: is huge, Right, There's a famous quote of everybody has

902
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 3: a ghost story, not everybody believes in ghosts. Yeah, and

903
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:48,879
Speaker 3: you find that to kind of be exemplified in these

904
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 3: readings that people just don't feel comfortable talking about sometimes

905
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 3: these anomalous things, but you realize they are universal and

906
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,760
Speaker 3: they do apply and can be comforting.

907
00:39:58,280 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 4: Well.

908
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 1: On that so, like you describe the way that you're

909
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: communicating as sensory, but do you believe in the type

910
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: of ghost that people talk about seeing, Like, do you

911
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 1: think that like it's possible or have you experienced these

912
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: things that you sense like physicalizing in the world.

913
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 4: I think it's certainly possible. You know.

914
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 3: There's those kind of ideas of hauntings and ghosts and

915
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 3: things that go bump in the night, And for me,

916
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 3: I take a more human approach in the sense that

917
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 3: when I connect with an individual or I have someone

918
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 3: you know come through and say, I try to communicate

919
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 3: with my loved one, I tell people to remember these

920
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 3: departed people are our brothers, our sisters, our family, our grandparents.

921
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 3: They're not things that go bump in the night. And

922
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,800
Speaker 3: so we have an experience, as far as our inclination

923
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 3: may be to be afraid, you know, I encourage people

924
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 3: to appreciate the ambiguity. We don't have to understand something

925
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:51,359
Speaker 3: for hit to have meaning, and that's been a big

926
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 3: lesson to your point about astrology too. I think there's

927
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 3: this idea of you know, causal versus correlative, and I

928
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 3: do not believe that the stars, you know, cause things

929
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 3: to happen here. What I do think is that there

930
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 3: are certain correlations that have been made archetypally, the way

931
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 3: that things are seemed often reflected a deeper pattern, and

932
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 3: for me, that's what a lot of metaphysics kind of

933
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 3: revolves around, is the underlying patterns of reality, but not in.

934
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 4: A causal sense, more of a correlative sense.

935
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: Sure, I have to say, like a recent theme on

936
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: this podcast is we went to a psychic in New

937
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: York and the experience ended up being one where I'm

938
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: very sensitive and susceptible as well. Bowen is more discerning

939
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 1: than me, especially in this situation, but I ended up

940
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 1: losing a lot of money because someone kind of ran

941
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: me around. And I think that what I so appreciate

942
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 1: about what you do and what you've done for us,

943
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 1: is that you've given us helpful healing information and you've

944
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 1: sort of pointed us. But you're not scaring us, you know.

945
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: I think that's what I was dealing with is I

946
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: was kind of put in a position where essentially I

947
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 1: had to pay this person in order for her to

948
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: do spiritual work.

949
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 5: And I would say, I guess my question was predictive.

950
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: It was predictive.

951
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 2: I feel like he's going to do that, this person's

952
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 2: going to do this, and like that leaves you in

953
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 2: a terrible position of waiting for that thing to happen, right.

954
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: I mean I was basically told I would get back

955
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: together with my ex boyfriend if I allowed her to

956
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 1: do what she was going to do, and there was

957
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: a price tag on it, Yes, and I fell for that,

958
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: And so there's a lot of people that are falling

959
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: for that. Yeah, And so I guess what would you

960
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 1: say are the warning signs or things to avoid holistically

961
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: when it comes to people who, yes, may experience things

962
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: like you would have a gift similar to yours, but

963
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: are going about it in like a nefarious Sure.

964
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 3: Well, I think by and large, there should never be

965
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 3: a hook right when you sit with someone. And it's

966
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 3: true whether we are going to a doctor or a

967
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 3: therapist or a psychic or any practitioner.

968
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 4: You know, it's important that there not be a hook

969
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 4: like a chiropractor. You know, oh you need ten more, right,

970
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 4: I'm just like and to be fair, you know, it

971
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 4: is such a subjective field.

972
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 3: Anybody can claim to be a psychic, right, there is

973
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 3: no better business bureau for psychics. And because of that,

974
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 3: it leads to a whole menagerie of different personalities. But

975
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 3: I find with people, generally, good advice is to go

976
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 3: through a recommendation of someone that has been seen by

977
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 3: someone that you know.

978
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 4: That's usually a good angle to go.

979
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 3: And then also, and this is gonna be funny, because

980
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 3: my name is Tyler Henry and so what is technically

981
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,439
Speaker 3: a stage name, but actually avoiding people who you can't

982
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 3: figure out their last name, Oh that's a bad sign

983
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 3: in the psychic industry. So if it's like if it's

984
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 3: if I'm Maria Jade, well, Maria jd can't be googled,

985
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 3: and we can't look at Maria Jade's you know, criminal history.

986
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 3: So generally go with people who are at the very

987
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 3: least aren't concealing their real name. My last name is

988
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 3: cool Wine, but that's on Wikipedia, so you can cool

989
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 3: on too many valves. It's k O E l E

990
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 3: w wyan.

991
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 4: So I love that it looks nice on the page,

992
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 4: feels really good.

993
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 1: Look, I'm saying right now, this psychic had one name,

994
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: and it was a very psychic y name.

995
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, what was it again? Oh, we can't pick this out.

996
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 4: That is the most psychic name, most psychic name.

997
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: Yes, that is so funny, leading into the question that's

998
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: like the central question of this podcast. There's so much

999
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,839
Speaker 1: media about psychics, like we have medium which started putri

1000
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: Ar Cat, which was based on Alison Dubois. Yes, we've

1001
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: got you know, lots of things out there, such as

1002
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 1: the sixth Sense. Yes, obviously by my trembla on that

1003
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: was kind of like a huge pop culture moment. I wonder,

1004
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 1: is there a piece of media that is related to

1005
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: what you do that you feel you really identify with.

1006
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 3: Or Oh god, I have a horrible answer for this.

1007
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 3: I don't know if I identify with it. But I

1008
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 3: think that the dinner party from hell.

1009
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 4: Alis did you both with the cigarette?

1010
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: You recognize?

1011
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 4: That fascinating.

1012
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 3: I think that's such a good demonstration that conveys the

1013
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 3: fact that mediums are people and they can get drunk,

1014
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,720
Speaker 3: just like everybody else, and they aren't these infalliable creatures

1015
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 3: who are like these mythical that deserve to be revered mediums.

