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Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with

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Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice.

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Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. Hi, guys, welcome to another

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Speaker 2: episode of Dirty Rush. Today we are diving into one

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Speaker 2: of the wildest and most unforgettable parts of Greek life.

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Speaker 2: We're talking about date parties, from epic themes and chaotic

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Speaker 2: nights to the awkward pairings and unexpected drama. We are

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Speaker 2: breaking down the good, the bad, and everything in between.

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Speaker 2: So we're going to have some callers on this episode.

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Speaker 2: So now we are bringing in the lovely grace. So

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking you were a sorority girl.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I was.

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Speaker 2: Where did you go to school?

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Speaker 4: I went to UCLA.

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Speaker 2: So we are talking today about date parties, and we're

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Speaker 2: just talking about kind of sometimes the chaos of them,

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Speaker 2: the themes of them. You know, was there pressure if

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Speaker 2: you didn't have a date, you know, trying to find

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Speaker 2: one or getting asked to one. How are your experiences

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Speaker 2: with date parties?

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Speaker 4: So I feel like in terms of finding a date,

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Speaker 4: it was kind of well rounded, which I feel like

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Speaker 4: isn't very normal at other schools, but at UCLA it

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Speaker 4: was kind of like in the Beginning like freshman and

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Speaker 4: sophomore year, you everybody was like fighting a date because

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Speaker 4: everybody wanted to be taking like a cute frat boy

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Speaker 4: that they just knew of or thought was cute or whatever.

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Speaker 4: And then as time went on and you get older

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Speaker 4: into like your junior and your senior year, everybody stops

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Speaker 4: caring about like who to take because at UCLA Greek

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Speaker 4: life is so small, So like by the time you

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Speaker 4: reach your junior and senior year, you kind of already

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Speaker 4: know everybody. But there is this one date party that

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Speaker 4: is pretty crazy that I feel like is very you know,

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Speaker 4: to UCLA, which is called Crush. But basically, you get

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Speaker 4: to choose three dates that you want to invite, and

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Speaker 4: you like list them from like one to three, of

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Speaker 4: least out of your three options. And then this committee

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Speaker 4: appointed by this alreaty called the Crush Committee, basically calls

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Speaker 4: and they're like a girl as requested for you to

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Speaker 4: be her date. She wants you to come to Crush

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Speaker 4: do you accept and you have no idea who invited you?

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Speaker 2: The guys don't know who have okay, So they don't

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Speaker 2: know who asked them exactly.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I have no idea who them.

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Speaker 3: They just know that somebody asks, okay.

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Speaker 4: And then every grade addresses to a different theme. So

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Speaker 4: like like one year or theme was like goes under

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Speaker 4: and so it was like one grade was under the sheet,

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Speaker 4: so everybody were like pajamas. One grade was like under

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Speaker 4: the sea, so everybody was like c themed and everybody

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Speaker 4: had a different grade. So like when they call your date,

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Speaker 4: they're like, all you get to know is the theme,

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Speaker 4: So you get to know what grade of the person

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Speaker 5: That's it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, And do they also dress to theme?

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Speaker 3: Yes, so they have to.

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Speaker 4: So basically, like all the girls all get ready together.

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Speaker 4: Everybody's like so excited, and like everybody picks out really

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Speaker 3: But like they don't know who invited them.

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Speaker 4: All they know is like the theme of what they're

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Speaker 2: That actually sounds like so much much fun. I think

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Speaker 2: that's hilarious. Yeah, what happens to the guys that get

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Speaker 2: like like two girls had them on the list and

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Speaker 2: how do you then just the guy get to choose?

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Speaker 4: I think in that case it would probably go based

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Speaker 2: They all three get invited that you rank no.

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Speaker 4: So basically your top pick gets invited, but like let's

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Speaker 4: say you're top pick is already invited by somebody else,

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Speaker 4: then your number two pick could get invited. But you

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Speaker 4: could have the same number two pick because you chose

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Speaker 4: like your guy best friend as like four other girls

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Speaker 2: Was Oh my god, I'm getting such a any day. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: It's crazy. It's literally crazy. So everybody's kind of like

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Speaker 4: who's here for who? What's going on? And yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: So do you ever tell the guy you were my

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Speaker 2: first pick? You were my Like how does it? Does

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Speaker 2: it ever sort of like come out? Is it? You

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Speaker 2: keep it kind of wrapped?

