WEBVTT - Robert J. Cerfolio, MD

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Craig Ferguson. The name of this podcast

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<v Speaker 1>is Joy. I talked to interest in people about what

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<v Speaker 1>brings them happiness. Doctor Robert J. Serfolio. We'll call him

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<v Speaker 1>Surf because that's what he wants. And once you know

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<v Speaker 1>about this guy, you'll think, you know what, give him

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<v Speaker 1>everything he wants.

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<v Speaker 2>He's an amazing character, wasn't it, this.

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<v Speaker 1>Surf? Before we begin, I do want to say one

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<v Speaker 1>thing to you, which is I want to apologize because

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<v Speaker 1>you come in and you recorded in an episode of

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<v Speaker 1>this and then we checked it back and we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>record it. It's like it's the podcast equivalent of like

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<v Speaker 1>you doing an operation and cancer leave at least leaving

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<v Speaker 1>the key, your keys or.

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<v Speaker 2>Something in there, or maybe your wallet or your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we got the cancer out, everything's good, but I

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<v Speaker 1>left my phone there, so we got to go back.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I get this a lot from women that

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<v Speaker 3>I go on dates. They say they accidentally left something

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<v Speaker 3>back so they have to come back.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, here's the thing, though, You're just saying, well, are

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<v Speaker 1>you single? You're not really single? Now you got to

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<v Speaker 1>go yes. I yeah, that's why that was a joke. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that very Yeah, I get totally understand. It's vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>So listen, I want to talk to you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit because I was just saying to you, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a screening coming up for an en dusky coming up

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<v Speaker 1>in about a week, and it's only because they find

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<v Speaker 1>a little irritation during the last ones. They gave me

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<v Speaker 1>some PPIs to to treat it.

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<v Speaker 2>They found Barrett's spirits.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, it wasn't barrets it was it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was a lesion, an ulcerated lesion or something like blasia displas.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, right, so listen, I know that.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not really on on your dime here, but is

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<v Speaker 1>that good or bad displays?

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<v Speaker 3>It's just a thing could be could be absolutely much

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<v Speaker 3>better than some other things.

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<v Speaker 1>They sure, well they did a biop so you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>find anything right now.

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<v Speaker 3>But they might do now is I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>you gonna have an ultrasound done at the same time

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<v Speaker 3>in multiple quadrant biopsies. Sometimes they do that they get

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<v Speaker 3>more representative tissue.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, you might do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to be chilled down on propofilo.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be taking the big sleepy time, which

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<v Speaker 1>we've established I love too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, well, yeah, I love too much.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why you know, I would take an endoscopy

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<v Speaker 1>once or twice a week if I could, just just

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<v Speaker 1>for the propofall. So listen, tell me this dude. You are,

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<v Speaker 1>and we established this before, but you are, to my understanding,

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<v Speaker 1>the number one robotic surgery guy in the US. Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So that that's just not a measurable metric role,

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<v Speaker 3>is it, really? You know, it's like saying, I'm I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I've done a lot of robotic thoracic surgery, but there

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<v Speaker 3>are I'm I'm a lung certain of thoracic surgery. I

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<v Speaker 3>do long lungs, esophagus and thymus, anything in the chest

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<v Speaker 3>that's really not heart related, though we we can take.

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<v Speaker 2>Our parts of the heart.

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<v Speaker 3>But we're you know, even though we're boarded as cardio

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<v Speaker 3>thoracic surgeons, we choose to do thoracic, which is the

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<v Speaker 3>long the esophagus, the media stye, and the thymus stuff

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<v Speaker 3>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So is that specialism or is a union? We're going

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<v Speaker 2>all on. I'll strike tomorrow. It's a matter right now.

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<v Speaker 2>You big that up could have joined the writers. The

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<v Speaker 2>writers are.

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<v Speaker 1>And the actors are still. But you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>as long as the doctor stay in, I'll be all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So talk me through what a robotic surgery is, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's not you just programming in a robot, and the

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<v Speaker 1>ruleboat was ended well to tell me what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Even the patient I operated on today, who came from

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<v Speaker 3>very far away and is super educated, when he came

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<v Speaker 3>in he looked at the robot.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, now you're you're doing it right, not that

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<v Speaker 2>big machine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, listen, bro, we've talked, you've looked at the videos,

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<v Speaker 1>you've looked.

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<v Speaker 2>At everything doesn't even make sense.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, so what the robot does is we're able

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<v Speaker 3>instead of making big incisions and spreading the ribs, we're

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<v Speaker 3>making incisions that are a third of an inch eight millimeters.

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<v Speaker 2>We will make three of these.

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<v Speaker 3>The old robot actually had five millimeters reports we were

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<v Speaker 3>making five millimeter incisions, not eight, which I think actually

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<v Speaker 3>had a real benefit. This new one, I would hope

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<v Speaker 3>that they're going to miniaturize it a little bit. So

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<v Speaker 3>you put in these metal ports through these tiny incisions

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<v Speaker 3>in the chest, and then through the poor come a

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<v Speaker 3>series of different instruments right, and then they get hooked

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<v Speaker 3>up to the robot. This great, big, giant mostrosity look

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<v Speaker 3>like it's over the patient.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. Does that have a face on itth it does?

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<v Speaker 3>He asked me if I name my robot, I'm like, listen, bro,

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<v Speaker 3>we don't name the robot. That's not something we do.

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<v Speaker 3>But then we sit in a console remotely. Now you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I've operated and I think twenty six countries. In one country,

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<v Speaker 3>I was a mile away from the patient, which would

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<v Speaker 3>never happen in the United States. Could never fly in China, right,

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<v Speaker 3>But they wanted a big room of people. They had

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<v Speaker 3>eight hundred people, and they wanted me to answer questions

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<v Speaker 3>as I was operating.

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<v Speaker 1>We teaching situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when I go on these things are always you know,

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<v Speaker 3>for charity and teaching and a honor to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to do it. So it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>corporate gig for a comedian. Then it's like, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very happy to be in China. I'm going to do

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of thoracic here for you. I love

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<v Speaker 1>you guys a little bit. I think they get paid, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they pay for our flight.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's a that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>See, you know, I knew being a doctor who was

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<v Speaker 1>the way to go finance.

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<v Speaker 3>You made a good decision when you nail the MCATs,

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<v Speaker 3>you made a good I.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell you I did not make the decision. If I

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<v Speaker 1>had made the decision, it would be something else. I

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<v Speaker 1>was dealing with the cards. I was deal So you

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<v Speaker 1>go in there and you so you work remotely in

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<v Speaker 1>the sense that is it like a video gamer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so we are sitting in a console that has

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<v Speaker 3>an immersive experience. So it's a three D We put

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<v Speaker 3>our head into a console like this, and there's all ergonomics.

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<v Speaker 3>You have your own chair, but there's a giant machine

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<v Speaker 3>with two hands here, multiple pedals for your left foot,

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<v Speaker 3>your right foot.

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<v Speaker 2>There like six options.

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<v Speaker 3>It looks complicated, but it's actually very I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>doing it, so how hard can it?

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<v Speaker 2>Come on? You're trusting yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Done.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm giving it to you straight. It's it's like

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<v Speaker 3>an airplane. It looks super complicated, but you know once

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<v Speaker 3>you get to know it exactly. Yeah, And so you

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<v Speaker 3>move your left foot and the right foot and in

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<v Speaker 3>the right chest. You're going to have two left hands,

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<v Speaker 3>so you can toggle your foot and make your left

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<v Speaker 3>hand the one here or the one behind it, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Assist yourself, so you're like your four hands.

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<v Speaker 3>You have three hands and a camera, so you're driving

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<v Speaker 3>your own camera, which is a big advantage over laparoscopy

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<v Speaker 3>or video assist a throoscopy or arthroscopy, which where they

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<v Speaker 3>put a scope into joint and you have to hold

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<v Speaker 3>it here it hooked up to a robot, and as

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<v Speaker 3>I move my hands and feet, the camera moves where

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<v Speaker 3>I want to go. Gigantic advancement because when I did

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<v Speaker 3>these cases with someone driving the camera, I'm like, listen,

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<v Speaker 3>did you bring the camera?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to look at it? Move it up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's a constant dialogue. If you have great assistance, they.

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<v Speaker 3>Know where you want to look, but no one knows

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<v Speaker 3>where you want to look more than me. So with

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<v Speaker 3>the robot, I drive the camera. The robot is a

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<v Speaker 3>slave to my hands. If I don't move my hands

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<v Speaker 3>to robots, it's still right. If I don't move my feet,

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<v Speaker 3>the robot doesn't move too. So it doesn't go this

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<v Speaker 3>patient is It.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't It doesn't do anything that at some point we

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<v Speaker 1>will get to where parts of the operation.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we'll say to the robot, here's the artery.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the vey and here's the Broncus robot. Get around

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<v Speaker 3>the artery because at some point it's going to be

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<v Speaker 3>better than us. I firmly believe that, despite what my

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<v Speaker 3>colleagues say it.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's it's like the benefits of AI right that correct.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in Italy a couple of days ago lecturing

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<v Speaker 3>on this, and the people in the audience again were like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, sir, if you're you're pushing this, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>get us out of a job.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm giving it's about getting patients better care.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're crazy, we know we're not like they did

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<v Speaker 1>say you're crazy, you're grazez.

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<v Speaker 2>You make it the roll. Boy, it's about news one

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<v Speaker 2>of the role.

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<v Speaker 1>But so let me so. But the tack title approach

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<v Speaker 1>you as a as a surgeon. Now, presumably I would

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<v Speaker 1>imagine that as you're training and going through building up

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<v Speaker 1>becoming a surgeon. Right, it's a very tac tale thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You ran there with the sounds and the smells and

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<v Speaker 1>you are so boy, you are You're pretty sure you're

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty smart guy. How did you know that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I used to be a doctor used in my mind

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<v Speaker 1>before ye, well, I'm not a doctor, but I did

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<v Speaker 1>a yoga class in LA which makes you a doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah about New York City. So do you lose anything

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<v Speaker 1>with that?

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<v Speaker 3>Such a great question, And again I hate to go

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<v Speaker 3>back to experiences, but today I have and I'm very

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<v Speaker 3>honored because they don't come to see me. They come

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<v Speaker 3>to see NYU and the NYU team. So I have

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<v Speaker 3>a doctor from Brazil and two from England who were

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<v Speaker 3>there today. And the case we did is a metasectomy.

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<v Speaker 3>I won't de technical, but it means there's little tiny

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<v Speaker 3>spots in the lung that are very small that both

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<v Speaker 3>surgeons said where they are they would make a big incision,

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<v Speaker 3>spread through it is, put their fingers in and feel.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, yeah, you could do it. That's how I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I've done eighteen thousand, nine hundred operations. That's how I

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<v Speaker 3>did my first ten thousand. Now we can't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>So with the robot, although you can't feel, you can

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<v Speaker 3>still take your instrument and rub it over the lung.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you can see a little tiny nodule, a four

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<v Speaker 3>millimeure nodule like a pop out on the top of

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<v Speaker 3>the surface, or even five to six millimeters under the surface.

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<v Speaker 2>So we've come up.

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<v Speaker 1>With ways so you do this, But you would have

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<v Speaker 1>to be a surgeon who's experienced the tag tile, you've

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<v Speaker 1>been through that to feel that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's a fallacy.

