1 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who 2 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 1: talk back? What's up? Is your girl? A j Welcome 3 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: to a new episode if we talk back? Aid, Hey, 4 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: y'all stand Bawn. I kind of love y'all. I kind 5 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: of don't like I'm feeling like city girls. When she 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,800 Speaker 1: said I'm googling on my period, being missing, is nigga 7 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: fucking on me and I'm stressing? Then ship hitting right 8 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: now except for ain't nobody sucking on me? But I'm 9 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: stressed and I'm googling on my period. I don't even 10 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 1: know what that means, but I feel like I'm doing it. Yes, 11 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 1: I don't have my emotions. My emotions are all over 12 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 1: the place. I don't have PMS. You know, I never 13 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: did like i'd be the same every day until not. 14 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: When I'm being messing, I don't even talk to people 15 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: feel so you won't even know. I'm gonna just be 16 00:00:56,040 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: laying the down. But I don't be mean. I feel 17 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: like I don't have no choice but to talk to 18 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: motherfucker's especially with us another contract, you know, contracted. It's 19 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: like I got a choke hold in your life on 20 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: my neck. And look, we are very good business partners. 21 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: We are definitely fulfilling our contractual oppligations. Every problem is 22 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: light work. Yes, it's actually fun. No, no, last it's 23 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:31,119 Speaker 1: a good time. Listen. So, how the funk was your 24 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: Turkey day? Girl? I ate so much. I just I 25 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: felt bad at the end of the night because I 26 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: just ate to gluttons. Man, I ate she that I 27 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: don't even eat like. I don't eat sweet potato pie, 28 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: but I ate it yesterday. I don't even really like it, 29 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: but I ate it. I ate two slices like sweet 30 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: potato pie. I don't like pies. You like yams. I 31 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: do like yams. Man. I know it's a different insistency. 32 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: But dog, who don't like speepotative by? I think everybody me? 33 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: I just said, I don't like the world. Who don't 34 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: like I don't like pies? But what's the difference between 35 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 1: I know, the difference between a pie and a cake. 36 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: But so you don't like mashed up fruits and vegetables? 37 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: Is that what it is? I don't know. I don't know. 38 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: I think it's a texture. Oh you know, you might 39 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: be inspect it's not. I think sometimes I do because 40 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,399 Speaker 1: my tone gets comes across the wrong with people all 41 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: the time, and I I think I might be mildly 42 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: on the spectrum. Shout out to us. I think everybody 43 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: on the motherfucking's spectrum because that in a way, because 44 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: I definitely can get on the spectrum sometimes. Then my 45 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: sister and her fiance could not stop touching each other. 46 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: It was getting on my nerves, like, get off each other. 47 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: Damn y'all like each other that much. I smacked the 48 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: ship out of both of y'all. Not you here because 49 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: you already had a turkey date, bitch. I know, I 50 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: would say it's so bad. I had grabbed my sister 51 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: for ma for of her fiance. It was just like, 52 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: you want somebody to hold your bitch, Come here, I 53 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: hold you, hope, relax. My turkey day was all right, man, 54 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: but you know I'm not the meat eater, and especially 55 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: on Thanksgiving, that's when you're gonna get all the pig 56 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: feet and the neck bones and turkey wings. You know 57 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: one thing I miss. I missed turkey wings, and I 58 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: do miss like my barbecue chicken off the grill. Other 59 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: than that, I could do without all that ship. So 60 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: I had to cook my own lot side of collar 61 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: greens and I mean my own little mac and cheese. 62 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: What what they gotta mac and cheese there? You can't hand. 63 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: I just prefer my mac and cheese, that's all. Damn. 64 00:03:55,880 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 1: I don't not feel like fight your girl. I I 65 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: would get that to myself, ye'all. I don't feel like 66 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: nobody mama mind or yours about the mother. Okay, ain't 67 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: gonna say, but my low ass hannamac and cheese is 68 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: going bitch, That's all I'm gonna say. And the other 69 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: one still, the big one, the big one still there. Damn. 70 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: You gotta accept change. Change is good and cheese don't 71 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: cut it. We had a good time though. We were dancing, 72 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 1: drink doing what every black family does. We play games. 73 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 1: We danced, We raced in the street. I don't know 74 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: if y'all do that where y'all from, but I always 75 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 1: end up racing somebody at the end of the night 76 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: at some point, drunk barefoot in the street because I'm 77 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 1: from South Carolina. So I raised and I want I 78 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: smoked him home per usual with that Bookie was looking 79 00:04:56,360 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 1: like right down that street, bitch, like too of your 80 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: basketball's on my back. They probably thought you was gonna 81 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: lose because of that booky like it's holding you down. 82 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: And no, that ship catapults me it lightspeed, bitch, ask 83 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: me gone. On the video you can hear me say, bitch, 84 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: shame goodness. Yeah, but I don't know, I have no 85 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: I ate a bunch of sweets yesterday and I feel 86 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: terrible today. On top of the lequor. It's like, you know, 87 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 1: come Monday, I'm doing like a real live detox because 88 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 1: I'm still not detox. I'm still not done. I'm going 89 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: on vacation, so I'm just gonna eat. I'm gonna eat 90 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna eat a lot. I'm not gonna lie, 91 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 1: but I'm probably eat like fresh fruits and vegetables and 92 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: fish like, but just a lot of it. But I 93 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: don't want nothing heavy like that ship got me feeling 94 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 1: that nigga iis was real yesterday. I was knocked out 95 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: between eating all that ship and running my old ass 96 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: running down the street at full speed a bitch with 97 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 1: sleep by seven o'clock for about an hour. You should 98 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 1: have probably ran some more. I'm sprints a get them 99 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 1: calories about you get that food off. You're right well, 100 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: I raised twice and I want both of them hosts 101 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: couldn't mash my speed. I was Chicari rich tod I 102 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: want to raise you one day. I run pretty fast. Girls, 103 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 1: the funk out of you seeing that video, nig you 104 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: look like mother fucking told I didn't. I didn't. Okay, 105 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: all right, let's go to you. We're gonna record it 106 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: for the show because I'm gonna smoke the funk out 107 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 1: of you and we're gonna see. We're gonna see. Yeah, 108 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 1: and then you're gonna be out there, you cheating, you cheating, 109 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 1: the low short ass sucking legs. Their motherfucker's go. We're 110 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,479 Speaker 1: gonna raise and we're gonna record it. I didn't share 111 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: it with y'all. Say I can see a j Louise, 112 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: So what else do we got going on? Yow oh. 113 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: Kanye West said he wants cam back he geminiion. But yeah, 114 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: I don't think she's dating that white guy. I just 115 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: really it's been a lot of time together. They're doing 116 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: a movie. No, they she fucking with them. I think 117 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: the whole family gonna so they're separated. You can date 118 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: when you separated? Did they get separated through the courts? 119 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: I'm assuming she's publican. I said, you Kim k don't 120 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: waste some mother fucking time. That's me. Yeah, I like that. 121 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: I like that. I used to not like her, but 122 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: I actually like her. She does a lot of goods. 123 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: I never not like Kim Kardashian, always like Kim King 124 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: I did. I always felt like maybe she was a 125 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: you know, culturally appropriated blackness for a while. But but 126 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: looking at the worst that she does, like in like 127 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: um just to reform and getting niggas off death row 128 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: and all that stuff, like I gotta I can't salute that. 129 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 1: I can't even lie. But then, you know, stuff like 130 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: that is also still to me, it's still a part 131 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: of white supremacy because they would put allow somebody like 132 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: that to get in a position to make those changes 133 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: because you have people, there's groups behind her. It's not 134 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: like Kim Kay is doing this stuff by herselves and 135 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: I forgot right, But it's her platform and her face 136 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: that makes it go through. I'm saying, and that's that bullshit. 137 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying that, um, because I feel 138 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: like our organizations we should be able to do that 139 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 1: without this bing make it happen for ourselves, right, we can't, 140 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: But however, she can get in there and do the work. 141 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: I'm proud of it, right, I'm yeah sat um My 142 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: twin funk with her man because he definitely because I 143 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: know exactly how she feels like when you see your 144 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: ex with somebody like you really almost want them back 145 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: in your mind even if you ended it. It's just 146 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: like Danny about to go on and live happily ever 147 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: after somebody else. I'm mad. I'm mad. Look a little kid, 148 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: but you don't even one day ask back. You just 149 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: only one them because they were somebody else. That's all 150 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: it is. Kanye, I'll be your girlfriend. Yeah, kill each other. 151 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't kill kanyeall understand him. Y'all kill each other. 152 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: I can see you outside now with a white face 153 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: man walking around looking like you about the robber, Brady. Look, 154 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: did you see that there? UM? A lot of people 155 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:46,680 Speaker 1: are insinuating that UM, you know, the distribution UM label 156 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: or whatever Empire records that Young Golf was associated with it. 157 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: They're saying like the owner of it may have had 158 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 1: they're saying the owner of it, and they're saying the 159 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: owner of it may have had a UM life insurance 160 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: policy on him. And mind you, a few of their 161 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: artists have been killed. Um. Hold on a second, Well, 162 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: that's smart. They have a life insurance policy on him 163 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 1: because they have. Why are y'all? So you're trying to 164 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 1: say he having them killed for the money. It's possible, 165 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 1: very well possible. I don't know that's another conspiracy. Oh 166 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: did you over the holiday? Did you see the new 167 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: movie by um Kevin Harty? I watched it today. You 168 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: watched the whole thing. I've watched it. What's your thoughts? 169 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: All right? So Kevin Hard has a new mini series 170 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 1: on Netflix call True Story, and it's really good, y'all. 171 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 1: Y'll need to go watch it if you haven't. It's 172 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 1: nice to see him doing something besides comedy because I 173 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: don't thinking that funny. But I like him doing serious 174 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: ship like I do. I prefer him doing stuff that 175 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 1: or he's not trying to make us laugh. He has 176 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: his times. A couple of his specials were funny, and 177 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: then you know it's like hit and miss. It just 178 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: may not be our cup of team. But I do 179 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: think he's funny sometimes. Yeah, sometimes there was that deer 180 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: brous ship. I still use that when I'm late. What's 181 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: the joke? Uh? He said he was late because he 182 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: ran into a deer borough on the highway. Is a 183 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:35,680 Speaker 1: half deer half zebra animal on the highway. Yeah, I 184 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: still use that ship. I ran into a deer bro stupid. 185 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: But yeah, the movie that show is good. I mean 186 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: the mini series is really good and it definitely uh, 187 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 1: especially if you're someone who's fame, you have fam er, 188 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: you've gotten a lot of money, you don't got it 189 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: out the mundy and made your way up and you 190 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: have concerns about Oh no, I can't say that. I 191 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: don't want to tell you all that ship as a spoiler. 192 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: But you just you know about who's around you and 193 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: who's what attensions are good and who's intentions are bad 194 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: for you? Like you never know? Right, do you mean 195 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 1: gott to be rich to have that happened on going on? Right? Hell, 196 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: that's just people don't know what you're going on in life, 197 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: and they count your pockets. Happens to every baby. Yeah, 198 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: but that was good. It was good. I don't know 199 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: what I was expecting, but it was really good. I 200 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: like the whole thing. I didn't I didn't have any expects. 