WEBVTT - Ep. 46 "What's Your Love Language?" 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.160 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:12.800 talk back? What's up? Is your girl? A j Welcome 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:16.520 to a new episode if we talk back? Aid, Hey, 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:19.480 y'all stand Bawn. I kind of love y'all. I kind 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:22.720 of don't like I'm feeling like city girls. When she 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:25.800 said I'm googling on my period, being missing, is nigga 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:28.560 fucking on me and I'm stressing? Then ship hitting right 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:32.000 now except for ain't nobody sucking on me? But I'm 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:34.880 stressed and I'm googling on my period. I don't even 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:39.880 know what that means, but I feel like I'm doing it. Yes, 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:44.239 I don't have my emotions. My emotions are all over 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:46.480 the place. I don't have PMS. You know, I never 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:51.320 did like i'd be the same every day until not. 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:53.920 When I'm being messing, I don't even talk to people 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:55.960 feel so you won't even know. I'm gonna just be 0:00:56.040 --> 0:01:00.680 laying the down. But I don't be mean. I feel 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:02.120 like I don't have no choice but to talk to 0:01:02.160 --> 0:01:07.800 motherfucker's especially with us another contract, you know, contracted. It's 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:10.720 like I got a choke hold in your life on 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:14.880 my neck. And look, we are very good business partners. 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:21.760 We are definitely fulfilling our contractual oppligations. Every problem is 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:27.240 light work. Yes, it's actually fun. No, no, last it's 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:31.119 a good time. Listen. So, how the funk was your 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:37.760 Turkey day? Girl? I ate so much. I just I 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:39.760 felt bad at the end of the night because I 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:42.960 just ate to gluttons. Man, I ate she that I 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.520 don't even eat like. I don't eat sweet potato pie, 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:48.720 but I ate it yesterday. I don't even really like it, 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:51.080 but I ate it. I ate two slices like sweet 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:57.640 potato pie. I don't like pies. You like yams. I 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.640 do like yams. Man. I know it's a different insistency. 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:04.600 But dog, who don't like speepotative by? I think everybody me? 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:07.760 I just said, I don't like the world. Who don't 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:11.040 like I don't like pies? But what's the difference between 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:12.920 I know, the difference between a pie and a cake. 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:20.160 But so you don't like mashed up fruits and vegetables? 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:23.000 Is that what it is? I don't know. I don't know. 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:26.040 I think it's a texture. Oh you know, you might 0:02:26.080 --> 0:02:30.080 be inspect it's not. I think sometimes I do because 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:32.399 my tone gets comes across the wrong with people all 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:34.680 the time, and I I think I might be mildly 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:37.440 on the spectrum. Shout out to us. I think everybody 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:41.080 on the motherfucking's spectrum because that in a way, because 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:44.680 I definitely can get on the spectrum sometimes. Then my 0:02:44.720 --> 0:02:47.280 sister and her fiance could not stop touching each other. 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.720 It was getting on my nerves, like, get off each other. 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.919 Damn y'all like each other that much. I smacked the 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:58.040 ship out of both of y'all. Not you here because 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:01.080 you already had a turkey date, bitch. I know, I 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:04.240 would say it's so bad. I had grabbed my sister 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:06.919 for ma for of her fiance. It was just like, 0:03:07.320 --> 0:03:12.760 you want somebody to hold your bitch, Come here, I 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:16.320 hold you, hope, relax. My turkey day was all right, man, 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:19.480 but you know I'm not the meat eater, and especially 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.919 on Thanksgiving, that's when you're gonna get all the pig 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:26.960 feet and the neck bones and turkey wings. You know 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.320 one thing I miss. I missed turkey wings, and I 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.400 do miss like my barbecue chicken off the grill. Other 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:35.760 than that, I could do without all that ship. So 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:39.000 I had to cook my own lot side of collar 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:42.960 greens and I mean my own little mac and cheese. 