WEBVTT - Dirty Rush: Get the Party Started

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with

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<v Speaker 1>your hosts me Gia Judice.

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<v Speaker 2>Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. Hi, guys, welcome to another

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<v Speaker 2>episode of Dirty Rush. Today we are diving into one

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<v Speaker 2>of the wildest and most unforgettable parts of Greek life.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about date parties, from epic themes and chaotic

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<v Speaker 2>nights to the awkward pairings and unexpected drama. We are

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<v Speaker 2>breaking down the good, the bad, and everything in between.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're going to have some callers on this episode.

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<v Speaker 2>So now we are bringing in the lovely grace. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking you were a sorority girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Where did you go to school?

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<v Speaker 4>I went to UCLA.

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<v Speaker 2>So we are talking today about date parties, and we're

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<v Speaker 2>just talking about kind of sometimes the chaos of them,

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<v Speaker 2>the themes of them. You know, was there pressure if

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't have a date, you know, trying to find

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<v Speaker 2>one or getting asked to one. How are your experiences

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<v Speaker 2>with date parties?

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<v Speaker 4>So I feel like in terms of finding a date,

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<v Speaker 4>it was kind of well rounded, which I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>isn't very normal at other schools, but at UCLA it

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<v Speaker 4>was kind of like in the Beginning like freshman and

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<v Speaker 4>sophomore year, you everybody was like fighting a date because

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<v Speaker 4>everybody wanted to be taking like a cute frat boy

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<v Speaker 4>that they just knew of or thought was cute or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>And then as time went on and you get older

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<v Speaker 4>into like your junior and your senior year, everybody stops

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<v Speaker 4>caring about like who to take because at UCLA Greek

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<v Speaker 4>life is so small, So like by the time you

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<v Speaker 4>reach your junior and senior year, you kind of already

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<v Speaker 4>know everybody. But there is this one date party that

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<v Speaker 4>is pretty crazy that I feel like is very you know,

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<v Speaker 4>to UCLA, which is called Crush. But basically, you get

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<v Speaker 4>to choose three dates that you want to invite, and

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<v Speaker 4>you like list them from like one to three, of

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<v Speaker 4>like one being you want to take them the most

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<v Speaker 4>three is like the person you want to take the

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<v Speaker 4>least out of your three options. And then this committee

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<v Speaker 4>appointed by this alreaty called the Crush Committee, basically calls

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<v Speaker 4>the list of guys and they go from number one

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<v Speaker 4>down to number three, and they start with number one

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<v Speaker 4>and they're like a girl as requested for you to

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<v Speaker 4>be her date. She wants you to come to Crush

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<v Speaker 4>do you accept and you have no idea who invited you?

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<v Speaker 2>The guys don't know who have okay, So they don't

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<v Speaker 2>know who asked them exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I have no idea who them.

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<v Speaker 3>They just know that somebody asks, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And then every grade addresses to a different theme. So

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<v Speaker 4>like like one year or theme was like goes under

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<v Speaker 4>and so it was like one grade was under the sheet,

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<v Speaker 4>so everybody were like pajamas. One grade was like under

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<v Speaker 4>the sea, so everybody was like c themed and everybody

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<v Speaker 4>had a different grade. So like when they call your date,

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<v Speaker 4>they're like, all you get to know is the theme,

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<v Speaker 4>So you get to know what grade of the person

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<v Speaker 4>that invited you.

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<v Speaker 5>That's it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, And do they also dress to theme?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so they have to.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically, like all the girls all get ready together.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody's like so excited, and like everybody picks out really

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<v Speaker 4>cute outfits and whatever, and we all take one bus

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<v Speaker 4>and then all the guys have to meet at like

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<v Speaker 4>a set location and they all have to take a

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<v Speaker 4>bus together.

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<v Speaker 3>But like they don't know who invited them.

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<v Speaker 4>All they know is like the theme of what they're

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<v Speaker 4>dressing to. But they just get on this bus with

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<v Speaker 4>a bunch of random guys going to a venue that

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<v Speaker 4>they don't know to meet a bunch of girls and

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<v Speaker 4>they have no idea who they're like technically going there

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<v Speaker 4>to meet.

