1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: What's Epics lift Service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm G G. Maguire, 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: I'm stepping in Santiago. Yeah, we all synchronized, like yeah, 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: you know, everybody got to do it individually. That's okay. 4 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 1: I'm Daniel, I'm the singer from Division. I'm gonna right. 5 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: We gotta get you to talk more. I'm kidding Waves 6 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: the other day and um, it's all about cheating. And 7 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: it's so funny that this came out at the same time. 8 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: There's well, I thought there's always a lot of cheating 9 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: things happening on social media, like getting caught people posting 10 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: that they caught somebody cheating, but the timing was impeccable. 11 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: Who wasn't that happening afterwards? Um, I would saying Neo 12 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: and his wife, and his wife did that long post 13 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 1: about him, you know, And there are levels to cheating, right, 14 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: because when I saw the video, you know, you went 15 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: out hanging with the guys. You cheated. But I think, 16 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: like bringing somebody into your home is a non negotiable man, 17 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: I agree. What are some other things that you would say, 18 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: even from a man's point of view, is Unforgiva? Wait wait, wait, 19 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: said you saw the video. In the video, I mean 20 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: that cheating was still but I'm saying this is a misconception. 21 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you brought that up about the video, 22 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: so I didn't cheat in that video. All the flashes 23 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 1: of reckless ship that you're seeing are her imagination. She 24 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: thinks I'm doing That's why you see me regular sitting 25 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: inside somebody and you see a flash, and it's a misconception. 26 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: That's why at the end it turns out not even 27 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: my phone that she was going through that made her 28 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: go all crazy, Right, it was moss phone in the video. 29 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: Good to know because the whole song is about if 30 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: I get called cheating, which let's break that down. I'm 31 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: so ready to break this down. Um, So, first and foremost, 32 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: tell me what you tell me, what you tell me, 33 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: what you what you guys took when you heard the song, 34 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: just so I can understand, and then I'll tell you 35 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 1: what actually was being said. Well, I think guys get cheating, 36 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: and the main thing they say is that they love you, 37 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: you know, and guys become up with excuses for cheating, 38 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: like it has nothing to do with how I feel 39 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: about you. It's a physical thing. And it was a 40 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: mistake that I made. You know, one of the main 41 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: things that guys always say, I'm a work in progress, 42 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: and so cliche bars from the guys that you're talking 43 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: the same thing as they do. One thing I took 44 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: from it was the if I get caught right right, 45 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: because exactly, but it's like, like, no, but if I'm 46 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: cheating from it, it doesn't mean I don't love you. 47 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 1: But if I get caught cheating, it doesn't mean I 48 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: love you. Like it's a thin line between like what 49 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: you don't know won't hurt you, you know what I'm saying. 50 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: Some people say that, um, I love you if I 51 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: am more slick about it because I'm not gonna care you, 52 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: so I lied to you to not hurt your feeling. 53 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: There's a lot of guys. There's a lot of guys 54 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 1: that feel that way. They feeling. The effort that they 55 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: put into keeping it so far from the woman in 56 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:00,080 Speaker 1: their lives is because they care that much that that 57 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: person doesn't find out. Some guys do subscribe to that 58 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: or if I lie to you, that means I love 59 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: you because I don't hurt you. I don't want to 60 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: hurt you. And I think that if if you let 61 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: me find out. It's like, because you don't care, you're 62 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: not being any careful exactly. I feel like if you care, 63 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: if you if you care about how I feel, you're 64 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: gonna make sure that things that will hurt me stay 65 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: out of my way. So you think it might be happening, 66 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: you just don't want to see it. I don't want 67 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: to think it might be happening anymore. But if you 68 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: don't know, you don't know what they do. You know, 69 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: I'm a very what I don't know won't hurt me 70 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: type of person for sure. So I explain it. Daniel, Okay, cool, 71 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: let's break it down. So the song is about, like 72 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: when I wrote those verses, I'm writing about a situation 73 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: where I'm with a girl who is now hit a 74 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: point where she thinks I might be doing something wrong, 75 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: I might be cheating, and I am addressing it from 76 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: the standpoint of a guy who's like, yo, everything that 77 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: first attracted you to me has now turned into your insecurities, right. 78 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: So that's why I say, as a fly nigger, when 79 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: you got here, I was charismatic when you got here. 80 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm saying, girls dancing allow me when you got you 81 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: know what I'm doing no, no, no, no no, Well what 82 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Yeah, it's pretty much like, look if you 83 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: meet me and and I'm an attractive guy, I dress well. 84 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: I you know, I'm funny. I'm funny. People like being 85 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: around me. Um, you know, I'm engaging, I'm talkative. All 86 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: of a sudden, when you get into relationships, sometimes those 87 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: things are into us. So you know what, bitch faced 88 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: you in tonight? You know why? Why? Who you? What 89 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: you get? Where are you? Where are you going to 90 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: dressed like that? You know? Um, yeah, yeah we're going 91 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: You always gonna be so funny, would be laughing in 92 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: people's say, it turns into that, and that developed turns 93 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: into a situation where you know, those insecurities can boil 94 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: to a point where now she's digging through phone, she's 95 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 1: checking laptop, she's this is this is what I'm talking 96 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: about in the song. And that's why I'm like, why 97 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 1: do we do this when even when when really the 98 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: truth is because I'm like, look, you got my phone 99 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: in your hands, You're asking questions. Are you now digging 100 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 1: for a reason to leave? Is how it feels a 101 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: lot of guys you do say if you don't want 102 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 1: to leave somebody and you know you're gonna say, don't 103 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: even look. But if you're on the edge and you're like, 104 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: if I find some shit, I'm out out. Because if 105 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: you look and find some ship and you're really gonna 106 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: be out and if it really makes a difference and go, 107 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: But if you're gonna stay, why torture yourself? No, that's why. 108 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:45,039 Speaker 1: That's why I don't look through phones, because you can. 109 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: You show fine, and I agree with you. When when 110 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: you digging for something, that's because you're trying trying to 111 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: find a problem. And so this is a guy saying, 112 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: look all the things that you liked about me have 113 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: now turned into this and now are looking for reasons 114 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: to be upset when even if hypothetical, if that's why 115 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: it's an if you get it, I feel like you 116 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: changed the whole meeting just now. I wanted to explain. 117 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: I'm happy to ask you this. What did you think 118 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 1: when he first wrote this song and you heard the lyrics, 119 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: were you like, well he was there? Were there? Okay? 120 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 1: So what were you thinking when when he was writing 121 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: this and the whole concept um, was there any hesitation like, man, 122 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: that's gonna be crazy? There were certain lines. I think 123 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 1: even in writing it, we did change some some lines 124 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: because like I can't remember what we changed, but there's 125 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: just specific lines where I was saying in the context 126 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 1: of what you're trying to say, that line is going 127 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: to come off so harsh that the meaning of everything 128 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: else is gonna get lost in it, feeling like you're 129 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: just going at you know, women or the which even 130 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: still I think that's getting lost in the first listen, 131 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 1: a lot of people are kind of like, oh, you 132 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: guys think you know, you think city up. You guys 133 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: think you're gonna make the cheating anthem. But it's not 134 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: saving about that. It's the conversation about where the people 135 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: are in the relationships or not. Let me also at 136 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: this the chorus part was actually written by Jermaine dupri 137 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: and that happened before we even got to the studio 138 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 1: that Jermaine's had its own issues with you. I don't nothing. 139 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: Admittedly I don't know what you're talking about, but no, 140 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: you know. So we walked in the studio and he 141 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: was just humming this thing and singing this thing. I 142 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: was like, Yo, what what what did you just say? 143 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: It's like to get everybody else in trouble for his life, 144 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: and I connected to that so much because great so 145 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: great at making songs. But yeah, he's I mean, the 146 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: chorus is so real because it's like, really, when you 147 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: break down cheating. In my research, in my life and 148 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: whatever else I found, it's been it's more about ego 149 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: than it is about how you feel emotionally for the person. 150 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: Especially for a lot of guys, it's more about them 151 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 1: going out and stroking their own ego, being selfish, being 152 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: self indulgent, just being out and just doing some bullshit 153 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: they just shouldn't have done. It didn't all of a 154 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: sudden I stopped loving my girl, so I did this. 155 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: I think like that you cheat for different reasons. Who 156 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: are you saying it's correct? Sometimes? I think, I think 157 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: not every single time, but you'll find commonly you hear 158 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: a lot more times women have cheat, Yeah, your revenge, 159 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: cheat or checked out or is a lack of something 160 00:08:53,080 --> 00:09:07,839 Speaker 1: emotionally checked out? I don't know, Guys a chemistry thing. 161 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 1: A guy I can have the girl with the better face, 162 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: the better body, the better bag, the better and it 163 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: still do this and that's what more in the moment, 164 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 1: but it has nothing to do with it it's you 165 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: think guys normally cheat down like they cheat with somebody 166 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 1: that's not as dope as their girl. They're not looking 167 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 1: for someone as dope as that. That's the part that's 168 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: misconscrewed where it's like a lot of times guys are 169 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: like they're not looking to replace the woman, They're not 170 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: looking to find a new you. This is literally them 171 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: just being it has you weren't even in the equation, 172 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: and that's why they come to actually like, oh fuck, babe, 173 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,199 Speaker 1: no it' there's nothing that you know I didn't because 174 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: they literally that that's what's going on in a lot 175 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: of their minds. Have you ever admitted cheating when you 176 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: got caught? Because I feel like most guys, when you 177 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: initially catch them, they're like, no, no, it's not even 178 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: like that. You just been The one time I got caught, 179 00:09:55,200 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: I was caught, Like caught, I was caught. You know 180 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: you still lie? What was and what was your response 181 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: to he didn't like? How did you handle it? I 182 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: feel like that's the day I really truly fully became 183 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,959 Speaker 1: a man because I sat in the car with two 184 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 1: women that I cared about and sat with both of 185 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: them and just aired my whole ship aired my whole ship. 186 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 1: So that time that you said you were here, were 187 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 1: you really with it? Yes? He was one of those 188 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: moments like you know so unfortunately, Yes, I just you 189 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: called after that happened to tell them about it. No one, 190 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: I don't think I called anybody that you got just 191 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: a little bit. He has sho to the mar um. 192 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: He broke his car. That was a different situation. Said, 193 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: I wasn't cheating that one. Okay, um, yeah, so my 194 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 1: girls at my house, I think she asked to use 195 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: my laptop. I had to run out quickly. Man, guys 196 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 1: never wanted to use their laptop if you wanted to 197 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: catch somebody to care about your laptop. That's how I 198 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: almost every time I coughter got cheating on me because 199 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: they left the computer open, suddenly popped up. But what 200 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: popped up wasn't any anything wrong, but that kind of 201 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: like opened up the portal and then she's like, okay, 202 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 1: well kept looking I'm in here a little bit. No, 203 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: But honestly, with the computer thing, I wasn't even digging. 