Speaker 1: What's Epics lift Service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm G G. Maguire,
Speaker 1: I'm stepping in Santiago. Yeah, we all synchronized, like yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, everybody got to do it individually. That's okay.
Speaker 1: I'm Daniel, I'm the singer from Division. I'm gonna right.
Speaker 1: We gotta get you to talk more. I'm kidding Waves
Speaker 1: the other day and um, it's all about cheating. And
Speaker 1: it's so funny that this came out at the same time.
Speaker 1: There's well, I thought there's always a lot of cheating
Speaker 1: things happening on social media, like getting caught people posting
Speaker 1: that they caught somebody cheating, but the timing was impeccable.
Speaker 1: Who wasn't that happening afterwards? Um, I would saying Neo
Speaker 1: and his wife, and his wife did that long post
Speaker 1: about him, you know, And there are levels to cheating, right,
Speaker 1: because when I saw the video, you know, you went
Speaker 1: out hanging with the guys. You cheated. But I think,
Speaker 1: like bringing somebody into your home is a non negotiable man,
Speaker 1: I agree. What are some other things that you would say,
Speaker 1: even from a man's point of view, is Unforgiva? Wait wait, wait,
Speaker 1: said you saw the video. In the video, I mean
Speaker 1: that cheating was still but I'm saying this is a misconception.
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you brought that up about the video,
Speaker 1: so I didn't cheat in that video. All the flashes
Speaker 1: of reckless ship that you're seeing are her imagination. She
Speaker 1: thinks I'm doing That's why you see me regular sitting
Speaker 1: inside somebody and you see a flash, and it's a misconception.
Speaker 1: That's why at the end it turns out not even
Speaker 1: my phone that she was going through that made her
Speaker 1: go all crazy, Right, it was moss phone in the video.
Speaker 1: Good to know because the whole song is about if
Speaker 1: I get called cheating, which let's break that down. I'm
Speaker 1: so ready to break this down. Um, So, first and foremost,
Speaker 1: tell me what you tell me, what you tell me,
Speaker 1: what you what you guys took when you heard the song,
Speaker 1: just so I can understand, and then I'll tell you
Speaker 1: what actually was being said. Well, I think guys get cheating,
Speaker 1: and the main thing they say is that they love you,
Speaker 1: you know, and guys become up with excuses for cheating,
Speaker 1: like it has nothing to do with how I feel
Speaker 1: about you. It's a physical thing. And it was a
Speaker 1: mistake that I made. You know, one of the main
Speaker 1: things that guys always say, I'm a work in progress,
Speaker 1: and so cliche bars from the guys that you're talking
Speaker 1: the same thing as they do. One thing I took
Speaker 1: from it was the if I get caught right right,
Speaker 1: because exactly, but it's like, like, no, but if I'm
Speaker 1: cheating from it, it doesn't mean I don't love you.
Speaker 1: But if I get caught cheating, it doesn't mean I
Speaker 1: love you. Like it's a thin line between like what
Speaker 1: you don't know won't hurt you, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Some people say that, um, I love you if I
Speaker 1: am more slick about it because I'm not gonna care you,
Speaker 1: so I lied to you to not hurt your feeling.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of guys. There's a lot of guys
Speaker 1: that feel that way. They feeling. The effort that they
Speaker 1: put into keeping it so far from the woman in
Speaker 1: their lives is because they care that much that that
Speaker 1: person doesn't find out. Some guys do subscribe to that
Speaker 1: or if I lie to you, that means I love
Speaker 1: you because I don't hurt you. I don't want to
Speaker 1: hurt you. And I think that if if you let
Speaker 1: me find out. It's like, because you don't care, you're
Speaker 1: not being any careful exactly. I feel like if you care,
Speaker 1: if you if you care about how I feel, you're
Speaker 1: gonna make sure that things that will hurt me stay
Speaker 1: out of my way. So you think it might be happening,
Speaker 1: you just don't want to see it. I don't want
Speaker 1: to think it might be happening anymore. But if you
Speaker 1: don't know, you don't know what they do. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm a very what I don't know won't hurt me
Speaker 1: type of person for sure. So I explain it. Daniel, Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: let's break it down. So the song is about, like
Speaker 1: when I wrote those verses, I'm writing about a situation
Speaker 1: where I'm with a girl who is now hit a
Speaker 1: point where she thinks I might be doing something wrong,
Speaker 1: I might be cheating, and I am addressing it from
Speaker 1: the standpoint of a guy who's like, yo, everything that
Speaker 1: first attracted you to me has now turned into your insecurities, right.
Speaker 1: So that's why I say, as a fly nigger, when
Speaker 1: you got here, I was charismatic when you got here.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, girls dancing allow me when you got you
Speaker 1: know what I'm doing no, no, no, no no, Well what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Yeah, it's pretty much like, look if you
Speaker 1: meet me and and I'm an attractive guy, I dress well.
Speaker 1: I you know, I'm funny. I'm funny. People like being
Speaker 1: around me. Um, you know, I'm engaging, I'm talkative. All
Speaker 1: of a sudden, when you get into relationships, sometimes those
Speaker 1: things are into us. So you know what, bitch faced
Speaker 1: you in tonight? You know why? Why? Who you? What
Speaker 1: you get? Where are you? Where are you going to
Speaker 1: dressed like that? You know? Um, yeah, yeah we're going
Speaker 1: You always gonna be so funny, would be laughing in
Speaker 1: people's say, it turns into that, and that developed turns
Speaker 1: into a situation where you know, those insecurities can boil
Speaker 1: to a point where now she's digging through phone, she's
Speaker 1: checking laptop, she's this is this is what I'm talking
Speaker 1: about in the song. And that's why I'm like, why
Speaker 1: do we do this when even when when really the
Speaker 1: truth is because I'm like, look, you got my phone
Speaker 1: in your hands, You're asking questions. Are you now digging
Speaker 1: for a reason to leave? Is how it feels a
Speaker 1: lot of guys you do say if you don't want
Speaker 1: to leave somebody and you know you're gonna say, don't
Speaker 1: even look. But if you're on the edge and you're like,
Speaker 1: if I find some shit, I'm out out. Because if
Speaker 1: you look and find some ship and you're really gonna
Speaker 1: be out and if it really makes a difference and go,
Speaker 1: But if you're gonna stay, why torture yourself? No, that's why.
Speaker 1: That's why I don't look through phones, because you can.
Speaker 1: You show fine, and I agree with you. When when
Speaker 1: you digging for something, that's because you're trying trying to
Speaker 1: find a problem. And so this is a guy saying,
Speaker 1: look all the things that you liked about me have
Speaker 1: now turned into this and now are looking for reasons
Speaker 1: to be upset when even if hypothetical, if that's why
Speaker 1: it's an if you get it, I feel like you
Speaker 1: changed the whole meeting just now. I wanted to explain.
Speaker 1: I'm happy to ask you this. What did you think
Speaker 1: when he first wrote this song and you heard the lyrics,
Speaker 1: were you like, well he was there? Were there? Okay?
Speaker 1: So what were you thinking when when he was writing
Speaker 1: this and the whole concept um, was there any hesitation like, man,
Speaker 1: that's gonna be crazy? There were certain lines. I think
Speaker 1: even in writing it, we did change some some lines
Speaker 1: because like I can't remember what we changed, but there's
Speaker 1: just specific lines where I was saying in the context
Speaker 1: of what you're trying to say, that line is going
Speaker 1: to come off so harsh that the meaning of everything
Speaker 1: else is gonna get lost in it, feeling like you're
Speaker 1: just going at you know, women or the which even
Speaker 1: still I think that's getting lost in the first listen,
Speaker 1: a lot of people are kind of like, oh, you
Speaker 1: guys think you know, you think city up. You guys
Speaker 1: think you're gonna make the cheating anthem. But it's not
Speaker 1: saving about that. It's the conversation about where the people
Speaker 1: are in the relationships or not. Let me also at
Speaker 1: this the chorus part was actually written by Jermaine dupri
Speaker 1: and that happened before we even got to the studio
Speaker 1: that Jermaine's had its own issues with you. I don't nothing.
Speaker 1: Admittedly I don't know what you're talking about, but no,
Speaker 1: you know. So we walked in the studio and he
Speaker 1: was just humming this thing and singing this thing. I
Speaker 1: was like, Yo, what what what did you just say?
Speaker 1: It's like to get everybody else in trouble for his life,
Speaker 1: and I connected to that so much because great so
Speaker 1: great at making songs. But yeah, he's I mean, the
Speaker 1: chorus is so real because it's like, really, when you
Speaker 1: break down cheating. In my research, in my life and
Speaker 1: whatever else I found, it's been it's more about ego
Speaker 1: than it is about how you feel emotionally for the person.
Speaker 1: Especially for a lot of guys, it's more about them
Speaker 1: going out and stroking their own ego, being selfish, being
Speaker 1: self indulgent, just being out and just doing some bullshit
Speaker 1: they just shouldn't have done. It didn't all of a
Speaker 1: sudden I stopped loving my girl, so I did this.
Speaker 1: I think like that you cheat for different reasons. Who
Speaker 1: are you saying it's correct? Sometimes? I think, I think
Speaker 1: not every single time, but you'll find commonly you hear
Speaker 1: a lot more times women have cheat, Yeah, your revenge,
Speaker 1: cheat or checked out or is a lack of something
Speaker 1: emotionally checked out? I don't know, Guys a chemistry thing.