1016
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 3: And the people who have this ability genuinely are usually

1017
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 3: tortured people. And Alison herself in her books has talked

1018
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 3: about alcohol and how it as a medium.

1019
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 4: It's very easy to self medicate.

1020
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 3: And so I felt that despite the fact that it

1021
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,959
Speaker 3: was handled all wrong, years later, you know, we find

1022
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 3: that the message that she had did indeed in the

1023
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 3: being true. It was not done in the right way,

1024
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 3: nor at the right time or place, but they also

1025
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 3: pushed her, and so I think it was so interesting

1026
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 3: just to see that, almost like a cornered animal, what

1027
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 3: they do, how they respond, and she responded, and I

1028
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 3: think it really created a broader conversation about ethics, what's

1029
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 3: right what's wrong in that setting.

1030
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 4: But it was just a fascinating piece of entertainment right there.

1031
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:43,800
Speaker 2: There is a danger to it, I'm sure you felt,

1032
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 2: and you don't have to bring it up an example,

1033
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 2: but like I'm sure you have felt somewhat endangered in

1034
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 2: that situation where what I was saying earlier, people are

1035
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 2: coming at you with so much expectation, baggage, and they

1036
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 2: want you to beat this infallible person, right.

1037
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 3: And I think it's so important to remind people this

1038
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 3: work is humbling. Every single day I'm reminded of any

1039
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 3: inclination of an answer that I seem to get only

1040
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 3: brings up a million more questions. And it's just so

1041
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 3: humbling to realize that I don't have to have all

1042
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 3: the answers, that I don't even have to have a

1043
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 3: semblance of them, to feel that joy that is brought through,

1044
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 3: you know, from those on the other side, and to

1045
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 3: know that there's more to life than what we see,

1046
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 3: and there's a.

1047
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:19,399
Speaker 4: Certain self assuredness there.

1048
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 3: I'm willing to deal with being criticized and deal with

1049
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 3: skepticism of the kazusin so I as a teenager because

1050
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 3: I know.

1051
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 4: That inherently what I'm doing is real.

1052
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1053
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 3: And when you know that, when you close your eyes

1054
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 3: and I can go to bed and you're like, I

1055
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: know that was real even though no one else believed

1056
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 3: in it. There's a certain confidence that comes from that

1057
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 3: that has allowed me to keep going.

1058
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's real self knowledge, That is self knowledge that

1059
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 2: is not defined by other people.

1060
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 1: Yes, and pretty amazing that you were able to have

1061
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 1: that self knowledge and be confident at a young age

1062
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 1: because it was something like I said, you know, when

1063
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: you are so convinced you're a freaking no matter who

1064
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: you are, when you're ten eleven years old, it's really

1065
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 1: kind of impressive that you were able to be like, no,

1066
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 1: I'm standing here with my own two feet. This is

1067
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: my truth, and not that I can prove it, but

1068
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: I will prove it.

1069
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you have obviously, And.

1070
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 4: That's a fork in the road. It's an inflection point.

1071
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,320
Speaker 2: Why either you go full tell some to being whatever

1072
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 2: a freaky think you are, or you start to correct

1073
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,720
Speaker 2: quote unquote that thing, and that is kind.

1074
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, which would be a total shame, right, you know, absolutely.

1075
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 1: So the central question of our podcast is, Tyler Henry,

1076
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: what was the culture that made you say culture was

1077
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: for you? So this is basically that formative pop culture

1078
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:37,879
Speaker 1: that now Tyler Now knows.

1079
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 5: That's how Tyler Now started from Tyler then.

1080
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I will actually say the Amanda Show

1081
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 3: Nickelod Amanda Bins, Oh my god, extraordinarily timely.

1082
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: And we're natural gift over there.

1083
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 3: You know. I think it's actually extremely timely because it

1084
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 3: shows how she was able to both go through so

1085
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 3: much as a child star, as so many do, but

1086
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 3: also to be able to carry a show on her own,

1087
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,760
Speaker 3: to show and to give access from a larger audience

1088
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 3: that that kids are multifaceted, that they're not just these

1089
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 3: little things that you know, need tell tuppies. She was

1090
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 3: able through that show to be able to in a

1091
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 3: big way, treat children as human beings, yeah, worthy of

1092
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 3: being entertained, worthy of having, you know, intellectual jokes. And

1093
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 3: I felt that that was really a big pop culture

1094
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 3: shift where we started empowering younger people to be able

1095
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:27,919
Speaker 3: to carry shows on their own. And if we could

1096
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 3: get her on SML, can you imagine the.

1097
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 4: Absolutely?

1098
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: And I think I think in another world like she

1099
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: could have taken over them, could have taken over the

1100
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 1: entire industry.

1101
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 2: Absolutely, You're so right, she was able to. I think

1102
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 2: watching her as kids, my thought was like, how is

1103
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,880
Speaker 2: someone my age doing this in a way that was

1104
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 2: like just totally literally incredible, Like I don't believe this.

1105
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there was something too about like the way

1106
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: I remember the adults in my life reacting to her

1107
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:59,399
Speaker 1: like she was John Belushi, Right. I remember my dad

1108
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: being like this girl is the sketch where she was

1109
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: on the pillows. I think it was all that this

1110
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: wasn't the amounta show. It was like she was like

1111
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: a little girl at a sleepover or something, hosting some

1112
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:13,439
Speaker 1: show from her bedroom and she was just crushing it. Yeah,

1113
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,280
Speaker 1: and my dad was like, this girl is so funny.

1114
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: My dad was in love with, not in love with.

1115
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 1: My dad loved Amanda Mines and Raven Stimo. Great talk

1116
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 1: about having the gift. There you go, But there was

1117
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: this ability she had to ground herself in character that

1118
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 1: again I make a joke about her having like a gift,

1119
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,319
Speaker 1: like a supernatural gift. But there is something so intuitive

1120
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: about anyone that does like really good character work or

1121
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,400
Speaker 1: sketch comedy. And she was doing it at nine.

1122
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 4: Insane.

1123
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,240
Speaker 3: Yeahsane, And it's so funny to your note about charisma.

1124
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 3: You know, historically charisma used to be viewed as a

1125
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 3: psychic ability. Oh, chrisma, Charisma the ability for people to

1126
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 3: speak and people to listen. In the early nineteen hundreds

1127
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 3: was viewed more as a psychic ability than just a

1128
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 3: personality eight. And so it even relates to psychic.

