Speaker 1: Hey, navy girl, a long time listener, I had like
Speaker 1: a two carter question. So right now I am twenty
Speaker 1: five and I am a virgeon. I know, and I
Speaker 1: will can change the show, but I think I want
Speaker 1: to change it for you any hits now and all
Speaker 1: film because I am twenty five young.
Speaker 2: Admit I kind of want to know where this niggas at.
Speaker 2: How to get shipped out of fly out.
Speaker 1: I know that you're in additional space now of loving
Speaker 1: and companionships and wanting niggas to take off the trash,
Speaker 1: But how do I do that thing that you were
Speaker 1: having and you were twenty five, like the fly outs
Speaker 1: the middle of page, because right now a bro is
Speaker 1: working and I'm not really trying to that hard.
Speaker 2: All right, thank you so much, And yeah you go
Speaker 2: in horrible y'all.
Speaker 3: Now this is this is crazy. By the way, it's
Speaker 3: fine that virgins listen to us. We talk a lot
Speaker 3: more than just sex. And it's entertainment, you.
Speaker 2: Know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Like I watch movies, you know where niggas is jumping
Speaker 3: out of planes and ain't never jumped out of a plane.
Speaker 2: If I like, it's fine, this is entertainment.
Speaker 3: Okay, So two part question, and I'm gonna break it
Speaker 3: into two parts, because first off, I want to talk
Speaker 3: to you about being twenty five and being a virgin.
Speaker 3: You said you want to change being a virgin. That's
Speaker 3: the first part. I think the word intentional is going
Speaker 3: to be used here as well. However, I want to
Speaker 3: just tell you and and ladies listen and please let
Speaker 3: me know in the comments.
Speaker 2: If I'm being too harsh.
Speaker 3: I don't think there's a right or perfect way to
Speaker 3: lose your virginity.
Speaker 2: It could be with a longtime boyfriend, but then maybe
Speaker 2: y'all break up. It could be with a long.
Speaker 3: Standing crush like my first was my grade school crush,
Speaker 3: and I was bright in his hair and then he
Speaker 3: ended up getting inside of me while my mama was
Speaker 3: at why crazy. I don't think there's a perfect way
Speaker 3: to lose it. However, I think as a woman with
Speaker 3: the choice and knowing as much as we know now,
Speaker 3: with consent and all those things, I would just say,
Speaker 3: when you are ready to make it the most damn
Speaker 3: that word intentional, bitch. I'm about to look up at
Speaker 3: the source for another word intentional, but I think it
Speaker 3: needs to be discussed with the person.
Speaker 2: I think that you need.
Speaker 3: To make sure that they are aware that this is
Speaker 3: your first time, and hopefully they're loving and caring and
Speaker 3: show you that grace that is I think oftentimes stripped
Speaker 3: from women in giving up their virginity to a man.
Speaker 3: And don't feel the pressure. I mean, I know you
Speaker 3: listen to the show. I know you hear Hella. People
Speaker 3: having fun and sex is amazing. Girl.
Speaker 2: The first couple years of sexy, I was just figured
Speaker 2: it out.
Speaker 3: I don't know, if I look back, I wasn't having
Speaker 3: great sex. So just know it is going to take
Speaker 3: you a while to learn yourself, your body, what you like,
Speaker 3: what you don't like, being comfortable, being secure, not worrying
Speaker 3: about if one titty.
Speaker 2: Is over here and the other is down there, or.
Speaker 3: How you how how your role may look to them,
Speaker 3: or I'm not gonna lie. There's so many things that
Speaker 3: aren't discussed about giving your body and yourself to someone
Speaker 3: else in the moment that it's It's just gonna take
Speaker 3: some time. So, like I said, I would say, be
Speaker 3: intentional and make sure the person that you give this
Speaker 3: part of you too is not only deserving, but is
Speaker 3: aware that this is what this moment.
Speaker 2: Is and hopefully they're a partner.
Speaker 3: I don't believe you are in a relationship because if
Speaker 3: the second part of this question, now the second part
Speaker 3: of this question. So this was my hardest chapter two
Speaker 3: write in our book. This is the part of the
Speaker 3: podcast that I have the most shame. This is the
Speaker 3: topic of discussion that took Wheezy and I close to
Speaker 3: a year to even agree on this book for because
Speaker 3: she felt that it would be contradictory to the brand
Speaker 3: of horrible.
Speaker 2: Decisions to have shame.
