WEBVTT - “I AM KIND OF BEING STALKED” 0:00:01.120 --> 0:00:03.040 Hello, Hey, what's up? 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:03.760 Is this Aiden? 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:08.000 This is Aid? Is this Lyle going on? 0:00:08.160 --> 0:00:10.560 Yeah? Man, this is this is Lyle. How's it going dude? 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:12.080 Oh? 0:00:12.160 --> 0:00:15.800 You know, well not too bad. I actually, uh, I've 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:19.920 met you twice in uh uh Saint Louis at your 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:20.480 live show. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:23.520 Oh fucking cool? Fuck yeah fuck yeah, dude, Saint Louis 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:24.400 is always a great time. 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:26.880 Yeah, I know it was a good time. 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:27.560 I was. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:31.280 You might remember me. I was, uh, the bald dude 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:32.879 with the big red beard. 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:36.040 I really, do you know what? Here's the thing, here's 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:37.239 the thing. I here's the thing. 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:39.839 I'm gonna say this. I don't remember anybody's. 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:44.000 Name, and uh I I but like, if you, if 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:47.000 you tell me something, if like we talked about something, 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:49.440 I'll remember that. Do you remember what we taught what 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:50.200 we talked about? 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:50.480 Okay? 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:55.880 Well, the first time I made a joke about how 0:00:56.920 --> 0:01:01.240 you're taller in person, okay, because I thought you were 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:04.720 a little shorter in person, to be honest, it didn't 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:07.520 really land. So then the second time I came back 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:10.479 and I was like, hey, remember that joke. I told 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:11.559 you it wasn't really that funny. 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.560 Well, Aiden, I'm gonna go ahead and I'm gonna I'm 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:18.319 gonna go ahead and wipe those other two times from 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:21.000 from uh from my memory, although I guess I didn't 0:01:21.040 --> 0:01:22.200 remember them in the first place. 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:23.480 But it doesn't matter. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:24.680 Here. 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:29.760 We are on the phone together right now. What's up, man? 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:31.800 How you doing? How's life? 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:35.360 We're on the phone, We're chatting, We're chatting. What'd you 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:36.080 want to talk about? 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:37.600 Well? 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:44.199 Uh, you know I texted in these pasts like forty 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:47.039 eight out. Well, I guess since like Thursday has been 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:54.480 pretty pretty strange, I kind of got like a stalker. 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:57.440 Have you Have you watched Baby Reindeer on Netflix? 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:00.400 I have not, but I've heard about it. 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:02.880 It's I'm like kind of getting Baby reindeered right now. 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:06.400 It's sort of chilled out over the past twenty four hours. 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:13.240 But like it was, it was weird. So so what. 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:15.560 Happened was this? 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:20.519 Uh So, let me give you a little backstory. There 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:23.640 was this girl that I knew in I knew her 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:27.400 since like high school and I'm twenty four now, but 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:29.960 I knew her in like high school. She was a 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:33.480 great above me and we were kind of friends, you know, 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:36.200 sort of you know gen'erally, I know, he told her 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:39.600 that well, but you know, we would talk every once 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:44.799 in a while, and then after high school we sort 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:47.880 of stopped talking. And then she hits me up on 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:53.120 like Snapchat, and this is a you know, like twenty 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:56.240 twenty one at this point. I graduated twenty eighteen, so 0:02:56.240 --> 0:03:00.640 this is twenty twenty one, a few years later. And 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:04.000 we talked a little periodically between you know, high school 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:11.200 and then uh, and you know, she invites me out 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:12.560 to this bar and I'm like, you know, you know, 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:14.079 chery I'll go out you know with her and like 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:17.280 her roommates and stuff, and then you know, one thing 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:20.120 said actually end up hooking up. We were sort of 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:26.120 like friends with benefits for a couple of weeks. Then 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:27.640 it ended pretty mutually. 