1 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Bridget and this is Emily, and you're 2 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: listening the stuff Mom ever told you. And as a 3 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: quick reminder before we dive into today's episode, Bossed Up, 4 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: the podcast is officially live in Apple Podcasts, so go 5 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: subscribe now if you are interested in keeping in touch 6 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: and getting some Bossed Up career advice and some personal 7 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: and professional development in your earbuds on a regular basis. 8 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: The podcast is debuting March first, but you can get 9 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,919 Speaker 1: subscribed right now. Thank you so much for welcoming me 10 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: with such open arms as Bridget and I have taken 11 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: this journey together on stuff Mom never told you, and 12 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear where we go from here. 13 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: And now for today's episode, so right off the bat, 14 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: we have to start with a trigger warning. This episode 15 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: deals with gun violence. Sadly, the topic of mass shootings 16 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: is timely and it seems like it always is. On Wednesday, 17 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: at least seventeen people were killed during a school shooting 18 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: at Marjorie Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida. The suspect, 19 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,279 Speaker 1: nineteen year old Nicholas Cruise, was arrested on the scene. 20 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,839 Speaker 1: You may have seen on CNN a mother, who lost 21 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: one of her children in this perfect shooting, pleaded with 22 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: Donald Trump to do something about gun violence in this country. 23 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: Here's what she had to say. How how do we 24 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: allow a gunman to come into our children's school? How 25 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 1: do they get through security? What security is there? There's 26 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 1: no metal detectors. The gunman, the crazy person, just walks 27 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 1: right into the school, knocks down the window of my 28 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: child's door and started shooting, shooting her and killing her. 29 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: President Trump, you say, what can you do? You can 30 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: stop the guns for getting into these children's hands. Oh 31 00:01:56,560 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: my god, I honestly do not know how anybody can 32 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: listen to the raw grief and and sort of carnal 33 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: plea in that woman's voice, that mother's voice that anybody 34 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: with children especially must be able to relate to, and 35 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: then go on and do nothing about it, or like 36 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: Donald Trump, not even respond to that. Well. I actually 37 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: think that as a country, we reached a moment where 38 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: we just decided this is our new normal. I think 39 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: after a new town, as a country, we just threw 40 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: up our hands. We decided this is our new normal. 41 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: Nothing can be done. We are numb to this issue. 42 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: Once we decided that babies could get shot at point 43 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: blank range and we were going to do a damn 44 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: thing about it. I think it became clear how our 45 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: country is reacting to this issue, and I think it 46 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,839 Speaker 1: is not at all. You're not reacting at all. Yeah, 47 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: it feels like we've hit rock bottom. Do you feel 48 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: like that's true for politicians or the public or both both. 49 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: I think when babies get killed, I think that when 50 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: we as a country agreed that it was okay that 51 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: babies got killed, you have so many people weren't okay 52 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: with that. I feel like if it ever came close, 53 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: it was then people made their voices, heard, organizations sprung up, 54 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 1: people donated. Who I mean, the parents there got so involved, 55 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: and what happened was nothing happened, right. So I it 56 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 1: sounds so cynical, but I think that we just all 57 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: agreed this is our normal and this is our life, 58 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: said now, agreed to tolerate this In actual Yeah, we 59 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,399 Speaker 1: decided it was tolerable. And that's what I find so 60 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 1: disgusting that we. I mean, listen, I'm including myself in 61 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: this that when I saw the news of this breaking 62 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: on Twitter, I just thought another one. I remember when 63 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: Columbine happened. You know, I was a teenager, I was 64 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: in school, and I remember the way that parents and 65 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: teachers and administrators that was a big deal. We were 66 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: all in a fervor. And now, so many years later, 67 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: it's so interesting how it barely even registers. Well, the 68 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: frequency has gone up so much that now we don't 69 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: even know the names of the schools. These mass shootings 70 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: no longer have individualized names. New Town was a standout 71 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: and a normal in that regard. The shootings that happened 72 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: nowadays happened so frequently that we can't even keep track 73 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: of them or or name them exactly. When you see 74 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: the name of a town trending on Twitter, you just 75 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: assume there was a shooting there, and it's just it's 76 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: I think it's our new normal, and it's really sad 77 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: and disgusting. So let's talk a little bit about what 78 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: happened in Florida. So Cruz, who is the perpetrator of 79 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: this attack, was described as a troubled student, the kind 80 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: of student that nobody was surprised would do this kind 81 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 1: of thing. In fact, he was so troubled that he 82 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: wasn't even allowed to carry a backpack to school. He 83 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: made threats on social media. His social media presence was 84 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: filled with pictures of dead animals and things that you 85 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: would see and think, oh, this kid could be a threat. 