Speaker 1: Here we go again, another brand new episode of Your
Speaker 1: Second Date podcast. Welcome to it. It's brooking Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning. Uh, and today we got I don't know
Speaker 1: what it is about. It's about something. It's about dating
Speaker 1: gone wrong, that's what it's about.
Speaker 2: That's right.
Speaker 1: Isn't that what they're all about?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's okay, just as.
Speaker 1: A general rule, brock all right, But we'll reflect on
Speaker 1: yesterday's which was the update Update where we got the
Speaker 1: euro dating couple to check back in. Apparently they've linked
Speaker 1: up with some of our listeners from our comment section. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I was on YouTube. I believe
Speaker 1: and are going to visit them, which is wild.
Speaker 3: It is wild because I think they're gonna be in
Speaker 3: for shock because we've got someone saying I'm Norwegian and
Speaker 3: this is not what we do well as a European.
Speaker 1: Goodness me, watch the language you're up? Okay, Yeah, we agree.
Speaker 3: And introduced kind of but hell no and European blah
Speaker 3: blah blah, just a lot, you know.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, still not on board for it.
Speaker 3: Nobody offering to meet up with them yet, which is strange.
Speaker 1: I mean, I will say it's the first ever that
Speaker 1: I want an update, update, update, Yeah, get back from
Speaker 1: the trip to Norway. Yeah, that is what we need alright. Ever, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna try to do that, but first, let's listen
Speaker 1: to this brand new episode starts right now, Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Second date Update.
Speaker 5: When you meet someone in real life at a party,
Speaker 5: it's actually kind of nice because you two aren't the
Speaker 5: center of attention.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 5: It's usually like a friend of a friend who introduces you.
Speaker 5: You get to chat for a minute, feel each other out.
Speaker 5: It's low stakes, yes, But in this case, apparently our
Speaker 5: listener Logan met someone at a different kind of party,
Speaker 5: not like a birthday party or a house party. I
Speaker 5: really hope that you're not gonna say furry party, because
Speaker 5: then we're gonna have to make this a podcast exclusive. Logan,
Speaker 5: But what kind of party was it that you met
Speaker 5: this woman at?
Speaker 6: It was a divorce party.
Speaker 1: A divorce party, isn't that like the opposite of a
Speaker 1: wedding shower?
Speaker 7: Basically, you know, one of my friends from work was
Speaker 7: getting divorced and she invited a bunch of people, actually
Speaker 7: from the office, which I would never invite my work
Speaker 7: colleagues to that, but she did.
Speaker 4: She wanted us to come.
Speaker 3: What do you do you like a bachelorette party, Like
Speaker 3: you go out and where a sash that says like
Speaker 3: just divorced.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like celebrating being an eligible receiver.
Speaker 5: Okay, So okay, your work friend invited you over to
Speaker 5: this divorce party she was having and I met someone.
Speaker 6: Yes, the lady who was getting divorced.
Speaker 7: I met some of her friends and one of them
Speaker 7: was Aimly and we really hit it off.
Speaker 1: Interesting. I mean, I would guess there'd probably be quite
Speaker 1: a few single people at a divorce party.
Speaker 5: It is an interesting dynamic because you're celebrating a relationship
Speaker 5: ending while at the same time starting a brand new one.
Speaker 5: Look to looking to right in front of their face.
Speaker 8: Well, I wonder what's the room like, because most married
Speaker 8: people are friends with other married people, so.
Speaker 1: Is it a lot of married That's why she invited
Speaker 1: the coworkers.
Speaker 5: What was it like hanging out with Ainsley at the party?
Speaker 6: You know, we hung out twice one time at the
Speaker 6: party and we were actually we were going back and
Speaker 6: forth laughing about the burn box.
Speaker 3: Which burn box, Yeah.
Speaker 6: It's basically like a little fire where you literally torch
Speaker 6: all the photos from the divorced girl's wedding.
Speaker 8: Oh, I feel like this has been a thing. I've
Speaker 8: heard about this.
Speaker 5: Okay, thousands and thousands of dollars worth of photography up
Speaker 5: in flames.
Speaker 1: Literally, that's an interesting way to meet someone. Are you like, so,
Speaker 1: do you still do you still believe in love?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 5: My god?
Speaker 6: You know we're selling the possibility of fresh new love.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know we were.
Speaker 6: They started playing all these breakup songs. We were dancing.
Speaker 6: We actually kissed at the party.
