Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and The Black Effects.
Speaker 2: Hey you all, what's up your girl? Justsee Lourie's is here?
Speaker 1: Welcome back to you got another Canfully Reckless episode with
Speaker 1: your girl Jess. Hilarious. Now listen, I am tired of
Speaker 1: shit today period, and you all gonna get these stories.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna let my friend Taylor read the story.
Speaker 2: She's tried.
Speaker 1: Mmm, she try and get about the room, y'all. No,
Speaker 1: come on, this is one of my producers or whatever,
Speaker 1: and she's gonna read the story because this is a
Speaker 1: long story and I don't understand, So come on, kick
Speaker 1: it to them.
Speaker 2: What's up, Jess.
Speaker 3: I started this new job at a warehouse about two
Speaker 3: months ago, where I met my boyfriend. He was already
Speaker 3: working there.
Speaker 2: And I was new girl. He was all over me.
Speaker 3: At first, I didn't really give him any play, but
Speaker 3: the consistency in him constantly showing effort was so attractive,
Speaker 3: so I gave him a.
Speaker 2: Shot, and now he's my boyfriend.
Speaker 3: We only we had the same shifts and when we
Speaker 3: would get off, he will always take me out, which
Speaker 3: I thought was so sweet. It was even this one
Speaker 3: time that he booked a nice hotel and got it
Speaker 3: decorated and ran me up a hot bath and bessiged
Speaker 3: me the whole night.
Speaker 2: I've never had that before. Now, like I told you,
Speaker 2: we are.
Speaker 3: Only two months in and everything is beyond perfect, which
Speaker 3: makes me question is it really perfect? So one day
Speaker 3: I asked him, Hey, how do you feel about meeting
Speaker 3: my parents? And he told me that it's a big
Speaker 3: step for him to take and he's not quite ready yet.
Speaker 3: And I understand because we only have been dating for
Speaker 3: two months, but I was also still just testing him,
Speaker 3: so I left it alone. But girl, that same day,
Speaker 3: we get in the car. It's this number that keeps
Speaker 3: calling him. He answers it and says it's his sister
Speaker 3: and she has a new number. Side note, I actually
Speaker 3: met his sister once and I didn't know she was
Speaker 3: having problems with her phone, so I'm like, okay, cool.
Speaker 3: A few days later, we were lying in the bed
Speaker 3: and his sister starts calling.
Speaker 2: Him again and again and again.
Speaker 3: I asked him, why don't you just pick it up,
Speaker 3: and he told me she's annoying. So I didn't want
Speaker 3: to get in the middle of that, so I just
Speaker 3: let it be. He walks in the kitchen and she's
Speaker 3: still calling him. But my mom was like, maybe you
Speaker 3: should just answer the phone. It should be important. So
Speaker 3: I answer it, and she said you must not be
Speaker 3: answering the phone because you were with that bitch stopped
Speaker 3: playing with me before I tell you what's up. So
Speaker 3: I said, tell me what's up, and she hung up
Speaker 3: the phone. I called her back three times and she
Speaker 3: did not answer. I blacked out. I ran in the
Speaker 3: kitchen and said that bitch is not your sister, and
Speaker 3: he's like, what are you talking about. I'm like, I
Speaker 3: answered your phone and that bitch is not your sister.
Speaker 3: So he starts going off why would I touch his phone?
Speaker 3: I had no business doing that, and basically trying to
Speaker 3: flip the whole script. We are sitting there fussing for
Speaker 3: about five minutes, and he kept trying to deny it
Speaker 3: and saying it's not even like that bullshit. So I
Speaker 3: just left it at that point, and he followed me
Speaker 3: to my car. He even got in his car and
Speaker 3: was trying to follow me for a little bit.
Speaker 2: But he just stopped.
Speaker 3: I got in the house and cried my little eyes out,
Speaker 3: and I didn't even want to go to work the
Speaker 3: next day because I knew I would see him that night.
Speaker 3: I call his phone because I wanted answers. I was blocked.
Speaker 3: I just left it at that. I go to work
Speaker 3: the next day and he's not even there. So in
Speaker 3: my head, I'm just thinking, what do this nigga really
Speaker 3: got going on? I don't want no part of it anymore,
Speaker 3: but I would like to know, because I did just
Speaker 3: waste my time and literally quite in love with him.
