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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl Lex Pete any Sugarl

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Speaker 1: Dray and.

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Speaker 2: A cold and you are tuned into another episode of

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Speaker 2: poor Mind.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: Well, let me say I'm in a fantastic fucking mood today.

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Speaker 1: Why are you?

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Speaker 2: First of all, friend brought me some flowers. Thank you, friends,

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Speaker 2: I got some flowers. I feel like a one with

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Speaker 2: a vase, but they didn't have no basis. It's all right, girl,

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Speaker 2: I'm supposed to make my nigga mad. Y'all know I

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Speaker 2: have an addiction to getting dumped, so I'm just playing.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 3: I got my hair wrapped on today.

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Speaker 2: My hair is just hanging on by a string, so

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Speaker 2: y'all just gonna have to excuse me. Y'all know, I

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Speaker 2: know how y'all be in big and uh screen comments,

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Speaker 2: so relax on me today.

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Speaker 1: Okay, your hairpoint.

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Speaker 2: My hairppointment is Friday, because I'm going to Miami this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Friday.

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Speaker 3: No, I'll leave in Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Morning and you coming.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully i'll make it back by Monday to record. But

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Speaker 2: y'all know how she'd be when you in Miami.

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Speaker 1: Y'allay, I just came, Dick, So how was your work?

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Speaker 2: Well, first of all, let me say, my my roommate

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Speaker 2: is sitting right there, and mind you, we have been

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Speaker 2: around her like every day for like years, and she's

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Speaker 2: like jazz has her mask on the dress like, I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry I didn't introduce myself.

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Speaker 1: I'm dress. I really okay. We're in between in turns

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Speaker 1: right now and sometimes lexby doing shit without telling me.

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Speaker 1: So I just thought that maybe you think I would

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Speaker 1: hire a whole I'm not saying higher, but maybe somebody

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Speaker 1: could come, like, look what they gonna see us talk

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Speaker 1: about sucking, dick. There's not much to see here talking

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Speaker 1: about booty hull fucking out bitch. But don't have a

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Speaker 1: ship to do with the fact I was drinking the

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Speaker 1: whole week. That has definitely I really can't tell. So

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Speaker 1: tell us about your week, hunt, Okay, So my week

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Speaker 1: was good? Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Oh, she's smiling. I know about your week.

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Speaker 1: You know about my week? Okay. So I was in Houston,

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Speaker 1: I think, but I kind of talked about this already

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Speaker 1: on the last episode, like my little Houston boo. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I did. I talked about him on the last episode.

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Speaker 1: So I'm actually going to La tomorrow. I was supposed

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Speaker 1: to be mommy. I was supposed to be going today.

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Speaker 1: My flight was supposed to leave it at seven, but

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Speaker 1: your girl is tired, Like I feel like I just

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Speaker 1: need to be at my house for day to LA tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, going today, But yeah, I'm gonna go.

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Speaker 3: To I think I like him already.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he cool. So we're supposed to be geting on

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Speaker 1: the y. We're supposed to be going to La tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, that's gonna be fun. And then you know,

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Speaker 1: I just came back from Miami. I went to Miami

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Speaker 1: on Saturday. Well, actually first I went to Dallas.

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Speaker 3: You're from Dallas.

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Speaker 1: I was in Houston. I went to Dallis because somebody

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Speaker 1: we didn't do nothing that I wanted to do or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But you know, he got me some bands for wasting

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Speaker 1: my time, so I can't be too mad about that, queen.

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Speaker 1: So I was already supposed to go to Miami Saturday.

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Speaker 1: It was like a little family trip. I was going

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Speaker 1: got on the yacht yesterday. It was super super fun.

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Speaker 1: But it was some bullshit that happened yesterday too with

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Speaker 2: But other than that, I had fund spirits.

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Speaker 1: I liked it. I am. I'm in a good mood,

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Speaker 2: That's good. Girl.

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Speaker 1: I can't went to get to LA and shopping.

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Speaker 2: I know, that's right, Queen, I'm definitely gonna give me

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Speaker 1: Lately. Hey, I'm low key having getting my fucking pieces.

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Speaker 2: Bitch Godfield to come through, she said, Bitch, we're not

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Speaker 1: Pieces like I have been.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, uh, yeah, I told you I got everything

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Speaker 2: I wanted for my birthday. Like I had a really

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Speaker 2: great birthday. This past week. I just been doing the

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Speaker 2: same old sucking dig getting fucked on the phone with

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Speaker 2: Throwback Bay.

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Speaker 1: We're good.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that's about it.

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Speaker 1: You're really only exclusively talking to throw By.

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Speaker 2: Now, Look, Jazmin, I don't want to say but okay,

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Speaker 2: first of all, let me explain to y'all something like

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Speaker 2: it's a Corona COVID situation, like you know, like I

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Speaker 2: have no not with him, but I'm saying, like I

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Speaker 2: But it's just like it's not a lot going on

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Speaker 2: in slow Buggie, but I fuck with him like this

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Speaker 2: is my friend. First of all, y'all know how I am.

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Speaker 2: I'm very like tomboyish, like when I with be my nigga.

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Speaker 2: So it's like this is my dog. You know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. It's like we're having fun, We're enjoining each other.

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Speaker 2: It's not nothing serious. It's just like we hang out,

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Speaker 2: we have fun. I get some great dick. He fine

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Speaker 2: as fuck. Like it's a little situation. You know, it's cool,

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Speaker 2: But I like him though, No, I do love here

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Speaker 2: buying gilt. See she all right, you take me too

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Speaker 2: far less, Let's dial it on back beach dial.

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Speaker 3: You have to go there, cut the micut the mic.

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Speaker 2: No, but yeah, I definitely got him again. For his birthday.

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Speaker 2: But he you know, he showed up for my birthday.

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Speaker 2: You know, he definitely did what he had to do.

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Speaker 2: What was I about to say? But honestly, I've been

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Speaker 2: working a lot. I work a lot and then between

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Speaker 2: and it's like, I'm really fucking busy, and I feel like,

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Speaker 2: it's cool, it's cool. It ain't nothing serious. It's my

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I haven't. I don't have nothing exciting to

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Speaker 2: I'm actually gonna do for my my next Patreon episode,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a Miami blog. I never vlogged when

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Speaker 2: I go on trips. I promise y'all. I'm blogging this

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about doing that, but it'd be hard

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Speaker 1: you be drinking, and I mean, you just be busy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wanted to be closed.

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Speaker 1: Because we can be not so I think the restaurants

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Speaker 3: I don't even want to be in the club.

