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Speaker 1: This is a headgum podcast. Hi guys, I'm aga wodem

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Speaker 1: and welcome to Thanks Dad. I was raised by a

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Speaker 1: and I don't think I'm ever gonna have a relationship

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Speaker 1: with my dad because he has gone ahead and died

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Speaker 1: and that's crazy gets me every time and gets my

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Speaker 1: guests every time. So on this podcast, I'm sitting down

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Speaker 1: with father figers who are old enough to be my

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Speaker 1: dad or are just dads themselves. In this case, I

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Speaker 1: don't think Bobby's old enough to be my dad and

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Speaker 1: he's just a dad. Oh that's gonna fuck your career

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Speaker 1: saying you're age. Oh my gosh. I'll get to ask

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Speaker 1: the questions I've always wanted to ask a dad, like

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Speaker 1: how do I know the guy I'm dating is right

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Speaker 1: for me? Can you teach me to change a tire

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Speaker 1: on the car I don't have yet? Can you go

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Speaker 1: with me to buy that car so that I don't

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Speaker 1: get bamboozled by a car salesman? Is that still a

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Speaker 1: thing in modern times? Do you think car salesmen are

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Speaker 1: still bamboozling women.

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Speaker 2: Every day, every every every second of every day. They

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Speaker 2: are okay.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's oh, and that is that's right. They think

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Speaker 1: they are. They think they've got the one of Okay. Anyway, guys,

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Speaker 1: you just heard the voice of my Dad for the Day.

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Speaker 1: You know my next guest friend. Movies like Inside Out,

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Speaker 1: IF and Brother Nature, The show Me, Myself and I

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Speaker 1: and His ninth season run on Saturday Night Live. My Kid, Frankly,

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Speaker 1: please welcome my Dad for the Day. Bobby moynihan.

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Speaker 2: Hello, daughter, it's me. Dad died too.

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Speaker 1: Your dad died as well? Oh no, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: There's there are so many things out here that can

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Speaker 1: kill us. And the piece of advice I'm going to

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Speaker 1: ask you about at the end kind of touches on death,

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Speaker 1: because I end every episode asking my dad for the

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Speaker 1: day a piece of advice that I think dads know.

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Speaker 1: And if you don't know, you better pretend you know

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Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Act like an authority figure, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: I will heed your advice. Okay, Bobby, you had a

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Speaker 1: dad he passed. Can you tell me what he was like? Nope,

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Speaker 1: I gotta go, Okay, Dark, I'll see you later. Guys, Yes,

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Speaker 1: of course. Uh my father was.

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Speaker 2: How long do we have all the.

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Speaker 1: Time in the world. Fred not this is what this

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Speaker 1: entire podcast is about, My dear.

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Speaker 2: That that's crazy. Uh, it's funny when you say that.

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Speaker 2: It's like, I feel like I've said this a million times.

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Speaker 2: But now that I am, I'm a father of two.

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Speaker 2: Now I have a seven year old and a one

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Speaker 2: year old, and I have a very very different view

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Speaker 2: of my father, like from before, from after the seven

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Speaker 2: year old, after the one year old, Like it keeps changing, right,

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Speaker 2: but right now I feel like I have a for

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Speaker 2: who he like. When someone asked me that question, I

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Speaker 2: go like, Okay, my dad was a hard working kid.

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Speaker 2: His mother passed away when he was very young, so

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Speaker 2: he didn't have that, and his dad was a fireman

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Speaker 2: And he had an epilepsy and he was an alcoholic,

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Speaker 2: And in his life he owned a gas station and

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, perfect setup for an improv scene. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: feel like, oh gosh, so Where did your dad grow up?

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Speaker 2: Uh, Brooks, I.

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Speaker 1: Didn't realize you were New York. You've got New York

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I grew up. I've lived there in Mahawaii.

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Speaker 1: So you say his mom pass away he was younger.

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Speaker 1: You have a different view of him now that you

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Speaker 2: Just trying to impress dad, just wanting Dad's attention. Dad

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Speaker 2: was very hard working, worked at the liquor store, a

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Speaker 2: Uh wore Phil Simms. I don't think i've well, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like that. Okay, what were the things

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Speaker 2: That's the first time in forty seven years. I ever

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Speaker 2: exactly like Kevin Smith. I played Kevin Smith on as

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Speaker 2: I know my father opposite. He looked like he was

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Speaker 2: Chevy Chase lived in the Bronx. Yeah, and wasn't severely racist.

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Speaker 2: Grew up sure my dad. I always said, drunk uncle

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Speaker 2: is pretty much the idea was just like, hey, I'm

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Speaker 2: not racist, but I don't have the right terminology. That

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Speaker 1: Okay, did you feel like you were close to your

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Speaker 2: And no, Like I don't think I realized what was

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Speaker 2: you know, like it was. It was a lot of that,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: I honestly just want to know what it was like.

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Speaker 1: I'm so fascinated by dads and people's relationships with them,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, what was it like for you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you say you were trying to impress that

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Speaker 2: that's why were perfect for SNL.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think everyone who works at SNL has daddy issues.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's not fair because maybe I can't speak for

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Speaker 1: all of Mike. I don't know everyone who works there.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't hurt relationship. Yeah, daddy issues is very helpful.

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Speaker 1: It's I feel like Lauren knows how to pick them.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to understand. So, your your dad was sort

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Speaker 2: My dad was like Irish Irish Catholic, six foot tall,

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Speaker 2: He found out at high school graduation. It was kind

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Speaker 2: And he was like all right, and out of the Marines.

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Speaker 2: Funny like and like this and like this is like

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Speaker 2: stuff like now like now at forty seven, I go,

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Speaker 2: how did that happen? How did that work? How did

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Speaker 2: they see? You have a seizure? But I'll never be

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Speaker 1: Right, I mean, there's so many questions we won't be

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Speaker 1: able to ask her. Do you believe in heaven or hell?

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Speaker 2: I I was. I was raised Catholic, and now I

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Speaker 2: believe in like the movie Soul.

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Speaker 1: I think there's like soul, got it?

