Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who
Speaker 1: talk back? What's up? Is your girl? A j Welcome
Speaker 1: to a new episode if we talk back? Aid, Hey,
Speaker 1: y'all stand Bawn. I kind of love y'all. I kind
Speaker 1: of don't like I'm feeling like city girls. When she
Speaker 1: said I'm googling on my period, being missing, is nigga
Speaker 1: fucking on me and I'm stressing? Then ship hitting right
Speaker 1: now except for ain't nobody sucking on me? But I'm
Speaker 1: stressed and I'm googling on my period. I don't even
Speaker 1: know what that means, but I feel like I'm doing it. Yes,
Speaker 1: I don't have my emotions. My emotions are all over
Speaker 1: the place. I don't have PMS. You know, I never
Speaker 1: did like i'd be the same every day until not.
Speaker 1: When I'm being messing, I don't even talk to people
Speaker 1: feel so you won't even know. I'm gonna just be
Speaker 1: laying the down. But I don't be mean. I feel
Speaker 1: like I don't have no choice but to talk to
Speaker 1: motherfucker's especially with us another contract, you know, contracted. It's
Speaker 1: like I got a choke hold in your life on
Speaker 1: my neck. And look, we are very good business partners.
Speaker 1: We are definitely fulfilling our contractual oppligations. Every problem is
Speaker 1: light work. Yes, it's actually fun. No, no, last it's
Speaker 1: a good time. Listen. So, how the funk was your
Speaker 1: Turkey day? Girl? I ate so much. I just I
Speaker 1: felt bad at the end of the night because I
Speaker 1: just ate to gluttons. Man, I ate she that I
Speaker 1: don't even eat like. I don't eat sweet potato pie,
Speaker 1: but I ate it yesterday. I don't even really like it,
Speaker 1: but I ate it. I ate two slices like sweet
Speaker 1: potato pie. I don't like pies. You like yams. I
Speaker 1: do like yams. Man. I know it's a different insistency.
Speaker 1: But dog, who don't like speepotative by? I think everybody me?
Speaker 1: I just said, I don't like the world. Who don't
Speaker 1: like I don't like pies? But what's the difference between
Speaker 1: I know, the difference between a pie and a cake.
Speaker 1: But so you don't like mashed up fruits and vegetables?
Speaker 1: Is that what it is? I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think it's a texture. Oh you know, you might
Speaker 1: be inspect it's not. I think sometimes I do because
Speaker 1: my tone gets comes across the wrong with people all
Speaker 1: the time, and I I think I might be mildly
Speaker 1: on the spectrum. Shout out to us. I think everybody
Speaker 1: on the motherfucking's spectrum because that in a way, because
Speaker 1: I definitely can get on the spectrum sometimes. Then my
Speaker 1: sister and her fiance could not stop touching each other.
Speaker 1: It was getting on my nerves, like, get off each other.
Speaker 1: Damn y'all like each other that much. I smacked the
Speaker 1: ship out of both of y'all. Not you here because
Speaker 1: you already had a turkey date, bitch. I know, I
Speaker 1: would say it's so bad. I had grabbed my sister
Speaker 1: for ma for of her fiance. It was just like,
Speaker 1: you want somebody to hold your bitch, Come here, I
Speaker 1: hold you, hope, relax. My turkey day was all right, man,
Speaker 1: but you know I'm not the meat eater, and especially
Speaker 1: on Thanksgiving, that's when you're gonna get all the pig
Speaker 1: feet and the neck bones and turkey wings. You know
Speaker 1: one thing I miss. I missed turkey wings, and I
Speaker 1: do miss like my barbecue chicken off the grill. Other
Speaker 1: than that, I could do without all that ship. So
Speaker 1: I had to cook my own lot side of collar
Speaker 1: greens and I mean my own little mac and cheese.
Speaker 1: What what they gotta mac and cheese there? You can't hand.
Speaker 1: I just prefer my mac and cheese, that's all. Damn.
Speaker 1: I don't not feel like fight your girl. I I
Speaker 1: would get that to myself, ye'all. I don't feel like
Speaker 1: nobody mama mind or yours about the mother. Okay, ain't
Speaker 1: gonna say, but my low ass hannamac and cheese is
Speaker 1: going bitch, That's all I'm gonna say. And the other
Speaker 1: one still, the big one, the big one still there. Damn.
Speaker 1: You gotta accept change. Change is good and cheese don't
Speaker 1: cut it. We had a good time though. We were dancing,
Speaker 1: drink doing what every black family does. We play games.
Speaker 1: We danced, We raced in the street. I don't know
Speaker 1: if y'all do that where y'all from, but I always
Speaker 1: end up racing somebody at the end of the night
Speaker 1: at some point, drunk barefoot in the street because I'm
Speaker 1: from South Carolina. So I raised and I want I
Speaker 1: smoked him home per usual with that Bookie was looking
Speaker 1: like right down that street, bitch, like too of your
Speaker 1: basketball's on my back. They probably thought you was gonna
Speaker 1: lose because of that booky like it's holding you down.