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Speaker 2: So so yeah, yeah, i'll blog that for y'all. But

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Speaker 2: I just did a Patreon episode. Like I said, I

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Speaker 2: When do be watching, a lot of people listen, y'all,

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Speaker 2: I'm not being funny. A lot of people will watch

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Speaker 2: this show that claim they don't like us just to

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Speaker 1: So that just to see what we're talking about, just

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Speaker 2: So the episode on Patreon that I did, I don't

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Speaker 3: Want to eat suit oh sued as I said, whatever.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, the new Patreon is up, So if y'all

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Speaker 2: aren't subscribed to our patreon, make sure y'all go subscribe

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Speaker 2: to our patreon.

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Speaker 1: I have part two of my episode when me and

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Speaker 1: my age dropping on Friday.

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Speaker 3: Gonna get real good, Okay, So let's get into it.

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Speaker 2: So the first topic I want to talk about today,

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Speaker 2: it's just probably gonna be real quick. But one of

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Speaker 2: our patreons had asked us, patrons is a patrons whatever?

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Speaker 2: Y'all know, I can't sit. So one of the patrons asked.

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Speaker 2: They were like, what is the true definition of a

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Speaker 2: pick me?

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Speaker 3: I'm dead.

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Speaker 2: M And you know, Dreda don't like eating Gucci and

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Speaker 2: she had a fake bag.

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Speaker 3: The audacity.

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Speaker 1: I do like eating Kuccie.

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Speaker 2: But let me tell y'all something. Drad gonna make you

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Speaker 2: eat her coochie. She gonna be like, okay, thanks.

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Speaker 1: That is usually how it happened. But I have a

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Speaker 3: Exactly. Okay, keep going on with the story.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I thought I had something for you,

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Speaker 1: like it's a boogerm.

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Speaker 3: I know, it's just like some o you know, the

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Speaker 1: She got a butter. She ain't no bad bitch.

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Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: They be ready to attack too, bitch, They be ready.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, so she's just start saying pick me stuff

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Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with wanting somebody to invest in property

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a real woman.

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Speaker 1: That's what I like.

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Speaker 2: That's not wall. If you're gonna pay for something. For

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Speaker 1: Like I don't like that split and shit. So I

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Speaker 2: Like a definition of a pigmy is somebody, like I said,

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Speaker 2: y'all want to be in these relationships so bad. Why

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Speaker 2: when it's your time, it's your time. You don't have

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Speaker 2: Because let me tell you something, I'd have been in

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Speaker 1: But one thing I can say is I've always been

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Speaker 2: Fun in my relationships, like I always have good relationship.

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Speaker 1: Now they may end bad, but I'm always me, I mean,

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Speaker 1: then he wooked my flight.

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Speaker 1: So it's just like he know I'm gonna want to

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Speaker 3: Period. You like him. That's the third time.

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Speaker 1: Name cool.

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Speaker 3: You know y' y'all done the nasty Yet.

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Speaker 1: Breakfast every day every day. I'm not doing that ship

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, breakfast no, But I would

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Speaker 2: you know breakfast, Oh No, I had no because most

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Speaker 3: You're believe they leave? No, honestly, I would.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'll be working or I'll have to leave

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Speaker 2: Would I absolutely like, Oh mind that dick too good

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Speaker 2: not to cook them a little egg, bitch, I'll make

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Speaker 1: With some capers.

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Speaker 3: You know, I love a mean caper bitch. Okay. So

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Speaker 3: I wanted to talk.

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Speaker 2: About being a fun girl, okay, because I saw somebody

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Speaker 1: Right, like when it comes? But you know me, we

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Speaker 2: Right, So I feel like I'm the same way. I'm

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Speaker 2: let's get mad, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Be like, fucking then let's do it.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like, why do you have to choose

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Speaker 1: I have a fun wife? Yes, because let me tell

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Speaker 1: y'all something, y'all do get married. That's what I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Because y'all saw, look, I'll be getting turned up with

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Speaker 2: my niggas, Like every time you, every time you've been

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Speaker 2: up drunk, dancing on each other, having a good time

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Speaker 3: Be your wife?

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Speaker 1: I feel like you can. Don't ask me because I

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Speaker 2: It's just crazy that people think that you have to choose,

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Speaker 1: Hot, because it feels like they can't be theyself and

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Speaker 1: really have fun with Yes, they feel like, oh, my wife,

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Speaker 1: is he have fun with me?

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Speaker 2: Oh you know, y'all, y'all husbands, come have fun with me.

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Speaker 3: Done, and you just gotta be like, Hi, we come.

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Speaker 2: Home like no fuck that turn up with your nigga,

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Speaker 3: That's what keeps relationships going.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like that for men as well, Like

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Speaker 3: And do nothing.

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Speaker 1: Niggas do that when they get married. Some niggas do,

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Speaker 1: some niggas do.

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Speaker 2: Some niggas just become boring, like they don't want to

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Speaker 2: I feel like you gotta be you gotta keep that spunk.

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Speaker 2: You gotta be fun Like being a fun girl is

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Speaker 1: I feel like as you get older, maybe you're fun

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Speaker 1: I see us like more so, you know, going on vacations,

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Speaker 1: all right, bitch, what you're talking about. I mean less

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna just be doing it in ballet, bitch, But

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Speaker 2: Probably pretty If a nigga, If my nigga want to

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Speaker 1: You're a Medusa, bitch, You're gonna be up in the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, niggas be fifty in that home and guess what,

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Speaker 2: a lure, I'm going to a lord, bitch. It's like it.

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Speaker 1: Why not?

439
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Speaker 3: See?

440
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like as I get older, I probably

441
00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:45,640
Speaker 1: will club list. I mean I will club to completely

442
00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,639
Speaker 1: stop the beach. I'm not about to be sixty up

443
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Speaker 1: in there.

444
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be sicking in my bag. I'm gonna six,

445
00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:52,080
Speaker 3: were gonna be sixty still doing poor minds.

446
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like girl, I was in the nursing

447
00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:57,240
Speaker 2: home last night, second on that dick, not the.

448
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Speaker 1: Fucking nursing at turning ourselves. I'm in a nurse. I'm

449
00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,040
Speaker 1: gonna be on in the States.

450
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:04,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna come visit you at the state.

451
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Speaker 1: Who trying to get the dick sucked?

452
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,840
Speaker 2: They gonna be like, oh, ship dre a friend here again, y'all,

453
00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,840
Speaker 2: that crazy lady here again, who.

454
00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:16,240
Speaker 1: Trying to get the nuts flecked. You're gonna be a wild.

455
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Speaker 2: As all like I am, I really am, But I

456
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:19,480
Speaker 2: feel like that's gonna be fun.

457
00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:20,720
Speaker 3: Like I feel like I'm fun.

458
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Speaker 2: One thing about like my relationships with guys that I have,

459
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:25,040
Speaker 2: even with my friends.

460
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Speaker 1: One thing we gonna do is motherfucking laugh. I agree

461
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Speaker 1: that's important though, Like what kind of what nigga want

462
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Speaker 1: to be with a bitch that's not fun and funny

463
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Speaker 1: because you're gonna get.