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Speaker 2: And everything is just kind of smooth jazz.

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Speaker 2: Coco Anything By Anything, Heaven by Pixar, I'm down with

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Speaker 2: You're like I believe that.

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Speaker 2: the one thing you gotta do is what Jesus says. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Like you don't got to listen to me, asshole, but

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Speaker 1: Like it was like that right right, Okay, it.

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Speaker 2: Like that was it. I went to Catholic school, I

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Speaker 1: Damn, you really wish you would have read the email.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, uh, I figured it was this. It's just

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Speaker 2: it's never easy to talk about. I'm just glad I'm

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Speaker 2: not weeping. No.

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Speaker 1: Oh, by the way, if you weep, I will probably weep.

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Speaker 2: I get it. I just saw the SNL documentary, which

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Speaker 2: I'm weeping, and I'm like, oh Jesus Christ, Poppy, what

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Speaker 2: did you do to yourself? No, Honestly, like I don't

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Speaker 2: say this, Like when I was thirteen years old, I

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Speaker 2: worked full time in his liquor store, like helping customers,

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, lived in Nurseshelle. Like I had no idea

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Speaker 2: who he was, but like it was just yeah, one

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Speaker 2: hundred millions of those stories. I was delivering alcohol between

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Speaker 1: Okay, what a life. You grew up fast. I grew

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Speaker 1: proud ultimately, like that you were helping the family business

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Speaker 2: I think I made him proud in weird ways, like

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Speaker 2: He was funny, he was uh, he was sarcastic. It

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Speaker 2: He asked my dad, he said, you want me to

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Speaker 1: That's kind of cool. Your parents were very cool, not nonchalant.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dollar heart, nickel brain. I feel like now I

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Speaker 2: like and also, to be honest, it's easier to talk

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Speaker 2: who's died and snol. Like it's two exclusive clubs you

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Speaker 2: because I think that's what happened in my debt.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy this time the sixth time. It's a little annoying.

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Speaker 2: Like that starts to happen. So it prepared. When he died,

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Speaker 2: No, I had an alcoholic father who, yeah, pickled himself,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you feel scared of him? I know you

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Speaker 1: No, that was.

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Speaker 1: I didn't, but yeah, well you claimed to have done

434
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 1: one of them at the beginning of the night. Yeah.

435
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 2: I didn't say anything about the second. I would never

436
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 2: murder my mother. I wouldn't even jump.

437
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 1: It sounds like a sweetie. So now you understand parenting

438
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 1: to be preparing your children in a sense for when

439
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 1: you're not here. To add more to that, yeah.

440
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: Yes, I go like I see things with the first

441
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 2: even with the first daughter, compared to the second daughter,

442
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,880
Speaker 2: you start to like, you just act different. The first daughter,

443
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 2: I was putting my nose, my finger under her nose

444
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 2: when she was sleeping, make sure she was still breathing,

445
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 2: like you know what I mean. Like it's like you're

446
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 2: so like my god of my conduct, like you know

447
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 2: what I mean? Like, And the second kid, my wife

448
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 2: jokes around like, well, I'll walk in the room, like

449
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 2: I'll get scared because I forget that she's here, Like yeah,

450
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,959
Speaker 2: like it's like it's just it's just literally just easier

451
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,880
Speaker 2: because you've done it before, like and like even just that,

452
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 2: you go like, Okay, I've been a parent for a

453
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 2: couple of years and we have a bit of an

454
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,679
Speaker 2: age gap at seven and one, so like we had

455
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 2: some time to relax. We had a pandemic to raise

456
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 2: a kid, and then we had an actor strike to

457
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:37,480
Speaker 2: raise the second kid. And yeah, it's been nice. I've

458
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 2: spent more time with both my daughters and my father

459
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 2: spent with me in his entire life, right, Like, yeah,

460
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 2: it's different.

461
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 1: Does that make you feel like you're doing something right then,

462
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 1: because I feel like I hear parents talk about their

463
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 1: guilt all the time and they feel like they're doing

464
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 1: things wrong and they have no idea if they're doing

465
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 1: it right. But does at least getting to spend more

466
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: time than your dad spent with you with your daughters

467
00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,880
Speaker 1: make you feel like, Okay, well this feels right.

468
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 2: I feel like I could confidently say I'm doing better

469
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 2: but not right all the.

470
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:10,120
Speaker 3: Time, Like I mean I guess, yeah, yeah.

471
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 2: There's well It's also like the thing that really sucks

472
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 2: about parenting is like focusing on like, Okay, what I

473
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 2: got to do is like I have to I have

474
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 2: to be more strict with her, and I got to

475
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 2: tell her, like you must finish all your chicken nuggets.

476
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 2: And you're doing this while you're looking at your phone.

477
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:27,960
Speaker 2: You're thinking this while you're looking at your phone, and

478
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 2: you're realizing that what you're doing is you're imprinting that

479
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 2: you don't give a shit because you're just on your phone.

480
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 2: Like it's more like what's really important is putting your

481
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 2: phone down, yeah, and being present. Like it's just like

482
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 2: you there's little things like you don't even know you're doing,

483
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden they do it back.

484
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 2: It's like having the giving birth the mirrors.

485
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:49,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, isn't that. I just imagine that is so bizarre

486
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:54,360
Speaker 1: because I imagine being a parent, you become hyper aware of

487
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: your own behaviors, so such as like saying you need

488
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 1: to finish your chicken nuggets while you're on the phone.

489
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 1: Do I hear that? I'm kind of like, yeah, you're

490
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 1: letting her know she has to eat her dinner. But

491
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: you happen to be on your phone. But you're right

492
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: that there might be some messaging in that that, like,

493
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: I don't really give a shit about about this interaction.

494
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 2: No one says you're going to spend ten years fending

495
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 2: off a child who knows all your tricks but doesn't

496
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 2: know how to use them yet, that makes sense. So

497
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 2: you're just looking at someone who's doing it wrong, going,

498
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 2: you son of a bitch.

499
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I.

500
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,120
Speaker 2: Taught you that, but you have no idea, Like you're

501
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 2: just like it's crazy. It's like watching a bank robbery

502
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 2: that you did and don't remember.

