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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice.

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Speaker 2: Award winning podcast. Hello everyone, we are scrubbing in the

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Speaker 2: biggest day of my year. Weird, Becca, Would you like

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Speaker 2: to introduce our guest of honor.

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Speaker 3: We have a very special guest, my fiance, Wally.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy to be Is it weird saying my fiance? No,

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Speaker 2: but it's fun to say.

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Speaker 3: It is fun to say. It's like the best thing

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Speaker 3: fiance is. Fiance is fun to say.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. John is just staring

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Speaker 2: at me.

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Speaker 4: I know, because there's like a banner that says just engaged,

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Speaker 4: hind us and she.

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Speaker 3: Brought champagne and cupcakes and her personal veil from her wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, my actual wedding veil.

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Speaker 3: It's no like party party favor.

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Speaker 2: You think a party city veil on my best friend's

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Speaker 2: head after she gets engaged. No chance. So we are here.

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Speaker 2: It's the big, big day.

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Speaker 3: It's been a week since we got engaged.

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Speaker 2: Nobody knows anything. Let's pop the champagne, okay and like

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Speaker 2: really get this party started.

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Speaker 3: Okay, like super fan, I might need you to do

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Speaker 3: it because you're okay, okay, Haley, No, not you. I

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Speaker 3: was about to it. Yeah, but don't don't shoot it.

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Speaker 3: Don't shoot it, don't shoot it. Just like, yeah, we're

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Speaker 3: in the studio.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, a little concerned. Oh Dohnya went over to get

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Speaker 5: her cups filled. No, thank you, I'm fine.

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Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 5: Cops are being filled.

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Speaker 3: Cops are being filled, cups filled, cups, say vision, this

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Speaker 3: is so surreal, I know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's raise a toast to here, Mark, just so

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Speaker 2: you can thank you. Let's raise a toast to our

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Speaker 2: newly engaged couple to the start of the best exciting

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Speaker 2: era of your lives and the start of your lives together.

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Speaker 2: Cheers to Becca Hayle.

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Speaker 3: Mmmm delicious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, rich, some nice champagne right there. I'm gonna be

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Speaker 2: siping on that the rest of the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, loosen up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we know nothing. I mean, I know a

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Speaker 2: little bit, but I'm gonna pretend I know nothing.

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Speaker 3: I know because we were on our trip and I

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Speaker 3: knew I was going to get to see you in person,

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Speaker 3: and you were on your trip, so I wanted to

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Speaker 3: like be able to tell you all the details and

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Speaker 3: go through it without just being like text like you

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Speaker 3: were wanting text, but yeah, I was.

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Speaker 2: After I heard the news, I was sending texts like

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Speaker 2: rapid text to Becca like every day emoji, yeah, exclamation,

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Speaker 2: we have wake up call yeah, and she would like

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Speaker 2: respond the next day and answer like one of the ten.

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Speaker 5: Questions that torture for you.

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Speaker 2: So I was like being respectful and I was like

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Speaker 2: letting her be present in her blissful moment. I did

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Speaker 2: a great job, Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I did it for you, and you know what, you

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Speaker 3: did a great job, and you also made us feel

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Speaker 3: you and Robbie made us feel so loved and celebrated,

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Speaker 3: So it was like the perfect It was just lovely.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's nice to hear. You know we're our first

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Speaker 2: cause I was really restraining myself.

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Speaker 3: Y'all were the first call we made after we got out.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna say that because I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: it started. I didn't want to start a drama. I

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Speaker 2: was gonna take that with me to the grave. But

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Speaker 2: can you believe that?

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Speaker 3: I couldn't believe it. It just was like we were

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent sure that you would give us a

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Speaker 3: celebratory response and be so excited for us. So it

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Speaker 3: was like, I think we were just excited to call you.

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Speaker 3: Like I was so excited to call you and have

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Speaker 5: Was it celebratory? Did you start crying?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was like heaving.

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Speaker 3: I have a really funny video. I'm gonna send Crystal

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Speaker 3: so she can post it because it's hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, crying like a lot. I was, so I was

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Speaker 2: convinced that you guys weren't getting engaged on this trip.

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Speaker 4: Made you back up, because remember you had commented bridal Era, Yes,

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Speaker 4: convinced that it was happening on the trip at one point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you called us on speaker and was like,

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Speaker 4: And I'm like in the car like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 4: I di And I was like, I wasn't planning to

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Speaker 4: tell you, but at that point I was like, I

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Speaker 4: cannot tell it. Ton, Like you all see each other

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Speaker 4: way too much, and this like just trying to surprise

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Speaker 4: Becca is just like beyond Like I've never surprised her.

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Speaker 2: I guess you have.

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Speaker 3: You came home from tour early one time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, fine, ones, but it's really hard to surprise her

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Speaker 2: because she's super intuitive. Yeah, cookie, and she's always first

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Speaker 2: to the punch first. Yes. Yeah. So like I was,

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Speaker 2: I thought it was gonna happen in Myerica, and then

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Speaker 2: I realized Becca's not prepared yet. So I really convinced

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Speaker 2: myself it's not happening on this trip. So like I

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Speaker 2: and then even Robbie pulled me aside and was like, Babe,

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Speaker 2: remember before we got engaged and everybody was like ring

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Speaker 2: ring ring ring ring, Like how annoying. It was like,

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Speaker 2: don't do that to your best friend. And I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you're right, I'm not I'm gonna like lay off.

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Speaker 5: Why it's.

