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Speaker 2: Sounds like you're just man explaining pregnancy tests.

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Speaker 1: True, got a thing more positive, you know? So this

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Speaker 2: Wow, all right, I wonder what the tests have to

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Speaker 3: What could go wrong? Of course I was super happy.

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Speaker 1: By the way this comes from, it's a throwaway from

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you can Yeah, I don't know, but.

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Speaker 1: Uh, the test came back negative, and of course I

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Speaker 3: She claimed that she was pregnant and that the doctor

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Speaker 2: Hmm. I mean sometimes you just get that feeling in

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Speaker 2: Like I know I'm pregnant, even though I'm medically unable

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Speaker 2: mean in her body, she knows it in her blood. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I agree to my I'm pregnant, my soul. You know

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, You're having a soul baby. I'm having

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Speaker 2: a soul baby. Now he took some more. It's a

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Speaker 2: soul baby, Keon. Don't question the soul baby, Keon.

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Speaker 4: We're all just soul babies.

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Speaker 2: Baby. That's right, That's what I'm that's better.

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Speaker 1: We're all soul babies at Allso w's in the chat

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Speaker 1: for Keon killing the killing, the producing w's in the chat.

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Speaker 3: I want to see chat flooded with w's.

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Speaker 4: Or a little late, just a whittleway W baby because

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Speaker 3: Yep, it's all my fault.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, So we took some store bought ones and they

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Speaker 3: My wife is in complete denial.

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Speaker 1: She claims we're having twins. She's buying them clothes, decorations,

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Speaker 1: My inaction is making her believe that I want to

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Speaker 3: We have a bit of an update after that, but Dakota, we.

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Speaker 2: Have to talk. This is a really difficult situation, clearly,

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Speaker 2: Good You're in a little delulu and it's okay. We

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Speaker 1: But are you I'm pregnant with twins, but I'm not

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Speaker 1: Well let's see what happens. Yeah, little update slash edit.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys, you really helped me out. Yesterday was

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Speaker 2: Exactly? You cracked it? Wow, Okay, I didn't know you

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Speaker 1: Call the doctor who did the pregnancy test and leave

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Speaker 3: Also, she isn't showing at all. She is thin as always.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she says she can't lift heavy things, says she

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Speaker 1: out the obvious, Opie says. She claims she was pregnant

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Speaker 2: Know, yeah, that's a disturbing mental image. I am giving

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Speaker 1: Yes, dude, well was attached to my own baby boy

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Speaker 1: I really don't know what brought her to think that.

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Speaker 1: Uh So cal Pizza says, Oh dude, she's going through

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Speaker 1: something very very serious. You need to contact a therapist.

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Speaker 1: Like turn off Reddit right now and contact one. She's

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Speaker 1: having delusional thoughts and her preoccupy, her preoccupation with pregnancy,

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Speaker 3: This is way beyond Reddit's pay grade.

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Speaker 1: Good luck, but not beyond old Okay, story time is

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Speaker 2: Beyonder pay grade, buddy.

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Speaker 3: And stuff that is though, but we keep going forward.

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Speaker 1: Opie responds, I have tried talking into therapy and she

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Speaker 1: Panda Jink says, this sounds like it could be pseudo pregnancy.

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Speaker 1: I learned about this in our obg yn Basic science

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Speaker 1: him about the problem. He seemed very concerned and wanted

438
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 1: us to come and wanted us to come see him

439
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 1: the next morning. He said it was important to be gentle,

440
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 1: but not to feed into her delusions. To Dakota's point,

441
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 1: I sat her down and we talked. All she wanted

442
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: to talk about is when I would get the nursery started,

443
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 1: and that we were on a time crunch, and how

444
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 1: she had found.

445
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 2: The perfect color for the room.

446
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: How she wants me to be more involved in her pregnancy.

447
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 1: And I tried to calm her down, but I was

448
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,439
Speaker 1: very perturbed by seeing her that way. I asked her

449
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 1: to go to the doctor with me tomorrow. She said yes,

450
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: that she wanted to check on the babies.

451
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: Either way.

452
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 1: Now, I took some advice and words you gave me

453
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 1: about being calm and asking a bit about why she

454
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 1: thinks she's pregnant without calling her delusional, so I did.

455
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 1: She kept changing subjects or saying a mother just feels it,

456
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 1: you wouldn't know how it is. Then I said how

457
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 1: I loved her a lot and that I would never

458
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 1: think of leaving her, but we needed to go to

459
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,640
Speaker 1: a doctor to confirm her gut feeling. She got very

460
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: agitated and was crying, telling me that if I wanted

461
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 1: to leave her, I should simply leave, but I shouldn't

462
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: call her a liar.

463
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 2: I also, he just said he didn't want to leave you. Also,

464
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 2: I'm curious what Chat thinks. I don't know if he

465
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 2: should have said that, because it almost it's almost like,

466
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, looking like that, Well, I

467
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 2: of course I don't want to leave you ever, And

468
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 2: then she's like, why would you say that exactly? He

469
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 2: didn't secretly want to leave me?

470
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Like it felt like everything I think Opie

471
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: was like absolutely crushing it and like with the best

472
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: of intentions. But that kind of felt like a misstep

473
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 1: that maybe she would have had this like strong reaction

474
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: to anyways, But I feel like that.

475
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 3: At least didn't help. Yeah, is what I'm feeling.

476
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 2: I can see myself making that mistake. Though, if I'm

477
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 2: being honest, like being like that, I would never want

478
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 2: to leave you, just like sounds like you want to

479
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:09,719
Speaker 2: leave me.

480
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 1: Bro who said anything about Well, Opie goes on to say,

481
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: after she did, I went on her computer. Oh, so

482
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 1: she went to sleep. So somehow I managed to calm

483
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: her down enough for her to go to sleep. After

484
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: she did, I went on her computer. I never I do,

485
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 1: never snoop on her, but I remember to comment her

486
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: pointing out forums about cryptic pregnancy, and so I went

487
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: to look.

488
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 3: Oh boy.

489
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: She was in two Facebook groups. When you're in the

490
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: Facebook group, that's when everything goes downhill.

491
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 2: That's when you really get pregnant. Yea.

492
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: One was a normal mommy Facebook group and the other

493
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: was a group about women that believed they were pregnant.

494
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: In the normal group, she would post updates about her

495
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 1: symptoms and pictures of her belly and her story about

496
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 1: how she was almost not able to have children, but

497
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: that's to the grace of God that kissed her tummy

498
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: and the gift of life that was given to her,

499
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: and how she was compensated for all these years of

500
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: suffering with twins in the other group. The women were

501
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 1: quite literally and excuse me here insane. Yeah, they were

502
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: feeding in each other's delusions. A woman said that she

503
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,199
Speaker 1: was almost two years pregnant and how sometimes it just

504
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: takes longer my mom might be inclined to agree. And

505
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 1: here I am. That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm John,

506
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying.

507
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: You're not alone. I need the evidence for these fifteen

508
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 2: months of pregnancy.

509
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 1: Dude, you're looking at it. I don't know, man, You

510
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: see how baked this nogin istant. Just look at how

511
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: big my head is the evidence you need. My wife

512
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 1: would post there complaining about doctors that do not take

513
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,959
Speaker 1: her seriously and about me. So many women were making

514
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 1: her fear that I would leave, saying things like a

515
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: man cannot stick to a woman. Many recounted their stories

516
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,719
Speaker 1: about how their marriage is broke down because their spouses.

517
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 2: Could not handle the pregnancy. And this is in the

518
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 2: group of other people who are kind of like pseudo

519
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 2: pregnant delusional. You know, it's so funny.

520
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: It's like, it's it's a it's a it's a group

521
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: of pseudo women pretending to be pregnant, but they're somehow

522
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 1: they've organized as.

523
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 3: Pretending to be pregnant, you know what I mean.

524
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: It's like you think they would only join the real

525
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: pregnant groups because like, oh no, but somehow they've all congregated.

526
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,440
Speaker 1: It's like, wouldn't you not want to be in that?

527
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: Like everyone else is here lying, but I am.

528
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,919
Speaker 2: You know, you're only allowed to join this group if

529
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 2: you've been pregnant for at least two years.

530
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: There we go new rule in the community guidelines. I

531
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: was really effing scared. I researched phantom pregnancies, that's another

532
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 1: good one for it. And I read somewhere that they

533
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 1: could also be a sky in a sign of schizophrenia.

534
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 1: So to say the least. I could not sleep. I

535
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:04,199
Speaker 1: was and am still very afraid of losing her. She

536
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: woke up and I tried to act like nothing was wrong.

537
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: We were going to the doctor, and it was as

538
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,919
Speaker 1: if nothing had happened yesterday. She was convinced that we

539
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 1: were going to a pregnancy checkup. Things had gotten really

540
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: bad when we began talking to the doctor. He was

541
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: really tactful when talking to my wife. He tried to

542
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: explain to her that it was medically possible. He tried

543
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: to explain to her that it was medically impossible that

544
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: she was pregnant. I can't imagine this is going to

545
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 1: go over well. He tried to show her the tests,

546
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,199
Speaker 1: the ultrasound that we did the day before, but nothing.

547
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: She just got more agitated and began to cry and

548
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: to scream at me for making her look like a

549
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: crazy person. She began bouncing back and forth with her

550
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: head in both hands. We could not calm her, and

551
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: she went into a full on panic attack.

552
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 2: She could not breathe.

553
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 1: The doctor laid her down and tried giving her some

554
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 1: medicine for her to relax, but it did not help,

555
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: and he didn't have been necessary tools to treat a

556
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 1: panic attack that was that bad. She had to go

557
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: to the hospital where they took care of her.

558
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 4: Uh.

559
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: They did an EKG to exclude that she was suffering

560
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: from a heart attack, and I believe EKG is like

561
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: it's basically.

562
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 2: A test to ensure echo cardiogram. Dude, this guy's smart.

563
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: I got all the acronyms on deck. Dude, against my will,

564
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 2: my brain does it by itself. Your head is as

565
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 2: big as mine, but it's full of brains. Okay.

566
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 3: In a good way, I'll go with that. Y.

567
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: At that point, I had no other option than to

568
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: inquire about involuntary.

569
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 2: You have reached the point, Dakota. Well, it's just so

570
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 2: that's it's just an awful situation, Yeah, for both parties.

571
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 3: Like it's like.

572
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: I while while I'm like agreeing with you, or I'm

573
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: like I just like avoided all costs. It's like, I

574
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: don't know at this point what else it would be.

575
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: I mean, we me called it, called the fam, call

576
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: call her parent, you know, call like and and start

577
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: talking like me personally, I would just want like a

578
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: sounding board, honestly and making and I would probably do

579
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: that before I made this.

580
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 2: Well, it's just hard if she goes into the doctor

581
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 2: and then like in front of the doctor has like

582
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 2: a full blown sort of panic attack and like a

583
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 2: freak out about her like from the sound of it,

584
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 2: like non existent pregnancy. Yeah, she was given the evidence

585
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 2: and it really just like made her more upset than

586
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 2: she already was. I don't know what to do. I

587
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: don't know what.

588
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: It's kind of an impossible it's kind of an impossible scenario,

589
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: you know, to.

590
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 2: Be honest, some and there are some times where it's

591
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 2: like somebody needs to be involuntarily like taken into like

592
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:48,239
Speaker 2: a psychiatric like hair situation. But like, man, it's just

593
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 2: like it's so hard.

594
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's never there's like no good option in these scenarios.

595
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: I feel even with like maybe the right one, it

596
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 2: still feels just bad exactly one hundred percent one hundred percent.

597
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: So really a lose lose situation. It is a absolutely

598
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: lose lose situation. So Opie says, I could not do

599
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: it myself. I needed my doctor's statement that she was

600
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: a danger to herself and others, and he had to

601
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: initiate the process of an involuntary examination of seventy two hours.

602
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: After that, we will have to submit a written statement

603
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: to the court to determine whether or not she can.

604
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 2: Stay there against her will.

605
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: So far, I have submitted all her posts in both

606
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: Facebook group as well as the tests we.

607
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 2: Did with the time stamps when possible.

608
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: My wife is in the second day of the three

609
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,479
Speaker 1: day examination and I have no contact with her. When

610
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: I was last with her, she was furious at me.

611
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: She said I was taking away her freedom, which I am.

612
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: I feel horrible, dirty and useless. She is so mad

613
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: at me, and I feel like I'm abandoning her, and

614
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: I don't know how she.

615
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 2: Will ever forgive this.

616
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 1: I love her with all my heart, and I am

617
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: afraid of what will happen is if the courts decide

618
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: that I can't commit her, how our life will be affected.

619
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: I feel like I failed to protect her at.

620
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 3: This point, I'm just rambling. Sorry for the long post.