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:27.880 You know. 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.519 She was like, hey, I'm kind of catching feelings. We 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:34.160 should probably stop sleeping together. And I was like, okay, 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:37.480 you know that's cool, being totally respectful of that and 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:42.360 all that. And then she gets with this other guy 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:47.080 and she blocks me on everything, which is I figured 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:49.360 it was whatever, you know, this she's she's making a 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:52.800 statement here, She's making like a commitment to this guy. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:57.000 She's like cutting off all her other past situationships or whatever. 0:03:57.920 --> 0:03:58.760 Does that make sense. 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.320 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:05.440 So so I you know, I don't hear for her 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:10.320 from her for like three years. Like I said, this 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:14.840 was twenty twenty one, and then this past Thursday. This 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:19.600 is where it gets weird. So so let me give 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:22.760 you another old piece of backstory. So I was in 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:28.280 this band. We were moderately popular. I won't say any 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:31.520 specific names because I don't want people looking in any 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:34.960 of this, but you know, we were moderately popular. Uh, 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:39.640 and she was a big fan of it. But anyways, 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:44.520 this past Thursday, my old bassist from that band, that 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:48.000 band recently broke up, but my bassist, you know, he's 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:51.479 he texted me. He's like, hey, you know, what's what's 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:55.880 going on with this poem and everything. I'm like, oh, 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:59.120 I don't know what you're talking about. And then he 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:01.880 says her name, you know, her poem, and I'm like, 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:03.960 I'm figure. I'm like, yeah, I have no idea what 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:09.120 you're talking about. And then he sends me to this 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:17.039 reddit thread was a Reddit account, and it's just like 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.560 hundreds well there's like this poem and then like hundreds 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:25.960 of other posts by this person, the girl that i'd 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:31.839 you know, not spoken to in three years, and it's like, 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:36.400 you know, a bunch of poems about like it starts 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:40.000 out it references the band breaking up, because, like I said, 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:42.800 she was a big fan of the band, and she 0:05:43.120 --> 0:05:45.479 talks about how she's how all the songs are about her, 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:52.360 and how like she's she said a lot of things 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:55.359 about like that are kind of obsessive about me in it. 0:05:56.800 --> 0:06:00.000 And it starts out like that, and it doesn't start 0:05:59.880 --> 0:06:02.359 out like super negative. At first. It's a little weird, 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:06.120 but it's not like quite negative. And then it escalates, 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:08.599 like you can see, like there's tons of posts. So 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:11.520 she started posting like a week ago, but I didn't 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:14.280 find out about it till Thursday. So I'm seeing all 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:16.840 of these posts after like a week of just these 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:21.000 like rapid fire obsessing like posting and everything, and she's 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:24.080 saying that, you know, like I said, it starts out 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:29.000 with her like being super like obsessive, but then it 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:35.000 goes into like, you know, saying that I've been like 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:37.160 making a bunch of fake accounts to try to like 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:43.000 hunt her down. She has a really explicit like story 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:46.839 about how I like physically like lured her out and 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:51.480 tried to kill her, and again I haven't spoken to 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:57.400 this woman in three years, and it's just a lot 0:06:57.440 --> 0:07:00.120 of weird stuff. Sorry, I'm kind of rambling right. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:04.320 Now, but no, no, no, no, no, no, uh, I can't 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:04.760 keep going. 