Speaker 3: Later that night, he sends me a text apologizing and
Speaker 3: saying he was overreacting, but he wanted to tell me
Speaker 3: the truth.
Speaker 2: He said.
Speaker 3: The truth was that he used to date his sister's
Speaker 3: best friend, and when they were with each other, she
Speaker 3: would take my sister's phone and try to calm me
Speaker 3: off of it because she's blocked on everything. He don't
Speaker 3: even know why his sister is still friends with the girl,
Speaker 3: considering she's crazy. But that's what he told me he was.
Speaker 3: I didn't respond back because I just didn't know what
Speaker 3: to believe. Do you think he could be lying or
Speaker 3: do this even sound right? Let me know what you think.
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, So he used to work together, okay,
Speaker 1: and so that's how she met him at work and
Speaker 1: he kept showing up assistance and all that. Ohky, because
Speaker 1: I was okay because I thought they he was just
Speaker 1: coming up her job. But he actually worked there. And
Speaker 1: you went up there and you said he was there.
Speaker 1: It wasn't even at work. Girl, Listen, two things could
Speaker 1: have happened. He could have because that, honestly, that shit
Speaker 1: could be true. We know one thing he loved to do.
Speaker 1: He loved block, and bitches don't have no problem with blocking,
Speaker 1: none of y'll out of his motherfucking life. Okay, so
Speaker 1: you said you met the sister and you you didn't
Speaker 1: know she was having issues with her phone, so she
Speaker 1: got a new number whatever whatever. Now that being the
Speaker 1: sister's friend, I have seen situations like that. That's why
Speaker 1: I used to have the mindset like I don't fuck
Speaker 1: with men with sisters because a lot of times sisters
Speaker 1: and moms and cousins and shit and aunts and shit,
Speaker 1: they can't break up with a person. When you break
Speaker 1: up with a person and they have their favorite xes
Speaker 1: and shit, you get what I'm saying. If there's no
Speaker 1: reason why if I'm breaking up with you, and let's
Speaker 1: just say fensince I'm the guy, if I broke up
Speaker 1: with you, you're still hanging around my fucking family and shit like,
Speaker 1: that's gonna be crazy for whoever I am dating, the
Speaker 1: next person I'm dating or whatever. So that could be true,
Speaker 1: but then he could be lying as well, because how
Speaker 1: he blew up and shit and then blocks you. You
Speaker 1: had the audacity to block me after I find out
Speaker 1: some shit. If he'd kept that shit a huntred from
Speaker 1: the jump, it would have never been no issue because
Speaker 1: communication and honesty is just two things that can solve
Speaker 1: so many fucking problems. That's not to say you wouldn't
Speaker 1: have been angry, but at least he told you up
Speaker 1: front the first time the sister called. I know, it's
Speaker 1: kind of like, all right, cool, hanging aswer for his sister,
Speaker 1: But when y'all was laying in bed and that number
Speaker 1: kept calling him back to back, he knew what the
Speaker 1: fuck was going on, and all he had to do
Speaker 1: was say, Yo, it's my sister popping up, But it's
Speaker 1: my ex calling me from my sister's phone because she's
Speaker 1: blocked on everything.
Speaker 2: That's all he had to say. But on you.
Speaker 1: Now, for you, it's only been two months, baby like,
Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to downplay your relationship, because when
Speaker 1: somebody just sweeps you off your fucking after you try
Speaker 1: to resist them and all that type of shit.
Speaker 2: But like, if a god makes you.
Speaker 1: Fold and where you want to fucking deal with him,
Speaker 1: then I understand how you kind of could be swept
Speaker 1: off your feet. And I totally do understand it. I
Speaker 1: totally do get it. But it was only two months,
Speaker 1: and that was like two months of you being in
Speaker 1: the honeymoon phase. And then also after two months you said, hey,
Speaker 1: you want to meet your mother. That's a red flag
Speaker 1: right there too, I mean, and then on the flip
Speaker 1: side of it, after two months, I'm not sure I
Speaker 1: meet your mother.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. This is how some guys
Speaker 2: could be thinking.