621
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: I guess I just need an event because I have

622
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: no one else to really turn to that wants to listen.

623
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 2: I feel judged by everyone and pitied. I just hate it.

624
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 3: Sorry for the spelling mistakes, quick at it.

625
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: I will not effing leave my wife. You unempathetic weed

626
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: your heads. When I gave my vows, I meant through

627
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: illness and bad times, honestly.

628
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: W husband.

629
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 3: Yes, he cares.

630
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: It is so clear how much he cares and how

631
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: much he wants to stand by her.

632
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 3: One thousand.

633
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 4: I am not only I am a non Wait, we

634
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 4: got extended, Let's go?

635
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 3: Is that what I saw?

636
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 2: Extend? Common question?

637
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: Cord, Yeah, yes, sir, Thanks for the sixty But Karoony's

638
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: intertwined realms.

639
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 3: I want to see shuturn charge, I want I.

640
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: Want to see you all for a while longer well,

641
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: guess what intertwined realms.

642
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 3: Your wish has been granted.

643
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 2: Yes, now you will thirty more minutes of these faces,

644
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 2: just a couple of goons in your face giving good advice.

645
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 3: Congratulations.

646
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 4: I'm sorry to interrupt you, John with talk to me.

647
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 4: You want to look at a couple other more doos?

648
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 3: Yeah we can. Uh, we'll hit the other dons when

649
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 3: we wrap up the story.

650
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, So I am not only here on

651
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: the ride for just the good times. If you truly

652
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 1: love someone.

653
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 2: You will do whatever it takes to see them healthy again.

654
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: Would you leave your spouse if they went through a

655
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: severe physical illness? I'm here to say I will not

656
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: divorce her. She is not an effing psycho.

657
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 2: She is sick.

658
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 3: That I think is a very very important thing to

659
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 3: say here.

660
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: I hope none of your loved ones ever have to

661
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: go through this because because their support net will consist

662
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: of cowardly leaderheads staring on business.

663
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 2: Ope.

664
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Speaker 1: Sorry for the rant, but if you want to say

665
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: something along the line. But if you want to say

666
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: something like divorce, then don't even bother. I don't understand

667
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: people that make the choice to leave when the situation

668
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: begins to be a mess with their mental health, and

669
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: I respect that, but I won't do it. Edit number two,

670
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: My wife didn't have a heart attack, so just clear

671
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: that out, thank you. She was examined because her panic

672
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: attacks registered with similar symptoms as heart attacks. I don't

673
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: exactly know what our doctor gave her as I was

674
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: so distraught, but it was not a sedative. I thought

675
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: it was something along the lines of valume or Baldrian

676
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: over the counter stuff. Mostly, she has family. She is

677
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: a strange for most of them. Her sister is now.

678
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 2: At our place to help.

679
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: Also, refrain from such stupid comments like I bet she'll

680
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: leave you. She's Craig Crey, how did you marry her?

681
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: Because they're not helpful at all, especially the bets that

682
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: are going on that my wife will leave me once

683
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,359
Speaker 1: she gets better read it.

684
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 2: The internet can just be a very cruel and flippant place.

685
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 2: It's a black.

686
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 4: Hole sometimes it really is.

687
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: Though. You know, I got five bucks on the wife's staying.

688
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 3: Though I think I think the wife will stay.

689
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know what, let's throw it at the

690
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 1: pot in a positive way.

691
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 3: I'm supporting.

692
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, parlay for positivity, good bet, positive bet.

693
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 1: Just seems like you want me to divorce, get a life,

694
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: and then we have some more relevant comments and an

695
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: update eight months later. I'm gonna get right into these

696
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: relevant comments. So from deleted I used to work into

697
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: the involuntary commit system. Everyone is upset with their loved

698
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: ones when they get committed, everyone, and it's a normal

699
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: thing for family members and partners to feel a ton

700
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: of guilt. But your wife needs help. You took the

701
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: steps to get her help, even though it was scary.

702
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,760
Speaker 1: You will not regret this. That's that's good. And also,

703
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: if anyone in the chat has been through a similar

704
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: situation heard at secondhand, very curious on your perspective as

705
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: someone who actually went through this, because again, just an

706
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: impossible scenario to imagine yourself in. But I to me,

707
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 1: I think what I can say for certain is OPI's

708
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: definitely trying his best and has all the care in

709
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 1: the world to try to try to find some sort of.

710
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 2: Solution to help his wife. It just sucks to be

711
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,359
Speaker 2: in a situation where there's only so much you can do,

712
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 2: as as someone who cares so deeply about you know,

713
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: the other person.

714
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really rough. He's trying.

715
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:44,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's doing his best.

716
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 3: Truly, he's trying hoping.

717
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: One three, five, seven, nine to eleven says I had

718
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: to involuntary commit my husband. He had PTSD, and I

719
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 1: got a phone call at work at forty minutes away

720
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: in a different county that he loved me with it.

721
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 2: And I got a.

722
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,280
Speaker 1: Phone call at work forty minutes away in a different

723
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 1: county that he loved me and that I shouldn't feel bad.

724
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 3: I had to call nine to.

725
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 1: One one, balling my eyes out, knowing he was having

726
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: a bad week, and then call the emergency line for

727
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: the county that he was in. They just connect you

728
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: to the nearest one. When the police broke the door down,

729
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:23,280
Speaker 1: he was in the bathroom. Oh my gosh, self harm stuff,

730
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 1: censoring for those reasons.

731
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 3: He was so mad at me.

732
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: He hated me, he wanted a divorce, he never wanted

733
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: to see me again, And to be honest, I was

734
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,439
Speaker 1: pretty angry too, not because of the mental illness, because

735
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: I felt so helpless, I want to say. After a

736
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: week of adjusting meds, he called, apologizing. He told me

737
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: how thankfully was that I called. He was thankful that

738
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: I didn't budget on him being committed and he was

739
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: thankful that someone who knew him well enough to know

740
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 1: that he wasn't manipulating me. He had been pushing me away,

741
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: which is a sign of self harm, and he said

742
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:56,399
Speaker 1: he had been fighting it a lot because of it.

743
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: But you did the right thing, Op. You definitely have

744
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:02,280
Speaker 1: done the right thing for her well being, no matter

745
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 1: how You've definitely done the right.

746
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 2: Thing for her well being, no matter how angry he is.

747
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 1: She will see it one day and we do have

748
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: an update eight months later, and then that's basic. Basically,

749
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 1: this is the the ultimate conclusion here.

750
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 2: How wild would it be if it's like eight months

751
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 2: later and it's just like, so our baby was born

752
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 2: one week ago that I I don't think that's gonna happen,

753
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 2: But how wild would it be for the timeline to

754
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 2: have actually lined up like that? Right? God, I just

755
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 2: hope everything's worked out for the best. I think that

756
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 2: the last comment was like very relevant, where it's like

757
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 2: in the moment, they may they may just like want

758
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 2: nothing to do with you, But on the other side

759
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,919
Speaker 2: of it, it's like you gotta hold out the hope

760
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 2: that they're going to see like that this was all

761
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,879
Speaker 2: done from a place of care.

762
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 1: One thousand, you know, and it's like again like OPI

763
00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: is trying to do the best thing he can and

764
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 1: and I'm glad those people shared their experiences of like, hey,

765
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: here's what it looks like coming out on the other side,

766
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like like people that were like, actually,

767
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,919
Speaker 1: thank you for doing that, even though it's like kind

768
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: of the hardest thing in the world probably to do

769
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: to do to your loved one, but that in those

770
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 1: cases it absolutely did work out well for them. And

771
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: that and also the first comment, which totally makes sense.

772
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: Everyone's going to be angry at you, like when when

773
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: you when you put them in initially, But no.

774
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 2: One's no one's happy about getting involuntarily like restrained into

775
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: any context.

776
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 1: Literally no one, literally no one, but I I have

777
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: I have a feeling.

778
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 2: We got it.

779
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 3: We got a positive enage.

780
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's what I'm looking in on fingers crossing

781
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 2: cross folks.

782
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: Well, update from eight months later, this is quite a

783
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: ways down. Hey guys, it's me again. We've had a

784
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: lot more time on my hands, so I thought, why

785
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: not update the community that helped me, Uh, even if

786
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: it was just to let me know that I could

787
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 1: vince I don't even know how much time has passed,

788
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: eight months, but I am very happy to say that

789
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: things are working out.

790
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 2: Yes, did I not say Dakota huzzas in the chat?

791
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 2: Huzzas in the chat?

792
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 4: Huzza, you got a chat.

793
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 1: I'm very happy to say things are working out. I

794
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: have my wife's permission to share this with you all,

795
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 1: and she is even telling me to greet you. After

796
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,240
Speaker 1: being in the seventy two hours stay, it was determined

797
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 1: that she had.

798
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 2: To stay there. My wife was pissed for the first

799
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:33,760
Speaker 2: few weeks.

800
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: It was a devastating time, but the time in therapy

801
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 1: heals all wounds slowly. I was allowed to come visit,

802
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 1: and every day I went I saw a bit more

803
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:47,879
Speaker 1: of the person I love. There were setbacks along the way,

804
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: and I had to watch a lot of what I

805
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: said and what I did. For example, the first few

806
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: weeks there was there she wouldn't tolerate touch or something

807
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: like that, or things along those lines. Our trust had

808
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,840
Speaker 1: to be regained from both parts. We had put in

809
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: so much work, and even now that she's back home

810
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: and has been for a while, we sometimes have bad

811
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: days where it's difficult for my wife to get out

812
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: of bed or I'm suspicious of her getting back into

813
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 1: that state, But at the end of the day, I'm happy.

814
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: We go to counseling and we are on individual therapy

815
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: as well. Especially due to the stress, I develop some

816
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: form of anxiety myself, which.

817
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 2: Reasonable, reasonable, reasonable, But every day it's a bit better.

818
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 3: I've discovered new sites.

819
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 1: I've discovered new sites for my wife, like the new hobby,

820
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: like the new hobby that she has of making resid

821
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: jewelry and decorations. Even our quarantine time has been quite peaceful.

822
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 1: We still have remote therapy and everything. Things are not

823
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 1: normal yet, and adoption is not back on the table.

824
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: As of now, we have given ourselves at least a

825
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,800
Speaker 1: year of therapy before we think about parenting and raising

826
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: a child.

827
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 2: One thing is for certain. I still love my wife

828
00:40:59,040 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 2: very much.

829
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: Our relationship might not be better than ever, but it

830
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: is sure as heck, stronger than ever. Also, she has

831
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: done a lot of self reflection and of course has

832
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: thanked me for how I handled things. She is lovely

833
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 1: and we are happy.

834
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 2: Amazing. Huh, they're on the right. We got there.

835
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, listen, we freaking got there. And OPI in

836
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 1: an impossible situation had a good outcome.

837
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think made made the right call every time.

838
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: I think when you have like that level of love

839
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:42,479
Speaker 1: and care for someone, it will shine through.

840
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 4: And love always wins love. Hey, love always wins.

841
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 2: He. Love always wins. Love is always winning, lows he.

842
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 2: I think we would be remiss also to not shout

843
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 2: out the mental health professionals that helped her in that

844
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 2: facility for being good, because I mean, there is a

845
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 2: range of like positive and negative experiences in places like that.

846
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's people that abuse the power and balance

847
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: and all that stuff.

848
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 2: So there are some horror stories, but I'm glad that

849
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 2: there were none in this yeah story in particular.

850
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, shout out to them, and shout out to

851
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: everyone who donated to the stream.

852
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 2: That's right.

853
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 3: I think we got some Yeah, da cooda, take it away?

854
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 2: What do we got? That was I'm throwing out the

855
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: fishing pole and I'm reeling back in. There we go

856
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 2: the comments. We got five gifted Okay, storytime memberships from

857
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 2: winter ninety six. Girl, thank you very much. Go more.

858
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:37,919
Speaker 2: Let me get the milks in the chat.

859
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:38,760
Speaker 3: Hold on.

860
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:45,720
Speaker 2: Going, that's the utters, that's the utters going going. Giants Milk,

861
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 2: five gifted memberships. Thank you for growing the family.

862
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,399
Speaker 4: Oh, be ready, be ready, because there's more.

863
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 2: Oh oh oh, we are ready for the milk. Let's

864
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 2: see a little bit more. Kelsey hawf member for one

865
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 2: month cashin shing. That's the sword.

866
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 4: Uh.

867
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,439
Speaker 2: To be honest, that's gonna be the best plan for

868
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 2: her because with the delusion, she can really possibly try

869
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,760
Speaker 2: to kidnap someone else's kid or worse. I think Kelsey's

870
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 2: referring to the sort of fifty one fifty involuntary psych evaluation,

871
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 2: which I think.

872
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 1: We've ultimately worked out of the end. Yes for everyone

873
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: in the Yes, it did.