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.400 Yeah, so she says, she says that, you know, I 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:14.080 have tried to kill her like others she's posting. Everything 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:18.240 she's posting is like it's like all poems, right, Like 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:20.280 there's there's some things here and there that are like 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:25.920 prose I think is the word for not poetry. I 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:29.640 don't know, but she there's some stuff that she's supposed to, 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:32.440 you know, not poetry, just regular like talking, but a 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:35.640 majority of them are like poems and they're kind of 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:39.920 about me, but they're kind of just rambling. And you know, 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:41.960 I'm like, I find out it all on this Thursday, 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:43.920 and I like leave works on them. I don't know, 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:45.760 you know, I had to get home and kind of 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:50.840 analyze the situation. But as I'm going through it, I'm 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:53.680 seeing she's saying that, you know, I'm trying to hunt 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:58.640 her down, and she's like I'm getting different people calling 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:00.440 a text to me being like, yo, what's along with this? 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:03.960 Because she's like reaching out to everybody I know and 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:07.760 like she didn't. Well, she did message me directly, but 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:10.880 I had like deleted Instagram from my phone for a 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:15.640 little while ago, so I didn't see it. But she's like, 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:19.360 you know, texting and messaging all these people saying that 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:24.080 you know, I've been killing people and that I I mean, 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.280 it's just been like get ramping up and up, and 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:28.360 you know, at this point, I'm like, Okay, she's having 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:31.920 some sort of episode, right, you know, some sort of 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:36.240 like I don't know, some mental illness. I don't know. 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:38.080 I didn't know what she had. I still don't know 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:43.280 what she has. So you know, I'm not like necessarily 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:46.240 like angry at her or anything, because I know she's 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:49.520 like sick in the head. But it was it's been 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:52.920 a very weird past twenty four hours or past like 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:58.640 forty eight hours for me, as you might suspect, because 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:01.120 like I said, there's tons of people are calling and 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:04.720 texting me be like yo, uh, this person saying that 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.440 you're killing people. Obviously don't none of them believe it, 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:10.640 But yeah, it's been weird. 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:13.679 You ever wanted you ever want you ever wanted to 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:14.360 kill anyone? 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:16.280 Uh? 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:24.640 Not too much. I mean, you know, she she has 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.960 been you know, saying that, uh, I'm like a serial killer. 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:30.400 It's also funny too. She she kind of said that 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:36.960 my that that I've been holding my brother hostage, and uh, 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:39.640 you know, it all kind of was going back to 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:43.080 the I think the fact that the band vocal was 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:47.320 kind of like a catalyst for it, because like, like 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:47.839 you like. 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:51.440 You think that the band breaking up sent her into 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:53.199 a spiral or something like that. 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:53.839 Yeah. 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.440 Yeah, because we made the post. We made like a 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:57.240 post being like. 0:09:57.200 --> 0:09:59.800 Hey, the band is Let me ask me, I'm curious, 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:01.120 do you do you think do you think that she 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:03.240 is having an episode or like is she like fucking 0:10:03.280 --> 0:10:05.320 with you? 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:09.240 No, No, She's definitely having like some sort of episode. 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:12.560 Like at first I didn't know like if that was 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:14.800 the case, but at this point, I'm pretty certain that's 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:15.439 what's happening. 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:21.240 Okay, and when's the last Like, well, I get I 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:23.400 want you know, at the beginning of this, you said 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:25.480 to me, you were like, well, I was kind of 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:27.439 dealing with this or actually, I'll say I'll say what 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:30.400 you read in the text. You said, I am kind 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:35.120 of being stalked, but it's chill. Tell me tell me 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:38.800 about uh how it has gotten chill. Are you just 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:42.600 kind of like you're not? I assume you're, yeah, Like 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:46.560 what's what's how have you been been able to be chill? Well? 