1 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: Last week, I was interviewed by Ferne Malice at the 2 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: ninety second Street Why for her long running speaker series, 3 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 1: Fashion Icons with Berne Malice. Berne has interviewed Oscar de 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: la Rena, by anevan Christenberg, really everyone in and around 5 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: the fashion world. We had a candid conversation about my childhood, 6 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: my marriage, my career, my friend Snoop, the Sports Illustrated 7 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: Swimsuit issue, and lots more. I'm posting it here on 8 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: the Martha Stewart Podcast. I know you'll enjoy hearing it. 9 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 2: Thank you all for being here. Good evening. It's great 10 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 2: to see so many of you here as this has 11 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: been a remarkable and very special season for fashion Icons 12 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 2: here at the ninety two and Why. Those of you 13 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: who have been coming through the years know I always 14 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 2: have a special introduction with anecdotes and info my guests 15 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 2: will surprise him or her. 16 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: Well. 17 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: Tonight, I'm going to be joined by the busiest working 18 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: woman on this planet. She has done it all and 19 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 2: still has more to create and brand and sell. And hell, 20 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 2: it's Martha's Dowart. We all know who she is, and 21 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 2: I don't want to waste one more minute at the 22 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 2: podium talking about her when I can have her on 23 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 2: the stage talking with her. So now is the time 24 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: to cancel your dinner reservations, as we've got a lot 25 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 2: of years and stories to cover. Ladies and gentlemen and 26 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 2: everyone else. Let's give a warm and appreciative welcome to 27 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 2: my friend, the one and only Martha's do it? 28 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: Thank you, isn't it? 29 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: Hi? 30 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: Oh? Thank you, Fern, We thank you. Very exciting. I 31 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: read your bio over today and I found out we 32 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: have something very much in common. We were brought up 33 00:01:58,640 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: in Buffalo. 34 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: To school in Buffalo. Oh, the University of Buffalo. 35 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, so my maternal my maternal family, my mother's family 36 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: all worked and lived in Buffalo. 37 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: And I know that that's where you learned canning and 38 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 2: doing preservation. 39 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: Oh so you know you did your homework. But my 40 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: brother went to the University of Buffalo. He taught their 41 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: dentistry and he's retired now, but he still lives in Buffalo, 42 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: and I love that city. 43 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 2: Okay, So let's start at the very beginning. You were 44 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 2: born on August third, nineteen forty one, in Jersey City, 45 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 2: New Jersey. Makes you how old? 46 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:33,839 Speaker 1: Oh? 47 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: How old? 48 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: Am I don't know? You have to do this subtraction. 49 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: I'm old. I'm eighty two, and Fern is not as 50 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: old as I am. She was born in nineteen forty eight. 51 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 2: So you and Tom Ford the only ones who called 52 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: me out on my birthday on this stage. You're LEO. 53 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 2: I think you believe in the stars. I do LEO 54 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 2: positive traits loyal, wise, confident, a natural leader and generous. 55 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 2: Some negative traits opinionated, attention seeking, arrogant and stubborn. 56 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: Wow, do you agree with any of us? They go 57 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: well together, okay? 58 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 2: And some LEO celebrities for whatever it's worth, and they 59 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 2: hold up well, Yes, you hold up well. Jennifer Lopez, Madonna, 60 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 2: President Obama and Whitney Houston Company. 61 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: Yep, and mister Brady and oh, there's a lot of 62 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: people who are on my birthday too, Carly close. 63 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 2: So tell us about your parents. 64 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: Edward Costra Castayra and Martha Martha Roskowsky. 65 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 2: Is it a Polish thing to name daughters after their mothers. 66 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: I don't know why. My father wanted his first daughter 67 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: to be named Martha, after his beloved wife. And they 68 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: met at guess where in Buffalo. My father was taking 69 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: up Polish language course he's both parents' children of Polish 70 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: immigrants who came by My maternal family and my paternal 71 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: family all came from Poland, some from Levuff and some 72 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: from Krakau, and they came in the early part of 73 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: the twentieth century on by boat went through Roosevelt not 74 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: Roosevelt Island. They went through Ellis Island, and they went 75 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:29,559 Speaker 1: through Ellis Island, and they changed their They actually didn't 76 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: change their name at the time. Some of their children 77 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: have changed their names. My father refused to change Casteira. 78 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: It's really Costeira. And he did all the research at 79 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: the New York Public Library. He took me there weekend 80 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: after weekend to do genealogical research. He should have started 81 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 1: an ancestry dot com. But he found out that we 82 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: were actually from the Isle of Coos, which is in Greece. 83 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: So I also think I'm Greek, and then I guess 84 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: they must have been mercenaries going up to Poland. And 85 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: my mother's family settled in Buffalo, New York. My grandfather 86 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: was celebrated on his ninety ninth birthday as the longest 87 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: living member of the Iron Workers Union in Buffalo. He 88 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: was a decorative iron worker He did all the balustrades 89 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 1: and altars in Buffalo and those big churches. And he 90 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: had hands who never wanted to shake Grandpa's hand because 91 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,600 Speaker 1: he would break your little hand. No, he's so strong. 92 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,119 Speaker 1: He had the anvil all the time in his hand. 93 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: But he very artistic and a lovely, lovely man. And 94 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: he lived on ninety nine. He was an amazing. 95 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 2: They had a very positive influence on your upbringing. 96 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: Oh very much. So. I would spend a month a 97 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: summer every year in Buffalo. I took the railroad by 98 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: myself with a sandwich up to Buffalo, just one sandwich, 99 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: the one sandwich, and I must have had a little 100 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 1: cup of milk or something. But my mom took care 101 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,119 Speaker 1: of that and got on the train in Newark, New Jersey, 102 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: and ended up in Buffalo. 103 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 2: Okay, you have five siblings, yes, how do you fit in? 104 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: I was second oldest, my brother Eric with the one 105 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 1: who went to University of Buffalo. I then my brother Frank, 106 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: who lives down in Alabama, and then my sister Kathy, 107 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: who lives sometimes in Austin and sometimes in Greenwich. And 108 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 1: then my two youngest siblings unfortunately died not long ago. 109 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 2: You're still close with all the ones that. Oh yeah, okay, 110 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,599 Speaker 2: you've said in some interview that I read that you 111 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: were the favorite child of my father. How was that shown? 112 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 1: Well, I guess I paid the most attention to him. 113 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: Dad was Dad was if you know the play Death 114 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: of a Salesman. My father was Willie Lowman and a 115 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: sort of a disappointed uh not. I mean, I can't 116 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: say my father was unsuccessful. He raised amazing children, so 117 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: that is a great success for anybody. But he was 118 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: always a kind of like deprecating, and but also he 119 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: was he was the Eagle Scout counselor and he would 120 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: sit on the stage, bear chested, with a great big 121 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 1: Native American interest on and he would show off like that, 122 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: and then he would go back to selling pharmaceuticals. He 123 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: started out selling Shaefer beer. You know, he was a salesman. 124 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: He was, but he felt like he had never made it. 125 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: And I always felt very bad about that. And I 126 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: was very close to him, and he was the one 127 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: who really educated me in literature. When I read the 128 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: when I read Nathaniel Hawthorne's The Scarlet Letter, he had 129 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: to and I was like eleven years old. He had 130 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: to explain to me with a scarlet lettermant. Very educated man, 131 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: very well read. He played the violin by ear. He 132 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: would walk around the house shirtless, playing the violin all 133 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: the time. He was always shirtless. I don't know why. 134 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: He was like six two and a half, blonde, curly hair, 135 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: blue eyes, and very handsome and wore beautiful clothes. And 136 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:48,559 Speaker 1: that was Dad. 137 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: He sounds fabulous. Okay, your mother taught you how to 138 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 2: cook and sew. What was her. 139 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: Favorite dish that she taught you, Oh, PIROGI And I 140 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: still make her pirogy it's going to be. That's one 141 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: of the recipes in my hundredth book. Yep, my hundred 142 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: favorite recipes. But I stood by your side. I was 143 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: like the student of the family, the serious student. And 144 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: you know, my brother, older brother was the hunter, the trapper. 145 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: He would bring home the muskrats that he sold the 146 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: skins to Sears Roebuck and you got like fifteen dollars 147 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: of skin. So those muskrats were coming in during the 148 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: February and March months when the muskrats were out breeding, 149 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: I guess, and I had to do the skinning because 150 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: I was the neatest, and you'd hang them up in 151 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: the sink in the basement, over these old soapstone sinks. 