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Speaker 3: Or were there Welcome back to good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 3: I'm Erica and I'm Mela. Happy motherfucking Wednesday. Happy Wednesday, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys want to join me in some Mela moans?

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Speaker 3: a nice, big, pleasurable, sexy, freaky moon. I love that

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Speaker 3: so much. How are you? I'm good? How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good. I'm I'm good. Your hair looks beautiful. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I'm Mermaid, a siren. Appreciate it. This is my Tantrica hair.

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Speaker 3: If you're not on YouTube, go on YouTube right now.

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Speaker 3: And if you're not, you should go subscribe anyway, because

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Speaker 3: any either one, Welcome to the show. It does it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So I think that's really cool because I

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Speaker 3: At this point, it's one of our favorite Thank you

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Speaker 3: the way what is Honeypot and how it was conceived? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So, Honeypot is a I can just say, a vaginal

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Speaker 2: When I say that myself, what comes to me is

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Speaker 2: And it's not just with products, it's with all the

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Speaker 2: Because it's not just like we're the answer to the world, right,

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Speaker 2: And so you know, honey, pot is really to help

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Speaker 1: So that's a big part of what we do.

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Speaker 2: So that's why when you ask me that question about

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Speaker 2: that point we were just a wash company. Can't do

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Speaker 2: But you know, and we happen to make really beautiful, efficacious,

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Speaker 2: that range from washes, vulva washes with your external wipes, pads, tampons, treatments, otcs.

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Speaker 3: know what I mean. But there's like there has to

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00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:20,679
Speaker 3: be I think I always I always make this this like,

430
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:25,399
Speaker 3: uh example that I think people who are unwilling to

431
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:28,119
Speaker 3: examine parts of their private like their private areas or

432
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,200
Speaker 3: their bodies, or be naked alone or look in the

433
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 3: vagina or like have the conversation, there's probably a part

434
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 3: of you that, like spiritually and emotionally you're hiding. There's

435
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,159
Speaker 3: parts of you cut off. If you're like there's a

436
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,879
Speaker 3: there's parts of your physical body you cannot examine and

437
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 3: talk about openly, then there's probably parts of your you know,

438
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 3: spiritual and energetic body that you're not examining. And I

439
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 3: think that's something to look at too. It's like, why

440
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 3: are we cutting out parts of ourselves to like.

441
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 2: If you're ready to look at it right right and

442
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:59,120
Speaker 2: that and that's really the key is if you're ready

443
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 2: and if you can look and that's you knowing that

444
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 2: like maybe you're not ready, and if you're still not ready,

445
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,879
Speaker 2: that's cool too, you know, but it is important to

446
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 2: navigate that. So completely agree with you. Yes, I had

447
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:18,120
Speaker 2: BV for like for what felt like forever. It would

448
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 2: go away and come back.

449
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 3: Did you did you get BV from a partner or

450
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,919
Speaker 3: did you How do you think it came from? I

451
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,400
Speaker 3: have no idea. I mean, you know, I was young,

452
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 3: I was outside. I'm not my own specific person. I

453
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 3: know who the fuck it was, but you know what it's,

454
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 3: you know, so so listen. BV is basically a pH imbalance,

455
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:43,199
Speaker 3: So it's not necessarily that you got it from somebody

456
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 3: more than if they came inside of you. Let's call

457
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 3: it what it is, a if they go by mail.

458
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 2: I'm trying to be uh open here, but I'm going

459
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 2: to say woman and man.

460
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,199
Speaker 3: Just for the conversation.

461
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 2: If you're with a man and and and that's the

462
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 2: partner that you choose and they ejaculate inside of you. Right,

463
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 2: Sperm has to carry life, so it makes sense that

464
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 2: sperm has to be alkaline. It wouldn't be able to

465
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 2: carry life if it was a cidic. Our vaginas are

466
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 2: an acidic environment, right, So if you're with if you're

467
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 2: with a man and he ejaculates inside of you, and

468
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:33,400
Speaker 2: his sperm is like extremely alkaline, which can happen, right,

469
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 2: especially if it's a guy who like eats well and

470
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 2: takes care of himself and all the shit.

471
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 3: Right, no real shit.

472
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 2: He so he was probably super alkaline because he took

473
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 2: care of himself, right, And then your vagina is super

474
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 2: it's it's it's I won't say it's supercidic, but it's

475
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 2: between a three point five and a four point five.

476
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,959
Speaker 2: But also what could have happened is if your pH

477
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 2: was already off a little bit and then he came

478
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: inside of you and guess what, that just threw it

479
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 2: off a little bit more the pot And what happened

480
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:15,239
Speaker 2: was it created an environment for these bacterias to just

481
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 2: grow by the billions, because you don't have enough good

482
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 2: bacteria to fight all of the bad off and so

483
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: then guess what here comes BV. Right, So it's not

484
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 2: you know a lot of people think that you that

485
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 2: you're just getting it passed on from somebody. Right, it's

486
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 2: not necessarily that they got like a dirty dick or whatever,

487
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 2: or a dirty mouth or you know, a dirty vagina,

488
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 2: depending on who you're getting busy with. Right, no judgment

489
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 2: either way. It's just that whatever was happening with their

490
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 2: body chemistry and when it mixed with yours, it just

491
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 2: it just made an interesting concoction.

492
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 3: Some people just don't agree with other people.

493
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,680
Speaker 1: Some people just don't agree with no.

494
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:57,400
Speaker 4: No, some people just don't.

495
00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 3: Agree with other people real shit, like and that's okay,

496
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 3: you know, and it could be somebody you're deeply in

497
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,159
Speaker 3: love with and your body is just like nah. I

498
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 3: talk about him on the first episode because we went

499
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 3: back and listened to that episode and I told it

500
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 3: was he was called no chemistry, bag. I called this

501
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 3: nigga no chemist. I mean, it's quite accurate. And he

502
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 3: fucked up my chemistry. Yeah, because like spiritually I knew

503
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 3: there was it was not gonna work. And the sex

504
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 3: was good, but then the after bath was not great,

505
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 3: and then I was stuck with BV. Yeah.

506
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, and if you're a person who's

507
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:29,679
Speaker 2: prone to it, you might want it. As soon as

508
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: you get done. Make sure you get up, go pee

509
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 2: as soon as possible, get in the shower. Do not

510
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: even if you want to get busy again. Don't just

511
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 2: chill in the wet spot. Get up, go pee, give

512
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 2: yourself a little wash in the front and the bat

513
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 2: and you know, and.

514
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 3: Put put a put a boric as.

515
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 2: No pop a boric acid in there, just to help

516
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 2: to reassimplify yourself, right, So that so that so that

517
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 2: you can create the environment in your vagina to produce

518
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:04,159
Speaker 2: more good bacteria, so that if if any imbalance does happen,

519
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: now you've just kind of neutralized the situation, you know

520
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

521
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 1: Like, and it's.

522
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 3: Okay, Like you know, this shit just happens.

523
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes you just was super nasty one night and did

524
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 2: some other shit and then here we are.

525
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 3: You know, you're not only get super nasty, you're like,

526
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 3: please God, don't fuck with my vagina. I know it's

527
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,479
Speaker 3: gonna get that. I'm got not like please God, I'm like,

528
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 3: is that an itch? You're like please God, and then

529
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 3: too like it may be a little off the next day.

530
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 2: The other thing that we have to do is not

531
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 2: get so trauma filled that we think, you know, we

532
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 2: just had a wild night the night before. Maybe you

533
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 2: had sex with one person, maybe you had sex with

534
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: a couple people, right, whatever, whatever you into, right, and

535
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: and you of course you're not gonna be the same

536
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 2: the next day.

537
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 3: Like, just give it a couple of days.

538
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 2: It's gonna be okay, right, and if it's not, then

539
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: it's gonna show itself. But in those instances, that's when

540
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 2: you have to be responsible, you know, do a little

541
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: extra clean up, make sure you clean up good, even

542
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 2: if you're gonna get busy again. That's the cool thing

543
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 2: about honey pop vulva washes is they have a beautiful

544
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,479
Speaker 2: herbal hydration serum in them essentially that you could use

545
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 2: it twenty times a day if you needed to and

546
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 2: it wouldn't dry you out, you know what I mean.

547
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 3: But yeah, you just you know, I mean, we're living beings.

548
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 3: We're energetic beings. Like shit is changing. We are living

549
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 3: so things, you know, like a plant be dying, the

550
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 3: leaf be brown, then cut back up. It's like that

551
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 3: we are like to expect that we're gonna be perfectly

552
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 3: functioning all the time and our vagina is gonna be

553
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 3: perfectly functioning. I'm happy though that like we're in this

554
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 3: era because there was a time where like you would

555
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 3: go to the doctor and this nigga would tell you

556
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 3: some shit and you'd be like, okay, Like I have

557
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 3: so many friends who were dealing with BV and yeast

558
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 3: and they're like, yeah, you're gonna deal this for the

559
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 3: rest of your life, every partner, And that's not true.

560
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 3: And this was like a few years ago, and like

561
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 3: literally before even I learned about like boric acid and

562
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 3: like that is a very simple boot, but it helps tremendously.

563
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 3: But there we have not really been empowered to talk

564
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 3: and talk to our yonis and be like you, all right, bitch,

565
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying and like kind of like

566
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 3: work through this that the options and talk to each

567
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 3: other and figure out the ways we can help. It

568
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 3: was a time there was just like three things in

569
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 3: the aisle. You go to the doctor and secret this

570
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 3: nigga who doesn't have a vagina tells you some shit

571
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 3: and you believe him. You go home crying and you

572
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,919
Speaker 3: don't tell none of your girlfriends except one because you're embarrassed.

573
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 3: And I realized, like I like, they're really all parts,

574
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 3: like we are living. And there is a time like

575
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 3: Eve when I was in college in Atlanta and I

576
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 3: was being such a smut and I just couldn't stop.

577
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 3: And there was a time I was like about to

578
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 3: go outside and smut it up again and my vagina

579
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 3: I heard my vagina be like, sit the fuck down please,

580
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god, it's talking to me.

581
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 3: But it was my first experience where I was like,

582
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 3: oh my it was like my subcon my vaginal subconscious

583
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 3: telling me to chill out. But there's a conversation that

584
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 3: we need to have. We separate from you know, we

585
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 3: separate our bottom halves, like quite literally from our brain

586
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 3: from our hearts, and then and we let other people

587
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 3: tell us about it, and then we're fucked up and

588
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 3: we don't know why. It's because we're not in tune

589
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 3: with our bodies and with our energetic like you know,

590
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 3: the conversation. It's like, what is it that I need?

591
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 3: And like instead of freaking out or assuming like we

592
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 3: have the worst possible whatever, you know, you kind of

593
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 3: have to sit back and like literally listen to your body,

594
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 3: like you listen to what you need to eat and

595
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 3: what food you put in your.