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:51.640 I don't think that she's I mean, she has made 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:56.400 definitely some remarks about like, you know, he should be 0:10:56.440 --> 0:10:59.480 in the ground and you know, I don't care if 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:02.560 he's dead and all that kind of stuff. Not quite 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:07.520 death threats, but teetering on the edge there and stuff 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:11.400 like that. But ultimately I don't think that she's like 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:16.400 actually like, you know, like gonna come after me physically. 0:11:18.480 --> 0:11:20.400 I did go to the cops at one point after 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:26.000 she said that I had my brother held hostage, just 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:30.640 because she said that she was going to the cops, which, 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:33.480 you know, whatever, but I just didn't want to get swatted. 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:35.160 I don't want them to think about as hostage here. 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:36.199 Yeah. 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:39.400 The cops, I mean they were they were fuck all help, 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:41.960 you know. They were like, oh, did you know that 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:43.360 she is her First Amendment right? 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:45.960 I'm like, all right, whatever, Oh yeah, did they really 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:47.439 say that, dude? 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:50.240 They were like they were like, well, technically that's all 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.640 the First Amendment right to free speech, and I'm like, 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:55.920 in the ground and. 0:11:57.760 --> 0:11:59.679 That's super that's by the way, that's I mean, I 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:02.120 don't know, I'm not a fucking lawyer, but like, I'm 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:04.120 pretty sure that the I'm pretty sure that the First 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:08.400 Amendment ends at death threats. I think that's that's like 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:09.920 inciting violence. 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:12.600 Right, Yeah, that's that's kind of what I was thinking too. 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:18.920 But you know, I won't get all political. But yeah, 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:22.800 that I wasn't. I wasn't too surprised by that response. 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:28.320 But the past, like I said, started Thursdays when I 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:31.000 felt well, I found out about Thursday, like the week, 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:36.559 but like the past like twenty four hours. She hasn't 0:12:36.600 --> 0:12:39.600 posted her anything. She doesn't post her anything, which was, 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:42.600 you know, kind of odd because she had been posting 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:47.840 like every hour on the hour for like a week 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:52.400 before that. So I'm not really sure what's going on. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:56.160 I'm hoping that she got help, you know, because like 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:57.960 I said, I'm not like upset with her or anything. 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:03.120 You know, she's she's having some sort of episode. She's 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:09.280 she's she's sick, you know, so I hope she gets help. 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:14.480 That's what all I wrote one from it. But it's 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.800 a little, uh, it's it's been stressful, you know, especially 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:22.240 because you know, not to be too dark. But like 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:25.679 if she's not post if she suddenly stops posting, that 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:29.400 can either mean she got help or something pretty bad, 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:35.120 you know, And I'm trying to avoid thinking about that. 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:40.400 But you know how I did good? 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:43.280 God, No, I was just I was just gonna said, 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:45.679 I did you know, before going to the cops, I 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:52.439 did call like a crisis hotline explain the situation of them, 0:13:52.480 --> 0:13:57.080 and they were like, uh uh, they were gonna They said, 0:13:57.080 --> 0:14:00.120 they told me they'd try to call her, but they 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.200 couldn't tell me whether or not they did speak to 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:05.280 her because that's all like confidential information. 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:11.880 So yeah, of course, what have you been doing since 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:12.800 the band broke up? 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:15.680 You know? 0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:18.760 So the band actually broke up like a couple of 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:24.240 years ago, but we just didn't make any posts about it. 