152 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: And I had a scalpel, and I was like a surgeon, 153 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: so I could get them with no holes in them. 154 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 1: That you get more money if you didn't have a 155 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: hole in the muskrat skin. But he was also a 156 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 1: hunter and a fisherman, so I tied all the flies. 157 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: So if the people in the audience any men are 158 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: who are trout fishermen, I tie the best flies, not 159 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 1: those flies, the little flies. 160 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,439 Speaker 2: All of this makes perfect sense given how you're life 161 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 2: and career evolved. Even at that age you were doing 162 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 2: oh yeah. 163 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 1: Entrepreneurial yep, baking. Mom was a great baker, but she 164 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: always asked me for my vinagrette recipe because I made 165 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 1: the best vinaigrette in the family, and they still ask 166 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: me for it. 167 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 2: Are you going to share that with that? 168 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: I've shared it up a million times and they still 169 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: don't know how to make it. 170 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 2: Do you all know a vinegrete recipe? 171 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: All right, we don't have to get it'll be in 172 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 1: the hundredth book. 173 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 2: Describe one of your first jobs at ten years old. 174 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: You were babysitting for some very famous people's children. Mickey 175 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 2: Mantle and Yogi Berra. 176 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all the Yankees hired the girls from Nottley 177 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: High School to come to like Englewood and around there 178 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: the George Washington Bridge to babysit for their because we 179 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: were known as the reliable ones. And of course, what 180 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: the heck? I never got a baseball I never got 181 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: a baseball card, nothing from these guys. And the only 182 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:57,599 Speaker 1: one who remembered me sort of, his wife remembered me 183 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: very well was Yogi Berra, and so I was babysit 184 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: for his children too, And up until a couple of 185 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: years ago, I was still seeing Yogi Berra at Yankee Stadium, 186 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: as I still love those stupid Yankees. 187 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll pass on. 188 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: And I did the first pitch to I think two 189 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: or three years ago. Yes, yeah, I didn't quite make 190 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: it to home plate, but it was right right in 191 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 1: front of home plate, which when you watch all the 192 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,599 Speaker 1: other silly first pitches, I mean most of them, I 193 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: don't even get even ten feet within the homeplate, and 194 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: most of them go off like the third base or 195 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: their first base. I got it straight, and I practiced. 196 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: I practiced. 197 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 2: And you also organize their birthday parties. 198 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: Oh yes, we did a lot of birthday parties. Yes, 199 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: that was That was the beginning I was. I was 200 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: organizing birthday parties from the time I was maybe eight 201 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: years old, seven or eight years old. I was very 202 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:50,599 Speaker 1: good at organizing and entertaining. 203 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 2: Okay, it's fifteen though, you started modeling. How did that 204 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 2: come about? 205 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 1: Well, a neighbor across the street, this beautiful ballerina girl 206 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: across the street, and she said, you know, I make 207 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: a lot of money on weekends modeling. And she was 208 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 1: in ballet school at American Belly School in New York, 209 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:08,959 Speaker 1: and she said, why don't you come with me to 210 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: my agent. They'd like you. So I went on the 211 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: bus with her, the number thirteen bus, and we went 212 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: to Eileen Ford and I signed up with Eileen Ford 213 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: for a short, short stint. It was, you know, for me, 214 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: kind of frightening but fun. And then Barbara Stone saw me. 215 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: She was at Stuart Models, and she said, oh, you 216 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 1: must come here, and she and her partners liked me 217 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: a lot and got me really great jobs. And I 218 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: really paid for my way through college with the residuals 219 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: from all the commercials I did. So like at sixteen, 220 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: I was, oh, I did Tarrygent. I had to learn 221 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: how to puff. I've never smoked, but I learned how 222 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 1: to puff very sexy cigarette Tarrytan with the Black Eye. 223 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: And I did Life Voice soap. I was a married woman. 224 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: I was sixteen years old and I was a married 225 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: woman in the commercial. It was very and we photographed 226 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: it out at Perry Como's house in Shelter Island. Even 227 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: had a house out on Schulter Island or something that's 228 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 1: so they said it was his house. And I remember 229 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: these days so clearly because it really was kind of 230 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: an important step in my life because I learned how 231 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: to behave in front of a camera and I've been 232 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: doing that ever since that I don't feel self conscious, 233 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: I don't feel angst, nothing, nothing that people talk about. 234 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: It was kind of fun and I also learned, you know, 235 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: what angles and what looks good, what kind of smile, 236 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: all of that stuff. 237 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,679 Speaker 2: So you were you were doing a lot of this 238 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 2: modeling while you were at Nutley High School. Were the 239 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 2: other students jealous? Did that create any issue? 240 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think they were jealous. But they 241 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: all watched gun Smoke ause my commercials were running on 242 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: gun Smoke. And that was the number one program at 243 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: the time, and everybody would be glued on Tuesday nights 244 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: to gun smoke and they would laugh laugh at me 245 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 1: the next day at school. But like I was the 246 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 1: only girl in the in the trigonometry class, and I 247 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: would you know, it was It was an odd, odd 248 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,559 Speaker 1: time and I was just finding my way. I was 249 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: a good student, very good student. But I and I 250 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: loved my school. I love Notutley High School, and yeah, 251 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:13,839 Speaker 1: I just loved it. And I used to have the 252 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: whole football team come over for breakfast. You know. My 253 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: mother was very My mother was very kind to whoever 254 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: I brought home. We would bring the teachers home. My 255 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: parents were both teachers, so they appreciated us liking the teachers. 256 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 1: And my mother always said, the teacher is always right. 257 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: And I still feel that way, and I get so 258 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: depressed when I see how maligned so many teachers are 259 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: these days. 260 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 2: And my last guest on this stage also said that 261 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 2: your parents are always right. 262 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: I ask my daughter, Then. 263 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 2: You attended Barnard College of Columbia University and apparently turned 264 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 2: down a scholarship ten. 265 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: Yu, I did. I applied. I wanted to go to 266 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 1: Stamford in California. I had never been to California. I 267 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: had read about it, and I really wanted to go there. 268 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: And I applied and I got a scholarship. I don't 269 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: even remember now if I got accepted. I don't think 270 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:16,559 Speaker 1: I did really good. I don't think I really finished 271 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: the application. But I got a full scholarship at NYU 272 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: and a partial scholarship to Barnard. But I went up 273 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 1: and looked around Barnard and saw it's proximity to Colombia. 274 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:32,119 Speaker 1: It was such a nice place, and Barnard was very amenable, 275 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: and the president was so great, and so I went 276 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 1: there and I I major majored in history, economics, and 277 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: architectural history with a lot of miners. I mean, I 278 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: took as many courses as it could possibly take. 279 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 2: And at that stage studying those things, what was your 280 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 2: plan or dream that you thought you would do when 281 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 2: you graduate. 282 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 1: Well, early on, I didn't know. I was just so 283 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: interested in learning as much as I could about as 284 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: many subjects as I could, taking art classes with a 285 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: great professor, whichcover over. At Columbia, classes were totally open. 286 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: You could go to any class at Columbia and you 287 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: could go to graduate school classes. You could do anything. 288 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: And my favorite place to study was in the architecture 289 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 1: Library Avery. It was such a beautiful little library and 290 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: I studied there all the time. I don't I didn't 291 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: really think so much about what the career would be. 292 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: I started a toy with the idea of being an architect, 293 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: and because I'm always studying in this architecture library. 294 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 2: But to make money during college, you also models for Chanel. 295 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 1: I went to Paris that my agency sent me to 296 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: Paris for a stint, just a Stewart agency. Yeah, in 297 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 1: the summertime, and it was it was so odd because 298 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 1: I didn't know what to expect. I was studying French, 299 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: so I could speak a little bit of French. They 300 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: put me in the Rue de Journal in the Hotel 301 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: Scundena V. I still remember my room up on the 302 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 1: fifth floor and walk up and I had so much fun. 303 00:15:58,160 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 1: But I got in a line because like one of 304 00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: my dresses that I wore to a go see was wrinkled, 305 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: and they called New York and said she came in 306 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: a wrinkled dress. And I never did that again. But 307 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: I did model in some of the shows and I 308 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 1: had I had really fun, and they had parties every 309 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: single night, and then you would work after the parties 310 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: because all the collections were available only at nighttime because 311 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: they were on the runways during the day. So I 312 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: was doing the photography part. So you start to work 313 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: at two o'clock in the morning. It was it was weird. 