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Speaker 3: No please, I've seen somebody making a snow cone. I said, bitch,

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Speaker 2: Lok, some some I don't know. These Atlanta streets are

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 4: Y'all's your girl, Alex p And it's your girl draining

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Speaker 4: the call.

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Speaker 2: Now you are tuned in another episode.

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Speaker 3: Of Poor Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 2: So we've had three guest episodes back to back to

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Speaker 4: Right, No, I don't think so. No, we had super

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Speaker 1: Y'all leave comments.

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Speaker 2: Have y'all been keeping up with your New Year's resolutions

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Speaker 2: Have you been keeping up with yours? Absolutely good job.

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Speaker 2: I have been staying on track with all of my goals.

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Speaker 2: That's why I posted that meme the other day on Twitter.

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Speaker 2: Your allliner as sharp as fuck today?

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Speaker 3: Thank you, oh my god, and thank you so much

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Speaker 2: I am okay, y'all. So I have a great update.

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Speaker 2: So y'all know I've been going to acting classes and

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Speaker 2: Why would you eat snow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it really is, literally, I swear, y'all. I've seen

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Speaker 2: the first topic about the TikTok band. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 2: everybody pretty much knows what happened. TikTok got band. Everybody

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Speaker 3: But it's like it was just hearsay, like we wasn't

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Speaker 3: I just think sitting online crying period is crazy, but

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Speaker 2: And people was mad. They was responding to my tweet.

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Speaker 3: He has said, well, I'm sure you will feel the

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Speaker 2: But you also, if you two got shut down right now,

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Speaker 2: something out. When I tell you, I'm so. My lifestyle

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00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 2: is so different now, and I understand how it is

440
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 2: having a presence on social media making your money online.

441
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 2: These apps aren't necessarily guaranteed as we've seen. But what

442
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 2: I will say is like, you gotta prepare for a backup.

443
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:50,920
Speaker 2: I though, Blueberry, I think that it's so crazy though,

444
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Speaker 2: on the other side, because I'm a play devil's advocate

445
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 2: to your point, which is a very good point. But

446
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 2: on the other side, y'all that were sitting there clapping

447
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,359
Speaker 2: and laughing at people, y'all would be the same people.

448
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,159
Speaker 2: If your boss walked into your cubicle right now and

449
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 2: fired you.

450
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 1: You would be crying as well.

451
00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,879
Speaker 2: I don't think we should ever clap for anybody losing

452
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,880
Speaker 2: out on income, our people, online influencers. I do think

453
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,160
Speaker 2: a lot of influencers need to go to financing classes

454
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 2: or get a financial advisor. I had to do that

455
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 2: myself because in my first two years i'm making money,

456
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 2: I was wilin. I was one hundred percent wild, and

457
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,120
Speaker 2: now I really know what to do with my money,

458
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,199
Speaker 2: so I can prepare for things like that. So I

459
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 2: do think a lot of these influencers that have extra

460
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Speaker 2: income coming in or they're all of a sudden making

461
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,960
Speaker 2: forty fifty thousand dollars a month, Yes, they need to

462
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,200
Speaker 2: be taught about their money, but it's not your place

463
00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,639
Speaker 2: to sit up there and laugh, because if your company

464
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 2: shut down, you would be.

465
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Speaker 1: In the same predicament.

466
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Speaker 2: At the end of the day, we are living in

467
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Speaker 2: times that are very fucking frightening for all of them

468
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 2: because none of us are Jeff Bezos, baby, and we're

469
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Speaker 2: all like, you know what I'm saying, it's very scary.

470
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Speaker 2: If the whole internet shut down, a lot of people

471
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Speaker 2: would be fucked up. So I just think that we

472
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Speaker 2: just need to give people grace. But I also think

473
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Speaker 2: I agree.

474
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 1: With you on that note. Getting on the internet and

475
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Speaker 1: crying is nuts.

476
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 4: I think about anything about anything.

477
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Speaker 3: I like, holding a camera up while you're crying will

478
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:15,439
Speaker 3: forever be insane to me. Yeah, cause to me, you

479
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 3: ain't really that sad, because I don't know when I

480
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 3: be crying, I'd be sliding down the wall. I ain't

481
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,119
Speaker 3: got time. I ain't got time to be holding a

482
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Speaker 3: camera right in the middle of a breakdown.

483
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 2: And like everybody was like deleted off their phone then

484
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 2: you couldn't download the back and they was mad about that.

485
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 2: I still can't, right, I don't. I think I don't know.

486
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 2: I'm not sure because I kept it on my phone.

487
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 2: I did so I was coming on the plane, I'm like,

488
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 2: TikTok working again. We were sitting right next to each

489
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 2: other and playing like it's working again. We were like

490
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Speaker 2: I knew it.

491
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Speaker 3: But we also also weren't panicking. And then, like I said,

492
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 3: that was something else that somebody had said in the comments.

493
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 3: I think it was like, you would be sad if

494
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Speaker 3: YouTube got canceled or whatever. What if you was making

495
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 3: thousands of dollars from TikTok every month. I do, But

496
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 3: I still wasn't panicking from it, and I'm not going

497
00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,959
Speaker 3: to because at the end of the day, we were

498
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 3: just gonna find something else.

499
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 2: We had built, what a following.

500
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Speaker 4: Of almost four hundred thousand subscribe I mean followers on TikTok.

501
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 2: We were just gonna go to another app and build

502
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 2: it again. Like I'm not, We're not afraid of starting over. Yeah,

503
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 2: let me tell you right now, if you two got

504
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 2: shut down, somebody finna pick up poor month. Yeah.

505
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 5: The world needs us.

506
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 2: And that's how I feel. You can't take away from

507
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 2: me what you didn't give to me, you know what

508
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like nobody, no ceo at YouTube, no ceo

509
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 2: at Facebook, TikTok, Like I feel like when you really

510
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 2: believe in yourself and your power. And I always use

511
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: her for an example because I love her. Oh I

512
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 2: should have got her new last name, Jackie. I know

513
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 2: she has a new last name, but she got married.

514
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: Jackie has moved from app to app, two apps. She

515
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 2: don't give a.

516
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:48,679
Speaker 3: Damn, cause you shouldn't if you believe in yourself and

517
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 3: you notice you're putting out quality content and you know

518
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 3: you they girl, you're just gonna build the followers anywhere

519
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 3: won the new app. And I can understand being sad

520
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 3: and crying if it's really affixing your financial situation. But

521
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 3: it was people who was really upset in crying that

522
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 3: TikTok was getting canceled just because of the entertainment purposes.

523
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 2: And they're like, oh.

524
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: I met friends.

525
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 2: If you have real friends and community, they go make

526
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 2: an Instagram or a Facebook, like you can keep in

527
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: contact with people. I get it because I made friends

528
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,719
Speaker 2: from the internet. But I just I do. I'm not

529
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 2: being judging, but I do feel like crying over an

530
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 2: app is a little extreme. It's a little extreme for me.

531
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Speaker 3: It's a lot extremes, So yeah, and I am being

532
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 3: jud So that's the thing that eats me like all

533
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 3: the other stuff that's going on rather on the internet

534
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 3: and cry over an app than like really voice your

535
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 3: opinion or like voice the political things that's going on.

536
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 4: That's crazy to me. And then everybody started.

537
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 2: Read yeah the other app red note, and I'm like,

538
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 2: why do y'all always try to do that?

539
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 1: Try to make it?

540
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 2: I think one thing about these apps is you have

541
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 2: to let an app organically come about. So when they

542
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,919
Speaker 2: were doing like the everybody thought everybody was about to

543
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 2: boycott Twitter and stuff, So like I made poor Minds

544
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 2: of Blue Scott say, I'm gonna make this just in case.

545
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 2: But I mean, I really don't care because I'm gonna

546
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 2: still be using Twitter. I'm just doing it just in

547
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 2: case x X. I'm sorry X, but again, who cares.

548
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 2: I just always make another app for us because I'm like, okay,

549
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 2: just in case we have to move over here, because y'all,

550
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 2: I feel like we have a tribe over here and

551
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,959
Speaker 2: we poor career rides deep like yeah, and it's just

552
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 2: not that serious to me. Okay, if Twitter shut down,

553
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it again. And I get it.

554
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 3: You know, everybody doesn't have that community backing them or are

555
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 3: supporting them, so I can understand.

556
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 2: That as well.

557
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 4: But like again, y'all, it's social media. Yeah, it's social media.

558
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 3: And sometimes it really makes me nervous to think about

559
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 3: how a lot of people would cut up if something

560
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 3: ever really happened to all of these apps, like.

561
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 2: What y'all gonna do? Yeah?

562
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And I feel like, if anything, people like

563
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 3: us really should he should have been panicking for real,

564
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 3: because we be making money from the eppis and stuff.

565
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 3: But it's just like, but I like to wait though

566
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 3: and see, Like, once I know what's going on.

567
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 2: Then I can react.

568
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 3: Then I can start having the feelings and emotions and

569
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 3: be trying to figure out, Okay, what am I.

570
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 2: Gonna do next?

571
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 3: But when shit is up in the air and we

572
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 3: don't know what's about to happen a year, just let

573
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,719
Speaker 3: shit play out, because I had a very strong feeling

574
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 3: that it was gonna play out that way, and indeed,

575
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 3: and y'all was asking a plumb fool on line for

576
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Speaker 3: no goddamn reason.

577
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 2: Then when the app gets back up, you're trying to

578
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 2: archive them videos what we saw you crashing out. I

579
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 2: say that it's not bubbling frog in your throat we

580
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 2: seen it all wild times. We live again. Okay, all right,

581
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Speaker 2: so let's let us know how y'all feel about the

582
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Speaker 2: talking man. I know y'all probably gonna get on our

583
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Speaker 3: Yes, let's get into these second topics. So for the

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Speaker 3: it's nothing that he can give or bring to the

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Speaker 3: relationship of value for a woman that's around his age

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Speaker 3: or older.

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Speaker 2: And I think he was like in his thirties. So

657
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 2: I have two things to say about that. First thing,

658
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 2: I dated somebody like that. I don't know if y'all

659
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 2: remember when we used to do our character's football bab

660
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 2: I literally had football Bay tell me.

661
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 1: He was like it is He told me straight up.