1129
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 5: Stuff like people wondering why am I drawn to this person.

1130
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 3: Yes, that's and and why is it that when some

1131
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 3: people speak, we listen, and then other times some people

1132
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 3: speak and they could have a perfectly great message, but

1133
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 3: they just don't have that connective factor.

1134
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 2: It's fascinating, it's energetic, it is energetic. Yeah, there was

1135
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 2: cable in the house, even in this highly conservative house.

1136
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 4: Oh yes, we didn't have a TV. We weren't just

1137
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 4: a massaging the cows.

1138
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 5: A title.

1139
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 3: Had a bowl and actually and it used to chase

1140
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 3: me and it was yeah, no, it it was not great.

1141
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: The bull would chase the bull.

1142
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 4: Would chase me.

1143
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 3: He ended up I think his name was t bone Bone,

1144
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 3: which was very apt.

1145
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then he ended up getting turned into a

1146
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:43,839
Speaker 4: t bone. But I'm a vegetarian, so.

1147
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:47,879
Speaker 1: I worked this is going to be a bizarre question.

1148
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: But do you believe that your ability to connect informs

1149
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: your your vegetarianism?

1150
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 4: Somewhat somewhat there?

1151
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 3: I mean, look, I try not overthink it when i'm

1152
00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 3: meet and like, you know, if I'm well not so

1153
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 3: it might be not trick ful.

1154
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 4: But for me, they know, I know, I try.

1155
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,760
Speaker 3: To like I'm selectively of course to be honest, sharing

1156
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 3: but got it.

1157
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, that has to.

1158
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 2: I guess what we're asking is, do you think there

1159
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 2: is a connection there with your ability?

1160
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1161
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 4: I think for sure.

1162
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 3: I think when it comes to just like putting things

1163
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 3: in your body generally, like if there's a lot of

1164
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 3: trauma behind that, which behind that the organism went through

1165
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 3: to get into your body. Like, I don't know how

1166
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 3: I feel as far as a consensus goes, but I

1167
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 3: try to avoid just like choun down them too much.

1168
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 2: Of course, I feel like the hypochondria that you are

1169
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 2: diagnosing yourself with is mostly you being extremely thoughtful about

1170
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 2: just bodies and health, because it seems like that is

1171
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 2: an anchor for a lot of your reading.

1172
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 3: It is, and it just kind of speaks the fact

1173
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 3: that we all have a physicality, we all have susceptibilities,

1174
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 3: but knowledge is power, and you know we can avoid things.

1175
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly would you have been like in the medical profession.

1176
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 3: So I graduated high school when I was sixteen to

1177
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 3: try to become a hospice nurse.

1178
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 4: Wow.

1179
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 3: Wow, the phrase to kill two birds with one stone

1180
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 3: comes to mind. You know, I thought to do medium

1181
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 3: readings and then perhaps you know, go down that route.

1182
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,919
Speaker 4: But I read the dean of my College of all things. Wow.

1183
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:05,760
Speaker 3: And I know it doesn't sound real, it sounds insane,

1184
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 3: but he indeed he told me, he was like, you know,

1185
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 3: we did this for me, this is very powerful. Maybe

1186
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 3: you should.

1187
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 4: Consider doing it for other people.

1188
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 1: Wow.

1189
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 3: And so I kind of had to at that point

1190
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 3: in life, between Sarah Paulson calling me within a very

1191
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 3: short proximity and being like, Okay, am I going to

1192
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 3: be there for the elderly and the dying?

1193
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 4: Or am I going to like go to Hollywood. It

1194
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 4: was a very very weird position.

1195
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 3: But I ultimately was able to achieve through this work

1196
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 3: what I always wanted to do, which was just to

1197
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 3: validate that there's more.

1198
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 1: How do you.

1199
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 5: Release this stuff?

1200
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: Because I would imagine that carrying all of this is

1201
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 1: incredibly taxing and ken in its own way, be traumatic.

1202
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 1: If you were to read someone who has been through

1203
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: something traumatic, like I wonder what you experienced when you

1204
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:51,760
Speaker 1: were telling me that you were feeling someone was alive, alive, alive,

1205
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 1: felt very old, and then died? Like how do you

1206
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 1: experience that and then release that?

1207
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 3: I find that the release comes from delivering the message,

1208
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 3: so very often when I say it, it will kind

1209
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 3: of get alleviated in some way. If I don't say something, though,

1210
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 3: it oftentimes will feel like it's building up. And that's

1211
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 3: one of the most frustrating things is when I leave

1212
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 3: and if something was still coming through and I couldn't

1213
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 3: say it, it'll just kind of sit with me. So

1214
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 3: you kind of learn how to blow off that necessary

1215
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 3: steam and then you know, reallocate one's.

1216
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 2: Energy, right, and once you're done scribbling, that is kind

1217
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: of your parameter of like Okay, we're done, yes, which

1218
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 2: is not a release necessary, but it is a demarcation

1219
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 2: of yeah, it's finished exactly.

1220
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 4: It's a demarcation.

1221
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 3: It's a excellent way of kind of bifurcating and saying

1222
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 3: I'm on and now I'm on yeh.

1223
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: Now is that your choice or when you say it?

1224
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 1: Because we probably did that for about fifteen twenty minutes,

1225
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 1: But I would imagine that like if there were spirits

1226
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: that really needed to keep talking, would you still do

1227
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: that or do you end it? You know?

1228
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 3: I used to just kind of go for as long

1229
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 3: as I could, and I always have to be mindful

1230
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 3: of time in other people's time. But I remember with

1231
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 3: Carmen Electra, I read her on Hollywood Medium and we

1232
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,879
Speaker 3: sat for I want to say, like close to six

1233
00:53:58,920 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 3: to eight hours to get well.

1234
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: Like.

1235
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 3: It was one of the longest readings we've ever done

1236
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 3: on Hollywood Medium. And and it wasn't because she had

1237
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:06,959
Speaker 3: an exceptional amount of people coming through.

1238
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 4: It was just there was a lot to.

1239
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 3: Work with in her personal life, and it all, you know,

1240
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 3: kind of led to further questions and then further answers,

1241
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:16,399
Speaker 3: and then of course more questions, and six hours later

1242
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 3: we were like, all right, I'm moving in Carmen.