464
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Speaker 2: These jokes, bitch, you know what I'm saying. So, yes,

465
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Speaker 2: that's our opinion. Do y'all feel like you have to

466
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Speaker 2: choose between being a fun girl and being a wife.

467
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Speaker 3: I'm really interested. Can y'all please let us will?

468
00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:47,080
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna let you.

469
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Speaker 2: Bring in the next topic because you said you had

470
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Speaker 2: a story, child. I try to have too many stories.

471
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Speaker 2: It been too much one oh always, you know. Before

472
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Speaker 2: we get into this, I want to talk about something

473
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Speaker 2: real quick. Y'all know, I always gotta bring this up.

474
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Speaker 2: If y'all don't know, we're working with Better Help right

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476
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478
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Speaker 2: Like I said, you're not gonna be talking to me Andre, Okay,

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516
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Speaker 2: through my own shit. So I can't take on y'all's

517
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Speaker 2: problems and my own. So if you're going through something, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, girl.

527
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Speaker 1: Okay, So yes, I wanted to talk about rude business owners. Okay,

528
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Speaker 1: Like I said, you know, I went to Miami this

529
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Speaker 1: past weekend. Was on the yacht yesterday. The guy that

530
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Speaker 1: owned the yacht was very, very rude, and I just

531
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,360
Speaker 1: think it's crazy how people could be so rude when

532
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 1: you're like literally paying them your money, Like you would

533
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Speaker 1: not be in business if I was not hanging your

534
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So he was just rude

535
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Speaker 1: as fuck, like I done been on yachts.

536
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Speaker 3: Can I the race of this man.

537
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Speaker 1: He was Latino. I'm not sure what he was specifically,

538
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Speaker 1: but yeah, he was just rude as fuck. Like like I,

539
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Speaker 1: like I said, I haven't been on yachts a lot

540
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Speaker 1: of times. I've never had a situation like that happened before.

541
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Speaker 1: We had to be on two separate yachts because we

542
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Speaker 1: had more than twelve people because of like the coronavirus

543
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: restrictions and stuff that's going on right now, and we

544
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Speaker 1: ended up last minute having to be on his boat.

545
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Speaker 1: He wouldn't let us take our shoes on the boat.

546
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Speaker 1: We have to leave our shoes like in some type

547
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Speaker 1: of chest what. Yes, I've never been in the situation

548
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Speaker 1: where they make you take your shoes off and you

549
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: can't have them on the boat. So we have to

550
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Speaker 1: take our shoes off. But the way it wasn't so

551
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: much that he made us take our shoes off, but

552
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Speaker 1: the way that he was explaining, and he was rude

553
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: about it. It's not about what you say, it's how

554
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Speaker 1: you say exactly. And then he made us have like

555
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 1: this safety meeting and he was just telling us a

556
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 1: whole bunch of bullshit. Then he's basically had kind of

557
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 1: told us that if we fall off the boat, he

558
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Speaker 1: ain't saving us. He hope everybody can swim. Oh my god,

559
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 1: Like two people on the boat that couldn't swim and

560
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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, thank god I could fucking swim, because

561
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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I was gonna save nobody. I

562
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: had to save myself.

563
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Speaker 2: You remember when that girl almost drowned and Jamaica got

564
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Speaker 2: bad and we was laughing at her.

565
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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't remember who, Oh she did almost droun.

566
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Speaker 1: But see, people gotta stop. I'm not trying to be funny. Feck,

567
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: when you go on vacation, yes, you gotta have fun,

568
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Speaker 1: but bach if you know you can't swim within limits,

569
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Speaker 1: have fun within limits.

570
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Speaker 2: But we probably would have saved it though. Okay, you

571
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 2: said you're a great swimmer. I'm a fantastic swimmer. You've

572
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 2: witnessed it.

573
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Speaker 1: So you could have saved the list maya, all right,

574
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 1: keep going with the story down. But anyways, he was

575
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Speaker 1: just rude as fucking so. I also seen a meme

576
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 1: on Instagram they said your Beaches was rude as fucking

577
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: high school. Now y'all want us to support your business,

578
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: and they kind of prompted me to want to talk

579
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Speaker 1: about rude business honest too, because I just think it's,

580
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Speaker 1: like I said, I just think it's crazy, like people

581
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Speaker 1: need you to spend your money with them and to

582
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Speaker 1: keep their business running. So I think it's crazy that

583
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 1: people could just you know, be rude and I have

584
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: no customer service.

585
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Speaker 2: And let me say this, one thing about me is

586
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 2: I can get like an excellent service from somebody and

587
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 2: they can be rude, and then I can get a

588
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 2: mediocre service from somebody and they treat me like a queen.

589
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go back to the mediocre person that treats

590
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Speaker 2: me like a queen. Yes, absolutely, just because that's so

591
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,879
Speaker 2: much for me. Like, I just order these rings from

592
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 2: my friend. He has a jewelry line, ROSSI p LLC.

593
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 2: I'll tag it in the bottom. But he was just like,

594
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 2: did you get your stuff? How is it like checking up?

595
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 2: Checking in? He sends nice emails back, Like, I feel

596
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 2: like it's all about customer service.

597
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Speaker 3: It's so such a big deal.

598
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 2: I spend money with people that make sure that I'm good.

599
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 2: I like the product, just like the girl I bought

600
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: my hair from, like she's super super sweet. She sent

601
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Speaker 2: me a wig and then I went back and I

602
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 2: purchased another one because her customer service was so freaking excellent,

603
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So I feel like when

604
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Speaker 2: you treat customers right now. The fact of the matter

605
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 2: is word of mouth is a big thing too. So now,

606
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 2: if he would have gave y'all a great experience on

607
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,400
Speaker 2: that good boat, you could have been like, hey, Lex

608
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 2: is going to Miami this weekend. Let me give you

609
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 2: the information to this man boat so y'all can go

610
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,719
Speaker 2: and spend some money when because he was cool, but

611
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 2: now it's like you missing out on.

612
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: My money, yep, because he was rude as fuck. Like

613
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 1: I've never in my life been on a fucking yacht

614
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: and had a captain that was that rude and nasty.

615
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 3: Or no, you just I don't think so.

616
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: I think he's just rude, and I think he's very,

617
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 1: very anal about how he ran his boat. But it's

618
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,120
Speaker 1: just certain things that he was saying was unnecessary because,

619
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Speaker 1: like I said, we split up into two different boats.

620
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Speaker 1: So we finally got to like a certain point in

621
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: the ocean or whatever, and we dit and you know,

622
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 1: people was jumping off, swimming and stuff like that. Some

623
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 1: of the guys from the other boat had jumped off,

624
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: and he was like, yeah, I hope that everybody can

625
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 1: slim because I'm not jumping in to say nobody and

626
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: it's just like, what the fuck, Like, that's what you're

627
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 1: supposed to do as the captain, right, you captain responsible.