874
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 2: So there we go, thankfully, thankfully, five more memberships from

875
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 2: Giants Milk. Uh, thank you Giants Milk. You are a legend, dude,

876
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:42,240
Speaker 2: freaking legend. Yeah. I mean what else needs to Oh

877
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 2: oh and another ten dollars from Giants Milk. Today is

878
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 2: a life changing moment for me. I finally got settlement

879
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 2: money for my house that burned down eight years ago.

880
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 5: Whoa wow, congratulation dude, that's huge to celebrate on the

881
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 5: stream today. Yeah you wow, eight years that's I gotta

882
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 5: imagine that's a weight off your shoulders.

883
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, your giant broad goaded shoulders. I figured I would

884
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 2: donate a bunch of memberships during the stream as a celebration.

885
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, we we hate Hey.

886
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 2: I'm I won't hey. I won't tell you no to

887
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 2: that brother?

888
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 4: Uh?

889
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 2: Do we have any more in the super chat or no,

890
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 2: that's not super? Uh? Template in the tip link from

891
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 2: Mama Elie for five dollars, What a w husband. He

892
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: said in sickness and in health and he understood the assignment.

893
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 3: Yes he did business.

894
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. In sickness and in health. He's telling all

895
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 2: those dorks in the comments, excuse me. I don't know

896
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 2: if y'all know what they say in marriage land, but

897
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 2: it's sickness and in health, stupid. Raise your freaking vowels again. Yeah,

898
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: b like op. It's the people who've never been married

899
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 2: that are always like divorce. Hit the divorce right now,

900
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 2: that's true. That's big facts.

901
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 4: Well there's still a couple more first. Oh oh all

902
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 4: that yeah oh.

903
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 2: From Wes west Lynn, thank you for the five dollars.

904
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:21,280
Speaker 2: This is dedicated to Dakota for having a magnetic smile

905
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 2: and his great takes. Stop it. I'm gonna start blushing

906
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 2: with it love the rest of you too, But I'd

907
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: be lying if I said he wasn't my favorite. Oh no,

908
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 2: I am gonna start blushing. Thank you.

909
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 4: Show us your head. Huh, show us your head. Uh.

910
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,800
Speaker 2: Next story. Actually, I'll be taking I've decided to appease

911
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 2: my family, who all hate this hat. So if you

912
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,919
Speaker 2: like the hat in the chat stream, please like leave

913
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 2: some comments.

914
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 3: People you're saying it's your emoji.

915
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's been talks in the discord to find each

916
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: of you guys's emoji.

917
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 2: People discussing I've left. I've left it up to the babes,

918
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: the baby's to decide the faith democracy. I respect it. Yes,

919
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 2: it's out of my hands at this I respect it. Yes,

920
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 2: I think let me yes.

921
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think three ninety five. Did Riley

922
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:16,879
Speaker 1: say if we were going by the numbers?

923
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 2: Thank you?

924
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 4: So let me go ahead and get the Facebook title.

925
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 3: Everything picks yes er, But thanks for all the donos.

926
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:24,399
Speaker 2: Guys.

927
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna hop in this next one in a second,

928
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna pass it over to my gorgeous co

929
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 1: host right here.

930
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 2: Oh and you're my inspiration.

931
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 3: We could be kind of cousins.

932
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: A kind of certain certainly cousins. I feel like we

933
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 2: could be I have a feeling in my blood. Actually, dude,

934
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 2: I meant to say this on the last stream.

935
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 6: You are.

936
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: A mix of like multiple people in my childhood, Like

937
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 1: you have the face of my friend Joseph and something

938
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 1: else of other people that I.

939
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 2: Come like a chimera of your childhood memories.

940
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's the chimera?

941
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 2: Chimera is like a mythological creature with parts from different animals.

942
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 2: The head of a lion, like the wings of an eagle,

943
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 2: like a like a griffin is technically like a kind

944
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 2: of chimera, right am I right about that? Right? Yes,

945
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 2: it's a horse bird. And look everyone everyone in the

946
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 2: chat is pro hat. I see a lot of pro hats.

947
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 2: This is out shout out to my family who may

948
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 2: be watching this. They like the hat, okay, telling me

949
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 2: to burn it.

950
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:33,919
Speaker 1: Bucket hat, Prince Ax. That's I kind of like that.

951
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 1: Buckets are buckets kind of cool. You can you can

952
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: because because like the people can can bring forth, but

953
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 1: you could also give your coast.

954
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 2: Then I feel like I feel like that it's it's

955
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 2: an electoral college of sorts, yes, and you know they're

956
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 2: they're free to look I I will sign off on

957
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 2: any emoji that they choose. But I just gotta I

958
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 2: gotta swing back and forth now between the hat on

959
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 2: and the hat off to appease my family, who straight

960
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 2: up like we're borderline threatening me. They're like, stop wearing

961
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 2: stop wearing the hat or else? What is basically? What

962
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 2: what's the deal? I don't know. They just don't like

963
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 2: the hat. They're like, there was people in the comments

964
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 2: talking about how nice your hair is. Why don't you

965
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: instead of being the guy with the hat be the

966
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 2: guy with the hair. And I'm like, hello, you see

967
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 2: the guy next to me right now, he's the guy

968
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 2: with the hair being.

969
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 3: Taters.

970
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're being adders like on the hat, I see you.

971
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 2: Oh wait, Katara Kata Rain said, Dakota without the hat

972
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 2: is Damien his evil twin? Yeah? It was like, is

973
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 2: this Damien?

974
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 3: Like who's Damien?

975
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 2: It's like it is evil twin, it's me, It's Damien.

976
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 2: Now I'm cool, Damien.

977
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 4: Cool whenever you guys are a good story, Well.

978
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 2: Cool, Damien, you wanna wrote down another story? Ready to

979
00:48:55,680 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 2: I'm ready to roll because I'm Damien. What's freaking ready?

980
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: My parents wanted my sister's fiance to propose at my wedding,

981
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 2: so we eloped instead.

982
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 3: Yep. Sounds about right.

983
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, it's your day, make it yours. Maybe this

984
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 2: is the wrong place, but I'm going to explode with

985
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 2: rage and disappointment at my family. Well good news, this

986
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,399
Speaker 2: is the right place too. By the way, this comes

987
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 2: from user off my wedding on the r slash. Okay,

988
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 2: story time, so I read it. So my baby sister

989
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 2: is the golden child, or maybe that's unfair to say.

990
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 2: She survived cancer when she was a child. Nice. It

991
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,919
Speaker 2: was the darkest period of my parents' life. I don't

992
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 2: remember much of it because my parents shielded me from

993
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 2: the horrific truth. Also nice. You know, children shouldn't have

994
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 2: to deal with their their brothers or sisters having cancer.

995
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 3: Super traumatic mm hm.

996
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 2: I knew she was sick, and I remember all of

997
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,399
Speaker 2: my childhood spent in hospitals, but never did I know

998
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 2: that my sister almost died until many, many years. I

999
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 2: was twelve and she was ten. After she beat her sickness,

1000
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 2: she became the obvious favorite of the house. She got

1001
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 2: everything she wanted, and sometimes it was at my expense.

1002
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 2: I resented that, but I always heard that I was

1003
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 2: a naughty girl for being jealous of my hero sister.

1004
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 2: My sister grew up to be a brat Now twenty

1005
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 2: years later, she's still bratty, although we get along a

1006
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 2: lot better than when we were teenagers slash adults. I

1007
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 2: was goun down.

1008
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 3: I should have said it.

1009
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 1: And you know, we haven't seen the evidence yet, but

1010
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,400
Speaker 1: we have seen stories before where it's like a child

1011
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: goes through something horrific, but that the extra attention and

1012
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: everything carries through decades later into their adulthood. It's like, Okay,

1013
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 1: we don't need to yeah, you know.

1014
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:45,360
Speaker 2: But it's like I feel like that's got to almost

1015
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 2: be a subconscious thing. It's like when you're you have

1016
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,320
Speaker 2: a child survives cancer, it's like you're gonna be almost

1017
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 2: hardwired to like give them a little extra for everything

1018
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 2: you went through as a parent.

1019
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 3: In total fairness, you know.

1020
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 2: And then her, you know, op was like, you know,

1021
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 2: twelve and didn't know, so of course she's going to

1022
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:02,799
Speaker 2: grow up with this like weird, like why is my

1023
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 2: sister getting all this kind of extra treatment? Like what

1024
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:07,880
Speaker 2: like the question is today anyway?

1025
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: And they skip like Ohpi's graduation and wedding and that

1026
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,439
Speaker 1: kind of stuff because of it. That's that's where we

1027
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:16,240
Speaker 1: that's where the lines we frosted.

1028
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: We did read the title, let's see, let's see where

1029
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 2: where this is gonna go. Here. My wedding is in July.

1030
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 2: Neither my fiance nor I have the money for a

1031
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 2: big wedding, so we settled for a small wedding thirty

1032
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 2: people at my fiance's grandparents, who have a beautiful house

1033
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 2: with a lake view. My parents, when they heard this,

1034
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 2: said no way and offered to pay for a bigger

1035
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 2: wedding and a better venue. We did not agree at first,

1036
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 2: but later we did not want to disappoint them, and

1037
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 2: it seemed like it was important to them. No, I mean,

1038
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:53,240
Speaker 2: it sounds like they relented. Last week, my mom invited

1039
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 2: me over my dad. My mom and my sister's boyfriend

1040
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 2: asked me what I would think if my sister's boyfriend

1041
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,399
Speaker 2: pose to my sister during the wedding, so it would

1042
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 2: become an engagement party as well as a wedding. So

1043
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 2: mom had seen this, uh seen reels on Instagram about

1044
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,399
Speaker 2: people proposing to maids of honors their bridesmaids and thought

1045
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:20,360
Speaker 2: it was cute. And my sister is my maid of honor. No, dude, No, no, hey, guys,

1046
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 2: you know what, let's just like, let's just get like

1047
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 2: married right here.

1048
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 1: It's just like, you know, we have the guy here,

1049
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: we're all really dressed up.

1050
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,399
Speaker 2: You know, everybody's already got marriage on the mind. Why

1051
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 2: don't we just throw a proposal in there and then

1052
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: everyone gets to be happy.

1053
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: You can just take off your dress and put it

1054
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: on and then real quick in and out.

1055
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 2: Ye like just a parasitic wedding, just a letting a

1056
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 2: wedding latched onto yours. Have let me just override your wedding.

1057
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 4: But I can't even spell narcissist.

1058
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 2: It's a hard word to spell.

1059
00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:58,399
Speaker 4: I can I can spell it.

1060
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 2: I can't. I know that OP can spell the word no,

1061
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:08,879
Speaker 2: because that's what she said. She said, I said no

1062
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 2: to me, that is ridiculous, and laughed. My mom was livid.

1063
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 2: She told me I was selfish and ungrateful, and I

1064
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 2: accused her of favoritism. Oh here we go, I told her,

1065
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 2: I always thought it was odd that you'd pay for

1066
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 2: my wedding, but now I know the reason why. She

1067
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 2: started crying and kicked me out of the house. Later,

1068
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 2: both she and my future brother in law sent me

1069
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,280
Speaker 2: text warning me from expressing their plan to my sister.

1070
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 2: My fiance was disappointed but not sure what we could do.

1071
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,839
Speaker 2: My parents have spent almost thirty thousand and it's too

1072
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 2: late to cancel dikes. My mother called me today to

1073
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:50,280
Speaker 2: plan the proposal, and I begged her not to ruin

1074
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 2: my day. She told me, since she was paying, she

1075
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 2: can make requests and that I should let go of

1076
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 2: my jealousy and resentment towards my sister because she's innocent

1077
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 2: in all of this. But the thing is this day

1078
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:06,240
Speaker 2: will end up being about my sister. Yeah. Also shout

1079
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 2: out to Opie's mom for being like, well, I'm paying

1080
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 2: for it, so I get to make special requests. It's like,

1081
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 2: we didn't ask you to pay for this, you insisted

1082
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 2: upon it to the point of it being like weird,

1083
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 2: and now we have to let you do it. And

1084
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 2: it turns out it was just a trapdoor. Surprise trapdoor,

1085
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 2: narcissistic trap door. It'll trapdoor, spiderated, they sound Spider's make

1086
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: when they plan things. Okay, moving continuing on, I told

1087
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 2: my fiance to ask his grandparents if they're still willing

1088
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 2: to host my wedding. If they are, I'll revert to

1089
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 2: our original plan. If not, I will just elope not

1090
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 2: sure yet if I'm going to tell my family and

1091
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 2: cancel the wedding or just let them have their grand

1092
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:59,240
Speaker 2: proposal party. None of my family is invited to my wedding,

1093
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 2: include my sister, and we do have an update. But

1094
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,799
Speaker 2: I think that's the most baller move you could make,

1095
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 2: is to just run off and have your secret wedding

1096
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 2: with your husband and let them just have the thirty

1097
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 2: thousand dollars proposal party exactly. Yeah, like listen if you

1098
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 2: if you want to, if you were literally.

