WEBVTT - Episode 241: Queen LaQueefa (Feat. Tink)

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<v Speaker 1>What's up. It's lip service. I'm Angela yee, I'm g

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<v Speaker 1>g McGuire on passport cutting, I'm Flurial and I'm Tink.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey girl, Yeslurial, Yes, take listen. This is great to

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<v Speaker 1>have you on here because you could have never told

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<v Speaker 1>me before the Tink is gonna do lip service. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to come through. I told you, like before

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<v Speaker 1>we started filming. I'm like, I ain't seen you in

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of years, right, you know a lot has changed,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, different vibes now, so I had to pull up.

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<v Speaker 1>And Hopeless Romantic is that it came out on Valentine's

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<v Speaker 1>Day and I saw everybody talking about it on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>So the first thing I did when I got in

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<v Speaker 1>my car after work was like, I gotta listen to

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<v Speaker 1>this album. Come on, Angela. Yes, And it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I really love it. I've been listening to it good

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<v Speaker 1>because it's very raw. Yes, and it's for the ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>Like all my music is guilt towards my girls. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about relationships and our drama and the ups

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<v Speaker 1>and else. So yeah, it's Hopeless Romantic. Make sure y'all

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<v Speaker 1>go get it. Yeah, she likes man, listen, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get into it. I'm not even gonna But we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking before you got here about being a hopeless romantic, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know we were, Me and Cutty were really

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<v Speaker 1>having this discussion because I was saying I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to be a hopeless romantic instead of I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>people are so jaded, right, and sometimes you rather like

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<v Speaker 1>have that hoop like this is gonna work out because

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<v Speaker 1>life is tough and we go through some ship and

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<v Speaker 1>it makes us feel like, man, these guys ain't ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing's ever gonna work out. I think it's the little

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<v Speaker 1>ounce of hopeless romantic in us that has us running

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<v Speaker 1>back every time they do us thirty right, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>we feel like, but it can work, or if we

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<v Speaker 1>can change. But also what we were saying that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some people they get super hurt from one situation and

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<v Speaker 1>they kind of blocked themselves off from you know, their

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<v Speaker 1>new relationships, guarding themselves. So I'll carry a baggage that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do that, like I'm yeah, I give everybody

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<v Speaker 1>a fresh start, really yeah, because you're you are waiting,

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to exist, You're you're trying to protect yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not having fun, right, Like you're trying to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, be so safe that you're not having fun

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<v Speaker 1>because now you're just so leary and paranoid about the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>So it takes you to open up to actually enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>when you could enjoy. And yeah, listen if I get

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<v Speaker 1>slapped in the face sometimes, so well, yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna ask that. So what if you have your guard

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<v Speaker 1>down and it happened over and over? That's the curse,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the side of it that's bad. I think, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're always looking for the best. That's my issue.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always looking for the best in people. For the worst. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all the worst. But for the most part, I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find something good, even when I see the

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<v Speaker 1>flags the same. So that's like the curse of it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like we give the benefit of the doubt

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<v Speaker 1>too much. I feel like you just went through some

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<v Speaker 1>ship too when you was writing this, so you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that. Yes, girl, I'm always like it's always

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<v Speaker 1>some ship with these guys. I'm in my twenties y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>so like we're still like moving fast and everything is

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<v Speaker 1>like we're here today and then tomorrow is something new

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm trying to say. So for the

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<v Speaker 1>most part, you know, I kind of just like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>let y'all know what I like, and then if it

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<v Speaker 1>don't work, you know, I have to keep trying something

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<v Speaker 1>else or keep it moving. Well, did something in particular,

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<v Speaker 1>like were you in a relationship? And okay, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was in a situation with a guy who really didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know if he, you know, was in or out. So

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<v Speaker 1>for the most part, it was like we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>and speaking as if we were a couple, but we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really put like a title on it. There was

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<v Speaker 1>no serious uh you know, we didn't call it a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>And at first, you know, I'm thinking, like where we're

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<v Speaker 1>taking and slow, that's normal, But after a while I'll

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<v Speaker 1>started noticing, like, you know, somebody else involved. He don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to call it a relationship so that he can

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<v Speaker 1>still do him right and be like, well, I told

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<v Speaker 1>you we're not in a relationships. And it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 1>to take it slow. It was really just so he

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<v Speaker 1>could have his fun control. So that was a big thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, you know, we're doing everything a couple.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know, we're going on dates, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>meeting your family, and that really messed my head up

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<v Speaker 1>soon because you know, you meet the mom you think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in you meets, you know, I I okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta treat her like taking the street because she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna sit and smile with you, the side bit the white,

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<v Speaker 1>the baby mama. And then they all yes, and I

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<v Speaker 1>say it, you know, but that's his mom. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's supposed but then right, yeah, but the way you

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<v Speaker 1>know my mom, she just wouldn't speak to nobody. You

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't meet her, you know, if my brother would have

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<v Speaker 1>like somebody coming over, if she wasn't special, you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to shake our hand. She would. You know, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not thinking about you? Yea. So nowadays they with ships

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<v Speaker 1>they eating on it too, So it's tricky. I told

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<v Speaker 1>you about my ex wifriend his his mom told on

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<v Speaker 1>his ass, so he um, it's a long story. But

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<v Speaker 1>his baby mom broke my windshield. So anyway, it ended

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<v Speaker 1>not the wind shield. Yeah, I was in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard the alarm going off, but it ended up

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<v Speaker 1>with both of them in the police station. I won't

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<v Speaker 1>even get into all the details, so I'll go there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, just to check on him being a good

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend that I am and his mom and so he

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<v Speaker 1>had whispered to me like the fake name that he

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<v Speaker 1>was using, so you know, I'm still going with it,

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<v Speaker 1>like giving the fake name that he gave. His mom

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm tired of this ship. His real name is.

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<v Speaker 1>He had a warrant, so she told his real name. Man, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and listen. I honestly feel like we would have broken

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<v Speaker 1>up way earlier if I didn't feel bad that he

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<v Speaker 1>went to jail at that moment because he had that warrant.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I felt so guilty about it that I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, well, I don't want to just

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<v Speaker 1>abandon him. His mom been told on him, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was telling me stuff to the corrections off the police

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<v Speaker 1>officers in the station. We're telling me like he talking

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<v Speaker 1>to his baby mom. He's singing this you shouldn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>everybody was telling on his ass. Yeah. Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was hemantic. One thing that she was. It happens. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the real thing she was saying about being in her twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing I always think to myself, like when I

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<v Speaker 1>think back to my twenties, I'm like I wasted a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of time trying to make a guy be faithful

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<v Speaker 1>that I was miserable, like or being a relationship or

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<v Speaker 1>what is this? Or what are we? And I regret

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<v Speaker 1>it because when I look back to it, all I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing was pulling up on a dude, fighting him,

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<v Speaker 1>drama with other girls that whatever, and I'm like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have been having fun instead he was running

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<v Speaker 1>after dude who was supposed to be with you, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was having no same kind of thoughts, but

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking that that I wanted to remember to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that live your life in your tornies and don't

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<v Speaker 1>worry about what's gonna happen in the future, because what

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing right now is not not usually going to

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<v Speaker 1>end up where you're at in the long run. Like

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<v Speaker 1>take take the life lessons for the experiences, but don't

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<v Speaker 1>try to think too hard into like oh I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do this for this guy. Who are I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do this? Or marriage right now because girl buys

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<v Speaker 1>and especially what you're being successful being who you are. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but y'all know, like well, like we all

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<v Speaker 1>want to put it together, but it's a clock, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to have kids and be married and set

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<v Speaker 1>up by certain agents, and times have changed. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that the time that it was before and how

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<v Speaker 1>people was like, oh, by the time, yet twenty five,

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<v Speaker 1>you should be This is that I feel like the

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<v Speaker 1>world has evolved so much and now it's like you

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<v Speaker 1>could be forty years old and start your family because

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<v Speaker 1>guess what, you're good. You don't have to worry about it.

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<v Speaker 1>If the nigger do leave a funk with a bit,

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<v Speaker 1>you good. You get what you set up. You got

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<v Speaker 1>them set up. So I think it's like we got

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<v Speaker 1>the more so look at the timeline of how good

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<v Speaker 1>we are mentally, financially or whatever to be comfortable so

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<v Speaker 1>that you maybe you gotta be with Nana all the

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<v Speaker 1>time and you struggling. You know, it is a different

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<v Speaker 1>day and age because there were times when women used

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<v Speaker 1>to have kids young and then sometimes when you're older

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<v Speaker 1>and more secure financially and you do it, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>different experience. It doesn't it's not that one is better

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<v Speaker 1>than the other, but it's just different. Yeah, you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right arrectally with the enjoy your life and enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>get your pus ly. That's right. And I'm trying what

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<v Speaker 1>are we you know, relax, you know, right, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>try that to you gotta write some lyrics while heating

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<v Speaker 1>your pussy. Okay, look, that's gonna be a here. I

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<v Speaker 1>can hold that, don't finish yet. Here you can write

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<v Speaker 1>anything that's right. So was there? Okay? I gotta ask

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<v Speaker 1>you about some things you talk about on the album.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he really have another bitch in the whip? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a real thing listening guys don't care, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Like it's been situations. I've had a

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<v Speaker 1>guy kind of like you know, drop drop me off

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<v Speaker 1>and then while he you know, doing X, Y and

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<v Speaker 1>Z really you know, picking somebody else up taking her

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, taking her back to his place. They lie,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they lie about anything. And that's the thing,

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<v Speaker 1>like they guys are bad liars, right, So you know

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<v Speaker 1>we found out one way out another. But that was

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<v Speaker 1>a real thing. How did you find out? For the

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<v Speaker 1>most part, you just hear about it down the line, um,

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<v Speaker 1>so that in and you think about it, like how

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<v Speaker 1>she you know, you you hear about a situation where

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<v Speaker 1>you know, somebody's seeing your guy with another girl, and

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<v Speaker 1>then it's like, well, how did she get to the house?

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<v Speaker 1>She on you know, did she come alone or did

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<v Speaker 1>she come with her friend? You're like, no, she was

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<v Speaker 1>just there? Are you picked up? You put on twittergether?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, ain't no way if she ain't got a car,

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<v Speaker 1>she getting that true? That true, But you could have

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<v Speaker 1>put her in a lift and she ain't gonna spend

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<v Speaker 1>a coming uberpool. Do you feel like music? Yes, after

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<v Speaker 1>you've gone through something absolutely, like when it's real or

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<v Speaker 1>were you mad? You know, when it it's fresh, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the best time I'm gonna get your thoughts out. And

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be bad because the guy can tell when you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about him because it's so realistic. But that's the

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<v Speaker 1>best thing. I think. Do you admit it? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>be like, yeah, that's about you shut the funk out.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't sugarcoat it. And they want to know. I

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell you you should put the picture of

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<v Speaker 1>each song. Whoever, if they're wrong, wrong, he wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>talking about that, um not for the most part, they

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<v Speaker 1>they'd be wrong. I try to keep it a book,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I don't just say to say stuff

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<v Speaker 1>to say it or like make it up. Maybe real

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<v Speaker 1>stuff going on? Now you talk about he cheated and

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<v Speaker 1>then you cheated back. Yeah, after so many times, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like especially when you're not just ready to move on

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<v Speaker 1>and you still you know, you got an emotional attachment.

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<v Speaker 1>You try to play get back your revenge so you

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<v Speaker 1>feel even doesn't make you feel better at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>At the time when you're doing it, you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you're on top, like yeah, I got them, and then

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<v Speaker 1>alone run you're like, damn, I'm just as just as goofy,

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<v Speaker 1>like or I'm just as patty. You gotta cheat, you

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<v Speaker 1>cheat with Like, you cheat up, you'd be like, okay it,

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of might make you forget about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not forget, but like you know, some times you cheat

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<v Speaker 1>up and you get a better situation. That's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta cheat with somebody because when you cheat down,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be feeling whacked. But you know, you could either

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<v Speaker 1>cheat up or cheat with the person who they are

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<v Speaker 1>gonna cringe that maybe the problem is that I've done that,

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<v Speaker 1>and when they find out and I don't find out, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they find out the whole point of doing if you're

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<v Speaker 1>so mad you want them to find out, Loki, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they'll never get over. They're always going to bring

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<v Speaker 1>it out it's more a self gratification that yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that that you told on yourself. Yeah, not with that

0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:49.520
<v Speaker 1>person I'm telling on myself is somebody that they don't know.

0:12:49.600 --> 0:12:52.559
<v Speaker 1>But the person that I deliberately did it with to

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<v Speaker 1>get them back. I'm not gonna air that out because

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm gonna die. He's gonna die. If you cheat

0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:01.040
<v Speaker 1>and the ship is terrible, then you'd be feeling whacked. No, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a world dog. You don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>cheat with nobody that's in the circle. I think like

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<v Speaker 1>because they talk about you, it's like yeah, or then

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you you too disloyal. I mean, even though

0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.400
<v Speaker 1>it's sucked up, you're cheating. But at least if it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't know him, you ain't gonn bump into him.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's a little easier to let him down

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<v Speaker 1>with that. But if it's like his main man, if

0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:33.480
<v Speaker 1>you're suck one, he knows if you don't know over

0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:38.640
<v Speaker 1>you know him, you gotta drink or something. Yeah, you've

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<v Speaker 1>a drink. Yeah, they know not to even call after that.