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Speaker 2: So I was convinced you guys weren't getting engaged on

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Speaker 4: And imful because I do think that like me, I

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Speaker 4: was telling beck I was like, Tanya's like freaking me

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Speaker 4: out because like she is putting pressure on this, like

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Speaker 4: she's commenting bridal Era on Instagram like it's a lot,

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Speaker 4: and like it actually worked in my favor, yeah, because

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Speaker 4: I was like, you know, telling Beca like I'm just

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Speaker 4: not ready for that, you know, Okay, So I was like.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and I also like in my mind, which I've

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Speaker 3: said on the podcast, I always thought I would be

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Speaker 3: the first to propose. So I went on the trip

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Speaker 3: being like all my I had several friends being like,

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Speaker 3: are y'all getting engaged? Are you proposing? And I was like, no,

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Speaker 3: you guys, it's just a vacation. We go on trips

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Speaker 3: all the time, and I don't even have a ring

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Speaker 3: or anything, so we're not getting engaged. So when I

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Speaker 3: tell you, I had absolutely no clue. It wasn't even

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Speaker 3: a thought in my mind going into the trip. I mean,

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Speaker 2: So when you packed for this trip, like, were you

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Speaker 2: trying to help, like knowing Hayley you're gonna propose, were

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Speaker 2: you like trying to encourage her to like pack a

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Speaker 4: Like, well, she's always cute, she's always prepared, So that

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Speaker 4: was like check. But I was like making I was shot.

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Speaker 4: I was like making sure I had outfits, which I

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Speaker 4: don't normally do. I got my nails done with her,

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Speaker 2: Did that throw you off at all?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: I was just like, Oh, she's growing up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean when you look back, there's so many moments.

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Speaker 4: So and then with the ring concierge thing too.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, crazy.

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Speaker 4: So I was unsure what ring she wanted exactly, and

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Speaker 4: so I worked with ring concierge to basically pretend that

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Speaker 4: she was being gifted jewelry, like free jewelry. So I

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Speaker 4: had them DM back up at me like Hey, we're

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Speaker 4: gifting like free jewelry for pride, like.

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Speaker 2: Come into the shower. They were just like all in

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Speaker 2: my mind it was Pride, but yeah, they were just like, yeah.

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Speaker 3: They've gifted me stuff before. So they messaged me and

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Speaker 3: there they were like, hey, come into the LA location

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Speaker 3: and we want to gift you in Haley, I.

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Speaker 2: Feel like you told me about this and they have

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Speaker 2: some event they where you were like I remember you

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Speaker 2: inviting me to a ring concierge event.

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Speaker 3: No, that was a different event. Well that was a

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Speaker 3: long time ago if I invited you to that, but

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Speaker 3: this was just recently. I think I talked about getting

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Speaker 3: I put like for engagement right, But was that the

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Speaker 3: actual ring?

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Speaker 4: No, it wasn't the actual ring, but I did set

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Speaker 4: it up. So basically they don't normally have engagement rings

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Speaker 4: rings out and then Marla and I've been talking and

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Speaker 4: so the goal was to figure out what you know,

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Speaker 3: Basically like what you know what shape?

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Speaker 2: Shame And so she is just having a.

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Speaker 4: Black and Bega doesn't know that they don't have engagement

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Speaker 4: they're also wasn't in on it, which is good. They

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Speaker 4: didn't tell her because they didn't want anyone to like

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Speaker 3: But it was hard.

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Speaker 2: It was one of the hardest parts of the whole.

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Speaker 4: Engagement because she would not she would be refused to

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Speaker 4: go look at the engagement rings like she she no. Literally,

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Speaker 4: like Marlon and I were like trying rings on.

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Speaker 2: Being like what do you think of this?

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Speaker 4: We were like, begad come over here, and she'd be

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Speaker 2: Like she had no interest. She was probably focused on

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Speaker 6: No on what he no.

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Speaker 4: I and I got in my head at that moment

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Speaker 4: I was like, if I gave it away, that was

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Speaker 2: Was it trying to find the ring?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, basically like making basically forcing her to try these

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I didn't. I was just like, why are

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Speaker 3: They're interrupting me. So I I was clueless, and then

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Speaker 3: And then when she told I still didn't know until

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Speaker 6: So you mean like getting the story, okay, but I

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Speaker 6: want to I'm not the ring, the ring, the ring

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Speaker 6: that you picked out, the ring that you're wearing, it's

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Speaker 6: not it's not the exact one that she showed in

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Speaker 2: No, but it's the same shape. So how did you

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Speaker 2: know that that was the exact one? And did you

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Speaker 2: go like, cause do you have a hidden halo under

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So she's friend or friends with Nicole, who owns

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Speaker 4: Ring Concient Yeah. And so initially when I reached out

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Speaker 4: to Nicole, she had said she wanted a cushion, and

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Speaker 4: so she was actually almost perfectly right with what Becca wanted,

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Speaker 4: but I was like, I don't know if this is

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Speaker 4: in the store, that's the one she picked out, and

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Speaker 4: so I was like, Okay, that's the.

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Speaker 2: Did she elongated cushion? Elongated cushion, yeah, which most people

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Speaker 4: three and five, no, July third, between July third and

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Speaker 4: But it was helpful because he was basically scouting out

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Speaker 2: When they facetimed us, Haley showed us like a stick

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Speaker 4: Like so he basically, my friend who used to live

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Speaker 4: And so that was like my position to you know,

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Speaker 5: And you're on the rock or she's on the rock

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Speaker 5: We can keep going, Yeah, Mark.

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Speaker 4: Let's see if it matches his vision. This is like important,

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Speaker 2: Becca will became of their engagement.

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Speaker 5: Congratulations, much congratulation. Now I've seen the photos. I can't

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Speaker 2: I remember you guys went on one of your Cabo trips.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I am up for an I'm willing to get

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so we're up. You know what's happening the

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Speaker 4: You basically yeah, I had texted wy I was like,

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Speaker 4: And so we had texted, like, we're temporarily proposing July third,

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Speaker 4: okay to the temporary plan.

