1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the 5 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: air bop, just like we're going to read this one 6 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: right here, right now, and you never know it could 7 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: be yours. We never know it. 8 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: Could be Buckle up and hold on tight. We got 9 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 2: it for you here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject the jump off jumped on him. 11 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and I've 12 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: been dating this guy for almost eight months and we've 13 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: had fun getting to know each other. He was honest 14 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 1: in the beginning and told me he had some loose 15 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 1: ends to tie up before we got serious, and I 16 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: appreciated that honesty. The fact that he didn't hide his 17 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: phone or turned his ringer off made me feel that 18 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: he was ready to be in a relationship with me, 19 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: so I didn't trip. We went all we went out 20 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: all over town, and I stayed at his home all 21 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: of the time. Time. The only thing that made me 22 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: suspect suspects he was up to something was a few 23 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: nights I couldn't reach him, but I let it go. 24 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: I invited him to visit my parents with me. My 25 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: parents live about two hours from us, so we went 26 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,199 Speaker 1: on an overnight trip to visit them. They cooked dinner 27 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: for us, and after dinner, my man and I went 28 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: out to a hookah spot to unwind. My boyfriend got 29 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: a phone call and walked away to take it. He 30 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: got upset and he was ready to go back to 31 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: my parents' house. We got to his car and there 32 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: was a car blocking us in. He asked the car 33 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,119 Speaker 1: to move and the lady flipped him off. I didn't 34 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: think anything of it. When we got to my parents' house, 35 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:46,639 Speaker 1: that same car pulled up in the driveway. This same 36 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: lady got out and ran up and start started hitting 37 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: on my man. My dad heard the commotion and came 38 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: outside to pull her off my man. The lady said 39 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: she's been seeing my man for a few months and 40 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: she followed us. I was very embarrassed and reluctantly took 41 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: him to the er to get stitches. In her words, 42 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: she told police, says she knew she was the jump off, 43 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: but she fell in love with him and he wouldn't 44 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: leave me for her, He said he got caught up 45 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: slept with her, but he wants me. Can I trust 46 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: this man and continue this relationship despite just what happened? 47 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: What just happened, Well, he certainly has no control over 48 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: what crazy did. I mean, she did that all on 49 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: her own, gave him stitches and all of that. But 50 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 1: the crazy part is that this really happened. I mean, 51 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: she's fatal attraction crazy like the movie. You do know that, right, 52 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: And now she knows where your parents live. She stalked 53 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: you guys from the restaurant, beatra man so badly that 54 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: he needed stitches, and she's only been seeing him for 55 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: a few months. Well, I'm sure your parents would tell 56 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: you to run, and I'm probably good. I'm going to 57 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: tell you the same thing. I mean, your safety is 58 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: way more important, even though she didn't do anything to you. 59 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 1: She just did it to your man. But you don't 60 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: want to wait around and see how crazy she really is. Again, 61 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: I think your safety is very important, and even if 62 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: you were to keep seeing him, you would always be 63 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: looking over your shoulder wondering if crazy could be lurking 64 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: in a corner somewhere. So you know, I'm going to say, 65 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 1: it's a no for me for you as far as 66 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: this relationship goes, because this woman is too crazy. She's 67 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: just too crazy. 68 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 3: Steve, Well, I don't have the letter in front of 69 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 3: me because of my whereabouts again, so we're going to 70 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 3: have to deal with this letter just a little bit differently. 71 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: The tile of the letter again, surely, is. 72 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: The jump off jumped on him, Steve. 73 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 3: Jump Off jumped on him. The jump off didn't jump 74 00:03:55,480 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 3: on you. He didn't jump on you that it jumped 75 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 3: on the jump off. It's just a lot of jumping 76 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 3: going on here. I appreciate it, and none to me 77 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 3: like a good old swipoping type letter to deal. 78 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: So I specialize in this because I have been. 79 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 3: Jumped on before by the jump off, the jumpy, and 80 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 3: the jumper. I've had all three whoopers in my life, 81 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 3: the jumper, the jumpy, and the jump off, and then 82 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 3: I ended up as the jump. 83 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 2: So it's all all so relative here. 84 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 3: The wonderful thing about having a famous radio show holds 85 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 3: with means. 86 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 2: It means that he has had a full life. 87 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 3: The beauty of the Steve Harvey Morning Shows that I 88 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 3: don't mind being transparent in my full life. Now can 89 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 3: I tell everything, absolutely not, but will I share with 90 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:03,679 Speaker 3: you a lot? 91 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 2: Of course, it makes for more interesting radio. 92 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 3: I happen to be one of the most compelling radio 93 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 3: personalities on radio today. 94 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 2: The Steve Harvey Martin Shaw. 95 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 3: Is more compelling than most shows because I don't really 96 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 3: care about the issues more than I care. 97 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 2: About myself issues and make them about me. 98 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 3: That way you can understand from a personal standpoint. 