1099
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: Trying to like buy the wedding so it could also

1100
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 1: in turn become a posal just put all of the

1101
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: thirty k in, all of the effort and focus onto.

1102
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 2: Them having a proposal party. Go ahead, yep, go ahead,

1103
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 2: have fun. This is that the bed that you have made,

1104
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 2: and you will now lay in it. Because I tried to,

1105
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 2: I begged you please do not make this engagement thing

1106
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 2: happen at my wedding. It's my wedding day. Please just

1107
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 2: let it be my wedding day. And they would not listen.

1108
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 2: So guess what you get to spend thirty thousand dollars

1109
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 2: on your favorite child's proposal, which is not a no

1110
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 2: one needs to be there for the proposal, guys. A

1111
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 2: proposals just between the two people doing the proposing.

1112
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 1: You could have more people if you want, but it's

1113
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 1: like it's a about the two that that person, you know,

1114
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:04,839
Speaker 1: being like, hey, will you bury me? And that's most

1115
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: people want, like an intimate moment for that. They don't

1116
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 1: want to also, wait, would the uh would the sister know?

1117
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 1: Because they'd have to because the posal is supposed to

1118
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 1: be a surprised so like, hey, we're just gonna do

1119
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: this giant party just to just cause why not?

1120
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 2: I'm here's here's the play by play before we get

1121
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:25,839
Speaker 2: into the update. Here's exactly how I bet you these

1122
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 2: people were planning. Okay, So they throw the bouquet right,

1123
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 2: and the sister's in the mix with the people who

1124
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 2: want to catch the bouquet, and then everybody else like

1125
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 2: backs out, so she's the only one who can get

1126
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 2: the bouquet right that the that the bride throws behind her,

1127
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 2: and then husband comes out and gets on one knee

1128
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 2: and is like, will you be bye forever please? And

1129
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 2: then everyone's like Oh my god. Wow, that's so crazy.

1130
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: And now the coolest thing at her wedding is someone

1131
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 2: else getting engaged. Correct, yeah, correct, Which that's that sucks.

1132
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 1: It's how it goes down when these things, which sadly

1133
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: shockingly these things do happen.

1134
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 2: They do. I mean, it's happening right now.

1135
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 1: And good on Op for standing up and like putting

1136
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: in for Demul, Like, no, if you want to do it,

1137
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:11,320
Speaker 1: go ahead, have your thirty k engagement party.

1138
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do me. Yeah, I'm eloping. That's a good word.

1139
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 2: I like a lope.

1140
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 3: It is right.

1141
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: And by the way, that is running away and basically

1142
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: kind of getting married without everyone there.

1143
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 3: I didn't know that when we first started talking about that.

1144
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 2: Speaking oiloping, we're about to elope into this update right now.

1145
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 1: Well, Dakota, I would be remiss if I ignored the the fat,

1146
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 1: swinging full teat that just squeezed out. If you could

1147
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 1: share what the donation was, I just saw the chat

1148
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: full of milk five more gifted membership from more Milk

1149
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: five Milky's five more milkies.

1150
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 2: Guys.

1151
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: The teat is full and it's not running dry anytime soon,

1152
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: it seems.

1153
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 2: It seems the teat is full. Dare I try to

1154
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 2: elope away from the milk man?

1155
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 1: Yes, the shout to shout of the Lord milky and

1156
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 1: will hit those the rest of those donos after.

1157
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 2: This story is unstoppable, the milk stoppable Giant's milk milk Man.

1158
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 3: All right, we'll tend baby.

1159
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 2: Let's get into this update. You're I really want to

1160
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 2: thank everyone that showed me support. I'm now happily married

1161
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 2: and in Como, Italy for my honeymoon. Okay, who'd you marry?

1162
00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 2: George Clooney? Shoot? Uh. I tried to stay away from

1163
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 2: my phone, but I was so curious to see my

1164
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 2: family's reaction to my elopement a week earlier than planned.

1165
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 2: It was really ugly. I must start with saying that

1166
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 2: I really tried my best to negotiate and compromise with

1167
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 2: my family and truly explain that this was hurting me.

1168
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 2: I have nothing against my sister, and to be honest,

1169
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 2: nothing against her getting engaged on my wedding day, but

1170
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 2: the principle that it was made so very clear to

1171
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 2: me that I had absolutely no opinion or say in

1172
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 2: what was going to happen on what was supposed to

1173
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: be my special day. Was where I drew the line fair.

1174
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 2: It wasn't a wish or request. It was a matter

1175
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 2: of fact, and it was decided. So I told my

1176
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 2: mom that I'm not going to attend the party that

1177
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 2: she's paid for. Maybe they could just make a oh goodness,

1178
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 2: so meet. So I told my mom that I'm not

1179
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 2: going to attend the party she's paid for. Maybe they

1180
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 2: should just make it an engagement party instead. Yes, she

1181
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 2: got very upset and told me that the engagement was

1182
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 2: supposed to be a surprise. I told her that I

1183
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 2: was just giving her the heads up since she's about

1184
00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 2: to lose an insane amount of money. Oh nice. She

1185
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 2: didn't take me seriously, like I wasn't going to cancel

1186
00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 2: my wedding because of this trivial thing. What she didn't

1187
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 2: know is that I've already made plans to get married

1188
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 2: a week earlier at my grandparents in law. Oh yeah,

1189
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 2: she didn't think I was serious. I had to show

1190
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 2: why I'm serious through the cards on the table. Eh.

1191
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 2: I did. Our closest friends and some even had to

1192
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 2: book earlier flights and take more vacation days. For these people.

1193
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 2: I was extra great, good friend. What was left was

1194
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 2: my sister. I'd been back and forth arguing and negotiating

1195
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 2: with my parents and future brother in law. I decided

1196
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 2: that even if this would ruin her surprise, I had

1197
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 2: to tell her. So I did. I mean, hey, and

1198
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 2: this is why you don't want to make your engagement

1199
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 2: to somebody somebody else's business bing go hello. She wasn't

1200
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 2: really happy with my mom, but she was more upset

1201
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 2: that I ruined her surprise, and she, as I expected,

1202
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 2: thought I could have just sucked it up and gone

1203
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 2: with the flow. I did not tell her about my

1204
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 2: new wedding day. Dude. I was like, I was like

1205
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 2: skimming a little ahead. I'm like, oh, she was surprised that, Like,

1206
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 2: she was like thoughtful, and she was like, yeah, I know,

1207
01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 2: it's okay. I'm sorry. They tried to were supposed to tight. No. No,

1208
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 2: it's like you're the one ruining it. Not The people

1209
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 2: went out of their way to plan on the same

1210
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 2: day and didn't let you have a say in it.

1211
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 3: There's a million days on the calendar and.

1212
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 2: Sort of strong armed you into getting them to pay

1213
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 2: for it too, which I think op is right was

1214
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 2: secretly a move all along for them to be able

1215
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 2: to do this manipulation tactic for sure. Yeah, so onto

1216
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 2: the wedding. The wedding was dream like. In the back

1217
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 2: of my head, I was hurt the people who quote

1218
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 2: unquote loved me the most weren't there. But I pushed

1219
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 2: that thought away and refused to let it ruin our day.

1220
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 2: My husband was amazing, and he promised to make me

1221
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 2: happy for the rest of my life and to make

1222
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 2: up for every heartbreak I've experienced in my past. All

1223
01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:44,480
Speaker 2: my in laws surprised us with upgrading our honeymoon to

1224
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 2: a five star hotel. Family.

1225
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to be part of this family.

1226
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 3: Let's all marry the laws.

1227
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 2: In laws w in laws. I had my friends and

1228
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 2: some cousins and my favorite ant attending. We asked them

1229
01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 2: not to live stream or upload any pictures to social

1230
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 2: media until we're already on our honeymoon. We also asked

1231
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 2: them not to engage in any altercations online with my family.

1232
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 2: So you have to warn people not to fight with

1233
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 2: your family online.

1234
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 3: You know there's a problem.

1235
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a feeling that it's not gonna work either.

1236
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 2: There's definitely gonna be some fights online. Yeah. Today my

1237
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 2: mom made a long Facebook slash Twitter slash Instagram post

1238
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 2: bashing me and my husband, following me ungrateful and disrespectful

1239
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 2: with pictures of my wedding, telling people I've cost her

1240
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 2: a big chunk of her savings and she's now demanding compensation. Gross.

1241
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 2: Her Facebook post was shared about two hundred times, and

1242
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 2: the majority of my extended family is angry with me.

1243
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 2: She never once tried to contact me. I really thought

1244
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 2: she would bombard my phone. Instead, both her and my

1245
01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 2: dad announced that they're cutting me off and are expecting compensation.

1246
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 2: Future brother in law commented that I ruined his surprise,

1247
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 2: and my sister made a post about being tired of

1248
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 2: jealous bees and haters. None of the people we invited

1249
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 2: has commented, even though some of them were directly attacked,

1250
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 2: they respected our wishes at w W friends w friends.

1251
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 2: Sounds like, hey, look at that people respecting op's boundaries.

1252
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 2: What maybe her family should take notes.

1253
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 1: Do you mean if someone asked me not to do

1254
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 1: something because it's gonna hurt them in some way, I

1255
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 1: shouldn't do that thing?

1256
01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 2: Okay? And and would you would you believe it or not?

1257
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 2: It's possible to do that, folks. Oh, you can respect boundaries.

1258
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:44,040
Speaker 3: Respect. Wow, the boundaries.

1259
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't understand English, so no, I don't get it.

1260
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 2: Aretha Franklin literally spells it out in a song. Folks.

1261
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 2: It's called rbspect all right, you find out what it

1262
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 2: means to me?

1263
01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 1: Does that mean I pushed them off the wedding pedestal

1264
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: and then get married instead?

1265
01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 2: Is that that's right? And then you got the boundary

1266
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 2: and then you hit them with the RKO out of nowhere? Yeah, yeah, okay.

1267
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 2: To finish this off act well, before we finish this off,

1268
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 2: I gotta let you know that you can join us

1269
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 2: live on YouTube every weekday at three pm specific Standard time.

1270
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 2: Just tap our profile, do it. I don't know if

1271
01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 2: they're going to go ahead and turn the wedding into

1272
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 2: an engagement party. Now I really hope that they do

1273
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 2: so the money isn't wasted. It's on Saturday. I'm sorry

1274
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 2: the update got too long, but with the amount of

1275
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 2: people asking for an update, I hope this was what

1276
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:38,640
Speaker 2: you wanted and that is the end of that story.

1277
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 2: So we don't have an update on We don't need

1278
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 2: an if they did the wedding, but honestly, I think

1279
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:47,919
Speaker 2: you just have the big party if you paid thirty

1280
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 2: thousand dollars for it, and you live in the bed

1281
01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 2: that you made. You made that bed, you demanded that

1282
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 2: you pay for this nice, fancier wedding, and you were

1283
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 2: going to go against Opie's wishes, which she said, like

1284
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 2: it wasn't even about the engagement like she was, which

1285
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 2: is good for her, Like bigger person than I think

1286
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 2: I could have been. It could have been all smiles

1287
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 2: and positivity. Yeah, she could have been totally fine with it,

1288
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 2: but it was more the attitude that like the family

1289
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,439
Speaker 2: was like, you know, you don't get to have a say,

1290
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 2: you don't get to even have feelings about this situation.

1291
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 2: It's like it's going to happen. We're paying for the wedding,

1292
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 2: and she's like, all right, well you have fun paying

1293
01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 2: for an engagement party.

1294
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 1: Then, like I don't understand these people's fixations with getting

1295
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 1: engaged at I don't understand at the wedding.

1296
01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 2: It's probably because they want to be the center of attention.

1297
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 4: They got the main character disease, like you're like, oh

1298
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 4: my god, you inspired us, like this is so magical,

1299
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 4: but we're not gonna steal the limelight from you.

1300
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 2: They've got a main character disease when they're just NPCs. Ooh,

1301
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 2: that's a bar and that is a bar right there,

1302
01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 2: main kbricter disease when you just n PCs booby bop bbobe.

1303
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 4: Uh. Let's go ahead, We're going to the next story.

1304
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 4: But let's read some doughnuts while I fix that title.

1305
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 2: Okay, what's fricking you gonna beat this one or I'm

1306
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:10,440
Speaker 2: gonna take that's all? You big next story? We know

1307
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 2: what that means.

1308
01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 1: Yes, sir is back on boom and and uh ke

1309
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 1: on you can you can keep them there?