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:46.760 What what they gotta mac and cheese there? You can't hand. 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:51.360 I just prefer my mac and cheese, that's all. Damn. 0:03:55.880 --> 0:04:00.040 I don't not feel like fight your girl. I I 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.480 would get that to myself, ye'all. I don't feel like 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:07.760 nobody mama mind or yours about the mother. Okay, ain't 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:11.280 gonna say, but my low ass hannamac and cheese is 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:16.120 going bitch, That's all I'm gonna say. And the other 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:20.560 one still, the big one, the big one still there. Damn. 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:28.760 You gotta accept change. Change is good and cheese don't 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:34.600 cut it. We had a good time though. We were dancing, 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:37.360 drink doing what every black family does. We play games. 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:39.919 We danced, We raced in the street. I don't know 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:42.520 if y'all do that where y'all from, but I always 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:44.720 end up racing somebody at the end of the night 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:47.440 at some point, drunk barefoot in the street because I'm 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:51.720 from South Carolina. So I raised and I want I 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:56.320 smoked him home per usual with that Bookie was looking 0:04:56.360 --> 0:05:00.240 like right down that street, bitch, like too of your 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:04.400 basketball's on my back. They probably thought you was gonna 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:06.520 lose because of that booky like it's holding you down. 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:13.840 And no, that ship catapults me it lightspeed, bitch, ask 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:19.200 me gone. On the video you can hear me say, bitch, 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:28.440 shame goodness. Yeah, but I don't know, I have no 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.839 I ate a bunch of sweets yesterday and I feel 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:36.240 terrible today. On top of the lequor. It's like, you know, 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:39.159 come Monday, I'm doing like a real live detox because 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:43.599 I'm still not detox. I'm still not done. I'm going 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:46.200 on vacation, so I'm just gonna eat. I'm gonna eat 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:47.880 like I'm gonna eat a lot. I'm not gonna lie, 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:51.160 but I'm probably eat like fresh fruits and vegetables and 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:55.000 fish like, but just a lot of it. But I 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:57.360 don't want nothing heavy like that ship got me feeling 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:01.840 that nigga iis was real yesterday. I was knocked out 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.400 between eating all that ship and running my old ass 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:06.880 running down the street at full speed a bitch with 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:10.479 sleep by seven o'clock for about an hour. You should 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:12.480 have probably ran some more. I'm sprints a get them 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:14.840 calories about you get that food off. You're right well, 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:19.080 I raised twice and I want both of them hosts 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:22.240 couldn't mash my speed. I was Chicari rich tod I 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:25.159 want to raise you one day. I run pretty fast. Girls, 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:28.560 the funk out of you seeing that video, nig you 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:33.320 look like mother fucking told I didn't. I didn't. Okay, 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:35.520 all right, let's go to you. We're gonna record it 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:37.279 for the show because I'm gonna smoke the funk out 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:42.279 of you and we're gonna see. We're gonna see. Yeah, 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:46.919 and then you're gonna be out there, you cheating, you cheating, 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:58.040 the low short ass sucking legs. Their motherfucker's go. We're 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:01.479 gonna raise and we're gonna record it. I didn't share 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:03.080 it with y'all. Say I can see a j Louise, 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:06.120 So what else do we got going on? Yow oh. 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:12.160 Kanye West said he wants cam back he geminiion. But yeah, 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:14.760 I don't think she's dating that white guy. I just 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:18.040 really it's been a lot of time together. They're doing 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:22.240 a movie. No, they she fucking with them. I think 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:27.640 the whole family gonna so they're separated. You can date 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:30.360 when you separated? Did they get separated through the courts? 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:34.680 I'm assuming she's publican. I said, you Kim k don't 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:40.000 waste some mother fucking time. That's me. Yeah, I like that. 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:42.560 I like that. I used to not like her, but 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:44.840 I actually like her. She does a lot of goods. 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:48.080 I never not like Kim Kardashian, always like Kim King 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:50.560 I did. I always felt like maybe she was a 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:55.680 you know, culturally appropriated blackness for a while. But but 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:58.560 looking at the worst that she does, like in like 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:03.160 um just to reform and getting niggas off death row 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:05.760 and all that stuff, like I gotta I can't salute that. 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:08.120 I can't even lie. But then, you know, stuff like 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:11.280 that is also still to me, it's still a part 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:14.400 of white supremacy because they would put allow somebody like 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:16.280 that to get in a position to make those changes 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:19.880 because you have people, there's groups behind her. It's not 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:22.480 like Kim Kay is doing this stuff by herselves and 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.960 I forgot right, But it's her platform and her face 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:27.280 that makes it go through. I'm saying, and that's that bullshit. 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:31.560 You know what I'm saying that, um, because I feel 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:34.920 like our organizations we should be able to do that 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:37.959 without this bing make it happen for ourselves, right, we can't, 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:41.280 But however, she can get in there and do the work. 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:49.360 I'm proud of it, right, I'm yeah sat um My 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:53.520 twin funk with her man because he definitely because I 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:57.040 know exactly how she feels like when you see your 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:59.520 ex with somebody like you really almost want them back 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:03.120 in your mind even if you ended it. It's just 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:05.120 like Danny about to go on and live happily ever 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:14.520 after somebody else. I'm mad. I'm mad. Look a little kid, 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:16.840 but you don't even one day ask back. You just 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:20.080 only one them because they were somebody else. That's all 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:26.640 it is. Kanye, I'll be your girlfriend. Yeah, kill each other. 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:30.520 I wouldn't kill kanyeall understand him. Y'all kill each other. 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:33.000 I can see you outside now with a white face 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:36.280 man walking around looking like you about the robber, Brady. Look, 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:38.360 did you see that there? UM? A lot of people 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:46.680 are insinuating that UM, you know, the distribution UM label 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:50.520 or whatever Empire records that Young Golf was associated with it. 