628
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 1: I mean, when people are on your boat, you're responsible

629
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Speaker 1: for them. That's the way it go. So it's just

630
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: kind of like that's fucked up.

631
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Speaker 2: His insurance must be out for him to be stripping

632
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: like that. He said, no shoes, no nothing.

633
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: Girl, I don't know what the fuck was going on.

634
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 1: And he was just so fucking rude. And then one

635
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: of the girls up on the boat she had on

636
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: like some like old navy flip flops or something. He

637
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think you should be worried about

638
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: putting your flip flops in there. We be having three

639
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: thousand dollars. Chanils ain't nobody about to take your shoes

640
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: because she was saying she didn't want to put her

641
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: shoes in the bottom. Come on, bro, Like, damn, you

642
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: ain't even have to say all that.

643
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,439
Speaker 2: I know you was laughing because I know I like

644
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 2: not the old navy flip flops. She did, though, but

645
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,360
Speaker 2: I'll say this, ooh, I want to see you about

646
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 2: the food.

647
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 3: I'm dead.

648
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 2: I just feel like, like I said, with business owners,

649
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 2: the way you treat your customers goes a long way.

650
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 2: How many times have we seen people go viral for

651
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 2: talking bad to their clients or talking bad to their customers,

652
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 2: and people being like, I'm not purchasing from them because

653
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 2: I know it's a lot of businesses I've seen people

654
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 2: talking to their clients or talking to somebody bad. I'm like,

655
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 2: I would never go to her, Like even the girl

656
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 2: that does my hair, She's super, super nice, super professional.

657
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 2: I don't care that if somebody is black, white, purple, whatever.

658
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 2: I like to be treated, you know. Like, I'm like,

659
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 2: I'm a paying customer, and I know a lot of

660
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 2: times some people be like she.

661
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 1: And I just gave you my money, right.

662
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 3: My heart earned money, y'all know.

663
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 2: Look, I got more than three dollars now, so I'm

664
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 2: spending it a little more, but I want it wise.

665
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 3: I want to spend it wisely. Okay.

666
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 2: So I just feel like I think a lot of

667
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 2: times people are harder on black owners though, like they

668
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 2: expect like they'll let shit slide with Susie, but they

669
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 2: won't let shit slide with Keisha.

670
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

671
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I feel like a lot of times people

672
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 2: don't keep the same. Yeah, they don't keep the same

673
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 2: energy Like I Susan running little late to do y'all

674
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 2: last you be like, oh it's okay, it's okay, Keisha

675
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 2: running like you like bitch damn Like I'm in't sitting

676
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: here waiting not saying that that's okay. But I do

677
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 2: feel like y'all sometimes give white people more.

678
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: I wonder why why do you think that? Is? Like

679
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 1: why do you think that?

680
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 2: Because I feel like they feel like you, my sister,

681
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 2: and it's like, no, it's not like that. You're a

682
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 2: professional and I'm a paying customer. Right, So the expectations

683
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 2: I have for Susan are the expectations I have for you.

684
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

685
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: But if Susan made me mad, I'm telling Susan, hey, bitch,

686
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 2: you know I'm not coming' as them or either you

687
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. Like, if I get bad served

688
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:13,719
Speaker 2: from anybody, it has nothing to do with race. Like

689
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 2: I said, everybody I go to the lady does my nails, Chise,

690
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 2: that does my Arnese, that does my nails, everybody, the

691
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 2: girl that does my hair rich Loo Care, does my

692
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 2: hair professionalist fluck And it's never on something Oh hey girl,

693
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 2: my bad, I'm late, My bad because you my girl.

694
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: No, it's professionalism all the time.

695
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 2: So I feel like when you give that energy, that's

696
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 2: how you're gonna make money and be successful because word

697
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 2: of mouth is the best promotion.

698
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: That's why most of y'all listener our listeners are here.

699
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:39,719
Speaker 1: Because what we do.

700
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: We respond to y'all. We talk back to y'all. I'm

701
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 2: always on the Patreon talking to y'all, be like, hey.

702
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: Always patre Yeah, always responding to comments under my pictures

703
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: on Instagram. I try to respond to y'all dms when

704
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: I be seeing them and stuff. So it's like, yeah,

705
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: you have to be nice if you want people to

706
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: support you.

707
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

708
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 2: I feel like that's what And honestly, I feel like

709
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 2: that's what's got our podcast way be personal. Yeah, and

710
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 2: then I'll be talking. I'll be talking on the dans

711
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 2: all the time. Like I have so many people I

712
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 2: follow this. I'm like, oh, I'm gonna follow hook. She

713
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 2: always be in the comments and she always be She's

714
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: a big supporter, So I'll.

715
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 3: Fuck with y'all.

716
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: And I think that just kind of also goes back

717
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: to like something that we talked about on an earlier episode,

718
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: I just feel like everybody does not need to be

719
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 1: a business owner.

720
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 3: Oh for sure.

721
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: I said that before and I'm gonna say that should again.

722
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: Everybody these days see all these quote unquote self made

723
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: boss is being made, and everybody wants to be an entrepreneur.

724
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: Everybody does not have what it takes to be an entrepreneur.

725
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: You have to have good customer service skills if you

726
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: want to be an entrepreneur. If you're gonna be selling

727
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: a tangible product, and a lot of y'all sell products

728
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: and y'all customer service sucks.

729
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 3: Yep, So you know, and you can't get mad.

730
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes people gonna return shit, it's gonna happen, and you

731
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: be like, I'm not no, no, and like it's like

732
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 2: you can't be like that. You gotta be understanding that

733
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 2: when you running a business, you gonna take some ls sometimes,

734
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, a lot of the time

735
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 2: here we be taking l's. Not really, I ain't taking

736
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 2: no more ls now.

737
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 1: But we took we took l's in the beginning. We

738
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: did oh for for show, Jesus, thank God. The growing pain.

739
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna get into the bed dub By

740
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: a A.

741
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: I love how CAS should be over the Okay, I'm

742
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: gonna let you introduced because this is your topic. Okay,

743
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 1: So I want us to talk about limits and boundaries

744
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: the first time you have six, Like the first time,

745
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: it ain't nothing like the averse time. That is not

746
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 1: the song you're supposed to be singing today. I'm singing

747
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: the song at the end. Oh you do owe them

748
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: two songs you didn't sing last week?

749
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:43,239
Speaker 3: No, I know, I know.

750
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 1: Okay, come on, man, that's the topic. Oh, so there's

751
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: limits and boundaries the first time that you have six

752
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 1: with somebody, Do you have any limits in I definitely do? Okay,

753
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: like what?

754
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 3: Okay?

755
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 2: So remember that time I told y'all it was a

756
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 2: few weeks ago. No, it was a few months ago

757
00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 2: when we were recording at Kiki House and I said,

758
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 2: I asked, you only fuck this nigga.

759
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 3: Remember the dude I accidentally.