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<v Speaker 2>That actually sounds like so much much fun. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's hilarious. Yeah, what happens to the guys that get

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<v Speaker 2>like like two girls had them on the list and

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<v Speaker 2>one is a freshman and one is a sophomore, and

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<v Speaker 2>they have to do under the sea and under the sheet? Like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you then just the guy get to choose?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there a competitive like that?

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<v Speaker 4>I think in that case it would probably go based

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<v Speaker 4>off of like seniority, Like whoever is in the higher

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<v Speaker 4>grade probably gets a priority of ranking. But I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know how often that happens, but it does happen occasionally,

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<v Speaker 4>where like the same guy gets invited by two girls

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<v Speaker 4>in the same grade and then the girls don't really

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<v Speaker 4>know which of their dates out of like the list

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<v Speaker 4>of three get asked, so like both girls could have

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<v Speaker 4>ranked a guy number one, and then he shows up

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<v Speaker 4>and both girls are like I ranked him number one,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I want to hang out with him.

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<v Speaker 2>They all three get invited that you rank no.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically your top pick gets invited, but like let's

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<v Speaker 4>say you're top pick is already invited by somebody else,

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<v Speaker 4>then your number two pick could get invited. But you

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<v Speaker 4>could have the same number two pick because you chose

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<v Speaker 4>like your guy best friend as like four other girls

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<v Speaker 4>who also picked him because he.

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<v Speaker 2>Was Oh my god, I'm getting such a any day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like in a good way.

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<v Speaker 4>It's crazy. It's literally crazy. So everybody's kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>who's here for who? What's going on? And yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 4>a crazy concept.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you ever tell the guy you were my

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<v Speaker 2>first pick? You were my Like how does it? Does

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<v Speaker 2>it ever sort of like come out? Is it? You

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<v Speaker 2>keep it kind of wrapped?

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<v Speaker 4>Or if you want to reveal it you can, or

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<v Speaker 4>you could just go about everything saying nothing, like it's

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<v Speaker 4>really up to you and then but it'll never come

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<v Speaker 4>out if you don't want me to come out.

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<v Speaker 2>So your friends don't even know, like you write it

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<v Speaker 2>down unless you tell them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, most people will like tell each other or be

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<v Speaker 4>like let's invite or like plot to like invite a

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<v Speaker 4>certain group of guys. But like if you don't tell

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<v Speaker 4>your friends, they wouldn't know either.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean sounds actually sounds really fun. So you did this?

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<v Speaker 2>This happens every year.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so you did this every year and it's like

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<v Speaker 4>the most coveted event, like girls will literally pay dues

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<v Speaker 4>senior year only like for the really going to crush.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, And did you ever either meet a guy there

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<v Speaker 2>end up hanging out with a guy that you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>expect to Was it a way for you to get

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<v Speaker 2>to know guys that you kind of wanted to get

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<v Speaker 2>to know.

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<v Speaker 4>One one time, when I was a freshman, there was

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<v Speaker 4>this boy that I really really liked. We later on

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<v Speaker 4>we started dating, actually, but before we were dating, we

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<v Speaker 4>just really liked each other whatever, And so I invited

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<v Speaker 4>him to crush and one of my older brother's best

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<v Speaker 4>friends happened to also go to UCLA at the same

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<v Speaker 4>time and get invited to rush. And I was a freshman,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I was like, I wouldn't do this now, but

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<v Speaker 4>at the time, I had like started making out with

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<v Speaker 4>my the guy that I liked at the venue, and

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<v Speaker 4>it happened to be right in front of my older

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<v Speaker 4>brother's best friend and my older brother's best friend like

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<v Speaker 4>texts my brother and he's like, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 3>This is horrible?

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<v Speaker 4>Like why my route for this even mortified.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that is hilarious. I have to say

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing, and I really shouldn't feel this way.

