1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: don't know y'all all looking back to back down, giving 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: them like theming bu bu things and it's not true. 4 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: Good Steve tother sty don't join me. You gotta use 5 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: that turn. You gotta turn to turn them out, turning, 6 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: got to turn them out, to turn the water the water. Come, 7 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: come on your thing, I show will good morning everybody. 8 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice, Come on dig me 9 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: now going only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Ain't 10 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: God been good to me? But then again, ain't he 11 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 1: been good to you too? Though? I mean, really, man, 12 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: think of all the blessings God has given you, You 13 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: know what, that's a good news today, though, y'all, in 14 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: the face of all the world being the way it is, 15 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 1: the evilness that's out there, it just it just seems 16 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: like that's all that's on the news sometimes. You know, 17 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: we got we got news of parents not really standing 18 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: up being parents. We got news stories of children turning 19 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: on their parents. You got, you got everything, the economy, 20 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: you got places you thought you should be beautiful, places 21 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,839 Speaker 1: to go. Now they got travel alerts. It's just it's 22 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: all over it's it's all over. But the good news 23 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:58,519 Speaker 1: is that's something that you can have in this relationship 24 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: with God that gives you a way to deal with 25 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: it all. And I'm not saying that it'll protect you 26 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: from every single thing out that is happening, because some 27 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: things are going to happen to you. You're going to 28 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: be in an accident from time to time. You're going 29 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 1: to make a mistake and fall down from time to time. 30 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 1: But man, wouldn't it be incredible to you for you 31 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: if you understood that you had some insurance in all 32 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: of this that no matter what happened to you, you 33 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: know you will cover it. You know, look, insurance companies, 34 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: as good as they are, you know, like our friends 35 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: that stay farm or any other insurance company. You know 36 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: they do, they do some amazing things. Insurance is a really, 37 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: really good thing to happen in the event that something 38 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: happens to you. You know, you may not want to 39 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: pay the premium, but guess what in the event that 40 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: something happens to you, that insurance is absolutely critical. Well, 41 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: but guess what they cover certain things. You could get 42 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: life insurance, you can get all insurance, you can get 43 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: accident insurance. You can get health insurance. There is nothing 44 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: that you can buy to safeguard you against life's decisions. 45 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: You know, if you make a mistake, if you cheat, 46 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: if you lie, if you if you fall down and 47 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: you can't seem to get it together, and you make 48 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: a crazy decision about how you're gonna go about securing 49 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 1: an income, that there are There are no policies you 50 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 1: can buy for that. You can't buy a policy if 51 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 1: you stop being the man you're supposed to be, and 52 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: and and and give up on your children. You can't 53 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: buy a policy if something happens as a mother and 54 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: all of a sudden you're not the mother you're supposed 55 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: to be. But there is some insurance coverage out there 56 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: for you. And that relationship that you form with God, 57 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: that friendship that you form with him, that that a 58 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: alliance that you that that partnership, that that prayer that 59 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: you put in all the time, there is an insurance 60 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 1: policy that you have taken out when you form a 61 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: relationship with your heavenly Father, when you form a friendship, 62 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: when you form a bond that protects you, that protects 63 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: you when these things happen. In the event that they happen, 64 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: now here's a great thing about prayer. Prayer can head 65 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: off some stuff from happening. It really really can. Prayer 66 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: can prevent some things from happening. You know, I'll give 67 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: you an example in my life. Okay, here we go, 68 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: because sex is the best way for me to do it. 69 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: Because see, what I don't like to do is talk 70 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: to people without letting them know. Hey, look I'm in 71 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 1: this hole with you. I feel where yet? Okay, here 72 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: we go. I was making some decisions a few years 73 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: ago because what I thought I was doing was counterbalancing 74 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: something that was happening in life. You know, I thought 75 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: that since I wasn't happy, or for whatever the reason 76 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 1: I thought I wasn't happy, if I, as wrong as 77 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: I am, wanted to blame somebody else from my unhappiness, 78 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 1: that's that's really. If if I make a bad decision 79 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:22,119 Speaker 1: because I'm thinking I'm unhappy with somebody, hold a partner. 80 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: Two wrongs don't make it right, and I make a 81 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: decision to do something wrong, and now the consequences come 82 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: when I do something wrong. See then that I already know, 83 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: as an intelligent thinking man, as most of you are, 84 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: that when you do something wrong, that you know there 85 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: is a consequence for that. I teach that to my 86 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: son's When you do something wrong, there as a consequence. 87 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: So as an adult, I fully understood the consequence. And 88 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: so what I was doing was I was making some 89 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 1: decisions that was causing some consequences in my life, that 90 00:06:56,000 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: was delaying my happiness, delaying my progress, causing my business 91 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,919 Speaker 1: not to go the way it could go, so forth, 92 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: and so on. Well, what I started doing was I 93 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: took out this insurance policy called Prayer, and I started 94 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: putting it in my mix on a daily basis. And 95 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: then I started putting it in my mix, you know, 96 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: two three times a day. And then I found myself 97 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: using it all the time. And then I really started 98 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: putting it in when I didn't need any help, when 99 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: I wasn't in trouble, I started putting insurance in. I 100 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: started making deposits into the bank. I started paying my 101 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: premiums down. And Prayer is like a premium, you just 102 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: pay into it. Then when situations started coming up, now 103 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 1: it that prayer that I had put in, that in 104 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: those premiums I had paid it started preventing me from 105 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: making the decisions I was making in the past. Thus, 106 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: I didn't have to suffer the consequences. Thus my businesses 107 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: didn't have to be delayed in this progress because I 108 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: had put some payments on some premiums, taken out an 109 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: insurance policy. With my life my real life. I'm talking 110 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: about your life where you make your day to day 111 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: decisions in I'm not talking about see life insurance is 112 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: only good if you die. God has a policy that's avasable, 113 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: that's available for you. Why are you living? See? In 114 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: order for an insurance policy to pay, something bad got 115 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: to happen. Now. There may be some others out there 116 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about, but all the ones I 117 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 1: got my car insurance, they only come into play if 118 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: I have an accident. I have an accident insurance policy 119 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: where if something happens to me, I got accident, I got, 120 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: I got My voice is covered in case something happened 121 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: to that. I got that. But but I got to 122 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: not be able to talk to cash that one. You 123 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: understand everything I got homeowners insurance. Don't nothing show up 124 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 1: on my homeowners insurance unless it's a flood or fire 125 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: of fail. Something bad got to have for my insurance 126 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: to even make sense. When you take out the policy 127 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: with you, with your heavenly father, when you pay the 128 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 1: premiums of prayer, and that's all it costs. Man, it 129 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: ain't you. Ain't got to have no money for this policy. 130 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: I put into the policy. It pays me dividends and 131 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: benefits for living. Ain't nothing got to go wrong for 132 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: me to cash in on this policy. I use this 133 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: policy for good things. I give you an example. I 134 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: use this policy to ask God to watch over my 135 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: family when I travel. Make the decisions to pay your 136 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 1: premiums in prayer, Talk to your heavenly father, get you 137 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: some insurance in your life. And when you have little 138 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: things like that, keep on stepping. Man. God loves you. Man, Man, 139 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: I show hope you talk to God today because guess 140 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: what he showed would like to hear from you. That's 141 00:09:56,640 --> 00:10:04,559 Speaker 1: for shell you're listening, ladies and gentlemen. I have decided 142 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: to get it started today. Well, I cannot take full 143 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: credit for this decision because it was God's decision to 144 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: wake me up today. I had nothing to do with it. 145 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: I really didn't. It was all him. So to him, 146 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: I give all the credit, the honor and the glory, 147 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 1: and I thank you for waking me up today, I 148 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 1: really do. So many people don't get this great opportunity, 149 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: so I intend to take full advantage of it today. 150 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 1: I intend to give you my level best today heavily. Father. 151 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 1: I intend today to be the light you intended me 152 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: to be. And it's gonna start with this his show 153 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: right here, I, we and all of us is. It's 154 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: gonna give it all. This ain't holding back nothing, not 155 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 1: down what you want and what it is and what 156 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: it is it wasn't it gonna be. This is how 157 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: you start to show. And if you don't like way 158 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 1: this show started, go listen to somebody else, But they 159 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 1: ain't gonna do it like this. Now. This him, this 160 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: him is the real deal. Yes, This that damn Steve 161 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. And these are the players that make 162 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: it what it is. Sirley Strawberry, good money, Steve excited 163 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: but nervous, kyd of for Real? Good morning? What's happening Junior? 164 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: That damn bee? Who I be? Nephew, Tommy Kane of Prince, 165 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 1: Good morning everyone. Well I took all the head right there, 166 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: jet Lag working baby man. Let me tell y'all so 167 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: what let me tell y'all something I don't know what 168 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: today is. You've been back for like how many days? 169 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 1: Now four or five days? This is four and it's 170 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: just how long does it lie? You know? They say 171 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: technically for every hour after you've been in a place 172 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 1: for a while, for every hour you are behind or ahead. 173 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 1: It takes those many days to adjust when you get back. 174 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: And I thought I had it, you know, I thought 175 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: I had it yesterday, and then just about four thirty. 