WEBVTT - Episode 366: No Grip (Feat. dvsn) 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:05.240 What's Epics lift Service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm G G. Maguire, 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:13.440 I'm stepping in Santiago. Yeah, we all synchronized, like yeah, 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:16.120 you know, everybody got to do it individually. That's okay. 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:20.440 I'm Daniel, I'm the singer from Division. I'm gonna right. 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:27.200 We gotta get you to talk more. I'm kidding Waves 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:29.880 the other day and um, it's all about cheating. And 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:31.720 it's so funny that this came out at the same time. 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:33.479 There's well, I thought there's always a lot of cheating 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:37.240 things happening on social media, like getting caught people posting 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.320 that they caught somebody cheating, but the timing was impeccable. 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:44.040 Who wasn't that happening afterwards? Um, I would saying Neo 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:46.839 and his wife, and his wife did that long post 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:50.840 about him, you know, And there are levels to cheating, right, 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:53.720 because when I saw the video, you know, you went 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:57.360 out hanging with the guys. You cheated. But I think, 0:00:57.400 --> 0:01:01.800 like bringing somebody into your home is a non negotiable man, 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:04.240 I agree. What are some other things that you would say, 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:06.800 even from a man's point of view, is Unforgiva? Wait wait, wait, 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:09.399 said you saw the video. In the video, I mean 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:13.280 that cheating was still but I'm saying this is a misconception. 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.640 I'm glad that you brought that up about the video, 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:21.160 so I didn't cheat in that video. All the flashes 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:26.319 of reckless ship that you're seeing are her imagination. She 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:28.319 thinks I'm doing That's why you see me regular sitting 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:33.520 inside somebody and you see a flash, and it's a misconception. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:35.600 That's why at the end it turns out not even 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:37.360 my phone that she was going through that made her 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:39.440 go all crazy, Right, it was moss phone in the video. 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:42.720 Good to know because the whole song is about if 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:46.520 I get called cheating, which let's break that down. I'm 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:50.640 so ready to break this down. Um, So, first and foremost, 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:53.560 tell me what you tell me, what you tell me, 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:55.360 what you what you guys took when you heard the song, 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:57.560 just so I can understand, and then I'll tell you 0:01:57.560 --> 0:02:00.559 what actually was being said. Well, I think guys get cheating, 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:04.080 and the main thing they say is that they love you, 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:06.120 you know, and guys become up with excuses for cheating, 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:07.920 like it has nothing to do with how I feel 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:11.760 about you. It's a physical thing. And it was a 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:14.560 mistake that I made. You know, one of the main 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:16.560 things that guys always say, I'm a work in progress, 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:21.160 and so cliche bars from the guys that you're talking 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:24.600 the same thing as they do. One thing I took 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:28.240 from it was the if I get caught right right, 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:32.760 because exactly, but it's like, like, no, but if I'm 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:34.800 cheating from it, it doesn't mean I don't love you. 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:36.799 But if I get caught cheating, it doesn't mean I 0:02:36.960 --> 0:02:39.480 love you. Like it's a thin line between like what 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:41.560 you don't know won't hurt you, you know what I'm saying. 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:44.560 Some people say that, um, I love you if I 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:46.760 am more slick about it because I'm not gonna care you, 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:49.880 so I lied to you to not hurt your feeling. 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:51.480 There's a lot of guys. There's a lot of guys 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.799 that feel that way. They feeling. The effort that they 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.800 put into keeping it so far from the woman in 0:02:56.840 --> 0:03:00.080 their lives is because they care that much that that 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:02.560 person doesn't find out. Some guys do subscribe to that 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:04.799 or if I lie to you, that means I love 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:06.760 you because I don't hurt you. I don't want to 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:10.600 hurt you. And I think that if if you let 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:13.200 me find out. It's like, because you don't care, you're 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:17.960 not being any careful exactly. I feel like if you care, 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:20.160 if you if you care about how I feel, you're 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:24.200 