201 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,320 Speaker 1: What's the snipe looked good too? He looked like he 202 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: on a vegan diet Who Wesley? I think he is vegan? 203 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 1: You know? Mm hmm he looked he look does he 204 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:45,440 Speaker 1: looks healthy? Mm hm yeah. I like Wesley's night Wesley. 205 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 1: He's turning to look like too Wong fool Wesley back 206 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: Man when he was younger and a woman. That was 207 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: one of my favorite movies back then. Did you watch 208 00:12:54,679 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 1: that movie Thank You Everything? I like that movie. It 209 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 1: was John Legga, Jamo, Wesley Snipe. Who else was in that? Girl? 210 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 1: You don't know? No nobody name. I don't know what 211 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 1: you'd be really into fucking movies now? I just watched TV. Okay, 212 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: I had to use my fucking brain space for some 213 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 1: other ship. I can't be remembering this stuff this same 214 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: way be forgetting people. I remember every phase, but I 215 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: will forget your name, Holly Berry. I had a movie 216 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: come out called Bruce I. It's Louis Losing Isaiah two 217 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 1: part though. Go watch it it is. I saw the 218 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 1: preview for it when I was flipping through Netflix. I 219 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 1: passed it by Lesbian. I'm about to go watch that. 220 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 1: I ain't never get to see Holly couch you before. 221 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm tuning in. It's just so nasty, yes, Holly, Yes, 222 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 1: so you ain't have no Thanksgiving bade this year. No, man. 223 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 1: People were sending me like their fees to be my 224 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving babe. You've seen that ship going around, like two 225 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: hundred dollars. I come and I'll smile and talk with 226 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 1: your family. Five hundred dollars. I whisper I love you 227 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: across the room for everybody to see. I don't want 228 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: to pay, So I ain't have no hollebey. He could 229 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: have had somebody there. No, mm hmm mm hmm. Did 230 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: you like I said that too fast? Yeah? This is 231 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: the first year, uh in a while, the first holiday 232 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 1: season that I've been single, So no, no bay at 233 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: the dinner table. I've been single every holiday since two 234 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: thousand sixteen. You said, like Kevin Hart when he she 235 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: don't say his age, Yo, Nancy, Kevin Hart might be 236 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: like funny, how it was a certain person you went 237 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: to college with, and that nigga is just was fucking funny, 238 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: just regular. But I see that nigg and do stand 239 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: up and I had second hand embarrassment. Yeah, yeah, he's 240 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: just naturally funny. But like when you have en scripted, 241 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: it's not it's just naturally funny. So maybe that's Kevin Hardship, 242 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: like he's gonna say some funny ship that kicked back 243 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 1: at the house right off the dome. But yeah, I've 244 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 1: been in there single by myself every year since two 245 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: thousands sixteen. I'm getting used to it. It's not so bad. 246 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: My niece didn't say something to me that made me 247 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 1: almost double backslap her ass in front of everybody. But 248 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 1: I didn't happen because I said, y'all need to get 249 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: in the kitchen. Y'all need to figure out y'all need 250 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: to learn how to cook some of this stuff, Like 251 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: come in the kitchen with us and learn what you're 252 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: gonna do. When you get a man, you can't feed 253 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: him no turkey sandwich. She's like, well, you know how 254 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: to cook all that stuff and you still ain't got 255 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 1: no man. Girls slapping out here. Girl. I had to 256 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: walk outside with my mimosa and I had to recite 257 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: Sierra's Prairie to myself three times before I walked back 258 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 1: in the house. Bitch, hey, she would have got her 259 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 1: asks be that, like it's the truth now, it's the 260 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: truth now, right, but you have to say it. I 261 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: just want you to like that's your DNA, bitch, because 262 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: you would have had that same rebutto at eighteen. Yeah, 263 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: you would have said the same ship to her. And 264 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: my mama thought it was so funny, and I was like, girl, 265 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: you ain't got no man hen you're laughing at with that? 266 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: Go to old potato salad. Keep nigga, I don't even 267 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: know what these niggas want. No more dogs. Do they 268 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 1: even want to eat? I don't even think they want 269 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 1: to eat. They ain't working no more door dashed, the 270 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 1: fun everything up for a bitch. These niggas just want you. 271 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: They don't know what they want, girl, is what you 272 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: fucking follida ass blindly do what they say. I'm sicking 273 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 1: niggas telling me they don't like the word no, so 274 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: I can't tell you know about nothing. I don't like 275 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: the word okay. It just depends on what the funk 276 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:16,919 Speaker 1: I'm saying no about it. If it's anything to do 277 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: with my anatomy, no, nigga, I can say no, no, 278 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm not getting on the scale in front of you. 279 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: See you can see how much I wait. No, nigga, 280 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 1: why does it matter you like? Do you like fat 281 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 1: bitches or not? Like? Girl? You're not even a fat. 282 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 1: Shut up. We bunked it all over Nigga forehead, come here, 283 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:47,160 Speaker 1: come here. We were like, all right, we're not fat. 284 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: In South Carolina and Georgia, we might be fat and 285 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: I here we're straight. F l A, Okay, we find 286 00:17:53,280 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 1: it hell in the South, he just and that's where 287 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 1: I live, so we geographically fit. Bitch girl, let's face 288 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 1: some bills real quick. So I had this conversation with 289 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 1: this guy while I was driving back home from Thanksgiving 290 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: about why we didn't work, and it helped me to 291 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 1: create content for today's episode because I told him that 292 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:35,920 Speaker 1: he didn't want to love me based upon my love languages. 293 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: He didn't want to speak to those love languages, and 294 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: that's why we didn't work. Because he wanted to love 295 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: me the way that he enjoyed being loved instead of 296 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: how I did. So that was a problem for me. 297 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 1: And he said, because I want gifts, I just want 298 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 1: to nigga to buy me what I don't want to know. 299 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: Niggat to buy me just because that's my love language, 300 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: don't mean that that's what I want to be bought. 