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Speaker 1: morning horiscope, Pervetto. Let's get into the three things you

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Speaker 1: on Twitter on the craziest thing that happened at the

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Speaker 1: Elves de Rancial party, and you saw what one of

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Speaker 1: all the things that happened, you know, with Greg t

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Speaker 1: dropping the croc, it was it was a Nate's bathroom problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right, I really want to change the subject. Okay, okay, next, next, next,

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Speaker 1: what do you have coming up in your your report? Dane.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited the Haunting of Hill House season two. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's get into it. I don't I don't want to wait,

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Speaker 1: I don't way. It's not going to be called the Hillhouse.

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Speaker 1: There's it's a different house this time. Season two is

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Speaker 1: actually the Hillhouse burned down or something. It didn't I

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Speaker 1: forgot how it ended. Spoiler alert, Yeah, yeah, let's not.

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Speaker 1: I don't want I'm asking that's a spoiler question. I

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Speaker 1: don't remember. But that was so good. So season two

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Speaker 1: is actually the anthology of the Haunting of blithe Manner,

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Speaker 1: based on Henry James's eighteen ninety eight novella The Turn

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Speaker 1: of the Screw. It's very dark. They're saying that it

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Speaker 1: is going to be scarier and more uncomfortable than the

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Speaker 1: Haunting of Hillhouse. So if you're ready to get the

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Speaker 1: pants scared off of you, it's going to be what

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Speaker 1: we want to watch. I know, I cannot wait, but

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Speaker 1: this Why did this not surprise me? And I think

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Speaker 1: I may have gone more than Britney Spears According to

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Speaker 1: Paint six, Britney Spears made eighty trips to Target last year.

443
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Speaker 1: That's not a lot. That's nothing compared to you thinking

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Speaker 1: like okay. She also likes a shop at Home Depot

445
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Speaker 1: and Ralph's. This is according to her Conservative Ship documents.

446
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Speaker 1: Ralph's is a grocery store. Yeah, so, I mean I

447
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Speaker 1: go to the grocer store at three times a week

448
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,439
Speaker 1: sometimes to get things. What's she doing at home Depot?

449
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,640
Speaker 1: Maybe fixing stuff in her house. I help Home Depot too.

450
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Speaker 1: I just don't know what Britney Spears is doing. Um.

451
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Speaker 1: Jay Z and Rock Nation are partnering with the NFL

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Speaker 1: for events and activism. The NFL said that they are

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Speaker 1: going to consult with jay Z's Rock Nation on its

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Speaker 1: entertainment presentations. Huh. That includes a Super Bowl halftime show.

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Speaker 1: Jay Z is not performing in the halftime show, although

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Speaker 1: maybe in the future he will. They also will work

457
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Speaker 1: together to strengthen community through music and NFL's inspired change initiatives.

458
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: So that's pretty cool to doing some good stuff. So

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Speaker 1: season thirteen's Bachelorette Rachel She says she slept with two

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Speaker 1: of the three finalists in the fantasy suite. She won't

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Speaker 1: say which ones, but she says that her final choice

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Speaker 1: knows about it and it is totally cool, Like you

463
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Speaker 1: slept with other guys, no problem. It's so ridiculous and

464
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Speaker 1: we thought it would happen, but it didn't. Harry Styles

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Speaker 1: will not be Prince Eric in The Little Mermaid Were

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Speaker 1: You was well? He respected? He respectfully declined, why I know,

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Speaker 1: I know what you told us. He was doing it? Well,

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Speaker 1: can you just be quiet over there? We thought he

469
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Speaker 1: was gonna do it. It It looked like he was doing it.

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Speaker 1: He's not doing it. By the way, BTS's agency says

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Speaker 1: that they're not done. They're going on a little hiatus.

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Speaker 1: If you look at their website, they're actually scheduled to

473
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Speaker 1: perform in Saudi Arabia on places like that in October,

474
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Speaker 1: so they're taking a vacation. This is their first vacation.

475
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Speaker 1: But a lot of people are panicking that they're done.

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Speaker 1: According to their agency, they're not done. So we'll see

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Speaker 1: what happens there. America's Got Talent is on tonight. It

478
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 1: is a live result show to see who made it

479
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Speaker 1: to the semifinals. Song Land will be Cool because McLamore

480
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,120
Speaker 1: will select this week's winning song, and it is the

481
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Speaker 1: third season finale of The Handmaid's Tale over on Hulu.

482
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Speaker 1: So I'm online trying to figure out where Jonas Brothers

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Speaker 1: played last night, so I know where. I know on

484
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Speaker 1: the fifteenth, they're going to be in Washington, DC, So

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Speaker 1: I think they're off tonight. Maybe, so maybe we should

486
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Speaker 1: stop by and say hi. Break couple days there will

487
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Speaker 1: be em Boston coming up in Philly. What's today's day?

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Speaker 1: Today is the fourteen? It is? Yeah, so tomorrow there?

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Speaker 1: How did we get to August fourteenth? Please? I don't know.

490
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Speaker 1: I've been trying to stop the time. It's not working. No,

491
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Speaker 1: can we just stop? Time? Tried? Someone has a way? Please?

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Speaker 1: Last night tonight they're in Raleigh, North Carolina. Oh nice?

493
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: And wait and okay, okay, anyway I want to go

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Speaker 1: see them. Here's the thing. They're supposed to play the

495
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Speaker 1: Garden at the end of this month, but we're gone. No.

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Speaker 1: August twenty, ninth and thirtieth, they're at the Garden. If

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Speaker 1: you have a way August eighteenth in Philly. Yeah, oh,

498
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Speaker 1: we can do that. Let's drive down. Here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: If you see any show this year, and even if

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Speaker 1: you're not a huge Jonas Brothers fan. You've got to

501
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: see this show because the story behind this show, the

502
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 1: story behind these guys, the story behind them getting back together.

503
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: It's just there's an electricity in that room that is

504
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: just unbelievable. You can see them there. We will be

505
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Speaker 1: back in November twenty second. They're at Prudential Center November

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Speaker 1: twenty three, there at the Barclays. Oh perfect, so you

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Speaker 1: can't see them, Okay, Hey, So who's in a good

508
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Speaker 1: mood today? Gandhi? What what one thing can you just

509
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Speaker 1: spew out right now and tell me that you're in

510
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Speaker 1: a good mood because of that? Go? Oh, because I

511
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: have such a crush on my boyfriend talk about that corning. No,

512
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 1: it's not at all. No, that's a great reason to

513
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: be happy. That makes me happy. Every day when I

514
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Speaker 1: wake up, I'm like, oh, b that's it. Yeah, I

515
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: mean I don't I don't know what else to say.

516
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Speaker 1: I feel like a little kid. It's so cute. I

517
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: love that. So it does really make me happy, Like

518
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,640
Speaker 1: every day and wake up and I'm in a great mood.

519
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Speaker 1: When do you see him next? Um on the twenty second?

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Speaker 1: Good for you? Yeah, I'm happy for you. Me too,

521
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 1: And I'm glad that you guys like him and you

522
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Speaker 1: met him and it was great. No, I didn't say

523
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Speaker 1: I like him. You did say I'm just happy for

524
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: you said him. He's a great guy. Danielle. Why are you?

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Speaker 1: Why are you happy? Today? My mommy is coming down

526
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 1: to spend the day to day and I can't wait. Yeah,

527
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: she's she's coming down and we're gonna do some mommy

528
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: and Danielle things. That's cool. Yeah, where are you happy?

529
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Speaker 1: Because I'm packing for a cruise. I'm going on a

530
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Speaker 1: cruise Friday. It's a short listener cruise. Right, it's a

531
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Speaker 1: short listener cruise. I'm packing for my cruise. I'm so excited,

532
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 1: cannot wait. Why are you happy? Okay, here's why I'm

533
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,479
Speaker 1: asking you. That's scary. Why are you happy? Because my

534
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: shirt fits me very well? Oh my god, that's good.

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00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 1: That's totally fine. That makes me feel good. Your happy? Name?

536
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: Why you are? Why are you happy? I'm seeing a

537
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 1: friend for lunch. I haven't seen him in a long

538
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: time and we're gonna catch up. It's gonna be great.

539
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 1: Who's that He's coming in on the show today, Matthew Hussey. Yeah,

540
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: I'm happy to see him too. Yeah, I'll tell you why.

541
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Speaker 1: I'm asking because I woke up this morning really happy,

542
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 1: and I can't figure out what it is the best.

543
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: Maybe it's maybe it's a mixture of lots of things.

544
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a countdown because you know your weddings a

545
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: month away. I'm excited about that. Could be that, I

546
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Speaker 1: don't know. I went out with friends last night. We

547
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 1: had a late night, went to a great New York

548
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 1: City restaurant, and we partied and celebrated a friend's birthday.

549
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Speaker 1: And I don't know. And even though I I'm looking

550
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: for reasons to be to be bogged down, I'm looking

551
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: looking for reasons to be frustrated. Can't find them. That's awesome.

552
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: That's good because you know what. You look at the

553
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: calendar and you see a thousand things that you need

554
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: to get done. I have a million things that need

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00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: to get done. I've got lists, list and more lists

556
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,199
Speaker 1: and lists that have lists on them, and I just

557
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 1: but I'm just happy. I don't know. I think that

558
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 1: if you feel all, if you feel, it's okay to

559
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 1: be happy and not know why, bright totally fine. That

560
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: was awesome. So it's a weird thing. Happiness you know,

561
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: and sadness can do it, you know, to to you

562
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: just as fast. So let happiness beat sadness. Do you

563
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: all agree on that one. Yeah. Walkers and Talkers a

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Speaker 1: you got it, You got it. Place for Big Daddy,

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Speaker 1: for Big Daddy. First place. I think you're doing this show.

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Speaker 1: It's all live. I was done in my office printing

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Speaker 1: up some things to talk about. All right, let me

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Speaker 1: let me huh, let me catch your breath, let me

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Speaker 1: get them all organized. Cool. Can we talk about whether

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Speaker 1: it's appropriate or not to call you Big Daddy, because

581
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Speaker 1: I just felt harassed by that. You know, it used

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Speaker 1: to offend me. Now I don't care. Okay, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you. I'm got to tell you right now. Let's

584
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Speaker 1: full transparency. Huh. I've talked about this before and I

585
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Speaker 1: just just just scaled my dog. It makes me so mad.

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00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you anyway. Okay. You know, in this

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Speaker 1: world we live in, in this with iHeartMedia, we have

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Speaker 1: what's called research. H We have some of the smartest

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Speaker 1: people in the world going out and talking to huge

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Speaker 1: groups of people to ask them what they want to

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Speaker 1: hear and what they don't want to hear in a show. Right.

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Speaker 1: They actually went to several of our markets and they

593
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Speaker 1: sat down with a lot of people in these quote

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Speaker 1: unquote focus groups to ask them what they like about

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Speaker 1: the show, what's getting better about the show, what's not

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Speaker 1: as good about the show, you know what? Whatever? Most

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Speaker 1: of all, I mean, people like our show a lot. Yeah.

598
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: And then someone sowhere asked the question, hey, Elvis, does

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Speaker 1: he seem too old to listen to in the morning,

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Speaker 1: And like one or two people said, you know, sometimes

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Speaker 1: he talks about things that maybe aren't extremely relate to

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Speaker 1: me because I'm a twenty one year old girl or whatever.

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00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: And so they told him, and Nate's part of the problem.

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00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: What Nate's like, you know, you really shouldn't talk about

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Speaker 1: things that you aren't interesting to younger people. And I said,

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Speaker 1: you know what, then effort. I'll go work somewhere else. Right,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to come in here and like, okay,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you about how much I like to

609
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: twerk on the weekends. Yeah, I think it's not real.

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Speaker 1: If you come in and you're not yourself, it's not

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Speaker 1: So they said we should eliminate things like, you know,

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Speaker 1: calling you big Daddy and the other day you said,

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Speaker 1: hey tell uncle Elvis blah blah blah. The twenty one

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Speaker 1: year old girl doesn't want to hear that. So maybe

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Speaker 1: we should squelch that from our show and we'll have

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Speaker 1: big rating results. Big. I don't think so, And I said.

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Speaker 1: And one day we were doing something and I said

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Speaker 1: we should talk about I forgot what it was, and

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Speaker 1: Nate went, I don't think we should talk about that

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Speaker 1: because that's something like a twenty eight year old would

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Speaker 1: talk about. That's way too old. And I looked at Nate.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to rip his face. I don't remember this.

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Speaker 1: I remember this day and I said, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to work on a show or I

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Speaker 1: have to pretend to be someone. Oh, I remember that.

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Speaker 1: You got very mad. He Rexa posted about this yesterday

627
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Speaker 1: because somebody told her she's too old at twenty nine

628
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Speaker 1: to post certain pictures of herself exactly like, dude, I'm

629
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: twenty I mean, so ridiculous. And then Scary comes in here,

630
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: and of course he tries to put up this facade

631
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Speaker 1: that he is someone he's not. It's not. No, it

632
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: is true, and you know it. You all know what

633
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. To a point, Scarce, to a point,

634
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: you do try to immerse into a world that you

635
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: seem a little awkward, a different lifestyle though, And it's

636
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Speaker 1: I think it's really good that we have everybody from

637
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: so many different walks of life, because doesn't that then

638
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: appeal to everybody from different walks of life versus just

639
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: a twenty eight year old female. That's what I'm thinking. Yeah,

640
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: So in your question and asking me, should we or

641
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: should we not call you Big Daddy? You can call

642
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 1: me whatever you want, just call me. I was just

643
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Speaker 1: uncomfortable with like the sessuality of it, what the sexuality

644
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: of it, Big Daddy. It sounded very sexual the way

645
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: he said it was like Daddy, and then I felt weird.

646
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 1: I don't find that sexy at all, Big Daddy. So anyway,

647
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: so here's them. Here's my question. Is it okay for

648
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Speaker 1: us just to be ourselves or do we need to

649
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Speaker 1: be something that the research department has told us we

650
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Speaker 1: need to be. I think we ourselves? Yeah, sorry, research,

651
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Speaker 1: Yeah sorry. If we're not ourselves, it's not truthful and

652
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: it doesn't come across right. Don't you think people can

653
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 1: sniff out alive from like so far away if you're

654
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,479
Speaker 1: not being genuine about something. I know it, You know it,

655
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: our listeners know it. Yet I don't want to. I

656
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: can't come in here and be someone I'm not smart. Hey,

657
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Speaker 1: what was the story that came out yesterday about a

658
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Speaker 1: guy excuse me an overprotective boyfriend who gave his girlfriend

659
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Speaker 1: a list of rules for her girls' night out. I

660
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Speaker 1: saw the list and I was dying, I have it

661
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Speaker 1: in here, So it is h I have it in here.

662
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Speaker 1: So I just remember one of the rules was like

663
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Speaker 1: at the end of the night. Please send me a

664
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Speaker 1: picture of your bed so that I know you're in

665
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: it alone. Oh, shut up, get out of here, dude. Yeah,

666
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: jealous much a woman's bow. Look, I'm old. I don't

667
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: even use the word. Bob sends her don't list for girls'

668
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: night out and remind me, I want to talk about

669
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Speaker 1: what you like in a butt that's coming up directions. Yeah,

670
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you as far as butts go, I

671
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Speaker 1: like it just to be nice and curvy, a little simple,

672
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: curvy butt. Okay, all right. Anyway, so she wanted to

673
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: go out with her girlfriends for a girl's night out. Great,

674
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: she deserves that. Yeah, she's she's she is, she is

675
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: who she is. Let leave her be. But anyway, her

676
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 1: boyfriend says, number one, don't don't dance like a slag.

677
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,240
Speaker 1: This must be British. Don't get too drunk. No boys.

678
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Speaker 1: And if anyone comes up to you and talks to you,

679
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Speaker 1: you tell them you have a boyfriend. Oh my gosh,

680
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: look after your drink at all times to make sure

681
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Speaker 1: no one puts anything in it. Well, that's that's very everybody.