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<v Speaker 3>I think to say, hey, you got to open up

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<v Speaker 3>and do a whole bunch of opens, or go to

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<v Speaker 3>a lab now and operate on animals and do opens,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so. I think we've gotten so good

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<v Speaker 3>with simulation and teaching that we can teach the non

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<v Speaker 3>experience palpader with the tactile so young surgeons who have

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<v Speaker 3>not opened, because we do everything robotically, everything one hundred percent,

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<v Speaker 3>me and my partners, we don't ever open. That's why

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<v Speaker 3>people come from all over the world, and our conversion

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<v Speaker 3>rate has been essentially zero the last four or five years.

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<v Speaker 3>Does that cut down on a post off infection as well?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's not.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, don't get a lot of infections, but the pain.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm not about to write a paper. I've operated

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<v Speaker 3>on one hundred and six surgeons. They've all been back

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<v Speaker 3>in the o R within seven to ten days. So

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<v Speaker 3>your recovery, because you have tiny little nicks, that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you know, we we have now we have

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<v Speaker 3>to make the one incision bigger because we put the

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<v Speaker 3>tumor which is in a lung and a bag, and

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<v Speaker 3>then we're like pulling the bag. I got my foot

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<v Speaker 3>on the guy's chest trying to pull the bag out, really,

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<v Speaker 3>because you want to make the decisions as small as

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<v Speaker 3>you can.

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<v Speaker 1>And it does make that sound? Does it really something

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<v Speaker 1>like that? That's horrifying and awesome at the same time. Now, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think about this, because I've made a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of surgeons in my life. You seem very like this

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<v Speaker 1>to me. They're kind of their jobs, you know. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys are your competitive, you're sporty. Yep, you're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I've met male and female surgeons and they're

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<v Speaker 1>very similar. There's that real kind of sport mentality.

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<v Speaker 3>I played baseball in college, and all three of my

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<v Speaker 3>boys were captain of their high school baseball teams. And

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<v Speaker 3>they went on to college and played D one baseball.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, are you boys own medicine?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they were a little too smart.

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<v Speaker 3>They thought I worked too hard, and they're doing things

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<v Speaker 3>that are may be a little bit better for society.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but that that kind of drive your

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<v Speaker 1>father was a doctor. He was, Yeah, it was your father.

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<v Speaker 1>Very sporty and very he was. He played baseball in

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<v Speaker 1>college as well. What kind of doctor? What kind was he?

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<v Speaker 1>A surgeon? Was a surgeony urologist? Oh plenty of I'm

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<v Speaker 1>fifty one years old. I mean it's like I'm sixty

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<v Speaker 1>one too, right, Well you know then, yes, now you

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<v Speaker 1>know as a as a doctor, you're probably a terrible patient, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I really am.

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<v Speaker 3>I had surgery about nine days ago, right before I

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<v Speaker 3>flew to Italy days ago, and I was back in

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<v Speaker 3>the o R two days later.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I see what it was?

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<v Speaker 2>It was? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I've done so much surgery, it's a very common

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<v Speaker 3>for surgeon. As we looked down, I had advancing arthritis

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<v Speaker 3>in my cervical proteinebro bodies, and so they just pucked

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit of the bone out with a little incision,

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<v Speaker 3>took a little the disc out, and I had a

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<v Speaker 3>little numbus in my finger, which is scary when you're

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<v Speaker 3>a surgeon, like I kind of need that puppy.

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<v Speaker 2>I may not be good, but I'm valuable to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure. It was like a concert penist or something, and

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<v Speaker 1>you need that one hundred percent is it demystified for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Then surgery is like because a lot of people, surgery

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<v Speaker 1>is like, this is a very big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very frightened. I'm very upset. Doesn't you're like, nah,

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead, I'll get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll bet it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because I I obviously I know the people who

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<v Speaker 3>are really good. They did a minimally invasive incision in

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<v Speaker 3>my neck and I literally was in my office.

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<v Speaker 2>Now he told me to take a week off.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in my the finished the operation at one,

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<v Speaker 3>I saw a patient in my office at five, and

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<v Speaker 3>then I was back in the operating Monday, and I

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<v Speaker 3>flew to Italy the next day.

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<v Speaker 1>See that's see, that's just you know, listening to your dog. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the amount one hundred percent. But you asked if

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<v Speaker 1>we're good patients. I was giving an example to Supper.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just you are.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think that my surgeon was so good that

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<v Speaker 2>you did.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever get when you were training right at the start,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're looking at you know, all the different disasters

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<v Speaker 1>that can go wrong with the young body, Yeah, did

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<v Speaker 1>you get them all? Did you become a hypochondriac because

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<v Speaker 1>you were still? See I would have like even talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you, I'm thinking, oh my god, I hope i'm catch.

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<v Speaker 2>So I hope he's not got anything on his end.

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<v Speaker 3>So I did wash my hands and I washed your

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<v Speaker 3>card for you too, by the way, so you're good.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, that's something that I think is maybe

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<v Speaker 1>something about the mindset. Because if you're a jockey, you're sporty,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a competitive personality. I think that probably helps going

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<v Speaker 1>in right, because you against the disease.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, it is it is.

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<v Speaker 3>But uh so you know now, as someone who has

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<v Speaker 3>an MBA and was of executive VP and COO of

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<v Speaker 3>a healthcare system and a leader, those are some of

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<v Speaker 3>the bad things about surgeons. And it has to do

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<v Speaker 3>with our training. So that's interesting because in college you

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<v Speaker 3>have to be in the top one percent, so you're

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<v Speaker 3>kind of hoping a little bit of people around you

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<v Speaker 3>don't do well.

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<v Speaker 2>That's terrible as a leader. And then as you're in.

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<v Speaker 3>Medical school, you got to be AOA in the top

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<v Speaker 3>two percent to get a surgical residency, and then to

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<v Speaker 3>become a cardiothoracic surgeon, which is one of the hardest

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<v Speaker 3>besides neurosurgery or ortho. So again you you sort of

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<v Speaker 3>take resources and can become I always say you can

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<v Speaker 3>kind of sometimes tell who's going to be the surgeon,

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<v Speaker 3>who's going to be an interness by looking at people

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<v Speaker 3>play in the playground at six or seven. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>but I think if you're going to lead, it's just

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<v Speaker 3>the opposite. You have to give all the resources to

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<v Speaker 3>everybody else. You have to be humble and listen and

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<v Speaker 3>to be able to make fast, quick, definitive decisions, which

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<v Speaker 3>you have to do in the oar when someone's coding

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<v Speaker 3>is exactly what wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>So patient is dying, so come in.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, when you're a surgical resident you get called

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<v Speaker 3>once a day, twice a day to a floor and

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<v Speaker 3>a patient is coding and dying. You have to come

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<v Speaker 3>and immediately take charge to everybody to shut up. You say,

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<v Speaker 3>do this, start up in nefferin, we're going to do CPR,

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<v Speaker 3>and you're barking out orders. Right, So that's a great

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<v Speaker 3>leadership style for that particular moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you kind of you kind of get a Russia?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, yes, anyone who says you don't you

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<v Speaker 3>well if the patient does.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, well let me ask you, because that that's

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of leads me into What I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you about a little bit is the emotional

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<v Speaker 1>impact of what you do because you're facing literally dead

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<v Speaker 1>as as your profession, you you face death. It's what

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<v Speaker 1>you do correct and and you try and head it

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<v Speaker 1>off of the past or or is there a point

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<v Speaker 1>where it's too much, where you can't take it.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe because how my father treated me, how he trained me,

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<v Speaker 3>I saw it well, so I think he made us

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<v Speaker 3>really tough. His dad was a immigrant from Italy, came over,

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<v Speaker 3>was a farmer, second grade education, the concept of hard work,

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<v Speaker 3>and I do think and resilience and toughness and and

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<v Speaker 3>I love when people say the kids don't have it.

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<v Speaker 2>The kids have that cost too.

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<v Speaker 3>They're going to and they're gonna be better doctors, better

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<v Speaker 3>fathers and husbands and daughters and wives and granddaughters and

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<v Speaker 3>grandsons than we are.

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<v Speaker 1>They're going to be sure. The definitely getting better, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're going to be more resilient. But it's her job

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<v Speaker 1>as older people to say kids are terrible. There they

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<v Speaker 1>were better when I was a kid, but they weren't.

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<v Speaker 1>You and I both know it. They weren't better, awful.

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<v Speaker 1>But I heard that today.

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<v Speaker 3>From the one of our visitors from England and I

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<v Speaker 3>and I said, listen, I politely disagree with you. These

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<v Speaker 3>doctors are going to get better outcomes than us because

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<v Speaker 3>each generation gets better and they may not have the

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<v Speaker 3>same experience because we spent one hundred and twenty hours

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<v Speaker 3>in the hospital now a week. Now they can only

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<v Speaker 3>do eighty hours a week. And it's tough to get

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<v Speaker 3>good at anything with eighty hours a week. But it

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<v Speaker 3>would just help. I'll try to give my boy I

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<v Speaker 3>learned to play the guitar in twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>A day is better enough. He's twelve.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll get it's pretty good. Yeah, he's committed to it.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll do. But I mean there's you know, your ten

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<v Speaker 2>thousand hour rules. It takes time.

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<v Speaker 3>So they may have a little delayed gratification, but they're

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<v Speaker 3>more balanced, they're better in their roles at home and

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<v Speaker 3>at the end of the day, that may make them

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<v Speaker 3>a better doctor and a better leader. That has a

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<v Speaker 3>different leadership style besides authoritative.

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<v Speaker 1>So the leadership thing is interesting me because you go

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<v Speaker 1>back to your dad. Your dad was clearly a now

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<v Speaker 1>lead oh yeah, and you clearly have that too.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like unfortunately.

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<v Speaker 1>Leader, I mean you've written books about how to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>succeed and how to do your best and how to

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<v Speaker 1>get the best out the things correct, super results, are

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<v Speaker 1>super achieved for performing.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for plugging it about. Well, look, it's my job.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like you know, I make the incision. I

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<v Speaker 1>do a little work. But here's the thing. It seems

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<v Speaker 1>to me that it is such a competitive environment that

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<v Speaker 1>is drawing competitive personalities are so drawn to it that

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<v Speaker 1>at the at the core of it, I wonder if

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<v Speaker 1>there is if there is a point whenever you lose,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're going to lose, we will get humbled.

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<v Speaker 3>I tell every resident who thinks they're so good, the

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<v Speaker 3>good Lord is going to humble you at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>So just be quiet.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, if we're doing well, go home and just

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<v Speaker 3>look in the mirror and don't don't look at your navel,

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<v Speaker 3>don't navel gaze too much because bad outcomes are coming.

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<v Speaker 3>So I totally agree with you. And then you know,

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<v Speaker 3>as a leader of a department or a division where

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<v Speaker 3>you may have twenty of those guys, and then a

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<v Speaker 3>COO of a healthcare system where we had six thousand

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<v Speaker 3>doctors and maybe I think a thousand or surgeons. You

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<v Speaker 3>have to manage those egos like a manager and a

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<v Speaker 3>dugout with all these superstars and tell them, really, it's

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<v Speaker 3>about the team and.

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<v Speaker 1>What work did you do on your own ego for that,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you're a young man, you need a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of that kind of you know, I'm the cat's pajamas.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, you know, you're right.

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<v Speaker 3>So, and I've shared this with you before, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>my wife, who I was married with twenty one years,

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<v Speaker 3>got cancer, and then she got a chemotherapy for this

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<v Speaker 3>breast cancer that should have been cured, and that chemo

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<v Speaker 3>caused the leukemia. So I felt incredibly guilty and humble

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<v Speaker 3>about that because I participate in the decision to give

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<v Speaker 3>her the chemo.