Speaker 1: And no, that ship catapults me it lightspeed, bitch, ask
Speaker 1: me gone. On the video you can hear me say, bitch,
Speaker 1: shame goodness. Yeah, but I don't know, I have no
Speaker 1: I ate a bunch of sweets yesterday and I feel
Speaker 1: terrible today. On top of the lequor. It's like, you know,
Speaker 1: come Monday, I'm doing like a real live detox because
Speaker 1: I'm still not detox. I'm still not done. I'm going
Speaker 1: on vacation, so I'm just gonna eat. I'm gonna eat
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna eat a lot. I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 1: but I'm probably eat like fresh fruits and vegetables and
Speaker 1: fish like, but just a lot of it. But I
Speaker 1: don't want nothing heavy like that ship got me feeling
Speaker 1: that nigga iis was real yesterday. I was knocked out
Speaker 1: between eating all that ship and running my old ass
Speaker 1: running down the street at full speed a bitch with
Speaker 1: sleep by seven o'clock for about an hour. You should
Speaker 1: have probably ran some more. I'm sprints a get them
Speaker 1: calories about you get that food off. You're right well,
Speaker 1: I raised twice and I want both of them hosts
Speaker 1: couldn't mash my speed. I was Chicari rich tod I
Speaker 1: want to raise you one day. I run pretty fast. Girls,
Speaker 1: the funk out of you seeing that video, nig you
Speaker 1: look like mother fucking told I didn't. I didn't. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, let's go to you. We're gonna record it
Speaker 1: for the show because I'm gonna smoke the funk out
Speaker 1: of you and we're gonna see. We're gonna see. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna be out there, you cheating, you cheating,
Speaker 1: the low short ass sucking legs. Their motherfucker's go. We're
Speaker 1: gonna raise and we're gonna record it. I didn't share
Speaker 1: it with y'all. Say I can see a j Louise,
Speaker 1: So what else do we got going on? Yow oh.
Speaker 1: Kanye West said he wants cam back he geminiion. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think she's dating that white guy. I just
Speaker 1: really it's been a lot of time together. They're doing
Speaker 1: a movie. No, they she fucking with them. I think
Speaker 1: the whole family gonna so they're separated. You can date
Speaker 1: when you separated? Did they get separated through the courts?
Speaker 1: I'm assuming she's publican. I said, you Kim k don't
Speaker 1: waste some mother fucking time. That's me. Yeah, I like that.
Speaker 1: I like that. I used to not like her, but
Speaker 1: I actually like her. She does a lot of goods.
Speaker 1: I never not like Kim Kardashian, always like Kim King
Speaker 1: I did. I always felt like maybe she was a
Speaker 1: you know, culturally appropriated blackness for a while. But but
Speaker 1: looking at the worst that she does, like in like
Speaker 1: um just to reform and getting niggas off death row
Speaker 1: and all that stuff, like I gotta I can't salute that.
Speaker 1: I can't even lie. But then, you know, stuff like
Speaker 1: that is also still to me, it's still a part
Speaker 1: of white supremacy because they would put allow somebody like
Speaker 1: that to get in a position to make those changes
Speaker 1: because you have people, there's groups behind her. It's not
Speaker 1: like Kim Kay is doing this stuff by herselves and
Speaker 1: I forgot right, But it's her platform and her face
Speaker 1: that makes it go through. I'm saying, and that's that bullshit.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying that, um, because I feel
Speaker 1: like our organizations we should be able to do that
Speaker 1: without this bing make it happen for ourselves, right, we can't,
Speaker 1: But however, she can get in there and do the work.
Speaker 1: I'm proud of it, right, I'm yeah sat um My
Speaker 1: twin funk with her man because he definitely because I
Speaker 1: know exactly how she feels like when you see your
Speaker 1: ex with somebody like you really almost want them back
Speaker 1: in your mind even if you ended it. It's just
Speaker 1: like Danny about to go on and live happily ever
Speaker 1: after somebody else. I'm mad. I'm mad. Look a little kid,
Speaker 1: but you don't even one day ask back. You just
Speaker 1: only one them because they were somebody else. That's all
Speaker 1: it is. Kanye, I'll be your girlfriend. Yeah, kill each other.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't kill kanyeall understand him. Y'all kill each other.
Speaker 1: I can see you outside now with a white face
Speaker 1: man walking around looking like you about the robber, Brady. Look,
Speaker 1: did you see that there? UM? A lot of people
Speaker 1: are insinuating that UM, you know, the distribution UM label
Speaker 1: or whatever Empire records that Young Golf was associated with it.
Speaker 1: They're saying like the owner of it may have had
Speaker 1: they're saying the owner of it, and they're saying the
Speaker 1: owner of it may have had a UM life insurance
Speaker 1: policy on him. And mind you, a few of their
Speaker 1: artists have been killed. Um. Hold on a second, Well,
Speaker 1: that's smart. They have a life insurance policy on him
Speaker 1: because they have. Why are y'all? So you're trying to
Speaker 1: say he having them killed for the money. It's possible,
Speaker 1: very well possible. I don't know that's another conspiracy. Oh
Speaker 1: did you over the holiday? Did you see the new
Speaker 1: movie by um Kevin Harty? I watched it today. You
Speaker 1: watched the whole thing. I've watched it. What's your thoughts?
Speaker 1: All right? So Kevin Hard has a new mini series
Speaker 1: on Netflix call True Story, and it's really good, y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'll need to go watch it if you haven't. It's
Speaker 1: nice to see him doing something besides comedy because I
Speaker 1: don't thinking that funny. But I like him doing serious
Speaker 1: ship like I do. I prefer him doing stuff that
Speaker 1: or he's not trying to make us laugh. He has
Speaker 1: his times. A couple of his specials were funny, and
Speaker 1: then you know it's like hit and miss. It just
Speaker 1: may not be our cup of team. But I do
Speaker 1: think he's funny sometimes. Yeah, sometimes there was that deer
Speaker 1: brous ship. I still use that when I'm late. What's
Speaker 1: the joke? Uh? He said he was late because he
Speaker 1: ran into a deer borough on the highway. Is a
Speaker 1: half deer half zebra animal on the highway. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: still use that ship. I ran into a deer bro stupid.
