WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Can't Beat The Sweet Treat

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go again, another brand new episode of Your

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date podcast. Welcome to it. It's brooking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Uh, and today we got I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what it is about. It's about something. It's about dating

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<v Speaker 1>gone wrong, that's what it's about.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that what they're all about?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's okay, just as.

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<v Speaker 1>A general rule, brock all right, But we'll reflect on

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday's which was the update Update where we got the

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<v Speaker 1>euro dating couple to check back in. Apparently they've linked

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<v Speaker 1>up with some of our listeners from our comment section. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I was on YouTube. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>and are going to visit them, which is wild.

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<v Speaker 3>It is wild because I think they're gonna be in

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<v Speaker 3>for shock because we've got someone saying I'm Norwegian and

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<v Speaker 3>this is not what we do well as a European.

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<v Speaker 1>Goodness me, watch the language you're up? Okay, Yeah, we agree.

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<v Speaker 3>And introduced kind of but hell no and European blah

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<v Speaker 3>blah blah, just a lot, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, still not on board for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody offering to meet up with them yet, which is strange.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I will say it's the first ever that

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<v Speaker 1>I want an update, update, update, Yeah, get back from

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<v Speaker 1>the trip to Norway. Yeah, that is what we need alright. Ever, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna try to do that, but first, let's listen

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<v Speaker 1>to this brand new episode starts right now, Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date Update.

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<v Speaker 5>When you meet someone in real life at a party,

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<v Speaker 5>it's actually kind of nice because you two aren't the

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<v Speaker 5>center of attention.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's usually like a friend of a friend who introduces you.

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<v Speaker 5>You get to chat for a minute, feel each other out.

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<v Speaker 5>It's low stakes, yes, But in this case, apparently our

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<v Speaker 5>listener Logan met someone at a different kind of party,

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<v Speaker 5>not like a birthday party or a house party. I

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<v Speaker 5>really hope that you're not gonna say furry party, because

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<v Speaker 5>then we're gonna have to make this a podcast exclusive. Logan,

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<v Speaker 5>But what kind of party was it that you met

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<v Speaker 5>this woman at?

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<v Speaker 6>It was a divorce party.

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<v Speaker 1>A divorce party, isn't that like the opposite of a

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<v Speaker 1>wedding shower?

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<v Speaker 7>Basically, you know, one of my friends from work was

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<v Speaker 7>getting divorced and she invited a bunch of people, actually

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<v Speaker 7>from the office, which I would never invite my work

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<v Speaker 7>colleagues to that, but she did.

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<v Speaker 4>She wanted us to come.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you do you like a bachelorette party, Like

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<v Speaker 3>you go out and where a sash that says like

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<v Speaker 3>just divorced.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's like celebrating being an eligible receiver.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So okay, your work friend invited you over to

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<v Speaker 5>this divorce party she was having and I met someone.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, the lady who was getting divorced.

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<v Speaker 7>I met some of her friends and one of them

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<v Speaker 7>was Aimly and we really hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting. I mean, I would guess there'd probably be quite

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<v Speaker 1>a few single people at a divorce party.

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<v Speaker 5>It is an interesting dynamic because you're celebrating a relationship

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<v Speaker 5>ending while at the same time starting a brand new one.

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<v Speaker 5>Look to looking to right in front of their face.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I wonder what's the room like, because most married

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<v Speaker 8>people are friends with other married people, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a lot of married That's why she invited

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<v Speaker 1>the coworkers.

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<v Speaker 5>What was it like hanging out with Ainsley at the party?

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<v Speaker 6>You know, we hung out twice one time at the

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<v Speaker 6>party and we were actually we were going back and

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<v Speaker 6>forth laughing about the burn box.

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<v Speaker 3>Which burn box, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>It's basically like a little fire where you literally torch

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<v Speaker 6>all the photos from the divorced girl's wedding.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, I feel like this has been a thing. I've

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<v Speaker 8>heard about this.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, thousands and thousands of dollars worth of photography up

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<v Speaker 5>in flames.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally, that's an interesting way to meet someone. Are you like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>do you still do you still believe in love?

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<v Speaker 9>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>My god?

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<v Speaker 6>You know we're selling the possibility of fresh new love.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know we were.

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<v Speaker 6>They started playing all these breakup songs. We were dancing.

