WEBVTT - “This is How Grooming Works”…. (From the Epstein Survivors’ Therapist)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, they're folks, and welcome to this latest episode of

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<v Speaker 1>Amy and TJ Presents Today. It's about the Epstein survivors

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<v Speaker 1>who robes last week, just last week, we saw that

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<v Speaker 1>press conference, powerful press conference outside the US Capitol, with

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<v Speaker 1>many victims stepping forward wanting more Epstein files to be released.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's wild to think that these are victims who

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<v Speaker 1>suffered in some cases decades ago, who are still healing

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<v Speaker 1>after decades, but are still as well being victimized. They say,

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<v Speaker 1>by what we're seeing in the press.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, and there is a reason why we're just

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<v Speaker 2>now seeing their faces and their names. They have been anonymous,

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<v Speaker 2>they were Jane Doe, number one, two, three, whatever, because

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<v Speaker 2>of all of the reasons why you tend to protect

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<v Speaker 2>obviously victims of sexual abuse, sexual assault, but also there's

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<v Speaker 2>just so much fear surrounding this case, so much talk

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<v Speaker 2>about powerful men and powerful people being able to exact revenge,

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<v Speaker 2>and just honestly, for decades, not being believed, not being heard,

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<v Speaker 2>not being listened to. So it's a huge, huge deal

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<v Speaker 2>that these women are finally stepping forward and putting their

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<v Speaker 2>names and faces out there. And that's scary and it

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<v Speaker 2>can have unintended consequences.

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<v Speaker 1>And look, we've talked for years, it's hard to even

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<v Speaker 1>imagine the trauma, the healing psychologically that is necessary, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess to continue on with life. Unfortunately, Virginia Juphrey, of

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<v Speaker 1>course we know as a young lady who took her

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<v Speaker 1>own life just this year, who was very outspoken Epstein survivor.

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<v Speaker 1>But we wondered, like, how are they getting help? Who

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<v Speaker 1>is helping these women sometimes from their teen years, Who

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<v Speaker 1>has helping them and who is continuing to help them

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<v Speaker 1>along their path? And that is why we have Randy

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<v Speaker 1>Cogan with us today, a license psychotherapist who has worked

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<v Speaker 1>with a number of these victims for decades now and

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<v Speaker 1>continues to do so. Randy, did we thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>being here? But do we get that right? That what

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<v Speaker 1>happens if you have been doing all of this healing

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<v Speaker 1>for all these many years and even decades, and then boom,

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<v Speaker 1>all of this press coverage, all of this back and

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<v Speaker 1>forth is happening. Are you being victimized? Does it really

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<v Speaker 1>open up a whole new avenue of healing that is necessary?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it does, And throughout the years from two thousand

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<v Speaker 3>and eight, from before two thousand and eight, healing has

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<v Speaker 3>been disrupted over and over and over again. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>first it was reported and Epstein was arrested. Okay, now

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<v Speaker 3>we're moving towards justice. There's a chance here that they

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<v Speaker 3>can feel some sort of justice. Then the sweetheart deal

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<v Speaker 3>came about, and the legal team, the prosecutor alex Acosta,

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<v Speaker 3>nobody informed the victims of this sweetheart deal. So in

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<v Speaker 3>two thousand and eight, two thousand and nine, the survivors

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<v Speaker 3>that I was treating, I was the individual who had

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<v Speaker 3>to let them know about the sweetheart deal, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was quite devastating because what came out of that sweetheart

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<v Speaker 3>deal is they were looked at a child prostitutes because

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<v Speaker 3>he was charged with the solicitation of child prostitution. So

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<v Speaker 3>the revictimization started right out of the gate when he

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<v Speaker 3>was initially arrested, and it continued throughout the past eighteen years,

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<v Speaker 3>up and down, on and off. So there hasn't been

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<v Speaker 3>a steady stream of that healing process that we would

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<v Speaker 3>like to see with individuals who have been trafficked, sexually exploited,

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<v Speaker 3>and groomed as young teens.

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<v Speaker 2>Rennie, can I ask you how you first got involved

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<v Speaker 2>with some of these Epstein victims. How were you first

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<v Speaker 2>introduced and how did you begin to work with them?

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<v Speaker 3>I starting in two thousand and four, I was working

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<v Speaker 3>at Palm Beach County Victim Services. And at Victim Services

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<v Speaker 3>we worked in the courthouse and we worked with victims

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<v Speaker 3>of violent crimes in Palm Beach County, so we worked

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<v Speaker 3>very closely with law enforcement. We worked very closely with

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<v Speaker 3>the legal system as well as the FBI. When Epstein

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<v Speaker 3>was initially arrested and the FBI began the investigation, the

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<v Speaker 3>victim specialists through the FBI referred the victims to Victim Services.

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<v Speaker 3>At that time, the team at Victim Services felt that

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<v Speaker 3>it would be in all of their best interests. I

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<v Speaker 3>was the main therapist who worked with the victims because

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<v Speaker 3>everybody's story was similar. The trauma, trauma was the victimization

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<v Speaker 3>was similar. I can't say the trauma was, but the

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<v Speaker 3>stimization was similar. So that's how I started getting involved

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<v Speaker 3>and treating the survivors. And then as more individuals came about,

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<v Speaker 3>when attorneys started getting involved and started picking up clients,

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<v Speaker 3>they too began referring their victims to me as well.

