WEBVTT - Step Yo Game Up

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<v Speaker 1>And can I say something, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I understand when we see snow and we're not

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<v Speaker 2>used to seeing.

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<v Speaker 1>It, but stop eating the snow.

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<v Speaker 3>No please, I've seen somebody making a snow cone. I said, bitch,

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<v Speaker 3>be fucking for real, brou while she was putting syrup

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<v Speaker 3>on it and everything, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>She was eating it. Y'all say that was disgusted.

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<v Speaker 3>I know it's a piece of grass in there somewhere

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<v Speaker 3>worse than that little pine cone.

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<v Speaker 2>Lok, some some I don't know. These Atlanta streets are

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<v Speaker 2>not clean, baby, Why would you eat snow?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up?

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all's your girl, Alex p And it's your girl draining

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<v Speaker 4>the call.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you are tuned in another episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Of Poor Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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<v Speaker 2>guests today.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, it's the fourth week.

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<v Speaker 2>So we've had three guest episodes back to back to

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<v Speaker 2>back for the new year.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, No, I don't think so. No, we had super

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<v Speaker 4>then we had a.

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<v Speaker 2>Solo oh okay, okay, then we had and then Janiese okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So we are back for our second solo episode of

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<v Speaker 2>the year, So I want to do a quick check

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<v Speaker 2>out with everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all leave comments.

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<v Speaker 2>Have y'all been keeping up with your New Year's resolutions

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<v Speaker 2>so far? We are getting towards the end of January.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you been keeping up with yours? Absolutely good job.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been staying on track with all of my goals.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I posted that meme the other day on Twitter.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, it's only the first month of the year,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm in my bag period. Y'all know what mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I'ta talk about these two ladies.

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<v Speaker 3>That was like, yeah, okay, but no, for real though, y'all,

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<v Speaker 3>I've been staying on track with my goals cause one

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<v Speaker 3>thing about me, I'm pretty like discipline when I sent

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<v Speaker 3>my mind to things, So it's not hard for me

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<v Speaker 3>to like stay consistent and not veer off track. If

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<v Speaker 3>I'm telling myself every day, like this is the goal.

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<v Speaker 2>Your allliner as sharp as fuck today?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, oh my god, and thank you so much

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<v Speaker 3>for complimenting me on that, because it's actually the MU sample.

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<v Speaker 2>That that giving Michael Maya thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is actually the MU sample that I'm coming

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<v Speaker 3>out with. So I'm coming out with this eyeliner really soon,

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<v Speaker 3>it'll probably be in mark.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and it's real and I have a mara on too,

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, I'm feeling out.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to give me one thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you staying on track with your girls?

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<v Speaker 2>I am okay, y'all. So I have a great update.

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<v Speaker 2>So y'all know I've been going to acting classes and

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<v Speaker 2>y'all know I'm big trash.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'm medium trash.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, don't say that. I'm telling you. I went to

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<v Speaker 2>acting class the other day and he was like, you

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<v Speaker 2>have such a presence on camera. I said, we moving up.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like I'm getting better. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm getting more confident. That's good. So yeah, I've been

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<v Speaker 2>keeping up with that, and I have been really focused,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have been doing so much for like Love

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<v Speaker 2>LEXP and just I've still been ordering equipment, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>So obviously I'm filming Love LEXP at home and because

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to give it more a chill vibe because

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like Poor Mind's obviously is a big production now,

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<v Speaker 2>which I'm grateful for, but I'm like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of wanted to take it back. But with

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<v Speaker 2>that being said, I forgot how hard it is to

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<v Speaker 2>shoot and produce your own things, because you know, we

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<v Speaker 2>haven't done that in so long. Yeah, so it's really

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<v Speaker 2>taking me back to the wine down Wednesday days when

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<v Speaker 2>I used to be and we used to be trying

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out how to connect this to that? Why

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<v Speaker 2>this sound like that? And I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot wait to get to the study on Wednesday

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<v Speaker 2>where I can just show up by no, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>you on that.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I haven't had no technical issues because you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I launched my YouTube channel too, so I haven't had

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<v Speaker 3>no technical issues as far as like filming, but oh

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<v Speaker 3>my gosh, he's over the laughing because oh my guy,

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<v Speaker 3>Like when I say I don't know what opposition was

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<v Speaker 3>against me, I don't know what opposition was against me.

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<v Speaker 3>But it literally took all day to be able to

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<v Speaker 3>send her a file, and we literally tried everything, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like, yeah, I don't miss having to deal

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<v Speaker 3>with these type of clubs at all.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, But I didn't give up. I was

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<v Speaker 2>really least.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're gonna figure it out, and we figured

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<v Speaker 4>it out.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I feel like it's been a good start

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<v Speaker 2>of the year. Yeah, of course we have some big

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<v Speaker 2>news that we can't drop yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but I can. Like it's two big things for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm super excited about it. I feel like we should

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<v Speaker 3>be able to announce it maybe in like the next

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<v Speaker 3>month or two.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it's really really big news.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't know, I just been trying to stay

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<v Speaker 3>on top of everything, like I've been doing good. My challenge, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing a seventy five day challenge. I'm not drinking

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<v Speaker 3>for seventy five days. I'm working out for seventy five

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<v Speaker 3>days straight, no days off.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of doing like I don't want to say I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing a diet because I don't really need to lose weight,

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<v Speaker 3>so I'm not doing a diet per se, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>just a personal goal of mine. I'm not eating meat,

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<v Speaker 3>so I'm only eating seafood.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sticking to.

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<v Speaker 3>Like low cards and yeah, and then I have to

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<v Speaker 3>read a book every day, Hold up, every day, not

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<v Speaker 3>a whole book.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I have to read like at least ten No,

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be listening to it on three times speed

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<v Speaker 3>like Ryan Dude podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>But yes, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm doing my challenge and then I also start

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<v Speaker 3>Spinish classes next week.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, are you going to somebody in person?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm gonna be taking in person and online.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think I might do the little app or something,

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<v Speaker 2>just try to see what I can do, because that's

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<v Speaker 2>something I'm like. After going out of town. We went

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<v Speaker 2>out oftown, I was like, Okay, I have to learn Spanish. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's why I'm I'm like, yeah, I'm not about

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<v Speaker 3>to keep procrastinating because when I was younger, when I

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<v Speaker 3>was in elementary school, I took Spanish for like three years,

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel like it's not that I was good

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<v Speaker 3>at it, but I feel like I could understand. Even now,

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<v Speaker 3>I still kind of understand when people be talking to me,

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<v Speaker 3>depending on what they're saying. But I want to get

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<v Speaker 3>to a point to where when I go out of town,

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<v Speaker 3>I can communicate fluently and I don't have to worry

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<v Speaker 3>about having a translator, because although we did have a

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<v Speaker 3>translator with us and we were going, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 3>still just annoying not being able to communicate four years

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<v Speaker 3>silf right. So that's a goal of mine. By the

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<v Speaker 3>end of the year, I plan on being semi fluent.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe we'll do a little poor minds telling show and

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<v Speaker 3>and I'll read a poem in spinde.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taping, period.

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<v Speaker 4>And we can have li In come because she just

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<v Speaker 4>started violin.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes she did. I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't wait to do a whole little teleshow we

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<v Speaker 4>need to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all gone to prepare everybody needs. We're doing a talk.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't waiting to dust off my tap shooting. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have my less hard on. Oh gyo you actually? Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all could do a new agg I like that. I

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<v Speaker 2>love Okay, yay, they get year it is. They get

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<v Speaker 2>the calendar at selmixedy dot com. Right, okay, period period

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<v Speaker 2>but no peebacking off what you were just about to say.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like twenty twenty five is like a

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<v Speaker 2>good year. Like ye, my mental health space is better.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like, I don't know, I'm just excited

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<v Speaker 2>and like when I launched lovelexp'all, I have been so

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<v Speaker 2>nervous even recording it. I was nervous because I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like every time I've done this type of stuff, it's

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<v Speaker 2>always been like me and you and I'm talking to somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I literally did.

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<v Speaker 2>One episode of Poor Mines by myself what was Wine

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<v Speaker 2>down Wednesday a long time ago because you were out

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<v Speaker 2>of town.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was when the episodes were ten minutes long.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm not gonna lie. Like, sitting down for the

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<v Speaker 2>first time and recording it took me like five or

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<v Speaker 2>six takes. Just yes, girl, yes, because I'm so used

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<v Speaker 2>to just bouncing back with somebody, so when it's just

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<v Speaker 2>you and the camera, it's a lot more difficult than

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<v Speaker 2>it seems. So like props to like Wendy, because like

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<v Speaker 2>when Wendy does her show, you know, she sits there

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<v Speaker 2>for the first thirty minutes, it's just her and her

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<v Speaker 2>hot topics and she'd be having a ball. And once

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<v Speaker 2>I got into it, I was like, Okay, I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>little more comfortable. So the first episode I thought was okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but everybody loved it. Yeah, but I'm just excited because

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<v Speaker 2>i know I'm gonna get better and better as time

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<v Speaker 2>goes on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I feel like, you know, as Tom Progresis,

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<v Speaker 3>you just get more comfortable and you get bitty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Because I was like, oh, start over, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like on my phone recording the thing so I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to keep getting up. But you just like that

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<v Speaker 2>in general too.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, like me, I'd be like keep rolling in

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<v Speaker 3>she Yeah, I'm gonna be wanting to start off, but

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<v Speaker 3>I can see you starting over.

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<v Speaker 2>Like five, I was like, I know the people across

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<v Speaker 2>on the seat that can see me in my little

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<v Speaker 2>high rides. I was like, what the fuck? I was like, fuck, fuck,

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<v Speaker 2>but I got it. I got it. Okay. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to shout out to everybody that subscribed.

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<v Speaker 2>We got thirty thousand views in the first forty eight hours. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So but yeah, y'all make sure y'all tune in Monday,

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<v Speaker 2>it'll be episode two. So what else is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>What else is new before we get into these hot topics.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's really it that I feel like I've

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<v Speaker 3>talked about everything, Like, I have new products coming out

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<v Speaker 3>we muse really soon. We have a Valentine's Day seal

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<v Speaker 3>that is about to drop. I'm gonna have promo stuff

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<v Speaker 3>coming out for that really soon.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to rack up on them jelly blushes, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I have.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna be a seal on the jelly blushes, the

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<v Speaker 3>red Matt Liquid lipsticks, literally everything on the site. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I have that coming out really soon. Of course, like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I launched my YouTube channel. Y'all know, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Like beauty products, beauty halls.

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<v Speaker 3>Clothing halls, all of that stuff. Blogs, literally everything. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of like, you know, coming into my world,

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<v Speaker 3>me showing y'all a little bit more about me, the

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<v Speaker 3>more personal side. So in my YouTube channel is doing

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<v Speaker 3>really really well as well. What else have I been

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<v Speaker 3>working on in my challenge? I mean that's really it.

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<v Speaker 3>Life kind of boring right now for me, just because

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm not drinking and stuff, so I be

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<v Speaker 3>in the house.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the way. Yeah, chilling my challenge, staying focused.

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<v Speaker 3>It is safe in there, like and I feel so good,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I feel like when I don't drink, this is

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<v Speaker 3>probably gonna I don't know, Like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>say this is gonna be my last year drinking. But

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm about to become like a wine Rose

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<v Speaker 3>decent amount of time, I really like how I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>And then when I start back drinking, I be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>this why I don't like, you don't miss it your brain.

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<v Speaker 3>It's more clear you don't have the brain fog like

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like even on our strip, we barely drink.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we didn't really drink that much because I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I really wanted to start on the first of the year,

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<v Speaker 3>but then we had to do the troop and then

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<v Speaker 3>I knew we had to drink for certain stuff that

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, that's really okay. So speaking of drinks, cause

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I got my little drunk. I don't know about y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>but I ain't set. I'm going seven. I'm going hard

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<v Speaker 2>for seventy five days, all right, okay, seventy five hard?

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<v Speaker 2>For real? What are we drinking?

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<v Speaker 4>So in light of this being our new year, this

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<v Speaker 2>This is the golden glow.

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<v Speaker 4>Lex does have the cocktail version. Drea and I have

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<v Speaker 4>the mocktail version, but in both we have some pineapple mango.

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<v Speaker 4>We have some mohito syrup, so that has like a

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<v Speaker 4>but also just blending and making it less sweet, and

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit of fruit. It's been cold here, so

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<v Speaker 4>I've been trying to channel some tropical vines. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know where y'all live at. It has been

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<v Speaker 4>It's done snow and tachery oh weeks of snow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, like so snow.

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<v Speaker 3>in the clear. Then we came back, it snowed again,

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<v Speaker 4>Thank god it didn't. But yeah, this snow ain't no joke.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it has snowed in Atlanta since like

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<v Speaker 3>twenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 2>This is crazy. Yeah, it was twenty eighteen because I

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<v Speaker 2>was like the first like I remember, I had just

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<v Speaker 2>moved in my place. Yeah, and can I say something y'all. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I understand when we see snow and we're not used

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<v Speaker 2>to seeing it.

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<v Speaker 1>But stop eating the snow.

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<v Speaker 2>No please.

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen somebody making a snow cone. I said, bitch,

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<v Speaker 3>be fucking for real, bruh. While she was putting syrup

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<v Speaker 3>on it and everything, and then she was eating it, y'all,

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<v Speaker 3>I was disgusted.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a piece of grassy now somewhere worse than that

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<v Speaker 3>little pine con well.

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<v Speaker 2>Something something, I don't know. These Atlanta streets are not clean, baby,

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you eat snow?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, counterpart, they were telling me to add some like

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<v Speaker 4>cream milk, yeah, making it like cream.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, girl, I've seen it on TikTok. What child, stop

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<v Speaker 2>getting it. It's not sen well, I mean, if that's

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<v Speaker 2>your thing. It's still certain parts of Belanta. They still

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<v Speaker 2>got a little snowlft on the ground. That dude, that

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<v Speaker 2>snow was last thing.

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<v Speaker 5>All.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it really is, literally, I swear, y'all. I've seen

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that I follow. I saw somebody that.

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<v Speaker 3>I follow the other day they had literally posted they

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<v Speaker 3>still had like a good little space of snow in

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<v Speaker 3>the backyard.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like sixty five degrees today.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I will say these two when the sun is

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<v Speaker 3>not out like it rained the other day, and so

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<v Speaker 3>from my apartment I can see like the buildings obviously

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<v Speaker 3>on top of the buildings.

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<v Speaker 2>That are lower than you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it had rained the other day and then

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<v Speaker 3>the next day the sun didn't come out, and like

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<v Speaker 3>it was ice on the roof.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you know that's your thing. Go ahead, go

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<v Speaker 4>up there with a.

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<v Speaker 1>Cubs, make a little snow cone.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't do that. But anyway, Okay, let's get to these topics,

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<v Speaker 2>cause I'm so ready to talk about this, I've been

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<v Speaker 2>dying to talk about this. So we're gonna talk for

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<v Speaker 2>the first topic about the TikTok band. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>everybody pretty much knows what happened. TikTok got band. Everybody

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<v Speaker 2>on the app was losing their minds. Half of the

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<v Speaker 2>peace people were crying. Half the people were like, good,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all need to go get a job. Why are you

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<v Speaker 2>depending on the app for money? Anyway? Then lo and behold,

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<v Speaker 2>twelve hours later, the app is still here. It's gotten extension.

