1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 2: Only on the. 3 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: Double Show, Ben is on the phone today for it 4 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: to Catch a Cheater, and Ben actually thinks that his 5 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: daughter's boyfriend might be cheating on her. So in a 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: few minutes we're going to see if he is. But first, Ben, 7 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: what's going on? 8 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: Man? 9 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: Why do you think your daughter's boyfriend's cheating? 10 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 2: My daughter, Kelsey's been dating this guy. His name's Matt. 11 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 2: He's not a bad kid, not two years you know, 12 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 2: around me, he's pretty pretty respectful. They it comes to 13 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 2: some of the family gatherings in the last two years, 14 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 2: so I've not really seen a whole lot of them. 15 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: But there's just some things that have happened more recently 16 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 2: that have just kind of had been going. Okay, wait, 17 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 2: Kelsey and I are pretty close. We've always been close, 18 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 2: you know. She's she's talked to me just about about everything, 19 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: even more than her mom, and that kind of irritates mom. 20 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: But that's just how it is. Yeah, And so just 21 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: some things lately that I've got to know something's not 22 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 2: right and I think he's cheating. I think he's going 23 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: out on her. If that's the case, it's it's. 24 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: Not going to be pretty what's he doing specifically that 25 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: makes you feel like he's acting up? 26 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it might be nothing, and I just 27 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 2: might be over reacting. Uh, you know, she's she's my 28 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 2: little girl. So I you know, sometimes he just gets 29 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 2: real uncomfortable in situations like he's got. Sometimes he's just 30 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 2: he just takes off. He's there and we're a family 31 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:29,639 Speaker 2: gathering and I look and he's gone, I mean just gone, 32 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 2: and Kelsey's crying and what's wrong? And uh and so 33 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: you know, in public again, he treats her, treats her well. 34 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: But like last week when we were talking, she just 35 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 2: said something that really really really bothered Mammy. And she 36 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: she said that all of a sudden, he'd become a 37 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: different person. And she's kind of like what and she 38 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: it's pretty cool. She just opens up. Uh, he's she says, 39 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 2: he's just never around anymore. He's always allas making excuses 40 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 2: not to see her or even come by right or 41 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: go to a function or happening. Then there were a 42 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 2: couple of times at Kelsey actually just showed up alone, 43 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 2: didn't even didn't even come with him. So something's up. 44 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 2: I just think something is up, and this guy is 45 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: taking something on the side. I don't know what he's doing, 46 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: but he's just not being there for her like he was. 47 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 2: And it just breaks my heart. And I'm doing everything 48 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 2: I can't ky a hold back and say give me 49 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 2: five minutes with this guy. 50 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 1: But yeah, she think he's cheating too. 51 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 2: She does that last conversation. You know, I just said, Hony, 52 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 2: what do you I wanted to say, you know what, 53 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: this is cheating, This bulls cheating, but you know, I 54 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: just said, what do you think is going on? And 55 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 2: she just said I think I can't believe it, but 56 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 2: I just I think he's cheating. I think she said, 57 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 2: was I think he's saying someone else? And then I 58 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 2: couldn't get much much more out of her. She just 59 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 2: broke down. 60 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, I bet does she know you're calling us? 61 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 2: Oh? 62 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: No, okay, okay, all right, well you told us what 63 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 1: grocery store he shops at. I guess she told you that, right, right, 64 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: So we'll call from there. We'll play a song, come back, 65 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: and then call and pretend to be from the grocery 66 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: store and say that. Every single month, we choose one 67 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: random Rewards card member who gets three flowers delivered from 68 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: our floral department and we'll see if he believes that 69 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: and who he sends them to, if he sends them 70 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 1: to your daughter or to somebody else. 71 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, am I going to be able to talk 72 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: to this dude or what? 73 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: Yes? You are definitely just yeah, like wait a little 74 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: bit until we can see if we can get a 75 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: name out of him, and then you can have adding No, 76 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: all right, we'll play a song come back and get 77 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: you to catch a cheeter next. If you're just joining 78 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: us for today's to Catch a Cheater, it's a little 79 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: different than other ones. Ben is on the phone, and 80 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: Ben thinks that his daughter's boyfriend named Matt might be 81 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: cheating on his daughter. Second, we're gonna call him and 82 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: particularly from the grocery store that he's a rewards card 83 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: member at, and say that every single month, we choose 84 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: one rewards card member who wins flowers that delivered to 85 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: anybody that they want from our Florida department. We'll see 86 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: if he sends them to Ben's daughter or to somebody else. 87 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 2: Ben. 88 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 1: Before we do that, once you refresh everybody's memory on 89 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: your situation and what your daughter's name is. 90 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Kelsey is my daughter. She has been seeing 91 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,919 Speaker 2: this guy named Matt. It's a good kid and for 92 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 2: the most part everything's been going pretty good. But lately 93 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 2: things have changed. It just kind of shifted. I've got 94 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 2: a great relationship with Kelsey, my daughter, and always has. 95 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 2: She talks to me more their mom. Last couple of 96 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 2: conversations we've had didn't go well concerning this guy Matt. Yeah, 97 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: he just stops showing up to some of the functions. 98 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: Kelsey has shown up by herself. He will be at 99 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 2: a function now all of a sudden, he just takes off. 100 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 2: It doesn't say a word. Yeah, And so my last 101 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: conversation with with my little girl, she just it's kind 102 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 2: of broke down and just said she thinks he's seen 103 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 2: someone else. So I want to know. I want to 104 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 2: find out. And because of he is, you and I 105 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 2: are gonna we're gonna meet up. 106 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: All right. Are you ready for us to call him? 107 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 108 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Corbyn 109 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: calling from I was looking for a rewards card member 110 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: named Matt. Hi, Matt, Please don't hang up. This is 111 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say 112 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,239 Speaker 1: congratulations here this month's big winner. 