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<v Speaker 1>How many Initially, I want to ask, were you working

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<v Speaker 1>with And when did you know this was I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you probably couldn't imagine it was going to become what

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<v Speaker 1>it now has become, how big of a story. But

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<v Speaker 1>when did you first start to start getting a little

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<v Speaker 1>indication of this thing was going to be much bigger

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<v Speaker 1>than maybe a case you'd ever worked on before.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, at the time, I probably, if I'm not mistaken,

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<v Speaker 3>I was treating about seven victims at the time, seven girls,

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<v Speaker 3>seven teenagers. They were teenagers at the time. I thought

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<v Speaker 3>it was strange that I was deposed pretty quickly Jeffrey's attorneys.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that was a red flag that they were

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<v Speaker 3>deposing me so early as well that I just started

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<v Speaker 3>seeing them when I heard about the sweetheart deal, and

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<v Speaker 3>that myself, Brad Edwards and other attorneys had to inform

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<v Speaker 3>their clients. That was a red flag for me. When

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<v Speaker 3>I saw the charge of prostitution, I knew that this

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<v Speaker 3>is a whole different ballgame now, because they just kept

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<v Speaker 3>revictimizing and accusing and accusing, and the only individual who

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<v Speaker 3>was seeking support at that time was Epstein. So it

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<v Speaker 3>was a huge red flag for me right at the

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<v Speaker 3>beginning when they made the sweetheart deal.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Randy. It's so it's mind blowing to know

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<v Speaker 2>that here in twenty twenty five, this is the story

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<v Speaker 2>that it is. And these women now who were girls then,

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<v Speaker 2>are just now feeling strong enough and safe enough perhaps

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<v Speaker 2>even to come forward and to hear them have to

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<v Speaker 2>explain the guilt and the shame. We've heard this in

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<v Speaker 2>other cases, but this one is significant because people keep asking, well,

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<v Speaker 2>why would you keep going back, Why would you fly

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<v Speaker 2>on a private plane, Why would you go to the

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<v Speaker 2>island with him? Why would you not have run for

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<v Speaker 2>the hills or run to a police station. Once that

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<v Speaker 2>massage became more than a massage, what do you say

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<v Speaker 2>to those people who have those types of questions about

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<v Speaker 2>these young.

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<v Speaker 3>Girls, Well, the first thing they need to understand is

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<v Speaker 3>what it needs to be groomed by an individual. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey Epstein used his caring relationship, and of course I

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<v Speaker 3>use that term loosely carrying relationship with each one of

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<v Speaker 3>his victims as his weapon. So right from the start,

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<v Speaker 3>he got to know each of them, He got to

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<v Speaker 3>know their families, he got to know about their dreams,

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<v Speaker 3>their goals, and he use that to manipulate them, to

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<v Speaker 3>exploit them. The way that he saw fit and that

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<v Speaker 3>made him feel good. So once you develop that relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>there's something that's called deceptive trust development, and that was

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<v Speaker 3>something that Epstein banked on, was that deceptive trust that

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<v Speaker 3>he built in each of these girls. Now, remember we're

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<v Speaker 3>talking about the ages of thirteen to sixteen, So what

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<v Speaker 3>do we expect from a thirteen year old girl a

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen year old girl? Should we expect them to understand

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<v Speaker 3>when they're being groomed and manipulated? Many girls felt that

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<v Speaker 3>they really didn't have a choice because they didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to disappoint him. He was such a nice, caring man.

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<v Speaker 3>He assured some of them he would help families with immigration,

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<v Speaker 3>would help dreams come true, help them become models. He

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<v Speaker 3>wrote reference letters to colleges for some of these girls.

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<v Speaker 3>They didn't want to hurt him. They didn't want to

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<v Speaker 3>betray him because they had this deceptive relationship that Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>built with each of them. So it's not easy along

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<v Speaker 3>their lines with that. Grooming is a form of mental abuse.

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<v Speaker 3>Rooming makes the victim believe that they are part of

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<v Speaker 3>the abuse themselves, and that's where that guilt and shame

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<v Speaker 3>comes from.

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<v Speaker 4>What was my role, am I going to get in

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<v Speaker 4>trouble too.

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<v Speaker 3>Many victims in two thousand and eight were waiting to

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<v Speaker 3>get arrested because they believed that they was just as

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<v Speaker 3>much to blame as Jeffrey because of that manipulation that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>Of, Randy, was that job one for you? Almost when

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<v Speaker 1>these victims first came in, you had to almost break

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<v Speaker 1>down and convince them that they were not the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>That they had to be convinced to I the word convinced,

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<v Speaker 1>but you explain it, it make it sound almost they

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<v Speaker 1>had to be convinced that they were actually victims. Was

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<v Speaker 1>that a common theme in these young women when you

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<v Speaker 1>first started talking to them, is that was like that

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<v Speaker 1>was the first work you had to do.

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<v Speaker 3>That is the theme that has been ongoing for the

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<v Speaker 3>past twenty years because they still second guess at times.

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<v Speaker 3>There are some girls that want to speak but are

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<v Speaker 3>afraid to speak. Even when when Epstein died, there was

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<v Speaker 3>the there were these conflictual feelings because what about all

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<v Speaker 3>the times that he was good to them?

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<v Speaker 4>What about all the times.

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<v Speaker 3>That when some of them needed money they were in

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<v Speaker 3>a pinch.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey would show up for them.

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<v Speaker 3>So there there's a lot of inner conflict that goes

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<v Speaker 3>on with grooming and manipulation and mental abuse. So yes,

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<v Speaker 3>that is an ongoing feat that we continue to work on.