0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:45.000
<v Speaker 1>It's done all right now you are too Like sixty nine,

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<v Speaker 1>I always feel like that's a difficult. I've never really

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<v Speaker 1>been into a sixty with the position. That's no. I

0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:58.880
<v Speaker 1>think that's I'm old. It's fun. You're getting yours while

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<v Speaker 1>he's getting his. I mean one at a time. I

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<v Speaker 1>look at it like a trick, y'all. So I'll start

0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:08.240
<v Speaker 1>and then I just start right at the stage and

0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Hi, I got you like that. I never

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. And it's like, it's too good. You

0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:17.200
<v Speaker 1>can't even said I can't suck a sick No, more

0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:23.080
<v Speaker 1>like you really know how to orgasm. And it's like,

0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:26.800
<v Speaker 1>how can you multitask like that? I can multitask, you know.

0:14:26.880 --> 0:14:31.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean I can't. I'll just be calling here playing

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<v Speaker 1>with it. You ain't even do it. I mean, that's

0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.120
<v Speaker 1>also a good way to get to the asshole if

0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:44.480
<v Speaker 1>you want to stay. Yeah, great, got to be long enough.

0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:52.720
<v Speaker 1>She's like, you know, if you on the top, spread

0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:58.800
<v Speaker 1>and spread them cheeks, don't try that. I'm saying. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like drink. So have you ever come from a sixty nine?

0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:08.040
<v Speaker 1>I haven't came from a safety nine, But that starts it, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? Yeah, than kiss it going, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's what you do first, So that like whatever

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<v Speaker 1>comes next, you're ready, Yeah, you know, and the sixty

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<v Speaker 1>nine like you kind of as a woman has to

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<v Speaker 1>be on top because it's weird. If you guys please yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be I'm trying to picture that. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your favorite position and giving head? Like how you

0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:37.200
<v Speaker 1>position yourself on a pillow? What do you mean right now?

0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.360
<v Speaker 1>You gotta be like right in the middle. You gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be like in between the life. You never on the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's freaky. I kind of like being on the bed,

0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:54.120
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I mean position. You gotta really like him

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<v Speaker 1>to get on your knees. I think that's like because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna stay down time less I have a pillow.

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<v Speaker 1>If I have a pillow, I can stay on my knee.

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<v Speaker 1>You you're a dog, you know what. I like to

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<v Speaker 1>make him stand up while I'm on the bed on

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<v Speaker 1>my knees on the yeah, like like he he gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be tallest I have U I have. I don't have platform. Yeah,

0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:21.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a platform I got you know. I

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<v Speaker 1>like my bed to have the box spring yea, and

0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:26.520
<v Speaker 1>it on top. But then it's good because then I

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<v Speaker 1>like when his knees like get weak and give out,

0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:34.880
<v Speaker 1>and then you secondly think that's how you give it up,

0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:38.320
<v Speaker 1>That's how I fall in love. Okay, that's it. And

0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:44.680
<v Speaker 1>then they just be feeling stupid after bu yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they want to dive in the pussy and it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you get them to like back up and they

0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:52.600
<v Speaker 1>just feel all like damn right, yeah right, and I

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<v Speaker 1>the only one. You're not the only one, we can

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<v Speaker 1>you know, do you ever come and feel like embarrassed

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<v Speaker 1>after as you made a noise or you look crazy

0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:05.680
<v Speaker 1>or no as you do when it's like what they

0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:10.080
<v Speaker 1>called it, when the pussy farday like it, but it happens,

0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.719
<v Speaker 1>you got to like play a cool to hear it.

0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:20.800
<v Speaker 1>I think it's embarrassing. You have to explain this their

0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:22.520
<v Speaker 1>far for putting all the air in there. Yeah, they

0:17:22.520 --> 0:17:26.040
<v Speaker 1>feel good like they just did it. They didn't yeah,

0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:27.679
<v Speaker 1>because you'd be like, oh, just so you know, that

0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:30.600
<v Speaker 1>was just the queen I used to do that, but

0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:33.800
<v Speaker 1>I just act like it never even happened. You got ignored.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say something because it's awkward. Is it

0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:42.960
<v Speaker 1>weird that like you don't say it happens often? I

0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:47.080
<v Speaker 1>can't remember. That's there's only one that I could think

0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:49.160
<v Speaker 1>of in my mind that has made me do that.

0:17:49.960 --> 0:17:52.760
<v Speaker 1>You don't happen often, but it's happening. What's wrong with

0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:55.800
<v Speaker 1>his dick? That is? No. I think like sometimes after

0:17:55.800 --> 0:18:00.720
<v Speaker 1>you get off the show, know like sometimes after you shower,

0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:02.680
<v Speaker 1>or when you use a condom. You know, like when

0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:10.800
<v Speaker 1>you use a condom, it happens a lot, queene what

0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:18.960
<v Speaker 1>the condom is making it? Like, yeah, give it to

0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:28.040
<v Speaker 1>a queen. Good queens. I think next times, like either

0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:29.800
<v Speaker 1>with a condom or when you get out the showers

0:18:29.880 --> 0:18:35.760
<v Speaker 1>sometimes if you don't washed away all the good juices, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was just like can you ever tried to have

0:18:37.760 --> 0:18:41.320
<v Speaker 1>sex in the bathtub? Oh that's the wor that was

0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:45.480
<v Speaker 1>like to have tub sex? No, you gotta get on

0:18:45.480 --> 0:18:48.640
<v Speaker 1>the edge or stand up or do something. From New York.

0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:52.199
<v Speaker 1>The top is this big, a right, the top is

0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:55.080
<v Speaker 1>this big you can barely fit. What about in the

0:18:55.119 --> 0:18:57.600
<v Speaker 1>shower and the pool in the ocean and some water?

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<v Speaker 1>Want to do it in water? That's not like it's

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<v Speaker 1>that easy. You're sliding, you know you're slipping, and you

0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:08.320
<v Speaker 1>gotta we're gonna take it to the to the bathroom countertop. Yeah,

0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:11.399
<v Speaker 1>the countertop is easier, and then I'll be getting cold.

0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:20.680
<v Speaker 1>Then you get many issues. It's only one person. Yeah,

0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:24.800
<v Speaker 1>the other person is called the ship. I feel like

0:19:24.840 --> 0:19:27.320
<v Speaker 1>in the pool, like, yes, you felt the day going in,

0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:30.199
<v Speaker 1>but like it don't feel like nothing, feel like it

0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:33.720
<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel good. Water. That does not explain it because

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<v Speaker 1>the water in a way. Yeah you sexy got out

0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:39.320
<v Speaker 1>of it and like lean up on the thing and

0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:44.000
<v Speaker 1>then y'all could do it. Yeah, yeah, happened half out.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of guys do you like if you had

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<v Speaker 1>to describe, Oh, for them, I aspire, y'all. I like

0:19:51.320 --> 0:20:00.119
<v Speaker 1>hood nick it's so bad. Physical type, a phansical type, um, tall, muscular. Um.

0:20:00.160 --> 0:20:03.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm from Chicago, y'all, so I'm used to like, you know,

0:20:03.560 --> 0:20:07.960
<v Speaker 1>street nicker, street guys. Um. So yeah, I like tough guys,

0:20:08.119 --> 0:20:14.360
<v Speaker 1>hard gas, overprotective, you know, guarded, and sometimes they most

0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:18.480
<v Speaker 1>of the times they're toxic. So that's like the challenge

0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:22.640
<v Speaker 1>founding that balance. Um yeah, that's my type. You need,

0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:25.560
<v Speaker 1>like a reformed hood guy right here, you go, that's

0:20:25.560 --> 0:20:27.680
<v Speaker 1>what you need that I used to be but now

0:20:28.080 --> 0:20:36.520
<v Speaker 1>I own some real estate. Right But he was like

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<v Speaker 1>a tough guy or whatever and trying to protect you,

0:20:40.240 --> 0:20:44.000
<v Speaker 1>he ends up getting beat up. Damn. I think that's

0:20:44.000 --> 0:20:47.280
<v Speaker 1>a deal breaker. I mean, I wouldn't say a deal breaker,

0:20:47.320 --> 0:20:49.760
<v Speaker 1>but I'm gonna be turned off. But he was protecting

0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:53.240
<v Speaker 1>you and he tried his best. Okay, Yeah, it depends

0:20:53.280 --> 0:20:55.320
<v Speaker 1>on the situation. Like if I know you tried it

0:20:55.359 --> 0:21:01.160
<v Speaker 1>was one person. Try thinking about a song about him

0:21:01.160 --> 0:21:06.160
<v Speaker 1>love being depend on that hand right A little down?

0:21:06.920 --> 0:21:09.480
<v Speaker 1>You got to jump in. I know, Yeah, I'll see.

0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:11.920
<v Speaker 1>That's why you got to pick the right one. You

0:21:12.000 --> 0:21:13.600
<v Speaker 1>gotta know who you win. You know who you're moving

0:21:13.600 --> 0:21:17.320
<v Speaker 1>around with. Right, Well, we have somebody for you right

0:21:17.359 --> 0:21:21.760
<v Speaker 1>here in this box. Yeah you've ever been with a

0:21:21.760 --> 0:21:25.320
<v Speaker 1>guy from the D from the D Detroit? No, alright,

0:21:25.480 --> 0:21:31.920
<v Speaker 1>we got right here. Baby. You're definitely quick from this.

0:21:36.119 --> 0:21:41.040
<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Her. I thought, like all girls need them

0:21:41.080 --> 0:21:44.400
<v Speaker 1>one like that was big, But that's I've never I've

0:21:44.400 --> 0:21:47.000
<v Speaker 1>never bought one. Now, let me actually that if a

0:21:47.080 --> 0:21:49.240
<v Speaker 1>guy put his hands down he was about to get

0:21:49.240 --> 0:21:52.240
<v Speaker 1>into it and his dick was like big, I wouldn't

0:21:52.280 --> 0:21:56.800
<v Speaker 1>be able to do nothing. Girl. I don't like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I like you big, but y'all that's like level. That's

0:21:59.680 --> 0:22:06.720
<v Speaker 1>probably novel. That's that's like you got it again. I'm okay.

0:22:06.880 --> 0:22:09.159
<v Speaker 1>You know that's like a horse. We all need that.

0:22:09.280 --> 0:22:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Do you like to experiment? Um? A little bit nervous

0:22:13.920 --> 0:22:17.640
<v Speaker 1>now like what you got here? We have another thing

0:22:17.680 --> 0:22:22.040
<v Speaker 1>for you now, okay, okay, but what's what's happen? Do

0:22:22.040 --> 0:22:24.000
<v Speaker 1>you like fingers in your butt every now and then

0:22:24.000 --> 0:22:27.959
<v Speaker 1>when you have no no? I think my for me, y'all, personally,

0:22:27.960 --> 0:22:37.240
<v Speaker 1>it's off limits. Maybe not fingers. A double penetration you

0:22:38.400 --> 0:22:44.080
<v Speaker 1>first is a little brother, brother, a little brother depart. Also,

0:22:44.119 --> 0:22:49.000
<v Speaker 1>because we don't time too, we don't just reminade. I'm dead, y'all.

0:22:49.040 --> 0:22:55.760
<v Speaker 1>We got a chocolate and vanilla one never never, I'm

0:22:55.760 --> 0:22:57.920
<v Speaker 1>not mad at I'm not mad at white. It's a white.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't right way. I'm scared to see what I was

0:23:08.160 --> 0:23:14.600
<v Speaker 1>just doing. Oh this is nice and gent and like, okay,

0:23:14.840 --> 0:23:17.480
<v Speaker 1>this is like you would like keep toys. So this

0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:23.879
<v Speaker 1>right here is a vibrating tongue ring. Yeah. Crazy? Also,

0:23:23.920 --> 0:23:25.439
<v Speaker 1>what are you doing? You put it? You put it

0:23:25.440 --> 0:23:27.600
<v Speaker 1>on the tip of your tongue. In it vibrates, put

0:23:27.600 --> 0:23:34.680
<v Speaker 1>it on the tongue. I would really like this. I

0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:38.240
<v Speaker 1>see it. He goes on your tongue and your tongue

0:23:42.680 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 1>the ring that goes around your time. I've never seen

0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:54.240
<v Speaker 1>that either, Gona, it's all goodhead either. You can trust

0:23:54.440 --> 0:23:56.639
<v Speaker 1>this one is this one might be the one who's

0:23:56.640 --> 0:24:02.320
<v Speaker 1>putting it in there, carrying right bake soy to the

0:24:02.320 --> 0:24:05.960
<v Speaker 1>bedroom before. Um, the most updated is like a vibrator.

0:24:06.720 --> 0:24:09.720
<v Speaker 1>So not not none of it. Well you know I'm

0:24:09.760 --> 0:24:13.200
<v Speaker 1>talking about like the ring or not the tongue ringing,

0:24:13.960 --> 0:24:18.600
<v Speaker 1>just the vibratory. The guys are intimidated by toys. Yeah,

0:24:19.119 --> 0:24:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I could see that. I can see that. It's more

0:24:21.600 --> 0:24:25.240
<v Speaker 1>for us. I think it's more for us. If anything, Um,

0:24:25.520 --> 0:24:27.960
<v Speaker 1>guys probably don't like to play with stuff more to

0:24:28.040 --> 0:24:29.560
<v Speaker 1>like put like if you give him a toy to

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:31.679
<v Speaker 1>like play with you with, you know he used it

0:24:31.680 --> 0:24:33.520
<v Speaker 1>on you. But then they might feel like, well, I

0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:36.120
<v Speaker 1>ain't good, I ain't get enough, I ain't got it.