Speaker 1: But yeah, the movie that show is good. I mean
Speaker 1: the mini series is really good and it definitely uh,
Speaker 1: especially if you're someone who's fame, you have fam er,
Speaker 1: you've gotten a lot of money, you don't got it
Speaker 1: out the mundy and made your way up and you
Speaker 1: have concerns about Oh no, I can't say that. I
Speaker 1: don't want to tell you all that ship as a spoiler.
Speaker 1: But you just you know about who's around you and
Speaker 1: who's what attensions are good and who's intentions are bad
Speaker 1: for you? Like you never know? Right, do you mean
Speaker 1: gott to be rich to have that happened on going on? Right? Hell,
Speaker 1: that's just people don't know what you're going on in life,
Speaker 1: and they count your pockets. Happens to every baby. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that was good. It was good. I don't know
Speaker 1: what I was expecting, but it was really good. I
Speaker 1: like the whole thing. I didn't I didn't have any expects.
Speaker 1: What's the snipe looked good too? He looked like he
Speaker 1: on a vegan diet Who Wesley? I think he is vegan?
Speaker 1: You know? Mm hmm he looked he look does he
Speaker 1: looks healthy? Mm hm yeah. I like Wesley's night Wesley.
Speaker 1: He's turning to look like too Wong fool Wesley back
Speaker 1: Man when he was younger and a woman. That was
Speaker 1: one of my favorite movies back then. Did you watch
Speaker 1: that movie Thank You Everything? I like that movie. It
Speaker 1: was John Legga, Jamo, Wesley Snipe. Who else was in that? Girl?
Speaker 1: You don't know? No nobody name. I don't know what
Speaker 1: you'd be really into fucking movies now? I just watched TV. Okay,
Speaker 1: I had to use my fucking brain space for some
Speaker 1: other ship. I can't be remembering this stuff this same
Speaker 1: way be forgetting people. I remember every phase, but I
Speaker 1: will forget your name, Holly Berry. I had a movie
Speaker 1: come out called Bruce I. It's Louis Losing Isaiah two
Speaker 1: part though. Go watch it it is. I saw the
Speaker 1: preview for it when I was flipping through Netflix. I
Speaker 1: passed it by Lesbian. I'm about to go watch that.
Speaker 1: I ain't never get to see Holly couch you before.
Speaker 1: I'm tuning in. It's just so nasty, yes, Holly, Yes,
Speaker 1: so you ain't have no Thanksgiving bade this year. No, man.
Speaker 1: People were sending me like their fees to be my
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving babe. You've seen that ship going around, like two
Speaker 1: hundred dollars. I come and I'll smile and talk with
Speaker 1: your family. Five hundred dollars. I whisper I love you
Speaker 1: across the room for everybody to see. I don't want
Speaker 1: to pay, So I ain't have no hollebey. He could
Speaker 1: have had somebody there. No, mm hmm mm hmm. Did
Speaker 1: you like I said that too fast? Yeah? This is
Speaker 1: the first year, uh in a while, the first holiday
Speaker 1: season that I've been single, So no, no bay at
Speaker 1: the dinner table. I've been single every holiday since two
Speaker 1: thousand sixteen. You said, like Kevin Hart when he she
Speaker 1: don't say his age, Yo, Nancy, Kevin Hart might be
Speaker 1: like funny, how it was a certain person you went
Speaker 1: to college with, and that nigga is just was fucking funny,
Speaker 1: just regular. But I see that nigg and do stand
Speaker 1: up and I had second hand embarrassment. Yeah, yeah, he's
Speaker 1: just naturally funny. But like when you have en scripted,
Speaker 1: it's not it's just naturally funny. So maybe that's Kevin Hardship,
Speaker 1: like he's gonna say some funny ship that kicked back
Speaker 1: at the house right off the dome. But yeah, I've
Speaker 1: been in there single by myself every year since two
Speaker 1: thousands sixteen. I'm getting used to it. It's not so bad.
Speaker 1: My niece didn't say something to me that made me
Speaker 1: almost double backslap her ass in front of everybody. But
Speaker 1: I didn't happen because I said, y'all need to get
Speaker 1: in the kitchen. Y'all need to figure out y'all need
Speaker 1: to learn how to cook some of this stuff, Like
Speaker 1: come in the kitchen with us and learn what you're
Speaker 1: gonna do. When you get a man, you can't feed
Speaker 1: him no turkey sandwich. She's like, well, you know how
Speaker 1: to cook all that stuff and you still ain't got
Speaker 1: no man. Girls slapping out here. Girl. I had to
Speaker 1: walk outside with my mimosa and I had to recite
Speaker 1: Sierra's Prairie to myself three times before I walked back
Speaker 1: in the house. Bitch, hey, she would have got her
Speaker 1: asks be that, like it's the truth now, it's the
Speaker 1: truth now, right, but you have to say it. I
Speaker 1: just want you to like that's your DNA, bitch, because
Speaker 1: you would have had that same rebutto at eighteen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you would have said the same ship to her. And
Speaker 1: my mama thought it was so funny, and I was like, girl,
Speaker 1: you ain't got no man hen you're laughing at with that?
Speaker 1: Go to old potato salad. Keep nigga, I don't even
Speaker 1: know what these niggas want. No more dogs. Do they
Speaker 1: even want to eat? I don't even think they want
Speaker 1: to eat. They ain't working no more door dashed, the
Speaker 1: fun everything up for a bitch. These niggas just want you.