503
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you put a lot of pressure on yourself then,

504
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: knowing that your children are mirrors in that way? Now

505
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: that you have a seven year old, for instance, before

506
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: the one year old was here and you're spending time

507
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: in the pandemic, do you feel like you're putting a

508
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: lot of pressure on yourself during that period less?

509
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 2: Now I'm easier letting dumb shit go. I mean, like

510
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 2: I know now and can say like I'm very dramatic,

511
00:24:56,600 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 2: and I can I am so someone who finds it

512
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 2: easy to play the victim and may even cause problems

513
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 2: to be the victim of.

514
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,959
Speaker 1: And this did you learn this in therapy.

515
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 2: Uh, I learned it more from just watching my kids

516
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 2: do it right back to me and going, man, all right,

517
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 2: but but yes, that therapy didn't hurt, you know what

518
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 2: I mean, like but but yeah, but like, but it's

519
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 2: also that it's it's you spend a lot of years

520
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 2: being embarrassed by that, being embarrassed like, oh my god,

521
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 2: how did I do that? For so? I mean, I

522
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 2: wish I could go back to SNL first day and go, hey, guys, sorry,

523
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 2: I'm back. I learned some things about something out, I

524
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 2: figured something out, and I larned. I would that that's it.

525
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 2: I would walk in there every day and go hi, Laurie, mean,

526
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 2: because that's what I wanted to do and I should

527
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 2: have done it, But instead I went in every day

528
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 2: going hello.

529
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 1: Sir, oh boy, you know hey, yes, yes, huh yes,

530
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: the quickest little tangentle exchange. I mean, it doesn't have

531
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: to be quick. But now I'm just that comment you

532
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: made about how you might have showed up at SNL

533
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 1: differently the way you were showing up at SNL you

534
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: believe is a function of what.

535
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 2: Survival. I mean, just it was. It was nine years

536
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,639
Speaker 2: of Please don't take this away from me.

537
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 1: Did you feel scared that you would not get another job?

538
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: Or was SNL just your dream?

539
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 2: It's just stupid. It's fucking insane. It's crazy to love

540
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 2: something your whole to be a comedy fan and love

541
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 2: something your whole life and look up to it and

542
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: it and it to be a cultural phenomen like it's

543
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 2: part of it's one of the things. It's one of

544
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 2: the things, and then all of a sudden, you're there.

545
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: I used to it's this sentence, it's this sentence. After

546
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 2: my first year. I said this sentence to my mom.

547
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: She was like, was it the summer after my first year?

548
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 2: And like, you're everyone's different, Every person in your life

549
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: is different. You're different, everyone has changed. And my mom said,

550
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 2: what's wrong? Like you seem down kind of thing. And

551
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 2: I was just like, I don't know how to explain

552
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 2: this to you, mom. I was on a mechanical bowl

553
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 2: with Tom Hanks left.

554
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: Bobby. I mean, I really do want to get lunch

555
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: with you about the SNL of it all, because and

556
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: the dead parent of it all. Because you're supposed to

557
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 1: be elated, but it's such a gosh, it's such whiplash too.

558
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: It's such it's it's such an emotional whiplash, I think

559
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: being on SNL, which is an incredible opportunity. Not complaining,

560
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: but yeah, it's.

561
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 2: It's also like my view of SNL when I was

562
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 2: on it. I was also there for the fortieth, so

563
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 2: I know a little bit of what you're going through

564
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 2: right now. I can't imagine what it's like being there

565
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 2: for the fiftieth. I can't imagine because I was there

566
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 2: for the fortieth.

567
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: What did you pick up on in the fortieth What

568
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 1: were the vibes?

569
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 2: Well, everything changed before there was a before and after.

570
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 2: There was two before and afters for me at SNL

571
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 2: when Seth left and the fortieth, and like they were

572
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 2: kind of close to each other, like but like too

573
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,199
Speaker 2: as far as like when I first got there, Amy

574
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 2: and Darryl were still there and like Shoemaker and like

575
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 2: it was still old SNL or or what at that

576
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 2: time was considered old SNL, the Kristin era, the Kristen

577
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 2: Bill Hayter and the era, you know, the that era.

578
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 2: I came into the tail end of that and started

579
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 2: kind of the me Tarn Vanessa, that Jay Farrow that era.

580
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: So I saw this switch, this change where kind of

581
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 2: people left and well, people who had worked there for

582
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: forty years were gone, and it was bringing in kind

583
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 2: of the new era. I remember like we were never

584
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 2: in digital shorts, and by the time I left, I

585
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: was rarely rehearsing because we were shooting for twenty four

586
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 2: hours straight, you know. So like I saw like a

587
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 2: different I saw the transition. I feel like I was

588
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 2: there in a transitional period. So the fortieth for me

589
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: was like space camp. Like it was like it was nuts.

590
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: But I can't imagine ramped up for the fifty. Like

591
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 2: even just even just being around in California, it has

592
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: changed my life. My wife was in Wicked on Broadway

593
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 2: and I'm on Snel and we went. It's like our

594
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 2: house is filled with insane trauma right now. We went

595
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 2: to city Walk the other day, and city Walk, the

596
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 2: entirety of Universal City Walk is just Saturday Night Live

597
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 2: and Wicked.

598
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 1: That's wild.

599
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 2: It was wild. I did, by the way, I did

600
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 2: buy this at a city Walk and you're on it.

601
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm on it? What is it? Where?

602
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 2: What right?

603
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: Mug at CityWalk? Oh my gosh, I'm next to Bobby

604
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: on the Oh my snel mug from city Walk drunk uncle.

605
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: That is incredible. Gosh, now this is a dad podcast, but.

606
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we just made it ANML podcast.

607
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: It's okay, it's okay, it's okay. It's like it's like

608
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: you did boot camp. You did the same boot camp

609
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: I did, and we.

610
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: Were both in the same war.

611
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: Yes, and so we have to go remember that. Gosh.

612
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: I have so many questions now I've been my trauma

613
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: has kicked in, and I like, did you have your

614
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: first child at what point in your tenure at SNL

615
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: is after you left SNL after Yeah?