0:24:36.800 --> 0:24:38.640
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever been with a guy who's was so

0:24:38.720 --> 0:24:42.600
<v Speaker 1>small that you were like in my past, when I

0:24:42.640 --> 0:24:44.760
<v Speaker 1>was younger, I was putting up with a guy that

0:24:44.880 --> 0:24:53.720
<v Speaker 1>had she laughing, don't laugh, we gotta put up, put

0:24:53.800 --> 0:24:56.199
<v Speaker 1>it up. I started laughing. I was I was. I

0:24:56.240 --> 0:24:59.200
<v Speaker 1>was young though, so I wasn't into like sex alid,

0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like advanced or anything, so for them, my spy,

0:25:03.160 --> 0:25:06.000
<v Speaker 1>he would have to like give me make up for

0:25:06.080 --> 0:25:09.160
<v Speaker 1>it in other ways. You told him I couldn't tell him,

0:25:09.359 --> 0:25:14.000
<v Speaker 1>But haven't you knew? It wasn't that I wasn't. I

0:25:14.119 --> 0:25:17.320
<v Speaker 1>wasn't that mean? I think you knew because like he

0:25:17.400 --> 0:25:21.040
<v Speaker 1>definitely knew. He knows, you know, he wouldn't try us often, right,

0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:23.240
<v Speaker 1>he know I always didn't. I say that guy's a

0:25:23.240 --> 0:25:25.560
<v Speaker 1>little dicks. Don't try to have sex with you as much?

0:25:26.160 --> 0:25:30.920
<v Speaker 1>Did it take care of That's what they don't. Well, yeah,

0:25:31.000 --> 0:25:33.800
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen him like try as hard. So the

0:25:33.840 --> 0:25:35.960
<v Speaker 1>first time me I had sex, how long did it take?

0:25:36.080 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 1>Because I think they'll even wait they do for you

0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:42.840
<v Speaker 1>to like that, right, they be making sure that you

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:48.160
<v Speaker 1>get you locked in? Yeah, I was. I was once

0:25:48.200 --> 0:25:49.960
<v Speaker 1>talking to a guy for like six months and we

0:25:50.040 --> 0:25:52.639
<v Speaker 1>were seeing each other like regularly going out. He was

0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:54.359
<v Speaker 1>like giving me money and buying me things, and he

0:25:54.440 --> 0:26:01.160
<v Speaker 1>never ever tried to sleep with me. I never found out.

0:26:01.800 --> 0:26:04.360
<v Speaker 1>That's the reason why it's probably a girl. You want

0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:08.040
<v Speaker 1>to think about it. I think that he just I mean,

0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 1>and I slept in the bed next to him naked

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:11.480
<v Speaker 1>and he did not touch me or made you feel

0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:14.800
<v Speaker 1>it off? Did you want to sleep with him? Did

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to have sex with him? No? She didn't

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:20.000
<v Speaker 1>eat you out. No, he never touched me. We never kissed. Never, nothing.

0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:24.960
<v Speaker 1>He just had like or it doesn't work or outbreak

0:26:25.840 --> 0:26:29.399
<v Speaker 1>or does who? Maybe it didn't. Maybe it was like

0:26:29.440 --> 0:26:31.480
<v Speaker 1>six months and we was We talked a lot and

0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:33.240
<v Speaker 1>we spent a lot of time together, but we never

0:26:34.600 --> 0:26:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he was just his home girl. Oh he put

0:26:37.160 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>you in a friend zone. The gifts say, that's a

0:26:40.760 --> 0:26:46.560
<v Speaker 1>good zone. I'll take the gifts. It was nice gifts.

0:26:47.080 --> 0:26:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you don't need a title or anything,

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:53.200
<v Speaker 1>I'll be your home girl. Okay, what's the nicest gift

0:26:53.200 --> 0:26:58.359
<v Speaker 1>you ever received? Coming? Um? The nicest gift in Chicago?

0:26:58.480 --> 0:27:01.520
<v Speaker 1>Guys like by you shoe. I might have got, like,

0:27:02.119 --> 0:27:05.919
<v Speaker 1>you know, a nice pair of designer hills. Um. For

0:27:06.000 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the most part, it'd be like clothes, like you know,

0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:14.159
<v Speaker 1>was clothes. Yes, guys in Chicago, I don't think they

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:17.960
<v Speaker 1>know how to give give gifts. What about jewelry? No jewelry. Um,

0:27:17.960 --> 0:27:20.800
<v Speaker 1>I've gotten a ring before, but it wasn't like, oh

0:27:20.840 --> 0:27:26.840
<v Speaker 1>my god, it was a cute ring. It was cute. So, yeah,

0:27:26.920 --> 0:27:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Chicago guys, they don't really know how to how to

0:27:29.560 --> 0:27:31.560
<v Speaker 1>trick you. Are you want to get from Chicago? You

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:34.879
<v Speaker 1>think that's what you end up with. I love Chicago guys,

0:27:34.920 --> 0:27:38.720
<v Speaker 1>like I'm so like used to them or not comfortable,

0:27:38.760 --> 0:27:41.679
<v Speaker 1>but just that's my speed. I understand them and they

0:27:41.800 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 1>understand me, so I probably end up eventually, you know,

0:27:47.640 --> 0:27:50.920
<v Speaker 1>Chicago guy, I nig from Chicago. When's the last time

0:27:50.960 --> 0:27:57.720
<v Speaker 1>you've been in a relationship, um, a serious relationship? Two eighteen? Yeah,

0:27:57.760 --> 0:28:00.960
<v Speaker 1>for the most part, I've been doing like casually dating.

0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:03.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, I have a situation, but I won't put

0:28:03.040 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 1>a title on it or like, you know, it's hard

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:08.879
<v Speaker 1>to put that title on stuff nowadays because nobody knows

0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:12.360
<v Speaker 1>what they're doing. So when you're introducing the people, you say,

0:28:12.400 --> 0:28:19.320
<v Speaker 1>this is my friend, my guy, or you know right

0:28:19.359 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 1>here a guy okay, what they called the John the trick?

0:28:29.200 --> 0:28:31.160
<v Speaker 1>So how did he bag you? Or like, how would

0:28:31.160 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 1>a guy stop to you to get your attention? Oh,

0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:37.680
<v Speaker 1>you gotta catch me in person? Like you can't really,

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like a d M type of person or

0:28:40.440 --> 0:28:43.080
<v Speaker 1>like a tell a friend to tell a friend. I

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:45.800
<v Speaker 1>gotta get around you so you can feel me. Um,

0:28:46.240 --> 0:28:47.880
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of times people that try to put

0:28:47.920 --> 0:28:50.160
<v Speaker 1>me together by what they hear or about my songs,

0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:52.800
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, no, you gotta meet me. You really

0:28:52.800 --> 0:28:54.600
<v Speaker 1>got to talk to me. And that's how I feel

0:28:54.600 --> 0:28:57.320
<v Speaker 1>about a guy, like I don't care about Instagram. I

0:28:57.360 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 1>prefer a guy not to even have an Instagram, y'all.

0:28:59.720 --> 0:29:02.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't care about social media. I need to see.

0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I think that's sneak, y'all. That's the best, the best

0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:10.160
<v Speaker 1>thing I ever want married. Listen, don't believe me. All

0:29:10.160 --> 0:29:15.400
<v Speaker 1>got one, he just ain't one. One. When they don't

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:17.360
<v Speaker 1>have one, they signed it to their little brother ship.

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:23.959
<v Speaker 1>They got home. They watching the opposite, the opposite guys

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:26.480
<v Speaker 1>like if they have if they don't have a social media,

0:29:26.560 --> 0:29:28.520
<v Speaker 1>that don't mean they're not. They cheata or they got

0:29:28.520 --> 0:29:31.920
<v Speaker 1>a situation. See, I'm telling you all, Like Chicago is

0:29:31.960 --> 0:29:34.760
<v Speaker 1>just so different. Like a lot of guys they all

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 1>be lit in real life, but they don't really care

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:41.560
<v Speaker 1>about social media or they have a page and was like, yeah,

0:29:44.960 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 1>they're not putting themselves out there to say this is

0:29:47.320 --> 0:29:48.800
<v Speaker 1>what I'm doing, this is where I'm at because they

0:29:48.840 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 1>live their life but they're both then and they're lurking

0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 1>in there. They're watching. He might not have a page,

0:29:57.240 --> 0:29:59.240
<v Speaker 1>he might not post it, might not have an act name.

0:29:59.440 --> 0:30:05.840
<v Speaker 1>Because best believe that baby's lest you because he's watching

0:30:05.840 --> 0:30:10.360
<v Speaker 1>because he's signed it to his homeboy account like always

0:30:11.520 --> 0:30:14.280
<v Speaker 1>one Instagram account and not never put youre neither one

0:30:14.320 --> 0:30:16.280
<v Speaker 1>of them more motherfucking page because all they're going is

0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:21.440
<v Speaker 1>watching and looking at as everythingle any right about. They're

0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:23.720
<v Speaker 1>telling me, what the hell are you going on the internet.

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:27.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, they know you know that. I don't like

0:30:27.400 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 1>when people do that, Like if I don't think they

0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:32.040
<v Speaker 1>follow me, I don't know the page, and like I'll

0:30:32.040 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 1>talk to them and they bring up something that I post.

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I think that's some creepy weirdo ships that today you

0:30:38.040 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>have fun in New York. I don't think that's bad though,

0:30:40.800 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 1>because it's not like your page is private. It's it's

0:30:43.560 --> 0:30:46.320
<v Speaker 1>like to have social media, but it's your page private, mom,

0:30:46.800 --> 0:30:49.640
<v Speaker 1>because why did I know your page? You're like, I'm

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:52.040
<v Speaker 1>not watching your page like that, so it's just learning

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:54.880
<v Speaker 1>from his homeboy page and he can have you but

0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:56.800
<v Speaker 1>you can't see. You get what I'm saying? What you

0:30:56.880 --> 0:30:59.640
<v Speaker 1>got going on. If he's not doing nothing, yeah, you

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:02.640
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't on social media. No, I'm saying, if he's not

0:31:02.680 --> 0:31:06.440
<v Speaker 1>on social media, not posting pictures, then you know still

0:31:06.480 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 1>doing something, you got to post it. Damn you really

0:31:09.480 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>don't trust No, you're not hopeless romantics at all. We

0:31:12.680 --> 0:31:18.360
<v Speaker 1>were twenties. I don't want you to be discouraged. I

0:31:18.400 --> 0:31:23.360
<v Speaker 1>got it. I'm getting picking up game you guys. Second change,

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:30.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking that's that's a good one. Okay, finally the

0:31:30.760 --> 0:31:34.880
<v Speaker 1>whole situation out a year later. Now, let me ask

0:31:34.880 --> 0:31:36.920
<v Speaker 1>you that you said the last time you were in

0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:40.400
<v Speaker 1>a serious relationship with right, So that had to be

0:31:40.440 --> 0:31:43.880
<v Speaker 1>like a transitional period of your life too, because you

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:49.120
<v Speaker 1>became independent label wise, So did all of that coincide

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:51.360
<v Speaker 1>with each other, like, because that's a stressful time when

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:53.920
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to figure out your next career move, you're

0:31:53.920 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 1>trying to get out of a contract, and you're getting

0:31:56.680 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 1>out of a relationship. Yeah, for the most part, though,

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I think that was around the time we were still

0:32:03.080 --> 0:32:05.719
<v Speaker 1>together while I was going through the label stuff. So

0:32:05.800 --> 0:32:07.560
<v Speaker 1>I was looking at it like, you know, I need

0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:11.440
<v Speaker 1>somebody to hold me down during these times. So he

0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:13.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't leave me at that point. We were still together

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:15.520
<v Speaker 1>while I was going through the legal stuff and the

0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:19.080
<v Speaker 1>label shap um. So I think that's probably why I

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.240
<v Speaker 1>stuck around him so much, because I needed somebody to

0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:25.040
<v Speaker 1>talk to, you know, vent to you know what I'm saying.

0:32:25.520 --> 0:32:29.040
<v Speaker 1>So he was actually right that support system for the

0:32:29.080 --> 0:32:30.760
<v Speaker 1>most part. Did you feel like still to this day?

0:32:30.760 --> 0:32:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Are yeah? Still cool? At least still cool? Still cool?

0:32:33.600 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I could call him today and you know, pick up

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:37.800
<v Speaker 1>where we left out if we had too. But why

0:32:37.840 --> 0:32:40.960
<v Speaker 1>did you break up? Um? I just felt like I

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:44.600
<v Speaker 1>was like growing growing um faster than him growing up

0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:46.840
<v Speaker 1>a little more. I was more mature, of course, like

0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:50.040
<v Speaker 1>I have. You know, I had things going on um,

0:32:50.200 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 1>and he was really like up under me a lot.

0:32:53.000 --> 0:32:55.280
<v Speaker 1>So that kind of like got in a way sometimes

0:32:55.280 --> 0:32:58.000
<v Speaker 1>of work. So I felt like, you know, he needed

0:32:58.040 --> 0:33:00.520
<v Speaker 1>some time to beat by himself, to get him some

0:33:00.600 --> 0:33:02.720
<v Speaker 1>type of job or some type or not job, but

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:04.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, to get on his feet a little bit better.

0:33:05.960 --> 0:33:08.520
<v Speaker 1>How long did it take for y'all to actually break up?

