WEBVTT - Second Date Update: I Got The Ick

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. Just doing this segment, we hear

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<v Speaker 1>from couples who meet in all sorts of strange new ways. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, but this one is going to be particularly

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<v Speaker 1>terrifying for one person in this room.

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<v Speaker 2>Always thinks he's the one that's going to be scared.

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<v Speaker 1>Jose's fears are right today because, apparently, according to this email,

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<v Speaker 1>they met while doing one of Jose's absolute worst fears,

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<v Speaker 1>physical exercise.

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<v Speaker 2>They're gonna say, like a roller coaster, Jose.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's try to keep the whimpers and begging from mommies

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<v Speaker 1>to a minimum. Here as we talked to a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Vaughn about his first date. Vaughn, Welcome to Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>How you doing doing good? How about you doing good?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I mean what is this? You met a girl

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<v Speaker 2>of the gym? Is that what he's getting.

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<v Speaker 4>To No, I participate in a run club. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know if you've ever done one of legs before?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow club? Should I be concerned?

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<v Speaker 1>Is the worst club I could think of?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Because would be like video game club where you sit

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<v Speaker 1>and don't move.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually though, is this like a like an exercising

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<v Speaker 1>club or a dating type of club.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of like a mix of both. It's like,

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<v Speaker 4>if you're single, you wear black or something dark. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>if you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend, you wear

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<v Speaker 4>a color.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Brooke, what does your husband wear to his run club?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he's going to be wearing an orange reflective vesta

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<v Speaker 2>after this report, just wears a bunch of apples.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know what that means. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>How many people are in this club?

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<v Speaker 4>There had been at least one hundred people. There's a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like a okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a crazy thing because there's a lot of hot chicks.

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<v Speaker 4>There had been at least like.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's actually like the people who exercise can be

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<v Speaker 1>good looking at they was still not going to join

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<v Speaker 1>a run player. How did it go?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? Pretty good? That's how I met a test test? Okay, Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>she had really nice cas.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like i'd like to think stairs, That's what I'd

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<v Speaker 2>like to think.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the fact that you didn't get maced, right there

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<v Speaker 1>is a win in my book.

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<v Speaker 2>So, oh my god, I think it's such a good

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<v Speaker 2>couple of it.

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<v Speaker 1>You were able to like get to no tests a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit there.

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<v Speaker 4>I did and I got to see a good deal.

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<v Speaker 4>I got her number.

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<v Speaker 1>So you also have a different definition of sealing the

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<v Speaker 1>deal with a girl. So a lot of differences here,

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<v Speaker 1>but good. I'm glad you got her phone number. Just

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<v Speaker 1>the first deal, Yeah, one of many deals.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you were you able to turn it into

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<v Speaker 2>a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. We met up a few days later at a

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<v Speaker 4>bar and I had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>You did, Okay, tell us about it, yeah, give us

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<v Speaker 1>the highlights.

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<v Speaker 4>All right. So I'm been watching my dilately. So I

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<v Speaker 4>compiled this note card card. I thought her, this is

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<v Speaker 4>how many calories that.

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<v Speaker 3>We burned on our run, and now we had to

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<v Speaker 3>gain it back on the menu.

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<v Speaker 1>Smart.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, don't talk about calories ever with a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that. I think he's just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be like fun and creative and playful with not being

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<v Speaker 1>like we need to count calories together.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how it comes off. Though it doesn't matter what

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<v Speaker 2>his intention was.

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<v Speaker 1>He's using a note card, like, don't you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have like an.

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<v Speaker 1>How did test react to the note card move?

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<v Speaker 4>She loved it?

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<v Speaker 1>But uh, whoa in your face?

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<v Speaker 2>She's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 4>So.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think that counts as a whe So you

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<v Speaker 1>guys ordered a bunch of food together, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and then she guiltily aided.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what happened next.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we just kind of hung out and grabbed some

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<v Speaker 4>drinks and had a good time. And the place that

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<v Speaker 4>we were at had some really cool tall shelves.

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<v Speaker 2>Tall shelves like that you would put books on or something.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, it looked like he put books on it,

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<v Speaker 4>but they had a bunch of mugs.

