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Speaker 1: What's up. It's lip service. I'm Angela yee, I'm g

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Speaker 1: g McGuire on passport cutting, I'm Flurial and I'm Tink.

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Speaker 1: Hey girl, Yeslurial, Yes, take listen. This is great to

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Speaker 1: have you on here because you could have never told

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Speaker 1: me before the Tink is gonna do lip service. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I had to come through. I told you, like before

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Speaker 1: we started filming. I'm like, I ain't seen you in

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Speaker 1: a couple of years, right, you know a lot has changed,

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Speaker 1: you know, different vibes now, so I had to pull up.

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Speaker 1: And Hopeless Romantic is that it came out on Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Day and I saw everybody talking about it on social media.

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Speaker 1: So the first thing I did when I got in

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Speaker 1: my car after work was like, I gotta listen to

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Speaker 1: this album. Come on, Angela. Yes, And it was amazing.

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Speaker 1: I really love it. I've been listening to it good

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Speaker 1: because it's very raw. Yes, and it's for the ladies.

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Speaker 1: Like all my music is guilt towards my girls. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about relationships and our drama and the ups

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Speaker 1: and else. So yeah, it's Hopeless Romantic. Make sure y'all

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Speaker 1: go get it. Yeah, she likes man, listen, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: get into it. I'm not even gonna But we were

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Speaker 1: talking before you got here about being a hopeless romantic, right,

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Speaker 1: And you know we were, Me and Cutty were really

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Speaker 1: having this discussion because I was saying I would like

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Speaker 1: to be a hopeless romantic instead of I feel like

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Speaker 1: people are so jaded, right, and sometimes you rather like

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Speaker 1: have that hoop like this is gonna work out because

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Speaker 1: life is tough and we go through some ship and

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Speaker 1: it makes us feel like, man, these guys ain't ship.

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Speaker 1: Nothing's ever gonna work out. I think it's the little

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Speaker 1: back every time they do us thirty right, it's like

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Speaker 1: we feel like, but it can work, or if we

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Speaker 1: can change. But also what we were saying that, you know,

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Speaker 1: some people they get super hurt from one situation and

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Speaker 1: they kind of blocked themselves off from you know, their

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Speaker 1: new relationships, guarding themselves. So I'll carry a baggage that

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Speaker 1: I don't do that, like I'm yeah, I give everybody

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Speaker 1: you're trying to exist, You're you're trying to protect yourself

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Speaker 1: and you're not having fun, right, Like you're trying to,

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Speaker 1: because now you're just so leary and paranoid about the situation.

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Speaker 1: So it takes you to open up to actually enjoy

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Speaker 1: when you could enjoy. And yeah, listen if I get

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Speaker 1: you know, we're always looking for the best. That's my issue.

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Speaker 1: I'm always looking for the best in people. For the worst. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: all the worst. But for the most part, I'm always

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Speaker 1: trying to find something good, even when I see the

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Speaker 1: ship too when you was writing this, so you gotta

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Speaker 1: talk about that. Yes, girl, I'm always like it's always

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Speaker 1: so like we're still like moving fast and everything is

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Speaker 1: else or keep it moving. Well, did something in particular,

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Speaker 1: like were you in a relationship? And okay, so I

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Speaker 1: just doing. Oh this is nice and gent and like, okay,

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Speaker 1: right here is a vibrating tongue ring. Yeah. Crazy? Also,

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Speaker 1: he would have to like give me make up for

421
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 1: it in other ways. You told him I couldn't tell him,

422
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: But haven't you knew? It wasn't that I wasn't. I

423
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: wasn't that mean? I think you knew because like he

424
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: definitely knew. He knows, you know, he wouldn't try us often, right,

425
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 1: he know I always didn't. I say that guy's a

426
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: little dicks. Don't try to have sex with you as much?

427
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 1: Did it take care of That's what they don't. Well, yeah,

428
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: I haven't seen him like try as hard. So the

429
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 1: first time me I had sex, how long did it take?

430
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: Because I think they'll even wait they do for you

431
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: to like that, right, they be making sure that you

432
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 1: get you locked in? Yeah, I was. I was once

433
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: talking to a guy for like six months and we

434
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 1: were seeing each other like regularly going out. He was

435
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 1: like giving me money and buying me things, and he

436
00:25:54,440 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 1: never ever tried to sleep with me. I never found out.

437
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,360
Speaker 1: That's the reason why it's probably a girl. You want

438
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 1: to think about it. I think that he just I mean,

439
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: and I slept in the bed next to him naked

440
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: and he did not touch me or made you feel

441
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: it off? Did you want to sleep with him? Did

442
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: I want to have sex with him? No? She didn't

443
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 1: eat you out. No, he never touched me. We never kissed. Never, nothing.

444
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: He just had like or it doesn't work or outbreak

445
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 1: or does who? Maybe it didn't. Maybe it was like

446
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: six months and we was We talked a lot and

447
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: we spent a lot of time together, but we never

448
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 1: Maybe he was just his home girl. Oh he put

449
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 1: you in a friend zone. The gifts say, that's a

450
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: good zone. I'll take the gifts. It was nice gifts.

451
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean, if you don't need a title or anything,

452
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: I'll be your home girl. Okay, what's the nicest gift

453
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: you ever received? Coming? Um? The nicest gift in Chicago?

454
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: Guys like by you shoe. I might have got, like,

455
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 1: you know, a nice pair of designer hills. Um. For

456
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: the most part, it'd be like clothes, like you know,

457
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 1: was clothes. Yes, guys in Chicago, I don't think they

458
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: know how to give give gifts. What about jewelry? No jewelry. Um,

459
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: I've gotten a ring before, but it wasn't like, oh

460
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: my god, it was a cute ring. It was cute. So, yeah,

461
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: Chicago guys, they don't really know how to how to

462
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: trick you. Are you want to get from Chicago? You

463
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 1: think that's what you end up with. I love Chicago guys,

464
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 1: like I'm so like used to them or not comfortable,

465
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 1: but just that's my speed. I understand them and they

466
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: understand me, so I probably end up eventually, you know,

467
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: Chicago guy, I nig from Chicago. When's the last time

468
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: you've been in a relationship, um, a serious relationship? Two eighteen? Yeah,

469
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: for the most part, I've been doing like casually dating.

470
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: You know, I have a situation, but I won't put

471
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: a title on it or like, you know, it's hard

472
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 1: to put that title on stuff nowadays because nobody knows

473
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 1: what they're doing. So when you're introducing the people, you say,

474
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: this is my friend, my guy, or you know right

475
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: here a guy okay, what they called the John the trick?