Speaker 1: They don't know what they want, girl, is what you
Speaker 1: fucking follida ass blindly do what they say. I'm sicking
Speaker 1: niggas telling me they don't like the word no, so
Speaker 1: I can't tell you know about nothing. I don't like
Speaker 1: the word okay. It just depends on what the funk
Speaker 1: I'm saying no about it. If it's anything to do
Speaker 1: with my anatomy, no, nigga, I can say no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not getting on the scale in front of you.
Speaker 1: See you can see how much I wait. No, nigga,
Speaker 1: why does it matter you like? Do you like fat
Speaker 1: bitches or not? Like? Girl? You're not even a fat.
Speaker 1: Shut up. We bunked it all over Nigga forehead, come here,
Speaker 1: come here. We were like, all right, we're not fat.
Speaker 1: In South Carolina and Georgia, we might be fat and
Speaker 1: I here we're straight. F l A, Okay, we find
Speaker 1: it hell in the South, he just and that's where
Speaker 1: I live, so we geographically fit. Bitch girl, let's face
Speaker 1: some bills real quick. So I had this conversation with
Speaker 1: this guy while I was driving back home from Thanksgiving
Speaker 1: about why we didn't work, and it helped me to
Speaker 1: create content for today's episode because I told him that
Speaker 1: he didn't want to love me based upon my love languages.
Speaker 1: He didn't want to speak to those love languages, and
Speaker 1: that's why we didn't work. Because he wanted to love
Speaker 1: me the way that he enjoyed being loved instead of
Speaker 1: how I did. So that was a problem for me.
Speaker 1: And he said, because I want gifts, I just want
Speaker 1: to nigga to buy me what I don't want to know.
Speaker 1: Niggat to buy me just because that's my love language,
Speaker 1: don't mean that that's what I want to be bought.
Speaker 1: First of all, if I wanted to be bought, you
Speaker 1: probably couldn't afford it. I'm not you know what I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: let's keep his spade. I'm not trying to be bought
Speaker 1: by you, but I do want you to speak to
Speaker 1: my love language, you know. And I told him I
Speaker 1: grew up with I didn't we I grew up with
Speaker 1: a lot of love, but I didn't grow up grow
Speaker 1: up with a lot of stuff, you know. And I
Speaker 1: like motherfucker's stuff. And they don't have to be like,
Speaker 1: go buy me a house or go buy me that
Speaker 1: new Mercedes g l E that I want in white
Speaker 1: with black interior. Not that I mean, but if you're listening, yes,
Speaker 1: but if you know whatever, it don't have to be that.
Speaker 1: If you see, if you listen to what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: and I said, I like vanilla candles, and then you
Speaker 1: come over here with a vanilla candle because you saw
Speaker 1: it was on sale when he was walking through turret,
Speaker 1: that ship absolutely mean something. That's yeah, that's a coach
Speaker 1: coch cooper thing. What I'm saying from Yeah, just a
Speaker 1: little ship like that. It's thoughtful and I like stuff
Speaker 1: like that. But I'm also the same way because I'll
Speaker 1: be walking through the store and damn sure to look,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick it up. I feel like women always
Speaker 1: buying men low trinkets and stuff like that, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But they asked, they act like, I
Speaker 1: don't know. They always act like somebody trying to play
Speaker 1: them if they buy them something like I'm trying like
Speaker 1: I bought you ship too. I'm not trying to finesse you.
Speaker 1: But I like to receive things. I won't say like
Speaker 1: you say, um, like receiving gifts. Gifts is my love language.
Speaker 1: But I do love gifts like which what woman doesn't
Speaker 1: I think? Um? Did we talk about the five love languages?
Speaker 1: So the five love languages is you know, words of affirmation, uh,
Speaker 1: quality time, physical touch, access service, receiving gifts. I would
Speaker 1: say my love language would probably lean more towards like
Speaker 1: the physical touch and quality time because which I like
Speaker 1: to lay up and watch TV and touch. That's my
Speaker 1: least one is to touch. I love it. I like
Speaker 1: the kids, I like I like huddling, and I do
Speaker 1: like touching. But I don't like motherfucker's touching me, you know,
Speaker 1: like I have to be the aggressive when it comes
Speaker 1: to touching. I don't know, you know, what I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say that because I don't like motherfucker's I don't
Speaker 1: like like that trying to touch. That's different exactly. That
Speaker 1: wouldn't I'm with you, it's no quality time. I'm not ready,
Speaker 1: but I would have like if when they can even
Speaker 1: touched my back and I feel like if you got
Speaker 1: slapped in the back, you know how your body would
Speaker 1: just dirt for it. That's what it would feel like. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm not about don't touch any quality time for
Speaker 1: somebody I don't like. So that's not what I'm saying. Like,
Speaker 1: of course you're gonna be like I've been with somebody.
Speaker 1: When you start start falling out of love with somebody,
Speaker 1: when they touch you, it's like, don't touch me. That's
Speaker 1: when you really when you know ship is over. But
Speaker 1: when you like somebody, you're feeling somebody like quality time
Speaker 1: and in touching like I love that. I love for
Speaker 1: somebody to rub me up. We don't even gotta gifts
Speaker 1: and quality of the time, gifts and quality time. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: So buy me some ship and send some time with me.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah. You ain't gotta say like words of
Speaker 1: information that's cool to that would probably my third most important.
Speaker 1: But um I don't need that. I'd be affirming myself
Speaker 1: in the here. I need you to buy me some
Speaker 1: nice ship that you saw that I light, throw some
Speaker 1: gas in my tain, pick up the sandwich I enjoy.
Speaker 1: But this ain't even like every day. You gotta come
Speaker 1: in the house with something in your hand for me that.