1243
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, like I'm sweating a lot.

1244
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm completely drained, Like I'm like a potato chip.

1245
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 4: Potato chip. Yes, favorite house that you went to and

1246
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 4: your favorite favorite house. You know.

1247
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 3: Boy George funny enough, and he was one of the

1248
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:41,840
Speaker 3: hardest clients of the two hundred that I read, just

1249
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 3: because you know, he came, he was wearing his makeup,

1250
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 3: he very skeptical to yes, and he had what I

1251
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 3: call his war paint on. You know, he very much

1252
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 3: was Boy George of the persona. And so trying to

1253
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 3: get past that was a challenge with a lot of celebrities,

1254
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 3: trying to kind of penetrate your public image right and

1255
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,799
Speaker 3: get into the human side and Willie was able to

1256
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 3: but that that house was fascinating. I mean, it's very

1257
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 3: clear how hard of a worker he was.

1258
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:06,799
Speaker 4: His manager was. There might have been his manager's house,

1259
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 4: So managers are hard work.

1260
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 1: PK. He interrupted the.

1261
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,799
Speaker 3: Reading and actually validated a bunch on camera. If you

1262
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 3: haven't seen it, you should check it out. Interrupts is like.

1263
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:22,400
Speaker 4: No, no, now, George, why aren't you validating? You know

1264
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 4: who this is? Who he's talking about it? Wait?

1265
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: I think I remember that episode. Maybe it was like

1266
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: right when yes, So do you watch the House?

1267
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 4: Wow?

1268
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: Oh you know, do you ever feel like you so

1269
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 1: when you were watching the Kyle Richards thing happen where

1270
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 1: you like, oh my god, Alison, did you text her?

1271
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:41,359
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1272
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 1: You know what.

1273
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 4: A lot of the mediums don't really care for each other.

1274
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 4: That's a funny thing to wonder.

1275
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 3: I will tell you because I think it's a career

1276
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 3: that requires for one, it's more than a career. It's

1277
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 3: a calling, and it's a calling that requires people to

1278
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 3: have confidence in who they are and what they feel,

1279
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 3: and like performers, that can sometimes lead to personalities that

1280
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:04,319
Speaker 3: are very intense, very centered around themselves, and that you know,

1281
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:06,280
Speaker 3: doesn't always love people to play well with others.

1282
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, there are these emotional barriers where someone might feel

1283
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 2: perturbed or destabilized by being in the presence of another

1284
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 2: another medium, where they're like, oh, I you know, like

1285
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 2: I imagine insecurity comes into play.

1286
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:22,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely can. But I feel like you seem

1287
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 4: so secure in what you do. Thank you. I try

1288
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 4: my best.

1289
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 3: You know, we all have our stuff, but I just

1290
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 3: try to kind of own the vulnerability.

1291
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:30,359
Speaker 4: You know.

1292
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 1: Is there a medium that you looked up to.

1293
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a British medium named Lisa Williams. She's not

1294
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 3: as well known, but she sid have a show on

1295
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,400
Speaker 3: Lifetime and I really liked her approach. She would sit

1296
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 3: with people and just kind of ramble and I love that.

1297
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 3: It wasn't you know, a thousand questions. It was very

1298
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 3: much just let me sit and let me talk and

1299
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 3: get it all out, and you would have very powerful

1300
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 3: effects on people. So I find that the less the

1301
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 3: person has to say, the better as far as the

1302
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 3: client being read. You want the medium to do the

1303
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 3: majority of the talking.

1304
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,720
Speaker 1: Well, some people that's not a problem, like Teresa Capuda

1305
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:00,319
Speaker 1: will just go.

1306
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 4: Off, Oh yeah, she'll bulldoze'll bulldoze you, absolutely, But you know,

1307
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,359
Speaker 4: different people resonate with different mediums yea. And so some

1308
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 4: people need, you.

1309
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 3: Know, the East Coast ante with the big hair, right,

1310
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,720
Speaker 3: and some people want the you know, quieter gay brother,

1311
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 3: and that's okay, therapist, because everyone resonates with different sources.

1312
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 1: Does this make dating difficult for you?

1313
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 3: I've been with my partner for going on eight years now, yes,

1314
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 3: and I'm twenty eight myself, so it's been since then,

1315
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 3: and if anything, it really helped me. I think something

1316
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 3: we all can do with intuition is really to go

1317
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 3: with those first impressions. So often we are inclined and

1318
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 3: I am. I want to say this. It's important that

1319
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 3: we give people the benefit of the doubt, right, But

1320
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 3: there are times when we know better when we meet

1321
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 3: someone and we know this person, and then we kick

1322
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 3: ourselves later on, going, geehy din't I just listen to

1323
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 3: that gut feeling, right? And that's something that helped me

1324
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 3: in my love life. It allowed me to meet someone

1325
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 3: who I immediately knew the second I saw his photo

1326
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 3: said out loud, oh, I'm going to marry this person.

1327
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: I have to tell you, I think this is I

1328
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: have the gift too. I have had three boyfriends, have

1329
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 1: you The first time I saw a picture of each

1330
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 1: one of them, I said, that's my boyfriend. What I

1331
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: swear to God. Like three months before each of them

1332
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: I met each of them, I had seen a picture

1333
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: of them, And the second I saw a picture of them,

1334
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 1: I was like, I know that's going to be Wow.

1335
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 4: That's powerful because it just goes to show you know,

1336
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 4: you know what's for you.

1337
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 1: And with two of them I was friends with for

1338
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,160
Speaker 1: a while before we started dating, and I kind of

1339
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 1: knew the whole time that it was going to become that.

1340
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 1: And I don't know if I was talking myself into it,

1341
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 1: but you have competitions.

1342
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 5: All I'm saying we.

1343
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 4: Could take it together would fill out to see me

1344
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 4: be like I felt that too. Yeah, you stepped back. Same.

1345
00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:57,439
Speaker 1: I just want to say same. I was one undred

1346
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 1: percent on board with this the whole time that now

1347
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 1: you see the photo of your partner, the intuition floods

1348
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 1: in this extends into you meeting him in person.

1349
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 4: That's right. Yeah.