204 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: I'm not a digger. That's what I was so upset 205 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,079 Speaker 1: about it. And I felt like God put that in 206 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 1: front of me because I wasn't even happening to me too. 207 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: And I opened up the computer at Boomed. There it 208 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: was he used my laptop and he didn't log out 209 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 1: of his email and cheating. Yes, let me tell you 210 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: what it was him. He had took a trip with 211 00:11:56,800 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: another girl. So he's talking to his travel agent and 212 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: I happened, and then he's sending her side piece yes. 213 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,719 Speaker 1: And then he also had pictures like that girl sent him. 214 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:10,839 Speaker 1: And then he sent his sister like this is me 215 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: on the church and then I was like, oh, sister 216 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: in on it too. One thing that it was his 217 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: birthday when I found it on his birthday. The reason 218 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: I even went on there because at this time it 219 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: was Gmail. I didn't even have a Gmail. And what 220 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 1: did he say? Um? So first I tried not to 221 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 1: say anything like but then I started we were supposed 222 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: to go out to eat, and then I was like, 223 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to make it tonight. And 224 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 1: he was on his way home from work and he 225 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 1: was like, what was happen? Everything Okay? I was like 226 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: I just can't do it, and I hung up and 227 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: then I sent him all of the email the email 228 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: and I locked him out his email, he changed his watt. 229 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: He doesn't know what you saw, but did you I 230 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: still have the email because I forwarded them to myself. 231 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: When you when you catch when you call him to cheating, 232 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: When you catch any guy cheating, do you feel like 233 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 1: they cheated on you because they cared about you? Luss um, 234 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,439 Speaker 1: I think that's half of it. I don't think that 235 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: it's always a chance that you're gonna get caught when 236 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: you do it. You know what I'm saying that that 237 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: means to me, like you went on vacasing. I really 238 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 1: dropped you off and picked you up from the airport, 239 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: I think, and then you brought me back a whack 240 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: get physically cheating. I also think that a lot of 241 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:31,839 Speaker 1: times you have a better sexual chemistry with somebody that 242 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 1: you're not actually in a relationship with, unfortunately, But does 243 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 1: that mean you care about your girl? What? I think 244 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 1: girls have better sex with the cheaters with the sides 245 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: which I think, yeah, they're with the person they love. Depends. Yeah, 246 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: some girls might be get turned out by someone. You're right, 247 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 1: because sometimes I know girls that would be like, suck 248 00:13:58,600 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 1: me in my ask, but they would never tell their 249 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 1: boyfriend that or their husband, they don't want to look 250 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: like he was married. She loves anal sex, and she 251 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,199 Speaker 1: would never tell her husband that she likes that because 252 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: she thinks that he'll look crazy. So did she cheat 253 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: on him to know? She just can't have angels like 254 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: right versation? She doesn't want him to look at her like, 255 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: I feel like every time I've caught somebody going out 256 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: on me or doing something behind my life, like I 257 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: ever felt like it was because they didn't care about me. 258 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: I just felt like they were in a moment. You know, 259 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: a lot of people don't realize how much cheating is 260 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: about yourself more than it is about I never think 261 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: it's about me. I mean, guys like newness, and we 262 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: like as a woman like I like to be with 263 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 1: somebody I'm comfortable with saying. So I kind of like 264 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: to have said, it's harder for me to have sex 265 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: with somebody. It would be harder for me to have 266 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: sex with somebody new than somebody who like because I 267 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: feel like guys, so it's hard for you to figure 268 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 1: out what we like, right, Like, it takes a little 269 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: while in the beginning. You have to get used to 270 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: like okay, to say I gotta yeah, this is how 271 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: she comes. She likes this position and when they know 272 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: they can get right to it, y'all. Just you know, 273 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: you guys just come. Like I write, I agree bands. 274 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: I'd rather be with my favorite definitely, Like I mean, now, 275 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 1: God is my favorite. I don't care. I don't really 276 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 1: care for anything, but just that's and that's a problem 277 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 1: I think that I have with dating is is I 278 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: don't like the beginning. I don't I hate trying to 279 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: figure things out, trying to figure out if somebody's full 280 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 1: of shit or not, and then you give your body 281 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: to somebody who ends up being full of ship and 282 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 1: it's just like the sex part of it. I like 283 00:15:55,720 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: the bear of, like, yeah, doing stuff, getting on each other. Yeah, 284 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 1: but it's like getting some knowld somebody in the beginning 285 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: of scary for me. And it's like at this point 286 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm just like, no, I'm going I'm okay. Yeah, you 287 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: know what else I want to talk about before we 288 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 1: talk more about this cheating thing. So, you guys did 289 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: the album with ty Dallas sign Chairs to the Best Memories, 290 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: And I do really like that album. Obviously. I like 291 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: this song with Mac Miller. I believed it, so I 292 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: explained this to me about that song. She lied to 293 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: your face? What did she lie about that? She wouldn't 294 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: leave you? Okay, so you cheated on her in that 295 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: song too. No, I don't time ties. Verse might have said, like, 296 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 1: oh some girl I was on face timing and something something. 297 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 1: But the course isn't that is you said? You know 298 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: you said and you never leave me? Was? What is 299 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: it about? Tell me what, no matter what I do, 300 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 1: you never leave me, no matter what I do. As 301 00:16:54,400 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: in what I don't know you no matter what, man't matter. 302 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 1: It's no matter what if you tell me that, if 303 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: you tell me you'll stay you know. No. I think 304 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 1: I think that that's actually a great conversation because so 305 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: many people today. I hear people talking about like, you know, 306 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: it's hard to find your person, and you know, what's 307 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: what's what's forever these days and all this stuff like that, 308 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 1: and it's like, yo, people don't even try to work 309 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: things out anymore because everyone feels that they have unlimited options. 310 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: Everybody in every single city across the world feels like 311 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,360 Speaker 1: they can get to anybody. I can be a little 312 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 1: teenage whoever from whatever city, or you know, four year 313 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: old girl from small town wherever, and I can literally 314 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: talk to the Prince of whoever, or the hottest NBA 315 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: player or the dope rapper or whatever. It's instant now, 316 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: so nobody feels like anymore that they have to get 317 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 1: the state of Yeah, so forever. It's changing in people's 318 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: minds because how do you find forever with somebody who 319 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: doesn't stay for it? Right? And I think that people 320 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 1: need to realize that love and naturally love songs, all 321 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 1: these things are are changing because the actual human experience 322 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 1: is changing these things. We're not we're not interacting, communicating 323 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 1: anything the way we used to. More stress. I think 324 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: the generations before us, n you think we're I think 325 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 1: we have way more stress. We work longer, everything costs more. 326 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: Even if you look at the age that people would 327 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: choose to start a family now, that's like ten to 328 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: fifteen years older than it would have been for sale 329 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: our parents. Because you just can't, you can't get it together. 330 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: But it's because women are working now too, because I 331 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: think back then, yeah, you know, because it's kind of 332 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 1: like women want to get their career. I think back then, 333 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: you know, like my grandparents, like my grandmother didn't work, 334 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 1: my grandfather had a job, so they got married really 335 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 1: young and like you, but yeah, she definitely will. She 336 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:07,920 Speaker 1: actually got a surgery dounda so she don't got it well, 337 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: not surgery, what is it? Had? Non surgical you're talking 338 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: to Mike. I had a non surgical procedure to help 339 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: me with um my sudden urination control. Yeah, it's a 340 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: It was a laser rejuven nation for my vagina. Yeah, 341 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 1: and it took my pressure down to under two hundred, 342 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 1: which is virgin status. So yeah, we're tied over here. 343 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:32,919 Speaker 1: She's a vir and I don't got to pay as 344 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: much anymore. It's w for everybody. Everybody rings in situation 345 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: is that it really? Have you ever like had sex 346 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 1: with the woman and it felt loose? Wow? What do 347 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 1: you might lose? You tell me, I don't know what. 348 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 1: It wasn't amount of pressure, right like the walls where Yeah, 349 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,880 Speaker 1: different vaginas are tighter than the other vaginas. That's a thing, Yeah, 350 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: that's natural thing. One thing that I have experienced is 351 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 1: it was almost like it wasn't that the walls themselves 352 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 1: were wider or anything it would thank you. It was 353 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 1: more like there was no grip, So it was almost 354 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: like having two pillows really close together, but not so. 355 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 1: It's like going in and out, didn't didn't feel anything. 356 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: So I felt like I was enough. So she feels everything, everything, 357 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: but I know nothing. It was it was weird, like 358 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 1: I'm not doing this again, or where you like, I'll 359 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 1: try it again. That made me stop midway or the bathroom, 360 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 1: look at myself in the mirror, say and I left. No, no, no, no, 361 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: I said, I just finished. And then I thought about 362 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: it for like a few days, and then I said 363 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: to myself, maybe I something's wrong with me. Maybe I 364 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 1: did something wrong, like I'm gonna go mad, so you 365 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 1: try again the same didn't finish. Okay, it's not me. Yeah, 366 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: maybe I'll just imagine that. I wonder why this? Would 367 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 1: you nothing? Because you know, sometimes you can't You can't 368 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: tell it. Wouldn't you say, hey, man, you have no grip. 369 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 1: She's like the candidates as we are. It's not snatching. 