314 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 2: So that was your first trip to Paris. Yes, memorable. Yes, 315 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 2: you were also on the cover of Glimbor magazine and 316 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 2: the ten Best Dressed in College issue in August nineteen 317 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 2: sixty one. 318 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that was a college I was dressing myself 319 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: in homemade fashion. Do you remember Shaney. No, it was 320 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: a it was a high fashion house right on like 321 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: fifty ninth Street off of Park Avenue. A friend's mother 322 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 1: who was pardon. 323 00:16:58,080 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 2: Bill Cunningham, worked with. 324 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: Oh she did, didn't know that. Oh, anyway, they would 325 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: buy patterns in Paris, so though they were buying Chanel 326 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: and Bent Valenciaga and different patterns lon Van and they 327 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: would bring the patterns home and then make and the 328 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 1: fabrics and they would make them for their clients here 329 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 1: in New York. And so I got the patterns and 330 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: so I would be cutting, you know, beautiful dresses. I 331 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:25,239 Speaker 1: still have a beautiful chanel jacket that I made in 332 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 1: my in my attic and my archive. And I still 333 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 1: have one of the beautiful dresses that I made from 334 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,119 Speaker 1: a Lonvan dress which hide with wist. It was very nice, 335 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: complicated and beautiful. 336 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 2: What did you remember what you wore on the cover 337 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 2: in the Glamour shoot? No, a hat? 338 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 1: I think I had a hat, something pinkish, h okay. 339 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: So also it's in the archive. 340 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 2: Her archive is where we all want to be, okay. 341 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 2: So while in college you also met Andrew Stewart. 342 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: Oh I did. First. Let me see, the middle of 343 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: the first year. His sister, who was a fashion icon 344 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 1: the time, married to Stanley Love, the children's dress manufacturers. 345 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 1: You remember Love dresses. They were always had the backpage 346 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: ad of the New York Times magazine and little cute 347 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: little girl's dresses. And she would be driven every day 348 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: to school in a Rolls Royce that had a cab 349 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: in the front for the driver, and she would sit 350 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: in the back and she was very like, very pitchy toitchy, 351 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 1: and I thought, God, this is she must be interesting. 352 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to have to talk to her. And she 353 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 1: was in a couple of my art classes, art history classes, 354 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 1: and she came up to me one day and said, 355 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 1: would I'd like to have a date with her brother, 356 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: who was at Yale Law School, And I said, yeah, sure. 357 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 1: She showed me a picture and he looked okay, and 358 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 1: I said sure, have him call me. And about three 359 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 1: months later he called and we had a first date 360 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 1: in New York, went to a restaurant like a Japanese 361 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: early Japanese restaurant, like on fifty sixth Street on the 362 00:18:55,359 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: East Side, and fell in love. And I I had 363 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 1: never really dated anybody, seriously, I had never slept with 364 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 1: anybody either, and we did all that, and it was 365 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 1: a lot of first and we got out of love 366 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 1: at first sight. And my father got very upset with 367 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 1: me for beinging, you know, saying I was going to 368 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 1: get married. We got married when I was nineteen nineteen, Yeah, nineteen. 369 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 2: So how many how long did you know him before 370 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: you got married? 371 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:25,400 Speaker 1: Not not even a year? 372 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 2: Not even a year? 373 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's the true. 374 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 2: You kept him waiting at the altar at Saint Paul's Well. 375 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 1: We had a lot of tribes coming from Nottley, New 376 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 1: Jersey to Saint Paul's travel and it took a little 377 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: longer than my father anticipated, and we had to find 378 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: a parking spot, you know, and whole thing. And we 379 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 1: had a very small wedding which I paid for with 380 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 1: my modeling earnings, even. 381 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 2: Though he's from this family. 382 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,120 Speaker 1: With bo yes, but you don't those days. The bride 383 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 1: paid for the wedding and the bride paid for the reception, 384 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 1: which was at the Barbary Room in the Berkshire Hotel. 385 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 1: And I had never I had never had a luncheon 386 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: and it was a lunch, and never had a fancy 387 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 1: lunch and any New York establishment. So I did all 388 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 1: the planning and they were very nice to us. 389 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 2: And what was your wedding dress? 390 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 1: A homemade My mom and I made it. It was 391 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 1: white Swiss embroidered organdy, a short, very bouffont skirt with 392 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: a tiny and my waist at that time I was 393 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:21,119 Speaker 1: nineteen and my waist was nineteen. I still have the dress. 394 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:24,919 Speaker 1: I can prove it. It fit me and a tiny 395 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: little buttons like thirty five little organdy, you know, covered 396 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 1: buttons down the back, very pretty big sleeves with little 397 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 1: tiny wrists, and a little pill box hat because at 398 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 1: that time pillboxes were big and I had my hair 399 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: and upd with a thousand hairpins. I hated that hairdresser 400 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: because then you had to take all the pins out 401 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: while you're on your owage to the honeymoon, you know, 402 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: and that was kind of painful. And where did your 403 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: honeymoon in Vermont? We drove a little yellow Mercedes Sedan. 404 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: I brought my husband's car up to Vermont and stayed 405 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:05,399 Speaker 1: in little inns or some places on the way. It 406 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 1: was nice. 407 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 2: He was scoping at property for later in life. Yeah, okay, 408 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 2: So nineteen sixty five it was an important year. You 409 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 2: gave birth to Alexis Stewart, Yes, who is now fifty 410 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 2: eight years old. 411 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, she just turned fifty eight, can you believe it? 412 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 1: And she has two of the most fabulous children, eleven 413 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: and twelve. 414 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 2: Jude and Truman. Yeah, are you close to them? 415 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,880 Speaker 1: Well, Jude just sent me an agenda for the weekend. 416 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,120 Speaker 1: This girl is twelve. She just started at a new school. 417 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 1: They were at Avenue School downtown, where they became fluent 418 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 1: in Mandarin. They're also fluent in Spanish and they are 419 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: she's a dancer at Alvin Ailey and he's a soccer player. 420 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 1: But she sent me an agenda. Could I please bring 421 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,400 Speaker 1: six friends? A five friends. They're going to be six 422 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 1: of them on Sunday morning, pick up at eight o'clock 423 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,360 Speaker 1: in the city. And then a list It's a page long, 424 00:21:56,440 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: this long list of pick apples, make apple cier, make 425 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: apple sauce, make apple pies and tarts to take home. 426 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:08,119 Speaker 1: And then there is horseback riding, two days, sandwiches, picnic outdoors, 427 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: sleeping in Woodland Cottage which has nobody's ever slept in 428 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: the Woodland Cottage. It's the most remote building on my property. 429 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 1: And they want to sleep out theres and it's very 430 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:18,639 Speaker 1: cute and we're going to take pictures. 431 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: But I wonder where she got that from. That was. 432 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: But you know, I had to set up the whole 433 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 1: cooking school that I mean, this was my Columbus Day weekend. 434 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: I used to go to Maine on Columbus Day and 435 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 1: take my friends. Now I'm entertaining apple six twelve year 436 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 1: olds and I haven't even met three of them. Three 437 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 1: of them I haven't met yet. And their mother's called 438 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,959 Speaker 1: to find out where they're going to be safe and 439 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: where they everything was going to be okay. 440 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 2: I think they know they'd be saying, but. 441 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 1: I don't know if they know who I am. I know, 442 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 1: you know, Judea is very they're very private, these kids. 443 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 2: Well, and your daughter has said in some print while 444 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 2: back that she grew up with a glue gun pointed 445 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 2: at her head. 446 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 1: I must tell you that she is an amazing designer. 447 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 1: She makes all of her jewelry, and she makes Jude's 448 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: jewelry now and so yeah, so what she learned how 449 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: to do. 450 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 2: And she's also said, which I find hard to believe, 451 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 2: that you hate Halloween and would turn off all the 452 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 2: lights so no one will come trick or treating. 453 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 1: Well, that was only when I was not happy, you know. 454 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 1: And you know, some Halloweens, I'm happy, and some Halloweens 455 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 1: I'm not happy. Just look online at Martha Stewart Halloween 456 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 1: costumes and you will see the most extraordinary lineup of 457 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: Halloween costumes. I have the best Halloween costumes of anybody 458 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 1: on earth. And so Alexis was not paying attention those years. 459 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 2: Okay, so this one, you're gonna have the lights on 460 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 2: this time? 461 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah. The horses just went out. I had 462 00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: these michonized horses that we sold in Grandon Road. They're 463 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: large skeletons of beautiful horses, and they light up and 464 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:09,719 Speaker 1: they neigh. They make evil and the driveway and so 465 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,200 Speaker 1: they're already out in the driveway. They got put up today. 