0:33:08.840 --> 0:33:17.720
<v Speaker 1>Because you know how like you like back up, that's

0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>how it's it takes a while, y'all, Like it might

0:33:20.640 --> 0:33:24.000
<v Speaker 1>have been maybe we probably split up and got back

0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:27.080
<v Speaker 1>together for about like four months. And that's a long

0:33:27.120 --> 0:33:30.640
<v Speaker 1>time to keep going back and forth. So and then

0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:33.920
<v Speaker 1>you finally just stopped. Yeah, you just have to stop

0:33:33.960 --> 0:33:36.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of stop speaking, you know, I kind of go

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 1>cold a little bit, like stop answering or stop texting

0:33:39.080 --> 0:33:43.040
<v Speaker 1>as often. Um, that's the only way did he feel like, Damn,

0:33:43.040 --> 0:33:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I was there for you when you was going through

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:47.600
<v Speaker 1>all your ship and then you just yeah, at first,

0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:49.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, I caught the shade. You know, they always

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:52.480
<v Speaker 1>throw shade at first. But it's like, you know, a

0:33:52.560 --> 0:33:54.560
<v Speaker 1>year later, he see what it was like. You know,

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:56.760
<v Speaker 1>I still all got love for you. I was really

0:33:56.760 --> 0:33:59.400
<v Speaker 1>trying to just make sure you wouldn't, you know, just

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:01.440
<v Speaker 1>trying to be a under me forever, Like I want

0:34:01.440 --> 0:34:04.240
<v Speaker 1>to see you get on your ship too. Right. So

0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 1>now he's like, it's no, it's no bad blood, alright,

0:34:08.160 --> 0:34:10.040
<v Speaker 1>So now let me ask you a question. You gotta

0:34:10.080 --> 0:34:12.600
<v Speaker 1>pick one of the other. Okay, everybody in the room

0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:16.440
<v Speaker 1>gotta do at hands and no hands, do it with

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:23.280
<v Speaker 1>no hands, hands, hands, depends on what we're doing. What

0:34:23.520 --> 0:34:26.719
<v Speaker 1>do you know what you're doing? Yeah, I use my hands,

0:34:26.719 --> 0:34:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I use both hands, honey, especially because I just was

0:34:31.080 --> 0:34:32.600
<v Speaker 1>trying to do it with that was that was the

0:34:32.640 --> 0:34:34.759
<v Speaker 1>lyric that popped in my do it with no hands?

0:34:34.800 --> 0:34:39.040
<v Speaker 1>But I was I was putty popping on the hands

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:44.560
<v Speaker 1>with no hands. Okay, but no, yes, not the whole time.

0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:47.520
<v Speaker 1>But but you gotta you gotta use your hands. You

0:34:47.520 --> 0:34:49.400
<v Speaker 1>gotta hit one of the other. I didn't say alternate,

0:34:49.440 --> 0:34:51.640
<v Speaker 1>wasn't if I have to use my hands or not

0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:55.000
<v Speaker 1>use my hands, then I'm gonna use my hands. Hands.

0:34:56.040 --> 0:34:59.560
<v Speaker 1>It helps. I think they like, I think they really

0:34:59.600 --> 0:35:01.200
<v Speaker 1>time to w because like how you start to get

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:06.640
<v Speaker 1>to the walls without your hands. I gotta be like,

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:10.560
<v Speaker 1>so you always gotta with the best part of the

0:35:11.040 --> 0:35:12.920
<v Speaker 1>that is part of the situation. It's like if you're

0:35:12.960 --> 0:35:18.959
<v Speaker 1>gonna funk with it all right, So all the guys

0:35:18.960 --> 0:35:20.719
<v Speaker 1>in their room hands and their hands. I just want

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:23.560
<v Speaker 1>to see if guys like hands. Who says hands and

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:28.880
<v Speaker 1>keeping them hands? And I was like, I don't care,

0:35:30.160 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 1>said bro, two hands. Pepper grinder, Yeah, pepper grind, as

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 1>long as you got enough pepper hands. Okay, one potator too,

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:43.560
<v Speaker 1>potato potato you got you got what if you do

0:35:44.280 --> 0:35:47.239
<v Speaker 1>you can't use your thumb and listen listen. I guy

0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:48.640
<v Speaker 1>got mad at me because I grabbed this thing like

0:35:48.680 --> 0:35:52.520
<v Speaker 1>that one day and try to be smart. He was like, damn,

0:35:52.520 --> 0:35:53.879
<v Speaker 1>when you try to say, my thick little you want

0:35:53.920 --> 0:35:58.719
<v Speaker 1>grab it like this, Like I said, no hands because

0:35:58.719 --> 0:36:01.680
<v Speaker 1>I won't be the little dick doesn't work for me.

0:36:01.760 --> 0:36:05.000
<v Speaker 1>But too big? All right, now, I think I gotta

0:36:05.000 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>ask you. You in your twenties, and I know it's

0:36:07.520 --> 0:36:11.120
<v Speaker 1>a different day and age now. So this whole um.

0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I was watching Love is Blind. I know you watching

0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:16.120
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of it so far. And there's one

0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:19.840
<v Speaker 1>guy on there, Carlton, the black guy Carlton. Okay, I

0:36:19.880 --> 0:36:24.839
<v Speaker 1>know I know about so he sexually fluid. So in

0:36:24.840 --> 0:36:27.400
<v Speaker 1>other words, he ended up telling the girl that he

0:36:27.719 --> 0:36:30.040
<v Speaker 1>ended up with that he likes. He has been with

0:36:30.080 --> 0:36:31.960
<v Speaker 1>men in the past. Some of these guys in here.

0:36:32.000 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 1>You need to tell it more often because there's a

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:38.799
<v Speaker 1>whole lot of day going on that's very real. So

0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:41.719
<v Speaker 1>if you know a guy right and you really liked him,

0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:45.480
<v Speaker 1>and then after you really liked him, y'all hung out whatever,

0:36:46.040 --> 0:36:47.680
<v Speaker 1>went on a few dates, and then he told you, look,

0:36:47.680 --> 0:36:50.839
<v Speaker 1>I gotta be clean and honest with you. I've been

0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:54.759
<v Speaker 1>with guys in the past, but I feel like I'm

0:36:54.800 --> 0:36:57.959
<v Speaker 1>a you know, sexually fluid person. I could do either

0:36:58.080 --> 0:37:00.440
<v Speaker 1>or but I really just like the person doesn't matter

0:37:00.440 --> 0:37:03.279
<v Speaker 1>if it's a guy or a girl. Would you still

0:37:03.320 --> 0:37:07.320
<v Speaker 1>be okay with that? Personally? I have to be honest

0:37:07.320 --> 0:37:12.200
<v Speaker 1>and I'm not discriminating against anybody, but I wouldn't settle

0:37:12.280 --> 0:37:15.840
<v Speaker 1>for that. That's just my preference, right, no offense to anyone,

0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:18.759
<v Speaker 1>because I know to be comfortable with that. Personally. I

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:21.560
<v Speaker 1>can't compete with no penis, like I can put compete

0:37:21.560 --> 0:37:28.759
<v Speaker 1>with another female probably right, But that's the thing, you

0:37:28.800 --> 0:37:31.480
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. But you know, like I can't

0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:34.520
<v Speaker 1>compete with penis. If you like penis, I don't have penis.

0:37:34.560 --> 0:37:37.839
<v Speaker 1>I would feel better. I'll be like one thing, I know,

0:37:37.880 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't fucking guy. Yeah, you said you would feel better,

0:37:41.640 --> 0:37:44.600
<v Speaker 1>Like she said she I can't compete with and I'm

0:37:44.640 --> 0:37:51.919
<v Speaker 1>saying I wouldn't feel but I can't. Yeah, I can't.

0:37:51.920 --> 0:37:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't if I found out a guy that I

0:37:54.160 --> 0:37:57.400
<v Speaker 1>was dealing with, like even cheated with a guy or something,

0:37:57.440 --> 0:37:58.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, like if I found out like later on,

0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:00.560
<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, well, at least he wanted something. I

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:04.319
<v Speaker 1>don't got so, but what if you're in love with him? Yeah,

0:38:04.320 --> 0:38:05.960
<v Speaker 1>and you found that already in love and he told

0:38:05.960 --> 0:38:10.439
<v Speaker 1>you I've been together for a while. Yeah, we're gonna

0:38:10.440 --> 0:38:14.920
<v Speaker 1>break up. We're gonna break up. Yeah, So why not

0:38:15.160 --> 0:38:17.120
<v Speaker 1>why not tell me what I'm getting myself involved in

0:38:17.160 --> 0:38:21.920
<v Speaker 1>from the beginning, that's from the beginning. See, that's my

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:28.080
<v Speaker 1>favorite men that I look at you. I mentioned that

0:38:28.120 --> 0:38:31.120
<v Speaker 1>in the past, is that guys don't come in being

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:34.120
<v Speaker 1>honest and allowed a woman to choose what situation she

0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:35.920
<v Speaker 1>want to be a part of. They just throw us

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:37.640
<v Speaker 1>in the situation. And then when the ship hit the

0:38:37.680 --> 0:38:39.680
<v Speaker 1>fan and we found out what's really going on, then

0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:42.239
<v Speaker 1>they want to come with the old kid would and

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:43.919
<v Speaker 1>I and all the so fucking tap dance and ship,

0:38:44.000 --> 0:38:45.480
<v Speaker 1>ain't nobody got time for now? If you would have

0:38:45.520 --> 0:38:48.240
<v Speaker 1>told me from the beginning that you had a baby mama,

0:38:48.320 --> 0:38:50.840
<v Speaker 1>you was married, he was gay, You like dick, you

0:38:50.920 --> 0:38:52.839
<v Speaker 1>like it up the but just that you would leave him,

0:38:53.080 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, allowed me to make that decision, allowed

0:38:56.080 --> 0:38:57.600
<v Speaker 1>me to say, all right, well, this is what I

0:38:57.680 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 1>choose to be involved in. That throw me and no ship.

0:39:01.040 --> 0:39:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Now I'm not competing with I might compete with your

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:04.959
<v Speaker 1>big Mama, but I ain't competing with no Dick. I can't.

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:10.640
<v Speaker 1>That's why I agree with that. That's why he's lied

0:39:10.680 --> 0:39:12.880
<v Speaker 1>to you because he wants the pussy, so he's not

0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:15.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna that's the problem in itself. That's like your character.

0:39:15.520 --> 0:39:18.560
<v Speaker 1>And right, bro, you you gotta laugh to me with

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:22.160
<v Speaker 1>somebody only just experimented and did it once and decided

0:39:22.200 --> 0:39:24.160
<v Speaker 1>that he don't like I don't want to do we didn't.

0:39:25.520 --> 0:39:28.600
<v Speaker 1>I like that. And I'm saying because I feel like

0:39:28.640 --> 0:39:31.319
<v Speaker 1>everybody always says like they would have sunk with the guy,

0:39:31.560 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I've been changing my mind and say that I might

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 1>funk with a guy. I've already done it. I've already

0:39:40.280 --> 0:39:42.879
<v Speaker 1>been with, slept with, sucked through on somebody who's been

0:39:42.920 --> 0:39:45.759
<v Speaker 1>with SUP, with sup with ya. See what it was

0:39:45.840 --> 0:39:48.040
<v Speaker 1>fucked up with me is I'm fouled out in a

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:51.200
<v Speaker 1>devastating way that a guy that I didn't tell you,

0:39:52.200 --> 0:39:54.560
<v Speaker 1>he didn't tell me. I was in a car with

0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:58.200
<v Speaker 1>my friends and and with two of my friends and

0:39:58.200 --> 0:40:00.839
<v Speaker 1>one of their friends. I didn't know that girl, and

0:40:00.920 --> 0:40:04.080
<v Speaker 1>she was just gossiping and she was like a publicist

0:40:04.160 --> 0:40:05.719
<v Speaker 1>and she was just like yeah, girl, because you know,

0:40:05.880 --> 0:40:08.600
<v Speaker 1>last night so and so God caught fucking so and

0:40:08.600 --> 0:40:10.719
<v Speaker 1>so boyfriend. I didn't even know he and it was

0:40:10.760 --> 0:40:15.640
<v Speaker 1>a nigger that I was. She said where my drink at?

0:40:16.760 --> 0:40:20.240
<v Speaker 1>And I died. Yeah, God, I was like, my heart

0:40:20.400 --> 0:40:23.600
<v Speaker 1>just sank to like my ass, like it just felt.

0:40:24.000 --> 0:40:27.000
<v Speaker 1>And then I was supposed to see him. Yeah, and

0:40:27.040 --> 0:40:31.800
<v Speaker 1>then too, and I was supposed to see him. I died,

0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:36.680
<v Speaker 1>but I I mean, I don't want to die. My

0:40:36.800 --> 0:40:39.480
<v Speaker 1>nigga just got sucked in the ask. And now you

0:40:39.520 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 1>don't know if he was a top. Guys, maybe he

0:40:42.760 --> 0:40:46.520
<v Speaker 1>sucked somebody in a huh which is word. I don't care.

0:40:46.600 --> 0:40:49.480
<v Speaker 1>They would act like bottom like you know whatever. But

0:40:49.560 --> 0:40:52.200
<v Speaker 1>I felt like he left there wouldn't be no tops.

0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:54.960
<v Speaker 1>He left me for a man he didn't know. That's

0:40:54.960 --> 0:40:57.239
<v Speaker 1>how I felt at the time. And I've seen him

0:40:57.320 --> 0:41:00.120
<v Speaker 1>later on because I was like in town and were

0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:02.560
<v Speaker 1>supposed to link with him and everything, and when I've

0:41:02.600 --> 0:41:05.520
<v Speaker 1>seen him on, God, this is fucked up. But I

0:41:05.600 --> 0:41:07.759
<v Speaker 1>looked right past that nigger like I never met him

0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:14.480
<v Speaker 1>before him again, I'm because I was like, really like skill,

0:41:15.680 --> 0:41:19.000
<v Speaker 1>because you really enjoyed having sex with him. Yeah, he

0:41:19.120 --> 0:41:21.799
<v Speaker 1>was decent. He was good, like you really enjoyed it.