370 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 1: It's like what if she's doing with that information? She 371 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: can't go fix it. She can procedure. You can also 372 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 1: do exercises. Yeah, you can know, but I don't trying 373 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,399 Speaker 1: to say. It's not that the words, you know what 374 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. The reason why we said that, because yeah, 375 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 1: I understand it. The reason why we're talking about this 376 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 1: because this is the only woman that we've both slept 377 00:21:54,359 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 1: with in common. Oh my god, he's like, so I 378 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: told him, I said, you know, he's like, I'm let 379 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: me check you. Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't. It doesn't. 380 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 1: It didn't have to grab you back. No, it's just 381 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 1: why did you do it? If he told you that, 382 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: I wasn't doing it because he told me. If he 383 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: gave you no person, she was cat. It was months later. 384 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 1: Me and her never really developed. It was fine. It 385 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 1: was just like, yeah it was months. It was months. 386 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 1: It was months later. Yeah, but it's like six months. 387 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 1: If somebody says, oh, I didn't like kissing a person, 388 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 1: later on, you're not thinking about oh, I remember when 389 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: they told me about man this is like her because 390 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: he has no grip crazy. So you had the same experience. 391 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 1: It just didn't have the did you finish? Did you 392 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:54,679 Speaker 1: leave her in the middle of a We don't have 393 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: the grab back. I didn't leave in the middle. I 394 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 1: feel like leaving the middle might have been like try 395 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: do No. I didn't pick up and just be like peace. 396 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,399 Speaker 1: I got off I watched the bathroom. I came back 397 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 1: and said, oh, shoot, you know, condom broken? Say something 398 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,160 Speaker 1: and he's like, there's no way the condom broke because 399 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: did you like flench yourself? But if she's like I 400 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 1: have another one said I don't. I don't want anybody else. 401 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 1: So how did you so you did finish? Okay, that's good. 402 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 1: Did you have to? So? Let me ask you this 403 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 1: as a guy, when you're having sex and it feels 404 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 1: like it's hard for you to finish, and come, do 405 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: you have to like imagine other things? What do you do? 406 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:45,200 Speaker 1: That's a good question, um, and then we'll tell you 407 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 1: what we do. I have faked it before, just to 408 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 1: finish you just li So what will you do when 409 00:23:54,320 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 1: you fake it? Like make a little twitsch u baby? Yeah, 410 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 1: I guess that's the way he caught it right. You're 411 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: just doing how I'm shaking it over and shake and 412 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 1: go that's what do you make a noise? And then 413 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 1: you like that was amazing, fantastic. I'll be back. I 414 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: got his bathroom. Have you ever faked it? No? I 415 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 1: don't think so. I'm just I'll stop, damn, that's cold. 416 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 1: Stop And you know what a time I'll stop. I'll 417 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 1: stop if I have a very overactive conscience. So if 418 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: I'm doing something with someone that I know, I shouldn't 419 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: be like if I'm like, I don't I don't really 420 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 1: like this person that time. I'm not saying that some 421 00:24:55,240 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 1: other elements didn't win the fight, delating, but yeah, how 422 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 1: you don't really like Yeah, guys do that? Do that? Girl? 423 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: Guys do what you like? Somebody like me, I hate 424 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 1: me like I haven't, I don't have any I'm not 425 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: doing this because we have a real thing. Just doing 426 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: this because it's here, something to do whatever I don't, 427 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like that, you know I I 428 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: learned that. I learned that when I was younger. So 429 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: there was times when I would do that and I'd 430 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 1: be like, what am I doing? Where? I hate that? 431 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 1: I hate that look in the mirror or I hate 432 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: that like feeling of regret after you you have so 433 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: I used to stop. I feel like stop having does 434 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,159 Speaker 1: you feel like, well, I'm here, I might as well finished, 435 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: it's already done. I feel like men really get caught 436 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 1: up in the moment and should they regret, I honestly 437 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: do like it'll be maybe a fluence of their friend 438 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: or even the girl the influence, you know, because you 439 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 1: gotta be a good wing man. I'm time you like 440 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: look sometimes that I'll talk to you. We can go chill, 441 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 1: watch a movie, but I'm not gonna hit just for it. 442 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: What about like, okay, does that count when you get 443 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: your dick stuck to Like if a girl that you 444 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 1: don't really like, does that matter of the head? Yeah, 445 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: like will you'd be like I don't really like her, 446 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,360 Speaker 1: to be honest me, not as much, not as much 447 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 1: because I feel like I feel like, well I don't 448 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 1: maybe I've really been in that situation, but I do 449 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: feel like head is different than sex, different connection there, 450 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 1: and sometimes I just feel like like I don't I 451 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 1: don't need to give myself to this person. Like you 452 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,919 Speaker 1: said the way, there's women that look back and be like, 453 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: you know, there's certain bodies they might erased if they could, 454 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: like I have an I have that too. I think 455 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: all guys who have a conscience. I didn't said you 456 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: didn't have sex with somebody? You did? Because who like 457 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 1: my friends? Yeah, like if that you know, yeah, I 458 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: don't know what you did. I'm not claiming the body 459 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: right claiming a body jokingly not really not really. Like 460 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: guys get by someone they hate, no problems. There's plenty 461 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 1: of guys that do that, right. There's guys will be 462 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 1: on a girl they think it's annoying or they don't 463 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 1: really want to be around her, they don't want to 464 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: talk to her, and to hate. I hate, I don't like. Wow, 465 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:35,919 Speaker 1: what kind of girls do you like? Like? Okay, Like, 466 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,360 Speaker 1: let's take a song like the song rude. Okay when 467 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: it comes to women, like, do you like women that 468 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 1: are kind of like bitchy a little bit? Or I 469 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,120 Speaker 1: like me personally. I like a woman that knows how 470 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 1: to firmly state and set her boundaries and what she 471 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 1: wants with other with other people. What I mean is, 472 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,640 Speaker 1: I don't want you to be um. I don't want 473 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: to feel that like a harshness from you. But if 474 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,679 Speaker 1: I see you activate that with other people, and you 475 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: you can turn it on and off, like when I'm 476 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 1: soft and when I have to be that kind of way, 477 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 1: I respect sexy. That's like when we like guys that 478 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,280 Speaker 1: are like gangster with other people, but it's so nice 479 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,399 Speaker 1: as we Yeah, I like that. Yeah, I like for 480 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:22,679 Speaker 1: my for my guy to be mean to everybody and 481 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 1: just and just so like you're okay baby, and then 482 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: gives somebody else a dirty look. But I think this 483 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 1: case about case. Different people have different different personalities that 484 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: come out around like you or other people. So I 485 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: don't know if I would say I have like a 486 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 1: type across the board like never like if a girl 487 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 1: did this, I would never sunk with her. I think 488 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 1: in our world we see a lot of nevers, you know, 489 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: because we're rude to the way. Never for me, I 490 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: don't want to be with that's rude that way, because 491 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 1: the way the way they're messed up your order. For 492 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 1: obviously if they're defending you, but if they're like just 493 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: rude and you're like, oh yeah, well, I don't like 494 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: anyone that's rude to anyone, like why you're being rude. 495 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 1: But I like somebody that can firmly, like you know, 496 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: assert themselves at I don't make me feel safe. But 497 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: I want you want her to be able. I just 498 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: want her to be able to say to say to 499 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: say her peace. I don't want it to be like 500 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: the person just said this so I went along with this, 501 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: or I just said that. I don't like that when 502 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: you guys, want your girlfriends to be like close to 503 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 1: your friends. I want. It's not a want, it's beneficial, 504 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 1: But they don't. I like it when they are. You 505 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: like that. I like it when they are. So you 506 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 1: want them to get along with your friends, be relationships 507 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: where your friends, because because then if I'm if you're 508 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 1: my girl, hopefully we're dating with intention, we're dating for 509 00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 1: a purpose. So if I'm looking at you as someone 510 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 1: that's going to be in my life, period, these are 511 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 1: my friends, my life. You don't want a girl who's 512 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 1: going to be giving your friends attitude like you're always 513 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: with him. I don't like that. I don't. But what 514 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: if they hang out with your friends like without you? 515 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: Is that okay? That's a good question I've had. I've 516 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: had those situations. I don't really understand why that would 517 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 1: ever be like the norm unless she's like you, Guys, 518 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: if she if if he has a girlfriend and you're 519 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 1: always over there with his girlfriend, whatever, that's fine. But 520 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: if you're just like yeah, I mean, what if they 521 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: already were friends before she looking at me? If they 522 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: were all right, So they were already friends before we 523 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: met I met her, but then we're all then we're 524 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 1: all friends. But I mean, I I just think that 525 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: you know, you gotta we gotta still understand one another. 526 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 1: And far as far as you know what, Bounty, I 527 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 1: don't want necessarily want. You're sleeping over at his house. 528 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 1: You know, I'm over here at four am. I'll be 529 00:30:55,080 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 1: home soon. I'm waiting with Netflix and okay time because 530 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 1: for me to hang out with my man's friends is 531 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 1: when he set it up, you know, like maybe he's 532 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: busy and I have to do something with them, you know, 533 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,680 Speaker 1: like on his terms. I don't think it's okay to 534 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:16,239 Speaker 1: just be calling your man's friends, like, hey, you what 535 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 1: about if you have a girlfriend and your girlfriend is 536 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: friends with like your friend's girlfriend, and now they talk 537 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: it to each other, they become friends and the tea. 538 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 1: I really got to be careful because that's cool as 539 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: long as you don't have things. If the girlfriends are cool, Yeah, 540 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 1: if they become cool, I love that. It only makes 541 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 1: things easier go out as long as you guys on 542 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: the side. And then now what if you guys break 543 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: that and she still be friends with the girlfriend? Yeah, Okay, 544 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:49,480 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a little awkward, but grown it happens 545 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 1: as long as long as there's nothing crazy that happened. Yeah, 546 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: that's a genuine relationship. That's a genuine relationship. Your girlfriend 547 00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 1: isn't in the mix of that, you know, like let 548 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: it be your business. Yeah, but you guys, you guys 549 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: are still friends. Now. I want to ask you this. 550 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 1: Let's go back to this song about getting caught cheating. 