596
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: Body, because when your body is not well and it's communicating,

597
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 2: because it always is. Right right now, I've got a

598
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 2: little cough because I had whatever it is cold is

599
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 2: is going yeah, right, I shouldn't just be talk talk

600
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: talk talk talk. My body's like, bitch, was we just

601
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 2: trying to get better? Like what are you doing? You

602
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 2: know what I mean? But like our bodies are communicating

603
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 2: all the time, and if your vagina is in this

604
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 2: perpetual space of reoccurring things happening, you do need to

605
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 2: to take a second get yourself together. Another thing is

606
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 2: if you're finding yourself in this reoccurring thing right, a

607
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 2: lot of there's some people that are just really horny,

608
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 2: you know, and I respect that it's your body. Do

609
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: what you want, but allow your body to heal, allow

610
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 2: yourself to get through whatever the thing is, right, And

611
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 2: if you have a partner that will shame you for

612
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 2: that or that will make you feel bad for that,

613
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 2: then you need to evaluate that person because they should

614
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,959
Speaker 2: want you to be well to you know, I'm not

615
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 2: saying that they're not good for you or whatever. But

616
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 2: it's really important to make sure that you take the

617
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 2: time to get your body well, to get yourself healed.

618
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 3: You know, I think that that's I mean, yes, but

619
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 3: to argue, not argue that, but just to say, a

620
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 3: lot of women don't even want to tell their partner

621
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 3: there's something wrong, so they just fuck through it because

622
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 3: but that's my point, because they don't even because they

623
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 3: don't even feel confident enough in their own to even

624
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 3: access what's happening in their own body, let alone to express, hey,

625
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 3: there's something happening here. Is I need a second? Yeah,

626
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 3: you know, a bigger conversation, because why are you fucking

627
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 3: somebody you can't have a very adult conversation with.

628
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: But some people just haven't reached that place in their journey.

629
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna say, it's even that person's her fault.

630
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 3: It's really a it's a thing.

631
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 2: It's a it's definitely, it's definitely a you thing. Shame

632
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 2: is real and it's hard to just saybody. Yeah, but

633
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 2: don't go to the store and buy something that'll just

634
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 2: cover up a scent, right and use that because you

635
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 2: know your cooty ain't gonna stink. So like, maybe you

636
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, so maybe you can just get

637
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 2: through it, but don't don't do that. Just take the time,

638
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 2: get yourself together. Right, sex is not going anywhere. There's

639
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: always gonna be somebody on this planet to get busy

640
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 2: with or whatever. It's right, Like, seriously, and if and

641
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: if you're with somebody and you like them and enjoy them,

642
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 2: they can wait. Even if you don't want to say

643
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 2: you could just be like, you know what, let's just

644
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 2: chill tonight. You don't have to say ship really, don't

645
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: just take but just take care of yourself.

646
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, please please please don't just fuck your way

647
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 3: through it. Don't do that, you know, because that can't

648
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 3: be okay, you know. Wait, So we keep keep distracting

649
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 3: because I'm like, I really want to get to this point,

650
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 3: because because your your conception story really speaks to me

651
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 3: right now, specifically around just connecting to your womb and

652
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 3: womb care and how important it is to really be

653
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 3: able to listen to your womb. And so when when

654
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 3: I when I read about your your story and how

655
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 3: your grandmother came to you in a dream, I thought

656
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 3: that for a I thought, wow, that's so beautiful, but

657
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: just how precise she was for you, And like, what

658
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 3: was that like had you connected to answerstors ancestors in

659
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 3: the past in this way or was this like a

660
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 3: first time experience where you got a down load that

661
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 3: was so so specific.

662
00:32:56,600 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: So I've always had a gift of being able to

663
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: even as a kid, of just being like tap tapped in,

664
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I didn't know I was

665
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 2: when I was a kid, but I've always had the

666
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 2: ability to tap into something that we all can't see.

667
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: You know.

668
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 2: That was a very specific thing though, you know, like

669
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: I remember having.

670
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 1: Dreams, you know, I remember when my aunt Ronnie.

671
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: Passed away and we were pretty close when I was

672
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 2: a kid, and she came back and told me, cause

673
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 2: you know, I'm not as good as as I used

674
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,239
Speaker 2: to good at it as I used to be, but

675
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 2: I still am very in touch with my ancestors, you know.

676
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 2: But lighting candles, leaving them water, leaving them flowers every

677
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 2: now and again, even just saying their names, if you

678
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 2: couldn't do any of that right, and that that's a

679
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 2: practice of mine.

680
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,239
Speaker 1: Like I I literally have like a dedicated.

681
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 2: Space in my house, in our house, you know, for

682
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 2: for our ancestors. And she came back and told me

683
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 2: thank you, because we don't really die, you know, this

684
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 2: this thing dies, this body dies, but our spirit and

685
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 2: our souls don't, right, you know, unless it isn't gonna

686
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 2: come back and and and then and then even then

687
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 2: it doesn't die.

688
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 1: It's just transitioning to whatever the thing is.

689
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 3: Right.

690
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 2: So I've had things like that happen, you know, I've

691
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: had I've had some other gnarly things happen. But that

692
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:33,280
Speaker 2: time when my grandmother came, that was very specific because

693
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 2: I could physically see her, like I'm sitting here with you,

694
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,800
Speaker 2: you know, had you met her before? Like no, no,

695
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 2: not in this life. She she transitioned when my mom

696
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 2: was seven. Uh so no, I hadn't, you know, And

697
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 2: I don't even know fully if it was like like

698
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 2: I like my grandmother was the representative right and once

699
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 2: I really because all we have strong genes, so I

700
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 2: look a lot like her, you know, And so I

701
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 2: knew that it was somebody I was I was related to.

702
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 2: When I told my mom, she was like, oh that's

703
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 2: your grandmother.

704
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 3: Or she without questioning, yeah yeah wow, But so like

705
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 3: you just knew innately, not like my vision because you

706
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 3: hadn't you never physically saw I.

707
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 2: Never physically saw her right, except for maybe in a

708
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 2: picture or something, right, And it's not like my mom

709
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 2: has loads of them, you know, and so you know,

710
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 2: so that that was very specific. That was very like,

711
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 2: you know, that was the first time that had happened,

712
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 2: and so, you know, I had been struggling.

713
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: I had been taking the medicine.

714
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 2: I had been living on like Google forms because it's

715
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: kind of before social media and shit. And nothing worked. Nothing,

716
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 2: nothing worked, you know. I was still using the gentle

717
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: soap on my vulva that the that the doctor said.

718
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: You know, I was using other soaps that were supposed

719
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 2: to be for that part of the body, you know,

720
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 2: for the vulva and the vagina whatever. You know, I

721
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 2: was working with an herbalist. I was douching with herbs

722
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 2: and shit, and that is not what you should be

723
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 2: doing because because I was just washing out all the

724
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 2: good stuff, right, and nothing worked. And so my grandmother,

725
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 2: who walks with me, she's here now, she told me

726
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 2: that she had been walking with me and she had

727
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 2: been seeing me struggle, and then she knew what to do,

728
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 2: and she just handed me a piece of paper and

729
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 2: it had a list of ingredients, and she told me,

730
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 2: you know, I'm trying to talk to her, and she's like, babe,

731
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: that's not like. She's like, I can't stay that long.

732
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: This is what I We're not here for that. We're

733
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 2: not here for that. We're not here for that. Right now,

734
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 2: we're here for this. And because I had a background,

735
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 2: she knew I'd be able to figure it out, you know.

736
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 2: And she just handed me a piece of paper had

737
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 2: a list of ingredients, and I just started repeating those

738
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 2: ingredients over and over again.

739
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 3: It felt like I said it a hundred times. Or

740
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 3: were they coconut.

741
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 2: Oil, apple, side of vinegar, lavender, rose, garlic, Great for

742
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,840
Speaker 2: you to see that extract and you know, and I

743
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 2: ended up adding like sandal wood back then I ended

744
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 2: up adding a couple other things to it.

745
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: It was very simple.

746
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 2: Boom boom, boom boom, and I just would go back

747
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 2: to the top, repeat again.

748
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 3: And then she was sitting there just like you, just

749
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 3: like you what you're doing right now? Yep?

750
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: Okay again, you know. And then finally she told me

751
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 2: wake up, and so I woke up. Wherever we were,

752
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,880
Speaker 2: we were in a place, everything was white, it was

753
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 2: like a round table. She had on white. I had

754
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 2: on white. Everything was white everything. Imagine this whole room

755
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 2: is just white and light, white and light, you know,

756
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 2: and you know. And I woke up and I wrote

757
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 2: it down. I worked at Whole Foods. I went to work,

758
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 2: I bought all the stuff. I went home that night.

759
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 2: Within a couple of days, I made myself a formula

760
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 2: because I have a background in pharmacy. I did that

761
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: for like ten years, and I worked in ivy rooms

762
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 2: and compounding labs and shit, and so I knew how

763
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 2: to do the math to figure out the thing, which

764
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 2: my grandmother would have known, right, because she's one of

765
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 2: my she's one of my guys, one of my angels, right.

766
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 2: And I started using it, and I had BV at

767
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 2: the time. And the BV I had, y'all was like

768
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 2: it was it was.

769
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 3: It was.

770
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 2: It was gnarly, it was like funky. It can smell

771
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 2: like collar greens. It was bad, no real ship, it

772
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 2: was bad. It was like bad.

773
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 1: I had a lot of discharge.

774
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 3: But the thing that was bad was the older stressing

775
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 3: of the funk out. Yeah.

776
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: So I took on this trauma, this habit, this still

777
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 2: happens today where I smell myself when.

778
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 3: I go pee.

779
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 2: You know, it's just a thing, right, and not because

780
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 2: of my baby or nothing like that, like just because

781
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 2: like what I smell like, you know, but it used

782
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 2: to be out of like fear, fear exactly, Like it's

783
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 2: it back or exactly and maybe even some of that's

784
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 2: still in there, to be honest, who knows, Right, I

785
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: need to see somebody about.

786
00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 3: That traumatic care. I'm in therapy for my BV. Right,

787
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 3: it's all trauma. I know, it is all trauma. You know,

788
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,919
Speaker 3: it's I have trauma. Every time I have sex with someone,

789
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 3: I get super parent five sex too much. I'm like, okay,

790
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 3: we go through back back three times. I'm like, just

791
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:15,919
Speaker 3: get do what I said.

792
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna be doing I said.

793
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 3: I mean I have listen those boric acid pills, the

794
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 3: like those three things like those have saved my life

795
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 3: and it really I love those after a sex, wife,

796
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 3: I love how big they are, Baby wife, you could

797
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 3: wipe my ass to the front. Fatty Caddy, you're the

798
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 3: little ones. You gotta like get another phone, like baby

799
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 3: got Fatty Caddy. We're gonna need a full tide. The

800
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 3: dull wife here baby, like, what the hell He's like, Yes,

801
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 3: I very much loved those wipes. Use all my ship.