Speaker 3: And I was like, no, bro, I'm in therapy and
Speaker 3: I'm realizing this.
Speaker 2: This is tough for me.
Speaker 3: Like I was out hell fucking for the five hondo,
Speaker 3: for a stack, for a pair of genus, for the
Speaker 3: cost of a tomahawk statement like and I knowing now
Speaker 3: my my self worth my value, and like that, I
Speaker 3: am upset a bit at this letter asking from a
Speaker 3: virgin not only how to lose their virginity, but in
Speaker 3: the same breath, how to be a prostitute. And that's
Speaker 3: essentially what this is. That's essentially what I was doing.
Speaker 3: I was involving myself in a form of sex work
Speaker 3: by using my body as a form of currency.
Speaker 2: In exchange for flights in exchange for money, in.
Speaker 3: Exchange for moments, and in becoming someone of a value
Speaker 3: who's busted her ass to do and be able to
Speaker 3: live how she wants.
Speaker 2: To know that I have purchased a pair of genes.
Speaker 4: That is hanging in my closet that I ain't even
Speaker 4: worn yet because that money meant nothing, and to know
Speaker 4: that that was the price tag on my pussy at
Speaker 4: one point is crazy.
Speaker 3: This I've reworked. I don't think you guys realize that.
Speaker 3: In this book coming up, I have a chapter on
Speaker 3: sexual assault, on abortion, on my ex on.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of deep.
Speaker 3: Trauma that I put into this book, and this topic.
Speaker 2: Brought the most tears.
Speaker 3: Was the very last chapter for me to write, because
Speaker 3: as I would go and start writing it, I would
Speaker 3: feel shamed, like I was full of shame. I'm still
Speaker 3: currently working past what my twenties was and what sex
Speaker 3: was for me and what that relationship with men entailed,
Speaker 3: And so at thirty three, I'm not going to advise
Speaker 3: any woman to be out here.
Speaker 2: Selling couchie if they don't have to. Like I was.
Speaker 2: I was.
Speaker 3: It was survival sex for me, and I definitely spoke
Speaker 3: about it. On this podcast, like it was lavish, Like bitch,
Speaker 3: if my nigga ain't.
Speaker 2: Dropping no bag, he ain't.
Speaker 3: But really, Mitch, I had bills to bay, and between
Speaker 3: all the jobs I was working and my fucking Sally
Speaker 3: May loans and financial aid, I was making it.
Speaker 2: And I use.
Speaker 3: That as a form to just fucking make it and
Speaker 3: looking back at it now and having a different view
Speaker 3: on what money is or what that comma looks like,
Speaker 3: or the difference between a thousand and ten thousand and
Speaker 3: ten thousand and fifty thousand and like I've made in
Speaker 3: one weekend what back in my twenties took me a
Speaker 3: year to make working forty hour weeks, and so like
Speaker 3: just my mind has changed on what that looks like.
Speaker 2: My mind on sex has changed.
Speaker 3: My mind on intimacy and the importance of affection and
Speaker 3: connection with a person has changed. And so this is
Speaker 3: actually where we have tons of sex workers come on
Speaker 3: the podcast and talk about their journey. My only advice
Speaker 3: for you would be to listen back to those episodes.
Speaker 3: I am not in a place where I condone a
Speaker 3: woman doing it just to pay bills and blown out.
Speaker 3: Get you a man with money who values you, who
Speaker 3: wants you to see the world. That's what I would say,
Speaker 3: be intentional with maybe the caliber of men that you
Speaker 3: choose to date or who pursues you, and in doing so,
Speaker 3: let them know you're seeking affection, you're seeking love, You're
Speaker 3: seeking someone who cares for you and you'd love to
Speaker 3: see the world. I think a man that loves and
Speaker 3: values you or really fucks with you wants to make
Speaker 3: you happy. So if the things you want are assistance
Speaker 3: with bills or to go to an island you've never
Speaker 3: been to, the way to do that is to vocalize
Speaker 3: that in a healthy relationship, in a setting with a
Speaker 3: man that wants nothing.
Speaker 2: To do but to put a smile on your face.
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Speaker 5: If you would like to have us answer your questions.
Speaker 1: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend or
Speaker 1: a terrible throatful guess what You've got decisions.
Speaker 3: You've got decisions, baby. Hey, guys, welcome to another you
Speaker 3: got decisions on a motherfucking hump day.
Speaker 5: And actually, let me look, this is the hump day.
Speaker 2: Right before Krema.