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<v Speaker 2>They're still trying to figure out what they're gonna do

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<v Speaker 2>with it. But yeah, that's what's going on. First, before

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<v Speaker 2>we get into the topic, let me say, y'all, please

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<v Speaker 2>do not fall for that little stunt that they pulled

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<v Speaker 2>talking about Donald Trump saved the day and save the app.

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<v Speaker 2>He the reason why I was about to get canced exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>I think people be forgetting what to heal going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, so just don't fall for that. But anyways, what

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<v Speaker 2>do you think about the TikTok band and how people

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<v Speaker 2>were like crying and then also how people were.

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<v Speaker 1>Laughing about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was more on the side of laughing. No, see right, well.

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<v Speaker 3>No I am, because it's just like crying when you

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what's gonna happen. Yet it's crazy to me,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I feel like, once you know what's going to happen,

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<v Speaker 3>like once you know your fate, like say you're a

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<v Speaker 3>TikToker and you have three million followers and they show

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<v Speaker 3>primary source to income, once you knew for sure that

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<v Speaker 3>the shit was gonna be over, like maybe a week later,

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<v Speaker 3>two weeks later, a month later, and now it's really

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<v Speaker 3>affecting your income, then I could see having their reaction.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's like it was just hearsay, like we wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>really sure and I knew that the shit was not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna get canceled because at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 3>if Trump's if a lot of Trump's policies is all

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<v Speaker 3>about making America great again and people making more money

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<v Speaker 3>and people having income. It's so many people on TikTok

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<v Speaker 3>that are making millions of dollars. Why would he cancel

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<v Speaker 3>something like that that's generating that type of income for America.

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<v Speaker 3>I just knew it probably wasn't going to happen, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think people were very much overreacting. I think to

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<v Speaker 3>cry over an app in general is literally insane and

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<v Speaker 3>it shows how ridiculous our generation is, in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 3>because why are you crying over a app? I tweeted

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<v Speaker 3>about this, I said, I feel like we're living in

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<v Speaker 3>a real life episode of Black mus because what is

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<v Speaker 3>wrong with y'all? Like, it's a app, and I get

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<v Speaker 3>that people make money from it, but just like any

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<v Speaker 3>other time, if something get canceled, something else is gonna

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<v Speaker 3>pop off right afterwards. Yeah, and that's the truth. It

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<v Speaker 3>happened with Vine, it happens all the time. It happened

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<v Speaker 3>with Black Planning, happened with my Space. Well, what I'm

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<v Speaker 3>and from what I and what I think is I

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<v Speaker 3>think Black Planning in my Space might still be around,

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<v Speaker 3>But the point that I'm making is that it doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>have as many users as it once. Everybody kind of

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<v Speaker 3>started migrating over the Facebook and all of that type

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<v Speaker 3>of stuff. So it's always gonna be something else that

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<v Speaker 3>ends up coming out, and like we would have figured

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<v Speaker 3>it out as a community, we would have been Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think sitting online crying period is crazy, but

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<v Speaker 3>sitting online crying over TikTok is insane.

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<v Speaker 2>And people was mad. They was responding to my tweet.

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<v Speaker 3>He has said, well, I'm sure you will feel the

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<v Speaker 3>same way about YouTube. I said, yeah, but you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>see me online crying about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But you also, if you two got shut down right now,

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<v Speaker 2>you also have a backup. Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>When I said thing too, I said, but I also

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<v Speaker 3>have like five of the streams of ink Yeah, outside

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<v Speaker 3>of YouTube.

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<v Speaker 2>Right and I think for me too, I mean light flicks.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, and I will say this too, y'all have

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<v Speaker 2>to prepare for a randy day. Honestly, if shits shut

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<v Speaker 2>down right now, I'm good for about a good seven

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<v Speaker 2>eight month s it's seven eight months. I can figure

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<v Speaker 2>something out. When I tell you, I'm so. My lifestyle

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<v Speaker 2>is so different now, and I understand how it is

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<v Speaker 2>having a presence on social media making your money online.

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<v Speaker 2>These apps aren't necessarily guaranteed as we've seen. But what

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<v Speaker 2>I will say is like, you gotta prepare for a backup.

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<v Speaker 2>I though, Blueberry, I think that it's so crazy though,

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<v Speaker 2>on the other side, because I'm a play devil's advocate

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<v Speaker 2>to your point, which is a very good point. But

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<v Speaker 2>on the other side, y'all that were sitting there clapping

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<v Speaker 2>and laughing at people, y'all would be the same people.

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<v Speaker 2>If your boss walked into your cubicle right now and

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<v Speaker 2>fired you.

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<v Speaker 1>You would be crying as well.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think we should ever clap for anybody losing

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<v Speaker 2>out on income, our people, online influencers. I do think

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of influencers need to go to financing classes

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<v Speaker 2>or get a financial advisor. I had to do that

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<v Speaker 2>myself because in my first two years i'm making money,

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<v Speaker 2>I was wilin. I was one hundred percent wild, and

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<v Speaker 2>now I really know what to do with my money,

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<v Speaker 2>so I can prepare for things like that. So I

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<v Speaker 2>do think a lot of these influencers that have extra

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<v Speaker 2>income coming in or they're all of a sudden making

0:21:32.800 --> 0:21:34.960
<v Speaker 2>forty fifty thousand dollars a month, Yes, they need to

0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:37.200
<v Speaker 2>be taught about their money, but it's not your place

0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:39.639
<v Speaker 2>to sit up there and laugh, because if your company

0:21:39.720 --> 0:21:41.280
<v Speaker 2>shut down, you would be.

0:21:41.280 --> 0:21:42.359
<v Speaker 1>In the same predicament.

0:21:42.440 --> 0:21:45.040
<v Speaker 2>At the end of the day, we are living in

0:21:45.119 --> 0:21:47.199
<v Speaker 2>times that are very fucking frightening for all of them

0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:50.359
<v Speaker 2>because none of us are Jeff Bezos, baby, and we're

0:21:50.400 --> 0:21:53.040
<v Speaker 2>all like, you know what I'm saying, it's very scary.

0:21:53.080 --> 0:21:55.720
<v Speaker 2>If the whole internet shut down, a lot of people

0:21:55.720 --> 0:21:57.760
<v Speaker 2>would be fucked up. So I just think that we

0:21:57.840 --> 0:22:00.840
<v Speaker 2>just need to give people grace. But I also think

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>With you on that note. Getting on the internet and

0:22:04.440 --> 0:22:05.679
<v Speaker 1>crying is nuts.

0:22:05.960 --> 0:22:08.600
<v Speaker 4>I think about anything about anything.

0:22:08.640 --> 0:22:12.200
<v Speaker 3>I like, holding a camera up while you're crying will

0:22:12.280 --> 0:22:15.439
<v Speaker 3>forever be insane to me. Yeah, cause to me, you

0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:17.879
<v Speaker 3>ain't really that sad, because I don't know when I

0:22:17.920 --> 0:22:20.080
<v Speaker 3>be crying, I'd be sliding down the wall. I ain't

0:22:20.119 --> 0:22:23.119
<v Speaker 3>got time. I ain't got time to be holding a

0:22:23.359 --> 0:22:25.960
<v Speaker 3>camera right in the middle of a breakdown.

0:22:26.080 --> 0:22:28.560
<v Speaker 2>And like everybody was like deleted off their phone then

0:22:28.560 --> 0:22:30.679
<v Speaker 2>you couldn't download the back and they was mad about that.

0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:33.240
<v Speaker 2>I still can't, right, I don't. I think I don't know.

0:22:33.320 --> 0:22:34.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure because I kept it on my phone.

0:22:34.960 --> 0:22:38.080
<v Speaker 2>I did so I was coming on the plane, I'm like,

0:22:38.119 --> 0:22:40.159
<v Speaker 2>TikTok working again. We were sitting right next to each

0:22:40.200 --> 0:22:41.760
<v Speaker 2>other and playing like it's working again. We were like

0:22:41.800 --> 0:22:42.560
<v Speaker 2>I knew it.

0:22:42.480 --> 0:22:46.320
<v Speaker 3>But we also also weren't panicking. And then, like I said,

0:22:46.359 --> 0:22:48.280
<v Speaker 3>that was something else that somebody had said in the comments.

0:22:48.320 --> 0:22:49.520
<v Speaker 3>I think it was like, you would be sad if

0:22:49.560 --> 0:22:52.760
<v Speaker 3>YouTube got canceled or whatever. What if you was making

0:22:52.800 --> 0:22:56.080
<v Speaker 3>thousands of dollars from TikTok every month. I do, But

0:22:56.160 --> 0:22:57.960
<v Speaker 3>I still wasn't panicking from it, and I'm not going

0:22:58.040 --> 0:22:59.959
<v Speaker 3>to because at the end of the day, we were

0:23:00.160 --> 0:23:01.480
<v Speaker 3>just gonna find something else.

0:23:01.600 --> 0:23:03.960
<v Speaker 2>We had built, what a following.

0:23:03.600 --> 0:23:06.760
<v Speaker 4>Of almost four hundred thousand subscribe I mean followers on TikTok.

0:23:06.960 --> 0:23:09.040
<v Speaker 2>We were just gonna go to another app and build

0:23:09.080 --> 0:23:12.600
<v Speaker 2>it again. Like I'm not, We're not afraid of starting over. Yeah,

0:23:12.680 --> 0:23:15.000
<v Speaker 2>let me tell you right now, if you two got

0:23:15.040 --> 0:23:17.520
<v Speaker 2>shut down, somebody finna pick up poor month. Yeah.

0:23:17.760 --> 0:23:19.520
<v Speaker 5>The world needs us.

0:23:20.240 --> 0:23:23.400
<v Speaker 2>And that's how I feel. You can't take away from

0:23:23.400 --> 0:23:25.520
<v Speaker 2>me what you didn't give to me, you know what

0:23:25.560 --> 0:23:28.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying, Like nobody, no ceo at YouTube, no ceo

0:23:28.600 --> 0:23:31.720
<v Speaker 2>at Facebook, TikTok, Like I feel like when you really

0:23:31.760 --> 0:23:34.359
<v Speaker 2>believe in yourself and your power. And I always use

0:23:34.400 --> 0:23:36.480
<v Speaker 2>her for an example because I love her. Oh I

0:23:36.520 --> 0:23:38.600
<v Speaker 2>should have got her new last name, Jackie. I know

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:40.480
<v Speaker 2>she has a new last name, but she got married.

0:23:40.840 --> 0:23:44.600
<v Speaker 2>Jackie has moved from app to app, two apps. She

0:23:44.640 --> 0:23:45.200
<v Speaker 2>don't give a.

0:23:45.240 --> 0:23:48.679
<v Speaker 3>Damn, cause you shouldn't if you believe in yourself and

0:23:48.720 --> 0:23:51.000
<v Speaker 3>you notice you're putting out quality content and you know

0:23:51.080 --> 0:23:54.040
<v Speaker 3>you they girl, you're just gonna build the followers anywhere

0:23:54.119 --> 0:23:57.680
<v Speaker 3>won the new app. And I can understand being sad

0:23:57.760 --> 0:24:01.840
<v Speaker 3>and crying if it's really affixing your financial situation. But

0:24:01.880 --> 0:24:04.000
<v Speaker 3>it was people who was really upset in crying that

0:24:04.080 --> 0:24:07.119
<v Speaker 3>TikTok was getting canceled just because of the entertainment purposes.

0:24:07.320 --> 0:24:09.200
<v Speaker 2>And they're like, oh.

0:24:09.040 --> 0:24:09.840
<v Speaker 1>I met friends.

0:24:09.840 --> 0:24:13.199
<v Speaker 2>If you have real friends and community, they go make

0:24:13.240 --> 0:24:15.199
<v Speaker 2>an Instagram or a Facebook, like you can keep in

0:24:15.240 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 2>contact with people. I get it because I made friends

0:24:17.320 --> 0:24:19.719
<v Speaker 2>from the internet. But I just I do. I'm not

0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:22.359
<v Speaker 2>being judging, but I do feel like crying over an

0:24:22.400 --> 0:24:26.000
<v Speaker 2>app is a little extreme. It's a little extreme for me.

0:24:26.600 --> 0:24:30.280
<v Speaker 3>It's a lot extremes, So yeah, and I am being

0:24:30.359 --> 0:24:35.680
<v Speaker 3>jud So that's the thing that eats me like all

0:24:35.680 --> 0:24:38.560
<v Speaker 3>the other stuff that's going on rather on the internet

0:24:38.600 --> 0:24:41.159
<v Speaker 3>and cry over an app than like really voice your

0:24:41.200 --> 0:24:43.800
<v Speaker 3>opinion or like voice the political things that's going on.

0:24:44.080 --> 0:24:46.399
<v Speaker 4>That's crazy to me. And then everybody started.

0:24:46.680 --> 0:24:49.840
<v Speaker 2>Read yeah the other app red note, and I'm like,

0:24:49.880 --> 0:24:51.199
<v Speaker 2>why do y'all always try to do that?

0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Try to make it?

0:24:52.640 --> 0:24:55.199
<v Speaker 2>I think one thing about these apps is you have

0:24:55.240 --> 0:24:59.040
<v Speaker 2>to let an app organically come about. So when they

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:01.919
<v Speaker 2>were doing like the everybody thought everybody was about to

0:25:02.240 --> 0:25:05.040
<v Speaker 2>boycott Twitter and stuff, So like I made poor Minds

0:25:05.080 --> 0:25:07.040
<v Speaker 2>of Blue Scott say, I'm gonna make this just in case.

0:25:07.160 --> 0:25:09.160
<v Speaker 2>But I mean, I really don't care because I'm gonna

0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:11.159
<v Speaker 2>still be using Twitter. I'm just doing it just in

0:25:11.240 --> 0:25:17.119
<v Speaker 2>case x X. I'm sorry X, but again, who cares.

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:19.520
<v Speaker 2>I just always make another app for us because I'm like, okay,

0:25:19.560 --> 0:25:21.639
<v Speaker 2>just in case we have to move over here, because y'all,

0:25:21.920 --> 0:25:23.760
<v Speaker 2>I feel like we have a tribe over here and

0:25:23.800 --> 0:25:26.959
<v Speaker 2>we poor career rides deep like yeah, and it's just

0:25:27.000 --> 0:25:29.280
<v Speaker 2>not that serious to me. Okay, if Twitter shut down,

0:25:29.280 --> 0:25:31.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do it again. And I get it.

0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:35.000
<v Speaker 3>You know, everybody doesn't have that community backing them or are

0:25:34.960 --> 0:25:37.040
<v Speaker 3>supporting them, so I can understand.

0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:37.200
<v Speaker 2>That as well.

0:25:37.240 --> 0:25:43.720
<v Speaker 4>But like again, y'all, it's social media. Yeah, it's social media.

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:46.000
<v Speaker 3>And sometimes it really makes me nervous to think about

0:25:46.000 --> 0:25:48.119
<v Speaker 3>how a lot of people would cut up if something

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:51.920
<v Speaker 3>ever really happened to all of these apps, like.

0:25:51.840 --> 0:25:53.320
<v Speaker 2>What y'all gonna do? Yeah?

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:56.919
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, And I feel like, if anything, people like

0:25:57.040 --> 0:25:59.720
<v Speaker 3>us really should he should have been panicking for real,

0:26:00.119 --> 0:26:02.560
<v Speaker 3>because we be making money from the eppis and stuff.

0:26:02.600 --> 0:26:05.680
<v Speaker 3>But it's just like, but I like to wait though

0:26:05.880 --> 0:26:08.840
<v Speaker 3>and see, Like, once I know what's going on.

0:26:09.400 --> 0:26:10.640
<v Speaker 2>Then I can react.