86 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: So it wasn't like he was someone who was hiding 87 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 1: in plain sight waiting to do something. He was on 88 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: people's radars, and according to the Anti Defamation League, he 89 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: had ties to white supremacist groups as well. Yeah, on 90 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: social media he hurled slurs at Blacks and Muslims and 91 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: really seem that the kind of person who should not 92 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 1: have access to gun right. In fact, the FBI received 93 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 1: a report and YouTube was reported to just five months 94 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: ago when he commented on a YouTube video saying that 95 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 1: he wanted to become a professional school shooter. The creator 96 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: of the video, which I think was about guns, flagged 97 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: the comment, alerted YouTube and emailed the FBI around it. 98 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: And despite the fact that his name first and last 99 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: was the user name that he was posting under on YouTube, 100 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: the FBI couldn't trace the lead back to anything. Wow, 101 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: that is horrifying. So all these traits seemed like the 102 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: typical mrkers of a would be mass shooter crews actually 103 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: shares another trait in common with most mas shooters. One 104 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 1: that often goes overlooked, and that is a history of 105 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: troubling and violent behavior toward women. In fact, you'll hear 106 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 1: an episode from US later this week about why it's 107 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: so horrifying that our White House, this administration seems to 108 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: be able to look past people with histories of violence 109 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: towards women as something that's just a personal matter and 110 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: not that big a deal. But this is a great 111 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: reminder that when we treat domestic violence or violence against 112 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: women as a personal matter and not a very serious 113 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 1: predictor of future potentially mass violence, but really violence in general, 114 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: we are doing the world a disservice. We are making 115 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: the world a less safe place, and allowing these kinds 116 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: of people to have easy legal access to guns is abhorrent. 117 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: Exactly what this whole situation underscores to me is how 118 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: not seriously we take violence against women and domestic violence. 119 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: And when researchers say, hey, violence against women can actually 120 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: be thought of as a risk factor for violent behavior 121 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 1: towards the general public later on, it just goes to 122 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: show why it's so critical to take domestic violence seriously, 123 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: and we're not. Well, it's interesting, right, because that argument 124 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 1: could also be warped into saying, is it not enough 125 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: that a domestic abuser is already violent towards a woman? 126 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:01,239 Speaker 1: We have to validate the fear. We have to double 127 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: down on the relevance of that kind of violence by saying, also, 128 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: this could be a predictor of violence towards everybody. So 129 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: maybe that you'll care about it then, right, I mean again, 130 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: it goes to show that as a country when it 131 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: happens but behind closed door in a home, we just 132 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: think it's not our problem. But I think that there 133 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: needs to be a shift that domestic violence is everybody's problem. 134 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: So true, so so true. So Crewis apparently had a 135 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: history of violent and troubling behavior towards women and girls. 136 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: One of his classmates told USA Today that Crews had 137 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: ultimately been expelled from school after a fight with his 138 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: ex girlfriend's new boyfriend. She also said that he had 139 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: been abusive to one of his earlier girlfriends. Other students 140 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: have pointed out that he was taken with a female 141 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: student to the point of stalking. Yeah. I hate how 142 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: they phrased that in the press too. He was taken 143 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: with her so much he stalked her. No, he's doctor Yeah, 144 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: and that's according to his math teacher and another student 145 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: who had said that he was formally close friends with 146 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: Crews but cut off his friendship after he started going 147 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: after and threatening a female friend of his. Really, it 148 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: sounds like, in addition to a whole host of other 149 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,119 Speaker 1: troubling factors going on in this kid's life that people 150 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: seemingly didn't do anything about, one of those factors was 151 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: violence and disturbing behavior toward women in his life. And 152 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 1: it turns out he's not alone. Let's talk more about 153 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: that after a quick break and we're back. So it's 154 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: probably unsurprising to you that the perpetrators of mass shootings 155 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: modern America are overwhelmingly male, but they overwhelmingly also have 156 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: a history of domestic abuse or misogynistic behavior toward women. Yeah, 157 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: we're talking about people like Omar Matine, the twenty nine 158 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: year old who killed forty nine people at the Pulse 159 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: nightclub tragedy in Orlando in two thousand and sixteen. He 160 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 1: had reportedly abused his former wife on a regular basis. Yeah. 161 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: And the Virginia Tech shooter in April two thousand and seven, 162 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: who gunned down thirty two people at a school was 163 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,319 Speaker 1: previously accused of harassing women two years earlier, and the 164 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: Virginia police actually had to order him to stop contacting 165 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: another female student. I mean, honestly, time and time again, 166 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: every single time we see a mass shooting like this 167 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: one look into the typically male perpetrators background, and you 168 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: often see abusive, harassing, violent behavior towards women, along with 169 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: the whole host of other warning signs, including, by the way, 170 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: cruelty towards animals, which is certainly present in terms of 171 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: this particular most recent shooters background exactly. According to Business Insider, 172 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: nine out of the ten deadliest mass shooting perpetrators have 173 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: a history of threatening, committing, or verbalizing domestic violence. And 174 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: according to Every Town for Gun Safety, mass shooters killed 175 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: a partner or a family member intent of shootings. So again, 176 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: it means that this idea that domestic violence is something 177 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: that's happening in the home, you know, none of our business. 178 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: That kind of thinking allows people who really might have 179 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: the capability to do something on a wider scale to fester. 180 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: And what's especially troubling to me is how easy it 181 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: is for these folks to get firearms. It's really an 182 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: American form of exceptionalism in terms of our ubiquity of 183 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 1: firearms in this country and the ease with which people 184 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: can buy them. Technically, folks who have domestic violence backgrounds 185 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: on their record aren't supposed to be able to get firearms. 186 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: They're legally barred from buying guns in our country, but 187 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: many of them have been able to get high capacity firearms. Anyway. 188 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: There's a bunch of different loopholes that the n r 189 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: A in particular has been steadfast and maintaining um and 190 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: not closing that make it pretty damn easy. For instance, 191 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: a gun shows for people to get firearms without much 192 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: of a background check, and again that just goes to 193 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: show that we're not taking violence against women seriously as 194 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,679 Speaker 1: a risk factor for MAS shootings. Take, for instance, the 195 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 1: case of Devin Patrick Kelly back into Them. He went 196 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: to the church where his wife worshiped and ended up 197 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: killing twenty six people. As a convicted domestic compuser, Kelly 198 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: wasn't even legally allowed to have access to firearms, but 199 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: he ended up owning four. How do we allow that 200 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: to happen in this country? I mean, I think it's 201 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: insane that almost anybody, including people with such violent backgrounds 202 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: or warning signs, or just a nineteen year old dude 203 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: in general can walk in and buy firearms that easily. 204 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: And I'm I'm someone who enjoys shooting guns on occasion. 205 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,479 Speaker 1: By the way, members of my family are proud gun owners, 206 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: but none of them think that the way things currently 207 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 1: are is even remotely okay. And you know, I'm all 208 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: about the sportsmanship that comes with gun ownership. There's nothing 209 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 1: wrong with that, but at what cost? And certainly none 210 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: of us can say that the way things are is tenable. 211 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: I think that's why common sense gun laws really have 212 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 1: quite bipartisans support. The last time we did mass national 213 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: polling on is after Newtown, people on both sides of 214 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,199 Speaker 1: the aisle agreed something needs to change. But the n 215 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: r A s choke hold on our politics is so 216 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: powerful it seems almost impossible to get anything done. You 217 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: hit the nail on the head. I think most reasonable 218 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: folks would say, if you are convicted for a violent 219 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 1: crime of domestic abuse, you should not be able to 220 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 1: get your hands on a gun. Going back to the 221 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: situation with Kelly, Kelly was a member of the Air Force, 222 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: which acknowledged that he kind of slipped through the cracks. 