1350
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 3: So it was one of those things where I was

1351
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 3: already in a relationship with someone who was much older

1352
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 3: than me when I was nineteen, and yeah, it was

1353
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 3: one of those things, and I had it, gotten a

1354
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 3: dog with him, and you know, we were like, oh,

1355
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 3: living a little gay life. And then I see this

1356
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 3: picture of Clan too is my age, and just the

1357
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 3: moment I saw that, I knew, Okay, my life's going

1358
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 3: to change radically. This relationship isn't right for me. I'm

1359
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 3: going to have to give up the dog. I'm going

1360
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 3: to have to end up living somewhere else. But it's

1361
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 3: all worth it for this person. And that might sound

1362
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 3: completely illogical and irrational, but it was a knowingness that

1363
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 3: ultimately proved to be true. I was able to get

1364
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 3: out of that situation that didn't work for me, and

1365
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 3: you know, happily.

1366
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 4: Ever, Wow, a third of your life almost Yeah, with

1367
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 4: the clin it's been amazing. What I love about him

1368
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 4: so much is you know, even as interesting as the

1369
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 4: medium stuff is, it's really more just two human beings

1370
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 4: who really love each other. Oh so beautiful, really lucky

1371
00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 4: to be able to have him.

1372
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's amazing and it also must be quite grounding.

1373
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: But I would imagine that you probably hedge with like

1374
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: how much you put on his plate too? Yeah, because

1375
01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 1: that's gotta be really that's an interesting walk. It's like,

1376
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 1: you want to be able to talk about your day

1377
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: at the office, but oftentimes that's obviously extremely personal. You

1378
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: must operate in some way like a therapist where there

1379
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: is some like you.

1380
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 4: Know, political distance or medium client like privilege.

1381
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know, there's something to be said about

1382
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 3: compassion fatigue too, which a lot of practitioners of both

1383
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 3: therapy and I think even just interviewing people, you can

1384
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 3: get compassion fatigue, and so something that definitely applies, you know,

1385
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 3: and as a part of it. But I remember I

1386
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:36,200
Speaker 3: unloaded on my boyfriend one day about my work, my dad.

1387
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 4: I unloaded all these oh g.

1388
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 1: You are the daughter.

1389
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:46,520
Speaker 4: The daughter is coming through that.

1390
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 1: Loaded.

1391
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 3: I mean, that's title about a message that I had

1392
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 3: given to someone that day, and it was really heavy.

1393
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 3: And Clint went to his therapist and told his therapist

1394
01:00:57,960 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 3: told me about you know, his workday.

1395
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 4: Therapist said, well, tell him to stop.

1396
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 5: No, that's interesting, yeah, interesting.

1397
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 3: So I had to learn boundaries and kind of barriers

1398
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 3: and understanding that you know, I don't want to put

1399
01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 3: other people's stuff on him.

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01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 4: For me, you know, it's just my day to day job.

1401
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 4: I'm able to let it go. But it's not always

1402
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 4: the same for those around them.

1403
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 1: What did you do?

1404
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 3: He basically is my assistant photographer, Jack of all trades,

1405
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 3: so he's a I don't drive, so he drives me everywhere.

1406
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 3: Still still twenty eight years old, I know, but hey,

1407
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 3: it's scary those highways.

1408
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: You know, they are scary.

1409
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 2: Look, I get there are a lot of people around

1410
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 2: our age who just never never.

1411
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:37,640
Speaker 1: Happened caught on. Yeah, with them. It's one of those

1412
01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 1: things too. It's like I ain't never going skiing, So same,

1413
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: I'm never going skiing because I know what will happen.

1414
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: I know what spirits are telling me.

1415
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 4: Don't Yeah, Sonny bono, don't do that.

1416
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:50,200
Speaker 5: Just one.

1417
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 1: That's just like, that's just one of many. If you

1418
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: don't want to drive, don't drive. Exactly, your boyfriend driving

1419
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 1: you if he's busy. You know, your mom famously.

1420
01:01:58,040 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 4: Drove you exactly.

1421
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 3: She still she's outside down the street. Actually she's actually

1422
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 3: down the street. She loves you, Honestly that I'm hit

1423
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 3: with the mom.

1424
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 1: Yes, four quadron over here. Wait that that's incredible, Like

1425
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 1: I have to say, it's just like I wonder how

1426
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 1: much of me was skeptical coming in. I will say.

1427
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 1: I was on the phone my mother before this, and

1428
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 1: she goes, well, you know, like you guys are on

1429
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 1: Instagram and I'm sure you've talked about things. And I

1430
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: was like, I mean, look in a world where this

1431
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 1: is the way it works, because we didn't know you.

1432
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 1: We know that you're on television where a lot of

1433
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 1: shit is fake. Yes, and so I was prepared for

1434
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 1: honestly either thing. But you brought things up and I'm

1435
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 1: sure for you too. Yes, that was very personal and specific.

1436
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 1: Literally the side of my family I wasn't even thinking about.

1437
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: I actually was. I have a friend from high school

1438
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,080
Speaker 1: I was hoping would come through, But like this side

1439
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,440
Speaker 1: of my family, I think is what needed to come through.

1440
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 1: And I think it's the things that I literally had

1441
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 1: probably more questions about with weren't top of mind, just

1442
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 1: because my mother is very she's very private. She doesn't

1443
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 1: share a lot about her history. She very much wanted

1444
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 1: to be like my mom and she didn't want really

1445
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 1: me to know much about like her growing up. But

1446
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: I always knew it was tough, like she describes her life,

1447
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 1: and I'm like, on paper, that sounds like that would

1448
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 1: have been really hard. So that's what I mean when

1449
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 1: I say I think what needed to come through from

1450
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 1: me did and I feel like, I don't know if

1451
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 1: you feel like.

1452
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 4: I felt that way. Definitely, thank you.

1453
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 3: I'm excited to talk one on one more in depth.

1454
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 3: But we really do find that very often the person

1455
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:33,280
Speaker 3: being redd ends up kind of being a medium themselves

1456
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 3: in the session because they go and tell family members.

1457
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 3: So yeah, information that can also kind of secondarily help them.

1458
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 2: Yes, talk about the Collective is how is this working?

1459
01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 2: How do people find out about it?

1460
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 3: So? The Collective is basically a live show but virtual,

1461
01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 3: and I paired with Mark Cuban's company.

1462
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 4: Oh so you know I'm going to get some free medication.

