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Speaker 1: That explains why I'm banned from the amphibian exhibit at

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Speaker 2: But it very literally.

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Speaker 1: You have heard the phrase though, sometimes you got to

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners says that happened to her recently,

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Speaker 4: Even second face with some reptiles, Carolyn, Amphibians, that's what

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Speaker 4: they are. Yeah, that reptile is a different Sorry, reptiles,

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Speaker 1: Come on over, Yeah, what happened? Why? Why did you

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Speaker 5: So I had a friend, sicks me up and she

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Speaker 2: Did that work out for you?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think it ever does.

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Speaker 5: I show up at the date, first of all, looks

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you weren't initially attracted to him on first.

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Speaker 6: I was not, but I'm trying to keep an open

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I would ask questions and it would be like

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Speaker 3: He was not listening at all.

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Speaker 5: She didn't talk at all. It didn't ask me anything

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Speaker 6: So uncomfortable.

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Speaker 5: I've never eaten so fast in my life.

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Speaker 2: Were you like texting your friend under the table, like

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Speaker 5: No, because I was too busy shoving food in my

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She immediately asked for it to go.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wait, why are you on for a second date

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Speaker 5: Oh, here's the thing. So I had that horrible date

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Speaker 5: on my own because nothing can be worse than that date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you've taken dating into your own hands now.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So then I went to online dating because at least

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Speaker 5: Yeahah, So there was a guy that we had been

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Speaker 5: texting and he seemed to be like cool. Name is Scott,

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Speaker 5: So mine grabbed a bit tea and it was, honestly

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Speaker 5: Questions, like I kept ordering for food because I didn't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because it was your third entree that turned him off.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe it was because your last day before set

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Speaker 2: That's just all dating in general.

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Speaker 8: Yea, how can he asked one question and you're like,

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Speaker 5: Maybe, but to me, it's like a little red flag.

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Speaker 5: Or god, we'll just say a lot of time in

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Speaker 1: Right right, Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You're like too healthy for me. Oh that's all singing.

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Speaker 2: So well, he's not calling her back, so he's thinking something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's find out what he is thinking. I wish

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Speaker 1: I know we're working on that technology till then they'll

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Speaker 1: That's what you should have said to him, Carolyn.

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Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, that's so funny.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe he hasn't called you back at all.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: I was just do you feel like maybe it was

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many people have come on

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Speaker 1: There's got to be a reason for this. Let's find out.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, great, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey is a Scott?

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Speaker 3: It is who is calling?

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Speaker 1: Good questions? Scott? I heard that you were good at

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we're brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Not as good as listening.

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Speaker 1: No, we're a radio show.

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Speaker 1: We want to make you the star of this segment

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Speaker 1: called second Date Update. Congratulations, Second date Update.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she just really liked you and you weren't

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Speaker 3: We had a good time, you know, we do have

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Speaker 2: Yep, there was to answer on all this.

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Speaker 1: You mean, like the date, there was something off.

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Speaker 3: No, it's just kind of uh embarrassing. It turned out

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Speaker 3: We had a great time. We did have a great time. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Is that a doppel ganger that you bang?

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Speaker 3: I was like, what what is a doppel banger? And

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Speaker 3: he was like, bro, she looks exactly like you, Like

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Speaker 4: Know, couples like that, Blonde couples look like blonde.

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Speaker 1: Yea attracted to yourself.

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Speaker 3: That's kind of what weird to be out at first.

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Speaker 4: But I've heard that it's just like evolution, like people

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Speaker 1: Like it's yeah, that's family what she's attracted.

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Speaker 8: My husband does not look like me, but bro, if

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Speaker 8: you think about it, she's also very big headed because

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Speaker 8: she told us she thought you were hot.

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Speaker 3: She's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Oh so you would make a lovely woman then, Scott.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I've been told that I have nice lashes.