662
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 2: He was like, it's very hard dating you because, like

663
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 2: I've taken you to Miami and you were just I

664
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 2: could tell like you were having fun, but you just

665
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 2: weren't impressed. He was like, I feel like, for me

666
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 2: to do something for you that just makes me be

667
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: a guy that sticks around in your life forever, or

668
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 2: somebody that's memorable, I'm gonna have to take you to

669
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 2: gree or to Paris or something like that. And I'm like, yeah,

670
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 2: that is true. I'm not impressed by you taking me

671
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: to Miami. I'm not I'm not gonna lie. But I

672
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: say all that to say to my second point. That

673
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 2: just goes to show the type of man you are,

674
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 2: because you not that nigga like you thought. Because it

675
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 2: don't matter where we at. We could be in Utah,

676
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 2: Arizona if you that nigga, Oh, we're finna have a

677
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 2: time because you and me, Baby, I have been on

678
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 2: a trip with a guy and it's somewhere that I

679
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 2: have been thirty times, but I talk about the time

680
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: that I went with him because we had that much fun.

681
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 2: I have been to Miami a million times, but I

682
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 2: can count the times that I remember I had a

683
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 2: memorable experience. It's not about where you are, it's about

684
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 2: the person that you're with. So any man that is

685
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: intimidated by a well traveled woman is not the man

686
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 2: for me. Because Baby, that passport is stamp. Yeah.

687
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 3: Same, Like, why would you not want to date me

688
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 3: because I've been placed that you haven't been places that

689
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,479
Speaker 3: you're not taking me for the first time. The way

690
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 3: I look at it is like you said, Okay, so

691
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 3: what I've been here before? Take me a rob it's

692
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 3: gonna be a different experience because this time I'm with you.

693
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: Right exactly, and that's how I feel you and.

694
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 4: People be acting like, Okay, so what you've been to Greece.

695
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 3: Okay, if you've been to Greece, you ain't win every

696
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 3: goddamn wearing grease.

697
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: You ain't half the time.

698
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 4: It's six days, so we could go back and do

699
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 4: shit that I didn't do the first time.

700
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: I'm just not intimidated now.

701
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 2: To me, I want a god that actually, like, if

702
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 2: we're on a day and you like tell me that

703
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 2: you don't like to travel, it's a difference between you

704
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 2: not liking the travel yeh, and you haven't traveled. I'd

705
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 2: rather date somebody who hasn't traveled than somebody who doesn't

706
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 2: like to or doesn't want to or doesn't want to,

707
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 2: because I enjoy traveling. So if that's more of a

708
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 2: red flag to me, and it's not a red flag

709
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: to everybody, because I think men that don't like to travel,

710
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 2: you can find women who don't like to travel, and

711
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 2: y'all can be together. But I think a man who

712
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 2: is well traveled and cultured, when he meets a woman

713
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 2: that's well traveled, that doesn't intimidate him because he's like, oh,

714
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 2: I've been here before. Have you been here before? Oh?

715
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 2: We should go together because there's things I didn't do

716
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 2: when you are real travelers. No, Like that's why you

717
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 2: said that, like that you didn't do everything. Yeah, I've

718
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 2: been in Atlanta, you two thy seventeen. I still haven't

719
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 2: done everything.

720
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: Here, bitch.

721
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 3: And I lived in Houston for twenty five years and

722
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 3: I didn't do everything there, literally, like it's no way, right,

723
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 3: it's literally no way because new things are always popping up.

724
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 2: You can't do everything anyway.

725
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 4: So to me, there's just like a bullshit ass excuse.

726
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 2: And if a.

727
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 4: Nigga is intimidated by me, that's not the one for me,

728
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 4: no way.

729
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. But I keep over there men like that who like,

730
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 2: oh I want to date a younger woman because she's

731
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 2: not jaded, she hasn't been you. One is giving a

732
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:02,479
Speaker 2: little grooming, and two it's just giving that you are

733
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 2: bottom of the barrel and you cannot step up to

734
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 2: the plate because and I'm not even saying it's an

735
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 2: age thing, because you can find some young women who

736
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,919
Speaker 2: are well traveled. They have expensive tapes, they have things

737
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 2: like that. But you won't even date that younger woman

738
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 2: because she knows of herself and she knows who she is.

739
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,879
Speaker 2: A lot of women are blessed with that that they

740
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 2: find that in their twenties. Some women don't find that

741
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 2: to their thirties. Hell, some women don't find that to

742
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 2: their forties, and some of them don't bond it at all.

743
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: You're right, But a man who cannot date or be

744
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 2: with the woman who knows herself and knows what she

745
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 2: wants out of life, it gives that you're okay with

746
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,280
Speaker 2: the bare minimum and you cannot rise to the occasion

747
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: of that.

748
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you want somebody who's gonna be okay with

749
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 4: that too.

750
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you want somebody to be okay with you taking

751
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 2: them to Buckhead to eat for every single day. I'm

752
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 2: not okay with that. Like I like to be outside,

753
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 2: I like to do things, And I'm not saying every

754
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 2: trip has to be a grease Like I said, Miami

755
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: was one of the most romantic vacations I've been on.

756
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 2: I'm so serious and I love a Miami trip. I

757
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: went to d C last year. I had a ball

758
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: because I did something I never did, like traveling domestically,

759
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 2: traveling anywhere with your partner.

760
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 1: It's about the experience.

761
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 2: So a real man or a woman is not gonna

762
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 2: be intimidated by that passport. Then yeah, I agree.

763
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 4: I just think that's like some bullshit, Like if you

764
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 4: just wanted that younger women just say.

765
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,240
Speaker 1: Just say you can't handle by mama.

766
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, but stop with all the excuses, Like I just

767
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 3: feel like it sounds crazy.

768
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 2: So, speaking of traveling and doing a lot of nice things,

769
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:48,760
Speaker 2: you had a tweet the other day about luxury. Fine,

770
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: let me look up. Let me look it up so

771
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 2: I don't miss quote your chap. I don't want to

772
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: miss quote your ass because people do that all the time. Okay,

773
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 2: so uh.

774
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 1: Let me see, let me see.

775
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 2: Okay, you had a tweet about bare minimum living just

776
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 2: never excites you. You want luxury living, okay, and which

777
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 2: is okay, that's fine. So I wanted to define what

778
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 2: is luxury.

779
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 3: I think it's I think the definition varies from person

780
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 3: to person. It's whatever you consider it to be luxurious.

781
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, what I consider to be

782
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 3: luxurious isn't necessarily what another person deems luxuries. So I

783
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 3: think that that's a question that each person has to

784
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 3: ask himselves when I say bare minimum. I'm just not

785
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 3: interested in like doing the same things every day, Like

786
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 3: I want to live a life full of adventure spontaneity.

787
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 3: I don't want my life to be mundane where I'm

788
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 3: doing the same thing waking up.

789
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 1: Spontani and mundane. I'm trying to remember all.

790
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 3: The way I'm weak, but no, seriously, like I don't

791
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 3: want to do the same thing every day, Which is

792
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 3: another reason why I think even with like career choice,

793
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 3: I never really knew what I wanted to do when

794
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 3: I was younger, but I knew I wanted to do

795
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 3: something that gave me freedom. I didn't want to see

796
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 3: in a cubicle every single day.

797
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 4: And there's not nothing wrong with that. That just wasn't

798
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 4: for me.

799
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 3: I tried it, and I feel like I could speak

800
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 3: on it because it's something that I actually tried, and

801
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 3: then I realized this ain't gonna work for me, you

802
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 3: know what I mean. It ain't even that, it's just

803
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 3: like having to be at work, having to be at

804
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 3: work from like, Okay, so the job that I had

805
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 3: when I first graduated from college, I had to be

806
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 3: at work at I think seven am every day. So

807
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 3: I used to have to wake up at five o'clock.

808
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,359
Speaker 3: And mind you, I lived in Katie, which and I

809
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 3: worked downtown. So if you yeah, so if you from

810
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 3: Texas or you from Houston, and y'all know how far

811
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 3: of a drive that is, especially in the morning with

812
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 3: morning traffic. So i'm and actually I'm lying. I used

813
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 3: to have to wake up at like four thirty, so

814
00:37:58,080 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 3: they start to wake up at four.

815
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 2: My god, yeah, I was just going to slap you know.

816
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 2: That was when I would yah.

817
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I used to have to wake up at

818
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 3: four point thirty to be the work at seven, and

819
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 3: then when I would get to work, I would get

820
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 3: off I think at like four o'clock and then I

821
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 3: would have to drive home, being traffic for another hour

822
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 3: and a half just to get back home. And doing

823
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 3: that every single day, then I only get like what

824
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 3: thirty forty hours of vacation a year Like that just

825
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 3: wasn't for me. So I always knew I wanted to

826
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 3: do something that gave me and allotted me the freedom

827
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 3: to wake up when I wanted to and not have

828
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 3: to be in work at the same place every day.

829
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 3: So to me, that's luxury, Like the fact that I

830
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 3: get to wake up and do what the fuck I

831
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 3: want every day.

832
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 4: That's luxury to me, I mean.

833
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,479
Speaker 3: And then also when it comes to dating, I want

834
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 3: to be with somebody who is thoughtful, who is caring,

835
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:53,439
Speaker 3: who's naturally generous, who just gonna do stuff because that's

836
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 3: what they want to do. I don't have to ask

837
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 3: you to do Like I feel like some women are

838
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,760
Speaker 3: okay with dating me and where they don't mind asking

839
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 3: them to do it or dropping hints for the men

840
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 3: to do stuff.

841
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 2: I don't really want to be the girl.

842
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 3: I want to be with somebody who just giddy, you

843
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like that's luxury to me, Like

844
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 3: dating somebody that I don't gotta ask, he just gonna

845
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 3: do it, he gonna pull up, he gonna do it,

846
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 3: he gonna make the effort.

847
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 2: I get. Of course, if we.

848
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,760
Speaker 3: Being technical, like I feel like I like nice things

849
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 3: and ain't nothing wrong with that.

850
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm tired of y'all making people feel bad because

851
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 2: they like a chanel a men. Yeah you know what

852
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I mean, nothing is wrong with it.

853
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 3: If you I think you should be able to maintain

854
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 3: it though, if it's something you requiring.

855
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no I do I do agree with that,

856
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 2: but what I'm saying is, either way, just let people.

857
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 2: I made a TikTok post about this last night. I

858
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 2: hate when people call other people weird or try to

859
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 2: cancel them. Yeah, they have different views of life than you.

