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Speaker 2: Now I've heard of messes before, but uh, this is

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Speaker 2: This is just a dumpster fire. It's a landfill fire.

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Speaker 1: This is a family conflict that came up recently. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this saves a lot all different. I discovered by

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Speaker 3: Giving you nooggies all childhood. He's like you gonna I'm

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Speaker 1: It was the most devastating time in my life, aside

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Speaker 1: I was done with him even after my ex wife,

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Speaker 1: So this guy got divorced, his brother married his ex wife,

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Speaker 3: Can you imagine what a tragedy the same year they divorced.

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Speaker 3: They I have always wondered though, like, do do you

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Speaker 1: And I mean, I think this story I answers it all.

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: How?

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Speaker 2: How freak would that make everything okay?

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Speaker 1: It's like that's kind of oh, that's not what solves this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But anyway, Op kept his distance, that is until my

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Speaker 1: My parents threatened to disown me if I told my

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Speaker 1: I don't like them. My nephew tried to get me

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Speaker 1: My nephew denied it, saying his dad and his grandparents

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Speaker 1: Baltimore was doubled door they did the old Switcher rude

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Speaker 2: What are they gonna whack him?

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Speaker 1: So, I don't know. It sounds like this is like

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Speaker 3: He didn't at all. And I don't blame his reaction either.

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Speaker 3: That's such a that's such a shock to the system.

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Speaker 1: You know, So what do you think is op the

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Speaker 2: No, that's what I think.

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Speaker 2: Yes, really okay, go ahead, go ahead, can say yes?

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Speaker 1: Not not because he's like, like I feel, it's totally

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Speaker 1: that's totally fine. But to not go to your nephew's wedding, yeah,

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Speaker 3: He's honestly neglecting working on his own, you know, personal emotions,

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