760
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: Fucked, He accidentally folly.

761
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 2: He accidentally fell on my pussy, like and I regret

762
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 2: it because he won't leave me alone.

763
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: But anyway, so oka, girl, he not ugly or nothing.

764
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 1: I just don't like him.

765
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 2: But anyways, I feel like with that, I definitely was lemiting,

766
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 2: You're not about to get this good wop?

767
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 1: So what was you doing? I was just laying there, Okay.

768
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 2: I was really just laying there on some shit like

769
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: I wanted some dig but it just wasn't doing it

770
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 2: for me.

771
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 3: Definitely wasn't sucking no dig.

772
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 2: Like. But now, if I fuck with you when it's

773
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 2: the first time and I'm trying to show out, okay, like,

774
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 2: if I fuck with you, it ain't no boundaries.

775
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 3: What do you want me to do?

776
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: Daddy?

777
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 3: I'm about to eat that ass you.

778
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 2: Gonna eat the first time if I fuck with you

779
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: in the box right, drop them balls in my mouth?

780
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 3: Everything I want?

781
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: All you about to get the works, not the work, baby.

782
00:32:53,800 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: I was asking because I had six with Houston.

783
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 3: Babe Dreda had sex.

784
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: Wow, girl, shut the fuck up. You do not?

785
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 3: Oh my god? Okay, So how was I.

786
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: Just wasn't having We ain't gonna talk about it.

787
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 3: Yes, please, okay? So how was sex with Houston?

788
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: Bad? So good? He on you? It was really good.

789
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 3: He got a big dick.

790
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: It's like the size that I like. It's like girthy,

791
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: but it's not too long, like.

792
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 3: You know, girthy makes you worthy?

793
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: What we're gonna call him no, the one that I

794
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: looked a few weeks ago. I can't remember that I

795
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: used to suck. Oh, I don't know, but his deep

796
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 1: too big. I didn't like that, and I don't know

797
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: how I used to be him. But anyways, Yeah, so

798
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: it was garthy. It was a good size, and it

799
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: was like really good?

800
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 3: Was he passionate?

801
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: He was, Oh, I love.

802
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 3: I love a good in the mouth.

803
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: So this is y'all's first time you let me spin

804
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: in your mouth.

805
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 3: That's a big step.

806
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: Saying, I know, especially with coronavirus going around. What was

807
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: I thinking? It was the nineteen forty two y'all?

808
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 2: Look just know all about that nineteen forty two too

809
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 2: heavy loose?

810
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: But you know, I feel like I felt like I

811
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 1: kind of felt like I was being too freaky. That's

812
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: why I was asking, like, do you have limits in boundaries?

813
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 2: No? If I if I fuck with you when I

814
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 2: know this is not about to be a one time thing,

815
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 2: like with the dude that I accidentally let beat, I

816
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 2: know we was gonna beat no more. So I'm just like,

817
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 2: just like no, but if I know we about to,

818
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 2: like I could tell like we're about to be fucking around,

819
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 2: and you're about to be like one of my people, like,

820
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: oh we're about to why not?

821
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 1: Why wait? Why not?

822
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,439
Speaker 2: Like and it's only real and it's only gonna get

823
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 2: better because you got to realize if y'all took it

824
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 2: there the first time, then y'all gonna start really getting

825
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 2: to know each other's bodies and really getting to like

826
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 2: getting to the needy gritty of what you really really like.

827
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 2: Because I man, I had a conversation with th Aw

828
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 2: back back, Okay, we were just talking about like the

829
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 2: things we like that the other person does, So now

830
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 2: I know what to turn up, you know what I'm saying,

831
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 2: because he was telling me just like, but the first

832
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 2: time we had sex, it was freaky as fuck, like

833
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 2: and it's just gotten better and better and better and better.

834
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 2: So I feel like, if you fuck with somebody, pull

835
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 2: out all the stops, bitch fucking till he a freak too.

836
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: I'm trying to play with that booty home, lick it

837
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 2: a little, smack me though some niggas don't. But I

838
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:27,479
Speaker 2: feel like you have to ask.

839
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: I always be scared that a nigga might smack me.

840
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 1: You gotta ask first, like I'd be like you ever

841
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 1: got your ass before? And I wiggle my eyebrows?

842
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 2: So yeah, you ever got your ass? And you wiggle

843
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: your eyebrows so they know what type of time you

844
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 2: means doing?

845
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: Right my botox, don waf my eyebrows move again.

846
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 2: You gotta wiggle your eyebrows and they know what They

847
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 2: be like, Oh, I see what type of time you

848
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 2: gonna be right so Ei, they gonna be like, hell no, man,

849
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: I ain't fucking with that ship. Or they gonna be like,

850
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 2: are you gonna wiggle his eyebrows?

851
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: Mad? And you know, when you suck at that dick

852
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 1: in that booty hole, get the winking. I just don't

853
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: understand why niggas won't let you do it. It's like

854
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: right there, literally this say booty hole, and they want

855
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: you to go down there. They'll start squeezing their booty

856
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 1: hole like hello, don't forget me the bootyhole.

857
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 2: If you see that bootyholl clinch he's sucking his he's

858
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 2: like hello. So when that booty hole start flinching, it's

859
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 2: like a turn. It's like a little signal.

860
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: Okay, see, I gotta start paying more attention to the

861
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 1: queue because.

862
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 3: When I see that booty hole.

863
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you want something, you want something to alright,

864
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 2: here I come.

865
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:36,959
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was like really really good.

866
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 2: I'm glad you had some good sake. Did you have

867
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 2: an orgasm like.

868
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:53,959
Speaker 1: You was cutting? Look at you like you my face

869
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: turning read I did.

870
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 3: That's because that dick was being slapped across your face.

871
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: Okay, So now.

872
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel about first time

873
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 2: sex with a partner. Are y'all wilding, going all out?

874
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 2: Are y'all keeping it cute? I do not like to

875
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 2: keep it cute, keep either. Okay, So now we're gonna

876
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 2: get into the by a the bye a.

877
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 3: What's show Bob? You gotta bop this week?

878
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: Yes?

879
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 3: Okay, well I'll go first.

880
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: Okay, so I have two bots this week.

881
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 2: The first one, first of all, NAS's album is fucking Fire.

882
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 2: It's so fucking good. NAS's back, He's still fine. I

883
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 2: still want to suck your dick. But yeah, the album

884
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 2: is actually really really fired. So I've been literally running

885
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: that hole into the ground. So I have two favorite

886
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 2: songs on there. My first one is blue Bands that

887
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 2: Shit Go Hard, And the second song that I really

888
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 2: like is called Spicy featuring Phibio Phibio Furt fouring Fabio.

889
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: I don't know who the fuck I don't know. Oh yeah,

890
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 2: yeah that's who that is. Okay, so a big drip.