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<v Speaker 2>And then for six months I would operate every day.

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<v Speaker 3>We had people come from all over the world because

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<v Speaker 3>we could take their tumors out because we were so good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and I got humbled because I would round The last

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<v Speaker 3>person I round it on was my wife. I I

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<v Speaker 3>sent my team home and I was spend the night

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<v Speaker 3>there and sleep. And my kids were in high school

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<v Speaker 3>and one was at Yale in college, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys are on your own and I became so humbled.

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<v Speaker 3>I watched her die. I could do nothing for it

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<v Speaker 3>but hold her hand and watch Jeopardy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that humbles you.

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<v Speaker 1>Fort a clesmic and the the irony on top of

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<v Speaker 1>the on top of the immense emotional pain of watching

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<v Speaker 1>some the woman you loved of you fight against all

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<v Speaker 1>the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Correct very humbling. So that was a that was a

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<v Speaker 3>humility check. And I don't think I was Could.

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<v Speaker 1>You work at that point?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I operated the day she passed away.

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<v Speaker 1>I operated, and then that was on really on a Friday,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we had to actually she had a terrible

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<v Speaker 1>brain bleed.

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<v Speaker 2>We had to end up together.

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<v Speaker 3>I flew my kids all in, my son, I just

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<v Speaker 3>pitched at Harvard that day. They flew on Saturday, and

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<v Speaker 3>she was declared brain dead. We pulled the ventilator off

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<v Speaker 3>on Sunday, which was terrible, and I had people from

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<v Speaker 3>China coming in to watch surgery. I didn't do not

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<v Speaker 3>break Monday or Tuesday, but Wednesday I went back and

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<v Speaker 3>operated eight cases on Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't you think that helped?

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, people criticized me for this, but I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's you know, no one, everyone has lost. Everyone has,

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<v Speaker 3>and everyone mourns in their own way. My sister's a

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<v Speaker 3>psychiatrist and said, you know, we didn't do it right.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think there's a right or wrong way. It

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<v Speaker 3>helped me because I got immersed in my work and

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<v Speaker 3>my world literally my world stopped spinning. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>how I'll say if that's how I felt. I remember

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<v Speaker 3>that night going, it's a terrible story. I bring it.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody down. No, no, no, no, it's a story.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's the So it's the And she hadn't even

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<v Speaker 3>passed away yet. It was it was Saturday, because that

0:19:39.480 --> 0:19:41.280
<v Speaker 3>night I spent in the hospital, so I knew in

0:19:41.320 --> 0:19:42.919
<v Speaker 3>the next day we were going to be pulling the

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<v Speaker 3>pulling the plug, because it was every neurosurgeon say, she's

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<v Speaker 3>not recoverable, right, And so I came home and sai,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to sleep in the hospital.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing's going to happen.

0:19:51.480 --> 0:19:55.320
<v Speaker 3>And I sat under her clothes and the smell of

0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:57.560
<v Speaker 3>the clothes man just set me off and I just

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<v Speaker 3>was like sobbing.

0:19:58.480 --> 0:20:00.399
<v Speaker 2>And no one had really seen me cry, because right,

0:20:00.440 --> 0:20:02.679
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to cry for it. It's ridiculous, sure,

0:20:02.720 --> 0:20:04.080
<v Speaker 2>but that was that night.

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<v Speaker 3>I just remember saying it was like a surreal thing,

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<v Speaker 3>like is this really happened our family? Everyone kind of

0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:13.119
<v Speaker 3>called us like, you know, we had this magic aura

0:20:13.200 --> 0:20:16.480
<v Speaker 3>that my kids all did well, and my wife was beautiful,

0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:18.760
<v Speaker 3>and yeah, I mean I'm not beautiful like she is,

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<v Speaker 3>but we all know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>They called it like a little camelot and it's very

0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:27.800
<v Speaker 3>funny the humility no camelot when your wife gets a

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<v Speaker 3>chemotherapy induced cancer called leukemia and then all the chemo

0:20:31.720 --> 0:20:33.560
<v Speaker 3>on the world couldn't help her, and then she has

0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:35.960
<v Speaker 3>a massive brain bleed and you know, she was the

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<v Speaker 3>love of my life. And their kids, my three boys

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<v Speaker 3>who I drove and drove, lost their mom and so

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<v Speaker 3>they're all dealing with that nuts ten years and we

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<v Speaker 3>still talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, of course, yeah, and you'll always talk about it.

0:20:47.000 --> 0:20:52.360
<v Speaker 1>I feel like sometimes whenever I've experienced loss, I mean

0:20:52.560 --> 0:20:56.920
<v Speaker 1>everyone experiences in their life, I feel like it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a scar, maybe even from an operation. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's never the scar's never going to go away.

0:21:02.200 --> 0:21:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I've got a scar on my hand from where I

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<v Speaker 1>punched a window when I was drunk when I was

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<v Speaker 1>twenty one years old, and I left a big scar,

0:21:09.000 --> 0:21:10.760
<v Speaker 1>but now you can hardly see it. When I look

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<v Speaker 1>at it, I kind of half smile because I go, geez,

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<v Speaker 1>what an asshole.

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<v Speaker 3>But you remember, it reminds you, it reminds me, and

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<v Speaker 3>it is an evolution. So I've used the same analogy.

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<v Speaker 3>I call it a wound instead of a scar, and

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<v Speaker 3>so the wound goes through different layers of healing. There's

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<v Speaker 3>five layers, but it's never fully healed. And it's obviously

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<v Speaker 3>much better now than it was ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, it's but it's changed you. It changes how you

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<v Speaker 1>are your experience with your wife. Does that change you

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<v Speaker 1>as a doctor when you're dealing with someone who's looking

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<v Speaker 1>at a tough diagnosis or a bad outcome.

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<v Speaker 3>I share it all the time, and it's funny. It's

0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:56.080
<v Speaker 3>made me a much more I think empathize. I think

0:21:56.080 --> 0:21:58.360
<v Speaker 3>I was empathetic before, but it's made me much more empathetic.

0:21:58.400 --> 0:22:00.280
<v Speaker 3>When I say to that patient alcohol, you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>get three cycles of chemo. We call it neo ajumant.

0:22:02.440 --> 0:22:04.720
<v Speaker 3>Then we're going to resect you robotically. Now I know

0:22:04.760 --> 0:22:07.000
<v Speaker 3>what they're living through at home. It made me much

0:22:07.040 --> 0:22:09.320
<v Speaker 3>more sympathetic and much more understanding. And then it's an

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<v Speaker 3>instant connection. About a week ago, had of patients say, well,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't know what I said, Well, actually I do.

0:22:14.560 --> 0:22:17.160
<v Speaker 3>My wife and I went through it and she lost

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<v Speaker 3>her battle to cancer. So you're going to people that

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<v Speaker 3>really connects you. So the battle is.

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<v Speaker 1>A ward that I've had before with cancer, and it

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<v Speaker 1>is something which I find the idea kind of terrifying

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<v Speaker 1>because I hate again in the fights.

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<v Speaker 2>I've lost a lot of them.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when they say, you know, I'm having a

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<v Speaker 1>fight or a battle, I feel like I would hate

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<v Speaker 1>to hear that. I would like I'm not prepared. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. This thing is big.

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<v Speaker 3>Well you are prepared, though, I mean I think everything

0:22:47.040 --> 0:22:48.879
<v Speaker 3>you've been through in your life has prepared you, and

0:22:48.920 --> 0:22:52.399
<v Speaker 3>your experience has prepared you, and your value system, your culture,

0:22:52.400 --> 0:22:54.680
<v Speaker 3>and you have a beautiful family to support you. There's

0:22:54.680 --> 0:22:56.920
<v Speaker 3>some people don't have any of that, and even they

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<v Speaker 3>find some resilience in wasting.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that manifest itself? So if you're in a bell,

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<v Speaker 1>is it about a positive attitude? Is it about changing

0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:07.919
<v Speaker 1>the way you live? Is about a spiritual anegement, finding

0:23:07.960 --> 0:23:10.160
<v Speaker 1>a church or a belief system? What is it?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a great question I think it's a combination of

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<v Speaker 3>all those things. And I think it's an individual journey.

0:23:15.080 --> 0:23:18.199
<v Speaker 3>It's like your own journey to find happiness. It's your

0:23:18.280 --> 0:23:21.200
<v Speaker 3>journey through a leadership, and it's your journey how you

0:23:21.240 --> 0:23:24.440
<v Speaker 3>go through grieving, as I explained to my sister, or

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<v Speaker 3>through adversity. And I think all of us have our

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<v Speaker 3>own way. So it's not my job to adjudicate if

0:23:29.480 --> 0:23:32.040
<v Speaker 3>it's right or wrong. It's my job to support that patient.

0:23:32.600 --> 0:23:34.440
<v Speaker 3>And I gave every patient my cell phone. And I've

0:23:34.480 --> 0:23:37.840
<v Speaker 3>done this for a long time, but it paid dividends.

0:23:38.200 --> 0:23:40.840
<v Speaker 3>Never really drove my wife too crazy, though it's gotten

0:23:40.840 --> 0:23:43.040
<v Speaker 3>a little bit crazy now because people in New York

0:23:43.160 --> 0:23:44.720
<v Speaker 3>use it more than when I was in Alabama.

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<v Speaker 1>Both cell phones are as much more a thing though

0:23:48.080 --> 0:23:50.280
<v Speaker 1>as well, like correct like back in the day, there

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<v Speaker 1>was a big bux in your car and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Leave your car, you're on your own.

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<v Speaker 1>That's everywhere. That's when I was a medical student. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they had cell phones in Alabama. They have running water

0:23:59.240 --> 0:24:01.960
<v Speaker 1>and all that getting in Alabama just in the last

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<v Speaker 1>few years. Okay, it's very progressive, but that's a good

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<v Speaker 1>hospital down there is your universe.

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<v Speaker 3>Alabama's fantastic, incredible people, great doctors, and the great culture

0:24:10.600 --> 0:24:11.080
<v Speaker 3>at UAB.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've always had a good time down there. I

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<v Speaker 1>like it. I like it down there. So listen, you

0:24:16.840 --> 0:24:20.240
<v Speaker 1>have the situation where you've dealt with it personally. Yep,

0:24:20.359 --> 0:24:24.600
<v Speaker 1>you deal with it professionally. You know, the the ultimate

0:24:24.640 --> 0:24:26.399
<v Speaker 1>reality for all of us. You look at that all

0:24:26.440 --> 0:24:30.720
<v Speaker 1>the time. So I gotta ask, is there a religious

0:24:30.800 --> 0:24:34.000
<v Speaker 1>or spiritual site to you? Is there something that because clearly,

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<v Speaker 1>if you were if you were given someone a diagnosis

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<v Speaker 1>and it's hearten you emotionally, you need to have a

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<v Speaker 1>place to go, don't you.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's very interesting, So I will tell you how

0:24:43.680 --> 0:24:46.439
<v Speaker 3>I share. My own belief is dramatically different in New

0:24:46.520 --> 0:24:49.840
<v Speaker 3>York that it was in Alabama. So I do personally

0:24:49.880 --> 0:24:53.320
<v Speaker 3>have a deep faith in something superior to what there is.

0:24:53.359 --> 0:24:56.240
<v Speaker 2>I do think there's some life after this. I do think.

