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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us. We are so excited to be back. It's

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Speaker 1: a new year, it's a new Kathy and a new Susan.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Hey, We're doing pretty good. We're so happy to be back,

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Speaker 2: and you need to check out our latest episodes because

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Speaker 2: we've been having so much fun answering questions and chatting

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Speaker 2: with your bachelor NAIs and favorite boy.

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Speaker 1: Do we have one today? We have so the special

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Speaker 1: guest today from Jones season of The Golden Bachelorette. Please

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Speaker 1: welcome Chalk Water Chalk to Joan. How are you.

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Speaker 3: Hello, ladies. I'm doing okay, except for the cold that

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Speaker 3: Susan gave me.

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Speaker 1: I didn't. She gave it to me to Chalk. We

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Speaker 1: even getting fine, getting fine.

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Speaker 2: Other son, I just say really quick. It was so

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Speaker 2: much fun, ladies and gentlemen listening. We just spent time

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Speaker 2: with him and Joan and we had so much fun

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Speaker 2: getting to know him. But he hung with four or

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Speaker 2: five women for four days and never complained, never complained.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say he didn't complain. I would say he

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Speaker 1: fit right in. He didn't that he didn't complain about

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Speaker 1: he's now one of the girls, one of the girl.

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Speaker 3: I've got a little little bit of real man left.

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Speaker 1: So so I want I have I have so many

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Speaker 1: burning questions. The first one is which I have not believed.

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Speaker 1: Have not asked you this before. When Joan was on

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Speaker 1: our show, she was so quiet at the At the

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Speaker 1: Talent Show, Joan said, I'm so shy. I'm out of

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Speaker 1: my comfort zone. I don't talk very much. That girl

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Speaker 1: is vaccinated with a phonograph needle. She talks. Are you

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Speaker 1: surprised out of the bubble, how outgoing and talkingive she

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Speaker 1: is and not the shy demeanor that she initially comes

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Speaker 1: at you with.

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Speaker 3: Well, as I mentioned before, Kathy, I never watched it

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Speaker 3: previous episodes, so I really other than what I read,

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Speaker 3: I really didn't know. Yeah, so she does talk. I

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Speaker 3: talk a little bit once I get going, but she

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Speaker 3: does talk. But we're a great couple. We enjoy each other.

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Speaker 1: Yes, well that was obvious. And the other thing that

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Speaker 1: we Susan and I were just talking to about, we

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Speaker 1: want to know, uh, your your You were smartly brought

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Speaker 1: those keys to the finale, to those like still the

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Speaker 1: deal mode. We interviewed Guy and we were like his

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Speaker 1: mistake was not bringing the mountains a beach house. So

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Speaker 1: have you guys found a place? Tell us what's going

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Speaker 3: Well, we did find one that we really liked, Kathy,

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Speaker 3: and it was in Soho. That's where Joan really really

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Speaker 3: likes the area. And I wonder if it's because of

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Speaker 3: shopping Gucci and all these other places. I really don't

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Speaker 1: I don't think Joan likes high end items at all,

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Speaker 1: So that's probably.

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Speaker 3: We're going to talk about that a little bit because

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Speaker 3: I have a couple of questions for you too late.

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Speaker 3: But Soho and we've found a place. It was what

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Speaker 3: and then we just turned back around noon, just a

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Speaker 3: it off the market. So we'll continue to look. We'll

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Speaker 1: Wow. Well, and you've got your family coming. It's just

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Speaker 1: how's that going with the melding of the families?

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's perfect. You know. I saw one of the

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Speaker 3: We can't keep the kids away from each other. And

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Speaker 3: to bring them to a basketball game at KU Kansas University.

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Speaker 3: Go Hawks. We're going to do that in the latter

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Speaker 3: part of January. So we all get along great. We

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Speaker 3: positive of the easy thing about this, Kathy, though, is

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Speaker 3: So they've been trained, they know how to act, and

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Speaker 1: All your children, we know how well they are.

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Speaker 3: Well except except one night I think Susan had to

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Speaker 1: He shouldn't find that key, Yeah, he couldn't find Speaking

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Speaker 1: So that's the question. And then Susan, all I want

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Speaker 3: Tell us about Well, uh, we had talked about this

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Speaker 2: Who was with you?