Speaker 9: Okay, I mean divorces in the mood, you know, Brook says, So, okay,
Speaker 9: you got to kiss at the party.
Speaker 5: That's nice, and then you were able to do another date.
Speaker 6: Yeah. So actually when we met up for our date,
Speaker 6: I just I could not get this woman out of
Speaker 6: my mind. I just I went in for it and
Speaker 6: I kissed her again and it was great.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's bold.
Speaker 8: And she liked it, yes, like flap you afterwards or
Speaker 8: something or push you away?
Speaker 6: I mean she was into it. She kissed me back,
Speaker 6: and we went on our date, grabbed some ice cream,
Speaker 6: and we went back to my place and watched some Netflix.
Speaker 1: Okay, when did she leave?
Speaker 6: Let's just say, it was a pretty long Netflix chill.
Speaker 5: Sasha, you watched a multi part docu series. Okay, that's
Speaker 5: for me, that's a fifteen minute session. I'm assuming it's
Speaker 5: the same for you.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's even a little bit too Yeah.
Speaker 5: I really had to get my energy drink going on
Speaker 5: for that.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 6: No, I'm just saying it definitely blasted a little longer
Speaker 6: than that. But and it was a great time. But
Speaker 6: now she's not really answering my text messages, and I
Speaker 6: have no idea why.
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like when you talk about her,
Speaker 1: you sound giddy.
Speaker 5: Honestly, it's a creepy getting in a good way, is what.
Speaker 8: Yes, you want some poun and kisser.
Speaker 1: I know, you just sound excited, like that's like a
Speaker 1: really big bummer that she wouldn't be calling you back.
Speaker 8: I mean, if I'm in your position, I'm so bummed.
Speaker 8: You have like two magical experiences with this girl.
Speaker 6: Yes, I'm bombed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's on the phone with us.
Speaker 5: Okay, that makes sense. Well, well we're gonna do our
Speaker 5: job for you. We'll come back and call this woman
Speaker 5: and figure out why she doesn't want to hang out
Speaker 5: with the guy who can go more than fifteen minutes
Speaker 5: in a Netflix session. I know more than That's amazing,
Speaker 5: sixteen minutes, the braggered in the room. We'll do it
Speaker 5: with your second date update right after this hold on Brooke.
Speaker 2: And Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Second date updates.
Speaker 5: Nothing says true love like burning someone else's old wedding
Speaker 5: photos in a fire. Ah, that's how our listener Logan
Speaker 5: met Ainslie at a mutual friend's divorce party. Yeah, and
Speaker 5: who would have thought putting the final dagger into someone
Speaker 5: else's dying marriage could ignite a brand new romantic fire
Speaker 5: in your life.
Speaker 1: But I mean, here we are.
Speaker 8: It's almost meant to be.
Speaker 5: Jeff almost, But that flame has dimmed significantly since their
Speaker 5: Netflix and chill sash. That lasted well over fifteen minutes,
Speaker 5: as we've learned. So what's really going on? Is she
Speaker 5: actually in a secret marriage? Is she really three children
Speaker 5: standing on each other's shoulders in a trench coat? I'm
Speaker 5: just saying anything is possible. Are you open to possibilities, Logan,
Speaker 5: I'm open, okay, even if it's three kids, I'm open, okay.
Speaker 1: I will say, maybe you're looking for a relationship and
Speaker 1: she wasn't. Is My only thought, like she's at a
Speaker 1: divorce party. She's probably not in the mindset thinking boyfriend,
Speaker 1: that's right.
Speaker 8: Great, I didn't even think about that.
Speaker 2: I mean, we didn't have that conversation per se, but.
Speaker 6: She was I seem to be pretty open to meeting
Speaker 6: people in my opinion.
Speaker 5: The way you said that, does she want to meet
Speaker 5: any people? Seriously though, that's the real.
Speaker 1: Question you're about to find out.
Speaker 5: Let's find out if she even answers the phone. I'm
Speaker 5: a dollar number right now. We'll see if Ainsley picks up.
Speaker 5: Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Ainsley?
Speaker 4: This is Ainsley.
Speaker 5: Hey Ainsley. This is a radio show called Brook and
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 8: Hi Ainsley, good morning guys.
Speaker 5: You guys got to speak up too.
Speaker 8: It just sounds like it's just me and Jeff here.
Speaker 5: We're having fun here. Some of us are having fun.
Speaker 1: Some of us are welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 5: This is a segment we do. It's called a second
Speaker 5: Date Update and mister Jeff more information. You got it.