0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:58.840
<v Speaker 3>And my kids call me crazy because I'm so evidence

0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:02.679
<v Speaker 3>based and so metric size and everything I do. But

0:25:02.800 --> 0:25:04.920
<v Speaker 3>I do believe that my wife can see me.

0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:07.399
<v Speaker 2>Now. I do believe she sees every little thing I do.

0:25:07.520 --> 0:25:10.960
<v Speaker 1>I do believe my dad and my girlfriend and everyone

0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:12.760
<v Speaker 1>can and my kids can see everything I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I firmly believe that. Now, maybe that's a mechanism to

0:25:15.760 --> 0:25:17.920
<v Speaker 3>keep me straight. I don't know, but I think I'm

0:25:17.920 --> 0:25:20.639
<v Speaker 3>going to see her after this. So I shared that

0:25:20.680 --> 0:25:24.919
<v Speaker 3>a lot. Now you go, friend, I'm going to say, well, listen, no,

0:25:25.080 --> 0:25:27.280
<v Speaker 3>I think I spent ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And also, you know what I think I think

0:25:30.320 --> 0:25:32.600
<v Speaker 1>if it's moving on from the physical realm, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're okay, you know, you're right.

0:25:34.359 --> 0:25:36.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, I think it'll be all right. I mean, anyway,

0:25:36.440 --> 0:25:39.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm a little worried about it. Actually, I understand. I

0:25:40.320 --> 0:25:43.439
<v Speaker 2>feel like she could light me up. So you know,

0:25:43.680 --> 0:25:45.680
<v Speaker 2>I you know, I just don't know.

0:25:45.800 --> 0:25:48.200
<v Speaker 1>And that's a family affair. You guys will do with it.

0:25:48.280 --> 0:25:49.080
<v Speaker 1>But the time comes.

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<v Speaker 2>But for the record, Craig's an affair. Just what that's

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:54.520
<v Speaker 2>for the record, because there's no affair. No, no, we

0:25:54.560 --> 0:25:56.639
<v Speaker 2>were just good friends. No no, So let me so

0:25:56.720 --> 0:25:57.520
<v Speaker 2>let me ask you this.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you you have a situation where you're a younger surgeon, right, yea,

0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:05.760
<v Speaker 1>and you lose your first patient.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, terrible.

0:26:07.240 --> 0:26:07.800
<v Speaker 1>You remember that?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, Yes, I remember the patient like it

0:26:11.280 --> 0:26:15.119
<v Speaker 3>was yesterday. I remember her name, her husband's name, she

0:26:15.160 --> 0:26:17.720
<v Speaker 3>had three children. I remember it all terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't that.

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<v Speaker 3>Funny because I've done, you know, nineteen thousand operations, and

0:26:21.640 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 3>the only ones you remember the ones that don't do them.

0:26:23.600 --> 0:26:25.199
<v Speaker 3>That's true of every surgeon. That's not true of me,

0:26:25.240 --> 0:26:28.160
<v Speaker 3>that's true of almost every surgeon I know. We lament

0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:31.840
<v Speaker 3>our failures and rarely toast our successes.

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:36.080
<v Speaker 1>That's very interesting because it I think that maybe you

0:26:36.200 --> 0:26:37.600
<v Speaker 1>expect to win. Oh my god.

0:26:37.800 --> 0:26:41.000
<v Speaker 3>Sure we're all I don't want to say, uh, egocentric,

0:26:41.080 --> 0:26:42.480
<v Speaker 3>but we're all very well trained.

0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:42.960
<v Speaker 1>That's good.

0:26:43.000 --> 0:26:44.480
<v Speaker 2>I want a guy like that.

0:26:44.400 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 1>You on me.

0:26:45.200 --> 0:26:46.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't want the guy thinks, well, I hope, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to know.

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:49.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm scared. I was like, right, I'm going to fucking

0:26:49.800 --> 0:26:52.040
<v Speaker 1>fix this, exactly right, fucking fix this.

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:55.000
<v Speaker 3>So what I say is, when I step between that line,

0:26:55.359 --> 0:26:57.160
<v Speaker 3>no one is better than me. We have a line

0:26:57.160 --> 0:26:58.560
<v Speaker 3>of the red line when you get in the O R.

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<v Speaker 3>And the second I step back that I'm going home.

0:27:00.720 --> 0:27:03.439
<v Speaker 3>I'm taking out the garbage. I'm you know, no different

0:27:03.440 --> 0:27:06.000
<v Speaker 3>anybody else. And actually it's a big chapter in my book.

0:27:06.000 --> 0:27:09.880
<v Speaker 3>It's called staying in the zone. And the zone means yeah,

0:27:09.920 --> 0:27:11.600
<v Speaker 3>I want you to be confident, have a big ego.

0:27:11.640 --> 0:27:13.760
<v Speaker 3>But the second you walk out of the operatunom you

0:27:13.800 --> 0:27:16.120
<v Speaker 3>know no different than anybody else. You know, you're gonna

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:18.600
<v Speaker 3>go home and get yelled at, You're gonna walk the

0:27:18.640 --> 0:27:19.719
<v Speaker 3>dog or whatever it is.

0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:20.480
<v Speaker 2>You're just the person.

0:27:20.520 --> 0:27:22.960
<v Speaker 1>But one of the reasons why I enjoy talking to

0:27:23.040 --> 0:27:27.080
<v Speaker 1>you is that. And I am fascinated by the fact

0:27:27.119 --> 0:27:30.360
<v Speaker 1>that you have such a sense of joy as revive

0:27:30.960 --> 0:27:34.440
<v Speaker 1>a life force, you know, and yet you deal with

0:27:34.920 --> 0:27:37.880
<v Speaker 1>pretty much the hardest thing that people are dealing with,

0:27:38.240 --> 0:27:41.720
<v Speaker 1>which lung cancer. Yeah, it's a real I mean lung cancer.

0:27:41.920 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's not what it was thirty years ago.

0:27:44.640 --> 0:27:45.280
<v Speaker 2>Dramatically.

0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:47.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I want to give a shout out to

0:27:47.240 --> 0:27:50.560
<v Speaker 3>the oncologist because really the oncologist sees the patient was

0:27:50.560 --> 0:27:53.960
<v Speaker 3>Staged four stage three advanced cancer, and more of their

0:27:54.040 --> 0:27:56.080
<v Speaker 3>patients passed away. It's one of the reasons I went

0:27:56.119 --> 0:28:00.200
<v Speaker 3>into surgery. Probably wasn't secure enough in my own own

0:28:00.320 --> 0:28:02.400
<v Speaker 3>skill on my own that I didn't want to deal

0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:04.919
<v Speaker 3>with nihilism. I didn't want to deal with bad outcomes.

0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 3>I wanted to feel great about myself and look at

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:08.800
<v Speaker 3>the mer and said, boy, you cured that guy. So

0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:12.159
<v Speaker 3>I picked surgery because it fit more to my personality

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:13.440
<v Speaker 3>of always trying to win.

0:28:13.800 --> 0:28:16.679
<v Speaker 1>I like that. No, that that comes from guess that

0:28:16.720 --> 0:28:18.600
<v Speaker 1>comes from your dad, right, That is you and your

0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:21.199
<v Speaker 1>dad a little bit, because he got you into like

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:25.520
<v Speaker 1>your Your first surgical procedure was with your father, right.

0:28:26.000 --> 0:28:26.560
<v Speaker 2>You remember that?

0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:26.840
<v Speaker 3>Yes?

0:28:26.920 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 1>Remember?

0:28:27.560 --> 0:28:30.520
<v Speaker 3>But our dog in the basement, it's it's freaking kookie.

0:28:30.560 --> 0:28:32.880
<v Speaker 3>It was the dog in the basement, it's Cookie. Who

0:28:32.920 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 3>would do that? So my dad had done a year

0:28:34.800 --> 0:28:36.400
<v Speaker 3>or two of research on animals.

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 2>Well, let's me. He was a surgeon anyway, right, Yeah,

0:28:39.120 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 2>he was a surgeon.

0:28:39.880 --> 0:28:42.920
<v Speaker 3>But who says, I don't want to vet doing My

0:28:43.120 --> 0:28:46.520
<v Speaker 3>dog's just directed me. I'm better than him now, credit

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 3>he operates there every day. But when I think about it, now,

0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:51.240
<v Speaker 3>you know, I was eleven years old. I'm not much

0:28:51.240 --> 0:28:53.239
<v Speaker 3>smarter now, but a little bit. But he did his

0:28:53.280 --> 0:28:57.360
<v Speaker 3>own anesthetic made We made a board with little velkros.

0:28:57.360 --> 0:28:59.000
<v Speaker 3>We did it in the basement. He cut it out,

0:28:59.000 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 3>he made the whole thing. He brought home an end

0:29:01.080 --> 0:29:03.920
<v Speaker 3>to traych you to me, brought home the anesthetic. Who

0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:07.000
<v Speaker 3>the hell was managing the airway and giving the dog

0:29:07.040 --> 0:29:09.360
<v Speaker 3>the anesthetic while we were doing the hysterectomy, he did

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:11.560
<v Speaker 3>the dog. The dog lived eight years after that. It

0:29:11.600 --> 0:29:13.720
<v Speaker 3>was like he said, that dog was more important in

0:29:13.800 --> 0:29:16.840
<v Speaker 3>than any of you kids, So you know, but it's

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:19.280
<v Speaker 3>crazy to operate in your own dog in your basement.

0:29:19.280 --> 0:29:21.760
<v Speaker 3>But I was assisting him and I said, this is

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 3>the coolest thing in the world.

0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 2>I have to be able to learn how to do. Now.

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:28.000
<v Speaker 1>It's fascinating to me because you get beloved family pet. Yeah,

0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:31.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, knock out this lovely dog, eagle spot to

0:29:31.800 --> 0:29:35.600
<v Speaker 1>be because this little bagle and she's gonna have the hysterectomy.

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>And suddenly you're seeing the inside of and.

0:29:39.560 --> 0:29:43.680
<v Speaker 3>See my father navigate the moguls and the eurydor and

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:45.720
<v Speaker 3>all these other anatomy which I really didn't know what

0:29:45.760 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 3>it was. And the dog was pregnant, so there were

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:51.480
<v Speaker 3>little tiny puppies in the uterus at the time, and

0:29:51.560 --> 0:29:54.560
<v Speaker 3>that actually upset me a little bit. And my mom

0:29:54.600 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 3>was like, you shouldn't have had him down there. I'm like,

0:29:56.320 --> 0:29:59.480
<v Speaker 3>because you saw these things were they look like little

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 3>tiny puppy. They were, you know, maybe an inch, but

0:30:02.800 --> 0:30:04.560
<v Speaker 3>it was there was like six of them, five or

0:30:04.600 --> 0:30:06.680
<v Speaker 3>six of them in her uterus at the.

0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 2>Time, and that you had to clean all of that

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:09.760
<v Speaker 2>out because.

0:30:09.720 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 3>Sure, yeah, he took the uterus out and they all expired,

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:14.080
<v Speaker 3>but he carey quickly covered that off.

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:16.440
<v Speaker 2>You know, that was a surprise. Oh so he didn't

0:30:16.440 --> 0:30:18.080
<v Speaker 2>know that until he was in there. You No, we didn't.

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 2>He didn't. He didn't do a pre op pregnancy test like.