Speaker 1: Have y'all ever talked about I want to know if
Speaker 1: y'all ever talked about being official or being in a
Speaker 1: relationship and shit like that, Because even though because a
Speaker 1: guy could be playing all the right roles, like doing
Speaker 1: all the right things, playing the boyfriend duty and you know,
Speaker 1: all that type shit, it's still not want to commit
Speaker 1: you feel me like it's a lot of guys out
Speaker 1: here like that, Like women, women do all these wifely duties,
Speaker 1: we cater to these men and all that, but still
Speaker 1: don't want a relationship.
Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying. So that could have been
Speaker 2: what he was on.
Speaker 1: But if y'all talked about being in a relationship and
Speaker 1: all that type of shit, then I understand he definitely failed.
Speaker 1: But he didn't want to meet your mother. I left
Speaker 1: a nigga for not wanting to meet my mother. The
Speaker 1: nigga that I took on a couple's retreat. That nigga
Speaker 1: didn't want to meet my mom until I broke up
Speaker 1: with his and he was like, I meet your mother.
Speaker 2: Don't ever try to play with my mother, and that
Speaker 2: I broke up with you. Now you want to meet her? Now?
Speaker 1: Now on til the next one like jay Z and Swizz,
Speaker 1: because we're not playing Oh hold on, hold on, hold
Speaker 1: on your here she go.
Speaker 3: I was dealing with a person and we were rather
Speaker 3: go on vacation that first time, and my mom just
Speaker 3: wanted to know, like okay, let me just talk to him,
Speaker 3: like see like catch his character or whatever. That. Yeah,
Speaker 3: how he reacted to just talking to him talking to
Speaker 3: her on the phone, not like while he was on
Speaker 3: the phone with her, but before that like, oh, I'm
Speaker 3: just stressed out, like it was a lot, and he
Speaker 3: was like, I just want to get over with, Like
Speaker 3: I probably just meet both of your parents.
Speaker 2: I could go over with. What do you mean get
Speaker 2: it over with?
Speaker 3: If you're trying to grow a future with me, you
Speaker 3: can't just get it over with, like you're gonna see
Speaker 3: them a lot then.
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 1: So he always a better go on the trip and
Speaker 1: your mother wanted to know who he was going on the.
Speaker 2: Trip because it was just y'all too exactly.
Speaker 1: My mother would be the same exact way and has
Speaker 1: been the same exact way in the past.
Speaker 2: Did you ask where that came from? Like has he
Speaker 2: ever tried me?
Speaker 1: Maybe in the past he was told he wasn't good
Speaker 1: enough for somebody's daughter or what like yeah it was
Speaker 1: like extra, yeah it was it was yeah, it wasn't
Speaker 1: And what happened to him?
Speaker 2: Oh he's going he acted out on that vacations.
Speaker 1: He acted out on a vacation. Clay say yo, say no.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Love is Blind season seven. That's my shirt,
Speaker 1: my bead child because that sounds like something clear that
Speaker 1: like boy that I find all right, So back to
Speaker 1: the girl, so tell her you think the guy is lying, Okay,
Speaker 1: let's say he is lying, leave his ass alon like,
Speaker 1: because when you read your own story back, mama, like
Speaker 1: you you, you clearly can see what's going on now,
Speaker 1: even he's even when he admitted to overreacting and shit
Speaker 1: like that and then he told you the truth.
Speaker 3: Yo, A number kept calling if the friend was using
Speaker 3: this sister's phone, when did't he have his sister's number
Speaker 3: already locked?
Speaker 2: But maybe he didn't want to block his sister.
Speaker 3: But she's put it like that wasn't it was just
Speaker 3: a number and he said that was his sister. Why
Speaker 3: wasn't your sister's contact being your phone already?
Speaker 2: No, you're right, You're totally right about that.
Speaker 1: So look, I don't know who line or not, but
Speaker 1: I feel like you should leave him alone just because
Speaker 1: it just seems like it's a lot of mess. And
Speaker 1: then obviously the ex is not over him. And even
Speaker 1: though she's blocked on everything, who's to say that the
Speaker 1: sister ain't keeping her around because they do talk sometimes
Speaker 1: or you get what I'm saying, And then she could
Speaker 1: be blocked for right now and shit, and that's why
Speaker 1: she called him so fucking much. He probably she probably
Speaker 1: made his ass mad again and he blocked like you
Speaker 1: was blocked temporarily.
