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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. However,

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Speaker 1: before we get to this week's episode, I want to

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Speaker 1: remind you guys to purchase my book No Holds Barred,

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Speaker 1: wherever you read your books. Again. That is No Holds Barred,

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Speaker 1: a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power, written by

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Speaker 1: yours truly and my co host of the Decisions Decisions podcast, Weezy.

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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all get that. Now, let's get to this

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Speaker 1: week's episode. This is Mandy B. Welcome to Selective Ignorance,

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Speaker 1: a production of the Black Effec Podcast Network and Iart Radio.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your girl, Mandy B. And we

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Speaker 1: are back with another episode of Selective Ignorance, where we

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Speaker 1: know better, but sometimes we just choose not to do better.

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Speaker 1: You know. Today's episode and this is America. We're heading

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Speaker 1: right back into the ghetto of all ghettos. Yes, I'm

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Speaker 1: using that word on purpose despite me not wanting to

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Speaker 1: use the word ever again, because we're talking Florida, Yes,

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Speaker 1: the Sunshine state that I am born and raised in

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Speaker 1: but always embarrassed by. Spoiler alert alert. We're getting into

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Speaker 1: not one, but two of the Netflix docs that just

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Speaker 1: released down into place in Florida. So we're talking The

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Speaker 1: Perfect Neighbor and Eileen Queen of serial Killers, both tragic,

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Speaker 1: both wild, and of course both starring Florida women. And

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Speaker 1: then in Celebrities say the darness things, Mario decided to

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Speaker 1: take Cam Newton's bay and let us know who he

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Speaker 1: thinks can and cannot sing. Boy, I thought he came

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Speaker 1: up in the era with media training. I guess not.

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Speaker 1: Then THEO Vaughn might have cracked the code on why

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Speaker 1: women love true crime and DJ head yeah, DJ had said, Wat,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna unpack all of the things with a little

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Speaker 1: bit of judgment, and then of course get into some

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Speaker 1: am I ignorant? So get into your group chat, get

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Speaker 1: your coffee, grab your wine. I don't know when you're

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Speaker 1: listening to this, but selective Ignorance is about to begin,

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Speaker 1: and I'm really excited because as usual, I am joined

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Speaker 1: by my super producers. We have journalism Jason in the

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Speaker 1: building like I'm looking at him, like, y'all I could reach.

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Speaker 2: Over and promote him, promoting out of my basement. I

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Speaker 2: got caught up to the big leagues, and then.

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Speaker 1: Of course a king right here, y'all. Literally, let me

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Speaker 1: tell y'all how crazy I am. A bitch flew in

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Speaker 1: this morning and guess what I did. Be everybody here,

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Speaker 1: ain't that crazy?

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Speaker 2: First we got to the room.

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Speaker 3: Ten a million people in New York City and Manhattan

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Speaker 3: alone is insane.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I ain't gonna hold you. This is nuts.

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Speaker 1: It's insane.

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Speaker 4: It is unpacked that you got that flight you got.

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Speaker 1: I got on the flight, mind you, as in the

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Speaker 1: go of the taping of this episode. Yes, the government

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Speaker 1: is still shut down. I feel like I cracked the

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Speaker 1: in a row from Atlanta to New York, New York

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Speaker 1: you have to get. Don't tell me, hollo on, But

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Speaker 1: when I tell you this is what's crazy about me

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Speaker 1: beating all to the motherfucking office. I woke up this

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Speaker 1: morning at three point thirty this morning for a six

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Speaker 1: o'clock flight atl to Laguardian Yep, and yeah, landed and

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, okay, cool, I'm right here LaGuardia. Manhat

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Speaker 1: ain't you know quick over? You know about another one

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars just in an uber. It took me from

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Speaker 1: about to be really ignorant and say this. I thought

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Speaker 1: I thought the tolls. I thought the congestion pricing was

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Speaker 1: keeping the poores out. Oh no, that's what because they

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Speaker 1: were complaining about it the civilians. Okay, I said, I

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Speaker 1: it said, manheb was just clear. Everybody was just driving through.

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Speaker 2: So I was like driving through Jersey to the New

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Speaker 2: there a lot of trucks?

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Speaker 1: No, it was cars. It was vehicles.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, when I say poors, I don't

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Speaker 1: mean that, but I do mean civilians. But I wanted

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Speaker 1: to sound like the Republicans that are currently talking about

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Speaker 1: everyone not getting goddamn stat benefits. Don't do me. No,

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Speaker 1: we're not gonna go.

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Speaker 4: It's the economics of convenience.

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Speaker 1: Did you just say, Mandy Taylor Green, I will kick

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Speaker 4: Was I was trying too. It'll go over head.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I will.

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Speaker 3: You know what, No, But it's the economics of convenience.

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Speaker 3: It don't matter if you're poor, rich traveling New York City.

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Speaker 3: You just gonna make an executive decision like, yo, I

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Speaker 3: need to get to where I need to go on

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you, mndamy, do what you do.

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Speaker 1: I'm taking the bus next time I land. Because that

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Speaker 1: motherfucking ninety fold all of uber. I was like, yeah, nommy,

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Speaker 1: get this, Get them buses to be free, and you, hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: hold on, and if y'all see me on them goddamn.

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Speaker 4: Bus, don't judge.

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Speaker 1: Shut your goddamn because you know what, Like I just

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Speaker 1: left here, but I still come up here quite off

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Speaker 1: and I get on the train. Do you know how

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Speaker 1: many fucking podcast listeners are like, who didn't they? I

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Speaker 1: see you on the truck?

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Speaker 4: What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: What is it gonna be? Listen? Look, I mean I

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Speaker 1: say things like don't I just said him, a dimmy.

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Speaker 2: I've took the bus in a minute, but.

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Speaker 1: Morning taking I got well, I did take a bus.

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Speaker 1: Which which concert was it coming from? No, it was

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Speaker 1: coming from Jersey back into Pensation.

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Speaker 4: That's not I'm talking about the letters.

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Speaker 3: The letter trains bus from Jersey to that's more luxury.

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Speaker 4: That's like a coach boys, that's like going great.

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Speaker 1: It's like they had their little plugs to charge my phone.

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Speaker 1: Say good, because I'm trying to party after this, you know,

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Speaker 1: you know, but yeah, the government shut down is crazy.

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Speaker 1: I am gonna sound even more ignorant real quick, because

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Speaker 1: while I while I don't want the Democrats to concede,

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Speaker 1: but it was some politician and he was talking about

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Speaker 1: wanting the Democrats to concede and because and his reasoning

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Speaker 5: And I was like whoa, whoa, who woo whoa, Like no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 5: and he's just saying we could get it right then,

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Speaker 5: Oh no, baby, let's not give them any power.

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Speaker 1: Al think that we just gonna fall over to them,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know it.

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Speaker 3: Was, I understand it, but I think there's you got

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Speaker 1: Who has momentum? Democrats, Well, that's the thing, But it's

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Speaker 1: only eight niggas. Bro. The Republicans control to sit at

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Speaker 1: the Supreme Court, the White Earth, they control everything. And

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Speaker 1: it's the Democrats told us, bro, it's eight niggas, It's

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Speaker 1: eight all yeah. And so I'm actually glad that these

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Speaker 1: go to DR. I'm supposed to be going to DR

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Speaker 1: and then Dallas for Thanksgiving. So I'm hoping that there's

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Speaker 1: because they talk about canceling flights and I.

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Speaker 3: Need to get three days before I need to.

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Speaker 1: Get some sun and I'm supposed to be cooking the

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Speaker 1: call agreens, so I want to do both. I don't

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Speaker 1: like your little I cut the call of Greens every well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: to the Thanksgiving Day episode and y'all, y'all, y'all might

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Speaker 1: niggas be over there looking at the YouTube numbers. Maybe

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Speaker 1: according to Black Effect, our numbers have jumped by thirty

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Speaker 1: one point four percent. Okay, we is going up, up

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Speaker 1: enjoying the show. But I wanted to talk to both

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Speaker 1: How has it been to have all of that flooded

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, you gotta be more petty. So when you

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Speaker 4: At I'd be like, yeah, let me see.

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Speaker 1: They always ugly, they got selfie.

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Speaker 2: A lot of them have a Bible quote.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, you know it all what y'are

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Speaker 1: have r I P. Somebody say it says r I P. Tommy,

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Speaker 1: I'm responding Tommy would be rolling in his brave right now.

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Speaker 3: See it.

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Speaker 1: This is how you spend in your life. He should

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Speaker 2: You found us listen and do.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, like so how is it like you say,

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Speaker 3: I'm just careful and conscious of I try to be

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Speaker 3: measured in my reaction because it's.

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Speaker 4: Easy to react.

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Speaker 3: It is like way, I'm like, yo, really you don't

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Speaker 4: They chime and they see.

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Speaker 3: My thing is you're here, You're you're spending time commenting,

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Speaker 3: so you must fuck with it, right, But I think

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Speaker 3: it's fascination and a lot of it's not personal amongst

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Speaker 3: And you know, I see the discourse amongst the comments

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Speaker 3: Yo, boy, wonder they're trying to trigger him, like what

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Speaker 4: What I do? Man?

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Speaker 4: Man, do you see I gotta see the clips you

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Speaker 4: I was like, one person that saw that is a creep.

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Speaker 2: Yo, But that experience, I understand what. I understand why

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Speaker 4: Like, it's a lot.

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Speaker 3: The four Agreements, one of them says don't take nothing personal.

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Speaker 4: With this this digital space too. Oh okay, because people

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Speaker 3: Any kind of way they do, and depending on who

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Speaker 3: So it's like what's to say with somebody like, yo,

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Speaker 4: Do you think I feel like it's people, That's what

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Speaker 1: Well no, no, no, no, but that's the thing. No, No,

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Speaker 1: Well, there's a few that's gone viral. So the Glasses

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Speaker 4: It's just that we are doing this professionally. We talk

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of good ones, even if I disagree

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Speaker 1: Thet I wasn't.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't even looking at their opinions. When people will

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Speaker 1: It's good now, it's good now. It was a remake.

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Speaker 4: Remakes. Yeah, yeah, do you see.