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Speaker 2: How did you get Becca to like be cute at Oh,

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Speaker 2: this is a good question.

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Speaker 3: However, let's take a break and we'll be right back,

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Speaker 3: and we're back. I also.

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Speaker 2: Even walked in. Do you want some champagne we're celebrating.

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Speaker 2: I'm good, but I don't drink, but like for ceremony.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, a little bit. I don't have any. Man,

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Speaker 5: It's okay, we did.

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Speaker 2: We'll do a toast at the end too.

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Speaker 2: Like you looked cute in the photos.

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Speaker 3: Ish, which really I mean I looked.

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Speaker 2: I liked my outfit because I know you're in makeup.

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Speaker 3: I mean, okay, we What we haven't mentioned is that

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Speaker 2: It was they had never seen anything.

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Speaker 3: We were in it. And so my let me tell

443
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 3: you before, I was probably the most casual I've been

444
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 3: about packing outfits on this trip. I packed a few

445
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 3: hair tools, but like I was like whatever, I'm just

446
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 3: gonna try and like disconnect.

447
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 2: Recharge, like we're not doing content.

448
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 3: My outfits were fine, but I didn't get anything like

449
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,399
Speaker 3: oh my god, because I was just like I'm just

450
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 3: gonna disengage.

451
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 2: She's never done that.

452
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 7: You know.

453
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 2: What's so funny is before we left, when I was

454
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,880
Speaker 2: packing for our honeymoon, I was texting Becca and because

455
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 2: like Becca always overpacks, and I was like finding myself

456
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 2: overpacking for my honeymoon. I was like just about how

457
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 2: many bags do you pack? And like how many hair tools,

458
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 2: how many outfits? What's appropriate? What's appropriate? And I had

459
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,879
Speaker 2: packed like essentially what you normally pack, which is like

460
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 2: a big suitcase and then like a carry on.

461
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I didn't. I packed a big suitcase and.

462
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 2: A carry on, but I'm not all your tools.

463
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 3: I packed. Well, yeah, because there's only a certain amount

464
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 3: in brands that will work in Europe without like overheating.

465
00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 3: So I just brought what I had and I was like, whatever,

466
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 3: it's fine, I'm just gonna go chill. My hair was

467
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 3: like so poofy every day. I was like, I mean

468
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 3: you would, you would get ready walk out and it

469
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 3: was like instant sweat.

470
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, like in an oven, Like you couldn't walk around

471
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 4: and chop, like you had to immediately get into a

472
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 4: body of water.

473
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always be when I'm.

474
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 4: From Los Angeles, so I'm used to desert and like

475
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 4: I'm not used to humidity. So I we got there

476
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna have

477
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 4: to propose to.

478
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 3: Hur at like six am.

479
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 4: You guys by ten am, You're like, I can't be outside.

480
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 4: But that's just because I'm not used to that weather.

481
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 3: You know, I'm not either. So I put on the

482
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 3: outfit and it's like a beach outfit, you know. I

483
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 3: had a swimsuit on a little bandana around my as

484
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,239
Speaker 3: a top and then like, okay, I thought so too.

485
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 3: You know, it was great. I was like, oh, this

486
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 3: will look so good with the turquoise water when we

487
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 3: take pictures. But by no means was I thinking.

488
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 2: This is a proposal you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, but

489
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 2: I love that.

490
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 3: I didn't know because it was I mean, I kind

491
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 3: of had a spiral about it because I was like,

492
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 3: was it the most flattering?

493
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 4: I don't know, but no, it was super It just

494
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 4: I just remember she had said like these are this

495
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 4: is what I would want when we proposed, And so

496
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 4: when she put her outfit together, I was like texting

497
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 4: Marla like panicked, like like is she going to get

498
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,199
Speaker 4: mad at me if I don't give her heads up?

499
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 4: Like do I tell her that they're photographer? Is like

500
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,239
Speaker 4: waiting for us, And Marla was like, no, it's going

501
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 4: to give it away. And so I just was like,

502
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 4: you know what, We're just gonna have to go with

503
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 4: this because giving her the surprise was the most important

504
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 4: thing to me. Yeah, And I was like, we'll just

505
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 4: do more photos if we need to later, you know,

506
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 4: like we'll just do another photo shoot.

507
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 2: So she's your cue, little bandana.

508
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 8: Beach outfit on and I said, I texted y K

509
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 8: and I said, we are on our way, And so

510
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 8: he was at the beach waiting in like the bushes,

511
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 8: like in heat.

512
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, poor guy, I know. And it was also one

513
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 3: of the things that in hindsight, I should have been

514
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 3: suspicious about, is that she was steaming her clothes and

515
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 3: she just care about wrinkles ever, Like an she'll leave

516
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 3: the house, I'm like, babe, please let me stee your pants.

517
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 3: Like I'll just be like, I'll do it for you.

518
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 3: So she goes, I think I'm gonna steam my clothes

519
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 3: for tomorrow the night before, and I should have been like,

520
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 3: something's going on, but again I was like, she's growing up.

521
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 3: So yeah, we go and we drive to the beach.

522
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,439
Speaker 3: We had a breakfast and.

523
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 2: At our house and the region is in your pocket.

524
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 2: The ring is in my purse. Oh right, yeah, And

525
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 2: she I have.

526
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 3: To say, like I will say, and I've always said

527
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 3: this on the podcast, but like, Haley makes me feel

528
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 3: like the most beautiful person in the world. Like I

529
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 3: walked out and she was like, baby, you look amazed.

530
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 3: So I was like, dang, she's so into me in this.

531
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 2: She's like this on.