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Speaker 4: Or if you want to reveal it you can, or

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Speaker 4: you could just go about everything saying nothing, like it's

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Speaker 4: really up to you and then but it'll never come

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Speaker 2: So your friends don't even know, like you write it

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Speaker 2: down unless you tell them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, most people will like tell each other or be

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Speaker 4: like let's invite or like plot to like invite a

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Speaker 4: certain group of guys. But like if you don't tell

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Speaker 4: your friends, they wouldn't know either.

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Speaker 2: I mean sounds actually sounds really fun. So you did this?

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Speaker 2: This happens every year.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you did this every year and it's like

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Speaker 4: the most coveted event, like girls will literally pay dues

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Speaker 4: senior year only like for the really going to crush.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And did you ever either meet a guy there

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Speaker 4: One one time, when I was a freshman, there was

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Speaker 4: Like I was like, I wouldn't do this now, but

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Speaker 4: texts my brother and he's like, what is going on?

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Speaker 3: This is horrible?

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Speaker 4: Like why my route for this even mortified.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that is hilarious. I have to say

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Speaker 2: the whole thing, and I really shouldn't feel this way.

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Speaker 2: It's and appropriate. Makes you want to go back in

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Speaker 2: time to UCLA and a crush party. So don't tell

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Speaker 2: my husband, but I love it. It sounds like it was

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Speaker 2: so much fun.

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Speaker 3: It was. It was really fun.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Grace. This is my offspring, Rachie. So my girl

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Speaker 2: was in a sorority at the University of Delaware. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if you want to share the sorority, rachel.

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Speaker 5: I don't mind. I was in alphathy at the University

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Speaker 2: You were, and so you had a pretty good experience

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Speaker 2: as a sorority girl at Delaware.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I loved it.

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Speaker 2: This episode, we are talking about date parties, and I

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Speaker 2: know you had quite a few of those.

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Speaker 5: Yes, every like three months.

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Speaker 2: And I just just so I kind of know, but

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Speaker 2: like you had to What is a date party exactly?

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Speaker 6: It's basically they call it like formals or they call

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Speaker 6: it crush and you pick a date. Everyone puts their

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Speaker 6: a certain amount of points in your sorority to be

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Speaker 6: able to go. So if you're not going to like

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Speaker 6: all the chapters, all all the events and stuff, you

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Speaker 2: Really yeah, and is it that big of a deal.

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Speaker 2: They that much fun?

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Speaker 5: They're fun. It's like some are better than others.

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Speaker 1: I personally liked, like frat formals better than sorority formals.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so but date parties? Was it hard to find

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Speaker 1: Sometimes a lot of people would just bring like girls

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Speaker 5: I also realized you could go alone. Oh you could, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: you could definitely go alone.

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Speaker 2: You weren't You aren't a loser if you went alone.

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Speaker 5: Was this more fun for me? I think when you

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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, it's just like I don't know, you're bringing

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Speaker 1: You'll like get together before drink, the bus ride, and

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Speaker 1: then I feel like it also was a lot of like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: he brought me to my frat formal to his frat formal,

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Speaker 1: so I'm going to bring him to mind.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I remember that, Like you had like kind

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Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why, but I just remember before them

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Speaker 2: was always torture who to bring, Like he brought me

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Speaker 2: to his, but I really don't want to bring him

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Speaker 2: to mine. It was like all these politics or you

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Speaker 2: would get invited to a couple of them or something

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Speaker 5: That would always happen when sometimes they would bring me

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Speaker 5: that there's something I don't want to bring me to mine.

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Speaker 2: Really just get all this good problem to have, I suppose.

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Speaker 1: And then sometimes there were like themes for the date nights,

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Speaker 1: which a lot of the times there were off campus

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Speaker 1: date nights. They're called like off campus mixers, so it

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Speaker 1: would be like two frats and two sororities, and then

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Speaker 1: there'd be a theme, so you didn't have to bring

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Speaker 1: date to those. It was just kind of like an

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Speaker 1: off campus party.

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Speaker 5: One of the themes I remember though, we had like

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Speaker 2: Like you dress up for them. A lot of the

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Speaker 2: date parties Like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I liked the off campus ones because they were

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Speaker 1: just they were more fun by less rules.

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Speaker 2: So do you have any like crazy stories from any

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Speaker 2: of them, like on the bus or anything that happened.

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Speaker 5: Well, one time I brought a lunatic date just got

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Speaker 5: was so drunk the whole time.

