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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and The Black Effects.

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Speaker 2: Hey you all, what's up your girl? Justsee Lourie's is here?

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to you got another Canfully Reckless episode with

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Speaker 1: your girl Jess. Hilarious. Now listen, I am tired of

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Speaker 1: shit today period, and you all gonna get these stories.

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna let my friend Taylor read the story.

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Speaker 2: She's tried.

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Speaker 1: Mmm, she try and get about the room, y'all. No,

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Speaker 1: come on, this is one of my producers or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and she's gonna read the story because this is a

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Speaker 1: long story and I don't understand, So come on, kick

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Speaker 1: it to them.

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Speaker 2: What's up, Jess.

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Speaker 3: I started this new job at a warehouse about two

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Speaker 3: months ago, where I met my boyfriend. He was already

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Speaker 3: working there.

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Speaker 2: And I was new girl. He was all over me.

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Speaker 3: At first, I didn't really give him any play, but

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Speaker 3: the consistency in him constantly showing effort was so attractive,

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Speaker 3: so I gave him a.

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Speaker 2: Shot, and now he's my boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: We only we had the same shifts and when we

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Speaker 3: would get off, he will always take me out, which

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Speaker 3: I thought was so sweet. It was even this one

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Speaker 3: time that he booked a nice hotel and got it

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Speaker 3: decorated and ran me up a hot bath and bessiged

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Speaker 3: me the whole night.

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Speaker 2: I've never had that before. Now, like I told you,

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Speaker 2: we are.

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Speaker 3: Only two months in and everything is beyond perfect, which

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Speaker 3: makes me question is it really perfect? So one day

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Speaker 3: I asked him, Hey, how do you feel about meeting

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Speaker 3: my parents? And he told me that it's a big

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Speaker 3: step for him to take and he's not quite ready yet.

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Speaker 3: And I understand because we only have been dating for

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Speaker 3: two months, but I was also still just testing him,

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Speaker 3: so I left it alone. But girl, that same day,

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Speaker 3: we get in the car. It's this number that keeps

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Speaker 3: calling him. He answers it and says it's his sister

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Speaker 3: and she has a new number. Side note, I actually

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Speaker 3: met his sister once and I didn't know she was

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Speaker 3: having problems with her phone, so I'm like, okay, cool.

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Speaker 3: A few days later, we were lying in the bed

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Speaker 3: and his sister starts calling.

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Speaker 2: Him again and again and again.

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Speaker 3: I asked him, why don't you just pick it up,

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Speaker 3: and he told me she's annoying. So I didn't want

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Speaker 3: to get in the middle of that, so I just

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Speaker 3: let it be. He walks in the kitchen and she's

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Speaker 3: still calling him. But my mom was like, maybe you

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Speaker 3: should just answer the phone. It should be important. So

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Speaker 3: I answer it, and she said you must not be

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Speaker 3: answering the phone because you were with that bitch stopped

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Speaker 3: playing with me before I tell you what's up. So

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Speaker 3: I said, tell me what's up, and she hung up

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Speaker 3: the phone. I called her back three times and she

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Speaker 3: did not answer. I blacked out. I ran in the

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Speaker 3: he's like, what are you talking about. I'm like, I

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Speaker 3: So he starts going off why would I touch his phone?

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Speaker 3: I had no business doing that, and basically trying to

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Speaker 3: flip the whole script. We are sitting there fussing for

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Speaker 3: about five minutes, and he kept trying to deny it

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Speaker 3: and saying it's not even like that bullshit. So I

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Speaker 3: just left it at that point, and he followed me

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Speaker 2: But he just stopped.

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Speaker 3: I got in the house and cried my little eyes out,

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Speaker 3: and I didn't even want to go to work the

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Speaker 3: next day because I knew I would see him that night.

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Speaker 3: I call his phone because I wanted answers. I was blocked.

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Speaker 3: I just left it at that. I go to work

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Speaker 3: the next day and he's not even there. So in

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Speaker 3: my head, I'm just thinking, what do this nigga really

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Speaker 3: but I would like to know, because I did just

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Speaker 3: Later that night, he sends me a text apologizing and

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Speaker 3: saying he was overreacting, but he wanted to tell me

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Speaker 3: the truth.

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Speaker 2: He said.

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Speaker 3: The truth was that he used to date his sister's

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Speaker 3: best friend, and when they were with each other, she

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Speaker 3: off of it because she's blocked on everything. He don't

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Speaker 3: even know why his sister is still friends with the girl,

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Speaker 3: considering she's crazy. But that's what he told me he was.

