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Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is crazy for you. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I don't love it. I don't love

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Speaker 1: that the family is doing that. Calm Down with Erin

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Speaker 1: and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. Welcome everybody to

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Speaker 1: the pregame. We're glad you're here. We're going to jump

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Speaker 1: right into it because we have a lot of questions,

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Speaker 1: and we also hope that you had a wonderful holiday

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Speaker 1: and the holidays keep rolling because I love that week

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Speaker 1: between Christmas and New Year's and you like can be

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Speaker 1: lazy even if we're working. We get it, but you

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Speaker 1: can still be in your pajamas and not feel like

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Speaker 1: you have to do anything all the stuff, all right,

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Speaker 1: Aaron shaking your heads because she's saying she can't. Okay,

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Speaker 1: see Lawrence, I can't either. I'm in Cleveland, but you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. We get it New Year's Eve

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Speaker 1: out or in on New Year's Eve. I just hope

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Speaker 1: I make it home in time. I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: on a plane coming from our game, and I hope

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Speaker 1: I land to see my fam. Jam what about you,

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Speaker 1: I am the same thing. I guess I'm in studio,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, probably lay low our season always you know,

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Speaker 1: centers around Christmas and news things like that. But that's okay.

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Speaker 1: Usually I am though if it some years it falls

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Speaker 1: where it's not on like the same day or around

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Speaker 1: the time, then I'm into it. I love throwing on

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Speaker 1: a dress and I love a New Year's resolution. I

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Speaker 1: love being able to, like, you know, reset my intentions

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Speaker 1: and all things like that. So yeah, I'm in on it.

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Speaker 1: It just depends I'm throwing a little sparkly none of

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Speaker 1: it PMC Christian Airplane middle seat protocol. Who gets the

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Speaker 1: arm rust? This is a great question. You don't get both, Okay,

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Speaker 1: you gotta pick. You're either going right, and that's because

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Speaker 1: the outside aisle has the other one. You go left.

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Speaker 1: It's because the window has the other side. You don't

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Speaker 1: get both. The second you're going like this, I'm knocking

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Speaker 1: you off. And I got no problem with that. And

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Speaker 1: I don't care if you go like that and give

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Speaker 1: me a dirty look. You don't get both. I was

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Speaker 1: on a flight today where I had a middle seater

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Speaker 1: next to me. It's fine, here's my issue. You know

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Speaker 1: your role, know your spatial awareness. I don't care how tired.

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Speaker 1: I don't care that the flight was at five point

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Speaker 1: thirty in the morning, because it was I don't need

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Speaker 1: you taking both armrest then moving your hair, scratching your

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Speaker 1: head competitively over on my side, doing the big yawn

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Speaker 1: where your morning breath is right in my face. I

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Speaker 1: also don't need you going back and forth. Also, you

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Speaker 1: falling asleep over on my side with your mouth open.

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Speaker 1: I don't need any of that shit. Lock it up.

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Speaker 1: It was only a forty five to fifty minute flight.

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Speaker 1: You're not going to fall asleep because we're all squishing

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Speaker 1: there and everybody has juicy coughs. Stop it. Stop scratching

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Speaker 1: your head and whatever's falling out of it on me.

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Speaker 1: Just get it. Come on, we're all miserable growths. Dog

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Speaker 1: farking nextor okay, laala Rea thoughts on dry clean only

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Speaker 1: or hand washed clothes. I'm gonna tell you, Lalaia, there

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Speaker 1: was a time in my life where I would specifically

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Speaker 1: bag that didn't have to be dry clean because I

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Speaker 1: didn't want to pay the bill. I get it now. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: it seems like that's all I buy, not because I'm

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Speaker 1: so rich, but because I just happened to choose clothes

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Speaker 1: that have a certain material that need to be dry clean. Oh,

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Speaker 1: and then there's times where those there's people using these

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Speaker 1: clothes dup end up in the washer or dryer and

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Speaker 1: I see them hanging and I think to myself, the

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Speaker 1: silk frickin' shirt that was way too much money because

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Speaker 1: I did splurge on it ended up in the washers.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know. I mean, here's the thing. I

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Speaker 1: don't ever hand wash anything, la la, but I'm maybe