476
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 1: So how did he bag you? Or like, how would

477
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: a guy stop to you to get your attention? Oh,

478
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 1: you gotta catch me in person? Like you can't really,

479
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: I'm not like a d M type of person or

480
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: like a tell a friend to tell a friend. I

481
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: gotta get around you so you can feel me. Um,

482
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: because a lot of times people that try to put

483
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: me together by what they hear or about my songs,

484
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: and it's like, no, you gotta meet me. You really

485
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: got to talk to me. And that's how I feel

486
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 1: about a guy, like I don't care about Instagram. I

487
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: prefer a guy not to even have an Instagram, y'all.

488
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: I don't care about social media. I need to see.

489
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 1: I think that's sneak, y'all. That's the best, the best

490
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: thing I ever want married. Listen, don't believe me. All

491
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: got one, he just ain't one. One. When they don't

492
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: have one, they signed it to their little brother ship.

493
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:23,959
Speaker 1: They got home. They watching the opposite, the opposite guys

494
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: like if they have if they don't have a social media,

495
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: that don't mean they're not. They cheata or they got

496
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: a situation. See, I'm telling you all, Like Chicago is

497
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: just so different. Like a lot of guys they all

498
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: be lit in real life, but they don't really care

499
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: about social media or they have a page and was like, yeah,

500
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: they're not putting themselves out there to say this is

501
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 1: what I'm doing, this is where I'm at because they

502
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: live their life but they're both then and they're lurking

503
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: in there. They're watching. He might not have a page,

504
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: he might not post it, might not have an act name.

505
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: Because best believe that baby's lest you because he's watching

506
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: because he's signed it to his homeboy account like always

507
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: one Instagram account and not never put youre neither one

508
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: of them more motherfucking page because all they're going is

509
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: watching and looking at as everythingle any right about. They're

510
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: telling me, what the hell are you going on the internet.

511
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, they know you know that. I don't like

512
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: when people do that, Like if I don't think they

513
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: follow me, I don't know the page, and like I'll

514
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: talk to them and they bring up something that I post.

515
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 1: I think that's some creepy weirdo ships that today you

516
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: have fun in New York. I don't think that's bad though,

517
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: because it's not like your page is private. It's it's

518
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: like to have social media, but it's your page private, mom,

519
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: because why did I know your page? You're like, I'm

520
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 1: not watching your page like that, so it's just learning

521
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: from his homeboy page and he can have you but

522
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 1: you can't see. You get what I'm saying? What you

523
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: got going on. If he's not doing nothing, yeah, you

524
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't on social media. No, I'm saying, if he's not

525
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: on social media, not posting pictures, then you know still

526
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: doing something, you got to post it. Damn you really

527
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: don't trust No, you're not hopeless romantics at all. We

528
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: were twenties. I don't want you to be discouraged. I

529
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 1: got it. I'm getting picking up game you guys. Second change,

530
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: I'm thinking that's that's a good one. Okay, finally the

531
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: whole situation out a year later. Now, let me ask

532
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: you that you said the last time you were in

533
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: a serious relationship with right, So that had to be

534
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: like a transitional period of your life too, because you

535
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: became independent label wise, So did all of that coincide

536
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: with each other, like, because that's a stressful time when

537
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: you're trying to figure out your next career move, you're

538
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: trying to get out of a contract, and you're getting

539
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: out of a relationship. Yeah, for the most part, though,

540
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: I think that was around the time we were still

541
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,719
Speaker 1: together while I was going through the label stuff. So

542
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: I was looking at it like, you know, I need

543
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: somebody to hold me down during these times. So he

544
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: didn't leave me at that point. We were still together

545
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: while I was going through the legal stuff and the

546
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: label shap um. So I think that's probably why I

547
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: stuck around him so much, because I needed somebody to

548
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: talk to, you know, vent to you know what I'm saying.

549
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: So he was actually right that support system for the

550
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: most part. Did you feel like still to this day?

551
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: Are yeah? Still cool? At least still cool? Still cool?

552
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: I could call him today and you know, pick up

553
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: where we left out if we had too. But why

554
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 1: did you break up? Um? I just felt like I

555
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: was like growing growing um faster than him growing up

556
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: a little more. I was more mature, of course, like

557
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 1: I have. You know, I had things going on um,

558
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: and he was really like up under me a lot.

559
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: So that kind of like got in a way sometimes

560
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: of work. So I felt like, you know, he needed

561
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: some time to beat by himself, to get him some

562
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: type of job or some type or not job, but

563
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: you know, to get on his feet a little bit better.

564
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: How long did it take for y'all to actually break up?

565
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: Because you know how like you like back up, that's

566
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: how it's it takes a while, y'all, Like it might

567
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: have been maybe we probably split up and got back

568
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: together for about like four months. And that's a long

569
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 1: time to keep going back and forth. So and then

570
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: you finally just stopped. Yeah, you just have to stop

571
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: kind of stop speaking, you know, I kind of go

572
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: cold a little bit, like stop answering or stop texting

573
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: as often. Um, that's the only way did he feel like, Damn,

574
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: I was there for you when you was going through

575
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: all your ship and then you just yeah, at first,

576
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: you know, I caught the shade. You know, they always

577
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: throw shade at first. But it's like, you know, a

578
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: year later, he see what it was like. You know,

579
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: I still all got love for you. I was really

580
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: trying to just make sure you wouldn't, you know, just

581
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: trying to be a under me forever, Like I want

582
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: to see you get on your ship too. Right. So

583
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 1: now he's like, it's no, it's no bad blood, alright,

584
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 1: So now let me ask you a question. You gotta

585
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: pick one of the other. Okay, everybody in the room

586
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: gotta do at hands and no hands, do it with

587
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:23,280
Speaker 1: no hands, hands, hands, depends on what we're doing. What

588
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: do you know what you're doing? Yeah, I use my hands,

589
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: I use both hands, honey, especially because I just was

590
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: trying to do it with that was that was the

591
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: lyric that popped in my do it with no hands?

592
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 1: But I was I was putty popping on the hands

593
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: with no hands. Okay, but no, yes, not the whole time.

594
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: But but you gotta you gotta use your hands. You

595
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 1: gotta hit one of the other. I didn't say alternate,

596
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 1: wasn't if I have to use my hands or not

597
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: use my hands, then I'm gonna use my hands. Hands.

598
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: It helps. I think they like, I think they really

599
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 1: time to w because like how you start to get

600
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 1: to the walls without your hands. I gotta be like,

601
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: so you always gotta with the best part of the

602
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 1: that is part of the situation. It's like if you're

603
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:18,959
Speaker 1: gonna funk with it all right, So all the guys

604
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: in their room hands and their hands. I just want

605
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: to see if guys like hands. Who says hands and

606
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: keeping them hands? And I was like, I don't care,

607
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: said bro, two hands. Pepper grinder, Yeah, pepper grind, as

608
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: long as you got enough pepper hands. Okay, one potator too,

609
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 1: potato potato you got you got what if you do

610
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 1: you can't use your thumb and listen listen. I guy

611
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: got mad at me because I grabbed this thing like

612
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: that one day and try to be smart. He was like, damn,

613
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 1: when you try to say, my thick little you want

614
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 1: grab it like this, Like I said, no hands because

615
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: I won't be the little dick doesn't work for me.