682
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Speaker 1: That's a good one. That's a good one. Anyway, So

683
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Speaker 1: he has this list of dudes and don't for the

684
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: girls night out? An don't date this guy? Yeah, I

685
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: don't wait a second, yeah, froggy talk. What if maybe

686
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: there's a chance, maybe there's a past of her getting

687
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: a little out of control or things going south on

688
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,359
Speaker 1: a girls' night out and he's trying to keep that

689
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 1: from happening again. Okay, Okay, I see that, But do

690
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 1: you want to live like that? No? I do not.

691
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: But I'm saying maybe that's why. Maybe there's been a

692
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Speaker 1: press then set and maybe that's why he has to

693
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: do this. We don't know the whole story. I agree that. Yes,

694
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: just looking at it from over the top, it looks

695
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: like an overprotective guy who needs to chill out. But

696
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 1: there could be a reason. But you're that worried about it.

697
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,479
Speaker 1: Just maybe you guys shouldn't date because there's a little

698
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 1: too much going on, right. I couldn't imagine being in

699
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 1: a relationship where you worry about everything like the nope, no,

700
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 1: there's your rules for the night o'babies. You know, we

701
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 1: only have so much real estate in your head. You

702
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 1: only have so much square footage of things to think

703
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: about and worry about. You know, sometimes if you have

704
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: too much to think and worry about, you don't have

705
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 1: enough room to enjoy someone right, You really don't. That's

706
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 1: why I think about two like couples who go through

707
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: each other's phones. The second I felt the need to

708
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Speaker 1: go through a phone, I would feel like the relationship

709
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 1: was over because obviously I don't trust you and there's

710
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: something wrong. I've never gone through a phone in my life.

711
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: I plan on never doing that, although I do have

712
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: a girlfriend who thought she could trust her husband and

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Speaker 1: then accidentally stumbled upon something on his phone found out

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Speaker 1: he was sleeping with. Okay, okay, that's prostitutes happen. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: hold on, things happen. Sometimes. Not all relationships are perfect,

716
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Speaker 1: but even you could be screwing up a perfect relationship

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00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 1: by smothering someone. Number nine on this list. Always send

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Speaker 1: me photos a front and back of what you're wearing

719
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Speaker 1: so I can approve and say whether or not I

720
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: think you should wear it. That's too much, get out

721
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Speaker 1: of her. Even when I'm asleep. Text me to tell

722
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Speaker 1: me things so I can see them in the morning.

723
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Speaker 1: That's kind of okay, I think, No, note I can

724
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,319
Speaker 1: see text me when you get home. Yeah, but don't

725
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: text me all night to tell me what you're can No,

726
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: not like a play by play, but if something cool happens,

727
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: I would want maybe somebody to wake up to that

728
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: number twelve on the list of things. Number twelve on

729
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: the list of things. He tells his girlfriend about going

730
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 1: out with her friends. If you can, if you can

731
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: send a video of the room before you sleep to

732
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,879
Speaker 1: prove no one else is there, whats goodbye? Oh, I'd

733
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: be like, okay, never mind, I back off my stage. Yeah,

734
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: this guy's a jackass. Yeah, let me know everything that

735
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 1: happens and be ready to explain stories. Oh jeezus, hey,

736
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: I took a dump at three pm and then I

737
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: explained myself. Okay, thank you, Danielle. I mean, but what

738
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: do they want? Play by play too much? So if

739
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: you are earn a relationship, we are that you're that nervous.

740
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,280
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what kind of life are you giving yourself?

741
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: I'm worried. I'm just as worried about him as I

742
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: as I am hurt. Oh yeah, something about that little

743
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: relationship right there makes me think they share an Instagram

744
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 1: account speaking of it. You know, we were earlier, earlier,

745
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 1: we're talking about how it takes me an hour to

746
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,479
Speaker 1: walk Max to work when I bring him in because

747
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,280
Speaker 1: he has to stop and sniff and pee on everything.

748
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 1: And you ask me, Daniel, what do they pee on?

749
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Speaker 1: Other dogs? Pee? They do? Urine sniffing urine for dogs.

750
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 1: It's like their social media. It is. It's like it's

751
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 1: like their Instagram. It's their vast. It's more Twitter. Oh yes,

752
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: because they can smell, you're the dogs urine. They can

753
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: smell a lot about that dog and what that dog's

754
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 1: going through health wise. I mean they they smell things

755
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,720
Speaker 1: weak and even fathom them smelling. So it's their social media.

756
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: All right, look cool? That is kind. Aren't you glad

757
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: we don't have that? Yes? O, wait, we do. We do.

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00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 1: It's called we do have it. It's called social media. Okay,

759
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 1: partly I have to go on my phone and check

760
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: the peak. Dogs sniff each other's butts. I'm glad we

761
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: don't do that. When we meet new people. You don't

762
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: need to sniff butts. You've got Instagram. If you get

763
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,359
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Speaker 1: Yeah I can. That's gross, all right, Gandhi. The three

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Speaker 1: the cancelations of lots and lots of flights. I don't

769
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,320
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770
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Speaker 1: The airport has been seeing lots of clashes and there

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Speaker 1: Just in general, some super sad news about the NYPD.

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Speaker 1: Another officer has taken his own life. This is the

775
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776
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Speaker 1: five years old and a seven year veteran. I hear

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Speaker 1: these stories, they make me so so sad. And finally,

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00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,720
Speaker 1: speaking of social media, like you just did. Social media

782
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Speaker 1: already working on other bottles that are made out of

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00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 1: things that are in plastic. Right. And I actually saw

836
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: recently it looked like plastic and it was made of corn.

837
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that was possible, But yeah, I love.

838
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 1: The thing is drinking water out of a corn bottle?

839
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: Is you have to floss anyway. Another thing that Poland

840
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: Spring Water is doing that we're celebrating is the fact

841
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: that you can actually take a picture of something and

842
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: you're that you're questioning about whether or not it's recyclable,

843
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 1: and they will say yes or no. They'll tell you

844
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: they're helping us out. So you can take a picture

845
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: of whatever that item is go to their Instagram at

846
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: Poland Spring water and hashtag not trash n O t

847
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: t r ash and they'll go, no, yeah, recycle that right, Yeah, no,

848
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: I can't recycle that. So it's pretty good. And by

849
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: the way, every time you post a photo on Instagram

850
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: recycling your bob using hashtag not trash, Poland Spring will

851
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: donate another dollar to the recycling partnership of twenty five

852
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: thousand dollars. You know, even their caps are recyclable. Wow,

853
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 1: So we are celebrating Poland Spring today hashtag not trash

854
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,399
Speaker 1: and everything you talk about online, they'll donate another dollar.

855
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: So let's do it. Here we go with your phone tap.

856
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:20,919
Speaker 1: This thing is worth a thousand dollars, thinks to Poland Spring.

857
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,760
Speaker 1: We call on one hundred. Now you win your thousand,

858
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: one eight hundred two four two zero one hundred. Oh,

859
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,439
Speaker 1: it's away back Wednesday. Phone tap, Yes, it is? Whose

860
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: is it scary? It's fine, Elvis Durand. Phone tap all right, scary?

861
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: What's your phone tap all about? Today? Well, we got

862
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: a call from Cindy who said that her dad Curtis,

863
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: hates telephone telemarketers. He just gets completely crazy when he

864
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: encounters them, So we figured we'd put it to the

865
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: test and I would call as mister Michael Oppenheimer selling

866
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: him something crazy. All right, let's see what happens. A

867
00:43:53,840 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 1: call from mister Michael Oppenheimer. I is can you afternoon?

868
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: This is mister Michael Oppenheimer with black Bush Irish whiskey.

869
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 1: How are you doing today, sir? And find yourself. Black

870
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: Bush Irish whiskey has a viscous and rounded, medium to

871
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 1: full bodied taste. Yeah, a roma is reminiscent of fresh

872
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 1: sea air. Are accompanied by rich flavors of molasses and chocolate.

873
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: Are you going to? What's going on here? Three for

874
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty four dollars and sixty eight cents

875
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:30,360
Speaker 1: to three bottles or three cases. I have three bottles

876
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: here for just one hundred twenty four dollars and sixty

877
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 1: eight cents of black Bush Irish whiskey chocolate. What's us?

878
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 1: It's a single malt whiskey and it's married with a

879
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: single grain whiskey. Not interested? Oh, asking afternoon? This is

880
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 1: mister Michael Oppenheimer with black Ya. I told you I'm

881
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 1: not interested. Thanks by, I didn't get to tell you

882
00:44:55,120 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 1: that it was developed in nineteen thirty four, Curtis speaking.

883
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: This is mister Michael Oppenheimer with you're gonna call me.

884
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: I didn't get to tell you that black Bush Irish

885
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: told me all about the whisky smell that cut the script.

886
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: How many would you like to order today? Sir? What

887
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,800
Speaker 1: the hell are you trying to do here? I do

888
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: not need you selling me whiskey, all right? Just to

889
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: suit me back anymore, sir? Just sick of hearing your book, sir?

890
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 1: Just one, sir, you didn't let me finish. Oh, please continue,

891
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: Just one sip and you'll be hooked on the taste

892
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: of black bush. You know they got robots that do

893
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 1: your job much better. Black Bush Irish whiskey is aged

894
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:44,760
Speaker 1: in a sherry oak cask for nine to eleven years

895
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: for that distinctive, full bodied flavor. Why don't you go

896
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 1: and take your black bush and sell it to your

897
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 1: damn mother? How about swirling some black push around in

898
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: your mouth? I told you I'm in. I have been

899
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: cleaning sober now for three years. Do not need any

900
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: more black bush life? Do you understand me? I don't

901
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 1: think you're understanding. It's bottled at eighty proof and it's

902
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: deleting super come down there and shows so much black

903
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: bushed down you you're gonna be dagging on it from base.

904
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 1: Oh buy it? Christ Togen with you, Juliet. It's black bush?

905
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 1: Are you time? You wasting on me? You could have

906
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: been a hammering black bushman throat to any drunk you

907
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 1: sign at the bar. Sir, my name is mister Michael Oppenheimer,

908
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: and this is the superior premium Irish whiskey. And what's her?

909
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:39,919
Speaker 1: Black Bush Irish whiskey might be good for your mom.

910
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: She doesn't drink either. Would your mother like black bush?

911
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: She drinks water? What about for your wife? My wife

912
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: doesn't need any black Bush or your wines, or your

913
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: sheer pains, or your beverages or your carbinated alcohol like

914
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 1: this that you and your wife would just love the

915
00:46:55,400 --> 00:47:01,439
Speaker 1: subtle sherry sweetness of black bush. It's so smooth. Hello,

916
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: this is mister Michael. Sir, you're very angry. You could

917
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: definitely use some of this whiskey to calm you down

918
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 1: just a little bit. A man with a handful of

919
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 1: black Bush is a very happy man. Bit, Sir, we're

920
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: running a sale today. If you buy three bottles of

921
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 1: black Bitch yeah, I'm a friend. I got this guy

922
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: calling me and a friend. I don't know what it is.

923
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: Are you still there? You obviously don't know anyone with

924
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: black Bush, otherwise you'd be ordering this. I don't know

925
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 1: anybody with black Bush. Buddy, What credit card would you

926
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,839
Speaker 1: like to use today? I don't have any credit card.

927
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 1: I don't have any wallet. I leave in a cardboard box,

928
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: but not a fact. I stole this bone. So if

929
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: you call back, you're gonna be arrested as an excess.

930
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: So leave me alone before you go. I think I

931
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 1: should tell you you've been phone tapped yourself. Hey, Curtis,

932
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: this is Scary Jones from Elvis to Rand in the

933
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: Morning Show, and your daughter Cindy's playing a phone tap

934
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 1: on you. What is this again? It's a radio prank.

935
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: Put Sindy on the phone. She had to go into

936
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 1: a meeting, but she enjoyed the meeting. I'm going to

937
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: run her down, and there it was. You're one thousand

938
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 1: dollars Poland Spring free money phone tap thousand dollars. There's

939
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: a lot of money and doing it every day this week.

940
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 1: Hey Cindy, Oh my god, Cindy is calling from Bethlehem.

941
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 1: I let me ask you a question. Do you have

942
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: room at the end? Are you tired of Bethlehem? Jokes?

943
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: Very beautiful Bethlehem, Pennsylvania is a gorgeous place with gorgeous people.

944
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: Obviously you're the most gorgeous there. Hey, Cindy, good news.

945
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: You just won one thousand dollars. Oh my god, I'm

946
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 1: gonna cry. Why are you crying? I'm just I don't know.

947
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: I guess my last line, I'm I don't have a job.

948
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: I've been looking for a job, and literally this is

949
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: going to help with bills and my son. And I'm

950
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: going to cry. I get it now, I get it.

951
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: You know what? Sendy? You hang in there. I'm so

952
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,720
Speaker 1: happy we could send this to you. A thousand dollars

953
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: is on the way, you know what. How lucky and

954
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,240
Speaker 1: how fortunate you are that you were calling one hundred.

955
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: It's just so amazing. Thank you so much too. Now

956
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 1: you hear this story, try to tell me that the

957
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: universe had nothing to do with this. Seriously, thank you Universe. Anyway,

958
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: enjoy your thousand, Cindy. We do appreciate you listening. And

959
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:44,359
Speaker 1: you hang in there, and you and I bet you're

960
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: the world's best mom to your son. I bet you anything.

961
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: I bet you a thousand dollars. Thank you so much.

962
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: You're so welcome. Hold on one second. I love that.

963
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,720
Speaker 1: I love that. All right, we have another one thousand

964
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: dollars free money phone tap tomorrow thanks to Poland Spring.

965
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 1: Now great tea. Got all hockey walking in here. As

966
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:03,919
Speaker 1: you know, our friend Matthew Hussey is on the way. Yeah,

967
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: he's got great advice, just great advice for dating and whatever.

968
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: Lifestyle lifestyle, your lifestyle advice guy, and uh he walks in, goes, well,

969
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: who do you think he is when you have me

970
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: here every day? Yeah? Who says? Who says that he's

971
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: an expert? I don't get it because he sells. He

972
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 1: sells out conventions, and that's because he's on our show.

973
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: We prop them up and make it. You know. Oh

974
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: my god, you're saying that you have just as much,

975
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: or if not more, better advice than Matthew Hussey when

976
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 1: it comes to relationship. Yeah, I think that I give

977
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 1: like real life you know answers. I'm not gonna sugarcoat it.

978
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell people I don't I don't feel I

979
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: don't feel Matthew sugar coach anything at all. I think

980
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 1: he actually he actually scold it, scolds us. My resume

981
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: spans for itsself, for itself. What my resume stands for itself? Resume?

982
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: You have done nothing, done nothing. I have dated Trish

983
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 1: for five years. I'm married for sixteen. I have two daughters.

984
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,720
Speaker 1: I was a school crossing guard. I was vice president

985
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 1: of school of student government. I was the president of

986
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: my fraternity. My resume is huge. You tell us all

987
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 1: the time how miserable you are in life, how you

988
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 1: don't like your family, and how you want to cheat.

989
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 1: So those are great qualities for yeah, for a relationship.

990
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: What's that? Gandhi? Uh t? You actually had a conversation

991
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: with me about the importance of things that I need

992
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: to do to keep a man. And I'm gonna say,

993
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 1: you were so off base. Okay, okay, what did he

994
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: tell you? What did he tell you you needed to

995
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: do to keep a man? There were certain by the way,

996
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: question who wants to quote unquote keep a man? Thank you?

997
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: And I didn't even bring it up. He just like

998
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 1: spun around in his chair. One day. I was like,

999
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Yeah, you want to get

1000
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: a man and keep a man. This is what you

1001
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 1: need to do. That's what he told me. How I

1002
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: got my husband? Yeah, he told me. You went on

1003
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: to say that by the time I turned thirty, or

1004
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: I'm a man turns thirty, everything's gonna go downhill and

1005
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: we're all just gonna hate each other. So there's certain

1006
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: acts that need to be performed, neat to happen. Now,

1007
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 1: that's right, that's okay. Okay, I'm telling you right now,

1008
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: bad advice. But okay, I have someone on the phone.