Speaker 5: So this is a segment where we try to help
Speaker 5: listeners who've been out on a date with somebody and
Speaker 5: afterwards they're not getting a call back. We can step
Speaker 5: into try and help them figure out if there's a
Speaker 5: reason why. Okay, I don't think she's getting.
Speaker 1: It, Brooke, you have to tell her who called.
Speaker 5: Oh this is about a guy named Logan that you
Speaker 5: recently went out with.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, I get it now.
Speaker 1: Yes, you met him at the divorce party. Yeah, which
Speaker 1: is a wild place to meet somebody.
Speaker 4: Huh, Yes it is, Yes, it is.
Speaker 5: Okay, but as wild as it was, it seemed to
Speaker 5: work out because you two met up for a date.
Speaker 5: From the sounds of it, I walked through the park,
Speaker 5: some ice cream, some Netflix, Yes we did.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, So you sound excited like you're
Speaker 1: smiling or embarrassed. No, I don't know. Am I reading
Speaker 1: that right?
Speaker 4: Or my face is definitely a little red right now.
Speaker 4: In the beginning, I was feeling the same way. I
Speaker 4: was feeling very strongly about him.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, that was the beginning. But what changed.
Speaker 4: I don't know what he told you about our second hangout.
Speaker 4: I don't know. You know, it's.
Speaker 5: Basically the recap that I gave you that you met up,
Speaker 5: You went to your walk through the park, you guys
Speaker 5: had ice cream together, went back to his place to
Speaker 5: watch Netflix and et cetera. Things happened, good things.
Speaker 1: He didn't say that he said there was a kiss.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm trying not to go into too much graphic
Speaker 5: detail about what he told us, But he didn't tell
Speaker 5: us anything, right, it felt pretty graphic. One.
Speaker 1: The guy told us nothing. He just said he had
Speaker 1: a nice evening with you.
Speaker 5: But the way he said it was like nice in
Speaker 5: a good way.
Speaker 4: Well it was. But I don't know if he told
Speaker 4: you about a conversation that we had while we were
Speaker 4: watching a movie.
Speaker 5: And you were not aware of that conversation.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I think he tried to compliment me, because
Speaker 4: he was. He was giving me a lot of compliments.
Speaker 4: But at one point he said that I'm just so
Speaker 4: used to hanging out with intense gym girls and I'm
Speaker 4: so glad you're not that.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, intense jim girls.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, So I mean, yeah, you could jump to
Speaker 1: the conclusion that that may be backhanded, like you don't
Speaker 1: work out, But like that's not obviously what someone would mean.
Speaker 5: What do you think he meant?
Speaker 4: It did seem genuine, So I was trying to hear
Speaker 4: him out, and I really think he meant it in
Speaker 4: a kind way. But then he kept going and he said,
Speaker 4: I just want to be with a girl who I
Speaker 4: can share dessert with and who likes a little sweet treat. Listen,
Speaker 4: He's not wrong, But to me, I'm like, oh, he's
Speaker 4: just like hanging out with me because I'm this girl
Speaker 4: who likes the movies and ice creams and cookies and cakes,
Speaker 4: and like that's it.
Speaker 1: That's not a bad girl to be. That's a girl.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it just it just felt a little off, And
Speaker 4: I've held off texting him back because I'm like, that
Speaker 4: didn't feel great.
Speaker 9: Oh.
Speaker 1: I thought he would be really bummed to hear you
Speaker 1: took it that way.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm sure he would be upset to know he
Speaker 8: upset you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and we can know that for sure because he
Speaker 5: is on the other line of this phone call, listening
Speaker 5: and waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 6: Yes, I am here, and I just want.
Speaker 2: To make it clear, like that was totally a compliment.
Speaker 6: I enjoy that about you.
Speaker 2: It's a good thing.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, maybe we don't double down immediately.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he wasn't even listen. This is super embarrassing. I
Speaker 4: didn't know you were on the line.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I've been here the whole time.
Speaker 5: But logan, you hear what she's saying, like how she
Speaker 5: read what your comment was.
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm sorry you took it that way. I just
Speaker 2: wanted to say, like I've been with Jim girls in
Speaker 2: the past. Who Yes, these meal plans that they're on,
Speaker 2: they're just so exhausting. It's like chicken and veggies all
Speaker 2: the time. So I you know, I am enjoy someone
Speaker 2: I could go out with and grab ice cream with
Speaker 2: and have a cheap meal and it's it's nice.
Speaker 5: Is that a compliment? Yeah, it's like someone being like
Speaker 5: my only date models.