0:41:21.840 --> 0:41:24.279
<v Speaker 1>It was too weak though I told you that too, right,

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:27.680
<v Speaker 1>But it's just sucked up. It was suck My heart

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:30.400
<v Speaker 1>still hurts when I think. I always had the theory

0:41:30.440 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 1>that it's too many women out here like me that

0:41:32.360 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 1>are openly fucking on bitches and sucking on bitches, that

0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:36.719
<v Speaker 1>these niggas ain't not hurt on the same thing. I

0:41:36.800 --> 0:41:39.680
<v Speaker 1>gotta I gotta tex. One day of a guy that

0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:43.239
<v Speaker 1>I used to have sex with long ago. Um, he

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:48.160
<v Speaker 1>was doing gay one with his brother, his brother to

0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:51.719
<v Speaker 1>another letter like that, Yeah, well about it. And he

0:41:51.760 --> 0:42:00.400
<v Speaker 1>sucked his brother. Yeah, like I said, his brother, brother, brother,

0:42:01.080 --> 0:42:08.200
<v Speaker 1>I do it and each other. But okay, I wouldn't

0:42:08.520 --> 0:42:11.560
<v Speaker 1>see the actual clip them doing anything with each other.

0:42:11.960 --> 0:42:14.920
<v Speaker 1>But I did see a clip of them both getting

0:42:14.960 --> 0:42:18.680
<v Speaker 1>their dick sucked by another man at the same time.

0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:22.160
<v Speaker 1>But I heard what they were. Yes, I heard that.

0:42:22.160 --> 0:42:25.120
<v Speaker 1>There were more clips that I could. Of course they

0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:27.160
<v Speaker 1>were more. I want to see the ship, but I

0:42:27.160 --> 0:42:32.640
<v Speaker 1>don't think, man, that cutty hook you up with nobody

0:42:34.400 --> 0:42:37.919
<v Speaker 1>like she was like, it's official. You've been with every

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:40.120
<v Speaker 1>single guy under the sun, every single type I got

0:42:40.160 --> 0:42:42.840
<v Speaker 1>under the sun. This don't make no sense. And fine,

0:42:43.280 --> 0:42:52.600
<v Speaker 1>everybody here, and dude, that's yourself. You speak to yourself.

0:42:53.920 --> 0:43:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't mess my head that something like never happened.

0:43:01.520 --> 0:43:07.759
<v Speaker 1>You ever talked to a glass? He was he was kid.

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:12.800
<v Speaker 1>You got to let calls. Yeah, I've thank the guys

0:43:12.800 --> 0:43:15.440
<v Speaker 1>that have been to chaither you know what means. But

0:43:15.480 --> 0:43:21.239
<v Speaker 1>now she's that guy. Now I'm thinking, like, babe, we

0:43:21.280 --> 0:43:24.960
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be a bad joke might be good? Good,

0:43:24.960 --> 0:43:29.400
<v Speaker 1>We're good. No, that's not good. Could you be with

0:43:29.440 --> 0:43:31.120
<v Speaker 1>the guys? Could you be with the guy who's broke?

0:43:32.000 --> 0:43:36.520
<v Speaker 1>Who's broke? Yeah? Oh um, you gotta still have like

0:43:36.600 --> 0:43:38.759
<v Speaker 1>some type of hustling, you know, like you ain't gotta

0:43:39.320 --> 0:43:41.120
<v Speaker 1>if you're broke, okay, but don't be trying to be

0:43:41.160 --> 0:43:44.799
<v Speaker 1>broke forever. Like it's hard enough you broke, so you know,

0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:46.919
<v Speaker 1>at least have some people broke with a business plan,

0:43:47.200 --> 0:43:51.640
<v Speaker 1>have a plan. Broke? What if he was fine and

0:43:51.719 --> 0:43:55.920
<v Speaker 1>amazing in bed and you still have to bring something

0:43:56.000 --> 0:43:59.919
<v Speaker 1>to the table. Look stage yea, looks fade. That's real

0:44:02.400 --> 0:44:06.399
<v Speaker 1>And you have to have some type of hustling, you though,

0:44:07.040 --> 0:44:09.960
<v Speaker 1>a plan or something. I think we all could be

0:44:10.080 --> 0:44:13.080
<v Speaker 1>with somebody who doesn't really have that much money until

0:44:13.400 --> 0:44:15.759
<v Speaker 1>for a little while and then we wake up like

0:44:16.960 --> 0:44:22.240
<v Speaker 1>it's start getting annoying. Wow, you know so what Okay,

0:44:22.280 --> 0:44:24.160
<v Speaker 1>so you said earlier we talked about this if we

0:44:24.200 --> 0:44:25.480
<v Speaker 1>got to get back to it. So you said, you

0:44:25.520 --> 0:44:28.200
<v Speaker 1>like guys to a kind of hood and looks wise.

0:44:28.719 --> 0:44:32.960
<v Speaker 1>Do looks madder to you? Um, looks madder. But you

0:44:33.000 --> 0:44:36.960
<v Speaker 1>know it's not like a I have a specific type.

0:44:36.960 --> 0:44:41.319
<v Speaker 1>But I like chocolate, man like skiing, karmel. Um, it's

0:44:41.360 --> 0:44:44.560
<v Speaker 1>really about your structure. Um. You know in Chicago, I

0:44:44.640 --> 0:44:47.360
<v Speaker 1>like dress. We got a lot of guys with dress.

0:44:48.040 --> 0:44:52.359
<v Speaker 1>But I'm not tool paky. You know, personality matters. You said,

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:55.880
<v Speaker 1>personality matter because you can be like, you can be

0:44:55.920 --> 0:44:58.759
<v Speaker 1>a guy that's not as fine. But if your personality

0:44:58.800 --> 0:45:01.239
<v Speaker 1>on amazing, you don't look good as you're gonna look

0:45:01.440 --> 0:45:05.280
<v Speaker 1>up because if you're finding your personality is whack. And yeah,

0:45:05.320 --> 0:45:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't hell yeah, I know people that are so

0:45:08.640 --> 0:45:12.279
<v Speaker 1>good looking but they are so whack personality I can't

0:45:12.280 --> 0:45:17.279
<v Speaker 1>even so turn off. Then, so, like, you know, you

0:45:17.320 --> 0:45:19.880
<v Speaker 1>can make up for it in other ways, right, Yeah,

0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:23.239
<v Speaker 1>So tell me The process of writing Hopeless Romantic was

0:45:23.239 --> 0:45:25.399
<v Speaker 1>it always your intention to put it out on Valentine's Day.

0:45:25.800 --> 0:45:28.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I knew. Back in December, I was like

0:45:28.600 --> 0:45:32.080
<v Speaker 1>hoping to drop it on Valentine's. But the process is

0:45:32.120 --> 0:45:34.040
<v Speaker 1>really just like you go through some ship. I write

0:45:34.040 --> 0:45:37.440
<v Speaker 1>it at the crib, called my producer or my engineer,

0:45:37.719 --> 0:45:40.359
<v Speaker 1>set set up the studio, and I just pull up

0:45:40.400 --> 0:45:42.400
<v Speaker 1>and let it out. You know. I don't need like

0:45:42.440 --> 0:45:44.759
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people in the lab. I write all

0:45:44.800 --> 0:45:48.600
<v Speaker 1>my music on my own, um, and for me, that's

0:45:48.640 --> 0:45:51.200
<v Speaker 1>what works. You know, other people they may need, you know,

0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:54.279
<v Speaker 1>tem producers or people to come in and give them

0:45:54.280 --> 0:45:57.480
<v Speaker 1>hooks and stuff like that, which is fine. But for me,

0:45:57.520 --> 0:46:00.719
<v Speaker 1>it's like personal, like I'll be kind of like, you know,

0:46:00.760 --> 0:46:02.560
<v Speaker 1>wait till I'm done, and then I'll let y'all come

0:46:02.600 --> 0:46:04.600
<v Speaker 1>in and give me a you know, some critiqueing. But

0:46:05.400 --> 0:46:07.279
<v Speaker 1>it's all me. When you date someone, do you let

0:46:07.320 --> 0:46:10.200
<v Speaker 1>them hear your music? Oh yeah, oh yeah, you're doing

0:46:10.239 --> 0:46:12.879
<v Speaker 1>it working on it. That's actually like, you know, one

0:46:12.880 --> 0:46:14.600
<v Speaker 1>of the best parts is like you know, getting in

0:46:14.600 --> 0:46:17.560
<v Speaker 1>the car and playing playing a ship um and they'll

0:46:17.600 --> 0:46:19.479
<v Speaker 1>tell me like, oh yeah, that's it. That's the one.

0:46:20.120 --> 0:46:22.120
<v Speaker 1>You know. I like to let them hear. It's like

0:46:22.160 --> 0:46:24.040
<v Speaker 1>it's a part of me. You're gonna hear it eventually,

0:46:24.120 --> 0:46:26.600
<v Speaker 1>so I might as well let you know what's coming.

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:29.239
<v Speaker 1>How would you feel if they were like I don't

0:46:29.239 --> 0:46:32.840
<v Speaker 1>really like this one, I wouldn't care. I wouldn't I

0:46:32.840 --> 0:46:37.840
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't care it on no, no, Like I'll be I

0:46:38.000 --> 0:46:40.920
<v Speaker 1>really funk with my music. Like and I know everybody

0:46:40.920 --> 0:46:43.920
<v Speaker 1>ain't go back to my ship. Nobody's gonna like everything

0:46:43.960 --> 0:46:48.919
<v Speaker 1>you do. So I'm like, you don't care it that.

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm okay with that. Yeah, that's fine. It's okay, like

0:46:53.760 --> 0:46:57.040
<v Speaker 1>somebody gonna like relate to it. Have you ever pulled

0:46:57.080 --> 0:47:01.480
<v Speaker 1>a song out because you felt like it was two personal? Oh? Yeah,

0:47:01.560 --> 0:47:03.359
<v Speaker 1>I put a lot of songs. I was, y'all, Like,

0:47:04.280 --> 0:47:06.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, people think I'm deep, but I go I

0:47:06.480 --> 0:47:09.239
<v Speaker 1>get even deeper sometimes, or like I'm a little I'm

0:47:09.280 --> 0:47:11.440
<v Speaker 1>being a little too aggressive. I'm saying some stuff that

0:47:11.520 --> 0:47:14.719
<v Speaker 1>might hurt step on toes, you know, and today it's

0:47:14.719 --> 0:47:17.959
<v Speaker 1>just so political you gotta be it's so sensitive. Yeah,

0:47:18.040 --> 0:47:21.520
<v Speaker 1>So it's like you gotta be careful with everything you say,

0:47:21.920 --> 0:47:25.440
<v Speaker 1>so a lot of times so I don't get pulled back. Yeah,

0:47:25.600 --> 0:47:30.680
<v Speaker 1>we're cleaned up. You gotta change that up a little bit. Yeah,

0:47:30.960 --> 0:47:32.799
<v Speaker 1>have you? Um, are you okay with dating more than

0:47:32.840 --> 0:47:36.359
<v Speaker 1>one guy at a time? If we're dating, I think

0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:38.879
<v Speaker 1>that's fine. I think that's like a part of data,

0:47:39.600 --> 0:47:42.680
<v Speaker 1>um testing your waters. Uh. I mean, but at some

0:47:42.719 --> 0:47:44.799
<v Speaker 1>point you gotta cut it off if you feel like

0:47:44.800 --> 0:47:48.920
<v Speaker 1>it's getting serious. Um. But yeah, if you're just casually dating,

0:47:48.960 --> 0:47:51.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't think nothing's wrong with that. I'm honest about

0:47:51.200 --> 0:47:53.640
<v Speaker 1>it too. Like if I got somebody else I'm seeing,

0:47:53.680 --> 0:47:58.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you tell I think, yeah, I want

0:47:58.360 --> 0:48:00.560
<v Speaker 1>them to tell me. If they're seeing somebody, do you

0:48:00.560 --> 0:48:02.600
<v Speaker 1>tell them? If they ask you or do you volunteer it?

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:06.440
<v Speaker 1>It'll come up well, you know, like in conversation. I

0:48:06.480 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 1>don't just blurt it out, but if they want to know,

0:48:09.320 --> 0:48:11.520
<v Speaker 1>or they feel like, you know, you know, they see

0:48:11.560 --> 0:48:14.960
<v Speaker 1>some online or anything in any way, if they asked me,

0:48:15.040 --> 0:48:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna keep it andre like, yeah, we talk, you know,

0:48:18.120 --> 0:48:20.279
<v Speaker 1>we date, or you know, I link up with him.

0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:24.239
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes sometimes it works out better because it's like friendly competition.

0:48:26.280 --> 0:48:31.880
<v Speaker 1>Everything's no because I felt like they're a little key

0:48:32.080 --> 0:48:35.560
<v Speaker 1>like start to you know, one is going to try

0:48:35.560 --> 0:48:37.359
<v Speaker 1>to out do the other that's gonna try to if

0:48:37.480 --> 0:48:43.040
<v Speaker 1>you wait. This other dude want me for bad, but

0:48:43.160 --> 0:48:46.040
<v Speaker 1>he was buying him like the turtle to watch that.

0:48:46.360 --> 0:48:50.839
<v Speaker 1>It's like that, like you until you fucking or they

0:48:50.840 --> 0:48:55.200
<v Speaker 1>could drop your grass because they don't want to. They

0:48:53.840 --> 0:48:57.000
<v Speaker 1>can get like, well, let me concentrate on other women

0:48:57.040 --> 0:49:00.360
<v Speaker 1>too again, feel like they were in competition with another

0:49:00.400 --> 0:49:05.120
<v Speaker 1>woman for a guy. Unfortunately. Yeah, at times, you know,

0:49:05.239 --> 0:49:10.400
<v Speaker 1>it gets like that. Um yeah, especially like and today,

0:49:10.480 --> 0:49:13.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, you can see everything a guy's doing. Y'all

0:49:13.440 --> 0:49:17.160
<v Speaker 1>know when they had they had the feature on Instagram

0:49:16.040 --> 0:49:23.560
<v Speaker 1>because they took it off. Yeah, kinda, you can. You

0:49:23.600 --> 0:49:26.960
<v Speaker 1>can see everything, so like you know, you'll you'll be

0:49:26.960 --> 0:49:28.799
<v Speaker 1>peeping what are you? What are you doing? Or who he?