1009
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: I believe her name is Bea Becca. Hi, Hi, Becka,

1010
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 1: thanks for listening today. I know I know you were

1011
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: calling for another reason and we kind of detoured you

1012
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 1: off to this. Do you have a question. Do you

1013
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: have relationship advice questions for Greg T the expert? Yeah,

1014
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: test out my skills. Okay, go ahead, Becka. So I

1015
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 1: go to school in California, UM, and I was seeing

1016
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: someone in the fall semester UM, but it wasn't ever

1017
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 1: long enough to make it official. And then the guy

1018
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: I was seeing went to study abroad. UM. And then

1019
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:51,880
Speaker 1: we've both been on the East Coast for the summer. UM.

1020
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 1: He's been in DC and I've been in New York, Um.

1021
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 1: But we haven't seen each other. So when I get

1022
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: back to school, should I assume a worse still together?

1023
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 1: Or do I owe him a phone call? Yeah? Where

1024
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: are they in this relationship? This is seriously such a problem.

1025
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, here's my advice to you, Becca. I

1026
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: need you to look into a mirror and talk to

1027
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 1: yourself and tell yourself everything you just told me. And

1028
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: here's the answer you're gonna get. No, it's over to

1029
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: simply put, he has moved on. You have moved on.

1030
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: You haven't even seen him all summer. I don't think

1031
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 1: you owe him a conversation, and he doesn't owe you anything.

1032
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: I think you guys are two young adults that are

1033
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 1: mature enough to figure out this relationship is going nowhere. Well,

1034
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:41,960
Speaker 1: there isn't. It's on hold. I mean, this is the problem.

1035
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 1: See what you've done. You see what you just did.

1036
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:46,600
Speaker 1: You just eliminated the possibility of a relationship here. But

1037
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:52,359
Speaker 1: there is no possibility there. If for some reason, if

1038
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 1: you go back to college and if you see him

1039
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: in college and you guys are chit chatting like in

1040
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 1: this school union building or something, you know, then maybe

1041
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 1: something sparks. But as of right now, there's nothing. She

1042
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: asked you if she should reach out and maybe like

1043
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 1: see if there's anything still there. No way, Becca, you're

1044
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 1: too good for this. It's over all right, Danielle. Yeah, yeah,

1045
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: what's your advice? I do think that she should reach out?

1046
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 1: Why not? Why not? Don't you understand this is the

1047
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:23,959
Speaker 1: problem here, ladies, there's no problem. Ladies have the hand

1048
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: in every relationship if they just realize that they have

1049
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,919
Speaker 1: hand and that they're stronger than the man they hand.

1050
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:33,839
Speaker 1: They do they do? You know what you have? Thank

1051
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:36,479
Speaker 1: God you have hand. You never have sex every every

1052
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 1: Friday gone. You thought about Great Tea's advice. I think

1053
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: you're wrong about the advice. I think that Danielle's more

1054
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:44,839
Speaker 1: on the right track, Like let's wait and see. Maybe

1055
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 1: they want to talk when they get back together. Maybe

1056
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: they just had a fun summer apart, and she should

1057
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: realized they miss each other. You should, Becca, You should

1058
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: be on social media right now, swipe and left, right

1059
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: all over the place. Stopped. I'm telling you, she's sitting

1060
00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 1: there holding on to something that's been gone the problem. Becca,

1061
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: Do you think his advice is any good or do

1062
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: you is a part of your thing. I'm gonna call

1063
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:05,919
Speaker 1: him and just see what happens. If something happens great,

1064
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 1: If not, whatever, I think I'll call him. Why not

1065
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: have to lose. Let me tell you one last thing, Becca, Honestly,

1066
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: if the sex was good, he would have called you back. God,

1067
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: how stupid ro you lose? You get nothing? Roy's fine, sir, exactly,

1068
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 1: That's how men think about Okay, Becca, thank you for

1069
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:38,319
Speaker 1: listening and my advice, our advice other than great tea

1070
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 1: is you know, just reach out to say hi, and

1071
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 1: if something's there, you pick it up from there. I

1072
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 1: think that's the best idea. You have nothing to lose scenario.

1073
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,279
Speaker 1: Thank you, Becca, You're exactly where you are in the

1074
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 1: expert Matthew Hussey see what he wants to say. Okay.

1075
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: By the way, yes, the texts all agree with Greg Tea.

1076
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: I see no get out of here, get out of here.

1077
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:10,280
Speaker 1: I mean he didn't make a couple of valid points,

1078
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 1: but he's not an expert. I think he had one

1079
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: valid point where if the sex was that fire, maybe

1080
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 1: he would have called back beside and beside that you

1081
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 1: don't have a British accent. You'll never you'll never be

1082
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 1: better than Okay, the doors there, let's find it jas

1083
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: on the way out. Which wrong, We're like, okay, we

1084
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:33,359
Speaker 1: haven't been together. I'll just give him a call, see

1085
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,359
Speaker 1: what happens. What's wrong with that? I don't see anything

1086
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: wrong with that rule schmools. Yeah, all right, great teeth.

1087
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: Great Teeth's career as relationship expert has ended. I love

1088
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 1: it done. Which Matthew coming on? Yeah, yeah, yeah, Matthew

1089
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: Husty come coming up next call now if you want advice. Also,

1090
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 1: the Danielle Report coming up probably within the next twenty

1091
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 1: or thirty minutes. I don't know what this is. Justin

1092
00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:00,080
Speaker 1: timber Lake, Hey there sex and you're listening to was

1093
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 1: Duran Elvis Durand in the morning show sh Hey, guy's

1094
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: bedtime is sometimes a battle for both you and your kids.

1095
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: For instance, my daughter Ella, she struggles sometimes to fall asleep. Well,

1096
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 1: fortunately Trish and I have now discovered Vic's pures E's

1097
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 1: Kids melotonin gummies to help her fall asleep. Naturally find

1098
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 1: pures E's Kids in stores everywhere. I think Elvis is

1099
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 1: hilarious on the spot. He always has something funny to say.

1100
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, hysterical, so funny. It'll make me smile

1101
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 1: so confusing. Oh my gosh, I'm so excited to be

1102
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 1: on the phone with you right now. No, no, no,

1103
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 1: all the excitement is out. I'm leaving. I'm walking away.

1104
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: I like to hear that other people have issues too.

1105
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: I love the feeling of a cute tip in my ear, hysterical, hysterically,

1106
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 1: I love it. Stick that in your pipe and stop it, Sylvis,

1107
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 1: do show you know. The great thing one of the

1108
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: many great things about our friend Matthew Hussey is he

1109
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 1: always has an invitation to be in this room because

1110
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 1: he's a member of our family. Yeah, always has been,

1111
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: always will be. And so he walks in and says, well,

1112
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,440
Speaker 1: you haven't invited me in a while. We don't invite

1113
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 1: our family now. I feel very honor to be considered

1114
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: part of the family, please. I have for a long time,

1115
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: which is why, you know, sometimes it's just, you know,

1116
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: you like to be told we still love you, Okay,

1117
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 1: we still love you. We always will. You know a

1118
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: lot of people don't know that. You know, we've had

1119
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: our own private Elvis dur In morning show meetings and

1120
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 1: uh little conventions and just for us, and Matthew's a

1121
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: part of that, and he's you're you're a very important

1122
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: part of our family. So thank you. So stop it. Hey,

1123
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 1: you know, as far as relationships go, and let's start

1124
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: with commitment, there's a spectrum relationships. It all starts with

1125
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 1: eye to eye contact with a stranger across the room,

1126
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: turns to flirtation, turns to getting to know each other,

1127
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: and it always at the opposite end of the spectrum

1128
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 1: is total momitment, marriage, future, whatever. And Matthew is going

1129
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 1: to be at the wedding in one month. I never

1130
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: thought a million years and even at fifty four years old,

1131
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 1: I'm committing my life to someone. How does it feel?

1132
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 1: It feels, you know, it's fun, it's great. I love him,

1133
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: I'm in love with him, and he takes good care

1134
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: of me and I need him in my life as

1135
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: I know he needs me in his life. So there's

1136
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: definitely that back to back in the woods protecting each

1137
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: other thing. But we're talking earlier, Matthew about commitment, and

1138
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: we're talking about commitment as far as tattoos go, So

1139
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: one said, hey, you keep saying you want a tattoo.

1140
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 1: You never get a tattoo, And I said, out loud,

1141
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:35,960
Speaker 1: without thinking about Oh, that's such a commitment to tattoo,

1142
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, I'm getting married. Yes, commitment.

1143
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: You know, I had a conversation with someone about their

1144
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 1: tattoos recently because I've always said the same thing, they

1145
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: terrify me. I don't dislike tattoos. I actually like them

1146
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 1: on other people. Just the idea of me. Like the

1147
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 1: comparison I've always made is I've never bought a piece

1148
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: of clothing. I've liked my whole life, right Ever, so

1149
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: why would I think there's something I'm going to put

1150
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 1: on my body I'll like my whole life. And then

1151
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 1: someone who who has a lot of them said to me, Yeah,

1152
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 1: but one of the things that's important to me is

1153
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 1: I don't feel committed to the same meaning of my

1154
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: tattoo my whole life. Right. So I have the tattoo,

1155
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:23,479
Speaker 1: but it might I might have a different symbolic meaning

1156
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 1: to me this year than it did last year. I

1157
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 1: constantly reinvent the meanings, and that to me is actually

1158
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 1: the key to commitment. Whether it's a job or a

1159
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 1: relationship or whatever. It's the people that truly stay committed

1160
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 1: to things are the people that don't just rely on

1161
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 1: the old meanings. Ah, but you see, a tattoo is

1162
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 1: a permanent looking thing. It is what it is, and

1163
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 1: you can change the meaning in your mind. But people,

1164
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: you're talking about a relationship between two people. You're talking

1165
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 1: about two people in two different lanes who are experiencing

1166
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 1: life at different speeds. You may be committed to a

1167
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: relationship for one minute and the next minute it's like, well,

1168
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 1: wait a minute, it's not what it used to be.

1169
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 1: And there's nothing wrong with that. That's just the way

1170
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 1: it is. You should never feel like a fail you're

1171
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: getting out of a relationship. That's why when relationships end

1172
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 1: or like im mine have I've done everything I can

1173
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 1: to say, hey, you know what, we hate each other

1174
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: right now, but let's think about all the good things

1175
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 1: we learn from each other in this relationship. And it

1176
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: always landed on a softer, a softer bed. But don't

1177
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:29,600
Speaker 1: you think it's don't you think even in marriage it's

1178
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 1: people have to kind of wake up and say, what's

1179
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: my wife for being in this relationship today? Like we

1180
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: can't rely on the same reason we started it being

1181
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: the reason that's relevant to me now, it's got to be.

1182
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 1: It's like anything, it's what's my where's the meaning coming

1183
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 1: from right now? But I agree with you, there's too

1184
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 1: many people that have lost any reason to be in

1185
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 1: a relationship and there's still in that relationship. Your collar

1186
01:01:53,320 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: is bothering me? Fix my collar anytime you want fixed?

1187
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: His caller all right. So, Matthew has been a part

1188
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:05,840
Speaker 1: of our show for so many years, and it seems

1189
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 1: like there's always a new headline every year about where

1190
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 1: relationships are going. I don't want to say there's a

1191
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: new trend in relationships, but what are you seeing now?

1192
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,480
Speaker 1: When you do your incredible Matthew Hussey get togethers with

1193
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 1: people and you sell them out, what is like the

1194
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 1: biggest question trending right now or thought that you're tackling.

1195
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 1: There's okay, there's a couple. Firstly, for anyone out there

1196
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: who doesn't know me, there's like a quick story that

1197
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 1: I've realized tells the story of the last ten years

1198
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 1: of what I've done. The first is when I got

1199
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: into this, my kind of blunt approach as a guide

1200
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 1: to helping women in their dating lives, which is what

1201
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: I've done for a decade now, was women need to

1202
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: create more options because when you don't have options, you

1203
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 1: make poor choices. So then I would say, Okay, to

1204
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: create more options, you've got to make the move. Women

1205
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: would say to me, I don't feel like I should

1206
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 1: make the move. I feel like he should make the

1207
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 1: move because I'm old fashioned. I then say, then you

1208
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: have no idea what old fashioned really is, because old

1209
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 1: fashioned was one hundred years ago. A guy standing there

1210
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:06,440
Speaker 1: that you liked, a woman walking past him, seeing that

1211
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 1: she was attracted, and then dropping her handkerchief. She would

1212
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: keep walking. The guy would see the handkerchief, he'd pick

1213
01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 1: it up and think, this is an extraordinary opportunity to

1214
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: be a man. He'd walk the handkerchief over and he'd say, madam,

1215
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: you dropped this, and she'd say did I? And they'd

1216
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:25,800
Speaker 1: now have a conversation, a conversation that he thought was

1217
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: his idea, But it wasn't his idea. She chose him.

1218
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 1: So when I started this ten years ago, I said

1219
01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 1: to women, I'm not asking you to go and do

1220
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 1: all of the work for the guy. I'm just asking

1221
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 1: you to learn how to drop the handkerchief. Right, you

1222
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 1: can still allow him to think it was his idea,

1223
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: but you got to drop the handkerchief. So I started

1224
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: giving women ways to drop the handkerchief, and one of

1225
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: the most important ways to drop the handkerchief is just

1226
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: to be warmer. I think there's a genuine lack of

1227
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 1: warmth in so many people when they're out and about.

1228
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: So I would get people to Okay, first, go out,

1229
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: we're atoms. Just need to collide, right. Go out to

1230
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: places where atoms can collide. Stand in high traffic areas

1231
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 1: of that place. Don't go to the table in the

1232
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 1: corner of the room. Go somewhere where everyone has to

1233
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 1: pass by you to get to the bathroom ten times

1234
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: in a night, and work up the courage, and then finally,

1235
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:15,800
Speaker 1: on their fifth go around, they can speak to you.

1236
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 1: And lastly, make a lot of eye contact and smile

1237
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 1: a lot, because often that eye contact, that extra smile

1238
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:24,520
Speaker 1: is the thing that makes the difference between someone being

1239
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 1: brave enough to do something and not. Now, that was

1240
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: phase one of my company. Here's why I realized people

1241
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 1: would do this. They would start to get more attention

1242
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 1: than they had before. But then the very dangerous thing

1243
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 1: that started happening was they would overvalue the attention they got.

1244
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 1: And this brings us to your question, because where we

1245
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:47,280
Speaker 1: are today right now is too many people getting some

1246
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 1: attention and then mistaking attention for investment. So they're going

1247
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 1: too fast, they're going to they're giving too much too

1248
01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:00,040
Speaker 1: fast because they're basing how much they give someone on

1249
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: how much they like them. They're basing it on an infatuation.

1250
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:07,280
Speaker 1: Give us an example, Well, I think we all build

1251
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: stories in our minds. So we go out and we

1252
01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: feel something. On a date, we feel a greater level

1253
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:15,760
Speaker 1: of like the narrative in our mind is we go

1254
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 1: home and we go They're the first person in a

1255
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 1: long time who That is a dangerous sentence because that

1256
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 1: sentence is based on feeling, not fact. Right, they're the

1257
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:29,919
Speaker 1: first person who's made me feel excited. Okay, that's great,

1258
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: but that's a feeling. The fact is you just had

1259
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: a date. It doesn't mean anything. It doesn't mean this

1260
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 1: person is going to now try and there are too

1261
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:41,920
Speaker 1: many people. One of the great issues of dating right

1262
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,360
Speaker 1: now is people who want to be in a serious

1263
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 1: relationship who are stuck in a casual relationship and these

1264
01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: people that they're dating aren't giving them what they want,

1265
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 1: but they're not paying attention to that because they're just

1266
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: so engrossed in the feeling that they get from it.

1267
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: And what I've been saying to people is, does here's

1268
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: good a good one? Does your relationship work on mute?