0:26:11.240 --> 0:26:13.520
<v Speaker 3>Then I can start having the feelings and emotions and

0:26:13.560 --> 0:26:14.960
<v Speaker 3>be trying to figure out, Okay, what am I.

0:26:14.880 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 2>Gonna do next?

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:17.760
<v Speaker 3>But when shit is up in the air and we

0:26:17.800 --> 0:26:19.600
<v Speaker 3>don't know what's about to happen a year, just let

0:26:19.640 --> 0:26:22.719
<v Speaker 3>shit play out, because I had a very strong feeling

0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:25.480
<v Speaker 3>that it was gonna play out that way, and indeed,

0:26:26.560 --> 0:26:29.840
<v Speaker 3>and y'all was asking a plumb fool on line for

0:26:29.920 --> 0:26:31.199
<v Speaker 3>no goddamn reason.

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:33.320
<v Speaker 2>Then when the app gets back up, you're trying to

0:26:33.400 --> 0:26:38.280
<v Speaker 2>archive them videos what we saw you crashing out. I

0:26:38.440 --> 0:26:45.320
<v Speaker 2>say that it's not bubbling frog in your throat we

0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 2>seen it all wild times. We live again. Okay, all right,

0:26:50.119 --> 0:26:52.040
<v Speaker 2>so let's let us know how y'all feel about the

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:54.119
<v Speaker 2>talking man. I know y'all probably gonna get on our

0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:56.760
<v Speaker 2>ass in these comments, but they probably is.

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<v Speaker 3>But oh goddamn will we ain't about to read it

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<v Speaker 3>that way.

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<v Speaker 4>I liked he said my neck was sat in my back.

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<v Speaker 4>We would work on you not reading the.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, let's get into these second topics. So for the

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<v Speaker 3>second topic, I wanted to talk about being a will

0:29:34.480 --> 0:29:39.480
<v Speaker 3>traveled woman, but not probably in the sense that people

0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:42.600
<v Speaker 3>are thinking about as far as just being somebody who

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:44.440
<v Speaker 3>has traveled a lot and seen a lot. But I

0:29:44.480 --> 0:29:46.240
<v Speaker 3>want to talk about it from the perspective of like

0:29:46.440 --> 0:29:50.280
<v Speaker 3>men wanting to date you if you're a will traveled woman.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw a post a few weeks ago where this

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<v Speaker 3>guy was basically saying that like he likes today younger women,

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<v Speaker 3>he doesn't really like today women that are older because

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:07.040
<v Speaker 3>he feels like with a younger woman, she he's gonna

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<v Speaker 3>give her a lot of her first so she's gonna

0:30:09.600 --> 0:30:11.680
<v Speaker 3>experience a lot of her first with him. She hasn't

0:30:11.720 --> 0:30:14.600
<v Speaker 3>really did much, she hasn't really traveled much. He doesn't

0:30:14.640 --> 0:30:17.680
<v Speaker 3>really know much about life yet, She's not jaded yet

0:30:17.800 --> 0:30:21.440
<v Speaker 3>by dating other men and things of that nature. So

0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:24.960
<v Speaker 3>he prefers today women that are younger, because women who

0:30:25.000 --> 0:30:29.840
<v Speaker 3>are older, we are jad, we are more travel so

0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:32.760
<v Speaker 3>nothing impresses us. We be like, oh, I've seen it already,

0:30:32.800 --> 0:30:35.120
<v Speaker 3>or you need to do more. And he feels like

0:30:35.200 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 3>it's nothing that he can give or bring to the

0:30:37.600 --> 0:30:41.560
<v Speaker 3>relationship of value for a woman that's around his age

0:30:41.680 --> 0:30:42.160
<v Speaker 3>or older.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think he was like in his thirties. So

0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:48.440
<v Speaker 2>I have two things to say about that. First thing,

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:50.600
<v Speaker 2>I dated somebody like that. I don't know if y'all

0:30:50.600 --> 0:30:52.960
<v Speaker 2>remember when we used to do our character's football bab

0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:54.560
<v Speaker 2>I literally had football Bay tell me.

0:30:54.600 --> 0:30:57.120
<v Speaker 1>He was like it is He told me straight up.

0:30:57.160 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 2>He was like, it's very hard dating you because, like

0:30:59.880 --> 0:31:03.200
<v Speaker 2>I've taken you to Miami and you were just I

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:04.920
<v Speaker 2>could tell like you were having fun, but you just

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 2>weren't impressed. He was like, I feel like, for me

0:31:07.280 --> 0:31:09.520
<v Speaker 2>to do something for you that just makes me be

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:12.160
<v Speaker 2>a guy that sticks around in your life forever, or

0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:14.480
<v Speaker 2>somebody that's memorable, I'm gonna have to take you to

0:31:14.560 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 2>gree or to Paris or something like that. And I'm like, yeah,

0:31:17.800 --> 0:31:20.840
<v Speaker 2>that is true. I'm not impressed by you taking me

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:23.920
<v Speaker 2>to Miami. I'm not I'm not gonna lie. But I

0:31:24.000 --> 0:31:27.840
<v Speaker 2>say all that to say to my second point. That

0:31:27.960 --> 0:31:29.800
<v Speaker 2>just goes to show the type of man you are,

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:32.520
<v Speaker 2>because you not that nigga like you thought. Because it

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:34.840
<v Speaker 2>don't matter where we at. We could be in Utah,

0:31:35.200 --> 0:31:37.160
<v Speaker 2>Arizona if you that nigga, Oh, we're finna have a

0:31:37.200 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 2>time because you and me, Baby, I have been on

0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 2>a trip with a guy and it's somewhere that I

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:43.320
<v Speaker 2>have been thirty times, but I talk about the time

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:45.880
<v Speaker 2>that I went with him because we had that much fun.

0:31:46.080 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 2>I have been to Miami a million times, but I

0:31:48.600 --> 0:31:50.720
<v Speaker 2>can count the times that I remember I had a

0:31:50.920 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 2>memorable experience. It's not about where you are, it's about

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:57.000
<v Speaker 2>the person that you're with. So any man that is

0:31:57.040 --> 0:31:59.960
<v Speaker 2>intimidated by a well traveled woman is not the man

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:02.960
<v Speaker 2>for me. Because Baby, that passport is stamp. Yeah.

0:32:03.120 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 3>Same, Like, why would you not want to date me

0:32:05.720 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 3>because I've been placed that you haven't been places that

0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:10.479
<v Speaker 3>you're not taking me for the first time. The way

0:32:10.520 --> 0:32:12.600
<v Speaker 3>I look at it is like you said, Okay, so

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:15.600
<v Speaker 3>what I've been here before? Take me a rob it's

0:32:15.640 --> 0:32:18.880
<v Speaker 3>gonna be a different experience because this time I'm with you.

0:32:18.640 --> 0:32:21.360
<v Speaker 2>Right exactly, and that's how I feel you and.

0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:24.200
<v Speaker 4>People be acting like, Okay, so what you've been to Greece.

0:32:24.560 --> 0:32:26.960
<v Speaker 3>Okay, if you've been to Greece, you ain't win every

0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:28.160
<v Speaker 3>goddamn wearing grease.

0:32:28.280 --> 0:32:29.280
<v Speaker 2>You ain't half the time.

0:32:29.560 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 4>It's six days, so we could go back and do

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 4>shit that I didn't do the first time.

0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm just not intimidated now.

0:32:36.680 --> 0:32:39.960
<v Speaker 2>To me, I want a god that actually, like, if

0:32:40.080 --> 0:32:42.080
<v Speaker 2>we're on a day and you like tell me that

0:32:42.720 --> 0:32:45.080
<v Speaker 2>you don't like to travel, it's a difference between you

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:48.360
<v Speaker 2>not liking the travel yeh, and you haven't traveled. I'd

0:32:48.440 --> 0:32:51.200
<v Speaker 2>rather date somebody who hasn't traveled than somebody who doesn't

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:53.440
<v Speaker 2>like to or doesn't want to or doesn't want to,

0:32:53.480 --> 0:32:56.960
<v Speaker 2>because I enjoy traveling. So if that's more of a

0:32:57.000 --> 0:32:59.120
<v Speaker 2>red flag to me, and it's not a red flag

0:32:59.200 --> 0:33:02.400
<v Speaker 2>to everybody, because I think men that don't like to travel,

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:04.240
<v Speaker 2>you can find women who don't like to travel, and

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:07.280
<v Speaker 2>y'all can be together. But I think a man who

0:33:07.360 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 2>is well traveled and cultured, when he meets a woman

0:33:10.320 --> 0:33:13.160
<v Speaker 2>that's well traveled, that doesn't intimidate him because he's like, oh,

0:33:13.200 --> 0:33:15.000
<v Speaker 2>I've been here before. Have you been here before? Oh?

0:33:15.160 --> 0:33:17.120
<v Speaker 2>We should go together because there's things I didn't do

0:33:17.400 --> 0:33:21.000
<v Speaker 2>when you are real travelers. No, Like that's why you

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 2>said that, like that you didn't do everything. Yeah, I've

0:33:23.840 --> 0:33:26.520
<v Speaker 2>been in Atlanta, you two thy seventeen. I still haven't

0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:27.360
<v Speaker 2>done everything.

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 1>Here, bitch.

0:33:27.920 --> 0:33:30.040
<v Speaker 3>And I lived in Houston for twenty five years and

0:33:30.120 --> 0:33:33.720
<v Speaker 3>I didn't do everything there, literally, like it's no way, right,

0:33:33.800 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 3>it's literally no way because new things are always popping up.

0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:39.280
<v Speaker 2>You can't do everything anyway.

0:33:39.960 --> 0:33:43.240
<v Speaker 4>So to me, there's just like a bullshit ass excuse.

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 2>And if a.

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 4>Nigga is intimidated by me, that's not the one for me,

0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:47.840
<v Speaker 4>no way.

0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:51.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But I keep over there men like that who like,

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:53.720
<v Speaker 2>oh I want to date a younger woman because she's

0:33:53.800 --> 0:33:57.760
<v Speaker 2>not jaded, she hasn't been you. One is giving a

0:33:57.760 --> 0:34:02.479
<v Speaker 2>little grooming, and two it's just giving that you are

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 2>bottom of the barrel and you cannot step up to

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:07.800
<v Speaker 2>the plate because and I'm not even saying it's an

0:34:07.840 --> 0:34:11.560
<v Speaker 2>age thing, because you can find some young women who

0:34:11.600 --> 0:34:14.919
<v Speaker 2>are well traveled. They have expensive tapes, they have things

0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:17.000
<v Speaker 2>like that. But you won't even date that younger woman

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:20.120
<v Speaker 2>because she knows of herself and she knows who she is.

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:21.879
<v Speaker 2>A lot of women are blessed with that that they

0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:24.360
<v Speaker 2>find that in their twenties. Some women don't find that

0:34:24.400 --> 0:34:26.279
<v Speaker 2>to their thirties. Hell, some women don't find that to

0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:29.000
<v Speaker 2>their forties, and some of them don't bond it at all.

0:34:29.120 --> 0:34:32.600
<v Speaker 2>You're right, But a man who cannot date or be

0:34:32.680 --> 0:34:34.680
<v Speaker 2>with the woman who knows herself and knows what she

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:37.600
<v Speaker 2>wants out of life, it gives that you're okay with

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:40.280
<v Speaker 2>the bare minimum and you cannot rise to the occasion

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:40.480
<v Speaker 2>of that.

0:34:40.800 --> 0:34:43.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you want somebody who's gonna be okay with

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:43.839
<v Speaker 4>that too.

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:46.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you want somebody to be okay with you taking

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:50.920
<v Speaker 2>them to Buckhead to eat for every single day. I'm

0:34:50.960 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 2>not okay with that. Like I like to be outside,

0:34:53.520 --> 0:34:55.239
<v Speaker 2>I like to do things, And I'm not saying every

0:34:55.280 --> 0:34:57.960
<v Speaker 2>trip has to be a grease Like I said, Miami

0:34:58.360 --> 0:35:01.160
<v Speaker 2>was one of the most romantic vacations I've been on.

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:05.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm so serious and I love a Miami trip. I

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:09.640
<v Speaker 2>went to d C last year. I had a ball

0:35:09.719 --> 0:35:13.560
<v Speaker 2>because I did something I never did, like traveling domestically,

0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:15.200
<v Speaker 2>traveling anywhere with your partner.

0:35:15.520 --> 0:35:16.839
<v Speaker 1>It's about the experience.

0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:20.719
<v Speaker 2>So a real man or a woman is not gonna

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:24.160
<v Speaker 2>be intimidated by that passport. Then yeah, I agree.

0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:26.400
<v Speaker 4>I just think that's like some bullshit, Like if you

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:29.520
<v Speaker 4>just wanted that younger women just say.

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:31.240
<v Speaker 1>Just say you can't handle by mama.

0:35:31.440 --> 0:35:35.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but stop with all the excuses, Like I just

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:37.400
<v Speaker 3>feel like it sounds crazy.

0:35:38.120 --> 0:35:42.320
<v Speaker 2>So, speaking of traveling and doing a lot of nice things,

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:48.760
<v Speaker 2>you had a tweet the other day about luxury. Fine,

0:35:49.520 --> 0:35:51.120
<v Speaker 2>let me look up. Let me look it up so

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:53.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't miss quote your chap. I don't want to

0:35:53.880 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 2>miss quote your ass because people do that all the time. Okay,

0:35:58.040 --> 0:35:59.279
<v Speaker 2>so uh.

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:00.879
<v Speaker 1>Let me see, let me see.

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:06.759
<v Speaker 2>Okay, you had a tweet about bare minimum living just

0:36:06.840 --> 0:36:11.200
<v Speaker 2>never excites you. You want luxury living, okay, and which

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:14.520
<v Speaker 2>is okay, that's fine. So I wanted to define what

0:36:14.960 --> 0:36:16.239
<v Speaker 2>is luxury.

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:19.319
<v Speaker 3>I think it's I think the definition varies from person

0:36:19.360 --> 0:36:22.360
<v Speaker 3>to person. It's whatever you consider it to be luxurious.

0:36:22.440 --> 0:36:24.239
<v Speaker 3>You know what I mean, what I consider to be

0:36:24.640 --> 0:36:29.400
<v Speaker 3>luxurious isn't necessarily what another person deems luxuries. So I

0:36:29.440 --> 0:36:31.520
<v Speaker 3>think that that's a question that each person has to

0:36:31.560 --> 0:36:34.279
<v Speaker 3>ask himselves when I say bare minimum. I'm just not

0:36:34.440 --> 0:36:39.520
<v Speaker 3>interested in like doing the same things every day, Like

0:36:39.560 --> 0:36:43.040
<v Speaker 3>I want to live a life full of adventure spontaneity.

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:46.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't want my life to be mundane where I'm

0:36:46.080 --> 0:36:47.680
<v Speaker 3>doing the same thing waking up.

0:36:47.880 --> 0:36:49.839
<v Speaker 1>Spontani and mundane. I'm trying to remember all.

0:36:49.680 --> 0:36:53.480
<v Speaker 3>The way I'm weak, but no, seriously, like I don't

0:36:53.520 --> 0:36:55.759
<v Speaker 3>want to do the same thing every day, Which is

0:36:55.760 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 3>another reason why I think even with like career choice,

0:36:59.360 --> 0:37:01.319
<v Speaker 3>I never really knew what I wanted to do when

0:37:01.320 --> 0:37:03.080
<v Speaker 3>I was younger, but I knew I wanted to do

0:37:03.160 --> 0:37:06.879
<v Speaker 3>something that gave me freedom. I didn't want to see

0:37:07.000 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 3>in a cubicle every single day.