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<v Speaker 2>Randy, you said you started out with around seven young

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<v Speaker 2>women who you were counseling at the beginning of this

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<v Speaker 2>in early two thousands. I don't even personally have an

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<v Speaker 2>idea of the scope of the number of women and

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<v Speaker 2>young women were talking about. Has that number grown in

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<v Speaker 2>terms of your circle of clients, and do you even

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<v Speaker 2>have a concept of how many young women were talking

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<v Speaker 2>about who were abused by Jeffrey Epstein.

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<v Speaker 3>We're talking hundreds hundreds of women, so many still will

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<v Speaker 3>not speak about it, so many are still suppressing between

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<v Speaker 3>two thousand and eight and twenty and nineteen, after that

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<v Speaker 3>that deal came out. Obviously, the victims were just distraught.

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<v Speaker 3>They felt betrayed, they felt devalued, they felt like they

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<v Speaker 3>didn't belong, They felt like the predators were more important

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<v Speaker 3>than the victims. So a number of them hid for

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<v Speaker 3>many years. They wanted to put everything behind them, They

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to completely just completely wipe this from their memory

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<v Speaker 3>and from their experiences. Well, in the psychological world, we

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<v Speaker 3>know that when we suppress something, it stays inside. It

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't just go away, right, so that will build. In

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<v Speaker 3>twenty nineteen, when the FBI started contacting the survivors, going

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<v Speaker 3>to their homes, going to their work, this was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>there's nowhere for me to escape anymore. So everything that

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<v Speaker 3>they were attempting to suppress, everything came back, not only

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<v Speaker 3>the trauma and the experiences with Jeffrey, but also the

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<v Speaker 3>guilt and shame that they've been suppressing as well. So

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<v Speaker 3>it was starting back again. A number of girls that

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<v Speaker 3>I saw in two thousand and eight were able to

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<v Speaker 3>find me again in twenty and nineteen, so I was

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<v Speaker 3>able to continue or go back to treating them again,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm still doing so. But yes, a large number

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<v Speaker 3>of survivors came wanting treatment and wanting to get help,

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to understand what happened over these past, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>so many years. Some girls didn't even know that he

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<v Speaker 3>was released after the Sweetheart Deal. When they were approaching

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<v Speaker 3>in twenty nineteen, they were shocked to hear that he

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<v Speaker 3>was out of prison the entire time, so that skyrocketed

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<v Speaker 3>their fear.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean in twenty fifteen, I spoke with then

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<v Speaker 2>Virginia Roberts, Virginia Jeffrey and she was in hiding. She

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<v Speaker 2>went to Australia. She talked about this harrowing decision with

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<v Speaker 2>her then husband to get out and to hide in

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<v Speaker 2>Australia as far away as she could, or she thought

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<v Speaker 2>from Jeffrey Epstein and to see how her life ended

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<v Speaker 2>just a few months ago is beyond heartbreaking. I am

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<v Speaker 2>curious just in terms of the mental health struggles that

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<v Speaker 2>these young women are facing. People kind of say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know they might poopoo. You see what happened to Virginia,

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<v Speaker 2>And I know this is what you're fighting for and

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<v Speaker 2>fighting against, certainly to not have that be the fate

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<v Speaker 2>of so many of these other young girls. But how

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<v Speaker 2>serious is their mental health at this point? How serious

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<v Speaker 2>are their conditions? And are you concerned that? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it rises to that level where, yes, for young women

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<v Speaker 2>and now grown women are they don't want to live

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<v Speaker 2>with what they've experienced.

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<v Speaker 3>Virginia Kufre's death hit many survivors in a way that

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<v Speaker 3>they did not expect. It was devastating, It was tragic

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<v Speaker 3>to them, and many questions from them were is this

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<v Speaker 3>my path? Is this something do I need to start

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<v Speaker 3>looking over my shoulder, Is this what's going to happen?

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<v Speaker 3>And also on the other side of it, we need

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<v Speaker 3>to continue Virginia's legacy. Virginia spoke up for so many

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<v Speaker 3>of the survivors when nobody else had a voice, and

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<v Speaker 3>many girls don't want that legacy to end with Virginia.

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<v Speaker 3>They want her voice to continue. So there's a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of inner conflict going on with many. They want to

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<v Speaker 3>use their voice. They're angry, They're angry about what's going

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<v Speaker 3>on right now. They feel again as if the government

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<v Speaker 3>is letting them down. But on the other side of

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<v Speaker 3>that too, what happens if I do speak up? What

0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:35.600
<v Speaker 3>are the consequences? And throughout the years some who have

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<v Speaker 3>spoken over the past years have the public has not

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<v Speaker 3>been very nice and that's been a trauma in and

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<v Speaker 3>of it themselves, not believing them they knew what they

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<v Speaker 3>were doing. They just were doing it for the money.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh did the money run out? Is that why they

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<v Speaker 3>want to talk now? People don't understand what process they

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<v Speaker 3>went through and that they're still going through. I've been

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<v Speaker 3>doing this for forty years. I have never seen a

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<v Speaker 3>case go on as long as this.

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<v Speaker 1>Where does the closure in those cases, Does it come

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<v Speaker 1>only after justice through our justice system or what? Or

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<v Speaker 1>is it time? What have you found in your forty

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<v Speaker 1>years is the thing. I'm sure it can be different

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody that eventually or certainly is necessary to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to turn that corner, to have to be on

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<v Speaker 1>the right path to healing.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's hard.

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<v Speaker 3>In any cases that I have worked with that have

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<v Speaker 3>gone to trial, which have been hundreds of them. Justice

0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:56.040
<v Speaker 3>doesn't come from a guilty verdict. Justice doesn't come from

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<v Speaker 3>a twenty year to life sentence, okay, Because once that

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<v Speaker 3>once the sentence, once they've given the sentence, once they've

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<v Speaker 3>gone to prison, what do the victims have left now

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<v Speaker 3>to deal with?

