1 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Kathy and 2 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: I are so excited to be back, and we want 3 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: to thank you for joining us. 4 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: Oh boy today, Susan. First of all, happy almost end 5 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 2: of this year. Glad to see you go. But we're 6 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 2: going to be doing a little twenty twenty five reflection 7 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: as we here for New Year's and I don't know 8 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: what your plans are, but I'm about to ask you, 9 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 2: so if you don't have any, make them up real quick. 10 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 2: What doing for New Year? 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to continue travel and that's for sure? Are 12 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: you couple for years? 13 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: Yes? 14 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: Actually I will be in Saint Martin and then in 15 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 1: February I'm flying Saint Martin to California and then you 16 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: and I are going to join our friends, our Italian 17 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 1: friends in California in February. 18 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: So tomorrow we can round your euro out by lots 19 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: of travel and especially for New Year's even Saint Martin. Now, 20 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: don't you want to ask me? 21 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: Please? I think you're coming with some of mine. 22 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: No, what am I doing for now? 23 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 1: New Year's? What are you doing? Nothing? What I guessed, Chris? 24 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: It's quiet though. 25 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 2: I just have to tell you when my husband was alive. 26 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 2: I loved New Year's Eve because now so I can 27 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: get through without crying. He would open a really nice 28 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 2: bottle of champagne and we would grill steaks, and I 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 2: left it. It was quiet. It wasn't you know. We 30 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 2: didn't get out on the road. We're probably easy crazy 31 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 2: as were. So now I do similar. I sit home 32 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 2: and open a bottle of wine. 33 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: Okay, do you watch it on TV? I love watching 34 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: the ball drop in New York. 35 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: Sometimes I watch Ryan. Sometimes I do watch I do 36 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 2: sometimes watch it, but I would be. 37 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: You and I might be hosting that one day, I 38 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: think big. 39 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: Okay, if you and I are hosting New Year's Eve 40 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 2: in Times Square, I will be there that. I'll guarantee you. Okay, 41 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 2: but I don't know. All right, so let's get started here. 42 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 2: We've got a few questions. We're going to talk about 43 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 2: sort of our twenty twenty five. We're going to reflect 44 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 2: back on the year, and let me start. I'll answer, 45 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 2: I'll ask the first question. We'll go from there. Okay, Yes, 46 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 2: let's do all right? What word best describes twenty twenty 47 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: five for you? And why the word is epic? 48 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: It was an amazing year. I met tons of new people. 49 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: I was awarded an award for being an Officiant of the. 50 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 2: Year from Yay Susan. Congrats, it's been all of you 51 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,119 Speaker 2: who don't know Susan just recently, oh, just a week 52 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 2: or so ago, a couple of weeks now, won an 53 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: award for a wedding officient of the year. So where 54 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 2: all our hats are off to you. Congrats, it's really. 55 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. How about you, kav. 56 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 2: My word for the year is engaged. I thought I'd 57 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 2: get a rise out of you. Not as a ring 58 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 2: on my hand. Engaged, Oh I got it, but engaged, 59 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 2: you know, I said yes. Too many opportunities that came 60 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 2: my way. I think for me, honestly, the biggest thing 61 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 2: for me, and it's it's one of the other questions 62 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 2: we're going to talk about, but let's mix it up 63 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 2: and talk about it now. For me, one of the biggest, 64 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 2: probably the biggest time's, biggest point of reference for me 65 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty five was being on paradise And you know, 66 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 2: and you probably can guess, why do you want to 67 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: hazard a guess or not go. 68 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: Ahead because another experience Well. 69 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 2: It was of course all that and of course working 70 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: to getting to work with all the wonderful people and 71 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: like you said, meeting so many fabulous people this year. 72 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 2: But for me being on paradise, I didn't realize it 73 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 2: untill I got away and have really had time to 74 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 2: reflect on it. It was a time where I could 75 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: really just be me. I'm a fixer. I love children, 76 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: I love young adults. I love being there for people. 77 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 2: And I had a month of it where young people 78 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: cared what I had to say and they liked spending 79 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: time with me. It was just to me was yes, 80 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: it was a month vacation, but it was just a 81 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: month to really be myself. I loved it. What about you, 82 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 2: what's the best thing for you in twenty twenty five. 83 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: I just said it. That was one of the major 84 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: highlights getting the war, accepting that award in Las Vegas 85 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: at the Belagia, and you know, I love playing dress 86 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 1: up and all the people's opinions about my dresses I love. 87 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: I want to thank everybody for doing that. And then 88 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: the last minute, a designer sent me to dresses I 89 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: never saw where. 