802
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, na, if we don't get your own ship,

803
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,359
Speaker 3: not a man asked, wipe, maybe in there using all

804
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 3: my ship? I love it. Well, you know, I think

805
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 3: right now I'm in this, in this space of cleansing

806
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 3: my womb, like getting rid of all trying to get

807
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 3: rid of all the past lovers of my life and

808
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 3: really creating a very clean, beautiful space. It's just for me.

809
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 3: And when I was thinking about your story, and I

810
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 3: was thinking about how it came from a place of discomfort,

811
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:24,280
Speaker 3: it came from a place of shame. And your ancestor

812
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 3: tapped you and said, let me help you with this.

813
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,840
Speaker 3: Let me help you with this the source of your creation.

814
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 3: And also as a woman her also having a womb

815
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 3: and being able to kind of has been around since

816
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 3: vaginas I'm sure beginning, but just the way that you

817
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:45,320
Speaker 3: were able to listen and then execute and then birth

818
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 3: this beautiful business from this information based around your womb.

819
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 3: And you know, as women like this is the center

820
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 3: of our creation in all ways. And I was talking

821
00:40:58,480 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 3: to one of my GUIDs and she was saying, how

822
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 3: a lot of women, you know, they like, are trying

823
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,760
Speaker 3: to manifest something and they're wondering, like why I've been asking,

824
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 3: I've been doing all these things, and and they don't

825
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,240
Speaker 3: they don't ever think, They don't ever correlate their womb,

826
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 3: the health of their womb, with their ability, their ability

827
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 3: to also invite other things into their life and able

828
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 3: to manifest things into their life. And I was like, wow,

829
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 3: I never even considered that those two correlations. And how

830
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 3: when you do pay attention and you do take the

831
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 3: time to listen to what your body needs, specifically as

832
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 3: a woman like and listen to what she needs, the

833
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:36,800
Speaker 3: beauty that can be birth from that, not just babies,

834
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 3: not just lovers, but businesses ideas creation. That's so crazy,

835
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 3: even like I hadn't thought about it that way. We

836
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 3: do a lot of talking on here, but like when

837
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 3: I think about that, because I even think about us,

838
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 3: and like when we met, we weren't very good friends

839
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 3: and this entity that was created, but the timing of

840
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 3: that happening, like we were new mothers and we were

841
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 3: newly single from long term relationships, which you know, there

842
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 3: was some entity in our womb that didn't agree with

843
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 3: our body, whether it be physically or however however way

844
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 3: that that materialized in our bodies. But in those relationships separately,

845
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,760
Speaker 3: not even knowing each other, we were stuck. There was stagnant.

846
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 3: There was stagnation because like obviously, like our minds were

847
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 3: not clear. Because when your relationship and you're in close

848
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 3: proximity with someone that's not you know, on the same

849
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,720
Speaker 3: frequency as you, it can be confusing. But even more

850
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 3: so I think coming out of those relationships as newly

851
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 3: single mothers, but like emphasis on single, I think that

852
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 3: really helped us be able to plant even this seed

853
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 3: because we were clear enough and our wounds were our

854
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 3: wombs were somewhat clear enough to be like, let me

855
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 3: put this shit in the like mixing some shit in

856
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 3: the kitchen and then saying we had we had no goal.

857
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 3: We were just like we wanted to, we wanted to talk,

858
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 3: and we had some shit to say. I mean, we

859
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 3: wanted to. We were really detoxing from these relationships. And

860
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 3: only in the effort to do that was this space created.

861
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 3: And whereas like you know, this friendship created and this

862
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 3: book and this podcast, and I never really I mean

863
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,720
Speaker 3: I knew that we were in some like zero fucks

864
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 3: given space, you know, because we were newly single, but

865
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 3: like I didn't, I never equated that with like literally

866
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 3: clearing our wounds at the time helped us clear the

867
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 3: space to be confident enough to like have this, you know. Well,

868
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 3: think about how power how when women do start choosing

869
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 3: themselves outside of whatever negativity that they're inviting into their bodies,

870
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 3: Like the things that just start to happen naturally everyone

871
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 3: listening has. If you've if you've actually done it, you've

872
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 3: experienced this the moment you kind of cut off, I

873
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 3: ain't shitting again. All your blessings, I'm.

874
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:41,399
Speaker 2: Pouring it and not even just based around not even

875
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 2: just based around people that you in a relationship, right, yeah,

876
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 2: just purely choosing yourself. Yes, what do I want my

877
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 2: fucking life to look like?

878
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 3: Yes? Right?

879
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 2: And And what do I want it to feel like?

880
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 2: What do I want it to smell like? Is my

881
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 2: house organized? Is it clean?

882
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 3: What am I eating? Am I drinking water? Right? The

883
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 3: best water? Right? The best water possible that you can

884
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 3: and that shit, bitch that might be the fucking tap water.

885
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: And if that's where you at with it, be there.

886
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 2: Drink that girl, right, but honestly no, because that doesn't

887
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 2: have to be forever.

888
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 3: No, if you know that your goal.

889
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 2: Is to drink the most oxygenated highest pH that you

890
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 2: could drink, that makes sense in the water, right, If

891
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 2: that's your goal, then make that your goal.

892
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 3: Right.

893
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 2: But you have to know where you are at the

894
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 2: baseline so that you can know where you want to go.

895
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 3: And so so many of us are so busy living

896
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 3: in the now and the present and kind of sometimes

897
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 3: you're drowning in it because we're living in a time

898
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 3: that let's be a face that there's a million things

899
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 3: going on at one time, and so we're forgetting the

900
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 3: visualization part. What is it dwy want my life to

901
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 3: look like? How can I design it? And how does

902
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 3: it literally smell look like? Like? All those things are super important.

903
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 3: And sometimes if you don't place yourself there in your

904
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 3: mind and how it feels, you can never manifest that

905
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 3: because you've literally don't know how it feels.

906
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's work in manifestation because the other thing is

907
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 2: you have to you have to truly believe that the

908
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 2: shit is possible, right, you don't don't just be trying

909
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 2: to manifest it because you saw it and that shit

910
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 2: look cool? Right, Try to try to understand what it's

911
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: like to do the thing that you're trying to manifest.

912
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 2: What is the work that has to go into that, right?

913
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: Who what kind of relationships do you need to have

914
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 2: in order to do that?

915
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 3: Right?

916
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 2: You know, I'm a I'm very grateful to say I

917
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 2: am a manifestor like a motherfucker, right, I really am, Clearly,

918
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 2: I really am, you know. But there's discipline in manifesting.

919
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: If you want to manifest, you got to be fucking focused.

920
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: Why I want that's the star?

921
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 3: Cool?

922
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 2: I need to I need to figure out the pathway

923
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 2: to get to that star. And there's a billion ways

924
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 2: to get to that star, right, But you have to

925
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 2: be willing to be organized enough and discipline enough to

926
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 2: make sure that that you're ridding yourself of bullshit and

927
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 2: that you're pouring into yourself and that that could be

928
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 2: as simple as you're in a relationship that doesn't serve

929
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: you and not just a romantic one. That could be

930
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 2: work that you that you work. That could be that

931
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,720
Speaker 2: could be a friend that that is toxic and doesn't

932
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 2: mean you well, right, that could be that you actually

933
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: really don't like yourselfship with yourself, which is the most

934
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 2: important one. You know that, when you really want to

935
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 2: get serious about building a life and designing a life

936
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 2: for yourself, the only way that it's gonna work.

937
00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 1: I won't say the only way, but one.

938
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 2: One of the main ways that it's gonna work is

939
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 2: when you get real, real serious about the fact y'all

940
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 2: got this to where it is because y'all were like,

941
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 2: you know what, that can't be my fucking life. Whatever

942
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:17,879
Speaker 2: I was doing before, this can't be my life. Oh

943
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 2: you feel the same way. Cool, let's have this conversation

944
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 2: and let's just start something and see where it goes.

945
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 2: And then you stuck to it, right, You stuck to it.

946
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 2: You met every week, you got the fucking you got

947
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 2: a space, you invested in the materials. You didn't know

948
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 2: what the outcome was gonna be. But guess what.

949
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: The other thing I.

950
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 2: Think that you have to do is you can't be

951
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: married to the outcome because then you're trying to control shit.

952
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 2: You just have to be willing to put your head

953
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:50,439
Speaker 2: down and do the work and also take and eat

954
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 2: the shit as it comes, because shit eating is gonna come. Right,

955
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 2: Something's gonna be hard, Something's gonna fail, You're gonna make

956
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 2: some kind of mistake, right, and and those things are

957
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 2: necessary so that you can learn so that you can

958
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 2: be like, Okay, cool, let me get up real quick.

959
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,280
Speaker 2: You know, like how kids are when kids are outside

960
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 2: playing and they fall, right either they either they either

961
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 2: are gonna cry or they're just like, oh, let me

962
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 2: just dust it. Okay, cool, right, let me go back

963
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:21,760
Speaker 2: and get on the slide again. You know what I'm saying.

964
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 2: We have to we have to take on that kind

965
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 2: of energy, right, you know, of being able to just

966
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 2: get back up, dust ourselves off, die to the shit.

967
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 2: Sow what you trip? So what you fell? So what

968
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 2: it was on the fucking camera? So what all these

969
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 2: people saw you do it? So what get back to it?

970
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: You know?

971
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 2: And and I think there's an ego death in that.

972
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 2: And you really have to be willing to die to

973
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 2: a lot of shit when you really ready, when you've

974
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 2: really truly decided that you want to change your life.

975
00:48:56,400 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 2: That's death to some shit, right, So that so that

976
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 2: you can bring on new life, new love, new patterns,

977
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 2: you know, because when we get stuck in these patterns

978
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 2: and we keep doing the same thing over and over again,

979
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 2: which all of us do. By the way, what do

980
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 2: we have like eighty thousand thoughts a day? Most of

981
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 2: the thoughts that we have today are the same thoughts

982
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 2: we had yesterday. Right, And when you can start to

983
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 2: get intentional and be like, you know what, let me

984
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: write the shit down that I've been thinking about, you

985
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 2: find yourself thinking about the same shit, same shit, same shit,

986
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 2: same thing that you did yesterday, same thing you did

987
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:34,760
Speaker 2: ten years ago, same.

988
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:35,919
Speaker 1: Thing you you know what I mean?

989
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 2: Like that bothered you, that hurt your feelings, that she

990
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 2: was mad at you or was mean to you. Right,

991
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 2: part of you is playing party. You really fucking feels

992
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 2: that shit. Oh we already worked through it.

993
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm not saying but I'm not saying it

994
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 3: to say that you didn't work through it. But there's

995
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 3: still some a little bit there though, right because it

996
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:58,399
Speaker 3: still came up.

997
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: And I'm not judging because who am I?

998
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 3: Right?

999
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 2: But my point is, and that's beautiful that you're willing

1000
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 2: to be like, you know what, they're still a little

1001
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 2: bit there even though you're playing even though you guys

1002
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 2: work through it, right, I think it's just something. These

1003
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 2: are things that we got to pay attention to, you know,

1004
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 2: and you know, I didn't mean to digress, but this

1005
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 2: is this is the work. This is the work because

1006
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 2: we can wake ourselves up. You know, humanity is fucking

1007
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 2: connected to everything on this planet. Take all the constructions

1008
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 2: out of your mind. None of that shit is real, right,

1009
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 2: what's real is that we have the ability to produce

1010
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 2: and make things and change energy and shift narratives and

1011
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 2: change the fucking world.