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Speaker 1: real stories, and so if you watch documentaries, if you

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00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 1: watch things like that, you can't really spoil it because

436
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 1: these are based on true stories, and I guess we'll

437
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 1: start with the first one that I've seen the most

438
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 1: people talk about online and even in person. I was

439
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: my homeboy hit me up, I think one night to

440
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 1: go to Magic City, and I was like, Man, I'm

441
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 1: in the house tonight watching his dog balling my eyes out.

442
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 1: Immediately he said that doc about the neighbor already knew

443
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: what I was talking about. So y'all, there's a Netflix

444
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 1: documentary out right now called The Perfect Neighbor, called The

445
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 1: Perfect Neighbor, and it's basically a story that was vividly caught. Also,

446
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: by the way, there's really no interviews, no reenactments. It's

447
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: all told through the bodycams of the police people who

448
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: kept getting called and having to deal with this. But basically,

449
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 1: Karen moved into the neighborhood and kept complaining about the

450
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:57,159
Speaker 1: kids playing in her yard and tspassing and trespassing on

451
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 1: mind you, the bitch was a renter. It wasn't even

452
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 1: heard her property essentially, and basically, after numerous, numerous, numerous

453
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: calls for disturbing the peace, which is what the kids

454
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 1: were doing, she ended up shooting through her door and

455
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 1: killing one of the mothers and you again, you just

456
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: got to see all of it. It was heartbreaking. I

457
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: think for me, it took me back to my childhood,

458
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: looking at the houses, looking at the street I grew

459
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 1: up in. You know, I'm from the nineties, which we

460
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: was outside. You know, we played in the yards like

461
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 1: that's literally what kids did. So to see that they

462
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: were even I didn't know kids still went outside. I

463
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: thought they was on iPads and shit now, So to

464
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,199
Speaker 1: see that they were literally just doing what I did,

465
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,639
Speaker 1: and to know that they experienced this tragic loss, it

466
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: was heartbreaking. I know that. And I want to ask y'all,

467
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 1: and my question for bringing this up is I watched

468
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,919
Speaker 1: it knowing what the ending was going to be. Yeah,

469
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: and there's so many people that continue to say that

470
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Speaker 1: we don't want to keep seeing these tragic stories, specifically

471
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Speaker 1: within our community.

472
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,719
Speaker 4: Okay, how do we not?

473
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 3: If we don't care about it, we'll never know or

474
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: have any reasoning. Is to first of all the community

475
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 3: that that that they lived that this environment.

476
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: You Marion County, I'm Orange County, So this so what

477
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:15,880
Speaker 1: wasn't far away?

478
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 3: What was the demographic of people that lived in your

479
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 3: community when you were grown up there.

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Speaker 1: That's that's the thing. Very mixed, like we had the

481
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 1: Puerto Rican family across the street, we had the cat

482
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Speaker 1: lady next door, we had the white we had a

483
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: white family, we had blacks. We had mixed. Like I'm

484
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 1: from Orlando, so very an blue collar, blue collar, but

485
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 1: a mix like white people, black people, Puerto Ricans, Mexicans, Jamaican's, Haitians.

486
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: Like my school, My my neighborhood was filled with everyone,

487
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 1: but very blue collar, middle class. My house was Section eight,

488
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 1: so I'm sure there were Section eight homes in the neighborhood.

489
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Speaker 4: Type type ship.

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Speaker 3: So I say that to say, like her mentality, you know,

491
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Speaker 3: her being the suspect shooting through the doors.

492
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 4: She don't like.

493
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 3: She didn't like her neighbors anyway, no care for black

494
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 3: and brown people, and that.

495
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 4: Was just her way of like, ah got them finally.

496
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 1: And to be fair, it's interesting because of course we

497
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: consider Florida a state of its own right. It's not

498
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: considered the.

499
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 2: It's the island of about in the United States.

500
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 1: Florida, the staten island of the United States, is nuts.

501
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 4: It's not no, No, I.

502
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: Wouldn't go that far. I wouldn't go that far. It literally,

503
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: but it's not considered the South right, So a lot

504
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:42,239
Speaker 1: of people don't realize or are aware of the racism

505
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: that is down there. Like a lot of people assume

506
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: that it's just Latina, but even Miami is all Latinas essentially,

507
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 1: like or.

508
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:57,120
Speaker 2: You have yournations in South Beach, South Beach and.

509
00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: Baby no, like you have very day the crackers crack, crack,

510
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 1: maybe cracking down up And so to watch this was

511
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 1: really sad. I will say, I love that justice essentially

512
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 1: was served, she was given time. And if you haven't

513
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 1: seen it yet, it was just shot so beautiful.

514
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: Can I talk a little bit like it's tragic? So

515
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 2: it's all body cam footage like you said.

516
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 1: And Ajika Owens, I'm sorry. It's her name.

517
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 2: That's the woman who got shot, who got shot and

518
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 2: killed by a white women, And the title of it

519
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 2: is that that's the neighbor. She referred to herself as

520
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 2: the perfect neighbor. She kept calling police over and over here.

521
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 2: And I think what's so tragic about it is like

522
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 2: it's it's it's it's over a long time, right, It's

523
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: not like static, It's like it's.

524
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: Like ten ten or eleven months, like almost a year where.

525
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 2: She keeps calling, and she keeps calling, and like you

526
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 2: just see like the dissolution of like I don't even

527
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 2: say it was like a real relationship, but like you know,

528
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 2: like her relationship to the community just keeps on like

529
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 2: the vault, like dissolving, dissolving. Police you can see that

530
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: they're not on her side. No, they show up and

531
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 2: they go to the neighbors like like we're gonna handle this,

532
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 2: We're gonna go talk to them.

533
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: They're their kids, like their kids.

534
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 2: Their kids playing in grass, and you can see they're

535
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 2: good kids. Even when the cops come, they the kids,

536
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 2: even though like you're coming again, you're coming again for

537
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 2: this woman and then that woman, Like when you said

538
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 2: it took it back to childhood, I thought you did say,

539
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 2: Like I had a neighbor like that who was like

540
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 2: just the one off woman who was like probably divorced,

541
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 2: living in the wrong community, and she just holds themselves

542
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 2: up so much higher than everybody else, so everything is

543
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: like to their inconvenience when like you keep saying, they're

544
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: just kids.

545
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 1: For me, I saw my childhood. Yeah, like when I

546
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: watched it, like and again, it's because even seeing the

547
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: police cars come like Mary County eate part way, Like

548
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,959
Speaker 1: you know, it looks like they all look like the

549
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 1: state patrol cards and the houses look the same even

550
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: though they were duplexes. I was like, this is so reminiscent,

551
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 1: and I just I broke down right, meaning I could

552
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: have had that experience absolutely, And it was so crazy

553
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: just seeing the father having to share that their mom

554
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 1: wasn't coming back.

555
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 2: Oh I don't want to, by the way, and the

556
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 2: tragic the police said, if she if she meaning the neighbor,

557
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: if she's bothering y'all, this is what the police say

558
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 2: to the kids. They're not saying this to the woman

559
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 2: who keeps calling. If she keeps bothering, y'all, just go

560
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 2: and tell your parents.

561
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: So yeah, that was the thing, and went to the door.

562
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 2: And on some bit ship she shot at her door.

563
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: What is your take on the kids. I thought the

564
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 2: kids were like super sweet.

565
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: I know the kids were kids.

566
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 2: They were really measured and like for this to keep

567
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 2: happening all the time, Like even though way they said

568
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,959
Speaker 2: Karen wasn't like yeah, they didn't have the bite. It

569
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 2: was just a matter of fact, like, oh she's a Karen.

570
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, And and of course So this took place in

571
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three, which is when Karen started coming out,

572
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: especially around BLM, and when you know, we started seeing

573
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: that start happening. You know, I feel bad at this

574
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: point for any white woman named Karen. Ain't who ain't

575
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: doing the Karen ship. Now, if you are a white

576
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: woman named Karen doing Karens ship, fuck you.

577
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: If you knew a Karen, I think Karen, I would change.

578
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: I would change my name of this.

579
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 4: I would.

580
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: That is a name that needs to be changed because

581
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: if I'm a child, I ain't even hiring a white

582
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: woman named Karen.

583
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 4: If you're a good white took key, so they probably

584
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 4: would hire.

585
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: They would hide. Can I'm saying I ain't hiring a Karen.

586
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 2: If I was a good white and my name was Karen,

587
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 2: I was a woman, I would. I would change it.

588
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: I would change.

589
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 4: Would you doom or no?

590
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: I talk about my middle name?

591
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 4: Would you at least give them one zoom meeting just

592
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 4: a pre precursor.

593
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 1: Zoom meeting is either you could change your name, go

594
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: by your middle name. Bitch, don't get on that bitch

595
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: called Karen. Don't do it. Don't do it. By the way,

596
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: I do know a few good karts. I'm just saying

597
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: that because I know a few good ones, all right,

598
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: But I'm about to maybe tell them they.

599
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: Should be going about the middle name. That's a lightlift

600
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: light left.

601
00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: Lightlift, lightlift. So the second doc which I.

602
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 2: Have conclusion of it, but she's in jail. She's in jail, Yeah,

603
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 2: twenty five years. But she's trying to sue the children

604
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 2: of the mom, which is the defamation.

605
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: Second that's like, okay, hold on, hold on, you're giving

606
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: me the news.

607
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, the woman that's like as of like this, the

608
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 2: woman in jailah the chart. Even Susan, by the way,

609
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 2: which not.

610
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 4: I think Susan's defense Susan.

611
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: Susan's Susan listening here, Susan, if you're listening, you got

612
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 2: six months to make a decision.

613
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna no, no, no, I'm not gonna lie.

614
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: Sun karens those are those can only be white names

615
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 1: kind of.

616
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 2: But do you know black Susan?

617
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 4: Yes, do you do do.

618
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 2: A black Susan?

619
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: Probably eighty?

620
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, But is she Caribbean? Dallas his wife is, but

621
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 4: she's far from Karen Susan.

622
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 2: I don't think Susan blacks Susan.

623
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 4: Is close to Karen.

624
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. That's why I think you have

625
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 2: you have time. You have to make it up.

626
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 4: You're thinking, you guys, how much six months?

627
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 2: You got six months, so that might be the next

628
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 2: by midterms, you gotta change.