90 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 2: By the way, when you get back with her asking 91 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 2: her mind as I didn't get one. 92 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: She'd be happy to take care of you, all right. 93 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: Another one says, Kathy, what's one moment from this year 94 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: you didn't realize would matter so much at the time. 95 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 2: Well, so you're going to give me your answer. What's 96 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 2: your answer. 97 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to go with the same. I didn't think 98 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: it would matter so much when I was nominated earlier 99 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: this year, and it did really matter. It turned out 100 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: to be something spectacular. 101 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, I think that's the lesson. We 102 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 2: keep learning lessons, But I think for me, twenty twenty 103 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 2: five has shown me that we think we know what's 104 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 2: going to happen, We think we know we're going to 105 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: where we're going to be. It never seems to be 106 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 2: that way. It's either in my case. In my case, 107 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 2: lots of surprises and lots of things that were better, 108 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 2: you know, than I anticipated they would be better, meaning 109 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 2: more fun, meeting, lots of people having incredible opportunities. And 110 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 2: you know, another word I could use is grateful, because 111 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 2: I am so grateful. I'm not big on resolutions, like, yes, 112 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 2: you know, I try to be my best person every day. Okay, 113 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 2: who showed up for you in an unexpected way? I 114 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 2: want to know it better be me. 115 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: Who showed up. It's always you, Kathy. 116 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 2: Thank you. 117 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: Kathy's always there for me. I have one that what 118 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: did twenty twenty five ask of you that you weren't expecting? 119 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 2: Well enough? 120 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: We did this together. 121 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 2: Oh, give me a hand, give me more. 122 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:21,679 Speaker 1: We were on ABC pajump up partying. 123 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 2: Oh oh, can you know that? Actually? Is I That 124 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 2: is actually a good answer because it was the unexpected, 125 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 2: unexpected and so much fun even be falling in the 126 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 2: bushes backwards with guys. 127 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: I wish that was on film. I wish it. 128 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 2: Was that was. 129 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: Being on mel season was a surprise and we weren't 130 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: expecting it. Is there something that you're proud of surviving 131 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: this year? Cuth? 132 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 2: You know I think like anyone you know you and 133 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 2: are human were I think Josh surviving, I survived. It's 134 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 2: a strong word. 135 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 1: I mean I know what mine is. That's the month 136 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: of December. 137 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 2: I gotta say I have not been home one I 138 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: don't think, maybe two nights this month, so I'm waiting 139 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 2: on It's this is Survival of the Fittest December. 140 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: Should be reviving d December. 141 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 2: It is funny, but I have to tell you. One 142 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 2: of the things I was going to ask you and 143 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 2: since you know, you seem to know all the answers, 144 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: I haven't answer to this one. What is a simple 145 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 2: pleasure that you'd be discovered in twenty twenty five? Can 146 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 2: I tell you what mine is? Because you're gonna laugh. 147 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: Yes. 148 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: So, my son in law, Johnny, loves to play cards. 149 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: I love to play cards. My husband hated games, hated 150 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 2: to play cards. I love them. My poor seven year 151 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 2: old granddaughter, I'm teaching her to play. Every last night, 152 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 2: I taught her how to play checkers. I swear that 153 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 2: the child is one hundred and two fever and I'm saying, Okay, Linley, 154 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 2: we're gonna learn how to play checkers. She looked at me, like, 155 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: you know, and she learns. She's good. But I the 156 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 2: simple pleasures of spending family time. I know it sounds so, 157 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 2: you know, people say all the time spending. You know, 158 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 2: I'm so grateful for my family. But we went to 159 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 2: the beach, you remember, I took my kids down to 160 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 2: the beach and we played card games and board games 161 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 2: at night. And that is like a lost art. I 162 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: lost family time. And for me, that that playing cards, 163 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 2: spending time with our kids around the table, you know, 164 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 2: cheating at cards and not getting caught. It was so 165 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 2: much fun. What about games I. 166 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: Do and the simple pleasure of playing golf that I 167 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: got to rediscover this year. 168 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, simple, you said simple. 