1012
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 3: We have the ability to do that.

1013
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:57,359
Speaker 2: All these things that have been created, think about like

1014
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 2: social media, fucking news, all this stuff. All these things

1015
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 2: have been created to get us outside of ourselves. So

1016
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 2: we're not paying attention to the shit that actually matters, you.

1017
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,720
Speaker 3: Know, Yeah, I mean, I mean, you can't pay attention

1018
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 3: to anything. You can't hear your inner voice. You can't.

1019
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 3: You won't have those dreams where your ancestors come to you.

1020
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 3: Maybe you could do, but maybe then you don't wake

1021
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 3: up and you don't write that shit down. You just

1022
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 3: write it off. It's like, oh, that was a weird

1023
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:27,320
Speaker 3: dream exactly, you know that was that was kind of crazy.

1024
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 4: Uh.

1025
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 3: Anyway back on Instagram, I go, oh, there goes your

1026
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:34,720
Speaker 3: fucking million dollar idea. But there there's something so beautiful

1027
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 3: about what you're saying is because like the human race were,

1028
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 3: we are innately supposed to be connected to ourselves and

1029
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 3: to others. That is a part of how we progress.

1030
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 3: Like we're the only species that you can literally take

1031
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 3: something from your head and like literally create it, you know,

1032
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 3: any idea like this is what we can alchemize. But

1033
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 3: I think people people deny themselves like that. There's that

1034
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 3: part where it's like humanity and the divinity that we

1035
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 3: all have. We're both human as we are divine, and

1036
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 3: I think it's it's in the the union of those

1037
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 3: and the acceptance of those that like the magic happens

1038
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 3: and it's true, like they're it's true once it's me. Wow.

1039
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:25,439
Speaker 3: People struggle with accepting both the divine parts of them

1040
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:28,799
Speaker 3: and the human human parts of them. And even for

1041
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 3: like for me personally, you know, I think there are

1042
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 3: parts of there are human parts of me that stress

1043
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 3: me out. And it's in and it's in the feelings,

1044
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 3: you know, parts of the feelings feelings. And it's crazy

1045
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 3: because I'm empathetic and I can feel for others and

1046
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 3: I'm present and i can like I could look cross

1047
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 3: the rooms like something that's not right, let me love

1048
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 3: you back, let me go talk to the stranger, okay.

1049
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 3: And but like when it comes, when feelings come up

1050
00:52:55,239 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 3: for me, I feel myself wanting to separate in like

1051
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 3: like get away from that, like the feelings of like

1052
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 3: whatever whatever labels I've put on, certain things like jealousy,

1053
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 3: like just caring, like I don't want this is bothering

1054
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 3: me to care about you this much, whatever it is.

1055
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 3: And I think that you know, and and and again,

1056
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 3: like you're bringing up her making the comment about me

1057
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 3: being mean to her last month or whatever. It's like

1058
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 3: I'm this, I'm she got that for me, like I

1059
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 3: am the queen of like being serious joking, like I

1060
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 3: am joking, but I'm I'm serious. All are though you

1061
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 3: know it's like I'm not. I'm unwilling to really like

1062
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 3: it's not that we need to address it, I know that,

1063
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 3: but like there are things, there are human parts of

1064
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 3: me that if I if I had ignored or I've

1065
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 3: continued to ignore, this version of myself, wouldn't be here.

1066
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 3: And it's hard and it's difficult, and it's like but

1067
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 3: that's a part. Like we we suppress certain feelings and

1068
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 3: we keep moving and we disregard it, but there are

1069
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 3: there's beauty and examining those things like why what is

1070
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,359
Speaker 3: it that you're avoiding? Why is this bothering you so bad?

1071
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 3: Why are these this comment or this person, Like, there's

1072
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 3: usually something deeper there, and it's in the picking through

1073
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 3: those things and like kind of peeling back those layers

1074
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 3: that we kind of get to heal wounds, wounds and trauma.

1075
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 3: But you first have to be able to acknowledge that

1076
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 3: that's a thing, like you're not joking, you're serious and

1077
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 3: that hurts your feelings a little bit or whatever it is,

1078
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 3: and why are you glossing over it so you can

1079
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 3: joke and move forward instead of saying, let me sit

1080
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:29,880
Speaker 3: in this for a minute. And you know, like just

1081
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 3: like a lot of people listening or you know whatever,

1082
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 3: Like you could be in a relationship that you know

1083
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 3: for good, like even friendships that are not serving you

1084
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:41,240
Speaker 3: no growth. You don't feel energized when you leave those conversations,

1085
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 3: you don't feel good when you leave those places, and

1086
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 3: you're still subjecting yourself to those friendships, those relationships, those

1087
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:50,319
Speaker 3: jobs in those spaces. But there's something to look at

1088
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 3: that's deeper, because our human anatomy. Our bodies are truly

1089
00:54:56,120 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 3: created to alert us when something is wrong. Hey, something's

1090
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 3: not right here, But we have been so programmed and

1091
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 3: really domesticated to ignore those those human physical reactions in

1092
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 3: our bodies that are usually indicators that something's fucking off.

1093
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 3: But we're so not speaking English with our own bodies

1094
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 3: that we're steady moving in this other direction of this

1095
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 3: systematic you know, prevailing of success. And if I go

1096
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 3: to college and then they graduate, and I go to

1097
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:24,879
Speaker 3: this school and I get I fucking da dada da,

1098
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 3: like I'll get promoted, and sometimes that works for people,

1099
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 3: But a lot of the times it's in the it's

1100
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 3: in the peeling away of the of this, like the

1101
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 3: the avatar that there are the ideas that there is,

1102
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 3: Like it's in the growth that the births happen, you know,

1103
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 3: and like these are like your grandmother came to you

1104
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 3: in a dream and said, hey, this is what you

1105
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 3: need for your pussy. And someone you know, we got

1106
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 3: broken up with them. We're like we smoke weed and

1107
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 3: our moms and we're like we're gonna make up talk.

1108
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 3: You're to talk, you know, And things that seem beautiful,

1109
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 3: it's beautiful, and they seem mundane and they seem almost silly.

1110
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:58,479
Speaker 3: I was literally thinking about this in the car today.

1111
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, we got mother fucking lucky. It's only because,

1112
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,720
Speaker 3: did you though? It wasn't lucky. It was only because

1113
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 3: we chose. We worked, and we chose, and literally we

1114
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 3: chose this thing that we had no example of. But

1115
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:15,919
Speaker 3: I think, thankfully we're delusional enough together. But it's really

1116
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 3: it wasn't even delusional. It was like we were tired

1117
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 3: of our fucking own shit. We were tired of ourselves,

1118
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 3: Like I don't even like this version of me. Hey bitch,

1119
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 3: you want to do something different because this is not

1120
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 3: really who I am. I don't know how I've gotten here,

1121
00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 3: but I'm ready to turn a new chapter. And it

1122
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 3: was only in the agree, like the the union agreement,

1123
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,919
Speaker 3: to be like, let's do something fucking totally different. Let's

1124
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 3: not go back into relationships that don't serve us, Let's

1125
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 3: not let anybody else's opinion of us like make a

1126
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 3: make or break what we're gonna do, and let's keep going.

1127
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 3: And it was only in that that this version of

1128
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:50,720
Speaker 3: ourselves got to be here.

1129
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 2: And you guys committed to a relationship together yeah, you

1130
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 2: guys are in a very deeply devoted relationship, and that's beautiful.

1131
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 2: Even if the only time you spent gather it was here,

1132
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:01,959
Speaker 2: Oh that was enough.

1133
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, it's some real shit. You know,

1134
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 3: it's a it's it's it's listening and then not overthinking,

1135
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 3: you know, like and quickly when I listened to this voice,

1136
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 3: because people always ask like, why did you start a podcast?

1137
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 3: Like I wasn't like some deep in the podcast world.

1138
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 3: In fact, podcasts were. I mean, now it's a lot

1139
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 3: more diverse. It was very white space. I was not

1140
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 3: trying to be a podcaster. I just said, I'm gonna

1141
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 3: talk to her, should do this thing with me? And

1142
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 3: then it was pleasure. It was pleasurable. Every time we

1143
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 3: did it. I left feeling good, and I kept doing it.

1144
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 3: Your grandmother came to you, gave me these ingredients, your

1145
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 3: pussy started reacting, and you felt good. You said, oh

1146
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 3: my god, I need to share this with someone. Yeah,

1147
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 3: other people, if it could work for me maybe yeah. Yeah,

1148
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 3: I'm curious. So after after you got this information, has

1149
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:56,360
Speaker 3: she come back? Has she ever come back to you

1150
00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 3: to deliver any other things too?

1151
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 2: I mean, r so very recently. A lot of my

1152
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 2: ancestors came because I'm also a medium, so sometimes they

1153
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 2: mount me. You know, all of them came. A lot

1154
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 2: of the messages weren't for me. The parts that were

1155
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 2: for me I kept. I think the overwhelming message that

1156
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 2: I've gotten from a lot of the ancestors that I've

1157
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 2: been communing with or that have used my body to communicate,

1158
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 2: it's overwhelmingly been about taking care of ourselves, very simple basic.

1159
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: Things.

1160
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 3: Take care of yourself, eat well, drink water, don't worry.

1161
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 3: That's a big one.

1162
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's really interesting and so.

1163
00:58:58,040 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 3: Not.

1164
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 2: I don't know that she's come back with a product

1165
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 2: per se. But I also think that I'm very deeply

1166
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 2: connected to all the eggoons. You know, I got like

1167
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:13,439
Speaker 2: forty seven ancestors that walk with me every single day,

1168
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 2: and so you know, there is a knowledge that's just

1169
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 2: in there, you know. So I so to say that

1170
00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 2: that she hasn't probably isn't the most accurate thing.

1171
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, she has.

1172
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 2: They have, you know, just because they they're with me

1173
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 2: every minute, every moment of every single day, and they

1174
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 2: support me and they want me to do well. And

1175
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 2: the work that I'm doing is really important. For this planet.

1176
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 2: I was meant to do this work, you know, and

1177
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:47,240
Speaker 2: so yeah, you know in a very esoteric way, you

1178
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

1179
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:54,000
Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, I have a question. Growing up, was

1180
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 3: your mom very spiritual, like I know in the black community,

1181
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 3: like speaking I think and talking to your ancestors, communion

1182
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 3: with like with the spirits is like we're it's more

1183
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 3: not mainstream, but we're getting back in touch with those

1184
01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 3: parts of us. Those are are like our ancestors and

1185
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 3: those spiritual technologies that they use, whereas before like maybe

1186
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 3: our grandma that.

1187
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 2: You said technologies because it's it's the oldest technology.