176 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know what happened. Just about four thirty, 177 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: I just fell asleep standing right there, standing talking to 178 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: somebody at the house, and ass just freed. It just 179 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: makes you tired because your body clock is all messed up. 180 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: It's all messed up. And then when I go to sleep, 181 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 1: I wake up, wake up at three. I don't know 182 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: what that is. I've been going down in the gym 183 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: trying to I've been taking saunas every morning, trying to 184 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: help it, going to the gym by myself. I told 185 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 1: my trainer not to talk to me for a week. 186 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, don't even speak to me for a week. 187 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: You're mad at your trainer, like juniors mad. It is, well, 188 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,839 Speaker 1: you know, I know I gain weight on this trip, 189 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 1: but what I don't need for you to do is 190 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: tell that to me. That's it still damn opinion to 191 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: your damn self, because however fat I am. My fat 192 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: ass is paying you. So you look good though, and 193 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 1: you're rich as the cello coming up next right after this, 194 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 1: you're listening to morning show. All right, guys, time now 195 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: for ask the clo. This one's from Marley and Cincinnati. 196 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: Marley writes, I'm a twenty eight year old female and 197 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: my fifty two year old married boss gave me a 198 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: down payment on my first house, and he hooked me 199 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: up with a line of credit at a furniture store. 200 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 1: He's in a wheelchair because his left leg was crushed 201 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 1: in a car accident, but he is in physical therapy 202 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: and is expected to walk again. He says it is 203 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: just a kind gesture because he sees great potential in me. 204 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: He's never flirted with me or been inappropriate before. Am 205 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 1: I to believe he's just being kind? Or is this 206 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: a test to see if I can be bought? See 207 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: why give you a down payment? Own a house? M 208 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 1: and furniture whom She said it right here. He said 209 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 1: it was just a kind gesture, Steve, because he sees 210 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: potential in her. No, it's right there. Yea, the time 211 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: you've been that kind, you're buying. I'm pushing it with dinner. 212 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: I have twenty eight year old employees that ain't happening. 213 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: What cla, what you say? I have twenty eight year 214 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: old employees that ain't happening. If I buy a house? 215 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: What what furniture? If I'm buy a house, you getting 216 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 1: crib down. I'm just putting a down payment down. If 217 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: I do the down payment, Tommy, if you just if 218 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 1: I'm getting the furniture. Yeah, yeah, So when he gets 219 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 1: out of that wheelchair is on huh, I'm over there. 220 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: When I wrote, you gonna drag that badass leg right 221 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 1: over there. She needs to know that. No, she accepted it. Yeah, 222 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: this is her married boss. Thank you. I know we're 223 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: gonna put them right amps all over the house. I 224 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: want them. We're gonna let me say this to you. 225 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 1: I bet his wife don't know he did this kind. 226 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: She doesn't. I bet you she doesn't. All right, we're 227 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: moving on. Mercedes in the DMV says, my husband and 228 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: I went to deston a week ago and we hung 229 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: out with some vacationers at our hotel bar The next night, 230 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: my husband said he was going to get ice, and 231 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: he didn't return for two hours. I was worried to 232 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: death and went to the bar but didn't see him. 233 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: He said he ended up going to the hotel next 234 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: door for drinks with the guys, and his phone died. 235 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: I noticed he was not wearing underwear when he got back, 236 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: but I'm not sure if he'd be. He'd been like 237 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: that all day. It's still bothering me. Should I push 238 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 1: the issue? Well, well, stupid, you can push it, but 239 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna get nothing. He locked on his own. 240 00:16:54,640 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: His answer, no drawls, but we didn't put on you know, 241 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: I paid on myself a little bit now and I 242 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 1: threw them into trash. We're gonna do anything. Yeah, you 243 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 1: ain't gotta worry about that right there, And I went 244 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:15,640 Speaker 1: nextic that no draws ain't nothing. No draws ain't nothing. 245 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: It's when you come home with just one leg in 246 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 1: your draw and the rest of it is bunched up 247 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: on the side of your hip and it's making a 248 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: knot in your pants. That's when you got problems spotting them. 249 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: But you wear underwear every single day. So we on vacation. Yeah, 250 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: thank you tommy. Ye see that. Listen to the no 251 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: no no, we on vacation. I go commando on vacation. Okay, 252 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: see we off the underwear. So what else you got? 253 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 1: Why did you pack underwear? I packed the underwear because 254 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 1: when we travel, And why you yelling? Why are you 255 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 1: asking me about this? It's underwear. Don't try to turn 256 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: this to that. First of all, y'all, y'all harping on 257 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: the wrong thing. He went to get ice. He didn't 258 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: come back for hours, but he went next dough to 259 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 1: some dude's hotel to drink what right. See, that's why, ladies, y'all. 260 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,880 Speaker 1: Don't y'all harp on the wrong piece of issues. It's 261 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 1: these draws y'all concerned about. You gotta nail him down 262 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:39,160 Speaker 1: to what hotel? And what ball? And where's that ice? Bucket? 263 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:43,239 Speaker 1: Where ice? And let's go back all the bar. Let 264 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 1: me we're gonna get and what hotel you in where 265 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 1: you will all night? Because I got ready? What hotel 266 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 1: you in where you got to go get ice? But 267 00:18:53,400 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 1: that's every hotel, rich man, Yeah, stop get in there. 268 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 1: I didn't stop. Well okay, well never mind, I forgot 269 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: to have ice machines old floors. Moment you my Isabel, Yeah, 270 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 1: they got problems. Isabel in Paradise Island says, I'm twenty 271 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 1: six years old and I'm dating a guy that lives 272 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: in Miami. He's in medical sales and he visits the 273 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: office I work in monthly. He's the first white guy 274 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 1: I've ever dated, so I have had some reservations. He 275 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: met my parents and they love him. But I have 276 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 1: a problem because when he's at my office he acts 277 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 1: like he doesn't know me. He said it's best to 278 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:41,400 Speaker 1: keep personal and work life separate. He also never invited 279 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 1: me to Miami and we have been dating six months. 280 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: Am I just to flame when he comes to work here? Yeah? Yeah, 281 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 1: and you're not coming to my yeah, wife, would you say, 282 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 1: I see, and you're not meeting his pains? Uh uh, 283 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 1: she's in the Bahamas, Paradise See, let's see. Listen to me. 284 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 1: It don't mean nothing. He meant meet yours, ladies. It's 285 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,640 Speaker 1: when he takes you to meet his mama. It's when 286 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: the deal is getting sealed. You're just the thing he 287 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: do when he comes to the islands. Okay, that's all 288 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: you the islander months? Yeah, six months and you ain't 289 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 1: coming to Miami because he got a whole another life 290 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: in Miami. Yeah, and a wife and all that. Ye 291 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: already in an office acting like he don't know your 292 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 1: ass right, get out of that mess. All right, Well, 293 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 1: thank you, Clo, You're welcome. Thank you Cilo. Hopefully you 294 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 1: know the writers will take he they'll listen to what 295 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 1: you have to say. Good great advice is always coming up. Next. 296 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: The nephew would run that prank back right after this. 297 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the 298 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: top of the hour of Miss Annah standing by with 299 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: today's national news and an entertainment news Bill and Melinda Gates. Well, 300 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 1: their marriage is over. They're divorcing after twenty seven years. 301 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of that at the top of 302 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: the hour, but right now the nephew is here with 303 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: run that prank back. What you got for is nef 304 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: you sent my wife pitches. You sent my wife pitches. 305 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 1: Now watch my aggressions, Watch how it starts. I'm showing 306 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 1: you the kind of prank energy you gotta hand when 307 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 1: you want to jump and get somebody on the defense side. 308 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,880 Speaker 1: Immediately you gotta jump for the Tommy. But he met 309 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: your ways right back where you were. Oh whatever, what 310 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: we're doing? Play? Here we go, Come on, kat dog, 311 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 1: now I speak to trouble. Hey man, you've been sending 312 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: pictures of your damn stomach to my wife phone? Hey? 313 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: What hey man? Have y'all been sending pictures of your 314 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 1: muscles on your stomach to my wife phone? What the 315 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 1: hell is this? Calling me? With this this fish right here? 316 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:15,880 Speaker 1: This fisher man. My name is Fisher, but they call 317 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 1: me fish. What I want to know from you? Have 318 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 1: you been sending pictures of your stomach to my wife phone? Man? 319 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: I don't know there you telling my playboy? I don't 320 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 1: tell me with this am I sending pictures? And if 321 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 1: I send pictures, ain't not of your business? It is 322 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: my business. That's my wife. Then you sending you boy, 323 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 1: you must ain't got you must ain't ripped up back 324 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 1: me or something. You were right about them sending pictures 325 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: this summer? Hey man, get some fitness. Don't call my 326 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,880 Speaker 1: I got some business. My business is my wife. Man, 327 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 1: And if you send it, let me tell you something. 328 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now. I want I want 329 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 1: to find you if the same muscles that's on her 330 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: phone is up underneath your shirt. I'm whomping your Hey, 331 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 1: I ain't hard to find play boy. You can find me. 332 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 1: And if I am sending pictures to your wife, she 333 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 1: must like it? Play bar Hey man, hey, let me 334 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,640 Speaker 1: tell you know. You're being disrespectful, is what you're doing. 335 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: You understand you've been calling me on the phone. You 336 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 1: red check somebody else about this hill before I had 337 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 1: your wife rubbing on my stomach. Hey man? Who you? Hey? 338 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: See who you calling? Man? Who do you think? Hey? Hey? 339 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 1: Who you think you? Let me tell you something? Okay, 340 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 1: tell us that till my phone about the pictures? Who 341 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,680 Speaker 1: ain't talking to? Because I damn them if I find 342 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,679 Speaker 1: out them? Your muscles on what? Obviously you found my 343 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 1: phone number, so I guess you can find me home. Boy, 344 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 1: ain't you about this here? Where are you? Let's get crock? 