532
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, So we drive It was like an hour drive

533
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 3: to get to the beach. And we get there and

534
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 3: she's like, let's just leave the stuff in the car

535
00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 3: or beat stuff in the car, will come back and

536
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 3: get it. And I'm like, this looks like a hike.

537
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 3: You're gonna we're gonna come back up and get the

538
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 3: beach stuff because she don't want there to be like

539
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 3: a pile of.

540
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 5: Stuff our suff Wow, that is a level of thinking

541
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 5: through that is really.

542
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 3: Impressive, so impressive.

543
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 4: And so we walk down and we go on this

544
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 4: like little path where and mind you, I had never

545
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 4: been there, so I had to watch like a video

546
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 4: and memorize how to get down to the spot and

547
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 4: find the raw correct.

548
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 5: So did you play it like, oh, let's go this way?

549
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 6: Why here?

550
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 2: Oh I think my friend told me to go this way.

551
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,719
Speaker 3: And I just say yeah, and I'm just following her.

552
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 3: I'm like okay. So she makes it like abrupt stop

553
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 3: and start setting up the dry bottom like okay, I guess,

554
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 3: and I'm like watching her. She comes up. I had

555
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 3: a like a key little sun bucket hat on and

556
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 3: sunglasses and she just takes the hat off of me,

557
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 3: takes my sunglasses and I'm like, why.

558
00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 2: Are you doing?

559
00:26:58,560 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 3: Like she's not saying anything.

560
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 2: The camera was set up and rolling because you sent

561
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 2: us that and I saw that, and that's like the

562
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 2: mys are like shaking, Yeah I can't. And you see,

563
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 2: like you see her walk over to Becca and pull

564
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 2: her hat and her sunglasses off, and Beck it's just

565
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 2: like I'm.

566
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 4: Like, I don't even say anything to her because I

567
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 4: was just like at this point, I'm making no excuses.

568
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 2: I gotta just like go, yeah she didn't. Watching Becca's

569
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 2: face go from like what the hell did you just do?

570
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 2: To like whatever you pull out of your purse like

571
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 2: and the moment you realize what's happening is like so sweet.

572
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 3: Well, I was watching her set it up and she

573
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 3: was struggling, like I could tell, and it was so bright.

574
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 3: At that point she crossed the shot, so I see

575
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 3: her because I was watching her. I see her pull

576
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 3: the box out of her purse and I'm like, what

577
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 3: is well, yeah, I was like what is that?

578
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 7: What is that?

579
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 3: And she walks me over to the now I know,

580
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 3: the rock and she.

581
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 2: I'm crying.

582
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 3: She's already crying, and I'm like so overwhelmed because I

583
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 3: was so un it was so unexpected, and I was

584
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 3: just like so overwhelmed and like trying to be present.

585
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 3: She said like amazing things to me, and she can't remember,

586
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 3: was about like I'll keep you safe and like I'll

587
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 3: be your safe, you know, just like just like beautiful

588
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 3: things that have always made me feel like she was

589
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 3: my person. And then she got down on me and

590
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 3: asked me to marry her and I said yes.

591
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 5: And at what point, though, did it register for you?

592
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 3: I mean, as soon as I saw the ring but

593
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 3: I was the ring box. The ring box. Yeah, I

594
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 3: was just like, oh my god, I can't believe I'm

595
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 3: so caught off guard because I always thought it was

596
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 3: going to be me. And there was this moment like

597
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 3: honestly where like the part of me that has some

598
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 3: control issues was like very caught off guard, like, oh

599
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 3: my god, she got me.

600
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, she called me so good, and she was stressed

601
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 4: that we only had the iPhone. Very had a convo

602
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 4: like that she needed professional photos and there's nothing against

603
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 4: iPhone photos, but like that's a request she had asked for.

604
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 3: I just was like I would love to have a

605
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 3: photographer capture at the moment, of course, and especially you know,

606
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 3: when you're in a place like that. It was just

607
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 3: like wow, and so I did have it was funny

608
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 3: what was running through my mind, which was, oh my god,

609
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 3: oh we we don't even know if it's on us

610
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 3: shop Orgles. So she got downe on knee and said

611
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 3: yes and then opened the box and I was just like,

612
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 3: oh my god, and I said yes, and then then

613
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 3: you put it on. She put the ring on me

614
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 3: and it's perfect.

615
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: And then y K popped out of the bushes and went.

616
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 3: Hi, And then I started, I think that sunk in.

617
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, she starts crying.

618
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 3: I think maybe it's because I knew we got good photos,

619
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 3: but I was just.

620
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 6: No.

621
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 3: But I think it was like all of a sudden,

622
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 3: it was like sinking and what just happened and it

623
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 3: was magical. And then we jumped into the crystal clear

624
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 3: blue water and we swam and it was just like.

625
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: Wait, what did she say? Does anybody remember? Did you

626
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 2: both black out?

627
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 3: Yeah? I was trying. She was just saying, like, you know,

628
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 3: like making her promises to me and that she'll be

629
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 3: my family and my safe space and that she we've

630
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 3: been through so much and we've gotten to this point

631
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 3: and we did it. All in our own time, and

632
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 3: it was just so beautiful and perfect for to like

633
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 3: encapsulate our relationship and our journey. So it was it

634
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 3: was so special. It was so cool.

635
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 4: Like I get why people once they get engaged and

636
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 4: they get married, like they they will not stop posting

637
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 4: their foot They'll be like had a burger and then

638
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 4: they're posting their photos from there, because it's just like,

639
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 4: I mean, we're obviously committed to each other, but and

640
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 4: we both have had commitment issues and we've gone through

641
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 4: like like do we want to get married, do we

642
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 4: want to get engaged?

643
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 3: Like do we need this?