891
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 2: I fell in love with the leap bitch aaa. So anyways,

892
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 2: Na's got a song with him and Astaf Ferg and

893
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 2: that motherfucker go hard. And it's just so crazy how

894
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 2: the music industry is. Because the foreign dude. I bet

895
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: when he was like growing up listening to nots, he

896
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 2: never thought he would be on a track with him,

897
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like that shit just be

898
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 2: crazy how the world works and success works. But yeah,

899
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 2: Spicy by Nis and Blue Bends by Nas one more, okay, Uh.

900
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 2: Jazzmine Sullivan fucking dropped a track this week and that

901
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: whole is so fucking fire.

902
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 3: It's called Lost One.

903
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 2: Jazmine Sullivant is one of the most underrated vocalist in

904
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 2: the fucking industry, and we need to give her her

905
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 2: fucking things so she can come back. The song is

906
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 2: just amazing, it is. It's so fucking good. I think

907
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 2: she might be it's probably the single MM, but this

908
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 2: song is so good. If you wanna get in your feelings.

909
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,439
Speaker 2: Get on that wine. The lyrics are so fucking real,

910
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 2: like one thing about her, she gonna bring them fucking

911
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,360
Speaker 2: lyrics baby and the voice.

912
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 3: And the voice.

913
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: So shout out to Jazma Sullivan lost one. Those are

914
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 2: my bops of the week.

915
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: Okay, so my bob of the week. I don't know

916
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: if you have you heard this song, and I'm not

917
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: even sure if it's a new song, but I know

918
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 1: you talked about King the Men on the show before.

919
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: She have a song called Freaky Freestyle that's out.

920
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I seen the freestyle. I seen it

921
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 2: on her Instagram before. But I don't know if it's newer,

922
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 2: if it's all. I'm not sure if it's newer, if

923
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 2: it's all. But I really really liked this song.

924
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: When I was in Miami, my best friend little sister,

925
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: she like twenty so she'd be knowing about all the

926
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 1: new little music. So she was playing all the little

927
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: bops and stuff, and I was like, girl, who is that?

928
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 1: I thought it was Mulatto at first, I did think

929
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: it was Big Lotto.

930
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, shout out to Houston kend the man go fucking hard.

931
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 3: She does, goes very hard. She's very underrated.

932
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, she is very, very underrated. So yeah, I really

933
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: really like that song. And also, I've been sleeping all

934
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: a little dirt. I've told you. Bruh.

935
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 2: Now I did I tell you that I've been ill dirt?

936
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 2: Now I told you that you laughed at me? Look

937
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 2: I did, I did. Now you could las.

938
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 1: At meha the weed? Okay, So he got that song

939
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: broke up in Miami. I know that that mixtape or

940
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 1: whatever came out in like May this year, but I

941
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: just really started listening to like the songs like.

942
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 3: This, y'all love me. I'm dead.

943
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 1: You better seen that shit, you stupid bitch.

944
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 2: Oh good, babu up the questions. She's okay, Yeah, shout

945
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 2: out to a little dark, Little Dark, go hard.

946
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 3: He got a song with Gunner that I really like.

947
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 2: Chanel Gucci, Oh yeah, I like. Okay, So now we're

948
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 2: gonna get into the questions of the week. Make sure

949
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 2: if you want your question answered on the show, you

950
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,800
Speaker 2: email us at ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

951
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 3: That's a s k p O.

952
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 1: You are M I. N.

953
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 2: D S at gmail dot com. Please try to keep

954
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 2: it a paragraph. Y'all have been doing so good with this,

955
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 2: so let's go ahead and get into it.

956
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 3: So, oh we're in August now, thank god?

957
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 2: Oh yes, okay, I would like to remain anonymous. Hey, ladies,

958
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 2: First and foremost, I would like to say that I

959
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 2: love your show. I found y'all after watching Cocktails, and

960
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 2: I've been watched binge to watch y'all's episodes.

961
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: Immediately, I'm obsessed with your energy.

962
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 2: I wanted to ask y'all about some tips and tricks

963
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 2: on how I can surprise my man in the bedroom.

964
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm an amateur at knowing the right

965
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 2: things to do, and I want to spy spice things up.

966
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 2: What can I do in bed that will leave him shook?

967
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:13,879
Speaker 2: What are some moves that will leave him having flashbacks

968
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 2: for the rest of the day. Please let me know.

969
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 2: Love from Nashville, Tennessee. So I'm gonna give you what

970
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 2: I'm about to do tonight. O. So this might work. Oh,

971
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 2: I'm definitely about to go. Give me some lingree. I'm

972
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 2: gonna get some lingerie.

973
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 3: Baby, where you gonna go?

974
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, bitch, I gotta find something that's gonna

975
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:33,800
Speaker 1: fift the CDs.

976
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 2: But I think that wearing sexy clothing would definitely work.

977
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: And we talked about this last week, you toys.

978
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 2: What I'm about to do to y'all, I'm about to

979
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 2: put my butt plug in, So when I turn over

980
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 2: and butst it open, it's gonna be a diamond just

981
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 2: sitting right there. Surprise is ass. You know what I'm

982
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: saying me? So I yes, period. I love a good

983
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 2: butt plug, y'all. So I feel like if you just

984
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 2: slide a little butt plug in so when he hit

985
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: it from the back, he's not gonna expected to be there, that.

986
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 1: Would be so fucking done that before with him.

987
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 3: What the buttler?

988
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 2: No?

989
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 1: Oh, I know, I know. Yeah, I definitely think that's

990
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: some great advice. I definitely think she should do that.

991
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 3: Slide in the buttler.

992
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 2: Yeah absolutely, It's like, Hi, that's why I love you,

993
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: And then the whole day shut and then the whole

994
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 2: day like send him like little nudes and stuff like

995
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 2: are you playing with yourself?

996
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 1: You love a good nude video. I'm gonna fire videos

997
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 1: over picture.

998
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm definitely better with the video.

999
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: So I definitely think you should start, you know, just

1000
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 1: sending him little videos, you know, especially if he got

1001
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: like a little day job he be at work. Girl,

1002
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 1: just slide their little video and see him, he gonna

1003
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: be like.

1004
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,240
Speaker 2: Hold on, and then I know you probably give him head.

1005
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:45,720
Speaker 2: Try something different with the head. Make sure it's extra

1006
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 2: wet sloppy.

1007
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: She should try to uh up. No, I hate that,

1008
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: like it. I feel like shit. Make that nigga w

1009
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,280
Speaker 1: wash his dinc off. Oh he's sticking. That's too much.

1010
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 1: I don'n't think it's too much. I don't want to wash.

1011
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: I have to wait for you to go wash your

1012
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 2: dick when I take that dick out of my mouth

1013
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 2: and needs to go on my my.

1014
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 3: Oh fucking brother, I like sucking ded.

1015
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 2: Well, if you're gonna put anything on there, y'all know,

1016
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 2: put some barbecue sauce on there. Y'all know I love so.