Speaker 1: A guy I can have the girl with the better face,
Speaker 1: the better body, the better bag, the better and it
Speaker 1: still do this and that's what more in the moment,
Speaker 1: but it has nothing to do with it it's you
Speaker 1: think guys normally cheat down like they cheat with somebody
Speaker 1: that's not as dope as their girl. They're not looking
Speaker 1: for someone as dope as that. That's the part that's
Speaker 1: misconscrewed where it's like a lot of times guys are
Speaker 1: like they're not looking to replace the woman, They're not
Speaker 1: looking to find a new you. This is literally them
Speaker 1: just being it has you weren't even in the equation,
Speaker 1: and that's why they come to actually like, oh fuck, babe,
Speaker 1: no it' there's nothing that you know I didn't because
Speaker 1: they literally that that's what's going on in a lot
Speaker 1: of their minds. Have you ever admitted cheating when you
Speaker 1: got caught? Because I feel like most guys, when you
Speaker 1: initially catch them, they're like, no, no, it's not even
Speaker 1: like that. You just been The one time I got caught,
Speaker 1: I was caught, Like caught, I was caught. You know
Speaker 1: you still lie? What was and what was your response
Speaker 1: to he didn't like? How did you handle it? I
Speaker 1: feel like that's the day I really truly fully became
Speaker 1: a man because I sat in the car with two
Speaker 1: women that I cared about and sat with both of
Speaker 1: them and just aired my whole ship aired my whole ship.
Speaker 1: So that time that you said you were here, were
Speaker 1: you really with it? Yes? He was one of those
Speaker 1: moments like you know so unfortunately, Yes, I just you
Speaker 1: called after that happened to tell them about it. No one,
Speaker 1: I don't think I called anybody that you got just
Speaker 1: a little bit. He has sho to the mar um.
Speaker 1: He broke his car. That was a different situation. Said,
Speaker 1: I wasn't cheating that one. Okay, um, yeah, so my
Speaker 1: girls at my house, I think she asked to use
Speaker 1: my laptop. I had to run out quickly. Man, guys
Speaker 1: never wanted to use their laptop if you wanted to
Speaker 1: catch somebody to care about your laptop. That's how I
Speaker 1: almost every time I coughter got cheating on me because
Speaker 1: they left the computer open, suddenly popped up. But what
Speaker 1: popped up wasn't any anything wrong, but that kind of
Speaker 1: like opened up the portal and then she's like, okay,
Speaker 1: well kept looking I'm in here a little bit. No,
Speaker 1: But honestly, with the computer thing, I wasn't even digging.
Speaker 1: I'm not a digger. That's what I was so upset
Speaker 1: about it. And I felt like God put that in
Speaker 1: front of me because I wasn't even happening to me too.
Speaker 1: And I opened up the computer at Boomed. There it
Speaker 1: was he used my laptop and he didn't log out
Speaker 1: of his email and cheating. Yes, let me tell you
Speaker 1: what it was him. He had took a trip with
Speaker 1: another girl. So he's talking to his travel agent and
Speaker 1: I happened, and then he's sending her side piece yes.
Speaker 1: And then he also had pictures like that girl sent him.
Speaker 1: And then he sent his sister like this is me
Speaker 1: on the church and then I was like, oh, sister
Speaker 1: in on it too. One thing that it was his
Speaker 1: birthday when I found it on his birthday. The reason
Speaker 1: I even went on there because at this time it
Speaker 1: was Gmail. I didn't even have a Gmail. And what
Speaker 1: did he say? Um? So first I tried not to
Speaker 1: say anything like but then I started we were supposed
Speaker 1: to go out to eat, and then I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to make it tonight. And
Speaker 1: he was on his way home from work and he
Speaker 1: was like, what was happen? Everything Okay? I was like
Speaker 1: I just can't do it, and I hung up and
Speaker 1: then I sent him all of the email the email
Speaker 1: and I locked him out his email, he changed his watt.
Speaker 1: He doesn't know what you saw, but did you I
Speaker 1: still have the email because I forwarded them to myself.
Speaker 1: When you when you catch when you call him to cheating,
Speaker 1: When you catch any guy cheating, do you feel like
Speaker 1: they cheated on you because they cared about you? Luss um,
Speaker 1: I think that's half of it. I don't think that
Speaker 1: it's always a chance that you're gonna get caught when
Speaker 1: you do it. You know what I'm saying that that
Speaker 1: means to me, like you went on vacasing. I really
Speaker 1: dropped you off and picked you up from the airport,
Speaker 1: I think, and then you brought me back a whack
Speaker 1: get physically cheating. I also think that a lot of
Speaker 1: times you have a better sexual chemistry with somebody that
Speaker 1: you're not actually in a relationship with, unfortunately, But does
Speaker 1: that mean you care about your girl? What? I think
Speaker 1: girls have better sex with the cheaters with the sides
Speaker 1: which I think, yeah, they're with the person they love. Depends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: some girls might be get turned out by someone. You're right,
Speaker 1: because sometimes I know girls that would be like, suck
Speaker 1: me in my ask, but they would never tell their
Speaker 1: boyfriend that or their husband, they don't want to look
Speaker 1: like he was married. She loves anal sex, and she
Speaker 1: would never tell her husband that she likes that because
Speaker 1: she thinks that he'll look crazy. So did she cheat
Speaker 1: on him to know? She just can't have angels like
Speaker 1: right versation? She doesn't want him to look at her like,
Speaker 1: I feel like every time I've caught somebody going out
Speaker 1: on me or doing something behind my life, like I
Speaker 1: ever felt like it was because they didn't care about me.
Speaker 1: I just felt like they were in a moment. You know,
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't realize how much cheating is
Speaker 1: about yourself more than it is about I never think
Speaker 1: it's about me. I mean, guys like newness, and we
Speaker 1: like as a woman like I like to be with
Speaker 1: somebody I'm comfortable with saying. So I kind of like
Speaker 1: to have said, it's harder for me to have sex
Speaker 1: with somebody. It would be harder for me to have
Speaker 1: sex with somebody new than somebody who like because I
Speaker 1: feel like guys, so it's hard for you to figure
Speaker 1: out what we like, right, Like, it takes a little
Speaker 1: while in the beginning. You have to get used to
Speaker 1: like okay, to say I gotta yeah, this is how
Speaker 1: she comes. She likes this position and when they know
Speaker 1: they can get right to it, y'all. Just you know,
Speaker 1: you guys just come. Like I write, I agree bands.
Speaker 1: I'd rather be with my favorite definitely, Like I mean, now,
Speaker 1: God is my favorite. I don't care. I don't really
Speaker 1: care for anything, but just that's and that's a problem
Speaker 1: I think that I have with dating is is I
Speaker 1: don't like the beginning. I don't I hate trying to
Speaker 1: figure things out, trying to figure out if somebody's full
Speaker 1: of shit or not, and then you give your body
Speaker 1: to somebody who ends up being full of ship and
Speaker 1: it's just like the sex part of it. I like
Speaker 1: the bear of, like, yeah, doing stuff, getting on each other. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's like getting some knowld somebody in the beginning
Speaker 1: of scary for me. And it's like at this point
Speaker 1: I'm just like, no, I'm going I'm okay. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what else I want to talk about before we
Speaker 1: talk more about this cheating thing. So, you guys did
Speaker 1: the album with ty Dallas sign Chairs to the Best Memories,
Speaker 1: And I do really like that album. Obviously. I like
Speaker 1: this song with Mac Miller. I believed it, so I
Speaker 1: explained this to me about that song. She lied to
Speaker 1: your face? What did she lie about that? She wouldn't
Speaker 1: leave you? Okay, so you cheated on her in that
Speaker 1: song too. No, I don't time ties. Verse might have said, like,
Speaker 1: oh some girl I was on face timing and something something.
Speaker 1: But the course isn't that is you said? You know
Speaker 1: you said and you never leave me? Was? What is
Speaker 1: it about? Tell me what, no matter what I do,
Speaker 1: you never leave me, no matter what I do. As
Speaker 1: in what I don't know you no matter what, man't matter.
Speaker 1: It's no matter what if you tell me that, if
Speaker 1: you tell me you'll stay you know. No. I think
Speaker 1: I think that that's actually a great conversation because so
Speaker 1: many people today. I hear people talking about like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's hard to find your person, and you know, what's
Speaker 1: what's what's forever these days and all this stuff like that,
Speaker 1: and it's like, yo, people don't even try to work
Speaker 1: things out anymore because everyone feels that they have unlimited options.
Speaker 1: Everybody in every single city across the world feels like
Speaker 1: they can get to anybody. I can be a little
Speaker 1: teenage whoever from whatever city, or you know, four year
Speaker 1: old girl from small town wherever, and I can literally
Speaker 1: talk to the Prince of whoever, or the hottest NBA
Speaker 1: player or the dope rapper or whatever. It's instant now,
Speaker 1: so nobody feels like anymore that they have to get
Speaker 1: the state of Yeah, so forever. It's changing in people's
Speaker 1: minds because how do you find forever with somebody who
Speaker 1: doesn't stay for it? Right? And I think that people
Speaker 1: need to realize that love and naturally love songs, all
Speaker 1: these things are are changing because the actual human experience
Speaker 1: is changing these things. We're not we're not interacting, communicating
Speaker 1: anything the way we used to. More stress. I think
Speaker 1: the generations before us, n you think we're I think
Speaker 1: we have way more stress. We work longer, everything costs more.
Speaker 1: Even if you look at the age that people would
Speaker 1: choose to start a family now, that's like ten to
Speaker 1: fifteen years older than it would have been for sale
Speaker 1: our parents. Because you just can't, you can't get it together.
Speaker 1: But it's because women are working now too, because I
Speaker 1: think back then, yeah, you know, because it's kind of
Speaker 1: like women want to get their career. I think back then,
Speaker 1: you know, like my grandparents, like my grandmother didn't work,
Speaker 1: my grandfather had a job, so they got married really
Speaker 1: young and like you, but yeah, she definitely will. She
Speaker 1: actually got a surgery dounda so she don't got it well,
Speaker 1: not surgery, what is it? Had? Non surgical you're talking
Speaker 1: to Mike. I had a non surgical procedure to help
Speaker 1: me with um my sudden urination control. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 1: It was a laser rejuven nation for my vagina. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it took my pressure down to under two hundred,
Speaker 1: which is virgin status. So yeah, we're tied over here.