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<v Speaker 1>On it, mugs, a bunch of stins or something like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it kind of like steins. And so these drunk

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<v Speaker 4>dudes are by there there. I don't know why they

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<v Speaker 4>were standing by there, but.

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<v Speaker 3>They're kind of hanging out and stumbling around there, and

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<v Speaker 3>they actually bumped one of the shelves that was holding

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<v Speaker 3>this really expensive looking one. It was about to come down,

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<v Speaker 3>and I saw that testas right underneath it, and I

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<v Speaker 3>made a.

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<v Speaker 4>Quick movement just pulled her out of the way. She

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<v Speaker 4>got a little upset, but then crashed right behind her.

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<v Speaker 4>The mug.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, saved her life. That's the universe, dude. You were

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<v Speaker 1>put in a situation to protect her and you did, bros.

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<v Speaker 1>A good job. Was she grateful or was she upset

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<v Speaker 1>by that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? After she saw a crash behind her, then she realized, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that would have been her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean that's kind of wild. You must be

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<v Speaker 1>thinking I'm getting a kiss for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah, dude, you nailed it. It was like one

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<v Speaker 4>of those kiss moments.

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<v Speaker 3>It was, and she gave me one right on the cheek.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a hero kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Just make out and it's her state. Yeah cute. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean it means that she's like somewhat attracted to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, you know that's the kiss that my mom

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<v Speaker 1>gave me when I graduated fifth grade. Romantically, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to look too much into it, but so, how

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<v Speaker 1>long has it been since your bar date happened?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Man, that was like two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you've had a couple of run clubs in

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<v Speaker 2>there too, and you haven't seen her or heard from

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<v Speaker 2>her at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I went to one and I didn't see her

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<v Speaker 4>at the last one. Yeah. I gave her a couple

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<v Speaker 4>of messages. She hasn't replied back.

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<v Speaker 2>I was kind of did you see under another nutrients table?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it possible that she didn't want to burn off

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<v Speaker 1>all those calories? That you gained together that night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to hold onto them as a memory of

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<v Speaker 1>your guys's time together. Sorry, no more physical activity. Hold

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<v Speaker 1>these cows in.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be my new I remembers.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's come back. We're gonna give Tessa call for you

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<v Speaker 1>and try and get you your second date update right

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<v Speaker 1>after this second date update. It is rare on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date where you get an opportunity to look like

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<v Speaker 1>a real superhero. But our listener Vaughn swooped in to

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<v Speaker 1>save the day when a falling beer monk was careening

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<v Speaker 1>straight towards the head of his dates and before it

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<v Speaker 1>struck her, Von reached out with his powerful arms and

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<v Speaker 1>pulls her to safety as the mugs shattered in the

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<v Speaker 1>exact spot where she was standing. Wow, I mean that

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<v Speaker 1>should automatically earn him five more dates. Five that's a

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<v Speaker 1>that's the superhero fee. That's why Superman always has dates. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why he saves Lois Lane.

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<v Speaker 2>Constantly jo he's expecting something to return this whole time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he's working for free typical, but he's exhausting.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true, but Vaughan hasn't even been able to score

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<v Speaker 1>one more date with tests, which is why he's reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to us for help. But Von, how did it

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<v Speaker 1>feel to know that you had your Superman moments?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>I felt like the man of the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>I was that guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Did people applaud you? Were they asking for your autograph

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<v Speaker 2>and shaking your hand as he walked out of the bar?

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<v Speaker 4>No, you'd be surprised, but there weren't many people watching.

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<v Speaker 6>Focused on the drunk guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Next, you just have to work on your laser eye

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<v Speaker 1>vision and you're gonna be set, dude. So let's call

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<v Speaker 1>tests for you right here and try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>your second date up date. You ready? Yeah, I'm down

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<v Speaker 1>it right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this test?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry test to bother you?

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<v Speaker 5>Who is this?

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<v Speaker 1>We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning, and we're really really excited to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you about a date that you went on not too

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<v Speaker 1>long ago. It's with a guy named Vaughan that you

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<v Speaker 1>met at run club.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't tell that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, pretty neutral. But here's the cool thing you got.