223 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: They say that it appears that Kelly's domestic violence conviction 224 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: was not entered into the National Crime Information Centered Database, 225 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: which is why he was able to pass a background 226 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 1: check for a gun. And to make things more terrifying, 227 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: this case is not that unusual. According to a Florida 228 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: International University report, the military mishandled roughly thirteen thousand domestic 229 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: violence cases between two thousand four and two thousand twelve, 230 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: including misclassifications that allowed abusers to go unreported in the 231 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 1: n c I S. So essentially, people who have convictions 232 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: for domestic violence who really should not have their hands 233 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: on guns can kind of get them in. This isn't 234 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 1: just isolated to military personnel. Spotty enforcement really does allow 235 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: abusers to fall through the cracks. All twenty eight states 236 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 1: and DC have laws prohibiting convicted domestic abusers from buying 237 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: or possessing firearms. Only fourteen states require those people to 238 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: give up the guns they already have. So if you 239 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: have a gun in your house and you get convicted 240 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 1: of domestic violence, it's a crapshoot whether or not you 241 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: are legally required to give up a gun that you 242 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: already have in your possessions. Well, not to mention, enforcement 243 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 1: of that law is extremely difficult. Literally, all that police 244 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: officers have to go on is someone else's report, like 245 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: an abused, strange ex wife or partner saying, yeah, he 246 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: has a firearm, a handgun. He keeps it under his pillow. 247 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: They knock on his door and say, do you have 248 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 1: a firearm. We've heard you have a handgun, we heard 249 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 1: you keep it under your pillow. Can you give it 250 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: to us? And literally they can say I got no 251 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: firearm here, and that's it. Stories over, It's insane. I 252 00:13:56,280 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: definitely think having convicted domestic abusers on the honor system 253 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 1: is probably a bad plan. Actually, there was a story 254 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: I was listening to about this on my new local 255 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: NPR station in Denver, Colorado, and granted this very state 256 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: to state, but in Denver, the police were saying, we 257 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 1: oftentimes have to get in touch with these typically men's mothers, 258 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: to ask their mothers to reason with them. Like God, 259 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: the world is a broken place. If police are asking 260 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: for the unpaid labor of abusers mothers to talk some 261 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: sense into their weapon wielding abusive sons, it's very depressing. 262 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: This is so fundamentally broken and in other countries when 263 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: things were this broken, they did something about it, and 264 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: they said, hey, no guns for you anymore in Australia, 265 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: or hey no civilian firearms in the UK, which is extreme, 266 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: and obviously we don't even need to be that extreme 267 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: to make progress here in the United States. But our 268 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: lack of action altogether is a global embarrassment, and it 269 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: seems uniquely applied to the issue of guns, because not 270 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: that long ago one guy tried to sneak a bomb 271 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 1: onto a plane in his shoe, and now we all 272 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: take off our shoes at the airport. So it's like, 273 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 1: why is it that when that happened we needed swift 274 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: change from the top down, And when it comes to guns, 275 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: it's just this sort of do nothing approach. It doesn't 276 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: make any sense to me. The Constitution, Yeah, I mean, okay, 277 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: the Constitution, but I'm sure when the Framers wrote the 278 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: Constitution they weren't imagining semi automatic weapons. People who go 279 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: back to that, I think, did you think that the 280 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: Framers had I'm just saying, if the Framers had made 281 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 1: an amendment about the right to where your shoes fair, 282 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: we'd have a bigger argument about that. But instead they 283 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 1: happen to write the right to bear arms, and here 284 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: we are with this cluster of an interpretation war over 285 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 1: what that really means. And I'm with you how to present, 286 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,479 Speaker 1: there's no way that they were talking about semi automatic 287 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: rifles that could take down an elephant being freely available 288 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: to nineteen year old I'm sure this isn't that what 289 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: they had in mind, not that they were drafting the constitution. 290 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 1: So let's talk a little bit about what can be 291 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: done about this issue if you're piste off as we 292 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: are after this quick break and we're back. So it 293 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: actually turns out, Emily, just like you were saying before, 294 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: that keeping guns out of the hands of convicted domestic 295 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 1: abusers is one of those rare issues that Democrats and 296 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: Republicans kind of agree on. Senator John Cornyn of Texas said, quote, 297 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: there are enormous problems with the background check system. Even 298 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: Republican Senator Jeff Flake, who's now outgoing and speaking his 299 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: truth in a way that he has in a long time, 300 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: teamed up with Democratic Senator Martin Heinrich to introduce a 301 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: bill that would require the military to accurately record and 302 00:16:55,520 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 1: report domestic violence convictions and Republican governors in Utah, North Dakota, Wisconsin, 303 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: and Michigan have all taken steps to limit gun rights 304 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: for domestic abusers. So this does seem like an issue 305 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: that most folks are in agreement needs to be handled. 