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Speaker 3: Well it was Keith, Jordan, Uh, Dan was there and

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Speaker 3: then uh that was it? How can I forget?

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Speaker 1: Or perspiring minds want to know? Is is Dan dating Edith?

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Speaker 3: You know, as a gentleman, I won't answer that question.

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Speaker 3: All right, But if I can't tell you, Keith has

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Speaker 3: But I mean the guy would talk to anybody. He

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Speaker 2: I want to get to know him. He wasn't there

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Speaker 2: at the finale. Now, Gary's such a lover, just a

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Speaker 3: Well, and with Jordan's he and he and I talked

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Speaker 3: about this, Susan. He has one of the most funniest,

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Speaker 3: the funniest personality you'll have to be. He had us

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Speaker 1: When you ever went on and there's so many questions,

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Speaker 3: Well, and I'll reiterate this too. So I had no idea, Kathy.

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Speaker 3: Well, let me say this guy, guy is a great guy,

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Speaker 3: He said, we were our beds were right next to

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Speaker 1: we've all been married, we've all had that aha moment,

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Speaker 1: We've all had disappointments in our lives. When you met Joan,

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Speaker 3: When Joe came back to Wichita and I introduced her

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Speaker 3: to my family and friends, I go, this is this

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Speaker 2: It feels you know it.

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Speaker 1: touchy feeling people. Joan, if she never touches someone again

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Speaker 2: Were surprised because I've always hugged her. She'd probably has

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Speaker 1: Oh God, here she comes. When you guys were at

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Speaker 1: Chock's making her feel uncomfortable. No, not at all.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, on that topic, it's very interesting, joanahknife joke.

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Speaker 3: Well, I was going to have two questions, how old

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Speaker 1: So that's that's number one. I want to straighten that

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Speaker 1: when I got married Chalk. I was twenty years old

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Speaker 2: Let us know you do this, and if not, you can, Elope,

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Speaker 2: Make sure you come over and I'll officiate. Nobody has there.

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Speaker 1: So Chuck, I want to know because Jon's not here,

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Speaker 1: So whatever you say is what's going to happen. Would

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Speaker 1: What do you want?

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Speaker 1: Oh, Susan, I'm going to cry.

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Speaker 2: I'm on, well, you're too good to be through well.

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Speaker 1: A Bachelor Nation. If you think this guy is slinging it,

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Speaker 2: He likes to be He's got style. I watched shoes.

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Speaker 1: Chair, yes, probably in front of a bar and a

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Speaker 2: It's fun. They're easy questions and this way Bachelor Nation

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Speaker 1: Are you ready?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: So I want to take the first question here and

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Speaker 3: Keith because he'd entertain me, okay, Jordan because he would

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Speaker 1: See, this is a guy. This is a strategic guy,

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Speaker 1: I think strategically. Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: Well, I will tell you when we asked Guy that question,

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Speaker 3: Well, I've always worked hard, but don't take everything so personal.

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Speaker 1: Don't listen to social media. Okay, I'm I'm going off

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Speaker 2: About you?

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Speaker 3: That I truly loved her.

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Speaker 1: I knew that's what.

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Speaker 2: He's a hard one to ask that. That was for

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Speaker 2: What's something you've always wanted to do but haven't done yet.

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Speaker 3: You know, I've had a very blessed life, ladies. I've

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Speaker 1: And do you know that is my first and last

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Speaker 2: All right, one more question for you. What's the worst

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Speaker 3: That work is probably one of the more important things

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Speaker 1: Work is or is not?

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Speaker 3: eight thousand dollars a year. He has no stock in

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Speaker 3: the company and it's a non for profit and he goes,

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Speaker 3: this is what I've always wanted to do. And looking back,

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Speaker 3: I've made some decent money in my life. Has really

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Speaker 3: made me happy. It's enabled me to do some things.