Speaker 1: She's a vir and I don't got to pay as
Speaker 1: much anymore. It's w for everybody. Everybody rings in situation
Speaker 1: is that it really? Have you ever like had sex
Speaker 1: with the woman and it felt loose? Wow? What do
Speaker 1: you might lose? You tell me, I don't know what.
Speaker 1: It wasn't amount of pressure, right like the walls where Yeah,
Speaker 1: different vaginas are tighter than the other vaginas. That's a thing, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's natural thing. One thing that I have experienced is
Speaker 1: it was almost like it wasn't that the walls themselves
Speaker 1: were wider or anything it would thank you. It was
Speaker 1: more like there was no grip, So it was almost
Speaker 1: like having two pillows really close together, but not so.
Speaker 1: It's like going in and out, didn't didn't feel anything.
Speaker 1: So I felt like I was enough. So she feels everything, everything,
Speaker 1: but I know nothing. It was it was weird, like
Speaker 1: I'm not doing this again, or where you like, I'll
Speaker 1: try it again. That made me stop midway or the bathroom,
Speaker 1: look at myself in the mirror, say and I left. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I said, I just finished. And then I thought about
Speaker 1: it for like a few days, and then I said
Speaker 1: to myself, maybe I something's wrong with me. Maybe I
Speaker 1: did something wrong, like I'm gonna go mad, so you
Speaker 1: try again the same didn't finish. Okay, it's not me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe I'll just imagine that. I wonder why this? Would
Speaker 1: you nothing? Because you know, sometimes you can't You can't
Speaker 1: tell it. Wouldn't you say, hey, man, you have no grip.
Speaker 1: She's like the candidates as we are. It's not snatching.
Speaker 1: It's like what if she's doing with that information? She
Speaker 1: can't go fix it. She can procedure. You can also
Speaker 1: do exercises. Yeah, you can know, but I don't trying
Speaker 1: to say. It's not that the words, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. The reason why we said that, because yeah,
Speaker 1: I understand it. The reason why we're talking about this
Speaker 1: because this is the only woman that we've both slept
Speaker 1: with in common. Oh my god, he's like, so I
Speaker 1: told him, I said, you know, he's like, I'm let
Speaker 1: me check you. Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't. It doesn't.
Speaker 1: It didn't have to grab you back. No, it's just
Speaker 1: why did you do it? If he told you that,
Speaker 1: I wasn't doing it because he told me. If he
Speaker 1: gave you no person, she was cat. It was months later.
Speaker 1: Me and her never really developed. It was fine. It
Speaker 1: was just like, yeah it was months. It was months.
Speaker 1: It was months later. Yeah, but it's like six months.
Speaker 1: If somebody says, oh, I didn't like kissing a person,
Speaker 1: later on, you're not thinking about oh, I remember when
Speaker 1: they told me about man this is like her because
Speaker 1: he has no grip crazy. So you had the same experience.
Speaker 1: It just didn't have the did you finish? Did you
Speaker 1: leave her in the middle of a We don't have
Speaker 1: the grab back. I didn't leave in the middle. I
Speaker 1: feel like leaving the middle might have been like try
Speaker 1: do No. I didn't pick up and just be like peace.
Speaker 1: I got off I watched the bathroom. I came back
Speaker 1: and said, oh, shoot, you know, condom broken? Say something
Speaker 1: and he's like, there's no way the condom broke because
Speaker 1: did you like flench yourself? But if she's like I
Speaker 1: have another one said I don't. I don't want anybody else.
Speaker 1: So how did you so you did finish? Okay, that's good.
Speaker 1: Did you have to? So? Let me ask you this
Speaker 1: as a guy, when you're having sex and it feels
Speaker 1: like it's hard for you to finish, and come, do
Speaker 1: you have to like imagine other things? What do you do?
Speaker 1: That's a good question, um, and then we'll tell you
Speaker 1: what we do. I have faked it before, just to
Speaker 1: finish you just li So what will you do when
Speaker 1: you fake it? Like make a little twitsch u baby? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess that's the way he caught it right. You're
Speaker 1: just doing how I'm shaking it over and shake and
Speaker 1: go that's what do you make a noise? And then
Speaker 1: you like that was amazing, fantastic. I'll be back. I
Speaker 1: got his bathroom. Have you ever faked it? No? I
Speaker 1: don't think so. I'm just I'll stop, damn, that's cold.
Speaker 1: Stop And you know what a time I'll stop. I'll
Speaker 1: stop if I have a very overactive conscience. So if
Speaker 1: I'm doing something with someone that I know, I shouldn't
Speaker 1: be like if I'm like, I don't I don't really
Speaker 1: like this person that time. I'm not saying that some
Speaker 1: other elements didn't win the fight, delating, but yeah, how
Speaker 1: you don't really like Yeah, guys do that? Do that? Girl?
Speaker 1: Guys do what you like? Somebody like me, I hate
Speaker 1: me like I haven't, I don't have any I'm not
Speaker 1: doing this because we have a real thing. Just doing
Speaker 1: this because it's here, something to do whatever I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like that, you know I I
Speaker 1: learned that. I learned that when I was younger. So
Speaker 1: there was times when I would do that and I'd
Speaker 1: be like, what am I doing? Where? I hate that?
Speaker 1: I hate that look in the mirror or I hate
Speaker 1: that like feeling of regret after you you have so
Speaker 1: I used to stop. I feel like stop having does
Speaker 1: you feel like, well, I'm here, I might as well finished,
Speaker 1: it's already done. I feel like men really get caught
Speaker 1: up in the moment and should they regret, I honestly
Speaker 1: do like it'll be maybe a fluence of their friend
Speaker 1: or even the girl the influence, you know, because you
Speaker 1: gotta be a good wing man. I'm time you like
Speaker 1: look sometimes that I'll talk to you. We can go chill,
Speaker 1: watch a movie, but I'm not gonna hit just for it.
Speaker 1: What about like, okay, does that count when you get
Speaker 1: your dick stuck to Like if a girl that you
Speaker 1: don't really like, does that matter of the head? Yeah,
Speaker 1: like will you'd be like I don't really like her,
Speaker 1: to be honest me, not as much, not as much
Speaker 1: because I feel like I feel like, well I don't
Speaker 1: maybe I've really been in that situation, but I do
Speaker 1: feel like head is different than sex, different connection there,
Speaker 1: and sometimes I just feel like like I don't I
Speaker 1: don't need to give myself to this person. Like you
Speaker 1: said the way, there's women that look back and be like,
Speaker 1: you know, there's certain bodies they might erased if they could,
Speaker 1: like I have an I have that too. I think
Speaker 1: all guys who have a conscience. I didn't said you
Speaker 1: didn't have sex with somebody? You did? Because who like
Speaker 1: my friends? Yeah, like if that you know, yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know what you did. I'm not claiming the body
Speaker 1: right claiming a body jokingly not really not really. Like
Speaker 1: guys get by someone they hate, no problems. There's plenty
Speaker 1: of guys that do that, right. There's guys will be
Speaker 1: on a girl they think it's annoying or they don't
Speaker 1: really want to be around her, they don't want to
Speaker 1: talk to her, and to hate. I hate, I don't like. Wow,
Speaker 1: what kind of girls do you like? Like? Okay, Like,
Speaker 1: let's take a song like the song rude. Okay when
Speaker 1: it comes to women, like, do you like women that
Speaker 1: are kind of like bitchy a little bit? Or I
Speaker 1: like me personally. I like a woman that knows how
Speaker 1: to firmly state and set her boundaries and what she
Speaker 1: wants with other with other people. What I mean is,
Speaker 1: I don't want you to be um. I don't want
Speaker 1: to feel that like a harshness from you. But if
Speaker 1: I see you activate that with other people, and you
Speaker 1: you can turn it on and off, like when I'm
Speaker 1: soft and when I have to be that kind of way,
Speaker 1: I respect sexy. That's like when we like guys that
Speaker 1: are like gangster with other people, but it's so nice
Speaker 1: as we Yeah, I like that. Yeah, I like for
Speaker 1: my for my guy to be mean to everybody and
Speaker 1: just and just so like you're okay baby, and then
Speaker 1: gives somebody else a dirty look. But I think this
Speaker 1: case about case. Different people have different different personalities that
Speaker 1: come out around like you or other people. So I
Speaker 1: don't know if I would say I have like a
Speaker 1: type across the board like never like if a girl
Speaker 1: did this, I would never sunk with her. I think
Speaker 1: in our world we see a lot of nevers, you know,
Speaker 1: because we're rude to the way. Never for me, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be with that's rude that way, because
Speaker 1: the way the way they're messed up your order. For
Speaker 1: obviously if they're defending you, but if they're like just
Speaker 1: rude and you're like, oh yeah, well, I don't like
Speaker 1: anyone that's rude to anyone, like why you're being rude.
Speaker 1: But I like somebody that can firmly, like you know,
Speaker 1: assert themselves at I don't make me feel safe. But
Speaker 1: I want you want her to be able. I just
Speaker 1: want her to be able to say to say to
Speaker 1: say her peace. I don't want it to be like
Speaker 1: the person just said this so I went along with this,
Speaker 1: or I just said that. I don't like that when
Speaker 1: you guys, want your girlfriends to be like close to
Speaker 1: your friends. I want. It's not a want, it's beneficial,
Speaker 1: But they don't. I like it when they are. You
Speaker 1: like that. I like it when they are. So you
Speaker 1: want them to get along with your friends, be relationships
Speaker 1: where your friends, because because then if I'm if you're
Speaker 1: my girl, hopefully we're dating with intention, we're dating for
Speaker 1: a purpose. So if I'm looking at you as someone
Speaker 1: that's going to be in my life, period, these are
Speaker 1: my friends, my life. You don't want a girl who's
Speaker 1: going to be giving your friends attitude like you're always
Speaker 1: with him. I don't like that. I don't. But what
Speaker 1: if they hang out with your friends like without you?