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Speaker 3: I didn't respond back because I just didn't know what

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Speaker 3: to believe. Do you think he could be lying or

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Speaker 3: do this even sound right? Let me know what you think.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, So he used to work together, okay,

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Speaker 1: and so that's how she met him at work and

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Speaker 1: he kept showing up assistance and all that. Ohky, because

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Speaker 1: I was okay because I thought they he was just

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Speaker 1: coming up her job. But he actually worked there. And

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Speaker 1: you went up there and you said he was there.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't even at work. Girl, Listen, two things could

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Speaker 1: have happened. He could have because that, honestly, that shit

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Speaker 1: could be true. We know one thing he loved to do.

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Speaker 1: He loved block, and bitches don't have no problem with blocking,

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Speaker 1: none of y'll out of his motherfucking life. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: you said you met the sister and you you didn't

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Speaker 1: know she was having issues with her phone, so she

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Speaker 1: got a new number whatever whatever. Now that being the

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Speaker 1: sister's friend, I have seen situations like that. That's why

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Speaker 1: I used to have the mindset like I don't fuck

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Speaker 1: with men with sisters because a lot of times sisters

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Speaker 1: and moms and cousins and shit and aunts and shit,

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Speaker 1: they can't break up with a person. When you break

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Speaker 1: and shit, you get what I'm saying. If there's no

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Speaker 1: reason why if I'm breaking up with you, and let's

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Speaker 1: just say fensince I'm the guy, if I broke up

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Speaker 1: with you, you're still hanging around my fucking family and shit like,

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Speaker 1: that's gonna be crazy for whoever I am dating, the

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Speaker 1: next person I'm dating or whatever. So that could be true,

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Speaker 1: but then he could be lying as well, because how

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Speaker 1: he blew up and shit and then blocks you. You

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Speaker 1: some shit. If he'd kept that shit a huntred from

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Speaker 1: the jump, it would have never been no issue because

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Speaker 1: communication and honesty is just two things that can solve

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Speaker 1: so many fucking problems. That's not to say you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: have been angry, but at least he told you up

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Speaker 1: front the first time the sister called. I know, it's

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Speaker 1: kind of like, all right, cool, hanging aswer for his sister,

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Speaker 1: But when y'all was laying in bed and that number

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Speaker 1: was say, Yo, it's my sister popping up, But it's

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Speaker 2: That's all he had to say. But on you.

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Speaker 1: Now, for you, it's only been two months, baby like,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to downplay your relationship, because when

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Speaker 2: But like, if a god makes you.

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Speaker 1: Fold and where you want to fucking deal with him,

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Speaker 1: then I understand how you kind of could be swept

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Speaker 1: off your feet. And I totally do understand it. I

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Speaker 1: totally do get it. But it was only two months,

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Speaker 1: and that was like two months of you being in

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Speaker 1: the honeymoon phase. And then also after two months you said, hey,

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Speaker 1: you want to meet your mother. That's a red flag

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Speaker 1: right there too, I mean, and then on the flip

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. This is how some guys

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Speaker 1: Have y'all ever talked about I want to know if

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Speaker 1: y'all ever talked about being official or being in a

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Speaker 1: all the right things, playing the boyfriend duty and you know,

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Speaker 1: all that type shit, it's still not want to commit

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Speaker 1: you feel me like it's a lot of guys out

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Speaker 1: here like that, Like women, women do all these wifely duties,

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Speaker 1: we cater to these men and all that, but still

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Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying. So that could have been

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Speaker 2: what he was on.

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Speaker 1: But if y'all talked about being in a relationship and

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Speaker 1: all that type of shit, then I understand he definitely failed.

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Speaker 1: But he didn't want to meet your mother. I left

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Speaker 1: a nigga for not wanting to meet my mother. The

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Speaker 1: nigga that I took on a couple's retreat. That nigga

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Speaker 1: with his and he was like, I meet your mother.

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Speaker 2: Don't ever try to play with my mother, and that

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Speaker 2: I broke up with you. Now you want to meet her? Now?

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Speaker 1: Now on til the next one like jay Z and Swizz,

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Speaker 1: because we're not playing Oh hold on, hold on, hold

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Speaker 3: I was dealing with a person and we were rather

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Speaker 3: go on vacation that first time, and my mom just

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Speaker 3: wanted to know, like okay, let me just talk to him,

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Speaker 3: like see like catch his character or whatever. That. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: how he reacted to just talking to him talking to

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Speaker 3: was like, I just want to get over with, Like

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Speaker 3: I probably just meet both of your parents.

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Speaker 2: I could go over with. What do you mean get

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Speaker 2: it over with?

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Speaker 3: If you're trying to grow a future with me, you

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Speaker 3: can't just get it over with, like you're gonna see

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Speaker 3: them a lot then.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: So he always a better go on the trip and

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Speaker 1: your mother wanted to know who he was going on the.

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Speaker 2: Trip because it was just y'all too exactly.