Speaker 2: Then he called you once he calmed.
Speaker 1: His ass down and felt better about the situation enough
Speaker 1: to explain the truth to you, or his version of
Speaker 1: whatever the truth may be.
Speaker 2: So I think you shall honestly leave him alone.
Speaker 1: And then I feel like God shows people these things
Speaker 1: so early to try to save you from something bigger
Speaker 1: and deeper happening later. I mean, it's only been two months.
Speaker 1: You enjoyed the honeymoon phase. You done got rubbed down,
Speaker 1: all that everything. He swept you off your feet. Girl,
Speaker 1: Go back to work, do your thing, and look, try
Speaker 1: not to date nobody you work with that's always liking
Speaker 1: this shit. That's a red flags and it's just a
Speaker 1: nigga that you want to fuck with. And you see
Speaker 1: like red flags are happening and all that type shit.
Speaker 1: You work with him. You gotta be around this motherfucker
Speaker 1: every day. Know that I would never date nobody fuck
Speaker 1: I work with period. I mean, I'm not as you,
Speaker 1: but I am, so don't do that. All right, le'vel
Speaker 1: update me hit me back, because let me know what's
Speaker 1: going on.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: We're gonna take a brief break, you can go grab
Speaker 1: you something to eat, something to drink, something like that.
Speaker 3: Hey, Jess, So I have a friend that she's a
Speaker 3: homie who is very beautiful.
Speaker 2: We've been friends for years. She's an amazing woman.
Speaker 3: However, I'm talking to this new guy and I'm scared
Speaker 3: to bring him around her. In the past, she has
Speaker 3: going after guys I have liked and talked to, and honestly, like,
Speaker 3: it wasn't a big deal to me, but at the
Speaker 3: same time, it's like, but why are you at my leftovers?
Speaker 3: So it just leaves me a bad taste in my mouth,
Speaker 3: Like I don't I love her, but it's just like, Ugh,
Speaker 3: I don't know, she's a type of friend. I want
Speaker 3: to really bring her around someone that I actually really like.
Speaker 3: I don't know whether to be insecure about it or
Speaker 3: just don't say anything.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: So there's this friend that you have that has in
Speaker 1: the past gone at the guys that you were talking
Speaker 1: to after you were talking to them. So she ain't
Speaker 1: try to interrupt your relationship with even y'all little talking phase,
Speaker 1: but she would still proceed to show interest in the
Speaker 1: guy after y'all would talk. Fuck yeah, the fuck First
Speaker 1: of all, why are you still friends with her? And
Speaker 1: then it should be in absolutely no way, shape or
Speaker 1: for him a question in your mind if you would
Speaker 1: bring this man around her, why are you trying to
Speaker 1: bring him around? Like no, no, my friends ain't met
Speaker 1: Christ and my friends have never done no shit like that.
Speaker 1: But my friends ain't meet Christ until I was in
Speaker 1: a relationship with this nigga. We was in out talking phase.
Speaker 1: I didn't bring him around. I wanted to make sure
Speaker 1: he was right for me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to jump the gun and then he'd
Speaker 1: just be enough a nigga that adds to the pile
Speaker 1: of niggas that I was talking to. And it didn't
Speaker 1: work with You know what I'm saying because I hate
Speaker 1: failed relationships.
Speaker 2: I hate failed talk ships.
Speaker 1: Because I'm not talking to you just for you to
Speaker 1: go here about your business. I'm talking to you because
Speaker 1: I love love, I love relationships. But I wanted to
Speaker 1: make sure, after so many failed relationships, that Chris was
Speaker 1: the one.
Speaker 2: And once I did, and I knew that.
Speaker 1: Significantly fast, significantly fast, like seven months in, I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, yeah, you can meet everybody. Well, I actually
Speaker 1: know it was five months my bad five months in
Speaker 1: because my son was the first one to meet him.
Speaker 2: And then I was like, all right, I'm gonna bring
Speaker 2: around my friends.