860
00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 2: So I used to be the girl that like, oh,

861
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 2: I want Louis bag. I wanted this bag. I wanted

862
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 2: that bad because that's how I felt like a man

863
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: showed me that he cared about me. Now, as I

864
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 2: grew up and I started making money, like I've realized, like,

865
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 2: the more money you make to me, the more money

866
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 2: I make, I realized, like somebody having money and just

867
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: spending on you that's not enough, Like that doesn't mean

868
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 2: somebody cares about you necessarily. And then I realized what

869
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 2: I really was looking for in relationships. So I say

870
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:27,840
Speaker 2: all that to say it though, but just because the

871
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 2: next person feels like, Okay, this man bought me x

872
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 2: y Z.

873
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 1: That means he cares for me. That's her belief.

874
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 2: She's not weird for believing that. That's just what she prefers.

875
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,240
Speaker 2: That's her love language.

876
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 3: I mean, she not weird for believing that. Maybe a

877
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 3: little naive though, but completely.

878
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: I mean that a man could be a man that

879
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: doesn't have a lot, and he's like doing what he

880
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 2: can to get her a Chanelle or to get her

881
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 2: a Louis bag. You know what I'm saying. So he

882
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 2: dumb and she naive. You never know that situation because

883
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,879
Speaker 2: maybe he's saved up, or maybe if you save up

884
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 2: to buy your girl of Chanelle, you don't need to

885
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 2: be buying me.

886
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,839
Speaker 3: Boll Okay, I'll say it like this, not I'm just

887
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,439
Speaker 3: being real, like I hear what you're saying. I think

888
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 3: they both need to reevaluate the relationship if that's the case,

889
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 3: because as the men, why are you saving up to

890
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 3: buy her these? And as the woman, if you know

891
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 3: your man don't have money like that, why are you

892
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 3: asking I'm not saying.

893
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: That it's something like regular, but like if it's like

894
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 2: a little birthday gift or something he saved it for

895
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 2: a one time gift, that's what I mean, not something

896
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 2: that he's doing all the time. All I'm saying is,

897
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 2: no matter what it is, if that's how she likes

898
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,439
Speaker 2: to be loved and that's how this man is wanting

899
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 2: to show that he loves her. Some people are like that. Now,

900
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 2: if it's a rich man who spends money like that

901
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 2: all the time on women.

902
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: That's not the man I'm talking about.

903
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 2: Because a lot of times young girls will get that confused,

904
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 2: like oh he cares about me, not knowing that he

905
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 2: does that for every woman, you know. That's what I'm saying.

906
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 2: Every situation varies for me as a thirty five year

907
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 2: old woman. Now I've realized to me, when a man

908
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 2: shows up for me and it can't no amount of

909
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: money by that. If a man is there and he's

910
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 2: showing like how proud he is of me, and he's

911
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 2: giving me things like I'm a roses girl down like

912
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 2: one thing about my man. He gonna pop up with

913
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 2: some roses at my house, like he is gonna pop

914
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,760
Speaker 2: whether he picking him up at public's, are he calling

915
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 2: and getting me the whole? He gonna show up with

916
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 2: some flowers because he knows that's how I like to

917
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 2: be loved. So I think that's a thing in love fish.

918
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 2: We're talking about luxury now. Luxury and love to me

919
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 2: is a man showing up in your love language. Now

920
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,479
Speaker 2: how he thinks that you need to be loved. He's

921
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 2: loving you how you want to be loved. No I

922
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 2: one hundred.

923
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 3: Percent agree with that because I feel like, even with me,

924
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 3: like my love language, I don't want to date no

925
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 3: man who because I feel like I'm only gonna date

926
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,799
Speaker 3: a guy who is more successful, right right, So if

927
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,959
Speaker 3: you already more successful than me, and you done figure

928
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 3: it out and you don't connect it the diets and

929
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 3: you know what I'm trying to do, why would you

930
00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:00,439
Speaker 3: not want to pour into me and help me as

931
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 3: far as giving me the information yep or whatever it is,

932
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: the resources whatever to help me get my business or

933
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 3: my ideas to where I want to give you to

934
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 3: So like that's a turnaro for me.

935
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 2: I like me and they help you with that type

936
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 2: of studs And that's luxury because a lot of people

937
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: don't have that knowledge. Yeah, So I think it's a

938
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 2: lot of simple things that are luxury. Like it's a

939
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 2: luxury that you have access to a man like that

940
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 2: that you can tap into his brain like that, Like

941
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 2: that's a luxury, you know what I'm saying, a lot

942
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 2: of people don't have access to people like that. And

943
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 2: I know this is kind of getting off topic, but

944
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 2: I was having a conversation with Killer today and she

945
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: was showing me so she does like, well, she was

946
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 2: just basically telling me that somebody that she knows got

947
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 2: a four hundred thousand dollars paycheck for two weeks and

948
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 2: doing what he's He's selling software. Okay, so he made

949
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 2: four hundred thousand dollars in two weeks. And she was like,

950
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 2: you know, I'm sending it to people in my life,

951
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 2: and she was like all the women I sent it to,

952
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,760
Speaker 2: they were very much so like like how.

953
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 1: Can I get that or I can do that.

954
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 2: My first reaction was like, oh, yeah, that's feasible, because

955
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 2: I was like my goal in life, like I know,

956
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 2: when I get to the point to where I'm like, okay,

957
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,479
Speaker 2: I'm doing something, I'm gonna be making a million dollars

958
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 2: a month, I already set that, like that's my next

959
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 2: goal for myself because I know it's realistic because I'm

960
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 2: around people who make a million dollars a month, you know.

961
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 2: But she was like when I sent it to certain

962
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 2: other people, they were like, I mean, I mean we're

963
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 2: used to seeing that we're living in a country where

964
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: it's like Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos and stuff, and

965
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 2: she's like, this man is not Jeff Bezos. And Elon Musk,

966
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 2: But it's possible. But I say all that to say,

967
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 2: when you are in close range and in the vicinity

968
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 2: of people who are millionaires, you realize, okay, I can

969
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 2: get there too.

970
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: But when you're not, you don't see that.

971
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 2: The average person makes fifty thousand dollars a year, so

972
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 2: they don't have that luxury of even having the audacity

973
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 2: to dream about that stuff. So, getting back to the

974
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 2: luxury topic, that's what I mean. When you're in post

975
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 2: proximity to people to where they are really trying to

976
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 2: put you in a position to win, they are really

977
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 2: making moves to help you get in a position to win.

978
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 2: That's a luxury in itself, cause some people don't even

979
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:14,240
Speaker 2: have the luxury of having the audacity to even think

980
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 2: about being a millionaire.

981
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:16,919
Speaker 4: Creed shout out to Mimi.

982
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

983
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 2: So that's I mean. But that's a real point though,

984
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 2: that's a real point. I mean, even having friends like

985
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 2: me and you both not millionaires, but we always trying

986
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 2: to this is a money play.

987
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: Oh we need to do this.

988
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 2: Even having people that think alike as you as a luxury.

989
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: I literally, me and Killa was on the phone.

990
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: Yesterday talking about stocks and shit, like cause that's what

991
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: me and my friends talk about, Like how are we

992
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 2: doing these money plays? I know it sounds so like

993
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 2: lame and boring whatever, but I'm telling you, when you

994
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 2: are surrounded by people who have the same goals as

995
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 2: you and they're not trying to be like, do you

996
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 2: really think that's gonna happen? Like anytime Drea Killer, my

997
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 2: sister Lauren, any of my friends tell me something that

998
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: they want to do, I'm always like, well, how we

999
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 2: gonna get there, how we're gonna make it happy. You

1000
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 2: gotta realize there's people out here who tell people their dreams.

1001
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 2: They be like, girl, be for real, be the fuck

1002
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 2: for real.

1003
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, but see, I just think people gotta cut them

1004
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 3: type of people off. And I know that people that

1005
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 3: watch this show, they've been watching for a long time,

1006
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 3: they probably be like dream always. I'm just cut the

1007
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 3: people off for real, though, cut their ass off, because

1008
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 3: you don't need that type of energy around you. I

1009
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 3: feel like people be definitely projecting and they're just always

1010
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 3: trying to tell other people what they can do because

1011
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 3: they don't see them being able to attain that for

1012
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 3: themselves and that's fine that you don't see that being

1013
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 3: something that you can attain, But don't tell me what

1014
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,800
Speaker 3: I can't do. Now, it's a difference between telling somebody

1015
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 3: what they can't do and being realistic with.

1016
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 2: Your friends or like letting them know.

1017
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 3: I mean, that's cute that you're saying you want to

1018
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 3: do that, but like, what do you do every day?

1019
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 2: How you gonna get there?

1020
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 3: Cause I think it's a lot of people who got

1021
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 3: millionaire dreams and they be like, Oh, I'm gonna make

1022
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 3: be making this amount of money every month, or I'm

1023
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 3: gonna be making these amount of money in the next

1024
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 3: few years, but they do nothing now that to get

1025
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 3: to the goal. They just be feeling like, Oh, I'm

1026
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 3: just gonna stay prayed up and I know my blessing's

1027
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:14,479
Speaker 3: gonna come.

1028
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 4: No, you do gotta work. You need to pray, and

1029
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 4: you need to put the work in.

1030
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 3: And I think a lot of people don't be putting

1031
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 3: the work in, and people around them don't be honest

1032
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,919
Speaker 3: with them about that either, cause it's like you could

1033
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 3: get there. But I think people really don't understand how

1034
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 3: much work it takes to even make six figures on

1035
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 3: your own. As an entrepreneur, let alone millions of dollars.

1036
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 3: It takes a lot of work.

1037
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 2: And one thing about me too, I'm more leaning on

1038
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 2: that end. But I also just like, not everybody has

1039
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 2: the same opportunities and this and that. But and that's fine.

1040
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 3: But if you say that's what you want, like if

1041
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 3: you like I want to be a millionaire, but you're

1042
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 3: not putting the work in make it make sense.

1043
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 2: I agree with you because I hate people who make excuses.

1044
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 1: Though that's one thing I don't. I just this is

1045
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: all on me.

1046
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 2: I'm just no, I get that because shit do be hard.

1047
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,720
Speaker 2: And I'm not talking about people who are like extremely

1048
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 2: less fortunate that have I'm not taught. I'm talking about

1049
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 2: people who like do well for themselves and they want

1050
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 2: more and they're just like, well, I'm tired when I

1051
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 2: get off.

1052
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: Girl, you gotta do more. You just have to if

1053
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:24,280
Speaker 1: you are.