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Speaker 1: I should start, and the dry cleaning bill is excessive. However,

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Speaker 1: I will say this, I used to think it was

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Speaker 1: ridiculous when someone would spend one hundred dollars on a

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Speaker 1: would you ever? I remember all specifically at this James

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Speaker 1: Purse T shirt. I was like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: Now I spend one hundred dollars on a white T

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I have so many thoughts on this,

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Speaker 1: because then there are some things that I will buy

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Speaker 1: that are cheap. I'll buy the Csara jeans that are cheap.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just all over the place. I

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Speaker 1: didn't answer your question, but the point is is read

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Speaker 1: the tag. It was strike clan only set into the

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Speaker 1: drag cleaner. If not, then don't let anyone else do

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Speaker 1: your laundry. You know exactly exactly. I love this. Ryan

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Speaker 1: has done this in a couple of our pregames, some

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Speaker 1: follow up to some questions that we've asked, So Anonymous,

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Speaker 1: we love you. Anonymous just wrote in I listened to

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Speaker 1: the pregame episode and the piece on following xes on

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Speaker 1: social media. Ooh so good. I have a major situation.

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Speaker 1: My fiance's family is still friends with his ax on

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Speaker 1: social media. His dad in particular likes comments and still

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Speaker 1: wishes his ex happy birthday as well as comments all

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Speaker 1: over her mom's Facebook. Meanwhile, he won't even let this

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Speaker 1: is a lot. He won't even I like my posts

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Speaker 1: about being engaged to his son. What's the deal here?

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Speaker 1: And ain't good? I'm definitely being petty and agreed they

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Speaker 1: shouldn't still entertain the friendship on social media. Also, my

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Speaker 1: fiance does not have social media, so he does not

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Speaker 1: see any of this stuff. I see. This is a

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Speaker 1: whole episode. This is great. Can you come on and

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Speaker 1: will black you out and change your voices like when

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Speaker 1: we do it all the line that I watch. I

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Speaker 1: swear to God, there's so much to unpack here. And

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Speaker 1: I know Christmas is over, but this is a real

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Speaker 1: gift because a your fiance not having a social media

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Speaker 1: I think is fantastic. I've only did one person without

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Speaker 1: social media. It was so liberating. He didn't see anything

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Speaker 1: I did. He didn't see if I'd like something. I've

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Speaker 1: also dated another guy or even been married to someone

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Speaker 1: that checked. The second I liked something, it was a disaster,

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Speaker 1: like a god loser. And then there's the other side

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Speaker 1: where it's like, now we're keeping track of the father

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Speaker 1: liking the photos. Now we're refreshing to see Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is crazy for you. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: I don't love it. I don't love that the family

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Speaker 1: is doing this. They're doing it on purpose. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say this, just wait and see what

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Speaker 1: I don't think this should cost you your marriage and

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Speaker 1: be like, I'm not gonna you know, I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: you're saying that, but I feel like your role will

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Speaker 1: change change. I can speak once you get married. I do.

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Speaker 1: I just have a little faith in that. And then

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Speaker 1: if it doesn't, they can't come over ever or so

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Speaker 1: your great their grandkids. You're done. This is great. This

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Speaker 1: is great. And Anonymous, if you wouldn't mind just dming

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Speaker 1: us your exact name, because I want to do a

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Speaker 1: deep dive on your father in law and the ex

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Speaker 1: girlfriend and figure out why he's still liking any of

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Speaker 1: her stuff. And we'll get to the bottom of this.

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Speaker 1: You know those memes that they have where it's like,

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Speaker 1: give me his name and give me ten minutes. I'll

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Speaker 1: figure out everything. I will help you. Anonymous, don't worry.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of time on my hands. This

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Speaker 1: is I'm not going to be appreciate party, so I've

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Speaker 1: got time. Any of these follow ups any of you

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Speaker 1: guys have. This is phenomenal. I'm into it. Okay, bye,

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Speaker 1: No we gotta say this, but ye, I love you.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy our Best of twenty twenty three with some of

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Speaker 1: our favorite interviews and moments and guys, let's have a

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Speaker 1: hell of a happy new Year. I'm ready and be safe.

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