1188
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 3: And but it's the it's the one that's been taken

1189
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 3: from us the most. You know, it's particularly people of color.

1190
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 3: And so even for us like well we'll post stuff

1191
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 3: and you know, talk about things outside of this rigid

1192
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 3: structure of religion and we get people come for us

1193
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 3: all the time, you know, but because people are afraid.

1194
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 3: But was that something that was like ingrained in you

1195
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 3: that so you weren't afraid and like when you have

1196
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 3: knowing as a child you had those gifts that you're

1197
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 3: you where your parents like like pushed you to like

1198
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 3: tap into that versus like, don't do that, that's the devil.

1199
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 2: No, they know they pushed me. When I was twelve,

1200
01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 2: I had I had a really traumatic thing happened, and

1201
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 2: in my mom called my aunt Jenny, who's one of

1202
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 2: my ancestors too, who's also one of my guys, who

1203
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 2: like lives like right on my left.

1204
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 3: She yeah, she said, that's my baby.

1205
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 2: She told my mother that this was the moment that

1206
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 2: I was receiving my gifts, and and and the thing

1207
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 2: that happened was a health thing, and she told the doctor,

1208
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 2: don't over medicate her. This has nothing to do with

1209
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:44,400
Speaker 2: her being sick. This has everything to do, you know,

1210
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 2: with her seeing, with her receiving her gifts, because quite naturally,

1211
01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 2: it's a big gift to receive, you know.

1212
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:52,560
Speaker 1: And so.

1213
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 2: You know, I just come from a family of Native Americans,

1214
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:03,400
Speaker 2: obviously African American. I come from a family that is

1215
01:02:03,440 --> 01:02:08,760
Speaker 2: deeply connected to their ancestors, to their roots, deeply connected

1216
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 2: to the ground, deeply connected to themselves, you know. And

1217
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 2: so it's never been a thing that's been weird, you know,

1218
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 2: even when there was a moment in my life where

1219
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 2: I may have been called myself a Christian, right I'm

1220
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 2: no longer in that moment, which is okay.

1221
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 3: You know.

1222
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 2: I believe that religion is there for us when we

1223
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 2: need it to. Right, Sometimes you transition out of one

1224
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 2: and into another one.

1225
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 1: Right, It's like school.

1226
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 2: Some people need to go to school, right in order

1227
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 2: to get the job and do the thing. I view

1228
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 2: religion as that, right. It's a form of a school.

1229
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 2: It's a form of a thing that you may need

1230
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 2: to help you be disciplined, right for whatever the thing is.

1231
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 2: Some people, you know, are Muslims, some people are Christians.

1232
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 2: Some people cover their whole body except for their hands, right.

1233
01:02:57,200 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 2: Some people only show their eyes right like, and that

1234
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 2: is because that is where they are in their journey

1235
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 2: and that's what they feel that they need. Or some

1236
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 2: people don't even have a choice, right. And so you know,

1237
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:13,000
Speaker 2: I think that religion is actually quite beautiful because it's

1238
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 2: it's based on what you need in your life at

1239
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 2: the time. I think that all of the religions are

1240
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 2: serving to the same thing, right, you know. But but

1241
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 2: my mother was never a mommy. She was very strict

1242
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 2: on me, but she also gave me the power to

1243
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 2: choose the things that I wanted to get into, you know.

1244
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 2: She was strict on me when I lived under her

1245
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 2: roof and when she was in charge of my bills,

1246
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 2: and she my mother had a very hard life. So

1247
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 2: she was like, there's no fucking way that you're about

1248
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 2: to have a hard life, right, Oh, one of your

1249
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 2: friends is pregnant. Cool, you're not going over their house

1250
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 2: no more. I mean, but that was yeah, yeah, And

1251
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 2: it wasn't that she didn't want me to do that.

1252
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 2: It's just that that for her, it was like, there

1253
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 2: was plenty of time for that, right, this is not

1254
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 2: the time for that, you know. You know, my mom

1255
01:04:07,000 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 2: never just gave me shit. She was like, okay, cool,

1256
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 2: you go get a job. You want to do that,

1257
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 2: you go get a job. You put half, I'll put half.

1258
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes she ended up putting more than half, but I

1259
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 2: still contributed, right, you know. And that's who my mom.

1260
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,240
Speaker 2: That's that's that's the kind of human that she made

1261
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 2: me into. She had me to earn things, which gave

1262
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 2: me discipline, which you know, so so you know, she

1263
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 2: really prepared me for this moment. But you know, but yeah,

1264
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 2: you know, it's but it's it's always been a thing

1265
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 2: in my family.

1266
01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, that's beautiful. I think, uh, you know,

1267
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 3: living in America. It's it's it is rare. I mean,

1268
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 3: we had on y'alla and she's a Voodu priestus and

1269
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 3: the way that the Internet came for her and and

1270
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:01,000
Speaker 3: her and us and yeah, and just just even the

1271
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 3: fact about talking about just like using like connecting to

1272
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 3: the elements, it's like very problematic for people like terra cards,

1273
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 3: but even the mirror elements of the of elements.

1274
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:15,760
Speaker 2: Well, the elements are the gods, aren't they? And it's

1275
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 2: what what how? How the fuck do we live if

1276
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 2: we don't have an ocean which is yamaya in the

1277
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 2: in the in the in the river, which is ocean

1278
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 2: in the in the wind, which is oh yah. And

1279
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 2: you understand what I'm saying in the thunder right and

1280
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:34,800
Speaker 2: and the how all the all that those religions did

1281
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:39,280
Speaker 2: is just gave the gave those those very natural things

1282
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:45,600
Speaker 2: a name person They personified them as the great ancestors

1283
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Speaker 2: that they are, because they are literally what makes our

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Speaker 2: fucking world go round. We cannot survive if we don't

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01:05:54,080 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 2: have air, water, fire, food, earth. It's earth. The Earth

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01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 2: is our god. And if you cannot understand that, if

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01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 2: you're not in the place in your journey where that

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01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 2: makes sense for you. That's fine, That's none of my business,

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Speaker 2: just like me believing that the Earth is God is

1290
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 2: none of your business.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 2: I can believe what I want to believe in. You

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01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 2: can believe what you want to believe in. It's it's

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01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 2: whether whether.

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01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 1: You come for me or not.

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01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 2: You could you you could create a whole fucking smear campaign.

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01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 2: I wouldn't give a ship because I know, I know

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01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 2: that this planet is my source for everything. It's connected

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Speaker 2: to all the other planets in the Solar System and

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01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 2: all the all the all the planets have some sort

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01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 2: of some kind of element happening. Some of them are

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01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 2: made only from chemicals some of it. You understand what

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01:06:57,240 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 2: I'm saying, And that exactly right, And we would do good,

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01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 2: you know, because I I you know, my my spirituality

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01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 2: is very steeped in santaiya Lukumi?

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01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 1: Right? Which which is? Which is? You know?

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01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:17,800
Speaker 2: When when the Africans left Africa, they went everywhere. When

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Speaker 2: they went to Haiti, they created Vudun. When they went

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01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:25,280
Speaker 2: to Cuba, they created or or any of the Latin

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01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 2: countries where they went, they created Santa Da Lukumi they

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01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:30,720
Speaker 2: but it was all the same thing.

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Speaker 1: They were all, they were all practiced.

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Speaker 2: If it came out of West Africa or even other

1314
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 2: parts of Africa, they may not have called it Yureba.

1315
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 2: They might have called it something else.

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01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 3: Right. The Native Americans don't call it an African religion.

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01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:46,320
Speaker 3: But guess what, it's the same thing. Right.

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Speaker 2: The Hindus may not call it that, but they but

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01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 2: but but but but all of them the way that

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01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 2: all of them are connected, some of the oldest spiritualities

1321
01:07:55,920 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 2: and religions in the world. No that you have to

1322
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 2: pay respect to the elements, because the elements, Literally, there's

1323
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 2: an element in this room. I'm drinking water, You've got

1324
01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 2: these plants, you got that fire in that fucking candle.

1325
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:15,960
Speaker 2: Like you understand what I'm saying. How can we not

1326
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:22,120
Speaker 2: We're all breathing air, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: How do you not acknowledge these sources of like?

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01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:29,919
Speaker 2: But also like you don't have to no judgments, but understand,

1329
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 2: it's none of your business.

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01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:33,479
Speaker 1: If I do right right.

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01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:35,880
Speaker 3: Who are you to tell me I'm not worthy or

1332
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 3: I'm going to this place if I'm not on the

1333
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 3: same page as you. And that's the thing that's like

1334
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:46,719
Speaker 3: but but also like cool if you believe that that great,

1335
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:49,719
Speaker 3: But my source of my source of power, it doesn't.

1336
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 3: I don't have enough energy to to tell you where

1337
01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 3: you're going because I don't know that I acknowledge. I

1338
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 3: don't know what you're.

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01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 2: Us that are on this side probably don't know. For

1340
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:07,599
Speaker 2: those of us who have had the curse and the

1341
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:10,599
Speaker 2: privilege of being able to go to the other side

1342
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:14,320
Speaker 2: and come back a lot of times they know because

1343
01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 2: they've been wherever there is, right and a lot of

1344
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 2: them have very very very interesting experiences. Right, But like

1345
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 2: you said, none of us know what's over there because

1346
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 2: you know why because we're here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. Are there any elements that you connect to

1348
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:36,320
Speaker 3: more than others? Like, is there there are a few

1349
01:09:36,320 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 3: elements Like for me, Like I know that there's like

1350
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:42,679
Speaker 3: two elements for me that like we all elements are important,

1351
01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 3: but these two specific that's where I get activated. It's

1352
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 3: the water and it's Earth. Like those two things for me,

1353
01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 3: that's where I'm able to connect. That's we're able to meditate,

1354
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:52,479
Speaker 3: that's what I'm able to disconnect wherever to birth, where

1355
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:57,519
Speaker 3: I'm able to manifest. Those elements need to be present.

1356
01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:00,879
Speaker 3: And granted I'm made of water, so that helps exactly

1357
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 3: we all are. But so those two are for you

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01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:03,439
Speaker 3: as well.

1359
01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, water specifically, my head is Oceann, so

1360
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:11,519
Speaker 2: naturally I'm connected to water.

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Speaker 3: And how much does your spirituality, I guess, intertwine into

1362
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 3: your business and the way you choose your ingredients and

1363
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 3: it all goes together. I was gonna say now, because

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01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 3: as I researched more of your history and also your

1365
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:27,599
Speaker 3: your spirituality, I couldn't help but think, oh, now, though

1366
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 3: some of this makes more sense as far as like

1367
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Speaker 3: just some of the essences that even you've chosen to

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Speaker 3: have in your products.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, I think. I mean, these herbs are

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01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 2: gods man, They've been here forever and ever and ever,

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01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 2: you know, their plants like you know, and they're there

1372
01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:54,360
Speaker 2: for our wellness, you know, if anything, that's the place

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01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 2: that it comes from. I have such a divine respect

1374
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:02,439
Speaker 2: for these plants in these earth and these flowers and

1375
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 2: these and and and the water that it takes to

1376
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 2: create it, because water activates, it takes on energy like that,

1377
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 2: you know, and and the messages that are wrapped around

1378
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 2: these bottles and the and the and the energy from

1379
01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:21,320
Speaker 2: the people that work in this business that actually want

1380
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 2: to help people in their lives. All of that transmits

1381
01:11:25,439 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 2: into every single thing that we do. So for me,

1382
01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 2: you know, we have got to come from a good place.