345 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 1: I'm hey, Ask your wife where I mit? Where she is? 346 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: My wife is at work right now. If you think so? 347 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,719 Speaker 1: How do you say she got some pictures on? Boy? 348 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: Hey man, I tell you what when I find you? 349 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 1: When I find you your little disrespectful? Ask your wife 350 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: where I'm at? Yeah, that's what your new? Calling me? 351 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: This open? Oh it's a curi. You must not be 352 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 1: ripped up like me. Hey man, hey, hey, hey, I 353 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 1: got I got muscles on my stomach. I got right 354 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: now to get these get this stummer right for your wife. 355 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 1: Hey man, let me tell you something. Man, that's all right, 356 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: that's all right. How about this here? I know who 357 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: your wife feels. No, that's all right. I know who 358 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 1: she too. Okay, well, that's all right, and I'll be 359 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,120 Speaker 1: calling her. I'm calling her letting her know what's going 360 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: on this out. She liked my stommach too. Yeah, yeah, 361 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 1: you like that. No, No, I'll tell you what. I 362 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: tell you what she gonna like it. When I get 363 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: to Hugers, I'm gonna let your wife know what's going 364 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 1: on around here. Hey man, you don't know nothing about 365 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 1: my wife. Me, my wife and your wife might be 366 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 1: rubbing the caer home. Whe you don't know nothing about 367 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 1: my f Hey man, you ain't gonna be disrespectful to me. Man, 368 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 1: I hadn't told you once seeing me home what I 369 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: will see you. I already asked you once. Where are you? 370 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna raise up my shirt so you can see 371 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 1: this rip up six pack that's your wife? Like, Yeah, 372 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 1: all right, okay, okay, it's just a matter of time. 373 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:12,120 Speaker 1: Then phone. You better go check your wife and don't 374 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: be calling across man. Okay, yeah, well I tell you what. 375 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,479 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call a Yanna. That's that's what I'm going 376 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: to call a Yanna. Baby. Say where? Yeah? Yeah? Then 377 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: slowed you down? Night? Yeah, I'm calling your wife, but cala, 378 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: we can get it on the freeway and then we 379 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: got and then I call your wife and get on 380 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: my way. Yeah. Okay, I'm gonna tell you this here 381 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: right now. What I need to tell me. Whatever you 382 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 1: want to tell me, I'm telling you right now, pump 383 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: where you ask, I'm a fuller for a home boy, 384 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 1: that's where I'm at. Man, you got my wife name. 385 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: I want to know your name. They call your fish 386 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: or kicking a weather they called you. You can meet 387 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: me wherever you want to, homeboy. And we're just said 388 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 1: it ain't no FI deal to me. I deal with 389 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: chump like you every day. Okay, okay, not a problem, 390 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 1: not a problem. I'll be right. How long are you 391 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 1: gonna be that? I'm gonna be that to your Okay, 392 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: you look at I want you to take my name, 393 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,119 Speaker 1: my name down so you know who you waiting on? 394 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 1: You got you? You said your name was Chicken or 395 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: something like. Do you have a pen? I don't. Okay, 396 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 1: do you want to know who this is? You gonna 397 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 1: tell me who you was? Home boy? I ain't told 398 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 1: you my full name Trump. I don't need to know 399 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 1: your name. You got my number? Calling music about them? 400 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: Tattoo of stomach or something. It's muscles. It's muscles of 401 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 1: your stomach on my wife phone. Did you look at 402 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,120 Speaker 1: the other pictures? How many sit ups do you be doing? 403 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 1: Did you look at the other pictures? What other? Okay? 404 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 1: Heyeh man, hey man, I'm not gonna be playing with 405 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 1: you by my wife. Man, I ain't playing with you. 406 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 1: I'm playing with your wife. Okay, Okay, I'm gonna tell 407 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 1: you something about your wife. I'm gonna tell you something 408 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 1: about your wife that you don't know. If I don't 409 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 1: know it, don't know, somebody else know it? Oh? I 410 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,159 Speaker 1: know it. Me and Hunting. I just got off the 411 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 1: phone with Hell. You want to know you want me 412 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: tell you what your wife told me? What? I'm gonna 413 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 1: say this right here, I'm gonna say this punk. This 414 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 1: is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your 415 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:18,640 Speaker 1: wife or Yanna got me to pray phone your ignant man? 416 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: How stupid are you? Hello? This nephew timmy man from 417 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife got me to 418 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: pray phone call you dude, you damn you. You are 419 00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: more ignorant than me. Lord, Yeah, I got oh hey trouble. 420 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 1: I got to ask you this man. Give me answer 421 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 1: this question for me? What is What is the baddest 422 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land, 423 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:05,199 Speaker 1: the only one with nephew I'm knowing mad I right, 424 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 1: trail man, you be easy man, go light on a y'all. 425 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 1: All right, I'm so will tell Steve Harbor. I say, 426 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all. I might have met my match. 427 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 1: I might have met my match that time. Yo. Why yo? Why? 428 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 1: He started off? He started off egg. I'm like when 429 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,159 Speaker 1: he kept saying, ask your wife, your wife likes it. 430 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 1: Ask your why? Yeah, ask your why? Back on stage again. 431 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty nights. I'm sorry made twenty eight twenty nights. 432 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 1: The Nephews at the Improv in Orlando floored. And so 433 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 1: if you're down there me more weekend you're hanging out 434 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 1: you're doing the Disney thing called holiday at your boy 435 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 1: and get your late night laugh on in Orlando Flawd. 436 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: You're nephew, all right, thinking nephew coming up at the 437 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 1: top of the hour entertainment of National News right after 438 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: to this, you're listening to show. Wow. No one saw 439 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: this one coming. Bill and Melinda Gates are getting a divorce. 440 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 1: The couple filed yesterday in Washington State and say their 441 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 1: marriage is irretrievably broken. They got married back in nineteen 442 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: ninety four. They have three adult children. We all know 443 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 1: that Bill and Melinda are billionaires and the Gates Foundation 444 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 1: has donated millions to philanthropic efforts. The Gates net worth 445 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: is estimated at more than get this number, Get this number, 446 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 1: one hundred and thirty billion with a B dollars. Oh yeah, 447 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: I marry her albion, All right, man, I marry her alby. 448 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 1: They're saying that everybody's trying to hit on Melinda right now. 449 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody see this window. We didn't say coming. We 450 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 1: absolutely did not. How old are they? He looked like, yeah, 451 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: look it up, because I promise you he looked older 452 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: than his Because I was worrying to maintain, yeah, you 453 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 1: could get a woman. None of that. Definitely ain't getting 454 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 1: the wife. Yeah, wife, wife sixty five, yeah, sixty five? 455 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 1: He man, what billion dollars? Now, I'm gonna just say this. 456 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 1: I ain't bragging it nothing, but I look good. I 457 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 1: thought for show. Bill was seven and she's only fifty six. 458 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: He's ten years. What sixty? No, she is five six 459 00:30:53,240 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: fifty six six height? No, no, no, no, her aid 460 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 1: mummy asked how old they were. Yeah, does it matter, though, 461 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: it's the question. None of that means five billion. I'll 462 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 1: Bill right now, I'll be gonna be Okay, you're gonna 463 00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 1: quit running in this house late. I'm telling you you 464 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 1: gotta come home. I gotta do some time. You're gonna 465 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 1: respect me. Now, that's what you're gonna do. But what 466 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 1: if he says, I'm not what you're gonna do? Okay, 467 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: Well you're gonna take it. I'm going shopping. I'm not 468 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 1: gonna sit. Well, I'm gonna tell you right now, she 469 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 1: ain't gonna hand no problem getting nobody. Dude. They're already 470 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 1: hitting her up on her in her dm A wonder 471 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 1: what happened to him? No, man, I said, cheating. I 472 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: don't know. You're retrievably broken. That means they can't can't 473 00:31:55,480 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: fix it, They say, no, pre nup, Lord Jesus, ain't. No, 474 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 1: you're very here, You're retrievably Is he the one that 475 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:11,640 Speaker 1: created Microsoft? Yes? Yeah, yeah that's the man. Yes, he 476 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 1: couldn't have got rid of them pictures. I just ain't 477 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 1: somebody to get rid of him. I'm here where you ain't. 478 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 1: Old Mac seemed to me like she's not asking for 479 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 1: a spousal support. Well, she ain't got too. You ain't 480 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 1: got to give me a spousal support. And then after 481 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 1: that we're good. This ain't spousal support at this point 482 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 1: in the marriage, after all them years. Oh it's even 483 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: Stephen Baby her name on everything, the Bill and Melinda 484 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,640 Speaker 1: Gates Foundation. Pretty sure she ain't. This is not a 485 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 1: this is not a slow woman. No, she's fantastic. Yeah yeah, 486 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 1: that was a shock to everyone. Wow yeah, all right, 487 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, time for today's headlines, ladies and gentlemen. 488 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: Miss Anne Tripp, oh, thank you very much, and I'll 489 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: marry the family dog. Actually, okay, this is Antwerp with 490 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: the news in good morning everyone. According to news Week, 491 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 1: get this everyone an independent Commission has issued a detailed 492 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 1: report that says systematic racism is inherent in US police 493 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: violence against Black Americans, which the panel says is constitutes 494 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 1: crimes against humanity, and while this commission has no enforcement authority, 495 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: it has made specific referrals to the United Nations Human 496 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 1: Rights Council, the International Criminal Court, the US Congress, and 497 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 1: the White House. The referrals call for reparations action to 498 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: retool existing law enforcement policing, and for the passage of 499 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: legislation aimed at holding cops accountable when black people die 500 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 1: as a result of their encounters with them. Meanwhile, the 501 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: panel's calling on the global community to support the International 502 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 1: Criminal Courts investigations into the systematic racist police violence against 503 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 1: black people in the United States and also around the world. 504 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 1: Andrew Brown Junior funeralized yesterday and Elizabeth City, Knew North Carolina, 505 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 1: with Attorney Benjamin Crump and the reven Al Sharpton calling 506 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: an authorities to release the full bodycam video of his 507 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: April twenty first killing. Cops were attempting to arrest the 508 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 1: forty two year old father of seven on drug related lawrants, 509 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 1: not gune or violence related. And Andrew Brown was unarmed, 510 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,759 Speaker 1: and the snippet of the video that the family saw 511 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,399 Speaker 1: his hands, both of them on the steering wheel as 512 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,880 Speaker 1: police approached. Yet, an independent autopsy found out that he 513 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 1: was shot five times with an execution type kill shot 514 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 1: to the back of the head. However, a local judge 515 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 1: ruled against the public release of the video for thirty 516 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:48,000 Speaker 1: to forty five days, supposedly so authorities can complete their investigation. Well, 517 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 1: the reven Al Sharpton's calling that excuse a bunch of bunk, 518 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 1: don't talk like we stop and get nothing on the tape. 519 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 1: There won't be five days, and if they supported in 520 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 1: twenty five days, the sun today. Meanwhile, the FBI has 521 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 1: opened a federal civil rights investigation to Andrey Brown Andrew 522 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: Andrew Brown's killing. The beat goes on in South Carolina 523 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: Lancaster County. A volunteer fire fire chief resigned over recent 524 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 1: Facebook post that urge your local police to quote stop 525 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 1: responding to these black neighborhoods. It's better if they eventually 526 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,720 Speaker 1: kill each other. Hero With that, he's gone. Former Deputy 527 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,880 Speaker 1: Sheriff and Georgia fired last November after investigators found a 528 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 1: bunch of racist text him saying that he beat Up 529 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 1: a Black Man, calling its Sweet Stress release and finally 530 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 1: the streaks of Secrets out. Folks at Marvel Comics say 531 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 1: the title of the new sequel to the record breaking 532 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 1: Black Panther film will be We'll Kinda Forever, released July 533 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 1: of next year. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 534 00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stry Morning Show. Yesterday, Andrew Brown 535 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: Junior was laid to rest twelve days after he was 536 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: fatally shot five times, including once to the back of 537 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 1: the head, by North Carolina Sheriff's deputies. Authorities have released 538 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,040 Speaker 1: few details about what led to the shooting, and state 539 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,840 Speaker 1: law requires a court order for the release of bodycam footage. 540 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 1: A judge rule last week the Brown's family would be 541 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 1: allowed to see body camera footage of the shooting, but 542 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,959 Speaker 1: the videos would not be made public for thirty days. 543 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 1: Reverend Al Sharpton delivered the eulogy and said, I know 544 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,279 Speaker 1: a con game when I see it. Release the whole 545 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:39,360 Speaker 1: tape and let the folks see what happened to Andrew Brown. Wow. 546 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 1: Also in attendance where members of the George Floyd and 547 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 1: Eric Gardner family Garner family who they were there too. 548 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 1: It's real, it's really manly. That's like, you know, for 549 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 1: the other families to go down to support. It's a 550 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 1: shame that we have to have such support groups, you know. 551 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: And it's amazing though, because I've met all these women, 552 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 1: you know, at the last Sand and Soul we had. 553 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 1: I remember I bought all the mothers down to just 554 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 1: give them up a trip and bought them up on stage. 555 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:21,440 Speaker 1: We all did, we were there and it's just amazing 556 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 1: to see their strength. And I just know, it's a 557 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 1: shame that we have to do this. Man, we still 558 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,759 Speaker 1: have to do it. I just and how disrespectful of 559 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 1: them not to at least let them see what happened. 560 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 1: He's dead now there's nothing they could do about that, 561 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,920 Speaker 1: but at least let them know what happened. Surely, surely 562 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,920 Speaker 1: that's not what this is. Not about giving them information. Well, 563 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:48,800 Speaker 1: that's about putting the story together. Yeah, well, yeah, of 564 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 1: course that's like that's what con game when I see it. Yeah, 565 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 1: see that that experts that that they've been doing this 566 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 1: for years now, remember this before by cams and social 567 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 1: media and phone cameras, that was nothing to release. Oh yeah, 568 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 1: it was whenever they said here's a police report. That's 569 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:18,279 Speaker 1: what he did, that's what he had. This happies and 570 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,720 Speaker 1: it's by miracle we saw Rodney King. That's by miracle 571 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: it keeps happening in a non racist country. Wow. Yeah, 572 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:37,359 Speaker 1: that's the amazing part. Wow, you said a lot right there, 573 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 1: you did. You're talking about the country that was stolen 574 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:46,799 Speaker 1: from the beginning, that they stole some people to come 575 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 1: over here and work at it now. Yea, the very one, 576 00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:55,720 Speaker 1: the one that had a constitution that said the negro 577 00:38:56,239 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 1: was three fifths of a human being. Yeah, they took 578 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 1: it out at constitution, but they ain't take it out 579 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:08,480 Speaker 1: their mind. Right there down coming up at thirty four 580 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,279 Speaker 1: minutes after, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 581 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:16,439 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. Well, Steve, 582 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 1: pay particular attention to this story, please, and the guys 583 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: and trending fitness news. Will Smith just kept it way 584 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 1: one hundred when he recently posted a shirtless picture of 585 00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 1: himself post quarantine body with shorts, open, open jacket and 586 00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 1: some slippers, showing his bare stomach and his chest his legs. 587 00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,879 Speaker 1: The caption said, I'm gonna be real with you all. 588 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 1: I'm in the worst shape of my life. Yeah. I 589 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 1: saw the picture too. That's why I'm trying to get 590 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 1: to Okay, we're Yeah, yeah, it looks good. I thought, 591 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,799 Speaker 1: I'm cool with that. Yeah, a lot of people praised him. 592 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 1: I can put on I can take my picture like 593 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:04,200 Speaker 1: that right now. I just put it under mine. Ay. 594 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 1: I had my shirt off on wonder picture where I 595 00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:11,759 Speaker 1: didn't post it, but somebody posted it. Oh doing my 596 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:17,200 Speaker 1: birthday week on a boat and somebody posted the picture. 597 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 1: But I can put on all my pictures. Excuse me, 598 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 1: I'm sixty four, all my pictures. That's all I have 599 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 1: to say is excuse me. I'm sixty four. Remember when 600 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 1: you guys back in the day, Steve, you, Tommy, I 601 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: think Boom, all of you guys did the shirts off tour. 602 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,839 Speaker 1: You were working out eating. That was fourteen years ago. 603 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,440 Speaker 1: That was fourteen years ago. Fourteen years ago. That's a 604 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,319 Speaker 1: long time. I just turned fifty. Yeah, but I think 605 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,799 Speaker 1: at a certain age, you known Bill Smith, he should 606 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: get a pass. You have a dad bottle, you know, 607 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,279 Speaker 1: and yeah, you're gonna be a superhero. They don't give 608 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 1: women passes. You know what, you know what, you know what, 609 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 1: You're so right. They don't give women passes. They ride 610 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 1: y'all in the ground, babies, all of it, all of Yeah, 611 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 1: you gotta get the snatch back five minutes after you 612 00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,279 Speaker 1: push out a baby, all of it, all of that. 613 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,840 Speaker 1: We'll know how to snap back. Though. Will was straight 614 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,200 Speaker 1: on Independence Day. He was straight in al Let one 615 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:30,439 Speaker 1: of them one hundred million dollar movies pop up. You all, 616 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,760 Speaker 1: let's gonna shred off a wheel. Yea, all that's gone. 617 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,200 Speaker 1: And the women, yeah, that have to look good for 618 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:42,840 Speaker 1: and everything. Well, I'm gonna say this shit. Social media 619 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 1: put a lot of pressure on people with look man, 620 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:53,839 Speaker 1: especially when you can photo shop and all of that. Yeah, 621 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:59,040 Speaker 1: ever do you so? Would you guys do it now 622 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,120 Speaker 1: or think about doing it again? I know, Steve you said, 623 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 1: excuse me, I'm sixty four. But first of yeah, another 624 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:11,400 Speaker 1: shirts off me Junior. Steve and Jay have a hell 625 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 1: of a time. Jay take his shirt off for no reason. 626 00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 1: Now he doesn't need a challenge. Yeah, no, was he 627 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 1: shut that I'm working out because I just want to 628 00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 1: stay fit. I'm not. I'm not working out to just 629 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 1: be physically fine. I can't get that back, no more, 630 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,759 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't get seventeen back. No, I'm not 631 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,360 Speaker 1: going that far back. Me and him argue anyway in 632 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 1: the gym because I'm tired of getting it. Why don't 633 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,440 Speaker 1: you get it sometime? Manh Yeah? Who you're talking to 634 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:43,400 Speaker 1: your social media? Yeah, that's the ground page me and 635 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 1: him to be playing. Let's go, come on, let's go. 636 00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 1: I pay you don't. I can't just see it. But 637 00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 1: I don't get tired of him. Man. He coaching you. Man, 638 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 1: he coaching you. Can you ask me if I feel 639 00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:00,279 Speaker 1: like picking up weight? Can you ask me sometimes? See 640 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: would you like trying to do the fifteen times for me? Please? 641 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,680 Speaker 1: That's nothing? I might do it? Then? Well, what does 642 00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 1: they change here? Here? Let me tell you. Let me 643 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,279 Speaker 1: tell you why I go live sometime. Call it. I'm 644 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,839 Speaker 1: going live to buy more time to get some app 645 00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:18,520 Speaker 1: That's why I do it. It breaks break. Got a 646 00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:23,040 Speaker 1: trainer you want? Man? Yeah, it supposed to you. No, 647 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 1: that's your motivation. Don't push me, don't push me. I'm 648 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:30,960 Speaker 1: killing now, all right? Coming up next to the nephew 649 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 1: with the prank phone call for today. Right after this, 650 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 1: you're listening to show coming up at the top of 651 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after it's my strawberry 652 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:46,200 Speaker 1: letter for today, the subject all of her men are 653 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: in jail. M we'll get that. Yeah, we'll get into 654 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,840 Speaker 1: that in just a little bit. But right now the 655 00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,360 Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What you 656 00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 1: got for us? Now we're gonna take it to the 657 00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:03,080 Speaker 1: office building. Thirdly, this right here, this is that you 658 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,800 Speaker 1: know how that one refrigerators in the break room? You 659 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,560 Speaker 1: know how it is? This is this is break room, 660 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,680 Speaker 1: break room barbecu. I think we've all experienced that that 661 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,280 Speaker 1: that one refrigerator in the break room. We've all experienced. 662 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:22,960 Speaker 1: So check it out. Hello, I'm trying to speak to Eric. Hey, man, 663 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,680 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Uh with me and you're 664 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,400 Speaker 1: gonna get some straight to day dog right here, right now, 665 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: let me say this man, who is this? What you 666 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,279 Speaker 1: what you're talking about? Right now? This is Quincy right here, 667 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 1: This is Quincy. I work in the same building. I 668 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:37,600 Speaker 1: work on the same floor you work on, all right, 669 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 1: and I know that a lot of people on the 670 00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,400 Speaker 1: floor everybody kind of share the break room and the 671 00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 1: refrigerator or whatever. But let me tell you this right now, 672 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 1: it's been brought to my attention that you're the person 673 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:50,759 Speaker 1: on Tuesday. On Tuesday, all right, they winning there ate 674 00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,759 Speaker 1: my barbecue ribs. All right. It took me four five 675 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 1: hours and smoked him. Hey, whoa, whoa, go down, slow down? 676 00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 1: You say your name, Quincy, right down my name? Bring 677 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 1: this who bringing it to your attention? Bright? Don't worry 678 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,520 Speaker 1: about that. Don't worry about who told me. But everybody 679 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,319 Speaker 1: said you always eating people's stuff out the damn break 680 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,160 Speaker 1: room without the refrigerator. Well, I don't know who is 681 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 1: everybody or whatever, but I ain't eating nothing the refrigerator. 682 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,680 Speaker 1: I go out and get my own food. Bro, I 683 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,120 Speaker 1: go out and get my own foods. So I don't 684 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,360 Speaker 1: know what you're talking about right now. And let me 685 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 1: tell you. Let me say let me say this, let 686 00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,239 Speaker 1: me say this to your let me say this to you. 687 00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 1: All right, I'm coming by your cubica. Mare. I see anything, 688 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,800 Speaker 1: I see some barbecue south anything remotely look close to 689 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,719 Speaker 1: my barbecue ribs. I swat to you. I'm whooping your 690 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,799 Speaker 1: mass right there in your Hey, you need to chill, man. 691 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,160 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not about the threats, bro. I'm telling 692 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 1: you I wasn't the one that that did that, that 693 00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: did that, I'm telling you that right now, So you 694 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,879 Speaker 1: need to calm down. No, I ain't coming. I ain't 695 00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,799 Speaker 1: calming down. Okay, I'm telling you right now, you're gonna 696 00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,920 Speaker 1: get couping your cubicles if I find I'm saying. But 697 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,000 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you I'm not the one that's 698 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:57,120 Speaker 1: doing that. That's what I'm telling you. So how come 699 00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 1: everybody say if anybody ate your food, it's probably air ericaone. 