1463
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 3: But no, he created this platform. It's basically like a

1464
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 3: podcast basically also though very ikin to kind of like

1465
01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 3: a live show where you can bring people up virtually.

1466
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 3: They can be in Oshkosh or South Africa and they

1467
01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 3: get to interact and everyone gets to watch and have

1468
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 3: an experience. And I basically do readings on that platform.

1469
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 3: So I do reading giveaways every week, I do group

1470
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 3: readings twice a month, and it's just a really great

1471
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 3: opportunity if people can't come to a live show to

1472
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 3: get to see that process, and people can unsubscribe anytime.

1473
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 3: So whether there for twelve months or a month, it's

1474
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 3: just an opportunity to be able to connect and really

1475
01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:25,560
Speaker 3: see the essence of what I do see.

1476
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 4: There's no hook.

1477
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: There exactly subscribe, you can unsubscribe, you can suck off

1478
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 1: as far as you know.

1479
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,959
Speaker 3: And the interesting thing too, sometimes people will leave, come back, leave,

1480
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 3: come back. And people don't always need to tune in

1481
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 3: every single group reading, but we have people leave some

1482
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 3: ust for six months and say, hey, I need little

1483
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 3: Tyler time. I'd just like to maybe see what happens,

1484
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 3: and then they get something out of it.

1485
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Because I can imagine that this is also something

1486
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: that would really scare people Like I feel like we

1487
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:53,640
Speaker 1: both came in and we were like, we'll see what happens.

1488
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 1: But if you have someone that is really close to

1489
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 1: you that you've lost, or if you're in a really

1490
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 1: difficult situation, or you were in a very confusing situation,

1491
01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 1: I can imagine that interacting with someone like you can

1492
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: feel very vulnerable and revealing.

1493
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 3: Yes, and it's intense. You never know what the medium

1494
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,560
Speaker 3: is going to say. There's an element of ambiguity.

1495
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 4: Is it real? Is it fake? Is it objective? Is subjective?

1496
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 3: And that creates a very liminal space for the person

1497
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 3: being read. The person being read kind of gets into

1498
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 3: a state of transition internally where you know, things have

1499
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 3: melted away previously and they don't know where things are

1500
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 3: going to go. And that's a very almost perfect place

1501
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 3: for a person to be in when they're getting read.

1502
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 3: That liminality actually helps the process.

1503
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,680
Speaker 2: Or what's the count on the number of readings you

1504
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:37,880
Speaker 2: do in a week and a month in a year, Like,

1505
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 2: do you have that number?

1506
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 4: It's hard to say, cause it fluctuates, but I do.

1507
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:45,240
Speaker 3: I mean countless giveaways as far as usually six private

1508
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 3: one on ones virtually in a week a week, and

1509
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 3: then I have group readings, both in person virtual group

1510
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 3: readings every two weeks, which sometimes they'll go up to

1511
01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 3: like ten to fifteen people. So it's a lot, but

1512
01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 3: it's like a muscle and one I constantly, you know,

1513
01:05:57,680 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 3: kind of have to refine and work on or else

1514
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 3: get kind of constipated.

1515
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 1: Spirit constipated spiritually. Maybe that's that's that's constipated comma spiritually

1516
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 1: pretty good? Is that would that be right? Grammar? Sure?

1517
01:06:12,880 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 4: Or you don't even need the comma necessarily.

1518
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:20,760
Speaker 1: Spiritual, constipated spiritually with the comma kind of like feels.

1519
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 2: Like, oh, if the adverb is coming, is coming after

1520
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 2: the adjective.

1521
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:26,600
Speaker 1: He's been very on his grammar ship.

1522
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 4: Well, this is gonna be a Gwyneth Paltrow candle what definitely?

1523
01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:35,400
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what do you see for Taylor Swift.

1524
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 4: Oh my god, She's everywhere. He's everywhere. I see her

1525
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:42,440
Speaker 4: constantly come.

1526
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 1: Through and someone's reading and she's like, Hey, my fortune

1527
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:45,439
Speaker 1: drops at a PM.

1528
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 4: Can't you imagine.

1529
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm seeing friendship bracelets. She's everywhere. It would

1530
01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:53,479
Speaker 3: be very interesting to see if she ends up marrying

1531
01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 3: Drivis Kelsey.

1532
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 1: Do you see that first?

1533
01:06:55,680 --> 01:07:01,080
Speaker 4: Very possible. I think there stand up people.

1534
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 1: I mean where they ignore the alchemy but don't get

1535
01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 1: mad at me swifties. I feel like it's time for

1536
01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:19,280
Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey. Yes, this is our segment

1537
01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 1: on this podcast that we do every single god d week.

1538
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 5: So I have something I actually don't.

1539
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:27,600
Speaker 1: Know if it exists in the world, but if it does,

1540
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 1: it shouldn't okay, And this just came up today and

1541
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 1: I need to talk about it.

1542
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 4: Theoretical.

1543
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 2: I don't think so, honey, christ Matt Rodgers, I don't

1544
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 2: think so many as time starts, I don't think so, honey.

1545
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:40,520
Speaker 1: Meth gators Apparently, like the Cocaine Bear, gators can get

1546
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 1: into meth and become a meth gat Again. I don't

1547
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:45,600
Speaker 1: know if I read this on a website that's not true,

1548
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 1: but apparently in Florida, if you flush your drugs down

1549
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 1: the toilet so the cops don't find them, where they're

1550
01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: going is the swamps, and the math gets to eat

1551
01:07:53,560 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 1: and buy the gators. And can I just tell you

1552
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 1: think in your mind's I what a meth gater is.

1553
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:00,200
Speaker 1: And if you're not saying I don't think so, honey,

1554
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey. We have to we have

1555
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,760
Speaker 1: a problem with drugs in the track, we really do.

1556
01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 1: We have to get into Florida, get the drugs out

1557
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 1: of the home gators, and get the drugs out the gators.

1558
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: Because unless it's a film directed by Elizabeth Banks, I

1559
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 1: do not want to see meth Gator. Did I see

1560
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 1: Cocaine Bear? Not yet. I thought maybe it wasn't a

1561
01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: good thing for the theaters because I thought it would

1562
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 1: be really loud, and I don't know cocaine bearish and

1563
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 1: I can't really bearish that type of film. But at home,

1564
01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: I'm doing Elizabeth. I'm gonna rent it meth Gator, Elizabeth Banks,

1565
01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:35,799
Speaker 1: Come on, I do think so, honey, that's one minute.