gonna make sure that things that will hurt me stay 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:27.120 out of my way. So you think it might be happening, 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.000 you just don't want to see it. I don't want 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:31.919 to think it might be happening anymore. But if you 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:36.240 don't know, you don't know what they do. You know, 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:39.440 I'm a very what I don't know won't hurt me 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:43.080 type of person for sure. So I explain it. Daniel, Okay, cool, 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:50.440 let's break it down. So the song is about, like 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:52.920 when I wrote those verses, I'm writing about a situation 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:56.880 where I'm with a girl who is now hit a 0:03:56.960 --> 0:04:01.400 point where she thinks I might be doing something wrong, 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:06.560 I might be cheating, and I am addressing it from 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:11.240 the standpoint of a guy who's like, yo, everything that 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:17.400 first attracted you to me has now turned into your insecurities, right. 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:19.160 So that's why I say, as a fly nigger, when 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:21.000 you got here, I was charismatic when you got here. 0:04:21.000 --> 0:04:23.760 I'm saying, girls dancing allow me when you got you 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:27.080 know what I'm doing no, no, no, no no, Well what 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:30.440 I'm saying, Yeah, it's pretty much like, look if you 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:35.520 meet me and and I'm an attractive guy, I dress well. 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:39.039 I you know, I'm funny. I'm funny. People like being 0:04:39.080 --> 0:04:43.000 around me. Um, you know, I'm engaging, I'm talkative. All 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.200 of a sudden, when you get into relationships, sometimes those 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:47.280 things are into us. So you know what, bitch faced 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:49.800 you in tonight? You know why? Why? Who you? What 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:51.800 you get? Where are you? Where are you going to 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:56.440 dressed like that? You know? Um, yeah, yeah we're going 0:04:57.720 --> 0:04:59.440 You always gonna be so funny, would be laughing in 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:02.640 people's say, it turns into that, and that developed turns 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:05.160 into a situation where you know, those insecurities can boil 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:07.800 to a point where now she's digging through phone, she's 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:10.719 checking laptop, she's this is this is what I'm talking 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:14.080 about in the song. And that's why I'm like, why 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:16.479 do we do this when even when when really the 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:18.800 truth is because I'm like, look, you got my phone 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:22.520 in your hands, You're asking questions. Are you now digging 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:25.919 for a reason to leave? Is how it feels a 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:28.800 lot of guys you do say if you don't want 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.039 to leave somebody and you know you're gonna say, don't 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:33.680 even look. But if you're on the edge and you're like, 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:36.520 if I find some shit, I'm out out. Because if 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:38.400 you look and find some ship and you're really gonna 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:40.000 be out and if it really makes a difference and go, 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:42.680 But if you're gonna stay, why torture yourself? No, that's why. 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.039 That's why I don't look through phones, because you can. 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:49.960 You show fine, and I agree with you. When when 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:53.080 you digging for something, that's because you're trying trying to 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:55.400 find a problem. And so this is a guy saying, 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:58.400 look all the things that you liked about me have 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:01.200 now turned into this and now are looking for reasons 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:06.920 to be upset when even if hypothetical, if that's why 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:08.960 it's an if you get it, I feel like you 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:13.880 changed the whole meeting just now. I wanted to explain. 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:17.200 I'm happy to ask you this. What did you think 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:19.839 when he first wrote this song and you heard the lyrics, 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.520 were you like, well he was there? Were there? Okay? 