1310
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 2: Took? Okay? Yeah? Should I make you think that the

1311
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 2: visual non continent?

1312
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 1: It's fine as long as you actually if you if

1313
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: you took it off halfway through, it would probably really

1314
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 1: get the people going because it'll it'll probably be a

1315
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 1: jump cut and then you just won't have a hat

1316
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: and it'll be hilarious.

1317
01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:33,040
Speaker 2: Who is this man with no bucket? Head on?

1318
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 1: I'm provat west Lane. Thanks for the five bucks on

1319
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 1: the tip link. I meant happy correct oopsie. It's payday though,

1320
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: so I'm happy to get to donate to you group

1321
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 1: of lovely people.

1322
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 4: Well.

1323
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 3: Shout out to you, west.

1324
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 2: Lane for being a lovely person. And I know it's

1325
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 2: it's west Lean, wes Lean, wes Lean.

1326
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 3: How dare I, Wesley? How dare I?

1327
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 4: Well?

1328
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:54,320
Speaker 2: Thank you?

1329
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: Let me come correct, Let me come correct. Thanks for

1330
01:06:56,800 --> 01:07:00,040
Speaker 1: the five bucks. Uh, my dad proceeded, my bat. My

1331
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 1: dad proposed to my mom at their friend's wedding. Safe

1332
01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 1: to say they're not friends with them anymore. Also, keep

1333
01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 1: the hat, d coda, it makes you happy. And and

1334
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 1: hair looks great on you.

1335
01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks Wesley.

1336
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 3: That is conflicting.

1337
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 2: Though the hair looks great and keep the hat. Those

1338
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:17,919
Speaker 2: are two conflicting. I think she says, No matter what,

1339
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 2: I got the best of both worlds. You're the hair

1340
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 2: of Montana. The hair is looking good always, even if

1341
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:25,440
Speaker 2: it's under that even under I get it. I get it.

1342
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 1: H Grandma got a potty mouth. Thanks for the twenty

1343
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 1: bucks on the Dono link. Good golly Gilber's Oh wow,

1344
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 1: And Mama Ellie, thanks for the five bucks. What a

1345
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: w husband.

1346
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:38,800
Speaker 2: He said in sickness and in health and understood the

1347
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 2: assignment on hundred per I might have read that twice,

1348
01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:43,280
Speaker 2: but it was just that nice. There we go, and

1349
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:45,880
Speaker 2: let's see the super chuts. Nice you read it twice.

1350
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 1: You're Rachel Night, thanks for the five Buccaroni's proposed at

1351
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 1: my wedding, and I'm announcing my pregnancy at your baby shower,

1352
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 1: uh and passing away at your That's the enter the

1353
01:07:58,840 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: type of type of.

1354
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 2: Time we're on right now.

1355
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 1: Billy Claire, thanks for the two Australian dollars. Might okay

1356
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,720
Speaker 1: storytime bucket hat merch please?

1357
01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:07,440
Speaker 2: Oh?

1358
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 3: Oh, it would be.

1359
01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: Kind of hard, like a little like okay, like the

1360
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 1: strip around.

1361
01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 3: I feel like it could go crazy, It really could.

1362
01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:18,280
Speaker 1: But Tom says, Hey, Dakota, we have loads of crafters

1363
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 1: in the fandom. Do you need us to make you

1364
01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:22,679
Speaker 1: a new bucket hat?

1365
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:26,600
Speaker 2: Oh, We're gonna get a tidal way put your re

1366
01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 2: question right now? What would you like? I think, honestly, hey,

1367
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:33,520
Speaker 2: someone can make a prototype of the okay storytime bucket hat.

1368
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 2: Who knows. Maybe I'd have to rock that. I might

1369
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 2: just I might just have to rock that and put

1370
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 2: this to the side until we get that nameless Swedish

1371
01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 2: furniture company sponsorship that we've been just waiting on.

1372
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 3: We'll tie the time with that.

1373
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:50,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's coming, though, It's gonna have coming.

1374
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:55,799
Speaker 1: Someone made the chain link okay for us. Oh no way, Yeah.

1375
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 2: They I didn't even realize that was chainlink, right, It's

1376
01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 2: so awesome, it's crazy. Not who ever made that on

1377
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 2: a friend in school who made an entire chain link

1378
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:08,640
Speaker 2: like night out like suit of armor. Respect Yeah, it

1379
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 2: took a long time.

1380
01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:11,680
Speaker 3: I can only imagine.

1381
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:13,719
Speaker 2: And he'd be like trying to cut me with this sword,

1382
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:18,160
Speaker 2: very into medieval stuff. Tang, yeah, dang daddy, And it

1383
01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:20,599
Speaker 2: worked the chain mail. He did not get sliced by

1384
01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 2: the very real sword. God, we were dumb in high school.

1385
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 2: We're just trying to cut each other up with swords

1386
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 2: wearing chain passive boy activities.

1387
01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 3: Passive boy activities?

1388
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:29,600
Speaker 2: Is that? Is that all the Dono's and that.

1389
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 4: Is all the jonos? Guys, We're We're ready. Who's reading?

1390
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 2: Shout out Belton for the chain mail? Belton is the

1391
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:36,320
Speaker 2: chain mail?

1392
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 3: Oh belt it? Oh dude, Belton, what a legend?

1393
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 2: January I believe. Uh.

1394
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,800
Speaker 3: We just did one more from me and my friends.

1395
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:50,519
Speaker 1: Two s two oh Kimberly fine dangs for the two

1396
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 1: buccaroonies like the stream.

1397
01:09:52,960 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 2: Do it for Dan, Do it for Dan?

1398
01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:59,599
Speaker 3: Do it for Dan? Okay, I got no legs?

1399
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 4: Lieutint Dan?

1400
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 3: Well then do it for Nan, for Dan.

1401
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:08,639
Speaker 4: Are at John you already whenever it's big dog.

1402
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:14,719
Speaker 1: We are pumping Dakota's face in in our nebula.

1403
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 2: We're pumping those numbers up.

1404
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:18,679
Speaker 4: Baby pumping and Dakota should not be in the same sentence.

1405
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 3: I think they should it up. There we go, all right?

1406
01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:24,639
Speaker 2: Are we ready?

1407
01:10:24,960 --> 01:10:25,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it.

1408
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 2: My Golden Child's sister has always been awful to me,

1409
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 2: but I refuse to stand for her treatment. Put the

1410
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:36,240
Speaker 2: foot down. That's right. You put that foot down, and

1411
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 2: that confidence goes up.

1412
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 3: Baby, that's right.

1413
01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 2: I forty female and my sister thirty eight, let's call

1414
01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:46,840
Speaker 2: her Sarah, have been feuding badly since we were teenagers.

1415
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:51,360
Speaker 2: It started when we were little kids, normal fighting over toys, friends,

1416
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 2: who sits, we're at the dinner table, et cetera. As

1417
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 2: we grew and became our own people, we grew in

1418
01:10:57,240 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 2: very different directions, and the arguing with just it worse.

1419
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 2: I became very unkind towards her, not proud of that.

1420
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 2: Sarah learned to use that to her advantage, purposefully antagonizing

1421
01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:13,439
Speaker 2: me until I lost my cool and the argument would escalate.

1422
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 2: Depending on how mad I was, this would end up

1423
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:19,519
Speaker 2: with me getting into trouble and her getting away Scott Freeze.

1424
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:23,280
Speaker 2: So she was like the mastermind manipulating good emushan.

1425
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 1: But I'm wondering it kind of sounds like it could

1426
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:27,160
Speaker 1: be a situation where she was like, yeah, I was.

1427
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 3: I was bad to her.

1428
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 1: I'm not proud of it, but was she just like hey,

1429
01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 1: she just like attacked me, and the parents were like,

1430
01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:37,800
Speaker 1: you can't do that punishment, you know what I mean?

1431
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:41,200
Speaker 2: Like, it could be, but we'll see. We'll find out

1432
01:11:41,240 --> 01:11:44,919
Speaker 2: soon enough. By the way, this comes from user misfit

1433
01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:48,679
Speaker 2: fifty four thirty two one on the r slash Okay

1434
01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:53,639
Speaker 2: Storytime subur So. As teenagers, she would steal my things

1435
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:57,679
Speaker 2: and because they weren't my usual style shirts or music,

1436
01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:01,599
Speaker 2: parents would side with her, and I would lose CDs

1437
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 2: in some of my favorite shirts to go out in Okay.

1438
01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:08,120
Speaker 2: I have many good memories with her. It turns out

1439
01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 2: it was all an act. Okay, Wow, Okay, Well let's

1440
01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:16,160
Speaker 2: see why that's the case. It's a bold claim. At

1441
01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 2: the beginning of his story here right, Sarah does not

1442
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 2: recall a single good memory with me, and I am

1443
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 2: still always in the wrong. And wow, So She's gotten

1444
01:12:27,880 --> 01:12:30,760
Speaker 2: so cold as to do nothing but judge and insult me,

1445
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:33,920
Speaker 2: call me delusional when I remind her that she also

1446
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:37,400
Speaker 2: wasn't perfect. And as the years went by, she started

1447
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 2: ignoring me more. We would still see each other and

1448
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 2: be civil at family get togethers, But then she got

1449
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 2: pregnant and even more mean towards me. I wasn't allowed

1450
01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 2: to wish her happy birthday without her getting mad at

1451
01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:51,599
Speaker 2: me and reminding me I'm a terrible person and will

1452
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:53,719
Speaker 2: not have any kind of relationship with her child.

1453
01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 1: Wow, dang, what happened? Yes, happy birthday? You will never

1454
01:12:58,680 --> 01:12:59,280
Speaker 1: see my child?

1455
01:12:59,360 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 3: Are you kidding?

1456
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 2: You will never? It's like, hey, not happy birthday? I

1457
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 2: mean clearly, I mean she was Opie's sister was deeply

1458
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 2: impacted by this. I gotta assume. Let's do some more

1459
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:17,840
Speaker 2: digging here. So this caused more problems between us. I mean, yeah,

1460
01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:24,799
Speaker 2: that makes sense. The child needed protection from me. Note

1461
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:28,000
Speaker 2: I have a degree in early childhood education and work

1462
01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 2: at a daycare with kids and toddlers every day, a

1463
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 2: job I would not have if I was a danger

1464
01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:38,160
Speaker 2: to children. Okay, So so her sister's trying to be like,

1465
01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:41,320
Speaker 2: you can't see my kid, you're you just might go

1466
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:45,280
Speaker 2: off the rails and hurt my child. And meanwhile, OPI

1467
01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 2: literally works every day with children, So gonna have to

1468
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:52,000
Speaker 2: say OPI's probably grown up to be a well adjusted person,

1469
01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 2: and maybe her sister is a little like holding on

1470
01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 2: to the teenage years.

1471
01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stand on my devil's advocate and just say

1472
01:14:03,439 --> 01:14:06,240
Speaker 1: that uh Op is the crazy one and spinning the narrative.

1473
01:14:06,320 --> 01:14:10,719
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, conspiracy theory hard mode.

1474
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:14,400
Speaker 3: I could be wrong, but I'm standing on it.

1475
01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:17,680
Speaker 2: Standing on that business, and you're never wrong standing on

1476
01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:23,920
Speaker 2: that business. Correct. Yeah. Sarah has recently tried to tell

1477
01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 2: me not to show up to her child's birthday. My

1478
01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 2: grandmother and the child share a birthday. I kindly told

1479
01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:33,640
Speaker 2: her when my grandmother isn't around anymore, she can have

1480
01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 2: that day all to herself. My grandmother is in her

1481
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:41,320
Speaker 2: late nineties. Enough said, Since COVID and some major health

1482
01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:44,400
Speaker 2: scares in the family, my priorities have changed, and I

1483
01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:47,839
Speaker 2: decided not to miss out on the important family stuff anymore.

1484
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 2: This was the first major sign of attempt troll. Once

1485
01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:56,760
Speaker 2: the child started calling me by name, Sarah pulled away

1486
01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 2: even more. She decided not to go to Thanksgiving with

1487
01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 2: the family because I was there. We barely saw each

1488
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:06,160
Speaker 2: other during summer since we were alternating weekend visits. Christmas

1489
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:08,360
Speaker 2: came and the child was sitting at the table with

1490
01:15:08,520 --> 01:15:12,040
Speaker 2: everyone during their dinner time. The child was pointing at

1491
01:15:12,040 --> 01:15:15,320
Speaker 2: people saying I love you. He pointed at me and

1492
01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 2: said I love her too. Then I got the look

1493
01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:24,560
Speaker 2: I got from Sarah. Oh man, I can only imagine

1494
01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 2: the evil eye glare. You must have gotten the smoke

1495
01:15:30,080 --> 01:15:33,559
Speaker 2: coming out of the ears you talk to my child,

1496
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:35,840
Speaker 2: the volcano head erupting like that' for.