Speaker 1: Is that okay? That's a good question I've had. I've
Speaker 1: had those situations. I don't really understand why that would
Speaker 1: ever be like the norm unless she's like you, Guys,
Speaker 1: if she if if he has a girlfriend and you're
Speaker 1: always over there with his girlfriend, whatever, that's fine. But
Speaker 1: if you're just like yeah, I mean, what if they
Speaker 1: already were friends before she looking at me? If they
Speaker 1: were all right, So they were already friends before we
Speaker 1: met I met her, but then we're all then we're
Speaker 1: all friends. But I mean, I I just think that
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta we gotta still understand one another.
Speaker 1: And far as far as you know what, Bounty, I
Speaker 1: don't want necessarily want. You're sleeping over at his house.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm over here at four am. I'll be
Speaker 1: home soon. I'm waiting with Netflix and okay time because
Speaker 1: for me to hang out with my man's friends is
Speaker 1: when he set it up, you know, like maybe he's
Speaker 1: busy and I have to do something with them, you know,
Speaker 1: like on his terms. I don't think it's okay to
Speaker 1: just be calling your man's friends, like, hey, you what
Speaker 1: about if you have a girlfriend and your girlfriend is
Speaker 1: friends with like your friend's girlfriend, and now they talk
Speaker 1: it to each other, they become friends and the tea.
Speaker 1: I really got to be careful because that's cool as
Speaker 1: long as you don't have things. If the girlfriends are cool, Yeah,
Speaker 1: if they become cool, I love that. It only makes
Speaker 1: things easier go out as long as you guys on
Speaker 1: the side. And then now what if you guys break
Speaker 1: that and she still be friends with the girlfriend? Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a little awkward, but grown it happens
Speaker 1: as long as long as there's nothing crazy that happened. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a genuine relationship. That's a genuine relationship. Your girlfriend
Speaker 1: isn't in the mix of that, you know, like let
Speaker 1: it be your business. Yeah, but you guys, you guys
Speaker 1: are still friends. Now. I want to ask you this.
Speaker 1: Let's go back to this song about getting caught cheating.
Speaker 1: So you guys roll this out differently than I feel
Speaker 1: like you've ever done a rollout, you know, for a
Speaker 1: song and a single and then getting ready for the project.
Speaker 1: So what was the process behind that thinking? Because I
Speaker 1: feel like it's a lot more like bang, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? On the blogs and normally I don't
Speaker 1: see a division. This is this is the thing I
Speaker 1: can say. Jermaine plays a big part in that and
Speaker 1: him looking at me realizing my personality, my talents, my
Speaker 1: you know, my potential also that and he's kind of
Speaker 1: like put the battery in my back as far as
Speaker 1: like you'll go on this ship because you know this
Speaker 1: is you like your you can you can be that guy,
Speaker 1: you know. And I've never really had in my mind
Speaker 1: like the things that are necessary to go out and
Speaker 1: get I guess maybe maybe the artist's respect, the accolades, whatever,
Speaker 1: all those I wasn't we never really thought like that, right,
Speaker 1: But I think that at this point now I'm kind
Speaker 1: of like, yo, I understand there's this big void in
Speaker 1: R and B, especially male R and B. Someone has
Speaker 1: to step up and be the guy. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, cool, you know what, you you believe in this,
Speaker 1: and you're one of the greats that's seen the other
Speaker 1: guys that have stepped up. All right, So that's why
Speaker 1: this time around, we're gonna be very like we're here.
Speaker 1: You guys can't keep pretending that we didn't do what
Speaker 1: we've done like that anymore. Because when you guys first
Speaker 1: came out, it was like the mystery division, and then
Speaker 1: I feel like that was kind of a thing, like
Speaker 1: they don't really do interviews. That's why we had your
Speaker 1: lip tips. I was like, oh my god, they're gonna
Speaker 1: do this. I can't believe. But then now I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: look at them, you know, out doing stuff. How does
Speaker 1: it feel. It feels good? And it wasn't. It wasn't
Speaker 1: ever to be hidden from the identity that goes with
Speaker 1: the music. It was more just at the time things happened,
Speaker 1: so quickly. We put out that album maybe a month
Speaker 1: after we finished it, which was also like a month
Speaker 1: after we signed the vo We went on tour six
Speaker 1: weeks later. A couple of weeks after we got back
Speaker 1: from that tour, we went on the Summer sixteen tour
Speaker 1: with Drake and Future and then went right back into
Speaker 1: doing the next album. And for the maybe like three
Speaker 1: or four years after being introduced to the world, we
Speaker 1: were just going on stop. So there was never this
Speaker 1: intentional like, oh, don't don't show them or don't introduce
Speaker 1: more of the personality. We just didn't have a chance
Speaker 1: to go back and say no, no, no no, we're these guys.
Speaker 1: Everybody just knew us as the like behind the scenes guys,
Speaker 1: and the music kept coming, so we just kept going
Speaker 1: with that. But now that we've had sometimes is like hey,
Speaker 1: come here and take pictures of us and it stands
Speaker 1: back to back and like, that's not that's not our vibe.
Speaker 1: He's a producer, I'm a singer. We we have we
Speaker 1: have very different you know, personality characters, but we just
Speaker 1: make great music together. And so um, I think that
Speaker 1: people were always like, oh, you never didn't post your faces,
Speaker 1: Like no, we posted the thing that represented us, which
Speaker 1: was the symbol. You know. It wasn't until everybody else
Speaker 1: made a big deal out of it, like oh who
Speaker 1: are they? They were like, okay, well, let we'll let
Speaker 1: them wrong with you guys want to do. But you know,
Speaker 1: we were just we were true artists in the sense
Speaker 1: of like we really were here to make music, you know.
Speaker 1: And I think that's pretty evident in our history of
Speaker 1: our music or discography and so that you can hear
Speaker 1: that we're here for music right. Um. But now it's
Speaker 1: kind of like, okay, well, the way the climate is,
Speaker 1: the way things are moving, the way that the voids
Speaker 1: have kind of opened up, certain people aren't around, certain
Speaker 1: people aren't stepping up in different ways. It's like, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: R and B needs a face right now. So as
Speaker 1: someone that is confident in my ability to and our
Speaker 1: ability to own that space, it's like, alright, cool and
Speaker 1: go be the face and then we'll stand in front
Speaker 1: of this. So lvr in and then that's the other team,
Speaker 1: are we know lvr in m Management. Yeah, they manage
Speaker 1: Summer Walker, they managed Black, they manage a bunch of artists. Um,
Speaker 1: they were the same thing. They saw the same thing.
Speaker 1: They're like, Yo, if this is what it is and
Speaker 1: you can do this live and you can, why aren't
Speaker 1: you just go there then like go be the guy then.
Speaker 1: So also, I think with the song and the content
Speaker 1: we knew you you can't go halfway. You have to
Speaker 1: be very intention you have to stay that. You can't
Speaker 1: say something that people are gonna take potentially crazy and
Speaker 1: like hide behind it. You're the saying or you not
Speaker 1: you know, And that I think was part of the
Speaker 1: role as well, Like you know, pay attention. We have
Speaker 1: a big conversation coming. Was anybody mad in your d
Speaker 1: M s about it? Like I'm sure did anybody said,
Speaker 1: y'all some crazy messages? It triggering for something? No? Of course,
Speaker 1: of course, of course some people are just like, yo,
Speaker 1: we didn't I I didn't expect this, or I wanted,
Speaker 1: you know, crying in the Rain R and B from
Speaker 1: you and you know all these things. But but the
Speaker 1: thing about that is this album is a story. That's
Speaker 1: tell me. I want to make very clear, this album
Speaker 1: is a story. And for me to get to the
Speaker 1: part where crying in the Rain R and B happens,
Speaker 1: you kind of got to see the part where you
Speaker 1: crying video done. I did a crying in the Have
Speaker 1: you ever in real life? Have you ever cried in
Speaker 1: the rain? You know what? One time in real life?
Speaker 1: I came, I came. So this is actually right after
Speaker 1: that cheating story, there was a there was maybe a
Speaker 1: little well after that. It was snowing into raining and
Speaker 1: I literally was outside in the snow outside this girl's house, like, yo,
Speaker 1: come outside and the rain. So you feel like I
Speaker 1: deserved some extra credits there, right? Yeah, we said we
Speaker 1: we we worked things out. We say it together for
Speaker 1: another two almost three years after that, you work outside
Speaker 1: in the snow. Do you think it would have had
Speaker 1: you would have gotten through if it was a sunny
Speaker 1: day not that night had to be in the snow?
Speaker 1: What ended up happening? Then? Since you managed to work
Speaker 1: through that, how did it end up ending? I ended
Speaker 1: up leaving? That's a crazy thing. Um, she just we
Speaker 1: we hit a place where we got I hate this,
Speaker 1: I hate the word toxic, but it just really hit
Speaker 1: a place where it was like, okay, you're being like
Speaker 1: it's like getting aggressive on your point on your part.
Speaker 1: You know, there's no peace, there's no this, there's and
Speaker 1: there was other factors, you know, her mom passed away
Speaker 1: right around at the same time, with a bunch of
Speaker 1: like stresses and things that were and I was working
Speaker 1: on this thing that we put on SoundCloud called Division,
Speaker 1: so really right as it was happening, I was just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just terrible timing. So it just felt like
Speaker 1: everything was pushing and it's crazy because, um, you know,
Speaker 1: I've been in Atlanta work on this album for the
Speaker 1: past nine months. And she randomly popped up over there
Speaker 1: like they were like two weeks ago. We're still cool
Speaker 1: to this day, two weeks ago, and she was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, this happened with this guy that I'm out
Speaker 1: here seeing. Could you come help me whatever? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: of course this is my own girl. Like I you know,
Speaker 1: I still care for it. We still we're still great.