1269
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: So imagine that you and the person you're dating right

1270
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 1: now are two characters on a screen. You're in a movie, okay, now,

1271
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: when the music's turned up and you hear the beautiful

1272
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: romantic soundtrack and you hear the words that they say

1273
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:21,919
Speaker 1: to each other, and he's saying, you know, I miss

1274
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 1: you so much and thinking of you, what are you

1275
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 1: doing right now? Blah blah blah. When you hear all

1276
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 1: of this with the music, it all sounds romantic. But

1277
01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 1: if everyone out there right now imagines the relationship they're

1278
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 1: in or the casual situation they're in, and now you

1279
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 1: mute the TV and you don't hear the romantic music

1280
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 1: and you don't hear the words they're saying to each other,

1281
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 1: and all you see is these two actors. Is it

1282
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 1: still romantic to watch now? Or is it just two

1283
01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: people who don't see each other that much or aren't

1284
01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 1: try or one of them's not trying that hard, one

1285
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 1: of them's pining the other, one's just off doing their

1286
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 1: own thing. Is it's still romantic on mute. And the

1287
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 1: reason I say that is too many people are being

1288
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 1: seduced by people's words and completely ignoring their actions. Wow.

1289
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: Interesting because you could be on date number five with

1290
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 1: someone and you have this feeling that you so are

1291
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 1: into them and you would just do anything to get

1292
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 1: down with them and get funky with them whatever and uh,

1293
01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 1: and you rate them at like number ten on like

1294
01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:24,680
Speaker 1: at a tan and but you never really listen to

1295
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:26,560
Speaker 1: what they say. It's all about what you're thinking and

1296
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 1: feeling inside you exactly. It's a two way thing. Relationships

1297
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:33,760
Speaker 1: are tough, they're rough. I had I had someone right

1298
01:07:33,840 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 1: to me literally just yesterday on Instagram to say, there's

1299
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 1: this guy I really like. He wants me to go

1300
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 1: to his house for a date. I I like him

1301
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: a lot, but I want something serious. And I asked him,

1302
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 1: I said I want something serious, and he said I

1303
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 1: just want friendship and fun, which we know what that means.

1304
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 1: And she then she said, should I go to his house? No? Why?

1305
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:03,480
Speaker 1: How is that even a question. But here's the problem

1306
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 1: is that when we see things from the outside, the

1307
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 1: answer is obvious. When we're close to it, we go crazy,

1308
01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 1: we start we're drunk like and that this is the

1309
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:18,560
Speaker 1: story of relationships all over is people are drunk in

1310
01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 1: this relationship and you lose any sense of what you

1311
01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:28,240
Speaker 1: really should do and how you should uphold your standards. Hey, Kristen, Yes,

1312
01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 1: you're first up to bat with Matthew Hussey. H don't don't,

1313
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 1: don't freak out. Okay, go ahead, freak out. So online dating,

1314
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:40,040
Speaker 1: all right, Yes, we're living in the world of online dating.

1315
01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 1: We have been for many years now. You think things

1316
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:44,559
Speaker 1: go great online and then you meet them in person,

1317
01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:47,479
Speaker 1: in person, and then then it all just kind of

1318
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: evaporates right for you anyway, Yeah, that in the sense

1319
01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 1: or even we'll meet somebody online, I'll talk to them,

1320
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 1: you know, weeks, two weeks, you make plans to hang

1321
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:59,320
Speaker 1: out and then all of a sudden you speak Kristen,

1322
01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: are you speaking to them on the phone? Um? Yes,

1323
01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:06,000
Speaker 1: speaking to my own phone, facetiming, text messages, the whole everything,

1324
01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden it's just like we

1325
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: have planned. Oh sorry, something came up, and then you

1326
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 1: never hear from them again. Okay. So firstly, I like

1327
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: the fact that you're doing phone and FaceTime as well,

1328
01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 1: because a lot of people aren't doing that. And I

1329
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 1: really believe most people. I think most of the time

1330
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 1: we should not go on a date in person with

1331
01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 1: someone if we haven't had a phone call or FaceTime.

1332
01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 1: But let's say he does, he goes to you at

1333
01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:28,560
Speaker 1: the last minute, or he flakes, what do you do?

1334
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:33,720
Speaker 1: Then I'm curious. So generally, if they can't, you know,

1335
01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:37,120
Speaker 1: a day later, apologize, I'll give the second chance. The

1336
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:39,280
Speaker 1: second chance is it though? That's as far as I go.

1337
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 1: But generally it hasn't even gone to that point because

1338
01:09:42,560 --> 01:09:45,439
Speaker 1: I will interest that right. But wait when you say that,

1339
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 1: But it's unfortunate because I gave at interest I found

1340
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 1: about waking for this person, and then all of a sudden,

1341
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:55,680
Speaker 1: it's just it's gone. Yeah, it's hurtful, and it's it's

1342
01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 1: very disappointing. I understand that. But when he ghosts you,

1343
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 1: did he literally just not show up to the date,

1344
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 1: or he told you twenty minutes before the date, I

1345
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: can't make it twenty minutes before the date, I can't

1346
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:10,639
Speaker 1: make it. And what did you say in that moment?

1347
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 1: I was like, um, okay, have a great night, Okay,

1348
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 1: because it's not worth the argument. Okay, but what if

1349
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: you were just more honest and authentic than that. What

1350
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 1: if instead of saying okay, have a great night, which

1351
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:29,840
Speaker 1: doesn't communic communicates a kind of some feelings and a

1352
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 1: slight passive aggression. But what if instead you said, uh,

1353
01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:38,320
Speaker 1: you know, that's a shame. I was excited to see you. Um,

1354
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, you know, there was a

1355
01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 1: shame I was. I was excited to see and it's like,

1356
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:49,599
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so sorry. It wasn't untentional. Something

1357
01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:51,800
Speaker 1: came up last me. And then I'll be like, okay,

1358
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:54,720
Speaker 1: well at least thanks for letting me know, and then

1359
01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 1: I just want ever hear from them again. Why would

1360
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:58,600
Speaker 1: you fold angles? I've been on my dating for a

1361
01:10:58,640 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 1: long time unfortunately, point, why would you even want to

1362
01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 1: carry it any further? If he just said screw you

1363
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 1: twenty minutes before the date happened, why would you even

1364
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 1: want to deal with him anymore? There are degrees, right,

1365
01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: So the answer to that one is, yeah, why would you?

1366
01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 1: But let's say there's a very common scenario where a

1367
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:18,919
Speaker 1: guy is he asks you out. Let's say this Saturday.

1368
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 1: It gets to Saturday and he's your It gets to

1369
01:11:22,040 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 1: midday and he hasn't texted you. You then text and say, hey,

1370
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:26,840
Speaker 1: are we still good for tonight? What's going on? And

1371
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:29,360
Speaker 1: he sends a message and says, yeah, we're on for tonight.

1372
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:31,439
Speaker 1: I'm going to let you know because I'm just figuring

1373
01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 1: out a thing, and then I'm gonna tell you what

1374
01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:35,760
Speaker 1: time and blah blah blah. It's kind of a flaky response. Yes,

1375
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 1: the date's on, but there's a flakiness to it, very flaky, right,

1376
01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:43,679
Speaker 1: And that's the response that generally always happened. I really

1377
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:46,719
Speaker 1: believe that we should be much more honest with people

1378
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 1: in general and say to them. You know, it gets

1379
01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:52,719
Speaker 1: to six o'clock and you say to that person proactively, hey,

1380
01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:54,880
Speaker 1: I was excited about tonight, but I don't really know

1381
01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 1: what's going on because you haven't really made it doesn't

1382
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:58,720
Speaker 1: seem like you've got a plan, and I don't have

1383
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:02,880
Speaker 1: a time, so I'm a little confused. That's it now.

1384
01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:05,840
Speaker 1: The nice thing about that is he can either come

1385
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 1: back and be just as flaky, at which point you say,

1386
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:11,560
Speaker 1: you know, let's do this another time, or you know,

1387
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: I'll see you another time because I'm not feeling it

1388
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 1: anymore tonight, or he's going to come back and be like,

1389
01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're so right. I'm sorry, I'll see you.

1390
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to pick you up at eight, and he

1391
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: gets better. I think so many of us are being

1392
01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 1: so guarded with our feelings that we're not even show

1393
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:30,240
Speaker 1: we're not even shining a light on the elephant in

1394
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 1: the room, which is that you're being difficult, you're being flaky,

1395
01:12:33,080 --> 01:12:35,560
Speaker 1: you're not showing up for this or whatever. And we

1396
01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 1: do far better if we had an authentic approach to

1397
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:41,440
Speaker 1: how we actually feel. The problem is people think authenticity

1398
01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:43,120
Speaker 1: is weak, like, oh, if I tell him I was

1399
01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: excited about tonight or whatever, that's vulnerable. And vulnerable means

1400
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 1: he now knows that I like him as much as

1401
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:50,000
Speaker 1: I do. No, it doesn't. All that means is I

1402
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:54,439
Speaker 1: was excited about tonight. You can rapidly become unexcited about

1403
01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:58,240
Speaker 1: someone based on what they do next. So authenticity and

1404
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:02,400
Speaker 1: by the way, meet people out there in the rail world. Two,

1405
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 1: why are you just online? Day? And would be my question, Wow,

1406
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 1: we gotta take a break coming up. Pam is at

1407
01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:12,400
Speaker 1: a crossroads, move in or break up. Plus, let's talk

1408
01:13:12,439 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 1: about love myths. We think we know it all. No,

1409
01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 1: we don't. Okay, this is Harry Riah, Harry, what's up?

1410
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:23,719
Speaker 1: This is Pink and you're listening to Elvis Duran Elvis

1411
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 1: Duran in the Morning. Hey guys, bedtime is sometimes a

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1418
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 1: You know, our buddy Matthew Hussey hasn't been hearing quite

1419
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 1: some time. But you wouldn't know that because we have, uh,

1420
01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:57,840
Speaker 1: my assistant Andrew, My assistant Andrew, who does the best

1421
01:13:57,960 --> 01:14:02,960
Speaker 1: Matthew Hussey impersonation. Not true to you, No, no here,

1422
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:08,240
Speaker 1: oh Matthew Andrew. It's like it's like an English Michael Jackson.

1423
01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:14,240
Speaker 1: It's very strange. Okay, so Matthew, just give me like

1424
01:14:14,400 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 1: a ten seconds of the butterfly go Well. I have

1425
01:14:19,479 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 1: this theory that real love is the idea that when

1426
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 1: a butterfly lands in your hand, you don't try and

1427
01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 1: suffocate it. You don't try and hold onto it for

1428
01:14:29,600 --> 01:14:33,160
Speaker 1: dear life. That instead, you put one hand up to

1429
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:36,240
Speaker 1: shield it from the wind, and the butterfly stays in

1430
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 1: your hand, not because it has to, but because it

1431
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:43,600
Speaker 1: sees the value in staying. That's a true relationship and

1432
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:45,599
Speaker 1: it's a beautiful thought. You made me cry the first

1433
01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 1: time you told that story, and since you haven't been

1434
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 1: in a while, we had Andrew, Andrew tell me about

1435
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:54,000
Speaker 1: the butterfly. You know, I often think the same thing.

1436
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 1: It's important to shield your love like a butterfly and

1437
01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 1: really trying convey that love, open it up to the

1438
01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:07,160
Speaker 1: wind and let it fly away. It's extraordinary, do I. Firstly,

1439
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:17,000
Speaker 1: sometimes I pronounced teas not true, so in your absence,

1440
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 1: Andrew has been. Of course, he knows nothing about love. No,

1441
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 1: I actually am lonely and single, So thank you person. Ever, No,

1442
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:32,560
Speaker 1: don't make me feel sorry for you after you've just

1443
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:43,200
Speaker 1: mocked me. Mocking Matthew. There's my name pronounced with two f's, Matthew, Matthew.

1444
01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:51,360
Speaker 1: I love you, Andrew, thank you, it's Andrew, Thank you, Matthew, Andrew.

1445
01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 1: Line seven is Pam. I've been dying to get to

1446
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:59,759
Speaker 1: this call Pam. Oh my god, Hello, she's on an airplane. Pam,

1447
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 1: thank you for holding for so long. Yep, you are

1448
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:07,599
Speaker 1: fourteen years older than your boyfriend, right, yep, and you're

1449
01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:10,240
Speaker 1: ready to take some next step? But what does that

1450
01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:17,360
Speaker 1: mean for you? Next step? So? Um? I feel like

1451
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 1: life is short? So why? I mean, we've been together

1452
01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 1: for four years, took a break for about a year,

1453
01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 1: year and a half, but state friends and he's he's

1454
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:29,879
Speaker 1: still to say, one of my best friends. And everything

1455
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 1: has gotten better. Communication, sex, everything is better. But he's superguarded.

1456
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 1: So if a stranger walks by with the dog, he

1457
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:39,680
Speaker 1: immediately is like, oh my god, I love you, I

1458
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 1: love you, love you to this dog. And yet after

1459
01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:46,280
Speaker 1: four years he finally can say it to me. Right, So,

1460
01:16:47,360 --> 01:16:50,599
Speaker 1: I you know, I'm at the point now where it's like, okay,

1461
01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 1: should we I think we should move in together? And

1462
01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 1: at least, what's the harm, there's nothing to lose. What

1463
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:00,240
Speaker 1: does he What does he say back to you when

1464
01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:02,840
Speaker 1: you say, hey, next step, natural progression of things, let's

1465
01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:04,640
Speaker 1: move in with each other? What does he say? How

1466
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 1: does he respond? He's scared, He's like, I don't know

1467
01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:10,400
Speaker 1: if I'm ready for that. But yet he's not happy

1468
01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 1: where he is, so he's just really scared. So have

1469
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 1: you said to him, well, at what point do you

1470
01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 1: think that will change for you? Do you have an

1471
01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:24,160
Speaker 1: idea of what timeline you're interested in moving in together?

1472
01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 1: Because that's something that's important to me in a long

1473
01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 1: term relationship. I didn't say it quite like that. I

1474
01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:36,920
Speaker 1: kind of said, I'm not going to ask you again,

1475
01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:41,040
Speaker 1: but I also don't want to wait another year and

1476
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 1: then and then what hong? When was the last time

1477
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 1: you said that? Saturday? Okay, So look, here's one of

1478
01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 1: the common misconceptions that really gets people hurt is that

1479
01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 1: it's not enough for two people to enjoy each other's

1480
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 1: company or to think that each other are amazing. You

1481
01:18:05,320 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 1: also have to have lives that are in sync on

1482
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 1: some level. You have to have goals that that synergize,

1483
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 1: you know, you have to want the same things on

1484
01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:18,000
Speaker 1: a you know, on one level. So for you to

1485
01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:20,320
Speaker 1: be wanting to move in with this person and he

1486
01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:24,479
Speaker 1: doesn't might make him wrong for you. Like it, just

1487
01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:27,519
Speaker 1: because you have a great connection with this guy, it

1488
01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 1: doesn't make him right for you if his goals are different,

1489
01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:32,599
Speaker 1: he's a different stage of life. Or he's too scared

1490
01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 1: to actually go to the next stage. It doesn't make

1491
01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:37,320
Speaker 1: him right for you. And all over the world there

1492
01:18:37,360 --> 01:18:41,320
Speaker 1: are people who think that the person they're connected to

1493
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:45,280
Speaker 1: is right for them simply because they have a great connection.

1494
01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:49,559
Speaker 1: But that's not true. Do you see what I'm saying? Sure,

1495
01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 1: so it's extraordinary in this why Pam and in Matthew,

1496
01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:58,800
Speaker 1: I must assume this is why people stay in relationships

1497
01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:01,679
Speaker 1: for fifteen twenty year year is still waiting for something

1498
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:04,080
Speaker 1: to happen. All they're going to change and the next

1499
01:19:04,080 --> 01:19:05,760
Speaker 1: thing you do is wake up and it's a dozen

1500
01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:09,200
Speaker 1: years later. Yeah, but you have to never make the

1501
01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:12,519
Speaker 1: mistake that someone you're with, no matter how much they

1502
01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:15,160
Speaker 1: love you, cares about your time as much as you do.