1497
01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:49,559
Speaker 6: That's like, oh godlier, Okay, still still, I'm still I

1498
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 6: have not.

1499
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 2: I you know, well, it remains to be seen. Who's

1500
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:58,080
Speaker 2: really what's going down here? We'll see, We'll Seeho's right

1501
01:15:58,120 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 2: in the end. So I hadn't done anything to provoke

1502
01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:04,759
Speaker 2: the child into saying that I have been respecting her wishes.

1503
01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 2: And I don't talk to the child at all, like

1504
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:10,719
Speaker 2: cause she's just calling her the child. Later that visit,

1505
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 2: we got into an argument. I had a new puppy

1506
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 2: with me, still learning not to bite during play. She's

1507
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 2: a chihuahua. The child was running and playing when my

1508
01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 2: puppy jumped at the child to play. I did not

1509
01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:26,080
Speaker 2: see this happen. Apparently it left a little mark that

1510
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 2: I was not allowed to see. When I inquired about it,

1511
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:32,280
Speaker 2: Sarah and I got into a huge fight. It started

1512
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:34,760
Speaker 2: with me asking her to let my puppy and her

1513
01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 2: child have positive experiences together so they aren't afraid of

1514
01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:41,320
Speaker 2: each other and they can understand each other. She flat

1515
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 2: out refused and threatens to throw my dog across the room. Hmmm,

1516
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:53,040
Speaker 2: casual animal abuse, okay? Or did the dog actually attack

1517
01:16:53,880 --> 01:16:56,200
Speaker 2: the kid? And nope, he's playing it down. It's a Chihuahua.

1518
01:16:56,920 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 4: If it the dog just jumped on and I get

1519
01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:01,640
Speaker 4: just it's a chiwalaj on a child. You know, the

1520
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 4: dog can't control itself and maybe just like a little scratch.

1521
01:17:04,320 --> 01:17:06,479
Speaker 2: If it was a great Dane, I'd be like, all right,

1522
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:11,040
Speaker 2: maybe don't let your unruly giant dog around the small child.

1523
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 2: If a dog jumps at your child, you're not throwing

1524
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:16,760
Speaker 2: a dog across the room. But it's like, all right,

1525
01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:22,720
Speaker 2: but you over here, I mean sure, I mean, come on,

1526
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:28,760
Speaker 2: My point is just proving itself. Cha chihuahwa I they

1527
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 2: can go crazy. Come on, see what you did there.

1528
01:17:32,160 --> 01:17:38,880
Speaker 2: They're just loud. I almost want to put a pull

1529
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:42,360
Speaker 2: in the chat, but not yet. I lost it on

1530
01:17:42,439 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 2: her after saying she would throw my dog across the room.

1531
01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:48,880
Speaker 2: I lost it on her doing so to my little

1532
01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 2: three pound puppy would not end very well for my pup.

1533
01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 2: I had several choice words for her at that moment,

1534
01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:58,240
Speaker 2: including that if she ever did anything to my dog,

1535
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 2: I would sue her for every thing I could. Now

1536
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:05,000
Speaker 2: I'm the bad guy tenfold. He gets away with it

1537
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:07,639
Speaker 2: and I have to deal with the repercussions. No one

1538
01:18:07,640 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 2: will say anything to her because she won't listen, and

1539
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:13,040
Speaker 2: they're all afraid she will cut them off like she

1540
01:18:13,120 --> 01:18:16,679
Speaker 2: has me. But really quick, I mean, your dog did

1541
01:18:16,800 --> 01:18:21,320
Speaker 2: maybe accidentally damage the child. Yeah, I don't know yet

1542
01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 2: to what degree.

1543
01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:24,920
Speaker 1: In all seriousness, it feels like there might be a

1544
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:29,800
Speaker 1: little bit of like, I'm very empathetic towards Sarah because like, like,

1545
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 1: if if a dog like came at my kid, I

1546
01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 1: mean I would probably just like take my kid or

1547
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 1: remove from a situation.

1548
01:18:35,960 --> 01:18:39,599
Speaker 2: But but OPI did say, it wasn't like in an

1549
01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:42,280
Speaker 2: aggressive way. It was in like a playful The puppies

1550
01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:44,320
Speaker 2: tried just trying to play.

1551
01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:47,200
Speaker 4: It's a puppy and a child. It's like the cutest

1552
01:18:47,240 --> 01:18:48,759
Speaker 4: thing you could ever seen, even as a chihuaha.

1553
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:51,120
Speaker 1: It's like they're playing, it's adorable, but they could they

1554
01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:52,519
Speaker 1: could scratch the kid, you know.

1555
01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:53,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, you never know.

1556
01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 2: And I think it's like it's it's great until it isn't.

1557
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 2: Kind of thing.

1558
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 1: So I feel like I would have been like if

1559
01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 1: I was the uh ope with the chihuahua, I would

1560
01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 1: have been like, hey, I'm so sorry, let me take her,

1561
01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 1: put her away, just make sure nothing else happened, like right, yeah,

1562
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 1: I mean.

1563
01:19:08,200 --> 01:19:09,680
Speaker 2: You gotta at least check in with the parents and

1564
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 2: see what their comfort level is exactly. I think in

1565
01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:13,760
Speaker 2: that situation the best thing because you don't want your

1566
01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:15,479
Speaker 2: kid to just be like afraid of dogs, like I

1567
01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:17,240
Speaker 2: was really afraid of dogs, like as a little kid,

1568
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 2: and it sucked. It was terrible, and it was probably

1569
01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 2: just from one bad experience I had as a little

1570
01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:25,600
Speaker 2: kid that I couldn't even remember. So it's like you

1571
01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 2: want them to be positive experiences and you want the

1572
01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:31,080
Speaker 2: dog to also learn how to properly play with like

1573
01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:33,519
Speaker 2: a kid. Right, It's like it's there's sort of there's

1574
01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:35,200
Speaker 2: a way for everyone to be happy there without it

1575
01:19:35,240 --> 01:19:37,599
Speaker 2: being a big deal. I feel there's like the sister

1576
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:40,320
Speaker 2: just wanted to immediately make it a huge as huge

1577
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 2: of an issue as possible.

1578
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:44,639
Speaker 4: There was like no supervision on both both of them, which.

1579
01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:46,600
Speaker 2: Is there though, I feel like they had to have

1580
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:48,599
Speaker 2: not they had to have noticed right away.

1581
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:50,920
Speaker 1: Like they yeah, it sounds like they saw, but I

1582
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:54,240
Speaker 1: could see, like you're you're sitting around eating, the kids playing,

1583
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,960
Speaker 1: the dogs running around. I could see I could see

1584
01:19:56,960 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 1: it happening where it's like they didn't see them. But

1585
01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:03,960
Speaker 1: I think I'm I am in favor of or or

1586
01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:09,920
Speaker 1: more empathetic to, uh, the the person that was like

1587
01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:14,000
Speaker 1: hurt quote unquote. It's like, okay, the dog pop scratched

1588
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:16,360
Speaker 1: or scared the kid or whatever. Okay, let me just

1589
01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:18,639
Speaker 1: check in with checking with the kid, check in check

1590
01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:20,679
Speaker 1: in with mom with sister and like, and.

1591
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:22,680
Speaker 2: She wasn't but she wasn't allowed to see it. That's

1592
01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:24,599
Speaker 2: the thing is that that just was like you can't

1593
01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:28,080
Speaker 2: even see what that was. Her being total because it's

1594
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:29,919
Speaker 2: probably because it was basically nothing.

1595
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:33,360
Speaker 1: That she and and I think she is yeah, using

1596
01:20:33,400 --> 01:20:35,280
Speaker 1: that just to like make a big deal out of

1597
01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:37,599
Speaker 1: absolutely nothing for the.

1598
01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 2: Child, though for the child. For the child, however, the

1599
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:42,639
Speaker 2: child responded, that's the most important there we go listen

1600
01:20:42,680 --> 01:20:45,680
Speaker 2: to the kids. Okay, do it for the kids to continue.

1601
01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:50,840
Speaker 2: Father's Day came around and I planned a day trip

1602
01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:53,800
Speaker 2: so I could be there with everyone. Sarah decided that

1603
01:20:53,840 --> 01:20:57,040
Speaker 2: she wouldn't go because I was there. This broke my

1604
01:20:57,120 --> 01:21:00,240
Speaker 2: dad's heart, and the same thing happened with Mother's Day.

1605
01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:04,320
Speaker 2: Labor Day weekend came and my family knew I was

1606
01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:07,920
Speaker 2: coming to visit weeks in advance. Sarah decided she wanted

1607
01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:10,880
Speaker 2: to make a day trip. I tried to compromise and say,

1608
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:13,240
Speaker 2: my dogs and I will stay in my RV instead

1609
01:21:13,240 --> 01:21:15,760
Speaker 2: of the house for the day while she's there, but

1610
01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:19,439
Speaker 2: she refused. I put my foot down and I said

1611
01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:23,920
Speaker 2: she cannot control when I visit, especially in my own RV,

1612
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:26,400
Speaker 2: which is parked at my parents' home for me to

1613
01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:31,000
Speaker 2: use as a camp. She decided not to go. She

1614
01:21:31,120 --> 01:21:35,880
Speaker 2: has brought my father to near tears, tearing the family apart,

1615
01:21:36,160 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 2: and has created a circle of anxiety in my mother.

1616
01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:43,679
Speaker 2: My parents feel like we will have to uproot holiday

1617
01:21:43,680 --> 01:21:48,280
Speaker 2: traditions to please everyone, such as rotating gears or alternating days, etc.

1618
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:51,960
Speaker 2: My family is all I have. I have never missed

1619
01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 2: a Thanksgiving, Christmas, or Easter with them. I'm not willing

1620
01:21:55,840 --> 01:21:58,160
Speaker 2: to give those up because Sarah is refusing to let

1621
01:21:58,240 --> 01:22:01,479
Speaker 2: go of things from twenty years ago and wants me

1622
01:22:01,560 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 2: God uh am I the ale And there is an

1623
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:14,759
Speaker 2: edit and I think relevant comments below. Let's uh before

1624
01:22:14,760 --> 01:22:18,320
Speaker 2: we get into the edit. Yes, don yes, here are we.

1625
01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:22,120
Speaker 2: I still stand by my original statement. And you want

1626
01:22:22,160 --> 01:22:23,360
Speaker 2: to know why? Why?

1627
01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:25,200
Speaker 3: Because I just lied to you. I do not stand

1628
01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:25,559
Speaker 3: by mind.

1629
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:28,240
Speaker 2: No, Okay, you got me? Ah yeah, we're we're here.

1630
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:29,320
Speaker 2: I'm being real now.

1631
01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:30,439
Speaker 3: Uh yeah.

1632
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:33,599
Speaker 1: I think like a great example was Opie was like, hey,

1633
01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:34,880
Speaker 1: look I'll go in the RV.

1634
01:22:35,040 --> 01:22:36,000
Speaker 2: Keep the dog in an RV.

1635
01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 1: Perfect solution. Opie gets to have her dog there. It

1636
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:43,519
Speaker 1: is nowhere near the kid. It respects, it respects, you know,

1637
01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:47,519
Speaker 1: the mom's wishes. That is a fantastic solution. And clearly

1638
01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:49,800
Speaker 1: showing OPI is like, hey, let me do something here,

1639
01:22:49,920 --> 01:22:51,519
Speaker 1: let me come to the table, and like, do a

1640
01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 1: do a compromise to make you feel more comfortable, and

1641
01:22:55,280 --> 01:22:57,320
Speaker 1: she is insanely unreasonable.

1642
01:22:57,640 --> 01:23:01,160
Speaker 2: She's Opie's clearly trying, Yeah, putting your best foot forward.

1643
01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:03,360
Speaker 2: She's like, you know, if it was me, I'd be like,

1644
01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:08,280
Speaker 2: you're being ridiculous, Yeah, and honestly your like I would.

1645
01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:12,040
Speaker 2: I would not be as you know, I would start

1646
01:23:12,120 --> 01:23:14,800
Speaker 2: letting stuff fly. It would start flying for me, thrown

1647
01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:17,800
Speaker 2: down the gauntlets like yeah, especially after Like, look, I

1648
01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:19,240
Speaker 2: don't have a dog, but if I did have a

1649
01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 2: dog and you threaten to throw it across the room

1650
01:23:21,040 --> 01:23:25,360
Speaker 2: for doing something that was really practically harmony, Like your

1651
01:23:25,439 --> 01:23:28,439
Speaker 2: reaction to the dog is probably more damaging than the dog,

1652
01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:33,840
Speaker 2: like maybe accidentally nipping the kid playfully, like you're gonna

1653
01:23:33,840 --> 01:23:36,680
Speaker 2: make your own child like deathly afraid of dogs the

1654
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:39,880
Speaker 2: rest of their life. Yeah, So who's really the villain there?

