Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: Gwynn is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 2: Cheater and she's been married to her husband John for
Speaker 2: two years, but now she thinks something might be going on,
Speaker 2: so we'll see if we can help her out. Gwinn,
Speaker 2: what's going on? Why do you think your husband's cheating?
Speaker 3: Well, it's been you know, a good two years so far,
Speaker 3: and I've got a clothing business that's really just taken off,
Speaker 3: so I can spend a little bit of time at home.
Speaker 3: And my husband, John, he just started culinary school and
Speaker 3: he's working his butt off and he's always had a
Speaker 3: drive for it. He's totally excited about it, and I
Speaker 3: want to be there to support him in any way
Speaker 3: I can. And I'm also really glad that I can
Speaker 3: support him while he finishes school. You know. So again,
Speaker 3: things have been pretty good. It's just that ever since
Speaker 3: he started these classes in school, she hasn't been necessarily
Speaker 3: absent when it comes to us, but like a little
Speaker 3: bit more standoffish, you know, like he's super focused and
Speaker 3: wants a little bit more than just finishing the school.
Speaker 3: He wants to just knock it out. Of the park
Speaker 3: and he's just focused on everything other than us, you know.
Speaker 3: And there's also this you know, other dynamic where there's
Speaker 3: this girl in this class named April. She's cute, mousey
Speaker 3: and sort of the arts, you know, and I know
Speaker 3: he likes her.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 3: She actually came over one night, you know, so they
Speaker 3: could work on a project for school together, and they
Speaker 3: made this amazing speared fish and you know, it was
Speaker 3: really good, so hard to be mad. But you know,
Speaker 3: while they were cooking together, they seemed a little cozy,
Speaker 3: you know, and it just it's sort of sent off
Speaker 3: some alarms in my head. Like I was like, that's
Speaker 3: a little bit too cozy for my taste, you know,
Speaker 3: get your hands off, my mate. So I let it go,
Speaker 3: you know, but just decided it's a good idea to
Speaker 3: maybe keep an eye on that. And then I started
Speaker 3: to notice that he was getting these weird texts at
Speaker 3: like all hours, you know, sometimes even late at night.
Speaker 3: And I don't want to be the jealous type, and
Speaker 3: like immediately jumped to conclusion, but in the back of
Speaker 3: my mind, I'm like, I know it's that girl. I
Speaker 3: know it is. Oh. So I asked him one night,
Speaker 3: like where are these texts coming from?
Speaker 4: Who is this? You know?
Speaker 3: We were watching a movie and I was like, I
Speaker 3: can't take it anymore. I just need to know. And
Speaker 3: he got really annoyed, like he you know, when I asked,
Speaker 3: he you know, and he's like, look, it's this April.
Speaker 3: She's got some school stuff she sent me and you know,
Speaker 3: it's nothing, no big deal. So I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: you know again, I didn't want to start a random fight.
Speaker 3: Didn't want to be like the total jealous type, not
Speaker 3: just two years into the marriage. But it bothers me
Speaker 3: so much. And I know him and he loves me,
Speaker 3: and I don't feel like she would cheat on me.
Speaker 3: But ever since he started these classes and hanging out
Speaker 3: with her, it's like he's turned into almost a different guy.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 5: I just wonder if this is one of those situations
Speaker 5: where it's like April's not clearly seeing what boundaries are
Speaker 5: and is just kind of trying to make her way in,
Speaker 5: and maybe she is actually flirting with your man, like
Speaker 5: your read probably was right. I just I mean, what
Speaker 5: are the chances you think that your man actually would
Speaker 5: cross that line? And he probably feels good getting attention
Speaker 5: from somebody. I mean, jubile. Doesn't it always feel good
Speaker 5: regardless if you're in a relationship. If somebody's crushing on you.
Speaker 2: I'm different with that. I don't like it. If they
Speaker 2: know I'm in a relationship, I don't like it.
Speaker 3: That's true.
Speaker 5: It's disrespectful.
Speaker 3: Okay. I could see that he didn't bothered him very much,
Speaker 3: you know, I mean honestly, like I was just like
Speaker 3: a wallpaper, I should say.
Speaker 2: I'm also very unaware if people are flirting with me too,
Speaker 2: So I wouldn't even probably know.
Speaker 5: Do you think that your man would know if somebody
Speaker 5: was flirting with him, Gwen.
Speaker 3: I don't know. Sometimes you don know what I'm flirting with. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4: I'm the same way.
Speaker 2: So I've been in situations like that before, Like they're
Speaker 2: flirting with I'm like, what just having a conversation? Taking
Speaker 2: my shirt off? What are you talking about?