466 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,199 Speaker 1: The pumpkins have arrived from the garden and from the 467 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 1: pumpkin farm, and they're all out there now, and then 468 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 1: other things will be happening. 469 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:32,679 Speaker 2: It's Octoberfest at Martha's World. Okay, So then we go 470 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 2: to sixty seven seventy two. You began your career on 471 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 2: Wall Street. How did you get your start there? 472 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 1: I decided after school that I did want a career 473 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 1: in Wall Street, and I sort of got interested in investing, 474 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,919 Speaker 1: bought some stocks through my father in law, and started 475 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 1: to learn about American companies, and I thought this would 476 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 1: be an interesting an interesting place to go. I interviewed 477 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: Merrill Lynch, I interviewed Parker red Path, something that's a 478 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: class Parker and red Path. They were too snotty. And 479 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: then I interviewed a little firm called Pearlberg Moness and 480 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 1: these go go guys, I mean they were the wild guys. 481 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: That was if you saw Wall Street the movie, this 482 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: was Wall Street times ten, and that appealed to me. 483 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 1: I just really I really liked that atmosphere because they 484 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: were making a lot of money and they were investing 485 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: in very avant garde companies like McDonald's. Can you imagine McDonald's. 486 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,239 Speaker 1: They were early early investors in McDonald's, which has been 487 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: one of the best investments ever. And they were investing 488 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 1: in something called Electronic Data Systems EDS. They gave me 489 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 1: some really difficult clients. They gave me the Rockefeller Brothers Fund. 490 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 1: They were really hard. I had to go to Rockefeller 491 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 1: Center and pitch them stocks. They gave me Fidelity in Boston. 492 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: I had to take the plane up to Boston and 493 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 1: I one day I my husband said to me and 494 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 1: I said where were you all day? And I said, well, 495 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 1: I had to fly up to Boston. I took this 496 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 1: funny little man, he's like right out of the Army, 497 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 1: Ross Parrot to sell electronic data systems to Fidelity and 498 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 1: Ross Parrot, I mean he ran for president. Remember he 499 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: invited him and not on the right party, but he 500 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,679 Speaker 1: invited me to his to his acceptance speech when he 501 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 1: was running. And I had so much fun with him. 502 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: He was really interesting and that company was really interesting. 503 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 2: Are there many other women there at the time I was. 504 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 1: There was one other woman called Donna. She was tough. 505 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: She got bitten by a shark and then she stopped 506 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 1: working a real shark, a shark literally, yeah, yeah, real shark. 507 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 1: And and these guys were collecting all right, Barbara Nessen's 508 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: were hanging on the wall, and Robert mother Wells. I mean, 509 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,239 Speaker 1: this was a wild place, just like the movie. And 510 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 1: the education that I got was so good. 511 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, ask you what stayed with you from that? What 512 00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 2: did you learn? What was the most important thing you 513 00:26:59,040 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 2: learned from that? 514 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 1: Was good research? Yes, I learned a lot about research 515 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,360 Speaker 1: from Frank Williams, who is still working and still doing stuff, 516 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 1: and he's just amazing. How important really researching companies like 517 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: researching Tesla. Okay, you have to research these companies before 518 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: you really take a stand on them. And Apple and Microsoft, 519 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,119 Speaker 1: and you can also have a boyfriend who worked at Microsoft. 520 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: That was a good one. That was the good boyfriend. 521 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: And I learned a lot about software, and I learned 522 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 1: about a lot about Microsoft and about what they do 523 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 1: and how they do it. 524 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 2: Were you able to buy those stocks? 525 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, bought everything you know. 526 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,160 Speaker 2: That was a good job. Then Okay, tell us about 527 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,400 Speaker 2: moving to Turkey Hill Road in Westport, Connecticut and restoring 528 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,160 Speaker 2: eighteen oh five house. Was that your first major renovation project. 529 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 1: Well, we had a little cottage in the Berkshires first, 530 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,439 Speaker 1: and we learned how to do plumbing and carpentry. I 531 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: was a bad carpenter. I was an even worst plumber. 532 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 1: But I was very good painter, and very good decorator, 533 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 1: and very good at at finishing things. And you would 534 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 1: not have liked my kitchen cabinet so much, but I 535 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: did build the entire cabinet cabinet, all the cabinets in 536 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: the kitchen. And this was like a playhouse in the 537 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:19,680 Speaker 1: middle of nowhere in Middlefield, Massachusetts, right down the road 538 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 1: from Glendale Falls. Some friends down the street had a 539 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 1: TV and we watched our moon landing. That was so exciting, 540 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: and it was. It was a fantastic time, and it 541 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: was a very nice upbringing for my daughter. She loved 542 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 1: it there and she became a horse of Ventor and 543 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: she it was. It was all very nice. But then 544 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: then Westport, then we bought Westport, Andy, and I we 545 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 1: shouldn't have gone that far out. I mean, it was 546 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: it was a long commute but actually he was working 547 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 1: in Greenwich and I was working in New York, so 548 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,239 Speaker 1: the onus was on me to go all the way 549 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: to New York every day. So it was kind of hard. 550 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 1: But I loved my house. It was an eighteen oh 551 00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 1: five farmhouse, Federal farmhouse. It was complete wreck when we 552 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: bought it on Cheo acres. We bought the next chee acres, 553 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 1: and then we bought another shoe acres, and so I 554 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: was on six acres, which I transformed into a very 555 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 1: beautiful garden, which is still extremely beautiful. The new owners, 556 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,240 Speaker 1: the people I sold it to you about twenty years ago, 557 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 1: have taken amazing good care of the place. 558 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 2: Was it at this house that I read that you 559 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 2: reportedly had very risk and nude pool parties. 560 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: I don't know where that comes from. I never had 561 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 1: a nude pool party ever. I think people swam in 562 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 1: the nude, but it was not a party. 563 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 2: Much better. I'll be sure to fix that. 564 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:41,520 Speaker 1: I want to know where that comes from. 565 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,959 Speaker 2: Oh okay, So then was it in that basement In 566 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 2: nineteen seventy six, you and a model friend, Norma Collier, 567 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,280 Speaker 2: started a catering business. 568 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, norm mccaire, who was also one of the 569 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,479 Speaker 1: ten best dress college girls the year before I was 570 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: and Norm M. Collier was a very sort of stiff 571 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: woman with two kids and a German husband, and she 572 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: was very, very strict, And she and I became partners 573 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: in the Uncatered Affair. That was the name of our 574 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 1: catering business. She lasted less than a year, and she 575 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 1: was a good cook, but she did not want to 576 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 1: work hard like that. That was hard work. 577 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 2: Do you said Julia Child was a huge influence. Did 578 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 2: you really cook every recipe in her two volumes? 579 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: I absolutely did, mastering the artifle. And I should have 580 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 1: been in that movie. 581 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 2: You should. 582 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: That movie should have happened. Then I would have been 583 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 1: a much better Julia. Julie Julie. I'm not Julia. I 584 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,719 Speaker 1: would have been Julie Meryl Streep. I could have been 585 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 1: the student, but I was too old by then. 586 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 2: Also, with your catering business in nineteen seventy seven, you 587 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 2: were hired to see the opening party have a gorgeous 588 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 2: news store in New York called Abitare on fifty seventh 589 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 2: Street between third and second. Do you remember that. 590 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: Oh? 591 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 2: Yes, I was doing the pr at the time. 592 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 1: Oh you were a time I met you my party. Nice. 593 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 2: I'll tell you a party was beautiful. That It's the 594 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 2: first time we ever saw tables of cruditay that were 595 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 2: not just strips of carrots and celery. Everything was in 596 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 2: you know, there was our chips, cabbages and everything was 597 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 2: inside the ridicio heads and the cabbage heads. It was gorgeous. 598 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 2: But you made everybody in the stort crazy. Why because 599 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 2: you tried to move everything around and you you were 600 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 2: like making them all nuts. And I remember saying my friends, 601 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 2: she's never gonna make it in New York. So much 602 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 2: for my prediction. 603 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 1: But I did the big party in the armory for 604 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 1: the Folk Kurt Museum antique show. That was one of 605 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 1: the funnest parties because I brought in cages of chickens, 606 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: live chickens that were growing, and bales of hay. This 607 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 1: is before the fire department got smart, and and that 608 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 1: was that was such a beautiful party and people are 609 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 1: people still talk about that because it was unusual. Absolutely, 610 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 1: and now it's not so unusual to see live chickens 611 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: walking around in cages and stuff, you know, like cows. 612 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: Cows are at parties now. 613 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay. Then Andrew became the president of Harry Abrams 614 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 2: Publishing and he hired you catering company do a big 615 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 2: book release for a title that was a very very 616 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 2: successful book, The Secret Book of Nums. 617 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: Yes, but the first one was Fairies. The party. That 618 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 1: party was Fairies, and it was by Rune Portfleet of Dutch, 619 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 1: author and illustrator, and we did the Fairies party, and 620 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 1: that's where I met That's where I met everybody in publishing. 