169 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: It's a simple pleasure only because I'm out all day 170 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,959 Speaker 1: and I don't receive phone calls because I turn it off. 171 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: That just concentrate on the game. 172 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 2: If you think golf is simple. 173 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: It's got to be. I suck at it, but who cares. 174 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 1: I enjoyed doing it. 175 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: Last week I went to our like final golf. I 176 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 2: think I've played twice this year. But I went for 177 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 2: the Christmas party and they do this like round robin gifts, 178 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 2: and I always give a nice gift because I don't 179 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: want somebody's thrown away gift from last year, right, so 180 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 2: I like this year. I gave a lovely box of 181 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 2: scented soaps and a beautiful hand painted dish towel, like 182 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 2: things I wanted, so I bought it for somebody else. 183 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 2: This year, I lucked out. I got that wasn't a dozen, 184 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 2: but I got two sleeves of golf balls. 185 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: Oh nice new new not even you very nice. 186 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 2: I was good. 187 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 1: I went out and got my gift last night and 188 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: I'm I got your peanuts and fifty dollars worth of 189 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: lottery tickets. 190 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 2: Wait, that's not a wide elephant. 191 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 1: Why it has to be for him or her? 192 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 2: No? No, I'm stuck on the fifty dollars that was 193 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: our limit. Oh hell yeah, I want to call this 194 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 2: particular one. I'm involved in a few of them. Listen, 195 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 2: if you win, if the person wins, you got, I'm 196 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 2: gonna have to share, that's right. Disclaimer goes if you 197 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 2: win anything more than one thousand dollars, I get half. Okay, 198 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 2: what let me ask you? What did Because we talk 199 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 2: about communication so much and what it means to communicate effectively, 200 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 2: what did twenty twenty five teach you about communication? So? 201 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: For me, I always know that how important communication, that's 202 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: what we stand for. But what it did teach me 203 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,439 Speaker 1: the lack of communication could be detrimental. 204 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 2: Ooh, that sounds very heavy. 205 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 1: It is, okay, Well, I one says that they're communicators 206 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: and they're not, And how do you make them realize 207 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: that they're not? This is not communication? You need to talk, 208 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 1: you know. Well? 209 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 2: I think I was just gonna say some people communicate differently, 210 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: and that's if twenty twenty five taught me anything. As 211 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 2: everyone knows or about to find out, I'm an I'm 212 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 2: an interrupter. It's one of my resolutions that I never 213 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,839 Speaker 2: make that I'm making that I will interrupt less than 214 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 2: twenty twenty five, sorry, twenty twenty six, which means I've 215 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 2: got a few hours here to keep it drinking. But 216 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 2: I think that you know, for me, listening more is 217 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: is important a part of communication as speaking your mind. 218 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 2: But to your point, if you're listening more, the other 219 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 2: person has to be able to speak his or her 220 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 2: mind in a way that you under you know that 221 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: we understand. And I think that that is something that 222 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 2: I mean it. I just wish every year we got older, 223 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 2: communication got easier. But it doesn't seem to. 224 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: It doesn't, it doesn't. I don't know what's one way 225 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 1: you became a better partner or friend this year. 226 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 2: Well, you're going to take issue with this. I was 227 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 2: hoping you wouldn't ask me this question. Well, because you're 228 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 2: not gonna lie. 229 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: Because you're trying not to interrupt. You're trying not to 230 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 1: tell me how to run my life. 231 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 2: That's what I wrote. That was exactly what I wrote 232 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 2: that I'm trying to listen more and give less advice 233 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 2: and less someone's paying me for it, which you're not. 234 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 2: But we could we could change that rule tuesdays. And 235 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 2: I am because I think sometimes, you know, I read 236 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:21,439 Speaker 2: some really good stuff on the internet. You know, some 237 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 2: some some of these people that have made careers out 238 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 2: of writing books and writing spiritual and you know, self 239 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 2: help stuff on the internet. Mel Robbins comes to mind. 240 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 2: I mean, she's amazing. But one of the things that 241 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: I am learning is that sometimes people just want you 242 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 2: to listen. They don't want your your advice, they don't 243 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 2: want your advice, they want nothing. They just want to say. 244 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 2: And I'm a fixer, as we all know. That's why 245 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 2: I left Paradise so much. You know, when when Bailey 246 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 2: came to me and said, you know, such and such happened, 247 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 2: I was like, sweetie, here this is you know, here's 248 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 2: thank you, Kathy. I mean it was so easy, she 249 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 2: asked me. I told him it was great. But a 250 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 2: lot of times, especially as people get older, they just 251 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 2: want to vent. So that how did you become? 