1566
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 1: Where did you find out about this Patrick House? Our

1567
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 1: friend house. We have a best friend. We have a

1568
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 1: matching tattoo. That's a house. We have the same last name,

1569
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,840
Speaker 1: so we call a house of Rogers. So he sent

1570
01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 1: us a because Florida is on mind right now, because

1571
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:51,920
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift is a song called Florida. And so we

1572
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:54,280
Speaker 1: sent us a screenshot of an article and it said

1573
01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 1: meth gator is becoming a problem. And he said, what

1574
01:08:56,880 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: did Taylor? No Florida a drug?

1575
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 4: I just found it out about Sheep's heeadfish.

1576
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:02,920
Speaker 1: What's that?

1577
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:05,799
Speaker 4: It is a fish with human teeth?

1578
01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: How did they get that teeth?

1579
01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 4: That's that's my look at that.

1580
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:17,799
Speaker 1: No horrid, isn't that awful?

1581
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:20,719
Speaker 5: That's one of the worst things I've ever seen?

1582
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 1: How how you know?

1583
01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 4: Furthermore, I think that's where my copper wire went. Was

1584
01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 4: that alligator.

1585
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 1: Not the meth gator? Can you imagine?

1586
01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:32,520
Speaker 5: And now I kind of love it as a film.

1587
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 1: I do.

1588
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, talk to Elizabeth means might I might set

1589
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 2: a meeting a meeting, like I might set a meeting

1590
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 2: with Elizabeth.

1591
01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: Here's a big she's a big production company, huge director.

1592
01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:43,080
Speaker 1: You know, she produces all the pitch perfect. So there

1593
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: you go, and I believe she directs them.

1594
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 5: So to think she.

1595
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 4: Couldn't get no, absolutely meth Gator off the ground.

1596
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: I think Cocaine Bear was a hit.

1597
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:54,400
Speaker 4: Was it was? It has some choreography, the Alligator.

1598
01:09:55,240 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 5: I think it could be good.

1599
01:09:56,400 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 2: Yes, the Taylor Swift of movies. It's everywhere. Yeah, there

1600
01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 2: you go. Okay, Okay, So now it's going to be

1601
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 2: Bowen's turn. I have something and.

1602
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 1: It's Is it spicy?

1603
01:10:05,680 --> 01:10:06,440
Speaker 4: It's spicy.

1604
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 2: It might it might rub people the wrong way, that's okay,

1605
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:10,160
Speaker 2: but it's okay.

1606
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 1: All right, Well this is Bowen yangs. I don't think so, honey.

1607
01:10:12,120 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: As time starts now, I.

1608
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 4: Don't think so, honey. Santa Monica, I just came from you.

1609
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 1: Do you live there?

1610
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 4: Malibu?

1611
01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:18,960
Speaker 1: Malibu? Oh? Good for you?

1612
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 4: It's happy for you.

1613
01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 2: Tyler again, Santa Monica, what are you even still doing?

1614
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 2: I hadn't been to you in over a decade, and

1615
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 2: I had to go there for a work event today

1616
01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:29,560
Speaker 2: and I thought, there's nothing here. Fucking freaks are on

1617
01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 2: the boardwalk every day, streaming yelling the rollercoaster. Eight shit,

1618
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 2: I don't think so, honey, there's nothing there. Why would

1619
01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:39,040
Speaker 2: I ever go to the west side. I'm sorry. Since

1620
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:41,439
Speaker 2: private practice, you have not had a moment Santa Monica.

1621
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 2: You've not had a culturally significant moment.

1622
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:44,680
Speaker 4: And I don't know.

1623
01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 2: I think for the Olympics in La in twenty twenty eight,

1624
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 2: we better be doing something with that area where knock

1625
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:51,800
Speaker 2: it down, put.

1626
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:53,760
Speaker 1: Them a parking lot. It's already mostly parking lot.

1627
01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 4: Girl.

1628
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:54,479
Speaker 1: Period.

1629
01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 2: I think you, I think you really build a lot

1630
01:10:57,439 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 2: of housing there for people, because there's no one cool

1631
01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 2: is living there. I'm sorry if you live in Santa Monica,

1632
01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 2: but this is my opinion, and I think we build

1633
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:06,760
Speaker 2: a lot of affordable housing in Santa Monica and then

1634
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 2: that'll actually make it a worthwhile place.

1635
01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 1: That's one minute.

1636
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,760
Speaker 5: I think that you've never been so dead on.

1637
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 1: It's almost like you have the guys, because you know,

1638
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 1: what we need to do is knock down Santa Monica.

1639
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:19,240
Speaker 2: And put up apartments. But it may it maybe a

1640
01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 2: couple of sports venues for the Olympics. If it adds

1641
01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:22,400
Speaker 2: to the community one.

1642
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:24,720
Speaker 4: Hundred per If it outs to the community, there's only

1643
01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:25,400
Speaker 4: a chance at one.

1644
01:11:25,439 --> 01:11:27,679
Speaker 5: I'll tell you what Santa Monica is. It's a good picture.

1645
01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 1: It's a postcard one picture, one picture down, and you're right,

1646
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:33,639
Speaker 1: that rollercoaster, eight.

1647
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:36,840
Speaker 4: Ship, that Ferris wheel. I've seen bigger.

1648
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,679
Speaker 1: One thousand percent. First of all, let me tell you something.

1649
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: It goes Malibu, Venice. Yes, because I'm a ven now

1650
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:46,720
Speaker 1: in Milana day, I'm in delight Era.

1651
01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 5: What do you see for her.

1652
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 4: Tunnels?

1653
01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 5: Understand, you're right, You're right right now.

1654
01:11:53,280 --> 01:11:56,680
Speaker 1: She be like, no one could have known that. But

1655
01:11:56,920 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 1: then yeah, down there, down there Malibu.

1656
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 3: Oh well, it's kind of going down Centa. But I

1657
01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 3: have a rant against Prius. Prius drivers just no, yeah,

1658
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:08,719
Speaker 3: I'm here today.

1659
01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm right.