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<v Speaker 1>We know that you got to spend some one on

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<v Speaker 1>one time with him at a fun bar that had

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<v Speaker 1>cool shelves in it we've heard.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh yeah, yeah, it was a it was fine. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>well laughing still, is it a nervous Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard this segment before where we call people

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<v Speaker 2>or no?

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, but uh yeah, we went to.

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<v Speaker 1>This bar and yeah we we know. We heard the

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<v Speaker 1>story from Vaughn. We talked to him about it because

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<v Speaker 1>he had a great time and he's been wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>see you again and the reason he reached out to

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<v Speaker 1>us is to try and figure out if there's a

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<v Speaker 1>reason why you haven't met up again.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh great, okay, well if you heard the story then

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<v Speaker 5>you probably do.

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<v Speaker 4>You know the part where like.

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<v Speaker 5>The mug fell off the shelf.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah that was Like that was a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty cool moment for him.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, not for you because you almost got hit

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<v Speaker 2>by a mug, but pretty amazing that he saved you

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<v Speaker 2>from it.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was so weird.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just so extra.

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<v Speaker 5>There was no need to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>He like what.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just like the whole place was covered in mugs,

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<v Speaker 5>like on the shelves. He swooped in like in this

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<v Speaker 5>weird split second to like save me from this mug,

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<v Speaker 5>and like I was like, ew, like why.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, he stopping it from hitting you on the head.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I feel like I would have seen it

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<v Speaker 5>like before it did, Like he didn't need to go

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<v Speaker 5>out of his way to be the savior you are.

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<v Speaker 2>But I thought he said, you didn't see it till

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<v Speaker 2>after it crashed right where you had been sitting.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it wasn't like that high up. It wouldn't

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<v Speaker 5>have like killed me or anything. It was just it

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<v Speaker 5>was so extra and we had just gone out. I

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<v Speaker 5>was we were there like max an hour at that point,

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<v Speaker 5>Like we hadn't spent any time together alone before that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if.

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<v Speaker 2>He needs heroes before they step in. You know, listen, Batman,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know you yet. You can tell me a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit about your life.

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<v Speaker 6>I've had a friend stop talking to guys who are

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<v Speaker 6>like I'm gonna stand on this side of the road,

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<v Speaker 6>like when we're on a walk because it's safer for

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<v Speaker 6>you there, like and then turn off by.

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<v Speaker 2>That, like why is it awesome?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you you were saying you would have preferred

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<v Speaker 1>that he stood back and just let you figure out

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<v Speaker 1>if a mug was about to hit you or not

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<v Speaker 1>and deal with it on your own.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it just seems like he was just like obsessed

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<v Speaker 5>with me. So I just have this like major after

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<v Speaker 5>that point.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean he's on a date with you, so

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<v Speaker 1>he is probably paying attention. I'm obsessive major.

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<v Speaker 4>Find it so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you to get the feeling that he's

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<v Speaker 1>like obsessed with you, always watching and trying to protect.

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<v Speaker 3>You or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>At a certain point, I have to let you know

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<v Speaker 1>that he is actually listening in on the conversation. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not in like a weird way. He just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>hear the reasoning.

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<v Speaker 2>Unless he was smart enough to hang up already.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro, hang up right now? Are you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Von?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm there? OK.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah did you just say, oh, alexis Yeah? Because of

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<v Speaker 2>how it's going to go, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let him talk and maybe they can work something out.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Two, What am I gonna do?

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<v Speaker 3>Just let a heavy glass bogs fall on your head

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<v Speaker 3>and potentially give me acussion.

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<v Speaker 5>I need to be very clear about like me as

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<v Speaker 5>a person. I don't need you to step in for

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<v Speaker 5>me ever, and you doing that literally like an hour

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<v Speaker 5>into our date was very weird. I just like I

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<v Speaker 5>can do things myself. I'm not an idiot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry. As a man, I naturally have

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<v Speaker 3>to be in the position to save people. And whether

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<v Speaker 3>if you're a stranger or somebody i've met for an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>That okay. So if you two were like walking across

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<v Speaker 1>the street together and there was a car coming at you, Tess,

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<v Speaker 1>you want him to step back and just let nature

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<v Speaker 1>take its course.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that I am not dumb enough to step

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<v Speaker 5>out of the way of a.