0:37:09.000 --> 0:37:11.240
<v Speaker 4>And there's not nothing wrong with that. That just wasn't

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:11.680
<v Speaker 4>for me.

0:37:11.920 --> 0:37:13.840
<v Speaker 3>I tried it, and I feel like I could speak

0:37:13.880 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 3>on it because it's something that I actually tried, and

0:37:16.600 --> 0:37:19.520
<v Speaker 3>then I realized this ain't gonna work for me, you

0:37:19.560 --> 0:37:22.440
<v Speaker 3>know what I mean. It ain't even that, it's just

0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 3>like having to be at work, having to be at

0:37:28.000 --> 0:37:30.960
<v Speaker 3>work from like, Okay, so the job that I had

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 3>when I first graduated from college, I had to be

0:37:34.840 --> 0:37:38.400
<v Speaker 3>at work at I think seven am every day. So

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:41.200
<v Speaker 3>I used to have to wake up at five o'clock.

0:37:41.320 --> 0:37:44.359
<v Speaker 3>And mind you, I lived in Katie, which and I

0:37:44.400 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 3>worked downtown. So if you yeah, so if you from

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:50.239
<v Speaker 3>Texas or you from Houston, and y'all know how far

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:52.560
<v Speaker 3>of a drive that is, especially in the morning with

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:56.480
<v Speaker 3>morning traffic. So i'm and actually I'm lying. I used

0:37:56.480 --> 0:37:58.000
<v Speaker 3>to have to wake up at like four thirty, so

0:37:58.080 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 3>they start to wake up at four.

0:37:59.239 --> 0:38:02.000
<v Speaker 2>My god, yeah, I was just going to slap you know.

0:38:02.080 --> 0:38:03.080
<v Speaker 2>That was when I would yah.

0:38:03.960 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So I used to have to wake up at

0:38:05.680 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 3>four point thirty to be the work at seven, and

0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:10.200
<v Speaker 3>then when I would get to work, I would get

0:38:10.280 --> 0:38:12.600
<v Speaker 3>off I think at like four o'clock and then I

0:38:12.640 --> 0:38:15.640
<v Speaker 3>would have to drive home, being traffic for another hour

0:38:15.800 --> 0:38:18.200
<v Speaker 3>and a half just to get back home. And doing

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 3>that every single day, then I only get like what

0:38:20.719 --> 0:38:23.239
<v Speaker 3>thirty forty hours of vacation a year Like that just

0:38:23.400 --> 0:38:26.680
<v Speaker 3>wasn't for me. So I always knew I wanted to

0:38:26.680 --> 0:38:29.000
<v Speaker 3>do something that gave me and allotted me the freedom

0:38:29.040 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 3>to wake up when I wanted to and not have

0:38:31.600 --> 0:38:34.759
<v Speaker 3>to be in work at the same place every day.

0:38:35.480 --> 0:38:37.719
<v Speaker 3>So to me, that's luxury, Like the fact that I

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:39.120
<v Speaker 3>get to wake up and do what the fuck I

0:38:39.120 --> 0:38:39.880
<v Speaker 3>want every day.

0:38:40.160 --> 0:38:42.399
<v Speaker 4>That's luxury to me, I mean.

0:38:42.440 --> 0:38:45.479
<v Speaker 3>And then also when it comes to dating, I want

0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:50.040
<v Speaker 3>to be with somebody who is thoughtful, who is caring,

0:38:50.080 --> 0:38:53.439
<v Speaker 3>who's naturally generous, who just gonna do stuff because that's

0:38:53.440 --> 0:38:55.760
<v Speaker 3>what they want to do. I don't have to ask

0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:58.839
<v Speaker 3>you to do Like I feel like some women are

0:38:58.920 --> 0:39:01.760
<v Speaker 3>okay with dating me and where they don't mind asking

0:39:01.800 --> 0:39:03.879
<v Speaker 3>them to do it or dropping hints for the men

0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:04.600
<v Speaker 3>to do stuff.

0:39:04.680 --> 0:39:06.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't really want to be the girl.

0:39:06.400 --> 0:39:08.520
<v Speaker 3>I want to be with somebody who just giddy, you

0:39:08.600 --> 0:39:11.840
<v Speaker 3>know what I mean. Like that's luxury to me, Like

0:39:11.960 --> 0:39:15.200
<v Speaker 3>dating somebody that I don't gotta ask, he just gonna

0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:17.840
<v Speaker 3>do it, he gonna pull up, he gonna do it,

0:39:17.880 --> 0:39:19.040
<v Speaker 3>he gonna make the effort.

0:39:20.520 --> 0:39:21.480
<v Speaker 2>I get. Of course, if we.

0:39:21.560 --> 0:39:24.760
<v Speaker 3>Being technical, like I feel like I like nice things

0:39:24.880 --> 0:39:26.400
<v Speaker 3>and ain't nothing wrong with that.

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:30.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm tired of y'all making people feel bad because

0:39:30.160 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 2>they like a chanel a men. Yeah you know what

0:39:34.080 --> 0:39:36.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. I mean, nothing is wrong with it.

0:39:36.280 --> 0:39:39.480
<v Speaker 3>If you I think you should be able to maintain

0:39:39.520 --> 0:39:42.160
<v Speaker 3>it though, if it's something you requiring.

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:44.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, no I do I do agree with that,

0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:48.040
<v Speaker 2>but what I'm saying is, either way, just let people.

0:39:48.080 --> 0:39:50.920
<v Speaker 2>I made a TikTok post about this last night. I

0:39:50.960 --> 0:39:53.560
<v Speaker 2>hate when people call other people weird or try to

0:39:53.600 --> 0:39:57.279
<v Speaker 2>cancel them. Yeah, they have different views of life than you.

0:39:57.960 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 2>So I used to be the girl that like, oh,

0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:01.879
<v Speaker 2>I want Louis bag. I wanted this bag. I wanted

0:40:01.880 --> 0:40:03.719
<v Speaker 2>that bad because that's how I felt like a man

0:40:03.840 --> 0:40:06.000
<v Speaker 2>showed me that he cared about me. Now, as I

0:40:06.040 --> 0:40:09.840
<v Speaker 2>grew up and I started making money, like I've realized, like,

0:40:09.880 --> 0:40:13.880
<v Speaker 2>the more money you make to me, the more money

0:40:13.880 --> 0:40:17.239
<v Speaker 2>I make, I realized, like somebody having money and just

0:40:17.280 --> 0:40:19.960
<v Speaker 2>spending on you that's not enough, Like that doesn't mean

0:40:20.000 --> 0:40:23.120
<v Speaker 2>somebody cares about you necessarily. And then I realized what

0:40:23.320 --> 0:40:26.200
<v Speaker 2>I really was looking for in relationships. So I say

0:40:26.239 --> 0:40:27.840
<v Speaker 2>all that to say it though, but just because the

0:40:27.840 --> 0:40:30.400
<v Speaker 2>next person feels like, Okay, this man bought me x

0:40:30.520 --> 0:40:30.759
<v Speaker 2>y Z.

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:33.200
<v Speaker 1>That means he cares for me. That's her belief.

0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:36.120
<v Speaker 2>She's not weird for believing that. That's just what she prefers.

0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:37.240
<v Speaker 2>That's her love language.

0:40:37.239 --> 0:40:40.040
<v Speaker 3>I mean, she not weird for believing that. Maybe a

0:40:40.040 --> 0:40:42.680
<v Speaker 3>little naive though, but completely.

0:40:42.840 --> 0:40:45.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean that a man could be a man that

0:40:46.000 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 2>doesn't have a lot, and he's like doing what he

0:40:48.680 --> 0:40:51.080
<v Speaker 2>can to get her a Chanelle or to get her

0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:52.640
<v Speaker 2>a Louis bag. You know what I'm saying. So he

0:40:52.760 --> 0:40:56.440
<v Speaker 2>dumb and she naive. You never know that situation because

0:40:57.160 --> 0:41:00.879
<v Speaker 2>maybe he's saved up, or maybe if you save up

0:41:00.920 --> 0:41:02.960
<v Speaker 2>to buy your girl of Chanelle, you don't need to

0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:03.719
<v Speaker 2>be buying me.

0:41:03.760 --> 0:41:06.839
<v Speaker 3>Boll Okay, I'll say it like this, not I'm just

0:41:06.880 --> 0:41:09.439
<v Speaker 3>being real, like I hear what you're saying. I think

0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:12.719
<v Speaker 3>they both need to reevaluate the relationship if that's the case,

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:16.560
<v Speaker 3>because as the men, why are you saving up to

0:41:16.640 --> 0:41:18.920
<v Speaker 3>buy her these? And as the woman, if you know

0:41:19.000 --> 0:41:20.920
<v Speaker 3>your man don't have money like that, why are you

0:41:20.960 --> 0:41:22.719
<v Speaker 3>asking I'm not saying.

0:41:22.440 --> 0:41:24.520
<v Speaker 2>That it's something like regular, but like if it's like

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:26.759
<v Speaker 2>a little birthday gift or something he saved it for

0:41:26.800 --> 0:41:29.680
<v Speaker 2>a one time gift, that's what I mean, not something

0:41:29.719 --> 0:41:32.520
<v Speaker 2>that he's doing all the time. All I'm saying is,

0:41:32.560 --> 0:41:35.480
<v Speaker 2>no matter what it is, if that's how she likes

0:41:35.520 --> 0:41:37.439
<v Speaker 2>to be loved and that's how this man is wanting

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:40.600
<v Speaker 2>to show that he loves her. Some people are like that. Now,

0:41:40.640 --> 0:41:43.680
<v Speaker 2>if it's a rich man who spends money like that

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:44.919
<v Speaker 2>all the time on women.

0:41:45.000 --> 0:41:46.680
<v Speaker 1>That's not the man I'm talking about.

0:41:46.480 --> 0:41:49.080
<v Speaker 2>Because a lot of times young girls will get that confused,

0:41:49.080 --> 0:41:51.200
<v Speaker 2>like oh he cares about me, not knowing that he

0:41:51.239 --> 0:41:53.640
<v Speaker 2>does that for every woman, you know. That's what I'm saying.

0:41:53.719 --> 0:41:58.000
<v Speaker 2>Every situation varies for me as a thirty five year

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 2>old woman. Now I've realized to me, when a man

0:42:01.280 --> 0:42:04.319
<v Speaker 2>shows up for me and it can't no amount of

0:42:04.320 --> 0:42:07.560
<v Speaker 2>money by that. If a man is there and he's

0:42:07.600 --> 0:42:10.319
<v Speaker 2>showing like how proud he is of me, and he's

0:42:10.360 --> 0:42:14.120
<v Speaker 2>giving me things like I'm a roses girl down like

0:42:14.719 --> 0:42:16.640
<v Speaker 2>one thing about my man. He gonna pop up with

0:42:16.680 --> 0:42:19.040
<v Speaker 2>some roses at my house, like he is gonna pop

0:42:19.120 --> 0:42:21.760
<v Speaker 2>whether he picking him up at public's, are he calling

0:42:21.840 --> 0:42:23.759
<v Speaker 2>and getting me the whole? He gonna show up with

0:42:23.800 --> 0:42:25.560
<v Speaker 2>some flowers because he knows that's how I like to

0:42:25.600 --> 0:42:28.600
<v Speaker 2>be loved. So I think that's a thing in love fish.

0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:31.319
<v Speaker 2>We're talking about luxury now. Luxury and love to me

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:34.120
<v Speaker 2>is a man showing up in your love language. Now

0:42:34.200 --> 0:42:36.479
<v Speaker 2>how he thinks that you need to be loved. He's

0:42:36.560 --> 0:42:38.799
<v Speaker 2>loving you how you want to be loved. No I

0:42:38.880 --> 0:42:39.600
<v Speaker 2>one hundred.

0:42:39.360 --> 0:42:42.120
<v Speaker 3>Percent agree with that because I feel like, even with me,

0:42:42.280 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 3>like my love language, I don't want to date no

0:42:44.239 --> 0:42:46.719
<v Speaker 3>man who because I feel like I'm only gonna date

0:42:46.800 --> 0:42:49.799
<v Speaker 3>a guy who is more successful, right right, So if

0:42:49.840 --> 0:42:51.959
<v Speaker 3>you already more successful than me, and you done figure

0:42:52.040 --> 0:42:53.920
<v Speaker 3>it out and you don't connect it the diets and

0:42:53.960 --> 0:42:56.440
<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm trying to do, why would you

0:42:56.640 --> 0:43:00.439
<v Speaker 3>not want to pour into me and help me as

0:43:00.440 --> 0:43:03.799
<v Speaker 3>far as giving me the information yep or whatever it is,

0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:07.080
<v Speaker 3>the resources whatever to help me get my business or

0:43:07.080 --> 0:43:08.880
<v Speaker 3>my ideas to where I want to give you to

0:43:09.320 --> 0:43:10.719
<v Speaker 3>So like that's a turnaro for me.

0:43:10.800 --> 0:43:12.319
<v Speaker 2>I like me and they help you with that type

0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:15.360
<v Speaker 2>of studs And that's luxury because a lot of people

0:43:15.400 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 2>don't have that knowledge. Yeah, So I think it's a

0:43:17.640 --> 0:43:20.400
<v Speaker 2>lot of simple things that are luxury. Like it's a

0:43:20.560 --> 0:43:23.160
<v Speaker 2>luxury that you have access to a man like that

0:43:23.480 --> 0:43:25.840
<v Speaker 2>that you can tap into his brain like that, Like

0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:27.839
<v Speaker 2>that's a luxury, you know what I'm saying, a lot

0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:31.120
<v Speaker 2>of people don't have access to people like that. And

0:43:31.680 --> 0:43:33.319
<v Speaker 2>I know this is kind of getting off topic, but

0:43:33.400 --> 0:43:36.520
<v Speaker 2>I was having a conversation with Killer today and she

0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:39.520
<v Speaker 2>was showing me so she does like, well, she was

0:43:39.560 --> 0:43:43.000
<v Speaker 2>just basically telling me that somebody that she knows got

0:43:43.000 --> 0:43:47.000
<v Speaker 2>a four hundred thousand dollars paycheck for two weeks and

0:43:47.840 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 2>doing what he's He's selling software. Okay, so he made

0:43:52.160 --> 0:43:54.160
<v Speaker 2>four hundred thousand dollars in two weeks. And she was like,

0:43:54.200 --> 0:43:56.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm sending it to people in my life,

0:43:56.080 --> 0:43:58.719
<v Speaker 2>and she was like all the women I sent it to,

0:43:58.840 --> 0:44:00.760
<v Speaker 2>they were very much so like like how.

0:44:00.600 --> 0:44:02.759
<v Speaker 1>Can I get that or I can do that.

0:44:03.000 --> 0:44:05.359
<v Speaker 2>My first reaction was like, oh, yeah, that's feasible, because

0:44:05.360 --> 0:44:07.239
<v Speaker 2>I was like my goal in life, like I know,

0:44:08.280 --> 0:44:10.360
<v Speaker 2>when I get to the point to where I'm like, okay,

0:44:10.360 --> 0:44:12.479
<v Speaker 2>I'm doing something, I'm gonna be making a million dollars

0:44:12.520 --> 0:44:14.600
<v Speaker 2>a month, I already set that, like that's my next

0:44:14.600 --> 0:44:17.480
<v Speaker 2>goal for myself because I know it's realistic because I'm

0:44:17.560 --> 0:44:19.799
<v Speaker 2>around people who make a million dollars a month, you know.