Speaker 4: Right? Little woman?
Speaker 2: Always know?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll see what we can figure it
Speaker 2: out for you. You told us what a grocery store
Speaker 2: you guys are awards card members at. So we'll play
Speaker 2: a song, come back and then call him and pretend
Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store and say that every
Speaker 2: single month, one random reward card winner gets the free
Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our floral department. We'll see if he
Speaker 2: sends us to you, or to April, okay, or to
Speaker 2: somebody else Okay. Plays song Come back, Get here to
Speaker 2: catch a theater next, right in the middle of to
Speaker 2: Catch a Cheater if you're just joining us, Gwinn is
Speaker 2: on the phone and she thinks that her husband of
Speaker 2: two years named John might be cheating. So in a second,
Speaker 2: we're going to call him and pretend to be from
Speaker 2: the grocery store that they are awards card members at
Speaker 2: and say that he's this month's lucky winner of thirty
Speaker 2: six long snimber ed roses to be delivered to anybody
Speaker 2: that he wants. We'll see if he sends him to Gwinn,
Speaker 2: his wife, or to somebody else. But before we do that, Gwinn,
Speaker 2: why don't you catch every buddy up on your situation?
Speaker 3: Okay? So he started culinary school and he's really into it,
Speaker 3: and you know, he's just sort of become a different person,
Speaker 3: super focused on that, and you know, a little less
Speaker 3: absence from me and the marriage, so to speak. And
Speaker 3: there's always a third dynamic you know. Her name is
Speaker 3: April and she's killed and our say she actually came
Speaker 3: over one night and they were cooking together, and they
Speaker 3: were super like communicative with each other, you know, almost physically,
Speaker 3: to the point where I was like, this could be
Speaker 3: a problem for me. And then all of a sudden,
Speaker 3: he started getting these texts at all hours of the night,
Speaker 3: you know, NonStop, And when I asked him about it,
Speaker 3: he got super defensive and like was like, it's no
Speaker 3: big deal, It's just April, blah blah blah. And I
Speaker 3: just feel like he's a different guy and it's sort
Speaker 3: of suspect.
Speaker 2: Well, you ready for us to call him? Yes, yeah,
Speaker 2: here we go, And Hi, this is Jorble calling from
Speaker 2: I was looking for our Rewards card member name John.
Speaker 4: I guess this is he. What can I do for John?
Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling with some good news. Congratulations here this
Speaker 2: month's big winner.
Speaker 4: Okay, big winner of what? Oh?
Speaker 2: Every single month you might not know. Every single month,
Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards Card member at random to say
Speaker 2: thank you very much for shopping with us and thank
Speaker 2: you for being such a loyal customer. By gifting you
Speaker 2: thirty six long, slim red roses to be delivered from
Speaker 2: our floral department to anywhere in the fifty United States,
Speaker 2: and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want.
Speaker 4: That's great, okay, I'd so like, do I have to
Speaker 4: come in or like?
Speaker 2: That is one option. The other options are if you
Speaker 2: know who you want to send them to. I can
Speaker 2: also take the information over the phone.
Speaker 4: Oh no, I absolutely know what I'm going to send
Speaker 4: them to.
Speaker 2: Oh great, I've got my form pulled up here. First,
Speaker 2: I would need the first and last name of the
Speaker 2: person that you would like to send them to.
Speaker 4: It's going to be Gwen.
Speaker 2: And is there anything you would like to put on
Speaker 2: a card? Which like, it's in a card with it?
Speaker 4: Well, so it's going to my wife. And I think I.
Speaker 1: Often describe her to other people as the light of
Speaker 1: my life for a reason. You know, like she is,
Speaker 1: she's smart, she's beautiful, she's so supportive of me.
Speaker 2: You know what happened with me? I was I started
Speaker 2: taking the culinary school, and then I was this other
Speaker 2: girl in the class and her and I started getting
Speaker 2: hot and heavy.
Speaker 1: Oh goody, I'm actually in culinary school.
Speaker 2: Right now that's interesting, Opra. Name's not Age, Uh, that's John.
Speaker 2: This is actually, this is actually the Jubil Show. It's
Speaker 2: a radio show. My name's Jubil.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Hi, I'm Nina.
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria. And your wife Gwyn is actually on
Speaker 2: the phone.
Speaker 4: Oh oh.
Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show called to Catch
Speaker 2: You Cheater, where if you think your significant other might
Speaker 2: be sleeping around, we can try to catch them.
Speaker 3: So that's what this is.