1503
01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: Because they've barely even grasped the importance of their own time,

1504
01:19:18,960 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 1: they certainly aren't thinking about your Say that again, what

1505
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 1: you just said. Never assume what? Never assume that the

1506
01:19:25,040 --> 01:19:27,680
Speaker 1: person you're with, no matter how much they love and

1507
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:31,000
Speaker 1: care about you, cares about your time as much as

1508
01:19:31,080 --> 01:19:35,640
Speaker 1: you do. Wow, Yeah, because they will. I promise you,

1509
01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:39,560
Speaker 1: Even people that care about you will inadvertently waste a

1510
01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:44,920
Speaker 1: decade of your life if you let them, and they

1511
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:47,080
Speaker 1: will still care about you, and they'll still say they

1512
01:19:47,160 --> 01:19:49,280
Speaker 1: love you, and they'll still feel guilty about it afterwards,

1513
01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:51,800
Speaker 1: but it won't stop them doing it, because people do

1514
01:19:51,880 --> 01:19:55,679
Speaker 1: what's comfortable for them, not what's right for you. Right,

1515
01:19:56,080 --> 01:19:57,920
Speaker 1: So you've got to find someone who's actually got the

1516
01:19:57,960 --> 01:19:59,560
Speaker 1: same goals as you. It doesn't matter that you have

1517
01:19:59,600 --> 01:20:01,679
Speaker 1: a connec with this guy. There's plenty of plea people

1518
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:03,599
Speaker 1: in the world you can have a connection with. Now

1519
01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:05,920
Speaker 1: go find one who you have a connection with, who

1520
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:08,800
Speaker 1: actually shares your goals, who's in the same place as you.

1521
01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:15,360
Speaker 1: And in terms of age, I generally date younger. Is

1522
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:20,280
Speaker 1: that something I should try to stay away from. Look,

1523
01:20:20,360 --> 01:20:22,439
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with age gaps, but you

1524
01:20:22,560 --> 01:20:26,479
Speaker 1: have to have someone who's mentally, emotionally in the same

1525
01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:30,719
Speaker 1: phases of life as you. So if dating a different

1526
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:34,360
Speaker 1: age group means that you're consistently meeting people who have

1527
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:37,440
Speaker 1: different goals than you, then that's something you want to reevaluate.

1528
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:40,280
Speaker 1: Does it mean that you can't find someone who's younger

1529
01:20:40,280 --> 01:20:42,519
Speaker 1: who's got the same goals? Of course not right. There

1530
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 1: are exceptions, but you have to be honest about where

1531
01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:48,600
Speaker 1: someone actually is and by the way, this guy is

1532
01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:51,439
Speaker 1: telling you where he is, but you're not listening right now,

1533
01:20:51,920 --> 01:20:54,400
Speaker 1: and I need you to listen, because I promise you, Pam,

1534
01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:56,400
Speaker 1: I've done this every day of my life for the

1535
01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:59,560
Speaker 1: last ten years. I get I don't just get to

1536
01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 1: coach you. I get to coach you five years from now,

1537
01:21:03,439 --> 01:21:06,080
Speaker 1: and ten years from now and twenty years from now.

1538
01:21:06,280 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 1: I see into the future, because right now today I'm

1539
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:12,840
Speaker 1: coaching a version of you in the future. And she's

1540
01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 1: distraught that she wasted another five or ten years with

1541
01:21:16,600 --> 01:21:18,760
Speaker 1: a guy who told her what she needed to hear

1542
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 1: ten years ago. There you go. Thank you for your call, Pam. Wow,

1543
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 1: there you have it. Something to think about. Yeah, Nate says,

1544
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:26,519
Speaker 1: we'll ask her what she's going to do now. I

1545
01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 1: would never put someone on the spot like that. Yeah,

1546
01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:33,320
Speaker 1: each your food and digest it. Something something you didn't

1547
01:21:33,360 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 1: do well the other day. Hey, thank you. Hold on

1548
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:39,240
Speaker 1: before we take another call, I'm going to talk about

1549
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Speaker 1: get the Free chapter dot com. Yeah. I have a

1550
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Speaker 1: program called how to Talk To Men, which literally is

1551
01:21:47,479 --> 01:21:50,719
Speaker 1: the most practical program you'll ever find for your dating

1552
01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:52,920
Speaker 1: life that you know how to talk to man. Oh,

1553
01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:57,200
Speaker 1: that's right, you are one. That's right. What I find

1554
01:21:57,240 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 1: people as sick of is cliche is in dating, you know,

1555
01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 1: you just need to get out there, You just need

1556
01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:02,800
Speaker 1: to open your heart. You just need to do this.

1557
01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 1: People want practical advice, and the whole point of this

1558
01:22:06,240 --> 01:22:09,840
Speaker 1: program is to give exact things that people can say

1559
01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:13,080
Speaker 1: that create attraction with the person they want. And so

1560
01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:16,760
Speaker 1: this place, this chapter, which is you can go and

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1562
01:22:20,280 --> 01:22:22,960
Speaker 1: a chapter taken from this program that you can have

1563
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Speaker 1: for free. I'm giving it away to the audience today,

1564
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:28,400
Speaker 1: and it's all about how to flirt and how to

1565
01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 1: create massive attraction. It literally gives you, if you have

1566
01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:32,960
Speaker 1: a guy in your life right now that you're thinking about,

1567
01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 1: you can literally use these things that I put in

1568
01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 1: this chapter today to create more attraction. Let me tell

1569
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:40,880
Speaker 1: you something kind of funny about the advice that Matthew

1570
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 1: gives you. You can actually use this advice when you're

1571
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,040
Speaker 1: in a relationship already. That's true. Like I can go

1572
01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:47,800
Speaker 1: and I was reading this morning about how you're in

1573
01:22:47,960 --> 01:22:50,400
Speaker 1: a relationship for several years or whatever, and it turns

1574
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 1: into routine or it turns into like, oh oh god,

1575
01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 1: I totally forgot the exist you know whatever, Go home

1576
01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 1: tonight and flirt. Yeah, see what it gets you never stop,

1577
01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:02,040
Speaker 1: ever stopped flirting with your partner. I think that's one

1578
01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:04,240
Speaker 1: of the great keys. So yeah, that's it. Get the

1579
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Speaker 1: free chapter dot com for anyone who wants it. Yes,

1580
01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:09,080
Speaker 1: get the free chapter dot com. And Matthew's been flirting

1581
01:23:09,120 --> 01:23:10,880
Speaker 1: with me since you won't I just download it. That

1582
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:12,920
Speaker 1: was so easy. What is it flirting? What is it?

1583
01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:16,040
Speaker 1: It says, how to talk to men? How to talk

1584
01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:20,000
Speaker 1: to men? The free chapter. Yeah, the free chapter. So

1585
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:22,920
Speaker 1: go there now. Literally within seconds, you'll have something that

1586
01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:25,040
Speaker 1: you can text or say in person to the guy

1587
01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:28,080
Speaker 1: that you like. Hey, so our friend Ali is in here.

1588
01:23:28,120 --> 01:23:30,440
Speaker 1: I hate to put you on the spot, Ali Ali

1589
01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:35,200
Speaker 1: Gold Ali uh Gandhi was saying that you were just

1590
01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:39,400
Speaker 1: back here talking to yourself, mumbling to yourself, like like

1591
01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:41,840
Speaker 1: when Matthew would make a statement or make it come

1592
01:23:41,920 --> 01:23:44,400
Speaker 1: up with an idea, you would go, oh, I don't know,

1593
01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:45,960
Speaker 1: it's not going to work for me. Yeah, I was

1594
01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:49,240
Speaker 1: just I was making noises. Definitely. What did you hear

1595
01:23:49,320 --> 01:23:51,000
Speaker 1: her saying? So one of the things he was talking

1596
01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:53,280
Speaker 1: about was dropping the handkerchief and she's like, yeah, I

1597
01:23:53,400 --> 01:23:55,240
Speaker 1: need to figure out how to do that. And then

1598
01:23:55,280 --> 01:23:57,880
Speaker 1: another thing was dating, and you know, maybe a first

1599
01:23:57,960 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 1: date means something, and she said after every first date,

1600
01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:02,760
Speaker 1: she's like, this is the one. She knows it so well.

1601
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 1: I tell someone so that at my wedding they'll be like, oh, well,

1602
01:24:05,360 --> 01:24:11,600
Speaker 1: she knew he was the one the date Actually with

1603
01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 1: the handkerchief. I feel like all my relationships in the

1604
01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:17,320
Speaker 1: past have been someone I was friends with that blossomed

1605
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:20,080
Speaker 1: into a relationship, and now I'm really cutting that out

1606
01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:22,040
Speaker 1: and trying to meet new people. So how do you

1607
01:24:22,240 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 1: drop the handkerchief for someone you just met at a

1608
01:24:24,560 --> 01:24:26,920
Speaker 1: bar or someone you've been on one date with. Well,

1609
01:24:27,200 --> 01:24:29,879
Speaker 1: if you're on a date, then you already dropped the handkerchief.

1610
01:24:30,000 --> 01:24:32,280
Speaker 1: I guess that's true. You already got you already got

1611
01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:34,720
Speaker 1: to that point. But listen, you've got to do the

1612
01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:38,599
Speaker 1: obvious thing that everyone's trying to find something really clever.

1613
01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:41,640
Speaker 1: We're all trying to be too clever. Instead, we need

1614
01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 1: to go out, look up from our phones, and I

1615
01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:48,519
Speaker 1: make far more eye contact than we normally do, because

1616
01:24:48,520 --> 01:24:50,080
Speaker 1: at any time a woman looks at a guy for

1617
01:24:50,160 --> 01:24:52,439
Speaker 1: two seconds and looks back at her friends and she's like,

1618
01:24:52,720 --> 01:24:57,960
Speaker 1: he knows, he doesn't know, he has no idea, And

1619
01:24:58,320 --> 01:25:02,160
Speaker 1: you know what, you don't consist instantly. People underestimate, They

1620
01:25:02,760 --> 01:25:05,280
Speaker 1: overestimate how hard it is for them to do something,

1621
01:25:05,760 --> 01:25:08,639
Speaker 1: and they underestimate how difficult it is for someone else

1622
01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:11,280
Speaker 1: to do something. So you'll have a table of girls

1623
01:25:11,320 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 1: on a night out and they're all sitting around together,

1624
01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:17,040
Speaker 1: and she may be making a ton of eye contact

1625
01:25:17,120 --> 01:25:21,080
Speaker 1: with a guy. But think for a moment how hard

1626
01:25:21,160 --> 01:25:24,040
Speaker 1: it is for a guy to take that eye contact

1627
01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:28,280
Speaker 1: and then to say, now, I'm going to walk across

1628
01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:32,920
Speaker 1: the room and approach a table of women to say

1629
01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:36,320
Speaker 1: to one of them in particular, I'm attracted to you.

1630
01:25:36,520 --> 01:25:42,960
Speaker 1: Never so difficult, right, So what we have to do

1631
01:25:43,400 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 1: is just make everyone's job easier. Right. I need to

1632
01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:50,360
Speaker 1: points get away from my group so that someone can

1633
01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:52,600
Speaker 1: say something to me. I need to get proximity to

1634
01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:54,960
Speaker 1: someone so that they don't have to go across the

1635
01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:57,200
Speaker 1: room to take a risk, but they can literally turn

1636
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,400
Speaker 1: their head and say something to me easily. I need

1637
01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:03,840
Speaker 1: to ask a quick favor. There's a wonderful study on

1638
01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:07,519
Speaker 1: favors which showed a contrary to what you'd think it

1639
01:26:07,520 --> 01:26:09,840
Speaker 1: would show, which is if I do you a favor,

1640
01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:13,040
Speaker 1: you'll like me more what the studied. What the study

1641
01:26:13,080 --> 01:26:15,519
Speaker 1: actually showed was if I do you a favor, I

1642
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:18,320
Speaker 1: like you more. So. The way this can work in

1643
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:20,920
Speaker 1: attraction is if you want to get someone speaking to you,

1644
01:26:21,600 --> 01:26:24,760
Speaker 1: just ask them for a favor. So if you're in

1645
01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:27,080
Speaker 1: a let's say a bar or whatever, and you say

1646
01:26:27,160 --> 01:26:30,040
Speaker 1: to a guy, could you hold my jacket for two seconds?

1647
01:26:30,479 --> 01:26:31,960
Speaker 1: I need to give my drinks to my friends. I

1648
01:26:32,000 --> 01:26:34,800
Speaker 1: don't have enough hands. He holds your jacket, You give

1649
01:26:34,840 --> 01:26:36,840
Speaker 1: your drinks to your friends, You come back, you say

1650
01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:39,080
Speaker 1: thank you so much, you're a gentleman, and you take

1651
01:26:39,080 --> 01:26:40,920
Speaker 1: your jacket back. You say how's your night going? Anyway,

1652
01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 1: he's now done a small favor for you that when

1653
01:26:44,240 --> 01:26:46,840
Speaker 1: you say how's your night going to him, it just

1654
01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:49,800
Speaker 1: feels like, oh, she's just being nice because I did

1655
01:26:49,920 --> 01:26:52,519
Speaker 1: something for her. It saves you from having to walk

1656
01:26:52,600 --> 01:26:55,080
Speaker 1: up to someone and go I think you have really

1657
01:26:55,200 --> 01:26:59,920
Speaker 1: nice eyes, and now you're in conversation with him and again,

1658
01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:02,360
Speaker 1: and it's like dropping the handkerchief. He feels like it

1659
01:27:02,520 --> 01:27:05,680
Speaker 1: was his idea in the first place, right, So just

1660
01:27:06,080 --> 01:27:08,360
Speaker 1: the one of the greatest ways to drop the handkerchief

1661
01:27:08,479 --> 01:27:11,439
Speaker 1: is just ask for a favor. Okay, I'm going to

1662
01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:14,840
Speaker 1: use that. I want to know how this goes. Yes, yeah,

1663
01:27:15,080 --> 01:27:17,280
Speaker 1: I haven't asking. Let me ask a favor of you.

1664
01:27:17,439 --> 01:27:23,240
Speaker 1: Oh yes, will you do me? Now? The one thing

1665
01:27:23,280 --> 01:27:27,240
Speaker 1: the study did say is the favor can't be too onerous. Hey,

1666
01:27:27,320 --> 01:27:30,479
Speaker 1: I was just looking our stuff online. When dating a

1667
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:33,240
Speaker 1: partner and they are hesitant to put a title on

1668
01:27:33,360 --> 01:27:36,360
Speaker 1: it because of past hurt and trauma, how do you

1669
01:27:36,439 --> 01:27:40,080
Speaker 1: bring up the what are we conversation without being smothering

1670
01:27:40,240 --> 01:27:43,200
Speaker 1: or pressuring. Okay, firstly, let's all roll our eyes at

1671
01:27:43,240 --> 01:27:45,880
Speaker 1: the first part of that sentence. What was it dating

1672
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:47,719
Speaker 1: a partner and they are hesitant to put a title

1673
01:27:47,800 --> 01:27:49,760
Speaker 1: on it because of past hurt and trauma? What a

1674
01:27:49,920 --> 01:27:53,439
Speaker 1: wonderful escape. Now I get to be the victim, even

1675
01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:56,639
Speaker 1: though it's me not giving you what you want. Isn't

1676
01:27:56,640 --> 01:27:58,160
Speaker 1: that wonderful? That's, by the way, that is some of

1677
01:27:58,240 --> 01:28:01,080
Speaker 1: the most clever stuff guys are told. We were told

1678
01:28:01,120 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 1: guys or idiots. They're not idiots. They say things that

1679
01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:07,360
Speaker 1: get them off the hook. So when I say I've

1680
01:28:07,360 --> 01:28:09,280
Speaker 1: been I've just been hurt, really badly in the past,

1681
01:28:09,320 --> 01:28:10,800
Speaker 1: and I just don't know if I can do this again.

1682
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:14,479
Speaker 1: It's I get to be a victim and keep having

1683
01:28:14,560 --> 01:28:17,400
Speaker 1: it both ways. Give me a break, then don't then

1684
01:28:17,479 --> 01:28:20,639
Speaker 1: stop going home with that person. If that's really the problem,

1685
01:28:20,760 --> 01:28:23,040
Speaker 1: stop going home with that person. Give yourself real space.