1054
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,320
Speaker 2: A lot of the opportunity and like it, like people

1055
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 2: like us in this space, I cannot whine if I'm

1056
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 2: like Drea, I haven't made a million dollars yet. The

1057
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 2: only reason I have it because it's my fault. And

1058
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 2: that's the honest of a got true. I don't have

1059
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 2: nobody to blame. So like when people that are like

1060
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: making good money and they're in good position and they're

1061
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 2: complaining about where they are, girl, you gotta work harder.

1062
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 2: It's no like, I don't like when people do that,

1063
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 2: Like it's not fair. I'm trying. Everything is on me. Well,

1064
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 2: it was a point where everything was on me and

1065
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 2: I made it happen. We all gotta scratch all way

1066
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 2: out and figure it out, y'all.

1067
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 3: It ain't eat And I think people expect stuff to

1068
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 3: be easy, and that's why most people have a problem

1069
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 3: with consistency. Yeah, because as soon as shit get rough

1070
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 3: and it ain't what you thought it was gonna be,

1071
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 3: or it's harder than you thought, now you like, well,

1072
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 3: I don't know, do I really want to do this?

1073
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 3: Or you half asked you you're not giving you show all.

1074
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 3: So so well, getting back, we.

1075
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 4: Were talking about looks, we're talking about luxury.

1076
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 2: So yeah, so what is luxury to you?

1077
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 4: That's what is a luxurious life When you are I

1078
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,319
Speaker 4: just said, I feel like whatever I want to do,

1079
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 4: like me being able to do whatever I want, buy

1080
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 4: whatever I want.

1081
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 3: And I feel like I've said these before on poor minds,

1082
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 3: just me being able to do whatever the hell I want,

1083
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 3: that's luxurious to me. Like if I wake up today

1084
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 3: and I'm like, you know what, I want to go

1085
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 3: to the car dealership in barb rosroys cool and I

1086
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,439
Speaker 3: just got it, and I could just pay five hundred

1087
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 3: thousand dollars cash for it if that's what I want

1088
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 3: to do, And then I'm not bleink twice because obviously

1089
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 3: we all know paying cash for a car and driving

1090
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 3: it off the light is dumb is hell. But I

1091
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 3: think that when people I think that when you get

1092
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 3: that level of money, like it really don't matter, you

1093
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 3: know what I mean. So I feel like when I

1094
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 3: can do what I want, when I can wake up

1095
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 3: every day and do exactly what I want, because I

1096
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 3: definitely can do what.

1097
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,240
Speaker 2: I want to an extent. Yeah, we got a little

1098
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 2: we got some livings.

1099
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 3: Now, yes, I can do what I want to an extent.

1100
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:25,719
Speaker 3: But when I can literally wake up every day in

1101
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 3: the world is mine, the world is my oyster, and

1102
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 3: I could just do whatever I want, That's when I

1103
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 3: feel like I'm gonna be living in luxuries, Like.

1104
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair. I like that.

1105
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 1: I think I'm the same way.

1106
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 2: I'm like Luxury to me is just being free, debt free,

1107
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 2: fuck Nigga free, bad friend free, bad energy free, Like

1108
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 2: I feel like the way I have curated my life

1109
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 2: in these past few months, Like I've been doing a lot,

1110
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 2: a lot of self work of picking my battles and

1111
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 2: putting my energy in myself and waking up and choosing

1112
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 2: to have a good day. Like you know, I'd be

1113
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 2: going through my little bouts, and my last little depress

1114
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 2: about I went through was so bad. I was like,

1115
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 2: I'm not doing this to myself. No, I'm not doing

1116
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 2: it no more. I'm not doing it no more. So

1117
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 2: luxury to me is just having that mind capacity to

1118
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 2: even do that, to even make that decision.

1119
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, So I agree with you.

1120
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 2: Like, luxury to me is just living a life that

1121
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 2: you are proud of. Like when once you reach a

1122
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 2: point in your life where your wake up and you

1123
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 2: don't want to be nobody else and you're like, I'm

1124
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 2: happy to be me and my skin. Like there was

1125
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 2: moments in time I used to about like, man, she's

1126
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,800
Speaker 2: so lucky. I wonder how it feels to be her.

1127
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 2: You know, when we were little, we'd be like, oh,

1128
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 2: I want to be like beyond s And that's nothing

1129
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:50,399
Speaker 2: wrong with that cause you're little, But when you grow up,

1130
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:52,839
Speaker 2: it's like you be like, man, look how she living.

1131
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 2: She's so lucky. I wish oh, I wish I had

1132
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 2: the thing. I wish I had the nigga she had.

1133
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 2: I wish I had the job that she had. You know,

1134
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 2: like I, I used to be that and looking at

1135
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,479
Speaker 2: other people and be wanting what they had so bad.

1136
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 2: But like every single day now since I've made this change,

1137
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 2: like I'm living in luxury. Right now, I wake up

1138
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 2: everyone and like, bruh, this shit lids Like I.

1139
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: Would not want to be anybody else.

1140
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 2: My personality, everything about me is unique and I love that.

1141
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,319
Speaker 2: So I feel like luxury is literally what you make it.

1142
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:27,839
Speaker 2: So when somebody says I want I have this type

1143
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 2: of lifestyle and I want this and that, why are

1144
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 2: you offended by that? Why are you That's luxury to them,

1145
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 2: And that's the life that this person chooses for themselves

1146
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 2: what another person wants, and they look at as luxury

1147
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 2: should not affect the way you feel about yourself. And

1148
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,400
Speaker 2: if it does affect the way you feel about yourself,

1149
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 2: you're not living in luxury yet booth.

1150
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and also if you say that that's

1151
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,760
Speaker 3: what you want, rise to the occasion, set the standard

1152
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:54,240
Speaker 3: for yourself. And when you set that standard for yourself,

1153
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 3: also stop accepting bare minimum from people around you.

1154
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 4: Make these nigas rise to the occasion. Make your friends

1155
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 4: rise to the occasion.

1156
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 3: Stop letting people treat y'all any kind of way and

1157
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 3: handle y'all any kind of way too, because that ain't luxuries.

1158
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 1: What's the funny said?

1159
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 2: Well, load of it will not kind of black, So

1160
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 2: what's luxury to Utah?

1161
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 4: I agree with exactly what you said, like just being

1162
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 4: comfortable with who you are, being free. I was just

1163
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 4: thinking about I did a vision board even this past weekend,

1164
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 4: and just like accepting that gratitude of where you are.

1165
00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 4: I used to want to be famous. I love, love,

1166
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 4: love love being low key. I know a lot of

1167
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 4: people know me, but like, come on, I like being

1168
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 4: more low key though, Like, yeah, I enjoy my freedom.

1169
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 4: I'm doing exactly what I love to do. I have

1170
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 4: the ability to curate, host events, inspire, lead, I have

1171
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 4: a team, you know, Like just being comfortable in that space,

1172
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 4: but knowing that there's still room to grow and elevate.

1173
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 4: I think that's just being comfortable in your skin.

1174
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 2: Man.

1175
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:59,799
Speaker 3: I love that beautiful And you said and you made

1176
00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 3: a really good point too.

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00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 2: Gratitude.

1178
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 3: Gratitude is so important because the thing is, if you

1179
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 3: don't have gratitude for where you are currently, how you

1180
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 3: expect God to keep blessening.

1181
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1182
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 2: Oh, and people do not be grateful. It's crazy because

1183
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 2: when we went on our little two week trip, it

1184
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 2: was one of the mornings I woke up.

1185
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie to you.

1186
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,240
Speaker 2: I sat in the bed and I prayed and I cried,

1187
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 2: and I didn't ask God for nothing. I was just

1188
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 2: so thankful because I'm like, is this really my life? Bro? Like,

1189
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 2: like this is crazy?

1190
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 4: Hell, I feel like I feel like that every day.

1191
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:33,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1192
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 3: And I talk to God every day and I just

1193
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 3: be like, thank you, thank you God, love these opportunities,

1194
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 3: thank you for help little things too, because I don't

1195
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 3: people forget to be grateful for little things like the

1196
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 3: fact that you was able to get up at the

1197
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 3: bed is a blessing. The fact that you open your

1198
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 3: eyes is a blessing. The fact that you have a

1199
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 3: roof over your head is a blessing. You know what,

1200
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 3: I mean you have to be grateful for the small

1201
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 3: things as well, not just you know the opportunity right.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to introduce it?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Sure?

1227
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 3: What are three sex myths that you grew up believing

1228
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 3: as a child.

1229
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to start this off a little. I

1230
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 2: think that it's crazy because I think it's it's it's

1231
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 2: still a thing that people believe to this day, because

1232
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 2: this is more so like opinion. Maybe not myth, but

1233
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 2: this is like an opinion type thing. I think it's

1234
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 2: crazy that people swear up and down like sexist taboo

1235
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 2: and it should not be talked about. Because we had

1236
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 2: a club that just went viral with us with Janie

1237
00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 2: and we were talking about you know, like giving a

1238
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 2: head or whatever, and everybody was laughing in the comments

1239
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 2: in XYZ. But it was one lady who made a

1240
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 2: comment like this is so embarrassing to women around the

1241
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 2: world or something she said, and I went to her

1242
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 2: pa whole log off. I went to her page and

1243
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 2: she was like a motivational speaker. I don't know who

1244
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 2: she was motivating because she didn't have that many people

1245
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 2: following up. Anyways, I say all that to say, because

1246
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 2: I think it's so crazy that adults, to keep the

1247
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 2: world spinning, we must pro create. Sex is like eating food.

1248
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 2: It's a part of life. It's human nature. Huay, it's

1249
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 2: a human nature. You. I say all that, why is

1250
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 2: sex so taboo to talk about?

1251
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 5: Like?

1252
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 2: Why is it so like oh, you know, like I'm

1253
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 2: not saying that everybody wants to be open and talking

1254
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 2: about it. But when people are open and talking about it,

1255
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 2: why do people get so shamed for that? So I

1256
00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 2: think we need to stop doing it.

1257
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 4: And so that's something that you believed in as a.

1258
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:02,680
Speaker 2: Key, I guess because growing up it was like, oh,

1259
00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 2: you know, parents that can't kiss in front of the kids,

1260
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 2: or you can't you oh everything, don't talk to your

1261
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 2: child about sex and this and that. My mom was

1262
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: very open.

1263
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm like my parents used to be geasy.