0:30:20.160 --> 0:30:23.200
<v Speaker 1>We do, Like you do that with me, just in

0:30:23.280 --> 0:30:26.080
<v Speaker 1>case if you're pregnant. I'm very worthy. Well that's a

0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:29.760
<v Speaker 1>different operation. But what is there ever? Does that happen

0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 1>with frequency that you go in, because you're not going

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:36.200
<v Speaker 1>to get that same if you're going to like good

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 1>in the keyhole robotic surgery. Yeah, you know, creating that

0:30:39.480 --> 0:30:41.160
<v Speaker 1>landscape and going, hey there's a tumer over here. I

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:43.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't even see that thing. Well no, but you can

0:30:43.400 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 1>pull back. I call it stadium view. You pull your

0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:47.640
<v Speaker 1>camera back and you look all around. And every time

0:30:47.640 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 1>we entered the chest for a cancer, we.

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:51.200
<v Speaker 3>Look at what's called the plural of the diaphragm, the

0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:52.720
<v Speaker 3>lining of the heart to pair of card and make

0:30:52.760 --> 0:30:55.040
<v Speaker 3>sure there's no metastatic disease. So we could pull the

0:30:55.080 --> 0:30:57.880
<v Speaker 3>camera back even though it's ten times three D. You

0:30:57.880 --> 0:30:59.840
<v Speaker 3>can pull back and get a global view of the

0:31:00.360 --> 0:31:03.760
<v Speaker 3>just easy, and then you get so zoomed in. I'll

0:31:03.800 --> 0:31:05.160
<v Speaker 3>like tell you I how to tell the resident pull

0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 3>back a little. Let's pull back because she was trying

0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 3>to find a noge in the lung, which I thought

0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:12.239
<v Speaker 3>was pretty obvious, and it wasn't until she could pull

0:31:12.440 --> 0:31:13.160
<v Speaker 3>say oh, there it is.

0:31:13.160 --> 0:31:14.239
<v Speaker 2>She was too zoomed in.

0:31:14.760 --> 0:31:17.719
<v Speaker 1>That's gonna happen. Yeah, So you go in there and

0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:21.320
<v Speaker 1>you find something that you weren't expecting get do you

0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:23.440
<v Speaker 1>make the decision on the spot. We'll get it out. No,

0:31:23.520 --> 0:31:25.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to talk to anybody. Get it out.

0:31:25.200 --> 0:31:25.959
<v Speaker 2>So I'll tell you what I did.

0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:27.880
<v Speaker 3>I could show you my phone, but I talked to

0:31:27.960 --> 0:31:30.440
<v Speaker 3>the patient's family. Because when you're on a robot, you're

0:31:30.480 --> 0:31:32.520
<v Speaker 3>not sterile. You're sitting in a console.

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:32.760
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:31:32.800 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 3>You want to bring a new instrument in, or something's happening.

0:31:35.360 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 3>I have maybe a twenty second to lay. I'll text

0:31:37.160 --> 0:31:39.280
<v Speaker 3>him and say, hey, we're doing this, we're doing that.

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 3>Everything's going well. He's asleep, We've painted the skin, the

0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:44.440
<v Speaker 3>instruments are in. We're just taken the lymph notes. If

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 3>I signed something abnormal. Now what I do is I

0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 3>will call the doctors and cologists, and I will call

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 3>the family member and I have them often participate.

0:31:53.120 --> 0:31:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Now you can get next to ken to say yeah,

0:31:55.280 --> 0:31:57.040
<v Speaker 1>go ahead, I'll say, listen, here's what I think we

0:31:57.040 --> 0:31:57.400
<v Speaker 1>should do.

0:31:57.400 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 3>They usually say, what do you recommend? But I've had

0:31:59.160 --> 0:32:00.880
<v Speaker 3>some people, so now I want you to stop. And

0:32:00.920 --> 0:32:03.080
<v Speaker 3>I said, well, we'll probably we want you and that's fine,

0:32:03.200 --> 0:32:06.960
<v Speaker 3>but it allows them to participate in the conversation. And

0:32:07.000 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 3>then now you can even use the oncologist and give

0:32:10.320 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 3>them information. Just last week, I had a very unusual

0:32:12.960 --> 0:32:15.680
<v Speaker 3>finding of giant lymph notes or a metastatic because this

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 3>patient came from another country, the scan was only three

0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 3>weeks old. Maybe it wasn't perfect quality. Lymph notes had

0:32:22.360 --> 0:32:24.360
<v Speaker 3>cancer and that flipped us out. So I called the

0:32:24.400 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 3>oncologist and said, here's what.

0:32:25.920 --> 0:32:26.960
<v Speaker 2>I would do. What do you want me to do?

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 3>He said, yeah, I want you to stop and we'll

0:32:28.400 --> 0:32:32.440
<v Speaker 3>give chemo. And I involved the family man the patients failure.

0:32:32.440 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 3>Mam was a doctor, so it made it easier chemo.

0:32:35.160 --> 0:32:38.280
<v Speaker 1>It must be a kind of a mixed bag a

0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:41.720
<v Speaker 1>little bit. We're giving your own experience because you know

0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 1>obviously your late wife's story with the chemo, I mean.

0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:48.800
<v Speaker 3>Caused her cancer, right, and then caused her to bleed

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 3>into her brain because she had thrombocytepedia low platelets and bled.

0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:55.600
<v Speaker 3>So the chemo caused her cancer, her leukemia, and then

0:32:55.800 --> 0:32:59.600
<v Speaker 3>caused her to die. And yet I tell every patient

0:32:59.680 --> 0:33:02.840
<v Speaker 3>this about this my own bias, but we recommend chemo

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:06.600
<v Speaker 3>all the time to people adjuvantly and agually means after

0:33:06.600 --> 0:33:08.240
<v Speaker 3>surgery and neo adjuvantly.

0:33:07.840 --> 0:33:11.720
<v Speaker 1>Before sir, My mother, my late mother about twenty years

0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:15.920
<v Speaker 1>ago got actually no more thirty years ago. She got

0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:22.120
<v Speaker 1>non Hodgkins lymphoma. And she had been receiving experimental treatment

0:33:22.920 --> 0:33:27.480
<v Speaker 1>for arthritis because she had very bad at right that.

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:30.000
<v Speaker 2>Could make that take off like wildfire.

0:33:30.240 --> 0:33:33.480
<v Speaker 1>So she had non Hodgeglimbs lymphuona. She was getting some

0:33:33.640 --> 0:33:35.520
<v Speaker 1>weird gold treatment I don't know what it was for

0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:39.960
<v Speaker 1>us writis and she had a very compromised immune system

0:33:40.320 --> 0:33:42.800
<v Speaker 1>and they started giving her chemo. So at a certain

0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:47.960
<v Speaker 1>point we're in the intensive care in it, and the

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:51.240
<v Speaker 1>doctor who was lovely women come up and said, look,

0:33:52.240 --> 0:33:53.720
<v Speaker 1>the outcoming here is not going to be good. Yeah,

0:33:53.760 --> 0:33:56.080
<v Speaker 1>and I think you guys should say goodbye.

0:33:56.960 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 2>How old were you at the time. I was thirty.

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:02.320
<v Speaker 1>It's tough. Yeah, it's bad. But here's the thing, because

0:34:02.360 --> 0:34:04.440
<v Speaker 1>this is an important part. Sorry you went through that,

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:06.520
<v Speaker 1>but that that is really tough. I'm sorry you went

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 1>through that. But here's the end of the story. Is

0:34:09.160 --> 0:34:11.120
<v Speaker 1>very different because they say it's time as say goodbye.

0:34:11.160 --> 0:34:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I know, okay, so we all say goodbye, and my

0:34:14.200 --> 0:34:18.239
<v Speaker 1>mother's not a brand. Isn't gone right, They're just the look,

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:20.359
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing. You know, this is going to be bad

0:34:20.400 --> 0:34:21.880
<v Speaker 1>when you take the breathing and two boat, it's going

0:34:21.920 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 1>to be bad. They take the breath and she lived

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:27.120
<v Speaker 1>another fifteen years.

0:34:27.440 --> 0:34:31.480
<v Speaker 2>That's a twisting. Yeah, fifteen years. Fifteen years she recovered

0:34:31.520 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 2>because they stopped. I hope you ke the hell out

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:34.160
<v Speaker 2>of that.

0:34:34.239 --> 0:34:36.759
<v Speaker 1>But see, you see what it was? Was it?

0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:39.279
<v Speaker 2>I think they never really quite understood what they did.

0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:42.600
<v Speaker 1>But in a socialized mandisine environment, there's no people are

0:34:42.640 --> 0:34:44.319
<v Speaker 1>not suing each other, people are not you know, so.

0:34:44.520 --> 0:34:45.640
<v Speaker 2>Better better is it?

0:34:45.680 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:34:46.440 --> 0:34:48.600
<v Speaker 2>It's there's good and bad everywhere. Sustained.

0:34:49.160 --> 0:34:52.640
<v Speaker 3>I would say, maybe they stopped your immuneo compromising gold therapy.

0:34:52.680 --> 0:34:55.200
<v Speaker 3>That letter her immune system to kick in, because most

0:34:55.239 --> 0:34:58.919
<v Speaker 3>people don't have that many problems with not hod film right, Yeah,

0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:01.319
<v Speaker 3>that's right. It was when when the chemo started. It

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:05.320
<v Speaker 3>when really stop the chemost and stop her arthritic medicine

0:35:05.360 --> 0:35:08.279
<v Speaker 3>which immuno compromised her about her own immune system to

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:09.359
<v Speaker 3>check right.

0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 1>She never really had film mobility again because of the aarthritis,

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:15.720
<v Speaker 1>because he couldn't treat. It's tough, but she was mentally

0:35:15.719 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>with us. She was mainly fining. She got around the wheelchair.

0:35:17.960 --> 0:35:19.240
<v Speaker 1>She did, she did what she did.

0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:20.000
<v Speaker 2>Had to watch your career.

0:35:20.200 --> 0:35:21.879
<v Speaker 1>She got to watch me career. She got to see

0:35:21.880 --> 0:35:24.279
<v Speaker 1>her grandkidsy born. I mean she she saw that.

0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:24.560
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:35:25.320 --> 0:35:27.280
<v Speaker 2>No, it was it was, It was good.

0:35:27.360 --> 0:35:30.919
<v Speaker 1>But I think that the thing that terrifies me about

0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:33.920
<v Speaker 1>it is I think there comes a point in life

0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:37.200
<v Speaker 1>when you realize doctors are human. Oh my god, yes,

0:35:37.400 --> 0:35:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I see.

0:35:38.120 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 2>I could have told you that with the second I

0:35:39.640 --> 0:35:40.920
<v Speaker 2>walked in the door and tripped.

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:43.560
<v Speaker 1>On the Yeah. But garbet you, But you know not

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:46.239
<v Speaker 1>for what I mean, for a lot of us, and

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:50.000
<v Speaker 1>particularly I think my parents' generation, maybe your parents' generation too.

0:35:50.400 --> 0:35:52.520
<v Speaker 2>The doctor knew everything, and the doctor was going to

0:35:52.560 --> 0:35:53.160
<v Speaker 2>make it all.

0:35:53.040 --> 0:35:55.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm very proud to be in a refreshion that

0:35:55.600 --> 0:35:59.400
<v Speaker 3>still has the highest respect from the public, you know, doctors.

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:01.479
<v Speaker 2>And I didn't it. I do think it's well earned.

0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:03.960
<v Speaker 3>Having said that, you know, we're knuckleheads and we make

0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 3>mistakes all the time, and we're human, and I think

0:36:06.600 --> 0:36:09.600
<v Speaker 3>that keeps our ego in checking. And it's that desire

0:36:09.680 --> 0:36:12.000
<v Speaker 3>to get better, which is so ingrained me. Every day

0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:13.520
<v Speaker 3>I kind of wake up, what are we going to

0:36:13.600 --> 0:36:14.920
<v Speaker 3>do today that's better than tomorrow.