629
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: That's going to be the spicy one.

630
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, su Karen, that is crazy.

631
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 2: This Karen did, not Susan.

632
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: She's suing threatening, she's threatening your children for defamation deformation

633
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: because of the documentary.

634
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 4: But how all the kids now what stages.

635
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: They're also under? So this is places twenty twenty three.

636
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: In twenty twenty three, it was the main kid was ten.

637
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 4: So she just putting a gag on them, like shut

638
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 4: the fuck up, No, no, no.

639
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: Probably what what money do these children?

640
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 4: She shot a mom, that's okay.

641
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 2: She she wants to shut it down.

642
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: Listen. She thought she was running shit. Y'all saw her

643
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: in that goddamn confession room, like no, she's not gonna

644
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 1: go with you.

645
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 2: She didn't even testify.

646
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 4: I see that.

647
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 2: She was like like righteous anger. She felt right, didn't

648
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 2: even have to fun.

649
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 4: So that means she thought that she was above the law.

650
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: She didn't think no, no, she well here's the thing

651
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 1: about Florida, which is what you've all learned, especially.

652
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: With stand Yeah, I have a statistic, Yes, give me

653
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 2: the statistics. So a twenty thirteen Department of Justice study

654
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 2: on standard ground laws specifically in Florida, found that white

655
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Speaker 2: on black homicides, which is what happened here, were more

656
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Speaker 2: likely to be rule justified because of the seven percent

657
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Speaker 2: versus black on white homicides, which were least likely be

658
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Speaker 2: justified one to Oh shit.

659
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Speaker 1: Wow, I'd like to see because because of where we're

660
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Speaker 1: at now, I mean systemically, I think racism is a

661
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Speaker 1: lot more in our face, and.

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Speaker 4: So this is a sophisticated racism.

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Speaker 1: Well this is a twelve year old stat right, but

664
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Speaker 1: with what we're seeing now, especially with Trump having already

665
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Speaker 1: served in office, this is a stat before he served

666
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Speaker 1: his first term, and then now what he's in now,

667
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Speaker 1: I would predict that those numbers would I would predict

668
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Speaker 1: that those numbers would go up. The next documentary was

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Speaker 1: really interesting and had me in a lot of thoughts.

670
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Speaker 1: So Eileen Queen of serial Killers, she is actually only

671
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Speaker 1: the third. She was recorded as the third person in

672
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Speaker 1: the state of Florida to receive the death penalty. She

673
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: was a sex worker who did endure a lot of

674
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Speaker 1: traumatic childhood experiences. So she left home at fourteen years

675
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Speaker 1: old and got right onto the streets, and you're kind

676
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Speaker 1: of introduced into her childhood. She was raised by adoptive

677
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: parents after her her mom died of an illness, and

678
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Speaker 1: she goes straight into the streets for survival, and she

679
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Speaker 1: pretty much talks about being raped sexually assaulted in excess

680
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Speaker 1: of thirty times while being a sex worker, and essentially

681
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Speaker 1: she ends up in a lesbian relationship. This is important

682
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Speaker 1: in the doc because a lot of people assume that

683
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Speaker 1: this person is actually responsible for why the crimes began.

684
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Speaker 1: But she buys a gun, which is legal in the

685
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Speaker 1: stay of Florida, to protect yourself. And in the first

686
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Speaker 1: killing that she did, she murders a guy who was

687
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Speaker 1: brutally assaulting her, and she shares those details on the

688
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Speaker 1: stand and pretty much goes into no one else is

689
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Speaker 1: going to do this to me again, and she ends

690
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Speaker 1: up killing about seven men. They are all white, middle aged.

691
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Speaker 1: By the way they say middle age, these niggas look oh,

692
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Speaker 1: but I know, white cracks a little different. They all

693
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Speaker 1: looked about sixty five years old and I'm like, we're

694
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Speaker 1: calling sixty five middle aged, but they were all seven

695
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Speaker 1: middle aged white men, and Florida failed her. The justice

696
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Speaker 1: system failed her. I think it's what I've said if

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Speaker 1: you listen to my take about even what's happened in

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Speaker 1: the Dutty case. In terms of sex workers, there's just

699
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Speaker 1: literally no empathy, no sympathy, no humanizing of someone who

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Speaker 1: goes into that line of work for survival. And it's

701
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Speaker 1: set and it's pretty much what you see in this documentary.

702
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Speaker 1: It was interesting because once she got on death row,

703
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Speaker 1: she sits with a journalist and starts saying it was

704
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Speaker 1: a little tricky, like one guy, she just ended up

705
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Speaker 1: shooting him just because. And I was like, oh, girl,

706
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: now you're losing me, bitch, you're losing me because I'm

707
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,399
Speaker 1: fine with and I say it all the time, if

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Speaker 1: you are a rapist or a pedophile, you could be

709
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Speaker 1: under the ground for all I give a goddamn you

710
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Speaker 1: know what I mean. And so yeah, by the way,

711
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Speaker 1: her name is Eileen Warnos. She did admit to killing

712
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Speaker 1: these men, but essentially she was given the death penalty.

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Speaker 1: And I want to add to this, sex worker killed

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Speaker 1: seven men receive the death penalty unanimously. Yeah, y'all. Ted

715
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Speaker 1: Bundy did not receive the death penalty. There are numerous

716
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Speaker 1: other serial killers that were tried in the state of

717
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Speaker 1: Florida and did not receive the death penalty, and Ted

718
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Speaker 1: Bundy being a big one, there's other one, and I

719
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 1: wish I would have looked it up. But from Oklahoma

720
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Speaker 1: was yeah, well, and Dahmer wasn't in Florida, but I

721
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Speaker 1: didn't want to bring it. But Dahmer, I don't even

722
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Speaker 1: think received the death penalty.

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Speaker 2: Did he.

724
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Speaker 4: Let's see.

725
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Speaker 1: I think the Zodiac killer may, but there hasn't been many.

726
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: Like they're just they get to live the rest of

727
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Speaker 1: their life until they die old, right, you know what

728
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 1: I mean? And so she got just a really really

729
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Speaker 1: harsh sentence, and I feel like it was because the

730
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Speaker 1: prosecutor saw himself in a lot of the victims. Also,

731
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Speaker 1: to share with you guys, they decided to overlook the

732
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Speaker 1: fact that the first man she killed had a record

733
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Speaker 1: of brutally assaulting and raping other women and he was

734
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 1: on the loose. There's a psychological report that literally said

735
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: he would be a harm to the community, and he

736
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: was still able to come out and do those things.

737
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Speaker 1: So I ain't got no sympathy for that nigga or

738
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Speaker 1: the other ones, but there was one.

739
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 2: That she said she was interesting I felt. And by

740
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 2: the way, she's the woman that they based that movie

741
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:08,399
Speaker 2: Monster on with at least down I felt uncomfortable watching it,

742
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 2: just a I wanted to ask you about you like

743
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: mad Trauma, Like mad trauma. She was born in Detroit,

744
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,879
Speaker 2: like man trauma, before she even got the Florida, before

745
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 2: she got when she got to Florida Mad trauma. But

746
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 2: then like she's almost like like like there's equal like

747
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 2: people putting her down, but then there's some like pedestaling.

748
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 2: It feels like with it, like.

749
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 1: Where have you seen pedestaling? Because what I found interesting

750
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 1: was because she wasn't.

751
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Speaker 2: Beautiful in the movie.

752
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: But because she wasn't beautiful, I think that and we

753
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: see that with criminals too. It's what we saw with

754
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 1: Tim Buddy. They thought he was so fine. Like, let's

755
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 1: be very clearis that's Luigi? Oh, I go hold you?

756
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: Them niggas that sold the Loop? Hey them man that

757
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 1: rode the loop? Baby, did y'all see the song that

758
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: was no, Oh my God, I'm gonna find it and

759
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: enter it? Here because it was so funny. He yeah,

760
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: I just wanted to make sure that was included. So

761
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 1: cute this gay guy was like, maybe they could come

762
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 1: ribe me, come break me all the things ironically too,

763
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Speaker 1: And no, no, no, I'm not sure if it was true.

764
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: But did you see that they said that the password

765
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Speaker 1: to get into the louver? Yeah was loop literally Brodie,

766
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: people be dumb out here, bruh. Anyways, I felt like

767
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:35,240
Speaker 1: she wasn't pedestaled or anything like that because she wasn't

768
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Speaker 1: naturally beautiful.

769
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Speaker 2: Maybe I felt like the filmmaker like when they were

770
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Speaker 2: showing like her talking to reporters, like they were so

771
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 2: happy to be speaking with her, and like even taking

772
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Speaker 2: pictures with her before the interview, like it was it

773
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Speaker 2: was just interesting.

774
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Speaker 1: Well because it was complex. Well, this took place in

775
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Speaker 1: the nineties. I believe she was tried in like ninety

776
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Speaker 1: three or something like that. But if we think about

777
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: it too, this was around the time that serial killers

778
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,919
Speaker 1: became like maybe twenty years prior is when the word

779
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 1: serial killer even became a thing. So people, are you.

780
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Speaker 2: Know, I've just clipped her in sixty minutes that I

781
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 2: wanted to play okay, because you said something about her

782
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: like the system failing her. And she kind of talks

783
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 2: about that in this interview, like she she was really

784
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 2: well a feelings.

785
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: Yes, and not to not to sound that, but if

786
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: you saw what she looked like, knowing she left school early,

787
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: her teeth, knowing she was in the streets. Ye, she

788
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: she could speak like she she could she communicated herself.

789
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 2: Well, this is a clip where they asked her like

790
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Speaker 2: if she hates men, but and that's a simple question,

791
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,919
Speaker 2: but she takes it further about that's not a good question,

792
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 2: by the way. Okay, do you hate It's been a

793
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 2: well worn question, it's been asked, yes, but she takes

794
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:52,320
Speaker 2: the answer somewhere different.

795
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: Okay, let me hear this.

796
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Speaker 6: Do you feel anger or even hatred towards men?

797
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: I never hated men, but now I do.

798
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Speaker 2: I mean not all.

799
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 1: I have a category.

800
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: I hate those mail God, I hate those I'm blanking.

801
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: Real bad because.