1686
01:28:25,920 --> 01:28:28,320
Speaker 1: So this is this? Is it? Right? People have to

1687
01:28:28,400 --> 01:28:30,640
Speaker 1: be really self aware and say what is it I

1688
01:28:30,720 --> 01:28:32,720
Speaker 1: really want. If I want a relationship and I've been

1689
01:28:32,760 --> 01:28:35,360
Speaker 1: seeing this guy now for a few weeks or months,

1690
01:28:36,280 --> 01:28:37,960
Speaker 1: I need to be able to say to him, listen,

1691
01:28:38,280 --> 01:28:41,200
Speaker 1: I like you and I'm having a great time, but

1692
01:28:41,360 --> 01:28:43,280
Speaker 1: I know I wouldn't be continuing to do this if

1693
01:28:43,320 --> 01:28:45,960
Speaker 1: we were still seeing other people. So what do you think?

1694
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:48,080
Speaker 1: Where is your head at? You've got to be willing

1695
01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:50,360
Speaker 1: to willing to have that conversation. Now. If he comes

1696
01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:52,439
Speaker 1: back and he says, wow, I just you know, I'm

1697
01:28:52,479 --> 01:28:54,160
Speaker 1: not sure, and you know I've been thinking about and

1698
01:28:54,240 --> 01:28:56,160
Speaker 1: he points to like some graphs and some stats and

1699
01:28:56,439 --> 01:28:58,800
Speaker 1: is like, I just you know, I'm confused about this

1700
01:28:58,880 --> 01:29:00,760
Speaker 1: whole thing. If there aren't so it takes longer than

1701
01:29:00,840 --> 01:29:04,360
Speaker 1: ten seconds, you know the answer, Yeah, The answer is

1702
01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:07,040
Speaker 1: he's not ready for a relationship, at which point you say,

1703
01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:09,840
Speaker 1: that's great. I respect it. I want you to be happy.

1704
01:29:09,880 --> 01:29:11,439
Speaker 1: I want you to do what's gonna make you happy.

1705
01:29:11,720 --> 01:29:13,720
Speaker 1: I also know what's going to make me happy, and

1706
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:16,240
Speaker 1: it's going to be going out there and finding someone

1707
01:29:16,280 --> 01:29:18,120
Speaker 1: who's in the same place as me. There you go,

1708
01:29:18,360 --> 01:29:20,839
Speaker 1: listen to Nikita. I love this question from you, Nikita,

1709
01:29:20,880 --> 01:29:23,320
Speaker 1: because it seems so simple, but it really isn't It

1710
01:29:23,439 --> 01:29:27,479
Speaker 1: really is very complex. Go right ahead him. So I

1711
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:29,639
Speaker 1: went on a date with the Sky in January. One

1712
01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:33,240
Speaker 1: date kind of fell apart, didn't really talk. We met him.

1713
01:29:33,320 --> 01:29:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm not a mutual friend of his in July who

1714
01:29:35,360 --> 01:29:37,880
Speaker 1: kind of reheated things up between us. And now he

1715
01:29:38,000 --> 01:29:42,160
Speaker 1: keeps asking me out to breakfast meet me for breakfast?

1716
01:29:42,320 --> 01:29:45,519
Speaker 1: So what's wrong with that? Yeah, I don't know. I

1717
01:29:45,600 --> 01:29:47,840
Speaker 1: think that that's weird. That's like a first date or

1718
01:29:47,880 --> 01:29:50,280
Speaker 1: like a second date. So you're saying a date must

1719
01:29:50,320 --> 01:29:52,920
Speaker 1: be a date, must be in a restaurant, or it

1720
01:29:53,040 --> 01:29:55,479
Speaker 1: must be it must be something else other than breakfast,

1721
01:29:55,600 --> 01:29:57,800
Speaker 1: is what you're saying. I feel like you're setting the

1722
01:29:57,840 --> 01:30:00,600
Speaker 1: precedent of like what you expect, and like like to

1723
01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:03,479
Speaker 1: instill that I expect more than that's three ninety nine breakfast.

1724
01:30:03,640 --> 01:30:05,960
Speaker 1: I don't know that mean being difficult. If he asked

1725
01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:08,080
Speaker 1: you to come to his house at eleven o'clock at night,

1726
01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:10,439
Speaker 1: you'd be yelling at him because he's doing the whole

1727
01:30:10,479 --> 01:30:15,320
Speaker 1: booty cool thing. So this is a respectable hour to

1728
01:30:15,400 --> 01:30:17,120
Speaker 1: be seeing someone. You know, he's not trying to sleep

1729
01:30:17,160 --> 01:30:19,519
Speaker 1: with you. But wait, I have a question. We don't

1730
01:30:19,560 --> 01:30:23,400
Speaker 1: know that yet. My question is, what if he's in

1731
01:30:23,479 --> 01:30:26,880
Speaker 1: another relationship and the only time he has free is

1732
01:30:26,960 --> 01:30:30,000
Speaker 1: breakfast because his significant other goal is going to work

1733
01:30:30,120 --> 01:30:32,639
Speaker 1: or whatever. Danielle's right in the whole part or well,

1734
01:30:32,680 --> 01:30:35,320
Speaker 1: that's a good question. What if he's leaving it open

1735
01:30:35,400 --> 01:30:37,040
Speaker 1: to you. Guys, have a great breakfast and you can

1736
01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:42,280
Speaker 1: hang out all day. Here's my question, why? Why? Why

1737
01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:43,840
Speaker 1: does everyone have to make such a big deal out

1738
01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:45,280
Speaker 1: of it? He wants he wants to see her go

1739
01:30:45,400 --> 01:30:47,360
Speaker 1: to breakfast. Yeah, I mean, maybe it likes waffles. We

1740
01:30:47,400 --> 01:30:51,519
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I mean, the fact is

1741
01:30:51,680 --> 01:30:55,519
Speaker 1: is he's not Matthew. Seriously, Danielle, reality, Yeah, It's not

1742
01:30:55,680 --> 01:30:58,800
Speaker 1: like he's saying I hate you, so therefore I'm only

1743
01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:01,479
Speaker 1: going to give you breakfast time. He wants to hang

1744
01:31:01,560 --> 01:31:03,599
Speaker 1: out with her and say Hi, how many times does

1745
01:31:03,640 --> 01:31:06,960
Speaker 1: he ask you to breakfast? Well, he asked me like

1746
01:31:07,040 --> 01:31:08,839
Speaker 1: a week ahead of time to go to a breakfast

1747
01:31:08,880 --> 01:31:11,160
Speaker 1: on a specific day, and he's asked me twice. Okay,

1748
01:31:11,200 --> 01:31:16,160
Speaker 1: so you're the difficult one here. Yeah, he's planned. Firstly,

1749
01:31:16,520 --> 01:31:19,719
Speaker 1: he's doing every This is what makes day so confusing.

1750
01:31:19,840 --> 01:31:22,960
Speaker 1: He's asking you in advance. You know how many women

1751
01:31:23,040 --> 01:31:24,679
Speaker 1: come to me and say I wish a guy would

1752
01:31:24,680 --> 01:31:27,240
Speaker 1: make plans. Instead of asking me at the last minute

1753
01:31:27,280 --> 01:31:29,679
Speaker 1: to do something. He's asking you in advance. He's giving

1754
01:31:29,720 --> 01:31:32,120
Speaker 1: you a specific day. He's asking you at an hour

1755
01:31:32,280 --> 01:31:34,320
Speaker 1: where it's clear that he's not trying to take you

1756
01:31:34,439 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 1: home at that hour, because what people guys do when

1757
01:31:37,880 --> 01:31:39,160
Speaker 1: they want to take you home is they take you

1758
01:31:39,200 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 1: out as late as possible and as close to their

1759
01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:44,679
Speaker 1: house as possible with alcohol, right with alcohol. So he's

1760
01:31:44,720 --> 01:31:47,720
Speaker 1: not trying to do that at least straight after breakfast.

1761
01:31:47,920 --> 01:31:51,240
Speaker 1: He's just trying to see you. Now. The only caveat

1762
01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:53,400
Speaker 1: to that is what Danielle said, which is if that

1763
01:31:53,680 --> 01:31:55,960
Speaker 1: is the time that he's picking because he's got something

1764
01:31:56,040 --> 01:31:59,360
Speaker 1: else going on, then that's a big caveat and that's

1765
01:31:59,400 --> 01:32:02,519
Speaker 1: a problem. But there's nothing wrong with a guy asking

1766
01:32:02,560 --> 01:32:04,559
Speaker 1: you out to breakfast. I actually think that's a romantic

1767
01:32:05,040 --> 01:32:14,839
Speaker 1: I think that's a cool date manner, A right, Nikita.

1768
01:32:14,960 --> 01:32:18,200
Speaker 1: I know, Look, if he's asking you just to hang out,

1769
01:32:18,240 --> 01:32:20,200
Speaker 1: I mean, a date is a date is a date.

1770
01:32:20,240 --> 01:32:22,559
Speaker 1: I mean, why do we have to have these restrictions.

1771
01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:24,920
Speaker 1: It's not a jade unless it's these things. Well, it

1772
01:32:25,040 --> 01:32:27,280
Speaker 1: just maybe it'll turn into that if it's interesting, see

1773
01:32:27,320 --> 01:32:29,439
Speaker 1: what happens. You know what's kind of great about a breakfast.

1774
01:32:29,479 --> 01:32:32,160
Speaker 1: It's so simple and so fast. You can get in there,

1775
01:32:32,240 --> 01:32:33,680
Speaker 1: spend time with him, and you may be the one

1776
01:32:33,720 --> 01:32:35,920
Speaker 1: that says, no, I don't want to another moment with

1777
01:32:36,000 --> 01:32:38,559
Speaker 1: this guy. But I got you know, waffles, and then

1778
01:32:38,600 --> 01:32:40,160
Speaker 1: you saw the rest of your day to do whatever

1779
01:32:40,240 --> 01:32:47,519
Speaker 1: you want. Go do it. No, you hate it. See,

1780
01:32:47,800 --> 01:32:49,800
Speaker 1: you're you're expecting this guy to like to want to

1781
01:32:49,920 --> 01:32:52,840
Speaker 1: like take you out and be your your full time

1782
01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:55,760
Speaker 1: committed boyfriend and just go ahead and get to know him.

1783
01:32:55,960 --> 01:32:57,760
Speaker 1: What's wrong with that? Why are you in such a hurry?

1784
01:32:59,520 --> 01:33:02,360
Speaker 1: I don't know answer to the question. Just you know,

1785
01:33:02,439 --> 01:33:04,400
Speaker 1: what are you? Are? You sort of interested him on

1786
01:33:04,520 --> 01:33:06,920
Speaker 1: the surface interested in him, like just on the surface,

1787
01:33:07,600 --> 01:33:10,600
Speaker 1: yes or no? Um, I don't. I don't think so.

1788
01:33:10,720 --> 01:33:12,599
Speaker 1: I think that like going on a date in January

1789
01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:14,360
Speaker 1: and then kind of ghosting me and now coming back

1790
01:33:14,400 --> 01:33:17,120
Speaker 1: because we have a mutual friends, Then why are you

1791
01:33:17,120 --> 01:33:21,160
Speaker 1: even thinking about him? Move on? All right, you're waffling.

1792
01:33:21,760 --> 01:33:25,559
Speaker 1: By the way, the number one reason that people focus

1793
01:33:25,640 --> 01:33:28,320
Speaker 1: too much on one person is they're not creating options elsewhere.

1794
01:33:29,200 --> 01:33:31,760
Speaker 1: So you gotta go create some more options. Nikita, you

1795
01:33:31,880 --> 01:33:34,120
Speaker 1: deserve better than that good advice. Go get it. Yea,

1796
01:33:34,200 --> 01:33:38,280
Speaker 1: it is great advice. That's why he's Matthew hushing. What's scary, Matthew.

1797
01:33:38,520 --> 01:33:41,840
Speaker 1: I've loved everything you said up until this point. I

1798
01:33:41,960 --> 01:33:44,439
Speaker 1: think that this guy is not going full throttle here.

1799
01:33:44,600 --> 01:33:48,280
Speaker 1: He's investing time but not money. He's gotta go. He's

1800
01:33:48,280 --> 01:33:50,719
Speaker 1: got to show her good a good dinner. You can't

1801
01:33:50,760 --> 01:33:54,599
Speaker 1: just do Why are you guys rushing? Everything isn't even

1802
01:33:54,720 --> 01:33:58,160
Speaker 1: by the way Peter would think, if this guy took

1803
01:33:58,200 --> 01:33:59,960
Speaker 1: her out and spent a ton of money on her

1804
01:34:00,120 --> 01:34:02,439
Speaker 1: to impress her early on, people would think that was gross.

1805
01:34:03,000 --> 01:34:06,400
Speaker 1: And time is more valuable than money. You don't get

1806
01:34:06,520 --> 01:34:08,160
Speaker 1: time back. You can get money back. Right. Look, in

1807
01:34:08,200 --> 01:34:10,519
Speaker 1: this day and age where time is so important and

1808
01:34:10,600 --> 01:34:13,200
Speaker 1: so we don't have it right, you go, Look, you

1809
01:34:13,280 --> 01:34:15,120
Speaker 1: know what I'm it's early in the morning and my

1810
01:34:15,240 --> 01:34:17,599
Speaker 1: day hasn't started yet. I could just go ahead breakfast weather,

1811
01:34:17,720 --> 01:34:19,240
Speaker 1: just to say hi and get to know each other.

1812
01:34:19,479 --> 01:34:22,519
Speaker 1: What is wrong with that? She's not showing me value

1813
01:34:22,560 --> 01:34:25,000
Speaker 1: of our tricking our to ourn expressive garner. No, you

1814
01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:34,040
Speaker 1: even know you guys are rushing into this. It's like

1815
01:34:34,120 --> 01:34:36,280
Speaker 1: you know what you were talking about this earlier, Matthew.

1816
01:34:36,360 --> 01:34:39,599
Speaker 1: We build these scenarios and these stories in our head.

1817
01:34:39,680 --> 01:34:42,400
Speaker 1: It's just sometimes it's difficult just to hop in the

1818
01:34:42,520 --> 01:34:44,519
Speaker 1: river and let the lazy river take us where it

1819
01:34:44,560 --> 01:34:47,400
Speaker 1: wants to take us. Yes, just go and if it

1820
01:34:47,479 --> 01:34:50,040
Speaker 1: works out, great. If it doesn't, oh, oh, this is

1821
01:34:50,080 --> 01:34:52,920
Speaker 1: the first relationship that didn't work out. Look, we're all

1822
01:34:53,000 --> 01:34:55,080
Speaker 1: in great relationships one minute and not the next, or

1823
01:34:55,120 --> 01:34:58,720
Speaker 1: sometimes we're in a great relationship forever. That's just the

1824
01:34:58,760 --> 01:35:01,880
Speaker 1: way of life. It's just the way it is. Damn

1825
01:35:01,880 --> 01:35:08,160
Speaker 1: it scary. But of course, of course, cheap bastard Rodium here,

1826
01:35:08,360 --> 01:35:16,120
Speaker 1: what if he's got a Coupon's good? But there is

1827
01:35:16,240 --> 01:35:18,760
Speaker 1: money anyway, So I want you to do me a favor.

1828
01:35:18,800 --> 01:35:20,599
Speaker 1: I want you to go to get the Free Chapter

1829
01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:24,400
Speaker 1: dot com and uh check out what Matthews are giving

1830
01:35:24,439 --> 01:35:28,320
Speaker 1: you for free. Then he lures you in. You really

1831
01:35:28,360 --> 01:35:30,600
Speaker 1: are fantastic at what you do. People really should do that,

1832
01:35:30,680 --> 01:35:34,400
Speaker 1: because that last caller was a prime example of why

1833
01:35:34,600 --> 01:35:38,800
Speaker 1: people need to create more opportunities it. You know, all

1834
01:35:38,880 --> 01:35:41,040
Speaker 1: over the world there are people who are just obsessed

1835
01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:43,880
Speaker 1: with this one person, and if someone better came along tomorrow,

1836
01:35:43,920 --> 01:35:46,840
Speaker 1: they wouldn't be But the reason they don't have someone

1837
01:35:46,920 --> 01:35:49,880
Speaker 1: else is because they're not actually out there being proactive.

1838
01:35:50,320 --> 01:35:53,439
Speaker 1: So this gives people specific ways to do that. The

1839
01:35:53,560 --> 01:35:58,479
Speaker 1: free chapter huh, it's complimentary. The word free is so

1840
01:35:58,680 --> 01:36:02,360
Speaker 1: cheap and tawdry. Yeah, anyway, so get the free chapter

1841
01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:04,040
Speaker 1: dot com. I want you to check out now. It's

1842
01:36:04,040 --> 01:36:06,560
Speaker 1: so important and having you back in the saddle with

1843
01:36:06,680 --> 01:36:09,280
Speaker 1: us is kind of fantastic. It's I said this during

1844
01:36:09,280 --> 01:36:11,080
Speaker 1: the break. It's never long enough. I always feel like

1845
01:36:11,120 --> 01:36:12,920
Speaker 1: we need more time. Have we run out of time?

1846
01:36:13,560 --> 01:36:18,840
Speaker 1: Is that it with me? No? No, no, you can

1847
01:36:18,920 --> 01:36:22,639
Speaker 1: stay until the cows come home, as they say. Anyway,

1848
01:36:22,640 --> 01:36:24,960
Speaker 1: we love you, Matthew. I love you everything. Matthew Hussey.

1849
01:36:25,000 --> 01:36:26,559
Speaker 1: We're all about and we'll see you at the wedding.

1850
01:36:26,840 --> 01:36:29,200
Speaker 1: I can't wait. Every The good thing about you at

1851
01:36:29,280 --> 01:36:32,080
Speaker 1: my wedding is if Alex dumps me, it's you, baby,

1852
01:36:34,479 --> 01:36:39,599
Speaker 1: your next understanding. I'll make you not to bring anyone.

1853
01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:42,519
Speaker 1: You're the understanding. Don't take sand of the beach. I'll

1854
01:36:42,560 --> 01:36:45,519
Speaker 1: come alone. No, no, no, I don't know whoever it is.

1855
01:36:45,640 --> 01:36:49,720
Speaker 1: We'll take care of them anyway. Thank you, locked in

1856
01:36:49,840 --> 01:36:52,639
Speaker 1: the closet like I've done all the others. Matthew Hussey.

1857
01:36:52,800 --> 01:37:06,040
Speaker 1: Thank your show. Oh my god, how thank you again

1858
01:37:06,080 --> 01:37:08,160
Speaker 1: to Matthew Hussey for coming in. I always love to

1859
01:37:08,200 --> 01:37:10,840
Speaker 1: see our family coming coming back to the table. Yeah, hey,

1860
01:37:10,880 --> 01:37:14,519
Speaker 1: so asap Rocky news. Yeah yeah, Garrett, what'd you hear?

1861
01:37:14,960 --> 01:37:17,000
Speaker 1: He was found guilty in Sweden. But here's the thing.

1862
01:37:17,320 --> 01:37:19,960
Speaker 1: He's not in Sweden anymore, so he's never going back

1863
01:37:20,000 --> 01:37:22,439
Speaker 1: to Sweden. But he doesn't have to serve jail time.

1864
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Speaker 1: They've said that what he served is going to be enough. Yeah,

1865
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Speaker 1: well they couldn't if he needed to serve more jail time.

1866
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Speaker 1: They couldn't force him to go back. Well, there have

1867
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Speaker 1: been known to be extradition proceeds. Something tells me I

1868
01:37:33,400 --> 01:37:35,920
Speaker 1: think he's saved. Yeah. Well, how would you feel if

1869
01:37:36,280 --> 01:37:40,120
Speaker 1: one country on the planet has said no, you can't

1870
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Speaker 1: go there? Yeah? I love that. I would talk about

1871
01:37:42,680 --> 01:37:44,320
Speaker 1: it all the time. Forgot her name, but remember it.

1872
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Speaker 1: If a very famous case from Italy were the student

1873
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Speaker 1: was accused of murdering her roommate. Oh yeah, man, oh yes,

1874
01:37:50,280 --> 01:37:52,160
Speaker 1: that's right. And she's like one day she's like, oh,

1875
01:37:52,200 --> 01:37:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm going back to Italy. I'm like, would you do it? Girls,

1876
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Speaker 1: stay out of Italy. Stop rolling the dice. Come on, yeah,

1877
01:37:57,160 --> 01:38:00,320
Speaker 1: go to little Italy. Yeah. I can't go to Epcot

1878
01:38:00,840 --> 01:38:04,400
Speaker 1: anymore in Canada. In Epcot, I got too drunk and

1879
01:38:04,760 --> 01:38:07,080
Speaker 1: they wouldn't serve me and asked me not to come back.

1880
01:38:07,280 --> 01:38:09,880
Speaker 1: So you can't go to Canada in Epcot, Yes, but

1881
01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:11,320
Speaker 1: you go to all the other count can go to

1882
01:38:11,400 --> 01:38:14,519
Speaker 1: all the other countries, I don't know. But I can

1883
01:38:14,560 --> 01:38:16,360
Speaker 1: only get to the border of Epcot and then have

1884
01:38:16,439 --> 01:38:19,519
Speaker 1: to turn around. Technically, I'm not allowed in certain countries

1885
01:38:19,520 --> 01:38:21,479
Speaker 1: because I have an Israeli stamp in my passport. So

1886
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:23,080
Speaker 1: there are other countries who won't let you in. But

1887
01:38:23,200 --> 01:38:25,080
Speaker 1: once I get yeah, and they tell you that before

1888
01:38:25,120 --> 01:38:26,479
Speaker 1: you get this one, did you do something as simple

1889
01:38:26,520 --> 01:38:29,320
Speaker 1: and great as visiting Israel? You're not allowed in another country. Yes,

1890
01:38:31,920 --> 01:38:34,120
Speaker 1: let's get into the sound with Grett. Garrett, well you

1891
01:38:34,200 --> 01:38:36,439
Speaker 1: have all right? So remember last week we played the

1892
01:38:36,479 --> 01:38:38,840
Speaker 1: sound from Bachelor in Paradise. Danielle threw up from the

1893
01:38:38,920 --> 01:38:42,360
Speaker 1: guy JPJ who ate tacos. Well, this week he's not

1894
01:38:42,479 --> 01:38:45,880
Speaker 1: doing that. He's actually trying poetry. This guy should just

1895
01:38:45,920 --> 01:38:49,280
Speaker 1: stop um for what lady, is it that enriches the

1896
01:38:49,400 --> 01:38:52,240
Speaker 1: hand of yonder Knight? For dis knee that teaches the

1897
01:38:52,320 --> 01:38:55,599
Speaker 1: torches to burn so bright? I'll watch the take thy

1898
01:38:55,680 --> 01:39:01,160
Speaker 1: place of stand? All right, I'm turned off. All right,

1899
01:39:01,280 --> 01:39:04,200
Speaker 1: there's a girl. Uh there's a singing competition in China

1900
01:39:04,280 --> 01:39:07,840
Speaker 1: called sing and two little girls have a death metal band. Now,

1901
01:39:08,000 --> 01:39:10,800
Speaker 1: one of these little girls sounds like a little girl

1902
01:39:10,880 --> 01:39:14,120
Speaker 1: and the other sounds like a forty year old man. Okay,

1903
01:39:33,800 --> 01:39:36,639
Speaker 1: imagine growing up with that voice. All right. Mike Tyson

1904
01:39:36,720 --> 01:39:40,400
Speaker 1: has a podcast. It's called Hot Boxing. Yeah. Now, if

1905
01:39:40,560 --> 01:39:42,559
Speaker 1: let's play a quick game, how much do you think

1906
01:39:42,680 --> 01:39:46,600
Speaker 1: Mike Tyson spends on weed a month? Oh god, I

1907
01:39:46,680 --> 01:39:49,240
Speaker 1: would say, you know me, I'm gonna go too high,

1908
01:39:49,240 --> 01:39:51,280
Speaker 1: because I'm sure he gets great weed. I think a

1909
01:39:51,320 --> 01:39:54,439
Speaker 1: thousand bucks. Thousand bucks, I would say, more, what do

1910
01:39:54,560 --> 01:40:01,479
Speaker 1: we smoke him? What? They ten tons of weed at

1911
01:40:01,520 --> 01:40:08,080
Speaker 1: the ranch a month. That's way too much, even great weed. Yeah, hustled. Well,

1912
01:40:08,120 --> 01:40:11,880
Speaker 1: he also has uh he also sells to out in

1913
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Speaker 1: Nevada and Los Angeles, so he makes a lot of

1914
01:40:14,560 --> 01:40:16,920
Speaker 1: money too. But you don't. You don't smoke your own

1915
01:40:16,960 --> 01:40:19,960
Speaker 1: product from what I've heard. But whatever, all right, So

1916
01:40:20,200 --> 01:40:22,719
Speaker 1: the Ron Burgundy podcast, it's one of the best podcasts

1917
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Speaker 1: on iHeartRadio number one, as I've been told. And uh,

1918
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Speaker 1: you know, Ron Burgundy reads off a teleprompter when he

1919
01:40:29,200 --> 01:40:32,519
Speaker 1: does the news, and he reads whatever is in front

1920
01:40:32,560 --> 01:40:34,479
Speaker 1: of him. And in radio, when you get a commercial,

1921
01:40:34,800 --> 01:40:37,559
Speaker 1: sometimes you read what's written for you, like Froggy did.

1922
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Speaker 1: Right here, we recommend you get delivered this weekend. Just

1923
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1924
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Speaker 1: im in? Is that real? Yes? Chip text? What test

1928
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Speaker 1: your dong? D O n G. That's dong? What do they?

1929
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Speaker 1: I love it for a doorbell camera? Who doesn't love dong?

1930
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Speaker 1: Were done? Brought up? Thank you? I love that, Thank

1931
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Speaker 1: you Karrot. Today's was the strangest sound segment we've ever had.

1932
01:41:27,800 --> 01:41:31,080
Speaker 1: I smoked Mike Tyson stuff. Yeah. Um. We were talking

1933
01:41:31,280 --> 01:41:35,240
Speaker 1: to Matthew Hussey earlier about going out for breakfast? Is

1934
01:41:35,280 --> 01:41:37,080
Speaker 1: that a date or not? And I was like, well,

1935
01:41:37,200 --> 01:41:39,160
Speaker 1: if you don't think it is fine, it would if

1936
01:41:39,200 --> 01:41:41,320
Speaker 1: you want to believe that. Great. So one of our

1937
01:41:41,360 --> 01:41:45,080
Speaker 1: gay listeners in Philly said, well, wait, guys like gay

1938
01:41:45,200 --> 01:41:51,360
Speaker 1: guys love to go on brunch dates. But when women

1939
01:41:51,400 --> 01:41:53,360
Speaker 1: are the straight women are there that it's usually just

1940
01:41:53,439 --> 01:41:55,519
Speaker 1: a bunch of straight girls together. It's not a date.

1941
01:41:55,840 --> 01:41:58,320
Speaker 1: Do people go on? Can anyone stop eating for just

1942
01:41:58,400 --> 01:42:02,840
Speaker 1: a minute? Can you just stop please? So my question

1943
01:42:02,960 --> 01:42:06,800
Speaker 1: is this is a brunch a date or is it

1944
01:42:06,920 --> 01:42:11,280
Speaker 1: as a brunch a party? To me, brunch can't be

1945
01:42:11,360 --> 01:42:13,840
Speaker 1: a date really, I think it can be whatever you

1946
01:42:13,960 --> 01:42:18,000
Speaker 1: make it. Yeah, a bunch date, a brunch date, yeah,

1947
01:42:18,080 --> 01:42:19,560
Speaker 1: because I don't want to go on a brunch with

1948
01:42:19,640 --> 01:42:22,040
Speaker 1: one person. To me, a brunch is like twenty five people.

1949
01:42:22,160 --> 01:42:25,080
Speaker 1: Oh well, no, but I could see that. I could

1950
01:42:25,120 --> 01:42:26,800
Speaker 1: see you going on a date. But brunch, I can

1951
01:42:26,880 --> 01:42:29,320
Speaker 1: brunch with a person if you go to If you

1952
01:42:29,439 --> 01:42:32,240
Speaker 1: go on a brunch date, you're gonna get smashed probably,

1953
01:42:33,560 --> 01:42:35,400
Speaker 1: and you know what happens after you get smashed, Yes,

1954
01:42:35,520 --> 01:42:40,439
Speaker 1: you get smashed. This is true. All right, Well, okay,

1955
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Speaker 1: open minded me. I'm gonna open it a little wider

1956
01:42:43,200 --> 01:42:45,519
Speaker 1: and say, yes, you can go on a brunch date. Yes,

1957
01:42:46,320 --> 01:42:48,880
Speaker 1: and hopefully you'll have friends like across the room. You

1958
01:42:48,960 --> 01:42:59,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. His name is the morning show Audible.

1959
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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something great about Audible. I can

1960
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Speaker 1: tell you a million different things. Where do you want

1961
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Speaker 1: me in to start at the beginning? Okay? Audible has

1962
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Speaker 1: You don't have to decide what to bring. You can

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Speaker 1: download to your phone anything, everything, so you don't have

1966
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1967
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Speaker 1: It's already there. And you don't have to carry heavy

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1969
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Speaker 1: you can actually speed it up whatever you prefer. And

1970
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Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like a bunch of like like squirrels. Yeah, chipmunks. No, No,

1971
01:43:34,680 --> 01:43:36,560
Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like a chipmunk on all. It's the

1972
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Speaker 1: regular narrator's voice, but it's just faster. You can even

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1975
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Speaker 1: you can send it to your home sound system, your car, whatever.

1976
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Speaker 1: Audible is just great. You know, it's more than just

1977
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Speaker 1: reading a story or listening to a great story. It's convenience.

1978
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Speaker 1: Do it when you want. It's a great way to

1979
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Speaker 1: tune out the world and just focus on what you

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Speaker 1: Go to audible dot com slash Elvis very important audible

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Speaker 1: dot com slash. I know several of you went to

1986
01:44:27,680 --> 01:44:31,559
Speaker 1: see Tutsi on Broadway last night. Gandhi was there, Straight

1987
01:44:31,680 --> 01:44:36,080
Speaker 1: Nate was there. I know Garrett went so our friends

1988
01:44:38,280 --> 01:44:41,920
Speaker 1: at Zenny Optical. By the way, have you seen all

1989
01:44:41,920 --> 01:44:44,160
Speaker 1: the frames they have? I have. I have two pairs

1990
01:44:44,200 --> 01:44:46,160
Speaker 1: that I love. They're so easy to order from. But

1991
01:44:46,160 --> 01:44:49,000
Speaker 1: I'll get to that minute. Zenny Optical dot Com. So

1992
01:44:49,200 --> 01:44:54,000
Speaker 1: you know Tutsi is. It's just a great evening on Broadway. Fun.

1993
01:44:55,320 --> 01:44:57,800
Speaker 1: It's easy to figure out, you know. It's not one

1994
01:44:57,800 --> 01:45:00,760
Speaker 1: of those complex like show. It makes you just want

1995
01:45:00,800 --> 01:45:05,760
Speaker 1: to go hide. Right, So it's a matter of it's

1996
01:45:05,760 --> 01:45:07,799
Speaker 1: a matter of fact. The lead, the guy who plays Tutsi,

1997
01:45:07,840 --> 01:45:10,920
Speaker 1: actually won an Emmy. Tony. I'll get them all next.

1998
01:45:11,080 --> 01:45:15,000
Speaker 1: I didn't know until today, so yeah, Tony winner. So anyway,

1999
01:45:15,040 --> 01:45:17,840
Speaker 1: so Zenny Optical is this thing. Look, you know the

2000
01:45:18,080 --> 01:45:21,240
Speaker 1: Tutsi is famous for her glasses. Yeah, they have Tutsie glasses.