252 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: How's you the one that says when did you feel 253 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: most like yourself this year? I answer that every day, 254 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: every day every day I feel like myself. 255 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: Well, I'm pretty much. I mean, I wrote my answer 256 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 2: would be paradise because I just felt like that was 257 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 2: a month of Kathy being herself on steroids. But but 258 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: I do you and I are very similar that way. 259 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: We are pretty much ourselves. I think. Do you think 260 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 2: most people reflect on I mean, besides most people getting 261 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 2: hammered on yours, Eve, do you think people reflect a 262 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 2: lot on all year long? 263 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 1: On a year now, like the Christmas season the last 264 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: two weeks, that's what. 265 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 2: While you're baking, while you're eating up the rest of 266 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 2: your Christmas cookies. 267 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: No, I got to start baking, God tomorrow, I'm late. 268 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: I was away a lot this month, so yeah, take 269 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 1: that back. Sorry, Yes, it's trying not to eat all 270 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: the cookies that I baked. 271 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 2: You know what, give them away, Susan. It's the end 272 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:07,719 Speaker 2: of the year, given me. 273 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: I mean, it's the last day, Kathy. 274 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 2: You know what, I cannot believe it's twenty twenty six 275 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 2: about to be. That means, got to stop interrupting. So wait, 276 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 2: you're not making a resolution then, right. 277 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: Well, I don't really make resolutions, but I have things 278 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: in my mind that I want to try to do better. 279 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, if you will, we all do. That's good. 280 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 2: We're still trying to be better. All right. Well, let's 281 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 2: ask about our podcast, because you know we're coming up 282 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 2: on can you Believe? Two years in Holma? It's insane. 283 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 2: I love how I love it too. How would you 284 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 2: describe this podcast in one word? 285 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: Fulfilling? I have the same word as you. 286 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 2: I cannot. Okay, that's creepy. Uh, that's really I mean. 287 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 2: Now my hair's getting as dark as you're. Now. We're 288 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 2: thinking in the same I did because I love doing it. 289 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 2: We talked about this. We love it hearing the people's 290 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 2: our listeners questions are their advice? Do you have a 291 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 2: favorite episode? 292 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: You know what? I tried to think about that. There's 293 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: so many different ones, some that were so fun. But 294 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: the ones that really connect with me is when we 295 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 1: read those questions and I feel for these people making 296 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: their choices of whatever it was. It Some of them 297 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: are really emotional and it stays with me. You know, 298 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: I don't know that I actually have a favorite. 299 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of feel the same way we do 300 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 2: a lot of them. Yeah, I know. I love it 301 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 2: when you and I just jaw with each other. I 302 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 2: love it when we have guests because I love that 303 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 2: we get to know more about them, they get to 304 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 2: know more about us. But I think the most surprising 305 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 2: thing to me in general about this podcast because really, 306 00:15:57,480 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 2: this is just you and I. I mean, it feels 307 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 2: it's just you and I have any conversation, right. But 308 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: obviously the hope is millions of people are downloading and 309 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 2: listening to it. But what I've realized is it's another cliche. 310 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 2: Words matter, Our words matter. People are genuinely asking, and 311 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 2: that's that is shocking on the one hand, but also 312 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 2: there's a lot of responsibility that goes along with that, 313 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 2: to the extent that people are really asking our opinion. 314 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 2: Who are really hurting? You know, how can I make 315 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 2: my life better? You two seem to have such a 316 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 2: good friendship. I'm so lonely. How do There's a lot 317 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 2: of responsibility that goes in to trying to answer with 318 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 2: knowing that we're not therapists and we're not doctors, and 319 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:45,119 Speaker 2: we you know, we're not like just anything, life experience, 320 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 2: life experience, and so I feel a responsibility to really 321 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 2: try to help people. And you and I have talked 322 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 2: about this when we're not together. How many especially. It 323 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 2: always happens in airports when we're together. People come up 324 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 2: and they say we've changed their lives, and that is 325 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 2: the most fulfilling. That's why I wrote fulfilling. 