802
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 7: They're dirt balls.

803
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 8: The cops, the judges, lawyers.

804
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:19,439
Speaker 1: They're all male.

805
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 7: I have made peace with my Lord and I have

806
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 7: asked forgiveness.

807
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 6: And this already mad tale was when Lee one also

808
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Speaker 6: decided to plead no contest to the remaining six murder charges.

809
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Speaker 2: Sentence you in case number ninety one, that's four sixty

810
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Speaker 2: three to death for the murder of Troy Burris.

811
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Speaker 6: For lawyer Steve Glazier found himself in the bizarre position

812
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Speaker 6: of helping his client take the express root.

813
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Speaker 2: Because she was a matter of fact like she did it.

814
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Speaker 1: So she said she hated the cops, lawyer, and in

815
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: the documentary, of course, she hated that men had.

816
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 2: Treated her the way and didn't protect her as well.

817
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at her feeling that way. I think

818
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: she's valid in her feelings, and I think, to be fair,

819
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,759
Speaker 1: there's a lot of women. I mean, I want to

820
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: be I don't want to be the one to say it.

821
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: But y'all saw the article going around the internet, right,

822
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:23,320
Speaker 1: that's now embarrassing to have a boyfriend. Y'all see it?

823
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 1: Tell me you so. I think it's on Vogue of

824
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 1: a riot or something, But there's an article that people

825
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: are responding to that says it is now embarrassing to

826
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend.

827
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 2: Vogue and having a boyfriend embarrassing.

828
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 1: And the conversation is that, like what is being offered

829
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: is the bare minimum, and it's that these niggas will

830
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: try you and so there's also a lot of studies

831
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 1: saying that women are staying single longer and choosing themselves

832
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: over men. Listen, or or they're pushing them to be lesbian.

833
00:41:56,440 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 1: Look and listen. I don't want to blame men for

834
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: being lesbians, because I do believe you could be born gay, right,

835
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:04,760
Speaker 1: and gay is lesbian?

836
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 4: Lesbian have a desire for another woman.

837
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: Oh, I ain't gonna hold you. I I have friends

838
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: now that are like, they'll try women at this point.

839
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: So they weren't they weren't, they weren't gay. But because

840
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 1: men is so tragic, trash, tragic, embarrassing.

841
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 4: I mean, so women and women relationships is a slam dunk.

842
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: I mean to me women, No, No, there's absolutely toxic women.

843
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 1: I do there are sic.

844
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 4: The worst thing is with men.

845
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 2: It's not the toxic men. It's like with Insecure when

846
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 2: I remember she said, like, you think you're one of

847
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: the good ones to homeboy what.

848
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 4: Was his name?

849
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:51,240
Speaker 2: Raised boyfriend and Insecure were the blue best boy shirt. Oh,

850
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 2: Lawrence Laurence. Yeah, remember when when he left ray and

851
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: he dated the next girl, right, and he seemed to

852
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 2: have his ship together, but he ended up leading her

853
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 2: on anyway, and she called him out and she's like,

854
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 2: you're worse than like the toxic man because you think

855
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,360
Speaker 2: that you're a good one. And then she, you know,

856
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 2: she's let's.

857
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: Be very clear, but everybody, no, men don't think they're

858
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 1: the problem at all point at all. And there is

859
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: a problem.

860
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 4: There is a problem, maybe because y'all.

861
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: Are talking to women on podcasts and talking to each other.

862
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm gonna.

863
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,719
Speaker 4: Say that to each other, but the wrong each other's.

864
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 2: Single man talk to single man talking single should talk

865
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 2: to man, talking to the wrong people. Married man talk

866
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 2: to married man, and single man talk to single man.

867
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Speaker 4: Married man should be talking to single man. A great experience.

868
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 3: People who we can't have conversations with people who don't

869
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 3: have the Lirics living experience. That's why when we do

870
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 3: therapy we go to them because they have the lived

871
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 3: experience in perspective. But if we just talking to the

872
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 3: homies about real ship and he just mad that bitch,

873
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 3: that's it.

874
00:43:52,400 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: But even then, okay, hold on, good ignorant, take care, no, no, no,

875
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: it mayby married niggas is the best side niggas. What

876
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: are you talking about married men or historically? But make

877
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 1: them good and they still have all the.

878
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:13,720
Speaker 4: Side family members.

879
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 3: We all have family members who I have an uncle

880
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 3: and even to this day rest in peace.

881
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 4: I was like, how was he able to have a

882
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 4: beautiful wife?

883
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,319
Speaker 3: But he also and it was it was a lot

884
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,760
Speaker 3: of funny dynamics going on, but he always made sure.

885
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 3: He always made sure that he kept his nose clean

886
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 3: in spite of all of us knowing his ship. But

887
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 3: it wasn't like it was kind of if you know that,

888
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 3: I'm your point. I'm like, perspective, right, Maybe he was

889
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 3: just participating in satisfying two women at the same time and.

890
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: Arrangement arrangement did the wife ain't no bad, but he

891
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,919
Speaker 1: was seeking arrangements or back in the day, actually.

892
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 3: He's contributing to the better of society because one of

893
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 3: the women don't have to now have the experiences.

894
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 2: He's a good run, my brother.

895
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 4: I'm just saying maybe that. I'm not saying, I'm not

896
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 4: why why did Why was that?

897
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 3: Because both of them, I mean, the wife was stressed out,

898
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 3: you know, throughout the process obviously, but the other one

899
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 3: she was.

900
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: Was because she was in she was delusional, but they

901
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: always making it.

902
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 4: Was No, I'm not saying I agree. I'm just saying

903
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 4: that you just said that.

904
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 1: You just said, Mary nigh. Either they make the best

905
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 1: way I can't.

906
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 4: I can't take that, but they make the best what.

907
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:36,760
Speaker 2: I don't know if if you.

908
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 4: Noticed she said married man may.

909
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,760
Speaker 2: Explain because a cover.

910
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. So this is what I'm saying, second wife, No,

911
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 1: you don't not all the time. First off, not all

912
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: these married men got Mayweather money. Okay, there are a

913
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: lot of blue collar married niggas out here cheating still

914
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 1: and the side chick just get time so they might

915
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: get the day before.

916
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 4: What's the benefit of a married dating a married man.

917
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 4: That sounds crazy.

918
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: No, you're ready. Some some women just want attention. It's

919
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: not even no, it's not even a king. Let's be

920
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 1: very clear. There's benefits if the man has money and

921
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: the man is a trick cool, But there are a

922
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 1: lot of women who just want to be in a

923
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 1: relationship and are they go.

924
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 4: To him because he knows he has and are.

925
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:26,760
Speaker 1: Willing to share a man who.

926
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 4: Has somewhat of an idea of what that.

927
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 1: Not even some idea. It could be the dick. It

928
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: could be that he comes over and gives time. He

929
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,720
Speaker 1: does I have a friend right now who is literally

930
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 1: dating a married man and literally dating a nigga who

931
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: just got engaged.

932
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 4: So maybe we need to reimagine polyN.

933
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I've the solution is that no one

934
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 1: is is honest, that they're not not a blog.

935
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 2: I think I think men lie a lot, right, If

936
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 2: you're married, you're not lying. You can't lie right, like

937
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 2: you have the ring on, right, so you can't lie.

938
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 2: And I think at least that a woman knows what

939
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: she's getting into this. This is my suspicion for why

940
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 2: women do it. But to real it back into the

941
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 2: main point about why single men should talk to married men. Yeah,

942
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: marriage is dope. I'm married, I'm almost married ten years.

943
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 2: Marriage is dope, but super fulfilling. It's hard as fun.

944
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 2: But I think that single men, just when single men

945
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 2: talk to single men about marriage, they wallow in the

946
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 2: cliches of like, ye, you know, I'm clamped down, complaints

947
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 2: rights and that, and not thinking about all the like

948
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 2: fulfilling and like the love aspect.

949
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: She could always just cheat, right, there's that too, but

950
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: I'm not playing with y'all. Anyways, let's get into celebrities

951
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 1: say the darnis things, and you know what, based on

952
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: like this last topic of Eileen, I want to just

953
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,959
Speaker 1: go ahead and start with a clip that I saw.

954
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: By the way, this is one of my favorite whites.

955
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:55,479
Speaker 1: I don't have many, but and he's actually problematic because

956
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 1: I think he's the right way. Okay, listen, I don't

957
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 1: say Jason he's white right wing ad Jason. He is.

958
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: Of course he is bro He is a fucking mullet.

959
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: I can't expect much from him. He has a fucking mullet. Okay,

960
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: now I'm talking about podcaster and he is. I'm gonna

961
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: take the politics out of it. I think if I

962
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: was a white man, I would be probably Theovanne with

963
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: the way I think and talk and what I like.

964
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: He's funny though.

965
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 2: The reason why people get stuck on him is like,

966
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 2: you know, he like he had Donald Trump on his podcast,

967
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 2: but instead of like leaning into like the like cliche

968
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 2: like asking Trump shit, he has Trump about addiction because

969
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,720
Speaker 2: that happened in his family. Trump is famously like clean,

970
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 2: doesn't drink, doesn't do drugs, and so yeah, and so

971
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 2: Theovonn actually got he showed Trump in a different light,

972
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 2: and so people were kind of confused where like are

973
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 2: you right leaning or but like you seem human and sympathetic,

974
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 2: And so that's why a lot of people are on

975
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 2: the fence with Theovonne.

976
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,320
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not on the fence. I don't listen.

977
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 2: That's but it's still people are like, that's.

978
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: A white that I like. Okay, it just is what

979
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: it is. Play this clip and we're gonna have a

980
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: little bit fun here, and celebrities say the darnist things.

981
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 8: The one reason why women like true crime and like

982
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 8: murder or murder mystery, yeah, is because at least a

983
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 8: man's committing at least that this guy's gonna kill me, go.

984
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 4: All the way and it's committment, right, That's why. That's

985
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:27,720
Speaker 4: why women want commitment.

986
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 8: So it's like, oh, this guy is at least willing

987
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,399
Speaker 8: to actually kill me instead of some fucking pussy ass

988
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 8: guy who comes by and just kind of stabs me

989
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:37,320
Speaker 8: and pokes me and makes me get my nails includer

990
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 8: shade of all this stuff just to waste my time.