621 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 1: I met Alan Murkin, who was running Crown Publishers at 622 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: the time, and what a lovely, lovely man he was, 623 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 1: and he was walking around looking I had girls dresses Fairies. 624 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,720 Speaker 1: We had it at the US Customs House, which is 625 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 1: one of the great landmark buildings here in New York, 626 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 1: way down in the Financial District, and I had every 627 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 1: All the girls had wings and they had little gossamer 628 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 1: dresses and serving. We cooked omelets on those little stoves 629 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 1: all night long. The late party guests we're invited to 630 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 1: come like at ten o'clock at night and stay until 631 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 1: two or three. My mother in law decided to do 632 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: the code check and she forgot to give numbers and 633 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: just a little, just a little glitch in the evening 634 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 1: because nobody could get their coats. It was so horror horrorfic. 635 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: But I remember that was the only bad thing about 636 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 1: that party. But it was such a beautiful, beautiful party. 637 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 1: And mister Murk and Allan invited me to come and 638 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 1: talk to them about doing a book. And that was 639 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 1: your first big book, And that was my book, Entertaining. 640 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,400 Speaker 2: How many of you have that book? 641 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 1: I can't see anybody. It was really a story book. 642 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 1: It was a picture book, and it was a recipe book. 643 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 1: And I worked on it with a woman called Elizabeth 644 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: Hawes who was married to a crazy guy called Davis Weinstock. 645 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 2: And your next books were done under the Clarkson Potter. 646 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's cool, that's Crown. Yeah. Clarkson Potter is an 647 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 1: imprint of Crown Publishers. And I've been with them ever 648 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 1: since nineteen eighty two, so that's over forty years. 649 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 2: And that was the same time that a good friend 650 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 2: of mine who you knew well, Lee Bailey, was doing 651 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:08,360 Speaker 2: cookbook Oh love. Those were the first real cookbooks with photographs. 652 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 2: Oh yes, the food before that, you never saw pictures 653 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:11,760 Speaker 2: of the food exactly. 654 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 1: And Claires and Potter at first when they saw that 655 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 1: Entertaining and the volume of pictures and texts. They said, well, 656 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: how about black and white? I said, absolutely not. It 657 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: has to be a full color book. It has to 658 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,240 Speaker 1: be a beautiful book in addition to being a useful book. 659 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 1: And so that's been the whole that's my modus operandi 660 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 1: in for books. It has to be beautiful, it has 661 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,719 Speaker 1: to be useful, it has to be practical, and you 662 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: have to be able to read it, and you have 663 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 1: to be able to read it. So we're on the 664 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 1: hundredth now. 665 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,800 Speaker 2: Well, the books followed Martha Stewart, Quick Cook, Martha Stewart 666 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 2: or durvs Martha Stewart, Pies and Tarts, Weddings, The Wedding Planner, 667 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 2: Martha's Do Secrets for Entertaining, Quick Quick cook Menus, Martha's 668 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,800 Speaker 2: Steward Christmas. And now it's up to one hundred books. 669 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,839 Speaker 2: That's pretty Yeah, it's very exciting. One hundred book, come on. 670 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 2: And that was followed by endless articles in magazine's newspapers, 671 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,319 Speaker 2: TV appearances on Oprah and Larry King. Any of those 672 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 2: experiences stand out to you as well. 673 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 1: I still have my first interview on Oprah when she 674 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 1: was in Baltimore. It was it was so interesting. It's 675 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,359 Speaker 1: so interesting to look at that interview with Oprah then 676 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 1: and then and see Oprah now. It's it's incredible. And 677 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 1: the same thing with Rosie O'Donnell was early interviews with 678 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:35,279 Speaker 1: Rosie and being on her show the whole My life 679 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 1: has really spanned so many decades that and so many 680 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 1: interesting things happened in each of those decades, in terms 681 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:46,320 Speaker 1: of media, in terms of fashion, in terms of just lifestyle, 682 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 1: evolution of lifestyle. It's been a very interesting, interesting life. 683 00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 2: That's why you're here tonight, thank you. Oh but then 684 00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,400 Speaker 2: it kind of that time your marriage was over. You 685 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,280 Speaker 2: separated during the wedding book tour. 686 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 1: Now take that and that was so cruel. Ugh, it 687 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,839 Speaker 1: was so cruel having to talk about weddings when you're 688 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,839 Speaker 1: in the middle of a like a not a very 689 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:14,640 Speaker 1: nice divorce. 690 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 2: Well that was after twenty six years together. And you 691 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 2: were quoted in CNN saying and in twenty seventeen quote, 692 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,840 Speaker 2: I had to sacrifice a marriage because of the lore 693 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,919 Speaker 2: of the great job, the fabulous workplace. But I don't 694 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 2: regret it at all, because what I've done is something 695 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:35,280 Speaker 2: bigger and better than just one marriage who was nice. 696 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 1: I must have that's okay, and have to remember to 697 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 1: look for that one up. 698 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 2: I'd be a little embroidered on a pillow. I also 699 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,880 Speaker 2: read that you dated Sir Anthony Hopkins for a while 700 00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,399 Speaker 2: but broke up because you couldn't stop thinking of him 701 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:53,359 Speaker 2: as a Hannibal lecter. 702 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 1: Well, that's true too, because I was introduced to him 703 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 1: by Tom Cruise when he was still married to Nicole. 704 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,799 Speaker 1: And they took me out to Tom Cruise. That's no, 705 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 1: that was nice. They took me out to dinner with 706 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 1: Anthony and Sir Hopkins and out in California, and then 707 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,400 Speaker 1: he took me back to his house. It was a 708 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,880 Speaker 1: nice house, it wasn't great, and and I was staying 709 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 1: at the Beverly Hills Hotel and and I said I 710 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:23,880 Speaker 1: had to go back to the hotel because I had 711 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,320 Speaker 1: to work the next morning. And then he said, please, 712 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: you know, come back to come back tomorrow night. And 713 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 1: he was very nice, very very nice. But then I 714 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,319 Speaker 1: was trying to think if I could possibly invite him 715 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 1: up to Maine, because I have this large home in Maine, 716 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 1: and I just couldn't think of having him stay on this, 717 00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 1: like the second floor, because it's too close to Hannibal. 718 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 1: I mean, really, he's a very good actor. How stupid 719 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 1: he was. He's a very interesting man. I'm stupid. 720 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 2: Other famous manudated famous. 721 00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 1: The man who invented word in excel for Microsoft. He 722 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 1: was number thirteen employee at Microsoft. He's a geek. He's 723 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,840 Speaker 1: his t shirts read eminence geek. And so I should 724 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 1: have taken that as a but that was fifteen years. 725 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 1: I duted him for fifteen years. And and he you know, 726 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,880 Speaker 1: he had the he had the boat, he at the plane, 727 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 1: he had the helicopters, he had you know, all that 728 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 1: stuff that was a transportation. And then he had the 729 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 1: transport and and but I actually really was I was 730 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 1: really very kind, as you put in anything. You know. 731 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: I was a nice, nice person, and I thought he 732 00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 1: should have kids, and I was I was too old 733 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,400 Speaker 1: to have kids at that point. And I, you know, 734 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,280 Speaker 1: I kept encouraging him, you know, have some babies someplace, 735 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 1: you know. Because so then he he married somebody like 736 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,040 Speaker 1: twenty five years younger than he, of course, and she 737 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:51,759 Speaker 1: got all the planes and the boats and all of 738 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:55,720 Speaker 1: that stuff, and the babies and the babies. 739 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,240 Speaker 2: Okay. In nineteen ninety you signed with Time Publishing ventures 740 00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,640 Speaker 2: to develop a new magazine called Martha Stewart Living that 741 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,400 Speaker 2: started with a base circulation of three hundred and fifty thousand, 742 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 2: and it peaked years later at over two million copies 743 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,840 Speaker 2: per issue. Tell us about that magazine, which I loved 744 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 2: very much. 745 00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 1: Well, it passes fortieth anniversary, which I was very proud of. 746 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:22,280 Speaker 1: The magazine was presented first as a book series of books. 747 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 1: To Clarkson Potter, I said, you know, I'd like to 748 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 1: write about all other subjects, not just food. And I 749 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,879 Speaker 1: had done food and gardening and weddings, and I thought 750 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,400 Speaker 1: that there are many other categories of lifestyle that I 751 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 1: could really write about, including collecting, including entertaining, including decorating, 752 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: including just special special life events. And they said, ah, 753 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 1: you know, we'll just do books. We're planning to do 754 00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,600 Speaker 1: books and all those subjects we don't want you just 755 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 1: to do. I called them the beautiful how to books. 756 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 1: So then I thought, ah, well, the format that would 757 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 1: really work for all of this would be a magazine. 