551 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: So you guys roll this out differently than I feel 552 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 1: like you've ever done a rollout, you know, for a 553 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: song and a single and then getting ready for the project. 554 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: So what was the process behind that thinking? Because I 555 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 1: feel like it's a lot more like bang, you know 556 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 1: what I mean? On the blogs and normally I don't 557 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,680 Speaker 1: see a division. This is this is the thing I 558 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: can say. Jermaine plays a big part in that and 559 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: him looking at me realizing my personality, my talents, my 560 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 1: you know, my potential also that and he's kind of 561 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 1: like put the battery in my back as far as 562 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 1: like you'll go on this ship because you know this 563 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 1: is you like your you can you can be that guy, 564 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 1: you know. And I've never really had in my mind 565 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: like the things that are necessary to go out and 566 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: get I guess maybe maybe the artist's respect, the accolades, whatever, 567 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 1: all those I wasn't we never really thought like that, right, 568 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: But I think that at this point now I'm kind 569 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 1: of like, yo, I understand there's this big void in 570 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: R and B, especially male R and B. Someone has 571 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 1: to step up and be the guy. So I'm like, 572 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: all right, cool, you know what, you you believe in this, 573 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 1: and you're one of the greats that's seen the other 574 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 1: guys that have stepped up. All right, So that's why 575 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: this time around, we're gonna be very like we're here. 576 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,479 Speaker 1: You guys can't keep pretending that we didn't do what 577 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: we've done like that anymore. Because when you guys first 578 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:38,480 Speaker 1: came out, it was like the mystery division, and then 579 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: I feel like that was kind of a thing, like 580 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 1: they don't really do interviews. That's why we had your 581 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: lip tips. I was like, oh my god, they're gonna 582 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: do this. I can't believe. But then now I'm like, okay, 583 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: look at them, you know, out doing stuff. How does 584 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 1: it feel. It feels good? And it wasn't. It wasn't 585 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: ever to be hidden from the identity that goes with 586 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 1: the music. It was more just at the time things happened, 587 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 1: so quickly. We put out that album maybe a month 588 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,720 Speaker 1: after we finished it, which was also like a month 589 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: after we signed the vo We went on tour six 590 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: weeks later. A couple of weeks after we got back 591 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: from that tour, we went on the Summer sixteen tour 592 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:20,319 Speaker 1: with Drake and Future and then went right back into 593 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: doing the next album. And for the maybe like three 594 00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 1: or four years after being introduced to the world, we 595 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 1: were just going on stop. So there was never this 596 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:33,880 Speaker 1: intentional like, oh, don't don't show them or don't introduce 597 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 1: more of the personality. We just didn't have a chance 598 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 1: to go back and say no, no, no no, we're these guys. 599 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,720 Speaker 1: Everybody just knew us as the like behind the scenes guys, 600 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 1: and the music kept coming, so we just kept going 601 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 1: with that. But now that we've had sometimes is like hey, 602 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 1: come here and take pictures of us and it stands 603 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 1: back to back and like, that's not that's not our vibe. 604 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 1: He's a producer, I'm a singer. We we have we 605 00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 1: have very different you know, personality characters, but we just 606 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 1: make great music together. And so um, I think that 607 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,720 Speaker 1: people were always like, oh, you never didn't post your faces, 608 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,600 Speaker 1: Like no, we posted the thing that represented us, which 609 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 1: was the symbol. You know. It wasn't until everybody else 610 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 1: made a big deal out of it, like oh who 611 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: are they? They were like, okay, well, let we'll let 612 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,759 Speaker 1: them wrong with you guys want to do. But you know, 613 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 1: we were just we were true artists in the sense 614 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 1: of like we really were here to make music, you know. 615 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,960 Speaker 1: And I think that's pretty evident in our history of 616 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,279 Speaker 1: our music or discography and so that you can hear 617 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 1: that we're here for music right. Um. But now it's 618 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 1: kind of like, okay, well, the way the climate is, 619 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:43,440 Speaker 1: the way things are moving, the way that the voids 620 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,959 Speaker 1: have kind of opened up, certain people aren't around, certain 621 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,840 Speaker 1: people aren't stepping up in different ways. It's like, all right, cool, 622 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: R and B needs a face right now. So as 623 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 1: someone that is confident in my ability to and our 624 00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:02,759 Speaker 1: ability to own that space, it's like, alright, cool and 625 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 1: go be the face and then we'll stand in front 626 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 1: of this. So lvr in and then that's the other team, 627 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 1: are we know lvr in m Management. Yeah, they manage 628 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 1: Summer Walker, they managed Black, they manage a bunch of artists. Um, 629 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 1: they were the same thing. They saw the same thing. 630 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 1: They're like, Yo, if this is what it is and 631 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 1: you can do this live and you can, why aren't 632 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,879 Speaker 1: you just go there then like go be the guy then. 633 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,280 Speaker 1: So also, I think with the song and the content 634 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 1: we knew you you can't go halfway. You have to 635 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: be very intention you have to stay that. You can't 636 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,279 Speaker 1: say something that people are gonna take potentially crazy and 637 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,319 Speaker 1: like hide behind it. You're the saying or you not 638 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:43,360 Speaker 1: you know, And that I think was part of the 639 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 1: role as well, Like you know, pay attention. We have 640 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,920 Speaker 1: a big conversation coming. Was anybody mad in your d 641 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: M s about it? Like I'm sure did anybody said, 642 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 1: y'all some crazy messages? It triggering for something? No? Of course, 643 00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,319 Speaker 1: of course, of course some people are just like, yo, 644 00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,760 Speaker 1: we didn't I I didn't expect this, or I wanted, 645 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: you know, crying in the Rain R and B from 646 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 1: you and you know all these things. But but the 647 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 1: thing about that is this album is a story. That's 648 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,160 Speaker 1: tell me. I want to make very clear, this album 649 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 1: is a story. And for me to get to the 650 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 1: part where crying in the Rain R and B happens, 651 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 1: you kind of got to see the part where you 652 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:36,680 Speaker 1: crying video done. I did a crying in the Have 653 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: you ever in real life? Have you ever cried in 654 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 1: the rain? You know what? One time in real life? 655 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 1: I came, I came. So this is actually right after 656 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: that cheating story, there was a there was maybe a 657 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,759 Speaker 1: little well after that. It was snowing into raining and 658 00:37:53,800 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: I literally was outside in the snow outside this girl's house, like, yo, 659 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 1: come outside and the rain. So you feel like I 660 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 1: deserved some extra credits there, right? Yeah, we said we 661 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 1: we we worked things out. We say it together for 662 00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: another two almost three years after that, you work outside 663 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 1: in the snow. Do you think it would have had 664 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,880 Speaker 1: you would have gotten through if it was a sunny 665 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 1: day not that night had to be in the snow? 666 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,399 Speaker 1: What ended up happening? Then? Since you managed to work 667 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 1: through that, how did it end up ending? I ended 668 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 1: up leaving? That's a crazy thing. Um, she just we 669 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,319 Speaker 1: we hit a place where we got I hate this, 670 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 1: I hate the word toxic, but it just really hit 671 00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: a place where it was like, okay, you're being like 672 00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:49,800 Speaker 1: it's like getting aggressive on your point on your part. 673 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 1: You know, there's no peace, there's no this, there's and 674 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,760 Speaker 1: there was other factors, you know, her mom passed away 675 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 1: right around at the same time, with a bunch of 676 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 1: like stresses and things that were and I was working 677 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 1: on this thing that we put on SoundCloud called Division, 678 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 1: so really right as it was happening, I was just like, yeah, 679 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 1: it was just terrible timing. So it just felt like 680 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,279 Speaker 1: everything was pushing and it's crazy because, um, you know, 681 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 1: I've been in Atlanta work on this album for the 682 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:20,359 Speaker 1: past nine months. And she randomly popped up over there 683 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,359 Speaker 1: like they were like two weeks ago. We're still cool 684 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,520 Speaker 1: to this day, two weeks ago, and she was like, oh, 685 00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,759 Speaker 1: you know, this happened with this guy that I'm out 686 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 1: here seeing. Could you come help me whatever? Yeah, yeah, 687 00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 1: of course this is my own girl. Like I you know, 688 00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,239 Speaker 1: I still care for it. We still we're still great. 689 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: But um, you know, I just weren't right for the relationship. 690 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,200 Speaker 1: The way I look at that is like only one 691 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 1: relationship in your life is supposed to work. Then you 692 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 1: marry in front of God, the one at the end 693 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 1: of it. Yes's work for a little while. Work is 694 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 1: supposed to last because I think work is the distance, right, 695 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: the distance, So everything else is just preparing you for that. 696 00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: So you know, you don't have to be mad at 697 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,360 Speaker 1: all your ex is. I hate that idea that we 698 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: have to be like, oh fun my ex I don't 699 00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,960 Speaker 1: really have any problems with my expen either, but it's 700 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:11,799 Speaker 1: really easier. No. I think as long as like, well 701 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 1: form the guy that you have his emails still likes, 702 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 1: he definitely doesn't have a problem with me. I'm not. 703 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 1: I'm also not a vindictive person, and I think like, 704 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: if I break up with somebody, I feel like that's 705 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 1: enough punishment. I'm not gonna do anything else to you, 706 00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,360 Speaker 1: and so I just let it go and then I 707 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 1: see you. I'll still be cordial. I don't have I 708 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,719 Speaker 1: don't like to have like bad energy for people that do. 709 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: I always feel like, like, what is love to you then, 710 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,319 Speaker 1: because if it's if you believe in love and how 711 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 1: it's unconditional, the word is unconditional. And whether we're together 712 00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,400 Speaker 1: we're not, whether we're fighting, whether we're not, whether whatever 713 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 1: it is, I still want you to win. I still 714 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 1: care about you, I still want you to be in 715 00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,399 Speaker 1: I'm never gonna wish bad on you. That's all better 716 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:08,400 Speaker 1: than you period. What I'm saying is I'll tell you 717 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,600 Speaker 1: this much like I think a like when things are 718 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 1: going well, it's easier to be like I wish you well. 719 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:14,880 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because when your life is 720 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 1: sucked up, it's hard to feel that way, you know, 721 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:22,279 Speaker 1: it's hard to feel like I've never wanted bad for 722 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 1: any of mine. And then I also love when people 723 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:27,799 Speaker 1: like try to hit me up and be like let's chat. 724 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, good, thank you. It's a good feeling the 725 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,400 Speaker 1: block and come no, I am not. It's been the 726 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,200 Speaker 1: block type of person when I don't want Actually when 727 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,839 Speaker 1: because Mary, if I if I stopped talking to somebody 728 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 1: because it's something that they did to me. And I'm 729 00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,480 Speaker 1: the type of person like I just know myself and 730 00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:47,879 Speaker 1: I know that I'm not I'll forgive it and move on. 731 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 1: But I don't think I could get back together with 732 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: you because I don't feel like I would be comfortable. 