991
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,919
Speaker 8: At least this fucking decent man is gonna come over

992
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 8: here and committed to fucking crime and committed to This.

993
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 2: Reminds me of the glasses take like I don't know,

994
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 2: but a.

995
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 1: Well thought out it is a well thought out take.

996
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: That is not why women like true crime. I will

997
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 1: tell you that. No, that's nuts. No, no, no, it's it is.

998
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 1: Let's be very clear. Women are like no.

999
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 2: Ghosting, like you're getting the full You're getting the relationship

1000
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:10,760
Speaker 2: full completion.

1001
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 1: However, however, it's just the poke holes at that theory.

1002
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:19,919
Speaker 1: One of the most popular true crime things that most

1003
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 1: women that I know are addicted to is Snapped. Now,

1004
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 1: snapped did come later, But I do blame when I

1005
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: talk to my mama. My youngest sister were seven years apart,

1006
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:34,280
Speaker 1: and so I was at the house she was still

1007
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: but my mom and her are really close, and the

1008
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 1: way that she thinks about dating and men, I have

1009
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: to blame Goddamn Lifetime. And Lifetime wasn't true crime, but

1010
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: it was fiction stories often where the man goes psycho

1011
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 1: and tries to kill the goddamn fan. The men are

1012
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:56,919
Speaker 1: always the villain on Lifetime, and they created a whole

1013
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 1: channel where they villainized men for decades and we watched

1014
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:05,919
Speaker 1: that as entertainment, and I'm like, that probably did as

1015
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 1: much harm to how they say, like hip hop did

1016
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: tar community in the movie and the lyrics and movies

1017
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 1: and all that. Bro, Lifetime did a goddamn number.

1018
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,760
Speaker 2: On what so does a straight line from that Lifetime

1019
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 2: content to this Vogue article?

1020
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, I think so, I really think so. And

1021
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: what else is happening too? And I just talked about

1022
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 1: this on my radio show a couple of weeks ago,

1023
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 1: is that we're in a revolution currently where and listen,

1024
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: it's scary because we now want to platform the patriarchy

1025
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: as women because why the fuck are we all independent?

1026
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 1: This is ghetto ghetto And I actually I have two

1027
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 1: theories that I want to share. Us wanting to be independent.

1028
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 2: Y'all know where it came from.

1029
00:51:56,280 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 1: The recession A nine the music industry. We're going neo

1030
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 1: Destiny's Child Bosie. All of the songs were praising women

1031
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 1: for being independent. We're telling us, oh girl, go be independent,

1032
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: Go be a boss, bitch, have your own things, pay

1033
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 1: your own bills. And guess where I was coming out

1034
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 1: of high school in two thousand and nine. They I

1035
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: was working two three jobs, Like ah, I got my

1036
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 1: old I'm doing this now I did. I was still

1037
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 1: poor and had to ask for some money from some

1038
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 1: niggas from time to time, but it was forcing us

1039
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 1: to be independent.

1040
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:33,879
Speaker 4: Right.

1041
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:36,280
Speaker 1: So now a lot of us are in our mid thirties,

1042
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: late thirties, especially the single ones, a lot of single moms,

1043
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: and it's like, I need these niggas to pay bills.

1044
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: So that's why we're seeing the trend right now of

1045
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: these women asking for goddamn anything four to five dollars.

1046
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 1: I said, they need to ask for more, But it's

1047
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 1: the trend that went online where men are showing all

1048
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,399
Speaker 1: these women ask for money. It's because we don't want

1049
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: to be independent anymore. And so I don't know if

1050
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 1: it was Jimmy Iveen, don't know who we got to

1051
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: blame in the music industry on the back end, but

1052
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 1: somebody pushed this independent narrative that has completely I don't

1053
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:10,720
Speaker 1: know yet. Maybe it was a broke man.

1054
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 4: Who didn't care.

1055
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 1: I think no, no, no, I think it was I think

1056
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: it was a brokeschology that the reverse. I think there

1057
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 1: was a broke nigga saw writer up.

1058
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 3: What was the song the three dudes from from the

1059
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 3: Bronx allarg from us.

1060
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 4: That they might have been the ones. What was the

1061
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 4: name of the song pigeon.

1062
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:38,720
Speaker 1: No pigeon, I don't want no pigeon. Yeah, the remix

1063
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: or whatever. Scrubs scrubs four. No, no, no, no, we're not.

1064
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: We can't blame cheap skate. I am blake. There is

1065
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: a man behind this goddamn tragedy, because why throw back.

1066
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 4: I got a man, I got a man. What your

1067
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:56,879
Speaker 4: man got to do with me was probably.

1068
00:53:56,560 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. That's that's that's how. That's like, like, oh,

1069
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: my little sea cre like bitches have always been hoss

1070
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm talking about I'm talking about I know, I'm talking

1071
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: about the boss saying. I'm talking about the CEO ladies,

1072
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,439
Speaker 1: y'all know. I'm talking about the women that really thought

1073
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: we was doing something about paying our own bill and

1074
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 1: the ghetto.

1075
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 4: There's a lot of so you know boss babes that's

1076
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 4: out here just seeking and I'm like, wow, Wow to

1077
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 4: all of that. You got all the succession, the money.

1078
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 1: Still do I want to spend yours? I don't want

1079
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 1: to pay my bills anymore.

1080
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 4: They don't want to pump gas, they don't want to

1081
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:35,760
Speaker 4: do the ship. I think.

1082
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 3: We got to get back to zero and struggle. I

1083
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 3: think that's when we find out.

1084
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, we just we gotta reverse psychology, y'all.

1085
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: Now we gotta be like, it's so masculine for me

1086
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:50,879
Speaker 1: to pay my own bills. Y'all don't like masculine women.

1087
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 1: So we gotta start turning all this ship, paying our

1088
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 1: own bills, pumping our own gas. It's two masculine ladies.

1089
00:54:57,440 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: We gotta be fake feminine again. Somehow. We gotta tell

1090
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 1: the man we don't want to be masculine. Y'all want femininity, right,

1091
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 1: Oh my god, pay my bills. That's such a masculine duty,

1092
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Not for me.

1093
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 6: Got to hear it.

1094
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we.

1095
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 1: Gotta make it really okay. My other theory and then

1096
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: I want to know if y'all have any theories. My

1097
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: other theory I have is why men play video games.

1098
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: And my theory around men playing video games is because

1099
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 1: it is just another metaverse that y'all can enter. Hear

1100
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 1: me out, men, ladies. I don't know why we didn't

1101
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 1: get God didn't give it to us. But the way

1102
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: that men can have all these different families, they don't

1103
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:49,839
Speaker 1: have to save twenty four hours in a day. They

1104
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 1: live in different worlds. Different universes, and so video games

1105
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: just allows them to get in the other little universe

1106
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 1: that they like to get in. And so men like

1107
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: to like time hop you know the movie with Leonardo DiCaprio.

1108
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 1: It's not a dream for y'all. Exception is real. Y'all

1109
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: get like multiple twenty four hours in the day. Y'all

1110
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,359
Speaker 1: just got to jump through different metaverses. So that's why

1111
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,360
Speaker 1: y'all like video games so much, because it just allows

1112
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:16,360
Speaker 1: y'all to be in a whole nother little metaverse.

1113
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 2: I have a gaming Am I ignorant that I can't

1114
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 2: wait to get you in a.

1115
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 1: Cool well, we're gonna get into that, but that is Yeah,

1116
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 1: that that's my thing. Do y'all have any theories that

1117
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: y'all think at all? And don't take too much time thinking.

1118
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 4: All women m My brother taught me that long.

1119
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:37,000
Speaker 1: Time why all women are knows sorry that we want

1120
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 1: to be educated. Jesus, we want to know things.

1121
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 2: I al would say all women are crazy because all

1122
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 2: men are stupid. And it's the cycle of it.

1123
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not actually gonna breaks all men are stupid, Like, yeah,

1124
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 1: it's breaks, and I'm just gonna let you say it.

1125
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: Because you were man.

1126
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I think that the wait listen if.

1127
00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 4: I said it, I'm a banding women are more mature

1128
00:56:57,719 --> 00:56:59,799
Speaker 4: than Is that part of that? I think?

1129
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 2: So, you know, there's there's a new thing that's happening

1130
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 2: now that families are making their sons start kindergarten a

1131
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:10,439
Speaker 2: year later. So girls will start kindergarten at five, boys

1132
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 2: will start at six. I see that way.

1133
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 1: No, that's not that works, but it's I think it's like, wooted, Now,

1134
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 1: aren't man like ten years behind? This is why ain't

1135
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: got no problem with Dre and all these bitches dating

1136
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 1: these young niggas. There's no problem with that because even

1137
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 1: the old niggas ain't caught up yet. By the way,

1138
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 1: I think they're all the same.

1139
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 2: I think men are dumb because men front.

1140
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: No, I think men stop the front, and they're not.

1141
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 2: Honest with themselves about you.

1142
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: Definitely.

1143
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 2: It's like when we see clips like not to Spoils

1144
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:39,439
Speaker 2: some clip. It's like when you see like like when

1145
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 2: Berg was talking like Cam Newton, and it's like, well,

1146
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:43,479
Speaker 2: that's not You're not gonna have a good conversation about

1147
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 2: relationships talking like Cam new You know what I mean?

1148
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 2: Like Berg was like making some good points, but it's

1149
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: not gonna bounce back right with Cam.

1150
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: Well, let's go ahead and get into Cam because this

1151
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 1: might be And now it's crazy.

1152
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 2: This head clip is Cam and Jason.

1153
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know that there was like different levels to

1154
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 1: petty and I strive to be fifty cent petty, but

1155
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to be Cam Newton Petty. It's messy petty.

1156
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: It's like goofy petty. It's like it's goofy petty. Like

1157
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: fifty cent is like.

1158
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 3: Usually somebody's poking fifty and he's like, oh, you know what,

1159
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna stop.

1160
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: Cam is just like, why are you doing this? Do

1161
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: we want to did you chop up the clip? Because

1162
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: the clip is a little long and you didn't chop

1163
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 1: it up? Okay, So basically, and I'll just I'll go

1164
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: ahead and say it. But I also have the exact

1165
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: list in my notes. So Overview is R and B.