1264
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean some people are like that. But

1265
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 2: some people are very conservative, extremely conservative, Like you have

1266
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 2: a lot of people like that. Yeah, And I just

1267
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 2: don't believe in that. I think you should talk to

1268
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 2: your kids about real life. I saw a lady who

1269
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 2: actually like bought a house and on her garage there's

1270
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 2: like a whole top floor and she built her daughter

1271
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 2: an apartment. But I mean that's a little off topic,

1272
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 2: but she was just like, I'm going to show my

1273
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,440
Speaker 2: child how to take care of a household.

1274
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 1: Now she still goes in there and cleans up because the.

1275
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 2: House is it's connected to the house, but she has

1276
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 2: a whole setup like as an apartment. And I think

1277
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 2: that's important because in school we need to start learning

1278
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:53,920
Speaker 2: things that are gonna teach us about life. We need

1279
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:56,440
Speaker 2: to when we have sex education, we need to be

1280
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 2: learning about more than how to put a condom on

1281
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:02,919
Speaker 2: a banana. There real conversations about how you know, men

1282
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 2: view sex a little different than women view sex. These

1283
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 2: are conversations we need to have in sex ed. And

1284
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 2: it's okay to talk about sex. It's okay to about

1285
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 2: talk about sucking dick. If I'm in a relationship, I'm

1286
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 2: sucking my man dick. The fun Why are we acting like,

1287
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 2: oh my god, girl?

1288
01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 3: You know, you know ain't some coaching before Now everybody

1289
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 3: ain't a coach, but they need to always wish you

1290
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 3: to you okay and me and me and me, you said, girl,

1291
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 3: I know because we l G B t Q I

1292
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 3: a friendly bet.

1293
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 2: We are the same time. God' well, I'm saying, if

1294
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 2: we're somebody's talking about eating coaching, don't be trying to

1295
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 2: make them feel bad about it. Hell yeah, that's let's

1296
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 2: stop making sex awkward and taboo conversations.

1297
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 4: That's all okay.

1298
01:00:55,480 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 3: So yes, So for me, I would say, I thought

1299
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 3: you could get pregnant at any time when I was

1300
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 3: a kid. Yeah, I thought you could get pregnant at

1301
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 3: any time of the months. Obviously, as I got older,

1302
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 3: I found out you can only get pregnant when you're ovulating.

1303
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can only.

1304
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:21,919
Speaker 3: Get pregnant when you're ovulating, y'all, which is like one

1305
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 3: week out of the money.

1306
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:24,439
Speaker 2: So that is a myth.

1307
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 4: You cannot get pregnant all throughout the money.

1308
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 2: It's hard. But I used to think that it's loky

1309
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 2: kind of hard to get pregnant loki easy, like, especially

1310
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 2: as you trying if it's only one week off the month,

1311
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 2: and if you fucking the life, like you know what

1312
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1313
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 3: But I feel like if you're fucking a lot in

1314
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 3: that week, then all is a pregnant girl on my timeline,

1315
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:55,959
Speaker 3: they definitely get pregnant. I don't think these girls got

1316
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 3: no problem getting pregnant.

1317
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm trying to think.

1318
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think I hadn't. I don't.

1319
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 2: I can't think of anymore.

1320
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 3: You don't have two more mets that you thought was

1321
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 3: like that you found out weren't real once she having AIX.

1322
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 2: Now to kind of add on to that, when I

1323
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 2: was really little, I really remember this. I think I

1324
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 2: may have said this on the show. When I was little.

1325
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,560
Speaker 2: I remember the guy my mom was with at the

1326
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 2: time his brother had gotten married. I specifically remember sitting

1327
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 2: in the kitchen with my sister. I was probably maybe

1328
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 2: like five or six, and I was like, oh my gosh,

1329
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 2: I hope they wished for a baby. So I used

1330
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 2: to think that you had to wish for a baby,

1331
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 2: Like I didn't know nothing about six, So I used

1332
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 2: to think, like when couples got married, they used to

1333
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 2: just oh, I wish I had a baby, because I

1334
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 2: don't know how babies came. Yeah, like a s I

1335
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 2: was like, Oh, I hope they wished for a baby,

1336
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 2: So that was something I definitely I just thought they

1337
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 2: wished for babies. I for sure did that makes sense.

1338
01:02:57,040 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I definitely thought you you get

1339
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 3: pregnant from kissy.

1340
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 2: Oh that's a good one.

1341
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 3: Yeah I did. I used to think that too in

1342
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 3: elementary school because I'm not trying to keep pregnant, Like

1343
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 3: I definitely used to think that, and then I'm trying

1344
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 3: to think, what's another one.

1345
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 2: Okay, I have one, I have one. I used to

1346
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 2: think like, I don't. I won't say it's a myth.

1347
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 2: I just think it's something stupid and silly. But I

1348
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 2: used to think, like if you had like a hickey,

1349
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 2: like you were a whore. Like girls that had hickey's,

1350
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you were a nasty slut. You let

1351
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 2: somebody kiss your neck? What a whole It was like

1352
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 2: wearing the scarlet letter A. Well.

1353
01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 4: Living in Houston, it was always a lot of people he.

1354
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 2: Yes, Like if you had a hickey in Orange, Texas, really,

1355
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 2: if you had a hickey, it was like, oh my god.

1356
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 3: They I went to school with all the Latinos and

1357
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 3: they used to they used to stay with a hickey.

1358
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 4: They used to they with ay. I used to be like, y'all,

1359
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:12,480
Speaker 4: miss they used to be getting.

1360
01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 2: Down like a Hoover vacuum.

1361
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 3: Yes, And they didn't have no shame neither. Like when

1362
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 3: I used to have Hickey's. I used to like try

1363
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 3: to go up with a little makeup a scarf so.

1364
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

1365
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 3: It would be pretty obvious though, because while you wearing

1366
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 3: a scarf at eighty degree with but I would try

1367
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 3: to cover it up with something and they just be

1368
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 3: in class, mes me.

1369
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 2: Watch what what? What? What?

1370
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 4: They laughing?

1371
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 3: Because okay, so it was funny because when I was

1372
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 3: in school, when I was in school, when I was

1373
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:55,440
Speaker 3: in high school, it would only be the Latino because

1374
01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 3: no classmates. They never used to care what to teacher

1375
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 3: name because they just used to say mes me, I swear.

1376
01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:09,959
Speaker 4: They did.

1377
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 2: They never it didn't matter.

1378
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 4: From what class to what class.

1379
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:13,440
Speaker 6: We went to.

1380
01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 2: It was this one boy.

1381
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 3: I was in like three periods with him, and every

1382
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:18,440
Speaker 3: teacher missed mess.

1383
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 2: He never would say their last name. Oh so just

1384
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 2: why would you do that?

1385
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:27,919
Speaker 3: Because I was thinking about him specifically because I took

1386
01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 3: three periods with him and he stayed with heiky, Oh

1387
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 3: my god, and your girlfriend will be waiting outside the

1388
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 3: classmen with his books I mean boos.

1389
01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 2: For them to walk to the nickname you go to?

1390
01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 2: He did, he did, Oh you are trash? Okay, we

1391
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 2: go Okay, you got anymore.

1392
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 1: I think that was it for me.

1393
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 2: That was it for me. Let me try to think. No,

1394
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 2: I don't think I have anymore. So if y'all have

1395
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:57,800
Speaker 2: any tex marriage, tey, you got any you have one side?

1396
01:05:57,840 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 4: The only one I can think of is that the

1397
01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 4: bigger the better. Now, definitely want a good size, But

1398
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 4: I used to think it needed to be twelve inches

1399
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:05,520
Speaker 4: two feet long.

1400
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 2: Now I don't want all that.

1401
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:10,479
Speaker 4: Oh I got like a little boyfriend's size, A nice

1402
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 4: seven eight you know, okay, of nice little size. But

1403
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 4: I think I needed a big horse.

1404
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 2: When I was younger. I mean, a child is high

1405
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:22,520
Speaker 2: school too, because you're still a child. A sixteen year

1406
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 2: old as a child, yeaheah. So you know we're just

1407
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 2: talking about all ages zero to seventeen. Yes, I prepare myself.

1408
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 2: I used to be on that pass like, oh okay,

1409
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 2: when girl, you don't even remember, you don't even remember

1410
01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 2: when you had a past? I like that when that's crazy.

1411
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 2: What's up, y'alls? Your girl XP and it's your girls

1412
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 2: rereading a call. And one thing about us. We love

1413
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,440
Speaker 2: a good hygiene routine. So we are going to tell

1414
01:06:57,520 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 2: y'all all about good wipes.

1415
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 4: Absolutely y'all know, no, toilet paper is not enough.

1416
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 3: After you do what you need to do, you also

1417
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 3: need to wipe with a wipe as well.

1418
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 2: And that's why I love these. They are hyper allergenic.

1419
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 3: They also are made with plant based fibers, and they

1420
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:16,600
Speaker 3: come in so many different scens like Shake, Hoco, Lavender, Theater,

1421
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 3: botanical blizz.

1422
01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:21,000
Speaker 2: They smell amazing. Yeah, so wap yourself good and clean.

1423
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 2: It's available at Target, Kroger, wherever you do your grocery shopping,

1424
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,720
Speaker 2: or if you're an online girly, they're available at Amazon. Period.

1425
01:07:30,520 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 2: If you want to upgrade your restroom ritual, you can

1426
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 2: go grab good wipes at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most

1427
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 2: local grocery stores. Just head to the toilet paper out

1428
01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 2: and look for the bright, Aqua, Rose, and Emerald packages.

1429
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:45,600
Speaker 2: They're also available on Amazon if you're more of an

1430
01:07:45,600 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 2: online shopper. All right, item of the week.

1431
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 3: I guess my item of the week is mused because

1432
01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 3: I don't have an item of the week for this week,

1433
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's gonna be mus beauty.

1434
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:18,680
Speaker 2: I don't know. We have a new lip.

1435
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 3: Plumper that I have been using every single day, Like, yes,

1436
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:22,800
Speaker 3: it's that good.

1437
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 4: No, I'm not being biased. It's so bomb.

1438
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 3: I have it on right now, the lip plumper and

1439
01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:31,040
Speaker 3: then also the jelly blushes. I actually have those on two.

1440
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 3: I have on Pain I Love, Thank You. I have

1441
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 3: on Peach Ballini right now. But all of the products

1442
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 3: are amazing, So make sure you go to mus Beauty

1443
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:45,200
Speaker 3: collection dot com get your lip glosses, your lip liners,

1444
01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:49,639
Speaker 3: your Matt Liquid lipsticks, your blushes, and we are about

1445
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:52,839
Speaker 3: to have a Valentine's Stay seal, so stay tuned.

