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Speaker 1: your Manton blowers. Many wait for Charlemagne. They had to

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Speaker 1: make a judgment who was gonna be on the Donkey

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Speaker 1: of the Day. They chose you as the breakfast club bitches.

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Speaker 1: Who's Donkey of the day to day? Wow? Donkey to

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Speaker 1: day for Tuesday, January seventeen goes to ex Alabama basketball

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Speaker 1: player Darius Miles and his friend Michael and Davis. Let's

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Speaker 1: get right to it. On this Tuesday, Darius Miles allegedly

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Speaker 1: killed a woman because she wouldn't talk to him. Rest

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Speaker 1: in peace to Jamaya Johnay Harris, twenty three years old,

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Speaker 1: mother of a five year old no longer here. Uh

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Speaker 1: because of a man's fragile ego. That's one of those days.

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Speaker 1: Why I know Donkey of the Day isn't strong enough

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Speaker 1: Because Donkey of the Day is when someone gets the

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Speaker 1: credit they deserve for being stupid. But most of the time,

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Speaker 1: stupid is just temporary, you know what I mean. But

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Speaker 1: in a situation like this, Darius Miles led temporary feelings.

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Speaker 1: Temporary stupidity caused him to make a permanent decision. Okay,

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Speaker 1: one night left with young Queen dead forevly and we'll

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Speaker 1: cause just twenty one year old to go to jail

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Speaker 1: probably the rest of his life for capital murder. Would

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Speaker 1: you like to hear what happened? Well, let's go to

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Speaker 1: NBC thirteen for the report. Police. A story that's getting

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Speaker 1: a lot of attention tonight. A University of Alabama basketball

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Speaker 1: player one of two suspects charged in an overnight homicide. Now,

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Speaker 1: police say a Birmingham woman was killed in that shooting

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Speaker 1: on the Tuscaloosa Strip. W VTM thirteen Chip Scarborough is

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Speaker 1: live in Tuscaloosa tonight with more on a possible motive

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Speaker 1: for this case. Chip while Jarvis, the Tuscaloosa Violent Crimes

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Speaker 1: Unit says the shooting appears to be the result of

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Speaker 1: here along the strip about two o'clock this morning. Now,

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Speaker 1: former University of Alabama basketball player Darius Miles being taken

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Speaker 1: to jail late this afternoon. Authorities say Miles and Michael

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Speaker 1: Jamia Jane Harris, later showed up to the Walk of

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Speaker 1: Champions at Bryant Denny Stadium, where a you. A police

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Speaker 1: officer was stationed, the car she was in had been

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Speaker 1: Rest in peace. Man. Stories like this make me terrified

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Speaker 1: for the women in my life, not just my wife

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Speaker 1: from my four daughters, but every single woman in my

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Speaker 1: orbit that I love and to do, women that an't

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Speaker 1: I feel sorry for y'all because this is an experience

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Speaker 1: that men don't have to deal with too often. Yes,

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Speaker 1: they have absolutely been men who have been killed by

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Speaker 1: women who couldn't let go, but it's rare, and by

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Speaker 1: rare personally, I mean I've never heard it, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I've never heard a story of a man

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Speaker 1: heard stories and men being in relationships with women and

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Speaker 1: breaking up with them and the woman attempting to you know,

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Speaker 1: are attempting to kill him on some thin line between

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Speaker 1: love and hate stuff. But far too often we of

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Speaker 1: these stories of men killing women simply because the women

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Speaker 1: didn't want to highlight him simply because simply because the

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Speaker 1: man got rejected, Like I literally just went to go

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Speaker 1: see a top dog underdog this weekend. A Broadway play

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Speaker 1: Phenomenal by the Way, and it explores that. But in

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Speaker 1: that situation, the person who ends up committing the heinous

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Speaker 1: act of killing a woman is basically a bump. Like

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Speaker 1: dude really didn't have much to live for in the play.

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Speaker 1: You know, so I understand why he had a fragile ego.

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Speaker 1: But Darius Miles man, not only is this real life,

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Speaker 1: but you was playing basketball for the University of Alabama.

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Speaker 1: He had a future. I don't know how he ends

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Speaker 1: scary because you never know. You know, the constructing durability

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Speaker 1: of male egos. Okay, they are all different for each

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Speaker 1: how they're affected difference from person to person. But if

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Speaker 1: a way to fix it. It's several ways you can

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Speaker 1: script in a fragile ego, but it's gonna take some

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Speaker 1: insight developing activities. What are insight development at activity as well.

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Speaker 1: development is. Okay, the recognition that you know, one has

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Speaker 1: And the recognition of the need for treatment. That's the

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Speaker 1: once you're aware that something is wrong. Now, how do

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Speaker 1: How about journaling? How about positive affirmations? How about what

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Speaker 1: your trauma before your trauma ultimately deals with you. What

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Speaker 1: makes this situation with Darius Miles so sad as he

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Speaker 1: was actually doing great things with his life. He was

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Speaker 1: He just played this past Saturday when they beat LSU.

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Speaker 1: This man, at the least was going to graduate from

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Speaker 1: the University of Alabama, but he threw his whole future

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Speaker 1: a fragile ego. Not listen, it's still allegedly what the

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Speaker 1: young lady's mother said. It was because she rejected his advances.

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Speaker 1: I must say salute to the young lady's boyfriend who

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Speaker 1: defended himself and shot back and hit one of the suspects.

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Speaker 1: But I wish he wasn't even in that position because

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Speaker 1: he only had to return fire because someone's fragile ego

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Speaker 1: What happened to back in the day when you got

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Speaker 1: Now I'm hot, they all ow me okay. Jay Zons

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Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I come from an era or

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Speaker 1: getting rejected was exactly the motivation they needed to be successful.

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Speaker 1: But this era seems to use rejection as motivation to

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Speaker 1: be murderous. Please, my brothers, please, I'm begging you, go

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Speaker 1: to therapy, do the work on yourself. The life you

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Speaker 1: Lynn Davis the biggest he hull. So damn sad sad

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Speaker 1: man rest in Pieter, Jamey john Nay Harris. Ye that

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Speaker 1: mercy donkey today is brought to you by the law

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Speaker 1: office of Michael s Lammon Saft. Don't be a donkey.

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Speaker 1: Dive pound two fifty on your cell and say the bull.

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Speaker 1: If you've been hurting a construction accident, that's pound two

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