1166
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: Singer Mario sat with Cam Newton on his podcast and

1167
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: they decided to discuss in a game. By the way,

1168
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: this is a game. Kim Newton chose to create a

1169
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: game or maybe one of his producers, but Caim, you

1170
00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: did it on the air Your Game. He decided, I'm

1171
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: gonna name these singles, and you gotta tell me you

1172
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: think they could sing. Okay, Sa Georgia, that's the goddamn listen,

1173
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 1: that's the goddamn way he did it. So he starts

1174
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: listing off names of R and B singers and Mario

1175
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 1: had to say if he thought that they could sing

1176
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:22,439
Speaker 1: or couldn't sing. Here's the list. So who Mario did

1177
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: approve and believe can't sing is Chris Brown, the Weekend

1178
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 1: Trey Songs, and Bobby Valentino. Mario said, these three people

1179
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 1: cannot sing o Marion Rey j and Jack Queis, and

1180
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 1: then he put Bryson till they're kind of in the middle,

1181
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: said that Bryson can sing, but doesn't really sing like

1182
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 1: he's not a powerhousehold. And so I just want to

1183
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:47,120
Speaker 1: be messy because y'all are musical people.

1184
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 2: Jack's got the best voice at all of them.

1185
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 4: No, he sounds like, Okay, a.

1186
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: First offle Okay, I'm just I'm actually gonna be biased

1187
00:59:56,680 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 1: here right now, I'm spending Thanksgiving with Jackqueeze. I'm not

1188
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 1: speaking about my thoughts to Jack Queis. Okay, by the way,

1189
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: by the way. By the way, Jacqueize did respond, which

1190
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:12,959
Speaker 1: I love that he responded. He called Mario and Cam

1191
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: Newton a bunch of hoes and said that they need

1192
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: to just keep their dave, keep his Dave out. He's

1193
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 1: keep his name out of your mouth. He don't be

1194
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: bothering nobody.

1195
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 2: And the clip to Cam was really pressing Mario. Mario

1196
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 2: was trying to like tap dance.

1197
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. Let's be very clear. He came up

1198
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 1: in the era where media training was a thing. He

1199
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 1: knew how to get the fuck around this ship. Now

1200
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: clearly I believe being like yes or no, by the

1201
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 1: way you saying, you said, Jacqueize is the best vocalist

1202
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 1: of the whole list. So hate this short ass motherfucker.

1203
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: He's the worst nigga I ever met in life. If

1204
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 1: y'all listen to one of my bonus episodes, I talk

1205
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: about it with Assante. A couple of weeks ago when

1206
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 1: I went to one music pest Bobby Valentino ended up

1207
01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 1: meeting him at Springbling and he was the rudest little

1208
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: munchkin I've ever met in my life. But that nigga

1209
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: could say that Mic was on. He was the best

1210
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 1: out of the R S.

1211
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 4: V P got PTSD.

1212
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:14,440
Speaker 1: What does that with with? What?

1213
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 4: Remember he got caught.

1214
01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 1: He got caught sleeping with? Yeah, what he sleep with?

1215
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 4: He left the car?

1216
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: But no that that's a singing ass nigga. Chris Brown,

1217
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 1: singing ass nigga. The Weekend got two songs out of

1218
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 1: me before I'm bringing out the rais doesn't want to

1219
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 1: slice my wrists.

1220
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 2: The Bressintilla won such a trick like question almost well

1221
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 2: because he.

1222
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:36,439
Speaker 4: Raps, but he can he can harmonize well.

1223
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: The worst singer on this list I actually do believe

1224
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,040
Speaker 1: is ray J. I mean, he always sounds like he crying,

1225
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, He's sounded like he crying

1226
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: and ship to me, to me my thoughts on this.

1227
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 1: I think we talk about it all here. I think

1228
01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: lists are kind of goofy, kind of stupid. I think

1229
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: I think Mario we found out in versus and we've

1230
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 1: been listening to him since we were all well since

1231
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: not we were all teenagers.

1232
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 2: Operator y'all niggas was in.

1233
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 1: Y'all, y'all was walking down the aisle to Mario while

1234
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: I was scribbling in fifth grade. You know, y'all, y'all,

1235
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 1: couldn't say she was.

1236
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 4: Just a friend.

1237
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 2: Do you like when people do like mad qualifiers, when

1238
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 2: they'll do like, well, he can sing, but he can

1239
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 2: sing and he can could.

1240
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 1: To me, I think it's subjective. It's one of those.

1241
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: And we talk about it when we talk about albums,

1242
01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 1: when we talk about films, and we see the people

1243
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:40,040
Speaker 1: you know, debating about the movie him we talked about

1244
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: we talked about centers even like, there's not that when

1245
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 1: it comes to talent and art. I think we had

1246
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: a whole episode about it. There's not really a real barometer,

1247
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 1: right because there's always gonna be somebody that is not

1248
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: gonna like how they sing, you know what I mean?

1249
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: So you know, and you said that this leads into

1250
01:02:59,880 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 1: the let's let's get into DJ head. I like talking

1251
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 1: to y'all person. We don't get this often with with

1252
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: the with all of us in person. So yeah, give

1253
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 1: it to me.

1254
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 3: Donna sound really egregious and you're probably gonna click me

1255
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 3: up to make me look crazy. Yeah, but I feel

1256
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 3: I don't care who you've been with, because I feel

1257
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 3: like I'm better no matter who it is.

1258
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 7: But let me give you in a scenario though, So

1259
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 7: you meet a girl at North You're like, oh, she

1260
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:27,920
Speaker 7: checked off.

1261
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 1: Every single box.

1262
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 7: I really like months go by, you're kicking it heavy.

1263
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 7: You're thinking about making this your girlfriend. Loki probably already

1264
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 7: your girlfriend. You take her to somebody listening party. I

1265
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 7: don't want to throw no names.

1266
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 8: R J.

1267
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 7: You check the RJ listening party game there who else

1268
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 7: is not married?

1269
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 4: YG?

1270
01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 7: We No, they all in the building, right, They huddled

1271
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 7: up in the corner and they're like, he just walked

1272
01:03:56,200 --> 01:04:03,520
Speaker 7: in the girl that we all go with something, the

1273
01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 7: whole city, the being with.

1274
01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 4: Fire, wouldn't it?

1275
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:08,920
Speaker 1: But would you?

1276
01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 4: I don't care.

1277
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:13,400
Speaker 1: I don't believe you.

1278
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 2: Somebody somebody said the stuttering tolds the truth.

1279
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:25,440
Speaker 9: I mean, did he really say that's a lot? That's yes,

1280
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 9: I think.

1281
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 4: So.

1282
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:32,320
Speaker 2: There was a clip of Berg Hitmaker on cam show

1283
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 2: and he was talking about.

1284
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: Didn't we talk about that? We talked about that with glasses.

1285
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 1: We talked about that.

1286
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 2: With glasses, so what we did? So he talks about

1287
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 2: like how how much she basically poured into him, right,

1288
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 2: like sexually but also like intellectually and emotionally right, And

1289
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 2: you know, granted Burg's pbably like eighteen at the time,

1290
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:52,919
Speaker 2: and so at the end they're like, you know, could

1291
01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 2: you be with her? And he's like, now, everybody don't

1292
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 2: seen her pussy, right, And I feel like that's kind

1293
01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 2: of like the eighteen year old version of him speaking.

1294
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 2: But the way that he he's talking about her, it's

1295
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 2: it's everything that you would think that somebody would want

1296
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:08,919
Speaker 2: to like. And he talked about like the sexual things

1297
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 2: that she showed him. But he's like more than that.

1298
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,920
Speaker 2: He's like, she was so mature, she was so mature,

1299
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 2: she was so with this, she was so smart whatever.

1300
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 2: So my thing is like all the people that you say, like,

1301
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 2: well they done had her or they said this or whatever.

1302
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 2: The older you get, that circle get smaller, right, And

1303
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:30,840
Speaker 2: so like if you date with the intention of like partnership,

1304
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 2: you should even if you just date with the openness

1305
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 2: of like this could happen, you can't worry about that

1306
01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 2: ship because if this could be somebody, five years from now,

1307
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 2: it'll be you and her and you might not even

1308
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 2: be speaking to them, or you might not see them

1309
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:43,640
Speaker 2: that often.

1310
01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 8: You know.

1311
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:47,960
Speaker 2: Either way, I hear why and her example, she's giving

1312
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 2: the most.

1313
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 1: Yes, but no, no, you'd be surprised, especially when you

1314
01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:57,520
Speaker 1: get to see your thirties, like who you've dealt with

1315
01:05:57,600 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 1: in different.

1316
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 2: Points, but your number are also going to be up

1317
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 2: there in your thirties here well, according to statistics, they

1318
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 2: said that the average woman only sleeps with twelve men

1319
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:11,080
Speaker 2: in their entire lifetime. And I don't know, but let's

1320
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:14,439
Speaker 2: say you start sucking at fourteen, right, and you fuck

1321
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:17,439
Speaker 2: two people a year and you're single by thirty six,

1322
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 2: that's gonna be numbers right like, and that's like fortygas right,

1323
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 2: and men would be like, you know, I want to

1324
01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 2: chick like six, and it's like, what the fuck do

1325
01:06:24,760 --> 01:06:25,000
Speaker 2: you think?

1326
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 1: Why move to another city?

1327
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 4: You don't?

1328
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 1: However, I do want to share a story which is

1329
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 1: gonna be anyone listening that listens to decisions. Decisions y'all

1330
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 1: are gonna be like, ooh, the growth. So I had

1331
01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 1: enough goddamn conversations with these nigglets. They clearly care about

1332
01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 1: your past, right, So I'm trying to get in Atlanta

1333
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:49,479
Speaker 1: boyfriend like I have a boyfriend in Baltimore and another

1334
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 1: little boo like you know, so I got I mean,

1335
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 1: maybe maybe someone to build my ship. When I ordered

1336
01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 1: from Amazon into hold up these orgasms inside of me

1337
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 1: and let me climbas, you know what I mean. So anyone,

1338
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 1: let me tell you about this, about this one, little

1339
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:10,280
Speaker 1: this one, little niggas. So there's a guy that I met,

1340
01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 1: like maybe my first or second week moving to Atlanta.