758 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: And at the time, in nineteen eighty nine, magazines were 759 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:07,839 Speaker 1: not doing so well. They were several magazines I think 760 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,319 Speaker 1: for every new magazine, three were closing. And because of 761 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 1: the advertising at that comment at that time. But I 762 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 1: went to sign neuhause he gave me he liked the 763 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 1: idea and he liked the name living, and he gave 764 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 1: me the money to build a prototype. And I worked 765 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,320 Speaker 1: with jug Turshian and several other really talented people to 766 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,359 Speaker 1: create this beautiful, beautiful prototype magazine. And then when SI 767 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,400 Speaker 1: saw it, and we became friends during the process, so 768 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 1: I saw it, he said, oh, well, what do you 769 00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 1: want to call it? And I said, well, Martha's Stewart Living. 770 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 1: And he said, well, this is Condy Nast Martha, and 771 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,200 Speaker 1: it has to be Condy Nest Living. And I said, 772 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 1: if that's a deal breaker, can I have the prototype? 773 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 1: And he gave me the prototype, and I went to 774 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:58,800 Speaker 1: another very powerful, lovely man. I went to succession to Rupert, 775 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:04,160 Speaker 1: and I first met with his lawyers. I was in 776 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:08,080 Speaker 1: a room way up high in some building and they're 777 00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 1: all very they're waiting for Rupert to show up, and 778 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,680 Speaker 1: they're all chatting away and being friendly, and they had 779 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 1: sort of thumbed through the prototype and Rupert came in. 780 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 1: They all changed totally. I mean, it was just it 781 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:25,760 Speaker 1: really was like the show. Rupert changed the whole room 782 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:28,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, he really had it at that especially 783 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 1: at that time, this is nineteen eighty nine. He was 784 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 1: fantastic and he said he looked at it and said, 785 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,680 Speaker 1: I would really like to do this, but I'm selling 786 00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: my magazines. I'm you know, seventeen, I just sold and 787 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:41,959 Speaker 1: I'm selling this and I'm selling that. And he said, 788 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,279 Speaker 1: I suggest you take this to Time. So he gave 789 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 1: me at least a lead to Time, and so I 790 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,680 Speaker 1: went to Time and met with the CEO and the 791 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 1: president of Time Magazines and we had lunch at Caravillan 792 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 1: restaurant and the guys looked through the prototype at lunch 793 00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,080 Speaker 1: and they said, yeah, this is the July issue. What 794 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:01,520 Speaker 1: are you going to do next to wy It looks 795 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 1: like you covered it. And I said, well, you don't 796 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:07,320 Speaker 1: get it. It's living is limitless. This is a subject 797 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 1: matter that can go on for years and years and years. 798 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,439 Speaker 1: And they finally bought it, and they but they did. 799 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:15,600 Speaker 1: I said, if you don't like it after a while, 800 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 1: you know, here's a piece of paper, what's the price 801 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,279 Speaker 1: for me to get it back? Because it's a fifty 802 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 1: to fifty kind of partnership. And they wrote down a 803 00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 1: kind of an astronomical sum at the time, but it 804 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: turned out to be a bargain after the few years 805 00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,479 Speaker 1: I was there, and I bought it back. 806 00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,120 Speaker 2: And how soon after that did Martha Stewart Living become 807 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:34,800 Speaker 2: a TV show? 808 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,759 Speaker 1: Oh? Pretty soon, right after. I believed in a word 809 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 1: called synergy. At first time thought that was a dirty word, 810 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 1: and I thought, you know, time, you're get with it. 811 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:48,279 Speaker 1: You know, TV does not cannibalize the magazine. People who 812 00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,880 Speaker 1: watch TV don't necessarily buy the magazine, but if they 813 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,040 Speaker 1: get hooked on the TV show, they'll buy the magazine. 814 00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,400 Speaker 1: And we had a big arguments about synergy, and the 815 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 1: synergy went on, and I mean these arguments went on. 816 00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,840 Speaker 1: It was real kind of boring after a while. But 817 00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 1: I got a TV show. At first it was a 818 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:08,239 Speaker 1: weekly once once a week show on CBS. Then it 819 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 1: went to daily and and that was fantastic in retrospect. 820 00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:18,120 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be doing a daily magazine if I were myself, 821 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:21,480 Speaker 1: if I were still being editor in chief and creator 822 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,440 Speaker 1: of the magazine itself, because you take on you know, 823 00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:29,160 Speaker 1: you just can't balance it all. It's very hard. And 824 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 1: even though I had a fabulous editor in chief as 825 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 1: old A Motley who stayed and worked for time. After 826 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:37,400 Speaker 1: a while, I was always doing too much, but uh, 827 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,279 Speaker 1: but it was great. And then the TV show became 828 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 1: very successful the and I and I liked doing it 829 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 1: because I got such great guests on the show. Everybody 830 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,359 Speaker 1: wanted to be a guest. I mean, Russell Crowe came on, 831 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:53,280 Speaker 1: you know, what the heck you know? And uh and 832 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,719 Speaker 1: and all in late night hosts came on because they 833 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:57,080 Speaker 1: loved the show. Everybody did. 834 00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:00,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. And when did you start? When did did you 835 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 2: meet and start working with you? Long time publicist Susan mcgrino. 836 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:07,280 Speaker 1: Oh, about forty years ago, a little bit more. Susan 837 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,440 Speaker 1: was maybe an associate editor, but she was doing pr 838 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,919 Speaker 1: and marketing at Clarkson Potter. So that's where we met. 839 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 1: I remember encouraging her. She would go on all the 840 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,640 Speaker 1: book trips with me. I mean we went we went 841 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,920 Speaker 1: to all over the country and we had so much fun. 842 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,440 Speaker 1: When we went down in Mississippi, we stopped in to 843 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 1: visit on John Grisham and we stopped in we had 844 00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,919 Speaker 1: Dome perignyome for breakfast with him. And then we would 845 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 1: drive around and rented Cadillacs and we had so much 846 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 1: fun and we still have fun. She went to Paris 847 00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:39,000 Speaker 1: with me this past weekend. 848 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:51,239 Speaker 2: Just came back trip to Pramez. Yeah, you did mention 849 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,680 Speaker 2: the late night talk shows. I mean you've been on Letterman, 850 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 2: Fallon seth Meyer, all of those. Often is the one 851 00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 2: that's your favorite? 852 00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,840 Speaker 1: Oh no, it's like my children. You can never say that, 853 00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 1: they're all so different. I did like messing up David 854 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 1: Letterman's suit. I was able. They let me pour stuff 855 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,279 Speaker 1: on his suit and they said, nobody's ever been able 856 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 1: to do that before. And he didn't hit me. 857 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:16,080 Speaker 2: And then a couple of years later, you were working 858 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 2: with Sharon Patrick and managed to purchase all your television, 859 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 2: print and merchandise and ventures related to this, Martha Stewart 860 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 2: Brand consolidated into a new company which you became chairman, chairwoman, 861 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 2: CEO and president of Martha Stewart on the Media. 862 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 1: Arthur Stewart Living on the Media. 863 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 2: How did that change everything? 864 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:37,840 Speaker 1: Wow? It was great and the contracts were wonderful. We 865 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:42,520 Speaker 1: got kmart to approve a contract that allowed us to 866 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 1: license all the products that we were developing. My theory 867 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,839 Speaker 1: was that if you read the magazine and you get 868 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 1: all these fantastic ideas everything every I mean, if you 869 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,880 Speaker 1: see a yellow towel in our magazine, you want that towel, 870 00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 1: but you can't make the towel, but you could by 871 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 1: the towel. So that's how the merchandising started. So omnimedia 872 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:05,840 Speaker 1: meant in the center. It was the it was like 873 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 1: a solar system. My business plan was beautiful, it was 874 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 1: it was the solar system. Middle was content. The first 875 00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 1: little orbit orbit was omnim media. So that was the 876 00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 1: magazines and the books. Then it was omni merchandising the 877 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,880 Speaker 1: products that emanated from all that content. Then it was 878 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,759 Speaker 1: omni Internet because the Internet was just starting. I mean 879 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 1: Google is just twenty five years old and my magazine's 880 00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,040 Speaker 1: forty years old. But in nineteen eighty two I bought 881 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 1: my first computer, so I knew that computers were going 882 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:41,160 Speaker 1: to be something special. And it's it's all panned out and. 883 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 2: Then you went. Then you went public on the New 884 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,759 Speaker 2: York Stock Exchange October nineteen ninety nine, twenty three years ago. 885 00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:47,600 Speaker 2: What was that day like? 886 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 1: Well, I remember serving croissant and nice drinks to all 887 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:59,160 Speaker 1: the traders on the floor, and the company went public 888 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:03,320 Speaker 1: with great eight enthusiasm, and the stock went from eighty 889 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,439 Speaker 1: eighteen dollars a share opening price to about thirty seven 890 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,759 Speaker 1: dollars a year, so we became instant billionaires. 891 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,400 Speaker 2: You were the first female self made billionaire in the 892 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 2: US BEFO. 893 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I remember. But the funnest thing was I 894 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,440 Speaker 1: remember driving up Madison Avenue and saying, Oh, Josh, I 895 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:27,800 Speaker 1: could stop anywhere and buy anything today. It was so excited. 