99 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 2: Wise, this letter right here is very easy for me 100 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 2: to do. 101 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 3: I'm gonna wait the second half to give you resolution, 102 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 3: but I'm just giving you a little strawberry letter history here. 103 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 3: This letter is very simple for me to do. The 104 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 3: jump off jumped on him? Well, all I can see 105 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 3: you glad she didn't get the yoke. It don't seem 106 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 3: like the type that can handle much jumping. Do appreciate 107 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 3: your ladder, your daddy and this ladder for coming out 108 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 3: and on the porch and jumping on the jump fir 109 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 3: to see the jump off. Didn't know that to jump 110 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 3: off you was gonna come in there and get jumped. 111 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 3: See I wrote a book called Jump when you did. 112 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 3: That's me an expert on this here. Jump off then 113 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 3: it is amazing how this works. 114 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 2: Don't you see it. 115 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 3: Fans, friends hate us Internet trolls. 116 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because that's who listened to the show. 117 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 3: We got fans, we got friends, we got loyalties people, 118 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 3: and then we got haters that listen to the show. 119 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 3: So I'll be giving out internet advice when we come 120 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 3: back on. The jump off jumped on him. He got Stitches. 121 00:06:54,480 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: Morning Show around the holidays. It's hard to find the 122 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: right gifts, but you know, it's even harder getting the 123 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: right gift. But get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve 124 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: for both. They have incredible gift bundles. You get the 125 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: latest phone with a new line on my plan and 126 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: a brand new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. 127 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: You can give a couple away and get yourself one two, 128 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: or you can keep them all to yourself. No one 129 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: has to know. Stop by your local Verizon. All right, 130 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject 131 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: the jump off jumped on him very quickly. 132 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 3: In recap, we've learned that this jump off jumped on him. 133 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 3: To set this letter up, you are dealing with someone 134 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:50,239 Speaker 3: who has been jumped on by the jumper, the jump 135 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 3: off and the jump eat. I have been all of it, 136 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 3: and I've written a book called Jump So you are 137 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 3: dealing with an expert on this letter right here, So 138 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 3: let us begin. 139 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 2: Shirley, read the letter quickly and I'll tell. 140 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 3: You the points I need for you to stop because 141 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: this is the letter in a nutshell. 142 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: Okay, there's Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and 143 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy for almost eight months and 144 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: we've had fun getting to know each other. He was 145 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: honest in the beginning and told me he had some 146 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: loose ends to tie up before we got serious, and 147 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: I appreciated that honesty. 148 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 2: The loose ends is what jumped on his cities. 149 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: Huh, the loose ends. 150 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 2: He's the one that jumped on his go ahead, Shirley 151 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 2: read all right. 152 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: The fact that he didn't hide his phone or turn 153 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: his ringer off made me feel that he was ready 154 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with me, so I didn't trip. 155 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 2: Stop right there. 156 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 3: You can't cut your phone off when your jump ee 157 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 3: is crazy because if they can't contact you, Uh huh, 158 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 3: that elevates the craziness. 159 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 2: Read. Okay. 160 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: We went out all over town and I stayed at 161 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: his home all of the time. The only thing that 162 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: made me suspect suspect that he was up to something 163 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: was a few nights I couldn't reach him, but I 164 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: let it got him. 165 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 2: Stop right there. Once again, this is the loose ends. 166 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 3: He over there trying to tie not in it, and 167 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 3: obviously it don't work, Hui. 168 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: I invited him to visit my parents with me. My 169 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: parents live about two hours from us, so we went 170 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: on an overnight trip to visit them. They cooked dinner 171 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: for us, and after dinner, my man and I went 172 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: out to a hookah spot to unwind. My boyfriend got 173 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 1: a phone call and walked away to take it. 174 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 2: Stop. 175 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: He got upset and he was ready to stop right there. 176 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 3: Okay, phone call, got up from the table to take it. 177 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 3: Was again, this is the loose end, and the loose 178 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 3: end is very loose now because he's calling at inappropriate moments. 179 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 2: Read. 180 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: He got upset and he was ready to go back 181 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: to my parents' house. 182 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 3: Stop right there. He foresaw something that the jumpee was 183 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 3: about to do. The jump off has discovered his location. 184 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:27,079 Speaker 3: He ready to go back to. 185 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 2: Your mama house right now because he know what's coming. Read. 186 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: We got to his car and there was a car 187 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: blocking us in. 188 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 2: Stop right there. It's too late. 189 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 3: The jump off is here and she's blocking the car. 190 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 3: He tried to get back to your mama's house in time. 191 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 3: She was circling the block. She found the car, Oh lord. 192 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: Read. 193 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: He asked the car to move, and the lady flipped 194 00:10:59,000 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: him off. 195 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 2: Stop right down. 196 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 3: You can't ask the jump off to do no favors. 197 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 3: When they let you jump on them and became the 198 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:17,359 Speaker 3: jump off, that was all the favor you get. Read. 199 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: I didn't think anything of it. 200 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 2: When we want to stop right down, you stupid. Read. 201 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: When we got to my. 202 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 3: Hair, you didn't think nothing of a woman blocking the 203 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 3: car flipping your man. 204 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:30,680 Speaker 2: Read. 205 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 1: When we got to my parents' house, that same car 206 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: pulled up in the driveway. 