700 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 1: I always eating everybody's stuff up. They can say whatever 701 00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:05,200 Speaker 1: they want to say. That don't mean that I was 702 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:06,719 Speaker 1: the one that did that. That's what I'm trying to 703 00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 1: tell you, bro, That's what I'm trying to tell you. 704 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,320 Speaker 1: So they lying on you. Now, they lying on you. 705 00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 1: They lying. I'm trying to tell you they lying. I'm 706 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,680 Speaker 1: telling you that, so you do understand what I'm saying. 707 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 1: If it's anything that remotely looked close to barbecue sauce, 708 00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:26,680 Speaker 1: anything a real bone, anything like that around your cue, 709 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,600 Speaker 1: in the trash can, in your work career, I'm whipping 710 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,640 Speaker 1: your man quincy man I was. I'm trying to be 711 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,400 Speaker 1: nice to you on this damn phone, bro, But I 712 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 1: told you about the threats. So at this point in 713 00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: time for you threatening me again, you and your damn 714 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:43,919 Speaker 1: barbecue sandwich. Bro. That's how that's how it say, Well, 715 00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,440 Speaker 1: you and your barbecue salwich. Bro. I told OK, make 716 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 1: me threats to me. Bro, we're gonna gon'na admit that. 717 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 1: You don't admit that you ate it, Eric, gon'na admit it? 718 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 1: Then you know what? You know what at this point 719 00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,040 Speaker 1: speaking to you on this phone like this through, I 720 00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 1: really wish I ate your damn sandwich. Bro. I wish 721 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:02,640 Speaker 1: I did. Bro. I went up here. I'm telling you 722 00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:04,719 Speaker 1: right now, I smoked them down. I smoked them ribs 723 00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,239 Speaker 1: for five hours. I smoked them real, put put my 724 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:09,080 Speaker 1: hard work in it. And then I get to work. 725 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:11,279 Speaker 1: You're ready to eat my food and somebody that ate 726 00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,840 Speaker 1: my barbecue ribs and then everybody saying, Erica want I 727 00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 1: always eating everybody food. I'm telling you, dude, I will 728 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 1: come to your culber con fuck you up if I 729 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 1: find anything looked like my ribs over there. That's like 730 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,799 Speaker 1: the third threat you donna gave me. Bro. That was good, Bro, 731 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,239 Speaker 1: that was good as I'm so glad I took that. 732 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 1: Damn I'm so glad. Oh, so you're admitting it. Now. No, 733 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,319 Speaker 1: I'm telling you what you want to hear, Quincy, that's 734 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:39,239 Speaker 1: what I'm doing right now. I'm okay, okay, okay, that's 735 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:43,000 Speaker 1: that's your tomorrow, that show, that show tomorrow to Cuba. 736 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm telling you now, well, we're working in the same duty, 737 00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 1: right I ain't going nowhere. You know what flow I'm at. 738 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,759 Speaker 1: I ain't going nowhere. It was good. I don't know 739 00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 1: who you are. I don't know how you got my number, Broth, 740 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,480 Speaker 1: but we even gotta wait until you get up there 741 00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:58,360 Speaker 1: to my flow. We can get we can get this 742 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 1: cracking in the lobby, bro, in the lobby, you get 743 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,440 Speaker 1: your game ribs broken, your ribs, not the rib that 744 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,520 Speaker 1: you cooked on that barbecue, your ribs. We get it. Crack. Everybody, 745 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 1: it's it's it's it's it's whatever. At this point, Eric, 746 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:14,640 Speaker 1: it's whatever. It's whatever. Okay, it's you know what matter fact, 747 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna let the Shade know what's up. 748 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let the Shane know what's up. The Shape, 749 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,320 Speaker 1: I know she'd tell you nothing about eating nothing like 750 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,920 Speaker 1: eating your food, bro. I know the Shade didn't say 751 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,600 Speaker 1: nothing like that to you. No, No, the Shape no, 752 00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,920 Speaker 1: Shae ain't saying you ain't no real, that ain't what 753 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 1: the Shape told me. So why are you bringing up? 754 00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 1: Why are you bringing hark? Then you want to know 755 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:37,840 Speaker 1: what the Shade told me? Told you, bro, the Shade 756 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,600 Speaker 1: told me to prank phone call you. This is Nephew 757 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,520 Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Marta Show. You just got 758 00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:48,960 Speaker 1: prank by your co worker, the Shame. What what? What? 759 00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:53,080 Speaker 1: What the here you talking about? Eric? Eric? Hey, man, 760 00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:55,560 Speaker 1: check it out. This is Nephew Timmy, Bro Steve Harvey 761 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,399 Speaker 1: Marta Show, your girl The Shane, your co worker got 762 00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:02,480 Speaker 1: me to prank you. Man. Oh you know what, man, 763 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:10,640 Speaker 1: Well you got my blood boiling? Man, Oh man, old 764 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,600 Speaker 1: the Shade she gonna get it. Bro, She's gonna get 765 00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,879 Speaker 1: and when they get back in then and and I man, 766 00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:22,680 Speaker 1: I listened to y'all every man. I don't believe it. Man, Hey, 767 00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:27,120 Speaker 1: you you got me? Man? Oh man, it is an honor, bro, 768 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:32,960 Speaker 1: it is I mean? Man, Hey man, I love y'all. Man, 769 00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get the shade though. You tell her man 770 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 1: his mind? Well, man, it's twenty twenty. Man, do me 771 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 1: a favor. Tell everybody what is the baddest and I mean, 772 00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. Man, the baddest 773 00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:48,520 Speaker 1: radio show and the land is Steve hawks Wren the show. 774 00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,360 Speaker 1: Baby man, go get some ribs and I have a 775 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,239 Speaker 1: nice day. Baby. Yeah, I'm gonna do that, man, I'm 776 00:49:54,239 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 1: gonna do that. Be prank. It was a four to 777 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:09,200 Speaker 1: be pranks side. Thank you. You know what amazes me 778 00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:16,800 Speaker 1: is I don't know where, whoever the original idea of 779 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: doing this even come from. What made you think that 780 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 1: it would be smart to make a living putting your 781 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 1: life in jeopardy? And these guys are down you many 782 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,759 Speaker 1: years ago. You don't remember how this started? Years ago? 783 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:42,479 Speaker 1: What you doing pranks? Yeah? You know, remember y'all remember 784 00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 1: how it started? I went, I know, I went to uh. 785 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 1: Ricky invited me to his place in Burma. He invited 786 00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,680 Speaker 1: a bunch of comedians to his place. He was trying 787 00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:56,920 Speaker 1: to make a compilation album, and every everybody did a 788 00:50:56,960 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 1: particular prank. And I got back and Steve People was like, 789 00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:05,040 Speaker 1: hell your ass doing down there with Ricky? We're doing prank? 790 00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:08,319 Speaker 1: Come homes. Why you're gonna do your own damn prank? Cock? 791 00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:14,160 Speaker 1: And there was us not understanding. Give it away, my 792 00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:27,800 Speaker 1: talent to somebody didn't quite get that the prankster was born. Wow, 793 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:34,880 Speaker 1: the king and now you've become king. Yeah, well, but 794 00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:38,160 Speaker 1: I like how they're not backing down. Tell me, I 795 00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:41,840 Speaker 1: don't think you could ever do a live prank. I 796 00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 1: think I think it would go well for you. Oh yes, okay, 797 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 1: no no, no, no, no no, no, oh yes I 798 00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:50,719 Speaker 1: can okay, and we can do it tomorrow morning to death. 799 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:55,160 Speaker 1: What you want me about? Four five phone nombers? Oh, 800 00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 1: we can do it. We might lose our job, but 801 00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:06,359 Speaker 1: we can, and you might get into a fight for real. 802 00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,560 Speaker 1: He was not backing down like he can't do it 803 00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:17,680 Speaker 1: in person. Yeah. Yeah, you can't walk up to nobody 804 00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:19,880 Speaker 1: and say none of it. Oh, but I bet you 805 00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:21,680 Speaker 1: I can stand behind the scene and do it Ashton 806 00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 1: Cushoner style. I bet you I can do that. That 807 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 1: would be cool. I can navigate it. Yeah, I could 808 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,239 Speaker 1: do it, ask the Cushoner style. You gotta get out 809 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:34,759 Speaker 1: of sight because these people are serious because you come up. 810 00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:39,719 Speaker 1: You're so creative with your pranks to begin with. I 811 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:44,200 Speaker 1: don't know Tommy. All right, well, thank you, great job, 812 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:49,760 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next to my strawberry letter subject 813 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,279 Speaker 1: all of her men are in jail, will get into 814 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:58,239 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to Show Time now 815 00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:03,760 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 816 00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:07,200 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 817 00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:10,920 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 818 00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,279 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 819 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,560 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Who knows 820 00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,480 Speaker 1: it could be yours. Bugle up and hold on tight. 821 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,200 Speaker 1: We got it for you here it is. It's a 822 00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:25,800 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter subject all of her men are in jail. 823 00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,320 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a single mother of two children, 824 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:31,960 Speaker 1: and I had my first child when I was sixteen 825 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:35,520 Speaker 1: years old. My oldest daughter is twenty eight years old 826 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,880 Speaker 1: now and my youngest is twenty six. As my daughters 827 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,280 Speaker 1: grew up, I had a lot of different men around 828 00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,680 Speaker 1: them before I settled down with a man that was 829 00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:47,040 Speaker 1: in prison. I made lots of bad choices and did 830 00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:50,560 Speaker 1: things I regret all for this man. When he was 831 00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,160 Speaker 1: released from jail, I let him move in with us, 832 00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:56,440 Speaker 1: and he brought the criminal element in my home and 833 00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 1: showed my girls how to hustle and be street smart. 834 00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 1: I repent it for my mistakes in the past and 835 00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,520 Speaker 1: asked my daughters for forgiveness. I'm happy that my younger 836 00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:10,520 Speaker 1: daughter is married. She's a great mom and she's a hairstylist. 