644
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 4: What do we So it's so cool to just do

645
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 4: it on our own terms and to do it just

646
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 4: because we wanted to to like celebrate even though we

647
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 4: knew it was going to be forever anyways.

648
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: And so it was a really it was a really

649
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 2: cool feeling, like I get it, Like I'm like, oh,

650
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: this is cool.

651
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 4: This is really cool, and like you know, another layer

652
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 4: of teamwork of like navigating. You know, we've navigated so

653
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 4: much and so to know that we can literally get

654
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 4: through anything, it's just like amazing to be able to

655
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 4: start this chapter with that much like strength and endurance

656
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 4: and confidence each other. And this is just the beginning

657
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 4: of it.

658
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 2: I know it's only going to get stronger as it

659
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 2: goes on, and then when you get married, like it

660
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 2: just gets better and better. And I'm so excited that,

661
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 2: like you guys are starting this because it's just like

662
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 2: I was just like so shocked, Like.

663
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 3: I like, I was terrible.

664
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 2: I wasn't able to tell you.

665
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like prize was the most important thing

666
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 4: I I had to prioritize.

667
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 2: Becca was upset. I understood why you didn't tell me,

668
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 2: although I found out Robbie knew so that through a

669
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 2: whole nother.

670
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 3: She had to tell Robbie to tell Tanya to quit

671
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 3: with the comments of bridal era. And so that's why

672
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 3: he said that interesting.

673
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but actually, do you know what's even funnier about

674
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 2: that is And it all came back to me after

675
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 2: like I found all this out. But we were out

676
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 2: to dinner. Uh this was before our honeymoon, and he

677
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: was like, Babe, like if somebody came to you and

678
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: like or if like Becca came to you and said,

679
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 2: like don't tell anybody something like, would you tell me?

680
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 2: And I was like yeah, I was like I think

681
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 2: Becca tells me stuff, assuming that I'm gonna tell you.

682
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: And he brought it up again in like a dinner

683
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 2: with like Pauline and Sophia, and he was like, if

684
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 2: somebody came to you in confidence, like would you tell

685
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, so he was struggling, was right because then

686
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 2: I kept saying no, I would tell you for sure,

687
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: like that was always my response. And then after you

688
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 2: guys got engaged, he like was telling me all that

689
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my gosh, you little so

690
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 2: who did know?

691
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 4: Well, only just a handful of people really like Marla

692
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 4: like five yeah, yeah, like like a group of four

693
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 4: or five, and nobody's spilled. Nobody's spilled like literally Academy

694
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 4: Award winning performances truly.

695
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 3: Well, the night one of the few nights before we left,

696
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 3: we were laying in bed and she had gardened and

697
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 3: I did not, and she we were like giggling. She

698
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 3: was being really giggly, and.

699
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 4: I said, yeah, this was like two nights before we left,

700
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 4: and I go, what what sort of the conversation?

701
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 2: I didn't know, but she literally looked me in the

702
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 2: eye and went, do you have a ring?

703
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 4: And I just start giggling, like hackling, and my whole

704
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 4: theory was like if I lie to her, she'll know.

705
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 4: So I was always trying to be truthful but just

706
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 4: finding a way around it.

707
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 2: So you were like, yeah, I have a ring.

708
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,800
Speaker 3: Actually wouldn't answer me, and I go, you to swear

709
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 3: on our relationship.

710
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 5: I don't have a ring, and.

711
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 3: Like the closet and like yes, but she's like laughing,

712
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 3: and so I'm like, you swear on my relationship you

713
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 3: don't have a ring? And she goes, yes, I do,

714
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 3: and I'm like you do what? And she was like

715
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 3: I swear And I was like, say it, I s

716
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 3: our relationship. I don't want to do.

717
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,439
Speaker 2: That's actually a smart move to not lie. Was trying,

718
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 2: but I did have to lie there, yeah, which I get.

719
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 3: I mean a relationship.

720
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: I was like, you're about to ruin your engage. I'm

721
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 2: not going to want me to tell you that, yes,

722
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 2: I do have a ring.

723
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 3: I just was like, there's no way I would know.

724
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 3: I'm so happy.

725
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: I'm all still so shocked, Like I was like so

726
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 2: convinced you weren't that, Like even I was getting my

727
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 2: hair done and Tawny our mutual friends like they're totally

728
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 2: getting engaged. On this trip, right, And I was like, no,

729
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 2: they're they're not, Like I know for sure they're not.

730
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 2: Like I know for sure they're not. It's so interesting.

731
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 2: So many people had like energy about it.

732
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 3: It was so weird. Tawny texted me today and was like,

733
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 3: I knew it, and I go, I did it. I

734
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 3: wasn't lying when I said we weren't getting engaged.

735
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 5: According to me, what was the amount of time from

736
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 5: yes to.

737
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:53,760
Speaker 3: They got engaged?

738
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 2: Day?

739
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 5: Okay?

740
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,240
Speaker 3: We called her that night? Oh we did, yeah, because

741
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 3: like I just thought that you called me.

742
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 2: It was nighttime, your time.

743
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 3: So we got engaged at like eleven am. We like

744
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 3: swam in the ocean stuff, and then we went and

745
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 3: got lunch and then walked walked around the town there

746
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 3: and then we drove home and that's when I called you, and.

747
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 2: Then we called you a few and then we had

748
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 2: dinner and did some more photos. Mind you, when they

749
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 2: called me Robbie on my phone, he was trying to

750
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 2: like send photos to his phone from my phone, and

751
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,760
Speaker 2: he just becka face times me and he's like becka

752
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,839
Speaker 2: his face timing and just answers it. I was like, bro,

753
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 2: I just answered my phone like that and also I'm like,

754
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 2: why is Becka facetiming me? Like I was like he

755
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 2: knew right, like you didn't want me to miss it.