1341
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 1: Saw him behind a bar, went to like a live

1342
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: podcast show. He was the bartender there and very attractive,

1343
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 1: very attractive. So I go to the bar. There's two

1344
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 1: of my fans sitting at the bar and they immediately

1345
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 1: go to try to connect us, and it's like, ooh,

1346
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:33,920
Speaker 1: you should talk to him gray cute any and then

1347
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 1: they're like, ooh, she lit. You don't even know she is,

1348
01:07:36,120 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 1: da da da. We exchanged instagrams, which I was in

1349
01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 1: his instagrams in twenty eighteen, so clearly yeah, he by tight,

1350
01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So we get to talk

1351
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 1: in the first time we go to link up, it

1352
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 1: doesn't go well. A bitch pulls up and I'm like, oh, yeah, nah,

1353
01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 1: you're not done with whatever situation pull up to pull

1354
01:07:59,880 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 1: up to us on a date, put up to his

1355
01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 1: job and I was like, oh yeah nah. So was like, nah,

1356
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:08,920
Speaker 1: I'm this ain't working. We're not gonna do this. So

1357
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: he doubled back. Now he said, hey, I'd like to

1358
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 1: take you out. I like to get like, let's start over,

1359
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 1: let's start fresh. And now the time has gone too long.

1360
01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:21,639
Speaker 1: I didn't seen his inner circles, I don't seen his shit,

1361
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 1: and I don't like how he moves. So I literally

1362
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 1: just told him, I said, listen, you could keep me

1363
01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 1: from my soulmate. I said, if I fuck you, I said,

1364
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:35,200
Speaker 1: and you just end up being a body, I'll be

1365
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: seeing you got good look at friends and your industry

1366
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 1: adjacent Oh. I did tell him that because he being

1367
01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:42,679
Speaker 1: around some good look at niggas. So I'm like, bro,

1368
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: what if I meet one of these people that are

1369
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 1: adjacent to you? Now we fuck, and you keep me

1370
01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 1: from being with somebody because now they're mad that I

1371
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 1: fucked you. And I already know right now by the

1372
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: way you move, you not gonna be nothing but maybe

1373
01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 1: a body. And I said, you're not worth a body,

1374
01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 1: You're not worth me investing this because I don't feel

1375
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:04,640
Speaker 1: like we're there and you move a little messy, and

1376
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 1: he's like five tens, So I was really already giving him.

1377
01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 1: I was already making an exception, you know, And I

1378
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:12,560
Speaker 1: was just like, I literally had to think about it.

1379
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, like, I know you're doubling back

1380
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 1: now ten months later because now your situation is clear.

1381
01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 1: But I was like, yeah, I don't seen enough to

1382
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:23,759
Speaker 1: be like I don't think we work.

1383
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 2: Is your growth You're recognizing it and you're like you

1384
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 2: could be blocking me for my soul. That's yeah.

1385
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 1: The growth is that I'm no. No, the growth is

1386
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 1: realizing there are more men than not that do care

1387
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 1: about who you've been with, your bodies, who, how you

1388
01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 1: enter into a room. Had may not be that like

1389
01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:50,680
Speaker 1: I got, like one of my boyfriends right now, is.

1390
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 4: Lifestyle one of your boyfriends?

1391
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, we're official. Oh, very much like you know,

1392
01:09:57,800 --> 01:10:00,600
Speaker 1: serve the country, you know what I mean? Yeah, I

1393
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: gotta I got a military vet and you have.

1394
01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 4: To go on base and get groceries discount.

1395
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I said, he's a vet. I would never

1396
01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: date anyone currently in the mid Oh. There they still.

1397
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:16,680
Speaker 2: Benefits and he's got a lot of benefits, so I'm

1398
01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:17,160
Speaker 2: here for it.

1399
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: He got all the benefits. Okay, But literally, he's someone

1400
01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 1: that is open with lifestyle. He's a lifestyle person. He's

1401
01:10:26,400 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 1: he's cool with you know, he don't think like he

1402
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:32,599
Speaker 1: don't think like the regular man, the regular man, though

1403
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 1: he does care. And so to me as I'm getting older.

1404
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't like this.

1405
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: I don't mind you don't like it.

1406
01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 2: Because it reminds me of like almost like the same

1407
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 2: theory of like we have to be two times better, right,

1408
01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 2: Like you have to be two times better than the

1409
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 2: man to not only think for yourself, but then think

1410
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:53,639
Speaker 2: how they'll think.

1411
01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 1: No, absolutely absolutely because as a woman.

1412
01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:59,200
Speaker 2: But I don't like that. I mean, I'm not saying

1413
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 2: like I'm gonna say I don't like your growth of it.

1414
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:03,280
Speaker 1: I don't like government. I don't like it.

1415
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 2: I don't like you don't want to.

1416
01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:07,639
Speaker 1: I mean it sucks. By the way, you would think

1417
01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:12,679
Speaker 1: these are fucking podcast pros, but they're not niggas. Moving

1418
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: away from the mic, I'm like, I'm gonna take microphone

1419
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 1: Jesus twice. Okay, No, but it's crazy because and I'm

1420
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:26,639
Speaker 1: in a place that's happy. I do want a man

1421
01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 1: that doesn't care about that stuff. But I also am

1422
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 1: very aware that a lot of men may take longer

1423
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 1: to get there, if they ever do get there. And

1424
01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:38,599
Speaker 1: so in my thirties, if I meet a man, if

1425
01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:40,679
Speaker 1: I meet a man, at this age, I would hope

1426
01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:43,880
Speaker 1: that I could, you know, get him to think broader,

1427
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 1: because for me, I want to slut. I want a

1428
01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:50,479
Speaker 1: nigga that been around. I want a nigga that have practice,

1429
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 1: that know what he's doing, that just can put the

1430
01:11:52,600 --> 01:11:55,880
Speaker 1: finger in me, make me squirk like. I want an advanced,

1431
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:59,719
Speaker 1: whole ass nigga. And the dick gotta be good because

1432
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:01,200
Speaker 1: if you don't fuck as many bitch as, it can't

1433
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:04,000
Speaker 1: be bad like because then bitches, no.

1434
01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 2: I don't like the nigga like being married, but I

1435
01:12:07,400 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 2: also could be like that. You can ask about me like,

1436
01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 2: oh ship.

1437
01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 1: Hey, the pread group, No, but I don't know that.

1438
01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 2: I hear yeah, I hear you, and it is growth,

1439
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:24,160
Speaker 2: but it does you know, it sucks.

1440
01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 1: But again, then I had this conversation with enough people

1441
01:12:27,880 --> 01:12:29,920
Speaker 1: over the years from the other podcasts to just even

1442
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 1: just casually in group settings and as women. Yet you

1443
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:38,679
Speaker 1: do have to consider it if you if you hope

1444
01:12:38,680 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 1: that you could just find a man like I do have,

1445
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:43,479
Speaker 1: they're far and few in between. I'll tell you that,

1446
01:12:43,520 --> 01:12:46,560
Speaker 1: like it takes a little longer like him find a

1447
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:50,639
Speaker 1: ship good as dick about five nine. So I did

1448
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:53,719
Speaker 1: have to like he makes money, he's over six figures,

1449
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:57,839
Speaker 1: he doesn't want kids, he's he's like essentially perfect. He's

1450
01:12:58,080 --> 01:12:58,559
Speaker 1: I just.

1451
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 2: I would have liked four more sure, But you know

1452
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 2: that reminds me of like again, like I don't know

1453
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:06,920
Speaker 2: app dating. That's like I got I got married before.

1454
01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 2: But I'm saying it's like with ap dating, it's like

1455
01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:12,599
Speaker 2: you can find a beautiful woman that you might not

1456
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 2: funck with in real like like you might not even

1457
01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 2: get a chance, and you'll be like, m I don't

1458
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 2: like to wear hair is in this picture and you

1459
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:21,439
Speaker 2: swipe in the side, and it's like the the idea

1460
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:23,920
Speaker 2: of like one thing stopping you, Like you know that

1461
01:13:23,960 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 2: ship becomes malleable, it wants other parts because honest, it's

1462
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:29,400
Speaker 2: the relationship that I say to single people, who you

1463
01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:31,000
Speaker 2: marry is not going to be that person in four

1464
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 2: years from now. Everybody's gonna change. She's gonna change. So

1465
01:13:34,360 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 2: it's like certain things where you're like, ah, but I

1466
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 2: don't like this one part that might not even be

1467
01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 2: them right, No, it won't be.

1468
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:42,160
Speaker 4: But you got to know that early on. You know,

1469
01:13:42,200 --> 01:13:43,599
Speaker 4: That's why marriage counseling is.

1470
01:13:43,720 --> 01:13:46,599
Speaker 3: I remember my nephew had got married and their marriage

1471
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 3: counselor leading into the marriage. I'm still I'm still going

1472
01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:52,479
Speaker 3: to be on board after at least for the first

1473
01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 3: two years in the marriage, because the work doesn't start

1474
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,599
Speaker 3: before you gets married. It starts day day two after

1475
01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 3: you get there. You know, it's especially young they're young,

1476
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 3: you know, I think the.

1477
01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:04,720
Speaker 2: Most the biggest detriment I think for men is like

1478
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:08,120
Speaker 2: when when when an engagement happens, women have the ring

1479
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:10,439
Speaker 2: on right away and they're communicating their commitment to the

1480
01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:13,640
Speaker 2: world immediately, whereas like men don't have a ring, and

1481
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 2: so they still look like a dirt back the whole time, right,

1482
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 2: and it's just an uneven like you're not even in

1483
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 2: the real like joint thing at the beginning.

1484
01:14:21,400 --> 01:14:21,559
Speaker 4: Right.

1485
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,080
Speaker 2: So that's why, like when you get married, it really

1486
01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 2: starts there because then you're both communicating it and it

1487
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:28,640
Speaker 2: shit is hard, like but I don't know, man, I

1488
01:14:29,080 --> 01:14:31,679
Speaker 2: do wish sometimes like people could get the other side

1489
01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 2: of it often and that's why sometimes I try to

1490
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:37,320
Speaker 2: frown like out in pieces, like it's hard, but it's rewarding,

1491
01:14:37,320 --> 01:14:39,400
Speaker 2: and it's like you know, you're you're like I'm in

1492
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 2: my forties, like.