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<v Speaker 4>Right? They have the trauma left to deal with.

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<v Speaker 3>Because before, when you're going through court, when you know,

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<v Speaker 3>when you're meeting with your attorneys, when you're going through

0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:20.600
<v Speaker 3>depositions and whatnot, that's a good distraction. You don't feel

0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:23.399
<v Speaker 3>like it's a good distraction, but it's a distraction that's

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<v Speaker 3>your control. You have some element of control over your

0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:30.240
<v Speaker 3>trauma by fighting these cases, whether it be in court,

0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:35.280
<v Speaker 3>whether it be in public. However, closure can only come

0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:39.480
<v Speaker 3>from within. And the problem with this case is number one.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if they believe in justice at this

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<v Speaker 3>point right. I was asking an interview last week about

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<v Speaker 3>hope and do they have hope that if these records

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<v Speaker 3>are released, that this will finally be it? And what

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<v Speaker 3>I explained is they have been holding on to hope

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<v Speaker 3>since the beginning, since they stop going to Jeffrey okay,

0:18:03.920 --> 0:18:07.440
<v Speaker 3>and they will never give up hope. However, the one

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<v Speaker 3>thing that has been.

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<v Speaker 4>Lost is trust.

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<v Speaker 3>Who can they trust now, law enforcement, the government, the

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<v Speaker 3>legal system.

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<v Speaker 4>Who do they trust?

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<v Speaker 3>Because each element who has supposed to be there for them,

0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:28.560
<v Speaker 3>who is supposed to advocate for them, let them down.

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<v Speaker 3>So while there's hope, they're still clinging onto who do

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<v Speaker 3>I trust?

0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:35.760
<v Speaker 4>Who do I talk to?

0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:41.640
<v Speaker 3>Who's going to help me heal and go through this journey?

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<v Speaker 2>Randy, I'm curious. We keep hearing about more records being released,

0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:50.360
<v Speaker 2>more documents being released, whether or not there's a list,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's exhausting because it's unclear, like I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>know what's left out there to be released, what it

0:18:58.200 --> 0:19:01.920
<v Speaker 2>is that maybe a record of something that could be

0:19:01.960 --> 0:19:05.360
<v Speaker 2>a smoking gun. Have your clients explained to you and

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<v Speaker 2>about what that is that still needs to get out

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<v Speaker 2>that hasn't been let out yet.

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<v Speaker 3>They want transparency as to what happened since two what

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<v Speaker 3>happened in two thousand and eight, and why wasn't anybody

0:19:21.400 --> 0:19:25.920
<v Speaker 3>held the accountable. Then that's the transparency that they want.

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<v Speaker 3>A list. Okay, what's a list? You know they want

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<v Speaker 3>to know that people who want to be held accountable. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>but also it's coming at a cost at this point.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, they're.

0:19:39.240 --> 0:19:43.320
<v Speaker 3>Dangling these these these files. Yes, we're going to release

0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:46.280
<v Speaker 3>the files. Well, we can't release the files. Well, you know,

0:19:46.440 --> 0:19:49.320
<v Speaker 3>it's been an ongoing battle of is it going to

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<v Speaker 3>happen or not? So I feel like this is just

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<v Speaker 3>another way to make the survivors wait and have no

0:19:56.960 --> 0:20:01.480
<v Speaker 3>control over the next step of this process, because are

0:20:01.480 --> 0:20:04.480
<v Speaker 3>they talking about it as Okay, this is going to happen,

0:20:04.520 --> 0:20:07.600
<v Speaker 3>this is what I want? Is it because it's a

0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:10.919
<v Speaker 3>distraction for other people? They don't know anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>You've mentioned in everybody lists lists, Epstein client List, client list.

0:20:17.200 --> 0:20:19.399
<v Speaker 1>It was a big focus last week as well. At

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<v Speaker 1>least have made a lot of headlines when several of

0:20:21.560 --> 0:20:24.920
<v Speaker 1>the survivors said we're going to compile our own lists confidentially.

0:20:25.560 --> 0:20:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Now on that matter, I'm asking you and all the

0:20:29.600 --> 0:20:33.359
<v Speaker 1>work you have done, have they certainly shared names with

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<v Speaker 1>you that most of us in the public would certainly

0:20:37.000 --> 0:20:40.359
<v Speaker 1>recognize if we heard them. As far as other people

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<v Speaker 1>out there who have victimized them.

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<v Speaker 3>The individuals, the survivors that I have worked with from

0:20:47.240 --> 0:20:51.240
<v Speaker 3>two thousand and seven up until the present time, have

0:20:51.359 --> 0:20:57.000
<v Speaker 3>been abused by Jeffrey Epstein. The accountability that they want

0:20:57.520 --> 0:21:02.919
<v Speaker 3>are from the adults that were in his mansion, his accountant,

0:21:03.480 --> 0:21:07.520
<v Speaker 3>you know, the people who were helping this whole process,

0:21:07.560 --> 0:21:10.440
<v Speaker 3>who knew and didn't do anything about it, the legal

0:21:10.520 --> 0:21:14.000
<v Speaker 3>team from two thousand and eight. Those are the people

0:21:14.080 --> 0:21:17.760
<v Speaker 3>that they want to see accountability because they're the ones

0:21:17.800 --> 0:21:23.600
<v Speaker 3>who were watching these young girls get abused day after day,

0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:27.879
<v Speaker 3>over and over and over again. So that's the transparency

0:21:27.920 --> 0:21:28.760
<v Speaker 3>they're looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>That makes a lot of sense. And in terms of

0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:34.520
<v Speaker 2>the people who knew what was going on, and the

0:21:34.600 --> 0:21:39.080
<v Speaker 2>other person who many victims say also personally physically abuse

0:21:39.160 --> 0:21:42.760
<v Speaker 2>them was Gallaine Maxwell. And to have what's been happening

0:21:42.840 --> 0:21:45.439
<v Speaker 2>in the news, and certainly with her being moved to

0:21:45.560 --> 0:21:51.119
<v Speaker 2>this gentler kinder prison camp in Texas without ever being

0:21:51.440 --> 0:21:53.560
<v Speaker 2>told none of these victims were even given a say

0:21:53.680 --> 0:21:56.240
<v Speaker 2>or heads up about what was happening. Can you talk

0:21:56.280 --> 0:22:00.840
<v Speaker 2>a little bit about how this back and forth and

0:22:00.880 --> 0:22:03.760
<v Speaker 2>the possibility that Galeane Maxwell could even be pardoned by Trump,

0:22:04.040 --> 0:22:07.520
<v Speaker 2>what that has been like, what your clients have talked

0:22:07.560 --> 0:22:10.640
<v Speaker 2>to you about, how that has impacted their mental health

0:22:10.640 --> 0:22:14.119
<v Speaker 2>and what they want to see happen with her specifically.

0:22:13.920 --> 0:22:18.480
<v Speaker 3>This has greatly impacted their mental health. When Glaine was

0:22:18.560 --> 0:22:22.639
<v Speaker 3>sentenced to twenty years, they felt that, okay, we have

0:22:23.240 --> 0:22:27.000
<v Speaker 3>some element of justice here, even if it's a little bit.

0:22:27.400 --> 0:22:30.440
<v Speaker 3>It was what Glaine represented. You know, Jeffrey did not,

0:22:30.960 --> 0:22:34.040
<v Speaker 3>you know, he took his life. He took the easy

0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:35.840
<v Speaker 3>way out. So all they had.

0:22:35.760 --> 0:22:37.360
<v Speaker 4>Left was Glaine.

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<v Speaker 3>And when they started talking about, you know, more interviews

0:22:41.640 --> 0:22:49.840
<v Speaker 3>with Gleane, when they moved her anger, frustration, betrayal. Again

0:22:50.640 --> 0:22:54.320
<v Speaker 3>we talk about the hope that was hope and now

0:22:54.400 --> 0:22:57.920
<v Speaker 3>you can see how it's starting to slip through their fingers.

0:22:58.160 --> 0:23:03.200
<v Speaker 3>Yet again, for what reason? Glaine is a liar? Glaine

0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:06.080
<v Speaker 3>was charged with perjury. Why are we going to believe

0:23:06.480 --> 0:23:10.240
<v Speaker 3>anything that this woman said? And if she had all

0:23:10.280 --> 0:23:13.600
<v Speaker 3>of this information that they think she does, I would

0:23:13.680 --> 0:23:16.520
<v Speaker 3>assume she would have brought that up during her trial.

0:23:18.520 --> 0:23:20.560
<v Speaker 3>Why would she hold on to it until now? That

0:23:20.600 --> 0:23:25.760
<v Speaker 3>doesn't make sense. So this is another tear injustice. When

0:23:25.760 --> 0:23:28.240
<v Speaker 3>it comes to how the survivors feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Randy, how can there be any Like you said,

0:23:31.760 --> 0:23:34.520
<v Speaker 1>they don't trust the process, There is no hope. What

0:23:34.760 --> 0:23:38.520
<v Speaker 1>possibly could the government do or anybody say. Even if

0:23:38.560 --> 0:23:40.960
<v Speaker 1>they say, hey, here are the keys to the fileroom,

0:23:41.119 --> 0:23:44.760
<v Speaker 1>knock yourselves out, even then there will be an assumption that, well,

0:23:44.800 --> 0:23:46.919
<v Speaker 1>they probably remove some stuff before they let us in,

0:23:47.240 --> 0:23:50.119
<v Speaker 1>Like can there anything, can anything? What are they asking

0:23:50.160 --> 0:23:54.560
<v Speaker 1>for now that could possibly make them feel like it's transparent?

0:23:56.080 --> 0:24:00.200
<v Speaker 3>Alex Acosta being held accountable is probably one of the

0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:05.640
<v Speaker 3>biggest hopes right now, and keep it. Putting Blaine where

0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:08.640
<v Speaker 3>she belongs in a maximum security prison. We're talking about

0:24:08.640 --> 0:24:12.760
<v Speaker 3>a sexual predator. The only two sexual predators I know

0:24:12.920 --> 0:24:17.680
<v Speaker 3>that have had an easy experience in the legal system, Jeffrey.

0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:18.960
<v Speaker 4>Epstein and Glaine Maxwell.

0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:24.800
<v Speaker 3>So it's been really hard to come up with something

0:24:24.840 --> 0:24:26.359
<v Speaker 3>to hold on to right now.

0:24:27.080 --> 0:24:30.879
<v Speaker 4>Besides, you know, it's a waiting game, Randy.

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<v Speaker 2>As much as your clients, and I'm sure you too,

0:24:34.320 --> 0:24:40.640
<v Speaker 2>given your intense just personal it has to be personal

0:24:41.200 --> 0:24:44.320
<v Speaker 2>relationship with these young women and seeing what they've been through.