Speaker 1: But um, you know, I just weren't right for the relationship.
Speaker 1: The way I look at that is like only one
Speaker 1: relationship in your life is supposed to work. Then you
Speaker 1: marry in front of God, the one at the end
Speaker 1: of it. Yes's work for a little while. Work is
Speaker 1: supposed to last because I think work is the distance, right,
Speaker 1: the distance, So everything else is just preparing you for that.
Speaker 1: So you know, you don't have to be mad at
Speaker 1: all your ex is. I hate that idea that we
Speaker 1: have to be like, oh fun my ex I don't
Speaker 1: really have any problems with my expen either, but it's
Speaker 1: really easier. No. I think as long as like, well
Speaker 1: form the guy that you have his emails still likes,
Speaker 1: he definitely doesn't have a problem with me. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm also not a vindictive person, and I think like,
Speaker 1: if I break up with somebody, I feel like that's
Speaker 1: enough punishment. I'm not gonna do anything else to you,
Speaker 1: and so I just let it go and then I
Speaker 1: see you. I'll still be cordial. I don't have I
Speaker 1: don't like to have like bad energy for people that do.
Speaker 1: I always feel like, like, what is love to you then,
Speaker 1: because if it's if you believe in love and how
Speaker 1: it's unconditional, the word is unconditional. And whether we're together
Speaker 1: we're not, whether we're fighting, whether we're not, whether whatever
Speaker 1: it is, I still want you to win. I still
Speaker 1: care about you, I still want you to be in
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna wish bad on you. That's all better
Speaker 1: than you period. What I'm saying is I'll tell you
Speaker 1: this much like I think a like when things are
Speaker 1: going well, it's easier to be like I wish you well.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because when your life is
Speaker 1: sucked up, it's hard to feel that way, you know,
Speaker 1: it's hard to feel like I've never wanted bad for
Speaker 1: any of mine. And then I also love when people
Speaker 1: like try to hit me up and be like let's chat.
Speaker 1: I'm like, good, thank you. It's a good feeling the
Speaker 1: block and come no, I am not. It's been the
Speaker 1: block type of person when I don't want Actually when
Speaker 1: because Mary, if I if I stopped talking to somebody
Speaker 1: because it's something that they did to me. And I'm
Speaker 1: the type of person like I just know myself and
Speaker 1: I know that I'm not I'll forgive it and move on.
Speaker 1: But I don't think I could get back together with
Speaker 1: you because I don't feel like I would be comfortable.
Speaker 1: And I also don't feel like I've ever been in
Speaker 1: love like that. And I'm gonna be honest. The email guy,
Speaker 1: if you're listening, yeah, you know we were to get
Speaker 1: as a matter of fact, you wanting here something funny.
Speaker 1: So I was like working on my book and part
Speaker 1: of it is me exploring like different things that happened
Speaker 1: to me in the past that made me think the
Speaker 1: way that I think. And I actually interviewed him about
Speaker 1: why he used to cheat on me all the time.
Speaker 1: We interviewed him. Yeah online, we're not didn't put it
Speaker 1: out yet. She put my book. Guy, he told me
Speaker 1: things I didn't know he did. Anger you more. I'm
Speaker 1: not angry. I don't, I do not care. You know what,
Speaker 1: he didn't love you. It was because he felt like
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think we were a lot younger.
Speaker 1: And then I also he told me, you know, he
Speaker 1: was young, he was popping, he had you know, he
Speaker 1: had a good job. He worked like an investment banking,
Speaker 1: and so he felt like he was lit at the time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was an ego thing. And then he also said
Speaker 1: that I always put my friends before him, but I
Speaker 1: also always he was cheating, So of course I put
Speaker 1: my friends. People always knew he was cheating because I
Speaker 1: would catch him doing stuff. But as women, I feel
Speaker 1: like we believe what we want to believe, right, Like,
Speaker 1: you could know some things happening and a guy will
Speaker 1: deny it and you'll believe it if you choose to
Speaker 1: believe it. Yeah, we do it. We don't catch red handed,
Speaker 1: like how you got caught red handed. We don't catch
Speaker 1: red We can still we can still lie to ourselves
Speaker 1: and be like, well, maybe he's telling the truth when
Speaker 1: he called me by accident. The girl speaking might have
Speaker 1: been his friend's sister, you know, and you really think like,
Speaker 1: maybe he's telling the truth. Benefit of the doubt, you know,
Speaker 1: but you know what it really is. See, I've had
Speaker 1: that happen. I've had I I don't know why I'm
Speaker 1: telling you guys this, but yeah, I woke up maybe
Speaker 1: I woke up one day a literal knife in my back?
Speaker 1: What girls sitting on my back? Knife in my back? Oh,
Speaker 1: she didn't stab you yet, No, No, it was just
Speaker 1: poking in my back. So I was like, she was
Speaker 1: like you continue, and I was like what. I didn't
Speaker 1: want to move because I'm like, yo, don't want to move.
Speaker 1: And then through the and she's like, why are you
Speaker 1: answering fucking texts? And said hey baby? And it was
Speaker 1: a message. I said hey baby, and I looked at
Speaker 1: it and I didn't recognize the number for a second scrolled.
Speaker 1: I was like, this is my anti kim literally how
Speaker 1: it happened. And she felt and literally the apology that
Speaker 1: I got was so minimal. Sorry, did you in things
Speaker 1: with her? That? Not? After that, but I ended the
Speaker 1: licking crazy girls though, keeping at it. I'll tell you
Speaker 1: what it is. Some guys, some guys, and I think
Speaker 1: I might fall into this category. Mind you, if you're crazy,
Speaker 1: I'm not inviting you. He's like, I'm not telling you.
Speaker 1: What I will say is that I think some guy,
Speaker 1: some people period wo men and women. I think that
Speaker 1: if we when we've been hurt sometimes or things have
Speaker 1: happened to us in our past, I think that sometimes
Speaker 1: we mix up extremeness with you care, you care enough
Speaker 1: to go do something outlandish, which means I must matter
Speaker 1: that much to you. And I think that that I
Speaker 1: fell into that pattern at some point in my life
Speaker 1: where it was like, you know, the over the top
Speaker 1: things that people would do would be my my reassurance
Speaker 1: that mattered to that person. And y'all said this on
Speaker 1: lips there is a long time ago I remember, and
Speaker 1: I was like, no, it'd be like, you don't lest
Speaker 1: somebody if you never wanted to kill them. WHA We
Speaker 1: said this, No, not you, I'm talking about I remember
Speaker 1: y'all saying that, and I was like, no, not in
Speaker 1: my world because and I remember people being a comments like, well,
Speaker 1: you never really love nobody if you didn't want to
Speaker 1: kill them, But you just said you didn't really love
Speaker 1: anybody like that. Wow, I feel like I don't remember
Speaker 1: when I felt like that, but I may have because
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, we've been doing the show
Speaker 1: for a long time, so I feel a long point
Speaker 1: at this point, I feel like you never really love
Speaker 1: somebody if you didn't want to kill yourself over them.
Speaker 1: I'm ever going to kill myself. I'm kill you. That's
Speaker 1: why I'm so careful about who I love, because when
Speaker 1: you love somebody the way they hurt you, it feels
Speaker 1: really powerful, you know, it feels I don't because it's
Speaker 1: not it's not like you are stabbed or you know,
Speaker 1: like you're not really bleeding, but you are bleeding like
Speaker 1: your hardest bleeding, and it's just so it's hard to explain. Man,
Speaker 1: do you think that's too Like have you ever felt
Speaker 1: like I don't even want to be here anymore if
Speaker 1: I'm not with this person, I'm definitely I don't want
Speaker 1: to be anymore. From not that's a lot of power
Speaker 1: I think I have I think I have at one time,
Speaker 1: and I think that that's actually the relationship that completely
Speaker 1: changed me after that, because I learned to survive without
Speaker 1: the person, and then from there I became this like,
Speaker 1: oh I don't need anybody. When you put up right,
Speaker 1: it made me pull up that place like when you realize,
Speaker 1: you know what, it was so dumb for me to
Speaker 1: feel like I wanted to die because this person was
Speaker 1: hurting me. I really feel like you come out so
Speaker 1: much stronger. I know you don't agree that wasn't afraid, Yes,
Speaker 1: it's like that. Yeah, I don't think. I don't think
Speaker 1: I was necessary like per se suicidal, But I think
Speaker 1: I was just like you know that depressed over the situation.
Speaker 1: I think that was like deep love. Oh for sure,
Speaker 1: that was that was that was very deep love, and
Speaker 1: it was it was it was my first okay, it
Speaker 1: was my first love. One thing, you've lost your virginity
Speaker 1: to your first love, like some random no no. I purposely,
Speaker 1: I purposely when all my niggas in like high school
Speaker 1: and stuff for like offer, oh I got this, and
Speaker 1: you know they're happy to be losing it. I was
Speaker 1: purposely like I'm not going to until I get like
Speaker 1: I need the one. I was that hopeless for many Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, I feel like that done different. Wait wait
Speaker 1: I can wait here, wait wait, hold on, I have
Speaker 1: to say this. I don't feel like I've ever been suicide,
Speaker 1: like seriously thinking about which way I'm gonna die right
Speaker 1: for I never, not one time have called the guy,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna kill myself. If you do that,
Speaker 1: I think that's ridiculous. Does that make you feel like
Speaker 1: I can't leave them because something could happen? Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna would be lying if I said that.