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Speaker 2: I think you can still make this work if you

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Speaker 3: It's one of those things. At first, I would have

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Speaker 3: been like, no, you're wrong, it's fine, we're gonna keep dating.

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Speaker 3: But after seeing it side by side, I cannot unsee it.

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Speaker 3: It's like a psychological trip. Man.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys look alike. That's one obstacle. I'm

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Speaker 3: Hi kidding me, Scott?

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Speaker 7: Is this some type of joke? Like this is a joke.

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't get it.

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Speaker 3: It's not. I'm sorry, Look if you don't believe me, Like,

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Speaker 3: are you serious? We take our pictures and right now

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Speaker 3: each other send her the picture? You sorry?

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Speaker 7: Uh huh. Here's the thing. I have friends that have

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Speaker 3: I know, I know.

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Speaker 7: I was like, maybe give it another chance to see

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Speaker 7: I think when we're with each other in person, you'll

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Speaker 1: I mean, we you have good chemistry. Is it because

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: What are you really worried about, Scott? Like, what's the

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Speaker 1: worst thing that could possibly happen if you go out

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Speaker 3: People are gonna think that I make it out my sister,

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Speaker 1: Now that might be a treat for some people, though

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Speaker 1: I don't think of only the people that aren't gonna

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Speaker 8: Depends on what area of the country you're in.

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Speaker 4: Scott All you have to do, listen, all you have

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Speaker 4: they don't look anything alike when they're in person.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes their pictures look similar.

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Speaker 4: But if one of them were to dye their hair blond,

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Speaker 1: I think this is the first time we've ever asked

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Speaker 1: just so that they could get another chance. Why stop there,

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Speaker 1: Let's do cosmetic surgery too. How about a chin lift?

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Speaker 3: We have had a lot more people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, true, we have a plastic surgeon.

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Speaker 7: Maybe maybe then. I just think it's a shame to wait.

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Speaker 7: That's good chemistry, because you just don't meet people you

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Speaker 7: let that go because of a perceived stopple banger, then

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Speaker 2: That's a challenge I hear a challenge right there.

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Speaker 3: I am happy to continue our relationship, but like on

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Speaker 1: You've never heard that before on the show. What does

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Speaker 3: I would love to continue our relationship like as a friends,

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Speaker 3: so that I could just bring you home to meet

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Speaker 7: That's gonna be a hard pass. So I'm just gonna say,

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Speaker 7: I guess I dodged the bullet and you're not. I

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Speaker 8: Imagine the first and our parents are like, Scott, did

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Speaker 1: Sounds like a sibling rivalry is happening.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you are making it worse.

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Speaker 7: Clearly, I'm not going to come out on top of this,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, Carolyn.

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Speaker 1: That sucks.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe next time, don't call a radio stations the

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Speaker 7: Don't let your roommates who you were based on a picture.

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Speaker 2: I think wins that burden.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Is it too late to ask if you guys want

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Speaker 1: to go out on a second date, we'll pay for it?

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Speaker 1: Is that too late? Your family looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: You know, people always tell me this show is an

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Speaker 1: educational People say, you don't learn anything. We learned, Well,

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Speaker 1: we just learned a new word today, doppel band.

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Speaker 2: I could already apply it to a couple couples that

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: It's a little thing that actually happens where people hook

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Speaker 8: Version of yourself to me, Yeah, I wonder what female

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't need two of you.

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Speaker 1: But you know, it's kind of funny that he didn't

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Speaker 6: You do.

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Speaker 8: You can't get it out of your head.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And if you think about it, it actually is kind

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Speaker 1: of good that his friend told him, because it's better

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Speaker 1: Like as she's walking down the aisle and you're up

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Speaker 2: And I like it. I could still be a magical moment. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he missed out.

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Speaker 1: Well, the bottom line, it didn't work out, but it

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Speaker 1: doesn't mean it can't work out for you. You can

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Speaker 1: always email the show. We'll call that person who isn't

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Speaker 1: calling you back. You can hear all of our second

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