Speaker 3: So Marry Christmas Eve, Happy Hanukah, Happy Kwanza, Happy be
Speaker 3: Holidays to the Whorehive and everybody else tuned in hope
Speaker 3: that you guys are enjoying your holidays, enjoying your family
Speaker 3: and baby, enjoying your time off.
Speaker 2: If you have it off. If you want to.
Speaker 3: See what I'm doing, I am currently ocean side and
Speaker 3: curous out because that's what you get when you don't.
Speaker 2: Got the kids.
Speaker 3: Okay, it is the end of the year, and we
Speaker 3: are so grateful that you guys have rocked with us
Speaker 3: and enjoyed all of our new content, our name change,
Speaker 3: our rebrand, our New York Times bestselling book this year.
Speaker 3: And it has been a fucking roller coaster in twenty
Speaker 3: twenty five. And so what I wanted to make sure
Speaker 3: I brought to you this week for the you Got
Speaker 3: Decisions is some chaos, some drama, a reminder that even
Speaker 3: though it's the end of the year, y'all are going
Speaker 3: going into the new year still with.
Speaker 2: Some bullshit on some bullshit and not really knowing how
Speaker 2: to navigate it.
Speaker 3: I think it's funny because this is normally the time
Speaker 3: of year where you be like, new Year next week,
Speaker 3: knew me. No, girl, you can't change it that quick, No, sire,
Speaker 3: you still gonna be the fuck nigga you've been in
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. Although we hope that you guys want
Speaker 3: better for yourselves now, Weezy is not doing this with
Speaker 3: me today because maybe our schedules. I was just like,
Speaker 3: let me get this out, and this one specifically, I
Speaker 3: felt like, you know, it's talking about developing a crush
Speaker 3: for a married man, and well, I've been getting dragged
Speaker 3: all week for being honest about my stint of dealing
Speaker 3: with married men, and so I was like, fuck it,
Speaker 3: let me answer this shit while these niggas in my
Speaker 3: motherfucking comments saying all the bullshit that they can about me.
Speaker 3: By the way, if you want to listen to me
Speaker 3: talk about that recently and why I will no longer
Speaker 3: deal with a married man, go check out my interview
Speaker 3: on Love and Fly Shit podcast. Anyways, really excited to
Speaker 3: get into this letter this week. Hopefully again you guys
Speaker 3: are joining enjoying your time off or if you're at
Speaker 3: the office, Here we go constantly giving you pul says
Speaker 3: holds some content.
Speaker 2: Now here we go.
Speaker 3: By the way, we received this message just last week,
Speaker 3: so this is.
Speaker 2: A new dilemma.
Speaker 3: The subject line reads, I'm developing a crush on a
Speaker 3: married man. But hear me out, longtime listener and patron
Speaker 3: living in fos seven Choppa City. Brah blah brah, love
Speaker 3: y'all down. Okay, So I recently met this guy on
Speaker 3: a store run. He was super handsome, had an accent, six'
Speaker 3: three and a beautiful. Smile he asked me for my
Speaker 3: number AND i said. Yes we started talking regularly. Instantly
Speaker 3: it was as if SOMEONE i knew for a, while
Speaker 3: even though we just. Met we went on a couple
Speaker 3: of dates and On thanksgiving night we fucked and it was,
Speaker 3: amazing like, freaky, nasty, spanking spitting dirty talk all over my, body,
Speaker 3: kisses choked me WHILE i was giving head a personal,
Speaker 3: frave and he ate my pussy off the bone hashtag.
Speaker 3: Tenderism so after that we run it back the next day,
Speaker 3: too but after that next day he tells me has
Speaker 3: something to tell.
Speaker 2: Me my stomach drops and he said he's.
Speaker 3: Married, like damn, Nigga Now i'm already hooked on the.
Speaker 3: Dick he, explained when he moved To america from The,
Speaker 3: bahamas he got in some legal, troubles so to avoid,
Speaker 3: deportation he got. Married, Okay i'm gonna have to look
Speaker 3: this up on CHAT, gpt but here me out because
Speaker 3: deported to The.
Speaker 2: Bahamas, Okay i'm gonna. Okay he, said.
Speaker 3: They both do their quote unquote own thing and they
Speaker 3: don't have. Sex, however he kind of loved it at.
Speaker 3: That now my immediate reaction, was what the? FUCK i
Speaker 3: don't know HOW i feel about being a side.
Speaker 2: Chick but after.