Speaker 1: Some you feel trapped, yeah, and how do you hand
Speaker 1: and then how do you handle that? Eventually have to
Speaker 1: choose yourself or or them, your own sanity or them,
Speaker 1: because you, like you also feel like it could be
Speaker 1: manipulative or in terms of manipulation tactic when you tell
Speaker 1: somebody I'm gonna kill myself. What I'm saying there might
Speaker 1: be some truth behind it, but because they would be like,
Speaker 1: you gotta kind of be like, yo, you gotta had
Speaker 1: some help. Then you got like you gotta seek something
Speaker 1: bigger than me because I can't. I can't save you.
Speaker 1: But I would be lying if I said I wasn't
Speaker 1: so hurt that to myself. I didn't tell my friends,
Speaker 1: I didn't tell anybody else, but in my own mind,
Speaker 1: I just felt like, you know what, I just I
Speaker 1: don't want to be here right now? You know, did
Speaker 1: you depressed? Your down? Has some drinks and that's it right,
Speaker 1: But I don't think I would ever love somebody like
Speaker 1: that again in my life. To your first love, I
Speaker 1: want to hear this. What do you want to hear?
Speaker 1: Because most people don't have that story. I think that
Speaker 1: story like I did just set it up. It wasn't
Speaker 1: all that. It wasn't like set up. No, it was just, um,
Speaker 1: it's actually a funny story because I'm not sure which
Speaker 1: time I lost my virginity if you put it in.
Speaker 1: And like so the very first time that I'm thinking
Speaker 1: of I felt completely different than the second time. So
Speaker 1: I was like in the first time, I even in,
Speaker 1: but this didn't feel like yeah, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Mind you we didn't finish. It wasn't like it was
Speaker 1: like we started doing it for a second and then
Speaker 1: like her brother came home when we had to stop.
Speaker 1: That was her first time too, No, it wasn't hers,
Speaker 1: So I would I guess I was her who knows who.
Speaker 1: According to what I was told, that was her second.
Speaker 1: But the first time was I was like okay, And
Speaker 1: the second time I was like, whoa wait, happened last time?
Speaker 1: So experience I say that all the time. I feel
Speaker 1: like the first time I attempted to have sex, we
Speaker 1: didn't really have sex. I think he was just like
Speaker 1: grinding on my lips or something. I feel like, after
Speaker 1: the fact, I was just like, what was that? But
Speaker 1: then when I had really, you know, attempted the second time,
Speaker 1: I know that time that we definitely didn't. So you
Speaker 1: didn't come the first time because her brother came over here,
Speaker 1: so it was quick. It was literally like you know,
Speaker 1: a minute, a minute and that's and someone came in
Speaker 1: the house with the stop. So the second time, it
Speaker 1: was like, oh wait, what is this warm feeling? Happened?
Speaker 1: Lest time it was what you remember your first time?
Speaker 1: What was was it somebody loved or no? Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I would say I love with him. At the time,
Speaker 1: it sounds so cliche because I was watching Love in Basketball.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's cute. That movie has always had
Speaker 1: like a special place that's special. So yeah, we're watching
Speaker 1: you had a little next, I didn't know this. This
Speaker 1: is a great content. There's no reason for me to
Speaker 1: tell you, you know, in the movie. And then you
Speaker 1: had sex during the movie in the basement of my parents.
Speaker 1: Al yeah, was it everything you thought it was going
Speaker 1: to be the first time you had sex. I really
Speaker 1: had no idea what to expect going into it, So
Speaker 1: I think I had more. I had more of an
Speaker 1: idea after that, like, oh, okay, that's what it is.
Speaker 1: You know, I just did it. Did you finish your
Speaker 1: first time? Her first time? To damn these girls here
Speaker 1: breaking y'all in real? I mean, even back to the
Speaker 1: statement with cheating, it's like, be real. So I have
Speaker 1: a question about the cheating and the whole be real thing.
Speaker 1: Let's flip the script. Absolutely, let's flip the script. Your
Speaker 1: woman cheats on you and gets called and she says,
Speaker 1: I was just working him. I was. I was coming
Speaker 1: home right after, like I was gonna getting right back,
Speaker 1: I was gonna wet wipe it off. How did you
Speaker 1: she said that? If she said that, are you saying
Speaker 1: that she like, Now, if this is the scenario she's saying,
Speaker 1: if she's saying, hey, if I did, I would still
Speaker 1: love you or she or that actually happened, and then
Speaker 1: I found out, you find out are you staying? Are
Speaker 1: you forgiving her? There was a void I was feeling.
Speaker 1: I don't know, whatever the case, whatever the reason, but
Speaker 1: it's not because I have any less love for you
Speaker 1: than I did yesterday. So I'll answer both of that.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't necessarily jump to the conclusion of thinking she
Speaker 1: loves me less, but I would jump to the place
Speaker 1: where I say, Okay, this probably isn't for me, because
Speaker 1: I know how I'm coming into relationships as it today,
Speaker 1: and I'm going to come into it with it. Okay,
Speaker 1: look what do we want. Let's carve out what me
Speaker 1: and you are cool with. Everything is on the table.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna judge you. I'm not gonna talk. We're
Speaker 1: just gonna sit here and put what is okay, how, when, where? How?
Speaker 1: All these things on the table, and if she violates that,
Speaker 1: because cheating is more about the lives, more with the hiding.
Speaker 1: If we're in an open relationship, it's not cheating. If
Speaker 1: we're in a relationship where you know, we can have
Speaker 1: three sums or she's okay to do whatever with a
Speaker 1: girl at that, that's not cheating. So I'm saying I
Speaker 1: just want to make sure we have a clear understanding,
Speaker 1: clear understanding, and in that understanding, I know myself right now,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be like, okay, cool, go sleeper than that.
Speaker 1: So if she breaks out of it is not for
Speaker 1: you to know. The other women is different to you
Speaker 1: than sleeping with men. I mean personally, no, it's not okay.
Speaker 1: So I was just putting that just because a girl.
Speaker 1: Same shit. Yeah, um, I think depending on the situation,
Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily immediately being like we're done, because I
Speaker 1: feel like people are people you you all go through
Speaker 1: it differently and you kind of react to situations differently.
Speaker 1: I've been cheaten before, and I didn't end it immediately,
Speaker 1: you know. I kind of just looked at it, like,
Speaker 1: you know, if this is a reoccurring thing, and then
Speaker 1: we'll have the conversation then if not, then if if that,
Speaker 1: what did you do? What changed in your relationship to
Speaker 1: get over it? Did you feel like you had to
Speaker 1: change anything? Like it was it was early in our
Speaker 1: relationship and she basically called me crying. It was like,
Speaker 1: I have to tell you something, confessed told me the
Speaker 1: whole thing. So she didn't get caught. You know, the
Speaker 1: guy I kind of knew. I didn't know in person,
Speaker 1: I knew who he was. I kind of knew it
Speaker 1: was happening. Like in my head, I was like, I
Speaker 1: feel like there's a little something. It felt different now, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's just like I feel like, I know there's something
Speaker 1: going on with that person that you're telling me. You know,
Speaker 1: you guys are cool or whatever. The emotional thing that
Speaker 1: you kind of picked up on. Yeah, just I knew
Speaker 1: there was something. And then she told me and I
Speaker 1: kind of had almost like no reaction because I've already
Speaker 1: gone through it in my and it's like a already
Speaker 1: prepared yourself. She didn't talk to him anymore because were
Speaker 1: you cheating at the time? And so after that, did
Speaker 1: you guys stayed right? Say did you cheat? How did
Speaker 1: you did you start cheating? Did you change? But did
Speaker 1: you change how you moved with her? Yeah? Maybe because
Speaker 1: it was earlier in your life in the relationship that
Speaker 1: was at least she's being honest, So you kind of
Speaker 1: that was kind of like, well, you know, you came
Speaker 1: to me, you confessed to respect of the honest. Then
Speaker 1: when you get cut and when you confessed had somebody. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But my theory with men is when they catch you
Speaker 1: with other guys, if they care about you, it's going
Speaker 1: to kind of make them feel a little different towards you,
Speaker 1: because I feel like when a guy really cares about you,
Speaker 1: he doesn't want you to be with other men. But
Speaker 1: of course not, that's more comment guess saying that you
Speaker 1: know he don't care if the girls that he's working with, um,
Speaker 1: but those are his girl. It wasn't a relationship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's just just like just in general, when you care
Speaker 1: about a girl, whether she's your wife, e or just
Speaker 1: somebody you know you're sleeping where, if you care about her,
Speaker 1: you don't worry to have sex with other people, just
Speaker 1: in general. Let me ask you this though, as not
Speaker 1: even because you want to be her man, because I
Speaker 1: know for me, like if somebody cheating me, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: randomly think about it at times and get angry. Like
Speaker 1: do guys do that? Like did you randomly sometimes get
Speaker 1: like angry or think about it, maybe even while you're
Speaker 1: having sex, Like I assume it would be the same.
Speaker 1: I mean, certain guys, if he if he doesn't do that,
Speaker 1: if you didn't do that, it's probably because that's not
Speaker 1: in your personality to sit there and dwell and and
Speaker 1: do that. But I feel like the same way a
Speaker 1: woman would is the same way a guy would. I
Speaker 1: think that's why that's of a girl entertaining even a
Speaker 1: fraction of the women that man entertained. Our egos are
Speaker 1: set up differently. That's my whole point of asking the question.
Speaker 1: I wanted to get that out of men handle it like,
Speaker 1: do you want the details like some guys. Some guys
Speaker 1: would want to know, but you want to know the details.
Speaker 1: I think that I would be somebody that would want
Speaker 1: to know. I don't want to know the details unless
Speaker 1: for some reason you come back and you're acting like
Speaker 1: there was something different about it. I'm like, okay, then
Speaker 1: what what made that different? You know? What was the thing?