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<v Speaker 2>It's and appropriate. Makes you want to go back in

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<v Speaker 2>time to UCLA and a crush party. So don't tell

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<v Speaker 2>my husband, but I love it. It sounds like it was

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<v Speaker 2>so much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>It was. It was really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks Grace. This is my offspring, Rachie. So my girl

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<v Speaker 2>was in a sorority at the University of Delaware. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if you want to share the sorority, rachel.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't mind. I was in alphathy at the University

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<v Speaker 5>of Delaware.

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<v Speaker 2>You were, and so you had a pretty good experience

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<v Speaker 2>as a sorority girl at Delaware.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>This episode, we are talking about date parties, and I

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<v Speaker 2>know you had quite a few of those.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, every like three months.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just just so I kind of know, but

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<v Speaker 2>like you had to What is a date party exactly?

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<v Speaker 6>It's basically they call it like formals or they call

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<v Speaker 6>it crush and you pick a date. Everyone puts their

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<v Speaker 6>name on a date doc and you have to have

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<v Speaker 6>a certain amount of points in your sorority to be

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<v Speaker 6>able to go. So if you're not going to like

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<v Speaker 6>all the chapters, all all the events and stuff, you

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<v Speaker 6>won't be able to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Really yeah, and is it that big of a deal.

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<v Speaker 2>They that much fun?

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<v Speaker 5>They're fun. It's like some are better than others.

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<v Speaker 1>I personally liked, like frat formals better than sorority formals.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so but date parties? Was it hard to find

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<v Speaker 2>a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes a lot of people would just bring like girls

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<v Speaker 1>from another sorority.

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<v Speaker 5>I also realized you could go alone. Oh you could, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you could definitely go alone.

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<v Speaker 2>You weren't You aren't a loser if you went alone.

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<v Speaker 5>Was this more fun for me? I think when you

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<v Speaker 5>brought a guy that you were interested in.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, yeah, it's just like I don't know, you're bringing

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<v Speaker 1>them to your date party. Everyone else has their dates.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll like get together before drink, the bus ride, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I feel like it also was a lot of like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he brought me to my frat formal to his frat formal,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm going to bring him to mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I remember that, Like you had like kind

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<v Speaker 2>of an obligation.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why, but I just remember before them

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<v Speaker 2>for you, it was like, oh, well, for me, it

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<v Speaker 2>was always torture who to bring, Like he brought me

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<v Speaker 2>to his, but I really don't want to bring him

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<v Speaker 2>to mine. It was like all these politics or you

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<v Speaker 2>would get invited to a couple of them or something

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<v Speaker 2>and you didn't know which.

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<v Speaker 5>That would always happen when sometimes they would bring me

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<v Speaker 5>that there's something I don't want to bring me to mine.

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<v Speaker 2>Really just get all this good problem to have, I suppose.

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<v Speaker 1>And then sometimes there were like themes for the date nights,

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<v Speaker 1>which a lot of the times there were off campus

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<v Speaker 1>date nights. They're called like off campus mixers, so it

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<v Speaker 1>would be like two frats and two sororities, and then

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<v Speaker 1>there'd be a theme, so you didn't have to bring

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<v Speaker 1>date to those. It was just kind of like an

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<v Speaker 1>off campus party.

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<v Speaker 5>One of the themes I remember though, we had like

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<v Speaker 5>Y two K, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you dress up for them. A lot of the

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<v Speaker 2>date parties Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I liked the off campus ones because they were

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<v Speaker 1>just they were more fun by less rules.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you have any like crazy stories from any

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<v Speaker 2>of them, like on the bus or anything that happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, one time I brought a lunatic date just got

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<v Speaker 5>was so drunk the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's also a thing like if you bring a date

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<v Speaker 1>and they get wasted, then you can get a jaboard.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, let's say I brought someone and they like

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<v Speaker 1>made a flo out of themselves, then I get in trouble.