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:24.719 So what were you thinking when when he was writing 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:29.520 this and the whole concept um, was there any hesitation like, man, 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:32.279 that's gonna be crazy? There were certain lines. I think 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:35.279 even in writing it, we did change some some lines 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:40.440 because like I can't remember what we changed, but there's 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.279 just specific lines where I was saying in the context 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:45.919 of what you're trying to say, that line is going 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:49.360 to come off so harsh that the meaning of everything 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:52.800 else is gonna get lost in it, feeling like you're 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:57.440 just going at you know, women or the which even 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:00.640 still I think that's getting lost in the first listen, 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:02.919 a lot of people are kind of like, oh, you 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:08.000 guys think you know, you think city up. You guys 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:10.480 think you're gonna make the cheating anthem. But it's not 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:16.520 saving about that. It's the conversation about where the people 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:19.680 are in the relationships or not. Let me also at 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:22.680 this the chorus part was actually written by Jermaine dupri 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.280 and that happened before we even got to the studio 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:28.720 that Jermaine's had its own issues with you. I don't nothing. 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:37.320 Admittedly I don't know what you're talking about, but no, 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:40.480 you know. So we walked in the studio and he 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.920 was just humming this thing and singing this thing. I 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.280 was like, Yo, what what what did you just say? 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:49.840 It's like to get everybody else in trouble for his life, 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:57.000 and I connected to that so much because great so 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:01.200 great at making songs. But yeah, he's I mean, the 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:06.760 chorus is so real because it's like, really, when you 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:12.120 break down cheating. In my research, in my life and 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:16.280 whatever else I found, it's been it's more about ego 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:20.920 than it is about how you feel emotionally for the person. 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.760 Especially for a lot of guys, it's more about them 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:26.600 going out and stroking their own ego, being selfish, being 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:29.960 self indulgent, just being out and just doing some bullshit 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:31.840 they just shouldn't have done. It didn't all of a 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:33.600 sudden I stopped loving my girl, so I did this. 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:38.560 I think like that you cheat for different reasons. Who 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:41.520 are you saying it's correct? Sometimes? I think, I think 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:44.640 not every single time, but you'll find commonly you hear 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:48.920 a lot more times women have cheat, Yeah, your revenge, 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.360 cheat or checked out or is a lack of something 0:08:53.080 --> 0:09:07.839 emotionally checked out? I don't know, Guys a chemistry thing. 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:09.959 A guy I can have the girl with the better face, 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:12.360 the better body, the better bag, the better and it 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:15.280 still do this and that's what more in the moment, 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:17.120 but it has nothing to do with it it's you 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:19.920 think guys normally cheat down like they cheat with somebody 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:22.439 that's not as dope as their girl. They're not looking 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.439 for someone as dope as that. That's the part that's 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:27.480 misconscrewed where it's like a lot of times guys are 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:30.960 like they're not looking to replace the woman, They're not 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:34.760 looking to find a new you. This is literally them 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:37.040 just being it has you weren't even in the equation, 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:40.280 and that's why they come to actually like, oh fuck, babe, 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:42.199 no it' there's nothing that you know I didn't because 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:45.400 they literally that that's what's going on in a lot 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:47.480 of their minds. Have you ever admitted cheating when you 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:49.480 got caught? Because I feel like most guys, when you 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:52.560 initially catch them, they're like, no, no, it's not even 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:55.160 like that. You just been The one time I got caught, 0:09:55.200 --> 0:10:00.560 I was caught, Like caught, I was caught. You know 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:04.360 you still lie? What was and what was your response 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:06.880 to he didn't like? How did you handle it? I 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:09.480 feel like that's the day I really truly fully became 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:11.959 a man because I sat in the car with two 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.760 women that I cared about and sat with both of 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:20.040 them and just aired my whole ship aired my whole ship. 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:22.959 So that time that you said you were here, were 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:26.439 you really with it? Yes? He was one of those 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:31.480 moments like you know so unfortunately, Yes, I just you 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:37.160 called after that happened to tell them about it. No one, 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:39.560 I don't think I called anybody that you got just 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:53.280 a little bit. He has sho to the mar um. 