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Speaker 1: My mother would be the same exact way and has

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Speaker 1: been the same exact way in the past.

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Speaker 2: Did you ask where that came from? Like has he

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Speaker 2: ever tried me?

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Speaker 1: Maybe in the past he was told he wasn't good

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Speaker 1: enough for somebody's daughter or what like yeah it was

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Speaker 1: like extra, yeah it was it was yeah, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: And what happened to him?

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Speaker 2: Oh he's going he acted out on that vacations.

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Speaker 1: He acted out on a vacation. Clay say yo, say no.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Love is Blind season seven. That's my shirt,

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Speaker 1: my bead child because that sounds like something clear that

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Speaker 1: like boy that I find all right, So back to

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Speaker 1: the girl, so tell her you think the guy is lying, Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's say he is lying, leave his ass alon like,

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Speaker 1: because when you read your own story back, mama, like

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Speaker 1: you you, you clearly can see what's going on now,

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Speaker 1: even he's even when he admitted to overreacting and shit

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Speaker 1: like that and then he told you the truth.

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Speaker 3: Yo, A number kept calling if the friend was using

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Speaker 3: this sister's phone, when did't he have his sister's number

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Speaker 3: already locked?

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Speaker 2: But maybe he didn't want to block his sister.

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Speaker 1: So there's this friend that you have that has in

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Speaker 1: Because I'm not talking to you just for you to

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Speaker 2: And then I was like, all right, I'm gonna bring

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Speaker 1: be like really really good friends, best friend's sisters, something.

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Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, best friends don't scout out your

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Speaker 1: be insecure about the situation. Nah, don't be fucking insecure

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Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: If she really a friend, you gotta sit her down

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Speaker 2: To someone or you or keep that shit straight up

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Speaker 1: I did want to introduce you to somebody that I'm

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Speaker 2: No shame in your game? Why are you so comfortable

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Speaker 2: doing it? As my friend?

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to carry this any any longer.

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: What's what is it?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 2: What what's going on with you?

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get her business right now, You're like, no,

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Speaker 1: and I'm the one that's giving her advice on dating

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Speaker 1: because she was like at one point, fuck these niggas.

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Speaker 1: These niggas, these niggas are fuck boys, and they don't

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Speaker 2: So so what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: Where are we? Because they want to know.

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Speaker 3: First of all, I knew my word. That's why I

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Speaker 2: Nothing I'm dating oh.

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Speaker 3: And I would say this is the first time that

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Speaker 1: I'm not damn So you're saying here calling niggas fuck

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Speaker 3: It's not that. That's not what's going on, white thing

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Speaker 1: how you kind.

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Speaker 2: Of it's expectation.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I was putting too much expectation and

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Speaker 1: That got you when it really wasn't necessaries. You was

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Speaker 1: I feel you, I feel you. So what was his

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Speaker 3: Too, Like so he is a relationship guy and he

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Speaker 2: A little bit.

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Speaker 1: He probably liked that shit because bitches be all your

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Speaker 2: You're the only one I'm dating, and it sounds good.

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Speaker 1: It's a dream being so but you're you're very communicative

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Speaker 1: going on going through her mind. If she's not happy,

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Speaker 1: she's going to be vocal enough to tell me, like

442
00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:14,240
Speaker 1: all right, Like it's not going to be anything that

443
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Speaker 1: he has to find out because men don't they're not

444
00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:17,680
Speaker 1: good at reading minds and shit.

445
00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,240
Speaker 2: So I got you, I feel you.

446
00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,400
Speaker 1: But on a scale from one to ten, where are

447
00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,639
Speaker 1: y'all right now? I mean I know you're so wait

448
00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,000
Speaker 1: are you? It's it like a roster situation. Do you

449
00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,080
Speaker 1: date other people. Is he the only one that you're dating?

450
00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:32,560
Speaker 1: But you just wanted to play them more point Like,

451
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Speaker 1: if I do see somebody else I do like and

452
00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,520
Speaker 1: they're showing interest, I may give them a shot at

453
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Speaker 1: dating me as well.

454
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Speaker 3: But he's the only person that I'm dating right now.

455
00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:45,200
Speaker 3: I mean there's guys I've flirt with and everything else,

456
00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,760
Speaker 3: but nothing just came about that.

457
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Speaker 2: I might assuone actually yesterday just walking out the building.

458
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Speaker 2: What building? This building? Didn't I just don't fuck with

459
00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,560
Speaker 2: nobody we work with. You don't work here.

460
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Speaker 1: Oh oh h he was dropping off a fucking door dash.

461
00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:11,720
Speaker 1: Oh he was being a guest. Oh, So, would you

462
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Speaker 1: date a celebrity?

463
00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:17,720
Speaker 2: No? M M, well yeah, I get it, I get it.