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<v Speaker 6>We actually kissed at the party.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, I mean divorces in the mood, you know, Brook says, So, okay,

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<v Speaker 9>you got to kiss at the party.

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<v Speaker 5>That's nice, and then you were able to do another date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. So actually when we met up for our date,

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<v Speaker 6>I just I could not get this woman out of

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<v Speaker 6>my mind. I just I went in for it and

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<v Speaker 6>I kissed her again and it was great.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's bold.

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<v Speaker 8>And she liked it, yes, like flap you afterwards or

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<v Speaker 8>something or push you away?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean she was into it. She kissed me back,

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<v Speaker 6>and we went on our date, grabbed some ice cream,

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<v Speaker 6>and we went back to my place and watched some Netflix.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, when did she leave?

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<v Speaker 6>Let's just say, it was a pretty long Netflix chill.

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<v Speaker 5>Sasha, you watched a multi part docu series. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 5>for me, that's a fifteen minute session. I'm assuming it's

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<v Speaker 5>the same for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's even a little bit too Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I really had to get my energy drink going on

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<v Speaker 5>for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I'm just saying it definitely blasted a little longer

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<v Speaker 6>than that. But and it was a great time. But

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<v Speaker 6>now she's not really answering my text messages, and I

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<v Speaker 6>have no idea why.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it sounds like when you talk about her,

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<v Speaker 1>you sound giddy.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, it's a creepy getting in a good way, is what.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, you want some poun and kisser.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, you just sound excited, like that's like a

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<v Speaker 1>really big bummer that she wouldn't be calling you back.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, if I'm in your position, I'm so bummed.

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<v Speaker 8>You have like two magical experiences with this girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I'm bombed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, that's on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that makes sense. Well, well we're gonna do our

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<v Speaker 5>job for you. We'll come back and call this woman

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<v Speaker 5>and figure out why she doesn't want to hang out

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<v Speaker 5>with the guy who can go more than fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 5>in a Netflix session. I know more than That's amazing,

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<v Speaker 5>sixteen minutes, the braggered in the room. We'll do it

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<v Speaker 5>with your second date update right after this hold on Brooke.

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<v Speaker 2>And Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 5>Nothing says true love like burning someone else's old wedding

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<v Speaker 5>photos in a fire. Ah, that's how our listener Logan

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<v Speaker 5>met Ainslie at a mutual friend's divorce party. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 5>who would have thought putting the final dagger into someone

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<v Speaker 5>else's dying marriage could ignite a brand new romantic fire

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<v Speaker 5>in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, here we are.

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<v Speaker 8>It's almost meant to be.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeff almost, But that flame has dimmed significantly since their

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<v Speaker 5>Netflix and chill sash. That lasted well over fifteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 5>as we've learned. So what's really going on? Is she

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<v Speaker 5>actually in a secret marriage? Is she really three children

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<v Speaker 5>standing on each other's shoulders in a trench coat? I'm

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<v Speaker 5>just saying anything is possible. Are you open to possibilities, Logan,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm open, okay, even if it's three kids, I'm open, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, maybe you're looking for a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't. Is My only thought, like she's at a

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<v Speaker 1>divorce party. She's probably not in the mindset thinking boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right.

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<v Speaker 8>Great, I didn't even think about that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we didn't have that conversation per se, but.

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<v Speaker 6>She was I seem to be pretty open to meeting

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<v Speaker 6>people in my opinion.

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<v Speaker 5>The way you said that, does she want to meet

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<v Speaker 5>any people? Seriously though, that's the real.

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<v Speaker 1>Question you're about to find out.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's find out if she even answers the phone. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>a dollar number right now. We'll see if Ainsley picks up.

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<v Speaker 5>Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Ainsley?

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<v Speaker 4>This is Ainsley.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey Ainsley. This is a radio show called Brook and

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 8>Hi Ainsley, good morning guys.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys got to speak up too.

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<v Speaker 8>It just sounds like it's just me and Jeff here.

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<v Speaker 5>We're having fun here. Some of us are having fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of us are welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>This is a segment we do. It's called a second

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<v Speaker 5>Date Update and mister Jeff more information. You got it.