326 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: Remember the one time cried? Yeah, shared about it. 327 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 2: I've been saying how their lives are better. They've gotten 328 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 2: up off the sofa, you know. I just I love that. 329 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 1: So, Okay, what did you learn about yourself as a 330 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:20,120 Speaker 1: host this year? 331 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 2: Well? I think that's for me, is what I just answered, 332 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 2: that my words matter, that it's not just up here 333 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 2: John saying the first thing that comes to my mind, 334 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 2: but trying to be really thoughtful about how I answer 335 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 2: what about you? 336 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: For me? I really do have patience. I didn't think 337 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 1: I had any. 338 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 2: I think I have patience with with what people with 339 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 2: patients of it with our podcast. Oh interesting, Okay, that's interesting. 340 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:58,239 Speaker 1: So was there a conversation we had that's stuck with 341 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 1: you longer than you expect it? I think that one 342 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: goes back to yes, when we read things that are 343 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 1: sad or we feel the heartfelt, you. 344 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 2: Know, can I tell you the one? I'm throwing another 345 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 2: question here, What is the biggest what is the most 346 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 2: disappointing conversation or call in or letter we've had. I 347 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 2: got that answer the guy from wherever he was whatever 348 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 2: state who said he really wanted to meet me, and 349 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 2: I said, we never called and he never called. So 350 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 2: thanks a lot, But glad we're wriping that one out 351 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 2: of twenty twenty five. 352 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:38,880 Speaker 1: Something that our listeners might not realize that goes into 353 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 1: making this show. What do you think, I say, Hell, 354 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: it affects us for one, listening to people. How we 355 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: affect others giving our advice. Yeah, Well, our research and 356 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: what we would do to prepare for the show. 357 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think a lot of people think we just 358 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 2: show up and start talking, and that's the goal obviously, 359 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: to make it look like it's just an easy conversation. 360 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 2: But you know, we try to research and know what 361 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 2: we're talking about before we get on there. 362 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,199 Speaker 1: And you know what else, Kathy, like we say all 363 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,400 Speaker 1: the time, keep your questions coming. If there's something that 364 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: our listeners want to know about or want to hear 365 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: about it, let us know what that topic is and 366 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 1: we will be on it. That's what we're here for. 367 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. And one thing I want to say, which you 368 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 2: know this is, Uh, these are recorded, sometimes the record 369 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 2: of the day that you listen to them. Sometimes they're 370 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 2: recorded and we get it just depends on our schedule. 371 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 2: But we have producers, We have people who help make 372 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 2: us look good. They help us with topics and guests. 373 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 2: So you know, if you think this is the Kaptain Show, 374 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 2: yes it's not. We have a lot of people in 375 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:52,719 Speaker 2: the background helping us. So always, you know, hats off 376 00:19:52,760 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 2: to them, all right, Susan, Yes, we have to addict 377 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: what's going to happen in twenty six I mean, I 378 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 2: want to talk about I don't know if we can 379 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 2: the cruise Bachelor Nation vacation. We're definitely doing that in November. 380 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 2: I can't believe, you know, I used to think that 381 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 2: was so far away. It's not really that far away. 382 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 2: But I wonder if we can talk because, uh, Taylor's 383 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 2: is the is the new Bachelorette and she so do 384 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 2: you predict she gets engaged? 385 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: I would think so. 386 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: I think she will. Yeah, I think so, I think 387 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: she will. And I'm so envious that she got to 388 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 2: do that. But I bet you know she's She's had 389 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:43,920 Speaker 2: a colorful life. 390 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,160 Speaker 1: But I'm excited. 391 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 2: I cannot wait to watch her show. I think it's 392 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 2: going to be one of the best Bachelor shows. But 393 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 2: all right, so, but we don't know that much about 394 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 2: you because it's not on yet. But here's some other 395 00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 2: predictions I have. I think Kelsey, didn't they say they 396 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:06,199 Speaker 2: were getting married in twenty twenty six, No, I think so. No, 397 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 2: twenty twenty seven. 398 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: I remember them saying a date. I remember, not a. 399 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 2: Date I think they said. Anyway, I'm predicting Kelsey and 400 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 2: Joey will either get married in twenty twenty six or 401 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 2: they will announce a date. I think Charity and Dowton 402 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 2: same thing. They're either gonna. 