306 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: And what's more, keeping guns away from convicted domestic abusers 307 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:17,439 Speaker 1: seems to be pretty effective. And despite my reference to 308 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: the NPR story that ran in Denver, experts agree that 309 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: those laws requiring abusers to surrender their guns are effective. 310 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 1: The states that have implemented these so called relinquishment laws 311 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 1: saw a fourteen percent decline and intimate partner gun homicides 312 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: according to researchers at Boston University and at Duke University exactly, So, 313 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 1: just to be clear, and the levels had a little bit. 314 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 1: In scientific terms, the link between domestic violence and gun 315 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: violence still remains anecdotal. Just because mass shooters are often 316 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: abusers doesn't mean that abusers are more likely to be 317 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: mass shooters. And one of the things that so troubling 318 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: about this is that this link really needs to be 319 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: studied more So, what you're saying is that it's a correlation, 320 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 1: not a causal link. We actually don't really know because 321 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: we don't really study this enough. These connections only become 322 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: clear in hindsight, which is pretty much too late in 323 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:11,439 Speaker 1: the case of a mass shooting. And not to mention, 324 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 1: we'd really not like to have a sample size that's 325 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: big enough for us to study mass shooters in a 326 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: huge way, Like this is not a sample size that 327 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 1: we want to increase to get better data on. We'd 328 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: like to just solve this problem without having to have 329 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:29,920 Speaker 1: four thousand mass shooters to study. That's the thing, though, 330 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: We already have so many mass shootings that if we 331 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 1: were able to study the data that is already out there, 332 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: we could probably get someplace on this issue. Susan B. Sorenson, 333 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 1: a professor at the University of Pennsylvania and director of 334 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:43,679 Speaker 1: the Ordner Center on Family Violence, basically just says that 335 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: same thing. She says, right now, we don't have enough 336 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: data to have a pattern. The one thing that we 337 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 1: know that mass shooters all have in common is that 338 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 1: they have access to massive firepower. That is a single 339 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: unifying force. Just a thought, maybe we shouldn't make it 340 00:18:56,560 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 1: so easy to get semi automatic death machines in mass 341 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 1: to like hoard these kinds of violent killing machine objects. 342 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 1: In people's homes. Maybe that's something we all don't need 343 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 1: to have, Emily, you sound absurd. Of course we need 344 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:15,679 Speaker 1: to have that. That's that's what makes this country great, Emily, 345 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: this is America we're talking about. That's part of our 346 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: American exceptionalism is making sure that people with demonstrated violent 347 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 1: backgrounds can hoard weapons. I'm gonna use that quote someday 348 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: and I'll be like, she wasn't being sarcastic, folks, she 349 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 1: was being genuine I was. But yeah, A good first 350 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 1: step in tackling this is really more research. But here's 351 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 1: why that's not as easy as it sounds. The n 352 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 1: r A has backed an amendment blocking the CDC from 353 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 1: doing betterly funded research on gun violence. So when you're 354 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 1: hearing your politician go on TV talking about thoughts and 355 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: prayers and thoughts and prayers and thoughts and prayers, just 356 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: know that it is entirely possible that same politician has 357 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: taken money from the n ra A, the organization that 358 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: makes it harder for the CDC to study gun violen 359 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: unbelievable then, I mean, I knew the n r A 360 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 1: was powerful, but I forgot that they have barred our 361 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 1: Disease Control, our National Federal Center for Disease Control, from 362 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:16,159 Speaker 1: even studying gun violence and the impact it has on 363 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 1: our country. That is disgusting. It is disgusting, and it 364 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: really goes to show the stranglehold that the n r 365 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: A has on our political system. And when I see 366 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:28,120 Speaker 1: Marco Rubio go on TV and say, you know, this 367 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 1: is so sad thoughts and prayers, I am asking myself, 368 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 1: how much money did you get from the n r 369 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:35,679 Speaker 1: if it's so sad? Get back that money almost a 370 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 1: million exactly. And this latest shooting, which happened on his 371 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: turf in his state, if he even has the audacity 372 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 1: to show his face there, I will be shocked because 373 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: the man has taken almost one million dollars from the 374 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 1: National Rifle Association exactly. So you can understand why it's 375 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 1: a little frustrating, and it's almost impossible for me to 376 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: take his words seriously. I'm sure he didn't want this 377 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: shooting to happen, but unless he does something, who cares 378 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 1: at these sends of thoughts and prayers. No, it's disgusting, 379 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: it's despicable. So if you want to take action and 380 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: make your voice heard on this regard right now, we 381 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:16,400 Speaker 1: need citizen activists to step up. If we are ever 382 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: going to be able to fight back against the n 383 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 1: r a s stranglehold. We need everybody involved in this fight, 384 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: and fortunately every town dot org an organization that was 385 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: established after the New Town shooting. And if anybody has 386 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 1: gotten that close to making real progress on this issue 387 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: in the past, it was then with these organizers. They 388 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 1: have a five step plan for anyone who wants to 389 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,479 Speaker 1: make their voice heard on this issue, and the first 390 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:46,120 Speaker 1: is to take their pledge to vote on gun safety. 