0:44:19.880 --> 0:44:21.520
<v Speaker 2>But she was like when I sent it to certain

0:44:21.600 --> 0:44:25.040
<v Speaker 2>other people, they were like, I mean, I mean we're

0:44:25.120 --> 0:44:27.000
<v Speaker 2>used to seeing that we're living in a country where

0:44:27.040 --> 0:44:29.560
<v Speaker 2>it's like Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos and stuff, and

0:44:29.600 --> 0:44:33.120
<v Speaker 2>she's like, this man is not Jeff Bezos. And Elon Musk,

0:44:33.200 --> 0:44:35.879
<v Speaker 2>But it's possible. But I say all that to say,

0:44:37.200 --> 0:44:41.440
<v Speaker 2>when you are in close range and in the vicinity

0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:43.440
<v Speaker 2>of people who are millionaires, you realize, okay, I can

0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 2>get there too.

0:44:44.360 --> 0:44:46.799
<v Speaker 1>But when you're not, you don't see that.

0:44:47.320 --> 0:44:50.319
<v Speaker 2>The average person makes fifty thousand dollars a year, so

0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:54.680
<v Speaker 2>they don't have that luxury of even having the audacity

0:44:54.760 --> 0:44:57.520
<v Speaker 2>to dream about that stuff. So, getting back to the

0:44:57.600 --> 0:45:00.360
<v Speaker 2>luxury topic, that's what I mean. When you're in post

0:45:00.360 --> 0:45:02.880
<v Speaker 2>proximity to people to where they are really trying to

0:45:02.920 --> 0:45:05.440
<v Speaker 2>put you in a position to win, they are really

0:45:05.480 --> 0:45:07.880
<v Speaker 2>making moves to help you get in a position to win.

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:10.839
<v Speaker 2>That's a luxury in itself, cause some people don't even

0:45:10.880 --> 0:45:14.240
<v Speaker 2>have the luxury of having the audacity to even think

0:45:14.320 --> 0:45:15.480
<v Speaker 2>about being a millionaire.

0:45:15.680 --> 0:45:16.919
<v Speaker 4>Creed shout out to Mimi.

0:45:17.920 --> 0:45:18.640
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

0:45:18.680 --> 0:45:21.520
<v Speaker 2>So that's I mean. But that's a real point though,

0:45:21.560 --> 0:45:24.080
<v Speaker 2>that's a real point. I mean, even having friends like

0:45:24.400 --> 0:45:26.600
<v Speaker 2>me and you both not millionaires, but we always trying

0:45:26.600 --> 0:45:27.920
<v Speaker 2>to this is a money play.

0:45:28.040 --> 0:45:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh we need to do this.

0:45:29.560 --> 0:45:33.040
<v Speaker 2>Even having people that think alike as you as a luxury.

0:45:33.160 --> 0:45:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I literally, me and Killa was on the phone.

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:38.680
<v Speaker 2>Yesterday talking about stocks and shit, like cause that's what

0:45:38.760 --> 0:45:41.040
<v Speaker 2>me and my friends talk about, Like how are we

0:45:41.400 --> 0:45:43.560
<v Speaker 2>doing these money plays? I know it sounds so like

0:45:44.320 --> 0:45:47.719
<v Speaker 2>lame and boring whatever, but I'm telling you, when you

0:45:47.760 --> 0:45:50.359
<v Speaker 2>are surrounded by people who have the same goals as

0:45:50.360 --> 0:45:52.200
<v Speaker 2>you and they're not trying to be like, do you

0:45:52.280 --> 0:45:56.759
<v Speaker 2>really think that's gonna happen? Like anytime Drea Killer, my

0:45:56.920 --> 0:45:59.279
<v Speaker 2>sister Lauren, any of my friends tell me something that

0:46:00.120 --> 0:46:02.120
<v Speaker 2>they want to do, I'm always like, well, how we

0:46:02.120 --> 0:46:04.480
<v Speaker 2>gonna get there, how we're gonna make it happy. You

0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:07.400
<v Speaker 2>gotta realize there's people out here who tell people their dreams.

0:46:07.440 --> 0:46:10.759
<v Speaker 2>They be like, girl, be for real, be the fuck

0:46:10.800 --> 0:46:11.160
<v Speaker 2>for real.

0:46:11.480 --> 0:46:13.879
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but see, I just think people gotta cut them

0:46:13.920 --> 0:46:16.440
<v Speaker 3>type of people off. And I know that people that

0:46:16.560 --> 0:46:18.440
<v Speaker 3>watch this show, they've been watching for a long time,

0:46:18.480 --> 0:46:20.719
<v Speaker 3>they probably be like dream always. I'm just cut the

0:46:20.800 --> 0:46:24.640
<v Speaker 3>people off for real, though, cut their ass off, because

0:46:24.760 --> 0:46:26.800
<v Speaker 3>you don't need that type of energy around you. I

0:46:26.800 --> 0:46:30.120
<v Speaker 3>feel like people be definitely projecting and they're just always

0:46:30.360 --> 0:46:32.560
<v Speaker 3>trying to tell other people what they can do because

0:46:32.600 --> 0:46:35.360
<v Speaker 3>they don't see them being able to attain that for

0:46:35.440 --> 0:46:38.879
<v Speaker 3>themselves and that's fine that you don't see that being

0:46:38.960 --> 0:46:42.080
<v Speaker 3>something that you can attain, But don't tell me what

0:46:42.160 --> 0:46:44.800
<v Speaker 3>I can't do. Now, it's a difference between telling somebody

0:46:44.840 --> 0:46:47.759
<v Speaker 3>what they can't do and being realistic with.

0:46:47.719 --> 0:46:49.880
<v Speaker 2>Your friends or like letting them know.

0:46:49.960 --> 0:46:51.680
<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's cute that you're saying you want to

0:46:51.719 --> 0:46:54.319
<v Speaker 3>do that, but like, what do you do every day?

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:55.480
<v Speaker 2>How you gonna get there?

0:46:55.680 --> 0:46:57.160
<v Speaker 3>Cause I think it's a lot of people who got

0:46:57.239 --> 0:47:00.759
<v Speaker 3>millionaire dreams and they be like, Oh, I'm gonna make

0:47:01.480 --> 0:47:03.440
<v Speaker 3>be making this amount of money every month, or I'm

0:47:03.440 --> 0:47:05.160
<v Speaker 3>gonna be making these amount of money in the next

0:47:05.200 --> 0:47:08.920
<v Speaker 3>few years, but they do nothing now that to get

0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:11.440
<v Speaker 3>to the goal. They just be feeling like, Oh, I'm

0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:13.960
<v Speaker 3>just gonna stay prayed up and I know my blessing's

0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:14.479
<v Speaker 3>gonna come.

0:47:14.960 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 4>No, you do gotta work. You need to pray, and

0:47:17.239 --> 0:47:18.120
<v Speaker 4>you need to put the work in.

0:47:18.480 --> 0:47:20.040
<v Speaker 3>And I think a lot of people don't be putting

0:47:20.040 --> 0:47:24.640
<v Speaker 3>the work in, and people around them don't be honest

0:47:24.680 --> 0:47:26.919
<v Speaker 3>with them about that either, cause it's like you could

0:47:26.920 --> 0:47:30.040
<v Speaker 3>get there. But I think people really don't understand how

0:47:30.160 --> 0:47:33.719
<v Speaker 3>much work it takes to even make six figures on

0:47:33.760 --> 0:47:36.840
<v Speaker 3>your own. As an entrepreneur, let alone millions of dollars.

0:47:38.120 --> 0:47:39.080
<v Speaker 3>It takes a lot of work.

0:47:39.760 --> 0:47:43.400
<v Speaker 2>And one thing about me too, I'm more leaning on

0:47:43.440 --> 0:47:47.759
<v Speaker 2>that end. But I also just like, not everybody has

0:47:47.800 --> 0:47:51.080
<v Speaker 2>the same opportunities and this and that. But and that's fine.

0:47:51.080 --> 0:47:53.839
<v Speaker 3>But if you say that's what you want, like if

0:47:53.840 --> 0:47:56.319
<v Speaker 3>you like I want to be a millionaire, but you're

0:47:56.360 --> 0:47:58.520
<v Speaker 3>not putting the work in make it make sense.

0:47:59.160 --> 0:48:03.080
<v Speaker 2>I agree with you because I hate people who make excuses.

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:06.920
<v Speaker 1>Though that's one thing I don't. I just this is

0:48:07.000 --> 0:48:07.520
<v Speaker 1>all on me.

0:48:07.840 --> 0:48:11.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm just no, I get that because shit do be hard.

0:48:11.320 --> 0:48:13.720
<v Speaker 2>And I'm not talking about people who are like extremely

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:16.279
<v Speaker 2>less fortunate that have I'm not taught. I'm talking about

0:48:16.280 --> 0:48:18.680
<v Speaker 2>people who like do well for themselves and they want

0:48:18.680 --> 0:48:20.279
<v Speaker 2>more and they're just like, well, I'm tired when I

0:48:20.320 --> 0:48:20.800
<v Speaker 2>get off.

0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:23.719
<v Speaker 1>Girl, you gotta do more. You just have to if

0:48:23.760 --> 0:48:24.280
<v Speaker 1>you are.

0:48:24.160 --> 0:48:27.320
<v Speaker 2>A lot of the opportunity and like it, like people

0:48:27.360 --> 0:48:31.279
<v Speaker 2>like us in this space, I cannot whine if I'm

0:48:31.280 --> 0:48:33.160
<v Speaker 2>like Drea, I haven't made a million dollars yet. The

0:48:33.200 --> 0:48:35.000
<v Speaker 2>only reason I have it because it's my fault. And

0:48:35.040 --> 0:48:36.279
<v Speaker 2>that's the honest of a got true. I don't have

0:48:36.280 --> 0:48:38.799
<v Speaker 2>nobody to blame. So like when people that are like

0:48:38.880 --> 0:48:41.640
<v Speaker 2>making good money and they're in good position and they're

0:48:41.640 --> 0:48:44.480
<v Speaker 2>complaining about where they are, girl, you gotta work harder.

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:47.400
<v Speaker 2>It's no like, I don't like when people do that,

0:48:47.680 --> 0:48:51.839
<v Speaker 2>Like it's not fair. I'm trying. Everything is on me. Well,

0:48:51.920 --> 0:48:53.560
<v Speaker 2>it was a point where everything was on me and

0:48:53.560 --> 0:48:57.960
<v Speaker 2>I made it happen. We all gotta scratch all way

0:48:57.960 --> 0:48:59.279
<v Speaker 2>out and figure it out, y'all.

0:48:59.440 --> 0:49:01.600
<v Speaker 3>It ain't eat And I think people expect stuff to

0:49:01.600 --> 0:49:04.000
<v Speaker 3>be easy, and that's why most people have a problem

0:49:04.000 --> 0:49:07.520
<v Speaker 3>with consistency. Yeah, because as soon as shit get rough

0:49:08.040 --> 0:49:09.600
<v Speaker 3>and it ain't what you thought it was gonna be,

0:49:09.680 --> 0:49:11.759
<v Speaker 3>or it's harder than you thought, now you like, well,

0:49:11.840 --> 0:49:13.319
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, do I really want to do this?

0:49:13.760 --> 0:49:16.200
<v Speaker 3>Or you half asked you you're not giving you show all.

0:49:16.840 --> 0:49:20.520
<v Speaker 3>So so well, getting back, we.

0:49:20.600 --> 0:49:23.320
<v Speaker 4>Were talking about looks, we're talking about luxury.

0:49:23.400 --> 0:49:25.319
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, so what is luxury to you?

0:49:25.480 --> 0:49:28.080
<v Speaker 4>That's what is a luxurious life When you are I

0:49:28.200 --> 0:49:31.319
<v Speaker 4>just said, I feel like whatever I want to do,

0:49:31.480 --> 0:49:33.879
<v Speaker 4>like me being able to do whatever I want, buy

0:49:33.960 --> 0:49:34.560
<v Speaker 4>whatever I want.

0:49:34.600 --> 0:49:37.040
<v Speaker 3>And I feel like I've said these before on poor minds,

0:49:37.120 --> 0:49:39.319
<v Speaker 3>just me being able to do whatever the hell I want,

0:49:39.719 --> 0:49:42.040
<v Speaker 3>that's luxurious to me. Like if I wake up today

0:49:42.080 --> 0:49:43.960
<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, you know what, I want to go

0:49:44.040 --> 0:49:49.319
<v Speaker 3>to the car dealership in barb rosroys cool and I

0:49:49.400 --> 0:49:51.439
<v Speaker 3>just got it, and I could just pay five hundred

0:49:51.480 --> 0:49:53.480
<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars cash for it if that's what I want

0:49:53.520 --> 0:49:56.080
<v Speaker 3>to do, And then I'm not bleink twice because obviously

0:49:56.120 --> 0:49:58.880
<v Speaker 3>we all know paying cash for a car and driving

0:49:58.920 --> 0:50:01.239
<v Speaker 3>it off the light is dumb is hell. But I

0:50:01.280 --> 0:50:03.840
<v Speaker 3>think that when people I think that when you get

0:50:03.960 --> 0:50:07.160
<v Speaker 3>that level of money, like it really don't matter, you

0:50:07.200 --> 0:50:10.360
<v Speaker 3>know what I mean. So I feel like when I

0:50:10.400 --> 0:50:12.440
<v Speaker 3>can do what I want, when I can wake up

0:50:12.440 --> 0:50:14.200
<v Speaker 3>every day and do exactly what I want, because I

0:50:14.760 --> 0:50:15.680
<v Speaker 3>definitely can do what.

0:50:15.640 --> 0:50:18.240
<v Speaker 2>I want to an extent. Yeah, we got a little

0:50:18.280 --> 0:50:19.040
<v Speaker 2>we got some livings.

0:50:19.080 --> 0:50:22.480
<v Speaker 3>Now, yes, I can do what I want to an extent.

0:50:23.280 --> 0:50:25.719
<v Speaker 3>But when I can literally wake up every day in

0:50:25.800 --> 0:50:28.120
<v Speaker 3>the world is mine, the world is my oyster, and

0:50:28.120 --> 0:50:30.920
<v Speaker 3>I could just do whatever I want, That's when I

0:50:30.920 --> 0:50:32.799
<v Speaker 3>feel like I'm gonna be living in luxuries, Like.

0:50:32.920 --> 0:50:34.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's fair. I like that.

0:50:34.560 --> 0:50:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm the same way.

0:50:35.719 --> 0:50:41.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm like Luxury to me is just being free, debt free,

0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:48.120
<v Speaker 2>fuck Nigga free, bad friend free, bad energy free, Like

0:50:49.360 --> 0:50:52.440
<v Speaker 2>I feel like the way I have curated my life

0:50:52.480 --> 0:50:54.799
<v Speaker 2>in these past few months, Like I've been doing a lot,

0:50:55.080 --> 0:50:59.319
<v Speaker 2>a lot of self work of picking my battles and

0:51:00.800 --> 0:51:03.960
<v Speaker 2>putting my energy in myself and waking up and choosing

0:51:04.000 --> 0:51:06.440
<v Speaker 2>to have a good day. Like you know, I'd be

0:51:06.440 --> 0:51:09.160
<v Speaker 2>going through my little bouts, and my last little depress

0:51:09.200 --> 0:51:10.880
<v Speaker 2>about I went through was so bad. I was like,

0:51:10.920 --> 0:51:13.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm not doing this to myself. No, I'm not doing

0:51:13.480 --> 0:51:15.520
<v Speaker 2>it no more. I'm not doing it no more. So

0:51:16.000 --> 0:51:21.040
<v Speaker 2>luxury to me is just having that mind capacity to

0:51:21.120 --> 0:51:23.360
<v Speaker 2>even do that, to even make that decision.