733 00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:53,719 Speaker 1: And I also don't feel like I've ever been in 734 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:58,279 Speaker 1: love like that. And I'm gonna be honest. The email guy, 735 00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 1: if you're listening, yeah, you know we were to get 736 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,480 Speaker 1: as a matter of fact, you wanting here something funny. 737 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,279 Speaker 1: So I was like working on my book and part 738 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,160 Speaker 1: of it is me exploring like different things that happened 739 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 1: to me in the past that made me think the 740 00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,239 Speaker 1: way that I think. And I actually interviewed him about 741 00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 1: why he used to cheat on me all the time. 742 00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:17,040 Speaker 1: We interviewed him. Yeah online, we're not didn't put it 743 00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:21,120 Speaker 1: out yet. She put my book. Guy, he told me 744 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,879 Speaker 1: things I didn't know he did. Anger you more. I'm 745 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:26,880 Speaker 1: not angry. I don't, I do not care. You know what, 746 00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,439 Speaker 1: he didn't love you. It was because he felt like 747 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,440 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think we were a lot younger. 748 00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 1: And then I also he told me, you know, he 749 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,480 Speaker 1: was young, he was popping, he had you know, he 750 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,800 Speaker 1: had a good job. He worked like an investment banking, 751 00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:45,160 Speaker 1: and so he felt like he was lit at the time. Yeah, 752 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 1: it was an ego thing. And then he also said 753 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 1: that I always put my friends before him, but I 754 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,239 Speaker 1: also always he was cheating, So of course I put 755 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,400 Speaker 1: my friends. People always knew he was cheating because I 756 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,799 Speaker 1: would catch him doing stuff. But as women, I feel 757 00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 1: like we believe what we want to believe, right, Like, 758 00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,359 Speaker 1: you could know some things happening and a guy will 759 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,440 Speaker 1: deny it and you'll believe it if you choose to 760 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 1: believe it. Yeah, we do it. We don't catch red handed, 761 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,760 Speaker 1: like how you got caught red handed. We don't catch 762 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:13,520 Speaker 1: red We can still we can still lie to ourselves 763 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:15,279 Speaker 1: and be like, well, maybe he's telling the truth when 764 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 1: he called me by accident. The girl speaking might have 765 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: been his friend's sister, you know, and you really think like, 766 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,040 Speaker 1: maybe he's telling the truth. Benefit of the doubt, you know, 767 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 1: but you know what it really is. See, I've had 768 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: that happen. I've had I I don't know why I'm 769 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:33,080 Speaker 1: telling you guys this, but yeah, I woke up maybe 770 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:38,240 Speaker 1: I woke up one day a literal knife in my back? 771 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 1: What girls sitting on my back? Knife in my back? Oh, 772 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:44,799 Speaker 1: she didn't stab you yet, No, No, it was just 773 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,960 Speaker 1: poking in my back. So I was like, she was 774 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:53,520 Speaker 1: like you continue, and I was like what. I didn't 775 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: want to move because I'm like, yo, don't want to move. 776 00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:01,960 Speaker 1: And then through the and she's like, why are you 777 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 1: answering fucking texts? And said hey baby? And it was 778 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,319 Speaker 1: a message. I said hey baby, and I looked at 779 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: it and I didn't recognize the number for a second scrolled. 780 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:19,799 Speaker 1: I was like, this is my anti kim literally how 781 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 1: it happened. And she felt and literally the apology that 782 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:26,839 Speaker 1: I got was so minimal. Sorry, did you in things 783 00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,360 Speaker 1: with her? That? Not? After that, but I ended the 784 00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 1: licking crazy girls though, keeping at it. I'll tell you 785 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,319 Speaker 1: what it is. Some guys, some guys, and I think 786 00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,400 Speaker 1: I might fall into this category. Mind you, if you're crazy, 787 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:46,279 Speaker 1: I'm not inviting you. He's like, I'm not telling you. 788 00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:50,080 Speaker 1: What I will say is that I think some guy, 789 00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,759 Speaker 1: some people period wo men and women. I think that 790 00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:58,319 Speaker 1: if we when we've been hurt sometimes or things have 791 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 1: happened to us in our past, I think that sometimes 792 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:06,760 Speaker 1: we mix up extremeness with you care, you care enough 793 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,600 Speaker 1: to go do something outlandish, which means I must matter 794 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,799 Speaker 1: that much to you. And I think that that I 795 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:15,000 Speaker 1: fell into that pattern at some point in my life 796 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 1: where it was like, you know, the over the top 797 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:23,400 Speaker 1: things that people would do would be my my reassurance 798 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 1: that mattered to that person. And y'all said this on 799 00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 1: lips there is a long time ago I remember, and 800 00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 1: I was like, no, it'd be like, you don't lest 801 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,040 Speaker 1: somebody if you never wanted to kill them. WHA We 802 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,880 Speaker 1: said this, No, not you, I'm talking about I remember 803 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:37,839 Speaker 1: y'all saying that, and I was like, no, not in 804 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 1: my world because and I remember people being a comments like, well, 805 00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:41,840 Speaker 1: you never really love nobody if you didn't want to 806 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 1: kill them, But you just said you didn't really love 807 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,240 Speaker 1: anybody like that. Wow, I feel like I don't remember 808 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:49,959 Speaker 1: when I felt like that, but I may have because 809 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:51,560 Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, we've been doing the show 810 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,480 Speaker 1: for a long time, so I feel a long point 811 00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:56,640 Speaker 1: at this point, I feel like you never really love 812 00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:00,960 Speaker 1: somebody if you didn't want to kill yourself over them. 813 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 1: I'm ever going to kill myself. I'm kill you. That's 814 00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 1: why I'm so careful about who I love, because when 815 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 1: you love somebody the way they hurt you, it feels 816 00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:15,560 Speaker 1: really powerful, you know, it feels I don't because it's 817 00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:19,160 Speaker 1: not it's not like you are stabbed or you know, 818 00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 1: like you're not really bleeding, but you are bleeding like 819 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:28,399 Speaker 1: your hardest bleeding, and it's just so it's hard to explain. Man, 820 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:32,279 Speaker 1: do you think that's too Like have you ever felt 821 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:33,719 Speaker 1: like I don't even want to be here anymore if 822 00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:38,239 Speaker 1: I'm not with this person, I'm definitely I don't want 823 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 1: to be anymore. From not that's a lot of power 824 00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,400 Speaker 1: I think I have I think I have at one time, 825 00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:48,239 Speaker 1: and I think that that's actually the relationship that completely 826 00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:52,680 Speaker 1: changed me after that, because I learned to survive without 827 00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:55,239 Speaker 1: the person, and then from there I became this like, 828 00:46:56,000 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 1: oh I don't need anybody. When you put up right, 829 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,840 Speaker 1: it made me pull up that place like when you realize, 830 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:06,920 Speaker 1: you know what, it was so dumb for me to 831 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,759 Speaker 1: feel like I wanted to die because this person was 832 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 1: hurting me. I really feel like you come out so 833 00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 1: much stronger. I know you don't agree that wasn't afraid, Yes, 834 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:24,400 Speaker 1: it's like that. Yeah, I don't think. I don't think 835 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: I was necessary like per se suicidal, But I think 836 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:31,360 Speaker 1: I was just like you know that depressed over the situation. 837 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 1: I think that was like deep love. Oh for sure, 838 00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,879 Speaker 1: that was that was that was very deep love, and 839 00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:41,880 Speaker 1: it was it was it was my first okay, it 840 00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:47,240 Speaker 1: was my first love. One thing, you've lost your virginity 841 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 1: to your first love, like some random no no. I purposely, 842 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,800 Speaker 1: I purposely when all my niggas in like high school 843 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,880 Speaker 1: and stuff for like offer, oh I got this, and 844 00:47:58,280 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 1: you know they're happy to be losing it. I was 845 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 1: purposely like I'm not going to until I get like 846 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:07,200 Speaker 1: I need the one. I was that hopeless for many Yeah, 847 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 1: for sure, I feel like that done different. Wait wait 848 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 1: I can wait here, wait wait, hold on, I have 849 00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,759 Speaker 1: to say this. I don't feel like I've ever been suicide, 850 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:18,719 Speaker 1: like seriously thinking about which way I'm gonna die right 851 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:22,239 Speaker 1: for I never, not one time have called the guy, 852 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:26,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna kill myself. If you do that, 853 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,040 Speaker 1: I think that's ridiculous. Does that make you feel like 854 00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,319 Speaker 1: I can't leave them because something could happen? Yeah, but 855 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna would be lying if I said that. 856 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 1: Some you feel trapped, yeah, and how do you hand 857 00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 1: and then how do you handle that? Eventually have to 858 00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 1: choose yourself or or them, your own sanity or them, 859 00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:47,319 Speaker 1: because you, like you also feel like it could be 860 00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:51,200 Speaker 1: manipulative or in terms of manipulation tactic when you tell 861 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 1: somebody I'm gonna kill myself. What I'm saying there might 862 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 1: be some truth behind it, but because they would be like, 863 00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:00,160 Speaker 1: you gotta kind of be like, yo, you gotta had 864 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,840 Speaker 1: some help. Then you got like you gotta seek something 865 00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,279 Speaker 1: bigger than me because I can't. I can't save you. 866 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 1: But I would be lying if I said I wasn't 867 00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,800 Speaker 1: so hurt that to myself. I didn't tell my friends, 868 00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: I didn't tell anybody else, but in my own mind, 869 00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,279 Speaker 1: I just felt like, you know what, I just I 870 00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:21,279 Speaker 1: don't want to be here right now? You know, did 871 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:25,319 Speaker 1: you depressed? Your down? Has some drinks and that's it right, 872 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,400 Speaker 1: But I don't think I would ever love somebody like 873 00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:31,920 Speaker 1: that again in my life. To your first love, I 874 00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:33,799 Speaker 1: want to hear this. What do you want to hear? 875 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,960 Speaker 1: Because most people don't have that story. I think that 876 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:41,279 Speaker 1: story like I did just set it up. It wasn't 877 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:46,920 Speaker 1: all that. It wasn't like set up. No, it was just, um, 878 00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 1: it's actually a funny story because I'm not sure which 879 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,719 Speaker 1: time I lost my virginity if you put it in. 880 00:49:55,719 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 1: And like so the very first time that I'm thinking 881 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:06,719 Speaker 1: of I felt completely different than the second time. So 882 00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:08,239 Speaker 1: I was like in the first time, I even in, 883 00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:15,880 Speaker 1: but this didn't feel like yeah, you know what I mean? 884 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:17,920 Speaker 1: Mind you we didn't finish. It wasn't like it was 885 00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:19,960 Speaker 1: like we started doing it for a second and then 886 00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,160 Speaker 1: like her brother came home when we had to stop. 887 00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,759 Speaker 1: That was her first time too, No, it wasn't hers, 888 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:31,040 Speaker 1: So I would I guess I was her who knows who. 889 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,640 Speaker 1: According to what I was told, that was her second. 