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:57.600 He broke his car. That was a different situation. Said, 0:10:57.840 --> 0:11:02.360 I wasn't cheating that one. Okay, um, yeah, so my 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:05.959 girls at my house, I think she asked to use 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:08.600 my laptop. I had to run out quickly. Man, guys 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:10.480 never wanted to use their laptop if you wanted to 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:12.520 catch somebody to care about your laptop. That's how I 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:14.880 almost every time I coughter got cheating on me because 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:17.760 they left the computer open, suddenly popped up. But what 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:23.480 popped up wasn't any anything wrong, but that kind of 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:26.040 like opened up the portal and then she's like, okay, 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:30.840 well kept looking I'm in here a little bit. No, 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:34.000 But honestly, with the computer thing, I wasn't even digging. 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:36.600 I'm not a digger. That's what I was so upset 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:38.079 about it. And I felt like God put that in 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:39.960 front of me because I wasn't even happening to me too. 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:42.400 And I opened up the computer at Boomed. There it 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:44.600 was he used my laptop and he didn't log out 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:53.600 of his email and cheating. Yes, let me tell you 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:56.760 what it was him. He had took a trip with 0:11:56.800 --> 0:12:00.360 another girl. So he's talking to his travel agent and 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:04.680 I happened, and then he's sending her side piece yes. 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:08.719 And then he also had pictures like that girl sent him. 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:10.839 And then he sent his sister like this is me 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:12.440 on the church and then I was like, oh, sister 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:16.800 in on it too. One thing that it was his 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:21.800 birthday when I found it on his birthday. The reason 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:23.400 I even went on there because at this time it 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:25.360 was Gmail. I didn't even have a Gmail. And what 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:28.200 did he say? Um? So first I tried not to 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:32.200 say anything like but then I started we were supposed 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:33.040 to go out to eat, and then I was like, 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:34.760 I'm not gonna be able to make it tonight. And 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:36.240 he was on his way home from work and he 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.600 was like, what was happen? Everything Okay? I was like 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:40.000 I just can't do it, and I hung up and 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:44.040 then I sent him all of the email the email 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:51.880 and I locked him out his email, he changed his watt. 0:12:52.559 --> 0:12:55.280 He doesn't know what you saw, but did you I 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:57.120 still have the email because I forwarded them to myself. 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.280 When you when you catch when you call him to cheating, 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:03.640 When you catch any guy cheating, do you feel like 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:08.199 they cheated on you because they cared about you? Luss um, 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:10.439 I think that's half of it. I don't think that 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:12.600 it's always a chance that you're gonna get caught when 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:14.240 you do it. You know what I'm saying that that 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:18.240 means to me, like you went on vacasing. I really 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:19.960 dropped you off and picked you up from the airport, 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:22.120 I think, and then you brought me back a whack 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:28.880 get physically cheating. I also think that a lot of 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:31.839 times you have a better sexual chemistry with somebody that 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:35.079 you're not actually in a relationship with, unfortunately, But does 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:37.960 that mean you care about your girl? What? I think 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:41.439 girls have better sex with the cheaters with the sides 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:47.640 which I think, yeah, they're with the person they love. Depends. Yeah, 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:56.240 some girls might be get turned out by someone. You're right, 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:58.560 because sometimes I know girls that would be like, suck 0:13:58.600 --> 0:13:59.959 me in my ask, but they would never tell their 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.319 boyfriend that or their husband, they don't want to look 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:05.120 like he was married. She loves anal sex, and she 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:07.199 would never tell her husband that she likes that because 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:09.600 she thinks that he'll look crazy. So did she cheat 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:13.480 on him to know? She just can't have angels like 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:22.800 right versation? She doesn't want him to look at her like, 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:26.640 I feel like every time I've caught somebody going out 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:29.880 on me or doing something behind my life, like I 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:33.080 ever felt like it was because they didn't care about me. 