896 00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,359 Speaker 1: That was exciting. And then I went home and my mom. 897 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,239 Speaker 1: My mom had sold all her stock and she was 898 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,640 Speaker 1: a She was a millionaire at the end of the day. 899 00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 1: She was smart. She sold the stock on the first day, 900 00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 1: but unbeknownst to me, we didn't put it. We didn't 901 00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,120 Speaker 1: put a stop gap on her. She was just she 902 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:46,480 Speaker 1: was very smart. 903 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 2: But then what happened a couple of years later, You 904 00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:49,800 Speaker 2: got a tip from your broker. 905 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,879 Speaker 1: No, I didn't get a tip, and it was all 906 00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,640 Speaker 1: that is old old newsman, and I ran into a 907 00:47:56,680 --> 00:48:02,920 Speaker 1: financial problem and I was accused of lying about and 908 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:06,080 Speaker 1: lying about a crime I didn't commit. So it's kind 909 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 1: of convoluted. You're going to have to wait for my documentary, 910 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 1: which is coming out next year, to learn the real story, 911 00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:18,480 Speaker 1: and I'm not talking about it. And it was at 912 00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:20,200 Speaker 1: the wrong time. I was in the wrong time at 913 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:23,239 Speaker 1: the wrong place. Look what's going on in the newspapers 914 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:30,640 Speaker 1: two day Supreme Court Justice Menendez terms, all. 915 00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:33,480 Speaker 2: Right, so you're not going to tell us about five 916 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 2: months in a prison in West. 917 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:36,799 Speaker 1: Oh the five months are It's fine. They were. It 918 00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 1: was like going to camp. It was called it was 919 00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,520 Speaker 1: called Camp Alderson. We nicknamed it Camp Olderson. It was 920 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:48,320 Speaker 1: on the grounds of a all girls private school, like 921 00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,960 Speaker 1: a like a junior college in West Virginia, on a 922 00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 1: river polluted by the coal mines. And and it was 923 00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,160 Speaker 1: kind of interesting. I was in a dormitory. I had 924 00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:00,000 Speaker 1: a roommate. She had the top funk. I had the 925 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 1: bottom bunk, and she slept with giant curlers in her 926 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,000 Speaker 1: hair every night. And and you were not You were 927 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,800 Speaker 1: allowed three books a week. That's all. You were allowed 928 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,719 Speaker 1: three books from the library. And I managed to get 929 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,719 Speaker 1: more books. There were like things to do at night 930 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,840 Speaker 1: after after dinner. You there was craft classes. There was 931 00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,000 Speaker 1: a writing class. There was an entrepreneurial class. 932 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 2: All these classes. 933 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:27,440 Speaker 1: No, no, I actually taught entrepreneurial behavior and that. And 934 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,040 Speaker 1: when I got I asked for business plans. Oh gosh, 935 00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:34,279 Speaker 1: there were some crazy plants, very interesting, and I helped. 936 00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,080 Speaker 1: I helped a lot of women there, and I made 937 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 1: some nice friends, Sister Carol Gilbert. She was a Catholic 938 00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 1: nun who had been convicted of trespassing on government property 939 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,799 Speaker 1: on a nuclear warhead site out in Colorado. She was 940 00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:54,759 Speaker 1: there for like fifteen years. Horrible, horrible misjustice and injustice 941 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,360 Speaker 1: I learned. I learned a lot about the American penal 942 00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,040 Speaker 1: system and how stupid it is. 943 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:03,000 Speaker 2: But do you remember a visit you had when you 944 00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:06,040 Speaker 2: were there from the designer Ralph Rucci, who's here tonight. 945 00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:08,280 Speaker 2: He managed to smuggle in some frockaf. 946 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:15,920 Speaker 1: The smuggling stuff worked sort of. I mean, thanks Ralph. 947 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:20,320 Speaker 1: We love Ralph, we love him. But I had nice visitors. 948 00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 1: Nathan Mervel from Microsoft came down in his private plane 949 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,439 Speaker 1: just to see me and talk. Gil Butler came down 950 00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,920 Speaker 1: from New York to talk about my foundation and what 951 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:34,759 Speaker 1: I should do. I mean, amazing visits. Andy Monest, my 952 00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,120 Speaker 1: old stockbroker boss. He came down on the wrong day 953 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:39,840 Speaker 1: and had to go back. They wouldn't let him see me. 954 00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 1: And you know, stuff like that. Stupid stuff. I got 955 00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:47,480 Speaker 1: put into solitary, which was like a whole way with 956 00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 1: a bench in it for a day because they found 957 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 1: a hard boiled egg in my room. I made apple 958 00:50:56,280 --> 00:51:00,400 Speaker 1: jelly from the crab apples growing outside our dormitory, and 959 00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:01,840 Speaker 1: and that was okay. They didn't mind that. 960 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,040 Speaker 2: They didn't invite you into the kitchen to cook anything. 961 00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,920 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, you wouldn't want to be in that kitchen. 962 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:13,000 Speaker 1: You know, twelve month old eggs and stuff's crazy. But 963 00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,920 Speaker 1: I had a friend, Audium, who's was there for not 964 00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:21,759 Speaker 1: telling stories on her boyfriend, and her mother is from Eritrea, 965 00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:24,440 Speaker 1: and she would bring those that soft, beautiful bread, you know, 966 00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:28,439 Speaker 1: the Ethiopian bread stuffed in her bra because it didn't 967 00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,120 Speaker 1: show up on the X rays. And we would eat 968 00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:33,319 Speaker 1: that delicious Ungia bread. Oh so good. 969 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:37,399 Speaker 2: Okay, So that really didn't change a lot in your life, 970 00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,719 Speaker 2: because when you came out, they would deals with kmarts, 971 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 2: years more shows. We're on the Hallmark Channel. You acted 972 00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:46,799 Speaker 2: in Law and Order SVU. You're an ugly betty and 973 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:50,840 Speaker 2: then you serious exam. You did flooring and furniture collections, wines, 974 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:52,080 Speaker 2: frozen food with Costco. 975 00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:58,160 Speaker 1: No, it was okay, and because I think people realized 976 00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:04,520 Speaker 1: the enormous of injustice and crazy stuff going on. 977 00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 2: How many different lines do you have or have you had? Licenses? 978 00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:12,319 Speaker 1: Quite a few. I especially love doing the doing the 979 00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:16,000 Speaker 1: home goods, the kitchen wears. We have some beautiful kitchen wears. 980 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,120 Speaker 1: We just started our own Martha store on Amazon, which 981 00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:22,720 Speaker 1: is growing nicely. I was doing a very nice fashion 982 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 1: line talking about fashion icons on QVC, which did very well. 983 00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:30,560 Speaker 1: I mean, they loved my embroidered jeans. I had peacocks 984 00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:34,160 Speaker 1: on them because of my peacocks and poppy flowers because 985 00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:36,439 Speaker 1: I grow a lot of poppies. We did very nice, 986 00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:40,600 Speaker 1: very nice clothing for QVC, well fitted and well made. 987 00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:44,800 Speaker 1: My downpuffer vest is very popular still. We're now making 988 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,479 Speaker 1: it in leather, which everybody loves. Pleather, not real leather, 989 00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:49,319 Speaker 1: vegan leather. 990 00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:51,120 Speaker 2: And all of this is online. 991 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:53,400 Speaker 1: A lot of it's online. I'm doing a line of 992 00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:57,799 Speaker 1: sketches which are extremely popular. Commercials are running, yeah, they're 993 00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,000 Speaker 1: running all the time. And I'm actually really having some 994 00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:06,840 Speaker 1: influence on the designs and on the actual fabrication. And 995 00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 1: they're very nice, very nice comfortable shoes. Even my male 996 00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:11,080 Speaker 1: friends are wearing them. 997 00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:14,880 Speaker 2: And you got your friend, which we'll talk about. Snoop 998 00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:16,480 Speaker 2: Dogg tell us about that. 999 00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:22,000 Speaker 1: Really, Snoop and I became friends on my program. He 1000 00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:28,240 Speaker 1: came to talk about brownies and different recipes a long 1001 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:31,080 Speaker 1: long time ago. And then we were asked. We were 1002 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:33,920 Speaker 1: both asked to be on the Justin Bieber Roast and 1003 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,520 Speaker 1: Snoop and I sat next to each other and rebonded, 1004 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,919 Speaker 1: and somebody saw our behavior on that roast and asked 1005 00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:42,440 Speaker 1: us if we would do a show. We did the 1006 00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,360 Speaker 1: Martha and Snoop Pop Luck Dinner Party show, which was 1007 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:50,480 Speaker 1: very fun. I got to meet every rapper, every performer 1008 00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 1: that I had never dreamed of meeting and talking to 1009 00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:56,640 Speaker 1: on that show. We had a great time, and I 1010 00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,359 Speaker 1: brought I brought unusual foods. I mean I brought mister 1011 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:02,600 Speaker 1: chow on and Snoop had to eat stuff that he 1012 00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:06,400 Speaker 1: had never tasted before. He now has two successful cookbooks 1013 00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,759 Speaker 1: because of me, Yeah, because of me. And he also 1014 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:11,560 Speaker 1: has a line of sketchers. 1015 00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:12,960 Speaker 2: And he has a new holiday show coming up. 1016 00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,560 Speaker 1: Oh he's He's doing a lot of good stuff and 1017 00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,040 Speaker 1: has a movie coming out to which I cannot wait for. 1018 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:20,560 Speaker 2: And I also read which I'm very excited about you 1019 00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:23,759 Speaker 2: creating a healthy cat and dog food line cooperation with 1020 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:24,640 Speaker 2: Chewy Does. Yes. 1021 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:29,480 Speaker 1: Oh, that's just hitting the stores and my dogs love it. 1022 00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:34,080 Speaker 1: My cat is a little fussy, but but she she's 1023 00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:38,800 Speaker 1: she's she'll like it when she when she gets nothing 1024 00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:48,080 Speaker 1: else eat everyst tang has everything. She's the greatest. How 1025 00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:51,200 Speaker 1: many animals do you have, Oh, several hundred, because I have. 1026 00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:55,560 Speaker 1: I have five horses, five donkeys. Five. I ride the 1027 00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,879 Speaker 1: horses and the girls are riding on Sunday and Monday. 1028 00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,719 Speaker 1: We have peacocks. We have all kinds of We have 1029 00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,920 Speaker 1: the United Nations of geese. We have German geese, we 1030 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,680 Speaker 1: have Chinese geese, we have Italian geese, we have French geese, 1031 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:14,120 Speaker 1: the ones with the big livers. And we have American geese. 1032 00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:17,960 Speaker 1: And they're beautiful and they're they're all living happily on 1033 00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:18,560 Speaker 1: the property. 