616
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I couldn't have done both. I would have died.

617
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 2: I would have exploded. I watched Bill Hater have a

618
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,479
Speaker 2: kid in the middle of SNL and like, saw what

619
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 2: it did to him or like, so just the different

620
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 2: people he like, it's you just don't sleep anyway if

621
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 2: you're on SNL. So I can't imagine both. Yeah, got

622
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 2: married and had a kid within a year of getting

623
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 2: off of SNL, and uh, seven year old and then

624
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 2: we did I yeah, yeah, now we have one year old.

625
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: You did IVF and you have a one year old.

626
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 2: I was gonna say we did IVF. It took a while.

627
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,719
Speaker 2: We didn't kind of like stalled during pandemic and now

628
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 2: then it worked and here.

629
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you were on SNL and it was sort

630
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: of like that energy of please don't take this away,

631
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: please don't take this away. Was your desire to get

632
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: married and be a dad any part of your decision

633
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: to leave or what was that?

634
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 2: Like, I mean, it's funny in retrospect now I think

635
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 2: back and I go, I met my wife like a

636
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 2: couple weeks before I got SNL, okay, And when I

637
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 2: got S and L, I called my mom and then

638
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 2: I called her and like we had gone on like

639
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 2: a couple days, like it was like we're but like

640
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 2: I think I just knew, and like we dated all

641
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 2: throughout SNL. At one point in the middle of SNL,

642
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 2: we were like she kind of she was on Broadway,

643
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 2: so it was like every like we never saw we

644
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 2: tried to see each other whenever we could, and and

645
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 2: she kind of went like, we're we either have to

646
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 2: get married, like what are we doing? And I went

647
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: like we can't do this, and we broke up for

648
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 2: a little while, but it very much it very much

649
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 2: felt like we were both going like we have to

650
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 2: break up with this because this is too much, and

651
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 2: the second we did, we went like, oh man, okay,

652
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 2: so when we get back together, we'll get married, Like,

653
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 2: let's just wait a little while so we don't look

654
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 2: like idiots. Yeah, and that's that's like what it felt like.

655
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 2: And we got back together and we've been together ever

656
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 2: since and got married. The second we had like a day.

657
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: Off during the time you were dating and you were

658
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: on SNL, she was on Broadway. Obviously time is limited.

659
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: Was Monday night your date night?

660
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 2: Yes, very much, so like Monday was a big deal

661
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 2: for us. It was Monday was our Sunday.

662
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: Okay, yep, I don't I know it. That's the day

663
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: every SNL person is going on dates much Monday Mondays.

664
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Speaker 1: It's Mondays. So when you guys decided to have your

665
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: first child, which seems like it happened pretty much right away,

666
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 1: did you feel ready to be a parent, Like, did

667
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 1: you feel like this is something I'm ready to do

668
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: or was was it a function of this is the

669
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 1: time to do it?

670
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 2: No? It looking back, it's very much SNL prepared me

671
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 2: for it in the sense of like, well, we're going

672
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 2: live and there's nothing you can do about it. Like,

673
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: so that's kind of read like that was it eleven

674
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 2: thirty all the time with a kid eleven That's like

675
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 2: you take the kid that you give birth and then

676
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 2: you get downstairs and you go like, okay, we got

677
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 2: to put this thing in a car like that literally,

678
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 2: like the first time it hits you is the car

679
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 2: right home where you're like, so, no one, I'm just

680
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 2: no one's gonna help. I'm allowed to pick this thing

681
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 2: and like it's crazy. It's a crazy realization where you

682
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 2: go like, oh, but I think that's yeah. I was

683
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 2: about to do another SNL thing. I'll stop talking about

684
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 2: SNL and' only talk about You're welcome.

685
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: To talk about SNL as much as you want, and

686
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: I want listeners to know this is truly what happens,

687
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: and somehow all roads lead back to SNL even if

688
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: you weren't on SNL. I feel like somehow I'd be

689
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: talking to someone about SNL right now.

690
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 2: I said it in that documentary It Seth when I

691
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 2: got the show. The night I got the showeth Except

692
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 2: said congratulations, You'll never talk about anything else for the

693
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 2: rest of your life.

694
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: Seth is so brilliant and wonderful. The best I wasn't

695
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 1: obviously there when he was head writer. But I've heard

696
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: so many wonderful tales of his time as a leader

697
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: there and wish I could have been there.

698
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. I hope he gets it. I hope he inherits

699
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 2: the show.

700
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: Agree with you? Yeah, that would be really cool because

701
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: only good things. Okay, so you felt like it was

702
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: like being on SNL We're going to go Live. Did

703
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,319
Speaker 1: anyone give you any advice that was particularly helpful to

704
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: you in parenting, whether it be in the baby phase

705
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: or once your kids can talk face Did anyone say

706
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 1: anything that you're like that was good advice? And I've

707
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: used it.

708
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 2: Juliel White, Steve Rkle, Okay.

709
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: Love Twiss, unexpected, Okay, keep going.

710
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,720
Speaker 2: Uh it's not the best advice. It's just whenever someone

711
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 2: asked me that question, I love to see their reaction

712
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 2: when I say, Juliel White told me, Uh.

713
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 1: What did Jhaliel say? What did Rkle say? Uh?

714
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 2: He's a good dad. He he was talking to his

715
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 2: daughter and he was very specifically going no, no, no, no no.

716
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 2: Are you hurt or are you injured?

717
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: Explain this to me?

718
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 2: Do we are you hurt? Are you in pain? Or

719
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: are we making a trip to the hospital, like the

720
00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 2: difference between hurt and injured, and explaining that quickly was

721
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 2: very I don't know why, it just it just hit me.

722
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 2: It just hit me like it was written in a movie.

723
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 2: I went like, I'm gonna remember that always. I don't

724
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 2: know why, but I'm going to and have you used it?