1493
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 4: Gym, it's kind of the same.

1494
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 2: But it's like the same process, right, like the gym,

1495
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:49,320
Speaker 2: Like it's it's hard, but results come from it being hard,

1496
01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 2: and like, you know, marriage is the same thing.

1497
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:53,320
Speaker 1: It got me crazy.

1498
01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 3: There's a thing that says married men are more attractive

1499
01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:01,560
Speaker 3: to like man with a ring.

1500
01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 4: I was in hospital.

1501
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:05,840
Speaker 1: My mom was for insecure women like because I was that,

1502
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 1: you know.

1503
01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:09,040
Speaker 3: Little sister said he. She said to her brother, said,

1504
01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:11,639
Speaker 3: why you ain't wearing your ring? He's like, yo, because

1505
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:13,479
Speaker 3: when I were, the ring is more of a problem.

1506
01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:14,760
Speaker 4: I know it sounds crazy, but.

1507
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:19,559
Speaker 1: That's all of this because I was just out trying.

1508
01:15:19,320 --> 01:15:22,880
Speaker 2: To get I think they think, like what maybe give me.

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01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't know. I went to a party, was talking

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01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 1: to just do it at the bar, A little salt

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01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:30,280
Speaker 1: and pepper John, and I was like, you know what

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01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:32,799
Speaker 1: I mean. We were and we were talking, we were vibing.

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01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 1: He lived Dallas. We were talking about Lincoln when I

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01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 1: go to Dallas for Thanksgiving, and the conversation was too smooth,

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01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:43,559
Speaker 1: too good. I went like this. I went like, bitch,

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01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 1: saw that ring, I said, And he said, bro that well,

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01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 1: first time I'm going the day before staying the day after,

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01:15:51,920 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: like there's this time.

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Speaker 6: Was he was he?

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01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 2: Was he just like a good conversation or was he no?

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01:15:58,520 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 1: No?

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01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 2: Was he trying to like activate something?

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01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:03,840
Speaker 1: If he was trying to Lincoln, Doallas what you think

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01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to a book club?

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01:16:06,400 --> 01:16:09,599
Speaker 3: I missed that you have had that conversation, him just

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01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 3: saying from a zoom out, I.

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01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:16,559
Speaker 2: Have good conversations with I like sometimes change numbers.

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01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:18,600
Speaker 1: I don't think that you're going to meet up on

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01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 1: the holiday. That that part is.

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01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:22,439
Speaker 4: Wrong, but it's hard to turn away, like.

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01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 2: Having having an element where it's like it's not in

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01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:28,599
Speaker 2: exchange for anything because I'm in something like sometimes that's enjoyable.

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01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 2: It's like you're a bailiful woman, this is nice or whatever,

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01:16:30,560 --> 01:16:31,880
Speaker 2: but it's like I'm not.

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01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:37,519
Speaker 3: But then there's a great area like damn, I know

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01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:38,360
Speaker 3: that this is could.

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01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:41,720
Speaker 2: But to the point that we're saying, like if it's

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01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:43,439
Speaker 2: an insecure woman or not, if it's a woman who

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01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 2: likes us or not.

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01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:46,960
Speaker 1: The like right now, I don't want no married man.

1541
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 2: A married man has also make sure he's not putting

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01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:51,599
Speaker 2: himself in a situation where it's like this is gonna

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01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:52,200
Speaker 2: be hard for me.

1544
01:16:53,040 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: It's gonna be hard for you, because women, if you're

1545
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:58,760
Speaker 1: dealing with a married man, get that check, get that money.

1546
01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:02,599
Speaker 1: His wife is you should be two. You should be too.

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01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:05,960
Speaker 1: Before we get out of here, let's get into an

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01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 1: ignorant and am I ignorant?

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01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 2: I got a couple?

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01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 4: Which one you want to? Well?

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01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:11,479
Speaker 1: Sea, bring up the gamers. Let's go ahead and keep

1552
01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 1: talking about these niggas. And I don't went on viral

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01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:15,760
Speaker 1: on the internet talking about gamers for the last couple

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01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:17,600
Speaker 1: of years. Anyways, this is a shout out to my

1555
01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:20,200
Speaker 1: boy Cleoto because Cleo. I don't know if we want

1556
01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:21,880
Speaker 1: to cut this into the clip, because Cleo be coming

1557
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:23,559
Speaker 1: for me and I look I like me some Cleo,

1558
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:25,320
Speaker 1: go ahead and read it for us.

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01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:27,720
Speaker 2: So this is for am I ignorant? And we got

1560
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:31,400
Speaker 2: this submission here and it says here adult gamers are

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01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:34,599
Speaker 2: better romantic partners and this is why they say it here.

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01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:38,200
Speaker 2: A lot of people in parentheses they put this, usually

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01:17:38,280 --> 01:17:41,360
Speaker 2: one gender over the other, typically complain if their partners

1564
01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:43,559
Speaker 2: into gaming and view their hobby as a waste of time.

1565
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:45,920
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, that's women complain about men.

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01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:48,679
Speaker 2: What gamers are likely to be home with their partner,

1567
01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:51,799
Speaker 2: not spending a shitload of money doing other hobbies outside

1568
01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:55,000
Speaker 2: the house. The return on investment in gaming is way

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01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 2: better than other forms of entertainment. Plus, gamers are typically

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01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:02,920
Speaker 2: more likely to faithful to their partner because they're not

1571
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:06,680
Speaker 2: out and about exposing themselves to temptations that could lead

1572
01:18:06,680 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 2: them to do something compromising to their relationship. So there,

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01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:13,320
Speaker 2: this is their whole theory for why adult gamers.

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01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:19,200
Speaker 3: This is an ass as they because there's women gamers

1575
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 3: right on the other side of this.

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01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:27,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean not only that. So first off, gaming

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01:18:27,240 --> 01:18:31,200
Speaker 1: now is technically online dating. You could literally meet somebody

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01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 1: on your goddamn headset. You have a whole relationship with

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01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:38,880
Speaker 1: someone in your headset. So that's the first thing. The

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01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 1: second thing, the gamers are likely to be home spending

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01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 1: time with their partner. That is a lie. They're on

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01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:46,920
Speaker 1: the game and want minimal.

1583
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,559
Speaker 2: Interruptions traveling through the metaversity.

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01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:54,240
Speaker 1: They are traveling physically, physically, they're under the same roof. No,

1585
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 1: that's not spending time with someone. I also want to say,

1586
01:18:57,880 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 1: not spending a shipload of money is also a lie

1587
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:04,040
Speaker 1: because the way that the roadblocks ship is affecting the kids.

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01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:07,519
Speaker 3: I know that there's Arris the game ship is like

1589
01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:11,040
Speaker 3: one hundred and fifteen dollars bro Bro download hold.

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01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,360
Speaker 1: On the systems are a lot. Then I think on

1591
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 1: the weapons and ship. You gotta upgrade weapons.

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01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,640
Speaker 3: That ship called the NBA two K bare minimum. You

1593
01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:20,800
Speaker 3: have to get what I mean, I didn't even know

1594
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:22,000
Speaker 3: there was VC bucks.

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01:19:22,040 --> 01:19:22,599
Speaker 1: The god damn.

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01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:25,880
Speaker 4: You gotta get a part time job to fund that ship.

1597
01:19:26,439 --> 01:19:29,080
Speaker 1: So does it go from like does it go from

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01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:32,120
Speaker 1: your player playing in converses to nikes? Like? What are

1599
01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 1: you spending your money on? Is it the facility improvement?

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01:19:35,600 --> 01:19:39,920
Speaker 3: This features in game experiences, roster updated rosters. All of

1601
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 3: that ship you gotta pay for it. And the tariffs

1602
01:19:43,200 --> 01:19:45,840
Speaker 3: add the tariffs on top. They got terriffs in the

1603
01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 3: well well because of the game they put the game,

1604
01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:51,639
Speaker 3: the tariffs on the electronics and all that ship trying.

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01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 1: Oh I thought, I thought, I thought the terror gave

1606
01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 1: don't no idea. I know the white man created put

1607
01:19:59,479 --> 01:20:04,400
Speaker 1: territ that's crazy. Yeah, I disagree with this. I don't

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01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:07,720
Speaker 1: believe the adult gamers are better romantic partners. I think

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01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 1: that they're less social with their partner and although they're

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01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:13,920
Speaker 1: may be physically around, I think that they can emotionally

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01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:18,760
Speaker 1: cheat more because headsets and meeting all the people. I

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01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:22,280
Speaker 1: do think that they're still spending money on these things.

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01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:26,920
Speaker 1: And and yeah the r O Y and gaming doesn't

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01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 1: seem much better to me. I'm sorry, and I never

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01:20:30,960 --> 01:20:31,360
Speaker 1: thought so.

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01:20:31,360 --> 01:20:33,599
Speaker 4: You got to be an elite gamer to get through.

1617
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:38,759
Speaker 1: Like unless you are making money on gaming. I speaking

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01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:41,559
Speaker 1: for myself, do not want a nigga who play video games?

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01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:43,639
Speaker 1: Bro Like I don't know.

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01:20:44,320 --> 01:20:47,680
Speaker 2: The hand eye coordination can bring that to the bedroom?

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01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:48,960
Speaker 1: What I participate?

1622
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:56,160
Speaker 2: Strong hands participating? What gamer's girlfriend thet They got good

1623
01:20:56,160 --> 01:20:58,280
Speaker 2: hand coordination, hand strength.

1624
01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:03,760
Speaker 1: So do military vets and basketball players and firefighters.

1625
01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:07,639
Speaker 2: And everyone that they do.

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01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:12,040
Speaker 1: Listen, they long, they do a lot of other things.

1627
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:14,880
Speaker 1: Now we could, we could, we can end this episode here.

1628
01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:19,280
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1629
01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:22,599
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1630
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1631
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Speaker 1: money yet. Let me wait till I get start making

1632
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Speaker 1: more money. That's where I can apply you in an

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1634
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