301 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 1: First of all, if I wanted to be bought, you 302 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: probably couldn't afford it. I'm not you know what I'm saying, like, 303 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 1: let's keep his spade. I'm not trying to be bought 304 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 1: by you, but I do want you to speak to 305 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 1: my love language, you know. And I told him I 306 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 1: grew up with I didn't we I grew up with 307 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: a lot of love, but I didn't grow up grow 308 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 1: up with a lot of stuff, you know. And I 309 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: like motherfucker's stuff. And they don't have to be like, 310 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 1: go buy me a house or go buy me that 311 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: new Mercedes g l E that I want in white 312 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: with black interior. Not that I mean, but if you're listening, yes, 313 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: but if you know whatever, it don't have to be that. 314 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 1: If you see, if you listen to what I'm saying, 315 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: and I said, I like vanilla candles, and then you 316 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: come over here with a vanilla candle because you saw 317 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: it was on sale when he was walking through turret, 318 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,880 Speaker 1: that ship absolutely mean something. That's yeah, that's a coach 319 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 1: coch cooper thing. What I'm saying from Yeah, just a 320 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 1: little ship like that. It's thoughtful and I like stuff 321 00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: like that. But I'm also the same way because I'll 322 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 1: be walking through the store and damn sure to look, 323 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick it up. I feel like women always 324 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: buying men low trinkets and stuff like that, you know 325 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But they asked, they act like, I 326 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: don't know. They always act like somebody trying to play 327 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: them if they buy them something like I'm trying like 328 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: I bought you ship too. I'm not trying to finesse you. 329 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:26,199 Speaker 1: But I like to receive things. I won't say like 330 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 1: you say, um, like receiving gifts. Gifts is my love language. 331 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: But I do love gifts like which what woman doesn't 332 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 1: I think? Um? Did we talk about the five love languages? 333 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: So the five love languages is you know, words of affirmation, uh, 334 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 1: quality time, physical touch, access service, receiving gifts. I would 335 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 1: say my love language would probably lean more towards like 336 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: the physical touch and quality time because which I like 337 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:58,479 Speaker 1: to lay up and watch TV and touch. That's my 338 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: least one is to touch. I love it. I like 339 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: the kids, I like I like huddling, and I do 340 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 1: like touching. But I don't like motherfucker's touching me, you know, 341 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 1: like I have to be the aggressive when it comes 342 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: to touching. I don't know, you know, what I'm not 343 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 1: gonna say that because I don't like motherfucker's I don't 344 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: like like that trying to touch. That's different exactly. That 345 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 1: wouldn't I'm with you, it's no quality time. I'm not ready, 346 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 1: but I would have like if when they can even 347 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 1: touched my back and I feel like if you got 348 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 1: slapped in the back, you know how your body would 349 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: just dirt for it. That's what it would feel like. Yeah, 350 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 1: but I'm not about don't touch any quality time for 351 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: somebody I don't like. So that's not what I'm saying. Like, 352 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: of course you're gonna be like I've been with somebody. 353 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 1: When you start start falling out of love with somebody, 354 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: when they touch you, it's like, don't touch me. That's 355 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 1: when you really when you know ship is over. But 356 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 1: when you like somebody, you're feeling somebody like quality time 357 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: and in touching like I love that. I love for 358 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 1: somebody to rub me up. We don't even gotta gifts 359 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: and quality of the time, gifts and quality time. Mm hmm. 360 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 1: So buy me some ship and send some time with me. 361 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah. You ain't gotta say like words of 362 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: information that's cool to that would probably my third most important. 363 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:19,719 Speaker 1: But um I don't need that. I'd be affirming myself 364 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: in the here. I need you to buy me some 365 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 1: nice ship that you saw that I light, throw some 366 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 1: gas in my tain, pick up the sandwich I enjoy. 367 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 1: But this ain't even like every day. You gotta come 368 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: in the house with something in your hand for me that. 369 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: I'm not like that. But I just like nice gifts 370 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: and then quality time because the type of men I 371 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: usually date have money and no time. I'm finding that 372 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: to be m a what's the word of a pattern? 373 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 1: Everybody got money, they got money for gifts, but they 374 00:22:55,359 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 1: ain't got no time. I'm tired of that too. You 375 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: want neiggle with money, you want niggle with time. Man, 376 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 1: I feel like a mother. Even nigga is with money, 377 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,120 Speaker 1: like they make time for what they want to make 378 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: time for. So if they want to see you, they're 379 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 1: gonna make sure they make some time to see you. 380 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,119 Speaker 1: So I'm never letting the nigga use that as in 381 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: a excuse, because that's what it is. When you fun 382 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 1: with somebody, you want to see their ass, you want 383 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 1: to touch on them, you wanna go eat with them, 384 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,120 Speaker 1: you want to be around them, even if they got 385 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,160 Speaker 1: to come with you with you to do the busy ship. 386 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 1: But I can't come with you because I'm busy too. Okay, 387 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:39,639 Speaker 1: I just ain't got time. You're a psycho, so you 388 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 1: want to niggle to have time when you got We 389 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 1: don't me personally. I don't want like if I'm supposed 390 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 1: to always be waiting for you to be available. That's 391 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 1: in bullshit. You know. I can't I respect when someone 392 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 1: says they don't have a lot of time because I 393 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 1: feel like I don't have a lot of time either 394 00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 1: between work and this. You can't sit in my shot 395 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,119 Speaker 1: with me, You can't, nig Why are you here? This 396 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 1: girl