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Speaker 1: We'll find out why in just a second, but first

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Speaker 1: let's talk to him. His name is Ian Ian. How

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Speaker 1: are you. I'm doing quite well, Thank you? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm not too bad? Thank you for doing the second

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Speaker 1: amount of effort that you put in to this first

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Speaker 1: And where did you meet Ali? We meet at a

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Speaker 1: How how did you meet her at a local bar? Sorry?

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Speaker 1: So we exchanged numbers names obviously as well, and uh,

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Speaker 1: don't know. It could be romantic or it could be

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Speaker 1: So that's good. Okay, it's a very clinical description of

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Speaker 1: your surprise. Well, I mean, you know, I know what

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Speaker 1: He's a friend of the show, and he actually emailed

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