Speaker 1: What So you're calling me because do you think my
Speaker 1: wife is cheating?
Speaker 3: No? Actually, I was a little bit nervous because all
Speaker 3: of a sudden, you have this friend April. She comes
Speaker 3: over to the house. You're cozy, cozy all the time,
Speaker 3: and she sends you these texts like at weird hours
Speaker 3: of the night, and you get completely distracted and you're
Speaker 3: super focused on finishing school. And I just was a
Speaker 3: little bit nervous, to be quite honest.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry. I feel real bad
Speaker 1: that you. I wish you'd come and talk to me
Speaker 1: about this before we got to it.
Speaker 3: I mean, I've asked you about the text before, and
Speaker 3: I felt like you just kind of were annoyed and
Speaker 3: blew it off. You know. So, I mean, I just
Speaker 3: didn't know what to think, honestly, because we just haven't
Speaker 3: had much time for each other, and you're like a
Speaker 3: sad super focused on school, which is great, but I
Speaker 3: don't want you to be super focused on April.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if I came across as annoyed when you
Speaker 1: were asking me about the text messages. It's embarrassing to admit,
Speaker 1: but I didn't want you to feel disappointed in me
Speaker 1: because I've been phlling behind in class recently, and you know,
Speaker 1: like you've been so supportive about me, you know, getting
Speaker 1: my assignments done and doing this, and you know how
Speaker 1: much I love spending time in the kitchen. I just
Speaker 1: really didn't want you to feel disappointed. So I've been Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been talking to April, but you know, she's been
Speaker 1: kind of like a big sister to me because she's
Speaker 1: been helping me out with assignments and she's been sending
Speaker 1: me like recipes and stuff like that, and you know,
Speaker 1: as much as I'm getting done in the class on
Speaker 1: my own, you know, she's.
Speaker 4: Been like a real lifeline.
Speaker 3: Right. Well, I couldn't be disappointed in you. I mean,
Speaker 3: I love you, but does April know that she's like
Speaker 3: a big sister.
Speaker 4: I mean, well, I mean they were gay, so.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, I like not to put her business out there,
Speaker 1: but like, I'm pretty certain she has no interest in me.
Speaker 2: Gwynn thought that she was kind of flirty when she
Speaker 2: saw you guys hanging out.
Speaker 1: No, I mean like she you know, we've been we're close,
Speaker 1: but like when you're in the kitchen, like you try
Speaker 1: to have as much fun as you can, you know,
Speaker 1: even though it's kind of like an intense environment, you know,
Speaker 1: so like you will get playful, but like we never,
Speaker 1: at least for me, there's never been anything.
Speaker 4: There isn't it?
Speaker 3: John, your wife, he was really worried.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like again, I feel bad though, because I
Speaker 1: don't want her to worry about me or with any woman.
Speaker 3: Oh good, well it sort of changes everything. Knowing you
Speaker 3: know that a fos preferences not men because you know,
Speaker 3: they just say smart. But it's not flirting. So that
Speaker 3: makes me feel so much better. You know, it's it's
Speaker 3: or what's the what's the term I'm looking for. It's
Speaker 3: just it's not dangerous flirting. Yeah, I'm sorry, I you know,
Speaker 3: just doubted you. But that's the text thing, you know,
Speaker 3: to like late at night and whatever, and you just
Speaker 3: get so distracted. It just bothered me.
Speaker 1: So no, like I said, I can, I'll be more
Speaker 1: than happy to show you the text messagude, but they're
Speaker 1: all just recipes.
Speaker 4: You know. She's really been to help me carry through. Yeah,
Speaker 4: that's w Yeah, goodness goodness. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, if anyone's a danger in the house, it
Speaker 1: would more likely be you than me.
Speaker 5: Like she would be a danger because like the girl
Speaker 5: would come under her and not him.
Speaker 2: I thought he was saying she would more likely to cheat.
Speaker 2: I was like, that's weird. I get it now.
Speaker 5: It sounds like you guys are going to be just fine.
Speaker 3: I hope. So yeah, I'm sorry. I mean, I love
Speaker 3: you again. I didn't mean to be, you know, I
Speaker 3: didn't want to be that girl, but like I love
Speaker 3: you and I'm jealous, So yeah.
Speaker 4: I love you too.
Speaker 1: You know, like I was gonna when I thought this
Speaker 1: was har Flowers, I was going to tell them to
Speaker 1: write that you're the spice of my life, and I
Speaker 1: mean that, you know, everything about you makes me a
Speaker 1: better person, make me cry.
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