don't want you to see her or while I'm 397 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: doing this. I don't need you just sitting in here 398 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 1: listening to me, So like, listen to it when it airs, 399 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:14,880 Speaker 1: give me the stream, Nigga, don't sit in here while 400 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm right. So I can respect that you know someone, 401 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: But when you do have free time, I want you 402 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,919 Speaker 1: to give it to me. But then what if they 403 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: got kids? Then you gotta calculate your free time. Your 404 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 1: free time might be one them kids. That's how I feel. 405 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 1: But you know we don't have kids. Just like selfish 406 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 1: with that. But I that's one of the reasons why 407 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: I don't like when niggas with kids or like the 408 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 1: beginning stages where you don't know the kid, the kid 409 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: can't hang around you, and this dumb ship that be 410 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 1: going on. It's like this kid don't know who's who. 411 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But that's what I don't 412 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:54,919 Speaker 1: like when the nigga got kids. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, 413 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: you gotta wait, I gotta wait for you to be available. 414 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like competing for time between you, 415 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 1: for you between you know, me and this kid all 416 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: the time. It doesn't get comfortable until you know, y'all 417 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: can all hang out together. You know. Now we can 418 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: if we want to go do something fun, we could 419 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,880 Speaker 1: take the kid with us. But it's that little stupid, 420 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 1: little funky stage I don't like. Yeah, that's weird. I 421 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 1: don't like it so basically, but I haven't experienced that 422 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 1: that much. Um, I've only really taken serious one guy 423 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 1: with kids, So the rest of them might be like, Okay, 424 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: you gotta go with your baby, but I make it next, 425 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: you know. But but there is only one guy that 426 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 1: I've taken serious with kids, and his kids were on 427 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 1: a different continent when we were dating, so it wasn't 428 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: like they were always around right out of sight, out 429 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,120 Speaker 1: of mind. But then when they came around, it was cool. 430 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 1: By the time I did finally meet and we were serious, 431 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: and they were sweet little girls, and I did grow 432 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: to build a relationship with them individually interesting, so I 433 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: never had to have another show about niggas and kids. 434 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 1: Have you ever dated a single father? Yeah? Yeah, the 435 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: kids were living two kids and yet one lived full time. 436 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. It would be regular. But then you know, 437 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: you get with somebody like that and if you plan 438 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 1: on being with them a long term, like you automatically 439 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: turned into mama. And I just felt like I never 440 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: got any grace, like a grace for that, you know 441 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm literally coming from this single ass 442 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: fucking lifestyle to being a mama. I felt like that 443 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: just over the summer that when we had kids, Damn, 444 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: I'm my whole MoMA. Here. They're gonna get to go 445 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,120 Speaker 1: to work and I get to stay here with these kids. 446 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,880 Speaker 1: You know, some days I don't eat, Like I'll eat 447 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: some bullshit and be content and go to sleep, Like 448 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 1: when you are responsible for other people's nourishment, like you 449 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 1: seem like you always fucking cooking, like breaking lunch and 450 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: dinner like this nigga had me in the schedule. Like 451 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,680 Speaker 1: even if he just ate just based on the time 452 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 1: of day, he's like acting like he didn't even eat 453 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,639 Speaker 1: because of the time of day. Like breakfast is at 454 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,680 Speaker 1: this time, luncheon is at this time, and dinner is 455 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,440 Speaker 1: by this time. If I want to feed that nigger 456 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 1: dinner at five o'clock, he like, I eat. We did eat, Nigga, 457 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 1: it just wasn't darker dinner at five o'clock. That's not late. 458 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: That's a good dinner. No, that's to earn that. I'd 459 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 1: be right there with him. Yeah, we ain't sucking eat 460 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 1: that was a snack at five. No, you could have 461 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 1: a snack later on in the evening if you're still hungry. 462 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 1: But no, dinner is dinner time. It's dinner time. But 463 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 1: there was my snack. I don't know what to him 464 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 1: trying to eat before seven o'clock. It's like, I can't 465 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 1: keep up with my little personal should I like to 466 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 1: do for myself When you have other people you're responsible for, man, 467 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: shout out to parents. Man, jeez, you're a parents. Seems 468 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 1: so hard. I commend you all. Man, he's like in 469 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 1: a motherfucking yourn either. Yeah, they love them, but they 470 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 1: don't like them all the time. Yeah, I can get that. 471 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: It's just not when they love languages. So affirmation is 472 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,920 Speaker 1: like somebody sending you text messages all the time, Uh, 473 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 1: just affirming your day, Like would you like something like that? 474 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: It's you know, honestly, I think my love language just 475 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 1: change depending on the man sometimes because and how I 476 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: feel about the being, because I would like that from 477 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: somebody I like a lot. But when I get that 478 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 1: good morning queen text fro when the guy ain't really 479 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: feeling I'm like, what get you all? Get your motherfucking 480 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 1: man off my text good morning queen. But if I 481 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: like you, I'd be like, good morning kings. I'll never 482 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 1: say good morning king. I know me neither. I'm just 483 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 1: I'm like a whole nigger. I'd be like yo, that's me. 484 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 1: I'd be like ya yo. I don't know, but I 485 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,920 Speaker 1: do think your love languagees can change listening. Just like 486 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 1: you said, from person to person, we got too much 487 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 1: control of women. It's like everything is cool and so 488 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 1: you don't like a nigger, that nigga can smack your 489 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 1: ass on the jam job is not sexual harassing unless 490 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 1: you ugly. You know, I don't like you funked up, 491 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: all right, That's why it's just best to not do it. 492 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: I just don't smack nobody asks on the job whether 493 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: you think she like you or not. The workplaces