2001
01:45:22,920 --> 01:45:26,160
Speaker 1: Look at these awesome Uh how do you see them

2002
01:45:26,200 --> 01:45:28,599
Speaker 1: here there? Look these are the glasses. Oh you look

2003
01:45:28,680 --> 01:45:32,679
Speaker 1: just like Tutsi. Oh, Santino Fontana, Dorothy. They're actually cute

2004
01:45:32,680 --> 01:45:36,559
Speaker 1: on look like Dorothy? You do? Anyway, I think that's

2005
01:45:36,560 --> 01:45:40,640
Speaker 1: so cool that Zenny has teamed up with Tutsie to

2006
01:45:40,840 --> 01:45:44,000
Speaker 1: have the Tutsie glasses. Don't look like Tutsi, you do.

2007
01:45:44,360 --> 01:45:46,679
Speaker 1: I thought that you were Tutsie for a minute. Yeah,

2008
01:45:46,760 --> 01:45:49,599
Speaker 1: thank you. You can go to Zenny Optical dot com

2009
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Speaker 1: slash Tutsie glasses, Tutsie dash classes. They don't make it

2010
01:45:54,920 --> 01:45:56,680
Speaker 1: easy for you or just do you know, do a

2011
01:45:56,760 --> 01:45:58,880
Speaker 1: search for Zenny, z E n I and Tutsie and

2012
01:45:58,920 --> 01:46:01,120
Speaker 1: you'll find it. Yeah. One thing to say that some

2013
01:46:01,280 --> 01:46:04,200
Speaker 1: people might say, Sally, Jesse, Raphael they sent us breakfast,

2014
01:46:05,240 --> 01:46:07,680
Speaker 1: So Zenny send us breakfast this morning. We want to

2015
01:46:07,680 --> 01:46:10,000
Speaker 1: thanked them so much. They had partnered up as the

2016
01:46:10,080 --> 01:46:12,880
Speaker 1: official eye wear for main character Dorothy Michaels played by

2017
01:46:13,000 --> 01:46:17,040
Speaker 1: Santino Fontana Uh. Inspired by the show, they wanted to

2018
01:46:17,120 --> 01:46:20,800
Speaker 1: make this collection available for all Broadway Tutsie lovers. And

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01:46:20,920 --> 01:46:24,040
Speaker 1: I love it. What's that scary? It's z E M

2020
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Speaker 1: M yes, z E N n I, Zenny Optical love them.

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01:46:29,320 --> 01:46:31,200
Speaker 1: Thank you for the gift, the gift of me looking

2022
01:46:31,240 --> 01:46:35,960
Speaker 1: like TUTSI. I've never felt sex here. He did, Santino,

2023
01:46:36,560 --> 01:46:41,439
Speaker 1: he voiced Hans and frozen. He didn't know that. Oh wow, Nate,

2024
01:46:41,479 --> 01:46:49,160
Speaker 1: you just teaching me all thoughts off from Zenny Optical. Really,

2025
01:46:50,080 --> 01:46:53,080
Speaker 1: I do need new glasses. Maybe all well, they're not

2026
01:46:53,160 --> 01:46:56,519
Speaker 1: my prescription, but you know I feel I feel handsome

2027
01:46:56,520 --> 01:46:59,240
Speaker 1: in these. Someone just send a text Tutsie was fantastic.

2028
01:46:59,280 --> 01:47:00,519
Speaker 1: I'm so glad I got to see it, and the

2029
01:47:00,600 --> 01:47:03,479
Speaker 1: Tony win was well deserved. It was I'm telling you,

2030
01:47:03,560 --> 01:47:05,360
Speaker 1: thank you, Zenni. It was the glasses that one that

2031
01:47:07,479 --> 01:47:10,400
Speaker 1: it was amazing. Well he's supposed to yeah anyway, so

2032
01:47:10,600 --> 01:47:12,640
Speaker 1: we got that going for us. So thank you to

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Speaker 1: Zenny Optical, ze n n I Optical. Go get your

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Speaker 1: tutsie glasses. I want everyone, I don't want one person

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01:47:19,120 --> 01:47:21,920
Speaker 1: to not have a pair of tutties. Everyone's walking around

2036
01:47:21,920 --> 01:47:24,920
Speaker 1: with the tutti glasses. You know. I was noticing yesterday

2037
01:47:24,960 --> 01:47:27,360
Speaker 1: everyone's walking around looking at their phones. How come they

2038
01:47:27,360 --> 01:47:29,479
Speaker 1: all can't be looking at the phones through tutsie glasses?

2039
01:47:29,840 --> 01:47:33,360
Speaker 1: Oh they can't. Why not? It's a very serious thing.

2040
01:47:33,439 --> 01:47:35,280
Speaker 1: Bless you, Thank you. Let's get into the three things

2041
01:47:35,320 --> 01:47:37,519
Speaker 1: you need to know from Gandhi. Also today's way back Wednesday,

2042
01:47:37,560 --> 01:47:39,840
Speaker 1: phone tap from Scarry is on the way. What do

2043
01:47:39,880 --> 01:47:41,920
Speaker 1: you have going on? All? Right? Planes flying again in

2044
01:47:42,040 --> 01:47:44,200
Speaker 1: and out of Hong Kong International Airport. There have been

2045
01:47:44,280 --> 01:47:47,240
Speaker 1: ten weeks of protests, but two really intense days where

2046
01:47:47,240 --> 01:47:49,360
Speaker 1: the airport got shut down. So it's open again. The

2047
01:47:49,439 --> 01:47:52,760
Speaker 1: protests continue. Something really interesting happened in the middle of

2048
01:47:52,840 --> 01:47:54,639
Speaker 1: the galaxy. I don't know if any of you guys

2049
01:47:54,680 --> 01:47:56,920
Speaker 1: saw this report, but there's a giant black hole and

2050
01:47:57,040 --> 01:47:59,919
Speaker 1: it has lit up four days this year, and scientists

2051
01:48:00,040 --> 01:48:02,040
Speaker 1: want to know why. They say that that means something

2052
01:48:02,160 --> 01:48:05,439
Speaker 1: is happening within the black hole. We need answers. You

2053
01:48:05,600 --> 01:48:07,559
Speaker 1: need to look into that. If your black hole starts

2054
01:48:07,640 --> 01:48:11,320
Speaker 1: lighting up, yest some worry. I would love to go

2055
01:48:11,439 --> 01:48:13,840
Speaker 1: check that out myself, but o't. And finally we talked

2056
01:48:13,840 --> 01:48:16,479
Speaker 1: about this, but really quickly asap Rocky was found guilty

2057
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Speaker 1: of assault following that street fight in June in Sweden.

2058
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Speaker 1: He's not going to have to serve any more time.

2059
01:48:21,040 --> 01:48:22,360
Speaker 1: They say it's a month that he did in the

2060
01:48:22,439 --> 01:48:25,040
Speaker 1: detention center. It's going to be time served. But they

2061
01:48:25,080 --> 01:48:27,280
Speaker 1: do say that he used excessive force. And don't forget

2062
01:48:27,360 --> 01:48:29,720
Speaker 1: President Trump did get involved with this, and you know,

2063
01:48:29,800 --> 01:48:31,720
Speaker 1: people are saying he was treated really horribly while he

2064
01:48:31,760 --> 01:48:33,200
Speaker 1: was there and it was just self defense. But he

2065
01:48:33,240 --> 01:48:35,120
Speaker 1: was found guilty, and I have a question if he

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01:48:35,400 --> 01:48:38,320
Speaker 1: wasn't found guilty, would how would they have given him

2067
01:48:38,360 --> 01:48:43,640
Speaker 1: that month back? They give you time back, right, Yeah, no,

2068
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Speaker 1: you're done. All right, let's take a break your phone

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Speaker 1: dot com. Slash Elvis, Elvis durand phone tap All right, scary?

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Speaker 1: What's your phone tap all about? Today? Well, we got

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Speaker 1: a call from Cindy who said that her dad, Curtis,

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Speaker 1: hates telephone telemarketers. He just gets completely crazy when he

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Speaker 1: encounters them. So we figured we'd put it to the

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Speaker 1: test and I would call as mister Michael Oppenheimer selling

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Speaker 1: him something crazy. All right, let's see what happens A

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Speaker 1: call from mister Michael Oppenheimer. Oh, yes, good afternoon. This

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Speaker 1: is mister Michael Oppenheimer with black Bush Irish whiskey. How

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Speaker 1: are you doing today, sir? And find yourself. Black Bush

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Speaker 1: Irish whiskey has a viscous and rounded, medium to full

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Speaker 1: bodied taste. YEA a roma is reminiscent of fresh sea air,

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Speaker 1: are accompanied by rich flavors of molasses and chocolate. Are

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Speaker 1: you going to what's going on here? Three for one

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Speaker 1: hundred and twenty four dollars and sixty eight cents today,

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Speaker 1: three bottles or three cases. I have three bottles here

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Speaker 1: for just one hundred twenty four dollars and sixty eight

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Speaker 1: cents of black Bush Irish whiskey, and say it's got

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Speaker 1: viscus chocolate. What's this? It's a single malt whiskey and

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Speaker 1: it's married with a single green whiskey. Not interested? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Ask anthnon? This is mister Michael Oppenheimer with black whis

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Speaker 1: I told you I'm not interested. Thanks by, I didn't

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Speaker 1: get to tell you that it was developed in nineteen

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Speaker 1: thirty four. Speaking. This is mister Michael Oppenheimer with you're

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Speaker 1: gonna call me? I didn't get to tell you that

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Speaker 1: Black Bush Irish told me all about the viscus smell.

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Speaker 1: That cut the script. How many would you like to

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Speaker 1: order today? Sir? What the hell are you trying to

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Speaker 1: do here? I do not need you selling me whiskey?

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Speaker 1: All right? You're just want to suit me back anymore? Sir?

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Speaker 1: Just think I'm hearing your book, sir. Just one you

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Speaker 1: didn't let me finish. Oh, please continue, Just one sip

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Speaker 1: and you'll be hooked on the taste of black bush.

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Speaker 1: Do you know they got robots that do your job

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Speaker 1: much better? Black Bush Irish whiskey is aged in a

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Speaker 1: sherry oak cask for nine to eleven years for that distinctive,

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Speaker 1: full bodied flavor. Why don't you go and take your

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Speaker 1: black bush and sell it to your mother? About swirling

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Speaker 1: some black push around in your mouth? I told you

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Speaker 1: I'm in. I have been cleaning sober now for three years.

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Speaker 1: I do not need any more black bush. Do you

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Speaker 1: understand me? I don't think you're understanding. It's bottled at

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Speaker 1: eighty proof and it's deleting super down there show so

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Speaker 1: much black bush down your boat, you're gonna be dagging

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Speaker 1: on it from bas Oh buy it Christ to do

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Speaker 1: with you, Juliet? It's black bush? Are you? Are you

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Speaker 1: wasting on me? You could have been a hammering black

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Speaker 1: bush and throw any drunk you sign at the bar. Sir,

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Speaker 1: my name is mister Michael Oppenheimer, and this is the

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Speaker 1: Superior Premium Irish Whiskey and her Black Bush Irish whiskey

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Speaker 1: might be good for your mom. She doesn't drink either.

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Speaker 1: Would your mother like black bush? You drinks water? What

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Speaker 1: about for your wife? My wife doesn't need any black Bush,

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Speaker 1: or your wines, or your ship pans, or your beverages

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01:52:33,400 --> 01:52:36,080
Speaker 1: or your carbinated alcohol at this that you and your

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Speaker 1: wife would just love the subtle sherry sweetness of black Bush.

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Speaker 1: It's so smooth. Hello, this is mister Michael Oppenheimer. With sir,

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Speaker 1: you're very angry. You could definitely use some of this

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Speaker 1: whiskey to calm you down just a little. A man

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Speaker 1: with a handful of black Bush is a very happy down.

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Speaker 1: I'll dach sure we're running a sale today if you

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Speaker 1: buy three bottles of black Bitch I get I'm a friend.

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Speaker 1: I got this guy calling me and a friend. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it is. Are you still there? You

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Speaker 1: obviously don't know anyone with black bush, otherwise you'd be

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Speaker 1: ordering this. I don't know anybody with black Bush, buddy, answer,

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Speaker 1: what quitted card would you like to use today? I

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Speaker 1: don't have any credit card, I don't have any wallet.

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Speaker 1: I leave in a cardboard box, but not a fact.

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Speaker 1: I stole this phone. So if you call back you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be arrested as an access to let me on

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Speaker 1: before you go. I think I should tell you you've

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Speaker 1: been phone tapped yourself. Hey, Curtis, this is Scary Jones

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Speaker 1: from Elvis to Rand in the Morning Show. And your

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Speaker 1: daughter Sindy's playing a phone tap on you. What is

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Speaker 1: this again? It's a radio prank. Put Sindy on the phone.

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Speaker 1: She had to go into a meeting, but she I'm down.

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Speaker 1: Was prerecorded with permission granted by All Party Space. Ellie

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Speaker 1: Duran felon tab on Ellie Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Something I've been thinking about, not only because Matthew Hussey

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01:54:27,880 --> 01:54:29,960
Speaker 1: mentioned it earlier, about when you're out and about and

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Speaker 1: you see someone you want to connect with, but also

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Speaker 1: just in real life experience, if you want to appear

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Speaker 1: more confident. Yeah, eye contact, Oh yeah, totally. You know what.

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Speaker 1: It's so easy to go through your day without really

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Speaker 1: truly looking anyone in the eye. Yes, and you can.

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Speaker 1: You can actually get along successfully and be just fine

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Speaker 1: in life without looking people in the eye. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: eye contact is something you have to constantly work on.

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Speaker 1: I really notice it. I do too, Yeah, and I

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Speaker 1: notice when people are not giving it to me, and

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Speaker 1: I think, huh, am I you or are you just shy?

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Speaker 1: What is going on? Maybe a little of everything? Maybe,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I tell you this, there is a perceived

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Speaker 1: confidence in someone if they have the ability to look

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Speaker 1: you in the eye, and I'll just kind of gloss

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Speaker 1: over you. How many times if you've hat someone at

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Speaker 1: a party and they not only do they not only

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Speaker 1: not look you in the eye, but they're actually looking

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Speaker 1: behind you to see what else is going on, that's

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Speaker 1: the worst. Or their eyes are on their phone also

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Speaker 1: the worst. So great tea. Yes, more eye contact today,

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Speaker 1: you and all of us. I have difficulties with it.

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Speaker 1: You do, I do well for two reasons. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: for one, because you're looking at me in the eye

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Speaker 1: now and you're having no problem with it. Well, because

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Speaker 1: that's because you've trained me. You told me look me

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Speaker 1: in the eyes. So I try to do the best

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Speaker 1: I can, but it really bothers me. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what you're thinking back at me by looking in your eyes,

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Speaker 1: so then I try to look at your mouth maybe

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Speaker 1: in that area. And then also when the job that

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Speaker 1: I have here for so many years, I always spoke

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Speaker 1: to all of you on the show through the phone,

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Speaker 1: so I never had to look at your face, see,

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Speaker 1: and that was a problem. But now you're looking at

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Speaker 1: me in the eye right now, I feel like we're

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Speaker 1: actually having a conversation with each other. And it's a

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Speaker 1: good thing. Scary for he doesn't even open his eye. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 1: I close my eyes when I talk, like he's doing

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Speaker 1: it right now. He closes his eyes when he talks.

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Speaker 1: It's the strangest things. I don't know if it's a

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. It's hard, but it is.

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Speaker 1: It's a challenge. But I'm telling you right now, if

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Speaker 1: you from from now until the rest of the day,

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Speaker 1: if you can make it your number one effort to

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Speaker 1: look people in the eye when you speak with him, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I'll just answer them and walk away. I think

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Speaker 1: you'll be surprised at how it'll change everything. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, I just wonder what you're thinking

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Speaker 1: of me when I'm looking right now, you stop that,

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Speaker 1: you need to stop that. It's okay, don't worry about that.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry about about what I'm thinking. Might stop worrying

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Speaker 1: about what other people are thinking, all right, Danielle, One

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Speaker 1: more look at whatever you're looking at. You give me

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Speaker 1: But he's not going to perform at the halftime show.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he will eventually, so we'll see what happens. You

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