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:28.360 It's kind of been a little bit of a fallout 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.680 since then. But we did have like a bunch of 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:35.720 music that hadn't been released and we were all still 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:41.920 chill with each other, so we released like the last 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:45.360 bit of music just a little while ago. It was 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:48.560 actually kind of funny because you know, we hadn't posted 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:52.480 anything for a couple of years, and some random person 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:56.760 on Instagram was like, I need this band to drop 0:14:56.840 --> 0:15:01.400 music for my birthday on June second, and I like 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:03.760 swiped up. I was like, okay, yeah, sure, because, like 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:05.080 I said, we had a bunch of songs that we 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:07.800 just hadn't released because you know, the band broke up. 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:11.880 So we released all those songs on that person's birthday and. 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:12.840 Then that's nice. 0:15:13.400 --> 0:15:15.880 Made the made the post about breaking up after that. 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:19.560 Did you are you still in a band? Are you 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:21.960 still making music here? 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:23.760 Yeah? I was in like a few bands at the time. 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:25.840 I'm actually I actually got a show to not I'd 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:28.440 playing a that was like a kind of a pop 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:32.000 rock band that did originals. Now I'm playing in a 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:36.479 in a country cover band. 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:39.640 Cool man, Well, I look over your shoulder when you 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:43.120 have when you're out there, because it is I I 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:48.480 will I will say, like, you know, it's a little gnarly, 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:51.800 like being like a you know, a touring like it's 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:55.119 it's gnarly having a stalker and also being like, hey. 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:59.280 Here's where I'm going to be physically, yeah right now. 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:02.440 No, I don't know. I didn't post anything about it 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.840 specifically kind of for that reason. I was like, I'm 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:07.520 not really gonna I'm not gonna take that hit. 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:10.040 Are you Are you still doing music for a living 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:10.920 or you got another gig? 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:14.240 Yeah, well I've got right now. I'm working a few 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:18.560 different jobs, but yeah I do. Uh, I work like 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:21.480 audio and stuff too, So I work sound at this 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.960 bar that I'm going to play at time and at 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:27.560 a country bar, you know, all the different country bands 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:29.960 come through, and one of them was like, hey, we 0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:32.560 need a drummer to fill in. I was like, okay, yeah, sure, 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:34.400 I'll do it. And then I just started became permanent. 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:37.400 So I played there once a month and yeah, that's 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:41.520 a good time. So I was never really as before. 0:16:41.600 --> 0:16:45.760 But I mean, it's so coral. It is crazy that 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:48.480 somebody that you haven't spoken to and like that long 0:16:49.240 --> 0:16:51.480 will just like come back and be like this guy 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:52.640 is a serial killer. 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:57.480 Yeah, zero contact. And you know, initially, whenever she was 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:01.200 making the post, she wasn't directly aiming me. She was 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:06.200 naming the band and like all that. But then it's 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:09.600 towards the end then she said my you know, my 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:14.680 full name, and she said, uh, like, she didn't say 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:17.080 my exact address, but she said what town I live 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:20.679 in and all that kind of stuff. So it was uh, 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:22.480 it was definitely a little stressful. 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:25.479 Well, look, man, that's just her right to free speech. 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:26.720 I suppose it's her. 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:30.879 Right to free speech. Yeah, I'm gonna start. My brother 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:35.639 and I were joking that I need to start writing 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:38.159 poems back like a like a like a rat battle, 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:39.560 but for poems. 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:42.160 You know, Yeah, have you got anything? You got anything 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:43.520 cooking in the drafts? 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:48.160 Well nothing yet. I'm still a I'm still a filtering 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:53.440 through the poems, getting some more inspiration. But uh yeah, 0:17:53.520 --> 0:17:56.480 I'm not actually gonna do that. That would be probably, 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:59.080 uh I think that would be considered feeding delusion. 