changed, guys, 494 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 1: hasn't it. You used to be able to grab them 495 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 1: by not no more. I'm going to take that that 496 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 1: love language um tests. What was the website again? So yeah, guys, 497 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: if you want to determine what your love languages are, 498 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:17,959 Speaker 1: we didn't say that, Like, how the funk do they 499 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 1: know what they love languages are? We took a quiz, 500 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: so it's um if you go to five, it's the 501 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 1: number five love languages dot com. You can go ahead 502 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 1: and take the quiz and then tell you what your 503 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 1: love languages are based on your personality. It's a personality test, 504 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 1: So go take that test and figure out who the 505 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 1: funk you are, so you can determine what your love 506 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 1: languages are. And that is how you want to receive love. 507 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 1: That's not how you give love to others, right with 508 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 1: your love language is how you want to respect and 509 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: I think so you have to discover what your partner's 510 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: love languages too, so you know you can give it 511 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 1: to them the way they wanted. And I think the 512 00:30:56,600 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 1: easiest way is just to find somebody who may have 513 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 1: the same love languages as you do, or just have 514 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 1: the same definition of love as you do, just to 515 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: make it a little bit easier. I don't know, I 516 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 1: don't know. I just need to understand what your love 517 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 1: languages are so I can fulfill them for you. They 518 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: don't have to be the same as mine. If you 519 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 1: need me to affirm you somewhere, I'll put posted notes 520 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: up in the bar room, in your bar room so 521 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: you can be reassured. Most men, most men love language, 522 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 1: maybe like uh, physical touch, words of information. I think 523 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 1: men need a lot of affirmation, you know. They they're 524 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 1: not as secure as they you know, may appear. Yeah, 525 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 1: and they live in the world where they get beat 526 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: up a lot by us. So I feel like most 527 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: men like that's how they feel good. You're telling them 528 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: nice stuff, how well they're doing. I'm good at that too, 529 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: Damn boy, you find that. I'm so proud of you, 530 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 1: So smart you're such a good telling can he fine 531 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: all day long? Because I like to look at men. 532 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: You're such a good father, you're such a great son, 533 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,239 Speaker 1: and your grandma's so lucky to have you. I mean, 534 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 1: that's how I talk to these things. But do you 535 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: do that to all niggas or just the nigga you like? 536 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: Just the niggas. I like the nigga who I don't like. 537 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: I'd be like, well, I get the funk out of 538 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: my face with that. Put the guy I told you, 539 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: just change the oil. It's like talking toad. No, I don't. 540 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: I'd be nice. I'm too nice. That's my problem. No, 541 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:36,959 Speaker 1: I'm ladies, affirm your men. He may he may not. 542 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 1: You know a lot of men don't know what love 543 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 1: languages are, right, But I can assure you that those 544 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 1: words of affirmation is most especially black men. That's gonna 545 00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:52,480 Speaker 1: be like the number one thing I believe. All Right, 546 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 1: Do you tell you man how good his dick is 547 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 1: and stuff like yeah, if I'm getting some good dick, 548 00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: I need you to know because it ain't good until 549 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 1: I tell you. Don't assume not only during sex, or 550 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 1: do you say to your grass up like you know 551 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 1: that did good? Right, like, Oh, I'm working a day 552 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 1: and my pussy is so sore. You take it so good? Yeah, 553 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: you can you pay this? Look? Can you pay this? 554 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: And like if your ladies, if you try to get 555 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: something about that man, you gotta affirm them first and 556 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: then asks for right but not but don't ask right 557 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:41,760 Speaker 1: after the affirmation, then give it, give it for hours. Yeah, 558 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: y'all trying to figure out how to get money out 559 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 1: of men. Just give him a lot of send a 560 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 1: lot of affirming text messages and ship like that and 561 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: say it to his face, look him in his eyes 562 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 1: and tell him how he ages. And also how are 563 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 1: you so grateful for buy them something? Also real good? 564 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. But you also gotta mean it to you. 565 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: I mean you should. You ain't got it, but you 566 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 1: shouldn't mean it. You ever told nig his sex was good? 567 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 1: And I'm not one of those. I'm not about to 568 00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: play with you. I don't have some good little dick. 569 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 1: I don't have some bad big dick. Like I'm not 570 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 1: about it's not about that. So if the dick is 571 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 1: not good, I'm gonna let you know I'm not satisfied. 572 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: And I don't even like try to um I remember 573 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,879 Speaker 1: this one dude, how you say it? So this one 574 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 1: guy was working with once. I really liked him, were 575 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:37,959 Speaker 1: real good friends. And it's just like he was licking 576 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 1: my pussy like stupid, just like a rug Like he 577 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 1: wasn't he just wasn't licking my pussy dead. So I 578 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 1: just sent him so many videos a pussy licking like 579 00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 1: just because it's not like he was unwilling to do it. 580 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 1: He just he just said, yeah, yeah, I told him 581 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 1: I had already. I had all these talked to him 582 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: about the head beforehand. So now I'm just trying to 583 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,840 Speaker 1: send you like some instructional guides at this point, because 584 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,360 Speaker 1: that's a big thing for me. Like I really really 585 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: really really really like con lingus, like you really gotta 586 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 1: I don't stiff, Like why are you going? Well? I 587 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,440 Speaker 1: like that. Sometimes it just depends. I like a combo, 588 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 1: just combo console. But guy like you, you can't even 589 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,319 Speaker 1: do that. You're just licking this ship like a bowl 590 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 1: of milk. I need you to watch these goddamn videos, 591 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:36,719 Speaker 1: dog and like a kiddy cat. And you wonder why 592 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 1: my shop always dry, Like you know, men, a lot 593 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 1: of times women pussy be dry because you don't turn 594 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 1: them on, Like your touches is not turned them on. 595 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,880 Speaker 1: How you doing they body is just not turn them on. 596 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: Because when a woman is into a man, just a 597 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,759 Speaker 1: mere thought of him, that pussy might get wet, like 598 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: I'm just thinking about you and like damn yeah, and 599 00:35:56,080 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 1: then you hate cochi drying. No, you just was not entertaining. 