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:36.200 I just felt like they were in a moment. You know, 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:41.200 a lot of people don't realize how much cheating is 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:45.240 about yourself more than it is about I never think 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:47.760 it's about me. I mean, guys like newness, and we 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:50.200 like as a woman like I like to be with 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.840 somebody I'm comfortable with saying. So I kind of like 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:55.200 to have said, it's harder for me to have sex 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:56.640 with somebody. It would be harder for me to have 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:59.040 sex with somebody new than somebody who like because I 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:01.080 feel like guys, so it's hard for you to figure 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:03.840 out what we like, right, Like, it takes a little 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.200 while in the beginning. You have to get used to 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:09.920 like okay, to say I gotta yeah, this is how 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:12.480 she comes. She likes this position and when they know 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.600 they can get right to it, y'all. Just you know, 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:23.640 you guys just come. Like I write, I agree bands. 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:30.800 I'd rather be with my favorite definitely, Like I mean, now, 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:34.120 God is my favorite. I don't care. I don't really 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:38.400 care for anything, but just that's and that's a problem 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:40.960 I think that I have with dating is is I 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:44.000 don't like the beginning. I don't I hate trying to 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:46.400 figure things out, trying to figure out if somebody's full 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:49.040 of shit or not, and then you give your body 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:51.320 to somebody who ends up being full of ship and 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:55.640 it's just like the sex part of it. I like 0:15:55.720 --> 0:16:01.360 the bear of, like, yeah, doing stuff, getting on each other. Yeah, 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:04.240 but it's like getting some knowld somebody in the beginning 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:06.440 of scary for me. And it's like at this point 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:09.760 I'm just like, no, I'm going I'm okay. Yeah, you 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:11.400 know what else I want to talk about before we 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:14.520 talk more about this cheating thing. So, you guys did 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.920 the album with ty Dallas sign Chairs to the Best Memories, 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:20.000 And I do really like that album. Obviously. I like 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:23.280 this song with Mac Miller. I believed it, so I 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:25.880 explained this to me about that song. She lied to 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:29.000 your face? What did she lie about that? She wouldn't 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:31.840 leave you? Okay, so you cheated on her in that 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:38.040 song too. No, I don't time ties. Verse might have said, like, 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:41.360 oh some girl I was on face timing and something something. 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:43.720 But the course isn't that is you said? You know 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:50.480 you said and you never leave me? Was? What is 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:52.440 it about? Tell me what, no matter what I do, 0:16:52.480 --> 0:16:54.400 you never leave me, no matter what I do. As 0:16:54.400 --> 0:17:01.920 in what I don't know you no matter what, man't matter. 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:04.640 It's no matter what if you tell me that, if 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:07.520 you tell me you'll stay you know. No. I think 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:12.119 I think that that's actually a great conversation because so 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:15.760 many people today. I hear people talking about like, you know, 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:19.359 it's hard to find your person, and you know, what's 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:22.359 what's what's forever these days and all this stuff like that, 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:25.800 and it's like, yo, people don't even try to work 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:29.280 things out anymore because everyone feels that they have unlimited options. 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:33.600 Everybody in every single city across the world feels like 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:36.360 they can get to anybody. I can be a little 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:41.880 teenage whoever from whatever city, or you know, four year 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:45.320 old girl from small town wherever, and I can literally 0:17:45.480 --> 0:17:48.600 talk to the Prince of whoever, or the hottest NBA 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:52.320 player or the dope rapper or whatever. It's instant now, 0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:56.080 so nobody feels like anymore that they have to get 0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:58.680 the state of Yeah, so forever. It's changing in people's 0:17:58.680 --> 0:18:01.520 minds because how do you find forever with somebody who 0:18:01.520 --> 0:18:05.520 doesn't stay for it? Right? And I think that people 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:10.840 need to realize that love and naturally love songs, all 0:18:10.880 --> 0:18:14.639 these things are are changing because the actual human experience 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:19.320 is changing these things. We're not we're not interacting, communicating 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:23.359 anything the way we used to. More stress. I think 0:18:23.960 --> 0:18:26.560 the generations before us, n you think we're I think 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:31.480 we have way more stress. We work longer, everything costs more. 