890 00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:39,680 Speaker 1: But the first time was I was like okay, And 891 00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:47,520 Speaker 1: the second time I was like, whoa wait, happened last time? 892 00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 1: So experience I say that all the time. I feel 893 00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:52,759 Speaker 1: like the first time I attempted to have sex, we 894 00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:54,719 Speaker 1: didn't really have sex. I think he was just like 895 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 1: grinding on my lips or something. I feel like, after 896 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,160 Speaker 1: the fact, I was just like, what was that? But 897 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,799 Speaker 1: then when I had really, you know, attempted the second time, 898 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 1: I know that time that we definitely didn't. So you 899 00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,440 Speaker 1: didn't come the first time because her brother came over here, 900 00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:09,719 Speaker 1: so it was quick. It was literally like you know, 901 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,759 Speaker 1: a minute, a minute and that's and someone came in 902 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:15,520 Speaker 1: the house with the stop. So the second time, it 903 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:22,440 Speaker 1: was like, oh wait, what is this warm feeling? Happened? 904 00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 1: Lest time it was what you remember your first time? 905 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:36,919 Speaker 1: What was was it somebody loved or no? Um, yeah, 906 00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,279 Speaker 1: I would say I love with him. At the time, 907 00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:40,920 Speaker 1: it sounds so cliche because I was watching Love in Basketball. 908 00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:45,359 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's cute. That movie has always had 909 00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:49,280 Speaker 1: like a special place that's special. So yeah, we're watching 910 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,040 Speaker 1: you had a little next, I didn't know this. This 911 00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: is a great content. There's no reason for me to 912 00:51:54,239 --> 00:52:05,040 Speaker 1: tell you, you know, in the movie. And then you 913 00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:12,160 Speaker 1: had sex during the movie in the basement of my parents. 914 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,200 Speaker 1: Al yeah, was it everything you thought it was going 915 00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:19,439 Speaker 1: to be the first time you had sex. I really 916 00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 1: had no idea what to expect going into it, So 917 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,080 Speaker 1: I think I had more. I had more of an 918 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:28,000 Speaker 1: idea after that, like, oh, okay, that's what it is. 919 00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:29,799 Speaker 1: You know, I just did it. Did you finish your 920 00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:35,840 Speaker 1: first time? Her first time? To damn these girls here 921 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 1: breaking y'all in real? I mean, even back to the 922 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:45,080 Speaker 1: statement with cheating, it's like, be real. So I have 923 00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:47,000 Speaker 1: a question about the cheating and the whole be real thing. 924 00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:50,400 Speaker 1: Let's flip the script. Absolutely, let's flip the script. Your 925 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,520 Speaker 1: woman cheats on you and gets called and she says, 926 00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:54,319 Speaker 1: I was just working him. I was. I was coming 927 00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,839 Speaker 1: home right after, like I was gonna getting right back, 928 00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,480 Speaker 1: I was gonna wet wipe it off. How did you 929 00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 1: she said that? If she said that, are you saying 930 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:06,120 Speaker 1: that she like, Now, if this is the scenario she's saying, 931 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,200 Speaker 1: if she's saying, hey, if I did, I would still 932 00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:12,279 Speaker 1: love you or she or that actually happened, and then 933 00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:16,799 Speaker 1: I found out, you find out are you staying? Are 934 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:20,480 Speaker 1: you forgiving her? There was a void I was feeling. 935 00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,319 Speaker 1: I don't know, whatever the case, whatever the reason, but 936 00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,319 Speaker 1: it's not because I have any less love for you 937 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,440 Speaker 1: than I did yesterday. So I'll answer both of that. 938 00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 1: I wouldn't necessarily jump to the conclusion of thinking she 939 00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: loves me less, but I would jump to the place 940 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,880 Speaker 1: where I say, Okay, this probably isn't for me, because 941 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,960 Speaker 1: I know how I'm coming into relationships as it today, 942 00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:41,920 Speaker 1: and I'm going to come into it with it. Okay, 943 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,440 Speaker 1: look what do we want. Let's carve out what me 944 00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 1: and you are cool with. Everything is on the table. 945 00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna judge you. I'm not gonna talk. We're 946 00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 1: just gonna sit here and put what is okay, how, when, where? How? 947 00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,960 Speaker 1: All these things on the table, and if she violates that, 948 00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,360 Speaker 1: because cheating is more about the lives, more with the hiding. 949 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,839 Speaker 1: If we're in an open relationship, it's not cheating. If 950 00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 1: we're in a relationship where you know, we can have 951 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,320 Speaker 1: three sums or she's okay to do whatever with a 952 00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,600 Speaker 1: girl at that, that's not cheating. So I'm saying I 953 00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:13,600 Speaker 1: just want to make sure we have a clear understanding, 954 00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:17,480 Speaker 1: clear understanding, and in that understanding, I know myself right now, 955 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,400 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be like, okay, cool, go sleeper than that. 956 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:22,480 Speaker 1: So if she breaks out of it is not for 957 00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 1: you to know. The other women is different to you 958 00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,479 Speaker 1: than sleeping with men. I mean personally, no, it's not okay. 959 00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:33,480 Speaker 1: So I was just putting that just because a girl. 960 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:41,480 Speaker 1: Same shit. Yeah, um, I think depending on the situation, 961 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,120 Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily immediately being like we're done, because I 962 00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,719 Speaker 1: feel like people are people you you all go through 963 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:51,480 Speaker 1: it differently and you kind of react to situations differently. 964 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,239 Speaker 1: I've been cheaten before, and I didn't end it immediately, 965 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:57,239 Speaker 1: you know. I kind of just looked at it, like, 966 00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:00,000 Speaker 1: you know, if this is a reoccurring thing, and then 967 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:04,239 Speaker 1: we'll have the conversation then if not, then if if that, 968 00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:09,440 Speaker 1: what did you do? What changed in your relationship to 969 00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:11,440 Speaker 1: get over it? Did you feel like you had to 970 00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 1: change anything? Like it was it was early in our 971 00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:21,040 Speaker 1: relationship and she basically called me crying. It was like, 972 00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:25,120 Speaker 1: I have to tell you something, confessed told me the 973 00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:28,840 Speaker 1: whole thing. So she didn't get caught. You know, the 974 00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:30,640 Speaker 1: guy I kind of knew. I didn't know in person, 975 00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,759 Speaker 1: I knew who he was. I kind of knew it 976 00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,080 Speaker 1: was happening. Like in my head, I was like, I 977 00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 1: feel like there's a little something. It felt different now, Okay, 978 00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:41,840 Speaker 1: it's just like I feel like, I know there's something 979 00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:45,719 Speaker 1: going on with that person that you're telling me. You know, 980 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,400 Speaker 1: you guys are cool or whatever. The emotional thing that 981 00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:50,879 Speaker 1: you kind of picked up on. Yeah, just I knew 982 00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:56,360 Speaker 1: there was something. And then she told me and I 983 00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:58,720 Speaker 1: kind of had almost like no reaction because I've already 984 00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:00,920 Speaker 1: gone through it in my and it's like a already 985 00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:05,359 Speaker 1: prepared yourself. She didn't talk to him anymore because were 986 00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:08,879 Speaker 1: you cheating at the time? And so after that, did 987 00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:11,319 Speaker 1: you guys stayed right? Say did you cheat? How did 988 00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:15,160 Speaker 1: you did you start cheating? Did you change? But did 989 00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:20,200 Speaker 1: you change how you moved with her? Yeah? Maybe because 990 00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:25,080 Speaker 1: it was earlier in your life in the relationship that 991 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,239 Speaker 1: was at least she's being honest, So you kind of 992 00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: that was kind of like, well, you know, you came 993 00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:35,920 Speaker 1: to me, you confessed to respect of the honest. Then 994 00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:39,919 Speaker 1: when you get cut and when you confessed had somebody. Yeah. 995 00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:44,360 Speaker 1: But my theory with men is when they catch you 996 00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:46,360 Speaker 1: with other guys, if they care about you, it's going 997 00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: to kind of make them feel a little different towards you, 998 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:52,440 Speaker 1: because I feel like when a guy really cares about you, 999 00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,360 Speaker 1: he doesn't want you to be with other men. But 1000 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:59,440 Speaker 1: of course not, that's more comment guess saying that you 1001 00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,640 Speaker 1: know he don't care if the girls that he's working with, um, 1002 00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:06,319 Speaker 1: but those are his girl. It wasn't a relationship. Yeah, 1003 00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 1: he's just just like just in general, when you care 1004 00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:12,400 Speaker 1: about a girl, whether she's your wife, e or just 1005 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:15,160 Speaker 1: somebody you know you're sleeping where, if you care about her, 1006 00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,600 Speaker 1: you don't worry to have sex with other people, just 1007 00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:19,880 Speaker 1: in general. Let me ask you this though, as not 1008 00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,680 Speaker 1: even because you want to be her man, because I 1009 00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 1: know for me, like if somebody cheating me, I'm gonna 1010 00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 1: randomly think about it at times and get angry. Like 1011 00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:29,560 Speaker 1: do guys do that? Like did you randomly sometimes get 1012 00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:32,320 Speaker 1: like angry or think about it, maybe even while you're 1013 00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,680 Speaker 1: having sex, Like I assume it would be the same. 1014 00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:38,680 Speaker 1: I mean, certain guys, if he if he doesn't do that, 1015 00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 1: if you didn't do that, it's probably because that's not 1016 00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 1: in your personality to sit there and dwell and and 1017 00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,520 Speaker 1: do that. But I feel like the same way a 1018 00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 1: woman would is the same way a guy would. I 1019 00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:58,600 Speaker 1: think that's why that's of a girl entertaining even a 1020 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,440 Speaker 1: fraction of the women that man entertained. Our egos are 1021 00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:04,720 Speaker 1: set up differently. That's my whole point of asking the question. 1022 00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: I wanted to get that out of men handle it like, 1023 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:13,320 Speaker 1: do you want the details like some guys. Some guys 1024 00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,240 Speaker 1: would want to know, but you want to know the details. 1025 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:17,960 Speaker 1: I think that I would be somebody that would want 1026 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:22,320 Speaker 1: to know. I don't want to know the details unless 1027 00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,960 Speaker 1: for some reason you come back and you're acting like 1028 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:27,000 Speaker 1: there was something different about it. I'm like, okay, then 1029 00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,800 Speaker 1: what what made that different? You know? What was the thing? 