Speaker 1: And I think I would have a moment where I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, well what happened that made you feel great
Speaker 1: about it? If you didn't, then it didn't. But if
Speaker 1: it did, I'm like, maybe I got some work to
Speaker 1: do for me from experience. Every time I got caught cheating, UM,
Speaker 1: it wouldn't like it wouldn't um it would make him
Speaker 1: you know what we didn't he wouldn't stop being with me.
Speaker 1: We wouldn't this. But guys don't attend. Say guys don't
Speaker 1: leave a lot of guys, actually they will get A
Speaker 1: man will get not every guy. Yes, guys are not.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's more men staying in relationships where
Speaker 1: they know their girls cheating them cheating? The girl has
Speaker 1: cheated more than guys that have left. Yes, you don't
Speaker 1: know why because these girls are out here cheating with
Speaker 1: some guys don't know. Girls are just way better at it.
Speaker 1: Guys don't want to know. I think girls detectives. Guys
Speaker 1: don't want to know that. But every time I've gotten
Speaker 1: caught when when every time I've gotten court he um
Speaker 1: like I said, he didn't believe me, but it would
Speaker 1: he every time I would do something, He's like watching
Speaker 1: me from the side of it would make him different
Speaker 1: towards me. You know what I'm saying. Every little thing
Speaker 1: that every time he would catch me crossing him something
Speaker 1: that I was doing what he never caught me sleeping
Speaker 1: with another guy. But there's a lot of different ways
Speaker 1: to cheat. So every time he would catch me doing
Speaker 1: something I wasn't supposed to do, he would treat me
Speaker 1: different about it, you know what I mean? That man, Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course she's talking about her son's father. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: feel like now in my today, I don't have the
Speaker 1: attention span or the patients to be with more than
Speaker 1: one guy at a time. But at the time, I
Speaker 1: was a kid, you know, I was young, and I
Speaker 1: hadn't really experienced that much in life, and we got
Speaker 1: into something really serious. You shouldn't even age exactly, I
Speaker 1: don't even think we should be. So you feel like
Speaker 1: that was you were liberating yourself. No, not that I
Speaker 1: was liberating myself. I just I got my foot into
Speaker 1: a door that I never thought I would be in,
Speaker 1: And um, it was a lot of temptation that I
Speaker 1: fell into. And when you were young and I was young,
Speaker 1: I was a kid, you know what I mean. So honestly,
Speaker 1: I never wanted to get caught. My number one thing
Speaker 1: is because I didn't want to hurt him, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. I knew that it would hurt him,
Speaker 1: just me talking other people were sexual with him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wasn't even really having sex with other people. I
Speaker 1: was just always entertaining myself talking to other people with him. No,
Speaker 1: after a while, you know, we started once we had
Speaker 1: the baby. We started living separate lives, you know, like
Speaker 1: I had to. We never got a babysitter soul. If
Speaker 1: I was outside, he was in the house with the
Speaker 1: kid with my kid, or if he was outside, I
Speaker 1: was in the house with kids. So it was like,
Speaker 1: you know, we we ended up having two different separate
Speaker 1: lives outside. And just more of the story is every
Speaker 1: time he would catch me doing something, he would be
Speaker 1: more cautious about certain things. Did he catch you because
Speaker 1: he was suspecting things? Absolutely used to be on my
Speaker 1: phone digging, digging, digging all day and found it. Yes,
Speaker 1: But I do feel like guys don't be winning to
Speaker 1: know so much, like I feel like I don't want
Speaker 1: to know. Yeah, yeah. On the Breakfast Club Neo, it
Speaker 1: was like, you don't want to know if his life.
Speaker 1: I don't think that commonly. I don't. I don't know
Speaker 1: what's commonly. Men are in a place where they're like, hey,
Speaker 1: look if my girl's cheating. There's a lot of guys
Speaker 1: that I was with that record. I'm saying I resonated
Speaker 1: with the record, and I didn't feel that way. But
Speaker 1: I just felt like, oh my god, he feels this way.
Speaker 1: This is crazy. It was a sad as songs and
Speaker 1: that song was written. I told you one thing down
Speaker 1: you're in the bathtub in the song is sad, but
Speaker 1: I don't one thing the mini were sleeping with somebody else.
Speaker 1: It was over. He did not he was not trying
Speaker 1: to be with me. After that, that sounds like you
Speaker 1: guys went through a lot together. Definitely did. It's like
Speaker 1: many years to get to that. Like, have you ever
Speaker 1: investigated to see if a woman was cheating on you?
Speaker 1: M actually no, yeah, the same first first level. Okay,
Speaker 1: but that was a long an and you didn't really investigate.
Speaker 1: She told you. She told me, Yeah, you ever been
Speaker 1: investigated with a woman with that same girl? There was
Speaker 1: one time I had her phone and I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't even want to do that. If I see something,
Speaker 1: what am I going to do right here? That's how
Speaker 1: I feel too, You know then what I mean? Guys like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I saw I was looking through your phone, And do
Speaker 1: you think about that during sex? Like Dan, she cheated
Speaker 1: on me during sex, because that's the time when you
Speaker 1: think about things to do. But I don't think about
Speaker 1: my boyfriend cheating on me during but cheated on me,
Speaker 1: And that's what made me. Really, I couldn't do it.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna think about it. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: had moments where someone didn't necessarily cheat on me, but
Speaker 1: there was a bunch of a bunch of stuff that
Speaker 1: they weren't honest about, and they lied about, and you know,
Speaker 1: situations that they tried to like hide that came out randomly,
Speaker 1: and those things have hit me while I'm outing sex,
Speaker 1: he said, thinking about that ship, and he'd be like,
Speaker 1: does that make me not able to come? Does that
Speaker 1: make you not able to come? It makes me, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it makes me just kind of like not start. I
Speaker 1: stopped being as present. Ye, what's your zodiacs? Scorpio scorpio God.
Speaker 1: I love lovaboys and sc freaky, but they are cheat tears. No,
Speaker 1: we're not not the man I've been with. People take
Speaker 1: our sexual are sexual and they lie anything too. I
Speaker 1: can see Scorpio scorpios. I don't think so. I think
Speaker 1: that we're very We're very loyal people. We are highly sexual. Yeah, people, people,
Speaker 1: People misconscrued sexuality for sexual promiscuo promiscuity. It doesn't mean
Speaker 1: I want to everybody the same girl in all different
Speaker 1: kinds of ways. You have how many different times, the
Speaker 1: same girl for the rest of your life. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think could I think what about you? You think
Speaker 1: you could go with one girl for the rest of
Speaker 1: your life currently, it's something eventually I would love to.
Speaker 1: I'm not there right. Let me ask you this, So
Speaker 1: let's talk about what is this project going to be? Like,
Speaker 1: I know, it's a whole story that you guys said
Speaker 1: you're telling. So what is this story? Well, like I said, one,
Speaker 1: you know, deals with the ego, and it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: all the places that that can take you. I mean,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you you have to
Speaker 1: come two terms with it. There's accountability, there's remorse, and
Speaker 1: hopefully there's there's growth. You know, there's a lot of
Speaker 1: uncomfortable conversations on it. There's a lot of reflection in
Speaker 1: the sense of like realizing things about yourself, your relationships,
Speaker 1: your your interactions. Um, you know obviously you know the
Speaker 1: sex all, there's all different kinds of things. But I
Speaker 1: think the main the main point of it is is
Speaker 1: the journey of the growth, or at least starting the journey,
Speaker 1: because I feel like as a culture, that's what we
Speaker 1: need to be doing as a people, as as a race.
Speaker 1: Human race. That's where we need to be at. It
Speaker 1: is like, okay, yeah, the human experience has changed. How
Speaker 1: are we going to deal with this and get get
Speaker 1: real things anymore? You know? How do you how do
Speaker 1: you even know what's real anymore? You know, we're almost
Speaker 1: becoming more and more digital everything Nothing that's real anymore,
Speaker 1: you know. So, um, the album is, what I will say,
Speaker 1: is definitely I think it's probably our most like R
Speaker 1: and B album to date. It's almost traditional R and
Speaker 1: B definite. We're not getting too much of that. That's
Speaker 1: how you guys had that wedding song on Yeah, wedding cake, Yeah,
Speaker 1: wedding cake stuff like I do like that. So it's
Speaker 1: it's very Um, I think it's very like traditional sort
Speaker 1: of in the sense of like the sounds and how
Speaker 1: we're approaching the songs. But it's new in the way
Speaker 1: that it's like the conversation is new because we're living
Speaker 1: in today. We're part of this generation, so naturally our
Speaker 1: stories of life and love and relationships are different than
Speaker 1: our grandparents and our parents and like that. Do you
Speaker 1: think about your weddings and stuff? I do? I do?
Speaker 1: You literally started in my phone. It's crazy, like I
Speaker 1: hear about this is so not even comparison. No girls
Speaker 1: gonna like this, but you know, Drake's like saving Birken
Speaker 1: bags for me. I'm like, I'm already making my playlist.
Speaker 1: My playlist is what's on there? Love that? No, no,
Speaker 1: don't want to adore by Prince. You gotta have that.
Speaker 1: That's on It is on It so amazing Luther songs
Speaker 1: from like my my parents and my mom, my mom
Speaker 1: and my my aunt's generation to songs of of ours.
Speaker 1: But I'm really like, I know I have one thing
Speaker 1: is going to hit. It's reception. Receptions, right I I
Speaker 1: could be friends with you, so I could get invited.
Speaker 1: I don't know about it. I don't at all. I
Speaker 1: don't at all, and that shudn't matters so much. I
Speaker 1: remember my uncle got married and I will never forget this.
Speaker 1: At his wedding, they played Confessions by Us. Yes, that's
Speaker 1: what I want to do. Not really think about how
Speaker 1: is your uncle doing now he's still married. They're still
Speaker 1: song like what DJZ you cannot play at the wedding? Right?