1446
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 2: But oh I love that. I just want to shout out,

1447
01:08:57,200 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 2: did y'all know? Did he been doing my hair for years?

1448
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 2: A rich love hair, rich look hair, and she provided

1449
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 2: like the little hair for my bow hoole braisen. I

1450
01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:09,760
Speaker 2: just love it. It's literally like the best hair. It's

1451
01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:13,639
Speaker 2: so thick, it's the upscale waves. So if you're looking

1452
01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 2: to get some bowho braids, I'm telling y'all, I went

1453
01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:20,960
Speaker 2: on vacation for two weeks and his hair was literally amazing.

1454
01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 2: So if you want to get the bohole braids and

1455
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 2: you're looking for some thick hair, like you really only

1456
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 2: need two and a half bundles. This is literally two

1457
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:30,840
Speaker 2: and a half bundles. It's so thick. It's the upscale wave.

1458
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 2: Go to ad Rich look hair. Shout out to d D.

1459
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 2: Thank you so much, girl. You always be hooking me

1460
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:38,760
Speaker 2: up with some good bundles. All right, so now it's

1461
01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:41,519
Speaker 2: time to get into the bout.

1462
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 4: Hey bow bow bow.

1463
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:52,840
Speaker 2: All right. Bop of the week, now, y'all know my

1464
01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 2: bop of the week, I'm a little tipsy, now, y'all.

1465
01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 2: My bop of the week is usually like an ndie

1466
01:09:58,439 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 2: art is something that's.

1467
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: Like, you know, a little low key, but I have.

1468
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 2: I am making a mainstream artist my bop of the

1469
01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 2: week this week.

1470
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 1: Because I am.

1471
01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:11,680
Speaker 2: So disgusted not at him, but at y'all for reacting

1472
01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:14,960
Speaker 2: to a hit. It's about to be summertime. It's time

1473
01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:18,160
Speaker 2: to shape that ass. My bop of the week it's

1474
01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 2: Bruno Mars featuring Sexy, Red, Fat, Juicy and Wag. Because

1475
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 2: people have been up in arms Bruno.

1476
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 1: You so nasty.

1477
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 2: Bruno been nasty, y'all know, short niggas is freaks. Yeah,

1478
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:32,760
Speaker 2: Why are y'all surprised Bruno been talking that shit on

1479
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 2: these train They really have.

1480
01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:36,200
Speaker 4: I don't understand why people surprise and I.

1481
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 2: Just feel like y'all not no real fans of music.

1482
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 2: Because seventies and eighties them niggas was nasty. In the

1483
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 2: nineties two, they've been nasty. What what he said, slop

1484
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,840
Speaker 2: on my knob like corn on a car. He did, like,

1485
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 2: come on, well, since when are y'all like the moral

1486
01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 2: police owned? Oh my god, I can't believe he said,

1487
01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 2: pussy bro That's why I know, y'all shit dry.

1488
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 1: You ain't got that fat juice.

1489
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 2: Excuse that the drive girls is mad. Somebody said it's

1490
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 2: giving parched skim and dry skim skim because it's not

1491
01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:19,080
Speaker 2: fat now, somebody they said that to me because I

1492
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:20,720
Speaker 2: was saying, like, if you don't like the song, like

1493
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 2: you lame. He was like, yeah, it's giving parched skim

1494
01:11:23,120 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 2: and dry. I am weak, but yeah, shut out. I

1495
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 2: love it.

1496
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 4: I like it too. I think it's a good song.

1497
01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 2: It's a cute song for the club. Y'all gotta think

1498
01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 2: about it. This is a song that's gonna be played

1499
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 2: in the club. It's a song that can be played

1500
01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:36,680
Speaker 2: girls night, y'all getting dressed, y'all getting ready to go

1501
01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:39,600
Speaker 2: have fun. It's a fun song. You're not supposed to

1502
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:42,479
Speaker 2: like just listen to it on the way to church,

1503
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 2: Like the fuck. Y'all have to realize certain songs are

1504
01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:49,599
Speaker 2: for certain settings. Okay, Bruno's club song is for the club,

1505
01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:53,640
Speaker 2: it's for getting ready, it's for pregames, and it's a

1506
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:54,080
Speaker 2: good song.

1507
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 1: Bruno, don't let them think you doing wrong. Shout out

1508
01:11:57,520 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 1: to sixty.

1509
01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 4: Shout out to sixty red period.

1510
01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:03,360
Speaker 1: So what's your bob?

1511
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 4: Mine is thirty for thirty by Sis. Okay like this,

1512
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 4: but I love Ciss. I'm a huge Sizzle fan.

1513
01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 2: Okay, keep going because I got something to say why,

1514
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna say anything else. I just really long recently,

1515
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:18,360
Speaker 2: so yesterday.

1516
01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:20,000
Speaker 4: You know me, I'll don't be getting no end depth.

1517
01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 2: I saw the KICKI Palmer movie with Sissy yesterday. I'm

1518
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:26,680
Speaker 2: gonna review that on love LEXP Monday, so make sure

1519
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 2: y'all tune in so you know what I liked about

1520
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 2: the movie, because obviously Sisa is a baddie, not that Sissy.

1521
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 2: You and Sissa look like y'all, don't. I just say

1522
01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:37,800
Speaker 2: all that to say, like I was like I could

1523
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 2: see Drea in an acting role like this, really yes,

1524
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:44,520
Speaker 2: because I feel like I didn't have any like expectations

1525
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:46,599
Speaker 2: of Sissa and her acting because I've never seen her

1526
01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:49,000
Speaker 2: act before. Of course, he key killed it per usual.

1527
01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give a more in depth view, but I

1528
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:52,559
Speaker 2: say it all that to say, I was like, I

1529
01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:54,800
Speaker 2: could see you doing like a little cutesy fun role

1530
01:12:54,880 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 2: like that.

1531
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:57,559
Speaker 3: Well I always say that. I feel like that's the

1532
01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 3: only words I would do. Yeah, Like, it has to

1533
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:02,559
Speaker 3: be something where I don't have to step out too

1534
01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:05,240
Speaker 3: far outside of myself I feel like to play the

1535
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 3: role because I mean, like, I don't know, I just

1536
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 3: feel like I'm not passionate enough about acting to do something. Yeah, Like, no,

1537
01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 3: I'm definitely not a real thesbying so so said though,

1538
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 3: So with that being said, I know, damn. But yeah,

1539
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 3: so I just feel like it was definitely need to

1540
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,320
Speaker 3: be a role that I feel like it's kind of

1541
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 3: like close to me where I can still keep my

1542
01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:36,639
Speaker 3: same acting and like and everything.

1543
01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 2: I felt like it was given like Sizza but of

1544
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 2: course she's acting, but it wasn't like too far off

1545
01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:44,679
Speaker 2: of like who she who she is?

1546
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:46,600
Speaker 3: It was cute, It was real cute. But yeah, you

1547
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 3: have to go watch that movie. I haven't watched it yet.

1548
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 1: Y'all tune in.

1549
01:13:49,120 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 2: And I went by myself because I like had to

1550
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:53,320
Speaker 2: go like really early in the day because I was

1551
01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:55,680
Speaker 2: trying to make I had went to the gym and

1552
01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:57,479
Speaker 2: then I had bought tickets, so I had to rush.

1553
01:13:57,520 --> 01:13:59,320
Speaker 2: So I went by myself, and like everybody in theater,

1554
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 2: like they went with I was like, oh, by myself.

1555
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 2: But it was super cute. So y'all go see it.

1556
01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all see it before Monday when lovelex Pa

1557
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 2: drops and it's time to get into our favorite segments

1558
01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:13,599
Speaker 2: of the week.

1559
01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 3: Yes, y'all, it's time to get into our favorite segment

1560
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:17,639
Speaker 3: of the week. So you know, if you have any

1561
01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 3: questions or testimonials, you can always send them to ask

1562
01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 3: core Minds at gmail dot com. This's a sk p

1563
01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 3: o U r in my nds at gmail dot com.

1564
01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:33,000
Speaker 4: And don't be seeing no paragraphs. It's the beginning of

1565
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:33,320
Speaker 4: the year.

1566
01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 3: I feel like I need to do a PSA.

1567
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I need to shout out some verbs.

1568
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:43,040
Speaker 3: Shout out to verbs I need to do. They're like

1569
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 3: who they probably like, both of them people they probably like.

1570
01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 3: But p s A, y'all please, this is a whole

1571
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 3: essay one paragraph and we love helping y'all with y'all questions.

1572
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 3: You know, we love answering y'all questions. Give me y'all advice.

1573
01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 3: But I feel like, you know you could have still

1574
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:07,440
Speaker 3: put all of these.

1575
01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:08,959
Speaker 2: In one period.

1576
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, Am and sister, So let's read it.

1577
01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 3: I've been dealing with my bed slash husband for fourteen years.

1578
01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 3: When we met, I was fourteen and I'm now twenty seven.

1579
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:23,400
Speaker 3: We have two kids together and have been married for

1580
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 3: seven years now. This is where it gets Missy. My

1581
01:15:26,320 --> 01:15:29,280
Speaker 3: baby daddy has been choosing another woman over me for

1582
01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:32,519
Speaker 3: the past seven years, even though we are married. Okay,

1583
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 3: I live back home with our kids and take care

1584
01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:38,880
Speaker 3: of them by myself while he lives with these other

1585
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:42,160
Speaker 3: women in Florida. He's been there for about a year now.

1586
01:15:42,520 --> 01:15:44,519
Speaker 3: It's been a lot of back and forth. Mind you,

1587
01:15:44,920 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 3: we're not together anymore, but he expects me to sit

1588
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:49,400
Speaker 3: around and wait for him to figure out what he

1589
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:51,640
Speaker 3: and her are going to do with their relationship.

1590
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 2: I'm just not we you.

1591
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 3: I've told him multiple times that I'm no longer waiting

1592
01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 3: on him because he constantly puts her before us. Me

1593
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:03,320
Speaker 3: and the He recently came into town went through my

1594
01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:06,240
Speaker 3: phone and found out I've been dealing with someone else.