464
00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,679
Speaker 2: But if he was the manager of a celebrity or something,

465
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Speaker 2: I got you.

466
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Speaker 1: I just feel like, if it's too much ego union

467
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Speaker 1: into it, it's like, yeah, I get it, because then

468
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,080
Speaker 1: a relationship or anything we built is going to be

469
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 1: built on competition.

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Speaker 2: I hate that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Lord Jesus.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So I mean now my my initial

472
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Speaker 1: question is the last one before we get out of here.

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Speaker 2: On a scale from one to ten, where is dude A.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm called him, Dude A because he's the

475
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Speaker 1: first one and Dude B is the one who was

476
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Speaker 1: leaving out the building yesterday.

477
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Speaker 2: But where are y'all at? Where are you with Dude A?

478
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Speaker 2: Feelings wise from one to ten, I like him.

479
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Speaker 3: I feel like he's cool. I feel like he's definitely potential.

480
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Speaker 3: But I'm not in a place to let my guard

481
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Speaker 3: down yet. And I think that's why I'm moving and

482
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Speaker 3: how I'm moving right now.

483
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Speaker 2: So you're basically hurt from the past. You're all right,

484
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,399
Speaker 2: so you're still healing. So why even date this?

485
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Speaker 1: Would I'll be trying to ask him, and why even

486
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 1: dated if you're still healing now? I'm not saying because

487
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Speaker 1: I know you could question me back and be like

488
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:35,520
Speaker 1: what we were, what I supposed to just ball up

489
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: in the corner and be lonely. But I'm saying, if

490
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Speaker 1: you're not ready to date.

491
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Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm being very transparent with him,

492
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Speaker 3: Like we've had those talks, Like me and him actually

493
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Speaker 3: talk a lot about the like just past relationships and

494
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Speaker 3: like what we kind of learned from it. And that's

495
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Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like I feel like me and him

496
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 3: are building a trust bond. But I'm just realizing the

497
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 3: mistakes I've made in the past. And that's why I

498
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Speaker 3: feel like I'm trying to my time of just not

499
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:05,120
Speaker 3: like getting too excited, like oh I like it, Like so,

500
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 3: I don't want to be like the girl that fell

501
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:09,400
Speaker 3: in in too much.

502
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: So don't play with my fucking clients.

503
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Speaker 2: These are my clients. Don't play with them. Yeah, no,

504
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 2: I feel you don't want to be like that child.

505
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 2: You do not, And I get it. I get it. Okay,

506
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 2: all right, Well I'm rooting for.

507
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 1: This guy, and I'm rooting for you, Taylor, because you

508
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 1: be coming to here world upside down. Like yes, it'd

509
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: be like we be like, hi, Taylor, She'd be like

510
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: what the fuck?

511
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 2: What?

512
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 1: Like you know, you know, she'd be going through with

513
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:45,639
Speaker 1: it and I'd just be like, what happened? And she like,

514
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,440
Speaker 1: let me tell you this nigga did over the weekend,

515
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: and so, you know, I just want her to just

516
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 1: focus on herself, you know, and heal, heal the right way.

517
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Speaker 2: You don't use the man say hell, by.

518
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Speaker 3: The way, let me just say though, I before I

519
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 3: even met him, I was by myself. I wasn't there

520
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 3: nobody or nothing like that. I was chilling like for

521
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 3: a good at least like five months or so.

522
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 2: Damn that's good. Actually, so did you meet him? What

523
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:21,439
Speaker 2: did you meet the do day? He is a friend's cousin.

524
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 2: We're friends. Because let me tell y'all something else about Taylor.

525
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,679
Speaker 2: She do not have the best circle of friends. Oh, oh,

526
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Speaker 2: you know what.

527
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: Your friend's probably listening to us. No, Taylor has good friends,

528
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 1: but then she has others. Okay, so, oh my gosh,

529
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 1: from where Philly from New York?

530
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 2: Oh? Hell no, girl? This all right, y'all. We're gonna

531
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 2: get back at y'all.

532
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go talk to Taylor off air and figure

533
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Speaker 1: out what we need to do because I may saw

534
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: the show.

535
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:52,719
Speaker 2: Help Taylor.

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00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:58,439
Speaker 1: Fine, this is crazy, all right, y'all, this is uh

537
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,679
Speaker 1: so we've come to get another. So we've come to

538
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,120
Speaker 1: the end of yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl.

539
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 2: Just hilarious.

540
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess. And we

541
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 1: jumped straight into it with Taylor. Y'all claning with tailor

542
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 1: in your cars right now, But don't let go at

543
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Speaker 1: the wheelcause y'all will crash. All right, love y'all, see

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Speaker 1: y'all next week. Peace Can't Fully Reckless is a production

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