725
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 2: Oh a billion times? A billion times? And because he

726
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 2: said it and it just well it Also it's a

727
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 2: good parenting tool because it kind of snaps your kid

728
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 2: into reality because igo we were on us and know

729
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 2: we're very dramatic. So like my daughter, my daughter bangs

730
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 2: her knee a tiny pit and it's it's like it's

731
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 2: bloody murder. So you go, are you hurt or are

732
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 2: you injured? And they hear what they hear is I

733
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 2: don't want to put down the iPad and go to

734
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: the hospital. I'm fine. Sorry, Sorry, I was being a little.

735
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: Did I really love that? Because I'm gonna be honest.

736
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 1: When you first said that, Jaliel taught you that are

737
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: you hurt or are you injured? I was like, what's

738
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 1: the difference? And I'm like, now I really understand the

739
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: specificity of that.

740
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Speaker 2: That's why I bring it up because it is a

741
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 2: great thing.

742
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 1: Are you hurt or are you injured? In my ass

743
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: wants to go The answer is yes, but in like no,

744
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: you need to pick one and they mean different things,

745
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 1: and one means we're gonna go to the hospital. How

746
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 1: many trips to the hospital have you been saved with

747
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: that question? Do you believe a few?

748
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 2: But we had a real trip to the hospital that

749
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: changed everything. She my daughter broke her arm when she

750
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: was three, and that made everything very real and so like.

751
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 2: But also like, this is a terrible thing to say,

752
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 2: but it's like I never broke a bone when I

753
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 2: was a kid, and she broke her arm when she

754
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 2: was three, and she's fucking tougher for it.

755
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: Oh wow wow. It's kind of like I'm not condoning violence.

756
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you've ever gotten beaten up, it

757
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:42,879
Speaker 1: does something, like, you know, does something for you.

758
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,439
Speaker 2: It's a shitty thing to say. Never would have said

759
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 2: this before I had two kids. Times you need to

760
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:48,720
Speaker 2: get punched in the fucking face.

761
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: Okay, I believe it too. I agree with that. By

762
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: the way, I backpedal on what I said about I

763
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: don't condone violence. If I was running for office, that's

764
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: my I don't condone violence, but honestly, I do believe

765
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: sometimes you need to get.

766
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 2: That's how you learn in life, not to get punched

767
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 2: in the face, get punched in the face when you

768
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:06,399
Speaker 2: do dumb shit.

769
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: I agree. If Bobby says it, then I feel like

770
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: I can be honest and say I agree. Also, I've

771
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 1: never broken a bone, and I'm going to knock on.

772
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: I don't have woo to knock on, so I knock

773
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: on marble. This is marble, but marble columns. You're surrounded

774
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 1: by marble columns. Not this happens to be a marble table.

775
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: I promise it's all the marble ized.

776
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: She's shitting in a porcelain tumb full of raspberries.

777
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: I hope this is okay, Bobby, I hope this isn't

778
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: too much.

779
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 2: But she's in a business suit. But there's a lot

780
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: of raspberries exactly.

781
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: That's okay. And that's a character. I'm gonna put that

782
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: one in my back poppies. Maybe people will like that one.

783
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 1: But I gosh, I can only imagine having a child

784
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: break an arm. Did you and anyway feel guilt? Okay?

785
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: And then what happened?

786
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 2: Man, it's not guilt it's just this. I can see

787
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 2: the look in my mother's eye of like, oh my God,

788
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 2: all I want is to take everything bad that's happening

789
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 2: to you right away from you right now, and I can't.

790
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: Hm. Would you call that top three most overwhelming feelings

791
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:14,360
Speaker 1: in this life?

792
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 2: Parents? Death, realizing that your kids are going to go

793
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:23,240
Speaker 2: through it? Those two and when and when Jane Lynch

794
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 2: had one of my sketches cut on as a killer.

795
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 2: I still want a killer to this deck.

796
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: Okay, I am going to ask about that sketch, But

797
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: what you say, would you realize that your kids are

798
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: going to go through it, meaning like have a rough

799
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: time in life or they're going.

800
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 2: To experience I'm going to join it someday and just knowing,

801
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 2: just knowing what I know now, it's just like, oh man,

802
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 2: why did I have a kid?

803
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: Why did you do? Did? Why would you say you

804
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: did it? Actually? Bobby? Why would you well?

805
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 2: Because because of the ninety nine point billion percent other

806
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:57,720
Speaker 2: time when it's absolutely wonderful and it's it, every fiber

807
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 2: of your being just goes there they are.

808
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: Did you suspect you would be a good dad?

809
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 2: I suspected I would be a fun dad. But not

810
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 2: a good dad, and I am a fun dad and

811
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 2: that's pretty good dad.

812
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:13,399
Speaker 1: Are you a disciplinarian at all?

813
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: Oh no, let your wife be the bad guy. I

814
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 2: think it's more like right or wrong than discipline. But

815
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 2: I think I have a disciplined problem, like my my daughter.

816
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 2: It's like sneaking treats, you know what I mean, Like

817
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 2: you have an arfter trunklate, you know what I mean?

818
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 2: Like or like I collect I'm a collector, Like I've

819
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 2: never thrown anything away in my life, So I like

820
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 2: I have a problem of like, hey, we're only getting

821
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: ten things this time, honey, Like you know what I mean.

822
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 2: Like I grew up poor and because of SNL, like

823
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 2: you know, because of the my daughter has a very

824
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 2: different life than I did. And we're not billion billionaires.

825
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 2: But like you know, like it's like when I think

826
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 2: about like I was buying used g I Joe's and

827
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 2: now and my daughter likes something, I'm like, here's the

828
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 2: entire you need all ten? You can't have just two. Yeah,

829
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 2: that's my fault. And now I have to curb. And

830
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 2: I realize now especially with the second kid, like we

831
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 2: don't have to buy toys for the second kid, because

832
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: we bought all of the toys for the first first one.

833
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: What will you say if your second one says I

834
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: want my own stuff. I'm starting to realize these are

835
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 1: all hand me downs? Are you gonna go?

836
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna look her in the eyes like I'm not.