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<v Speaker 2>So a jboard is when you get like disciplinary action

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<v Speaker 2>or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I feel like I always loved the before

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<v Speaker 1>and after the day parties. Like actually being at the

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<v Speaker 1>day party was kind of just like you were drinking

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<v Speaker 1>before and then you've just sit on a bus for

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<v Speaker 1>like an hour and a half because we usually go

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<v Speaker 1>to Philly and you have to pee, you're like drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just kind of annoying. And then you get there

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<v Speaker 1>and goes by in like five seconds. But you go

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<v Speaker 1>back and it's like a whole postgame situation. I always

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<v Speaker 1>loved that, especially being in the BABS.

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<v Speaker 5>We call it the face. What's the fous Alpha fi House?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, so hold on, So you bring this guy

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<v Speaker 2>and he's wait, he gets wasted. He's a lunatic. What

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<v Speaker 2>do you do?

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<v Speaker 5>He's yeah, he just got like really wasted. It's just

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<v Speaker 5>kind of making full of himself.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, I didn't get in trouble when he was there,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I brought him. We all usually bring our

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<v Speaker 1>dates back to the Fouls after just to like hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>And I brought him back and he and we had

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<v Speaker 1>a ring like a ring camera, and he ended up

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<v Speaker 1>going on the porch and peeing off the porch and

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<v Speaker 1>I got a jboard. They're like, your date was peeing

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<v Speaker 1>off the porch at three A.

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<v Speaker 2>We see somebody you were interested in before. Was he

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<v Speaker 2>just a friend?

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<v Speaker 5>He was just like a friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, Yeah, sometimes it was better bringing a friend because

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<v Speaker 1>you were like, Okay, I don't need to have that pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ever feel pressure when you would bring dates

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<v Speaker 2>that weren't your boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably just that they would have fun get along with

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<v Speaker 1>that brought some bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Dates he did, what do you mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Picky boys? Soles? Maybe if I went back, I would

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<v Speaker 5>bring a girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're there and everybody's drinking and people because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just I'm trying to remember. I kind of do like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember a lot of nights where you come

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<v Speaker 2>the next day. You were like thrilled after a date party,

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<v Speaker 2>whether or not he was it, or you kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like someone else and your date would get mad at

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<v Speaker 2>you or there was always like something I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>with them.

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<v Speaker 1>I was also annoying because if you weren't twenty one

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<v Speaker 1>at these day parties, like you couldn't drink there. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was I thought when we turned twenty one, it

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<v Speaker 1>was more fun because we'd be able to.

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<v Speaker 5>Be at the bar and stuff. Right, But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know. They were never like my favorite.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I always feel like something always ended up happening to

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<v Speaker 5>You're right, like there was just like drama, right. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I also do you remember when I told you the story?

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<v Speaker 1>I we had a date night and afterwards we were

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<v Speaker 1>all on the bus and I like dropped my.

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<v Speaker 5>Phone and I just like walked off the bus. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>And it was like two weeks before school ended. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>And I knew I.

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<v Speaker 1>Dropped my phone like it was it was all on

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<v Speaker 1>the floor. I just I guess I walked out about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you waste it today? I mean probably?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Rachel, you are the love of my life,

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<v Speaker 2>and now we say goodbye. All right, guys, now we're

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<v Speaker 2>bringing in Michelle. So Michelle, you may already know, but

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<v Speaker 2>we are talking about date parties. And so you were

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<v Speaker 2>in a sorority.

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<v Speaker 3>I was a Sigma capa got it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm assuming that you guys had date parties there.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know, Greek life is pretty big.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it is super big, and it's been growing too.

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<v Speaker 3>They add like a new sorority every few years.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, wow, about how many girls in your sorority just

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<v Speaker 2>had of curiosity?

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<v Speaker 3>Around three hundred? So are PC's in the beginning, we're

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<v Speaker 3>like ninety people each.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Yeah that's a lot. All right. Yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 2>want you to tell me a little bit about what

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<v Speaker 2>date parties were like there.

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<v Speaker 3>So date parties are very frequent. They have been every

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<v Speaker 3>single weekend, and there's always a mix of different frats

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<v Speaker 3>and sororities. People have kind of their brother frats that

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<v Speaker 3>they do a ton of events with and then there's

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<v Speaker 3>some random mixes, but they're always super fun. They get

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<v Speaker 3>some crazy DJs and rent some venues. And the themes

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<v Speaker 3>are honestly my favorite part.