Speaker 3: Talking to my, homegirl she was, like, Girl caribbean niggas
Speaker 3: have green cards marriages all the, time especially here In.
Speaker 5: Florida not gonna, Lie she rationalized it enough for.
Speaker 3: Me we still, fuck but he never spends the, night
Speaker 3: WHICH i want him, to especially after being. Intimate we
Speaker 3: go out in public a, lot and he's publicly affectionate towards,
Speaker 3: me but still having this nagging. Suspicion he's left some
Speaker 3: pieces of this story out and Now i'm starting to
Speaker 3: like this man a little bit more than just.
Speaker 2: SEX i know it won't be anything.
Speaker 3: Serious i've already accepted that AND i don't want that.
Speaker 3: Either but SHOULD i just cut this off or play
Speaker 3: my role and? Compartmentalize oh, baby we got some things
Speaker 3: to break down. Here first, Off i'm going to my
Speaker 3: husband going to check spinning a couple purified water droplets
Speaker 3: on researching. This do you need a green card if
Speaker 3: you're from The? Bahamas and can you be deported back
Speaker 3: to The? Bahamas, Now i'm only asking this because The
Speaker 3: bahamas IS i believe it's An american, Territory like you
Speaker 3: can get to The bahamas without a passport to my,
Speaker 3: knowledge and SO i want to check. That but before
Speaker 3: while it looks that, up let's get into your other.
Speaker 3: DILEMMA i do feel like you're lying to, yourself first,
Speaker 3: off and let's get into. That hold, On i'm going
Speaker 3: to ask my other check because one on my computer
Speaker 3: run is.
Speaker 2: Slow because it's.
Speaker 3: Also interesting light NIGGA youa, yeah we'll, see.
Speaker 2: Okay so let's get into WHERE i feel like you
Speaker 2: are lying to.
Speaker 3: Yourself first, off you have expressed how you are liking
Speaker 3: him more than. Sex you literally admit that to, me
Speaker 3: but then in the very next sentence, SAY i know
Speaker 3: it won't be anything. Serious, however leading up to what
Speaker 3: your friend said and what you're agreeing to is that
Speaker 3: it's possible that he's not really in a marriage where
Speaker 3: he is emotionally bounded to this, wife and so technically
Speaker 3: it could be something serious as long as you don't
Speaker 3: mind him legally being married to someone else only for
Speaker 3: a quote unquote. Card you're also saying that you don't
Speaker 3: want anything.
Speaker 5: More, however you like him more than. Sex make it makes?
Speaker 3: Sense the math ain't, mathing AND i feel like you're
Speaker 3: trying to make something like fit in your brain to
Speaker 3: just continue seeing this.
Speaker 5: Person Now here we, go and, girl the internet is your.
Speaker 3: Friend when a nigga tell you something and you just
Speaker 3: feel like you're missing some, things, girl get your ass
Speaker 3: on the. Internet here's the thing you. Ready you do
Speaker 3: not need A us green card if you Have bahamian immigration.
Speaker 2: Status? Okay?
Speaker 3: Interesting apparently it, says hold, on do you need a
Speaker 3: green card for The?
Speaker 2: Bahamas But i'll here we? Go can you be? DEPORTED
Speaker 2: i THINK i asked this question.
Speaker 3: Wrong can you live in the us as a behave
Speaker 3: mean citizen and can you be deported because this is
Speaker 3: like if you, TRAVELING i just want to See, Okay,
Speaker 3: okay okay, Girl, okay, okay he might Be, okay it's.
Speaker 2: True it's.
Speaker 3: True A bahamian citizen does need a green, card and
Speaker 3: of course you become a permanent resident with the green
Speaker 3: card through family, sponsorship, employment, marriage or certain other. Categories, okay,
Speaker 3: okay so, bitch, listen y'all know geography is not my strongest.
Speaker 2: Suit, okay so very.
Speaker 3: True here's my, thing here's my, thing and here's where
Speaker 3: you have to make it make. Sense this man said
Speaker 3: that he doesn't have sex with his, wife and they're
Speaker 3: also able to do their own. Thing, however red flag
Speaker 3: here is that he doesn't spend the night if they
Speaker 3: are in this marriage.
Speaker 2: Only for his green.
Speaker 3: Card explain to me why he doesn't have the autonomy
Speaker 3: to spend the night at your house if they're both
Speaker 3: quote unquote doing their own. THING i think what you
Speaker 3: should do is inquire about, that because WHAT i do
Speaker 3: feel like you're getting here is the short end of the.