837
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 2: What I'm not gonna do is with my father could go, hey,

838
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 2: shut the fuck up. I don't know fucking figure it out,

839
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna do that. I'm gonna go I

840
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 2: completely understand that what we should do is probably donate

841
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 2: these to some kids who need them, So that'll be fun.

842
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 2: Let's do that together instead of looking at an iPad.

843
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 1: Right, I love that.

844
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,760
Speaker 2: And also, maybe we do some stuff around the house,

845
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 2: or we figure out some fun things to do, or

846
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 2: maybe you can make some art for an allowance, something creative.

847
00:40:58,560 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 2: What do you want to do?

848
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and then.

849
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 2: We can work up and buy some new toys. But

850
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 2: when we do, we get one, and it's got to

851
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 2: be a special one. And I have to remind myself

852
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 2: that because that's not how I lived, clearly, not at all.

853
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: I see as you see my childhood behind me, my

854
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 2: SNL jersey.

855
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: Oh boy, do you worry about spoiling your kids because

856
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: your upbringing is different from theirs.

857
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:28,919
Speaker 2: Constantly. Yeah, I grew up in east Chester, New York.

858
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 2: They are growing up in California. My this this got

859
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 2: me the other day, and I'm not ashamed to say

860
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 2: it because I got to remember by myself. My daughter's

861
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 2: in first grade and said where friends said, I'm going

862
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 2: to the movies, and she said, is it the premiere?

863
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, a little Hollywood girl.

864
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 2: Well well no, not a Hollywood girl at all, but

865
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 2: but we took her. I'm in inside out and I'm

866
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 2: inside out too, and we took her to the movie

867
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 2: and it was the premiere and we never took her

868
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 2: were premiere before, so it was just but it was

869
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: just that, it was just like just that one sent

870
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 2: I went.

871
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: Like, well, is it the premiere? And are you dressing up?

872
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 2: And but do you know what I was picture? It's

873
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 2: on a three?

874
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: Where's where's the red carpet? I mean, I guess there

875
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 1: is red carpet at the movies, but there's no seamless Yeah,

876
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: a god, I get a seamless Bobby. You do sound

877
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 1: like a fun dad. I feel like if I could

878
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: pick a dad, i'd go, yeah, well, I have chosen

879
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 1: you as my dad for the day. I want to

880
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 1: ask really fast before I get into this dad vice

881
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,760
Speaker 1: advice piece where I ask you for a piece of advice,

882
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: the Jane Lynch sketch. What was it? And tell me

883
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 1: the story, because I have my own version of the

884
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: Jane Lynch sketch. It wasn't Jane Lynch, but please do tell.

885
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 2: It was a sketch that I had tried to get

886
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 2: on for a while to the point where like, no

887
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 2: one told me you weren't supposed to fucking pan stuff

888
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 2: in multiple times when I first got there, and I

889
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 2: kind of did. And and it was a sketch called

890
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:07,760
Speaker 2: Party for Burrow. Please look it up on the database. Okay, okay,

891
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 2: with Jane Lynch. I was a nine hundred pound man

892
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:17,760
Speaker 2: who was having a party, a party at his house

893
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 2: because he had reached his goal weight of six hundred pounds.

894
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 2: And they built a big body on a chair and

895
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 2: I had my head poking through it. Yeah, And Jane

896
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 2: Lynch was my very normal wife. And there was a

897
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 2: lot of very normal suburban people at this party, and

898
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 2: they were all having a party, and Jane Lynch did

899
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: all the talking, was like, hey, everybody thanks for coming, Burrow,

900
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 2: and they were like she was like, and thank you

901
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 2: for coming, and she told the whole story like I

902
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 2: just told you, and she would go, is it that right, Burrow,

903
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 2: and I would go yeah, and I just never said

904
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 2: anything except eh, and I never moved and they all

905
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 2: went into a different room to play twister and you

906
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 2: could hear fun having and I just sat there. It

907
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 2: was dark and weird. Keenan looked like a grandpa. But

908
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: then it was like, are my wheat dealer's here? And

909
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 2: it was Keenan. He was like, good to be here, man,

910
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 2: And it was just very weird and stupid, and it

911
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 2: was never going to get on again. And it made

912
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 2: it to dress and it got in the show and

913
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 2: it was the sketch after dress, I mean after update,

914
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 2: my favorite spot, Like why.

915
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: Is that your favorite spot?

916
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 2: Because everyone's like, all right, last.

917
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: Year actually okay, great, okay, great.

918
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 2: It's like a fun spot that or the last sketch

919
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 2: of the night is my two favorite places to bit

920
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 2: oh wow, okay, okay, Flora uped it, but uh and

921
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 2: I walk in and it's fucking in and like I

922
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,800
Speaker 2: looked at Seth and Seth was like, I can't believe

923
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 2: it either, buddy, And we're doing the read and we're

924
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 2: starting to get close to update and we're starting to

925
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 2: get notes and Jeff Blake just creeps up to the board,

926
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:01,479
Speaker 2: takes the card, pulls it down, puts another card up,

927
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 2: and it just says Susie ormand show oh, and it

928
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 2: was like a political sketch where Jane Lynch was playing

929
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 2: Susie ormand the kind of tank or didn't whatever, I

930
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 2: don't remember how it did to be on it.

931
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: Do you think you can be honest? You're like it

932
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: kind of tanked because you.

933
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 2: Don't know what's tanked because I will I should see

934
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 2: it again and go, oh no, it didn't actually.

935
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: Okay that feeling when you're like mine is better, Mine

936
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 1: is better than the one you chose.

937
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're trying to tell me that party for Burrow

938
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 2: like you know, like I was, and it got taken

939
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 2: off in the middle of that like it was in

940
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: and that had never happened in my nine years there

941
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 2: where they had made a decision and then renegged and

942
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: she just kind of leaned over and whispered, sorry, Susie

943
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 2: Orman's a friend of mine. Ah, And I was like devastated,

944
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,760
Speaker 2: and it never got on and thats it.

945
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,240
Speaker 1: Just went away Man party for Burrow.

946
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I keep it. Seth brought it up once on

947
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: to do it on Second Chance Theater and I was

948
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 2: just like, not even there. It doesn't even deserve to

949
00:45:59,400 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 2: be there.