Speaker 1: And then my mom didn't want to meet him because
Speaker 1: my mom got tired of meeting men that I wasn't
Speaker 1: gonna be with that I wasn't it wouldn't last. And
Speaker 1: so you know, that's what it was. There's no way
Speaker 1: that you should be trying to You ain't got no
Speaker 1: more friends to bring them around. Why the fuck you
Speaker 1: keep bringing niggas around this one? The fuc y'all must
Speaker 1: be like really really good friends, best friend's sisters, something.
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, best friends don't scout out your
Speaker 1: fucking exes or people that you were talking to. You
Speaker 1: know how many minute it is in the world where
Speaker 1: you don't have to ever go after somebody's leftovers, whether
Speaker 1: like I said, whether they were married to them, boyfriend, whatever,
Speaker 1: whether I don't care if y'all y'all went out on
Speaker 1: one date, why the hell you, as my friend, would
Speaker 1: go behind me and do that, You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: So you gotta check her. But I would say, if
Speaker 1: the shit is going good with that guy, that you
Speaker 1: would now know, do not bring him around her, but
Speaker 1: had that conversation with her, because it's not like you
Speaker 1: need a little bit more advice on whether you should
Speaker 1: be insecure about the situation. Nah, don't be fucking insecure
Speaker 1: about somebody else. What somebody else doing? You leave your
Speaker 1: man and your friends separate, but heavy conversation with your
Speaker 1: friend because I can tell you and never had a
Speaker 1: conversation with her, or she would have stopped doing that show,
Speaker 1: y'all would not be friends right now?
Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If she really a friend, you gotta sit her down
Speaker 1: and be like, listen, why is it every time that
Speaker 1: I talk.
Speaker 2: To someone or you or keep that shit straight up
Speaker 2: with her?
Speaker 1: I did want to introduce you to somebody that I'm
Speaker 1: dealing with, but in the past I noticed that you
Speaker 1: would after the same type of guys or like my
Speaker 1: exes or whatever, or when I'm done with them, you'll
Speaker 1: end up talking to them.
Speaker 2: No shame in your game? Why are you so comfortable
Speaker 2: doing it? As my friend?
Speaker 1: I've been one to talk to you about this, but
Speaker 1: I just didn't know if it was worth me even
Speaker 1: saying anything because obviously I'm not in a relationship with
Speaker 1: these guys anymore. But it still just shows your character
Speaker 1: and I don't want to carry this any any longer.
Speaker 1: I want you to know how I feel about it.
Speaker 1: You gotta have a conversation with your fucking friend, because
Speaker 1: I don't know what's wrong with you. You keep letting
Speaker 1: her take niggas from you. Say no, but I just
Speaker 1: think you should, like really really have a conversation with her,
Speaker 1: And no, don't don't don't bring your man around her
Speaker 1: even after you had a conversation, because she been You've
Speaker 1: been allowing her to do this shit for years. So
Speaker 1: take the guy around your family. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: or somebody if you really want to introduce him, is
Speaker 1: he he must be a hunk child? Like what what
Speaker 1: what he looked like?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: What's what is it?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 2: What what's going on with you?
Speaker 3: Do you?
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get her business right now, You're like, no,
Speaker 1: so what's going what's going to? Because all right, for
Speaker 1: those who don't know, Taylor is in the first episode
Speaker 1: of Breakfast Club series that me, DJ Andvy and Charlamagne started,
Speaker 1: and I'm the one that's giving her advice on dating
Speaker 1: because she was like at one point, fuck these niggas.
Speaker 1: These niggas, these niggas are fuck boys, and they don't
Speaker 1: deserve me. And I know my worth, you know, But
Speaker 1: apparently at one point she didn't because she was sitting
Speaker 1: there a pout one about how niggas ain't shuit so
Speaker 1: you didn't know you're worth all this time.
Speaker 2: So so what's going on?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 2: Where are we? Because they want to know.
Speaker 3: First of all, I knew my word. That's why I
Speaker 3: break up with them.
Speaker 2: Nothing I'm dating oh.