616
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: But too big? All right, now, I think I gotta

617
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: ask you. You in your twenties, and I know it's

618
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: a different day and age now. So this whole um.

619
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,720
Speaker 1: I was watching Love is Blind. I know you watching

620
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: a little bit of it so far. And there's one

621
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 1: guy on there, Carlton, the black guy Carlton. Okay, I

622
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 1: know I know about so he sexually fluid. So in

623
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: other words, he ended up telling the girl that he

624
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: ended up with that he likes. He has been with

625
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: men in the past. Some of these guys in here.

626
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 1: You need to tell it more often because there's a

627
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 1: whole lot of day going on that's very real. So

628
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 1: if you know a guy right and you really liked him,

629
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: and then after you really liked him, y'all hung out whatever,

630
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: went on a few dates, and then he told you, look,

631
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 1: I gotta be clean and honest with you. I've been

632
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 1: with guys in the past, but I feel like I'm

633
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,959
Speaker 1: a you know, sexually fluid person. I could do either

634
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: or but I really just like the person doesn't matter

635
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: if it's a guy or a girl. Would you still

636
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:07,320
Speaker 1: be okay with that? Personally? I have to be honest

637
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: and I'm not discriminating against anybody, but I wouldn't settle

638
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 1: for that. That's just my preference, right, no offense to anyone,

639
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 1: because I know to be comfortable with that. Personally. I

640
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: can't compete with no penis, like I can put compete

641
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: with another female probably right, But that's the thing, you

642
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But you know, like I can't

643
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: compete with penis. If you like penis, I don't have penis.

644
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 1: I would feel better. I'll be like one thing, I know,

645
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: I don't fucking guy. Yeah, you said you would feel better,

646
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: Like she said she I can't compete with and I'm

647
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:51,919
Speaker 1: saying I wouldn't feel but I can't. Yeah, I can't.

648
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: I can't if I found out a guy that I

649
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 1: was dealing with, like even cheated with a guy or something,

650
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: you know, like if I found out like later on,

651
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: I'll be like, well, at least he wanted something. I

652
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 1: don't got so, but what if you're in love with him? Yeah,

653
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: and you found that already in love and he told

654
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:10,439
Speaker 1: you I've been together for a while. Yeah, we're gonna

655
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: break up. We're gonna break up. Yeah, So why not

656
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: why not tell me what I'm getting myself involved in

657
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 1: from the beginning, that's from the beginning. See, that's my

658
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: favorite men that I look at you. I mentioned that

659
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: in the past, is that guys don't come in being

660
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: honest and allowed a woman to choose what situation she

661
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 1: want to be a part of. They just throw us

662
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: in the situation. And then when the ship hit the

663
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: fan and we found out what's really going on, then

664
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: they want to come with the old kid would and

665
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,919
Speaker 1: I and all the so fucking tap dance and ship,

666
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: ain't nobody got time for now? If you would have

667
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,240
Speaker 1: told me from the beginning that you had a baby mama,

668
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: you was married, he was gay, You like dick, you

669
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:52,839
Speaker 1: like it up the but just that you would leave him,

670
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, allowed me to make that decision, allowed

671
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: me to say, all right, well, this is what I

672
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: choose to be involved in. That throw me and no ship.

673
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: Now I'm not competing with I might compete with your

674
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,959
Speaker 1: big Mama, but I ain't competing with no Dick. I can't.

675
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: That's why I agree with that. That's why he's lied

676
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 1: to you because he wants the pussy, so he's not

677
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: gonna that's the problem in itself. That's like your character.

678
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: And right, bro, you you gotta laugh to me with

679
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: somebody only just experimented and did it once and decided

680
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: that he don't like I don't want to do we didn't.

681
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: I like that. And I'm saying because I feel like

682
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 1: everybody always says like they would have sunk with the guy,

683
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: I've been changing my mind and say that I might

684
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 1: funk with a guy. I've already done it. I've already

685
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 1: been with, slept with, sucked through on somebody who's been

686
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: with SUP, with sup with ya. See what it was

687
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: fucked up with me is I'm fouled out in a

688
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: devastating way that a guy that I didn't tell you,

689
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: he didn't tell me. I was in a car with

690
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: my friends and and with two of my friends and

691
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 1: one of their friends. I didn't know that girl, and

692
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: she was just gossiping and she was like a publicist

693
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 1: and she was just like yeah, girl, because you know,

694
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: last night so and so God caught fucking so and

695
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: so boyfriend. I didn't even know he and it was

696
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: a nigger that I was. She said where my drink at?

697
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:20,240
Speaker 1: And I died. Yeah, God, I was like, my heart

698
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 1: just sank to like my ass, like it just felt.

699
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: And then I was supposed to see him. Yeah, and

700
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 1: then too, and I was supposed to see him. I died,

701
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: but I I mean, I don't want to die. My

702
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: nigga just got sucked in the ask. And now you

703
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: don't know if he was a top. Guys, maybe he

704
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: sucked somebody in a huh which is word. I don't care.

705
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: They would act like bottom like you know whatever. But

706
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: I felt like he left there wouldn't be no tops.

707
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: He left me for a man he didn't know. That's

708
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: how I felt at the time. And I've seen him

709
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 1: later on because I was like in town and were

710
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: supposed to link with him and everything, and when I've

711
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: seen him on, God, this is fucked up. But I

712
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: looked right past that nigger like I never met him

713
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: before him again, I'm because I was like, really like skill,

714
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: because you really enjoyed having sex with him. Yeah, he

715
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,799
Speaker 1: was decent. He was good, like you really enjoyed it.

716
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: It was too weak though I told you that too, right,

717
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: But it's just sucked up. It was suck My heart

718
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: still hurts when I think. I always had the theory

719
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 1: that it's too many women out here like me that

720
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: are openly fucking on bitches and sucking on bitches, that

721
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: these niggas ain't not hurt on the same thing. I

722
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 1: gotta I gotta tex. One day of a guy that

723
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: I used to have sex with long ago. Um, he

724
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: was doing gay one with his brother, his brother to

725
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: another letter like that, Yeah, well about it. And he

726
00:41:51,760 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: sucked his brother. Yeah, like I said, his brother, brother, brother,

727
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: I do it and each other. But okay, I wouldn't

728
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: see the actual clip them doing anything with each other.

729
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: But I did see a clip of them both getting

730
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 1: their dick sucked by another man at the same time.

731
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: But I heard what they were. Yes, I heard that.

732
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: There were more clips that I could. Of course they

733
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: were more. I want to see the ship, but I

734
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: don't think, man, that cutty hook you up with nobody

735
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:37,919
Speaker 1: like she was like, it's official. You've been with every

736
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: single guy under the sun, every single type I got

737
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 1: under the sun. This don't make no sense. And fine,

738
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 1: everybody here, and dude, that's yourself. You speak to yourself.