1660
01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 4: We're going to schedule somebody, Yes, tight schedule and we

1661
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:13,800
Speaker 4: got it. We got it. Now, let's do it. Okay,

1662
01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 4: this is Tyler Harris. I don't think so many his

1663
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:18,320
Speaker 4: time starts new I don't think so. Prius drivers are

1664
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 4: the absolute worst. I'm calling out every single listener who

1665
01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 4: has a Prius, particularly a gray Prius. I'm gonna throw

1666
01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:23,599
Speaker 4: that out there.

1667
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 3: Is driven by cranberry juice and a dream. It is

1668
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:32,680
Speaker 3: motivated down that little highway by the farts of environmentalists.

1669
01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 3: It is powered by pure carbon emissions in a great

1670
01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:41,400
Speaker 3: feet of irony. And this only goes thirty seconds. Prius

1671
01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:42,679
Speaker 3: drivers are on.

1672
01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:47,800
Speaker 4: Thirty seconds. He got it out, got it out right.

1673
01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 4: That wasnise.

1674
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:50,519
Speaker 1: Can I tell you I think that a lot of

1675
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 1: the readers, Katie's publicist and finalists might be driving a

1676
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 1: Prius and they're going to drive off the road. And

1677
01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:57,200
Speaker 1: I would just say, if you've driven off the road,

1678
01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 1: call for help. Now hit the star. We're sorry to

1679
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:00,760
Speaker 1: have shaken you.

1680
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,000
Speaker 4: So they don't go fast enough to go over a cliff,

1681
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 4: Oh my, they really, They're just gonna come to a

1682
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 4: very gentle stop in the middle of the road.

1683
01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 1: So you're saying, Prius is they are a thing of

1684
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:12,639
Speaker 1: the past and should remain in the past.

1685
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 3: Oh, absolutely, we need to quit making them just walk, Yes,

1686
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 3: just walk, just walk.

1687
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 2: We're thankful for Prius, this for everything they've done to

1688
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 2: create the model for a hybrid car.

1689
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:22,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1690
01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 2: But I had a mean dean in high school who

1691
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:27,479
Speaker 2: drove a Prius. She was out to get me.

1692
01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, there was a lot of adults, a lot.

1693
01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:31,400
Speaker 4: Of adults in my high school who really did not

1694
01:13:31,479 --> 01:13:32,320
Speaker 4: know what to do with did you.

1695
01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 1: I mean, this is true, Like he had a theater

1696
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:38,280
Speaker 1: teacher who refused to acknowledge his star quality. And here's

1697
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: the thing is like, when you meet Bowen, it's immediately evident,

1698
01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:42,439
Speaker 1: and so she was jealous.

1699
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 5: I think a lot of the adults were jealous of you.

1700
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:47,920
Speaker 2: I will shout out one adult who was amazing, Adrian

1701
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:50,719
Speaker 2: hol Dean. He's retiring after years and years of working

1702
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:52,760
Speaker 2: as a one of the best math teachers in the

1703
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 2: country and he was my improv coach.

1704
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 1: There you go, and he gave me.

1705
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:59,679
Speaker 4: My path, which was to do frivolous comedy on stage.

1706
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:01,519
Speaker 1: And while we're doing this, I want to shout out

1707
01:14:01,560 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: my fourth grade teacher, Ted Dumaguard. At the end of

1708
01:14:04,080 --> 01:14:05,599
Speaker 1: the year, he looked at me in the eyes and

1709
01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 1: he said, you need to take life less seriously because

1710
01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:11,839
Speaker 1: your essence is fun and you take yourself too seriously.

1711
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:14,320
Speaker 1: And then I never took myself seriously a single day

1712
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 1: in my life ever, Beautiful, I don't take myself seriously.

1713
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 4: And that is why we love you Tyler. Adults you

1714
01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:21,160
Speaker 4: want to shout out, oh, you.

1715
01:14:21,160 --> 01:14:25,040
Speaker 3: Know what, shots my mom and dad he exists.

1716
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 1: People are like, where's your dad? Is he just? Is

1717
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:28,400
Speaker 1: he gone?

1718
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:31,600
Speaker 4: Is he in the ether? No, he's just shy.

1719
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 1: You know.

1720
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:33,640
Speaker 3: The greatest gift you can give your child is to

1721
01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 3: love them unconditionally, and when you do so, you become

1722
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:39,240
Speaker 3: foundational to their self esteem. And that's the gift that

1723
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:43,040
Speaker 3: my parents gave me. So beautiful, word up, word up, beautifully.

1724
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:46,519
Speaker 1: Put. This has been such a great experience and what

1725
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:48,680
Speaker 1: an amazing time getting to know you and get to

1726
01:14:48,680 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 1: talk to you. I can't wait to follow up. I

1727
01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:53,599
Speaker 1: know we both can. And you have to go see

1728
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 1: Tyler on tour. Is there a website where they can

1729
01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:55,799
Speaker 1: get tickets?

1730
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, Tyler Henry Hollywood medium dot com. There you go, yep,

1731
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 4: Hollywood medium dot com.

1732
01:15:01,840 --> 01:15:04,320
Speaker 3: Very un brand right, the other domain was taken, Tyler,

1733
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:06,640
Speaker 3: don't go to that one. That one's a little is it.

1734
01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 3: That's a little bit more CD.

1735
01:15:09,320 --> 01:15:10,200
Speaker 4: Henry after Dark.

1736
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:12,960
Speaker 5: Here's the thing about Tyler Henry is that's a kind

1737
01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 5: of iconic porn name.

1738
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 4: It's a great it's a great porn name. It is

1739
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:19,440
Speaker 4: it is a great medium name. Thank you, Thank you medium,

1740
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 4: you could do both. Medium A T I U M.

1741
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 4: He's a big medium. Meet you very good at that.

1742
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:30,479
Speaker 4: The word play, thank you, very good.

1743
01:15:30,520 --> 01:15:36,200
Speaker 1: That see the joke coming. The word episode of every

1744
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:36,920
Speaker 1: episode with the.

1745
01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 4: Song yes I can see, I can see.

1746
01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:44,880
Speaker 1: What are the words to about?

1747
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 4: I just know the chorus?

1748
01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 1: Well, now we're all tortured poets, pilled, so we don't know.

1749
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:52,680
Speaker 1: We totally forgot to speak now. Sorry, sorry Taylor. Bye,