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<v Speaker 5>So this is a segment where we try to help

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<v Speaker 5>listeners who've been out on a date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 5>afterwards they're not getting a call back. We can step

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<v Speaker 5>into try and help them figure out if there's a

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<v Speaker 5>reason why. Okay, I don't think she's getting.

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<v Speaker 1>It, Brooke, you have to tell her who called.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh this is about a guy named Logan that you

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<v Speaker 5>recently went out with.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, I get it now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you met him at the divorce party. Yeah, which

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<v Speaker 1>is a wild place to meet somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh, Yes it is, Yes, it is.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but as wild as it was, it seemed to

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<v Speaker 5>work out because you two met up for a date.

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<v Speaker 5>From the sounds of it, I walked through the park,

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<v Speaker 5>some ice cream, some Netflix, Yes we did.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Okay, So you sound excited like you're

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<v Speaker 1>smiling or embarrassed. No, I don't know. Am I reading

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<v Speaker 1>that right?

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<v Speaker 4>Or my face is definitely a little red right now.

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<v Speaker 4>In the beginning, I was feeling the same way. I

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<v Speaker 4>was feeling very strongly about him.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, that was the beginning. But what changed.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what he told you about our second hangout.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. You know, it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Basically the recap that I gave you that you met up,

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<v Speaker 5>You went to your walk through the park, you guys

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<v Speaker 5>had ice cream together, went back to his place to

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<v Speaker 5>watch Netflix and et cetera. Things happened, good things.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't say that he said there was a kiss.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm trying not to go into too much graphic

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<v Speaker 5>detail about what he told us, But he didn't tell

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<v Speaker 5>us anything, right, it felt pretty graphic. One.

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<v Speaker 1>The guy told us nothing. He just said he had

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<v Speaker 1>a nice evening with you.

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<v Speaker 5>But the way he said it was like nice in

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<v Speaker 5>a good way.

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<v Speaker 4>Well it was. But I don't know if he told

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<v Speaker 4>you about a conversation that we had while we were

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<v Speaker 4>watching a movie.

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<v Speaker 5>And you were not aware of that conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I think he tried to compliment me, because

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<v Speaker 4>he was. He was giving me a lot of compliments.

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<v Speaker 4>But at one point he said that I'm just so

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<v Speaker 4>used to hanging out with intense gym girls and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>so glad you're not that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, intense jim girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, So I mean, yeah, you could jump to

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<v Speaker 1>the conclusion that that may be backhanded, like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>work out, But like that's not obviously what someone would mean.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think he meant?

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<v Speaker 4>It did seem genuine, So I was trying to hear

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<v Speaker 4>him out, and I really think he meant it in

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<v Speaker 4>a kind way. But then he kept going and he said,

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to be with a girl who I

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<v Speaker 4>can share dessert with and who likes a little sweet treat. Listen,

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<v Speaker 4>He's not wrong, But to me, I'm like, oh, he's

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<v Speaker 4>just like hanging out with me because I'm this girl

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<v Speaker 4>who likes the movies and ice creams and cookies and cakes,

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<v Speaker 4>and like that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not a bad girl to be. That's a girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it just it just felt a little off, And

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<v Speaker 4>I've held off texting him back because I'm like, that

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<v Speaker 4>didn't feel great.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he would be really bummed to hear you

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<v Speaker 1>took it that way.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I'm sure he would be upset to know he

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<v Speaker 8>upset you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and we can know that for sure because he

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<v Speaker 5>is on the other line of this phone call, listening

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<v Speaker 5>and waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I am here, and I just want.

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<v Speaker 2>To make it clear, like that was totally a compliment.

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<v Speaker 6>I enjoy that about you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, maybe we don't double down immediately.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he wasn't even listen. This is super embarrassing. I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't know you were on the line.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I've been here the whole time.

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<v Speaker 5>But logan, you hear what she's saying, like how she

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<v Speaker 5>read what your comment was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'm sorry you took it that way. I just

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to say, like I've been with Jim girls in

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<v Speaker 2>the past. Who Yes, these meal plans that they're on,

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<v Speaker 2>they're just so exhausting. It's like chicken and veggies all

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<v Speaker 2>the time. So I you know, I am enjoy someone

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<v Speaker 2>I could go out with and grab ice cream with

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<v Speaker 2>and have a cheap meal and it's it's nice.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that a compliment? Yeah, it's like someone being like

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<v Speaker 5>my only date models.