403 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: Get they get married in twenty six. I don't know 404 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 1: the ones that shared I believe. 405 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 2: I'm just saying. I think we're gonna have some great 406 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,880 Speaker 2: Bachelor weddings. I think we're gonna have some Bachelor babies 407 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 2: being born, not by you and me, but I think 408 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 2: some of those are coming. I don't know. 409 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 1: I think, uh, and some couples getting together from Bachelor 410 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: that weren't the lead or the chosen one, you know, others. 411 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, we got a few of those coming to I think, yeah, 412 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 2: we're better have to get some of those on our show, 413 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 2: all right, what do you what do you want to 414 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 2: bring more of into this show next year? Our show. 415 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: More of more of exciting things, something Jesus. 416 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 2: And we're not talking about sex toys. 417 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 1: We're not, oh God, sex toys. 418 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:16,640 Speaker 2: No fashion. 419 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 1: I don't know for anything. Yeah, I don't know what 420 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 1: our fans want, and if they give me a thing, 421 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,120 Speaker 1: we're going to run with it. 422 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 2: Yeah. I would like to know. Again, I think people 423 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 2: who are golden there's only so many topics in the world. 424 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 2: But I think I would like to have as many 425 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 2: guests as we've had. I'd like to I would like 426 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 2: to know how they're doing. I would like to know 427 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 2: how some of the people from Bachelor Nation that have 428 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,199 Speaker 2: sort of disappeared, they've gone on with their lives. I 429 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 2: want to know what they're doing. 430 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:55,399 Speaker 1: What they're doing now. 431 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 432 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 1: I mean sometimes people that have been on the shows, 433 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 1: as you know, Kat, that's what they did. They were 434 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: on the show and that was it. Other people have 435 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 1: gone on many and like us, we're still in their face. 436 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 1: People complain about it sometimes, like why are you back? 437 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: Because people enjoy this smile Okay, they enjoy our banter, 438 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: they enjoy hearing what we have to say. 439 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 2: But I agree, but I also think I think some 440 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:27,879 Speaker 2: people would be really interested. And I'm struggling to come 441 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 2: up with names right now because I didn't plan for that. 442 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 2: But like some of the people that were on the show, 443 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 2: most people, let me back up, most people who come 444 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:43,160 Speaker 2: on The Bachelor or the Bachelorette, they're on TV. They 445 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,400 Speaker 2: do this dating thing, they put their lives out there, 446 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 2: and then most everybody goes back to their life. They 447 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 2: might change the career. I think more and more you're 448 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,439 Speaker 2: seeing a lot more influencers coming out of this, because 449 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 2: that's the way of the world, that's what's happening with 450 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 2: social media, et cetera. But I gotta be honest, I 451 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 2: can't even give a name. Really, I'm interested in any 452 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:11,159 Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation person who I spent the time watching their seasons. 453 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 2: I was, you know, I wanted to know what they 454 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 2: were doing. I was so wrapped up in their life 455 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 2: on the show, and now where are they what are 456 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 2: they doing? Did they get married, did they have kids? 457 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 2: What job did they do? It's like I'm a lawyer. 458 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 2: I just want to know what goes on in these 459 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 2: people's lives. 460 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 1: Kathy, aren't we excited and we're hopeful that maybe they 461 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:40,640 Speaker 1: come up with a new series with you and I's fans. 462 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 2: Relentless. Okay, so we got We've got about two minutes here, Susan, 463 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 2: give me your pilot. What's the pilot look like for 464 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 2: this show? Tell me you're. 465 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:53,959 Speaker 1: Golden Girls out and wild, no, just living life like 466 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 1: what it's like. You remember the old show The Golden Girls. 467 00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: I still watch it on reruns in the middle of right, 468 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 2: I can't slap. 469 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: Every I think we would be perfect for. 470 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 2: That, you know, I think people would be one of 471 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 2: the things I think our audience would like to know. 472 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,919 Speaker 2: When you and I are out together, people come up 473 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 2: and they're always so surprised that we're together, like, oh, 474 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 2: you two really are friends? I said, yeah, I hate 475 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 2: her sometimes I want to kill her worse like sisters. 476 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 2: But yes we are. And people are shocked that you 477 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 2: and I travel, that we see each other, that we're 478 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 2: friends absolutely well. And then the other question I always 479 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 2: asked us is did you how many takes did you 480 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 2: you know, to do those videos like we do our 481 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 2: coffee talks and stuff. I love our coffee talks. 