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Speaker 3: But I probably would say, you know, like with my kids,

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Speaker 3: I've told him they didn't they didn't really want to

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Speaker 3: live in witch Talk, and I'm like, then go someplace

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Speaker 3: you want to live. My son wanted to work in London,

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Speaker 3: but he couldn't get a work visa, and that might happen,

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Speaker 3: but go live your life and don't let a job,

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Speaker 3: you know, really control you. My mother pushed me to

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Speaker 3: go to medical school because she goes, you'll always have

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Speaker 3: work someplace for two years, two years, two years, travel

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Speaker 3: around the world, and when she was getting ready to

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Speaker 3: pass you because I've had this most incredible life I've

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Speaker 3: got to see everything I've raised my kids. So you know,

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Speaker 3: it's tough when you're younger to look at it philosophically

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Speaker 3: because you want that new car, you want the house.

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Speaker 3: But as you get older, I go, I worked in

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Speaker 3: my thirties and forties. I worked a lot of hours

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Speaker 3: I did, and I look back at it and go,

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Speaker 3: you know, it's tough on a marriage, it's tough on relationships,

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Speaker 3: and look back that probably would have done that different.

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Speaker 1: All Right, Well this, since this is uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: going to be airing in the new year, I have

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Speaker 1: another question for you. And but we've got to wrap

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Speaker 1: this up, which I hate to do because you know,

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Speaker 1: we love chatting with you. What are some things that

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Speaker 1: you'd like to accomplish in the new year? Besides getting

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Speaker 1: a place in Soho, what else?

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Speaker 3: Well, I need your lady's help. This is my segue, hereto.

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Speaker 1: I was going to say go, because it's.

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Speaker 3: Just what do I get you?

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Speaker 1: You want?

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Speaker 2: Already told me what she wants?

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Speaker 1: A Chanel bagel bagg.

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Speaker 3: Do they because we've got a Walmart right down the

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Speaker 3: shoe and because I'll get her too if they have

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Speaker 3: them on highway?

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Speaker 1: Wait, I got to tell everybody you brought this up

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Speaker 1: Chalk when we were girl, when we were in California.

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Speaker 1: You looked at me quietly and you said, does she

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Speaker 1: understand you don't know this, by the way, what I'm

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Speaker 1: about to tell you. She said. You said to me this, Joan,

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Speaker 1: understand that this apartment in New York is like birthday

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Speaker 1: and Christmas and anniversary and everything else for the next

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Speaker 1: three years. And so I took Joan aside and I said, hey, Joan,

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Speaker 1: what do you think you're getting for Christmas? Because I

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Speaker 1: just talked with Chalk and it looks like this apartment

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Speaker 1: in Soho. She looked at me. She said, absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: And I said, well, tell me now, because I will

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Speaker 1: be chatting with him. What would you like? She said,

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Speaker 1: a chanel bag. I said, I'll make sure he gets

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Speaker 1: the message. So you were going to get it, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to get it. You weren't. I get it

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Speaker 1: on a national podcast. But now everyone knows that Joan

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Speaker 1: is getting a chanel handba because you can't disupport now

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Speaker 1: I've seen, by the way, Susan and I would like

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Speaker 1: one too.

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Speaker 3: My daughter can tell me where to go get one,

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Speaker 3: but help me because now.

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Speaker 2: And Marcus you to.

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Speaker 3: Sack. You can do what I want. You could do it.

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Speaker 2: Well, you want us to pick it out, We'll just

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Speaker 2: pick it out for you.

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Speaker 3: For her birthday, which is January.

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Speaker 1: Land another channel bag.

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Speaker 2: No, I take her away, Take her away somewhere.

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Speaker 1: They're going away. No, you know what she likes. I'm serious,

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Speaker 1: she loves. Get her a nice but not overdone piece

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Speaker 1: of jewelry.

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Speaker 2: She likes Seriously Chanel jewelry.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Susan Chanel. If you're listening to Susan

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Speaker 1: and I would each like a bag for this app

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Speaker 1: free advertising, Thank you so much. No, seriously, get her

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Speaker 1: you're done area. It'll mean something to her. Do it,

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Speaker 1: you know what. Okay, I'm getting creative here. Do something

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Speaker 1: with your children's burstunts, your combined children's burst stunts, or

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Speaker 1: you're in her burst dowe. Do something that will be

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Speaker 1: symbog that will have some meaning to her.