950
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 1: That would have been fun. I now want. I'm gonna

951
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 1: go look it up on the database. And also shout

952
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 1: out to Jeff Blake. You're remembering it was him who

953
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: took the car. We love Jeff Blake and the best

954
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,759
Speaker 1: guy ever at snl Okay. I'm gonna end this by

955
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: asking you a piece of da advice, which is what

956
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: I do on every episode. I have a dad for

957
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 1: the day. You have been a fantastic dad. My piece

958
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: of advice, And this is why I was saying it

959
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 1: kind of relates to death. How do I articulate this, Dad?

960
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 1: I'm nervous because I'm getting in real time with you.

961
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 1: But in terms of savings, how much savings is the

962
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: right amount of savings? Would you say, Dad? Because I

963
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: oftentime with savings, go, what am I saving this for? Yes,

964
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: an emergency maybe if I have a gold in mind.

965
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 1: But I also could die tonight.

966
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 2: Save very different, very different. I would even say, from

967
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 2: like a couple of weeks ago. I've changed this before

968
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 2: the fires even okay, okay, which is save everything and

969
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 2: put it in a bank. You don't need anything I

970
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 2: have of this. I have a collecting I like to

971
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 2: collect things. I have a lot of stuff. I stole

972
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,240
Speaker 2: so many props from Snel it's stupid.

973
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: Some un jail this man.

974
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 2: Oh yes, easily. The fortieth anniversary was me walking around

975
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 2: stealing things whenever Dana Carvey would put them down.

976
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take that, thank you, and this as well.

977
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,280
Speaker 2: I have his drumsticks from Wade and Garth. I literally

978
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 2: wear it within reach. Yeah, save everything, None of this

979
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 2: shit matters. I collected my whole life, and now I'm

980
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: in the process of like selling everything and just going

981
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 2: like I enjoyed it. I enjoy I loved it, but

982
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 2: like it's all like now it's just I go like,

983
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,959
Speaker 2: I don't do anything unless it's for those kids, because

984
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 2: like I just everything. I'm gonna get dark for.

985
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: A second, please please be real.

986
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 2: Losing both of your parents within six months of each other,

987
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 2: after leaving Saturday Night Live for nine years, getting married,

988
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 2: and having a baby, it was a lot of stuff. Yeah, yeah,

989
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 2: in one year, and just even the physical task of

990
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 2: which I did solely alone, of cleaning out my childhood

991
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 2: apartment of everything that my mother and father owned, and

992
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 2: going like, this is all garbage. Yesterday it was their stuff.

993
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:34,800
Speaker 2: Today it's garbage.

994
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: So one man's trash is not necessarily another man's treasure.

995
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 2: One man's man's tresch is also another man's trash.

996
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

997
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 2: Sometimes, so like it's like that, It's like it's it's

998
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 2: also like I want to lessen the amount of work

999
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 2: they have to like when I die, I want them

1000
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 2: to go like, oh, he set it up for us.

1001
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 2: It was nice, like because my parents did not do that.

1002
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 2: I paid a lot of stuff off right, you know,

1003
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 2: it was it was it was you matter.

1004
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: The things you do matter, right, and that is a

1005
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 1: big lesson. Do you have a will?

1006
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 2: A couple?

1007
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: Okay, all right? Just one? Just okay, I don't know

1008
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 1: what the I said. You could have told me you

1009
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: had a hundred, and I would be like, I don't

1010
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: know anything about them, and I should maybe get one.

1011
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 2: Or I should and I don't know one for each identity.

1012
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I'm talking to Bobby tomorrow with Bibby. Yeah,

1013
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 1: even in terms of stuff, like I'm not We get

1014
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: so many things gifted to us, which is really cool

1015
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 1: and people want us to you know, that press the

1016
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: pr thing of it all, and I try to give

1017
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: it away as much as I can because I'm like,

1018
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 1: I don't need all of this stuff, and so I

1019
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: do a pretty good job with like actual stuff and

1020
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: not hoarding. But then I'll do a good job of

1021
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 1: like purging. But then I'll look up and I go, oh,

1022
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: my gosh, I have a lot of stuff again, somehow,

1023
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: despite having purged a year and a half ago and

1024
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: giving things away that I'm gifted, and you just look

1025
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: around and you go, this is so much stuff.

1026
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 2: Asnel enhanced the collecting too, because I was as somebody

1027
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 2: who likes to collect things. And then you would wear

1028
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 2: a T shirt during good nights and someone would go, hey,

1029
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 2: you like this, and then they would send you cases

1030
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 2: of this stuff, and then you're like, oh no, and

1031
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 2: like and then your house is filled with stuff and

1032
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:15,919
Speaker 2: you're like.

1033
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's exactly right. You go, I'm so glad you

1034
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:22,800
Speaker 1: clocked that I wore the thing and that I like

1035
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:24,399
Speaker 1: the thing, but I don't know that I need more

1036
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: of the thing. It's just me.

1037
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 2: I want it. I don't need it, but I want it.

1038
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. Sure, But even in terms of like financial savings,

1039
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: it's kind of the root of my question. My money

1040
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 1: comes to mind. I'm like, I should just have a

1041
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:38,840
Speaker 1: thick ass savings account.

1042
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 2: You think that, And this is just the truth. I

1043
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 2: worked at a pizzeria Uno on Central Avenue and Yonkers.

1044
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 2: I was a bartender for many, many years, and I

1045
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 2: really just I was good at it, and I really

1046
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 2: just try to assume no matter how many times I'm

1047
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 2: on a mechanical bull with Tom Hanks, I could be

1048
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 2: bartending a pizzeria Uno again tomorrow so easily and be

1049
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:05,839
Speaker 2: fine with it.

1050
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: Okay, that's where I need to be. Christ Okay, I

1051
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 1: like this mentality less is more like some sense.

1052
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's Uh. Life is really fun and confusing

1053
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 2: and complicated, and you can make it that way or

1054
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 2: you can make and yeah, or you what's my other option?