482 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 1: Go please it's us rolls. 483 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,239 Speaker 2: I think we should do coffee talks here. Could be 484 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,640 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty six and just see what I mean, 485 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:48,680 Speaker 2: just see. 486 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 1: It in my room, and we really will have coffee 487 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 1: some of our coffee talks, as they noticed there was 488 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 1: no coffee. 489 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, if we do coffee talks in the afternoon, 490 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 2: can it be wine talk? Kathy? W H Kathy w 491 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 2: H I n E? Drinking w I n E. 492 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:19,400 Speaker 1: Can you recall a favorite episode that we recorded this year? 493 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:24,360 Speaker 1: I have one, I have two. One of my favorites. 494 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: Who was it that came on Kathy and we did 495 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:34,880 Speaker 1: nothing but laugh? Hakeem well always honkey. Yes, some were 496 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: too serious, some were fun. We had a couple on. 497 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 2: Oh see, you are better than I. Because in the moment, 498 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 2: I will tell you in the moment, that's why I 499 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,160 Speaker 2: feel so fulfilled doing this. In the moment, I am loving. 500 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter who I'm interviewing. I love interviewing that person. 501 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:59,360 Speaker 2: To me, it's like a puzzle. I like seeing it's 502 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 2: not the air their dirty laundry. I just like, wait, 503 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 2: am I going to get a little tidbit here that 504 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 2: you know they haven't admitted up till now? Like I 505 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 2: like the I like the challenge of doing that. But 506 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't have a favorite. I had 507 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:17,880 Speaker 2: gone way back, like when Jordan and Keith, remember we 508 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 2: did those Charles l Yeah, I mean it was fun 509 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 2: getting their takes on on Alie Joe. Oh, Alie Joe. 510 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 2: I love her too. I don't know, I don't have 511 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 2: a favorite. By the way, speaking of Ali Joe in predictions, Yeah, 512 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 2: Ali Joe is dating Sick. I don't know if you 513 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,879 Speaker 2: know the story, but they were supposed to be on 514 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 2: Paradise together and they weren't. YadA. Yeah, they left within 515 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 2: twenty four hours of each other, but they were coming 516 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 2: to meet each other. Well, they're now dating, seriously dating, 517 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 2: and we talk, we text all the time. I believe 518 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 2: that someone's going to get a ring on her hand 519 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:52,360 Speaker 2: this year. 520 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,360 Speaker 1: Nice, I did. I think a lot that came out 521 00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: from Paradise. A lot of relationships. 522 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,719 Speaker 2: Rub it in, Susan put rub it in, Kathy. 523 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 1: It wasn't for Golden you know, you're just mommy there. 524 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 1: It was good you were there. 525 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 2: I was a good mommy. Yeah, but no, there were 526 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 2: a lot of relationships. And I just I mean, and 527 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 2: you and I've talked about this. Batchelor is a great story. 528 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 2: It's a great. It is the structure, but it does work. 529 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I so my I hope for twenty twenty six, 530 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 2: starting with Frankie Taylor, Frankie Paul, she's starting with artists. 531 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 2: I hope that she finds the love of her life. 532 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I sit there so envious. I so 533 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 2: wish it were me. I so wish that that we 534 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,240 Speaker 2: were forty years younger and just no, no, no, no, 535 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 2: I don't want to be I love the age. I 536 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 2: just wish that I had a guy that loved me 537 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 2: and was going to put a ring on my end. 538 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 2: In twenty twenty six, yeah, right, do you have? 539 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 1: How do you hope listeners feel when they tune in 540 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: next year? What do you think? How would you get them? 541 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 2: That's so easy for me. 542 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 1: I come to my laugh. 543 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 2: I wanted to laugh. I want them to feel like 544 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 2: it was time well spent, whether they're driving in the car, 545 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 2: out walking or sitting knitting or baking cakes, you know, 546 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 2: whatever this week that week bring. Because you know, there's 547 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 2: a lot of sadness in the world, there's a lot 548 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 2: of troubles in the world. If we could just make 549 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 2: someone laugh and enjoy the day a little bit. Wait, 550 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 2: I have to say one other guy, one other episode. 551 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:27,239 Speaker 2: I loved it just came to me. Jared Freed now 552 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 2: speaking about I would be a cougar for him. I 553 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 2: think you guys would be great together to bend God. 554 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 2: I love him. I don't think he's ever going to 555 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 2: settle down, he says he is. I said when when 556 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 2: you're in a wheelchair. 557 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 1: I know he keeps saying the once. How about remember 558 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: Mark Anderson? 