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<v Speaker 8>It's so refreshing to not date a perfect person.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, what do you expect?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you can't have a perfect body and eat

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<v Speaker 1>all the things, like you don't get it.

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<v Speaker 5>All all right? You don't have to say it to

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<v Speaker 5>their face.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I like my men with a little bit of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>stopping to.

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<v Speaker 8>Grab on to like a little maybe.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, Ainsley, how are you feeling right now?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a little embarrassed, But I believe him. I know

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<v Speaker 4>he's he there's no meanness behind what he's thing, but

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<v Speaker 4>it's still kind of like, oh, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel I feel really bad about this. Can I send

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<v Speaker 2>you like a cookie bouquet or something to your place? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, I like things other than dessert.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think he's trying to be funny,

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<v Speaker 1>like that was supposed to be a joke, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean when we were at the divorce party, like,

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<v Speaker 2>there were a lot of really good treats.

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<v Speaker 6>There, you know, we were.

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<v Speaker 2>Having some of the cookies that they had there, and

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<v Speaker 2>you were going to town. You seem like you really

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<v Speaker 2>enjoyed it.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, I love them too.

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<v Speaker 2>They were so good.

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<v Speaker 8>No, yes, that makes it feel better.

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<v Speaker 1>I think just a general rule is that we just

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<v Speaker 1>don't comment on what people eat. Maybe a good.

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<v Speaker 8>Rule their own diet.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I mean what's the fun with that though?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like the type of situation where you just

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<v Speaker 1>order the fries and then you see what happens.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, and don't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>About don't comment on how many you've taken.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't y Yeah, yeah, I could completely do that. Would

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<v Speaker 2>that make you feel comfortable?

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<v Speaker 6>Like if I order fries in front of you, it.

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<v Speaker 9>Comes out so weird, you know what.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe we don't talk about I don't think yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Stands okay, but that that sounded like potential future.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's not talk about food anymore. Let's just talk about

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<v Speaker 5>the possible ability of YouTube meeting up for another date,

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<v Speaker 5>because if Ainsley is open to it, we would pay

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<v Speaker 5>for that second meet up.

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<v Speaker 1>Give card to the Cheesecake Faction.

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<v Speaker 8>If you want.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, We'll find something that works for you, Ainsley.

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<v Speaker 5>But what do you think giving it one more shot

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<v Speaker 5>with Logan?

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<v Speaker 4>I appreciate all the effort he's gone to to contact me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's why I'm open to doing something else besides eating

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<v Speaker 4>with him.

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<v Speaker 1>She could be so self colledgious.

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<v Speaker 2>So no, this is like the best news I've gotten

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<v Speaker 2>all day. And I'm honestly a guy that likes a

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<v Speaker 2>sweet tree too. So hey, you know, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, just order it and get two spoons yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>And if refreshing for Ainsley, did not have to go

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<v Speaker 5>out with those super jim Bro models too, I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 4>That is true.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, into the pot. Wait what do you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Now he's clueing.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm glad that they said yes to a second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't get me wrong, but I do feel weird now

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<v Speaker 5>about sending them a gift card to Applebee's or cheesecake factory. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you should even Hooters. I just don't feel good about it.

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<v Speaker 5>I just wish we could send them someplace where food

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<v Speaker 5>isn't the focus, like a gift card to Low's or

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<v Speaker 5>to office Max.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm so boring, though.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's put into one of those like skydive places that

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<v Speaker 5>you can go in the two in the air.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me take this woman out a couple of times

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<v Speaker 1>and show her how to eat right and show her

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<v Speaker 1>that it's okay. There's no shame in.

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<v Speaker 5>Personally. I just love that we're not a radio show

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<v Speaker 5>that's all obsessed with being funny and helping people and

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<v Speaker 5>making a positive difference in the world. Those we did

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<v Speaker 5>those shows are annoying. We don't do that well.

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<v Speaker 1>I went on again, but that was positive.

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<v Speaker 8>That's part of the reason I worked here because of that.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, totally, it was a compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>Ohtation what. I don't think it does feel good anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know how to feel. Maybe you can tell

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<v Speaker 5>us how to feel. If you go listen to our podcast,

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<v Speaker 5>you can comment, like subscribe wherever you find them. They're

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<v Speaker 5>up online at Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,