0:36:14.920 --> 0:36:16.480
<v Speaker 2>We're always innovating and getting better.

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:18.839
<v Speaker 3>And I think most physicians, most people out of the way,

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 3>but especially physicians, we really want to learn from our

0:36:21.760 --> 0:36:22.760
<v Speaker 3>colleagues and get better.

0:36:31.360 --> 0:36:36.400
<v Speaker 1>So in the extremely advanced technological world that you're in,

0:36:37.280 --> 0:36:40.719
<v Speaker 1>where you're looking at a situation where you can get

0:36:41.080 --> 0:36:44.360
<v Speaker 1>is there a future where you say, well, it looks

0:36:44.400 --> 0:36:47.120
<v Speaker 1>like we have some cancer here, so I'll put in

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:50.000
<v Speaker 1>an E forty three program, slide them in the door,

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:51.200
<v Speaker 1>and it should be fine.

0:36:51.920 --> 0:36:53.960
<v Speaker 2>So when you mean slide them in the door, well,

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:55.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, put them in the machine and you go

0:36:55.719 --> 0:36:57.759
<v Speaker 2>and say down the little rowboat does all the work

0:36:57.840 --> 0:36:59.840
<v Speaker 2>for you, and you just so I do.

0:37:00.160 --> 0:37:01.960
<v Speaker 3>But I'm the exception to that. And I think the

0:37:02.040 --> 0:37:03.960
<v Speaker 3>reason and this came up a little bit in Italy.

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:06.640
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I just seen what's happened in my lifetime,

0:37:06.680 --> 0:37:11.040
<v Speaker 3>and there's no question that artificial intelligence and robotics is

0:37:11.080 --> 0:37:13.760
<v Speaker 3>going to give our patients better care. And the doctors

0:37:13.760 --> 0:37:16.760
<v Speaker 3>should not worry about protecting their trade. What we should

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 3>do is wake up every day and say how can

0:37:18.320 --> 0:37:20.680
<v Speaker 3>the patient get better experience and a better care?

0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:22.440
<v Speaker 2>And you know NYU has really done that.

0:37:22.640 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 3>I mean Nyu Langone hospital with doctor Grossman and all

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:28.520
<v Speaker 3>the other people there have We wake up every day,

0:37:28.520 --> 0:37:31.480
<v Speaker 3>how can we give the patient better quality and better experience?

0:37:31.920 --> 0:37:34.200
<v Speaker 3>And I think we use AI all the time, so

0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:37.120
<v Speaker 3>it's going to do that. At some point they will

0:37:37.160 --> 0:37:39.560
<v Speaker 3>slide into a machine. But I don't know if it'll

0:37:39.560 --> 0:37:42.680
<v Speaker 3>be surgical. I think it'll be more molecular. They'll be

0:37:42.680 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 3>able to ree it's not just it may be prevention.

0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:49.239
<v Speaker 3>It may be very early detection of tumors and then

0:37:49.320 --> 0:37:53.600
<v Speaker 3>just changing that cells physiology, preventing it from populating and

0:37:53.640 --> 0:37:55.080
<v Speaker 3>spreading and metastasizing.

0:37:55.520 --> 0:37:58.000
<v Speaker 1>That's my hope. What are the cancers right now? You

0:37:58.040 --> 0:37:59.919
<v Speaker 1>think we're just not getting anywhere with us.

0:38:00.120 --> 0:38:02.640
<v Speaker 3>Well, so your cancer is such a diverse thing. Look

0:38:02.640 --> 0:38:05.520
<v Speaker 3>at lung cancer. That's a big, big, seven different subjects.

0:38:06.160 --> 0:38:09.120
<v Speaker 3>Someone asked me I was doing this this show, they said,

0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:10.680
<v Speaker 3>we're going to cure cancer. I'm like, hang on, hang

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:12.879
<v Speaker 3>on a minute, man, you want, I'll talk about add

0:38:12.880 --> 0:38:13.520
<v Speaker 3>no carcinoma.

0:38:13.560 --> 0:38:15.759
<v Speaker 1>The long you talk about squam and s old carcinoid small,

0:38:15.840 --> 0:38:17.399
<v Speaker 1>So what do you want to talk about. It's like saying,

0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:19.799
<v Speaker 1>when will we cure illness? Yeah, it's exactly doesn't even

0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 1>make sense.

0:38:20.280 --> 0:38:23.440
<v Speaker 3>So I think, all yeah, and there's there's new cancers

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 3>coming and there's some that are going away. So I mean,

0:38:25.560 --> 0:38:29.280
<v Speaker 3>I think all together, if you look at the results

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:32.680
<v Speaker 3>of what we've done in the improved survival of lung cancer,

0:38:33.200 --> 0:38:36.960
<v Speaker 3>of breast cancer, of colon cancer, and you know though,

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:39.960
<v Speaker 3>and prostate cancer, those are the most common cancers. Now,

0:38:40.040 --> 0:38:42.560
<v Speaker 3>lung cancer takes the life of more Americans, and the

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:47.400
<v Speaker 3>other next three combined, colon, prostate and breast lung cancer

0:38:47.440 --> 0:38:49.440
<v Speaker 3>takes more Americans, and those trees combined.

0:38:49.920 --> 0:38:52.200
<v Speaker 2>It's finally coming down. But that was still true a

0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:52.600
<v Speaker 2>few years.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that smoking?

0:38:53.960 --> 0:38:55.799
<v Speaker 3>Like twenty five percent of the women I operate and

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<v Speaker 3>never touched a cigarette, and fifteen percent of men never

0:38:58.280 --> 0:38:58.960
<v Speaker 3>touch a cigarette.

0:38:58.960 --> 0:39:00.359
<v Speaker 2>It's uh, has to.

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<v Speaker 3>Do with genetics and maybe pollution, maybe environmental I don't know, Wow,

0:39:05.400 --> 0:39:08.759
<v Speaker 3>but that number is growing and malignancy and non smokers.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you do in your own little tabernacle

0:39:12.400 --> 0:39:13.360
<v Speaker 1>like your body?

0:39:13.800 --> 0:39:17.440
<v Speaker 3>No tabernacle. So I'm you know, I'm a certified personal trainer.

0:39:17.480 --> 0:39:20.040
<v Speaker 2>I work really. Yeah, I lifted weights. I'm a big

0:39:20.080 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 2>believer in that.

0:39:20.760 --> 0:39:23.880
<v Speaker 3>The guy I couldn't sleep man, but I'm eight days postop,

0:39:23.920 --> 0:39:25.960
<v Speaker 3>so I lifted a little bit. I hope by neurosurgeon's

0:39:26.000 --> 0:39:27.680
<v Speaker 3>not listening. It's only twenty pounds.

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:28.239
<v Speaker 2>Pro don't work.

0:39:28.640 --> 0:39:32.040
<v Speaker 3>No, I sleep like everybody else, and we're very efficient

0:39:32.239 --> 0:39:35.480
<v Speaker 3>and so I'm very, very rigorous like most surgeons, like,

0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:38.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure you are most extensive. People are rigorous and

0:39:38.640 --> 0:39:41.319
<v Speaker 3>they fit time in. So I love to work out.

0:39:41.760 --> 0:39:44.399
<v Speaker 2>I love the feeling of having worked out.

0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:48.239
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I feel like having worked is one of the

0:39:48.239 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 1>greatest feelings in the world.

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:53.279
<v Speaker 2>Before working, I'm like, I want to do this. I

0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:54.480
<v Speaker 2>think the key is to remember.

0:39:54.520 --> 0:39:56.560
<v Speaker 3>I always tell my kids, put this feeling in a

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:59.160
<v Speaker 3>bottle and then you just sprinkle over your head, because

0:39:59.200 --> 0:40:01.000
<v Speaker 3>if you come home from wor can sit in the couch,

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<v Speaker 3>you are dead meat.

0:40:02.120 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 2>It's over. So you got to sprinkle that little bottle.

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:04.839
<v Speaker 2>How does it feel?

0:40:04.920 --> 0:40:07.760
<v Speaker 3>Let's go, don't even get comfortable, and that's what that's really.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you'll come out of a surgery a long

0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 1>day and you'll do it. How long would you do

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<v Speaker 1>with the gym or then? Yeah, so an hour and

0:40:13.640 --> 0:40:17.560
<v Speaker 1>twelve minutes a little program on your phone and you

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<v Speaker 1>do all the little lifts and I deep and.

0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 3>Then do it again, and I lift three days a week,

0:40:22.120 --> 0:40:23.719
<v Speaker 3>and then you cardio and then you know, I told

0:40:23.760 --> 0:40:26.400
<v Speaker 3>you I'm in this singles pickleball thing. Now gotten really

0:40:26.480 --> 0:40:28.920
<v Speaker 3>into that. I gotta let my neck heel up from

0:40:28.920 --> 0:40:30.839
<v Speaker 3>this operation. But in another week or two, I'm back

0:40:30.880 --> 0:40:32.000
<v Speaker 3>playing golf and pickleball.

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>What would you say, like if you were stand in

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<v Speaker 1>front of a bunch of people, say, we go to

0:40:37.239 --> 0:40:41.279
<v Speaker 1>Danny's in Alabama, right, And we go to Danny's and

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:43.800
<v Speaker 1>Alabama and everybody's in there and everybody's having the stuff,

0:40:43.800 --> 0:40:45.880
<v Speaker 1>and we all decide, look, we want to talk to

0:40:45.920 --> 0:40:49.600
<v Speaker 1>Sarah about how we can avoid hands. What would be

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:51.600
<v Speaker 1>the first thing you would say to it just a

0:40:51.719 --> 0:40:55.160
<v Speaker 1>random group of people, no surgeons, no personal trainers.

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<v Speaker 3>The first thing I'd do is keep my mouth shut.

0:40:57.400 --> 0:41:01.279
<v Speaker 3>Is so we come down to one of two things. Right,

0:41:01.360 --> 0:41:04.040
<v Speaker 3>It's either you stop smoking, or you stop drinking, or

0:41:04.080 --> 0:41:06.560
<v Speaker 3>you lose weight. Those I said two, but those three

0:41:06.560 --> 0:41:10.000
<v Speaker 3>things would predominantly I have to pick one, and Chinea,

0:41:10.000 --> 0:41:12.359
<v Speaker 3>I'd say stop smoking. I was just there fifty percent

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<v Speaker 3>in Italy. I was there a few days ago, forty

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<v Speaker 3>pers everywhere.

0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:16.280
<v Speaker 2>There were people still smoking.

0:41:16.320 --> 0:41:16.800
<v Speaker 1>In Italy.

0:41:16.880 --> 0:41:20.879
<v Speaker 3>There were doctors, cardiothoracic surgeons coming out of the damn

0:41:20.920 --> 0:41:23.799
<v Speaker 3>meeting at the break smoking outside. It's crazy to me,

0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:27.640
<v Speaker 3>It's absurdity. How could you be a leader? So I

0:41:27.719 --> 0:41:30.919
<v Speaker 3>might put smoking, although I don't know now. It might

0:41:30.960 --> 0:41:33.759
<v Speaker 3>be out, it might be drinking, it might be obesity.

0:41:33.800 --> 0:41:36.320
<v Speaker 3>Although with a zempic that is going to change the landscape.