739
00:42:53,920 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: I don't mess my head that something like never happened.

740
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 1: You ever talked to a glass? He was he was kid.

741
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: You got to let calls. Yeah, I've thank the guys

742
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: that have been to chaither you know what means. But

743
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 1: now she's that guy. Now I'm thinking, like, babe, we

744
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 1: don't want to be a bad joke might be good? Good,

745
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 1: We're good. No, that's not good. Could you be with

746
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 1: the guys? Could you be with the guy who's broke?

747
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: Who's broke? Yeah? Oh um, you gotta still have like

748
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 1: some type of hustling, you know, like you ain't gotta

749
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: if you're broke, okay, but don't be trying to be

750
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 1: broke forever. Like it's hard enough you broke, so you know,

751
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,919
Speaker 1: at least have some people broke with a business plan,

752
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: have a plan. Broke? What if he was fine and

753
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: amazing in bed and you still have to bring something

754
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,919
Speaker 1: to the table. Look stage yea, looks fade. That's real

755
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 1: And you have to have some type of hustling, you though,

756
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: a plan or something. I think we all could be

757
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: with somebody who doesn't really have that much money until

758
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: for a little while and then we wake up like

759
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 1: it's start getting annoying. Wow, you know so what Okay,

760
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: so you said earlier we talked about this if we

761
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: got to get back to it. So you said, you

762
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: like guys to a kind of hood and looks wise.

763
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: Do looks madder to you? Um, looks madder. But you

764
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: know it's not like a I have a specific type.

765
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: But I like chocolate, man like skiing, karmel. Um, it's

766
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: really about your structure. Um. You know in Chicago, I

767
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: like dress. We got a lot of guys with dress.

768
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 1: But I'm not tool paky. You know, personality matters. You said,

769
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 1: personality matter because you can be like, you can be

770
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 1: a guy that's not as fine. But if your personality

771
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: on amazing, you don't look good as you're gonna look

772
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:05,280
Speaker 1: up because if you're finding your personality is whack. And yeah,

773
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: I can't hell yeah, I know people that are so

774
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: good looking but they are so whack personality I can't

775
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 1: even so turn off. Then, so, like, you know, you

776
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: can make up for it in other ways, right, Yeah,

777
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: So tell me The process of writing Hopeless Romantic was

778
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 1: it always your intention to put it out on Valentine's Day.

779
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I knew. Back in December, I was like

780
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: hoping to drop it on Valentine's. But the process is

781
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 1: really just like you go through some ship. I write

782
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 1: it at the crib, called my producer or my engineer,

783
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 1: set set up the studio, and I just pull up

784
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: and let it out. You know. I don't need like

785
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 1: a lot of people in the lab. I write all

786
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 1: my music on my own, um, and for me, that's

787
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: what works. You know, other people they may need, you know,

788
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: tem producers or people to come in and give them

789
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: hooks and stuff like that, which is fine. But for me,

790
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: it's like personal, like I'll be kind of like, you know,

791
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: wait till I'm done, and then I'll let y'all come

792
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: in and give me a you know, some critiqueing. But

793
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: it's all me. When you date someone, do you let

794
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: them hear your music? Oh yeah, oh yeah, you're doing

795
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,879
Speaker 1: it working on it. That's actually like, you know, one

796
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 1: of the best parts is like you know, getting in

797
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 1: the car and playing playing a ship um and they'll

798
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,479
Speaker 1: tell me like, oh yeah, that's it. That's the one.

799
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: You know. I like to let them hear. It's like

800
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 1: it's a part of me. You're gonna hear it eventually,

801
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: so I might as well let you know what's coming.

802
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,239
Speaker 1: How would you feel if they were like I don't

803
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: really like this one, I wouldn't care. I wouldn't I

804
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 1: wouldn't care it on no, no, Like I'll be I

805
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 1: really funk with my music. Like and I know everybody

806
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: ain't go back to my ship. Nobody's gonna like everything

807
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:48,919
Speaker 1: you do. So I'm like, you don't care it that.

808
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that. Yeah, that's fine. It's okay, like

809
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 1: somebody gonna like relate to it. Have you ever pulled

810
00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: a song out because you felt like it was two personal? Oh? Yeah,

811
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 1: I put a lot of songs. I was, y'all, Like,

812
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: you know, people think I'm deep, but I go I

813
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 1: get even deeper sometimes, or like I'm a little I'm

814
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: being a little too aggressive. I'm saying some stuff that

815
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 1: might hurt step on toes, you know, and today it's

816
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,959
Speaker 1: just so political you gotta be it's so sensitive. Yeah,

817
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: So it's like you gotta be careful with everything you say,

818
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: so a lot of times so I don't get pulled back. Yeah,

819
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: we're cleaned up. You gotta change that up a little bit. Yeah,

820
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:32,799
Speaker 1: have you? Um, are you okay with dating more than

821
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 1: one guy at a time? If we're dating, I think

822
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:38,879
Speaker 1: that's fine. I think that's like a part of data,

823
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: um testing your waters. Uh. I mean, but at some

824
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 1: point you gotta cut it off if you feel like

825
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: it's getting serious. Um. But yeah, if you're just casually dating,

826
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: I don't think nothing's wrong with that. I'm honest about

827
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: it too. Like if I got somebody else I'm seeing,

828
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you tell I think, yeah, I want

829
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 1: them to tell me. If they're seeing somebody, do you

830
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: tell them? If they ask you or do you volunteer it?

831
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: It'll come up well, you know, like in conversation. I

832
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: don't just blurt it out, but if they want to know,

833
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 1: or they feel like, you know, you know, they see

834
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: some online or anything in any way, if they asked me,

835
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it andre like, yeah, we talk, you know,

836
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 1: we date, or you know, I link up with him.

837
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes it works out better because it's like friendly competition.

838
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 1: Everything's no because I felt like they're a little key

839
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: like start to you know, one is going to try

840
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 1: to out do the other that's gonna try to if

841
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: you wait. This other dude want me for bad, but

842
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: he was buying him like the turtle to watch that.

843
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 1: It's like that, like you until you fucking or they

844
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: could drop your grass because they don't want to. They

845
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 1: can get like, well, let me concentrate on other women

846
00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 1: too again, feel like they were in competition with another

847
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: woman for a guy. Unfortunately. Yeah, at times, you know,

848
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 1: it gets like that. Um yeah, especially like and today,

849
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,439
Speaker 1: you know, you can see everything a guy's doing. Y'all

850
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: know when they had they had the feature on Instagram

851
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: because they took it off. Yeah, kinda, you can. You

852
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: can see everything, so like you know, you'll you'll be

853
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 1: peeping what are you? What are you doing? Or who he?