Speaker 3: Stick if you're saying that you would like him to
Speaker 3: spend the, night because you would like to spend more
Speaker 3: time with, him especially after being. Intimate you're accepting just
Speaker 3: the going out in public and public affection without the
Speaker 3: private affection in terms of. Him, actually you, KNOW i
Speaker 3: guess sleeping with you after?
Speaker 2: Y'all fuck?
Speaker 3: Now Who your question, is SHOULD i cut this off
Speaker 3: or play my role and?
Speaker 2: Compartmentalize and this is where in going into.
Speaker 3: Twenty twenty five and going into twenty twenty, six any
Speaker 3: twenty twenty, FIVE i truly think that you have to
Speaker 3: go into.
Speaker 2: What do you? Want what do you?
Speaker 3: Want and what this sounds like is you would like,
Speaker 3: More you really like this, person you would like a,
Speaker 3: relationship but you've also already told yourself that you've accepted.
Speaker 2: That it won't be anything.
Speaker 3: More will you be fulfilled with what it is right?
Speaker 3: Now with no milestones to reach of this going? Beyond
Speaker 3: how how well are you with wasting your? Time because
Speaker 3: if you are looking for something, more if you are
Speaker 3: looking for a, family if you are looking to be
Speaker 3: in a committed exclusive, relationlationship if you're looking to potentially
Speaker 3: get married one, day how how much of your time
Speaker 3: do you care that you waste with this? Man and
Speaker 3: that's the compartmentalization of it all? Right is this man
Speaker 3: open to you doing your own thing outside of? Him
Speaker 3: has that been a, Conversation what has been the conversation
Speaker 3: around whether he could spend the night or.
Speaker 2: NOT i think for as.
Speaker 3: Much as you have been talking to, HIM i think
Speaker 3: it's interesting how long it took you to find out his,
Speaker 3: marriage which means there could be a lot of other
Speaker 3: things you.
Speaker 2: Don't know about this.
Speaker 3: MAN i think you could be dick blinded right. Now
Speaker 3: dick blinded is a thing you gave me almost three
Speaker 3: lines of what he did to you in that. Bedroom
Speaker 3: bit you, throwed bit you ha throwed over the, Deck
Speaker 3: and SO i think you have to actually sit with.
Speaker 3: Yourself AND i think any woman listening to this you
Speaker 3: catch yourself in at a crossroad with if you need
Speaker 3: to compartmentalize your emotions and feelings and the time you
Speaker 3: get with a man to feel like you're okay with,
Speaker 3: it are you really and is this what you?
Speaker 2: WANT i think for the clip that's been.
Speaker 3: Going viral lately about me admitting to be in a
Speaker 3: side chick in my, TWENTIES i THINK i decided to
Speaker 3: sit with, myself love myself first and decide WHAT i
Speaker 3: would and wouldn't accept from a. Man and to, me
Speaker 3: if you're wanting something that you can't, get you're. Settling
Speaker 3: and is this the man you want to settle, with
Speaker 3: because essentially you're not gonna get anything more than probably
Speaker 3: what you're getting now with?
Speaker 2: Him? Right would you be okay.
Speaker 3: With this relationship if he starts spending the night with?
Speaker 3: You because then what else would you want after? That
Speaker 3: is it only the not spending the? Night are you
Speaker 3: asking him about how often you talking to him about
Speaker 3: what his relationship with his wife looks?
Speaker 2: Like? Mitch why you can't spend the night if y'all not?
Speaker 2: Together Like there's just.
Speaker 3: So many questions THAT i honestly feel like you're so
Speaker 3: scared to ask because you do like him so. Much
Speaker 3: and of, course as, women we fear that if we
Speaker 3: ask somebody for too much that they're gonna leave.
Speaker 2: Us is that a fear that you?
Speaker 3: Have in twenty twenty, SIX i want women in these
Speaker 3: complicated situationships to ask themselves how safe they really feel
Speaker 3: with being with this. Person cool you safe enough for
Speaker 3: him to eat yo pussy off the? Bone but are
Speaker 3: you safe enough with him to question and ask for
Speaker 3: the actual things that you want in the relationship because
Speaker 3: if you, can't this man doesn't make you really feel.
Speaker 3: Safe the fact that you're, asking SHOULD i cut him
Speaker 3: off or play my role and? Compartmentalize are you willing
Speaker 3: to play the side chick?
Speaker 2: Role because you going.
Speaker 5: To your friend said your immediate reaction.