837 00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:14,239 Speaker 1: My older daughter is a huge problem though. She fell 838 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,080 Speaker 1: in with the streets and she ended up being a 839 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,960 Speaker 1: teen parent like me, and has made all of the 840 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:24,120 Speaker 1: mistakes I made at an early age. She sold weed 841 00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,480 Speaker 1: when she was in her early twenties. Even though I 842 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:30,200 Speaker 1: provided for her and her child, she just chose to 843 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,000 Speaker 1: do what she wanted to do. Now she's so called 844 00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,920 Speaker 1: dating three guys in jail and proud of it. Her 845 00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:38,240 Speaker 1: daughter is eleven, and she takes her to the jail 846 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:41,320 Speaker 1: to see her father every month. I can't do anything 847 00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:44,440 Speaker 1: about that since it's her dad. When she goes to 848 00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: see the other two men in jail, I've asked her 849 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:50,560 Speaker 1: to let me keep my grandchild. The guys are at 850 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:54,040 Speaker 1: different jails throughout the States, so she juggles visits and 851 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:57,960 Speaker 1: phone calls all day. I don't know how, but all 852 00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,680 Speaker 1: of the men give her money, so she thinks she's 853 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,279 Speaker 1: got it made. I invited her to church, and I 854 00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,839 Speaker 1: gave her job applications for good paying jobs, but she's 855 00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,879 Speaker 1: not interested. Is there a better way to reach her? 856 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:14,440 Speaker 1: Or should I let go and let God? Yeah? A 857 00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:18,360 Speaker 1: hard letter. This is a hard letter, Steve, And and 858 00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 1: you ask, um, she asks, should I let go and 859 00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,000 Speaker 1: let God? I mean, that's pretty much all you can 860 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,200 Speaker 1: do right now is to let go and let God. 861 00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:29,080 Speaker 1: Because she's a grown woman and you can't make her. 862 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:33,279 Speaker 1: You can't force her to do what you used to do, um, 863 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:37,920 Speaker 1: and are not doing anymore. She's not hearing anything that 864 00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,120 Speaker 1: you have to say. Mom. She's seen your life example, 865 00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:45,000 Speaker 1: even now you've turned your life around, and how your 866 00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 1: other daughter lives. She's seen all of that, and she 867 00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:52,279 Speaker 1: still chooses these streets and these prison guys. So I 868 00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:55,880 Speaker 1: mean to to you, Mom, no matter what we do 869 00:55:56,040 --> 00:56:00,279 Speaker 1: as parents, bad or good, um, our children still make 870 00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:04,600 Speaker 1: their own decisions and choices, and sometimes terrible and in 871 00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:07,279 Speaker 1: her case terrible. I mean, maybe you can try to 872 00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:11,200 Speaker 1: save your granddaughter from this life if you can, So, 873 00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:14,880 Speaker 1: I say, continue to remind your daughter that her child 874 00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:18,440 Speaker 1: sees everything that she's doing, just like she saw everything 875 00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:21,520 Speaker 1: you were doing and does she needs to break the cycle. 876 00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:24,319 Speaker 1: She really does. If you can reason with her at all. 877 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,480 Speaker 1: Maybe she'll hear you at some point and change her 878 00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:30,520 Speaker 1: life around so her daughter can have a chance and 879 00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,279 Speaker 1: won't follow in her mom's footsteps. At least, you know, 880 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 1: stop taking her to prison to see these other men 881 00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:40,160 Speaker 1: that aren't even her dads. I mean, that's my suggestion 882 00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:44,640 Speaker 1: to you. At least continue to try to save your granddaughter. Steve. 883 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:51,640 Speaker 1: This is a sad letter man, really is, and it 884 00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:56,359 Speaker 1: just goes to show you how we can fall into 885 00:56:56,520 --> 00:57:03,160 Speaker 1: what some people call generational curses. But general generational curses 886 00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:08,080 Speaker 1: do not have to exist. They don't because at one 887 00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:14,480 Speaker 1: point in time, it's simply as as I'm really simplifying 888 00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:17,240 Speaker 1: the matter, but it's really that something. It just becomes 889 00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:24,720 Speaker 1: choices and everybody has the power of choice. That's when 890 00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:29,680 Speaker 1: God created us as human beings. We were the one 891 00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:33,920 Speaker 1: creature that he gave the power of choice to. No 892 00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:37,680 Speaker 1: other creature has the power of choice. Dogs have to 893 00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:42,440 Speaker 1: be dogs, Cows have to be cows, Monkeys have to 894 00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:44,920 Speaker 1: be monkeys. They have to do this a certain way. 895 00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 1: This is it. There's no choice. They don't get to 896 00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:52,200 Speaker 1: pick who they mate with. They can't go outside. They 897 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:56,800 Speaker 1: species that ain't high this work. We are the only 898 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,320 Speaker 1: ones who have choice. Now, you made some bad decisions 899 00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:03,600 Speaker 1: as a young person. Ask half we all ye had 900 00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:09,080 Speaker 1: the first baby, it's sixteen, You've had two daughters. You 901 00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 1: you you regret this man that you had a relationship 902 00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:17,120 Speaker 1: with and he was in jail and you let him 903 00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,200 Speaker 1: move in with you all, and he brought the criminal, 904 00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:21,479 Speaker 1: criminal element to the house, and he showed you girls 905 00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:25,040 Speaker 1: how to hustle and be street smart. Now you repent 906 00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,920 Speaker 1: it for your mistakes in the past, and you've even 907 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:31,040 Speaker 1: asked your daughters for forgiveness. One of your daughters is 908 00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:35,800 Speaker 1: married hairstylist with the baby. But the oldest one is 909 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 1: off the chain, and she's making all the mistakes that 910 00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 1: you made at an early age, selling weed. She in 911 00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:45,400 Speaker 1: her twenties, even though you provided for her and a child. 912 00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,600 Speaker 1: But here's the issue. She's dating three guys in jail 913 00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:53,520 Speaker 1: and proud of it. So her daughter's eleven, takes her 914 00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:56,000 Speaker 1: to jail to see her father every month. Okay, I 915 00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,760 Speaker 1: ain't mad at that. I can't doing that, but she 916 00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,440 Speaker 1: takes her to visit the other two men in jail. 917 00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 1: Here's the problem you're creating for this young daughter. You're 918 00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:13,840 Speaker 1: making this an act of normalcy. And you cannot do 919 00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:19,560 Speaker 1: that because you're ingraining it in the child that this 920 00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 1: is who men are and this is what we do 921 00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:27,720 Speaker 1: to support them, and mommy, this is your daddy. But 922 00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:31,360 Speaker 1: these other two men it's okay too. And you're making 923 00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:35,360 Speaker 1: something really really bad for this child normal. That's the 924 00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:37,400 Speaker 1: part that has to stop. I have more when we 925 00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 1: come back, all right, Steve. Hang on for part two 926 00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:44,760 Speaker 1: of Steve's response to the Strawberry letter. All of her 927 00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:46,840 Speaker 1: men are in jail. We'll get back into it at 928 00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:49,919 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Right after this you're 929 00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 930 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:59,240 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject all her men are in jail. Well, 931 00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:05,080 Speaker 1: this woman who's made some mistakes as a young person repented. 932 01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:08,320 Speaker 1: She's had two daughters. One was when she was sixteen, 933 01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:11,560 Speaker 1: oldest daughters twenty eight. One of the daughters is married, 934 01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:15,240 Speaker 1: has a job as a heftylers and raising her daughter. 935 01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:18,040 Speaker 1: The other one is while selling weed in her twenties, 936 01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:22,040 Speaker 1: and she's dating three men in jail. One of them 937 01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:26,280 Speaker 1: is the father, and she takes the eleven year old 938 01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:32,360 Speaker 1: girl to visit her father every month because that's her dad. 939 01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:34,840 Speaker 1: I got that. But the other men that she'd taking 940 01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:39,800 Speaker 1: them too, is the problem. You're making this child at eleven, 941 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,640 Speaker 1: which she's old enough to get a little bit of horsepan. 942 01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:45,760 Speaker 1: She's really old enough to get what's going on here. 943 01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:50,720 Speaker 1: My mama goes to see my daddy, but my mama 944 01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,960 Speaker 1: also goes to see this other men, and they talk 945 01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:56,320 Speaker 1: about how they miss each other. The baby got to 946 01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,440 Speaker 1: sit there. When you go to jail for visitation, they 947 01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:06,320 Speaker 1: don't have playpin for the kids. No, everybody got to 948 01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:09,560 Speaker 1: go in there and sit across the glass. Everybody got 949 01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:11,400 Speaker 1: to sit on the other side of that phone or 950 01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:15,919 Speaker 1: everybody sitting County jail ain't no contact. So I don't 951 01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:19,920 Speaker 1: think not none I know about. So anyway, you created 952 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:23,080 Speaker 1: an act of normalcy for this daughter that's gonna come 953 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:28,200 Speaker 1: back to bite you in the worst way because she's 954 01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:33,440 Speaker 1: at a very impressionable age. Now the guys are in 955 01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:37,760 Speaker 1: different jails throughout the state, so she juggles the visits 956 01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:41,040 Speaker 1: and the phone calls all day. Now, the lady in 957 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 1: the letter say she don't know how, but all the 958 01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:46,240 Speaker 1: men give her money. Well, let's think about that. While 959 01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:51,000 Speaker 1: they in jail probably for a crime. Eighty percent of 960 01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:53,800 Speaker 1: people in prison the day or for a non violent 961 01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:58,480 Speaker 1: drug related offensis. That's a fact. So let's just say 962 01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:02,640 Speaker 1: they so we too, or something else, and they got 963 01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 1: a little money in the stand, and they got a 964 01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,200 Speaker 1: boy that can give them money to her because she 965 01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:09,920 Speaker 1: acted like she down with them while they locked away. 966 01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:13,280 Speaker 1: She playing the game. That's the street smart that the 967 01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,640 Speaker 1: man that you bought into the house taught her how 968 01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:19,040 Speaker 1: to do. But she's elevated. Now. You can stop beating 969 01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:21,880 Speaker 1: yourself up about this because, like Shirley said, and I've 970 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:26,720 Speaker 1: said a million times, you can raise your child, but 971 01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:30,520 Speaker 1: once they're adults, they can go and make any decision 972 01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:33,400 Speaker 1: they want, and it can go against everything you've tried 973 01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:37,000 Speaker 1: to teach them as a parent. And for all of 974 01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:39,160 Speaker 1: you parents who are not at that age yet, I 975 01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:41,960 Speaker 1: am telling you to buckle up fast in your seatbelt 976 01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:48,920 Speaker 1: because in parenting, once they get grown, they can make decisions. 977 01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:55,560 Speaker 1: Now hopefully the decisions they'll be able to recover from. 978 01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:58,680 Speaker 1: But they gotta make some mistakes. All of us made mistakes. 979 01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:01,440 Speaker 1: You just hope that you're children make the mistakes and 980 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,120 Speaker 1: stay close enough to your teachings that when they do 981 01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:07,520 Speaker 1: get it right, they walk back towards the light or 982 01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:11,480 Speaker 1: you run into this situation and to take them a 983 01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:13,440 Speaker 1: while to come back to the light. Oh but she's 984 01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:15,320 Speaker 1: gonna come back to the light just like you did. 985 01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:18,120 Speaker 1: Because see, something's gonna happen in your life to make 986 01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:20,560 Speaker 1: you go have to go somewhere and sit down. It 987 01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:26,600 Speaker 1: happens to us all. Ain't nobody being tricking their whole 988 01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:33,280 Speaker 1: life without no scar tissue. Ain't nobody getting away in 989 01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:39,800 Speaker 1: life without no damaged consequences. Ain't no whole body going 990 01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:44,200 Speaker 1: through life without getting their own ass bank rolled. Please understand, 991 01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:50,080 Speaker 1: I promise you something is going to happen to sit 992 01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:53,800 Speaker 1: her ass down. It may be jail, but something gonna 993 01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 1: happen to get your undivided attention. What we hope is 994 01:03:57,360 --> 01:04:02,000 Speaker 1: that our children gets the attention before the attention getter 995 01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:06,200 Speaker 1: becomes the state. Yeah, because when the state come get 996 01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:10,560 Speaker 1: your attention, kind of like the RS. You know, you 997 01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:16,120 Speaker 1: cannot pay seeds, you cannot send visa date money, but 998 01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:20,360 Speaker 1: that United States Treasury, you guys to pay them people, 999 01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,440 Speaker 1: because if you don't pay them, they come for you. 1000 01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:33,120 Speaker 1: They freeze accounts. See taxes is like sin. It casts 1001 01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:35,360 Speaker 1: you more than you want to pay, and it makes 1002 01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,040 Speaker 1: you stay longer than you want to stay. I've had 1003 01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,640 Speaker 1: an account frozen before, or they had my attention. Then 1004 01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:42,960 Speaker 1: I got the money and I went out there and 1005 01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:47,280 Speaker 1: pay them. It was thirty days before they unfrozen. Oh, 1006 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:50,880 Speaker 1: they taught my ass a valuable lesson. Oh they takes 1007 01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:53,520 Speaker 1: their time unfreezinging. I was talking to an r S 1008 01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:56,480 Speaker 1: agent one time. He says, well, it's kind of you know, 1009 01:04:56,920 --> 01:04:58,800 Speaker 1: once you come down there and pay us, it took 1010 01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,240 Speaker 1: us so long to get it. We ain't even know 1011 01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:04,800 Speaker 1: harry on freezing. Just because you paid it Friday, you 1012 01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:09,000 Speaker 1: want it lifted monday's work. He said, No, that ain't 1013 01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:11,280 Speaker 1: high work. It took us. You know how long it 1014 01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:15,160 Speaker 1: took us to get this money from you? He said, 1015 01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:18,800 Speaker 1: So that's it. So it's gonna happen to your daughter. 