391 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:48,679 Speaker 1: Know how much the n r A is donating to 392 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 1: the campaigns of politicians you're considering, and don't vote for them. 393 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 1: Vote out anybody who's been taking money from the n 394 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: r A. Step one. They also say, please get registered 395 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 1: to vote and make sure that your friends and family 396 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 1: are registered to We can vote these suckers out of 397 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: office if we don't like where they stand on gun 398 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 1: violence prevention, and we should do just that. They also 399 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: recommend attending a meeting to learn about the Gun Sense 400 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: Candidate Questionnaire that we can use to hold our leaders 401 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: accountable on election day. Basically, not everybody is very clear 402 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: about where they stand on gun violence everybody sounds like 403 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 1: we're all in it for the thoughts and prayers and 404 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,000 Speaker 1: children and safety and YadA YadA YadA. It sounds nice 405 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 1: and dandy, and it's not always easy to find out 406 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: who's taking money from the n r A. But there's 407 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: a questionnaire that every town has created where you can 408 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 1: really get more information and use it to go to 409 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 1: events and ask your politicians. Ask folks who are running 410 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: for office where they really stand on the issues, and 411 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 1: their last recommendation is one I think is great. Run 412 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 1: for office your damn self. If you don't like where 413 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 1: your lawmakers stand on this issue, maybe you can do 414 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:56,360 Speaker 1: a better job. Maybe somebody out there listening, has the skills, 415 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: has the power, has the drive to get us someplace 416 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,879 Speaker 1: on this issue. Maybe it's you, sminthy listeners. So if 417 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,239 Speaker 1: you don't like what your politicians are doing, get them 418 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 1: out of there and take their place. I love it. 419 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 1: I love it. And as a reminder, our friend Aaron 420 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: from Vote Run Lead was here with a bunch of 421 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 1: resources for how to do just that. If you haven't 422 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,719 Speaker 1: heard it already, go check out our episode called eighteen 423 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: Is it Another Year of the Woman? Yeah? I know, 424 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: I started this episode talking about how I'm a bit 425 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 1: numb to gun violence and how it happened so often 426 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: that it almost doesn't register. And I think a lot 427 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: of people sadly feel that way. But I'm actually kind 428 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 1: of inspired because I think that this new generation cropping up, 429 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: they're not going to stand for this. And I really 430 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 1: think we're talking about a generation of young people who 431 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 1: are at the forefront of so many big political movements, 432 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: me too, DOCTA, immigration reform, all the major movements. I 433 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,959 Speaker 1: think it's entirely possible that they won't stand for it. 434 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,440 Speaker 1: Well they shouldn't. I mean, it's children, after all, who 435 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,880 Speaker 1: are the victims in far too many of these massacres. 436 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 1: And David Hogg, one of the survivors from this most 437 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 1: recent shooting, put it so perfectly how he and his 438 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: peers and really all of us will not stand for 439 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,119 Speaker 1: in action and are calling the grown ups in the 440 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 1: situation to action to get things done for the children 441 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: we proclaim to care about in this country. What we 442 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: really need is action. Because we can say, yes, we're 443 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 1: gonna do all these things thoughts and prayers, what we 444 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: need more than that is action. Please. This is the 445 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:32,199 Speaker 1: one this year that's unacceptable. We're children. You guys like 446 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: are the adults. You need to take some action and 447 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: play a role. Work together, come over your politics and 448 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: get something done. So when you've got young people taking 449 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: grown as politicians to task, you know something needs to 450 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,880 Speaker 1: be done. And smnty listeners, we are right there with them. 451 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: Please let's work together and figure out how we can 452 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 1: be better on this issue. Let us know where you 453 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 1: stand on this issue, what you're doing to make progress 454 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: on preventing gun violence, and how we can follow through 455 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: on David's call to action. Hit us up on Twitter 456 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: at mom Stuff Podcast, find us on Instagram at stuff 457 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 1: Mom Never Told You, and, as always, our email inboxes 458 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 1: open at mom stuff, how stuff works dot com