Speaker 2: Was what the? FUCK i don't know HOW i feel.
Speaker 3: About being a side, chick which means you want to
Speaker 3: be a, man which means you're looking for a. Relationship
Speaker 3: you don't want to just quote unquote play your. Role
Speaker 3: so Since i'm not gonna tell you to play a
Speaker 3: role THAT i don't think you're comfortable with, Playing i'm
Speaker 3: also not gonna tell you to compartmentalize and put your
Speaker 3: feelings and your needs to the side in order to
Speaker 3: have a nigga in your life who also wait until
Speaker 3: after he got inside you to let you know that
Speaker 3: he was. Married that's called. Manipulation that's called he wasn't
Speaker 3: keeping it real with you before he put his dick
Speaker 3: inside of you because he felt like that little detail
Speaker 3: might keep him from getting what he. Wanted so are
Speaker 3: you willing to make sure this nigga gets to move
Speaker 3: and get everything he want out of? You and you
Speaker 3: don't get what you want out of? Him or is
Speaker 3: it just dick you? Want is it just a few
Speaker 3: dates here and there that you. Want WHAT i am
Speaker 3: going to say you, is don't sit here and put
Speaker 3: all your eggs in this, basket, baby because this ain't.
Speaker 3: Given and, yes there are a tournaments specifically In florida
Speaker 3: who are legally married.
Speaker 1: For.
Speaker 3: Citizenship i'm gonna tell y'all some. Tea my mama married
Speaker 3: my daddy brother to keep him in The. States oh,
Speaker 3: yeah oh, yeah, baby IF i ever write the book
Speaker 3: about my ghetto ass.
Speaker 2: Life so my mom the only.
Speaker 3: Marriage that she ever has on paper was literally to
Speaker 3: keep my uncle in The states and not and not
Speaker 3: get not get sent back To.
Speaker 2: Jamaica SO i get. It but there's still a lot of.
Speaker 3: Holes and you said it, Too you have, suspicion and
Speaker 3: there's a lot of pieces left out of this.
Speaker 2: Story.
Speaker 3: Baby going into the new, YEAR i need you to,
Speaker 3: really really really sit back and consider what it is
Speaker 3: that you, want what it is that you, deserve and
Speaker 3: how you're gonna make sure you go about assuring that
Speaker 3: you get those. Things and it starts, heavily, bitch with
Speaker 3: sitting back.
Speaker 2: And thinking about what you.
Speaker 3: Deserve and this goes back to my mother fucking saying
Speaker 3: THAT i said on The Breakfast club THAT i went
Speaker 3: back and said on our episode With Sheila. Marie people
Speaker 3: are in the relationships they, deserve or at least the
Speaker 3: ones they believe they. Deserve, now of, course we can
Speaker 3: all want more for. Everybody we all want people to be,
Speaker 3: Happy we all want people to be in, healthy, loving,
Speaker 3: caring non abusive.
Speaker 2: Relationships, right.
Speaker 3: Do you think that you deserve more from this? Man
Speaker 3: do you think you deserve more from any? Man AND
Speaker 3: i think that you have to really sit back can decide.
Speaker 3: That now he focks you On, thanksgiving so you know
Speaker 3: clearly he wasn't with his. Family i'm curious to know
Speaker 3: this week how he's spending His, Christmas Christmas, Eve christmas
Speaker 3: bringing in The new. Year are you a part of
Speaker 3: that or is the? Wife so for, ME i think
Speaker 3: that it's this week is going to be. Telling this
Speaker 3: week into next week is going to be really telling
Speaker 3: as to how much you could really put up with
Speaker 3: this relationship and what he's giving, you as well as
Speaker 3: you really seeing how much crumbs you can bear to.
Speaker 3: Take because a lot of, women especially around the, holidays
Speaker 3: are excited to spend time with the niggas dicking him,
Speaker 3: down and when them niggas go and spend it with,
Speaker 3: elsewhere that's when you really start chin checking your feelings
Speaker 3: at the dull and so, yeah so to, me super
Speaker 3: curious to see what happens if you're listening to, this
Speaker 3: would love for you to write back at the top
Speaker 3: of the year and let us know where your role
Speaker 3: kind of went during the holiday, season because clearly we
Speaker 3: talk about it.
Speaker 2: Often it's very.
Speaker 3: Telling and, yes even though you just met him within
Speaker 3: this last, Quarter i'm curious to know to what extent
Speaker 3: you felt fulfilled or pleased by this man during the holiday.
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