1016 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:22,400 Speaker 1: Hate to say this. You've made the right thing by 1017 01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:24,560 Speaker 1: offering a good paying jobs and trying to get her 1018 01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 1: to come to church. She don't want to have nothing 1019 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:30,160 Speaker 1: to do with it, but life gonna get her attention. 1020 01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:34,640 Speaker 1: Sad to say it. So like you say, just let 1021 01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:39,080 Speaker 1: go and let God period. She can do. Yeah, all right, 1022 01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,840 Speaker 1: thank you, Steve. Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter 1023 01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:44,520 Speaker 1: at Steve RVFM and Instagram and Facebook. Check out the 1024 01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:48,240 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand and coming up at forty 1025 01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:50,640 Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour, we'll have some sports talk 1026 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:56,439 Speaker 1: with Junior right after this you're listening show. All right, guys, 1027 01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:58,960 Speaker 1: here we go. Junior is here with sports talk. What 1028 01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:02,080 Speaker 1: you got Junior? Okay, Schrey, But first, let's remind everybody 1029 01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:06,479 Speaker 1: that June fifth, the Kiers Hope Sickle Cell Foundation Third 1030 01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:09,160 Speaker 1: Annual Walk will be having it at the Margaret Hunt 1031 01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:13,040 Speaker 1: Hill Bridge. Go to kiers Hope dot org. That's kiers 1032 01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 1: Hope dot org and registered today. Man, and help me 1033 01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:17,800 Speaker 1: help these kids with this sickle cell. Man. I want 1034 01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:19,520 Speaker 1: these families to have them a nice Christmas. So this 1035 01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:21,720 Speaker 1: is this is a big race for and we're back 1036 01:06:21,800 --> 01:06:24,360 Speaker 1: after COVID, so this is gonna be fun. Can't wait 1037 01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:26,560 Speaker 1: to see yall down there in Dallas. Man, It's gonna beautiful. 1038 01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 1: All right, we were sitting in the barbershop, Man, last week, 1039 01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:33,880 Speaker 1: we had this conversation. The draft is over. Everybody's been drafted. 1040 01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,200 Speaker 1: All the players have gone, they gone, they drafted. Cameras 1041 01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:37,960 Speaker 1: is gone now and we were talking about, like the 1042 01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:41,400 Speaker 1: average span of an NFL career is two and a 1043 01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:44,360 Speaker 1: half years, about two and a half years, you know, 1044 01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:47,000 Speaker 1: and some of the players, Man, I believe it not. Man, 1045 01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:50,280 Speaker 1: I've had friends who playing NFL and fifteen percent of 1046 01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:53,160 Speaker 1: them file for bankruptcy after two and a half years 1047 01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:57,120 Speaker 1: of playing in the league. Wow, yeah, if team percent. Man, 1048 01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:58,680 Speaker 1: And one of my friends, he would tell you saying, Man, 1049 01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:01,919 Speaker 1: the pressure that he had not from just playing ball, 1050 01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:05,560 Speaker 1: but trying to take care of everybody. Yeah, you know, 1051 01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:08,160 Speaker 1: taking care of his mom, taking care of his aunts, 1052 01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:11,800 Speaker 1: taking care of his cousin. Any problems arise, everything on 1053 01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:16,520 Speaker 1: his first salary, So you know you're gonna send money. Man, 1054 01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:21,200 Speaker 1: Is that any advice you could get them? What they 1055 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:26,280 Speaker 1: should do first? Let's get on the list, you know, 1056 01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:32,640 Speaker 1: because because they was there for you. See, um, black 1057 01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:36,640 Speaker 1: people are really the only ones who are held to 1058 01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:43,400 Speaker 1: this thing. I was there for you. I remember you 1059 01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:48,760 Speaker 1: when I held you down when nobody else would about 1060 01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:52,000 Speaker 1: how to play football. Boy. I first one throw the 1061 01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:56,360 Speaker 1: ball to you. Yeah, I took you to camps. I 1062 01:07:56,440 --> 01:07:59,840 Speaker 1: went out there to see all your games. Because if 1063 01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:03,280 Speaker 1: you look, it happens in white families. Too. You see 1064 01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:06,200 Speaker 1: them all gathered in the living room. Some of them 1065 01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:10,520 Speaker 1: are genuinely wanting the best for the athlete, but many 1066 01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:14,120 Speaker 1: of them look at it as a ticket. And there 1067 01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:20,160 Speaker 1: is immense pressure because all of these athletes suffer from 1068 01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:26,240 Speaker 1: the most useless emotion ever created, which is guilt. And 1069 01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:29,880 Speaker 1: that's a hardwood man. And then oh man, you got 1070 01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:33,880 Speaker 1: this money, man, congratulation, dog man, can you help me out? Man? 1071 01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:36,840 Speaker 1: Always knew you was gonna make it. That's very real 1072 01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:42,200 Speaker 1: and it's hard. But you've got to form a circle, 1073 01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:47,040 Speaker 1: an insulation to protect you. You have to have a 1074 01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:51,800 Speaker 1: way for people to have to reach you, because if 1075 01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:55,720 Speaker 1: you don't, it'll come back. Now, we can come back 1076 01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:59,000 Speaker 1: and I can give you some sound advice about what 1077 01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:03,240 Speaker 1: I've learned to do over the years. Yeah, if you won't, okay, 1078 01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:06,400 Speaker 1: we'll be back with some financial advice from Steve Harvey 1079 01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,920 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. Right after this, you're 1080 01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:15,800 Speaker 1: listening to a right Steve. Before we left for a break, 1081 01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:19,320 Speaker 1: you were helping Junior sort out you know why these 1082 01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:22,120 Speaker 1: football players are so broken? What to do? And at 1083 01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:27,160 Speaker 1: giving advice? Well, I mean after you're broke is too late, Yeah, 1084 01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:32,880 Speaker 1: because because you can't get broke money back. That's how 1085 01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:36,160 Speaker 1: you broke. You can never get broke money back. You 1086 01:09:36,240 --> 01:09:39,160 Speaker 1: got to go produce new income. So that's water over 1087 01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:41,679 Speaker 1: the damn. If you're already broke, it's nothing I could 1088 01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:45,120 Speaker 1: tell you except moving forward as you go get your 1089 01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:48,360 Speaker 1: new money. Because it happened to me. I had money, 1090 01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:53,040 Speaker 1: I became broke. I got it back. I learned a 1091 01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:57,920 Speaker 1: couple of things. First of all, payers won't successful people 1092 01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,800 Speaker 1: right now. Let me tell you something. If you're the 1093 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:03,040 Speaker 1: first college graduate here, they come. If you're the only 1094 01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:05,880 Speaker 1: one that's a supervisor down the job. If you work 1095 01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:09,920 Speaker 1: on the Steve Harvey Morning Show, your mirror association with me, 1096 01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:18,920 Speaker 1: your life must be yes, all that and a bad 1097 01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:22,080 Speaker 1: chips because you're sitting right up there with Steve. Yeah, 1098 01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:28,880 Speaker 1: I know you all are catching it, just like all 1099 01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:35,599 Speaker 1: of my children catching just guilty by association. So here's 1100 01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:38,160 Speaker 1: a couple of things, and it's not necessarily in this order. 1101 01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:43,840 Speaker 1: But first of all, have yourself a designated amount or 1102 01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:48,320 Speaker 1: that you're gonna delve out because you're gonna delve out money. Oh, 1103 01:10:49,040 --> 01:10:52,599 Speaker 1: it's a designated amount, and you ain't go you can't 1104 01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:56,200 Speaker 1: go past that amount. Period after that you don't have it, 1105 01:10:56,720 --> 01:10:59,880 Speaker 1: and you don't have it because you spent the designated amount. 1106 01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:02,360 Speaker 1: See that's a very smart thing to do. Hey man, 1107 01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:04,599 Speaker 1: I ain't got it. I'm sorry, but all that money 1108 01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:07,400 Speaker 1: I had allegated. Man, it's gone. Man. So many people 1109 01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:09,840 Speaker 1: came and ain't that money up. I'm bad man. Maybe 1110 01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:13,240 Speaker 1: next time, bro, but it designated him out. Number two. 1111 01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:16,920 Speaker 1: I call it the first Thing's first rule, and that 1112 01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:20,880 Speaker 1: is first things. First for me was my MoMA and 1113 01:11:21,040 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 1: daddy because I felt like I owed them. And that's 1114 01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:30,920 Speaker 1: very true and real. If your mama been hustling to 1115 01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:32,840 Speaker 1: get you here, you ought to get your mama house. 1116 01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:35,160 Speaker 1: I got that. But I call it the first Thing's 1117 01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:39,280 Speaker 1: first rule. And until they get taken care of, everybody 1118 01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:42,160 Speaker 1: in the family has to understand that. Hey man, hold up, holo, 1119 01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:45,120 Speaker 1: hold up. I know what you need, but right now 1120 01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm working on taking care of mama, nel mom and daddy, 1121 01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:51,200 Speaker 1: and I gotta put this money together for their house. Man, 1122 01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:55,240 Speaker 1: So pull up, and most people in your family going, well, 1123 01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:57,519 Speaker 1: he do got to take care of his mama. They 1124 01:11:57,640 --> 01:12:00,200 Speaker 1: got that much sense, you got you dealing with a 1125 01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:02,559 Speaker 1: real food that turns around and say man, give Dan 1126 01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:07,559 Speaker 1: what your mamma want. You're dealing with a food See, 1127 01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:09,160 Speaker 1: won't they say that? Then you ain't got to talk 1128 01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,280 Speaker 1: to the ass No more, right, So you get the 1129 01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:14,200 Speaker 1: first things first. The next thing you have to create 1130 01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:18,840 Speaker 1: is a buffer. You've got to get. Hey, man, you 1131 01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:24,280 Speaker 1: got to call my financial manager. All requests go through 1132 01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:28,800 Speaker 1: him because I'm on a budget, and so put your 1133 01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:33,519 Speaker 1: request in. Oh it's a little embarrassing to go to 1134 01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:41,960 Speaker 1: the financial planet with your ignorant ass request. I'm like, what, Steve, 1135 01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:47,240 Speaker 1: he man, I'm I'm I'm trying to print a T 1136 01:12:47,439 --> 01:12:53,719 Speaker 1: shirts so with all of with all the people's names 1137 01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:56,680 Speaker 1: on it that's been suffering from police brutality, and I'm 1138 01:12:56,680 --> 01:13:00,439 Speaker 1: gonna sell it. That's the business I've got and I 1139 01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 1: need a hundred thous Oh my good to make some 1140 01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:10,439 Speaker 1: T shirts. Who. So see, once you have a buffer, 1141 01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:17,439 Speaker 1: it lessens and it creates I'm I got to go 1142 01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:20,200 Speaker 1: through somebody and they can create the excuse for you 1143 01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:23,439 Speaker 1: that money's been allocated and then we can put you 1144 01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:28,120 Speaker 1: back down into the designated amount pile. Well, we can't 1145 01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:30,360 Speaker 1: give you that, but we can give you five hundred. 1146 01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:33,400 Speaker 1: Will that help you? Because this is all we have 1147 01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:36,960 Speaker 1: allocated for this. So those three things, a designated amount, 1148 01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:41,599 Speaker 1: the first things first, and a buffer. Those things will 1149 01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:45,920 Speaker 1: help you out greatly. And that's that's great advice. Thank you, 1150 01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:50,800 Speaker 1: financial advice I've done at all. Yeah, all right, we'll 1151 01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:53,920 Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up 1152 01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:56,720 Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour right after this you're 1153 01:13:56,760 --> 01:14:02,479 Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, guys, this is one of 1154 01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:06,000 Speaker 1: our favorite days because we love our teachers, and today 1155 01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:11,280 Speaker 1: is Teacher Appreciation Day. Love love our teachers and the 1156 01:14:11,400 --> 01:14:14,760 Speaker 1: fun jobs that they do. Thank you all so very 1157 01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:17,920 Speaker 1: much for what you do teaching our kids, especially this 1158 01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:22,839 Speaker 1: past year, including teaching our kids virtually and in person. 1159 01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:26,200 Speaker 1: So Steve, you played a teacher on TV, remember that, 1160 01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:31,080 Speaker 1: mister high Tower. But I really wouldn't know you do. 1161 01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:41,680 Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Shout out to the educators man everywhere. 