1055
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 2: Am I heard around I injured? What's what were you

1056
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 2: going to say? My other option is oh, are you hurting? Oh?

1057
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 2: My other no, my other advice that I heard as

1058
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 2: a parent.

1059
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 1: You mean no, no, no, no no, but you were

1060
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: you were saying life is really fun, and you could

1061
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 1: it could be complicated, or you can make it that

1062
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 1: way or or.

1063
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 2: I think no, no, no, I think right now, it's

1064
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 2: that it's either you either are a victim or you're

1065
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,760
Speaker 2: or you're being the victim. And knowing when you're being

1066
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 2: the victim because it's easier is a huge thing that

1067
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: I didn't really fully understand. And we'll look back on

1068
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 2: this podcast in a month and go, oh god, I

1069
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 2: thought I knew what I was talking about. It's just

1070
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 2: that it's that it's you. Never there's always a bigger fish. Yeah, always, always, always, always.

1071
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: Can I just ask one more thing, which is a

1072
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: bit unconventional because at this point you've given me all

1073
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: the advice. You've been a fantastic dad. Thank you for

1074
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: telling me your tales of fatherhood. When you described though

1075
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: you're leaving SNL after nine years and losing both parents

1076
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: within six months of each other, getting married, having a kid,

1077
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 1: and that short amount of time, Bobby, I felt attention

1078
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: on my end and I didn't live it, but I

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00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: know the SNL of it and how challenging that decision

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00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 1: may be, and how much you put your heart and

1081
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 1: energy into that place, and how emotionally taxing SNL can be,

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00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 1: which a lot of people wouldn't quite understand unless they

1083
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 1: worked there and understand how that machine works and how

1084
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 1: what keeps that place together. Do you feel like you've

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00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 1: come down from all of that in some sense, all

1086
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: of that that that year you just described, have you

1087
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:53,919
Speaker 1: properly exhaled yet?

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00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 2: Well? I could say this honestly now in the moment

1089
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,400
Speaker 2: because I'm a little bit more present than usual, which

1090
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 2: is it was starting to happen, it was starting, I

1091
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,919
Speaker 2: was starting to calm down, and then the fiftieth it's

1092
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:11,760
Speaker 2: been like the fiftieth has like kicked up so much stuff.

1093
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 2: When the fiftieth is over, that's I feel like the

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00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:21,799
Speaker 2: real healing begins. Then. Well, also, I'm just excited. I'm

1095
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 2: I'm I haven't heard anything about I just can't wait

1096
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 2: to go watch and be proud and then go home.

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00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:31,439
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that'll be fun and I think I think

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00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 1: it'll be very special. Pre fortieth post fortieth This is

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00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: my second post Dad Vice question. Pre fortieth post fortieth.

1100
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 1: The difference for you energetically there you alluded to that it.

1101
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,720
Speaker 2: Felt like ramping up to something, and then it felt

1102
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 2: very much like Okay, Now we just got to make

1103
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:49,480
Speaker 2: it to the fiftieth.

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00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, okay, like.

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00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 2: It just the the wave, Well, it was harder to

1106
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 2: come keep coming in like season forty one.

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00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: Yes, got it, Okay, got it. Yeah, thats fifty one

1108
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 1: is gonna be harder. Well, some might say different and different.

1109
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 2: It'll be completely different because you're it's a different show

1110
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 2: because the fifty it's over.

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00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:19,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, some might say the fiftieth is hard. Oh yeah,

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00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: you know, I can't. I don't know who would say that. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much, Bobby. You have been an incredible

1114
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 1: dad for the day. Thank you for letting me be

1115
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: your daughter. Please you have a thought.

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00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 2: I do the last thing just because it's literally the

1117
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 2: best dad advice I've ever gotten, and it works. The

1118
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 2: only thing you need when you're a father and you're traveling,

1119
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 2: The only thing you need to bring is Painter's tape.

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Speaker 1: Blue.

1121
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 2: They know that blue Painter's tape. Yes, you can make

1122
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 2: baby gates out of it that are almost indestructible and

1123
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:50,720
Speaker 2: they don't hurt kids. You can make toys out of tape.

1124
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 2: You could do anything with Painter's tape. Okay, you can

1125
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 2: make you can tape off sections of hotel rooms anything.

1126
00:54:57,440 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 2: It's okay, that's baby Gates being crucial. Wh gave you

1127
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 2: that advice?

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00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:01,240
Speaker 1: Do you remember?

1129
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 2: I don't remember, but I should thank them because it's

1130
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:04,760
Speaker 2: the truth.

1131
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good piece of advice. That's very solid. I'll

1132
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,879
Speaker 1: keep that one. Dear to me. I'll be a mom someday, God,

1133
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 1: and I will have my painters tape on me. Thank

1134
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 1: you so much. Do I want to plug anything, dad, Bobby? Bobby?

1135
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,879
Speaker 2: Sure check. I got a children's book called not All

1136
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 2: Sheep Are Boring? You can get on the computer love Uh.

1137
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 2: You can check out Loafy and Lightning Wolves or animated series.

1138
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm on YouTube. That's it for now. Oh

1139
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 2: and I got a podcast called whom Me with the

1140
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:40,799
Speaker 2: Batman on Comedy Bang Bang CBB Presents, where I play

1141
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 2: Batman and I interviewed.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. Shout out to Scott Ackerman.

1143
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:50,320
Speaker 1: Another another one has been my dad. Yeah, my god, Bobby,

1144
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 1: thank you You've been wonderful. Thank you so much for

1145
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 1: doing this. And let's get lunch for you.

1146
00:55:56,880 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 2: Such a bust.

1147
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:01,800
Speaker 1: Definitely thanks. Dad is a head gum created and hosted

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Speaker 1: by me. Igo Wodem. This show is engineered by Rochelle

1149
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 1: Chen and Anya Kanevskaya and edited by Rochelle Chen with

1150
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 1: executive producer Emma Foley. Katie Moose is our VP of

1151
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 1: Content at Headgum. Thanks to Jason Matheni for our show

1152
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: art and Faris Monshi for our theme song. For more

1153
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:22,960
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1154
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,520
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