854
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 1: Who messing with? You know, it gets like that. You

855
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 1: ever had a girl slide in your d M s

856
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: and tell you know your man? Um m mmm yeah,

857
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 1: especially like years ago, like when you're young, like in

858
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: your teens and shape. Girls are messy. When you're like

859
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 1: nineteen twenty, we live for the drama then. Um so

860
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 1: I didn't have a few girls come to the d

861
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 1: M and it's really just petty. They just want to

862
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: see you throw shade or get a reaction. Um, but

863
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: I'll be I used to keep up, keep up with it,

864
00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 1: Like girl white, what happened to tell me? More? Give

865
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: a big face with a girl that, yeah, that your

866
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 1: guy cheated on you with. You know how girls be

867
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: trying to be friend know that's dead. That's a job

868
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: that did not happening. I can't. That's disrespect, you know.

869
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: The only way is if it's like it's been so

870
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 1: long where we don't you know, we don't even think

871
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: of a guy. But even then it's like, man, I'm

872
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 1: gonna still be like in the back of my man

873
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: like yo, you was on some bush and she ain't

874
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 1: never going for real like you exactly, It's going to

875
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 1: be some type of animosity. But you ever Okay, this

876
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,919
Speaker 1: happened to me before. Well for me, actually, bitches would

877
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 1: know who he talking to, who's his girl or whatever,

878
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: and they stalking you so much they realize you don't

879
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 1: it's fun and want to be your friend, like you

880
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 1: ever been stalking somebody and be like damn, I think

881
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 1: But to me, that's that's make them upset more though,

882
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: because they really like like you as a person. When

883
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: you're working with the guy that makes them even mad. Look,

884
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 1: come on girl page and you're like, I had this.

885
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. But have you ever had

886
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:21,360
Speaker 1: to check a girl? Like have you ever had to

887
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 1: reach out to somebody and be like, listen, I know

888
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,280
Speaker 1: you're trying to talk to my man or whatever the case.

889
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: I don't really reach out to the girls. I feel like,

890
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 1: if I got an issue, I gotta take it up

891
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: with my guy, right, you know, because it could be

892
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: her to day, a new one tomorrow, like you'll be

893
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: reaching out every day and that screenshotting up. Yeah, and

894
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what he's telling you. He could really

895
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: be telling you, like you know, that's my friend, tink,

896
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: it is just my homie or you know what I'm saying.

897
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 1: I don't know what story he giving you. You could

898
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: really be innocent. So it's really I take it up

899
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 1: with a guy I've reached out before. Yeah, I wanted

900
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: to know. How did that make you feel out of out? Yeah?

901
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: I don't care. I want to go I wouldn't be honest.

902
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I mean for the most part. Yeah, I

903
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: mean I will say that once you reveal yourself, she

904
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 1: ain't gonna stop sucking them you know or whatever you know,

905
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:21,280
Speaker 1: But you know, there was there was pre social media

906
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: times when you could do this when whether you just

907
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:27,399
Speaker 1: call her or whatever the case is. And then there's now,

908
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,919
Speaker 1: which is a totally different story. Like the average person

909
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: is not easy for us to freaking d m somebody

910
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: and be like or reach out because I mean I

911
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: still might because I don't care drama. Yeah, do you

912
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: think zodiac signs affects sex? You know what, I don't

913
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 1: keep up with it, Like, I don't really like get

914
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 1: into Zodiac's I'm a pisces. I know a little bit

915
00:52:53,560 --> 00:53:00,240
Speaker 1: about each sign, but it's like, yeah, I hate okay

916
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 1: because I don't suck the woman. Yeah, I'm okay, Well

917
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,439
Speaker 1: you have I can understand. Why is it it cuts

918
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 1: up their emotional Yeah? Crazy got like liar, Yeah, I

919
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: feel like those my bushees w gonna funk with anybody,

920
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 1: swimp their ass over there, swim the little sucking ass

921
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: in that pond, mother shot shark a little fish like

922
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 1: they don't kind of time you saying I would through

923
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: some ship that I hate. You know what a guy's

924
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: typis pussy pussy A man's type some of them his

925
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: fish to always be like he got his type in

926
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: the exact opposite. Yeah, he got two right. It's like

927
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: because you always find out that he s somebody the

928
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: totally that they said. It's not the type you'd be like, Okay,

929
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: all right, now we need you to get some advice.

930
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 1: Tank you ready, Okay? Somebody sent in this question. And

931
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: I was dating my manager and he passed away after Christmas,

932
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: and I can't express my real feelings about how I'm

933
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 1: really feeling because no one knows we were dating. How

934
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:14,879
Speaker 1: can one really grieve? What was the problem? Like, why

935
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: can't she express that because it was business work, would

936
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: be married? You might, you might even married. Okay, in

937
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: that sence, you gotta just keep it the same way

938
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,919
Speaker 1: as if he was alive. Just be quiet, Just hold

939
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: it in. Maybe talk to your best friend. You know,

940
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 1: our best friend ain't gonna judge you, hopefully. I hate

941
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:37,959
Speaker 1: that with a real one, A real one ain't grieve

942
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:41,319
Speaker 1: what you're real friends. I hate when somebody die. I'll

943
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,399
Speaker 1: go to jail and a bit. You want to get

944
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: the post that I'm saying, when he was alive, you

945
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 1: wasn't opposed to. Sorry not to call you a bit

946
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 1: because you're grieving but you give what I'm saying. It's like,

947
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: if you didn't do it when he was kicking, keep

948
00:54:54,160 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: that energy, don't do it. Keep the energy. Ain't gonna

949
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: get mad now I'm gone. Was he really did? And

950
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: the family and his can say, yeah, his wife's family

951
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 1: got mad and like they started calling her like can

952
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: you take this? Disrespect that? But they was together like

953
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: eight years okay, And it was a secret. Secret. Wasn't

954
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 1: on social media when she was a lot when she

955
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,399
Speaker 1: was alive. I used to post him, but I didn't

956
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 1: always post him because I was still talking other people,

957
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: so I stopped. They used to be like, oh, you

958
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 1: wasn't posting him when he was live, Like yeah, because

959
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 1: I had other niggers till the backage up for a second.

960
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this, the fact that his

961
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 1: wife was coming to your house and knocking on the door,

962
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: that did never make you want to stop. No, that's

963
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 1: why we broke up. We started breaking up once you're

964
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: streaking up. First of all, moved in the same building

965
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 1: that he lived in with his were not the same building,

966
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 1: but the same complex he lived in with his family

967
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 1: that he moved to the next building over. And then

968
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: somehow I found out. She didn't know about us for

969
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 1: like five years. By the time she found out, she

970
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,759
Speaker 1: started being very aggressive and then that kind of is

971
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,440
Speaker 1: what she had to go do ship but go next door.