600 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: It was sleep. You weren't affirmative. No, But so couches 601 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: just be dry too, though, mm hmm, not mine, girl, 602 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,400 Speaker 1: I don't even sweat that much. That's how I know. 603 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 1: It's just be straight fucking juices. What was that watching 604 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 1: they was talking about, Like big girls like Hi, that 605 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 1: stay pussy probably be super juicy because you got the 606 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 1: pussy juice and add the sweat. You know that that 607 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,200 Speaker 1: should be does. I don't like that real mac, that 608 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 1: good mac and cheese because it's sweat. I don't like 609 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:50,279 Speaker 1: that coucci wingy and ch'awston like when you must see 610 00:36:50,280 --> 00:37:02,160 Speaker 1: be called wingy, Like yeah, wingy is musty, you shame. Okay, 611 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 1: hold that thought one second. Let's play some bills dumb 612 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,840 Speaker 1: bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb bitch at 613 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,560 Speaker 1: least once or twice Listen, I do have a dumb 614 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: bitch story. It's actually an article though it's not um. 615 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: It's not anyone uh no one's sentence for any advice. 616 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: But this is an article I found in New York Post. 617 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 1: He says this woman was swindled out of a hundred 618 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 1: ninety k by Kahneman after matching on tender. I just 619 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 1: never understand how bitches be getting finessed on dating websites, 620 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:43,320 Speaker 1: like how it could be hopeless romantics hopeless. The motherfucker 621 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 1: is what? No hopeful hopeless romantics don't say that. Listen. 622 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,320 Speaker 1: This says a Middle Eastern woman has been swindled out 623 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 1: of it's a hundred and forty k U, a hundred 624 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 1: forty thousand UM whatever their dollars, but it's UM equal 625 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,960 Speaker 1: to eight thousand U S dollars. After falling four fraudster 626 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 1: on tender um m rita Sebastian who lives in Dubai, 627 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 1: matched with thirty eight year old British man Richard Dixter. 628 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 1: Excuse me, Richard Dexter, he same City Boy times twenty 629 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:29,320 Speaker 1: on a dating app. The pair began exchanging messages, with 630 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:35,400 Speaker 1: Dexter claiming he was a successful businessman um selling bio 631 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 1: farmer software. He told Sebastian that multinational corporations weren't interested 632 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 1: in signing a major deal with him, and that he 633 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 1: was on the verge of a big windfall. The Daily 634 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:53,359 Speaker 1: The Daily Mail reported he purportedly proclaimed American company three 635 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,839 Speaker 1: M was one of the companies interested in signing a 636 00:38:55,920 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 1: multimillion dollar deal. Dexter allegedly told Sebastian that he needed 637 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,200 Speaker 1: with some money to start production of a piece of 638 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,279 Speaker 1: the scientific equipment that would allow him to ink the 639 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:10,840 Speaker 1: major contracts. Sebastian, who was based in Dubai but frequently 640 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 1: travels to the UK, initially sent over fifty three thousand, 641 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 1: three hundred dollars believing believing it was an investment that 642 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:22,880 Speaker 1: would also result in receiving substantial profits. She sent another 643 00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 1: nine hundred and fifty thousand two months later. Havening't been 644 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 1: assured that Dexter could cover all losses she might make. 645 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,880 Speaker 1: And this nigga fine too. He's fine. He's not a 646 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 1: I mean, he's a the ladies from Dubai. He's a 647 00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:45,839 Speaker 1: European white guy. Fine, fine, fine, Sebastian says that. Then 648 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 1: um Sebastian says She then continue to send money to 649 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 1: protect the initial investment, with Dexter promising that the windfall 650 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 1: was just around the corner. However, the fortune did not 651 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 1: materialize in Sebastian contacted the British Police. The cops commenced 652 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 1: an investigation rating Dexter's home, where they found a document 653 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,960 Speaker 1: claiming he had more than five million dollars invested in 654 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 1: financial services company. However, the account actually belonged to a 655 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 1: friend and final balance was just forty nine cents. He 656 00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 1: had forty nine sins to his name, well in a 657 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,120 Speaker 1: bank anyway. What he did with all the money? I 658 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 1: guess he's been taking it out. Dexter was subsequently charged 659 00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: and pleaded guilty to seven counts of fraud in British 660 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:40,279 Speaker 1: court earlier this week. He is now facing the prospect 661 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 1: of jail time. Dexter used Sebastian's hard earned money on himself, 662 00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 1: but lawyers did not disclose how he splashed the cash. 663 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 1: Experts caution hopeless romantics from sending money to people they 664 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:56,319 Speaker 1: met on dating apps, and Sebastian's sad experience is not 665 00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 1: all that uncommon, bitch? Is how are y'all getting finessed 666 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:09,320 Speaker 1: on these pieces of fish. I call it piece pieces 667 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 1: of fish. This is tender she was on. But how 668 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 1: like a nigger, I know, kid finessing me out of money. 669 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:20,319 Speaker 1: I'm definitely not letting a stranger. Right. She must got 670 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,480 Speaker 1: a bag though, hell yeah, Like because she sounds like 671 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:26,280 Speaker 1: she's an investor, like she has she probably he probably, 672 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:31,520 Speaker 1: you know, sold the idea to her and she saw 673 00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 1: a good investment opportunity. So he should go to job 674 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 1: for that. It's not like she just was sending him 675 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 1: money just for nothing, right, But any investment, you take 676 00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 1: a chance on losing it, and even when you're buying 677 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,319 Speaker 1: pounds of weeds, like it might get long, all right, 678 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 1: So so that you guys just take your you know, 679 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 1: there's a lot though I'm not taking that l He's 680 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:56,359 Speaker 1: gonna have to get the funk up out of here 681 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 1: if you don't go to prison. He got a desk. 682 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 1: I lay on that nigga for two years, but he 683 00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 1: gotta get the funk out of here. You gotta get 684 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,439 Speaker 1: out of here. Hi and J popping up back out 685 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,840 Speaker 1: after two years, like, oh yeah, you thought she was sweet, 686 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,239 Speaker 1: you thought she was good. Yep, I'm meeting that. They're 687 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:23,239 Speaker 1: gonna tender again in two years exactly as a different bitch. 