1383
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:35,439
Speaker 2: We've got to mean the ship that we say we've

1384
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 2: got to you know, we've got to really be in

1385
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 2: this thing. You know when we meet as a team,

1386
01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:43,880
Speaker 2: like that's the kind of energy that's in the room.

1387
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 2: Everybody that's been attracted to this company, y'all included. We're

1388
01:11:48,479 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 2: all here for that common mission. You know, I got

1389
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 2: hills because this is for real.

1390
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Speaker 3: You know.

1391
01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 2: We make products that's that that serve the vagina like that,

1392
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,519
Speaker 2: that's that's the root of what we do, to the

1393
01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:03,360
Speaker 2: root chakra.

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Speaker 1: That is what we do. Like that is like some

1395
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:06,639
Speaker 1: real shit.

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01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 3: You know.

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01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 2: I don't take that lightly, you know, I just don't.

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01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 2: I don't. That is a very real thing to be doing.

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Speaker 2: Anybody that makes products for people to consume or put

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01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 2: on their body or eat or take a supplement or whatever.

1401
01:12:26,439 --> 01:12:29,040
Speaker 1: In my mind, which is why.

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01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 2: I'm very choosy about what I put on my skin

1403
01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 2: and what I eat and supplements I take and all

1404
01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 2: the things, because I have to make sure that those

1405
01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 2: companies are well intentioned, because that's just's gonna affect my life.

1406
01:12:41,280 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 2: So yeah, like, yeah, this is not a game for me.

1407
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:50,120
Speaker 2: You know, this work that we're doing, there has to

1408
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 2: be a lot of responsibility in it. We're not just

1409
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:55,639
Speaker 2: making products and putting a label on it like that.

1410
01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:58,680
Speaker 2: That can't be it. That's not it, you know. And

1411
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,920
Speaker 2: I think that's one of the reasons why so many

1412
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:06,200
Speaker 2: people have such beautiful experiences with our products, because.

1413
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:07,480
Speaker 1: That is the intention.

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01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 2: From the moment of conception, which is also why we

1415
01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:16,880
Speaker 2: have done so well, which I'm grateful to say. I

1416
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 2: don't say it with ego. We have done so well

1417
01:13:20,800 --> 01:13:25,360
Speaker 2: with our business. Not well financially, that's not the well

1418
01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:28,759
Speaker 2: that I'm talking about. I'm talking about the clinical trials

1419
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:31,240
Speaker 2: that we've run, which we've run hundreds of them with

1420
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:36,440
Speaker 2: over thirty four hundred humans right and counting to understanding

1421
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 2: the efficacy, to understanding what people want.

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01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:42,879
Speaker 1: Do they like this messaging? Do they not like this messaging?

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01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 3: Right?

1424
01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:47,559
Speaker 2: You know, what is their experience? Did it make them

1425
01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:50,519
Speaker 2: feel good? These are the things that we talk about

1426
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 2: in our clinicals, Right, did it work for you? Our

1427
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:59,439
Speaker 2: clinical trials are a part of our innovation process because

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01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 2: to us us, what's the point of putting it out

1429
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 2: in the world. If it doesn't work, it doesn't mean right,

1430
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 2: it's no point. So we've heavily, we heavily invest in

1431
01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:15,240
Speaker 2: that because it has to work. People have to see value.

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01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 3: Right.

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01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 2: The other thing is the regulatory part, Honey, pot is

1434
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:26,559
Speaker 2: in like every regulatory class that there is. You may

1435
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,479
Speaker 2: call us crazy for doing that, but we did it.

1436
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 3: You say regulatory, you mean like vegan vegetarian.

1437
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:36,640
Speaker 2: No regulatory meaning like with the FDADR no. So we

1438
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 2: have to really invest in our team to be able

1439
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:43,600
Speaker 2: to understand that, to be ahead of whatever's happening, to

1440
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:46,320
Speaker 2: make sure that we're dotting every I and crossing every T.

1441
01:14:46,960 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 3: Right.

1442
01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:50,000
Speaker 2: And that doesn't mean that things don't come up every

1443
01:14:50,040 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 2: now and again or something doesn't change, but we.

1444
01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 3: Work really hard to stay ahead of it.

1445
01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 1: Right.

1446
01:14:57,479 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 2: You know, the way we run our business. We're not

1447
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 2: here just trying to buy customers. That's not that's not

1448
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:03,759
Speaker 2: the vibe.

1449
01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 3: Right.

1450
01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:07,760
Speaker 2: We should earn our customers because then they're real, right,

1451
01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:09,439
Speaker 2: and then they stay. Then they stay.

1452
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:12,840
Speaker 3: You earned me. I mean I I thank you. When

1453
01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:14,840
Speaker 3: I saw you in Target, I said I was like,

1454
01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 3: hell yeah, I said, oh my god, a woman owned brand,

1455
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:20,280
Speaker 3: because there's a lot of feminine care brands and you

1456
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:22,000
Speaker 3: don't know who the fuck owns that shit. And that's

1457
01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 3: why I do love I love that that tagline you

1458
01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 3: have on all your products, which is what is it made?

1459
01:15:27,520 --> 01:15:30,720
Speaker 3: Made by humans with vaginas for humans with vaginas. Ye,

1460
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:34,840
Speaker 3: that is such a simple statement. That is so important.

1461
01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 3: It is for me as a customer.

1462
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:38,639
Speaker 1: It's just important for me.

1463
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:40,519
Speaker 3: As a customer. That is so important because I mean,

1464
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:43,240
Speaker 3: you know, you got it, you get it because that

1465
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 3: Persian man who told me I need to put fucking

1466
01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:47,840
Speaker 3: acidophilus in my pussy, who doesn't have a pussy, who

1467
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 3: never will have a pussy, didn't get it and didn't

1468
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:53,720
Speaker 3: understand how traumatizing that moment was for me. So I

1469
01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 3: felt like, oh my god, this is I know that

1470
01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:58,639
Speaker 3: this is made with good intention, I think, And then

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Speaker 3: I used it and then I said, yes, it is,

1472
01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 3: it is, Yeah, it really is.

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01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 2: Like we really really love humanity, we really really love

1474
01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:11,400
Speaker 2: this planet. We really really like care, you know, and you.

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01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 3: Are doing such important work helping the women heal not yes, yes,

1476
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 3: their bodies, but really, like I'm really in this space

1477
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 3: of just understanding how important it is for this part

1478
01:16:25,160 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 3: of our bodies to be functioning at the highest level

1479
01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 3: and taking care of it and cleansing it and not

1480
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:35,680
Speaker 3: being ashamed of it, and using it not just for

1481
01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:38,120
Speaker 3: the pleasure of your partner, but the pleasure of yourself.

1482
01:16:38,640 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 3: And you know, I think that a lot of women

1483
01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:46,559
Speaker 3: we are so disconnected because we've been shamed because we

1484
01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:48,679
Speaker 3: don't really know what's going on down there, or someone

1485
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 3: told us, oh, this doesn't look writers and smell right,

1486
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:54,880
Speaker 3: or this or that, and it inevitably begins to affect

1487
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:58,599
Speaker 3: all the more than just that your sexual It does

1488
01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:02,160
Speaker 3: part of your relationship with yourself and with others. It

1489
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 3: starts to bleed into all the areas of your life.

1490
01:17:04,600 --> 01:17:07,519
Speaker 2: Well, sexual energy does bleed into all the areas of

1491
01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 2: your life.

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01:17:08,680 --> 01:17:11,840
Speaker 3: It's the most suppressed energy in Western society. And so

1493
01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:15,600
Speaker 3: when you suppress something, it don't not haunts you, but

1494
01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 3: like there's parts of you that need to come out,

1495
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 3: and if you're constantly ignoring it, it can make you ill,

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01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 3: like physically sick. Yeah, Cortisol and stress can definitely make

1497
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:28,519
Speaker 3: you ill. Okay, So before we get out of here,

1498
01:17:28,680 --> 01:17:30,960
Speaker 3: I want to play a little game with you. We

1499
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:34,400
Speaker 3: have a game on our show called Trigger, And basically,

1500
01:17:34,400 --> 01:17:36,640
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say a word, and then you say the

1501
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:44,800
Speaker 3: first thing that comes to mind. Don't overthink marriage. Wait

1502
01:17:44,840 --> 01:17:55,800
Speaker 3: wait why you laugh? Say it again? Marriage? Love, love

1503
01:17:56,600 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 3: your vice of favorite sex position? M hmm. With somebody's

1504
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:19,240
Speaker 3: giving me oral pleasure, that's nice. Kids. Yes, monogamy yes,

1505
01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:29,280
Speaker 3: Holly Emory. No threesomes, uh before you're not you're done

1506
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:31,800
Speaker 3: with three ss? Yes? No more sharing.

1507
01:18:33,080 --> 01:18:36,800
Speaker 2: It's not no more sharing. It's just I just don't

1508
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 2: want to, you know. Doesn't mean it's.

1509
01:18:39,760 --> 01:18:52,160
Speaker 3: Forever, just right now, bad choices, inevitable, happily ever after, hopefully, mushrooms, yes, medicine,

1510
01:18:52,240 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 3: god Earth, pregnancy, yes, Lord. Favorite porn category mm hmm.

1511
01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:07,639
Speaker 3: I don't know if I can say it. Come on,

1512
01:19:08,560 --> 01:19:16,679
Speaker 3: favorite porn category. I like watching people masturbate. I sometimes

1513
01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:21,799
Speaker 3: me too. You like watching scrape so much? But it's

1514
01:19:21,960 --> 01:19:23,760
Speaker 3: I got it on this right one because last night

1515
01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:25,639
Speaker 3: I went down a rabbit hole. You know, I've never

1516
01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 3: used Twitter for porns. Last night and then I went

1517
01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:35,240
Speaker 3: on a rabbit hole last night. So much porn on

1518
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 3: Twitter I don't know anything about. But then I couldn't.

1519
01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:40,479
Speaker 3: I wasn't searching the right behind it and it was

1520
01:19:40,560 --> 01:19:43,880
Speaker 3: hidden and I was like times of BBC thatfin came up.

1521
01:19:44,040 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 3: Now it's only the BBC that came Like the one point,

1522
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:48,800
Speaker 3: I'm not looking for new sources. I don't want to

1523
01:19:48,800 --> 01:19:52,200
Speaker 3: read about the ship. I'm looking for black cocks anyway.