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Speaker 1: It's also a thing like if you bring a date

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I feel like I always loved the before

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Speaker 5: We call it the face. What's the fous Alpha fi House?

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, so hold on, So you bring this guy

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Speaker 2: and he's wait, he gets wasted. He's a lunatic. What

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Speaker 5: He's yeah, he just got like really wasted. It's just

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Speaker 1: Actually, I didn't get in trouble when he was there,

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Speaker 2: We see somebody you were interested in before. Was he

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Speaker 5: He was just like a friend.

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Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, sometimes it was better bringing a friend because

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Speaker 2: Did you ever feel pressure when you would bring dates

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Probably just that they would have fun get along with

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Speaker 5: Picky boys? Soles? Maybe if I went back, I would

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Speaker 2: So you're there and everybody's drinking and people because I'm

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Speaker 1: I was also annoying because if you weren't twenty one

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Speaker 1: at these day parties, like you couldn't drink there. So

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Speaker 5: Be at the bar and stuff. Right, But yeah, I

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Speaker 5: don't know. They were never like my favorite.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I always feel like something always ended up happening to

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Speaker 5: You're right, like there was just like drama, right. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I also do you remember when I told you the story?

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Speaker 1: I we had a date night and afterwards we were

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Speaker 5: Phone and I just like walked off the bus. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Dropped my phone like it was it was all on

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Speaker 1: Where you waste it today? I mean probably?

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Speaker 2: All right, Rachel, you are the love of my life,

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Speaker 2: and now we say goodbye. All right, guys, now we're

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Speaker 2: bringing in Michelle. So Michelle, you may already know, but

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Speaker 2: we are talking about date parties. And so you were

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Speaker 3: I was a Sigma capa got it.

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Speaker 2: And I'm assuming that you guys had date parties there.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, Greek life is pretty big.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it is super big, and it's been growing too.

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Speaker 3: They add like a new sorority every few years.

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Speaker 2: Really, wow, about how many girls in your sorority just

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Speaker 3: Around three hundred? So are PC's in the beginning, we're

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Speaker 3: like ninety people each.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah that's a lot. All right. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 3: So date parties are very frequent. They have been every

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Speaker 3: they do a ton of events with and then there's

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Speaker 3: some random mixes, but they're always super fun. They get

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Speaker 3: some crazy DJs and rent some venues. And the themes

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Speaker 3: are honestly my favorite part.

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Speaker 2: Why why is that there's just.

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Speaker 3: Such funny themes and some will have like the same

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Speaker 2: What was your favorite?

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Speaker 3: I love the Kentucky Derby theme.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was always a really fun one.

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Speaker 2: I love that. So you said you had them.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm think in all schools don't work like this, but

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Speaker 2: you have them every weekend, so where you had to

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Speaker 2: have a date, you always were either getting invited or

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so there's always one happening every weekend. Not my

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Speaker 2: Oh got it? Okay? And did the girls ever invite

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, that happened all the time. I definitely did

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Speaker 2: You did, because I feel like it'd be kind of

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Speaker 3: Right, And honestly, sometimes it's more fun if you bring

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Speaker 2: I have heard that. Do you have any crazy stories

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Speaker 3: Well, honestly, now that Kentucky Derby's on my mind, there

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Speaker 3: was this one time when this frat called Lambda did

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Speaker 3: they usually don't do. It's usually a solo date party,

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Speaker 3: made all of the freshmen where Potato sacks and do

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Speaker 2: Hey, well, I'm thinking they didn't want you have potato

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, just for the race, Okay, for the race, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's what happens when you mix prap boys and

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking absolutely. And then the rest of the party

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Okay, so that sounds sort of fun

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 2: Did you ever like meet a boy at one of

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I definitely met a few boys at the date parties,

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So, but was it it was did you

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Speaker 5: Was it more?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I was in a friend group of like eight girls,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I remember that with my daughter, you know,

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Speaker 2: and so I always feel like, what if you can't

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Speaker 5: That must be all.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's so stressful for no reason because at

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Speaker 5: Good.

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Speaker 2: I love that. Okay, well, I really appreciate your joining us, Michelle. Listen,

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Speaker 2: you guys, there are so many callers that want to

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Speaker 2: talk to us about date parties, so it's just like,

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Speaker 2: put a pin in it. We'll do another episode. Who

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Speaker 2: knew that day parties were so exciting and so salacious,

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Speaker 2: So please come back and listen to part two.