0:49:28.920 --> 0:49:31.800
<v Speaker 1>Who messing with? You know, it gets like that. You

0:49:31.840 --> 0:49:33.239
<v Speaker 1>ever had a girl slide in your d M s

0:49:33.239 --> 0:49:37.920
<v Speaker 1>and tell you know your man? Um m mmm yeah,

0:49:38.040 --> 0:49:40.799
<v Speaker 1>especially like years ago, like when you're young, like in

0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:42.880
<v Speaker 1>your teens and shape. Girls are messy. When you're like

0:49:42.960 --> 0:49:46.360
<v Speaker 1>nineteen twenty, we live for the drama then. Um so

0:49:46.400 --> 0:49:47.840
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have a few girls come to the d

0:49:48.000 --> 0:49:50.279
<v Speaker 1>M and it's really just petty. They just want to

0:49:50.280 --> 0:49:54.440
<v Speaker 1>see you throw shade or get a reaction. Um, but

0:49:54.480 --> 0:49:56.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll be I used to keep up, keep up with it,

0:49:56.600 --> 0:50:00.160
<v Speaker 1>Like girl white, what happened to tell me? More? Give

0:50:00.160 --> 0:50:03.000
<v Speaker 1>a big face with a girl that, yeah, that your

0:50:03.000 --> 0:50:04.560
<v Speaker 1>guy cheated on you with. You know how girls be

0:50:04.640 --> 0:50:07.719
<v Speaker 1>trying to be friend know that's dead. That's a job

0:50:08.360 --> 0:50:14.600
<v Speaker 1>that did not happening. I can't. That's disrespect, you know.

0:50:15.440 --> 0:50:17.160
<v Speaker 1>The only way is if it's like it's been so

0:50:17.239 --> 0:50:20.120
<v Speaker 1>long where we don't you know, we don't even think

0:50:20.120 --> 0:50:23.560
<v Speaker 1>of a guy. But even then it's like, man, I'm

0:50:23.560 --> 0:50:25.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna still be like in the back of my man

0:50:25.320 --> 0:50:27.239
<v Speaker 1>like yo, you was on some bush and she ain't

0:50:27.280 --> 0:50:29.759
<v Speaker 1>never going for real like you exactly, It's going to

0:50:29.840 --> 0:50:34.400
<v Speaker 1>be some type of animosity. But you ever Okay, this

0:50:34.520 --> 0:50:38.919
<v Speaker 1>happened to me before. Well for me, actually, bitches would

0:50:39.000 --> 0:50:42.480
<v Speaker 1>know who he talking to, who's his girl or whatever,

0:50:42.640 --> 0:50:46.040
<v Speaker 1>and they stalking you so much they realize you don't

0:50:46.160 --> 0:50:49.160
<v Speaker 1>it's fun and want to be your friend, like you

0:50:49.200 --> 0:50:56.160
<v Speaker 1>ever been stalking somebody and be like damn, I think

0:50:57.120 --> 0:51:01.200
<v Speaker 1>But to me, that's that's make them upset more though,

0:51:01.239 --> 0:51:04.000
<v Speaker 1>because they really like like you as a person. When

0:51:04.000 --> 0:51:08.719
<v Speaker 1>you're working with the guy that makes them even mad. Look,

0:51:12.040 --> 0:51:15.640
<v Speaker 1>come on girl page and you're like, I had this.

0:51:16.880 --> 0:51:19.120
<v Speaker 1>You get what I'm saying. But have you ever had

0:51:19.160 --> 0:51:21.360
<v Speaker 1>to check a girl? Like have you ever had to

0:51:21.400 --> 0:51:23.680
<v Speaker 1>reach out to somebody and be like, listen, I know

0:51:23.760 --> 0:51:26.280
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to talk to my man or whatever the case.

0:51:27.040 --> 0:51:29.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't really reach out to the girls. I feel like,

0:51:30.000 --> 0:51:31.719
<v Speaker 1>if I got an issue, I gotta take it up

0:51:31.719 --> 0:51:34.560
<v Speaker 1>with my guy, right, you know, because it could be

0:51:34.560 --> 0:51:36.799
<v Speaker 1>her to day, a new one tomorrow, like you'll be

0:51:36.800 --> 0:51:40.000
<v Speaker 1>reaching out every day and that screenshotting up. Yeah, and

0:51:40.040 --> 0:51:42.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what he's telling you. He could really

0:51:42.000 --> 0:51:44.719
<v Speaker 1>be telling you, like you know, that's my friend, tink,

0:51:44.760 --> 0:51:47.200
<v Speaker 1>it is just my homie or you know what I'm saying.

0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:50.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what story he giving you. You could

0:51:50.840 --> 0:51:53.680
<v Speaker 1>really be innocent. So it's really I take it up

0:51:53.719 --> 0:51:56.600
<v Speaker 1>with a guy I've reached out before. Yeah, I wanted

0:51:56.640 --> 0:51:59.400
<v Speaker 1>to know. How did that make you feel out of out? Yeah?

0:51:59.600 --> 0:52:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't care. I want to go I wouldn't be honest.

0:52:03.920 --> 0:52:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, I mean for the most part. Yeah, I

0:52:07.040 --> 0:52:11.040
<v Speaker 1>mean I will say that once you reveal yourself, she

0:52:11.040 --> 0:52:15.680
<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna stop sucking them you know or whatever you know,

0:52:16.680 --> 0:52:21.280
<v Speaker 1>But you know, there was there was pre social media

0:52:21.560 --> 0:52:24.239
<v Speaker 1>times when you could do this when whether you just

0:52:24.320 --> 0:52:27.399
<v Speaker 1>call her or whatever the case is. And then there's now,

0:52:27.520 --> 0:52:30.919
<v Speaker 1>which is a totally different story. Like the average person

0:52:31.040 --> 0:52:33.680
<v Speaker 1>is not easy for us to freaking d m somebody

0:52:33.719 --> 0:52:37.719
<v Speaker 1>and be like or reach out because I mean I

0:52:37.800 --> 0:52:42.560
<v Speaker 1>still might because I don't care drama. Yeah, do you

0:52:42.560 --> 0:52:47.040
<v Speaker 1>think zodiac signs affects sex? You know what, I don't

0:52:47.080 --> 0:52:49.200
<v Speaker 1>keep up with it, Like, I don't really like get

0:52:49.200 --> 0:52:53.520
<v Speaker 1>into Zodiac's I'm a pisces. I know a little bit

0:52:53.560 --> 0:53:00.240
<v Speaker 1>about each sign, but it's like, yeah, I hate okay

0:53:00.640 --> 0:53:03.680
<v Speaker 1>because I don't suck the woman. Yeah, I'm okay, Well

0:53:03.719 --> 0:53:06.439
<v Speaker 1>you have I can understand. Why is it it cuts

0:53:06.480 --> 0:53:14.719
<v Speaker 1>up their emotional Yeah? Crazy got like liar, Yeah, I

0:53:14.760 --> 0:53:16.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like those my bushees w gonna funk with anybody,

0:53:16.960 --> 0:53:20.080
<v Speaker 1>swimp their ass over there, swim the little sucking ass

0:53:20.120 --> 0:53:24.160
<v Speaker 1>in that pond, mother shot shark a little fish like

0:53:25.200 --> 0:53:31.239
<v Speaker 1>they don't kind of time you saying I would through

0:53:31.280 --> 0:53:37.200
<v Speaker 1>some ship that I hate. You know what a guy's

0:53:37.239 --> 0:53:41.360
<v Speaker 1>typis pussy pussy A man's type some of them his

0:53:41.440 --> 0:53:44.160
<v Speaker 1>fish to always be like he got his type in

0:53:44.239 --> 0:53:47.680
<v Speaker 1>the exact opposite. Yeah, he got two right. It's like

0:53:47.800 --> 0:53:50.160
<v Speaker 1>because you always find out that he s somebody the

0:53:50.320 --> 0:53:55.680
<v Speaker 1>totally that they said. It's not the type you'd be like, Okay,

0:53:55.719 --> 0:53:57.400
<v Speaker 1>all right, now we need you to get some advice.

0:53:57.480 --> 0:54:00.279
<v Speaker 1>Tank you ready, Okay? Somebody sent in this question. And

0:54:00.400 --> 0:54:03.560
<v Speaker 1>I was dating my manager and he passed away after Christmas,

0:54:03.800 --> 0:54:06.279
<v Speaker 1>and I can't express my real feelings about how I'm

0:54:06.320 --> 0:54:09.399
<v Speaker 1>really feeling because no one knows we were dating. How

0:54:09.440 --> 0:54:14.879
<v Speaker 1>can one really grieve? What was the problem? Like, why

0:54:14.880 --> 0:54:18.839
<v Speaker 1>can't she express that because it was business work, would

0:54:18.840 --> 0:54:23.040
<v Speaker 1>be married? You might, you might even married. Okay, in

0:54:23.040 --> 0:54:25.200
<v Speaker 1>that sence, you gotta just keep it the same way

0:54:25.239 --> 0:54:27.919
<v Speaker 1>as if he was alive. Just be quiet, Just hold

0:54:27.960 --> 0:54:31.160
<v Speaker 1>it in. Maybe talk to your best friend. You know,

0:54:31.200 --> 0:54:34.600
<v Speaker 1>our best friend ain't gonna judge you, hopefully. I hate

0:54:34.640 --> 0:54:37.959
<v Speaker 1>that with a real one, A real one ain't grieve

0:54:38.000 --> 0:54:41.319
<v Speaker 1>what you're real friends. I hate when somebody die. I'll

0:54:41.320 --> 0:54:43.399
<v Speaker 1>go to jail and a bit. You want to get

0:54:43.400 --> 0:54:46.200
<v Speaker 1>the post that I'm saying, when he was alive, you

0:54:46.320 --> 0:54:48.279
<v Speaker 1>wasn't opposed to. Sorry not to call you a bit

0:54:48.360 --> 0:54:51.719
<v Speaker 1>because you're grieving but you give what I'm saying. It's like,

0:54:51.800 --> 0:54:54.120
<v Speaker 1>if you didn't do it when he was kicking, keep

0:54:54.160 --> 0:55:03.399
<v Speaker 1>that energy, don't do it. Keep the energy. Ain't gonna

0:55:03.400 --> 0:55:08.640
<v Speaker 1>get mad now I'm gone. Was he really did? And

0:55:08.680 --> 0:55:12.560
<v Speaker 1>the family and his can say, yeah, his wife's family

0:55:12.600 --> 0:55:15.239
<v Speaker 1>got mad and like they started calling her like can

0:55:15.280 --> 0:55:20.880
<v Speaker 1>you take this? Disrespect that? But they was together like

0:55:20.960 --> 0:55:27.480
<v Speaker 1>eight years okay, And it was a secret. Secret. Wasn't

0:55:27.480 --> 0:55:29.520
<v Speaker 1>on social media when she was a lot when she

0:55:29.600 --> 0:55:32.399
<v Speaker 1>was alive. I used to post him, but I didn't

0:55:32.400 --> 0:55:34.239
<v Speaker 1>always post him because I was still talking other people,

0:55:34.400 --> 0:55:36.480
<v Speaker 1>so I stopped. They used to be like, oh, you

0:55:36.480 --> 0:55:38.200
<v Speaker 1>wasn't posting him when he was live, Like yeah, because

0:55:38.200 --> 0:55:41.880
<v Speaker 1>I had other niggers till the backage up for a second.

0:55:44.640 --> 0:55:46.920
<v Speaker 1>So let me ask you this, the fact that his

0:55:46.960 --> 0:55:49.040
<v Speaker 1>wife was coming to your house and knocking on the door,

0:55:49.120 --> 0:55:50.719
<v Speaker 1>that did never make you want to stop. No, that's

0:55:50.719 --> 0:55:53.120
<v Speaker 1>why we broke up. We started breaking up once you're

0:55:53.120 --> 0:55:56.480
<v Speaker 1>streaking up. First of all, moved in the same building

0:55:56.520 --> 0:55:58.640
<v Speaker 1>that he lived in with his were not the same building,

0:55:58.760 --> 0:56:01.200
<v Speaker 1>but the same complex he lived in with his family

0:56:01.200 --> 0:56:03.920
<v Speaker 1>that he moved to the next building over. And then

0:56:03.960 --> 0:56:07.080
<v Speaker 1>somehow I found out. She didn't know about us for

0:56:07.160 --> 0:56:10.160
<v Speaker 1>like five years. By the time she found out, she

0:56:10.200 --> 0:56:12.759
<v Speaker 1>started being very aggressive and then that kind of is

0:56:12.800 --> 0:56:15.440
<v Speaker 1>what she had to go do ship but go next door.

0:56:16.200 --> 0:56:21.440
<v Speaker 1>But any to. The craziest thing is when we first

0:56:21.480 --> 0:56:24.520
<v Speaker 1>got together, it was the same complex, but the building

0:56:24.600 --> 0:56:27.160
<v Speaker 1>was like facing the other way. We had a little

0:56:27.360 --> 0:56:31.239
<v Speaker 1>we had a little breakup break up. I mean by

0:56:31.280 --> 0:56:33.879
<v Speaker 1>the time we got back together, they had actually moved

0:56:33.920 --> 0:56:36.200
<v Speaker 1>in the building next door to me, so they shared

0:56:36.239 --> 0:56:40.719
<v Speaker 1>the perfect closer and then to hold the door open

0:56:40.800 --> 0:56:42.880
<v Speaker 1>for them when they had growth. You know, we weren't

0:56:42.880 --> 0:56:44.759
<v Speaker 1>in the same building. We were in the building next

0:56:44.760 --> 0:56:48.759
<v Speaker 1>to each other. And then I got it and then

0:56:48.800 --> 0:56:53.440
<v Speaker 1>allegedly real why that's how she found out was because

0:56:53.760 --> 0:56:57.600
<v Speaker 1>her son was like, oh, daddy's girlfriend lives there. No, yeah,

0:56:58.840 --> 0:57:01.880
<v Speaker 1>kids to she knew the kid, the smallest one. She

0:57:01.880 --> 0:57:06.040
<v Speaker 1>can't say anything. Okay, that's disrespectful now the baby about him.