0:51:23.000 --> 0:51:25.200
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, So I agree with you.

0:51:25.320 --> 0:51:29.480
<v Speaker 2>Like, luxury to me is just living a life that

0:51:30.440 --> 0:51:33.520
<v Speaker 2>you are proud of. Like when once you reach a

0:51:33.560 --> 0:51:35.480
<v Speaker 2>point in your life where your wake up and you

0:51:35.480 --> 0:51:38.520
<v Speaker 2>don't want to be nobody else and you're like, I'm

0:51:38.600 --> 0:51:40.960
<v Speaker 2>happy to be me and my skin. Like there was

0:51:41.080 --> 0:51:42.600
<v Speaker 2>moments in time I used to about like, man, she's

0:51:42.640 --> 0:51:44.800
<v Speaker 2>so lucky. I wonder how it feels to be her.

0:51:44.880 --> 0:51:46.440
<v Speaker 2>You know, when we were little, we'd be like, oh,

0:51:46.480 --> 0:51:48.120
<v Speaker 2>I want to be like beyond s And that's nothing

0:51:48.160 --> 0:51:50.399
<v Speaker 2>wrong with that cause you're little, But when you grow up,

0:51:50.480 --> 0:51:52.839
<v Speaker 2>it's like you be like, man, look how she living.

0:51:52.920 --> 0:51:54.920
<v Speaker 2>She's so lucky. I wish oh, I wish I had

0:51:54.960 --> 0:51:56.640
<v Speaker 2>the thing. I wish I had the nigga she had.

0:51:56.840 --> 0:51:59.120
<v Speaker 2>I wish I had the job that she had. You know,

0:51:59.360 --> 0:52:01.480
<v Speaker 2>like I, I used to be that and looking at

0:52:01.480 --> 0:52:03.479
<v Speaker 2>other people and be wanting what they had so bad.

0:52:03.480 --> 0:52:07.600
<v Speaker 2>But like every single day now since I've made this change,

0:52:07.640 --> 0:52:10.799
<v Speaker 2>like I'm living in luxury. Right now, I wake up

0:52:10.800 --> 0:52:15.239
<v Speaker 2>everyone and like, bruh, this shit lids Like I.

0:52:15.160 --> 0:52:16.680
<v Speaker 1>Would not want to be anybody else.

0:52:16.719 --> 0:52:20.120
<v Speaker 2>My personality, everything about me is unique and I love that.

0:52:20.520 --> 0:52:23.319
<v Speaker 2>So I feel like luxury is literally what you make it.

0:52:23.760 --> 0:52:27.839
<v Speaker 2>So when somebody says I want I have this type

0:52:27.840 --> 0:52:29.680
<v Speaker 2>of lifestyle and I want this and that, why are

0:52:29.719 --> 0:52:32.080
<v Speaker 2>you offended by that? Why are you That's luxury to them,

0:52:32.160 --> 0:52:36.120
<v Speaker 2>And that's the life that this person chooses for themselves

0:52:36.440 --> 0:52:38.920
<v Speaker 2>what another person wants, and they look at as luxury

0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:41.359
<v Speaker 2>should not affect the way you feel about yourself. And

0:52:41.400 --> 0:52:43.400
<v Speaker 2>if it does affect the way you feel about yourself,

0:52:43.400 --> 0:52:44.880
<v Speaker 2>you're not living in luxury yet booth.

0:52:45.520 --> 0:52:47.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, and also if you say that that's

0:52:47.680 --> 0:52:50.760
<v Speaker 3>what you want, rise to the occasion, set the standard

0:52:50.800 --> 0:52:54.240
<v Speaker 3>for yourself. And when you set that standard for yourself,

0:52:54.320 --> 0:52:56.920
<v Speaker 3>also stop accepting bare minimum from people around you.

0:52:57.040 --> 0:52:59.680
<v Speaker 4>Make these nigas rise to the occasion. Make your friends

0:52:59.719 --> 0:53:00.520
<v Speaker 4>rise to the occasion.

0:53:00.560 --> 0:53:02.960
<v Speaker 3>Stop letting people treat y'all any kind of way and

0:53:03.040 --> 0:53:06.279
<v Speaker 3>handle y'all any kind of way too, because that ain't luxuries.

0:53:07.800 --> 0:53:08.759
<v Speaker 1>What's the funny said?

0:53:09.000 --> 0:53:13.080
<v Speaker 2>Well, load of it will not kind of black, So

0:53:16.880 --> 0:53:18.360
<v Speaker 2>what's luxury to Utah?

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<v Speaker 4>I agree with exactly what you said, like just being

0:53:20.719 --> 0:53:23.040
<v Speaker 4>comfortable with who you are, being free. I was just

0:53:23.080 --> 0:53:25.920
<v Speaker 4>thinking about I did a vision board even this past weekend,

0:53:26.000 --> 0:53:30.080
<v Speaker 4>and just like accepting that gratitude of where you are.

0:53:30.160 --> 0:53:34.040
<v Speaker 4>I used to want to be famous. I love, love,

0:53:34.080 --> 0:53:36.759
<v Speaker 4>love love being low key. I know a lot of

0:53:36.800 --> 0:53:39.560
<v Speaker 4>people know me, but like, come on, I like being

0:53:39.560 --> 0:53:42.480
<v Speaker 4>more low key though, Like, yeah, I enjoy my freedom.

0:53:42.480 --> 0:53:44.840
<v Speaker 4>I'm doing exactly what I love to do. I have

0:53:44.880 --> 0:53:48.719
<v Speaker 4>the ability to curate, host events, inspire, lead, I have

0:53:48.800 --> 0:53:51.880
<v Speaker 4>a team, you know, Like just being comfortable in that space,

0:53:51.920 --> 0:53:54.480
<v Speaker 4>but knowing that there's still room to grow and elevate.

0:53:54.600 --> 0:53:57.160
<v Speaker 4>I think that's just being comfortable in your skin.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

0:53:57.800 --> 0:53:59.799
<v Speaker 3>I love that beautiful And you said and you made

0:53:59.840 --> 0:54:00.960
<v Speaker 3>a really good point too.

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<v Speaker 2>Gratitude.

0:54:02.520 --> 0:54:06.080
<v Speaker 3>Gratitude is so important because the thing is, if you

0:54:06.120 --> 0:54:08.440
<v Speaker 3>don't have gratitude for where you are currently, how you

0:54:08.480 --> 0:54:09.920
<v Speaker 3>expect God to keep blessening.

0:54:10.000 --> 0:54:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:54:11.120 --> 0:54:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh, and people do not be grateful. It's crazy because

0:54:15.040 --> 0:54:16.600
<v Speaker 2>when we went on our little two week trip, it

0:54:16.640 --> 0:54:18.000
<v Speaker 2>was one of the mornings I woke up.

0:54:18.000 --> 0:54:19.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not even gonna lie to you.

0:54:19.080 --> 0:54:22.240
<v Speaker 2>I sat in the bed and I prayed and I cried,

0:54:22.400 --> 0:54:24.520
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't ask God for nothing. I was just

0:54:25.120 --> 0:54:30.080
<v Speaker 2>so thankful because I'm like, is this really my life? Bro? Like,

0:54:30.080 --> 0:54:31.040
<v Speaker 2>like this is crazy?

0:54:31.239 --> 0:54:33.279
<v Speaker 4>Hell, I feel like I feel like that every day.

0:54:33.520 --> 0:54:33.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:54:34.840 --> 0:54:36.320
<v Speaker 3>And I talk to God every day and I just

0:54:36.480 --> 0:54:39.880
<v Speaker 3>be like, thank you, thank you God, love these opportunities,

0:54:40.000 --> 0:54:42.960
<v Speaker 3>thank you for help little things too, because I don't

0:54:43.040 --> 0:54:45.200
<v Speaker 3>people forget to be grateful for little things like the

0:54:45.239 --> 0:54:47.120
<v Speaker 3>fact that you was able to get up at the

0:54:47.120 --> 0:54:49.480
<v Speaker 3>bed is a blessing. The fact that you open your

0:54:49.520 --> 0:54:52.160
<v Speaker 3>eyes is a blessing. The fact that you have a

0:54:52.239 --> 0:54:54.520
<v Speaker 3>roof over your head is a blessing. You know what,

0:54:54.600 --> 0:54:56.200
<v Speaker 3>I mean you have to be grateful for the small

0:54:56.200 --> 0:54:58.880
<v Speaker 3>things as well, not just you know the opportunity right.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to introduce it?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Sure?

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<v Speaker 3>What are three sex myths that you grew up believing

0:57:28.280 --> 0:57:28.920
<v Speaker 3>as a child.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I want to start this off a little. I

0:57:36.600 --> 0:57:39.280
<v Speaker 2>think that it's crazy because I think it's it's it's

0:57:39.360 --> 0:57:42.240
<v Speaker 2>still a thing that people believe to this day, because

0:57:42.240 --> 0:57:46.000
<v Speaker 2>this is more so like opinion. Maybe not myth, but

0:57:46.080 --> 0:57:48.960
<v Speaker 2>this is like an opinion type thing. I think it's

0:57:49.040 --> 0:57:52.240
<v Speaker 2>crazy that people swear up and down like sexist taboo

0:57:52.240 --> 0:57:54.920
<v Speaker 2>and it should not be talked about. Because we had

0:57:54.920 --> 0:57:57.120
<v Speaker 2>a club that just went viral with us with Janie

0:57:57.280 --> 0:57:58.800
<v Speaker 2>and we were talking about you know, like giving a

0:57:58.840 --> 0:58:01.680
<v Speaker 2>head or whatever, and everybody was laughing in the comments

0:58:01.680 --> 0:58:04.520
<v Speaker 2>in XYZ. But it was one lady who made a

0:58:04.560 --> 0:58:07.200
<v Speaker 2>comment like this is so embarrassing to women around the

0:58:07.240 --> 0:58:09.440
<v Speaker 2>world or something she said, and I went to her

0:58:09.480 --> 0:58:12.480
<v Speaker 2>pa whole log off. I went to her page and

0:58:12.520 --> 0:58:14.960
<v Speaker 2>she was like a motivational speaker. I don't know who

0:58:15.000 --> 0:58:17.320
<v Speaker 2>she was motivating because she didn't have that many people

0:58:17.320 --> 0:58:20.240
<v Speaker 2>following up. Anyways, I say all that to say, because

0:58:20.320 --> 0:58:24.280
<v Speaker 2>I think it's so crazy that adults, to keep the

0:58:24.360 --> 0:58:30.240
<v Speaker 2>world spinning, we must pro create. Sex is like eating food.

0:58:30.760 --> 0:58:37.400
<v Speaker 2>It's a part of life. It's human nature. Huay, it's

0:58:37.440 --> 0:58:41.240
<v Speaker 2>a human nature. You. I say all that, why is

0:58:41.400 --> 0:58:43.480
<v Speaker 2>sex so taboo to talk about?

0:58:43.960 --> 0:58:44.080
<v Speaker 5>Like?

0:58:44.160 --> 0:58:46.720
<v Speaker 2>Why is it so like oh, you know, like I'm

0:58:46.720 --> 0:58:49.200
<v Speaker 2>not saying that everybody wants to be open and talking

0:58:49.200 --> 0:58:51.560
<v Speaker 2>about it. But when people are open and talking about it,

0:58:51.600 --> 0:58:53.880
<v Speaker 2>why do people get so shamed for that? So I

0:58:53.880 --> 0:58:55.320
<v Speaker 2>think we need to stop doing it.

0:58:55.840 --> 0:58:57.920
<v Speaker 4>And so that's something that you believed in as a.

0:58:57.960 --> 0:59:02.680
<v Speaker 2>Key, I guess because growing up it was like, oh,

0:59:02.720 --> 0:59:05.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, parents that can't kiss in front of the kids,

0:59:05.080 --> 0:59:07.720
<v Speaker 2>or you can't you oh everything, don't talk to your

0:59:07.800 --> 0:59:09.520
<v Speaker 2>child about sex and this and that. My mom was

0:59:09.600 --> 0:59:10.040
<v Speaker 2>very open.

0:59:10.080 --> 0:59:12.400
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I'm like my parents used to be geasy.

0:59:12.720 --> 0:59:15.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I mean some people are like that. But

0:59:15.720 --> 0:59:19.560
<v Speaker 2>some people are very conservative, extremely conservative, Like you have

0:59:19.600 --> 0:59:21.600
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people like that. Yeah, And I just

0:59:21.640 --> 0:59:23.280
<v Speaker 2>don't believe in that. I think you should talk to

0:59:23.360 --> 0:59:25.960
<v Speaker 2>your kids about real life. I saw a lady who

0:59:26.120 --> 0:59:30.560
<v Speaker 2>actually like bought a house and on her garage there's

0:59:30.600 --> 0:59:32.760
<v Speaker 2>like a whole top floor and she built her daughter

0:59:32.840 --> 0:59:35.560
<v Speaker 2>an apartment. But I mean that's a little off topic,

0:59:35.600 --> 0:59:37.320
<v Speaker 2>but she was just like, I'm going to show my

0:59:37.440 --> 0:59:39.440
<v Speaker 2>child how to take care of a household.

0:59:39.760 --> 0:59:42.000
<v Speaker 1>Now she still goes in there and cleans up because the.

0:59:42.000 --> 0:59:44.640
<v Speaker 2>House is it's connected to the house, but she has

0:59:44.680 --> 0:59:47.760
<v Speaker 2>a whole setup like as an apartment. And I think

0:59:47.800 --> 0:59:50.880
<v Speaker 2>that's important because in school we need to start learning

0:59:50.920 --> 0:59:53.920
<v Speaker 2>things that are gonna teach us about life. We need

0:59:53.960 --> 0:59:56.440
<v Speaker 2>to when we have sex education, we need to be

0:59:56.520 --> 0:59:58.840
<v Speaker 2>learning about more than how to put a condom on

0:59:58.880 --> 1:00:02.919
<v Speaker 2>a banana. There real conversations about how you know, men

1:00:03.080 --> 1:00:05.640
<v Speaker 2>view sex a little different than women view sex. These

1:00:05.640 --> 1:00:08.160
<v Speaker 2>are conversations we need to have in sex ed. And

1:00:08.400 --> 1:00:10.840
<v Speaker 2>it's okay to talk about sex. It's okay to about

1:00:10.840 --> 1:00:13.720
<v Speaker 2>talk about sucking dick. If I'm in a relationship, I'm

1:00:13.720 --> 1:00:17.000
<v Speaker 2>sucking my man dick. The fun Why are we acting like,

1:00:17.040 --> 1:00:18.600
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, girl?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you know ain't some coaching before Now everybody

1:00:22.200 --> 1:00:25.200
<v Speaker 3>ain't a coach, but they need to always wish you

1:00:25.280 --> 1:00:30.040
<v Speaker 3>to you okay and me and me and me, you said, girl,

1:00:30.120 --> 1:00:33.320
<v Speaker 3>I know because we l G B t Q I

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<v Speaker 3>a friendly bet.

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<v Speaker 2>We are the same time. God' well, I'm saying, if

1:00:41.200 --> 1:00:44.480
<v Speaker 2>we're somebody's talking about eating coaching, don't be trying to

1:00:44.480 --> 1:00:49.760
<v Speaker 2>make them feel bad about it. Hell yeah, that's let's

1:00:49.800 --> 1:00:53.120
<v Speaker 2>stop making sex awkward and taboo conversations.