Speaker 1: I'm not like that. But I just like nice gifts
Speaker 1: and then quality time because the type of men I
Speaker 1: usually date have money and no time. I'm finding that
Speaker 1: to be m a what's the word of a pattern?
Speaker 1: Everybody got money, they got money for gifts, but they
Speaker 1: ain't got no time. I'm tired of that too. You
Speaker 1: want neiggle with money, you want niggle with time. Man,
Speaker 1: I feel like a mother. Even nigga is with money,
Speaker 1: like they make time for what they want to make
Speaker 1: time for. So if they want to see you, they're
Speaker 1: gonna make sure they make some time to see you.
Speaker 1: So I'm never letting the nigga use that as in
Speaker 1: a excuse, because that's what it is. When you fun
Speaker 1: with somebody, you want to see their ass, you want
Speaker 1: to touch on them, you wanna go eat with them,
Speaker 1: you want to be around them, even if they got
Speaker 1: to come with you with you to do the busy ship.
Speaker 1: But I can't come with you because I'm busy too. Okay,
Speaker 1: I just ain't got time. You're a psycho, so you
Speaker 1: want to niggle to have time when you got We
Speaker 1: don't me personally. I don't want like if I'm supposed
Speaker 1: to always be waiting for you to be available. That's
Speaker 1: in bullshit. You know. I can't I respect when someone
Speaker 1: says they don't have a lot of time because I
Speaker 1: feel like I don't have a lot of time either
Speaker 1: between work and this. You can't sit in my shot
Speaker 1: with me, You can't, nig Why are you here? This
Speaker 1: girl don't want you to see her or while I'm
Speaker 1: doing this. I don't need you just sitting in here
Speaker 1: listening to me, So like, listen to it when it airs,
Speaker 1: give me the stream, Nigga, don't sit in here while
Speaker 1: I'm right. So I can respect that you know someone,
Speaker 1: But when you do have free time, I want you
Speaker 1: to give it to me. But then what if they
Speaker 1: got kids? Then you gotta calculate your free time. Your
Speaker 1: free time might be one them kids. That's how I feel.
Speaker 1: But you know we don't have kids. Just like selfish
Speaker 1: with that. But I that's one of the reasons why
Speaker 1: I don't like when niggas with kids or like the
Speaker 1: beginning stages where you don't know the kid, the kid
Speaker 1: can't hang around you, and this dumb ship that be
Speaker 1: going on. It's like this kid don't know who's who.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But that's what I don't
Speaker 1: like when the nigga got kids. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta wait, I gotta wait for you to be available.
Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like competing for time between you,
Speaker 1: for you between you know, me and this kid all
Speaker 1: the time. It doesn't get comfortable until you know, y'all
Speaker 1: can all hang out together. You know. Now we can
Speaker 1: if we want to go do something fun, we could
Speaker 1: take the kid with us. But it's that little stupid,
Speaker 1: little funky stage I don't like. Yeah, that's weird. I
Speaker 1: don't like it so basically, but I haven't experienced that
Speaker 1: that much. Um, I've only really taken serious one guy
Speaker 1: with kids, So the rest of them might be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you gotta go with your baby, but I make it next,
Speaker 1: you know. But but there is only one guy that
Speaker 1: I've taken serious with kids, and his kids were on
Speaker 1: a different continent when we were dating, so it wasn't
Speaker 1: like they were always around right out of sight, out
Speaker 1: of mind. But then when they came around, it was cool.
Speaker 1: By the time I did finally meet and we were serious,
Speaker 1: and they were sweet little girls, and I did grow
Speaker 1: to build a relationship with them individually interesting, so I
Speaker 1: never had to have another show about niggas and kids.
Speaker 1: Have you ever dated a single father? Yeah? Yeah, the
Speaker 1: kids were living two kids and yet one lived full time.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. It would be regular. But then you know,
Speaker 1: you get with somebody like that and if you plan
Speaker 1: on being with them a long term, like you automatically
Speaker 1: turned into mama. And I just felt like I never
Speaker 1: got any grace, like a grace for that, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm literally coming from this single ass
Speaker 1: fucking lifestyle to being a mama. I felt like that
Speaker 1: just over the summer that when we had kids, Damn,
Speaker 1: I'm my whole MoMA. Here. They're gonna get to go
Speaker 1: to work and I get to stay here with these kids.
Speaker 1: You know, some days I don't eat, Like I'll eat
Speaker 1: some bullshit and be content and go to sleep, Like
Speaker 1: when you are responsible for other people's nourishment, like you
Speaker 1: seem like you always fucking cooking, like breaking lunch and
Speaker 1: dinner like this nigga had me in the schedule. Like
Speaker 1: even if he just ate just based on the time
Speaker 1: of day, he's like acting like he didn't even eat
Speaker 1: because of the time of day. Like breakfast is at
Speaker 1: this time, luncheon is at this time, and dinner is
Speaker 1: by this time. If I want to feed that nigger
Speaker 1: dinner at five o'clock, he like, I eat. We did eat, Nigga,
Speaker 1: it just wasn't darker dinner at five o'clock. That's not late.
Speaker 1: That's a good dinner. No, that's to earn that. I'd
Speaker 1: be right there with him. Yeah, we ain't sucking eat
Speaker 1: that was a snack at five. No, you could have
Speaker 1: a snack later on in the evening if you're still hungry.