1595
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:08,760
Speaker 3: He flipped out, got mad at me, and we got

1596
01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 3: into a fight. He's never put his hands on me before,

1597
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 3: but he did that day. He felt like I should

1598
01:16:14,320 --> 01:16:16,639
Speaker 3: have told him about the other person, but I feel

1599
01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:18,519
Speaker 3: like I didn't owe him that because he lives with

1600
01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:21,080
Speaker 3: another woman in a different state. Why should I have

1601
01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:23,880
Speaker 3: to tell him I had sex with someone else. Now

1602
01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:26,320
Speaker 3: he says he can't trust he can't trust me and

1603
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 3: wants a divorce. But mentally I had already checked out,

1604
01:16:30,120 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 3: so it didn't hurt when he said that.

1605
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 2: Me and him are very close. We grew up together.

1606
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:36,840
Speaker 3: He's like my best friend, so he expected me to

1607
01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:38,800
Speaker 3: be open and honest with him because that's how he

1608
01:16:38,920 --> 01:16:41,640
Speaker 3: is with me, even though I don't agree with his actions.

1609
01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:44,040
Speaker 4: So tell me, am I wrong in any situation?

1610
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:48,479
Speaker 2: First of all, who gives a fuck if he trusts you?

1611
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 2: Y'all be giving these men too much. He moved to

1612
01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:55,559
Speaker 2: another state, he lives with another girl. That divorce should

1613
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:56,000
Speaker 2: have been.

1614
01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: Final a year ago.

1615
01:16:57,640 --> 01:16:59,680
Speaker 2: I don't even know why you're still communicating with him

1616
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 2: out side of y'all kids.

1617
01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: At this point, you.

1618
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 2: Don't owe him nothing. Why is he even in the

1619
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 2: vicinity to reach your phone? You should be Let me

1620
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:09,719
Speaker 2: tell you something. I always I never tell my friends

1621
01:17:09,760 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 2: to leave they men always let them go back until

1622
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:15,120
Speaker 2: they get disgusted. How you're not disgusted yet.

1623
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 1: I have no idea that that man.

1624
01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:21,719
Speaker 2: You should press up what's it called a restraining order?

1625
01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 2: Because he put his hands on you. It's only gonna

1626
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:27,240
Speaker 2: go downhill from there. It ain't gonna get better. Yeah,

1627
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:30,439
Speaker 2: he's showing you who he is. He don't want you,

1628
01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:32,640
Speaker 2: but he don't want nobody else to have you, and

1629
01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 2: we know how them end up.

1630
01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:35,280
Speaker 1: Them situations end up.

1631
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:38,800
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I agree with that. Cease.

1632
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 2: You gotta let that go.

1633
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:43,040
Speaker 3: I feel like any communication just solely needs to be

1634
01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 3: about y'all children at this point, because he's made his decision. Like,

1635
01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 3: it's not no trying to figure out what him and

1636
01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:51,040
Speaker 3: the girl gonna do. I feel like when he chose

1637
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 3: to be with her over you, he had made the decision.

1638
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,679
Speaker 3: Even if him and her breakup, I wouldn't even want

1639
01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:58,559
Speaker 3: him no more because you didn't. I was never your

1640
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:01,960
Speaker 3: first choice. So I think that you just need to

1641
01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 3: wash your hands of that situation.

1642
01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 4: Be safe.

1643
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:07,360
Speaker 3: Because if you put your hands his hands on you once,

1644
01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 3: he'll do it again. So just be safe, girl, But

1645
01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:14,840
Speaker 3: don't talk to him unless it's about y'all. Child, I

1646
01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 3: wouldn't even be considering the possibility of a relationship with him.

1647
01:18:19,320 --> 01:18:21,360
Speaker 3: It don't matter that y'all grew up together, that y'all

1648
01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:24,040
Speaker 3: know each other. Sometimes them be the worst people, then

1649
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 3: be the ones that burn you the worst, the ones

1650
01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:28,800
Speaker 3: you been knowing the longeast, So that does not matter.

1651
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:31,519
Speaker 3: You got to let their history go and find you

1652
01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:35,280
Speaker 3: a bitter and well first hell, but then also find

1653
01:18:35,360 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 3: you a bitter, healthier situation for you and your kids.

1654
01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:44,200
Speaker 2: And I will say this, it's different. I don't. I

1655
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:46,439
Speaker 2: don't believe it's spending the block no more I used to,

1656
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, it's a difference between you and

1657
01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:52,559
Speaker 2: a person breaking up for whatever reason and y'all going

1658
01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 2: out in life and maybe finding each other together again. Ladies,

1659
01:18:56,680 --> 01:18:59,719
Speaker 2: if a man leaves you and he immediately starts talking

1660
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 2: to some or he leaves you for another person, he

1661
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:06,400
Speaker 2: is choosing somebody over you and you're literally like, hey,

1662
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:08,680
Speaker 2: I know you got this going on, but can we

1663
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:11,639
Speaker 2: work it out? And he's still like no, Yeah, he's

1664
01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:15,400
Speaker 2: choosing somebody over you. Absolutely, you should never want that

1665
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:18,040
Speaker 2: man back again, because if it's not her, it's gonna

1666
01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:20,280
Speaker 2: be somebody else he chooses over you again.

1667
01:19:20,360 --> 01:19:21,120
Speaker 1: He don't want you.

1668
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 2: And that has nothing to say about you as a woman.

1669
01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 2: Stop internalizing who you are as a person because of

1670
01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 2: what this man says. You're not You not a bad person,

1671
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:33,000
Speaker 2: You're just not that person for him.

1672
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:35,559
Speaker 1: Let these niggas go chill.

1673
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:43,400
Speaker 2: Whoo. I was talking to my old selk. That was

1674
01:19:43,400 --> 01:19:47,120
Speaker 2: just me talking about old step chair. All right, Hi,

1675
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:49,840
Speaker 2: I guess she wants her name to be said. She

1676
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:53,559
Speaker 2: lifting enough. Hi. I'm Kiora. I'm a nineteen year old

1677
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 2: college but I'm keeping my fetem. I'm a nineteen year

1678
01:19:56,920 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 2: old college student trying to figure out life while also

1679
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 2: trying to have have a bit of fun. I just

1680
01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:03,639
Speaker 2: got out of a year long relationship, and I wanted

1681
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:07,840
Speaker 2: to know how Drea specifically moves on when changes needing

1682
01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:10,479
Speaker 2: in life facts, because bitch, I don't move on. Our

1683
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:16,960
Speaker 2: relationship consisted of miscommunication, line controlling behavior, and misunderstandings. There

1684
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 2: were great moments and soul ties we shared with each other,

1685
01:20:20,560 --> 01:20:23,480
Speaker 2: but it ended because I can't stand going through relationship

1686
01:20:23,479 --> 01:20:26,599
Speaker 2: problems at such a young age. I'm still trying to

1687
01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:30,320
Speaker 2: work on myself, my career, and my future. Plus I

1688
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:32,519
Speaker 2: want to be free. I need to focus on my

1689
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:36,240
Speaker 2: back and get shit done. Your girl needs some advice, please.

1690
01:20:36,479 --> 01:20:39,680
Speaker 2: I love the podcast What You Got for a Drew Well.

1691
01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:42,240
Speaker 3: I feel like she already on the right track, Like

1692
01:20:42,320 --> 01:20:44,880
Speaker 3: it seems like she already has her head on right

1693
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 3: to be a nineteen year old, you know what I mean, Like,

1694
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:50,280
Speaker 3: you know what you want. You know that that relationship

1695
01:20:50,320 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 3: was getting toxic, so you got the hellone and that's

1696
01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:57,040
Speaker 3: what you should have did, because yeah, because you nineteen.

1697
01:20:57,640 --> 01:21:00,799
Speaker 3: You're nineteen years old. You literally have your whole life

1698
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:03,639
Speaker 3: ahead of you. You still in college, you're a college student.

1699
01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:06,040
Speaker 3: You need to be focusing on school because girls taking

1700
01:21:06,080 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 3: from somebody who flunk like two classes day first year

1701
01:21:09,080 --> 01:21:12,560
Speaker 3: of college just because they was playing around. Stay focused

1702
01:21:12,880 --> 01:21:14,360
Speaker 3: so you don't have to retake them classes.

1703
01:21:14,360 --> 01:21:15,720
Speaker 2: Don't be letting their boy distract you.

1704
01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:18,599
Speaker 3: And it's gonna be plenty more where they came from.

1705
01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:21,960
Speaker 3: You're gonna be glad you let that situation go. Dudes,

1706
01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:24,519
Speaker 3: I was dating when I was nineteen. I don't even

1707
01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 3: know what they doing right now, like I have no clue,

1708
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:28,600
Speaker 3: we have no communication.

1709
01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:30,559
Speaker 4: I feel like you did the right thing.

1710
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:34,520
Speaker 3: And with any relationship, any breakup, it's always hard initially,

1711
01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:38,560
Speaker 3: but like when time starts going by, it gets easier

1712
01:21:38,600 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 3: and easier with time, and then eventually you gonna end

1713
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:43,799
Speaker 3: up meeting somebody else that you like. Just stay focused

1714
01:21:43,800 --> 01:21:46,040
Speaker 3: on your goal, Stay focused on school, Stay focused on

1715
01:21:46,120 --> 01:21:47,559
Speaker 3: getting your money, because then she said she.

1716
01:21:47,560 --> 01:21:50,200
Speaker 4: Have a job too. I think she did.

1717
01:21:50,800 --> 01:21:54,040
Speaker 3: But stay focused on school, stay focused on Giddio your back.

1718
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:57,800
Speaker 3: It's always plenty of time to worry about these men

1719
01:21:58,120 --> 01:22:00,559
Speaker 3: later on in life because they ain't never a shortage

1720
01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:00,800
Speaker 3: of dom.

1721
01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 4: So, yeah, you did the right thing. Sis, I'm very

1722
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:03,760
Speaker 4: proud of you.

1723
01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:06,439
Speaker 2: And we always say your type at nineteen is not

1724
01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 2: the same type as twenty five, and it's not the

1725
01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:12,200
Speaker 2: same type at thirty. Girl, the type of man you

1726
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Speaker 2: like in six years is gonna change, so don't worry

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Speaker 2: about this.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like if niggas is toxic at nineteen,

1729
01:22:17,400 --> 01:22:20,360
Speaker 3: they gonna be toxic for real at thirty, because why

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01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:22,840
Speaker 3: are you toxic at nineteen you ain't even been through anything.

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01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:25,439
Speaker 2: Gig Sul they just be crazy.