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<v Speaker 4>That's all okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So yes, So for me, I would say, I thought

1:01:02.360 --> 1:01:07.120
<v Speaker 3>you could get pregnant at any time when I was

1:01:07.120 --> 1:01:09.760
<v Speaker 3>a kid. Yeah, I thought you could get pregnant at

1:01:09.760 --> 1:01:12.200
<v Speaker 3>any time of the months. Obviously, as I got older,

1:01:12.600 --> 1:01:15.600
<v Speaker 3>I found out you can only get pregnant when you're ovulating.

1:01:17.120 --> 1:01:18.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can only.

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<v Speaker 3>Get pregnant when you're ovulating, y'all, which is like one

1:01:21.960 --> 1:01:23.160
<v Speaker 3>week out of the money.

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<v Speaker 2>So that is a myth.

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<v Speaker 4>You cannot get pregnant all throughout the money.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard. But I used to think that it's loky

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<v Speaker 2>kind of hard to get pregnant loki easy, like, especially

1:01:33.560 --> 1:01:38.960
<v Speaker 2>as you trying if it's only one week off the month,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you fucking the life, like you know what

1:01:40.960 --> 1:01:41.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel like if you're fucking a lot in

1:01:43.400 --> 1:01:51.640
<v Speaker 3>that week, then all is a pregnant girl on my timeline,

1:01:51.720 --> 1:01:55.959
<v Speaker 3>they definitely get pregnant. I don't think these girls got

1:01:56.040 --> 1:01:58.480
<v Speaker 3>no problem getting pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm trying to think.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't think I hadn't. I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't think of anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have two more mets that you thought was

1:02:09.400 --> 1:02:13.360
<v Speaker 3>like that you found out weren't real once she having AIX.

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<v Speaker 2>Now to kind of add on to that, when I

1:02:16.800 --> 1:02:19.400
<v Speaker 2>was really little, I really remember this. I think I

1:02:19.440 --> 1:02:22.000
<v Speaker 2>may have said this on the show. When I was little.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember the guy my mom was with at the

1:02:24.560 --> 1:02:29.160
<v Speaker 2>time his brother had gotten married. I specifically remember sitting

1:02:29.160 --> 1:02:31.640
<v Speaker 2>in the kitchen with my sister. I was probably maybe

1:02:31.680 --> 1:02:34.640
<v Speaker 2>like five or six, and I was like, oh my gosh,

1:02:34.760 --> 1:02:37.520
<v Speaker 2>I hope they wished for a baby. So I used

1:02:37.560 --> 1:02:39.520
<v Speaker 2>to think that you had to wish for a baby,

1:02:39.560 --> 1:02:41.960
<v Speaker 2>Like I didn't know nothing about six, So I used

1:02:42.000 --> 1:02:44.840
<v Speaker 2>to think, like when couples got married, they used to

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<v Speaker 2>just oh, I wish I had a baby, because I

1:02:47.000 --> 1:02:49.920
<v Speaker 2>don't know how babies came. Yeah, like a s I

1:02:49.960 --> 1:02:51.520
<v Speaker 2>was like, Oh, I hope they wished for a baby,

1:02:51.560 --> 1:02:53.920
<v Speaker 2>So that was something I definitely I just thought they

1:02:54.000 --> 1:02:56.920
<v Speaker 2>wished for babies. I for sure did that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I feel like I definitely thought you you get

1:03:00.320 --> 1:03:01.280
<v Speaker 3>pregnant from kissy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah I did. I used to think that too in

1:03:05.040 --> 1:03:15.160
<v Speaker 3>elementary school because I'm not trying to keep pregnant, Like

1:03:15.240 --> 1:03:17.840
<v Speaker 3>I definitely used to think that, and then I'm trying

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<v Speaker 3>to think, what's another one.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I have one, I have one. I used to

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<v Speaker 2>think like, I don't. I won't say it's a myth.

1:03:27.280 --> 1:03:29.960
<v Speaker 2>I just think it's something stupid and silly. But I

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<v Speaker 2>used to think, like if you had like a hickey,

1:03:32.800 --> 1:03:36.520
<v Speaker 2>like you were a whore. Like girls that had hickey's,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, you were a nasty slut. You let

1:03:41.000 --> 1:03:44.400
<v Speaker 2>somebody kiss your neck? What a whole It was like

1:03:44.400 --> 1:03:46.480
<v Speaker 2>wearing the scarlet letter A. Well.

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<v Speaker 4>Living in Houston, it was always a lot of people he.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Like if you had a hickey in Orange, Texas, really,

1:03:55.480 --> 1:03:58.440
<v Speaker 2>if you had a hickey, it was like, oh my god.

1:03:58.760 --> 1:04:00.880
<v Speaker 3>They I went to school with all the Latinos and

1:04:00.920 --> 1:04:04.400
<v Speaker 3>they used to they used to stay with a hickey.

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<v Speaker 4>They used to they with ay. I used to be like, y'all,

1:04:10.840 --> 1:04:12.480
<v Speaker 4>miss they used to be getting.

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<v Speaker 2>Down like a Hoover vacuum.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, And they didn't have no shame neither. Like when

1:04:17.440 --> 1:04:19.520
<v Speaker 3>I used to have Hickey's. I used to like try

1:04:19.560 --> 1:04:22.960
<v Speaker 3>to go up with a little makeup a scarf so.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>It would be pretty obvious though, because while you wearing

1:04:26.920 --> 1:04:30.160
<v Speaker 3>a scarf at eighty degree with but I would try

1:04:30.200 --> 1:04:32.600
<v Speaker 3>to cover it up with something and they just be

1:04:32.640 --> 1:04:33.920
<v Speaker 3>in class, mes me.

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<v Speaker 2>Watch what what? What? What?

1:04:44.080 --> 1:04:44.760
<v Speaker 4>They laughing?

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<v Speaker 3>Because okay, so it was funny because when I was

1:04:47.640 --> 1:04:51.160
<v Speaker 3>in school, when I was in school, when I was

1:04:51.200 --> 1:04:55.440
<v Speaker 3>in high school, it would only be the Latino because

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<v Speaker 3>no classmates. They never used to care what to teacher

1:04:59.680 --> 1:05:04.880
<v Speaker 3>name because they just used to say mes me, I swear.

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<v Speaker 4>They did.

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<v Speaker 2>They never it didn't matter.

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<v Speaker 4>From what class to what class.

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<v Speaker 6>We went to.

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<v Speaker 2>It was this one boy.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in like three periods with him, and every

1:05:17.160 --> 1:05:18.440
<v Speaker 3>teacher missed mess.

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<v Speaker 2>He never would say their last name. Oh so just

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<v Speaker 2>why would you do that?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I was thinking about him specifically because I took

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<v Speaker 3>three periods with him and he stayed with heiky, Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, and your girlfriend will be waiting outside the

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<v Speaker 3>classmen with his books I mean boos.

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<v Speaker 2>For them to walk to the nickname you go to?

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<v Speaker 2>He did, he did, Oh you are trash? Okay, we

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<v Speaker 2>go Okay, you got anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that was it for me.

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<v Speaker 2>That was it for me. Let me try to think. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I have anymore. So if y'all have

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<v Speaker 2>any tex marriage, tey, you got any you have one side?

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<v Speaker 4>The only one I can think of is that the

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<v Speaker 4>bigger the better. Now, definitely want a good size, But

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<v Speaker 4>I used to think it needed to be twelve inches

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<v Speaker 4>two feet long.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I don't want all that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I got like a little boyfriend's size, A nice

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<v Speaker 4>seven eight you know, okay, of nice little size. But

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<v Speaker 4>I think I needed a big horse.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was younger. I mean, a child is high

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<v Speaker 2>school too, because you're still a child. A sixteen year

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<v Speaker 2>old as a child, yeaheah. So you know we're just

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<v Speaker 2>talking about all ages zero to seventeen. Yes, I prepare myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to be on that pass like, oh okay,

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<v Speaker 2>when girl, you don't even remember, you don't even remember

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<v Speaker 2>when you had a past? I like that when that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, y'alls? Your girl XP and it's your girls

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<v Speaker 2>rereading a call. And one thing about us. We love

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<v Speaker 2>a good hygiene routine. So we are going to tell

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<v Speaker 2>y'all all about good wipes.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely y'all know, no, toilet paper is not enough.

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<v Speaker 3>After you do what you need to do, you also

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<v Speaker 3>need to wipe with a wipe as well.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why I love these. They are hyper allergenic.

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<v Speaker 3>They also are made with plant based fibers, and they

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<v Speaker 3>come in so many different scens like Shake, Hoco, Lavender, Theater,

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<v Speaker 3>botanical blizz.

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<v Speaker 2>They smell amazing. Yeah, so wap yourself good and clean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's available at Target, Kroger, wherever you do your grocery shopping,

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<v Speaker 2>or if you're an online girly, they're available at Amazon. Period.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to upgrade your restroom ritual, you can

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<v Speaker 2>go grab good wipes at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most

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<v Speaker 2>local grocery stores. Just head to the toilet paper out

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<v Speaker 2>and look for the bright, Aqua, Rose, and Emerald packages.

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<v Speaker 2>They're also available on Amazon if you're more of an

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<v Speaker 2>online shopper. All right, item of the week.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess my item of the week is mused because

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have an item of the week for this week,

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, it's gonna be mus beauty.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. We have a new lip.

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<v Speaker 3>Plumper that I have been using every single day, Like, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>it's that good.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm not being biased. It's so bomb.

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<v Speaker 3>I have it on right now, the lip plumper and

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<v Speaker 3>then also the jelly blushes. I actually have those on two.

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<v Speaker 3>I have on Pain I Love, Thank You. I have

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<v Speaker 3>on Peach Ballini right now. But all of the products

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<v Speaker 3>are amazing, So make sure you go to mus Beauty

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<v Speaker 3>collection dot com get your lip glosses, your lip liners,

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<v Speaker 3>your Matt Liquid lipsticks, your blushes, and we are about

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<v Speaker 3>to have a Valentine's Stay seal, so stay tuned.

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<v Speaker 2>But oh I love that. I just want to shout out,

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<v Speaker 2>did y'all know? Did he been doing my hair for years?

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<v Speaker 2>A rich love hair, rich look hair, and she provided

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<v Speaker 2>like the little hair for my bow hoole braisen. I

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<v Speaker 2>just love it. It's literally like the best hair. It's

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<v Speaker 2>so thick, it's the upscale waves. So if you're looking

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<v Speaker 2>to get some bowho braids, I'm telling y'all, I went

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<v Speaker 2>on vacation for two weeks and his hair was literally amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you want to get the bohole braids and

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<v Speaker 2>you're looking for some thick hair, like you really only

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<v Speaker 2>need two and a half bundles. This is literally two

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<v Speaker 2>and a half bundles. It's so thick. It's the upscale wave.

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<v Speaker 2>Go to ad Rich look hair. Shout out to d D.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much, girl. You always be hooking me

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<v Speaker 2>up with some good bundles. All right, so now it's

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<v Speaker 2>time to get into the bout.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey bow bow bow.

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<v Speaker 2>All right. Bop of the week, now, y'all know my

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<v Speaker 2>bop of the week, I'm a little tipsy, now, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>My bop of the week is usually like an ndie

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<v Speaker 2>art is something that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, you know, a little low key, but I have.

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<v Speaker 2>I am making a mainstream artist my bop of the

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<v Speaker 2>week this week.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I am.

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<v Speaker 2>So disgusted not at him, but at y'all for reacting

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<v Speaker 2>to a hit. It's about to be summertime. It's time

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<v Speaker 2>to shape that ass. My bop of the week it's

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<v Speaker 2>Bruno Mars featuring Sexy, Red, Fat, Juicy and Wag. Because

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<v Speaker 2>people have been up in arms Bruno.

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<v Speaker 1>You so nasty.

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<v Speaker 2>Bruno been nasty, y'all know, short niggas is freaks. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Why are y'all surprised Bruno been talking that shit on

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<v Speaker 2>these train They really have.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't understand why people surprise and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Just feel like y'all not no real fans of music.

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<v Speaker 2>Because seventies and eighties them niggas was nasty. In the

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<v Speaker 2>nineties two, they've been nasty. What what he said, slop

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<v Speaker 2>on my knob like corn on a car. He did, like,

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<v Speaker 2>come on, well, since when are y'all like the moral

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<v Speaker 2>police owned? Oh my god, I can't believe he said,

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<v Speaker 2>pussy bro That's why I know, y'all shit dry.

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<v Speaker 1>You ain't got that fat juice.

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse that the drive girls is mad. Somebody said it's

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<v Speaker 2>giving parched skim and dry skim skim because it's not

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<v Speaker 2>fat now, somebody they said that to me because I

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<v Speaker 2>was saying, like, if you don't like the song, like

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<v Speaker 2>you lame. He was like, yeah, it's giving parched skim

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<v Speaker 2>and dry. I am weak, but yeah, shut out. I

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<v Speaker 2>love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I like it too. I think it's a good song.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a cute song for the club. Y'all gotta think

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<v Speaker 2>about it. This is a song that's gonna be played

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<v Speaker 2>in the club. It's a song that can be played

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<v Speaker 2>girls night, y'all getting dressed, y'all getting ready to go

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<v Speaker 2>have fun. It's a fun song. You're not supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>like just listen to it on the way to church,

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<v Speaker 2>Like the fuck. Y'all have to realize certain songs are

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<v Speaker 2>for certain settings. Okay, Bruno's club song is for the club,

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<v Speaker 2>it's for getting ready, it's for pregames, and it's a

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<v Speaker 2>good song.

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<v Speaker 1>Bruno, don't let them think you doing wrong. Shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to sixty.

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<v Speaker 4>Shout out to sixty red period.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's your bob?

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<v Speaker 4>Mine is thirty for thirty by Sis. Okay like this,

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<v Speaker 4>but I love Ciss. I'm a huge Sizzle fan.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, keep going because I got something to say why,

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't gonna say anything else. I just really long recently,

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<v Speaker 2>so yesterday.

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<v Speaker 4>You know me, I'll don't be getting no end depth.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw the KICKI Palmer movie with Sissy yesterday. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna review that on love LEXP Monday, so make sure

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<v Speaker 2>y'all tune in so you know what I liked about

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<v Speaker 2>the movie, because obviously Sisa is a baddie, not that Sissy.

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<v Speaker 2>You and Sissa look like y'all, don't. I just say

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<v Speaker 2>all that to say, like I was like I could

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<v Speaker 2>see Drea in an acting role like this, really yes,

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<v Speaker 2>because I feel like I didn't have any like expectations

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<v Speaker 2>of Sissa and her acting because I've never seen her

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<v Speaker 2>act before. Of course, he key killed it per usual.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna give a more in depth view, but I

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<v Speaker 2>say it all that to say, I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>could see you doing like a little cutesy fun role

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well I always say that. I feel like that's the

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<v Speaker 3>only words I would do. Yeah, Like, it has to

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<v Speaker 3>be something where I don't have to step out too

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<v Speaker 3>far outside of myself I feel like to play the

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<v Speaker 3>role because I mean, like, I don't know, I just

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I'm not passionate enough about acting to do something. Yeah, Like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm definitely not a real thesbying so so said though,

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<v Speaker 3>So with that being said, I know, damn. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so I just feel like it was definitely need to

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<v Speaker 3>be a role that I feel like it's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like close to me where I can still keep my

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<v Speaker 3>same acting and like and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like it was given like Sizza but of

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<v Speaker 2>course she's acting, but it wasn't like too far off

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<v Speaker 2>of like who she who she is?