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:55.760 They're saying like the owner of it may have had 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:58.480 they're saying the owner of it, and they're saying the 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:01.520 owner of it may have had a UM life insurance 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:04.520 policy on him. And mind you, a few of their 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:10.440 artists have been killed. Um. Hold on a second, Well, 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:12.679 that's smart. They have a life insurance policy on him 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:19.360 because they have. Why are y'all? So you're trying to 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.840 say he having them killed for the money. It's possible, 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:30.560 very well possible. I don't know that's another conspiracy. Oh 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:33.800 did you over the holiday? Did you see the new 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:39.560 movie by um Kevin Harty? I watched it today. You 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:43.120 watched the whole thing. I've watched it. What's your thoughts? 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:46.800 All right? So Kevin Hard has a new mini series 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:52.439 on Netflix call True Story, and it's really good, y'all. 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:54.720 Y'll need to go watch it if you haven't. It's 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:58.440 nice to see him doing something besides comedy because I 0:10:58.440 --> 0:11:01.559 don't thinking that funny. But I like him doing serious 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:03.960 ship like I do. I prefer him doing stuff that 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:07.440 or he's not trying to make us laugh. He has 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:10.360 his times. A couple of his specials were funny, and 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:12.520 then you know it's like hit and miss. It just 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:16.200 may not be our cup of team. But I do 0:11:16.280 --> 0:11:20.480 think he's funny sometimes. Yeah, sometimes there was that deer 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:24.880 brous ship. I still use that when I'm late. What's 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:29.400 the joke? Uh? He said he was late because he 0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:31.880 ran into a deer borough on the highway. Is a 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:35.680 half deer half zebra animal on the highway. Yeah, I 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:39.920 still use that ship. I ran into a deer bro stupid. 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:43.360 But yeah, the movie that show is good. I mean 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:47.840 the mini series is really good and it definitely uh, 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:50.559 especially if you're someone who's fame, you have fam er, 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:52.320 you've gotten a lot of money, you don't got it 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:54.080 out the mundy and made your way up and you 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:57.520 have concerns about Oh no, I can't say that. I 0:11:57.520 --> 0:12:01.520 don't want to tell you all that ship as a spoiler. 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:05.240 But you just you know about who's around you and 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:08.080 who's what attensions are good and who's intentions are bad 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:11.120 for you? Like you never know? Right, do you mean 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:14.160 gott to be rich to have that happened on going on? Right? Hell, 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:18.720 that's just people don't know what you're going on in life, 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:23.320 and they count your pockets. Happens to every baby. Yeah, 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.360 but that was good. It was good. I don't know 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:28.000 what I was expecting, but it was really good. I 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:30.280 like the whole thing. I didn't I didn't have any expects. 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:32.320 What's the snipe looked good too? He looked like he 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:37.520 on a vegan diet Who Wesley? I think he is vegan? 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:41.000 You know? Mm hmm he looked he look does he 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:45.440 looks healthy? Mm hm yeah. I like Wesley's night Wesley. 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:48.680 He's turning to look like too Wong fool Wesley back 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:52.280 Man when he was younger and a woman. That was 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:54.640 one of my favorite movies back then. Did you watch 0:12:54.679 --> 0:13:00.240 that movie Thank You Everything? I like that movie. It 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:05.560 was John Legga, Jamo, Wesley Snipe. Who else was in that? Girl? 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.000 You don't know? No nobody name. I don't know what 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:12.400 you'd be really into fucking movies now? I just watched TV. Okay, 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.560 I had to use my fucking brain space for some 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:17.959 other ship. I can't be remembering this stuff this same 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:20.080 way be forgetting people. I remember every phase, but I 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:24.000 will forget your name, Holly Berry. I had a movie 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:29.240 come out called Bruce I. It's Louis Losing Isaiah two 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:32.760 part though. Go watch it it is. I saw the 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:35.559 preview for it when I was flipping through Netflix. I 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:39.640 passed it by Lesbian. I'm about to go watch that. 