1017
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 1: You'll do barbecue. Wash it either way.

1018
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 3: But I licked that bone.

1019
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: Clean up. Please get okay.

1020
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 2: So, in all seriousness, like my advice is lingerie, butt

1021
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 2: plugs and toys.

1022
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: I agree with that. It's something maybe seeing him like

1023
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's like into like sex things. Oh,

1024
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: I love a good sex.

1025
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 2: You could be like sex in himy hole on the phone.

1026
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: It's like we just said earlier in the episode, Bro,

1027
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 1: you just gotta be a fun girl like niggas love beaches.

1028
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 1: That's fun. You can't think that anything is too much,

1029
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: especially if this is your.

1030
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 3: Okay, good luck girl, let's know I go.

1031
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: I need your phone because I don't even know where

1032
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: the hell the next one is. Okay, Hey, ladies, call

1033
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: me TK. I'm twenty seven and the man I'm referring

1034
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 1: to is thirty five. Ladies and morn Okay. How do

1035
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: you see spelled Moran names? I don't know how to

1036
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,479
Speaker 1: spell his name. Lol. How could I find a man

1037
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: and be in a serious relationship? Oh? How could a

1038
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: man be in a serious relationship with a woman for

1039
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: ten months and talk about moving in together and marriage

1040
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: in the future, exchange, I love you, is playing an

1041
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: upcoming trip together, et cetera, and then just disappear. There

1042
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: were no signs, no issues, nothing. I have always been

1043
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 1: understanding and stress. Communication, communication, communication. I was completely blind sided.

1044
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,919
Speaker 1: My friends think it's because he's juggling work as well

1045
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,720
Speaker 1: as setting up his three kids from his previous marriage

1046
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,720
Speaker 1: with moving to a new country. I understand the stress

1047
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: on his end, but I guess I don't understand how

1048
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 1: a man, how men can just shut off their emotions

1049
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: when dealing with streets. Any thoughts, Moran and ladies, do

1050
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: you agree with my friend or do you have a

1051
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: different opinion? Side note, it's been two much since I've

1052
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: heard from him.

1053
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 2: Oh wow, So well, I'll say, sister, I do think

1054
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 2: that this situation is either over, but he's probably gonna

1055
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 2: try to come back, because let me tell you what

1056
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 2: men try to do, come back big won They gonna

1057
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: try to come back.

1058
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: But I don't think you need to let him back.

1059
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 3: A lot of times men have shit going.

1060
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 2: Men will say something and they'll realize a week later

1061
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 2: what they said, and they'll be like, damn, I shouldn't

1062
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 2: have probably brought that up and said something like a

1063
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 2: man'll be like, man, I want to get married to

1064
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 2: you or some shit right, and then it'll be like

1065
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 2: a week later, like damn, do I really want to

1066
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 2: marry this girl? I shouldn't have said that. I should

1067
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 2: have kept that to myself. So I feel like a

1068
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 2: lot of times they'll say things that not necessarily that

1069
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 2: they don't mean, but they wish they would have just

1070
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 2: not said it. So I feel like him bringing all

1071
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 2: that stuff up, like moving in and the marriage put

1072
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 2: press He put his own pressure on himself because that

1073
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 2: happened to me one time like recently, so it's like

1074
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 2: he put that pressure on himself. So that has nothing

1075
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 2: to do do with you, So don't I don't want

1076
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 2: you to feel bad like you did something wrong or

1077
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 2: that like make it like blaming yourself self.

1078
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 3: So that's all I feel.

1079
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes men just don't be ready and

1080
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 2: they be putting themselves in that position.

1081
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:06,359
Speaker 3: They put a.

1082
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 2: Standard right here and be mad that they have to

1083
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: live up to the own standards that they set.

1084
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I don't want a nigga back

1085
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: that ghosting me because you can do that, you have

1086
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: no respect and you have to do that again. Like

1087
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: if a nigga do that shit to you one time,

1088
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 1: he'll do that shit to you two times, three times,

1089
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: four times. However many times you keep letting his ass

1090
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: come back. That's why I do agree with you. She

1091
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: don't need to let him come back because he is

1092
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: gonna try niggas always.

1093
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 2: Cause my thing is, if you care about me, the

1094
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 2: least you can do, the least that you can do

1095
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 2: is let me know what's up. Ghosting is so disrespectful,

1096
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: Like if I ghost you, that means I don't give

1097
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 2: a fuck about you, and I don't care how you're feeling.

1098
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 2: And I feel like if you go somebody that is

1099
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 2: just like the bottom of the barrel of disrespect, like

1100
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 2: it is.

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00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: I agree, and I feel like, like she said, communication,

1102
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 1: it's all you have to do is communicate with people

1103
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: out of the time. I do think that men, for

1104
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,960
Speaker 1: whatever reason, find it hard to communicate though, So I

1105
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 1: don't know, but two months is a long time. Like

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00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 1: I could see if you said, oh, I haven't talked

1107
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: to him for a week, week, two weeks, then I'll

1108
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: be like, okay, girl, whenever he do take you, just

1109
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: see what he gonna say. But two months, that's a

1110
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: lost time. Tonight, check on somebody that you was talking to,

1111
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: telling I love you, talking about moving in together and

1112
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: shit like that.

1113
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 2: Niggas ain't shit, they ain't see, stay traded, just move on, okay, period. Okay,

1114
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 2: So this one says, Hey, y'all love the show. I

1115
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 2: just listened to the episode where you mentioned dating men

1116
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,399
Speaker 2: with kids. I recently broke up with my boyfriend because

1117
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 2: he went to spend the weekend with his child and

1118
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 2: he stayed at the mother's house. I addressed my concern

1119
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 2: in a very mature way, and he flipped out. Was

1120
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 2: I wrong for ending the relationship? I understand your stance

1121
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 2: on the situation, but do you think that there are

1122
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 2: some boundaries that need to be set.

1123
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 1: I don't think it's no reason for a niggas to

1124
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: spend the night with his baby.

1125
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 3: Mama period ever, unless he's trying to fuck.

1126
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: I don't think it's no reason at all. I really don't.

1127
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: He can't spend time with you and tell me that

1128
00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 1: would make me be okay with him spending the night

1129
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: with his baby mama because it just no, there's literally

1130
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: nothing me either. So yeah, no, you're not wrong for

1131
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 1: asking him about it. You actually build it than me,

1132
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't ask that nigga.

1133
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:14,280
Speaker 3: Calmly right.

1134
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 2: I feel like, now, if y'all want to do family

1135
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 2: activities together, that's fine. Y'all go out to eat together, y'all,

1136
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 2: go do this, take him to the zoo, whatever y'all

1137
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 2: have to do. Baby, why do you have to spend

1138
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 2: the night like somebody said, Oh, I need to stay

1139
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 2: the night because it's Christmas night and I want to

1140
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 2: be like it was Christmas Eve and he want to

1141
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 2: be there early in the morning. You better set your

1142
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 2: alarm and get up, like there's no need. People already

1143
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 2: feel like niggas always be fucking on their baby mama.