Speaker 1: But no, dinner is dinner time. It's dinner time. But
Speaker 1: there was my snack. I don't know what to him
Speaker 1: trying to eat before seven o'clock. It's like, I can't
Speaker 1: keep up with my little personal should I like to
Speaker 1: do for myself When you have other people you're responsible for, man,
Speaker 1: shout out to parents. Man, jeez, you're a parents. Seems
Speaker 1: so hard. I commend you all. Man, he's like in
Speaker 1: a motherfucking yourn either. Yeah, they love them, but they
Speaker 1: don't like them all the time. Yeah, I can get that.
Speaker 1: It's just not when they love languages. So affirmation is
Speaker 1: like somebody sending you text messages all the time, Uh,
Speaker 1: just affirming your day, Like would you like something like that?
Speaker 1: It's you know, honestly, I think my love language just
Speaker 1: change depending on the man sometimes because and how I
Speaker 1: feel about the being, because I would like that from
Speaker 1: somebody I like a lot. But when I get that
Speaker 1: good morning queen text fro when the guy ain't really
Speaker 1: feeling I'm like, what get you all? Get your motherfucking
Speaker 1: man off my text good morning queen. But if I
Speaker 1: like you, I'd be like, good morning kings. I'll never
Speaker 1: say good morning king. I know me neither. I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm like a whole nigger. I'd be like yo, that's me.
Speaker 1: I'd be like ya yo. I don't know, but I
Speaker 1: do think your love languagees can change listening. Just like
Speaker 1: you said, from person to person, we got too much
Speaker 1: control of women. It's like everything is cool and so
Speaker 1: you don't like a nigger, that nigga can smack your
Speaker 1: ass on the jam job is not sexual harassing unless
Speaker 1: you ugly. You know, I don't like you funked up,
Speaker 1: all right, That's why it's just best to not do it.
Speaker 1: I just don't smack nobody asks on the job whether
Speaker 1: you think she like you or not. The workplaces changed, guys,
Speaker 1: hasn't it. You used to be able to grab them
Speaker 1: by not no more. I'm going to take that that
Speaker 1: love language um tests. What was the website again? So yeah, guys,
Speaker 1: if you want to determine what your love languages are,
Speaker 1: we didn't say that, Like, how the funk do they
Speaker 1: know what they love languages are? We took a quiz,
Speaker 1: so it's um if you go to five, it's the
Speaker 1: number five love languages dot com. You can go ahead
Speaker 1: and take the quiz and then tell you what your
Speaker 1: love languages are based on your personality. It's a personality test,
Speaker 1: So go take that test and figure out who the
Speaker 1: funk you are, so you can determine what your love
Speaker 1: languages are. And that is how you want to receive love.
Speaker 1: That's not how you give love to others, right with
Speaker 1: your love language is how you want to respect and
Speaker 1: I think so you have to discover what your partner's
Speaker 1: love languages too, so you know you can give it
Speaker 1: to them the way they wanted. And I think the
Speaker 1: easiest way is just to find somebody who may have
Speaker 1: the same love languages as you do, or just have
Speaker 1: the same definition of love as you do, just to
Speaker 1: make it a little bit easier. I don't know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I just need to understand what your love
Speaker 1: languages are so I can fulfill them for you. They
Speaker 1: don't have to be the same as mine. If you
Speaker 1: need me to affirm you somewhere, I'll put posted notes
Speaker 1: up in the bar room, in your bar room so
Speaker 1: you can be reassured. Most men, most men love language,
Speaker 1: maybe like uh, physical touch, words of information. I think
Speaker 1: men need a lot of affirmation, you know. They they're
Speaker 1: not as secure as they you know, may appear. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and they live in the world where they get beat
Speaker 1: up a lot by us. So I feel like most
Speaker 1: men like that's how they feel good. You're telling them
Speaker 1: nice stuff, how well they're doing. I'm good at that too,
Speaker 1: Damn boy, you find that. I'm so proud of you,
Speaker 1: So smart you're such a good telling can he fine
Speaker 1: all day long? Because I like to look at men.
Speaker 1: You're such a good father, you're such a great son,
Speaker 1: and your grandma's so lucky to have you. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's how I talk to these things. But do you
Speaker 1: do that to all niggas or just the nigga you like?
Speaker 1: Just the niggas. I like the nigga who I don't like.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, well, I get the funk out of
Speaker 1: my face with that. Put the guy I told you,
Speaker 1: just change the oil. It's like talking toad. No, I don't.
Speaker 1: I'd be nice. I'm too nice. That's my problem. No,
Speaker 1: I'm ladies, affirm your men. He may he may not.
Speaker 1: You know a lot of men don't know what love
Speaker 1: languages are, right, But I can assure you that those
Speaker 1: words of affirmation is most especially black men. That's gonna
Speaker 1: be like the number one thing I believe. All Right,
Speaker 1: Do you tell you man how good his dick is
Speaker 1: and stuff like yeah, if I'm getting some good dick,
Speaker 1: I need you to know because it ain't good until
Speaker 1: I tell you. Don't assume not only during sex, or
Speaker 1: do you say to your grass up like you know
Speaker 1: that did good? Right, like, Oh, I'm working a day
Speaker 1: and my pussy is so sore. You take it so good? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can you pay this? Look? Can you pay this?
Speaker 1: And like if your ladies, if you try to get
Speaker 1: something about that man, you gotta affirm them first and
Speaker 1: then asks for right but not but don't ask right
Speaker 1: after the affirmation, then give it, give it for hours. Yeah,
Speaker 1: y'all trying to figure out how to get money out
Speaker 1: of men. Just give him a lot of send a
Speaker 1: lot of affirming text messages and ship like that and
Speaker 1: say it to his face, look him in his eyes
Speaker 1: and tell him how he ages. And also how are
Speaker 1: you so grateful for buy them something? Also real good?