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:42.080 I ain't never get to see Holly couch you before. 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:54.600 I'm tuning in. It's just so nasty, yes, Holly, Yes, 0:13:56.679 --> 0:14:01.160 so you ain't have no Thanksgiving bade this year. No, man. 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.640 People were sending me like their fees to be my 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:06.880 Thanksgiving babe. You've seen that ship going around, like two 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:10.000 hundred dollars. I come and I'll smile and talk with 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:14.520 your family. Five hundred dollars. I whisper I love you 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.440 across the room for everybody to see. I don't want 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:22.280 to pay, So I ain't have no hollebey. He could 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:29.000 have had somebody there. No, mm hmm mm hmm. Did 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:34.600 you like I said that too fast? Yeah? This is 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:38.840 the first year, uh in a while, the first holiday 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:42.000 season that I've been single, So no, no bay at 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:46.080 the dinner table. I've been single every holiday since two 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:51.680 thousand sixteen. You said, like Kevin Hart when he she 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:57.240 don't say his age, Yo, Nancy, Kevin Hart might be 0:14:57.320 --> 0:15:00.200 like funny, how it was a certain person you went 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:03.720 to college with, and that nigga is just was fucking funny, 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:08.360 just regular. But I see that nigg and do stand 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:14.080 up and I had second hand embarrassment. Yeah, yeah, he's 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:16.640 just naturally funny. But like when you have en scripted, 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:20.120 it's not it's just naturally funny. So maybe that's Kevin Hardship, 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:22.560 like he's gonna say some funny ship that kicked back 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:28.720 at the house right off the dome. But yeah, I've 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:31.480 been in there single by myself every year since two 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:36.160 thousands sixteen. I'm getting used to it. It's not so bad. 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:38.720 My niece didn't say something to me that made me 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:41.960 almost double backslap her ass in front of everybody. But 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:44.800 I didn't happen because I said, y'all need to get 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:47.560 in the kitchen. Y'all need to figure out y'all need 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:49.120 to learn how to cook some of this stuff, Like 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:51.160 come in the kitchen with us and learn what you're 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:52.960 gonna do. When you get a man, you can't feed 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:55.920 him no turkey sandwich. She's like, well, you know how 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:57.440 to cook all that stuff and you still ain't got 0:15:57.440 --> 0:16:02.320 no man. Girls slapping out here. Girl. I had to 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:05.080 walk outside with my mimosa and I had to recite 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.720 Sierra's Prairie to myself three times before I walked back 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:14.920 in the house. Bitch, hey, she would have got her 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.800 asks be that, like it's the truth now, it's the 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:20.080 truth now, right, but you have to say it. I 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.280 just want you to like that's your DNA, bitch, because 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:26.120 you would have had that same rebutto at eighteen. Yeah, 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:29.360 you would have said the same ship to her. And 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:31.560 my mama thought it was so funny, and I was like, girl, 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:36.480 you ain't got no man hen you're laughing at with that? 0:16:36.520 --> 0:16:45.840 Go to old potato salad. Keep nigga, I don't even 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:47.760 know what these niggas want. No more dogs. Do they 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:49.760 even want to eat? I don't even think they want 0:16:49.760 --> 0:16:53.280 to eat. They ain't working no more door dashed, the 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:57.000 fun everything up for a bitch. These niggas just want you. 