Speaker 3: And I would say this is the first time that
Speaker 3: I'm I'm dating someone, but like it's very transparent where
Speaker 3: I told him, like, look, I'm gonna be dating other people,
Speaker 3: like and you're free too too.
Speaker 1: I'm not damn So you're saying here calling niggas fuck
Speaker 1: boys and you want some fuck girl shit.
Speaker 3: It's not that. That's not what's going on, white thing
Speaker 3: as a funck girl shit. We're very transparent with each other,
Speaker 3: but like we're not exclusive. And if a guy, if
Speaker 3: I'm walking out whatever that and I see a guy
Speaker 3: that showed interest and he gets taped my number, he
Speaker 3: can because I'm not touching anybody.
Speaker 1: Okay, So no matter how all right, So be cause
Speaker 1: you have girls who like to date one guy at
Speaker 1: a time. You used to be like that, but then
Speaker 1: it wasn't working for you because you was putting all
Speaker 1: your eggs in one basket, you felt, And that's like
Speaker 1: how you kind.
Speaker 2: Of it's expectation.
Speaker 3: I feel like I was putting too much expectation and
Speaker 3: focus on it when I didn't need to do.
Speaker 1: That got you when it really wasn't necessaries. You was
Speaker 1: just your point. The point of dating is getting to
Speaker 1: know people and getting to heading to make that decision
Speaker 1: if we're gonna make this exclusive or not. All right,
Speaker 1: I feel you, I feel you. So what was his
Speaker 1: response to? You can go in and date other people
Speaker 1: and I date other people.
Speaker 3: Too, Like so he is a relationship guy and he
Speaker 3: he understood it, like he didn't show at least expressed
Speaker 3: that he felt type of way he might have but
Speaker 3: restill talking though, like it's not and I honestly I
Speaker 3: feel like that kind of I like to keep niggas
Speaker 3: on their tools. I feel like it also just like
Speaker 3: oh hoho, the like I feel like it makes me
Speaker 3: more desirable because like, oh, other even though he knew,
Speaker 3: he'll say, like, I know other guy is trying to holler,
Speaker 3: but me being transparent with him, I think that like
Speaker 3: may up his game.
Speaker 2: A little bit.
Speaker 1: He probably liked that shit because bitches be all your
Speaker 1: line and he yeah, like, you know, it's easy for
Speaker 1: a woman to lie and tell a guy like you're
Speaker 1: the only one.
Speaker 2: You're the only one I'm dating, and it sounds good.
Speaker 1: It's a dream being so but you're you're very communicative
Speaker 1: with him, and he's probably like, that's probably something that
Speaker 1: he's never had before, Like because.
Speaker 2: A lot of women tell me what they want to hear,
Speaker 2: not what they need to hear. Him that's something that
Speaker 2: he needs.
Speaker 1: But that that also let's him know whenever she got
Speaker 1: a problem, she's going to like vocalize whenever there's something
Speaker 1: going on going through her mind. If she's not happy,
Speaker 1: she's going to be vocal enough to tell me, like
Speaker 1: all right, Like it's not going to be anything that
Speaker 1: he has to find out because men don't they're not
Speaker 1: good at reading minds and shit.
Speaker 2: So I got you, I feel you.
Speaker 1: But on a scale from one to ten, where are
Speaker 1: y'all right now? I mean I know you're so wait
Speaker 1: are you? It's it like a roster situation. Do you
Speaker 1: date other people. Is he the only one that you're dating?
Speaker 1: But you just wanted to play them more point Like,
Speaker 1: if I do see somebody else I do like and
Speaker 1: they're showing interest, I may give them a shot at
Speaker 1: dating me as well.
Speaker 3: But he's the only person that I'm dating right now.
Speaker 3: I mean there's guys I've flirt with and everything else,
Speaker 3: but nothing just came about that.
Speaker 2: I might assuone actually yesterday just walking out the building.
Speaker 2: What building? This building? Didn't I just don't fuck with
Speaker 2: nobody we work with. You don't work here.
Speaker 1: Oh oh h he was dropping off a fucking door dash.
Speaker 1: Oh he was being a guest. Oh, So, would you
Speaker 1: date a celebrity?
Speaker 2: No? M M, well yeah, I get it, I get it.