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<v Speaker 2>Why why is that there's just.

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<v Speaker 3>Such funny themes and some will have like the same

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<v Speaker 3>theme every year, so everyone is anticipating it and excited.

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<v Speaker 2>What was your favorite?

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<v Speaker 3>I love the Kentucky Derby theme.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was always a really fun one.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. So you said you had them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm think in all schools don't work like this, but

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<v Speaker 2>you have them every weekend, so where you had to

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<v Speaker 2>have a date, you always were either getting invited or

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<v Speaker 2>inviting someone to yours.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so there's always one happening every weekend. Not my

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<v Speaker 3>sorority having one every weekend, but there's always something.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh got it? Okay? And did the girls ever invite

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<v Speaker 2>like friends from other sororities.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, that happened all the time. I definitely did

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<v Speaker 3>that a few times.

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<v Speaker 2>You did, because I feel like it'd be kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like pressure if you don't have a boyfriends, like find

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<v Speaker 2>a date every weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>Right, And honestly, sometimes it's more fun if you bring

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<v Speaker 3>a friend yeah than a boy right.

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<v Speaker 2>I have heard that. Do you have any crazy stories

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<v Speaker 2>from any of the parties?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, honestly, now that Kentucky Derby's on my mind, there

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<v Speaker 3>was this one time when this frat called Lambda did

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<v Speaker 3>the Kentucky Derby party and they partnered with Sigath, which

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<v Speaker 3>they usually don't do. It's usually a solo date party,

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<v Speaker 3>but in this instance they partnered together and the boys

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<v Speaker 3>made all of the freshmen where Potato sacks and do

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<v Speaker 3>a race as if they were horses, and they bet

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<v Speaker 3>on them and everything, and the decor was crazy. All

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<v Speaker 3>of the floor was.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, well, I'm thinking they didn't want you have potato

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<v Speaker 2>sacks the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>No, yeah, just for the race, Okay, for the race, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>but at the end there was a fight about who

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<v Speaker 3>won and who crossed the finish line first, and so

0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:26.359
<v Speaker 3>they started physically fighting and it was the craziest thing ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's what happens when you mix prap boys and

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<v Speaker 2>too much alcohol.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking absolutely. And then the rest of the party

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<v Speaker 3>there was like a side for each fraternity and it

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<v Speaker 3>was so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Okay, so that sounds sort of fun

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<v Speaker 2>also crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ever like meet a boy at one of

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<v Speaker 2>these parties and start dating or like somebody else's date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I definitely met a few boys at the date parties,

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<v Speaker 3>but nothing that really lasted.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, So, but was it it was did you

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes feel the pressure of finding someone for them?

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<v Speaker 5>Was it more?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in a friend group of like eight girls,

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<v Speaker 3>and so if they were bringing boys, like if the

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<v Speaker 3>majority was bringing boys, then we would all find boys

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<v Speaker 3>to go, but sometimes we would just make it like

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<v Speaker 3>a girl's night and that would be super fun too.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, there's definitely pressure if your friends are also

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<v Speaker 3>bringing boy dates.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, I remember that with my daughter, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>having to sort of like figure out who and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know because now I'm, you know, an old mother type,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I always feel like, what if you can't

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<v Speaker 2>find a date?

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<v Speaker 5>That must be all.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's so stressful for no reason because at

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<v Speaker 3>the end of the day, your sorority is there or

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<v Speaker 3>like you know people there anyways, and it ends up

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<v Speaker 3>being fun.

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<v Speaker 5>Good.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. Okay, well, I really appreciate your joining us, Michelle. Listen,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, there are so many callers that want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to us about date parties, so it's just like,

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<v Speaker 2>put a pin in it. We'll do another episode. Who

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<v Speaker 2>knew that day parties were so exciting and so salacious,

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<v Speaker 2>So please come back and listen to part two.