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:00.200 They don't know what they want, girl, is what you 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:05.800 fucking follida ass blindly do what they say. I'm sicking 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:08.760 niggas telling me they don't like the word no, so 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:12.040 I can't tell you know about nothing. I don't like 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:15.280 the word okay. It just depends on what the funk 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:16.919 I'm saying no about it. If it's anything to do 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:21.560 with my anatomy, no, nigga, I can say no, no, 0:17:21.640 --> 0:17:23.280 I'm not getting on the scale in front of you. 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:25.520 See you can see how much I wait. No, nigga, 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:34.200 why does it matter you like? Do you like fat 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:37.720 bitches or not? Like? Girl? You're not even a fat. 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:43.240 Shut up. We bunked it all over Nigga forehead, come here, 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:47.160 come here. We were like, all right, we're not fat. 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:49.080 In South Carolina and Georgia, we might be fat and 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:53.280 I here we're straight. F l A, Okay, we find 0:17:53.280 --> 0:18:00.840 it hell in the South, he just and that's where 0:18:00.840 --> 0:18:07.480 I live, so we geographically fit. Bitch girl, let's face 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:15.040 some bills real quick. So I had this conversation with 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:19.600 this guy while I was driving back home from Thanksgiving 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:26.040 about why we didn't work, and it helped me to 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:30.879 create content for today's episode because I told him that 0:18:31.440 --> 0:18:35.920 he didn't want to love me based upon my love languages. 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:39.000 He didn't want to speak to those love languages, and 0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:41.480 that's why we didn't work. Because he wanted to love 0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:46.000 me the way that he enjoyed being loved instead of 0:18:46.040 --> 0:18:48.720 how I did. So that was a problem for me. 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:51.880 And he said, because I want gifts, I just want 0:18:51.880 --> 0:18:55.159 to nigga to buy me what I don't want to know. 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:57.960 Niggat to buy me just because that's my love language, 0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:00.480 don't mean that that's what I want to be bought. 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:03.439 First of all, if I wanted to be bought, you 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:07.040 probably couldn't afford it. I'm not you know what I'm saying, like, 0:19:07.560 --> 0:19:09.399 let's keep his spade. I'm not trying to be bought 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:11.199 by you, but I do want you to speak to 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:14.439 my love language, you know. And I told him I 0:19:14.480 --> 0:19:16.960 grew up with I didn't we I grew up with 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:18.560 a lot of love, but I didn't grow up grow 0:19:18.640 --> 0:19:21.440 up with a lot of stuff, you know. And I 0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:24.280 like motherfucker's stuff. And they don't have to be like, 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:26.399 go buy me a house or go buy me that 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:28.639 new Mercedes g l E that I want in white 0:19:28.680 --> 0:19:33.080 with black interior. Not that I mean, but if you're listening, yes, 0:19:33.200 --> 0:19:36.600 but if you know whatever, it don't have to be that. 0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:38.920 If you see, if you listen to what I'm saying, 0:19:38.920 --> 0:19:40.800 and I said, I like vanilla candles, and then you 0:19:40.920 --> 0:19:43.280 come over here with a vanilla candle because you saw 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:45.480 it was on sale when he was walking through turret, 0:19:46.640 --> 0:19:49.880 that ship absolutely mean something. That's yeah, that's a coach 0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:55.240 coch cooper thing. What I'm saying from Yeah, just a 0:19:55.240 --> 0:19:59.920 little ship like that. It's thoughtful and I like stuff 0:19:59.920 --> 0:20:01.760 like that. But I'm also the same way because I'll 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:04.200 be walking through the store and damn sure to look, 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:08.280 I'm gonna pick it up. I feel like women always 0:20:08.280 --> 0:20:11.280 buying men low trinkets and stuff like that, you know 0:20:11.320 --> 0:20:14.000 what I'm saying. But they asked, they act like, I 0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:15.960 don't know. They always act like somebody trying to play 0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:19.320 them if they buy them something like I'm trying like 0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:21.560 I bought you ship too. I'm not trying to finesse you. 0:20:22.600 --> 0:20:26.199 But I like to receive things. I won't say like 0:20:26.440 --> 0:20:31.280 you say, um, like receiving gifts. Gifts is my love language. 