Speaker 1: Like division? Wow? If some real songs line the line
Speaker 1: of line, the line is a very marride song. Conversations
Speaker 1: and the dinner. Yeah, you guys do. And I hate
Speaker 1: the fact that even with this, some people think y'all
Speaker 1: are like tip, but you guys have beautiful songs, So
Speaker 1: I think, you know, it's very three to mention all.
Speaker 1: I think the I think the crazy part is it's
Speaker 1: like for anybody that knows us and and and knows
Speaker 1: our are the music that we've made, it's like so
Speaker 1: to see that this song that you guys are misinterpreting
Speaker 1: or have misinterpreted in the beginning as toxic is the
Speaker 1: most talked about possible thing, that one song that we've
Speaker 1: ever had in like a week span. What did that
Speaker 1: say about you guys? You know what I mean, because
Speaker 1: we've been making the records that you guys are saying
Speaker 1: I wanted to be this, It's like and it's on
Speaker 1: the album, like rest assured know exactly what we're doing.
Speaker 1: We had to start this conversation at this point, and
Speaker 1: we had to start. We set to start it with
Speaker 1: something that we forced you guys force everybody to have
Speaker 1: to like stop and address how they feel about something.
Speaker 1: I think it's brilliant. Yeah, if anything, it was a
Speaker 1: great conversation exactly we just got a text actually before
Speaker 1: coming here. That's the most number one added song too
Speaker 1: Urban radio today. Yeah, so it's like we're three times
Speaker 1: on the way. So you know, we're happy about that.
Speaker 1: It's crazy that this is that you guys. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: we knew that. We knew that. A yeah, And now
Speaker 1: I got to ask you a question because shout out
Speaker 1: to my girl, miss pat so you know, her show
Speaker 1: was coming back to BET and I'm BT plus and
Speaker 1: I want to ask you this is it okay for
Speaker 1: men to watch porn while being in a relationship? And
Speaker 1: do you think that porn sets unrealistic expectations? You know
Speaker 1: a lot of guys learn how to have sex when porn,
Speaker 1: and they say a reason why men are not as
Speaker 1: like loving is because that's how they learned. What do
Speaker 1: you think we need another drink? What do you think
Speaker 1: about that? You know? I think I think if it
Speaker 1: doesn't get to like an obsessive place, then it can
Speaker 1: be something. It can be like a toy, it can
Speaker 1: be something that you used to enhance the relationship. But
Speaker 1: watch porn during sex h um. But again I think
Speaker 1: it can't. There has to be a limit, you know,
Speaker 1: too much of anything isn't good. And I think the
Speaker 1: problem is a lot of people don't want to admit
Speaker 1: their addicted to point. I think you're addicted when you're
Speaker 1: like missing appointments and you're like a yeah, that's when
Speaker 1: they say you're addicted. You're like not being on time
Speaker 1: for ship, like now I gotta hold on, I gotta
Speaker 1: get one out. I think also the addiction can come
Speaker 1: from how frequently you need it. You might not miss things,
Speaker 1: but you need it so constantly. So he wants to
Speaker 1: say something, I thought of something. I said, I shouldn't
Speaker 1: say that. Now you gotta say it. I thought, go
Speaker 1: right through that. I was watching them, you have a point,
Speaker 1: the complete opposite. I don't watch point at all. He
Speaker 1: didn't want to say. I have watched it before, but
Speaker 1: I don't like it was almost like funny to me
Speaker 1: when I'm watching I was up those guys like, I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: he's pulling out and she's screaming as though he put
Speaker 1: it in. I'm one of those guys face like yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: hormos offer them. Now, let me ask you this, So
Speaker 1: when you watch porn, do you watch like the same thing?
Speaker 1: You know, how like you might have a favorite or
Speaker 1: a favorite like actress or do you like the It's
Speaker 1: not that deep with me. I don't. Do you know
Speaker 1: their names? You know, anyone even know the porn girl
Speaker 1: names and stuff? You ever seen somebody you knew, like
Speaker 1: in a porn like, oh my school, have seen somebody
Speaker 1: in Oh my god. One time I was watching random
Speaker 1: porn lime Wire days. This is a long launched an
Speaker 1: sperit and my best friend he had a roommate and
Speaker 1: she was so cool. She was like a substitute teacher's pet.
Speaker 1: And boom I saw on lime wise like a dick
Speaker 1: in a hotel room. I was like, was she good?
Speaker 1: She was making a loud noise. It was like, do
Speaker 1: you guys watch porn for the masturbation purpose or do
Speaker 1: you just watch it to watch it just for like
Speaker 1: just at this time, I was just discovering that you
Speaker 1: could download all this free port on the computer. This
Speaker 1: is back in the days, watch overloading on it. I
Speaker 1: think that's that's probably part of why I don't watch porn.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know if I watch it necessary ever,
Speaker 1: you don't check off ever never ever, I have in
Speaker 1: my life a decade. Why that same feeling you do
Speaker 1: see intense. I just don't feel good as soon as
Speaker 1: as soon as it's done, I feel like I feel
Speaker 1: come back, dirt bag. It's the weirdest thing. So it
Speaker 1: takes you till you're done to feel like that. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I laughed about two minutes in the porn and after
Speaker 1: I come I'm like, wow, I'm just sealthy. And I
Speaker 1: hate telling about I hate telling girls in my life
Speaker 1: that because whenever i'm I've seen a new girl or
Speaker 1: talking to a girl and whatever, and I tell her that,
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, now I know you're a whole because
Speaker 1: now you're film yourself having sex. Ever I've she I
Speaker 1: had a girl do that once because I'm going to
Speaker 1: say sometimes I would like to set her phone it
Speaker 1: was on. It was on her phone because sometimes guys
Speaker 1: like to look at themselves like I've never I've never.
Speaker 1: That was she did that one wonderful job I did.
Speaker 1: What about you? You You put out your camera sometimes you
Speaker 1: definitely have yeah listening, You're not as innocent. Video on
Speaker 1: your phone right now? What have you? Like? You having sex?
Speaker 1: Are getting hang suck? I'm sure that to sex folder phone,
Speaker 1: so that there might be something something somewhere you look
Speaker 1: at it like, no, do you say I have no
Speaker 1: nudes ever? Sent? Good? So you know it took a
Speaker 1: package pick before, don't We don't even like those. I
Speaker 1: just became proud of being able to say that. And
Speaker 1: I just became proud of it. Like listen, most women
Speaker 1: don't even like dick picks. And if she already had
Speaker 1: sex with you and she asked you like, hey, send
Speaker 1: me the package pick, it's because she wants to show
Speaker 1: her friends, right, Yeah, Well I've always I've always declined those,
Speaker 1: and yeah to this day, so I'm like, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: your friends because it's good because it's let me give
Speaker 1: you all to get it for you guys. So we
Speaker 1: have a merch line that we just launched and we
Speaker 1: want to give you guys with a little bit services service.
Speaker 1: What is it? I saw you saw the bag like
Speaker 1: the d just a little you know what I'm say,
Speaker 1: T shirt little service because you guys, you guys survived
Speaker 1: lip service you put on the back. That's a good idea,
Speaker 1: honestly for the second time, and we thank you all
Speaker 1: so much. You know, I'm a big fan of Division,
Speaker 1: so I'm excited for the new project and I thank
Speaker 1: you guys. For coming in and I'm glad you'all are
Speaker 1: like doing all this press and putting yourself out there
Speaker 1: like that and doing like a super R and B album.
Speaker 1: It's exciting to me. Good, thank you for evidence. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm pulling up to the next event in Atlanta, so
Speaker 1: let me know, okay, and I'll pull up on myself
Speaker 1: this time because my friends gonna like him in outside.
Speaker 1: Why you know, I mean, I don't really have a
Speaker 1: lot of friends in Atlanta, but the ones I do
Speaker 1: have there. No, I grew up in Philly. I've been
Speaker 1: in Atlanta on and off seventeen years, but I'm a
Speaker 1: Philly You have friends, and I do know. I do
Speaker 1: have friends. I do have I do. I don't have friends,
Speaker 1: but you know I have friends that that that that
Speaker 1: that are like mothers and why they don't really be out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when I wanted to come to a Magic City last
Speaker 1: week on Monday, I called my one home girl and
Speaker 1: she's like, girl, I got the kids. So I was like,
Speaker 1: and it was like kind of late at night, so
Speaker 1: kids can't come to Magic No girl, no kids. That
Speaker 1: I'm kidding, but I was gonna pull up the with
Speaker 1: y'all know, shout out to be Cox and Jermaine and everybody.
Speaker 1: Well something when it's the album coming out, Um in
Speaker 1: the next two or three months. Ideally, we gotta we
Speaker 1: got another, definitely got more more, more single, we gotta
Speaker 1: before just people are a little more perfecting. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: the song is ready to go. I'm just gonna get
Speaker 1: the video, get the video wrapped up, and then um
Speaker 1: and so it starts to show like the story, the
Speaker 1: story understand Oh this is I get it. Who who's
Speaker 1: on the next song? That it's got to be something
Speaker 1: to wait for that. Okay, we're waiting. It's well, we
Speaker 1: cannot wait to hear. I'm so excited for that. I'm
Speaker 1: like a real R and B. I'm an eighties baby,
Speaker 1: so you know how you know the R and B
Speaker 1: ship just hit different. I don't think there's an R
Speaker 1: and B song like this one that's been done in
Speaker 1: over a decade. Can this be on the wedding playlist
Speaker 1: this next one or no? It might feel like it.
Speaker 1: I don't know lyrically, it's that it's not wedding content,
Speaker 1: bachelor party. Maybe it's not either. It's I don't want
Speaker 1: to say too much on the record, Okay, Angela, we'll
Speaker 1: have to wait. It's all right. Well, Daniel, thank you'all
Speaker 1: so much for coming to appreciate, appreciate y'all