756
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: He was like yeah, little liar. But anyways, I was

757
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: like also thrown off. I was like, why is she

758
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 2: facetiming me? And then you said it right away and

759
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 2: I was like just totally freakin'.

760
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 3: It's so good.

761
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,479
Speaker 4: The video is so funny when I tell you, shock

762
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 4: like it was just so she was when I'm proposed

763
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 4: to her, she literally like I've never seen.

764
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 2: Her like that, and she was so giddy.

765
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 3: It was so cute.

766
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 4: She kept like looking at her ring and then like

767
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 4: screaming to herself, like like a silent scream, like.

768
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 3: You know, and it was so cute, like she just

769
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 3: kept like pinching herself. She just was like in shock.

770
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 1: If something comes over you, yeah, you feel with the ring,

771
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 1: She's like, it just feels like right, like I never

772
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: wear rings because I'm always bothered by something being like

773
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: on my fingers and tight.

774
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 3: But it hasn't bothered me at all. I haven't. And

775
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 3: it's a moment of putting it on.

776
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 2: Are you sleeping with it on?

777
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 3: No? No?

778
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 2: No, you take it off to sleep.

779
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 3: The first time I slept with it and then my

780
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 3: finger was like swollen, and I was like, oh, maybe

781
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,839
Speaker 3: I'm not so to sleep in this. Oh do you sleepiners?

782
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:47,439
Speaker 2: I did for like six months.

783
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:49,919
Speaker 3: I'm a little different in that way.

784
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 2: I now I now take it off.

785
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 5: Is that is that normal? I haven't had mine off

786
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 5: except to clean it in twenty three years.

787
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: I think it's different for men because Robbie ever takes it,

788
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 2: Robine sleeps in his.

789
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:08,800
Speaker 5: I'm not wearing mine right now. Yeah, yeah, exactly, ladies. Yeah, no,

790
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 5: my favor was swollen. I took it off for a

791
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 5: couple of days.

792
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

793
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, so then you make phone calls, you go

794
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: to sleep, and then I don't know what you guys

795
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 2: have been doing the last.

796
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 5: Let's find out all about that when we come back.

797
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 2: And we're back. So I did bring you a little

798
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 2: something if you want to open it, because we're talking

799
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 2: about like the ring.

800
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 3: Wow, we're talking about there.

801
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 2: It's like literally very little and it's nothing.

802
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 6: But.

803
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 3: It's not nothing.

804
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:08,720
Speaker 2: It's definitely something that is opening.

805
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, you read your I literally was laying in bed.

806
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 4: I was like, I need to tell one of her

807
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 4: friends to get her a ring.

808
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 2: Dish, So I like, I'm obsessed with ring dish. I

809
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 2: literally travel with a ring dish now because it's become my.

810
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 5: My routine.

811
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 2: No, I have a routine every night now I take

812
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 2: it out, I put it in my ring dish, and

813
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 2: then every morning I take my ring dish and I

814
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 2: put it on Like that's like so I know I

815
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 2: never lose it. It's always not ring dish. I have

816
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 2: one by my bed, I have one in my bathroom,

817
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 2: and then I have one by the sink in the kitchen.

818
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: So those are like the three places I can always

819
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 2: I'll only put my ring down. It was a dish,

820
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 2: So this is your first one? Wow, Because I didn't know.

821
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 2: And then I started getting into like a Robbie wanted

822
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 2: to like make.

823
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 8: Merch and.

824
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 2: We're going on tour. I want to make merch, And

825
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:04,399
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, Like are you guys

826
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 2: going to be like are you taking each other's last names?

827
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 2: Like what's our Like, Oh, we have a questions we

828
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 2: haven't even got.

829
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 3: We're still like processing and telling people like we just

830
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 3: announced it, you know publicly, and like the people that

831
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 3: have colleges, they're like.

832
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 2: To propose to her. I know, it's gonna get a K,

833
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 2: like a K for your ring dish. And then and

834
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,320
Speaker 2: then Robbie is like, I think you should get a K,

835
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, because what if I don't know

836
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 2: if she's taking her last name. And also like she

837
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 2: wears an H. She has all these H necklaces.

838
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 3: Literally it's so perfect. She literally I was looking for

839
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 3: one in my or and I couldn't find.

840
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 2: We were trying to find. This is perfect. I have

841
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 2: another one that like I want to get, like the

842
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 2: nice one to like nice one that's gonna get made,

843
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 2: but like this was I was like, I seed something.

844
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 3: Like fast, this one by the s perfect. Yeah, yeah,

845
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 3: I So we ended up y K was there to

846
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 3: take photos of us, so we took some like sunset

847
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 3: photos that night when we got back to where we

848
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 3: were staying, and then he also was there the next day,

849
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 3: so we did like we did.

850
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 2: Like did a bunch of photos, a bunch of photos.

851
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 3: She really made sure I had the photos.

852
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,280
Speaker 2: If I'm being honest, the photo that you sent Robbie

853
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 2: and I from that photo shoot is like, actually, we

854
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 2: both agree, one of the coolest photos we've ever seen

855
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 2: in our lives. So yeah, we haven't posted that money. Yeah,

856
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 2: it's gonna be posted at some point, right, Yeah, yeah.

857
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 3: You have to. We're gonna We're gonna do a series.

858
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.

859
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:36,799
Speaker 2: I mean it's literally one of the coolest photos I've

860
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 2: ever seen in my life.

861
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 3: Thank you.

862
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was.

863
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 3: It was really just like all around so special and

864
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 3: I just have never felt so I mean, I think

865
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 3: that's the whole thing about our relationship is that Haley

866
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 3: like knows me and she's always made me feel so

867
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 3: seen and I felt like every detail of it was

868
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 3: so thought out to be tailor made for me, and

869
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 3: it was just like, wow, the dream easiest yes I've

870
00:41:59,040 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 3: ever said.

