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Speaker 1: This one is from Wanda in Bay Saint Louis. Wanda says,

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Speaker 1: I moved in with my fiance and he treats me

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Speaker 1: like a child. I have to do things a certain way,

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Speaker 1: and he always reminds me that it's his home. I

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Speaker 1: love to cook and I'd like for the kitchen to

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Speaker 1: be more organized, but he said he likes his kitchen

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Speaker 1: the way it is. My house hasn't sold yet, and

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Speaker 1: I want to go get my things out of storage

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Speaker 1: and go back there. He's against us buying a new

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Speaker 1: home together because his house is paid off. This is

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Speaker 1: our first big disagreement. How do we work through it?

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Speaker 2: Good question. Well, I think this young man doesn't understand

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Speaker 2: the one thing and my father talked to me and

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Speaker 2: my brothers. It's your job to provide a house as

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Speaker 2: a man. It's her job to turn it into a home.

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Speaker 2: If you get into that part of it right there,

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Speaker 2: you're interfering with the natural nature of things. A woman

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Speaker 2: can do some things in a houseman in a home,

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Speaker 2: not that it's their job, it's just that they have

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Speaker 2: the ability to do things at a home man that

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Speaker 2: a man just can't think of. Because a woman is

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Speaker 2: all encompassing and I'm not saying y'all are made to

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Speaker 2: be a housewise, that is not what I'm saying. These

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Speaker 2: women overall are better at organizing, better at decorating, better

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Speaker 2: at thinking of all of the little things. And he's

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Speaker 2: just been having it his way for so long that

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Speaker 2: he don't want to change. And that's a stupid thing

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Speaker 2: to do. So, you know, y'all be moving in with

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Speaker 2: these dudes and don't be understanding the rules and all

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Speaker 2: this here. So get your stuff out of storage. Tell

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Speaker 2: him if he's not going to allow you to make

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Speaker 2: it a home, then let him stay over there by hisself.

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Speaker 2: You know, nobody should go into a house that they're

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Speaker 2: uncomfortable going in. That's a horrible feeling to be able

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Speaker 2: to go home, but it don't feel like home?

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Speaker 1: Right, Well, does he care?

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Speaker 2: I'm about the kitchen organize because he's simple.

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Speaker 1: He wants to organize it. And he's like, no, it's

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Speaker 1: fine the way it is, I'll have it. What is

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Speaker 1: the big deal?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, go free?

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Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one. This is

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Speaker 1: from Binky and Montgomery. Binkie says, a delivery driver rang

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Speaker 1: my doorbell and asked for a bottle of water This morning,

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Speaker 1: I talked through the ring doorbell, and since he has

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Speaker 1: since he was cute, I told him to go back

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Speaker 1: to his truck and I'd sit the water on the

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Speaker 1: door mat. He said he'd been trying to get my

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Speaker 1: attention because he's interested in me. I told him it

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Speaker 1: was a weird approach. He said it was the best

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Speaker 1: he could do, my best. He said it was a

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Speaker 1: sweet gesture. Was this a sweet approach or was it creepy?

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Speaker 1: Should I report him?

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Speaker 2: Nah, don't report him. The dude told you what it was.

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Speaker 2: You the one was gonna send me back to the

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Speaker 2: truck and you was gonna put the water on the doorstep.

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Speaker 2: I tell you what, Why don't y'all do this? Why

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Speaker 2: don't y'all just if he's so interesting, get his number,

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Speaker 2: y'all do some FaceTime chats, you know, see what it's about,

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Speaker 2: you know, And if y'all do anything, don't let him

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Speaker 2: in your house. Go down the Starbucks and have a

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Speaker 2: coffee during the daytime, lunch at Starbucks. So that's my suggestion.

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Speaker 1: Do she's singles, she's thinking of safety.

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Speaker 2: I understand. And I told and I didn't say let

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Speaker 2: the man in. I just said he was cute. You

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Speaker 2: wanted it, he said, I've been interested in you. That's

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Speaker 2: what I's the only way I could do it. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna ask you for a bottle of water. He gotta

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Speaker 2: try something.

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Speaker 1: M H. And he did, and she put it out front.

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Speaker 2: Hey, put the bottle of water out there for him.

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Speaker 2: Tape your number to the bottle water. Okay, ask him

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Speaker 2: to FaceTime. Now, if you're a single woman, you need

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Speaker 2: two phones to date. You need a dating phone and

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Speaker 2: you need your regular phone. And the moment somebody on

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Speaker 2: that date phone that don't need to be in there,

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Speaker 2: throw it in the trash. You get the phones down

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Speaker 2: the walk, just put some minutes on it. It's called

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Speaker 2: a burner. Gotta be you gotta be a drug dealer.

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Speaker 1: Now, okay, yeah, burner. Look at the time we gotta go.

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