1162 01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:46,559 Speaker 1: We realize doing the pandemic how important y'all wold if 1163 01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:52,519 Speaker 1: you didn't realize before, then, right you really? Yes? Yes, yes, 1164 01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:57,639 Speaker 1: parents were struggling trying to teach the kids. Don't nobody 1165 01:14:57,760 --> 01:15:04,560 Speaker 1: knows seventh grade. See, I'm very fortunate I'm passed that 1166 01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:06,760 Speaker 1: age with my kids because i probably would have just 1167 01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:09,280 Speaker 1: went in there and told him, you know, look, we're 1168 01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:17,400 Speaker 1: gonna drop out, and I can help you if you 1169 01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:20,679 Speaker 1: do that. But if you stay in school, I ain't 1170 01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:23,280 Speaker 1: gonna be able to help you. But if you drop out, 1171 01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:27,120 Speaker 1: I can really, I can really help you through that 1172 01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:29,680 Speaker 1: process because I ain't got no education either. But if 1173 01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:32,800 Speaker 1: you're trying to get this dammn degree, I'm gonna have 1174 01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:36,240 Speaker 1: to let you know, probably gonna have to drop out. Lord. 1175 01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:41,880 Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show show coming up 1176 01:15:41,920 --> 01:15:45,280 Speaker 1: with thirty three minutes after right after this you're listening 1177 01:15:45,520 --> 01:15:51,360 Speaker 1: to show. Yesterday, Andrew Brown Junior was late to rest 1178 01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:55,360 Speaker 1: twelve days after he was fatally shot five times, including 1179 01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:58,120 Speaker 1: once to the back of the head, by North Carolina 1180 01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:02,160 Speaker 1: Sheriff's Deputies authority. These have released few details about what 1181 01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:05,040 Speaker 1: led to the shooting, and state law requires a court 1182 01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:08,639 Speaker 1: order for the release of bodycam footage. A judge rule 1183 01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,360 Speaker 1: last week the Brown's family would be allowed to see 1184 01:16:11,439 --> 01:16:14,679 Speaker 1: body camera footage of the shooting, but the videos would 1185 01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:18,200 Speaker 1: not be made public for thirty days. Reverend Al Sharpton 1186 01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:21,800 Speaker 1: delivered the eulogy and said, I know a con game 1187 01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,720 Speaker 1: when I see it released the whole tape and let 1188 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:28,760 Speaker 1: the folks see what happened to Andrew Brown. Wow. Also 1189 01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:31,680 Speaker 1: in attendance where members of the George Floyd and Eric 1190 01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:37,120 Speaker 1: Gardner family Gardner family while they were there too. It's 1191 01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:41,120 Speaker 1: really it's really man's like, you know, for the other 1192 01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:44,240 Speaker 1: families to go down to support. It's a shame that 1193 01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:48,360 Speaker 1: we have to have such support groups, you know. And 1194 01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:52,479 Speaker 1: it's amazing though, because I've met all these women, you know, 1195 01:16:53,640 --> 01:16:58,439 Speaker 1: the mothers at the last Sand and Soul we had, Yes, 1196 01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:01,920 Speaker 1: I remember I bought all the mothers down to just 1197 01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:05,439 Speaker 1: give them up a trip and bought them up on stage. 1198 01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:10,160 Speaker 1: We all did, we were ask and it's just amazing 1199 01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:15,200 Speaker 1: to see their strength. And I just know it's a 1200 01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:17,280 Speaker 1: shame that we have to do this. Man, we still 1201 01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:20,519 Speaker 1: have to do it. I just and how disrespectful of 1202 01:17:20,600 --> 01:17:22,880 Speaker 1: them not to at least let them see what happened. 1203 01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:25,479 Speaker 1: He's dead now there's nothing they could do about that, 1204 01:17:25,880 --> 01:17:29,679 Speaker 1: but at least let them know what happens. Surely, surely 1205 01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:33,639 Speaker 1: that's not what this is. Not about giving them information, Well, 1206 01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:37,880 Speaker 1: that's about putting the story together. Yeah, well yeah, of course, 1207 01:17:37,960 --> 01:17:41,880 Speaker 1: that's like that's what I said. I know a con 1208 01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:44,960 Speaker 1: game when I see it. Yeah, see that that experts 1209 01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,679 Speaker 1: at that. They've been doing this for years now. Remember 1210 01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:52,240 Speaker 1: this before body cams and social media and phone cameras. 1211 01:17:52,800 --> 01:17:55,880 Speaker 1: That was nothing to release. Oh yeah, it was whatever 1212 01:17:56,000 --> 01:18:00,639 Speaker 1: they said was here's a police report. That's what he did, 1213 01:18:01,240 --> 01:18:08,559 Speaker 1: it's what he had. And it's by miracle we saw 1214 01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:14,120 Speaker 1: Rodney King. That's by miracle it keeps happening in a 1215 01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:24,120 Speaker 1: non racist country. Wow. Yeah, that's the amazing part. Wow, 1216 01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:28,760 Speaker 1: you said a lot right there, you did. You're talking 1217 01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:32,439 Speaker 1: about the country that was stolen from the beginning, that 1218 01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:36,240 Speaker 1: they stole some people to come over here and work 1219 01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:41,680 Speaker 1: at it. Yeah, the very one, the one that had 1220 01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:46,040 Speaker 1: a constitution that said the negro was three fifths of 1221 01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:52,240 Speaker 1: a human being. They took it out constitution, but they 1222 01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:55,719 Speaker 1: didn't take it out their minds. Write that down. Coming 1223 01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:57,960 Speaker 1: up it as our last break of the day, and 1224 01:18:58,080 --> 01:19:00,320 Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour, we got some 1225 01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:03,320 Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. Right 1226 01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:08,719 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to all right, here we are, guys, 1227 01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:13,520 Speaker 1: our last break of the day. It's been a good Tuesday. 1228 01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:18,000 Speaker 1: We're moving right along, and of course here's Steve Harvey 1229 01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:22,719 Speaker 1: with the closing remarks. Well, you know, I've been thinking 1230 01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:30,240 Speaker 1: about this. I spoke yesterday about oh, America being called 1231 01:19:30,479 --> 01:19:36,479 Speaker 1: racist country. I just questioned some things. You know, if 1232 01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,679 Speaker 1: it's not racist, just can you explain a few things 1233 01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:46,639 Speaker 1: to me yesterday? Well, I've been watching and I watched 1234 01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:50,559 Speaker 1: Rick Santorum on CNN try to explain away his comments 1235 01:19:51,200 --> 01:19:55,080 Speaker 1: that America they didn't still America a miracle, was nothing 1236 01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:58,720 Speaker 1: and they built it from scratch. It is amazing how 1237 01:19:58,880 --> 01:20:04,160 Speaker 1: the narrative gets fix to continue to just make this 1238 01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:09,719 Speaker 1: thing called America appears so great to everybody. And Okay, 1239 01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:16,519 Speaker 1: I guess, I guess I want to say today it's 1240 01:20:16,640 --> 01:20:20,360 Speaker 1: not that we don't see the opportunity here in America. 1241 01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:27,360 Speaker 1: It's not that we don't have a shot at the 1242 01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:33,080 Speaker 1: opportunities in America. It's just that's for many of us, 1243 01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:38,400 Speaker 1: it's not only so hard to see, but it's really 1244 01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:44,200 Speaker 1: really difficult to get to, you know, because it's so 1245 01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:52,360 Speaker 1: many things that are in the way. You know, the 1246 01:20:52,600 --> 01:20:58,120 Speaker 1: lies that's been told, it's just unbelievable. I don't know 1247 01:20:58,200 --> 01:21:00,519 Speaker 1: if you pay attention to it. Let's start with the 1248 01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:05,000 Speaker 1: latest lie that the election was stolen. Let's start with 1249 01:21:05,120 --> 01:21:09,640 Speaker 1: this lie right here. Are you really serious, man? Do 1250 01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:15,720 Speaker 1: you think there's no evidence with all of the technology 1251 01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:20,120 Speaker 1: that's out there, all of the social media, all of 1252 01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:25,799 Speaker 1: the forensic science, all of the computers, all the cameras, 1253 01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:32,400 Speaker 1: all of the Republicans that work in voting, it's just 1254 01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:36,120 Speaker 1: as many as Democrats, if not more, that work in 1255 01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:42,439 Speaker 1: voting that they can't find one shred of evidence of 1256 01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:49,200 Speaker 1: any widespread voter fraud that would affect the election. Even 1257 01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:52,560 Speaker 1: when you have a recount, there ain't been a recount 1258 01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:59,599 Speaker 1: that has reversed a single anything. You set up a lie, lie, lie, 1259 01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:03,120 Speaker 1: that this election was stolen. But ain't not no court 1260 01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:07,360 Speaker 1: in your country, the one you fixed up with your constitution. 1261 01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:11,240 Speaker 1: There's not no court in your land that would even 1262 01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:15,800 Speaker 1: take up your lie. This your country, remember this your 1263 01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:20,800 Speaker 1: judicial system that you parade us so just that we 1264 01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:23,280 Speaker 1: don't see that way. But then when it works against you, 1265 01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:31,200 Speaker 1: oh my god, these judges are crazy. Now there's a 1266 01:22:31,320 --> 01:22:34,080 Speaker 1: couple of things that still kind of tax at me 1267 01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:37,599 Speaker 1: a little bit. Not only do you lie to us, 1268 01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:42,200 Speaker 1: I just just a refusal to include us in the constitution. 1269 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:45,080 Speaker 1: I mean, we've been trying to get this piece of 1270 01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:48,920 Speaker 1: paper right for a long time that every American has 1271 01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:51,519 Speaker 1: an inalable right to the pursuit of happiness. But we 1272 01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:53,479 Speaker 1: had to change a few things. You do remember this 1273 01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:56,040 Speaker 1: piece of paper has had some flaws in it. You 1274 01:22:56,240 --> 01:22:59,679 Speaker 1: do remember that you thought of the Negro as three 1275 01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:04,160 Speaker 1: of a human being. You do remember that even women 1276 01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:08,400 Speaker 1: couldn't vote. It just wasn't a constitutional thing. So this 1277 01:23:08,600 --> 01:23:11,880 Speaker 1: paper has had to be adjusted over the years. And 1278 01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:15,960 Speaker 1: the people that wrote the papers white men. They even 1279 01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:19,599 Speaker 1: had white women put in a certain place, and it's 1280 01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:23,360 Speaker 1: still there. Do you know that there's golf courses that 1281 01:23:23,640 --> 01:23:29,360 Speaker 1: don't let women play on them? Not only women, but 1282 01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:31,840 Speaker 1: you better not to bring your black ass down there 1283 01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:35,640 Speaker 1: talking about you fitting to play. Do you know his 1284 01:23:35,800 --> 01:23:40,160 Speaker 1: golf course is still today that black people can't set 1285 01:23:40,280 --> 01:23:44,439 Speaker 1: foot on them. Do you know that this is twenty 1286 01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:50,320 Speaker 1: twenty one. It's a rule. There are golf courses that 1287 01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:56,800 Speaker 1: do not allow Jews on it. It's a rule. This 1288 01:23:57,000 --> 01:24:02,280 Speaker 1: is twenty twenty one. I'm just asking you. Do you 1289 01:24:02,400 --> 01:24:04,000 Speaker 1: know that we have to vote every year on the 1290 01:24:04,080 --> 01:24:06,479 Speaker 1: Voting Rights Act? Not every year, but every so often 1291 01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:08,719 Speaker 1: the Voting the Act comes up that allows black people 1292 01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:11,599 Speaker 1: to steal vote. They're still working through that right there. 1293 01:24:12,400 --> 01:24:17,160 Speaker 1: This is crazy, man. Black people my age are exhausted. 1294 01:24:19,960 --> 01:24:23,680 Speaker 1: If you're from the baby boomer generation, we are exhausted. 1295 01:24:25,439 --> 01:24:31,360 Speaker 1: If you are fifty, we are exhausted. I got news 1296 01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:34,599 Speaker 1: for you to exhaustion and spread to the younger generation too. 1297 01:24:35,080 --> 01:24:39,360 Speaker 1: They tied to. But like I said, this summer protest 1298 01:24:39,560 --> 01:24:43,120 Speaker 1: is a young person's sport. I can't go out there 1299 01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:46,000 Speaker 1: with no signs, no more. I've done a lot of 1300 01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:49,240 Speaker 1: protesting in my life, but I can't run back which 1301 01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:52,880 Speaker 1: no more, and die behind bushes and climb over police 1302 01:24:52,960 --> 01:24:55,920 Speaker 1: cars and try to escape. I can't do that. It's 1303 01:24:55,960 --> 01:24:58,200 Speaker 1: just a young puer. All we trying to do is 1304 01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:01,439 Speaker 1: get you to treat us equal, not special, just equal. Damn. 1305 01:25:02,439 --> 01:25:04,600 Speaker 1: Even when we asked for it, we plead for it, 1306 01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,160 Speaker 1: and we march more, and then we have to watch 1307 01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:10,240 Speaker 1: you come up with a counter ask, a counter plea, 1308 01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:12,639 Speaker 1: and a counter march. What the hell is that about? 1309 01:25:13,120 --> 01:25:15,760 Speaker 1: Black lives matter? White lives matter? Too? Well? Damn, we 1310 01:25:15,840 --> 01:25:18,719 Speaker 1: didn't say it, don't. We just asked, you can hours 1311 01:25:18,760 --> 01:25:21,680 Speaker 1: matter like yours matter? Sitting up here every time we 1312 01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:25,000 Speaker 1: gotta ask or plea or march. We gotta watch You 1313 01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:27,840 Speaker 1: have a damn counter like you ain't got enough? Were 1314 01:25:27,920 --> 01:25:30,519 Speaker 1: tired it is? We're just tired of it, man, That's 1315 01:25:30,520 --> 01:25:32,760 Speaker 1: all I wanted to say. Y'all got the nerve to 1316 01:25:32,920 --> 01:25:35,639 Speaker 1: be say, y'all tired of watching us march? You tired 1317 01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:38,679 Speaker 1: of watching us march? Put these boots on and walk 1318 01:25:38,720 --> 01:25:41,160 Speaker 1: your ass out there. You think you tired of watching it, 1319 01:25:41,400 --> 01:25:45,080 Speaker 1: were tired of performing it. Were just waiting on some 1320 01:25:45,240 --> 01:25:52,120 Speaker 1: of y'all to be tied for us too. For all, Steve, 1321 01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:55,800 Speaker 1: every contest no purchase necessary, void We're prohibited. Participants must 1322 01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:58,920 Speaker 1: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless 1323 01:25:59,080 --> 01:26:03,479 Speaker 1: otherwise stated. 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