559 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,440 Speaker 2: We thought he was going to be the next that's 560 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,719 Speaker 2: another prediction. You think. I bet he gets engaged yes year. 561 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I totally think that. 562 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 2: Oh, now that would be interesting if he gets engaged 563 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 2: to Barbara. What about Joey and Kelty they have a 564 00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 2: double wedding. Oh that we've had Leslie or Little Leslie, 565 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 2: little sweet Lesson, Yes, who I adore? I don't know, 566 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 2: I just all of them. I liked it when we 567 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 2: had Jill on because you know she's from Jill is funny. 568 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 2: I had fun with her. Yeah, she's cool, but she's 569 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 2: she's one of these people you don't know what box 570 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 2: you're gonna get when you open it up with Jill, 571 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,800 Speaker 2: like she'll never know. Yeah, she can be very funny. 572 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 2: She can be she's an interesting person. 573 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 1: And I know and Sam I had such a crush. 574 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 2: No, no, I just told you that's going to be 575 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 2: a ring. That's you can't have a crush on somebo 576 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 2: whose drinking games. 577 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 1: Susan, she's so cute. They're both so cute in my 578 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: Hakeem always. 579 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,640 Speaker 2: You know what, can I tell you the worst podcast 580 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 2: we had in twenty twenty five? I think it was 581 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 2: Hakeem for me. I could have been I could have 582 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 2: been out picking daisies on the side of the highway. 583 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 2: I mean, you two were carrying on like there was 584 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 2: no tomorrow. I was like, seriously, do I even need 585 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 2: to be here? 586 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 1: It happens with us. I don't know why. 587 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 2: It's just she is fun, fun, and we did Gary 588 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 2: and his new significant other. Can you say her name? 589 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 2: Can you say her name? 590 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: Say your way? I say it? Mind Lana? 591 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna start calling you then Lana. It's Landa, 592 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 2: It's land land Pana. 593 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 1: She's adorable, though, I can't wait to see what happens. 594 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 2: She's too young though she's not. Yeah, she's not. 595 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: Age is the number all my listeners is age? Just 596 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 1: the number? 597 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 2: Or we're going to do a podcast? On that because 598 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 2: I've given that a lot of thoughts. Is in twenty 599 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 2: twenty six, speaking of it just being a number, we 600 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 2: are going to do Thomas. 601 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 1: Sixty nine in twenty twenty six. 602 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess what's after sixty nine. 603 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:48,479 Speaker 1: I don't want to know. 604 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 2: Then you're gonna be the same, you know what. I 605 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 2: gotta be honest with you, just like I have to 606 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 2: before we wrap up here, just like twenty you know, 607 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 2: the change of the year to never matters like it's 608 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 2: another year. Time is just and time is a number, 609 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 2: age is a number, all those things. That's why I 610 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 2: never make resolutions, because you know, it's like working out. 611 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 2: How many people say I'm going to wait, I'm gonna 612 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 2: start exercising, I'm going to get to gym in January. 613 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 2: And you know what, speaking of I go to the gym, 614 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,239 Speaker 2: as you know, two or three times a week. I 615 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 2: hate the gym in January because all these people in 616 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,239 Speaker 2: comes and they all fall off by February places back 617 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 2: to normal again. Thank God. Anyway, that's my PSA. Get 618 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 2: to the gym now, don't wait till January. 619 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 1: To the gym. I'm always the girl that give something 620 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 1: up for not new Year's resolution. 621 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 2: Well, listen, it is New Year's it is we're about 622 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 2: to be there. I want to wish everyone happy new 623 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 2: To you, Susan, I wish you a year of happiness, love, 624 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 2: prosperity and good health, and the same to all of 625 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 2: our listeners, every. 626 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: One of you. Happy New Year, healthy new year, and. 627 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 2: We're going to be here for you and we will 628 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 2: see you. See as I love to say to people 629 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,280 Speaker 2: on the last day of twenty twenty five, see you next. 630 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: Year, next year. 631 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 2: All right, well, thanks so much for listening today. Be 632 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 2: sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour because we have new 633 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 2: episodes coming out every week and you don't want to 634 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 2: miss one. That should be your New Year's resolution. In 635 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 2: twenty twenty six, listeners, do not miss one of Kathy 636 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 2: and Susan's pod. 637 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: Thanks, and give us your thoughts on what you want 638 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: to talk about, because we're here for it. Listen to 639 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or 640 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 1: where ever you listen to your podcast. We'll see you 641 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 1: next year.