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:01.880 Yeah, I think that's probably I think it's probably best 0:18:01.920 --> 0:18:02.639 to just ignore it. 0:18:03.840 --> 0:18:07.080 Yeah, yeah, no, I still haven't. I didn't respond any 0:18:07.240 --> 0:18:08.960 you know, like so she messaged me one time on 0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:14.320 Instagram just being like you better stop this or I'm 0:18:14.359 --> 0:18:16.560 gonna you know, this is the worst thing anyone's ever 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:19.520 done to me. And ultimately, you know, I you know, 0:18:19.520 --> 0:18:21.199 I just walked HERU. I didn't respond to it, So 0:18:21.200 --> 0:18:23.440 I don't want to feed into it, yea. And ultimately, 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:25.480 like the whole thing, it's just kind of a sad situation, 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:29.560 you know, like I'm not really I'm not fearful of 0:18:29.600 --> 0:18:33.320 my own safety at this point, really because I don't 0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:37.880 think she's a threat. But yeah, it's been Uh, it's 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:40.640 been strange. There's a lot of parallels to the show 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:42.000 Baby Reindeer. It's a good show. 0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:44.280 You shall watch it, Okay, all right, I'll check it out. 0:18:44.359 --> 0:18:47.000 I thought it was uh, I thought it was fucking 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:48.160 about a reindeer. 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:53.520 Nah, Well it's a it's about a stand up comedian, 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:56.960 well like a kind of small time stand up comedian, 0:18:57.320 --> 0:19:00.960 about as small time as my band was. And he 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:03.720 gets a stalker who's like a she becomes like a 0:19:03.720 --> 0:19:06.520 crazy fan of him, and there's a lot of a 0:19:06.560 --> 0:19:08.399 lot of weird parallels. 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:12.359 Well, you're going you're Dave, right, Aiden? 0:19:12.960 --> 0:19:15.080 Aiden? What damn it? Someone else called in is Dave. 0:19:16.480 --> 0:19:18.399 I'm sorry. I like Dave. It's a good name. 0:19:18.440 --> 0:19:21.720 I like Dave too. I like Dave too. Well, Aidan, 0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:26.200 thanks for thanks for sharing. Uh I I hope everything 0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:28.000 works out, okay, Man? 0:19:29.200 --> 0:19:30.600 Yeah, Yeah, I'm hoping so too. 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:34.240 Is there anything else you want to say to the 0:19:34.240 --> 0:19:35.480 people of the computer before we. 0:19:35.440 --> 0:19:39.040 Go, Uh, not that the people computer, but I do 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:43.720 I think you should go back on the H three 0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:49.320 podcast whenever you're in LA because your podcasts and their 0:19:49.359 --> 0:19:52.680 podcasts are like, those are the two I watch and 0:19:52.760 --> 0:19:55.119 I love your your episodes together. 0:19:55.760 --> 0:19:58.199 Thanks yet, dude, It's crazy how many yeah, dude, so 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:00.000 many people when I when I, when I do my life, 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:02.040 I've shows and I meet people afterwhard It's like there's 0:20:02.080 --> 0:20:05.280 always so many people wearing uh, wearing Teddy Fresh. So 0:20:05.320 --> 0:20:08.320 I know that those those universes are definitely on a 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:11.560 on a on a on a similar vent diagram. 0:20:12.320 --> 0:20:16.280 Yeah, yeah, I actually I actually found well, I knew 0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:18.439 of their podcast. I didn't start watching. I started watching 0:20:18.440 --> 0:20:20.440 you first. I know you said, oh really. 0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:21.920 That's that's that. That's a new one. I've not I 0:20:21.960 --> 0:20:24.160 have I haven't heard that. I have not heard that before. 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:26.879 I have not heard anyone who I have introduced it to. 0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:28.800 The to H three, I mean they're huge. 0:20:30.720 --> 0:20:32.639 Oh yes, I've heard of them before, but you know, 0:20:32.760 --> 0:20:34.520 I didn't really start watching the until after you were 0:20:34.560 --> 0:20:36.280 on some cool man. 0:20:36.320 --> 0:20:41.240 Well, all right, one for me. Hell ya, Well thanks 0:20:41.240 --> 0:20:44.479 for calling Aiden and uh good luck and don't uh 0:20:44.800 --> 0:20:46.919 you know, keep keeping keep an eye on the in 0:20:46.960 --> 0:20:48.240 the back of your fucking head, bro. 0:20:48.760 --> 0:20:50.640 Yeah, I'll let you know that the at the next 0:20:50.640 --> 0:20:53.760 Saint Louis Live Show whether or not I was murdered. 0:20:54.320 --> 0:20:57.960 I completely you know what, I completely forgot about that, 0:20:57.960 --> 0:21:00.280 that whole interaction we had at the beginning of this call. 0:21:01.520 --> 0:21:03.560 And I'm gonna just say this, because I think you're 0:21:03.720 --> 0:21:07.600 a nice guy. I forgive you for calling me short. Uh, 0:21:07.800 --> 0:21:10.560 even though you know what I forgive you. It's your 0:21:10.560 --> 0:21:13.520 fucking freedom of speech. It's your First Amendment right to 0:21:14.359 --> 0:21:17.040 call me short. It's also true. I am I'm a short. 0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:22.880 I'm a little little No, I'm no, I'm I'm I'm 0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:30.919 a I'm a teeny tiny, itty bitty ah little little guy. 0:21:30.960 --> 0:21:31.960 You're taller than the average. 0:21:31.960 --> 0:21:34.359 Get go oky, take care of. 0:21:41.640 --> 0:21:41.800 Hi? 0:21:42.000 --> 0:21:42.879 Is this Lile? 0:21:43.400 --> 0:21:43.640 Yes? 0:21:43.800 --> 0:21:43.960 Hi? 0:21:44.119 --> 0:21:45.520 Hello? What is your name? 0:21:48.080 --> 0:21:49.400 You can give me a name if you want. 0:21:50.080 --> 0:21:51.640 I can give you a name if I want. 0:21:53.240 --> 0:21:59.040 Yeah, I'm gonna call you. I'm gonna call you Lyle. 0:21:59.240 --> 0:22:01.119 You're Lyle. We're both Lyle. 0:22:03.000 --> 0:22:06.240