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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This is from

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Speaker 1: Kinetra and Making. Kinetra writes, I'm dealing with a man

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Speaker 1: that has been married three times, and all he talks

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Speaker 1: about is getting it right the fourth time by marrying me.

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Speaker 1: I would love to talk to his ex wives before

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Speaker 1: I get into deep with him. So should I ask

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Speaker 1: him first or do it behind his back?

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Speaker 2: Lady? You talking to his ex wives?

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Speaker 3: It is probably one of the more ignorant things you

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Speaker 3: can do, because what do you think they're going to

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Speaker 3: tell you?

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 3: Do you think they're going to Have you ever heard

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Speaker 3: a woman say, ever?

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Speaker 2: You know what?

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Speaker 3: I ain't nothing, I ain't a good woman. I was tripping.

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Speaker 3: I just wasn't a good woman. Have you ever heard

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Speaker 3: a woman say that? I haven't. Every woman I've ever

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Speaker 3: talk to the reason they relationship ain't work, it's cause

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Speaker 3: some man somewhere was a dog, or some man somewhere

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Speaker 3: treated her wrong. I have never ever heard a woman

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Speaker 3: say it was her In all my life, I've never

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Speaker 3: heard one.

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Speaker 1: So you don't think she should ask the ex wives

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Speaker 1: about why they broke up or why they divorced?

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Speaker 2: This?

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Speaker 3: What what could you possibly gain from that? Except why

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Speaker 3: not to marry him. If you don't want to marry

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Speaker 3: the man, don't marry the man, because not now one

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Speaker 3: of them is going to tell you go ahead and

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Speaker 3: do it, Not.

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Speaker 2: One of them. And how does she know all of them? Anyway?

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Speaker 2: They all go to say in church? Would she she

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Speaker 2: might not know? She could reach out on faithbook.

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Speaker 1: She needs some intel.

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Speaker 2: She should get her intail from herself. You all have

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Speaker 2: this wonderful thing called intuition. If you think you got

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Speaker 2: to check with all the people, it's already something wrong,

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Speaker 2: all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Henry and Braydenson, Henry says, I charted

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Speaker 1: a boat for me and my wife, and she had

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Speaker 1: really bad motion sickness on the boat. We went back

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Speaker 1: to the dock and she went home. She's mad because

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Speaker 1: I called our son to come sail with me. Was

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Speaker 1: I wrong for getting my money's worth?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bron what.

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Speaker 3: You can't be no more dumber? Oh you should have

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Speaker 3: took care of your wife, got her home, make sure

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Speaker 3: she was good. Now, next time you get a boat,

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Speaker 3: just get the boat with you son.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's you. Let her go home by herself.

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Speaker 1: We went, we went back to the doc.

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Speaker 2: She went home then he called, all right, bro, bro,

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Speaker 2: that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: He just wanted his money's worth that's what he said.

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Speaker 2: Your wife, dude, your wife. I'm sorry, bro, bro, some

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Speaker 2: stuff is a loss. Yeah, it's right off. Just a

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Speaker 2: rite off though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you won't get you see your money's worth it.

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Speaker 3: It's not, it's not worth it. Yeah, because look, you're

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Speaker 3: not getting your money back regardless, right, exactly right.

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Speaker 2: So that's it. Now you're out there with your son.

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Speaker 3: Now you've got to go home and deal with the

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Speaker 3: ramifications of your decision.

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Speaker 2: And it's not going to be a good one.

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Speaker 1: But Steve, what happened when she started getting motion sickness

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Speaker 1: on the boat? Did he get mad at her?

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Speaker 2: He probably said, maybe, no much I pay for this boat.

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Speaker 2: Exactly what is you vomiting for? Baby? Just look at

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Speaker 2: the horizon, Look at the horizon. Focus. Get yourself together though,

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Speaker 2: and you think drama. Mean, oh, now.

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Speaker 3: We got to go back. I'm gonna put you in

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Speaker 3: this uber. I'm gonna call my sol. We gonna go

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Speaker 3: back to.

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Speaker 2: Many I've been sick on the boat before. Man, that's

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Speaker 2: that's a terrible feeling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Moving on to Kyla and Grambling,

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Speaker 1: Kyla writes, I'm graduating next month and moving back home.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend back home wants me to move in with him,

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Speaker 1: but I'm dating a new guy on campus, and I

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Speaker 1: really don't want to leave him alone. He's a senior,

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Speaker 1: but he has a year of eligibility left on the

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Speaker 1: basketball team. Will he forget about me after I moved

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Speaker 1: back home?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course the bath Didn't you say it's on

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Speaker 2: basketball team? She said it. You ain't the only one

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Speaker 2: watching run them down the floor.

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Speaker 3: Now, and when you move back home, your boyfriend back

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Speaker 3: home want you to move in. Here's another one of

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Speaker 3: them unnormal letters, just typing some stuff like it's cool. Uh,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to move back in because I'm dating

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Speaker 3: the dude on the team that's got one more year

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Speaker 3: of eligibility, and I don't want him forget me when

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Speaker 3: I go back home. But if I go back home,

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Speaker 3: I move in with this other dude.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: Don't you don't see nothing wrong, Warren? She's young, she's torn,

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Speaker 2: No Carlo, no what he is?

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Speaker 1: College days?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but here's an opportunity for a woman to say, look, okay,

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Speaker 3: right now, I ain't sugar honey, iced tea.

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness, she's.

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Speaker 3: Well, well, ain't no woman gonna say that, But here's

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Speaker 3: a good time to say it, because if this was

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Speaker 3: a man. Hey, look, i'm dating this girl in college,

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Speaker 3: but my girl back home want to move in when

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Speaker 3: I got home. But I don't want the girl back

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Speaker 3: here in college to forget about me. You think if

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Speaker 3: I go home moving with this girl, she'll forget about me.

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Speaker 3: What would y'all say to that? Yeah, make up your mind,

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Speaker 3: tell somebody the truths. Yeah, that's what y'all would be doing.

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Speaker 3: So same thing to this little girl right here. No,

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Speaker 3: I can't help you. Oh, you got to make a decision.

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Speaker 3: You got to go back home and sneak. I don't

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Speaker 3: care if she I don't care if she's eighteen. Listen

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Speaker 3: to me, you this, this ain't the way the game go.

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Speaker 3: This is not the way the game go. I'm so sorry. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: hard to be a player when you ain't.

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Speaker 1: A lot of work to learn, right, So will he

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Speaker 1: forget about me after I moved back home?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Girl, out of sight, out of mind.

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