Speaker 2: But if he was the manager of a celebrity or something,
Speaker 2: I got you.
Speaker 1: I just feel like, if it's too much ego union
Speaker 1: into it, it's like, yeah, I get it, because then
Speaker 1: a relationship or anything we built is going to be
Speaker 1: built on competition.
Speaker 2: I hate that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Lord Jesus.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So I mean now my my initial
Speaker 1: question is the last one before we get out of here.
Speaker 2: On a scale from one to ten, where is dude A.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm called him, Dude A because he's the
Speaker 1: first one and Dude B is the one who was
Speaker 1: leaving out the building yesterday.
Speaker 2: But where are y'all at? Where are you with Dude A?
Speaker 2: Feelings wise from one to ten, I like him.
Speaker 3: I feel like he's cool. I feel like he's definitely potential.
Speaker 3: But I'm not in a place to let my guard
Speaker 3: down yet. And I think that's why I'm moving and
Speaker 3: how I'm moving right now.
Speaker 2: So you're basically hurt from the past. You're all right,
Speaker 2: so you're still healing. So why even date this?
Speaker 1: Would I'll be trying to ask him, and why even
Speaker 1: dated if you're still healing now? I'm not saying because
Speaker 1: I know you could question me back and be like
Speaker 1: what we were, what I supposed to just ball up
Speaker 1: in the corner and be lonely. But I'm saying, if
Speaker 1: you're not ready to date.
Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm being very transparent with him,
Speaker 3: Like we've had those talks, Like me and him actually
Speaker 3: talk a lot about the like just past relationships and
Speaker 3: like what we kind of learned from it. And that's
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like I feel like me and him
Speaker 3: are building a trust bond. But I'm just realizing the
Speaker 3: mistakes I've made in the past. And that's why I
Speaker 3: feel like I'm trying to my time of just not
Speaker 3: like getting too excited, like oh I like it, Like so,
Speaker 3: I don't want to be like the girl that fell
Speaker 3: in in too much.
Speaker 1: So don't play with my fucking clients.
Speaker 2: These are my clients. Don't play with them. Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: I feel you don't want to be like that child.
Speaker 2: You do not, And I get it. I get it. Okay,
Speaker 2: all right, Well I'm rooting for.
Speaker 1: This guy, and I'm rooting for you, Taylor, because you
Speaker 1: be coming to here world upside down. Like yes, it'd
Speaker 1: be like we be like, hi, Taylor, She'd be like
Speaker 1: what the fuck?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: Like you know, you know, she'd be going through with
Speaker 1: it and I'd just be like, what happened? And she like,
Speaker 1: let me tell you this nigga did over the weekend,
Speaker 1: and so, you know, I just want her to just
Speaker 1: focus on herself, you know, and heal, heal the right way.
Speaker 2: You don't use the man say hell, by.
Speaker 3: The way, let me just say though, I before I
Speaker 3: even met him, I was by myself. I wasn't there
Speaker 3: nobody or nothing like that. I was chilling like for
Speaker 3: a good at least like five months or so.
Speaker 2: Damn that's good. Actually, so did you meet him? What
Speaker 2: did you meet the do day? He is a friend's cousin.
Speaker 2: We're friends. Because let me tell y'all something else about Taylor.
Speaker 2: She do not have the best circle of friends. Oh, oh,
Speaker 2: you know what.
Speaker 1: Your friend's probably listening to us. No, Taylor has good friends,
Speaker 1: but then she has others. Okay, so, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: from where Philly from New York?
Speaker 2: Oh? Hell no, girl? This all right, y'all. We're gonna
Speaker 2: get back at y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go talk to Taylor off air and figure
Speaker 1: out what we need to do because I may saw
Speaker 1: the show.
Speaker 2: Help Taylor.
Speaker 1: Fine, this is crazy, all right, y'all, this is uh
Speaker 1: so we've come to get another. So we've come to
Speaker 1: the end of yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl.
Speaker 2: Just hilarious.
Speaker 1: What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess. And we
Speaker 1: jumped straight into it with Taylor. Y'all claning with tailor
Speaker 1: in your cars right now, But don't let go at
Speaker 1: the wheelcause y'all will crash. All right, love y'all, see
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