Speaker 8: It's so refreshing to not date a perfect person.
Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you expect?
Speaker 1: I mean, you can't have a perfect body and eat
Speaker 1: all the things, like you don't get it.
Speaker 5: All all right? You don't have to say it to
Speaker 5: their face.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I like my men with a little bit of you know,
Speaker 1: stopping to.
Speaker 8: Grab on to like a little maybe.
Speaker 5: I mean, Ainsley, how are you feeling right now?
Speaker 4: I'm a little embarrassed, But I believe him. I know
Speaker 4: he's he there's no meanness behind what he's thing, but
Speaker 4: it's still kind of like, oh, you know, I.
Speaker 2: Feel I feel really bad about this. Can I send
Speaker 2: you like a cookie bouquet or something to your place? Well,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I like things other than dessert.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think he's trying to be funny,
Speaker 1: like that was supposed to be a joke, right.
Speaker 2: I mean when we were at the divorce party, like,
Speaker 2: there were a lot of really good treats.
Speaker 6: There, you know, we were.
Speaker 2: Having some of the cookies that they had there, and
Speaker 2: you were going to town. You seem like you really
Speaker 2: enjoyed it.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I love them too.
Speaker 2: They were so good.
Speaker 8: No, yes, that makes it feel better.
Speaker 1: I think just a general rule is that we just
Speaker 1: don't comment on what people eat. Maybe a good.
Speaker 8: Rule their own diet.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I mean what's the fun with that though?
Speaker 1: It sounds like the type of situation where you just
Speaker 1: order the fries and then you see what happens.
Speaker 5: You know, and don't say anything.
Speaker 1: About don't comment on how many you've taken.
Speaker 2: Don't y Yeah, yeah, I could completely do that. Would
Speaker 2: that make you feel comfortable?
Speaker 6: Like if I order fries in front of you, it.
Speaker 9: Comes out so weird, you know what.
Speaker 4: Maybe we don't talk about I don't think yeah.
Speaker 1: Stands okay, but that that sounded like potential future.
Speaker 5: Let's not talk about food anymore. Let's just talk about
Speaker 5: the possible ability of YouTube meeting up for another date,
Speaker 5: because if Ainsley is open to it, we would pay
Speaker 5: for that second meet up.
Speaker 1: Give card to the Cheesecake Faction.
Speaker 8: If you want.
Speaker 5: I don't know, We'll find something that works for you, Ainsley.
Speaker 5: But what do you think giving it one more shot
Speaker 5: with Logan?
Speaker 4: I appreciate all the effort he's gone to to contact me. Yeah,
Speaker 4: that's why I'm open to doing something else besides eating
Speaker 4: with him.
Speaker 1: She could be so self colledgious.
Speaker 2: So no, this is like the best news I've gotten
Speaker 2: all day. And I'm honestly a guy that likes a
Speaker 2: sweet tree too. So hey, you know, I get it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, just order it and get two spoons yourself.
Speaker 5: And if refreshing for Ainsley, did not have to go
Speaker 5: out with those super jim Bro models too, I'm sure.
Speaker 4: That is true.
Speaker 6: Yeah, into the pot. Wait what do you mean by that?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: Now he's clueing.
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: I'm glad that they said yes to a second date.
Speaker 5: Don't get me wrong, but I do feel weird now
Speaker 5: about sending them a gift card to Applebee's or cheesecake factory. Yeah,
Speaker 5: you should even Hooters. I just don't feel good about it.
Speaker 5: I just wish we could send them someplace where food
Speaker 5: isn't the focus, like a gift card to Low's or
Speaker 5: to office Max.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so boring, though.
Speaker 5: Let's put into one of those like skydive places that
Speaker 5: you can go in the two in the air.
Speaker 1: Let me take this woman out a couple of times
Speaker 1: and show her how to eat right and show her
Speaker 1: that it's okay. There's no shame in.
Speaker 5: Personally. I just love that we're not a radio show
Speaker 5: that's all obsessed with being funny and helping people and
Speaker 5: making a positive difference in the world. Those we did
Speaker 5: those shows are annoying. We don't do that well.
Speaker 1: I went on again, but that was positive.
Speaker 8: That's part of the reason I worked here because of that.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, totally, it was a compliment.
Speaker 1: Ohtation what. I don't think it does feel good anymore.
Speaker 5: I don't know how to feel. Maybe you can tell
Speaker 5: us how to feel. If you go listen to our podcast,
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