1524
01:19:52,760 --> 01:19:56,680
Speaker 3: I like watching mail masturbation to BBC anyway. Sorry, yeah,

1525
01:19:56,720 --> 01:20:00,719
Speaker 3: I Scott. I went down a scorting the whole rabbit

1526
01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 3: hole last night. But then I always feel like I

1527
01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:04,680
Speaker 3: have to cut the cords, cut the chords of what,

1528
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:07,680
Speaker 3: cut the cords of energy between the person, oh and

1529
01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:12,240
Speaker 3: the and ther So that's true also because I yes,

1530
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:15,240
Speaker 3: and then last night I wasn't getting what I needed

1531
01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:16,559
Speaker 3: and I was like, you're not getting what you need

1532
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:18,080
Speaker 3: because you don't really need this. You need to turn

1533
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 3: this off never mind, and you need to like you

1534
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:24,840
Speaker 3: need to think about what it is. What does that

1535
01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:26,880
Speaker 3: feel like for you? What I mean, I scored anyway

1536
01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:29,880
Speaker 3: very easily, But what is it that you thank you?

1537
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:33,559
Speaker 3: It's it's it's the gift, but also it's it's messy.

1538
01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 3: It can be very annoying to are you giving so annoying?

1539
01:20:38,240 --> 01:20:41,479
Speaker 3: I'm like god damn. Like I grew up in like

1540
01:20:41,479 --> 01:20:44,320
Speaker 3: you go on the wall, like it's far, it goes far.

1541
01:20:44,560 --> 01:20:46,640
Speaker 3: That's good. Yeah, it's great. It just happened at had

1542
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,479
Speaker 3: sex in a long time. So it's just me and

1543
01:20:48,520 --> 01:20:55,200
Speaker 3: my vibrator and my fingers for now until I find

1544
01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:57,880
Speaker 3: someone I want to share that energetic exchange with. Which also,

1545
01:20:57,920 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 3: by the way, I was I was listening to podcast

1546
01:21:00,040 --> 01:21:01,800
Speaker 3: jan and you were talking about how you know, sex

1547
01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:04,599
Speaker 3: is such an energy exchange and that at this point

1548
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:07,320
Speaker 3: in your life you need to make sure that you're

1549
01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 3: good with the deposit that they're going to leave with you.

1550
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:13,240
Speaker 3: And I said, Wow, what an interesting way to say that,

1551
01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 3: because it is an energetic deposit that they leave there

1552
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:18,000
Speaker 3: with you for a.

1553
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 1: Long time, and I gotta be willing to share. I've

1554
01:21:22,360 --> 01:21:23,360
Speaker 1: worked hard.

1555
01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:24,679
Speaker 3: Man to cultivate this.

1556
01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 2: And I'm still working on it, you know, and like

1557
01:21:28,920 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 2: just to have yeah like that, you know what I mean.

1558
01:21:32,479 --> 01:21:35,240
Speaker 3: It's just it leaves. It leaves, like you know the

1559
01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:38,720
Speaker 3: thing the soaps come commercials, Yeah, just like splash it

1560
01:21:38,760 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 3: and then you see all the residue of the dish.

1561
01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:42,680
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, or at least not that film that you

1562
01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:45,280
Speaker 3: can't get off Yeah, like there has to be just

1563
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:47,840
Speaker 3: for me for me too, it has to be disciplined

1564
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 3: around it. Yeah, for me too, therapy maybe never been

1565
01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 3: to therapy, I have.

1566
01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:00,840
Speaker 2: I just always get into this like mind full discussion

1567
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 2: and then it feels like we're just friends friends. And

1568
01:22:03,520 --> 01:22:04,759
Speaker 2: then I feels I'm like, why.

1569
01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:08,160
Speaker 3: Just pay you? I got a lot of friends exactly,

1570
01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:09,640
Speaker 3: you know why, because I feel like you could be

1571
01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 3: a therapist. You give therapy, You're giving therapist energy, so

1572
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:16,360
Speaker 3: you're gonna end up therapizing your goddamn therapist. I don't

1573
01:22:16,360 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 3: want to do that. I pay you shit biggest insecurity

1574
01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:22,080
Speaker 3: mm hmm.

1575
01:22:23,400 --> 01:22:29,200
Speaker 2: Body like the whole body. No, like my my Uh.

1576
01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:38,800
Speaker 2: I think I'm a I'm a curvy woman and and.

1577
01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:43,120
Speaker 3: And I sometimes have to like tap into my body

1578
01:22:43,160 --> 01:22:43,720
Speaker 3: to love it.

1579
01:22:44,400 --> 01:22:44,640
Speaker 1: You know.

1580
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:49,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's hard for me just being honest. And most

1581
01:22:49,760 --> 01:22:52,559
Speaker 2: of the time I'm good, but sometimes it can be

1582
01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:54,960
Speaker 2: hard for me. And then I think another I know

1583
01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:58,080
Speaker 2: I'm only supposed to say one thing, I'm gonna say too, and.

1584
01:22:58,040 --> 01:23:01,920
Speaker 1: Then I think the other thing, Uh is because I.

1585
01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:05,680
Speaker 2: Spend so much time, I give a lot of myself

1586
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 2: in these conversations and just just in life.

1587
01:23:09,880 --> 01:23:11,560
Speaker 1: You know, I give everything.

1588
01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:15,800
Speaker 2: I give everything, like all of me, and and so

1589
01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:19,680
Speaker 2: sometimes it can be hard because I have to, like

1590
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:23,120
Speaker 2: there can feel like a little bit of a depletion.

1591
01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 2: So I really have to like chill, calm down, pour

1592
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:30,599
Speaker 2: to my wellness routine is like on another level, you know,

1593
01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 2: because I really have to give my body back what

1594
01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 2: I kind of what I took away, you know. And

1595
01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:43,280
Speaker 2: so I think somewhere in there lies a little bit

1596
01:23:43,320 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 2: of why there's an insecurity too, just because I'm not

1597
01:23:47,360 --> 01:23:50,080
Speaker 2: always in my body because of the way that life

1598
01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:50,519
Speaker 2: is set up.

1599
01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:58,200
Speaker 3: Right now, I understood, Well, I guess I already know

1600
01:23:58,240 --> 01:24:03,479
Speaker 3: your astrology sign, your scorpio like me dating status? Oh,

1601
01:24:03,600 --> 01:24:09,240
Speaker 3: I am like in a relationship relationship relationship James Williams. Oh,

1602
01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:14,679
Speaker 3: James James william eating pussy.

1603
01:24:15,760 --> 01:24:19,120
Speaker 2: Yeah in the past, not right now. Are you bisexual?

1604
01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:22,200
Speaker 2: Are do you you do like label?

1605
01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:25,200
Speaker 3: I just like people I have the same I said

1606
01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:27,639
Speaker 3: the same thing, and then Orlando said that doesn't work.

1607
01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 3: That is not hot because there's special words and go

1608
01:24:30,240 --> 01:24:33,280
Speaker 3: with certain things. I said I was pan sexual. He said, no,

1609
01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:36,120
Speaker 3: you're not, because then I said I'm pan sexual. I

1610
01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:37,800
Speaker 3: don't know if I'm allowed to say this, but this

1611
01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:41,040
Speaker 3: is my interpretation of it. I said I'm pan sexual

1612
01:24:41,520 --> 01:24:44,000
Speaker 3: for cisgendered people, and he said that doesn't exist. And

1613
01:24:44,000 --> 01:24:46,040
Speaker 3: then I just said, fuck it, I'm just bisexual because

1614
01:24:46,040 --> 01:24:47,640
Speaker 3: you're getting out my fucking nerves. Tell me what the

1615
01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:53,439
Speaker 3: labels are, and he's out there like what. I don't know.

1616
01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:55,400
Speaker 3: I don't like the word bisexual. I don't like how

1617
01:24:55,400 --> 01:24:56,479
Speaker 3: it rolls off the tongue.

1618
01:24:56,880 --> 01:24:58,800
Speaker 1: I just think I just am yeah.

1619
01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:05,240
Speaker 3: Yeah. Gospel music no, no, no, Kirk, No, you don't

1620
01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:05,799
Speaker 3: want to stop.

1621
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:09,840
Speaker 2: No, I don't know. Yeah, I don't like gospel music.

1622
01:25:10,360 --> 01:25:15,040
Speaker 2: I like like Mahela Jackson, Depths of my Soul. I

1623
01:25:15,080 --> 01:25:20,559
Speaker 2: can like that era, yes, because that's that's music.

1624
01:25:21,200 --> 01:25:23,559
Speaker 1: BBC C Winings, I'm sorry. I love them.

1625
01:25:24,280 --> 01:25:26,559
Speaker 2: I love them like they're in like a couple of

1626
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 2: my playlists, Like I can jam with that's gospel. But

1627
01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:34,120
Speaker 2: I know that it's gospel, but it feels it feels like.

1628
01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:39,280
Speaker 1: Just god music. It doesn't feel like gospel.

1629
01:25:39,400 --> 01:25:44,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, got Yeah. What's something someone would be

1630
01:25:44,640 --> 01:25:46,559
Speaker 3: surprised to know about you? It's one thing.

1631
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:56,439
Speaker 2: I'm a little bit obsessive about.

1632
01:25:56,680 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 3: Order. Oh yeah, I got some cap your chart somewhere

1633
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 3: recording your charts. Some I don't.

1634
01:26:04,439 --> 01:26:07,519
Speaker 1: I just I just like things to have order.

1635
01:26:07,640 --> 01:26:10,080
Speaker 2: I like, it's hard for me if I'm in a

1636
01:26:10,120 --> 01:26:15,559
Speaker 2: space and it's not clean, you know, you know, Like

1637
01:26:15,600 --> 01:26:17,960
Speaker 2: I went to a sushi restaurant one time and it

1638
01:26:18,120 --> 01:26:22,560
Speaker 2: had like good reviews and everything, and the menu is dirty.

1639
01:26:22,360 --> 01:26:23,360
Speaker 1: And I was like, I can't.

1640
01:26:23,400 --> 01:26:23,559
Speaker 3: Well.

1641
01:26:25,360 --> 01:26:29,720
Speaker 2: I'm I'm actually a very goal My partner tells me

1642
01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:33,040
Speaker 2: this all the time. I'm actually a very goal oriented person.

1643
01:26:33,680 --> 01:26:36,800
Speaker 2: But when it comes to spaces that I reside in,

1644
01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:40,559
Speaker 2: I'm very detailed. Like when I get to a hotel room,

1645
01:26:41,000 --> 01:26:43,400
Speaker 2: I like I need to like pull out all my

1646
01:26:43,479 --> 01:26:46,559
Speaker 2: things I needed to be clean. If it's not clean,

1647
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:47,920
Speaker 2: I'm the person that will leave.

1648
01:26:48,400 --> 01:26:49,160
Speaker 3: I'm not staying here.

1649
01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:53,160
Speaker 2: I won't I can get I don't. I do not

1650
01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:58,240
Speaker 2: spare myself. If I'm not comfortable, I have to go.

1651
01:26:58,360 --> 01:26:59,840
Speaker 3: Have you always been that way or is that something

1652
01:26:59,840 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 3: that like you've come into.