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. But you also gotta mean it to you.
Speaker 1: I mean you should. You ain't got it, but you
Speaker 1: shouldn't mean it. You ever told nig his sex was good?
Speaker 1: And I'm not one of those. I'm not about to
Speaker 1: play with you. I don't have some good little dick.
Speaker 1: I don't have some bad big dick. Like I'm not
Speaker 1: about it's not about that. So if the dick is
Speaker 1: not good, I'm gonna let you know I'm not satisfied.
Speaker 1: And I don't even like try to um I remember
Speaker 1: this one dude, how you say it? So this one
Speaker 1: guy was working with once. I really liked him, were
Speaker 1: real good friends. And it's just like he was licking
Speaker 1: my pussy like stupid, just like a rug Like he
Speaker 1: wasn't he just wasn't licking my pussy dead. So I
Speaker 1: just sent him so many videos a pussy licking like
Speaker 1: just because it's not like he was unwilling to do it.
Speaker 1: He just he just said, yeah, yeah, I told him
Speaker 1: I had already. I had all these talked to him
Speaker 1: about the head beforehand. So now I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: send you like some instructional guides at this point, because
Speaker 1: that's a big thing for me. Like I really really
Speaker 1: really really really like con lingus, like you really gotta
Speaker 1: I don't stiff, Like why are you going? Well? I
Speaker 1: like that. Sometimes it just depends. I like a combo,
Speaker 1: just combo console. But guy like you, you can't even
Speaker 1: do that. You're just licking this ship like a bowl
Speaker 1: of milk. I need you to watch these goddamn videos,
Speaker 1: dog and like a kiddy cat. And you wonder why
Speaker 1: my shop always dry, Like you know, men, a lot
Speaker 1: of times women pussy be dry because you don't turn
Speaker 1: them on, Like your touches is not turned them on.
Speaker 1: How you doing they body is just not turn them on.
Speaker 1: Because when a woman is into a man, just a
Speaker 1: mere thought of him, that pussy might get wet, like
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking about you and like damn yeah, and
Speaker 1: then you hate cochi drying. No, you just was not entertaining.
Speaker 1: It was sleep. You weren't affirmative. No, But so couches
Speaker 1: just be dry too, though, mm hmm, not mine, girl,
Speaker 1: I don't even sweat that much. That's how I know.
Speaker 1: It's just be straight fucking juices. What was that watching
Speaker 1: they was talking about, Like big girls like Hi, that
Speaker 1: stay pussy probably be super juicy because you got the
Speaker 1: pussy juice and add the sweat. You know that that
Speaker 1: should be does. I don't like that real mac, that
Speaker 1: good mac and cheese because it's sweat. I don't like
Speaker 1: that coucci wingy and ch'awston like when you must see
Speaker 1: be called wingy, Like yeah, wingy is musty, you shame. Okay,
Speaker 1: hold that thought one second. Let's play some bills dumb
Speaker 1: bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb bitch at
Speaker 1: least once or twice Listen, I do have a dumb
Speaker 1: bitch story. It's actually an article though it's not um.
Speaker 1: It's not anyone uh no one's sentence for any advice.
Speaker 1: But this is an article I found in New York Post.
Speaker 1: He says this woman was swindled out of a hundred
Speaker 1: ninety k by Kahneman after matching on tender. I just
Speaker 1: never understand how bitches be getting finessed on dating websites,
Speaker 1: like how it could be hopeless romantics hopeless. The motherfucker
Speaker 1: is what? No hopeful hopeless romantics don't say that. Listen.
Speaker 1: This says a Middle Eastern woman has been swindled out
Speaker 1: of it's a hundred and forty k U, a hundred
Speaker 1: forty thousand UM whatever their dollars, but it's UM equal
Speaker 1: to eight thousand U S dollars. After falling four fraudster
Speaker 1: on tender um m rita Sebastian who lives in Dubai,
Speaker 1: matched with thirty eight year old British man Richard Dixter.
Speaker 1: Excuse me, Richard Dexter, he same City Boy times twenty
Speaker 1: on a dating app. The pair began exchanging messages, with
Speaker 1: Dexter claiming he was a successful businessman um selling bio
Speaker 1: farmer software. He told Sebastian that multinational corporations weren't interested
Speaker 1: in signing a major deal with him, and that he
Speaker 1: was on the verge of a big windfall. The Daily
Speaker 1: The Daily Mail reported he purportedly proclaimed American company three
Speaker 1: M was one of the companies interested in signing a
Speaker 1: multimillion dollar deal. Dexter allegedly told Sebastian that he needed
Speaker 1: with some money to start production of a piece of
Speaker 1: the scientific equipment that would allow him to ink the
Speaker 1: major contracts. Sebastian, who was based in Dubai but frequently
Speaker 1: travels to the UK, initially sent over fifty three thousand,
Speaker 1: three hundred dollars believing believing it was an investment that
Speaker 1: would also result in receiving substantial profits. She sent another
Speaker 1: nine hundred and fifty thousand two months later. Havening't been
Speaker 1: assured that Dexter could cover all losses she might make.