1655
01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:42,639
Speaker 2: Hard to say because we weren't there. All we have

1656
01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:44,840
Speaker 2: is the text, right, But and.

1657
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:47,360
Speaker 4: Again there's always two sides to it. And I feel

1658
01:23:47,400 --> 01:23:50,360
Speaker 4: like I don't know. I kind of want to see

1659
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:51,840
Speaker 4: what happened to the kid, if it was like a

1660
01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:54,400
Speaker 4: there's blood drawn, or like it was just like a

1661
01:23:54,400 --> 01:23:56,760
Speaker 4: little scratch or like a red mark. I want to

1662
01:23:56,760 --> 01:23:59,880
Speaker 4: see what happened. But like, there's so much going on here. Yeah,

1663
01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:02,200
Speaker 4: we don't have all the pieces it seems like.

1664
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:05,479
Speaker 2: I just don't. I don't. I don't even think the

1665
01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 2: dog issue is like really the deal breaker here. It's

1666
01:24:08,400 --> 01:24:11,840
Speaker 2: the fact that all this stuff happened in their childhood,

1667
01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 2: like this dynamic, yes, and like Op's sister is like

1668
01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:21,320
Speaker 2: still really affected by that and really like identifies with that,

1669
01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 2: Like she hasn't let go of that at all. Op

1670
01:24:24,840 --> 01:24:28,040
Speaker 2: is like sort of moved on, and I think maybe

1671
01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:30,400
Speaker 2: if you're not on the receiving end of it, like sure,

1672
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:32,400
Speaker 2: it's like she's like I can't believe she hasn't moved

1673
01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:34,400
Speaker 2: on by now. But it's like we didn't really get

1674
01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:36,960
Speaker 2: a lot of information on what she was doing, Like

1675
01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:40,439
Speaker 2: we got a little cursory look, but like her, I

1676
01:24:40,439 --> 01:24:43,200
Speaker 2: think I saw some comments about unreliable narrator, and I

1677
01:24:43,240 --> 01:24:45,960
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, maybe she was kind of glossing

1678
01:24:46,040 --> 01:24:49,240
Speaker 2: over how ruthless she could have been, Yeah, because it

1679
01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 2: sounded I mean, she's like it was like she knew

1680
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,080
Speaker 2: exactly how to make me lose my cool. And it's

1681
01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:58,040
Speaker 2: like did she or were you just always losing your cool? Yeah?

1682
01:24:58,080 --> 01:25:00,599
Speaker 2: It's like it's like you know, you you did this

1683
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:01,360
Speaker 2: to make me angry?

1684
01:25:01,360 --> 01:25:02,519
Speaker 3: You know my take?

1685
01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:02,760
Speaker 2: Right?

1686
01:25:02,760 --> 01:25:05,680
Speaker 1: Now I think is basically that like, she probably was

1687
01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:09,200
Speaker 1: really really harsh to her growing up, and maybe now

1688
01:25:09,240 --> 01:25:11,280
Speaker 1: she's at least mature to the point where she doesn't

1689
01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:14,559
Speaker 1: continue to antagon her as there like that, and at

1690
01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:18,080
Speaker 1: a bare minimum recognizes that she was like didn't do

1691
01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:22,000
Speaker 1: good things to her, but maybe glosses over maybe how

1692
01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 1: impactful it was to her. And maybe the sister was

1693
01:25:26,800 --> 01:25:28,800
Speaker 1: as bad just as worse. But we do know it

1694
01:25:28,840 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 1: seems like today she's not reasonable, She's not she ain't

1695
01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:33,439
Speaker 1: doing it.

1696
01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:39,200
Speaker 2: Well, let's get into these edits, these comments. First edit,

1697
01:25:40,160 --> 01:25:43,400
Speaker 2: This is not about revenge or control on my part.

1698
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 2: I've spent years in therapy working on myself and growing,

1699
01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:50,799
Speaker 2: learning to rebuild myself after abuse and when I was younger,

1700
01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:54,479
Speaker 2: learning to control my temper and not hold grudges. I've

1701
01:25:54,520 --> 01:25:57,240
Speaker 2: recently gone back to therapy after finding myself in another

1702
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,679
Speaker 2: abusive relationship, and it's helping a lot things. With Sarah,

1703
01:26:00,760 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 2: I fear will never change because she won't hear me

1704
01:26:03,240 --> 01:26:06,040
Speaker 2: out and won't let go of anything. Okay, so right there,

1705
01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:10,599
Speaker 2: it seems like Opee had a transformative experience through therapy,

1706
01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:14,719
Speaker 2: and it sounds like maybe Ope's sister could benefit from

1707
01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:18,080
Speaker 2: a similar situation, not saying that it's like Op's sister

1708
01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:21,080
Speaker 2: fault that she has trauma. Yeah, but it's like if

1709
01:26:21,080 --> 01:26:23,679
Speaker 2: you have something that's impacting you, and it's like it's

1710
01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 2: not just impacting you, it's like impacting your family as well.

1711
01:26:25,960 --> 01:26:28,479
Speaker 2: It's like it's impacting family gatherings, and it's like you

1712
01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:30,439
Speaker 2: don't want this to go all the way down to kid,

1713
01:26:31,240 --> 01:26:34,120
Speaker 2: Like you have to take steps to sort of like

1714
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:37,519
Speaker 2: let go of stuff that happened to you and like

1715
01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:38,519
Speaker 2: be able to forgive.

1716
01:26:38,760 --> 01:26:43,120
Speaker 4: Sorry, she said it was like twenty years. That's twenty years.

1717
01:26:43,640 --> 01:26:45,800
Speaker 2: Well, hey, if it was really like try it to

1718
01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:49,080
Speaker 2: fit traumatize your it's like that's a perfectly reasonable time. Mean,

1719
01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:52,640
Speaker 2: there's people deal with trauma forever and never let go.

1720
01:26:52,720 --> 01:26:55,960
Speaker 1: It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility.

1721
01:26:56,320 --> 01:26:59,200
Speaker 4: Maybe talk about the elephant in the room, like, oh,

1722
01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:02,120
Speaker 4: this is what's been bothering me, rather than just like

1723
01:27:02,920 --> 01:27:03,599
Speaker 4: I don't like you.

1724
01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:06,320
Speaker 2: Well no, I think I think that's exactly what she

1725
01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:08,360
Speaker 2: said though, is it's like, because of what you did

1726
01:27:08,360 --> 01:27:10,880
Speaker 2: to me all those years ago, you're out, You're done.

1727
01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:14,680
Speaker 2: I refuse to entertain you for one second after all

1728
01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:16,519
Speaker 2: the terrible things you did to me when we were kids.

1729
01:27:16,840 --> 01:27:20,800
Speaker 1: Gosh, I to your point earlier. I really wish that

1730
01:27:20,840 --> 01:27:23,320
Speaker 1: we had the context of what what happened.

1731
01:27:24,040 --> 01:27:25,960
Speaker 4: I really want like a context of like, all right,

1732
01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:29,679
Speaker 4: we heard your side of it, let's hear their side

1733
01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:29,880
Speaker 4: of it.

1734
01:27:30,040 --> 01:27:30,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1735
01:27:30,520 --> 01:27:33,000
Speaker 3: I think my guess is that's the only.

1736
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:36,080
Speaker 1: Part of the narrator that is unreliable is maybe what

1737
01:27:36,240 --> 01:27:37,440
Speaker 1: they did in the childhood.

1738
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:39,320
Speaker 2: Was worse than we are not. We are not getting

1739
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:41,000
Speaker 2: it all. You know what I want to I want

1740
01:27:41,000 --> 01:27:43,200
Speaker 2: to unless we get it. In opinion, I want to

1741
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:47,400
Speaker 2: hear Sarah's need. We need to find Sarah's response to

1742
01:27:47,479 --> 01:27:52,240
Speaker 2: this post at at number two, The three small dogs

1743
01:27:52,800 --> 01:27:55,040
Speaker 2: now have a safe place to go. When the kid

1744
01:27:55,080 --> 01:27:58,640
Speaker 2: is around or the kids are around, they either go

1745
01:27:58,760 --> 01:28:02,360
Speaker 2: to their safe place or want uppies into our arms.

1746
01:28:02,479 --> 01:28:06,600
Speaker 2: All uppy up ease, give me uppease. And now we

1747
01:28:06,600 --> 01:28:10,599
Speaker 2: have our relevant comments from miss Nikki el everyone sucks here.

1748
01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:14,479
Speaker 2: Your sister needs some serious therapy, and so do you. Uh.

1749
01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:16,880
Speaker 2: You don't have to give your sister the reaction that

1750
01:28:16,920 --> 01:28:20,680
Speaker 2: she's wanting. You get to choose how you react. This

1751
01:28:20,880 --> 01:28:24,400
Speaker 2: is so true and important in everyone's life. It's like

1752
01:28:25,320 --> 01:28:28,080
Speaker 2: you get to choose who has the power, and sometimes

1753
01:28:28,080 --> 01:28:30,840
Speaker 2: it's really hard to figure out to do it takes.

1754
01:28:30,600 --> 01:28:32,360
Speaker 3: Practice, but you have the power.

1755
01:28:32,960 --> 01:28:37,680
Speaker 4: You've got the touch. Oh, you've got the power.

1756
01:28:38,200 --> 01:28:41,840
Speaker 2: Kean said, he's gonna touch me good. You get to

1757
01:28:41,920 --> 01:28:45,240
Speaker 2: choose how you react. Stop giving her this much power

1758
01:28:45,280 --> 01:28:50,519
Speaker 2: over your life. If she gets poopy, walk away. At

1759
01:28:50,520 --> 01:28:53,200
Speaker 2: this point, your parents need to put their foot down

1760
01:28:53,240 --> 01:28:55,640
Speaker 2: with her. You are at least trying to compromise by

1761
01:28:55,640 --> 01:28:58,439
Speaker 2: staying in your RV. She isn't even trying at this point,

1762
01:28:58,680 --> 01:29:02,280
Speaker 2: she's just ruining it for everyone, including her child. Talk

1763
01:29:02,320 --> 01:29:04,320
Speaker 2: to your parents, tell them you've been trying to compromise,

1764
01:29:04,360 --> 01:29:06,800
Speaker 2: but at this point ball is in their court, and

1765
01:29:06,880 --> 01:29:09,080
Speaker 2: seriously find yourself a good therapist to help you work

1766
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:12,280
Speaker 2: on not reacting to your jabs. As an aside, when

1767
01:29:12,280 --> 01:29:14,880
Speaker 2: it comes to puppies, try and limit their unsupervised access

1768
01:29:14,880 --> 01:29:17,760
Speaker 2: to children and vice versa. Kids can be really rough

1769
01:29:17,800 --> 01:29:20,639
Speaker 2: and easily injure them on accident, and since puppies don't

1770
01:29:20,680 --> 01:29:24,000
Speaker 2: have a lot of bite inhibition, with those sharp shark

1771
01:29:24,080 --> 01:29:27,000
Speaker 2: teeth that they have, they can cause a lot of damage.

1772
01:29:27,520 --> 01:29:30,760
Speaker 2: I've never seen a dog with shark teeth. Just wanted

1773
01:29:30,760 --> 01:29:33,800
Speaker 2: to say that, real quick, shark, who is filing? Oh

1774
01:29:33,800 --> 01:29:36,280
Speaker 2: maybe they meant to say sharp. No, because they said

1775
01:29:36,280 --> 01:29:39,400
Speaker 2: sharp first, I feel like shark. But they're like they

1776
01:29:39,439 --> 01:29:45,120
Speaker 2: didn't stutter. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Any psychos out there filing

1777
01:29:45,160 --> 01:29:51,960
Speaker 2: your dog's teeth into points, please stop it. Don't do that. Uh,

1778
01:29:52,040 --> 01:29:54,320
Speaker 2: this goes for dogs of all ages. Do not leave

1779
01:29:54,320 --> 01:29:57,120
Speaker 2: your dog unsupervised with children, especially ones that they do

1780
01:29:57,200 --> 01:30:01,519
Speaker 2: not know. Sounds reasonable. I think that that makes sense.

1781
01:30:01,600 --> 01:30:04,840
Speaker 2: But again, I'm not even sure that they were unsupervised,

1782
01:30:04,840 --> 01:30:06,400
Speaker 2: Like I feel like it was in a group setting,

1783
01:30:06,680 --> 01:30:10,400
Speaker 2: not and like, you know, unclear exactly what happened there.

1784
01:30:10,560 --> 01:30:12,040
Speaker 2: I don't think that they were put into like a

1785
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:14,920
Speaker 2: little like rumble pit type scenario, like it's like the

1786
01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:20,720
Speaker 2: chihuahua the only one will walk out. Yeah, although which

1787
01:30:20,920 --> 01:30:21,599
Speaker 2: was just their has.