1144
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 2: So the fact that you, like you were like, oh,

1145
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 2: I'm going to stay the night, that doesn't help the situation. Like,

1146
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 2: I don't there's no need to be staying the night

1147
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,760
Speaker 2: with y'all baby mama. If y'all are done, like that's unnecessary.

1148
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Like I just don't understand it.

1149
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 3: I don't understand.

1150
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: Like to me, if a niggas spend the night with

1151
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: his baby mama, he's still fucking their hell, if he's

1152
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: still fucking or they bought the fuck.

1153
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 3: Put a little daikwan to sleep and get into it.

1154
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 1: And if he's still sucking with his baby mama, you

1155
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: don't even need to get entangled up in the entangle child.

1156
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, no, you're you made the right decision.

1157
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 3: Fuck him, move on.

1158
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, I was gonna read that one because since

1159
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: Marin's mic isn't okay, okay, okay, So the next one

1160
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: says how to turn a thirsty nigga into a regular

1161
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: Haydrea and Lex you can call me k. I just

1162
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: recently started stripping and I'm starting to get a little

1163
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 1: following right. The issue is all these niggas in my

1164
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 1: d ms aren't talking about shit. I can't figure out

1165
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: how to transfer these niggas from just thirsty niggas to

1166
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: regulars at my club. I have I have to body

1167
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: and dance. Oh you mean I have the body in

1168
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: dancing down. I just need to work on my mouthpiece.

1169
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: Do you guys have any advice? Thank you in events.

1170
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: I love you guys. Here's my inst and I also

1171
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: added a video let me look at that ship? Forget

1172
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: the video off. Okay, she's cute, she's pretty, she's gorgeous.

1173
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 2: Actually like your hair girl. So I'll say this, I know,

1174
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:17,399
Speaker 2: not let them know. Okay, if the nigga be like, damn,

1175
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 2: when when can I see you? Come see me at

1176
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 2: the club, you come see me at work. You can

1177
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 2: come see me at work. That would be my favorite

1178
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: line when I was bartending, and you come see me

1179
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: at work?

1180
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:25,399
Speaker 1: That was my favorite line.

1181
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 3: Working.

1182
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: Just let them know if they want to see you,

1183
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 1: they can come see you.

1184
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 2: At work, period, and let them know, like your time

1185
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 2: is valuable, like you're working, you're a dancer, Like that's

1186
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 2: how you make your money. So just be straightforward with

1187
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 2: them and let them know, like, what are you here for?

1188
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 2: Because I'm at work. I'm anytime a nigga hits you

1189
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 2: up and you're not, he not talking about nothing. I'm

1190
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 2: headed to work. I'm going to work. I'm going to

1191
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 2: be my favorite thing to tell niggas. I always will

1192
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 2: tell niggas I was going to work, even when I

1193
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 2: wasn't going to work.

1194
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to work. You're trying to help me.

1195
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 2: If you don't want you to work, you're gonna send

1196
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 2: you to someone like, right, take the night off. I'll

1197
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 2: give you some money. Take the night off. That's what

1198
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 2: every time niggas hit me up. I'm going to work.

1199
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 2: So yeah, just tell them me the nyby to come

1200
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 2: send you come to your job, or send you some

1201
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 2: money so you can take a night off and spend

1202
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 2: some time with them.

1203
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,359
Speaker 1: And a lot of these niggas be thirsty, and it's

1204
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: all they be that. Yes, you meet the weed out,

1205
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,320
Speaker 1: the ones that's just horny and your dms, versus the

1206
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: ones who actually gonna come spend some bread, because choice me,

1207
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,280
Speaker 1: it's gonna be very few. It's gonna come really spend

1208
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 1: some bread Versus the ones who just looking in and then.

1209
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:23,839
Speaker 2: The ones that are just wasting your time. Just start

1210
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 2: ignoring niggas I do, because like, why are you keep

1211
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:27,240
Speaker 2: keep sending.

1212
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:30,720
Speaker 1: Message message over and over and over ignor ain't talking about.

1213
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:31,799
Speaker 3: Ain't talking about ship?

1214
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I may work, good luck, girl, Let me know,

1215
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 2: because let me know if I need to bring London

1216
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 2: out of retirement, because we can do a tag team

1217
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 2: on the stage now. No, all right, okay, so yes,

1218
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 2: like I said, per usual, if you want your question

1219
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 2: answered on the show, make sure you email us at

1220
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 2: ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1221
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 3: And I'm ready to sing.

1222
00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: And make sure that y'all subscribe to our Patreon if

1223
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: you're an I already subscribely.

1224
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 2: She just dropped the episode on Friday, I mean on Saturday.

1225
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 2: Like she said about.

1226
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 1: Her little X little situation situation, I'm dropping part two

1227
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: of the episode I did with my ex on Friday.

1228
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 1: We got like a lot of juicy bonies. Okay, girl,

1229
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:18,280
Speaker 1: let's get to the good ship, sir, Come no, mague

1230
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 1: you you you yeah? Oh that's what I was hosted

1231
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: to warm me.

1232
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 2: Okay, come on already, She'll go you you you yeah?

1233
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 3: Oh silly of me.

1234
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 1: No, bo, there's so much time to fine.

1235
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,240
Speaker 3: Oh wait, I can't read, sir.

1236
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:57,760
Speaker 1: You unfaithful boy host, my mom Drive, Passion House, Severn

1237
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: Night in Anne Month wondering what she had on me.

1238
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 3: Hey, to make your break my hat.

1239
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,279
Speaker 1: What you're supposed to go up a little higher? I

1240
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 1: did go up?

1241
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 3: The fuck you want from me?

1242
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 1: I'm ship you forgot the words.

1243
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 3: It's okay, okay. What other song did you have a

1244
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 3: request for?

1245
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: You said you was gonna sing the rosies song? Oh,

1246
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:27,839
Speaker 1: what's the song called? I don't know.

1247
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 2: Oh, it's called a dozen Roses. We're gonna We're gonna

1248
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 2: end the show with a dozen roses by Monica. Wait,

1249
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 2: who do you have tonight winning? Oh somebody? Yeah, I

1250
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 2: got Monica winning because Monica has more hits.

1251
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 1: Brandy is the vocal bible in my uber Earlier, my

1252
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 1: uber driver asks me that, and I really don't know.

1253
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm really torn.

1254
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:59,720
Speaker 2: Boy and my man mama and my chit you.

1255
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 3: Yep, that's all yoky.

1256
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: I'm tired of the part about the rosie with the

1257
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 1: doers and roses.

1258
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 2: These are the making Oh okay, enough, he's enough, beach, bye, y'all,

1259
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 2: let's be y'all next week by y'all, y're