688 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,320 Speaker 1: You're gonna get it. You guess what's coming to him? 689 00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that was a dumb bitch innocent 690 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 1: series right there, because he ended up going to jail 691 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,480 Speaker 1: for trying to finess and she got played out of 692 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,759 Speaker 1: a lot of money. I wonder this. Let me tell 693 00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 1: you what I get these niggas a baker dagger cheese 694 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:51,200 Speaker 1: to go. I'll make you a sauce. That's what I'm saying. 695 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 1: At the house to go. You can't even sit down 696 00:42:54,320 --> 00:43:00,960 Speaker 1: and eat it here. I'm just junking. I'm just joking. 697 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,920 Speaker 1: I'll be tricking when I like right exactly, be over there, 698 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,799 Speaker 1: packet bag lunches. Did you good? Drop a lunch? 'all 699 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,520 Speaker 1: te naked job, You're good? Back lunch with forty dollars. 700 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,879 Speaker 1: This is this is why I don't understand how men 701 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 1: say like women, these are modern women. We just don't 702 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,200 Speaker 1: do nothing nice, Like let's just be bending over backwards 703 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:25,400 Speaker 1: for men they want. I don't know what these guys 704 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 1: to talk about. I remember one time I was dating 705 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:31,480 Speaker 1: this guy. He was military and he worked on the 706 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:35,040 Speaker 1: flight line, right and I wanted to bring him a 707 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,440 Speaker 1: sandwich because he was hungry. That baby was hungry. So 708 00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:39,319 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'll bring you some food. And 709 00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,440 Speaker 1: I went on the military base to bring him the food, 710 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:45,840 Speaker 1: and I turned my car on the flight line. And 711 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,719 Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all know what the flight line is, 712 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 1: but you definitely don't want to drive your car on it, Okay. 713 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 1: So then the military police came to my car and 714 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,840 Speaker 1: they like rushed my car with guns and ship and 715 00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 1: I just wanted to bring a nigga sandwich. Why do 716 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 1: you go through all these things, like good guys trying 717 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:10,319 Speaker 1: to teach me a lesson. Whatever it is, Lord, I've 718 00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,560 Speaker 1: received it. Lord, I don't know God is telling you 719 00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:17,320 Speaker 1: to pay attention, bitch, because I'm pretty sure it was 720 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:21,280 Speaker 1: a sign that says, do not enter, do not drive 721 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:23,839 Speaker 1: your car on the flight line. I turned my happy 722 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 1: ass right in it. Stupid, I'm about to go to jail, 723 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,839 Speaker 1: all right. So listen, we got a random sex fact 724 00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:40,440 Speaker 1: So today the random sex Factors, It says, faking it, 725 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,000 Speaker 1: uh isn't always a bad thing. And this comes to you. 726 00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 1: This is this is brought to you by health dot 727 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:51,880 Speaker 1: Com says it's often assumed that people fake orgasms because 728 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 1: they aren't enjoying themselves or they just want it to 729 00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 1: be over, says Garcia, but sometimes putting on a big 730 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:01,920 Speaker 1: show as part of the enjoyment. He adds sex as 731 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:07,359 Speaker 1: a performative, and sometimes it's sexist performative, and sometimes it's 732 00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:10,520 Speaker 1: fun for both parties to get carried away. Speaking of 733 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,080 Speaker 1: fake orgasms, did you know that men do it too? 734 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,360 Speaker 1: They can and often do, says Garcia, often for the 735 00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 1: same reasons women do it. Since sex involves a lot 736 00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 1: of fluids anyway, it's not always easy to tell whether 737 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:28,399 Speaker 1: he's ejaculated or not. Then we laugh. Ha ha ha 738 00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,360 Speaker 1: ha ha ha. Then you put in that I'll be 739 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:38,680 Speaker 1: knowing because I smelling. But y'all, I guess, so I listen. 740 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: I need to stop talking about my preferences on here. 741 00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,760 Speaker 1: It's not like I just be out here smashing everybody. 742 00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 1: Rob Man, that's what you're gonna have you, But no, 743 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,919 Speaker 1: I don't think anybody assumes that used to smash everybody wrong. 744 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:55,279 Speaker 1: I just think you smash every time wrong. It's just like, 745 00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 1: why do it if you're not gonna enjoy it? Like, 746 00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:06,840 Speaker 1: do nobody feel like that? Damn balloon? And smelling like latex. Yeah, 747 00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 1: from my size, there's skin. Listen, there's condoms that do 748 00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 1: feel like we need a condoms We need someone. Yeah, 749 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:22,320 Speaker 1: we need a safe sex, safe sex representative outside of 750 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 1: me to talk about the importance of protection because you're 751 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,920 Speaker 1: gonna have our all our listeners wrong. Listen. We need 752 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,279 Speaker 1: to go ahead and populate the earth anyway, y'all. They 753 00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 1: try to say it's only black people out this bitch, 754 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 1: we need all what no, I said, Ladies, don't abortion 755 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 1: your wounds. We need more warriors soon. Listen. Have your babies, lady, Yeah, 756 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,200 Speaker 1: I have them kids. But it's easy for me to 757 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,680 Speaker 1: say because I ain't gonna had to take care of 758 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,399 Speaker 1: I'm using condoms. Yeah, I might even help, I might 759 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 1: pick them up, but I love as I can drop 760 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,560 Speaker 1: their assack off at your house. Listen. If you guys 761 00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode, please tune it every Thursday on our 762 00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:04,200 Speaker 1: Heart Radio app or wherever the fuck you get your podcast. 763 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,480 Speaker 1: That is your Girl AJ Holiday two point oh. Hit 764 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:11,040 Speaker 1: us up on We Talked Back podcast on Instagram and listen. 765 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 1: We have not gotten and ask your black friend question. 766 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:18,480 Speaker 1: And we just had some really uh critical moments happened 767 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 1: in the last couple of weeks. I want to talk 768 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,520 Speaker 1: about it. Send us an email at We Talked Back 769 00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,920 Speaker 1: po d at gmail dot com, or hit us up 770 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:30,319 Speaker 1: at again at We Talked Back Podcast. On Instagram, it's 771 00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,040 Speaker 1: tam Bam. Y'all follow me on Instagram Official tam Bam. 772 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,279 Speaker 1: I love y'all. Y'all have a good one man. We'll 773 00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 1: see you next week.