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<v Speaker 2>Moving car, just okay. I think what she's saying is

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<v Speaker 2>that she doesn't want to be treated like a damsel

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<v Speaker 2>in distress. Like she wants to be treated like she

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<v Speaker 2>can handle her own emergencies. Okay, whether it's a car

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<v Speaker 2>pubbling towards her or a mug falling from her shelf,

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<v Speaker 2>Let the girl do her.

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<v Speaker 4>So if that scenario plays that a second time, you

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<v Speaker 4>don't want me to give your heads up, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, look out, is that too aggressive?

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing?

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<v Speaker 5>That probably would have been less gross than you weeping

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<v Speaker 5>in gross And like it would depends what your tone was, too,

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<v Speaker 5>Like if you were telling me like I'm a child

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<v Speaker 5>that can't fend for myself in the world, yeah, I'd

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<v Speaker 5>probably be offended, but if you're me in a nice

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<v Speaker 5>way like, oh, he's up, like I'm a normal kind

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<v Speaker 5>of human.

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<v Speaker 1>Pardon man, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Think I actually I actually see what she's saying too,

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<v Speaker 6>because you're in public at a bar yelling. It's I'm

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<v Speaker 6>just starting to get the ick from him to say.

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<v Speaker 2>When I'm driving with my husband and he acts like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't see the other cars on the road, and

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, oh my god, literally I know their tourneys.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not an idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good example.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think, if anything, Vaughan has definitely learned his

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<v Speaker 1>lesson to not help you or look after you in

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<v Speaker 1>any way. Watch out. He can't say watch out. He

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<v Speaker 1>has to be like, excuse me, but perhaps take a

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<v Speaker 1>look at your surround.

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<v Speaker 2>You can watch out, just in a cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Tone, Vaughn, you're capable of doing that, right, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>really confused. Right now, perfect, that's exactly where she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to do. So with that said, we would like to

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<v Speaker 1>offer to send you guys out another date, and we

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<v Speaker 1>would I don't want to like be too aggressive and

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<v Speaker 1>offering to pay for it or anything, So we just

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<v Speaker 1>want to facilitate a meetup of some sort. Test if

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<v Speaker 1>you're open to that.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like I feel like I would. But the

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<v Speaker 5>fact that you're still really confused is not like I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not understanding why you're so confused because I just explained

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<v Speaker 5>to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Why brother, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean that's your last option?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have anything else to say to her?

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, tests I'll put it in words that you can understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, I think anything.

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<v Speaker 2>That he says is condescending, a little condescending.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want to say?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, regrets, that's something that you're going to say, I

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<v Speaker 1>did I told you? What did you say?

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<v Speaker 4>New phone? Who did?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>No? Date?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 4>Better?

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<v Speaker 1>She's going it sounds like Bond just got hit in

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<v Speaker 1>the head by falling Jeffrey in the morning. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>I know you were kind of joking there, but are

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<v Speaker 1>you seriously saying a guy should not step in to

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<v Speaker 1>help a woman who's about to get seriously injured.

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<v Speaker 2>They can step in. I'm just trying to explain why

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't want them to. Like sometimes it feels like

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't that serious of a situation. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>she gets a little bonk on her head and he

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<v Speaker 2>like shoved her out of the way, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>he made it a big deal, a little much from him.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I just want to make sure that that's not

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<v Speaker 1>the side that you're on. Don't help people in danger,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the stance that you want to.

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<v Speaker 2>To always help people, I mean not always okay, not

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<v Speaker 2>always help because you got to read the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, read the room. Well, this is good. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to take those CPR classes at least

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<v Speaker 1>if you're a guy. Now, this guy just.

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<v Speaker 2>Got shot, sir, do you mind if I call Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>statistically women get CPR administered to them a lot less

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<v Speaker 2>than men.

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<v Speaker 1>Well good, yeah, because we don't want to come off

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<v Speaker 1>too cleaning. We want to let the women give a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to resuscitate themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>It's literally because guys don't want to touch their chest

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<v Speaker 2>like it's like crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, man, but you know what we will do will

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<v Speaker 1>help you resuscitate your love life if you give us

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<v Speaker 1>permission to do it first, we'll call that person who's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. Email the show for help anytime,

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