0:41:36.360 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 1>Talk to me about the zampick. Is that is that

0:41:39.080 --> 0:41:42.080
<v Speaker 1>because people are taking it for you know, chronicle vicity

0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:44.520
<v Speaker 1>and that I mean, okay, taking it just for the

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:47.400
<v Speaker 1>hell of it. Yeah, I think that's what I might

0:41:47.440 --> 0:41:49.720
<v Speaker 1>be asking you, So listen.

0:41:49.960 --> 0:41:52.920
<v Speaker 3>The professorial answer is we don't have long term follow up.

0:41:52.920 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 2>We don't.

0:41:53.320 --> 0:41:56.160
<v Speaker 3>The reality is I know two or three people banana

0:41:56.239 --> 0:41:59.480
<v Speaker 3>for two three years and they have lost fifteen twenty

0:41:59.480 --> 0:42:02.000
<v Speaker 3>pounds day love it. They now those people, I think

0:42:02.000 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 3>they inject themselves. I don't think they don't take it

0:42:04.120 --> 0:42:06.000
<v Speaker 3>by mouth. I think they injected. The patient told me

0:42:06.280 --> 0:42:10.000
<v Speaker 3>she injects it subcutaneously, maybe once every two weeks or

0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:12.920
<v Speaker 3>maybe once a week, and it's expensive, but somehow she

0:42:12.960 --> 0:42:14.480
<v Speaker 3>gets it because they're rich.

0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 2>But she loves it and has had no problem. That's

0:42:17.760 --> 0:42:19.759
<v Speaker 2>the majority of most patients. What does it do?

0:42:20.120 --> 0:42:21.200
<v Speaker 1>By the way, so it's a.

0:42:21.600 --> 0:42:25.279
<v Speaker 3>Lucagen inhibitor, but the reality is it will reduce your

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:28.560
<v Speaker 3>level of glucose and amazing, maybe lets food stay more

0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:30.560
<v Speaker 3>in your GI track and cause constipation.

0:42:30.680 --> 0:42:33.920
<v Speaker 1>It slows down your GI track. You're absorbing less time.

0:42:33.960 --> 0:42:36.160
<v Speaker 1>I want to slow down my GI track. I'm taking

0:42:36.239 --> 0:42:37.000
<v Speaker 1>fucking heroin.

0:42:38.280 --> 0:42:40.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to get something enjoyable.

0:42:40.640 --> 0:42:43.440
<v Speaker 1>It takes so you know, it makes you constipated and

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:46.239
<v Speaker 1>you don't even feel the base. No, no, thank you.

0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:51.160
<v Speaker 3>Don't share that with your endessties just before your dscopy

0:42:51.320 --> 0:42:52.399
<v Speaker 3>next yek, I just.

0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:56.120
<v Speaker 1>Say that out. Yeah, you know, it's funny, like I'm

0:42:56.800 --> 0:42:59.080
<v Speaker 1>very free with the fact I know that I have.

0:42:59.760 --> 0:43:02.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've been sober for thirty one years, which

0:43:02.200 --> 0:43:04.400
<v Speaker 1>is incredible, thank you and I And it is an

0:43:04.480 --> 0:43:10.400
<v Speaker 1>interesting thing because sobriety, I feel like is largely misunderstood

0:43:10.400 --> 0:43:12.000
<v Speaker 1>by your profession. I think you're right.

0:43:12.120 --> 0:43:15.560
<v Speaker 3>You give everybody perseverance. Yeah, and you have a different view.

0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I do a little bit in the sense that you know,

0:43:18.120 --> 0:43:20.440
<v Speaker 1>people say, you know, why, well, why can't you just stop?

0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:22.280
<v Speaker 1>You go, Well, if I could just stop, it wouldn't

0:43:22.320 --> 0:43:24.279
<v Speaker 1>be a problem, would it, of course? And then the

0:43:24.320 --> 0:43:27.719
<v Speaker 1>whole idea of it having a spiritual component. Now, I

0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:30.040
<v Speaker 1>think with you, sir, if I don't think it's a problem.

0:43:30.160 --> 0:43:32.840
<v Speaker 1>You are a spiritual human being. You happen to be,

0:43:33.520 --> 0:43:37.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, a doctor, a surgeon, a very good one,

0:43:37.520 --> 0:43:39.680
<v Speaker 1>but you're a spiritual human being. And I think for

0:43:39.760 --> 0:43:43.319
<v Speaker 1>a law of your colleagues that feels a little you know,

0:43:43.400 --> 0:43:45.600
<v Speaker 1>airy fairy and a little strange. It does.

0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:47.279
<v Speaker 3>And I don't share it with them, and they're going

0:43:47.360 --> 0:43:49.160
<v Speaker 3>to hear it now. But I don't wear that on

0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:51.759
<v Speaker 3>my sleeve or discuss it because it's not really admissible

0:43:51.840 --> 0:43:54.840
<v Speaker 3>in what we do. We're evidence based. We're a meritocracy

0:43:54.920 --> 0:43:55.640
<v Speaker 3>and it's not there.

0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Then let me give you some evidence. Okay, right, until

0:43:59.280 --> 0:44:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I dealt with the spiritual nature of the its physical

0:44:03.080 --> 0:44:07.080
<v Speaker 1>and mental, no doubt. But until I embraced the spiritual

0:44:07.160 --> 0:44:10.800
<v Speaker 1>nature of the malady I had, I couldn't stop drink.

0:44:11.080 --> 0:44:14.040
<v Speaker 2>That's interesting, that's the evidence of it. It is, and

0:44:14.440 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 2>I know a lot of people with similar experiences.

0:44:17.200 --> 0:44:20.760
<v Speaker 1>And it's kind of you know, well, I mean, obviously

0:44:20.760 --> 0:44:23.279
<v Speaker 1>he's had a goodal because it's one guy. But but

0:44:24.080 --> 0:44:26.719
<v Speaker 1>I think at the same time, I find it fascinating.

0:44:26.840 --> 0:44:29.120
<v Speaker 2>Do you ever look at Carl Jung's work at all?

0:44:29.440 --> 0:44:32.360
<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine it would enter your world much, but

0:44:32.600 --> 0:44:35.680
<v Speaker 1>just a young, very you know, as one of the

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:40.320
<v Speaker 1>founding fathers of your sister's profession. It was very much

0:44:40.600 --> 0:44:45.120
<v Speaker 1>you know about religion, religious symbols, religious symbolism, and I

0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:49.000
<v Speaker 1>think was very involved at the beginning of what is

0:44:49.080 --> 0:44:54.120
<v Speaker 1>now I guess the sobriety movement, at the beginning of

0:44:54.160 --> 0:44:57.080
<v Speaker 1>AA he was very you know, he was very connected

0:44:57.760 --> 0:45:00.600
<v Speaker 1>to all of that. And I wonder if if there

0:45:00.680 --> 0:45:04.320
<v Speaker 1>is a time coming when someone who's has accomplished you

0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:07.359
<v Speaker 1>and you in the field comes out, Yeah, and says, look,

0:45:07.400 --> 0:45:08.799
<v Speaker 1>we got to look at We've got to look at

0:45:08.800 --> 0:45:09.520
<v Speaker 1>the god thing here.

0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:10.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:45:10.440 --> 0:45:13.000
<v Speaker 3>Well, and I have seen things that you cannot explain.

0:45:13.080 --> 0:45:16.200
<v Speaker 3>We've seen tumors, oh my goodness. We've seen tumors regress,

0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:20.040
<v Speaker 3>spontaneous regression of melanomas and lung cancers. And there's there's

0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:21.879
<v Speaker 3>a thing called a scopeull the fact that I can

0:45:21.920 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 3>give you all the medical explanations, but some of these

0:45:24.480 --> 0:45:25.680
<v Speaker 3>things you just can't explain.

0:45:26.160 --> 0:45:28.080
<v Speaker 2>And I just don't think we're that smart. I have

0:45:28.160 --> 0:45:28.920
<v Speaker 2>great humility.

0:45:28.960 --> 0:45:31.880
<v Speaker 3>I know there's there are things and powers much smarter

0:45:32.160 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 3>and more important than me that I don't fully understand

0:45:35.160 --> 0:45:36.760
<v Speaker 3>that have influence in our world.

0:45:36.800 --> 0:45:39.680
<v Speaker 1>But I think that's interesting to men. And I don't

0:45:39.719 --> 0:45:42.160
<v Speaker 1>want to Yeah, I don't want to push it on you,

0:45:42.280 --> 0:45:45.600
<v Speaker 1>but I think it's partially and it's why I'm so

0:45:46.080 --> 0:45:48.800
<v Speaker 1>taken with you and your story is about your humility,

0:45:48.800 --> 0:45:51.920
<v Speaker 1>because I don't think humility is I don't know. I

0:45:51.920 --> 0:45:55.279
<v Speaker 1>think humility is I understand where I am in the universe, right,

0:45:55.360 --> 0:45:56.240
<v Speaker 1>I know where.

0:45:56.000 --> 0:45:59.640
<v Speaker 3>I am, right, you know, and really how incredibly small

0:45:59.800 --> 0:46:02.120
<v Speaker 3>that I am. And I've gotten so many kinds of

0:46:02.120 --> 0:46:04.680
<v Speaker 3>and invited to so many places to operate and to teach,

0:46:05.040 --> 0:46:07.800
<v Speaker 3>and I always learn a little bit more than I teach.

0:46:07.840 --> 0:46:10.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't really want to say that because they're inviting me.

0:46:10.280 --> 0:46:13.120
<v Speaker 3>But there's always something to learn, every culture doing something

0:46:13.200 --> 0:46:15.800
<v Speaker 3>better than us. Like, for instance, the first time I

0:46:15.840 --> 0:46:17.440
<v Speaker 3>went to Italy, he went to operate. I got there

0:46:17.480 --> 0:46:20.239
<v Speaker 3>at seven am. I go in there and I go

0:46:20.280 --> 0:46:21.919
<v Speaker 3>in there and this guy going, hey, what are you doing?

0:46:21.920 --> 0:46:22.600
<v Speaker 2>What are you doing?

0:46:22.640 --> 0:46:25.759
<v Speaker 3>And he's smoking a cigarette. There's oxygen tanks. Oh my god.

0:46:26.360 --> 0:46:28.200
<v Speaker 3>He goes, who are you? And I said, I'm the

0:46:28.239 --> 0:46:30.640
<v Speaker 3>visiting PREFSS. He goes, they won't be here for two hours.

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:34.000
<v Speaker 3>So it's two hours. They didn't start in the hour

0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:34.920
<v Speaker 3>till nine o'clock.

0:46:35.160 --> 0:46:37.279
<v Speaker 1>And so everyone criticizes that, but you know what, maybe

0:46:37.280 --> 0:46:40.520
<v Speaker 1>they're happier that way. Maybe they don't mind working from

0:46:40.600 --> 0:46:43.000
<v Speaker 1>nine to four or five and being inefficient because that

0:46:43.000 --> 0:46:44.800
<v Speaker 1>would drive it drives me crazy.

0:46:44.920 --> 0:46:46.280
<v Speaker 2>Is stressed carcinogenic?

0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:46.839
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

0:46:47.040 --> 0:46:48.600
<v Speaker 2>I think? Oh, equivocally, I think it is.