Speaker 1: And this nigga fine too. He's fine. He's not a
Speaker 1: I mean, he's a the ladies from Dubai. He's a
Speaker 1: European white guy. Fine, fine, fine, Sebastian says that. Then
Speaker 1: um Sebastian says She then continue to send money to
Speaker 1: protect the initial investment, with Dexter promising that the windfall
Speaker 1: was just around the corner. However, the fortune did not
Speaker 1: materialize in Sebastian contacted the British Police. The cops commenced
Speaker 1: an investigation rating Dexter's home, where they found a document
Speaker 1: claiming he had more than five million dollars invested in
Speaker 1: financial services company. However, the account actually belonged to a
Speaker 1: friend and final balance was just forty nine cents. He
Speaker 1: had forty nine sins to his name, well in a
Speaker 1: bank anyway. What he did with all the money? I
Speaker 1: guess he's been taking it out. Dexter was subsequently charged
Speaker 1: and pleaded guilty to seven counts of fraud in British
Speaker 1: court earlier this week. He is now facing the prospect
Speaker 1: of jail time. Dexter used Sebastian's hard earned money on himself,
Speaker 1: but lawyers did not disclose how he splashed the cash.
Speaker 1: Experts caution hopeless romantics from sending money to people they
Speaker 1: met on dating apps, and Sebastian's sad experience is not
Speaker 1: all that uncommon, bitch? Is how are y'all getting finessed
Speaker 1: on these pieces of fish. I call it piece pieces
Speaker 1: of fish. This is tender she was on. But how
Speaker 1: like a nigger, I know, kid finessing me out of money.
Speaker 1: I'm definitely not letting a stranger. Right. She must got
Speaker 1: a bag though, hell yeah, Like because she sounds like
Speaker 1: she's an investor, like she has she probably he probably,
Speaker 1: you know, sold the idea to her and she saw
Speaker 1: a good investment opportunity. So he should go to job
Speaker 1: for that. It's not like she just was sending him
Speaker 1: money just for nothing, right, But any investment, you take
Speaker 1: a chance on losing it, and even when you're buying
Speaker 1: pounds of weeds, like it might get long, all right,
Speaker 1: So so that you guys just take your you know,
Speaker 1: there's a lot though I'm not taking that l He's
Speaker 1: gonna have to get the funk up out of here
Speaker 1: if you don't go to prison. He got a desk.
Speaker 1: I lay on that nigga for two years, but he
Speaker 1: gotta get the funk out of here. You gotta get
Speaker 1: out of here. Hi and J popping up back out
Speaker 1: after two years, like, oh yeah, you thought she was sweet,
Speaker 1: you thought she was good. Yep, I'm meeting that. They're
Speaker 1: gonna tender again in two years exactly as a different bitch.
Speaker 1: You're gonna get it. You guess what's coming to him?
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that was a dumb bitch innocent
Speaker 1: series right there, because he ended up going to jail
Speaker 1: for trying to finess and she got played out of
Speaker 1: a lot of money. I wonder this. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you what I get these niggas a baker dagger cheese
Speaker 1: to go. I'll make you a sauce. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: At the house to go. You can't even sit down
Speaker 1: and eat it here. I'm just junking. I'm just joking.
Speaker 1: I'll be tricking when I like right exactly, be over there,
Speaker 1: packet bag lunches. Did you good? Drop a lunch? 'all
Speaker 1: te naked job, You're good? Back lunch with forty dollars.
Speaker 1: This is this is why I don't understand how men
Speaker 1: say like women, these are modern women. We just don't
Speaker 1: do nothing nice, Like let's just be bending over backwards
Speaker 1: for men they want. I don't know what these guys
Speaker 1: to talk about. I remember one time I was dating
Speaker 1: this guy. He was military and he worked on the
Speaker 1: flight line, right and I wanted to bring him a
Speaker 1: sandwich because he was hungry. That baby was hungry. So
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'll bring you some food. And
Speaker 1: I went on the military base to bring him the food,
Speaker 1: and I turned my car on the flight line. And
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all know what the flight line is,
Speaker 1: but you definitely don't want to drive your car on it, Okay.
Speaker 1: So then the military police came to my car and
Speaker 1: they like rushed my car with guns and ship and
Speaker 1: I just wanted to bring a nigga sandwich. Why do
Speaker 1: you go through all these things, like good guys trying
Speaker 1: to teach me a lesson. Whatever it is, Lord, I've
Speaker 1: received it. Lord, I don't know God is telling you
Speaker 1: to pay attention, bitch, because I'm pretty sure it was
Speaker 1: a sign that says, do not enter, do not drive
Speaker 1: your car on the flight line. I turned my happy
Speaker 1: ass right in it. Stupid, I'm about to go to jail,
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Speaker 1: knowing because I smelling. But y'all, I guess, so I listen.
Speaker 1: I need to stop talking about my preferences on here.
Speaker 1: It's not like I just be out here smashing everybody.
Speaker 1: Rob Man, that's what you're gonna have you, But no,
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody assumes that used to smash everybody wrong.
Speaker 1: I just think you smash every time wrong. It's just like,
Speaker 1: why do it if you're not gonna enjoy it? Like,
Speaker 1: do nobody feel like that? Damn balloon? And smelling like latex. Yeah,
Speaker 1: from my size, there's skin. Listen, there's condoms that do
Speaker 1: feel like we need a condoms We need someone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we need a safe sex, safe sex representative outside of
Speaker 1: me to talk about the importance of protection because you're
Speaker 1: gonna have our all our listeners wrong. Listen. We need
Speaker 1: to go ahead and populate the earth anyway, y'all. They
Speaker 1: try to say it's only black people out this bitch,
Speaker 1: we need all what no, I said, Ladies, don't abortion
Speaker 1: your wounds. We need more warriors soon. Listen. Have your babies, lady, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have them kids. But it's easy for me to
Speaker 1: say because I ain't gonna had to take care of
Speaker 1: I'm using condoms. Yeah, I might even help, I might
Speaker 1: pick them up, but I love as I can drop
Speaker 1: their assack off at your house. Listen. If you guys
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