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:34.280 Even if you look at the age that people would 0:18:34.359 --> 0:18:36.280 choose to start a family now, that's like ten to 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:39.359 fifteen years older than it would have been for sale 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:42.080 our parents. Because you just can't, you can't get it together. 0:18:42.280 --> 0:18:44.960 But it's because women are working now too, because I 0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:48.320 think back then, yeah, you know, because it's kind of 0:18:48.359 --> 0:18:50.480 like women want to get their career. I think back then, 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:53.560 you know, like my grandparents, like my grandmother didn't work, 0:18:53.600 --> 0:18:56.960 my grandfather had a job, so they got married really 0:18:57.000 --> 0:19:05.720 young and like you, but yeah, she definitely will. She 0:19:05.800 --> 0:19:07.920 actually got a surgery dounda so she don't got it well, 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:10.760 not surgery, what is it? Had? Non surgical you're talking 0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:14.359 to Mike. I had a non surgical procedure to help 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:21.159 me with um my sudden urination control. Yeah, it's a 0:19:21.280 --> 0:19:25.280 It was a laser rejuven nation for my vagina. Yeah, 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:27.879 and it took my pressure down to under two hundred, 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:30.560 which is virgin status. So yeah, we're tied over here. 0:19:31.200 --> 0:19:32.919 She's a vir and I don't got to pay as 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:37.800 much anymore. It's w for everybody. Everybody rings in situation 0:19:38.760 --> 0:19:40.720 is that it really? Have you ever like had sex 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:44.800 with the woman and it felt loose? Wow? What do 0:19:44.760 --> 0:19:46.560 you might lose? You tell me, I don't know what. 0:19:48.000 --> 0:19:52.080 It wasn't amount of pressure, right like the walls where Yeah, 0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:55.880 different vaginas are tighter than the other vaginas. That's a thing, Yeah, 0:19:55.920 --> 0:19:59.760 that's natural thing. One thing that I have experienced is 0:20:00.720 --> 0:20:03.560 it was almost like it wasn't that the walls themselves 0:20:03.640 --> 0:20:07.560 were wider or anything it would thank you. It was 0:20:07.720 --> 0:20:12.160 more like there was no grip, So it was almost 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:17.320 like having two pillows really close together, but not so. 0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:20.240 It's like going in and out, didn't didn't feel anything. 0:20:20.320 --> 0:20:25.040 So I felt like I was enough. So she feels everything, everything, 0:20:25.080 --> 0:20:38.320 but I know nothing. It was it was weird, like 0:20:38.440 --> 0:20:40.200 I'm not doing this again, or where you like, I'll 0:20:40.200 --> 0:20:45.440 try it again. That made me stop midway or the bathroom, 0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:51.920 look at myself in the mirror, say and I left. No, no, no, no, 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:56.520 I said, I just finished. And then I thought about 0:20:56.560 --> 0:20:58.680 it for like a few days, and then I said 0:20:58.720 --> 0:21:01.560 to myself, maybe I something's wrong with me. Maybe I 0:21:01.600 --> 0:21:04.639 did something wrong, like I'm gonna go mad, so you 0:21:04.640 --> 0:21:11.080 try again the same didn't finish. Okay, it's not me. Yeah, 0:21:13.640 --> 0:21:16.080 maybe I'll just imagine that. I wonder why this? Would 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:18.920 you nothing? Because you know, sometimes you can't You can't 0:21:18.960 --> 0:21:21.760 tell it. Wouldn't you say, hey, man, you have no grip. 0:21:22.040 --> 0:21:29.200 She's like the candidates as we are. It's not snatching. 0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:31.560 It's like what if she's doing with that information? She 0:21:31.600 --> 0:21:37.280 can't go fix it. She can procedure. You can also 0:21:37.320 --> 0:21:40.560 do exercises. Yeah, you can know, but I don't trying 0:21:40.560 --> 0:21:42.399 to say. It's not that the words, you know what 0:21:42.400 --> 0:21:50.600 I'm talking about. The reason why we said that, because yeah, 0:21:50.600 --> 0:21:52.520 I understand it. The reason why we're talking about this 0:21:52.560 --> 0:21:54.359 because this is the only woman that we've both slept 0:21:54.359 --> 0:22:00.639 with in common. Oh my god, he's like, so I 0:22:00.680 --> 0:22:04.000 told him, I said, you know, he's like, I'm let 0:22:04.000 --> 0:22:08.280 me check you. Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't. It doesn't. 0:22:08.400 --> 0:22:11.480 It didn't have to grab you back. No, it's just 0:22:11.760 --> 0:22:13.240 why did you do it? If he told you that, 0:22:14.040 --> 0:22:16.960 I wasn't doing it because he told me. If he 0:22:17.040 --> 0:22:19.960 gave you no person, she was cat. It was months later. 0:22:20.119 --> 0:22:23.159 Me and her never really developed. It was fine. It 0:22:23.280 --> 0:22:30.680 was just like, yeah it was months. It was months. 0:22:30.680 --> 0:22:33.600 It was months later. Yeah, but it's like six months. 0:22:33.640 --> 0:22:36.080 If somebody says, oh, I didn't like kissing a person, 0:22:36.840 --> 0:22:38.880 later on, you're not thinking about oh, I remember when 0:22:38.960 --> 0:22:41.480 they told me about man this is like her because 0:22:41.560 --> 0:22:50.119 he has no grip crazy. So you had the same experience. 0:22:50.359 --> 0:22:53.359 It just didn't have the did you finish? Did you 0:22:53.400 --> 0:22:54.679 leave her in the middle of a We don't have 0:22:54.720 --> 0:22:57.960 the grab back. I didn't leave in the middle. I 0:22:57.960 --> 0:23:00.280 feel like leaving the middle might have been like try 0:23:02.520 --> 0:23:04.800 do No. I didn't pick up and just be like peace. 0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:07.399 I got off I watched the bathroom. I came back 0:23:07.440 --> 0:23:11.160 and said, oh, shoot, you know, condom broken? Say something 0:23:11.240 --> 0:23:13.160 and he's like, there's no way the condom broke because 0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:19.520 did you like flench yourself? But if she's like I 0:23:19.560 --> 0:23:23.200 have another one said I don't. I don't want anybody else. 0:23:26.640 --> 0:23:30.080