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Speaker 3: Have you seen her jewelry collection?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she and I rival each other. I'm just going

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Speaker 1: to tell you you talk.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't need much.

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Speaker 3: I'm a practical guy. I don't think she needs anything else.

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Speaker 3: I told her yesterday.

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Speaker 1: It's not a matter of needing. It's not a matter

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Speaker 1: of need. I mean, if you didn't let let me

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Speaker 1: just say to you, chalk, if when you looked at

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Speaker 1: her you didn't understand that she was high falutin high

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Speaker 1: end girl. You missed the boat on that you spent

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Speaker 1: way too much time in the Midwest. If you didn't

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Speaker 1: pick up on that one, I have no something screaming scared.

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Speaker 1: You're good.

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Speaker 3: I did pick up on it. I know. I'm just

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Speaker 3: having fun.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I can't wait to see the snell bag. Okay, chuck, here,

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Speaker 1: we got another question for you. Yes, if you could

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Speaker 1: bring back any fashion trend or old slang, what would

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Speaker 1: it be.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm not saying this is the best decision, but

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Speaker 3: I used to have sideburns, and I saw sideburns and

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Speaker 3: I that kind of looks cool. But I don't think

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be the first to do that.

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Speaker 2: How about that would the title? What would the title

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Speaker 2: of your autobiography be?

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Speaker 3: He did it his way?

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Speaker 1: Okay, it all right? Well, I wanted to ask you,

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Speaker 1: but we've got to end here in a second or so.

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Speaker 1: But I really wanted to ask you what your real

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Speaker 1: first name is, because I thought I read somewhere that

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Speaker 1: it's Charles.

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Speaker 3: That is correct, Charles. It is Charles. My real name

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Speaker 3: is Charles. And going through the casting process right before

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Speaker 3: I went out to lays are chopp and I go

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Speaker 3: my entire life it's been chopped. I just it is,

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Speaker 3: and I'm not trying to be different. That's just what

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Speaker 3: I've always no. I like it, Charles. Was when my

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Speaker 3: mother was mad at Yes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's me, Catherine, when my mother's angry, was angry.

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Speaker 1: It's that's why I go by Kathy. So I will

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Speaker 1: I will tell you chalk When I text you, it

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Speaker 1: always comes up the writing implement C H A L K.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have to teach Siri how to really

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Speaker 1: spell your name.

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Speaker 3: Just don't lose the H, right.

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Speaker 1: Right, I got that. I'm quick. All right, Well on

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Speaker 1: that happy note. That does it for this episode.

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Speaker 3: One quick question is Chanel with three ends?

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Speaker 1: No, it's with ten dollars signs though, yes, major, All right,

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Speaker 1: that does it. For this episode of.

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Speaker 2: Second she's always cold like you a Chanelle scarf?

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Speaker 1: Oh please, that could be. She's not a scarf girl,

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Speaker 1: not a scarf. No scarfs do not. I'm giving you

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Speaker 1: good advice, Sarah. And for the tenth and final time trying.

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Speaker 1: I hate this, I hate this party, but this is

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Speaker 1: going to do it for this episode of Batchelor Happy

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Speaker 1: Hours Golden Hour. Thank you so much, Chalk for joining us.

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Speaker 1: You truly are a gem and I hope the Bachelor

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Speaker 1: nation gets to see now once and for all that

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Speaker 1: you are a wonderful guy. You and Joan are worthy

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Speaker 1: of each other, and we are so delighted that you

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Speaker 1: two have found love.

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Speaker 3: I am Kathy and Susan. Thank you very much.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome. You haven't seen the last of us.

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Speaker 1: You know that.

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Speaker 2: We love getting the chat with you, We love being

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Speaker 2: in your company, and thank you all for tuning in

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Speaker 2: and listening and getting to know Chocolate. We do make

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Speaker 2: sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new

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Speaker 2: episodes coming out every week and you don't want to miss.

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Speaker 1: And for any of you who still don't know the

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Speaker 1: roadmap to finding us, make sure you submit your questions.

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