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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Spencer is on the phone today for it to catch Cheater.

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Speaker 1: He's been married to his wife Lauren for three years,

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Speaker 1: but now he thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can help him out. Spencer, Sorry

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Speaker 1: you have to come on the show this way, but

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Speaker 1: what's going on? Man?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, because I'm a really big fan. I

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Speaker 2: listen to your show all the time. Man, of the

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Speaker 2: problem I'm having right now, I kind of recognize from

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Speaker 2: listening to your show so often the red flags and such.

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Speaker 2: So I've noticed a few of those recently and it's

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Speaker 2: really thrown me for a loop, and I'm hoping maybe

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Speaker 2: you guys can help me figure this out. We've always

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Speaker 2: been really close to my wife and I, like you said,

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Speaker 2: we've been together for three years. Red slag number one,

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Speaker 2: I guess wasn't really a red flag until the second

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Speaker 2: one came, and that is that our intimacy has really

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Speaker 2: just kind of fallen off. He've always had a really

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Speaker 2: healthy physical relationship, but lately it's just kind of been

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Speaker 2: non existence. And I know sometimes people go through phases,

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Speaker 2: and that's what I thought. It was until red slag

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Speaker 2: Number two. He has been staying up like texting night

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Speaker 2: on her phone with someone who she says is her friend,

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Speaker 2: which you know might be the case, but it's weird

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Speaker 2: because like when she gets a text message, she responds

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Speaker 2: with one or two words, puts the phone down. She

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Speaker 2: doesn't like to text. Right now, she's like on the

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Speaker 2: couch and night, sitting next to me, not paying attention

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Speaker 2: to anything that happened in the room, looking at her phone,

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Speaker 2: texting long conversations and smiling about it. It just it

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Speaker 2: feels weird. Yeah, it's it's making me a little crazy.

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Speaker 2: I gotta be honest. But she says that she's talking

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Speaker 2: to her friend Caitlin. Okay, so that was Right's likely

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Speaker 2: for two more. Number three. My wife doesn't really like

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Speaker 2: to go out very often. She's not into like the

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Speaker 2: clubs in that scene. But last week she went out

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Speaker 2: with the girlfriends she says, which you know, I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: have any problem with what she wanted to do. It's

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Speaker 2: just really strange because she doesn't do that sort of thing.

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Speaker 2: She went out all night and like went drinking and stuff,

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Speaker 2: which is great, But when I asked her what she

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Speaker 2: did or where she was going. It was just going out.

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Speaker 2: We went out and that was like the end of it, right,

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Speaker 2: which is super weird. And then red light flag number

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Speaker 2: four is what made me have to call you guys.

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Speaker 2: When she came home from that night out, she smelled

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Speaker 2: like a man's cologne. It wasn't mine. When I asked

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Speaker 2: her about it, she said that one of her friends

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Speaker 2: she was out with meta guy and he sat next

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Speaker 2: to her at a bar. I'm not buying that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, usually don't get you don't get smelling like

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Speaker 1: their cologne, usually for them sitting next to you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, unless he's one of these super obnoxious sprayers,

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Speaker 3: then there is a good chance you leave smelling like it.

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Speaker 3: But I think the texting and giggling while sitting on

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Speaker 3: most to me because that was just But isn't that

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Speaker 3: also kind of negligent if you're cheating?

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Speaker 1: That's so I think some people just open Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think someone was right next to me. I feel like

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Speaker 1: some people just assume, like, oh, they'll never guess if

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Speaker 1: I do it right here, you know, get caught in

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe did you happen to ask her what was

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Speaker 3: some type of situation a breakup drama?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I did. She said that she needed moral support,

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Speaker 2: which I didn't get any more information than that. She

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Speaker 2: didn't seem very forthcoming, and you know, maybe that's the case.

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Speaker 2: I guess that's why I'm calling you guys, because I

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Speaker 2: want to believe my wife. I will, but I've got

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Speaker 2: this feeling in the pit of my stomach and I

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Speaker 2: don't know what's do about it.

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Speaker 1: Well, so you said that you have a different way

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Speaker 1: to try to catch her than the flower thing that

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Speaker 1: we do normally.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah, she knows that. I have really had

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Speaker 2: my eye on some gym equipment because you know, it's

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Speaker 2: a new year and all that stuff. And I think

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Speaker 2: it'd be a really great idea if maybe because at

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Speaker 2: her job, she has like bonuses, and her next bonus

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Speaker 2: is coming up very soon, and they usually give away

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Speaker 2: these big Amazon gift packages, like like a five hundred

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Speaker 2: a gift card. Who do you want to send it to?

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Speaker 1: We could do a double gift card. She gets one,

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Speaker 1: and then also this year where giving it to some

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Speaker 1: where you can send it to somebody specialt Okay, keep

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Speaker 1: it if it's just one. Yeah, I don't want her

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Speaker 1: do that. Then we'll play a song, come back, call her,

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Speaker 1: hopefully she's not, but we'll see if we can catch

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Speaker 1: get your to Catch a Cheater next if you're just

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Speaker 1: joining us for Today's to Catch a Cheater. Spencer is

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Speaker 1: on the phone and Spencer thinks that his wife, Lauren

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Speaker 1: of three years, might be cheating on him. So we're

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Speaker 1: about to call her and see if we can catch her.