871
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 4: Are you guys just in like total Like it's just

872
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 4: we're just like stoked, like and that's why it's like

873
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 4: people are like asking us questions and it's like for us,

874
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 4: like and having like commitment issues and stuff like just

875
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 4: getting engaged is like the go in Like to us,

876
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 4: that's the end, Like that's the finish. Yeah, like we've

877
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,760
Speaker 4: done that, and that's like the skin sometimes the scary

878
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 4: thing to do, you know, because you don't know. And

879
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 4: so it's so cool to be in a place where

880
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 4: you just feel one hundred percent confident, and I'd always

881
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 4: be like when.

882
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 6: Do you know?

883
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 4: And I think for me emotional, but for me it's like,

884
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 4: you know, people talk about having fear of commitment, and

885
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 4: it's like it's about finding a partner where you can

886
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 4: you can change with Like I think what's changed my

887
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 4: like fear of commitment is knowing that I can change

888
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 4: and I can grow with Becca and not that our

889
00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 4: relationship can always evolve and so I'll never feel stock

890
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,720
Speaker 4: or trapped or like can I do this forever? Because

891
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 4: like with her, we can do anything forever, like we

892
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 4: can so so she gives me this freedom that takes

893
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 4: away this fear that I've had for a long time,

894
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 4: and also too like being you know, w LW. Growing up,

895
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 4: I didn't legally I wasn't legally allowed to get married,

896
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 4: and so growing up it was never like I can't

897
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 4: wait to get married. It was like, oh, I can't

898
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 4: do that, right, And so it was never something that

899
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 4: I dreamed of doing because I couldn't. So it's been

900
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 4: like a very long evolving process to be like can

901
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 4: I do this?

902
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: Is this something I want to do? And now that

903
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:48,320
Speaker 2: we legally can, hopefully that doesn't get taken away in

904
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 2: the next couple of sen you know, decades.

905
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 4: But yeah, so it's just it's been cool to be like, oh,

906
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,760
Speaker 4: like I feel free, to be able to commit forever.

907
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 5: Safe, it's a safe year. Yeah, the opposite of fear. Yeah.

908
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 4: So yeah, so it was interesting how they they they

909
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 4: work with one another and to see like what kind

910
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 4: of holds people back from commitment because they need to

911
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 4: feel free, and like I feel free with Becca and

912
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 4: so that's what's like so cool.

913
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 5: When did you make if I made that decision, because

914
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 5: you know, Becka said she was going to propose. There

915
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 5: are no rules here obviously, when did you make the decision?

916
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 5: You know what, I'm just going to do it, and

917
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 5: I'm going.

918
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 2: To do it.

919
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 5: Yeah this summer.

920
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 4: So I last year, I was just like when I

921
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 4: am done with work and that twenty twenty five is

922
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 4: the year.

923
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 2: So like I mentally committed to that. I was like,

924
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 2: you know, this feels like the right.

925
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 4: We're just we're just in like bliss, Like we just

926
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 4: have figured like we've done couples therapy, we've done everything,

927
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 4: and like I just feel so confident in her as

928
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 4: a partner and so and we've always do our trips

929
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 4: in July. For fourth of July, it's like the best

930
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 4: week to take off because everyone one's off and so

931
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 4: and that was like our go mode, you know. And

932
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 4: so I found the perfect airbnb. She's been wanting to

933
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 4: go to Majorca, and so it all just like worked

934
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 4: out perfectly.

935
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 2: I like, it's so so we got so you guys,

936
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 2: I found out obviously we were on our honeymoon, so

937
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 2: we were like gone, and in my mind, I'm like

938
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 2: like I gotta do this, and I was like talking

939
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 2: to Robbie and I'm like I mentally was prepared for

940
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 2: like top of twenty twenty six, like that's where my

941
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 2: head was with Becca, so like, well I.

942
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 4: Knew she was going to probably propose to me in

943
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 4: twenty twenty six, correct, And so I needed to go

944
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,280
Speaker 4: before her, and I needed to get it done before

945
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 4: her because I wanted to surprise her because she deserved,

946
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,760
Speaker 4: like she does so much for me, Like she deserves

947
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 4: to be like absolutely showered with love and shocked and

948
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 4: just like going second. It's just like like I want

949
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 4: her to have the first moment, you know, so beautiful

950
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 4: and so special and like I mean, I can't even I.

951
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 3: Was like.

952
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:00,360
Speaker 2: I got rid of all my bridal stuff because like

953
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 2: time like it's gonna be twenty twenty six, and then

954
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 2: I was like scrambling like to get these signs up

955
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 2: and stuff. It's just like if I was like as

956
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 2: shocked as I was, I can't imagine, like it probably

957
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 2: was like times like a bazillion to you. Yeah, it's

958
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 2: like so crazy.

959
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 3: And I have to say. We we got home and

960
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 3: it was a long travel day coming home. We were

961
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 3: like dead. And we get to our house and it

962
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 3: is the most insane floral arrangement anyone has ever seen

963
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 3: on our front porch. It's like a heart that's.

964
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 2: I want to say. It was like four feet tall, yeah,

965
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 2: three tall of a huge heart of roses.

966
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 3: I've seen this in movies. I've never seen this in

967
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:43,959
Speaker 3: real life.

968
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:45,240
Speaker 4: And I'm.

