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Speaker 1: You know, I've got fifteen different phone numbers, yeah, checks out. Sure.

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Speaker 1: Some were from eighty year olds and a couple of

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Speaker 1: all heard that story before, Okay, is that not the

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Speaker 1: story we're gonna hear today? Well, we haven't heard is

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Speaker 1: works exactly the same dog park. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I was talking to

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Speaker 1: I was spenting. We were talking about you because Apparently

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Speaker 1: dogs were involved in your first date. Is that right? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Well dogs are always involved in my life, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's all. You have your own business, all that's doing

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Speaker 1: why he isn't more serious about this situation ship. Not

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Speaker 1: maybe we can unscare him off. Yeah. If that is

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Nathan? H Yeah, this is Nathan. Sorry.

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Speaker 1: Did we just catch you waken up or something? No,

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Speaker 1: just get a lot of calls from numbers I don't have.

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Speaker 1: chattywas so like that should be okay. You know, I

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Speaker 1: Like this is on your side, bro, So you're in

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Speaker 1: a situationship with Lisa, But what are the other girls? Then?

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Speaker 1: not how it works. That's not how Lisa thinks it works.

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Speaker 1: you're just augusting. We are not an open situationship. I

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Speaker 1: Maybe you guys can exchange situations. I don't know how

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Speaker 1: for him, Jeffrey, that's not what you need to have

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Speaker 1: you don't have to do a single thing. As long

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Speaker 1: the show again. Not by choice though. Anyway, If you

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