207 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 3: Stop right there to jump off the loose ends all 208 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 3: in one to jump off in the loose end. It 209 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 3: ain't working. All this time up the loose ends, it 210 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 3: hasn't worked. The jump off is loose. She at your 211 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 3: mama house. 212 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: Read, this same lady got out and ran up and 213 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 1: started hitting on my man. 214 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 2: Stop right there. 215 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 3: The loose end is as loose as it can get 216 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 3: right now. 217 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 2: Read. 218 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: My dad heard the commotion and came outside to pull 219 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 1: her off of my man. 220 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 3: Stop right there, tend to rescue it's underdog. He tried 221 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 3: to come in to say today it was too late. 222 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 3: I ain't saying that the loose hands is a problem, 223 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 3: but this hell for got hands. 224 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 2: Read. 225 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: The lady said she's been seeing my man for a 226 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: few months, and she followed us. I was very embarrassed 227 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,439 Speaker 1: and reluctantly took him to the er to get stitches. 228 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 2: Stop right there after your daddy pulled her off. 229 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 3: She said she had been seeing him for a few months. 230 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 3: One thing I can tell you about this man right here, 231 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 3: this boy bringing it. 232 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you're following him, I think jumping on him. 233 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 2: Read quickly, sure all right. 234 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: I was very embarrassed and reluctantly took him to the 235 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 1: er to get stitches. In her words, she told police 236 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: that she knew she was the jump off, but she 237 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: fell in love with him and he wouldn't leave me 238 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: for her. 239 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 2: Stop right there. 240 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 3: I know I'm the jump off, but he bringing is 241 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 3: so good. I'm in love with him now, and he 242 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 3: not giving the Jumpye product to a new jump off. 243 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 2: I'm fit to the state to jump off. Read. 244 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: He said he got caught up slept with her, but 245 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: he wants me. Can I trust this man and continue 246 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: this relationship despite just what happened, what just happened. 247 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 3: When we come back, I will close it out very 248 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 3: very quickly. 249 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 2: Here's the solution to this letter. At the end. 250 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 251 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 4: Parents me Co Mini Plus the small AI robot that 252 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 4: talks to your kids and turns curiosity into learning. 253 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 1: And the deal is big right now at Costco. 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The subject is the jump 262 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: off jumped on him. 263 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 2: We all know that this dude is he has some Lucians. 264 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 3: When he started dating a letter that wrote to yeah, 265 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 3: he dating the lady that wrote the letter, and he said, hey, listen, 266 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest, which I got some luc INDs 267 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 3: he was trying to get these Lucians tied up with 268 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 3: the jump off chick, but it didn't work out. The 269 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 3: Lucians was two lists. He's bringing it too good. I mean, 270 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 3: this boy's doing some things to people that's got them 271 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 3: all twisted up. You included in this letter to the 272 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 3: point where she done jumped on his gave him stitches 273 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 3: because he doing something I'm talking about. I was danding. 274 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 3: This dude right here is bringing it. Here's the problem line. 275 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 3: You want to know should you continue in this relationship 276 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 3: as Surely told you to run? You want to know 277 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 3: if you should stay with him as surely told you 278 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 3: to get out. Now, Surely gave you good advice. My 279 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 3: take is different. Shirley was almost there with me, but 280 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: then she switched. He told you it was some problems 281 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 3: he had. The problem he dating the crazy Now he's 282 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 3: probably a good man, but he dated a crazy and 283 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 3: he put it on the crazy person too good. See, 284 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 3: when you're dating a crazy person, you can't give him 285 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 3: your all in all. But he don't know that because 286 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 3: he young. Y'all in your thirties, he don't know that. See, 287 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 3: you have to portion it out based on sanity. You 288 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 3: can only what you have to portion it out based 289 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 3: on sanate crazy people. You can't give them your all. 290 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 3: You have to wait until you meet a calm, sensible 291 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 3: woman before you start giving it your all. You give 292 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 3: it all to a crazy person, they already crazy. Now 293 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 3: you in here touching spots and causing chemical reactions and stuff, 294 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 3: and they already crazy. Now you're just set up here 295 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 3: and slept with this bipolar helthel. Now here come. 296 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: Hell stitches, Steve's stitches. 297 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 3: That's how good it is to bust you outside your 298 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 3: head and give you stitches. Jasmine Sullivan was breaking our cardboard, 299 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 3: and she was busting faces. 300 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 2: It's all the same. I bust the. 301 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 3: Windows out your car. I put some stitches on your head. 302 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 3: I spin open your phone. Hey, send you to the doctor, 303 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 3: may cause you to stay in bed. 304 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 2: I'll put some stitches in your head. 305 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 1: Sing it too much? 306 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 2: Yes, based on what you said, All right, leady. 307 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: Coming from Today Discovery Letters Instagram and Steve Harvey FM 308 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: dot com. Check out the Shubary Letters podcast on demand. 309 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 3: Hi, my name is Carlos Miller, and I'm Chico Bean, 310 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,479 Speaker 3: and I'm the food with the tattoo. 311 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,959 Speaker 1: And you are now listening to the Steve Harvey Morning 312 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 1: Show