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<v Speaker 3>It was cute, It was real cute. But yeah, you

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<v Speaker 3>have to go watch that movie. I haven't watched it yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all tune in.

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<v Speaker 2>And I went by myself because I like had to

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<v Speaker 2>go like really early in the day because I was

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<v Speaker 2>trying to make I had went to the gym and

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<v Speaker 2>then I had bought tickets, so I had to rush.

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<v Speaker 2>So I went by myself, and like everybody in theater,

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<v Speaker 2>like they went with I was like, oh, by myself.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was super cute. So y'all go see it.

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<v Speaker 2>Make sure y'all see it before Monday when lovelex Pa

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<v Speaker 2>drops and it's time to get into our favorite segments

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<v Speaker 2>of the week.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, y'all, it's time to get into our favorite segment

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<v Speaker 3>of the week. So you know, if you have any

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<v Speaker 3>questions or testimonials, you can always send them to ask

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<v Speaker 3>core Minds at gmail dot com. This's a sk p

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<v Speaker 3>o U r in my nds at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 4>And don't be seeing no paragraphs. It's the beginning of

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<v Speaker 4>the year.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I need to do a PSA.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think I need to shout out some verbs.

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<v Speaker 3>Shout out to verbs I need to do. They're like

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<v Speaker 3>who they probably like, both of them people they probably like.

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<v Speaker 3>But p s A, y'all please, this is a whole

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<v Speaker 3>essay one paragraph and we love helping y'all with y'all questions.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we love answering y'all questions. Give me y'all advice.

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel like, you know you could have still

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<v Speaker 3>put all of these.

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<v Speaker 2>In one period.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Am and sister, So let's read it.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been dealing with my bed slash husband for fourteen years.

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<v Speaker 3>When we met, I was fourteen and I'm now twenty seven.

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<v Speaker 3>We have two kids together and have been married for

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<v Speaker 3>seven years now. This is where it gets Missy. My

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<v Speaker 3>baby daddy has been choosing another woman over me for

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<v Speaker 3>the past seven years, even though we are married. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I live back home with our kids and take care

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<v Speaker 3>of them by myself while he lives with these other

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<v Speaker 3>women in Florida. He's been there for about a year now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a lot of back and forth. Mind you,

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<v Speaker 3>we're not together anymore, but he expects me to sit

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<v Speaker 3>around and wait for him to figure out what he

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<v Speaker 3>and her are going to do with their relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just not we you.

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<v Speaker 3>I've told him multiple times that I'm no longer waiting

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<v Speaker 3>on him because he constantly puts her before us. Me

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<v Speaker 3>and the He recently came into town went through my

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<v Speaker 3>phone and found out I've been dealing with someone else.

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<v Speaker 3>He flipped out, got mad at me, and we got

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<v Speaker 3>into a fight. He's never put his hands on me before,

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<v Speaker 3>but he did that day. He felt like I should

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<v Speaker 3>have told him about the other person, but I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I didn't owe him that because he lives with

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<v Speaker 3>another woman in a different state. Why should I have

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<v Speaker 3>to tell him I had sex with someone else. Now

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<v Speaker 3>he says he can't trust he can't trust me and

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<v Speaker 3>wants a divorce. But mentally I had already checked out,

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<v Speaker 3>so it didn't hurt when he said that.

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<v Speaker 2>Me and him are very close. We grew up together.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like my best friend, so he expected me to

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<v Speaker 3>be open and honest with him because that's how he

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<v Speaker 3>is with me, even though I don't agree with his actions.

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<v Speaker 4>So tell me, am I wrong in any situation?

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, who gives a fuck if he trusts you?

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all be giving these men too much. He moved to

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<v Speaker 2>another state, he lives with another girl. That divorce should

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<v Speaker 2>have been.

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<v Speaker 1>Final a year ago.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know why you're still communicating with him

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<v Speaker 2>out side of y'all kids.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't owe him nothing. Why is he even in the

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<v Speaker 2>vicinity to reach your phone? You should be Let me

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<v Speaker 2>tell you something. I always I never tell my friends

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<v Speaker 2>to leave they men always let them go back until

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<v Speaker 2>they get disgusted. How you're not disgusted yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea that that man.

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<v Speaker 2>You should press up what's it called a restraining order?

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<v Speaker 2>Because he put his hands on you. It's only gonna

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<v Speaker 2>go downhill from there. It ain't gonna get better. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he's showing you who he is. He don't want you,

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<v Speaker 2>but he don't want nobody else to have you, and

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<v Speaker 2>we know how them end up.

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<v Speaker 1>Them situations end up.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Yeah, I agree with that. Cease.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta let that go.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like any communication just solely needs to be

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<v Speaker 3>about y'all children at this point, because he's made his decision. Like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not no trying to figure out what him and

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<v Speaker 3>the girl gonna do. I feel like when he chose

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<v Speaker 3>to be with her over you, he had made the decision.

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<v Speaker 3>Even if him and her breakup, I wouldn't even want

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<v Speaker 3>him no more because you didn't. I was never your

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<v Speaker 3>first choice. So I think that you just need to

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<v Speaker 3>wash your hands of that situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Be safe.

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<v Speaker 3>Because if you put your hands his hands on you once,

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<v Speaker 3>he'll do it again. So just be safe, girl, But

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<v Speaker 3>don't talk to him unless it's about y'all. Child, I

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't even be considering the possibility of a relationship with him.

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<v Speaker 3>It don't matter that y'all grew up together, that y'all

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<v Speaker 3>know each other. Sometimes them be the worst people, then

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<v Speaker 3>be the ones that burn you the worst, the ones

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<v Speaker 3>you been knowing the longeast, So that does not matter.

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<v Speaker 3>You got to let their history go and find you

1:18:31.760 --> 1:18:35.280
<v Speaker 3>a bitter and well first hell, but then also find

1:18:35.360 --> 1:18:38.920
<v Speaker 3>you a bitter, healthier situation for you and your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>And I will say this, it's different. I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't believe it's spending the block no more I used to,

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<v Speaker 2>But I'll say this, it's a difference between you and

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<v Speaker 2>a person breaking up for whatever reason and y'all going

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<v Speaker 2>out in life and maybe finding each other together again. Ladies,

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<v Speaker 2>if a man leaves you and he immediately starts talking

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<v Speaker 2>to some or he leaves you for another person, he

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<v Speaker 2>is choosing somebody over you and you're literally like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you got this going on, but can we

1:19:08.760 --> 1:19:11.639
<v Speaker 2>work it out? And he's still like no, Yeah, he's

1:19:11.720 --> 1:19:15.400
<v Speaker 2>choosing somebody over you. Absolutely, you should never want that

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<v Speaker 2>man back again, because if it's not her, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be somebody else he chooses over you again.

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<v Speaker 1>He don't want you.

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<v Speaker 2>And that has nothing to say about you as a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop internalizing who you are as a person because of

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<v Speaker 2>what this man says. You're not You not a bad person,

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<v Speaker 2>You're just not that person for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Let these niggas go chill.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoo. I was talking to my old selk. That was

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<v Speaker 2>just me talking about old step chair. All right, Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess she wants her name to be said. She

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<v Speaker 2>lifting enough. Hi. I'm Kiora. I'm a nineteen year old

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<v Speaker 2>college but I'm keeping my fetem. I'm a nineteen year

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<v Speaker 2>old college student trying to figure out life while also

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<v Speaker 2>trying to have have a bit of fun. I just

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<v Speaker 2>got out of a year long relationship, and I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to know how Drea specifically moves on when changes needing

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<v Speaker 2>in life facts, because bitch, I don't move on. Our

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<v Speaker 2>relationship consisted of miscommunication, line controlling behavior, and misunderstandings. There

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<v Speaker 2>were great moments and soul ties we shared with each other,

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<v Speaker 2>but it ended because I can't stand going through relationship

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<v Speaker 2>problems at such a young age. I'm still trying to

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<v Speaker 2>work on myself, my career, and my future. Plus I

1:20:30.360 --> 1:20:32.519
<v Speaker 2>want to be free. I need to focus on my

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<v Speaker 2>back and get shit done. Your girl needs some advice, please.

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<v Speaker 2>I love the podcast What You Got for a Drew Well.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like she already on the right track, Like

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<v Speaker 3>it seems like she already has her head on right

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<v Speaker 3>to be a nineteen year old, you know what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what you want. You know that that relationship

1:20:50.320 --> 1:20:53.439
<v Speaker 3>was getting toxic, so you got the hellone and that's

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<v Speaker 3>what you should have did, because yeah, because you nineteen.

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<v Speaker 3>You're nineteen years old. You literally have your whole life

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<v Speaker 3>ahead of you. You still in college, you're a college student.

1:21:03.680 --> 1:21:06.040
<v Speaker 3>You need to be focusing on school because girls taking

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<v Speaker 3>from somebody who flunk like two classes day first year

1:21:09.080 --> 1:21:12.560
<v Speaker 3>of college just because they was playing around. Stay focused

1:21:12.880 --> 1:21:14.360
<v Speaker 3>so you don't have to retake them classes.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't be letting their boy distract you.

1:21:15.760 --> 1:21:18.599
<v Speaker 3>And it's gonna be plenty more where they came from.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna be glad you let that situation go. Dudes,

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<v Speaker 3>I was dating when I was nineteen. I don't even

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<v Speaker 3>know what they doing right now, like I have no clue,

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<v Speaker 3>we have no communication.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like you did the right thing.

1:21:30.600 --> 1:21:34.520
<v Speaker 3>And with any relationship, any breakup, it's always hard initially,

1:21:34.680 --> 1:21:38.560
<v Speaker 3>but like when time starts going by, it gets easier

1:21:38.600 --> 1:21:41.080
<v Speaker 3>and easier with time, and then eventually you gonna end

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<v Speaker 3>up meeting somebody else that you like. Just stay focused

1:21:43.800 --> 1:21:46.040
<v Speaker 3>on your goal, Stay focused on school, Stay focused on

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<v Speaker 3>getting your money, because then she said she.

1:21:47.560 --> 1:21:50.200
<v Speaker 4>Have a job too. I think she did.

1:21:50.800 --> 1:21:54.040
<v Speaker 3>But stay focused on school, stay focused on Giddio your back.

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<v Speaker 3>It's always plenty of time to worry about these men

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<v Speaker 3>later on in life because they ain't never a shortage

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<v Speaker 3>of dom.

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<v Speaker 4>So, yeah, you did the right thing. Sis, I'm very

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<v Speaker 4>proud of you.

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<v Speaker 2>And we always say your type at nineteen is not

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<v Speaker 2>the same type as twenty five, and it's not the

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<v Speaker 2>same type at thirty. Girl, the type of man you

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<v Speaker 2>like in six years is gonna change, so don't worry

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<v Speaker 2>about this.

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<v Speaker 3>And I feel like if niggas is toxic at nineteen,

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<v Speaker 3>they gonna be toxic for real at thirty, because why

1:22:20.360 --> 1:22:22.840
<v Speaker 3>are you toxic at nineteen you ain't even been through anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Gig Sul they just be crazy.

1:22:25.920 --> 1:22:28.040
<v Speaker 3>Like I understand when me and you older and then

1:22:28.080 --> 1:22:30.200
<v Speaker 3>they be a little jaded or they be a little

1:22:30.800 --> 1:22:33.439
<v Speaker 3>you know, extreme stuff because it's like life. Don't beat

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<v Speaker 3>your ass. Yeah, but at nineteen, you ain't really been through.

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<v Speaker 3>He isn't he trying to be at war with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Let him go, girl, Let him go?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>So anybody's like I need Mark, y'all got. We're giving

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<v Speaker 2>y'all so much, so much stuff, and then you can

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<v Speaker 2>sit at home and watch the stuff greasing your lips

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. We're giving y'all everything that

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<v Speaker 1>we need.

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<v Speaker 4>To give and drinking a little drink that time, oh hello.

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<v Speaker 1>And looking at the calendar to see what.

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<v Speaker 2>Day it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you gonna make it, but she created it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let them know. You know what I'm saying. She

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<v Speaker 2>Bumba claude, bumba claude.

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<v Speaker 6>Baby without you, baby, So if you need me, if

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<v Speaker 6>you want me to put it on you, because I

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<v Speaker 6>love yeah, and don't you forget hey, whenever you need me,

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<v Speaker 6>if you want me to put it on you, come on.

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<v Speaker 6>Would I be without you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yo? Whatever you with? Else you babyaby with that?

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<v Speaker 6>Whatever you without my baby? The thought of lone my

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<v Speaker 6>break man you. I don't want to go crazy, but everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Needs a lady girl.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like you and I would be mourning together, inseparable.

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<v Speaker 6>We choose paying over pleasure. For that, Sh'll forever be

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<v Speaker 6>part of me, my body and soul.

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<v Speaker 2>Ain't no I in weed. Baby you cry, I wipe.

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<v Speaker 3>Your tears when you scale who's telling you it's nothing

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<v Speaker 3>to feel?

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<v Speaker 2>Girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll always be there when you need a shoulder, the

1:26:36.120 --> 1:26:39.280
<v Speaker 3>lean out, never hesitate, knowing you could call on your

1:26:39.320 --> 1:26:42.479
<v Speaker 3>soulmate and vice versa. That's why I be the first

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<v Speaker 3>to see Jacobs and frost your rece up now your

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<v Speaker 3>own man. I know you're tired of being lowlss So

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<v Speaker 3>baby girl, put it on me, don't you.

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<v Speaker 6>I know you're telling be loneless, you the whole man?

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<v Speaker 2>What without you?

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<v Speaker 6>I only think about you. I know you ted to

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<v Speaker 6>be lonely, Baby girl, put it on me, yo.

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<v Speaker 3>I appreciate the rocks and gifts that you caught me

1:27:13.000 --> 1:27:15.400
<v Speaker 3>back and the house in the hill when you dropped

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<v Speaker 3>like eighty. You wanna down payment thinking, damn ain't life crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>And I'd be send for my honey. Y'all be twice

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<v Speaker 3>the lady, What would I do without the nights that

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<v Speaker 3>you kept me warm when it's cold? World had a

1:27:25.080 --> 1:27:27.320
<v Speaker 3>girl caught in the storm. And I accept when you

1:27:27.400 --> 1:27:29.559
<v Speaker 3>riff because you caught in the wrong. And I recept

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<v Speaker 3>when you because your love is strong. And when you

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<v Speaker 3>hit the block, I watched for ten and four And

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<v Speaker 3>when my pops.

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<v Speaker 4>Will sleep, you snuck in the back door at you.

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<v Speaker 2>Boy. We've been down since junior high. When life get hot,

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<v Speaker 2>does July?

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<v Speaker 3>It's the world against you and I we ball in,

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<v Speaker 3>tied together and never hard from the heart. Knew that

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<v Speaker 3>it would last forever when you told me you would never.

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<v Speaker 2>Leave me long less it on me?

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<v Speaker 4>Itout you or what you're saying this show I did

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<v Speaker 4>someone a homemade whoa?

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<v Speaker 6>I'll be without you?

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<v Speaker 2>Without you? What's just hanging this true? You say to

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<v Speaker 2>be a lonely it's the one to hold me, hold

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<v Speaker 2>meie ho me okay, you ain't that versa? I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, whoall laughing? Look at you? What just hang

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<v Speaker 2>in this shrue and me? It's the one to hold me?

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa