1 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Episode sixty four, The Bobby Cast no guests today. I 2 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: want to share some stories with you. We're gonna about 3 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: half hour here The Bobby Cast A bought to you 4 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: by a Sleep number and Wagwalker, two things that are 5 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: very near and dear to my heart. I'm gonna talk 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: about my trip to Haiti. Let's say this before I 7 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: get into it. I too years ago, before Amy started 8 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: going to eighty, I thought, man, there are a lot 9 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: of people here in that estates that are poor. I 10 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: still have include when I was a kid, really poor, 11 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: like well we were by other people. I don't feel 12 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: that way now Amy has change my perspective and I 13 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: and even now even more software going over there, my 14 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: perspective changed. And not that anyone's value is more or less, 15 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: but the whole they're supposed to be borders with poverty 16 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: is weird to me, meaning everyone's like, you know, I'd 17 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: like to help people they're close. With that logic, if 18 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: your neighbor was sick three houses down, but your next 19 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: door neighbor was sick, that means you would only help 20 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 1: your next door neighbor first before you went to the 21 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: one three houses down. But who's closer to you? Matters. 22 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: Apparently two people mostly like anything. Help help someone in 23 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: your community, don't you know? It's like St. Jude's and 24 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: Memphis and people go by. You know, I just help kids, 25 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: and you know, wherever I am, that's great. I think 26 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: you should. But it shouldn't be an excuse not to 27 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: help somewhere else, and it shouldn't be a reason for 28 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: you to get angry. It's someone for helping somewhere wherever 29 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: they go. It doesn't matter how far they are from you, 30 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: doesnt matter where they live, they're ten miles. Is someone 31 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: ten miles from you more important than someone three hundred 32 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: miles from you. That's a real question, and that's something 33 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: that I've had to struggle and ask myself, because I 34 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: too was like, I want all my money to say 35 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: right here in my town, help my people. But then 36 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: you start to go out of town. And it started 37 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: for me after traveling around the United States and playing 38 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: at hospitals all over the country and then playing the 39 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: Saint Jude to Memphis, Memphis, Tennessee radio shows, not there 40 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: like I mean, I have no personal affiliation there until 41 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: I went and realized that Saint Jude was a place 42 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,119 Speaker 1: where everybody comes for all over the world for free. 43 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, man, I didn't know this. I 44 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: was just so uneducated. And um, I feel like I've 45 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: been able to educate myself in a lot of ways. Again. 46 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: I go play hospital in Boston, I go play hospital 47 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: in Dallas, a play hospital, and I don't say, like, 48 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 1: look at all the hospitals I'm playing, But I'm just 49 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: saying it doesn't really matter where people are. If people 50 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: want to help someone else, like, that's great, that's it. 51 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: That's just great because they could help nobody. People will 52 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: get mad at Amy all the time, like why are 53 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: you helping kids over me? Why doesn't what if she helped? No? 54 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: Would you rather help nobody? So my perspective change changed 55 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: over the years. I maybe a thing here. Let's see, 56 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 1: oh sleep number. You've heard me talking about my sleep 57 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: number bed and how well I sleep. Sleep number setting 58 00:02:57,080 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 1: is thirty and my partners is well dustin isn't is? 59 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: It says here my partners is If I's married, I'm 60 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: supposed to say what my partner sleep number is. My 61 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 1: dogs rolls in my sleep number. But they have introduced 62 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: a new sleep number three sixty smart bed designed to 63 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: keep each of you effortlessly comfortable for the best possible sleep. 64 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: Like all the beds, Sleep number three sixty smart bets 65 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: let you choose your ideal firmness. They let you support 66 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: each side of the bed and you move around and 67 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: like air like automatic that's called responsive air technology automatically 68 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: adjust to you. So also, did you know that you 69 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: fall sy faster if your feet are gently warmed? Did 70 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 1: you know that might dy? Yep? Sleep number three sixty 71 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 1: back and pretty warm, eat side of the bed to 72 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: drive for both of you? Does your bed of that mighty? 73 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: And it doesn't. That's right. My sleep number setting is 74 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: thirty right now, three sixty smart bed and the only 75 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: place you'll find its Sleep number store great time, lowest 76 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: price sis and say five center Bucks five to seven 77 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: hundred and they're popular bets. Call eight hundred next bed 78 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: to find one near you, or sleep number dot com 79 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: to find a sleep number store near you and be 80 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: sure to tell them that you heard it here with 81 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: me Bobby Bones and the Bobby Cast and you love 82 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: the bed and I have one right up thing. Speaking 83 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: of bed went to the Orphan. They have little mattresses 84 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: and no pillows, no blankets. They just slip on the 85 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: straight up of the mattress sped on the floor. Um, 86 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: and I'll get to that. I guess my point was 87 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: at the very beginning of this how many notes or anything, 88 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: is that I would see people get angry at Amy 89 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: first years ago, then at me later when I would 90 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 1: help hospitals that weren't in the town I was living 91 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: in our hospitals that people weren't in the town. Or 92 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: it would be like, man, like I used to think, 93 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: the same thing I would to be. I wouldn't be 94 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:34,919 Speaker 1: mad at them. I would just be like, man, I 95 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: wish you could see that humans just are human. You 96 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: can help anybody that's awesome, Like there's not there shouldn't 97 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: be a line or a body of water that you 98 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: cross and all of a sudden they're not as important, 99 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: or the further away they are, they're not as important, 100 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:56,799 Speaker 1: Like distance makes them less important. And so I credit 101 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: one Amy first to open them my eyeballs to that absolutely, 102 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 1: And secondly, a lot of great people that have said, hey, 103 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: come to these hospitals. And so I've been lucky enough 104 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: to do that. I've done. I'm on and I'm on 105 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: the National Board of Musicians on Call, which is a 106 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: fantastic organization, and um, obviously we do a lot of 107 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 1: Saint Jude. So I decided, let me just get to 108 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: the guts of the story here. After that little soapbox, 109 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,799 Speaker 1: I decide that weeks ago I was gonna go to Haiti, 110 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: and all of a suff you here on the ear 111 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: over the past week was all just me stringing Amy 112 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: into a bet already having it planned. You knew that, right. 113 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 1: And I had a lot of few people know how 114 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 1: to call my doctor because I had to get I 115 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: was like, what do I have to get shots at 116 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: my penis? Like what I have to do? Because I 117 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: was I was scared. I was scared for many reasons. 118 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: Why because they have to take medicine just to go there, 119 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: And it's scary to take medicine just to go somewhere. 120 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: There are many places in your life where you have 121 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: to take a month prescription just to step foot on 122 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: the land. And so it's like, yeah, you have to 123 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: take a month of malaria medicine. And I'm like just 124 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: to go there for a weekend that yeah, And so 125 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: again it was important to Amy. So I was like, okay, 126 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: because you can have crazy dreams and man, and I 127 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: had to take it like the week before I went, 128 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: and I'm still taking it crazy dreams. You and I 129 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: would nake it about three out the last four nights, Mike, Yeah, 130 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:22,280 Speaker 1: I know, not really just a different scenario. So, um, 131 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: I'll be serious. Uh two and a half weeks so ago, 132 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: I said, Okay, I'm going to Haiti. It was really 133 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 1: the only weekend that I had off was this past 134 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: weekend because I get back on the road and do 135 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: some get back on the road doing stand up comedy, 136 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 1: get back on the road doing um raging idiot stuff. 137 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: So and so I let my doctor no, Mike new 138 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: And I think at the that point that was just 139 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: about it. And Mary Mary my friend, who um were 140 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: you clothing together? Um? We do Pama joy together? You 141 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: know it's me her and Amy do Pima joy um. 142 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: Because she'd been there, I need somebody because Amy's houseband 143 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: couldn't go. He's his name to go and I would 144 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:03,919 Speaker 1: have taken I would have went with Amy. But she 145 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: told me on the air right it I was about 146 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: to book the trip that she could not go back. 147 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: She said, the last time I left was the last 148 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: time that I'm gonna be able to go until we 149 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: get our kids because they expected to get their kids 150 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: rather soon. And she was like, I can't go back 151 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: because they were devastated that they came and then left again. 152 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: And so I was like, oh, whoa, that's crest. That's weird. 153 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: So now I have to kind of go by myself, 154 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: but I'm still gonna go committed to going. I mean, 155 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: the best friends of the whole life. And so I'm like, 156 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: all right. So Mary from California flew to Atlanta and 157 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: I was nervous as nervous for a whole week beforehand, 158 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 1: but I knew I was going, and I want her 159 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:42,119 Speaker 1: to lure Amy into something. And I was like, stuff, 160 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: how went would get a tattoos? She was like yeah, 161 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: because you know I wasn't gonna go secretly, I was 162 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: already planning, and so she agrees, and it's funny. I 163 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: don't know what's gonna happen there, but um, I wanted 164 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: to play music. I don't take my guitar and play 165 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: with the orphans for kids and so called. Nikita, who 166 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: is Australian, is singer songwriter in town and really good friend. 167 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: She plays in The Raging Idiots, something she opens for 168 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: me on stand up comedy x um. So I was like, hey, 169 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: let's go to Haiti, and she was, you know, she 170 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: strives like Haiti. Never been there. Okay, So then she 171 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: was like, I gotta take medicine for a month. I 172 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I know. And so we you know, 173 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: our plan was to fly down Friday morning, like like 174 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: the flight was like nine thirty or something. I was 175 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: going to leave the show a little bit early, and 176 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: so you know, sometimes if I have to leave earlier, 177 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: it's don all record the last thirty or forty five 178 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: minutes the show. And so I recorded the last part 179 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: of the show. I was ready to go, and then 180 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: I got a note beforehand said, uh, your flight's been canceled. 181 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: I got a note canceled, not delayed, canceled, and I 182 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: was like, how is it canceled? Kindly, some people get 183 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 1: sick on the flight, and to people get sick, they 184 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 1: couldn't fly it down to Atlanta. So that was the 185 00:08:58,200 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: only option to get me there, to get me to Haiti, 186 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: unless I took the one like an hour and a 187 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 1: half before, which meant I had to record I don't know, 188 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: the hour and half of the show really quickly. So 189 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: I did, I Amy and I went in the studio. 190 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 1: Bam bam bam, knocked it out. Luckily we had that 191 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: dance party. We knocked out the show. Jumped in the car, 192 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: flat tire, stuck, so I'm like, it's not already slept 193 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: in dog crab, flat tire. Like. Uh, got to the airport, 194 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: couldn't get on that flight. So my normal flight was 195 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: the delay like two and a half hours. Couldn't make 196 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: it down to I got it on the next flight, 197 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: made it under Atlanta, but I miss my connector to Haiti. 198 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: One flight in Haiti, so I had to spend the 199 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: night in Atlanta at an hotel Atlanta. So what was 200 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: gonna be all day Friday, a day, Saturday night, all 201 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: day Saturday, all day Sunday. So we get to porta 202 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: Prints which is in Haiti, and uh, I don't know 203 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 1: what I was getting into. I've been to the Bahamas 204 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: different and they're some they're kind of close. Bamas are 205 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: a lot closer, but it's like the Bahamas and there's 206 00:09:57,960 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 1: I was looking at the map because I don't know 207 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: where I was, Like I was there and I really 208 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: had no idea where I was on the map. So 209 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: I'm like Google in the map and it's like over 210 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: the top of Cuba, which is past the Mahamas, because 211 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: the Bahamas the right off Florida and I've been to 212 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 1: the Bahamas before and I was looking at it and um, 213 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 1: the land. We get off the plane and everyone you 214 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 1: had to wear covered shoes and um. We met security there. 215 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: Andy's husband who got a security because I was like, 216 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: I don't care what it costs, I'll pay for security. 217 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't want to get shot. I don't 218 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening. It's secured to that, and 219 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: it was. It was Mayhem's Mayhem. It was at the airport, 220 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: like I mean, there's just people are screaming everywhere, like 221 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 1: they're not even lines. They're like, what's happening? And so 222 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm wide eyed. They lost my bags, so I'm looking 223 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: for my bag. There there are bags just laying on 224 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: the ground like they're just taking them and throw them 225 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: off the car under the ground, and I'm like, man, 226 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: there's like nothing I've ever been in before. So I'm 227 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: already spooked a little bit. Rat the bag finally found 228 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: my back. Niki defines their bag and we get into 229 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: the rental car. The roads there they're not. They're not 230 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: American roads. There aren't two lanes, they have holes in 231 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: the middle of them. They have huge drops like you 232 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: think roads are bad in certain states because there's not 233 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 1: enough taxes going into it. Ten time force in that here, 234 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: and there are no stop signs, no traffic lights. There 235 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: are four ways we used to haunk Kong Kong Kong, 236 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: Kong Kongong. Make sure abody looking at you go through. 237 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: And there are people standing out in the middle of 238 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: the road always it's weird. They're weird. Um, just I've 239 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 1: never seen there'll be no rules like that. There are 240 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 1: people outside of any kind of stores to go with 241 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 1: the shotgun. Went to the grocery store at one point 242 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 1: two guys with shotguns just standing right out tot of 243 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: front of the store, just twelve games, shotguns, pumps just 244 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,959 Speaker 1: sitting there. When ms some groceries, but but stuff with 245 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,839 Speaker 1: the kids, candy, cookie stuff like that. Um. I went 246 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: to the orphanage for the first day and didn't really 247 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: know what I was getting into again. Never been. But 248 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,719 Speaker 1: you have to go up to the nowk and this 249 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 1: big metal gate and they opened it. It's like threefold. 250 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: And the guy we're with is pretty well known around town. 251 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: He's like, hey, it's me. So we're going to the orphanage. 252 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: They shut that gate and there's another gate you get 253 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: to that gate. It's to keep people from going in 254 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:28,839 Speaker 1: and like robbing the place because they make bread in there. Um, 255 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: so go in and you cant have the truck. And 256 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: it's just kids everywhere, not not even in a not 257 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: like warm nice kids everywhere. It's hot. It's obviously there's 258 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: no air conditioning. There's just a a thing of the air conditioning. 259 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: Even their beds aren't. There's no air conditioning ever, and 260 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 1: so a bunch of kids in every room. They're like 261 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: different age groups. One room had like through you know, 262 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:01,079 Speaker 1: babies to three year olds, boys and girls. But then 263 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: once they got older they started to split. No this 264 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: age you know, different rooms, different little buildings, but all 265 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: in rather a small area like three small buildings. Everything 266 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 1: was was like that. All the kids just wanted to 267 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 1: be held. Everybody wanted to be held, like they would 268 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 1: just run up to you and just jump in your arms. 269 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: And the first you were like, do they want something? 270 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: But what they wanted it was just any sort of 271 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 1: affection at all because they don't get it. They have 272 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: a few nannies there. They're watching. Amy said, seventy kids. 273 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: All I saw three nannies watching seventy kids. So there's 274 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 1: And another thing that I noticed was they had a 275 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 1: bag and the bags had candy and cookies and the 276 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: and they went into them and we were like boom. 277 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:48,839 Speaker 1: They were just grab a grab, grab, and I was like, 278 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 1: oh boy, here we go. And they started passing about 279 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 1: to each other. Again, these are kids that don't have anything, 280 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: and instead of grabbing and like stuffing in their pockets, 281 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: are running away with it. They started making sure everybody 282 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: had equal amounts immediately, like you have, you have, you have, 283 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: you have, you have, you have, you have, you have, 284 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 1: And I was like, whoa, this is not like western 285 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,839 Speaker 1: groups of kids. This is not like me. I was 286 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: a kid like at Oreos, I'll take seven. And so 287 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: they all equally passed, and it was very much lookout 288 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: for each other, type of society inside of it. Even 289 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 1: playing basketball, they passed the ball, no balls, there was 290 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: no ball. Hog. Playing basket was amazing. I was they passed, 291 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: they passed it right to me. Wow, So they're not 292 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: that We're all lebron the cist, the cist, the cist 293 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: they're crazy. Um, they love iPhones, like nineteen years old. 294 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: They know how to use them. They don't have mirrors 295 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: the orphanage, so they never see themselves. So when you 296 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: take a picture, they're like, oh, like they see themselves 297 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: and the picture. That's the timely when they see each other, 298 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: like they see themselves by looking at a picture you took. 299 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: So they're fascinating with pictures, and so we took a 300 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 1: watch selfies. This is what we did so they could 301 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: look at themselves and look and be like oh and laugh. 302 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: But as there, I saw one mirror the entire time, 303 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 1: and it was adult height. You couldn't see it if 304 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: you were a kid, and it was for like the 305 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: person whos running the orphanage. So there are no mirrors there. Um. 306 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever saw like a water fountain. 307 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 1: I'm sure they have water somehow, I don't know. They 308 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: kept us away from the water because the water was 309 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: super clean there. Um. They shared the phones and the 310 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: iPads because we all had our phones, and we let 311 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: the kids play with them and they would play a 312 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 1: game and when they would lose their pass it another 313 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: kid and I was like, this is incredible. I've never 314 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: seen anything like this. They play minecraft, not play it 315 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: pass another kid? What mean they're not getting it back? 316 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: They would just passing another kid. It was the most 317 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: unselfish thing I've ever seen from eight year olds, from 318 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: eleven year old and they just wanted to play. They 319 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: just wanted to be held. They wanted to They love music. 320 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 1: We took a guitars to playing music and they knew 321 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 1: when I grew up then then up bupp they would 322 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: sing it. They loved the strom, the guitar with their hands. 323 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: They just loved any anything UM where it felt like 324 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: you were giving them attention. And so the first day 325 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: came and went and UM since we got their new niche, 326 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 1: we didn't get a stay the whole time because they 327 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 1: want you out of there by six not out of there, 328 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 1: want you if you're not from there, going to be 329 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: inside your wherever you're gonna be by like six pms 330 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: what they said. At six seven, we went to dinner. 331 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 1: UM we took security with us and head of the 332 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: orphanage and we saw Anderson Cooper at dinner andson Cooper 333 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 1: walked in, which is crazy. And I went dinner with 334 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 1: um Amy's kids and the head of the orphanage because 335 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: since she wasn't there, he had to be there, which 336 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: is fine with us. We just wanted to go. And 337 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 1: her son dances like crazy, and it was it was 338 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 1: weird to me because I've only seen them in videos 339 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: and pictures. They were real life. It was like seeing 340 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 1: a celebrity You've only seen him on TV forever and 341 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: finally you're like, whoa Like John hamm is in the 342 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 1: airplane next to me, Like you know Danny Gollecki from 343 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: is walking down the street from Big Bang Theory. You know, 344 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: It's what I felt like. I've only seen that for years. 345 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: I watched them grow up and now who they are. 346 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,959 Speaker 1: And so we go back to the second day. And 347 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 1: by the second day, and I know a little bit 348 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 1: of French, but French in French creole slightly different. So 349 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 1: I had a kid translator who I could talk to 350 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 1: other kids with and I would be like, hey do 351 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: you say but I need to saying. I would repeating 352 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 1: a new numbers on dutoits. I knew um general expressions, bonsois, bonjours, 353 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: I know all the easy stuff and so but I 354 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: had a little translator. We I go and talk to 355 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 1: the kids, talk to the orphan and they had the 356 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:35,400 Speaker 1: orphan engine. I was like, he, how do you get kids? 357 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 1: He said, people should just drop them off the door. 358 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: We would take and he said, we're packed right now, 359 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: We're full. I can't take any more kids, he said, 360 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,880 Speaker 1: but they have to go to the government now. So 361 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 1: they go to the government and the government feeds them 362 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: over and that's how they have kids. And they were 363 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,400 Speaker 1: maxed out at whatever the number they were maxed out there, 364 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: and so uh, the second day we win, and we 365 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: took a bunch of when I grew up, t shirts 366 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 1: and markers and colored that, posted some pictures on the 367 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,919 Speaker 1: ground and play ball. And again, they just liked to 368 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: do things. I know, it sounds like it's nothing like, 369 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: what's the thing it's like to do anything? Anything that's 370 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: not every day? Just sitting outside and U when I 371 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: was leaving, and it was really the only time that 372 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: because the whole thing to me was just like, Wow, 373 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: You've never seen anything like this. I've never I've never 374 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 1: seen poverty at that level. I've seen poverty a lot 375 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: of levels myself. When I was a kid um where 376 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:33,879 Speaker 1: I wouldn't always have three mills a day. We'd take 377 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 1: a mill at school sometimes because you just want me. 378 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 1: The kid didn't have a meal, especially in high school, 379 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: like junior high. Mostly high school was working. But it's 380 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: it's nothing like this. They share clothes. It's like they 381 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 1: get washed by the nannies and they just grab some clothes. 382 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: They eat basically rice every day, so there's no protein, 383 00:18:56,000 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 1: so it seems some of them are underdeveloped. Um, it 384 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 1: was just from someone who grew up in a pretty 385 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 1: poor place. This is a different level. And in general 386 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,920 Speaker 1: they were happy and not happy because they had a lot, 387 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: happy because their attitude was it was just different than 388 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 1: what we have. We're very much a me me, me, 389 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: me me society and there I let's all take care 390 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:26,439 Speaker 1: of each other. And they were they were they were 391 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 1: happy kids. Some kids fell down and started crying, like 392 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: seven kids. Remember to make sure it's okay, because I 393 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 1: was like, whoa, this is not what happens in America. 394 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 1: And so when I was leaving, it was the time 395 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,199 Speaker 1: when it hit me. I was because I just like, 396 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to say as numb as possible, I know 397 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna se Amy's kids in the next month, two months, 398 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,199 Speaker 1: three months, whenever, So I'm going to meet them and 399 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: it was really for Amy. I owed it to her, 400 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:53,719 Speaker 1: and um, I was leaving, and I was like, this 401 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 1: sucks because most of these kids will never have even 402 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: the opportunity to have an opportunity. I didn't have opportunities, 403 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 1: but I had an opportunity to get an opportunity. Like 404 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:11,159 Speaker 1: nothing was given to me. I grew up. Yeah, food stamps, welfare, 405 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 1: whatever you want to say, bah, then go to dinners 406 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: and go doctor way way. But I had a school, 407 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 1: had had a literal public school with teachers, and if 408 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to, I could study, and I can learn, 409 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 1: and I can then take a c T. And I 410 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: gut study and and I wanted to do good in 411 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: the A s C. I could. I did. And I 412 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 1: want to go to college. And you take out loans 413 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 1: or you get scholarship, you do. And then my parents, 414 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: my mom even know where I went to college, Like 415 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: I just want I just told her. I was like, hey, 416 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to I'm leaving to go to college tomorrow. 417 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 1: She was like, where are you going? And I told 418 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:47,239 Speaker 1: her I just left. That was it. But I had 419 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 1: that opportunity to do that. I want to college, I 420 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 1: want to study. I go to college and study I 421 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,360 Speaker 1: want to get a job in my desired profession, which 422 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 1: I go to that and then I can jump my 423 00:20:54,680 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: desired profession. And they don't have that opportunity, don't have 424 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:05,239 Speaker 1: the opportunity. They don't they they don't have even the 425 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,439 Speaker 1: most common basic things that we have. Multiple can have 426 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 1: the shot to have that. And when I was leaving, 427 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: I felt terribly guilty. Was like, I'm gonna go back 428 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: home and land my bed and tomorrow night I'll have 429 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:23,639 Speaker 1: it on nick and night watching TV land and m M. 430 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 1: You know, for me, this was just a trip, just 431 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: and it says their life like so yeah, it hit 432 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: me and I didn't want it to and I tried 433 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: to not make it hit me, but it did. Um 434 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,200 Speaker 1: not even it's the biggest part. There's very lit opportunity, 435 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 1: even to create an opportunity for yourself. I believe in 436 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: this country a lot of people and some people have 437 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 1: to work harder than others to get the same Some 438 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: people have to work a lot harder than others to 439 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: get the same thing, and but you still have the 440 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:59,160 Speaker 1: shot at it. And so we don't have the shot 441 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 1: over there, and it's it sucks, and it takes so 442 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: long to help these kids. So that was I'm probably 443 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: glossing over a hundred stories, but because it's still fresh, 444 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: I took a lot of pictures videos posted them today. 445 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 1: Some I don't want to post too many. Amy was 446 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 1: freaked out. She was I talked to you after the show, 447 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,199 Speaker 1: and I was like, hey, it came mad at me 448 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: for not taking you, and she wasn't, but I know 449 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,919 Speaker 1: she wished that she would have been there. But she 450 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: told me, in a complete moment of sanity, that she 451 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: did not want to go back because she couldn't. She 452 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: could not go back. She didn't say that in an 453 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: emotional part. She said, I can't go back because it's 454 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: not good for the kids or it's not good for me. 455 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 1: And because she said that I didn't take her, and 456 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 1: she if she'd have been like really emotional when she said, 457 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 1: I would have went back to our talk to about 458 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,640 Speaker 1: but she was at a good point and ah, yeah, 459 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: that was it. So I'll do this commercial her. Do 460 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 1: you have anything you want to ask? Oh, like, what 461 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: was the like the interaction you have with their kids 462 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: like talking to him. Well, there's a language barrier first, 463 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,680 Speaker 1: but they just want to hold your hand and hold 464 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,439 Speaker 1: your arm and they want you to hold them if 465 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 1: they're small and they like candy. It's not like we're 466 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 1: talking about outliers, you know, it's like any other kid. 467 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 1: You know, your your language is basically affection and hugs 468 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: and games and darna ball and that's what it is. 469 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: And occasionally you'd have a kid it's like a really 470 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: good English for for that and they're like, hey what 471 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: you know, what what are they saying? And the mayd 472 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 1: always be something like hey, I want to go and 473 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,439 Speaker 1: play ball or something, But yeah, there were it was 474 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: like it wasn't too different than young kids here because 475 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: even though the language is different, listen, what do I know? 476 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: What have I come with a kid? Like I'm always 477 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: confused how to talk to kids like six year olds, 478 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: like we're not even in common. Yeah, hey man, you 479 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 1: cool um already talk about Wagwalker for a second, Like 480 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: my dog came back. First thing. I saw my dog. 481 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 1: I love that dog. If you love your dog, you 482 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,719 Speaker 1: have to even just check out wag Walker. It's an 483 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 1: on demand app for getting a dog walker, kind of 484 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: like Uber for dog walkers. You have to search wag 485 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,439 Speaker 1: and so here's how it works. So, first of all, 486 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: thoroughly vetted walkers. You get quality people, experienced dog You 487 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 1: can live GPS track your dog's walk notification when you're 488 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 1: like piece of poops, photo report card, summary you after 489 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: each walk, if your home safe, walk distance, time, potty breaks, 490 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 1: all that, and the best part, you don't have to 491 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 1: be home like that's for me, that's the best part. 492 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 1: Wag sends you a free log box, or you can 493 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 1: leave an alternative home act dis instructions in the app 494 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 1: and let your walker and know how to get in. 495 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 1: But you can leave a log box with code that 496 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 1: type of code boom, they come in and get your 497 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 1: dog and it's no packer group walks. It's a must 498 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 1: have at WAG such Wag it's a must have app 499 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 1: for every dog owner. Finding the app store search Wag 500 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: walking search Wag. You get your first WAG walk for 501 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: free by texting bones to three to four, text bones 502 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 1: to two five three to four and Wag will send 503 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: you a link. You don't know the app and get 504 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,159 Speaker 1: your first walk free. I love WAG walker says I'll 505 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,360 Speaker 1: be at work extra light and a WAG and they'll 506 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: come walk to dog like from GPS, like Uber for 507 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,680 Speaker 1: dog walkers for good walkers. Anyway, I love wag walk 508 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: wagwalk or wag or wag any other question Mike did 509 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 1: an these kids like know you know not at all. No, 510 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 1: they knew Mary because she's been there a bunch. Um. 511 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: They warmed up to me really quickly, especially her son. 512 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,639 Speaker 1: For me, I don't know what to talk about to 513 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: a girl anyway, because like a ten year old, So 514 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,439 Speaker 1: it was a lot easier for me to talk to 515 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,400 Speaker 1: a six year old boy than a ten year old girl. 516 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,199 Speaker 1: But there were two girls, and so I talked to 517 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:46,120 Speaker 1: her a little bit, and she knew English a little bit, 518 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: and so we would talking about little things. But I 519 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: spent a lot of time with him because as a boy, 520 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: it was just easier to play ball the boys and 521 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,679 Speaker 1: I was really out. I felt like I was in 522 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 1: their house and there I don't know, I don't want 523 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: to do anything wrong in their eyes, all any of them. 524 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: Like I just felt like I was in their house 525 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 1: and I don't want to come. But yeah, now they 526 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,639 Speaker 1: don't know, but they don't care, and they just I 527 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: mean Amy's daughter like with like the leader, grab stuff, 528 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:22,640 Speaker 1: pass it around, grabs up, passing around amazing son. Um, 529 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 1: I'm tiny but pretty athletic to be so tiny. I 530 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: can really really small. I can catch a ball and 531 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 1: throw a ball pretty well. I was like, wow, like 532 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: you're a tiny little tot. But again, I think he's 533 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,119 Speaker 1: small because he hasn't developed yet. I think he's underdeveloped. 534 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 1: I think he'll get bigger when he gets here. So 535 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:49,199 Speaker 1: yeah's that anything else? I think you know a lot 536 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 1: of people on the show we're talking about going leaving 537 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 1: on the scariest part for me was the airport on 538 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: the way home, trying to get out of there because 539 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 1: landing you just you're already, you're there. It's like you 540 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 1: just gotta get out of the airport. Going into the airport, 541 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 1: you gotta get all your stuff and get your tickets. 542 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: You gotta go. It was Mayhem. It was like something 543 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 1: you see in a movie another part of the world. 544 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 1: I don't even know. They were like five counters, just 545 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: people yelling ah, like chickens running around, goats. I don't 546 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: even know what was happening in the airport. And we 547 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 1: were like, oh my goodness, we were and we waited first. 548 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,400 Speaker 1: We were like hey, and they were like, oh um, 549 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 1: we don't we need to call America make sure we 550 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:27,880 Speaker 1: have your tickets. Waited for like an hour the way 551 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: to get there like two or three hours early way 552 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:33,560 Speaker 1: three hours really, and so got there, waited for like 553 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: an hour at the desk, then went to there's no 554 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 1: seating really in the like food court. We have food court. 555 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: It's just a hallway with a couple of chairs. People 556 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,400 Speaker 1: sell on the floor everywhere, no air condition, no air condition, 557 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 1: doors are open, so everybody's miserable. It's a sauna in there. 558 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,639 Speaker 1: Were waiting there for an hour and a half and 559 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: they're like, okay, get in line. We got in line, 560 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 1: waited for an hour, just stood up and they go 561 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: through and they check you, check your you know you're not. 562 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: They go through every part of your bag, they check 563 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 1: your body, everything. And then we got on a bus 564 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:05,360 Speaker 1: and got busted all the way through taxi like beat 565 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,159 Speaker 1: up runway. And got on an airplane, walked up the 566 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 1: steps on a big plane. We weren't even the airport anymore. 567 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: I don't even know what what was happening. I was so 568 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,399 Speaker 1: happy to get on the airplane. Uh yeah, it was. 569 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 1: It was nuts. But I didn't go out to the city. 570 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 1: I was there for two days, you know, the Saturday 571 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,640 Speaker 1: and Sunday, but yeah, there's really one of those things 572 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 1: where you see things and you go, man, I was 573 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,719 Speaker 1: so ignorant before because I was the person that was like, 574 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,360 Speaker 1: I want to make sure my money's kept right here 575 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: at home, and I think it's important to do that. Um, 576 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 1: but I also think that to go, Hey, why are 577 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 1: you worried about somebody in China? Are you worry about 578 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 1: somebody in Ethiopia? Somebody's adopting from Uganda? Human beings. Man, 579 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: you go over there and you look them in the eyeballs, 580 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: your perspective will change completely. The only thing different about 581 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,080 Speaker 1: them they were born in different part of the worlds it. 582 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 1: That's it. And they could use help too. So does 583 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: my experience, I'm sure. I mean, Amy had so many 584 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: questions and she was like, I don't even know where 585 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 1: to start. But yeah, the whole hiding up for her 586 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 1: was crazy. And now I would live at Little Easter 587 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: Eggs the whole time, because again Andrews Cooper and we're like, yeah, 588 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: I now I would. I told her, so I'm doing 589 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: a so how My story to her was have to 590 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: go to Atlanta because I'm hosting an event for Dollar General. 591 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 1: It's a big corporate event. And as like I have 592 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 1: to go talk to the Dollar General and I'm trying 593 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: to convince them to, you know, hire me for this gig. 594 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 1: And I already even hired, but it was my way 595 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 1: to get down there. And I took my guitar and 596 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 1: she's like, why do your guitar? I was like, oh, 597 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 1: I got play songs. They have to know I'm like 598 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 1: all around performer. And so I went down and even 599 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: FaceTime to her as I was down there as better 600 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: than I was an a tankist. They were doing was 601 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 1: like got dinner. It was a tank top beard, like 602 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,479 Speaker 1: my facial hair is grown out. She never thought thing 603 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: about it, and little things like and if you don't 604 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: want to Andrews the Cooper's Instagram right when I said 605 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,479 Speaker 1: I saw him, he was in Port pres Haiti. So 606 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 1: there were little things that I did, um and the 607 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 1: little bankas said to Amy when I was back to like, 608 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: oh how did I put that together? Oh? And I 609 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 1: knew she wouldn't. I hope she wouldn't, And I would 610 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 1: text her pretty frequently be like hey, what up? You know? 611 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 1: I was all, you're doing a jump rope on Instagram 612 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: and to see if she'd be like, hey, well, by 613 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 1: the way, are you says she never had any idea, 614 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 1: And this morning, when I played the audio back and 615 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 1: me with kids at the orphanage, she thought, I just 616 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: found some random kids in Atlanta. They were Haitian and 617 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 1: they were like, I guess in her mind, I just 618 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: found some kids. Were like, hey, you're Haitian like Amy. 619 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 1: Kids lots to yell at Amy. She was so confused. 620 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: And then when I played the cup of her son 621 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 1: and she's all picked her on my phone with them, 622 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: she started crying and I, yeah, it was it was 623 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: it was nuts. It was nuts. So people wanted me 624 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 1: to talk about it. That's that's kind of what I know. 625 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 1: I don't really know a lot I went. Would you 626 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 1: go back, Yeah, I would go back. I'll go back 627 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 1: with I'm gonna go back with security again. For sure. 628 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: I'll go back with security again. But yeah, I would 629 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: go back. It's just like, they're just a lot of places, 630 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: you see, and they need help. And the reason that 631 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 1: I went was because I have so many close friends 632 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: that that's important to them, Like Amy, the closest of 633 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,239 Speaker 1: my friends, it's very important to her. And if it's 634 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 1: important to somebody's close to me, it is important to me, 635 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: and I was selfish for not going, and man on Twitter, 636 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,720 Speaker 1: I was like, oh the bed, I'm not Amy been 637 00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 1: twenty times. You want to tell somebody that the best 638 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: tell Amy? I knew crap. I did one of what 639 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 1: she's done, so it was good. And I I'm not 640 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 1: even gonna say encourage you to go there, because I don't. 641 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: I encourage you to find somebody or something that can 642 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: use your help. I'll block down the road, get on 643 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 1: the internet a hundred miles down the road, so another state. 644 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 1: I wonder, you know what, somebody in Oklahoma less important 645 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,640 Speaker 1: than somebody in Arkansas arcause that was closer. I just 646 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 1: don't like those rules and want of any people will go, oh, 647 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,200 Speaker 1: I can't believe you're supporting Why don't you keep it domestic? 648 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 1: That was a big thing for what long? It still 649 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: is when you adopted it. She tried to adopt domestically, 650 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 1: and if she hadn't, it's still none of your freaking business. 651 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: Like she's helping a human and being good has no 652 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 1: boundaries or time zones. You're helping out another human with 653 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: heart and lungs and a mind. So yeah, my admiration, 654 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 1: FRAMI if it could get any bigger. It did, so anyway, 655 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: there's that the end. I don't know if that was 656 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,600 Speaker 1: a good story or not, but that was my trip there. 657 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 1: I lost the tooths, got a flat tire, stepped in 658 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: dog crap, lost my bags, had to put up pictures 659 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 1: of Atlanta even though it wasn't in Atlanta. And then 660 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 1: for a while then I couldn't put up anything, and 661 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 1: people were like, why are you have no stepchats for 662 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 1: a whole day? Why don't you have instance stories? And 663 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: as watch I can post anything from the terror, So 664 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 1: thank you very much. And that was just a little 665 00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: something there. And hope do you hear this and find 666 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 1: your thing, whatever your thing is, because it's not money, 667 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 1: it can be time. Time is more valuable money a 668 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: lot of times. So I hope you find your thing, 669 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 1: and I hope you stay consistent with your thing. I 670 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: get a priority if you can. So thank you very much, 671 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 1: and tomorrow Karen Fair choked a little bit down about 672 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 1: I hope that was something that you like. Okay, thank 673 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 1: you