0:46:48.680 --> 0:46:52.200
<v Speaker 1>Yesh. Yeah, So I mean I wonder if if that's

0:46:52.239 --> 0:46:54.440
<v Speaker 1>a thing that you know, if you look at the idea,

0:46:54.480 --> 0:46:57.080
<v Speaker 1>the idea that someone in your position will say, there

0:46:57.080 --> 0:46:59.640
<v Speaker 1>are things that we can't explain, right, I think that

0:46:59.640 --> 0:47:04.000
<v Speaker 1>that is beautiful. I think it's beautiful that you will say, well,

0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:06.799
<v Speaker 1>I like AI. I'm thinking if it makes people better

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:09.480
<v Speaker 1>right now? You know it's kind of interesting. But do

0:47:09.560 --> 0:47:13.320
<v Speaker 1>you ever like, say, you're in Italy, right and you

0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:15.600
<v Speaker 1>go out for dinner with a bunch of professors afterwards

0:47:15.600 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 1>and you don't go to because Italy you know you're

0:47:17.200 --> 0:47:18.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna eat beautiful food.

0:47:18.239 --> 0:47:20.040
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna have some wine, we're gonna have some fun,

0:47:20.080 --> 0:47:20.520
<v Speaker 2>and we did.

0:47:21.480 --> 0:47:23.080
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever think I can'd of that wine? I

0:47:23.160 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 1>kind of that pasta because I'm gonna get fat, and.

0:47:25.120 --> 0:47:28.200
<v Speaker 3>I do You're careful hundred percent. I have one drink

0:47:28.200 --> 0:47:29.839
<v Speaker 3>and that's it. I'm the one drink they all wanted.

0:47:29.880 --> 0:47:31.920
<v Speaker 3>And I just listen, I'm not an alcoholic. Just this

0:47:31.960 --> 0:47:34.080
<v Speaker 3>is what I do because I'm working out. I had

0:47:34.120 --> 0:47:37.000
<v Speaker 3>a little more pasta than I weigh myself every morning

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:37.560
<v Speaker 3>like a nut.

0:47:37.640 --> 0:47:38.640
<v Speaker 2>So I'm very regiment.

0:47:38.880 --> 0:47:41.520
<v Speaker 1>That's interesting. Do you have the the what's that little

0:47:41.560 --> 0:47:43.200
<v Speaker 1>band of people that was like a watch thing?

0:47:43.600 --> 0:47:44.840
<v Speaker 2>Woop? What's it called?

0:47:44.840 --> 0:47:45.360
<v Speaker 1>The Whoop?

0:47:45.440 --> 0:47:45.960
<v Speaker 2>I got it?

0:47:46.320 --> 0:47:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Now?

0:47:46.680 --> 0:47:49.360
<v Speaker 2>What does that do? What does it it tell you?

0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:51.120
<v Speaker 3>It's so it's like, yeah, but I can show you

0:47:51.200 --> 0:47:52.920
<v Speaker 3>my workout that I did, and I can show you

0:47:52.920 --> 0:47:57.560
<v Speaker 3>how well I slept right here, take a look, and

0:47:57.640 --> 0:48:01.640
<v Speaker 3>it says that, so my strain for the day is

0:48:01.680 --> 0:48:04.440
<v Speaker 3>what I did with my exercise or just the amount

0:48:04.560 --> 0:48:06.680
<v Speaker 3>of stress that you're under.

0:48:06.800 --> 0:48:07.520
<v Speaker 2>So you can see.

0:48:07.600 --> 0:48:10.319
<v Speaker 3>You can go to my activity here today and you

0:48:10.360 --> 0:48:14.760
<v Speaker 3>can see I did a high intensity workout and lifted today.

0:48:14.760 --> 0:48:17.120
<v Speaker 3>You see the exact time my strain was seven point

0:48:17.160 --> 0:48:20.000
<v Speaker 3>three and then during that time, you can click into well,

0:48:20.000 --> 0:48:21.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm not on an airqua to give you your heart rate,

0:48:21.719 --> 0:48:24.239
<v Speaker 3>your blood pressure, all these other things, and it looks

0:48:24.239 --> 0:48:26.359
<v Speaker 3>how well you see your blood pressure from that little

0:48:26.360 --> 0:48:28.440
<v Speaker 3>thing on your wrist, not exactly your blood pressure, but

0:48:28.680 --> 0:48:31.280
<v Speaker 3>close enough. Right, and you see as when I sleep,

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<v Speaker 3>I only slept five hours.

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<v Speaker 2>I needed nine. But that's my usual what you need

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<v Speaker 2>it it's usually that's all I need during.

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<v Speaker 1>If if I if I feel like if I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>at an app and it says you only had fifty

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<v Speaker 1>two percent of I'm like, hey, I'm going back to bed,

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<v Speaker 1>or if I know if I can't sleep, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to woke around feeling ashamed all day.

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<v Speaker 3>So funny so I'm in three groups of this and

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<v Speaker 3>and of course I got a lot of the I

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<v Speaker 3>have a place up at Silo Ridge, which a discovery

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<v Speaker 3>land in upstate New York and very wonder for people.

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<v Speaker 3>So I've got some of the younger thirty year old

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<v Speaker 3>men wearing the whoop and we compare and they're like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>stuff's going to see my chair. And I've had a

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<v Speaker 3>wife from up to me and say, listen, you're killing

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<v Speaker 3>my sex life.

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<v Speaker 2>You're killing how much fun I've had.

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<v Speaker 3>And she made the guy get rid of the whoop

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<v Speaker 3>because it would drink, because you don't sleep as.

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<v Speaker 1>Well if you have just one drink. Well that I know, Yeah,

0:49:19.280 --> 0:49:21.120
<v Speaker 1>that I know. I like if I have one drink,

0:49:21.200 --> 0:49:23.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't do anything. So well, yeah, correct for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>it's an interest. Let me talk to you just a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. I mean, we're almost done, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're a busy man, but because I'm fascinated by my

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<v Speaker 1>own pathology, I'm going to talk to you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about my pathology is worse on the same I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Yeah, but that is an alcoholic right, as

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<v Speaker 1>a recovering alcoholic, as an alcoholic in recovery or a

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<v Speaker 1>sober alcoholic or whatever you want to phrase it. Very

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<v Speaker 1>much believe in the theory that it's the first drink

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<v Speaker 1>that guess you're drawing people like me, that if I

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<v Speaker 1>take a drink, it kicks off in me something akin

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<v Speaker 1>to analogy, akin to like if I was allergic to

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<v Speaker 1>strawberries or you know, and it forces me into us say,

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<v Speaker 1>it removes the resistance that I have to stay away

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<v Speaker 1>from the next one and the next one and all

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<v Speaker 1>the consequences of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm impressed on how well you understand yourself. I haven't

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<v Speaker 2>heard it a while.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I haven't heard too many alcoholics ever say that

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<v Speaker 3>like an allergy, and I think you're exactly right. It

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<v Speaker 3>does set off a cascade of events that you can

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<v Speaker 3>no longer control.

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<v Speaker 1>Drive.

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<v Speaker 3>And the key is you're not driving there it is.

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<v Speaker 3>And the key is not to get behind wheel in

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<v Speaker 3>the first place. You just don't start. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 3>was actually drink guy.

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<v Speaker 2>It was poor crust. But that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You can be a one drink I have to be

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<v Speaker 1>a I think the difference between an alcoholic and a

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<v Speaker 1>non alcoholic, it's a non alcoholic can be a one

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<v Speaker 1>drink guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to be a no drink. That's probably right.

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<v Speaker 1>It was poer forward to be fair. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was jelly Neck in the nineteenth century came up with

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<v Speaker 1>the idea of the allergy, or certainly William Silkworth. I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to give it to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Those guys are gone. Yeah, word still where was the silkworm?

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<v Speaker 1>Silkworm Silkworth at the Town's Hospital at New York City

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<v Speaker 1>in the nineteen thirties, you know, he said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's looking at alcoholics. And he said to Bill Wilson,

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<v Speaker 1>who eventually founded Alcoholics Anonymous or co founded that name

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Yeah, and Bill William Silkworth was working at

0:51:22.200 --> 0:51:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Town's Hospital and and he eventually Yeah, it's an incredible

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<v Speaker 1>story because whats is that Bill Wilson is in there,

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<v Speaker 1>right And William Silkworth says to his wife Lewis, he says, look.

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<v Speaker 2>His wife's name was Lewis, Lewis Lewis, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Lewis, that's not it wouldn't matter if it was Lewis,

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<v Speaker 1>that there's anything wrong with that exactly. But he says

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<v Speaker 1>to Lewis, he says, look, I don't think there's that

0:51:47.440 --> 0:51:48.840
<v Speaker 1>I can do. I think he's just We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>have to put him in a straight jacket, keep him

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<v Speaker 1>in here. And Bill Wilson has a god show. He

0:51:53.960 --> 0:51:59.440
<v Speaker 1>has a he has a profound experience epiphany right now.

0:51:59.480 --> 0:52:04.440
<v Speaker 1>He thinks that it is maybe delirium tremens or something,

0:52:04.719 --> 0:52:07.200
<v Speaker 1>and that's what that's what Bill thinks. And he asks

0:52:07.320 --> 0:52:10.319
<v Speaker 1>William Siltworth, and this is this conversation. This is why

0:52:10.360 --> 0:52:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I love this door, this amazing conversation because he goes

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<v Speaker 1>to the doctor. This is why William Silkworth was a genius.

0:52:17.320 --> 0:52:19.759
<v Speaker 1>He goes to William Siltworth, who's been treating alcoholics, and

0:52:19.800 --> 0:52:24.840
<v Speaker 1>he says, am I, mad am, I having is this delier?

0:52:24.840 --> 0:52:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Have I gone insane? And William Siltworth said that, He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but you're better than you were half

0:52:32.239 --> 0:52:36.919
<v Speaker 1>an hour ago. So maybe whatever it is, keep doing

0:52:36.960 --> 0:52:40.560
<v Speaker 1>that and rather than saying you're crazy, you're a good

0:52:40.560 --> 0:52:43.919
<v Speaker 1>way to look at it. That's the positive feedback, which

0:52:43.960 --> 0:52:47.400
<v Speaker 1>is why something's working, you know. And I am fascinated

0:52:47.440 --> 0:52:51.279
<v Speaker 1>by that. I believe that you have that spirit. I

0:52:51.360 --> 0:52:53.760
<v Speaker 1>believe you have that spirit. And I know you hate compliments.

0:52:53.840 --> 0:52:58.480
<v Speaker 1>I see you, I see you score. Yeah, but you know,

0:52:58.560 --> 0:53:00.960
<v Speaker 1>any incredible people that I work with every day. Then

0:53:01.000 --> 0:53:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I know. But those guys I don't know that well,

0:53:04.680 --> 0:53:05.680
<v Speaker 1>they're much better looking.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop and stuff. It's a joy to talk to you.

0:53:09.719 --> 0:53:09.919
<v Speaker 1>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy you're here.

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<v Speaker 1>And I continues happiness, continue success, and whatever you're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ, keep doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>We're enjoying my honor to spend time with you again.

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<v Speaker 3>And uh, let's let's do once you let's do once

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<v Speaker 3>you have dinner or something. Yeah, that's what even, all right,

0:53:27.320 --> 0:53:28.080
<v Speaker 3>I'll have the wine.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't.

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<v Speaker 2>You have the one.

0:53:29.200 --> 0:53:31.879
<v Speaker 1>You can have all the wine, and I'll have I'll

0:53:31.880 --> 0:53:33.800
<v Speaker 1>have a lot of past that I didn't go for

0:53:33.880 --> 0:53:34.759
<v Speaker 1>a big long walk.

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<v Speaker 2>That's I love to walk after different paper. All right,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you, thank you,