0:57:06.840 --> 0:57:09.839
<v Speaker 1>But the kid because at first it was a little

0:57:09.880 --> 0:57:14.319
<v Speaker 1>baby something years old and first baby, and then by

0:57:14.320 --> 0:57:16.760
<v Speaker 1>the time he said that he was like four years old. Yeah,

0:57:17.040 --> 0:57:18.720
<v Speaker 1>but she had been around him his whole life. I was,

0:57:20.000 --> 0:57:22.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, how much must hurt your life when your

0:57:22.120 --> 0:57:28.520
<v Speaker 1>son is like daddy's girlfriends. Right, you had me around,

0:57:28.720 --> 0:57:33.040
<v Speaker 1>you had my child around. I was very young. He said,

0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:34.800
<v Speaker 1>you read to the kid and stuff. Oh my god.

0:57:35.000 --> 0:57:38.000
<v Speaker 1>He used to leave the kid with me. Yeah, when

0:57:38.000 --> 0:57:40.560
<v Speaker 1>he was running the street, you was the baby. Said that.

0:57:52.400 --> 0:57:57.640
<v Speaker 1>I was honest. Yeah, I was around for I was young.

0:57:58.040 --> 0:58:01.720
<v Speaker 1>And then he suddenly passed away in the accident, and

0:58:02.360 --> 0:58:04.840
<v Speaker 1>he paculated an accident, and then like maybe a couple

0:58:04.880 --> 0:58:08.440
<v Speaker 1>of days, not immediately, but a few days later. She

0:58:08.560 --> 0:58:10.880
<v Speaker 1>posted a picture with a really long caption. And then

0:58:10.920 --> 0:58:15.600
<v Speaker 1>his family wasn't desert her White's family. She was for

0:58:15.720 --> 0:58:20.120
<v Speaker 1>twenty years. We've been together for ten you know, just

0:58:20.200 --> 0:58:25.280
<v Speaker 1>your babysit. After that, I treat yourself like my own.

0:58:26.800 --> 0:58:30.720
<v Speaker 1>But listen, I will say that I do you know,

0:58:31.000 --> 0:58:32.600
<v Speaker 1>if I had to do it all over again, I

0:58:32.640 --> 0:58:38.800
<v Speaker 1>probably wouldn't do it. Probably did you move? Ye, I'm

0:58:38.800 --> 0:58:41.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna say that I would not be doing that in

0:58:41.360 --> 0:58:44.880
<v Speaker 1>today's day and age, at this age, and I and

0:58:45.000 --> 0:58:50.040
<v Speaker 1>I am remorseful. I just don't want nobody rolling up

0:58:50.040 --> 0:58:53.680
<v Speaker 1>on me and say I'm still old ass whipping. I

0:58:53.680 --> 0:58:58.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Have you been a mistress? No, really, never

0:58:59.240 --> 0:59:01.440
<v Speaker 1>never never enough that you're never too late, you know,

0:59:02.840 --> 0:59:05.160
<v Speaker 1>not as the sick part, but no, no, no, have

0:59:05.280 --> 0:59:07.000
<v Speaker 1>you ever been to side bitch, because those are two

0:59:07.000 --> 0:59:11.000
<v Speaker 1>different things. No, y'all, I don't know. I don't let

0:59:11.000 --> 0:59:13.560
<v Speaker 1>it get to that point. I can sense when it's something,

0:59:13.840 --> 0:59:16.120
<v Speaker 1>something else has happened and going on, and then you

0:59:16.120 --> 0:59:17.800
<v Speaker 1>put up that wall like we're gonna keep it, keep

0:59:17.840 --> 0:59:25.720
<v Speaker 1>it cool, cordial. You've had it one night stand, y'all. Y'all,

0:59:25.760 --> 0:59:29.640
<v Speaker 1>that didn't you didn't answer it fast enough. It's okay,

0:59:29.760 --> 0:59:38.600
<v Speaker 1>no comment. She's like, it was two nights one. I

0:59:38.600 --> 0:59:43.080
<v Speaker 1>don't think. I think that you haven't really like. Look,

0:59:43.120 --> 0:59:46.000
<v Speaker 1>I never had one, and I regret it. I don't

0:59:47.240 --> 0:59:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's too late now. It's never too weak.

0:59:49.920 --> 0:59:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I could have one night he was married.

0:59:54.760 --> 1:00:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't I had I had. We had sex one time.

1:00:01.040 --> 1:00:04.280
<v Speaker 1>That's not one night stand? What is it then? One

1:00:04.360 --> 1:00:07.840
<v Speaker 1>night stand when you never ever yeah, as you meet

1:00:07.880 --> 1:00:09.840
<v Speaker 1>the person, you have sex the first time you meet them,

1:00:09.840 --> 1:00:12.000
<v Speaker 1>and you never ever see it. That's a stranger. You

1:00:12.240 --> 1:00:16.600
<v Speaker 1>have sex with somebody one time, it'd be whacked trash.

1:00:17.800 --> 1:00:19.800
<v Speaker 1>That's not a one night stand. Yeah, I tricked to

1:00:19.880 --> 1:00:23.280
<v Speaker 1>a guy f a log time. It's a different one

1:00:23.360 --> 1:00:27.720
<v Speaker 1>night saying, and like having no night, no more night,

1:00:27.800 --> 1:00:32.920
<v Speaker 1>no more night stand. Is that counting? That's a one

1:00:33.000 --> 1:00:39.360
<v Speaker 1>night stand, no night stand, we only no one if

1:00:39.400 --> 1:00:41.640
<v Speaker 1>it had no plans. You know that you one night

1:00:41.800 --> 1:00:44.479
<v Speaker 1>one stand. Okay, you was dealing with him and finally

1:00:44.520 --> 1:00:46.480
<v Speaker 1>gave him something and that one night you realized it

1:00:46.520 --> 1:00:48.000
<v Speaker 1>was whacked. So you one night of him because I

1:00:48.040 --> 1:00:50.000
<v Speaker 1>looked at it like and they took one night to

1:00:50.040 --> 1:00:52.720
<v Speaker 1>make me stand to him. You one night at him

1:00:53.000 --> 1:00:57.200
<v Speaker 1>after that that was just a trash okay. But a

1:00:57.320 --> 1:00:59.680
<v Speaker 1>one night stand, I would say, is a is a

1:01:00.040 --> 1:01:02.720
<v Speaker 1>wh dreamed. You meet a guy in the club. If

1:01:04.040 --> 1:01:06.840
<v Speaker 1>y'all have sex and y'all never see each other against

1:01:07.800 --> 1:01:09.960
<v Speaker 1>the biggest thing and you're junk and you leave it

1:01:09.960 --> 1:01:13.960
<v Speaker 1>and be looking out for him in if you never

1:01:14.000 --> 1:01:16.720
<v Speaker 1>have him again, it's a one night saying. I never

1:01:16.760 --> 1:01:19.200
<v Speaker 1>see him again, or I don't know each other that well,

1:01:19.560 --> 1:01:22.040
<v Speaker 1>You didn't know him at all. It can't be just

1:01:22.080 --> 1:01:23.720
<v Speaker 1>something that you didn't know that well that you did

1:01:23.760 --> 1:01:27.480
<v Speaker 1>in one time. No, the same thing. No, you don't

1:01:27.560 --> 1:01:31.960
<v Speaker 1>keep in touching alright, are you Okay, if you do

1:01:32.000 --> 1:01:33.760
<v Speaker 1>you masturbate in front of your guy, like if he's

1:01:33.800 --> 1:01:38.280
<v Speaker 1>like touch yourself, Uh no, no, I think like, if

1:01:38.280 --> 1:01:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm in front of him, I'm good. But if he

1:01:40.240 --> 1:01:43.120
<v Speaker 1>tells you to, I don't have to. No, they don't really.

1:01:43.320 --> 1:01:46.439
<v Speaker 1>I've never had a guy asked me to masturbate. He'll

1:01:46.480 --> 1:01:48.360
<v Speaker 1>do it before he asks me. Or you know what

1:01:48.360 --> 1:01:50.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, You're like, he'll masturbate. No, he'll do it

1:01:51.560 --> 1:01:56.800
<v Speaker 1>like no, no, no. If we're a gay, they had tastes, Yeah,

1:01:57.200 --> 1:02:01.120
<v Speaker 1>anyone the word me say, yet they want to see Okay, yeah,

1:02:01.440 --> 1:02:10.520
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna get asked. Yeah, really really you never played

1:02:10.520 --> 1:02:14.360
<v Speaker 1>with your pussy on FaceTime? No, y'all not on facet

1:02:14.640 --> 1:02:18.760
<v Speaker 1>that's like screen record and all that say. And that's

1:02:18.800 --> 1:02:22.400
<v Speaker 1>the real thing. So people be exposing, you know, get leaked.

1:02:23.600 --> 1:02:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Can't you see it? If somebody presses recording, they can

1:02:26.520 --> 1:02:28.600
<v Speaker 1>already be recording. Then then they can call you. They

1:02:28.600 --> 1:02:31.560
<v Speaker 1>can be recording on the call, you on face record,

1:02:31.600 --> 1:02:34.920
<v Speaker 1>the favor record you never had a guy FaceTime, or

1:02:34.960 --> 1:02:37.680
<v Speaker 1>they can be recording whole on the phone. Yeah, they've

1:02:37.720 --> 1:02:39.920
<v Speaker 1>done that before. How about a guy do that? I

1:02:39.920 --> 1:02:41.560
<v Speaker 1>don't really get nothing out of that. I told you.

1:02:41.600 --> 1:02:43.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm in person. You still gotta talk him

1:02:43.920 --> 1:02:48.800
<v Speaker 1>through it? Yeah, well you can just sitting there. No,

1:02:48.840 --> 1:02:51.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like that. I've never done all of that. Like,

1:02:52.240 --> 1:02:54.680
<v Speaker 1>they don't do nothing for me. I ain't gonna I

1:02:54.720 --> 1:02:57.439
<v Speaker 1>don't get nothing out of that. You gotta be like, yeah,

1:02:57.560 --> 1:03:02.400
<v Speaker 1>daddy struck that big thing. I'm more like, I want

1:03:02.400 --> 1:03:05.760
<v Speaker 1>to see you come through you either. Yeah, I don't occur.

1:03:05.960 --> 1:03:09.960
<v Speaker 1>What like the phone sucks like sex. Yeah, if you

1:03:10.000 --> 1:03:12.880
<v Speaker 1>have faith out, he's like stroll getting dick, you're just

1:03:12.880 --> 1:03:16.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna be quiet. I haven't done that in so long. Yeah,

1:03:16.800 --> 1:03:19.000
<v Speaker 1>that's like I just want to see him come. I

1:03:19.000 --> 1:03:23.760
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like so next time, my guys, that's checking up.

1:03:23.760 --> 1:03:36.720
<v Speaker 1>You pull that dick up. Yeah, now you're gonna hang

1:03:36.840 --> 1:03:39.680
<v Speaker 1>up on me. But what's the strangest thing somebody asked

1:03:39.680 --> 1:03:44.320
<v Speaker 1>you to do in the bedroom? The strangest thing, like

1:03:44.400 --> 1:03:49.680
<v Speaker 1>anything a little out of the ordinary, like sucking SOEs y'all,

1:03:49.800 --> 1:03:52.560
<v Speaker 1>y'all get y'all. Yeah, I've been through some some ship,

1:03:53.640 --> 1:04:05.120
<v Speaker 1>don't whatever that? Yeah, I do strange it would be

1:04:05.240 --> 1:04:08.720
<v Speaker 1>nice and cool, didn't Joscelyn recently say something about she

1:04:08.840 --> 1:04:11.160
<v Speaker 1>kissed the guy feet to wait, I don't know, this

1:04:11.200 --> 1:04:13.360
<v Speaker 1>is what the guy told me. He was like, oh,

1:04:13.520 --> 1:04:16.840
<v Speaker 1>he was like I saw online that he said, Jocelyn,

1:04:16.880 --> 1:04:20.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but he said that she says she

1:04:20.560 --> 1:04:23.080
<v Speaker 1>kissed the guy's feet to treat him like a king

1:04:23.200 --> 1:04:28.320
<v Speaker 1>or something like marriage. So he gonna say, why you

1:04:28.360 --> 1:04:30.080
<v Speaker 1>never kiss my feet to treat me like a king?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, what the fund are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>He just randomly asked me, you did it, like start

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<v Speaker 1>wiggling his tassout, kiss my feet? Kiss. I'm like, alright, soever,

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<v Speaker 1>anything strange, anybody asked you to do that? You did?

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<v Speaker 1>That's strange, nothing strange, I think, like for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>probably asked him to do something like what that wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>normal for him. Just the type of positions, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like certain positions and things upside down things like that,

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<v Speaker 1>things like that. So he never was like, well, who

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<v Speaker 1>the fun did you do this ship with that? Now

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<v Speaker 1>you trying these new upside down? Where you get this from?