1788
01:30:21,560 --> 01:30:25,400
Speaker 4: The best puppy baby.

1789
01:30:25,560 --> 01:30:28,640
Speaker 1: I will say, though, Uh, good point on going to

1790
01:30:28,680 --> 01:30:30,920
Speaker 1: the parents and being like I did my compromise and

1791
01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:31,600
Speaker 1: everything I could do.

1792
01:30:31,760 --> 01:30:33,519
Speaker 3: The ball is down your court. I do like that.

1793
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:35,360
Speaker 2: I do like that. And you know what I'm seeing

1794
01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:38,720
Speaker 2: comments saying that puppy teeth are naturally sharp, which is

1795
01:30:38,760 --> 01:30:40,880
Speaker 2: not something I had any awareness of that. That's what

1796
01:30:40,920 --> 01:30:44,000
Speaker 2: I'm that always thought. I learned something new every stream.

1797
01:30:44,240 --> 01:30:47,200
Speaker 2: I love it. Uh that that is amazing.

1798
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:47,680
Speaker 4: Cha.

1799
01:30:48,040 --> 01:30:50,320
Speaker 3: I love you so, I love you, love you.

1800
01:30:50,439 --> 01:30:52,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I love you. We have a comment. We have

1801
01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:57,280
Speaker 2: a comment from Ope. Wait alert alert, let's go misfit

1802
01:30:57,600 --> 01:31:02,040
Speaker 2: uh fifty for thirty two. I have recently started therapy.

1803
01:31:02,120 --> 01:31:03,960
Speaker 2: I have a long road of healing to go, but

1804
01:31:04,240 --> 01:31:06,880
Speaker 2: has been suggested I start with no contact for the

1805
01:31:06,920 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 2: first bit. Been tough to go no contact with Sarah,

1806
01:31:10,400 --> 01:31:12,679
Speaker 2: but I know that it is the best for now.

1807
01:31:14,160 --> 01:31:18,840
Speaker 2: Dex Apprehensive War ninety six twelve. Not once has it

1808
01:31:18,880 --> 01:31:22,599
Speaker 2: been said that Sarah has prevented Ope in any way.

1809
01:31:22,920 --> 01:31:25,920
Speaker 2: She simply arranges her schedule so that she isn't there

1810
01:31:26,120 --> 01:31:30,000
Speaker 2: when Ope is. Sarah even missed spending Mother's Day and

1811
01:31:30,120 --> 01:31:33,960
Speaker 2: Father's Day with her family to avoid Opie. OPI wasn't

1812
01:31:33,960 --> 01:31:38,759
Speaker 2: prevented from going and missed nothing, And Sarah has every

1813
01:31:38,840 --> 01:31:41,840
Speaker 2: right to say she will not be somewhere when someone

1814
01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 2: she doesn't like will be family or not. This is

1815
01:31:44,960 --> 01:31:47,599
Speaker 2: a very one sided story and no one has any

1816
01:31:47,600 --> 01:31:50,960
Speaker 2: idea what Opie did to Sarah when she was quote

1817
01:31:51,120 --> 01:31:55,440
Speaker 2: not kind to her or know why Sarah is no contact.

1818
01:31:55,720 --> 01:31:57,519
Speaker 2: This is exactly what we were saying.

1819
01:31:57,760 --> 01:31:58,559
Speaker 4: We're the internet.

1820
01:32:00,000 --> 01:32:02,559
Speaker 2: Hey, I mean, come on, and we have a response

1821
01:32:02,560 --> 01:32:05,040
Speaker 2: from op Oh.

1822
01:32:05,600 --> 01:32:07,240
Speaker 4: She would do like a conspiracy theory.

1823
01:32:07,280 --> 01:32:09,040
Speaker 2: This is the this is the end. This is the

1824
01:32:09,120 --> 01:32:09,679
Speaker 2: last comment.

1825
01:32:10,520 --> 01:32:11,400
Speaker 4: Gupher it, let's hear it.

1826
01:32:11,680 --> 01:32:15,240
Speaker 2: Okay. Unfortunately, my temper was a violent one when we

1827
01:32:15,240 --> 01:32:21,240
Speaker 2: were younger. We would physically fight and I would often win. Yeah, okay,

1828
01:32:21,360 --> 01:32:23,679
Speaker 2: that paints a little bit of a clearer picture there.

1829
01:32:24,320 --> 01:32:26,200
Speaker 2: I put that in quotation marks.

1830
01:32:26,720 --> 01:32:26,840
Speaker 4: Uh.

1831
01:32:27,000 --> 01:32:30,320
Speaker 2: The win was in quotation marks because no one actually

1832
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:32,840
Speaker 2: wins in a fight, especially a physical one, and I

1833
01:32:32,880 --> 01:32:35,920
Speaker 2: regret all of it. She knows it too, but doesn't

1834
01:32:35,960 --> 01:32:39,160
Speaker 2: seem to care. I haven't laid hands on her or

1835
01:32:39,200 --> 01:32:41,920
Speaker 2: anyone since my teens and worked with professionals to get

1836
01:32:41,920 --> 01:32:45,040
Speaker 2: all of that under control. However, Sarah would still have

1837
01:32:45,080 --> 01:32:48,919
Speaker 2: reasons to hate me. Still see things differently, and for example,

1838
01:32:49,000 --> 01:32:51,280
Speaker 2: what I saw as helping or trying to be there

1839
01:32:51,320 --> 01:32:53,599
Speaker 2: for her, she saw as me trying to make her

1840
01:32:53,640 --> 01:32:57,559
Speaker 2: look bad in front of others. But will never make

1841
01:32:57,720 --> 01:32:59,960
Speaker 2: you look bad in front of us when you join

1842
01:33:00,200 --> 01:33:02,640
Speaker 2: us live on YouTube every weekday at three PM just

1843
01:33:02,680 --> 01:33:03,479
Speaker 2: tap our profile.

1844
01:33:03,640 --> 01:33:06,280
Speaker 1: That's not a promise, but still joint.

1845
01:33:06,920 --> 01:33:08,600
Speaker 2: That is that.

1846
01:33:09,200 --> 01:33:12,200
Speaker 4: Wait, so you mean to tell me you were bullying

1847
01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:15,519
Speaker 4: your sister and beating up, being her up and no

1848
01:33:15,560 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 4: one's winning in fights you and you said I won.

1849
01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:21,479
Speaker 2: Though yeah, she's like, I won, but it was in

1850
01:33:21,800 --> 01:33:25,000
Speaker 2: She's like, so what she was saying is that she's

1851
01:33:25,040 --> 01:33:28,080
Speaker 2: trying to retroactically like I won, but like there's no

1852
01:33:28,760 --> 01:33:31,120
Speaker 2: but there's no winner when people start throwing punches. But

1853
01:33:31,160 --> 01:33:34,040
Speaker 2: it's like, but op back to the day you were winning,

1854
01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:35,400
Speaker 2: but you won, You were winning.

1855
01:33:35,479 --> 01:33:37,080
Speaker 4: The fact that you made it a statement of like

1856
01:33:37,400 --> 01:33:40,920
Speaker 4: I'm one, but nobody wins, but I won.

1857
01:33:41,120 --> 01:33:41,639
Speaker 2: It's kidding.

1858
01:33:42,160 --> 01:33:44,080
Speaker 3: My record looks pretty good.

1859
01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:53,439
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, in the in the living room league,

1860
01:33:53,600 --> 01:33:56,800
Speaker 2: I was undefeated. I was the Floyd Mayweather of our

1861
01:33:56,800 --> 01:33:59,599
Speaker 2: living room. Many r KOs were thrown down. Come on, man,

1862
01:33:59,680 --> 01:34:01,760
Speaker 2: it's yeah. It makes a lot of sense if there

1863
01:34:01,840 --> 01:34:05,519
Speaker 2: was like physical fights that Opie's sister constantly lost, of

1864
01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:08,640
Speaker 2: course she's gonna be like, no, you you were physically

1865
01:34:08,720 --> 01:34:11,400
Speaker 2: beating me up, like I don't like you.

1866
01:34:11,439 --> 01:34:13,720
Speaker 1: And and like I was kind of joking, but that

1867
01:34:14,280 --> 01:34:16,240
Speaker 1: last comment did actually kind of paint the picture.

1868
01:34:16,280 --> 01:34:18,880
Speaker 3: It's like, is it where she would like, you know,

1869
01:34:19,600 --> 01:34:21,200
Speaker 3: really like beat her up.

1870
01:34:21,400 --> 01:34:23,639
Speaker 1: She had had has a lot of trauma, and she's like, listen,

1871
01:34:24,040 --> 01:34:25,800
Speaker 1: I just don't want to deal with you anymore. And

1872
01:34:25,840 --> 01:34:29,599
Speaker 1: she keeps showing up at times where she's like, hey,

1873
01:34:29,680 --> 01:34:32,040
Speaker 1: I just want to like because she said she she

1874
01:34:32,040 --> 01:34:35,160
Speaker 1: she missed a Mother's Day or Father's Day that Sarah

1875
01:34:35,160 --> 01:34:36,400
Speaker 1: did on purpose or something like that.

1876
01:34:36,439 --> 01:34:39,120
Speaker 2: I think OP might not be wrong in that. I

1877
01:34:39,160 --> 01:34:40,840
Speaker 2: think what you're getting at where it's like, is she

1878
01:34:40,960 --> 01:34:42,559
Speaker 2: kind of going out of her way to make more

1879
01:34:42,680 --> 01:34:46,880
Speaker 2: CONTENTI stuff happen like by like, oh, well, I'm gonna

1880
01:34:46,880 --> 01:34:49,519
Speaker 2: make it inconvenient, like she's going out of her way

1881
01:34:49,520 --> 01:34:53,639
Speaker 2: to try to keep the spats going. But Op, Yeah,

1882
01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:56,400
Speaker 2: I don't know if I think at the end of

1883
01:34:56,439 --> 01:34:58,400
Speaker 2: the day, what really needs to add Like Op clearly

1884
01:34:58,439 --> 01:35:01,559
Speaker 2: kind of sucks in this situation, and like the way

1885
01:35:01,560 --> 01:35:05,920
Speaker 2: that her sister's dealing with it. I wouldn't say is

1886
01:35:05,960 --> 01:35:08,599
Speaker 2: necessarily like wrong of her to do after going through

1887
01:35:08,640 --> 01:35:11,679
Speaker 2: something traumatic, but it's like it's not the best. For sure,

1888
01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:15,519
Speaker 2: she needs to for her own sake and for her

1889
01:35:15,600 --> 01:35:18,280
Speaker 2: own peace, needs to be able to move forward.

1890
01:35:18,760 --> 01:35:22,879
Speaker 1: Yes, it seems to me like like Sarah needs some space,

1891
01:35:23,160 --> 01:35:25,880
Speaker 1: and like if I was OP, I'd probably be like, hey,

1892
01:35:25,880 --> 01:35:29,559
Speaker 1: look what I did to you in childhood was beyond awful,

1893
01:35:30,080 --> 01:35:32,320
Speaker 1: and you know, you know what, you deserve some.

1894
01:35:32,320 --> 01:35:34,200
Speaker 3: Space, and so I want to make sure I'm giving

1895
01:35:34,240 --> 01:35:34,559
Speaker 3: that to you.

1896
01:35:34,840 --> 01:35:37,120
Speaker 1: And I'll be here for whenever you need me, and I'll,

1897
01:35:37,520 --> 01:35:39,000
Speaker 1: you know, I still want to see mom and dad,

1898
01:35:39,000 --> 01:35:42,240
Speaker 1: and I'll try to figure out the best configuration I

1899
01:35:42,280 --> 01:35:44,320
Speaker 1: possibly can while still being able to do that in

1900
01:35:44,360 --> 01:35:47,320
Speaker 1: respect my own boundaries once and needs. But like, let

1901
01:35:47,360 --> 01:35:51,920
Speaker 1: me give you some space. Maybe that would would. Yeah,

1902
01:35:52,200 --> 01:35:53,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, it makes it.

1903
01:35:53,120 --> 01:35:57,040
Speaker 2: I wonder if Op has ever really given a actual, heartfelt,

1904
01:35:57,200 --> 01:36:00,519
Speaker 2: genuine apology for any of this before question. Every time

1905
01:36:00,560 --> 01:36:02,320
Speaker 2: she talked about her sister, it was always just like

1906
01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:05,120
Speaker 2: she's just not willing to change. It was it was

1907
01:36:05,120 --> 01:36:07,800
Speaker 2: a very dismissive kind of attitude. She was talking about

1908
01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:09,560
Speaker 2: her sister's response