972
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 1: But any to. The craziest thing is when we first

973
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 1: got together, it was the same complex, but the building

974
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: was like facing the other way. We had a little

975
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 1: we had a little breakup break up. I mean by

976
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 1: the time we got back together, they had actually moved

977
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: in the building next door to me, so they shared

978
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 1: the perfect closer and then to hold the door open

979
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 1: for them when they had growth. You know, we weren't

980
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 1: in the same building. We were in the building next

981
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: to each other. And then I got it and then

982
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 1: allegedly real why that's how she found out was because

983
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: her son was like, oh, daddy's girlfriend lives there. No, yeah,

984
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:01,880
Speaker 1: kids to she knew the kid, the smallest one. She

985
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 1: can't say anything. Okay, that's disrespectful now the baby about him.

986
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 1: But the kid because at first it was a little

987
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 1: baby something years old and first baby, and then by

988
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 1: the time he said that he was like four years old. Yeah,

989
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 1: but she had been around him his whole life. I was,

990
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 1: you know, how much must hurt your life when your

991
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: son is like daddy's girlfriends. Right, you had me around,

992
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: you had my child around. I was very young. He said,

993
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 1: you read to the kid and stuff. Oh my god.

994
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 1: He used to leave the kid with me. Yeah, when

995
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: he was running the street, you was the baby. Said that.

996
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: I was honest. Yeah, I was around for I was young.

997
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: And then he suddenly passed away in the accident, and

998
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: he paculated an accident, and then like maybe a couple

999
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 1: of days, not immediately, but a few days later. She

1000
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 1: posted a picture with a really long caption. And then

1001
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:15,600
Speaker 1: his family wasn't desert her White's family. She was for

1002
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 1: twenty years. We've been together for ten you know, just

1003
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 1: your babysit. After that, I treat yourself like my own.

1004
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: But listen, I will say that I do you know,

1005
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 1: if I had to do it all over again, I

1006
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't do it. Probably did you move? Ye, I'm

1007
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: gonna say that I would not be doing that in

1008
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: today's day and age, at this age, and I and

1009
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 1: I am remorseful. I just don't want nobody rolling up

1010
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 1: on me and say I'm still old ass whipping. I

1011
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 1: don't know. Have you been a mistress? No, really, never

1012
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: never never enough that you're never too late, you know,

1013
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 1: not as the sick part, but no, no, no, have

1014
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: you ever been to side bitch, because those are two

1015
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: different things. No, y'all, I don't know. I don't let

1016
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: it get to that point. I can sense when it's something,

1017
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: something else has happened and going on, and then you

1018
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 1: put up that wall like we're gonna keep it, keep

1019
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 1: it cool, cordial. You've had it one night stand, y'all. Y'all,

1020
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: that didn't you didn't answer it fast enough. It's okay,

1021
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:38,600
Speaker 1: no comment. She's like, it was two nights one. I

1022
00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: don't think. I think that you haven't really like. Look,

1023
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 1: I never had one, and I regret it. I don't

1024
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: I feel like it's too late now. It's never too weak.

1025
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't think I could have one night he was married.

1026
00:59:54,760 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: I wouldn't I had I had. We had sex one time.

1027
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 1: That's not one night stand? What is it then? One

1028
01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: night stand when you never ever yeah, as you meet

1029
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: the person, you have sex the first time you meet them,

1030
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: and you never ever see it. That's a stranger. You

1031
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: have sex with somebody one time, it'd be whacked trash.

1032
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 1: That's not a one night stand. Yeah, I tricked to

1033
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 1: a guy f a log time. It's a different one

1034
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: night saying, and like having no night, no more night,

1035
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 1: no more night stand. Is that counting? That's a one

1036
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: night stand, no night stand, we only no one if

1037
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: it had no plans. You know that you one night

1038
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,479
Speaker 1: one stand. Okay, you was dealing with him and finally

1039
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: gave him something and that one night you realized it

1040
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 1: was whacked. So you one night of him because I

1041
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 1: looked at it like and they took one night to

1042
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: make me stand to him. You one night at him

1043
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: after that that was just a trash okay. But a

1044
01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,680
Speaker 1: one night stand, I would say, is a is a

1045
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: wh dreamed. You meet a guy in the club. If

1046
01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 1: y'all have sex and y'all never see each other against

1047
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 1: the biggest thing and you're junk and you leave it

1048
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 1: and be looking out for him in if you never

1049
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: have him again, it's a one night saying. I never

1050
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: see him again, or I don't know each other that well,

1051
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 1: You didn't know him at all. It can't be just

1052
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 1: something that you didn't know that well that you did

1053
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 1: in one time. No, the same thing. No, you don't

1054
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:31,960
Speaker 1: keep in touching alright, are you Okay, if you do

1055
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: you masturbate in front of your guy, like if he's

1056
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: like touch yourself, Uh no, no, I think like, if

1057
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm in front of him, I'm good. But if he

1058
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: tells you to, I don't have to. No, they don't really.

1059
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,439
Speaker 1: I've never had a guy asked me to masturbate. He'll

1060
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 1: do it before he asks me. Or you know what

1061
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying, You're like, he'll masturbate. No, he'll do it

1062
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 1: like no, no, no. If we're a gay, they had tastes, Yeah,

1063
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: anyone the word me say, yet they want to see Okay, yeah,

1064
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna get asked. Yeah, really really you never played

1065
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 1: with your pussy on FaceTime? No, y'all not on facet

1066
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: that's like screen record and all that say. And that's

1067
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: the real thing. So people be exposing, you know, get leaked.

1068
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 1: Can't you see it? If somebody presses recording, they can

1069
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 1: already be recording. Then then they can call you. They

1070
01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 1: can be recording on the call, you on face record,

1071
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 1: the favor record you never had a guy FaceTime, or

1072
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 1: they can be recording whole on the phone. Yeah, they've

1073
01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 1: done that before. How about a guy do that? I

1074
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 1: don't really get nothing out of that. I told you.

1075
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm in person. You still gotta talk him

1076
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:48,800
Speaker 1: through it? Yeah, well you can just sitting there. No,

1077
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 1: I'm not like that. I've never done all of that. Like,

1078
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: they don't do nothing for me. I ain't gonna I

1079
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:57,439
Speaker 1: don't get nothing out of that. You gotta be like, yeah,

1080
01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 1: daddy struck that big thing. I'm more like, I want

1081
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: to see you come through you either. Yeah, I don't occur.

1082
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: What like the phone sucks like sex. Yeah, if you

1083
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: have faith out, he's like stroll getting dick, you're just

1084
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: gonna be quiet. I haven't done that in so long. Yeah,

1085
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 1: that's like I just want to see him come. I

1086
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: don't feel like so next time, my guys, that's checking up.