1030 00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:33,280 Speaker 1: And I think I would have a moment where I'm like, 1031 00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:37,120 Speaker 1: all right, well what happened that made you feel great 1032 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:39,280 Speaker 1: about it? If you didn't, then it didn't. But if 1033 00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,320 Speaker 1: it did, I'm like, maybe I got some work to 1034 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:45,600 Speaker 1: do for me from experience. Every time I got caught cheating, UM, 1035 00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:51,240 Speaker 1: it wouldn't like it wouldn't um it would make him 1036 00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,000 Speaker 1: you know what we didn't he wouldn't stop being with me. 1037 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:59,680 Speaker 1: We wouldn't this. But guys don't attend. Say guys don't 1038 00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,760 Speaker 1: leave a lot of guys, actually they will get A 1039 00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:07,120 Speaker 1: man will get not every guy. Yes, guys are not. 1040 00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:09,480 Speaker 1: Do you think there's more men staying in relationships where 1041 00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:16,000 Speaker 1: they know their girls cheating them cheating? The girl has 1042 00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:19,200 Speaker 1: cheated more than guys that have left. Yes, you don't 1043 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:21,640 Speaker 1: know why because these girls are out here cheating with 1044 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:25,000 Speaker 1: some guys don't know. Girls are just way better at it. 1045 00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:30,160 Speaker 1: Guys don't want to know. I think girls detectives. Guys 1046 00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:32,600 Speaker 1: don't want to know that. But every time I've gotten 1047 00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:38,520 Speaker 1: caught when when every time I've gotten court he um 1048 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:41,800 Speaker 1: like I said, he didn't believe me, but it would 1049 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,520 Speaker 1: he every time I would do something, He's like watching 1050 00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:46,680 Speaker 1: me from the side of it would make him different 1051 00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:49,320 Speaker 1: towards me. You know what I'm saying. Every little thing 1052 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,280 Speaker 1: that every time he would catch me crossing him something 1053 00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,440 Speaker 1: that I was doing what he never caught me sleeping 1054 00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:56,160 Speaker 1: with another guy. But there's a lot of different ways 1055 00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:58,240 Speaker 1: to cheat. So every time he would catch me doing 1056 00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,360 Speaker 1: something I wasn't supposed to do, he would treat me 1057 01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:04,360 Speaker 1: different about it, you know what I mean? That man, Yeah, 1058 01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 1: of course she's talking about her son's father. Yeah. I 1059 01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 1: feel like now in my today, I don't have the 1060 01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:19,200 Speaker 1: attention span or the patients to be with more than 1061 01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:21,919 Speaker 1: one guy at a time. But at the time, I 1062 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 1: was a kid, you know, I was young, and I 1063 01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:27,280 Speaker 1: hadn't really experienced that much in life, and we got 1064 01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:31,880 Speaker 1: into something really serious. You shouldn't even age exactly, I 1065 01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,000 Speaker 1: don't even think we should be. So you feel like 1066 01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:37,040 Speaker 1: that was you were liberating yourself. No, not that I 1067 01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:39,600 Speaker 1: was liberating myself. I just I got my foot into 1068 01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,480 Speaker 1: a door that I never thought I would be in, 1069 01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:45,480 Speaker 1: And um, it was a lot of temptation that I 1070 01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:48,120 Speaker 1: fell into. And when you were young and I was young, 1071 01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:52,440 Speaker 1: I was a kid, you know what I mean. So honestly, 1072 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,560 Speaker 1: I never wanted to get caught. My number one thing 1073 01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:56,280 Speaker 1: is because I didn't want to hurt him, you know 1074 01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:58,360 Speaker 1: what I mean. I knew that it would hurt him, 1075 01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:02,800 Speaker 1: just me talking other people were sexual with him. Yeah, 1076 01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:05,880 Speaker 1: I wasn't even really having sex with other people. I 1077 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:13,040 Speaker 1: was just always entertaining myself talking to other people with him. No, 1078 01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,360 Speaker 1: after a while, you know, we started once we had 1079 01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:19,480 Speaker 1: the baby. We started living separate lives, you know, like 1080 01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:23,560 Speaker 1: I had to. We never got a babysitter soul. If 1081 01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:25,240 Speaker 1: I was outside, he was in the house with the 1082 01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,560 Speaker 1: kid with my kid, or if he was outside, I 1083 01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:29,800 Speaker 1: was in the house with kids. So it was like, 1084 01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:32,800 Speaker 1: you know, we we ended up having two different separate 1085 01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:36,919 Speaker 1: lives outside. And just more of the story is every 1086 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:40,120 Speaker 1: time he would catch me doing something, he would be 1087 01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 1: more cautious about certain things. Did he catch you because 1088 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,040 Speaker 1: he was suspecting things? Absolutely used to be on my 1089 01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:50,200 Speaker 1: phone digging, digging, digging all day and found it. Yes, 1090 01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:52,280 Speaker 1: But I do feel like guys don't be winning to 1091 01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:55,560 Speaker 1: know so much, like I feel like I don't want 1092 01:01:55,560 --> 01:02:00,560 Speaker 1: to know. Yeah, yeah. On the Breakfast Club Neo, it 1093 01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 1: was like, you don't want to know if his life. 1094 01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:05,720 Speaker 1: I don't think that commonly. I don't. I don't know 1095 01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:10,640 Speaker 1: what's commonly. Men are in a place where they're like, hey, 1096 01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:13,360 Speaker 1: look if my girl's cheating. There's a lot of guys 1097 01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 1: that I was with that record. I'm saying I resonated 1098 01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 1: with the record, and I didn't feel that way. But 1099 01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:21,640 Speaker 1: I just felt like, oh my god, he feels this way. 1100 01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:23,880 Speaker 1: This is crazy. It was a sad as songs and 1101 01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:27,680 Speaker 1: that song was written. I told you one thing down 1102 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:32,600 Speaker 1: you're in the bathtub in the song is sad, but 1103 01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:35,400 Speaker 1: I don't one thing the mini were sleeping with somebody else. 1104 01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,160 Speaker 1: It was over. He did not he was not trying 1105 01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:38,520 Speaker 1: to be with me. After that, that sounds like you 1106 01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:42,800 Speaker 1: guys went through a lot together. Definitely did. It's like 1107 01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:44,960 Speaker 1: many years to get to that. Like, have you ever 1108 01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:47,160 Speaker 1: investigated to see if a woman was cheating on you? 1109 01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:53,760 Speaker 1: M actually no, yeah, the same first first level. Okay, 1110 01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:57,840 Speaker 1: but that was a long an and you didn't really investigate. 1111 01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:00,440 Speaker 1: She told you. She told me, Yeah, you ever been 1112 01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:03,400 Speaker 1: investigated with a woman with that same girl? There was 1113 01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:06,640 Speaker 1: one time I had her phone and I was like, 1114 01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:09,200 Speaker 1: I don't even want to do that. If I see something, 1115 01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:11,160 Speaker 1: what am I going to do right here? That's how 1116 01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:15,200 Speaker 1: I feel too, You know then what I mean? Guys like, yeah, 1117 01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:18,560 Speaker 1: I saw I was looking through your phone, And do 1118 01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 1: you think about that during sex? Like Dan, she cheated 1119 01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:24,000 Speaker 1: on me during sex, because that's the time when you 1120 01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:27,560 Speaker 1: think about things to do. But I don't think about 1121 01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:30,280 Speaker 1: my boyfriend cheating on me during but cheated on me, 1122 01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:32,040 Speaker 1: And that's what made me. Really, I couldn't do it. 1123 01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:37,280 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna think about it. Yeah, I've 1124 01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:41,720 Speaker 1: had moments where someone didn't necessarily cheat on me, but 1125 01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 1: there was a bunch of a bunch of stuff that 1126 01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:46,440 Speaker 1: they weren't honest about, and they lied about, and you know, 1127 01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:50,320 Speaker 1: situations that they tried to like hide that came out randomly, 1128 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:53,600 Speaker 1: and those things have hit me while I'm outing sex, 1129 01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:56,480 Speaker 1: he said, thinking about that ship, and he'd be like, 1130 01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:58,360 Speaker 1: does that make me not able to come? Does that 1131 01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:00,919 Speaker 1: make you not able to come? It makes me, Yeah, 1132 01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,840 Speaker 1: it makes me just kind of like not start. I 1133 01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:10,240 Speaker 1: stopped being as present. Ye, what's your zodiacs? Scorpio scorpio God. 1134 01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:16,840 Speaker 1: I love lovaboys and sc freaky, but they are cheat tears. No, 1135 01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:20,919 Speaker 1: we're not not the man I've been with. People take 1136 01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: our sexual are sexual and they lie anything too. I 1137 01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,360 Speaker 1: can see Scorpio scorpios. I don't think so. I think 1138 01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:39,800 Speaker 1: that we're very We're very loyal people. We are highly sexual. Yeah, people, people, 1139 01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:46,000 Speaker 1: People misconscrued sexuality for sexual promiscuo promiscuity. It doesn't mean 1140 01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 1: I want to everybody the same girl in all different 1141 01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:51,920 Speaker 1: kinds of ways. You have how many different times, the 1142 01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:54,960 Speaker 1: same girl for the rest of your life. Yeah, yeah, 1143 01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,480 Speaker 1: I think could I think what about you? You think 1144 01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:59,120 Speaker 1: you could go with one girl for the rest of 1145 01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:04,120 Speaker 1: your life currently, it's something eventually I would love to. 1146 01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:08,800 Speaker 1: I'm not there right. Let me ask you this, So 1147 01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:11,880 Speaker 1: let's talk about what is this project going to be? Like, 1148 01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:13,720 Speaker 1: I know, it's a whole story that you guys said 1149 01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:21,680 Speaker 1: you're telling. So what is this story? Well, like I said, one, 1150 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:23,640 Speaker 1: you know, deals with the ego, and it's like, you know, 1151 01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: all the places that that can take you. I mean, 1152 01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:28,160 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you you have to 1153 01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:31,920 Speaker 1: come two terms with it. There's accountability, there's remorse, and 1154 01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:34,800 Speaker 1: hopefully there's there's growth. You know, there's a lot of 1155 01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:38,680 Speaker 1: uncomfortable conversations on it. There's a lot of reflection in 1156 01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:44,480 Speaker 1: the sense of like realizing things about yourself, your relationships, 1157 01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:49,080 Speaker 1: your your interactions. Um, you know obviously you know the 1158 01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:52,160 Speaker 1: sex all, there's all different kinds of things. But I 1159 01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:55,160 Speaker 1: think the main the main point of it is is 1160 01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:58,800 Speaker 1: the journey of the growth, or at least starting the journey, 1161 01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:00,720 Speaker 1: because I feel like as a culture, that's what we 1162 01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:03,080 Speaker 1: need to be doing as a people, as as a race. 1163 01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:05,560 Speaker 1: Human race. That's where we need to be at. It 1164 01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:08,600 Speaker 1: is like, okay, yeah, the human experience has changed. How 1165 01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:10,840 Speaker 1: are we going to deal with this and get get 1166 01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:13,360 Speaker 1: real things anymore? You know? How do you how do 1167 01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:15,760 Speaker 1: you even know what's real anymore? You know, we're almost 1168 01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:21,120 Speaker 1: becoming more and more digital everything Nothing that's real anymore, 1169 01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:25,600 Speaker 1: you know. So, um, the album is, what I will say, 1170 01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:27,720 Speaker 1: is definitely I think it's probably our most like R 1171 01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:33,200 Speaker 1: and B album to date. It's almost traditional R and 1172 01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:40,080 Speaker 1: B definite. We're not getting too much of that. That's 1173 01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:46,040 Speaker 1: how you guys had that wedding song on Yeah, wedding cake, Yeah, 1174 01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:49,800 Speaker 1: wedding cake stuff like I do like that. So it's 1175 01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:54,720 Speaker 1: it's very Um, I think it's very like traditional sort 1176 01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,120 Speaker 1: of in the sense of like the sounds and how 1177 01:06:57,200 --> 01:07:00,640 Speaker 1: we're approaching the songs. But it's new in the way 1178 01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:04,040 Speaker 1: that it's like the conversation is new because we're living 1179 01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:07,680 Speaker 1: in today. We're part of this generation, so naturally our 1180 01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:11,120 Speaker 1: stories of life and love and relationships are different than 1181 01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,880 Speaker 1: our grandparents and our parents and like that. Do you 1182 01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:17,040 Speaker 1: think about your weddings and stuff? I do? I do? 1183 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:21,560 Speaker 1: You literally started in my phone. It's crazy, like I 1184 01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:24,360 Speaker 1: hear about this is so not even comparison. No girls 1185 01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:27,240 Speaker 1: gonna like this, but you know, Drake's like saving Birken 1186 01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 1: bags for me. I'm like, I'm already making my playlist. 1187 01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:37,560 Speaker 1: My playlist is what's on there? Love that? No, no, 1188 01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:42,000 Speaker 1: don't want to adore by Prince. You gotta have that. 1189 01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:51,680 Speaker 1: That's on It is on It so amazing Luther songs 1190 01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:55,880 Speaker 1: from like my my parents and my mom, my mom 1191 01:07:55,920 --> 01:07:59,080 Speaker 1: and my my aunt's generation to songs of of ours. 1192 01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:02,160 Speaker 1: But I'm really like, I know I have one thing 1193 01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:09,760 Speaker 1: is going to hit. It's reception. Receptions, right I I 1194 01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:11,640 Speaker 1: could be friends with you, so I could get invited. 1195 01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:19,680 Speaker 1: I don't know about it. I don't at all. I 1196 01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 1: don't at all, and that shudn't matters so much. I 1197 01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:26,320 Speaker 1: remember my uncle got married and I will never forget this. 1198 01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:33,720 Speaker 1: At his wedding, they played Confessions by Us. Yes, that's 1199 01:08:33,720 --> 01:08:36,800 Speaker 1: what I want to do. Not really think about how 1200 01:08:36,920 --> 01:08:39,599 Speaker 1: is your uncle doing now he's still married. They're still 1201 01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:47,160 Speaker 1: song like what DJZ you cannot play at the wedding? Right? 1202 01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:55,280 Speaker 1: Like division? Wow? If some real songs line the line 1203 01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:58,760 Speaker 1: of line, the line is a very marride song. Conversations 1204 01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:02,000 Speaker 1: and the dinner. Yeah, you guys do. And I hate 1205 01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:03,840 Speaker 1: the fact that even with this, some people think y'all 1206 01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:07,960 Speaker 1: are like tip, but you guys have beautiful songs, So 1207 01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:09,960 Speaker 1: I think, you know, it's very three to mention all. 1208 01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:11,800 Speaker 1: I think the I think the crazy part is it's 1209 01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:14,840 Speaker 1: like for anybody that knows us and and and knows 1210 01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:17,880 Speaker 1: our are the music that we've made, it's like so 1211 01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:21,360 Speaker 1: to see that this song that you guys are misinterpreting 1212 01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:25,559 Speaker 1: or have misinterpreted in the beginning as toxic is the 1213 01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:28,720 Speaker 1: most talked about possible thing, that one song that we've 1214 01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:31,240 Speaker 1: ever had in like a week span. What did that 1215 01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:33,960 Speaker 1: say about you guys? You know what I mean, because 1216 01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:36,519 Speaker 1: we've been making the records that you guys are saying 1217 01:09:36,680 --> 01:09:42,160 Speaker 1: I wanted to be this, It's like and it's on 1218 01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:45,040 Speaker 1: the album, like rest assured know exactly what we're doing. 