113 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 2: Wow. 114 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: Okay, where do I win Oh the flowers? 115 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 2: Oh okay, what kind of flowers? 116 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member at 117 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: random to call up and say thank you very much 118 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: for your business and thank you for shopping with us. 119 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: You've just won thirty six long sim red roses, a 120 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: box of candy, your chocolate, and a card to be 121 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: delivered to anybody that you want in the fifty United States. 122 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: It's actually a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Congratulations okay, 123 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: And I know a lot of people think it sounds 124 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: like a thing you have to pay for some kind 125 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 1: of scam. It's not. You'll get confirmations of everything. It's 126 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 1: just our way of saying thank you. Okay, I can 127 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 1: take down the information in a matter of minutes over 128 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: the phone. I'm prepared to do that right now. 129 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 3: All right, I'll just like send them to somebody if 130 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 3: I can do that. 131 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: Okay, perfect. Let me just pull up my form here, 132 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: can I. We'll start with the first and last name 133 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: of the person you'd like to send them to. 134 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 3: First, Okay, it's Kelly, and. 135 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 1: The do you want anything on a card? 136 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 3: Just say? That was really fun? Are you ready for 137 00:06:58,760 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 3: round two? 138 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: Got it? That was fun. Are you ready for round two? 139 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:04,799 Speaker 1: And that's to Kelly. 140 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, Matt. 141 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: Now I'll let you know though, that this isn't the 142 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: grocery store. My name is actually Jubil and I'm calling 143 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: from radio show called The Jubil Show. I'm Nina also here, 144 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: and I'm Victoria. 145 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 2: What. 146 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we do a segment on our show. It's 147 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: called to Catch a Cheater. And your girlfriend's dad, Ben 148 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: is actually on the phone. 149 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 2: What yeah, you told listen to me, you know what, 150 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 2: give me five minutes with you. You know what, You don't 151 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: deserve my daughter. You don't deserve No, no, you just listen. 152 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 2: You don't deserve her. You know what, she thought you 153 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 2: were doing this, but you know what I thought, No, 154 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,559 Speaker 2: you wouldn't do that. Do you know what? She's given 155 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 2: everything to you, man, everything, everything, even financially. We've helped you, dude. 156 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: We've been there for Kelsey's been there for you every time, 157 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 2: and you do this to my daughter. You know what? 158 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 2: Where are you right now? Exactly? I want to know 159 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 2: where you are. I want to say just a minute, 160 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 2: give me a minute. 161 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 3: With You're gonna call me on the radio and start 162 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 3: talking to you like you don't even know what's going on. 163 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 2: Like, but listen to you believe that you know. 164 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what you. 165 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 2: Listen to me, Listen to me. It's not what you 166 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 2: know what's going on. It's not what you think for sure? 167 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: What is it? 168 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 3: I'm just saying, you don't know that she's been like 169 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 3: hanging with other dudes, Like she's always like with some 170 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 3: other dude, Like I don't you don't even know. 171 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 2: She don't even know what's going on. Listen, listen, she's 172 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 2: got she's got guy friends. Of course she's gonna hang 173 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 2: with other dudes. She's completely committed to you and has 174 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 2: been for two years. Two years of her life gone wasted. 175 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 2: I don't with someone like you. 176 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 3: I'm saying, they're not die friends. 177 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: Well, Matt, why are you making those types of accusations? 178 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 1: How do you know that? 179 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 3: I don't even really need to defend myself, just sufficing 180 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 3: to say that. I'm sorry, dude, but your daughter's kind 181 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 3: of a line. 182 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 2: Who excuse me? You? Really? You know what? You better 183 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 2: hope I don't see you soon, man, because you know what, 184 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 2: she doesn't deserve you you have You don't even have 185 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 2: a clue how good she is for you, and this 186 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 2: is how you treat her, my treator. 187 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 3: A great thought bad. She was dirty honestly. 188 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 2: So okay, that's enough, you know what. That's enough. Yeah, 189 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 2: that's enough. That's enough. I don't want to hear your voice. 190 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 2: Oh man, you know what I'm done. I'm done. I'm 191 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: done with him, and you know what Kelsey's done with 192 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 2: you too. Listen, if I ever see you even close 193 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 2: to my daughter, even anywhere near her, you're his mine. Really, 194 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 2: you're his mine. If you think if you think I'm kidding, 195 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 2: wait and see, man, you just wait and see. 196 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 3: I'd like side whatever, dude, I'll be around and by 197 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 3: the way, you're cooking. 198 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 2: So really, he just hung up. He just hung up. 199 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry. 200 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: I didn't want to hear voice anymore anymore. So, yeah, 201 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: you know what, Well, how are you? 202 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 1: How are you gonna tell Kelsey? 203 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. I gotta figure this out. I'm gonna 204 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 2: maybe talk with her mom and I don't know. I 205 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 2: don't know, man, because she she was all in with 206 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 2: this guy. I don't know. I don't know what I'm 207 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 2: gonna do. I appreciate you helping me out and and 208 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,599 Speaker 2: making this happen. I wish it were different, but I 209 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 2: just appreciate you at the station for doing this. 210 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: Man, good luck with everything. 211 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 2: Man. 212 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: The Jubile shows to catch a cheater.