1087
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 1: You pull that dick up. Yeah, now you're gonna hang

1088
01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 1: up on me. But what's the strangest thing somebody asked

1089
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 1: you to do in the bedroom? The strangest thing, like

1090
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 1: anything a little out of the ordinary, like sucking SOEs y'all,

1091
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: y'all get y'all. Yeah, I've been through some some ship,

1092
01:03:53,640 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 1: don't whatever that? Yeah, I do strange it would be

1093
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: nice and cool, didn't Joscelyn recently say something about she

1094
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: kissed the guy feet to wait, I don't know, this

1095
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,360
Speaker 1: is what the guy told me. He was like, oh,

1096
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: he was like I saw online that he said, Jocelyn,

1097
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, but he said that she says she

1098
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 1: kissed the guy's feet to treat him like a king

1099
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: or something like marriage. So he gonna say, why you

1100
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,080
Speaker 1: never kiss my feet to treat me like a king?

1101
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: And I was like, what the fund are you talking about?

1102
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: He just randomly asked me, you did it, like start

1103
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 1: wiggling his tassout, kiss my feet? Kiss. I'm like, alright, soever,

1104
01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 1: anything strange, anybody asked you to do that? You did?

1105
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 1: That's strange, nothing strange, I think, like for me, I

1106
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 1: probably asked him to do something like what that wasn't

1107
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 1: normal for him. Just the type of positions, you know,

1108
01:04:56,040 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 1: like certain positions and things upside down things like that,

1109
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 1: things like that. So he never was like, well, who

1110
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 1: the fun did you do this ship with that? Now

1111
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:08,919
Speaker 1: you trying these new upside down? Where you get this from?

1112
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 1: How you know you learn? Nah? Nah? He was never

1113
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 1: like that, how you noisy? In bed? Am? I noisy?

1114
01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 1: I'm on you said what she said? I'm a whole

1115
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: I'm not like hell a loud though. You know it's

1116
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: a nice cute mom cutemut. It could be in a song,

1117
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: you singing moment nice. Come on, what if he's moaning?

1118
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:39,280
Speaker 1: He liked that. I like that, but it doesn't get

1119
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:43,880
Speaker 1: weird at mainly a ground nice. You know he can't.

1120
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 1: He's like I had a MAXI to make so much

1121
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: and when he came, he said, yell, my name, read

1122
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:59,919
Speaker 1: my name, your real name? Super weird every single time

1123
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 1: I mean said my name. You need to start doing it.

1124
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 1: Do your guys, like do they call you by your

1125
01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 1: real name or by tink? Now they call me tink?

1126
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah that's my nickname. You know everybody called me tink? Okay, yeah,

1127
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 1: what if they just start calling you? But like your

1128
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: real name is that weird? Like it would be weird

1129
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: because I was Tink before, like I was the artist. Think,

1130
01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 1: so everybody called me tink, Like bring that little tink over.

1131
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:35,240
Speaker 1: When I meet a guy and I introduced himself, introduced

1132
01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 1: myself to him as Gigi, and then in conversation or

1133
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 1: in passing, I tell him my real name and then

1134
01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 1: he starts trying to call me. And I didn't introduce

1135
01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 1: you as that for me. I don't call me like

1136
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 1: I don't think that you're doing something because you can

1137
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 1: say my name. But I also hate the opposite when

1138
01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 1: I don't even say it the right but yeah, but

1139
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 1: I hate when you tell him your real name and

1140
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 1: then they start calling you by you up now and

1141
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 1: you'd be like right, hey, like yeah, you're learning too much.

1142
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:11,360
Speaker 1: I don't have that problem. My name is really perfect,

1143
01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 1: good for you. So how you feeling? What kind of

1144
01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 1: space are you in now with the great reception that

1145
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 1: you've gotten from the music you put out. Yes, I'm

1146
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 1: in a great space y'all. Like independent, I can move

1147
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:25,800
Speaker 1: around a lot more. You know, you can hear it

1148
01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:29,480
Speaker 1: in the music. You know, it feels better. Um. I

1149
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: got a lot of things coming up that I'm excited about,

1150
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 1: like videos. We just shot a adult video in Brooklyn yesterday. Yes, yes,

1151
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:41,960
Speaker 1: we just shot up. I ain't got time today, Um,

1152
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 1: looking for like looking forward to tour this year. We're

1153
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 1: trying to put some things together if willing. Um, But yeah,

1154
01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 1: I just want to, you know, be out here a

1155
01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:53,240
Speaker 1: lot more. You gotta do the tour. Yeah, I want

1156
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 1: to come with a tour. I haven't been on the

1157
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: road since like eighteen, so it's time. It was a

1158
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 1: difficult process for you to get off your off the

1159
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 1: label back in Yeah, I was. I was stalking my

1160
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:07,080
Speaker 1: deal for maybe like a year and a half where

1161
01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 1: I couldn't release nothing or you know put music on

1162
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 1: like Apple and Spotify. Um so that's a ConTroll on me,

1163
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,760
Speaker 1: you know. Uh, And I had to like, you know,

1164
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 1: go through the through the motions. You get your lawyer

1165
01:08:20,200 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 1: and your attorney and you work it out. So yeah,

1166
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 1: it's a process. It takes time to especially like if

1167
01:08:26,240 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 1: you like, uh in my position where it's like, you know,

1168
01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 1: you have two labels involved. Um, so yeah, it took me,

1169
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 1: you know, a nice two to three years to get right. Damn,

1170
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 1: that's a long time. The stallion's pain right now. I do.

1171
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 1: I do like and I totally understand how it is

1172
01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 1: when like people make your contract and they tell you

1173
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:51,240
Speaker 1: it's one thing, and then you know they take advantage

1174
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 1: of you, and you know you don't have it going.

1175
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 1: You know, at the moment when you up and coming,

1176
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 1: it's easy for you to sign some ship. Um, and

1177
01:08:57,880 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 1: everybody's like, well, you should have read, you should have

1178
01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:03,280
Speaker 1: really thoroughly had a lawyer. But when you first coming up,

1179
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 1: you don't have lawyer money, you don't have like a

1180
01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:08,960
Speaker 1: team around you that can really like break ship down,

1181
01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: and you're hungry, so you might think of it like,

1182
01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 1: you know, this is my opportunity. Let me work this

1183
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:16,840
Speaker 1: ship the best way I can. So I feel that

1184
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 1: I feel what was the issue to why you couldn't

1185
01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 1: release any music? Um? I think for the most part,

1186
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 1: I was signed to a producer, so that plays a

1187
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:30,240
Speaker 1: part and everything, because the producer wants a lot of control. Um,

1188
01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 1: And when the production doesn't have a you know, a

1189
01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 1: good relationship with the the label, the actual label, it

1190
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:40,880
Speaker 1: just creates a bad situation for the artists. They can

1191
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 1: pull your music down to if you're signing to somebody

1192
01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: and they don't care for your music to go up

1193
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:47,920
Speaker 1: and you don't do it, they can pull it right

1194
01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: back down when you try to put it up. Yeah.

1195
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 1: So I was stuck like dropping music on like my

1196
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 1: mix tapes and YouTube, yeah and SoundCloud, which is cool,

1197
01:09:57,880 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 1: but at a certain point you want to you want

1198
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:02,920
Speaker 1: to get onto those platforms and sell your music, you know.