1034 00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:23,959 Speaker 2: Okay, let's go to Sports Illustrated May twenty three cover 1035 00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:30,120 Speaker 2: how did that opportunity come to you and were you 1036 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,959 Speaker 2: at all hesitant that being photographed in a bathing suit 1037 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:33,600 Speaker 2: at your age? 1038 00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,799 Speaker 1: Well? I have My body's pretty good, and you know, 1039 00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:42,440 Speaker 1: I work out. I got the call in November. Susan mcgreen. Now, 1040 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's Susan's called me first and 1041 00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:46,400 Speaker 1: warned me that they were going to call. Somebody called me, 1042 00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:50,840 Speaker 1: and so I was waiting for Mjday, who's this fabulous editor. 1043 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,600 Speaker 1: She's been the editor of the Sports Illustrated magazine for 1044 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:57,640 Speaker 1: quite a while. Young, beautiful and blonde. And she said, 1045 00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:01,800 Speaker 1: you know, we'd like you to pose for the swimsuit issue, 1046 00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,239 Speaker 1: and you want to do that. I mean, for heaven's sake, 1047 00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:07,640 Speaker 1: to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated at eighty 1048 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:11,000 Speaker 1: two years old in a bathing suit. And I didn't 1049 00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:14,120 Speaker 1: know I had nine pages to do and nine different 1050 00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,800 Speaker 1: bathing suits. So we get we they she said this, 1051 00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,759 Speaker 1: in two months, we're going to go down to to 1052 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:23,120 Speaker 1: Cosa de Compo in the Dominican Republic. And it was 1053 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:24,920 Speaker 1: it was fun. I got there on a Thursday night, 1054 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,440 Speaker 1: I think it was Wednesday night. Had to try on 1055 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,040 Speaker 1: I don't know how many bathing suits, and you know, 1056 00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,200 Speaker 1: you have to sort of like I had had. I 1057 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:36,439 Speaker 1: had been waxed, I had been sprays hand, I had 1058 00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:40,040 Speaker 1: been quaffed and bleached in the whole the whole thing. 1059 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,399 Speaker 1: I think I even had my face waxed. I mean 1060 00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:45,520 Speaker 1: all kinds of straight. You do all these things, and 1061 00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,160 Speaker 1: I don't spend a lot of time on that. I 1062 00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:49,560 Speaker 1: have to have makeup for TV every day, but I 1063 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,319 Speaker 1: don't spend a lot of time doing the other stuff. 1064 00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:53,120 Speaker 1: But I do go. I did go to plates. I 1065 00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:56,480 Speaker 1: discovered pilates, and I went at least three times a week, 1066 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,280 Speaker 1: sometimes four times a week to pilates, and then continued 1067 00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:02,239 Speaker 1: to horseback ride and my regular trainer. So I got 1068 00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:04,680 Speaker 1: in good shape and it shows in the pictures. 1069 00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,160 Speaker 2: It totally does truth. 1070 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,879 Speaker 1: And you and you, and it's and it's kind of fun, 1071 00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,960 Speaker 1: I mean, being poked and prodd. And they called them girls. 1072 00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,439 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, for Heaven's sake, you know, let's 1073 00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:19,840 Speaker 1: push your girls this way or that. I mean, they 1074 00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:22,120 Speaker 1: have a whole different language and a bathing suit. Shoot. 1075 00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:24,920 Speaker 2: So is Playboy next? 1076 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:26,280 Speaker 1: Never? 1077 00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 2: Okay? We want we won't wait for that? Or what 1078 00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:33,040 Speaker 2: about the new TV show on the Bachelor is the 1079 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 2: Golden Bachelor? You can be the Golden Bachelorette? 1080 00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:37,200 Speaker 1: No, no, no interest? 1081 00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:40,160 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we talked about They. 1082 00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 1: Asked me to be dancing in the stars. That kind 1083 00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:44,560 Speaker 1: of appealed to me, but I had had to spend 1084 00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:47,560 Speaker 1: too much time out west and so I have the business. 1085 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,680 Speaker 1: I can't spend that time out in the West Coast. 1086 00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,840 Speaker 2: A good friend of mine, which is whos usually always 1087 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:54,720 Speaker 2: hear what is out to myight, Jeffrey Banks posted a 1088 00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:58,240 Speaker 2: picture of Kevin McCarthy as on Dancing with the Stars. 1089 00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:02,000 Speaker 1: So that's way way. I was at a dinner and 1090 00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:05,200 Speaker 1: this handsome man was sitting two seats for me until 1091 00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:11,080 Speaker 1: I realized who it was. It was Kevin McCarthy. 1092 00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:13,440 Speaker 2: Is it true that your shoe size is twelve? 1093 00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:14,400 Speaker 1: Excuse me? 1094 00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:18,320 Speaker 2: Your shoe size is a ten ten. Somebody told me 1095 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:23,040 Speaker 2: you size twelve twelve? And do you really have someone 1096 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,520 Speaker 2: paint the red bottoms of the Lubaton shoes by. 1097 00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:30,480 Speaker 1: Painted with a black sharpie pen because I don't want 1098 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,760 Speaker 1: red heels on the I'm red soles on my shoes 1099 00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:33,600 Speaker 1: like everybody else. 1100 00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:36,040 Speaker 2: Good for you, okay. 1101 00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,000 Speaker 1: He accosted me about that. He was not happy he 1102 00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:40,040 Speaker 1: was on this stage of me. 1103 00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:45,240 Speaker 2: He was, okay, okay, And you're doing a new ford 1104 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:49,480 Speaker 2: a line of comfortable gardening clothes with Tractor Supply Company. 1105 00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:51,280 Speaker 2: I think that sounds fantastic. 1106 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,000 Speaker 1: Very fun. See, because that what do I wear every day. 1107 00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,840 Speaker 1: I wear that stuff in the garden. I have a big, 1108 00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:59,760 Speaker 1: big garden, and I and a big property, and I 1109 00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:01,800 Speaker 1: have to wear comfortable clothes and I still have to 1110 00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:04,120 Speaker 1: look nice. I remember my daughter when she was at 1111 00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:08,160 Speaker 1: greens Farms Academy. She came home one day and she said, mother, 1112 00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 1: can I ask you to do one thing? And I said, 1113 00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,920 Speaker 1: what she said, do not wear your apron to the 1114 00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:16,000 Speaker 1: grocery store. Because somebody said and told her that they 1115 00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 1: had seen me in an apron. So you have to 1116 00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,280 Speaker 1: look nice when you go to the grocery store. And 1117 00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,320 Speaker 1: I want all women to feel comfortable and work well 1118 00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,200 Speaker 1: and still have you know, have some style. 1119 00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:28,920 Speaker 2: That's great. What's your favorite item that you have with 1120 00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:30,280 Speaker 2: your name on it? 1121 00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:34,520 Speaker 1: Very my square ladle, square ladle. It wasn't that weird. 1122 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:38,320 Speaker 1: It's a ladle. You know, Usually ladle's a round or 1123 00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 1: oval or you know, but this is a square one 1124 00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:43,600 Speaker 1: with a handle on one side. So it's like when 1125 00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,920 Speaker 1: you're filling jilly jars you pour out a corner. Yes, 1126 00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:51,800 Speaker 1: and so that's one of my very favorite tools. The 1127 00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:55,640 Speaker 1: weirdest and the weirdest thing I my name on it. Kevin, 1128 00:59:56,720 --> 01:00:01,480 Speaker 1: what a dibber. You need a dibber. My gibber is 1129 01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:05,880 Speaker 1: a pointed tool that you pushed down into the ground 1130 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:10,000 Speaker 1: to plant bulbs or little plants, and that's called a jibber. 1131 01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,240 Speaker 2: I'm going to go to some audience questions, but then 1132 01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 2: I have two more things to ask you. A question 1133 01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,080 Speaker 2: from a Ukrainian woman to a Polish woman. Do you 1134 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:21,800 Speaker 2: prefer your Perrogi's boiled, a fried? 1135 01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:26,960 Speaker 1: Oh, boiled, always boiled first and then next day warmed 1136 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:28,000 Speaker 1: and brown butter. 1137 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,800 Speaker 2: Nice? Okay. What was your most memorable wardrobe malfunction? 1138 01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,959 Speaker 1: Hmm oh. I went to a dinner at the White 1139 01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:41,120 Speaker 1: House and for some stupid reason, I wore a beautiful 1140 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:45,320 Speaker 1: suit by the way Ralph Lauren pink silk chantung suit, 1141 01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:49,360 Speaker 1: but it had culots and I got kind of a 1142 01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:51,760 Speaker 1: line for wearing coolots to the White House formal dinner. 1143 01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 2: What is the best gift you have ever received? 1144 01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:00,360 Speaker 1: Best gift was the birth of my child, and the 1145 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,240 Speaker 1: second best were the two grandchildren. 1146 01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:05,640 Speaker 2: Great. What advice do you have for any aspiring entrepreneurs 1147 01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:07,040 Speaker 2: watching or listening to you tonight? 1148 01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:12,880 Speaker 1: If you have a good idea and you have a 1149 01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:16,600 Speaker 1: passion for that idea, take it to the next level. 1150 01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:22,760 Speaker 1: Build a business plan, be serious, know that the work 1151 01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:25,400 Speaker 1: is all ahead of you, that business plans easy compared 1152 01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:29,080 Speaker 1: to what comes afterward. And go for it. I think 1153 01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,560 Speaker 1: going for it is like the best thing that you 1154 01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:33,000 Speaker 1: could possibly ever do. 1155 01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:35,720 Speaker 2: I'd like to end tonight's talk with something that you 1156 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,240 Speaker 2: said to Booth Moore from Women's With Daily and a 1157 01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:40,840 Speaker 2: talk during the Magic Show in Vegas, And this is 1158 01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:45,080 Speaker 2: a quote from you. You must really assume an authentic personality. 1159 01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:47,520 Speaker 2: You must be authentic to yourself and to the public. 1160 01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:50,360 Speaker 2: You must learn every day so that you can teach 1161 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:53,680 Speaker 2: every day. I am a teacher. I don't think of 1162 01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:57,160 Speaker 2: reinvention as much as I think of evolution. I want 1163 01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,800 Speaker 2: to evolve and evolve and get better and not stay 1164 01:01:59,800 --> 01:02:00,280 Speaker 2: the same. 1165 01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:02,360 Speaker 1: And that's the truth. 1166 01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:03,240 Speaker 2: That's the truth. 1167 01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 1: That is the truth. 1168 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:08,080 Speaker 2: And tonight we had a masterclass from the best teacher 1169 01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,200 Speaker 2: in the world. Thank you, thank you. 1170 01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:14,200 Speaker 1: That is so nice.