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Speaker 1: But before we do that, Spencer, why don't you catch

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Speaker 1: everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I guess real short, I've noticed some really weird behavior lately.

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Speaker 2: She is like texting and doing like weird giggles and

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Speaker 2: stuff while she's texting, but she's not a text so

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Speaker 2: that's strange. He's going out on like girls' nights and

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Speaker 2: drinking and stuff, and that's really outside of her character,

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Speaker 2: and then one night she came home smelling like some

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Speaker 2: other guys cologne, which kind of like made me lose

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Speaker 2: it a little bit, and I had to call you guys, understand,

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Speaker 2: can help me get to the bottom?

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Speaker 1: Definitely?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I thought it might be a good

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Speaker 2: idea if you guys called her and maybe said that

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Speaker 2: you work her job, giving her her bonus and this

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Speaker 2: year it's two five hundred dollars Amazon gift cards kind

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Speaker 2: of things. We should get them too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see if she sends one to you or

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Speaker 1: to somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, is this Lauren? Yeah, it is hey Lauren.

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Speaker 1: This is Pete up here in HR. How you doing?

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Speaker 4: Oh good, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: How are you great? Really good day to be in HR,

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Speaker 1: because all I'm doing is calling up people and saying

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Speaker 1: we got the yearly Amazon gift card bonus is in

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Speaker 1: and they're five hundred bucks this year. Congrats. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: a nice day for an HR person when you don't

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Speaker 1: have to call people and be like, hey, you're fired.

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Speaker 1: You know that?

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Speaker 4: Exactly? Nice, that's awesome. I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And this year is actually cool because what they've

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Speaker 1: done is we're doing five hundred dollars Amazon gift card

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Speaker 1: for you and then also another five hundred dollars gift

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Speaker 1: card from Amazon that you can send to somebody special

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Speaker 1: to you.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's awesome, that's the nice to you guys.

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Speaker 1: We will obviously get you yours. And then do you

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Speaker 1: want to send your other gift card to somebody?

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Speaker 4: M yeah?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Do you know who? Or do you want me to

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Speaker 1: you know, you want to send me an email or

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Speaker 1: I call you back or something?

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Speaker 4: No, I can you just type it in now and

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Speaker 4: like if you have.

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Speaker 1: It up, Yeah, I can just take the down the

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Speaker 1: info now and I'll say I'll send you all the

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Speaker 1: stuff to let you know. You send it out, it

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Speaker 1: will be still like a week or so.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, cool?

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Speaker 1: Well, then who would you like to send it to?

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Speaker 4: I'm going to send it to Gavin, all right.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, last name on that Gavin?

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Speaker 2: Uh got, I can't say why? Who the Gavin? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Who?

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Speaker 2: Go Lauren?

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Speaker 1: This is actually the Jewil show. That's your husband, Spencer

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Speaker 1: on the phone. Is happening? This isn't funny, you know.

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Speaker 4: I know, absolutely no.

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Speaker 5: I planned that's whether you guys know it or not.

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Speaker 5: I set this whole thing up and this pantemic.

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Speaker 2: Are you talking about? Who is Gavin?

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to tell you Gavin is.

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Speaker 2: Are you? Are you serious?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Who are you?

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Speaker 3: What is this?

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Speaker 2: Is this funny to you? I don't like your my wife, Well,

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Speaker 2: I don't understand what is happening. Why do you think

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Speaker 2: this is funny? You're growing some guy named Gavin and

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Speaker 2: you're laughing in my face about it.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I'm not trying to think. Guys, here's that

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Speaker 5: for you?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: Who is gn Did you have some cocktails this way? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Gavin is the name of your child. You're a student

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Speaker 5: to be born child? Yeah, well that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh.

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Speaker 4: We both listened to the show. I know that Spenser

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Speaker 5: He also loves the segment to talk to talk about

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Speaker 5: it all the time. So I kind of set this

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Speaker 5: up and planned it so that he would think I

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Speaker 5: was cheating. I put all the pieces in a play,

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Speaker 5: and it felt it literally felt exactly like I wanted

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Speaker 5: it to. I. I mean, now, some guy bought Chief

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Speaker 5: gas station cologne?

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Speaker 2: Are you?

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Speaker 4: I wanted to.

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Speaker 5: Frank you right away, but yes, I'm pregnant, and this

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Speaker 5: is what I wanted to tell you.

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Speaker 2: Amazing. She's an evil, super genius.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations.

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. So did you really need.

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Speaker 2: Talking?

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Speaker 4: It was something we talked about.

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Speaker 5: You knew exactly what I was talking about when I

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Speaker 5: said that. Well, when he got into.

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Speaker 2: Contact, my head was so clouded. I didn't even think

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Speaker 2: about that. Oh my god, this has made my day.

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Speaker 2: I cannot wait to see you. I love you so much.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I love you too.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, thank you, thank you. Yeah, you did lie to us,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not that mad about it. He didn't know.

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Speaker 1: I think payback's fair too. That's cool. Congrat thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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