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01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 3: Like I understand when me and you older and then

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01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:30,200
Speaker 3: they be a little jaded or they be a little

1734
01:22:30,800 --> 01:22:33,439
Speaker 3: you know, extreme stuff because it's like life. Don't beat

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01:22:33,520 --> 01:22:37,000
Speaker 3: your ass. Yeah, but at nineteen, you ain't really been through.

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01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:40,840
Speaker 3: He isn't he trying to be at war with you?

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01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:42,639
Speaker 3: Let him go, girl, Let him go?

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01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:43,360
Speaker 5: All right?

1739
01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:45,639
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all email us at s PR Minds at

1740
01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:52,720
Speaker 2: gmail dot com, Musicbautycollection dot com. Go get laced up

1741
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:55,160
Speaker 2: if you want to be a battie period. Drain the

1742
01:22:55,240 --> 01:22:58,560
Speaker 2: cold at three E's on YouTube. What day you drop Sundays?

1743
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:01,879
Speaker 4: Yes, I drop video every Sunday, every Sunday.

1744
01:23:01,920 --> 01:23:04,040
Speaker 2: So look y'all got a line up. Y'all got Poor

1745
01:23:04,080 --> 01:23:08,480
Speaker 2: Minds on Fridays, drawing the Call with three E's on Sundays,

1746
01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 2: and Love lexp on Mondays.

1747
01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:12,639
Speaker 3: And then you get the New Then you get Poor

1748
01:23:12,720 --> 01:23:14,120
Speaker 3: Chronicles on Monday.

1749
01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:15,720
Speaker 2: On Monday, so you get a double whim and you

1750
01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:16,040
Speaker 2: get a.

1751
01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:18,759
Speaker 3: Double Wimmy on Monday, and you get the early episode

1752
01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:21,840
Speaker 3: released on Wednesday to a Patreon member, So yeah, give

1753
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 3: me the You dem near getting a full week of US.

1754
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:28,040
Speaker 2: So anybody's like I need Mark, y'all got. We're giving

1755
01:23:28,080 --> 01:23:31,320
Speaker 2: y'all so much, so much stuff, and then you can

1756
01:23:31,400 --> 01:23:33,280
Speaker 2: sit at home and watch the stuff greasing your lips

1757
01:23:33,360 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 2: up with some blades from used beauty period.

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01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. We're giving y'all everything that

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01:23:38,360 --> 01:23:39,040
Speaker 1: we need.

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01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:42,080
Speaker 4: To give and drinking a little drink that time, oh hello.

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01:23:41,920 --> 01:23:43,599
Speaker 1: And looking at the calendar to see what.

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01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:43,960
Speaker 2: Day it is.

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01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:47,040
Speaker 4: Well, you gonna make it, but she created it.

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01:23:47,640 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 2: Okay, let them know. You know what I'm saying. She

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01:23:54,520 --> 01:24:03,320
Speaker 2: took me good. Thank y'all so much for tuning in.

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01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 2: We hope y'all enjoyed this episode. Make sure y'all subscribe

1767
01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:08,679
Speaker 2: to everything go get y'all, sol mixy calendar as well,

1768
01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:11,479
Speaker 2: and we'll see y'all next week. By y'all, y'all, make

1769
01:24:11,520 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 2: sure y'all share the content like subscribe, follow all that

1770
01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 2: good stuff. And let me say this before we close out, y'all,

1771
01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:22,920
Speaker 2: there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds.

1772
01:24:22,920 --> 01:24:27,559
Speaker 2: It's p oh you are underscore in my nds. Y'all

1773
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:30,679
Speaker 2: are tagging the wrong poor Minds page. If you see

1774
01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:33,479
Speaker 2: at poor Minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,

1775
01:24:33,520 --> 01:24:36,920
Speaker 2: do not follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea

1776
01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 2: and the poor Minds page on both. So we only

1777
01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:46,160
Speaker 2: have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok and it's p oh,

1778
01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:48,360
Speaker 2: you are underscore in my nds all.

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01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:51,720
Speaker 4: Right, And we got a hell a fake Facebook page.

1780
01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:54,280
Speaker 1: On the Facebook page.

1781
01:24:53,360 --> 01:24:54,040
Speaker 2: Our Facebook.

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01:24:54,040 --> 01:24:56,800
Speaker 3: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

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01:24:56,880 --> 01:24:59,160
Speaker 3: least amount of follow us. So if you're on Facebook,

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01:24:59,200 --> 01:25:01,920
Speaker 3: one that's our got the least amount of father, but

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01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:02,960
Speaker 3: one that's.

1786
01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:04,920
Speaker 4: Not us got like two hundred and fifty thousand.

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01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:07,360
Speaker 2: Like if you actually look at the content, because the

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01:25:07,400 --> 01:25:10,479
Speaker 2: capture is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because

1789
01:25:10,520 --> 01:25:13,680
Speaker 2: their captains are like bumba clade? Should men? Should men

1790
01:25:13,760 --> 01:25:16,800
Speaker 2: pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

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01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:16,920
Speaker 6: No?

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01:25:18,240 --> 01:25:23,559
Speaker 2: Check answer below block block po po poyo. Like that's

1793
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:26,439
Speaker 2: literally what the captions. I'm like, what that DG is?

1794
01:25:26,520 --> 01:25:28,320
Speaker 2: Bumba claude, bumba claude.

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01:25:29,040 --> 01:25:34,280
Speaker 6: Baby without you, baby, So if you need me, if

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01:25:34,320 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 6: you want me to put it on you, because I

1797
01:25:38,600 --> 01:25:43,960
Speaker 6: love yeah, and don't you forget hey, whenever you need me,

1798
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:47,920
Speaker 6: if you want me to put it on you, come on.

1799
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:53,880
Speaker 6: Would I be without you?

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Speaker 2: Yo? Whatever you with? Else you babyaby with that?

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01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:11,600
Speaker 6: Whatever you without my baby? The thought of lone my

1802
01:26:11,880 --> 01:26:17,040
Speaker 6: break man you. I don't want to go crazy, but everything.

1803
01:26:16,720 --> 01:26:18,760
Speaker 2: Needs a lady girl.

1804
01:26:18,800 --> 01:26:22,160
Speaker 6: I feel like you and I would be mourning together, inseparable.

1805
01:26:22,240 --> 01:26:24,840
Speaker 6: We choose paying over pleasure. For that, Sh'll forever be

1806
01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:27,120
Speaker 6: part of me, my body and soul.

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01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:30,480
Speaker 2: Ain't no I in weed. Baby you cry, I wipe.

1808
01:26:30,280 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 3: Your tears when you scale who's telling you it's nothing

1809
01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:33,400
Speaker 3: to feel?

1810
01:26:33,479 --> 01:26:33,679
Speaker 2: Girl.

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01:26:33,680 --> 01:26:36,000
Speaker 3: I'll always be there when you need a shoulder, the

1812
01:26:36,120 --> 01:26:39,280
Speaker 3: lean out, never hesitate, knowing you could call on your

1813
01:26:39,320 --> 01:26:42,479
Speaker 3: soulmate and vice versa. That's why I be the first

1814
01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:45,400
Speaker 3: to see Jacobs and frost your rece up now your

1815
01:26:45,479 --> 01:26:48,160
Speaker 3: own man. I know you're tired of being lowlss So

1816
01:26:48,320 --> 01:26:53,520
Speaker 3: baby girl, put it on me, don't you.

1817
01:26:54,560 --> 01:26:58,960
Speaker 6: I know you're telling be loneless, you the whole man?

1818
01:27:00,120 --> 01:27:01,240
Speaker 2: What without you?

1819
01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:05,680
Speaker 6: I only think about you. I know you ted to

1820
01:27:05,760 --> 01:27:10,240
Speaker 6: be lonely, Baby girl, put it on me, yo.

1821
01:27:10,320 --> 01:27:12,920
Speaker 3: I appreciate the rocks and gifts that you caught me

1822
01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:15,400
Speaker 3: back and the house in the hill when you dropped

1823
01:27:15,439 --> 01:27:18,519
Speaker 3: like eighty. You wanna down payment thinking, damn ain't life crazy?

1824
01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:20,519
Speaker 3: And I'd be send for my honey. Y'all be twice

1825
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:22,599
Speaker 3: the lady, What would I do without the nights that

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01:27:22,640 --> 01:27:25,040
Speaker 3: you kept me warm when it's cold? World had a

1827
01:27:25,080 --> 01:27:27,320
Speaker 3: girl caught in the storm. And I accept when you

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01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:29,559
Speaker 3: riff because you caught in the wrong. And I recept

1829
01:27:29,600 --> 01:27:31,800
Speaker 3: when you because your love is strong. And when you

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01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:34,200
Speaker 3: hit the block, I watched for ten and four And

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01:27:34,200 --> 01:27:35,160
Speaker 3: when my pops.

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01:27:34,840 --> 01:27:36,920
Speaker 4: Will sleep, you snuck in the back door at you.

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01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:40,080
Speaker 2: Boy. We've been down since junior high. When life get hot,

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01:27:40,080 --> 01:27:40,479
Speaker 2: does July?

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01:27:40,600 --> 01:27:42,960
Speaker 3: It's the world against you and I we ball in,

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01:27:43,040 --> 01:27:45,680
Speaker 3: tied together and never hard from the heart. Knew that

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01:27:45,720 --> 01:27:48,960
Speaker 3: it would last forever when you told me you would never.

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01:27:48,920 --> 01:27:51,760
Speaker 2: Leave me long less it on me?

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01:27:53,240 --> 01:27:58,360
Speaker 4: Itout you or what you're saying this show I did

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01:27:58,520 --> 01:28:01,040
Speaker 4: someone a homemade whoa?

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01:28:01,960 --> 01:28:02,920
Speaker 6: I'll be without you?

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01:28:03,640 --> 01:28:07,640
Speaker 2: Without you? What's just hanging this true? You say to

1843
01:28:07,720 --> 01:28:11,040
Speaker 2: be a lonely it's the one to hold me, hold

1844
01:28:11,120 --> 01:28:19,479
Speaker 2: meie ho me okay, you ain't that versa? I know,

1845
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:27,160
Speaker 2: I mean, whoall laughing? Look at you? What just hang

1846
01:28:27,240 --> 01:28:31,040
Speaker 2: in this shrue and me? It's the one to hold me?

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01:28:32,040 --> 01:29:09,240
Speaker 2: Whoa