1199
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: So so just like a relationship, Now, are you feeling

1200
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 1: like I ain't getting locked in again? Like that. Yeah, yeah,

1201
01:10:09,240 --> 01:10:11,640
Speaker 1: it makes you tighten up, Like you know, I'll be

1202
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:14,160
Speaker 1: screening niggas and you know the same way I would

1203
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: do like a contractor or label. I had to read

1204
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:20,320
Speaker 1: through the lines, you know. But yeah, I'm just observing

1205
01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:22,720
Speaker 1: now to everything. Like it's harder to really get to me.

1206
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:25,680
Speaker 1: You know. I'm sure there's a lot of holler at

1207
01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 1: you now too for label deals. I mean, yea, yeah,

1208
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:32,599
Speaker 1: that's very true. Um, this past couple of years has

1209
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 1: been like a lot of situations coming, but I'm taking

1210
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:38,760
Speaker 1: it slow. Like back back then, I was thirsty. You

1211
01:10:38,800 --> 01:10:40,720
Speaker 1: don't want to be thirsty, Like, if you know you've

1212
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:44,439
Speaker 1: got something good, don't be thirsty, Like take your time,

1213
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:46,639
Speaker 1: you know, let it come, Let it come when it's

1214
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:49,479
Speaker 1: supposed to come. Just take that front and check and

1215
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:52,760
Speaker 1: think that yes, yes, that's real. What do you talk

1216
01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 1: to people like Chance, the rapper who went the independent

1217
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 1: route also to kind of get some guidance. Yeah, absolutely, Chances,

1218
01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 1: like you know from Chicago, said that's like big bro

1219
01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 1: um And even before I got into my deal, he

1220
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: told me, like, you know, stay independent. So when I

1221
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 1: was going through that mess, I called him. He like, man,

1222
01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:14,880
Speaker 1: I told you it wasn't that harsh, but it was

1223
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 1: just like, you know, independent is the way, you know,

1224
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:19,720
Speaker 1: don't look at it as a bad thing. You know,

1225
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,320
Speaker 1: it's just like really a party of story. So I

1226
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 1: just keep going, you know, keep get back into you.

1227
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 1: Yeah that's good. The music is so different now too,

1228
01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 1: But I like, yes, yes, I'm back to myself, you know,

1229
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:33,280
Speaker 1: like having these talks, I might go and write a

1230
01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:35,840
Speaker 1: song about it. And when you like, what a what

1231
01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:38,000
Speaker 1: a label or production deal they want you to you know,

1232
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 1: they're looking for like a hit, what they're looking for

1233
01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 1: a certain type of music, and it's like, man, I

1234
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:45,080
Speaker 1: want to talk about this or I wanna I want

1235
01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 1: to make the single this because I think, you know,

1236
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 1: this is important to me right right now, so I

1237
01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 1: can make the decisions now. And it's working in my

1238
01:11:52,600 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 1: favorite boss. Okay, So your situation with Timberland, do you

1239
01:11:56,200 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 1: have any animosity against him after No? No, no, no,

1240
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 1: It's been a long time since, Like I've been sensitive

1241
01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 1: about the ship, and I think like over the years,

1242
01:12:07,960 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 1: you know, you you grow to forgive people. Um, we

1243
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 1: haven't really spoke, you know, like personally, but we speak

1244
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: through social media, which is enough for me. Like you know,

1245
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:20,720
Speaker 1: I'm not like, I'm not mad at him, and I

1246
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 1: don't think he's mad at me. Um, if I saw

1247
01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 1: him today, I would say hi and give me a hook.

1248
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 1: It's business. It just didn't work out. It just didn't

1249
01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:29,839
Speaker 1: work out, you know, And it happens in the industry

1250
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Speaker 1: a lot. Um. Your best bet is just so you know,

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Speaker 1: keep the right attitude with you. And that's what I'm

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Speaker 1: doing now. You know, if I take the good that

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Speaker 1: you got out of it, at least there was some

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Speaker 1: positive things. That has a lot of positive things, and

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Speaker 1: that's that's how I'm looking at it. Like, Man, I

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna be bitter about it all my life. You know.

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Speaker 1: I was upset the first year, but it's like, man,

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Speaker 1: we gotta get to the bag. I can't be stuck there.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like when you have talent, that's something

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Speaker 1: that you have hermanity, Like there's nothing that anybody could

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Speaker 1: do to say that, yes, that she is not she's

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Speaker 1: super talented. So we're really excited for you. I'm happy

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Speaker 1: that you have your voice and this is what you

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Speaker 1: want to do, and so I think that's exciting. So

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Speaker 1: the next project for you is to experiment a little

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Speaker 1: more in the bedroom. Yes, I have my gifts. You

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Speaker 1: have your gift. What I can do, but I can't

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Speaker 1: do that much with you. I don't know what you done. Like, well,

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Speaker 1: there we go. I want to have my person and

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Speaker 1: then you ain't gonna use this booty blind because you

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Speaker 1: don't do a no no no. I'm cool. I'm cool.

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh yeah, what about the pump. Might do

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Speaker 1: a little song for I got one the pump. I

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Speaker 1: like it, Like, do you get you ever want to

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Speaker 1: do an? Know? There's some trainers. What is that? So

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Speaker 1: if you do, I want to know. This is a

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Speaker 1: little one. So I just open it and then you

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Speaker 1: graduate to this one and then when you really ready

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Speaker 1: that big boy. Okay, okay, it's not even that big.

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Speaker 1: You can do it. It's a trainer. It's like a

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Speaker 1: tic Okay, I got you see a couple of years,

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Speaker 1: I might be ready come back here. Turned out day, y'all.

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Speaker 1: This is something a little okay, I don't know what suitcase?

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Speaker 1: Ya much? It's about to pump your pussy right, pump

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Speaker 1: that pussy. This is too much. I'm gonna tell you

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01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:31,919
Speaker 1: what if it pumps right? Like so it's like assumption

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Speaker 1: and it makes it like fatter, but it also brings

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Speaker 1: all of you, the blood to the best carver, and

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Speaker 1: it creates It creates stimulation, so it makes sex. Godall

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Speaker 1: and I have Okay, So it's not like somebody eating pussy.

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Speaker 1: That's it. I pump it up. Don't say it sucks

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Speaker 1: on your whole, your whole entire. It feel Okay, what's happening?

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Speaker 1: It got a vibrating thing. Well, the best guard is

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Speaker 1: it's rechargeable. It never dis Okay. All right, we'll face

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Speaker 1: time you and watch you use it. Y'all go, she's

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Speaker 1: gonna screen record. All right, Well, Tank, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you for having me through many Still I

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Speaker 1: love it. See I'm all about hope, So I think

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Speaker 1: that's great. Yeah, thank you for having me. It's fun.

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Speaker 1: I love it. You gotta say lip service, lip service,