0:20:31.280 --> 0:20:33.760 But I do love gifts like which what woman doesn't 0:20:34.440 --> 0:20:37.840 I think? Um? Did we talk about the five love languages? 0:20:37.880 --> 0:20:41.600 So the five love languages is you know, words of affirmation, uh, 0:20:41.760 --> 0:20:47.200 quality time, physical touch, access service, receiving gifts. I would 0:20:47.240 --> 0:20:50.399 say my love language would probably lean more towards like 0:20:50.440 --> 0:20:53.879 the physical touch and quality time because which I like 0:20:54.040 --> 0:20:58.479 to lay up and watch TV and touch. That's my 0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:01.760 least one is to touch. I love it. I like 0:21:01.840 --> 0:21:04.520 the kids, I like I like huddling, and I do 0:21:04.600 --> 0:21:08.080 like touching. But I don't like motherfucker's touching me, you know, 0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:10.400 like I have to be the aggressive when it comes 0:21:10.440 --> 0:21:14.560 to touching. I don't know, you know, what I'm not 0:21:14.560 --> 0:21:17.960 gonna say that because I don't like motherfucker's I don't 0:21:18.000 --> 0:21:20.920 like like that trying to touch. That's different exactly. That 0:21:20.960 --> 0:21:25.760 wouldn't I'm with you, it's no quality time. I'm not ready, 0:21:26.240 --> 0:21:27.800 but I would have like if when they can even 0:21:27.840 --> 0:21:29.880 touched my back and I feel like if you got 0:21:29.880 --> 0:21:31.520 slapped in the back, you know how your body would 0:21:31.560 --> 0:21:33.840 just dirt for it. That's what it would feel like. Yeah, 0:21:33.880 --> 0:21:35.879 but I'm not about don't touch any quality time for 0:21:35.960 --> 0:21:38.960 somebody I don't like. So that's not what I'm saying. Like, 0:21:39.040 --> 0:21:41.560 of course you're gonna be like I've been with somebody. 0:21:41.640 --> 0:21:43.879 When you start start falling out of love with somebody, 0:21:43.920 --> 0:21:47.080 when they touch you, it's like, don't touch me. That's 0:21:47.080 --> 0:21:49.119 when you really when you know ship is over. But 0:21:49.160 --> 0:21:52.159 when you like somebody, you're feeling somebody like quality time 0:21:53.080 --> 0:21:56.399 and in touching like I love that. I love for 0:21:56.440 --> 0:21:59.560 somebody to rub me up. We don't even gotta gifts 0:21:59.560 --> 0:22:03.600 and quality of the time, gifts and quality time. Mm hmm. 0:22:03.800 --> 0:22:05.760 So buy me some ship and send some time with me. 0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:10.720 Mm hmm. Yeah. You ain't gotta say like words of 0:22:10.760 --> 0:22:15.359 information that's cool to that would probably my third most important. 0:22:15.680 --> 0:22:19.719 But um I don't need that. I'd be affirming myself 0:22:19.720 --> 0:22:22.760 in the here. I need you to buy me some 0:22:22.920 --> 0:22:25.879 nice ship that you saw that I light, throw some 0:22:25.960 --> 0:22:30.879 gas in my tain, pick up the sandwich I enjoy. 0:22:31.160 --> 0:22:33.040 But this ain't even like every day. You gotta come 0:22:33.080 --> 0:22:35.040 in the house with something in your hand for me that. 0:22:35.200 --> 0:22:39.520 I'm not like that. But I just like nice gifts 0:22:39.960 --> 0:22:43.159 and then quality time because the type of men I 0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:47.480 usually date have money and no time. I'm finding that 0:22:47.600 --> 0:22:51.760 to be m a what's the word of a pattern? 0:22:52.880 --> 0:22:55.359 Everybody got money, they got money for gifts, but they 0:22:55.359 --> 0:23:00.639 ain't got no time. I'm tired of that too. You 0:23:00.640 --> 0:23:03.440 want neiggle with money, you want niggle with time. Man, 0:23:03.600 --> 0:23:06.520 I feel like a mother. Even nigga is with money, 0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:08.120 like they make time for what they want to make 0:23:08.119 --> 0:23:11.080 time for. So if they want to see you, they're 0:23:11.080 --> 0:23:12.800 gonna make sure they make some time to see you. 0:23:12.920 --> 0:23:15.119 So I'm never letting the nigga use that as in 0:23:15.160 --> 0:23:18.520 a excuse, because that's what it is. When you fun 0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:20.400 with somebody, you want to see their ass, you want 0:23:20.400 --> 0:23:23.120 to touch on them, you wanna go eat with them, 0:23:23.160 --> 0:23:25.120 you want to be around them, even if they got 0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:27.160 to come with you with you to do the busy ship. 0:23:29.800 --> 0:23:32.600 But I can't come with you because I'm busy too. Okay, 0:23:32.720 --> 0:23:39.639 I just ain't got time. You're a psycho, so you 0:23:39.640 --> 0:23:41.200 want to niggle to have time when you got We 0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:44.639 don't me personally. I don't want like if I'm supposed 0:23:44.640 --> 0:23:46.480 to always be waiting for you to be available. That's 0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:50.600 in bullshit. You know. I can't I respect when someone 0:23:50.680 --> 0:23:52.520 says they don't have a lot of time because I 0:23:52.560 --> 0:23:55.680 feel like I don't have a lot of time either 0:23:56.480 --> 0:24:01.359 between work and this. You can't sit in my shot 0:24:01.400 --> 0:24:03.119 with me, You can't, nig Why are you here? This 0:24:03.160 --> 0:24:08.560 girl don't want you to see her or while I'm 0:24:08.600 --> 0:24:10.240 doing this. I don't need you just sitting in here 0:24:10.280 --> 0:24:13.200 listening to me, So like, listen to it when it airs, 0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:14.880 give me the stream, Nigga, don't sit in here while 0:24:14.920 --> 0:24:21.000 I'm right. So I can respect that you know someone, 0:24:21.080 --> 0:24:22.960