969
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 3: Froman and Robbie. It was so thoughtful because you know,

970
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 3: I know that you're the most celebratory person, and I

971
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 3: know how much you love us, you and Robbie, and

972
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 3: I think like I knew y'all were on your honeymoon,

973
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 3: so I didn't expect anything. I just knew that y'all

974
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 3: were happy for us, and that felt like enough. And

975
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 3: then we get home and it's like this big arrangement

976
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 3: and then we get here and it's like all this

977
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 3: stuff and you're just the best.

978
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 2: I love it. I'm like both of us, Robby and

979
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 2: I are so so happy for you guys, and like

980
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 2: it killed me that I couldn't be there, like I

981
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 2: wanted to like be there with you guys, and so

982
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 2: I was like, my god, it like really when they

983
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 2: get home, like I want them to just like show

984
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 2: up to something just like so beautiful and like just

985
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 2: that I want. I was like, I want them to say,

986
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 2: like I just want them to feel so loved when

987
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 2: they see this. I was like I need it to

988
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 2: be big and beautiful and yeah, trying to leave you

989
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:46,400
Speaker 2: alone and not ask you a million questions, but I

990
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 2: was like I need to know what time you guys

991
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 2: are getting back, because it was like one hundred degrees

992
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 2: that day, so I didn't want flowers sitting out all day. Yeah. No,

993
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 2: it was literally perfect. Yeah, it was amazing, Yeah, amazing.

994
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 3: It was like out of a movie. Yeah. So the

995
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 3: rest of the trip we just kind of like we

996
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 3: we went back to our engagement spot and like spent

997
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 3: the whole day at the beach and we.

998
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 2: Didn't tell the best part.

999
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 3: What's what's better than It's just a really great detail.

1000
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 2: You want to say it.

1001
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 4: Oh so my friend told me about this beach okay,

1002
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 4: but he didn't tell me it was a newdist So

1003
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 4: I'm literally proposing the back guy and there's like a

1004
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 4: sea of penises. I have never she was educated that day,

1005
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 4: seen so much education in my life.

1006
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was like, babe. I was like, just don't

1007
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 3: make like, can we take a picture of you?

1008
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 4: And I was like, I can't look at you right

1009
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 4: now because literally someone's butt hole in my face.

1010
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 3: It was like and honestly it was like it was

1011
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 3: so like we joined. It was its great, We loved it.

1012
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 3: But it was just so funny that these two women

1013
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 3: are getting engaged and if you panned the camera, they're

1014
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 3: just penis.

1015
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1016
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,760
Speaker 2: So yeah, that was so that's why that location worked

1017
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 2: perfectly because.

1018
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 4: People very Yeah, definitely, no kid, everyone's just there to

1019
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 4: get their tan on and chill.

1020
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 7: You know what.

1021
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: I also just realized, I think it might have been

1022
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 2: the day you guys got engaged. But on our honeymoon,

1023
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 2: the first day we got to Anguilla, there was a

1024
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 2: double rainbow.

1025
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I say it was beautiful.

1026
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 2: I think it was the day you guys got engaged.

1027
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 3: Wow, that's emotional because you.

1028
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 2: Ended up calling me the next day. I called you

1029
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 2: the day of July third, but for me it was

1030
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: the next day.

1031
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 3: Nor behind us. We'll have to look at that. But

1032
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 3: that's like I believe, regardless, it happened at the same time. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1033
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 3: so yeah, it was just a trip of a lifetime,

1034
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 3: and we're so excited.

1035
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 5: I just kept thinking about the day you met in

1036
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 5: that whole story, and you too, sizing each other up.

1037
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 5: But they what's going on here? It's just interesting. I

1038
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 5: haven't swam in this end of the pore curious and

1039
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 5: now look years later, seven years later, spending the rest

1040
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 5: of your life together.

1041
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,760
Speaker 2: You're gonna spend the rest of your lives together, which.

1042
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 3: Is so crazy. Like I always thought, I'm like, I

1043
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 3: cannot imagine a life or future without Haley. But there

1044
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 3: is something really fun about having the symbolism of forever,

1045
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 3: you know. Yeah, so, no, she's next. I gotta get.

1046
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,280
Speaker 5: Really grievous quiet a surprise.

1047
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 3: Let you talk about that.

1048
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 7: I guess not gonna tell any say no, I have

1049
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 7: to say because Haley said, having some people to like

1050
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 7: talk to when she was stressed about things was like crucial,

1051
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 7: So I might end up telling you, wow, exchanged my perspective.

1052
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 2: This is big news. Watch your words.

1053
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 5: This is not.

1054
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 2: Secret. And I don't see you as much as I know,

1055
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I was like, y'all see each

1056
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 2: other every single week, every day you I would I

1057
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 2: think I would blow it for Becca, Like if you

1058
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 2: had not intentionally your energy, she would be like, what's

1059
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 2: going on on?

1060
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 3: You was just staring at me with smile.

1061
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, now I understand. I actually like really

1062
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 2: get it. Thank you so much. Yeah, I love you. Yeah,

1063
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 2: I love you too. Okay that we're gonna wrap up

1064
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 2: this episode, the one where Becca gets engaged.

1065
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 5: Hundred p yeah, upgrade, I love it.

1066
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 2: That was the probably going to make percent.

1067
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 5: Years ago. You've getted a percent a year since so much.

1068
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 3: She's early elevent you had to get those percentage points.

1069
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:59,760
Speaker 2: So we're getting married. We're going to wrap up this episode,

1070
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 2: but we did ask scrubbers to submit their questions, so

1071
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 2: we're gonna do a special Q and A with back

1072
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 2: end Hailey, So look for that. I don't know when

1073
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 2: we're gonna post it, but just look for it.

1074
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 3: It'll be.

1075
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 5: Refreshing, refreshing.

1076
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 2: Everybody. I love you guys so much. I love you, man,

1077
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:26,959
Speaker 2: I love you, I love you guys.

1078
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 3: We love you.