0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Can you even describe what it feels like to have

0:24:49.560 --> 0:24:53.560
<v Speaker 2>this be so politicized, you know, it seems as though

0:24:53.640 --> 0:24:56.200
<v Speaker 2>I can only imagine it doesn't feel like it's for

0:24:56.240 --> 0:24:59.560
<v Speaker 2>the victims. It's about the victims. It truly is about

0:24:59.560 --> 0:25:03.440
<v Speaker 2>making a political name for yourself, about saving some sort

0:25:03.480 --> 0:25:09.560
<v Speaker 2>of political face in a mob that wants answers. It's

0:25:09.560 --> 0:25:12.639
<v Speaker 2>almost as if they're using this for political gain, or

0:25:12.680 --> 0:25:15.479
<v Speaker 2>at least deflecting so that they aren't politically injured in

0:25:15.520 --> 0:25:17.720
<v Speaker 2>any way. But it is not about the thig that

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:19.840
<v Speaker 2>it hasn't seemed like it it's been at all from

0:25:19.840 --> 0:25:20.320
<v Speaker 2>the beginning.

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<v Speaker 3>That's correct, That's correct, and it is devastating to so

0:25:26.480 --> 0:25:31.800
<v Speaker 3>many of them that our president is the one calling

0:25:31.840 --> 0:25:35.400
<v Speaker 3>it a hoax. The president. You know, there were planes

0:25:35.440 --> 0:25:38.400
<v Speaker 3>that were flying over the girls when they were speaking

0:25:38.440 --> 0:25:42.400
<v Speaker 3>at the rally and the press conference. That was another

0:25:42.520 --> 0:25:46.199
<v Speaker 3>hit for them. You know, they're devastated to see that

0:25:46.560 --> 0:25:50.200
<v Speaker 3>here they are going to Washington and taking this risk

0:25:51.040 --> 0:25:54.359
<v Speaker 3>to speak out and.

0:25:53.560 --> 0:25:55.000
<v Speaker 4>They're actors in a hoax.

0:25:55.680 --> 0:25:58.320
<v Speaker 3>So that was just it was very hurtful and especially

0:25:58.359 --> 0:26:02.879
<v Speaker 3>individuals who had voted for the president because they thought

0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:06.000
<v Speaker 3>that he would release these files and it would be done.

0:26:06.800 --> 0:26:11.600
<v Speaker 4>And was that a form of grooming you know?

0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:17.199
<v Speaker 3>One questions if that was to get voters. I don't know,

0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:21.680
<v Speaker 3>but it's starting to feel that way from them right now.

0:26:30.640 --> 0:26:32.239
<v Speaker 1>If there were we kind of been hitting on this,

0:26:32.320 --> 0:26:34.400
<v Speaker 1>you've hinted, but if there were a list of demands

0:26:34.800 --> 0:26:37.320
<v Speaker 1>right now that the victims you've worked with, or just

0:26:37.400 --> 0:26:41.560
<v Speaker 1>generally speaking of the president of the government, what would

0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:43.760
<v Speaker 1>those demands right now look like?

0:26:44.880 --> 0:26:49.440
<v Speaker 3>Old people accountable, who knew about it, who didn't do

0:26:49.560 --> 0:26:53.359
<v Speaker 3>something about it, or who fostered it. That is what's

0:26:53.400 --> 0:26:58.160
<v Speaker 3>important right now, and then put it to rest. These

0:26:58.560 --> 0:27:03.680
<v Speaker 3>women need to heal in peace, and it's constantly disrupted,

0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:08.840
<v Speaker 3>you know. And some women came forward to speak for

0:27:08.880 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 3>the first time because that's how angry they are. That's

0:27:13.000 --> 0:27:16.040
<v Speaker 3>how angry they are. How many conspiracy theories are going

0:27:16.080 --> 0:27:19.399
<v Speaker 3>on out there about Epstein and Glee Maxwell, how many

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:24.359
<v Speaker 3>AI stories, how many lies you know, and they're watching

0:27:24.440 --> 0:27:26.920
<v Speaker 3>it and it's like, these are our lives, Like this

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:30.880
<v Speaker 3>is my life, and here you are making up all

0:27:30.880 --> 0:27:35.520
<v Speaker 3>of these stories about my life. So some got to

0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:38.480
<v Speaker 3>the point where enough is enough. But this is how,

0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:42.320
<v Speaker 3>this is how, this is what it took instead of

0:27:42.440 --> 0:27:45.800
<v Speaker 3>part of their therapeutic healing process that had to be

0:27:46.080 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 3>we need to do it now because they're not telling

0:27:49.280 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 3>the truth. I don't think that's very fair to survivors now.

0:27:54.800 --> 0:27:57.760
<v Speaker 2>And some of the survivors are actually asking for a

0:27:57.800 --> 0:28:01.200
<v Speaker 2>meeting with President Trump. Are some of you clients a

0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:02.879
<v Speaker 2>part of that group? And what do they want to

0:28:02.880 --> 0:28:05.600
<v Speaker 2>hear from him? And what are they hoping to gain

0:28:05.640 --> 0:28:08.640
<v Speaker 2>from him given all of the I don't know how

0:28:08.640 --> 0:28:11.639
<v Speaker 2>they feel about the headlines, and we've known this for

0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:13.920
<v Speaker 2>a long time, the connections between Trump and Epstein, and

0:28:13.960 --> 0:28:15.800
<v Speaker 2>of course they had a falling out at a certain point,

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:18.360
<v Speaker 2>but even some of the pictures, some of the comments

0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:21.200
<v Speaker 2>he's made about Virginia just give me a sense of

0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:23.959
<v Speaker 2>where they stand on that meeting and what they're hoping

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:24.760
<v Speaker 2>to achieve.

0:28:25.760 --> 0:28:30.120
<v Speaker 3>I mean, their goal is to have Trump understand that

0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 3>what happened to them is real. I mean, let's start

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 3>with the basics here. You know, first belief, because there

0:28:38.160 --> 0:28:43.400
<v Speaker 3>seems to be disbelief and it's heartbreaking. It's heartbreaking to

0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:46.719
<v Speaker 3>think that the leader of this country is focused more

0:28:46.840 --> 0:28:52.760
<v Speaker 3>on protecting the individuals in his party rather than all

0:28:52.840 --> 0:28:57.200
<v Speaker 3>of these women that continue to suffer. Some have never

0:28:57.320 --> 0:29:01.760
<v Speaker 3>uttered the words of their story up until today. Still

0:29:03.880 --> 0:29:07.440
<v Speaker 3>there are women coming out each and every day now

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<v Speaker 3>reaching out to me after all of this is going on,

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to support other survivors. They call themselves their soul sisters.

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<v Speaker 3>They want to be there and support their soul sisters

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<v Speaker 3>because they feel that the people who should be supporting

0:29:23.440 --> 0:29:28.000
<v Speaker 3>them aren't. So it's a scary idea of having that meeting.

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<v Speaker 3>As a therapist, seeing what they're going through. I would

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<v Speaker 3>be a little nervous with that meeting because of the

0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:38.600
<v Speaker 3>lack of compassion and empathy that they have been welcomed,

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<v Speaker 3>especially in Washington.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you said nervous. It almost sounds like as someone

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<v Speaker 1>who has treated these victims, you almost sound like you

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<v Speaker 1>would lean against them sitting in a room and talking

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<v Speaker 1>to President Trump.

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<v Speaker 3>I would be concerned. I would absolutely be concerned about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I would make sure I would be somewhere close by.

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<v Speaker 3>I would be because unfortunately I don't trust. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>trust that there's going to be that compassion because where

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<v Speaker 3>has it been?

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<v Speaker 2>And Randy, it's interesting We talked a little bit before

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<v Speaker 2>we came on the podcast about where you were last

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<v Speaker 2>week when so many of those victims did decide to

0:30:21.360 --> 0:30:24.480
<v Speaker 2>put their names and faces and tell part of their

0:30:24.520 --> 0:30:27.840
<v Speaker 2>story to the world. You said you stayed back in

0:30:27.880 --> 0:30:29.960
<v Speaker 2>Florida because why.

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<v Speaker 3>I stayed back in Florida Because I wanted them to

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:36.440
<v Speaker 3>have a home base with me. What I mean by

0:30:36.480 --> 0:30:39.120
<v Speaker 3>that is they can reach out to me at any time.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was in contact with many of the survivors

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:47.640
<v Speaker 3>throughout the past days because it was extremely overwhelming, it

0:30:47.720 --> 0:30:51.680
<v Speaker 3>was mentally exhausting. So I made sure that I was

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 3>here for them as that support, as that anchor, while

0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:02.719
<v Speaker 3>working with the other their survivors who were having a

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<v Speaker 3>hard time with you know, the headlines of after they

0:31:06.080 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 3>spoke the comments. So there was so much going on,

0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 3>you know, with the victims that didn't speak and the

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 3>ones that did. So I wanted to make sure that

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:17.680
<v Speaker 3>I was there for each of them and all of

0:31:17.720 --> 0:31:21.360
<v Speaker 3>them at that time. And I felt that being in Washington,

0:31:21.400 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 3>I would be pulled into many directions and that wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>be a good thing for them at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Ernie, can you tell us one as journalists, can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell all of us as citizens, what we are getting wrong?

0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 1>What would you absolutely like us to be doing better

0:31:40.120 --> 0:31:45.320
<v Speaker 1>in how we're having conversations publicly about Epstein about the victims,

0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:49.440
<v Speaker 1>to be more mindful of those survivors and what they're

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:52.200
<v Speaker 1>going through. I know we cover it, and sometimes we

0:31:52.560 --> 0:31:55.080
<v Speaker 1>covered we get caught up in a headline and you

0:31:55.160 --> 0:31:57.400
<v Speaker 1>don't remember the humanity and there's a victim in the

0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:59.560
<v Speaker 1>middle of it. But I'm just curious to you seeing

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:02.320
<v Speaker 1>cover and whether it's social media and whether it's CNN,

0:32:02.840 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>what do you see that we continue to get wrong

0:32:05.280 --> 0:32:08.320
<v Speaker 1>in our conversation about sexual abuse victims, in particular this

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Epstein case.

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<v Speaker 3>People think that when we'll speak with young girls, when

0:32:13.760 --> 0:32:17.720
<v Speaker 3>young girls are groomed and sexually exploited, that they can

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:20.560
<v Speaker 3>come and go, that they knew what they were doing,

0:32:20.640 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 3>they knew how to get out of it, And that

0:32:22.760 --> 0:32:26.720
<v Speaker 3>is not the way it works. Grooming is a very

0:32:26.920 --> 0:32:31.200
<v Speaker 3>dangerous weapon because there's no force involved.

0:32:31.480 --> 0:32:32.600
<v Speaker 4>So because they are no.

0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 3>Force and people don't understand what grooming is, they just

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 3>assume that, well, you can just get out, and it's

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:43.960
<v Speaker 3>a form of brainwashing. Right, So how are young girls

0:32:44.040 --> 0:32:49.560
<v Speaker 3>supposed to know that Jeffrey was brainwashing them, manipulating them

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:54.000
<v Speaker 3>to get his needs met rather than well, he was

0:32:54.000 --> 0:32:58.680
<v Speaker 3>building this relationship because he cared. So it really starts there.

0:32:59.160 --> 0:33:03.640
<v Speaker 3>They did not know what they were getting into, and

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<v Speaker 3>just because they went back does not mean they were

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:12.400
<v Speaker 3>looking to be abused, that it was all about the money.

0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 3>It was about the weapon, which was his relationship with

0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:17.720
<v Speaker 3>each girl.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the first thing. The second thing.

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<v Speaker 3>These are human beings that have been going through this

0:33:25.400 --> 0:33:31.200
<v Speaker 3>from the ages of thirteen through their late thirties. Believe them,

0:33:31.760 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 3>this happened. Everything that you hear about what Epstein did.

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 4>And more is true.

0:33:41.560 --> 0:33:45.320
<v Speaker 3>And it is not easy for them to open social media.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you know, in this day and age, what

0:33:47.880 --> 0:33:50.960
<v Speaker 3>our phones are our lives, right. We don't just turn

0:33:51.000 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 3>on the TV anymore. We wake up to our phone,

0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:54.920
<v Speaker 3>We go to sleep to our phone. We go to

0:33:54.960 --> 0:33:58.080
<v Speaker 3>the bathroom with our phone. We drive, God forbid, we

0:33:58.200 --> 0:34:01.120
<v Speaker 3>drive with our phones, I mean our phone our concert

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 3>We like to go to comedy shows, don't we.

0:34:03.440 --> 0:34:04.200
<v Speaker 4>We'd like to go to.

0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:11.520
<v Speaker 3>Concerts everywhere that they go, everywhere that they look, they

0:34:11.560 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 3>are reminded of Jeffrey Epstein. Saturday Night Live skits stand

0:34:15.760 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 3>up comedians, different TV shows, on top of the media,

0:34:22.080 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 3>making up stories, saying horrible things about them, judging them,

0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:31.640
<v Speaker 3>judging how they heal, judging what they look like, judging

0:34:31.680 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 3>that they received. You know, settlements. Settlements did not heal

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:39.960
<v Speaker 3>any wounds. Let's be clear. Settlements help them get the

0:34:40.080 --> 0:34:43.480
<v Speaker 3>treatment that they so desperately need and deserve.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, it's been said, and I'm just curious with your perspective.

0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:52.759
<v Speaker 2>You said you've been doing this for forty years. I

0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:56.279
<v Speaker 2>can't imagine when you heard one story after another and

0:34:56.320 --> 0:35:00.440
<v Speaker 2>they each sounded so similar and yet sadly, so effective

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:04.360
<v Speaker 2>and so powerful. Would you say that Jeffrey Epstein was

0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:10.759
<v Speaker 2>perhaps the most prolific pedophile in this country's history. I mean,

0:35:10.800 --> 0:35:12.680
<v Speaker 2>have you ever seen anything like.

0:35:12.680 --> 0:35:18.560
<v Speaker 3>This, not like this now, and not with such ongoing exposure.

0:35:18.680 --> 0:35:24.440
<v Speaker 3>Even after death. Jeffrey Epstein has been sensationalized, Jeffrey Epstein

0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:29.719
<v Speaker 3>has been celebritized in many ways, and it is just

0:35:29.760 --> 0:35:34.600
<v Speaker 3>tragic that this is how we treat predators and this

0:35:34.760 --> 0:35:36.040
<v Speaker 3>is how we treat survivors.

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<v Speaker 4>It's tragic.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Randy, I'm sure you hopefully just feel the impact

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:48.359
<v Speaker 2>you're having on these women and these young women who

0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:52.239
<v Speaker 2>are counting on you to get through this and this

0:35:52.280 --> 0:35:54.400
<v Speaker 2>will be with them forever. But thank goodness, you're in

0:35:54.440 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 2>their lives, and we certainly appreciate you giving us some

0:35:57.120 --> 0:36:02.239
<v Speaker 2>perspective as to what they're going through. And the tragedy

0:36:02.400 --> 0:36:05.600
<v Speaker 2>isn't it's so deeply personal for each one of these girls.

0:36:05.600 --> 0:36:08.239
<v Speaker 2>It isn't just a headline. And we know that intellectually,

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:10.800
<v Speaker 2>but to hear you actually talk about what these girls

0:36:10.800 --> 0:36:13.880
<v Speaker 2>and now women are living with and living through with

0:36:13.920 --> 0:36:17.800
<v Speaker 2>all of these continuing headlines, we just appreciate your insight

0:36:17.960 --> 0:36:20.200
<v Speaker 2>and your perspective and the work that you do each

0:36:20.280 --> 0:36:23.000
<v Speaker 2>and every day. That can't be easy to not take

0:36:23.000 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 2>that home with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much.

0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:29.640
<v Speaker 3>It's so important that we have these conversations, so important.

0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:34.200
<v Speaker 3>Thank you for supporting and having the compassion that they

0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:35.440
<v Speaker 3>so desperately need.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, thank you, Randy. We hope you have a wonderful

0:36:38.320 --> 0:36:40.960
<v Speaker 2>day and we appreciate your time. As always. We hope

0:36:40.960 --> 0:36:42.399
<v Speaker 2>you'll check back in with us, and we hope they'll

0:36:42.400 --> 0:36:45.759
<v Speaker 2>be better news, perhaps in the weeks and maybe even

0:36:45.800 --> 0:36:46.439
<v Speaker 2>years to come.

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<v Speaker 4>That sounds wonderful. Thank you so much.