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<v Speaker 1>How you know you learn? Nah? Nah? He was never

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<v Speaker 1>like that, how you noisy? In bed? Am? I noisy?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on you said what she said? I'm a whole

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like hell a loud though. You know it's

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<v Speaker 1>a nice cute mom cutemut. It could be in a song,

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<v Speaker 1>you singing moment nice. Come on, what if he's moaning?

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<v Speaker 1>He liked that. I like that, but it doesn't get

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<v Speaker 1>weird at mainly a ground nice. You know he can't.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like I had a MAXI to make so much

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<v Speaker 1>and when he came, he said, yell, my name, read

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<v Speaker 1>my name, your real name? Super weird every single time

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<v Speaker 1>I mean said my name. You need to start doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do your guys, like do they call you by your

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<v Speaker 1>real name or by tink? Now they call me tink?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's my nickname. You know everybody called me tink? Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what if they just start calling you? But like your

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<v Speaker 1>real name is that weird? Like it would be weird

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<v Speaker 1>because I was Tink before, like I was the artist. Think,

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<v Speaker 1>so everybody called me tink, Like bring that little tink over.

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<v Speaker 1>When I meet a guy and I introduced himself, introduced

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<v Speaker 1>myself to him as Gigi, and then in conversation or

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<v Speaker 1>in passing, I tell him my real name and then

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<v Speaker 1>he starts trying to call me. And I didn't introduce

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<v Speaker 1>you as that for me. I don't call me like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that you're doing something because you can

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<v Speaker 1>say my name. But I also hate the opposite when

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even say it the right but yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I hate when you tell him your real name and

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<v Speaker 1>then they start calling you by you up now and

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be like right, hey, like yeah, you're learning too much.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have that problem. My name is really perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>good for you. So how you feeling? What kind of

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<v Speaker 1>space are you in now with the great reception that

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<v Speaker 1>you've gotten from the music you put out. Yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in a great space y'all. Like independent, I can move

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<v Speaker 1>around a lot more. You know, you can hear it

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<v Speaker 1>in the music. You know, it feels better. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of things coming up that I'm excited about,

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<v Speaker 1>like videos. We just shot a adult video in Brooklyn yesterday. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we just shot up. I ain't got time today, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>looking for like looking forward to tour this year. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to put some things together if willing. Um, But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to, you know, be out here a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more. You gotta do the tour. Yeah, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to come with a tour. I haven't been on the

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<v Speaker 1>road since like eighteen, so it's time. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>difficult process for you to get off your off the

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<v Speaker 1>label back in Yeah, I was. I was stalking my

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<v Speaker 1>deal for maybe like a year and a half where

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't release nothing or you know put music on

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<v Speaker 1>like Apple and Spotify. Um so that's a ConTroll on me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Uh, And I had to like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>go through the through the motions. You get your lawyer

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<v Speaker 1>and your attorney and you work it out. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a process. It takes time to especially like if

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<v Speaker 1>you like, uh in my position where it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you have two labels involved. Um, so yeah, it took me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a nice two to three years to get right. Damn,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a long time. The stallion's pain right now. I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like and I totally understand how it is

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<v Speaker 1>when like people make your contract and they tell you

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<v Speaker 1>it's one thing, and then you know they take advantage

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<v Speaker 1>of you, and you know you don't have it going.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, at the moment when you up and coming,

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<v Speaker 1>it's easy for you to sign some ship. Um, and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's like, well, you should have read, you should have

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<v Speaker 1>really thoroughly had a lawyer. But when you first coming up,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have lawyer money, you don't have like a

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<v Speaker 1>team around you that can really like break ship down,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're hungry, so you might think of it like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is my opportunity. Let me work this

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<v Speaker 1>ship the best way I can. So I feel that

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<v Speaker 1>I feel what was the issue to why you couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>release any music? Um? I think for the most part,

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<v Speaker 1>I was signed to a producer, so that plays a

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<v Speaker 1>part and everything, because the producer wants a lot of control. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>And when the production doesn't have a you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>good relationship with the the label, the actual label, it

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<v Speaker 1>just creates a bad situation for the artists. They can

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<v Speaker 1>pull your music down to if you're signing to somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't care for your music to go up

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't do it, they can pull it right

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<v Speaker 1>back down when you try to put it up. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was stuck like dropping music on like my

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<v Speaker 1>mix tapes and YouTube, yeah and SoundCloud, which is cool,

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<v Speaker 1>but at a certain point you want to you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get onto those platforms and sell your music, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So so just like a relationship, Now, are you feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like I ain't getting locked in again? Like that. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes you tighten up, Like you know, I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>screening niggas and you know the same way I would

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<v Speaker 1>do like a contractor or label. I had to read

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<v Speaker 1>through the lines, you know. But yeah, I'm just observing

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<v Speaker 1>now to everything. Like it's harder to really get to me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm sure there's a lot of holler at

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<v Speaker 1>you now too for label deals. I mean, yea, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's very true. Um, this past couple of years has

1:10:32.640 --> 1:10:35.439
<v Speaker 1>been like a lot of situations coming, but I'm taking

1:10:35.439 --> 1:10:38.760
<v Speaker 1>it slow. Like back back then, I was thirsty. You

1:10:38.800 --> 1:10:40.720
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be thirsty, Like, if you know you've

1:10:40.720 --> 1:10:44.439
<v Speaker 1>got something good, don't be thirsty, Like take your time,

1:10:44.800 --> 1:10:46.639
<v Speaker 1>you know, let it come, Let it come when it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to come. Just take that front and check and

1:10:49.520 --> 1:10:52.760
<v Speaker 1>think that yes, yes, that's real. What do you talk

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<v Speaker 1>to people like Chance, the rapper who went the independent

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<v Speaker 1>route also to kind of get some guidance. Yeah, absolutely, Chances,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know from Chicago, said that's like big bro

1:11:01.520 --> 1:11:04.080
<v Speaker 1>um And even before I got into my deal, he

1:11:04.160 --> 1:11:06.880
<v Speaker 1>told me, like, you know, stay independent. So when I

1:11:06.920 --> 1:11:09.360
<v Speaker 1>was going through that mess, I called him. He like, man,

1:11:10.160 --> 1:11:14.880
<v Speaker 1>I told you it wasn't that harsh, but it was

1:11:14.960 --> 1:11:17.760
<v Speaker 1>just like, you know, independent is the way, you know,

1:11:17.840 --> 1:11:19.720
<v Speaker 1>don't look at it as a bad thing. You know,

1:11:19.840 --> 1:11:22.320
<v Speaker 1>it's just like really a party of story. So I

1:11:22.400 --> 1:11:24.800
<v Speaker 1>just keep going, you know, keep get back into you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's good. The music is so different now too,

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<v Speaker 1>But I like, yes, yes, I'm back to myself, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like having these talks, I might go and write a

1:11:33.320 --> 1:11:35.840
<v Speaker 1>song about it. And when you like, what a what

1:11:35.920 --> 1:11:38.000
<v Speaker 1>a label or production deal they want you to you know,

1:11:38.040 --> 1:11:39.880
<v Speaker 1>they're looking for like a hit, what they're looking for

1:11:40.280 --> 1:11:42.439
<v Speaker 1>a certain type of music, and it's like, man, I

1:11:42.479 --> 1:11:45.080
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about this or I wanna I want

1:11:45.080 --> 1:11:46.920
<v Speaker 1>to make the single this because I think, you know,

1:11:47.000 --> 1:11:50.040
<v Speaker 1>this is important to me right right now, so I

1:11:50.080 --> 1:11:52.559
<v Speaker 1>can make the decisions now. And it's working in my

1:11:52.600 --> 1:11:56.040
<v Speaker 1>favorite boss. Okay, So your situation with Timberland, do you

1:11:56.200 --> 1:12:00.960
<v Speaker 1>have any animosity against him after No? No, no, no,

1:12:01.080 --> 1:12:04.439
<v Speaker 1>It's been a long time since, Like I've been sensitive

1:12:04.439 --> 1:12:07.559
<v Speaker 1>about the ship, and I think like over the years,

1:12:07.960 --> 1:12:11.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, you you grow to forgive people. Um, we

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<v Speaker 1>haven't really spoke, you know, like personally, but we speak

1:12:16.640 --> 1:12:19.080
<v Speaker 1>through social media, which is enough for me. Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like, I'm not mad at him, and I

1:12:20.760 --> 1:12:23.120
<v Speaker 1>don't think he's mad at me. Um, if I saw

1:12:23.200 --> 1:12:24.800
<v Speaker 1>him today, I would say hi and give me a hook.

1:12:25.280 --> 1:12:27.599
<v Speaker 1>It's business. It just didn't work out. It just didn't

1:12:27.640 --> 1:12:29.839
<v Speaker 1>work out, you know, And it happens in the industry

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Um. Your best bet is just so you know,

1:12:35.479 --> 1:12:37.400
<v Speaker 1>keep the right attitude with you. And that's what I'm

1:12:37.400 --> 1:12:39.280
<v Speaker 1>doing now. You know, if I take the good that

1:12:39.320 --> 1:12:41.080
<v Speaker 1>you got out of it, at least there was some

1:12:41.160 --> 1:12:43.320
<v Speaker 1>positive things. That has a lot of positive things, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's how I'm looking at it. Like, Man, I

1:12:45.240 --> 1:12:47.680
<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna be bitter about it all my life. You know.

1:12:47.920 --> 1:12:50.760
<v Speaker 1>I was upset the first year, but it's like, man,

1:12:50.760 --> 1:12:53.040
<v Speaker 1>we gotta get to the bag. I can't be stuck there.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like when you have talent, that's something

1:12:55.240 --> 1:12:59.360
<v Speaker 1>that you have hermanity, Like there's nothing that anybody could

1:12:59.360 --> 1:13:03.000
<v Speaker 1>do to say that, yes, that she is not she's

1:13:03.040 --> 1:13:06.320
<v Speaker 1>super talented. So we're really excited for you. I'm happy

1:13:06.320 --> 1:13:08.800
<v Speaker 1>that you have your voice and this is what you

1:13:08.840 --> 1:13:11.760
<v Speaker 1>want to do, and so I think that's exciting. So

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<v Speaker 1>the next project for you is to experiment a little

1:13:15.160 --> 1:13:19.760
<v Speaker 1>more in the bedroom. Yes, I have my gifts. You

1:13:19.840 --> 1:13:22.240
<v Speaker 1>have your gift. What I can do, but I can't

1:13:22.240 --> 1:13:29.160
<v Speaker 1>do that much with you. I don't know what you done. Like, well,

1:13:31.840 --> 1:13:36.640
<v Speaker 1>there we go. I want to have my person and

1:13:36.640 --> 1:13:38.400
<v Speaker 1>then you ain't gonna use this booty blind because you

1:13:38.439 --> 1:13:40.639
<v Speaker 1>don't do a no no no. I'm cool. I'm cool.

1:13:40.720 --> 1:13:43.000
<v Speaker 1>She's like, oh yeah, what about the pump. Might do

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<v Speaker 1>a little song for I got one the pump. I

1:13:45.280 --> 1:13:47.800
<v Speaker 1>like it, Like, do you get you ever want to

1:13:47.800 --> 1:13:51.080
<v Speaker 1>do an? Know? There's some trainers. What is that? So

1:13:51.200 --> 1:13:53.920
<v Speaker 1>if you do, I want to know. This is a

1:13:53.960 --> 1:13:57.120
<v Speaker 1>little one. So I just open it and then you

1:13:57.160 --> 1:13:59.920
<v Speaker 1>graduate to this one and then when you really ready

1:14:00.080 --> 1:14:03.880
<v Speaker 1>that big boy. Okay, okay, it's not even that big.

1:14:05.040 --> 1:14:07.519
<v Speaker 1>You can do it. It's a trainer. It's like a

1:14:08.320 --> 1:14:12.519
<v Speaker 1>tic Okay, I got you see a couple of years,

1:14:12.560 --> 1:14:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I might be ready come back here. Turned out day, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>This is something a little okay, I don't know what suitcase?

1:14:24.320 --> 1:14:27.679
<v Speaker 1>Ya much? It's about to pump your pussy right, pump

1:14:27.760 --> 1:14:29.479
<v Speaker 1>that pussy. This is too much. I'm gonna tell you

1:14:29.520 --> 1:14:31.919
<v Speaker 1>what if it pumps right? Like so it's like assumption

1:14:32.040 --> 1:14:34.320
<v Speaker 1>and it makes it like fatter, but it also brings

1:14:34.400 --> 1:14:37.120
<v Speaker 1>all of you, the blood to the best carver, and

1:14:37.160 --> 1:14:40.760
<v Speaker 1>it creates It creates stimulation, so it makes sex. Godall

1:14:41.040 --> 1:14:44.599
<v Speaker 1>and I have Okay, So it's not like somebody eating pussy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. I pump it up. Don't say it sucks

1:14:48.760 --> 1:14:52.120
<v Speaker 1>on your whole, your whole entire. It feel Okay, what's happening?

1:14:52.760 --> 1:14:55.519
<v Speaker 1>It got a vibrating thing. Well, the best guard is

1:14:55.600 --> 1:15:00.800
<v Speaker 1>it's rechargeable. It never dis Okay. All right, we'll face

1:15:00.880 --> 1:15:04.360
<v Speaker 1>time you and watch you use it. Y'all go, she's

1:15:04.360 --> 1:15:09.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna screen record. All right, Well, Tank, thank you so much.

1:15:09.800 --> 1:15:13.200
<v Speaker 1>We appreciate you for having me through many Still I

1:15:13.200 --> 1:15:16.240
<v Speaker 1>love it. See I'm all about hope, So I think

1:15:16.280 --> 1:15:20.080
<v Speaker 1>that's great. Yeah, thank you for having me. It's fun.

1:15:20.760 --> 1:15:24.799
<v Speaker 1>I love it. You gotta say lip service, lip service,