1219 01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:48,320 Speaker 1: We had to start this conversation at this point, and 1220 01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:50,639 Speaker 1: we had to start. We set to start it with 1221 01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:54,320 Speaker 1: something that we forced you guys force everybody to have 1222 01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:56,920 Speaker 1: to like stop and address how they feel about something. 1223 01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,280 Speaker 1: I think it's brilliant. Yeah, if anything, it was a 1224 01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:03,920 Speaker 1: great conversation exactly we just got a text actually before 1225 01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:07,200 Speaker 1: coming here. That's the most number one added song too 1226 01:10:07,280 --> 01:10:14,360 Speaker 1: Urban radio today. Yeah, so it's like we're three times 1227 01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,160 Speaker 1: on the way. So you know, we're happy about that. 1228 01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:20,200 Speaker 1: It's crazy that this is that you guys. Yeah, but 1229 01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:23,640 Speaker 1: we knew that. We knew that. A yeah, And now 1230 01:10:23,640 --> 01:10:25,760 Speaker 1: I got to ask you a question because shout out 1231 01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,080 Speaker 1: to my girl, miss pat so you know, her show 1232 01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:31,519 Speaker 1: was coming back to BET and I'm BT plus and 1233 01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:33,080 Speaker 1: I want to ask you this is it okay for 1234 01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:36,120 Speaker 1: men to watch porn while being in a relationship? And 1235 01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:38,920 Speaker 1: do you think that porn sets unrealistic expectations? You know 1236 01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:40,840 Speaker 1: a lot of guys learn how to have sex when porn, 1237 01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:43,519 Speaker 1: and they say a reason why men are not as 1238 01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:46,519 Speaker 1: like loving is because that's how they learned. What do 1239 01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:48,320 Speaker 1: you think we need another drink? What do you think 1240 01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:51,360 Speaker 1: about that? You know? I think I think if it 1241 01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:54,080 Speaker 1: doesn't get to like an obsessive place, then it can 1242 01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:56,479 Speaker 1: be something. It can be like a toy, it can 1243 01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:59,479 Speaker 1: be something that you used to enhance the relationship. But 1244 01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:04,760 Speaker 1: watch porn during sex h um. But again I think 1245 01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:08,080 Speaker 1: it can't. There has to be a limit, you know, 1246 01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:12,400 Speaker 1: too much of anything isn't good. And I think the 1247 01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:15,080 Speaker 1: problem is a lot of people don't want to admit 1248 01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,760 Speaker 1: their addicted to point. I think you're addicted when you're 1249 01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:23,040 Speaker 1: like missing appointments and you're like a yeah, that's when 1250 01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:25,760 Speaker 1: they say you're addicted. You're like not being on time 1251 01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:27,760 Speaker 1: for ship, like now I gotta hold on, I gotta 1252 01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:30,800 Speaker 1: get one out. I think also the addiction can come 1253 01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:34,439 Speaker 1: from how frequently you need it. You might not miss things, 1254 01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:38,120 Speaker 1: but you need it so constantly. So he wants to 1255 01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:41,000 Speaker 1: say something, I thought of something. I said, I shouldn't 1256 01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:44,360 Speaker 1: say that. Now you gotta say it. I thought, go 1257 01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:50,240 Speaker 1: right through that. I was watching them, you have a point, 1258 01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:54,600 Speaker 1: the complete opposite. I don't watch point at all. He 1259 01:11:54,640 --> 01:11:57,320 Speaker 1: didn't want to say. I have watched it before, but 1260 01:11:57,360 --> 01:11:58,840 Speaker 1: I don't like it was almost like funny to me 1261 01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:01,599 Speaker 1: when I'm watching I was up those guys like, I'm like, yo, 1262 01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:04,240 Speaker 1: he's pulling out and she's screaming as though he put 1263 01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:12,879 Speaker 1: it in. I'm one of those guys face like yeah, exactly, 1264 01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:15,680 Speaker 1: hormos offer them. Now, let me ask you this, So 1265 01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:17,960 Speaker 1: when you watch porn, do you watch like the same thing? 1266 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:20,160 Speaker 1: You know, how like you might have a favorite or 1267 01:12:20,160 --> 01:12:23,280 Speaker 1: a favorite like actress or do you like the It's 1268 01:12:23,280 --> 01:12:25,360 Speaker 1: not that deep with me. I don't. Do you know 1269 01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:29,679 Speaker 1: their names? You know, anyone even know the porn girl 1270 01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:33,160 Speaker 1: names and stuff? You ever seen somebody you knew, like 1271 01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:38,759 Speaker 1: in a porn like, oh my school, have seen somebody 1272 01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:43,000 Speaker 1: in Oh my god. One time I was watching random 1273 01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:48,120 Speaker 1: porn lime Wire days. This is a long launched an 1274 01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:51,519 Speaker 1: sperit and my best friend he had a roommate and 1275 01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:56,080 Speaker 1: she was so cool. She was like a substitute teacher's pet. 1276 01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:58,720 Speaker 1: And boom I saw on lime wise like a dick 1277 01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,559 Speaker 1: in a hotel room. I was like, was she good? 1278 01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:05,439 Speaker 1: She was making a loud noise. It was like, do 1279 01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:09,439 Speaker 1: you guys watch porn for the masturbation purpose or do 1280 01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:11,000 Speaker 1: you just watch it to watch it just for like 1281 01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:14,519 Speaker 1: just at this time, I was just discovering that you 1282 01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:17,400 Speaker 1: could download all this free port on the computer. This 1283 01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:21,080 Speaker 1: is back in the days, watch overloading on it. I 1284 01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:24,639 Speaker 1: think that's that's probably part of why I don't watch porn. 1285 01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:26,639 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know if I watch it necessary ever, 1286 01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:29,720 Speaker 1: you don't check off ever never ever, I have in 1287 01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:34,640 Speaker 1: my life a decade. Why that same feeling you do 1288 01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:40,160 Speaker 1: see intense. I just don't feel good as soon as 1289 01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:42,160 Speaker 1: as soon as it's done, I feel like I feel 1290 01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:46,080 Speaker 1: come back, dirt bag. It's the weirdest thing. So it 1291 01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:48,960 Speaker 1: takes you till you're done to feel like that. Yeah. Yeah, 1292 01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:59,040 Speaker 1: I laughed about two minutes in the porn and after 1293 01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:01,240 Speaker 1: I come I'm like, wow, I'm just sealthy. And I 1294 01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 1: hate telling about I hate telling girls in my life 1295 01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:06,920 Speaker 1: that because whenever i'm I've seen a new girl or 1296 01:14:06,960 --> 01:14:08,920 Speaker 1: talking to a girl and whatever, and I tell her that, 1297 01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:11,679 Speaker 1: she's like, oh, now I know you're a whole because 1298 01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:21,240 Speaker 1: now you're film yourself having sex. Ever I've she I 1299 01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:25,160 Speaker 1: had a girl do that once because I'm going to 1300 01:14:25,200 --> 01:14:27,760 Speaker 1: say sometimes I would like to set her phone it 1301 01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:31,639 Speaker 1: was on. It was on her phone because sometimes guys 1302 01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:34,120 Speaker 1: like to look at themselves like I've never I've never. 1303 01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:38,599 Speaker 1: That was she did that one wonderful job I did. 1304 01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:41,360 Speaker 1: What about you? You You put out your camera sometimes you 1305 01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:54,240 Speaker 1: definitely have yeah listening, You're not as innocent. Video on 1306 01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:56,960 Speaker 1: your phone right now? What have you? Like? You having sex? 1307 01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:02,040 Speaker 1: Are getting hang suck? I'm sure that to sex folder phone, 1308 01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:05,120 Speaker 1: so that there might be something something somewhere you look 1309 01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:10,320 Speaker 1: at it like, no, do you say I have no 1310 01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:15,080 Speaker 1: nudes ever? Sent? Good? So you know it took a 1311 01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:19,400 Speaker 1: package pick before, don't We don't even like those. I 1312 01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:21,240 Speaker 1: just became proud of being able to say that. And 1313 01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:24,320 Speaker 1: I just became proud of it. Like listen, most women 1314 01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:26,240 Speaker 1: don't even like dick picks. And if she already had 1315 01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:28,120 Speaker 1: sex with you and she asked you like, hey, send 1316 01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:30,040 Speaker 1: me the package pick, it's because she wants to show 1317 01:15:30,080 --> 01:15:34,320 Speaker 1: her friends, right, Yeah, Well I've always I've always declined those, 1318 01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:37,200 Speaker 1: and yeah to this day, so I'm like, yeah, sure, 1319 01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:47,120 Speaker 1: your friends because it's good because it's let me give 1320 01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:49,360 Speaker 1: you all to get it for you guys. So we 1321 01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:53,280 Speaker 1: have a merch line that we just launched and we 1322 01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:56,519 Speaker 1: want to give you guys with a little bit services service. 1323 01:15:57,280 --> 01:16:02,880 Speaker 1: What is it? I saw you saw the bag like 1324 01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,800 Speaker 1: the d just a little you know what I'm say, 1325 01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:11,040 Speaker 1: T shirt little service because you guys, you guys survived 1326 01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:17,080 Speaker 1: lip service you put on the back. That's a good idea, 1327 01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:19,559 Speaker 1: honestly for the second time, and we thank you all 1328 01:16:19,600 --> 01:16:21,360 Speaker 1: so much. You know, I'm a big fan of Division, 1329 01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:23,679 Speaker 1: so I'm excited for the new project and I thank 1330 01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:25,280 Speaker 1: you guys. For coming in and I'm glad you'all are 1331 01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:28,720 Speaker 1: like doing all this press and putting yourself out there 1332 01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:31,280 Speaker 1: like that and doing like a super R and B album. 1333 01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:34,280 Speaker 1: It's exciting to me. Good, thank you for evidence. Yeah, 1334 01:16:34,479 --> 01:16:36,240 Speaker 1: I'm pulling up to the next event in Atlanta, so 1335 01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,240 Speaker 1: let me know, okay, and I'll pull up on myself 1336 01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:40,799 Speaker 1: this time because my friends gonna like him in outside. 1337 01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:43,320 Speaker 1: Why you know, I mean, I don't really have a 1338 01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:45,559 Speaker 1: lot of friends in Atlanta, but the ones I do 1339 01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:48,559 Speaker 1: have there. No, I grew up in Philly. I've been 1340 01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:50,920 Speaker 1: in Atlanta on and off seventeen years, but I'm a 1341 01:16:50,920 --> 01:16:52,960 Speaker 1: Philly You have friends, and I do know. I do 1342 01:16:53,080 --> 01:16:58,400 Speaker 1: have friends. I do have I do. I don't have friends, 1343 01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:02,360 Speaker 1: but you know I have friends that that that that 1344 01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:09,520 Speaker 1: that are like mothers and why they don't really be out. Yeah, 1345 01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:14,479 Speaker 1: when I wanted to come to a Magic City last 1346 01:17:14,520 --> 01:17:17,000 Speaker 1: week on Monday, I called my one home girl and 1347 01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:19,360 Speaker 1: she's like, girl, I got the kids. So I was like, 1348 01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:20,720 Speaker 1: and it was like kind of late at night, so 1349 01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:24,360 Speaker 1: kids can't come to Magic No girl, no kids. That 1350 01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:29,040 Speaker 1: I'm kidding, but I was gonna pull up the with 1351 01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:33,520 Speaker 1: y'all know, shout out to be Cox and Jermaine and everybody. 1352 01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:39,880 Speaker 1: Well something when it's the album coming out, Um in 1353 01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:44,320 Speaker 1: the next two or three months. Ideally, we gotta we 1354 01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:47,599 Speaker 1: got another, definitely got more more, more single, we gotta 1355 01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:51,639 Speaker 1: before just people are a little more perfecting. No, no, no, 1356 01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:53,720 Speaker 1: the song is ready to go. I'm just gonna get 1357 01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:56,320 Speaker 1: the video, get the video wrapped up, and then um 1358 01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:59,519 Speaker 1: and so it starts to show like the story, the 1359 01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:03,960 Speaker 1: story understand Oh this is I get it. Who who's 1360 01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:07,200 Speaker 1: on the next song? That it's got to be something 1361 01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:12,680 Speaker 1: to wait for that. Okay, we're waiting. It's well, we 1362 01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 1: cannot wait to hear. I'm so excited for that. I'm 1363 01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:17,840 Speaker 1: like a real R and B. I'm an eighties baby, 1364 01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:19,720 Speaker 1: so you know how you know the R and B 1365 01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 1: ship just hit different. I don't think there's an R 1366 01:18:22,200 --> 01:18:25,840 Speaker 1: and B song like this one that's been done in 1367 01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:30,080 Speaker 1: over a decade. Can this be on the wedding playlist 1368 01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:33,040 Speaker 1: this next one or no? It might feel like it. 1369 01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:36,839 Speaker 1: I don't know lyrically, it's that it's not wedding content, 1370 01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:41,120 Speaker 1: bachelor party. Maybe it's not either. It's I don't want 1371 01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:44,360 Speaker 1: to say too much on the record, Okay, Angela, we'll 1372 01:18:44,360 --> 01:18:47,880 Speaker 1: have to wait. It's all right. Well, Daniel, thank you'all 1373 01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:51,080 Speaker 1: so much for coming to appreciate, appreciate y'all