1653
01:27:01,920 --> 01:27:04,120
Speaker 1: I've come into it. I've come into it.

1654
01:27:04,240 --> 01:27:06,680
Speaker 3: Do you think it's a level of like worthiness, Like

1655
01:27:06,720 --> 01:27:10,240
Speaker 3: I don't just I'm not staying here because I'm I

1656
01:27:10,560 --> 01:27:11,120
Speaker 3: don't think it.

1657
01:27:11,280 --> 01:27:14,599
Speaker 2: I think I think it has a worthiness element. To it,

1658
01:27:14,720 --> 01:27:18,200
Speaker 2: but not from a place of like, let me not

1659
01:27:18,280 --> 01:27:19,840
Speaker 2: say what it's not from a place of let me

1660
01:27:19,840 --> 01:27:22,360
Speaker 2: say what it is from a place of it's it's

1661
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:25,840
Speaker 2: just from a place of I am important to me

1662
01:27:27,360 --> 01:27:30,960
Speaker 2: and where and if sleeping is one of the most

1663
01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:34,320
Speaker 2: spiritual things, clearly.

1664
01:27:36,479 --> 01:27:37,439
Speaker 1: You need to go to bed.

1665
01:27:37,600 --> 01:27:39,000
Speaker 3: I'm just saying sleeping.

1666
01:27:39,040 --> 01:27:43,120
Speaker 2: Did you well, But I'm just saying just the element

1667
01:27:43,160 --> 01:27:47,639
Speaker 2: of sleep and being comfortable, and you know that thing

1668
01:27:47,640 --> 01:27:49,880
Speaker 2: I was talking about with like what does it look like?

1669
01:27:49,920 --> 01:27:52,879
Speaker 2: What does it smell like? When I got my shit together,

1670
01:27:53,760 --> 01:27:57,360
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not I am not for a

1671
01:27:57,600 --> 01:28:02,960
Speaker 2: second going to not give myself precisely what I need

1672
01:28:03,640 --> 01:28:07,400
Speaker 2: and wherever I lay my head. It needs to be good.

1673
01:28:07,720 --> 01:28:10,479
Speaker 2: It needs to be clean, it needs to have order,

1674
01:28:10,560 --> 01:28:13,200
Speaker 2: it needs to be pretty. I need all the thing.

1675
01:28:13,320 --> 01:28:17,040
Speaker 2: I need the boxes checked, and I like like Sage

1676
01:28:17,120 --> 01:28:19,439
Speaker 2: or Polisanto, and I like go to all the corners

1677
01:28:19,479 --> 01:28:22,000
Speaker 2: of the room and I have to have like all

1678
01:28:22,040 --> 01:28:22,880
Speaker 2: my things out.

1679
01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:26,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm a bit old. I'm a bit.

1680
01:28:26,040 --> 01:28:31,400
Speaker 3: Obsessive about that. I just like my medicine though. And

1681
01:28:31,640 --> 01:28:34,040
Speaker 3: last question, what's the best piece of advice you've gotten?

1682
01:28:34,760 --> 01:28:42,120
Speaker 3: M hm to take care of myself, to take care

1683
01:28:42,160 --> 01:28:45,960
Speaker 3: of yourself. So on that note, we always ask our

1684
01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:48,920
Speaker 3: audience to share an affirmation our guests or audience our

1685
01:28:48,920 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 3: guests to share an affirmation. Do you have an affirmation

1686
01:28:51,080 --> 01:28:53,000
Speaker 3: that may be you can share with our people.

1687
01:29:02,760 --> 01:29:10,800
Speaker 2: Don't worry, take care, don't worry, take care if you

1688
01:29:11,120 --> 01:29:15,280
Speaker 2: if you're if understand the things that you're worried about,

1689
01:29:15,960 --> 01:29:18,120
Speaker 2: tap in to see if you have control over it,

1690
01:29:18,200 --> 01:29:21,439
Speaker 2: if you don't die to it. If you do have

1691
01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:24,719
Speaker 2: control over it, then take control so that you don't

1692
01:29:24,760 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 2: have to worry.

1693
01:29:26,880 --> 01:29:29,200
Speaker 3: It's simple, easy, good advice.

1694
01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:34,640
Speaker 2: And and the last thing I would say, you know,

1695
01:29:34,760 --> 01:29:40,120
Speaker 2: which is very stoic and in a little uh morbid,

1696
01:29:40,280 --> 01:29:42,240
Speaker 2: but you know we're all going to leave this place,

1697
01:29:42,760 --> 01:29:46,880
Speaker 2: you know, so like it's gonna be all right, you

1698
01:29:46,920 --> 01:29:48,280
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Everything is going to be.

1699
01:29:48,280 --> 01:29:55,120
Speaker 3: Okay mm yolo, yeah, yet live be here. It all

1700
01:29:55,160 --> 01:29:57,120
Speaker 3: works itself out one way or another, It really does.

1701
01:29:57,479 --> 01:30:00,800
Speaker 3: If you don't resist, the resistance is where that's what

1702
01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:03,680
Speaker 3: the chaos birthed. So you kind of just have to

1703
01:30:03,680 --> 01:30:07,080
Speaker 3: go with it. Okay. So you pulled a card at

1704
01:30:07,080 --> 01:30:09,000
Speaker 3: the beginning of the show. You pulled the Empress card

1705
01:30:10,360 --> 01:30:20,560
Speaker 3: and the Empress, which is interesting, represents femininity, beauty, nature, nurturing,

1706
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:26,640
Speaker 3: and abundance, and the Empress signifies a strong connection with

1707
01:30:26,680 --> 01:30:34,080
Speaker 3: our femininity. Femininity translates in ways elegance, sensuality, fertility, creative expression, nurturing,

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01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:37,439
Speaker 3: and is necessary for creating balance in both men and women.

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01:30:37,920 --> 01:30:40,559
Speaker 3: The Empress calls on you to connect with your feminine energy,

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01:30:41,000 --> 01:30:45,679
Speaker 3: create beauty in your life. Connect with your senses through taste, touch, sound, smell,

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01:30:45,760 --> 01:30:49,000
Speaker 3: and sight. Draw on these senses to experience pleasure and

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01:30:49,040 --> 01:30:53,439
Speaker 3: deep fulfillment. The Empress signifies abundance. You are surrounded by

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01:30:53,439 --> 01:30:55,960
Speaker 3: life's pleasures and luxuries and have everything you need to

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01:30:55,960 --> 01:30:58,400
Speaker 3: live a comfortable lifestyle. You are in a period of

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01:30:58,439 --> 01:31:01,519
Speaker 3: growth in which you in which all you have dreamed

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01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:04,879
Speaker 3: of is now coming to fruition. Whether the Empress appears

1717
01:31:04,920 --> 01:31:08,320
Speaker 3: in your tarot readings, take a moment to reflect on

1718
01:31:08,360 --> 01:31:11,080
Speaker 3: the bounty that surround you and offer gratitude for all

1719
01:31:11,120 --> 01:31:13,559
Speaker 3: you've created so you can continue to build on this

1720
01:31:13,720 --> 01:31:17,880
Speaker 3: energy and create an even more even more abundance in

1721
01:31:17,920 --> 01:31:21,840
Speaker 3: your life. As the Mother Earth archetype, the Empress urges

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01:31:21,880 --> 01:31:24,599
Speaker 3: you to venture out into nature to ground your energy

1723
01:31:24,720 --> 01:31:28,320
Speaker 3: and be in flow with the earth. Allow yourself the

1724
01:31:28,400 --> 01:31:30,679
Speaker 3: time and space to enter a different frame of mind

1725
01:31:30,720 --> 01:31:33,280
Speaker 3: and receive the grounding spirit of nature into your heart

1726
01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:36,280
Speaker 3: and consciousness. When you do this, you can reach higher

1727
01:31:36,320 --> 01:31:42,439
Speaker 3: planes of consciousness. Wow, how accurate? All right? The not

1728
01:31:42,600 --> 01:31:49,960
Speaker 3: the femininity healthcare yourself coming from the Empress. Well, we

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Speaker 3: thank you so much. Wait wait wait, wait, we always

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Speaker 3: ask our You may not have us. Oh Sam, do

1731
01:31:55,920 --> 01:31:59,240
Speaker 3: you have any hory stories from Maybe not recently or

1732
01:31:59,320 --> 01:32:01,360
Speaker 3: maybe with your part you nearly did something like high

1733
01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:04,920
Speaker 3: level horshness that was either like really fun or really scary.

1734
01:32:04,960 --> 01:32:06,599
Speaker 3: You want to do that again? Or its just like

1735
01:32:06,920 --> 01:32:09,240
Speaker 3: one of those days you just had a very highly

1736
01:32:09,880 --> 01:32:14,840
Speaker 3: whole moment. Oh man, sexy little story, sexy secret and

1737
01:32:14,880 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 3: how and then like a positive way we celebrate the

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Speaker 3: hose in here? No, I mean you know.

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Speaker 2: Look, I mean I was when I was outside. I

1740
01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:30,800
Speaker 2: was definitely outside. Shit, man, I haven't had one of

1741
01:32:30,800 --> 01:32:38,519
Speaker 2: those moments in a long time. I did acid once

1742
01:32:39,560 --> 01:32:43,519
Speaker 2: and I had a thirty minute orgasm.

1743
01:32:44,040 --> 01:32:49,679
Speaker 3: Oh but yourself, No, wow, I've never had sex on acid.

1744
01:32:49,720 --> 01:32:55,040
Speaker 3: That seems intense. What was it like clatoral orgasm? What

1745
01:32:55,120 --> 01:32:58,200
Speaker 3: kind of orgasm was it was it through, it was clitorial,

1746
01:32:58,280 --> 01:33:01,240
Speaker 3: but then it just turned into like oh whole body energetic.

1747
01:33:01,720 --> 01:33:05,640
Speaker 3: It was insane. Wow, did you feel anything else? Like like,

1748
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:07,880
Speaker 3: obviously an orgasm is you getting?

1749
01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:12,680
Speaker 2: I felt like Nirvana what Nirvana must feel like? And

1750
01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:16,559
Speaker 2: I would you know, like whole energy is fine, Like

1751
01:33:16,600 --> 01:33:17,320
Speaker 2: I'm with that.

1752
01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:19,479
Speaker 3: That felt like you.

1753
01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:21,760
Speaker 1: Know, that felt like otherworldly, otherworldly?

1754
01:33:21,880 --> 01:33:26,599
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, but yeah, I mean I've lived my life.

1755
01:33:28,400 --> 01:33:30,840
Speaker 3: And then to that as you should. Damn when you

1756
01:33:30,840 --> 01:33:32,680
Speaker 3: have a thirty minute orgasm, how do you go back

1757
01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:35,840
Speaker 3: to regular orgasms? After that? We learned how to learn

1758
01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:39,360
Speaker 3: how to stretch them out. You're like, oh, I can

1759
01:33:39,400 --> 01:33:41,160
Speaker 3: do this perfect no to self.

1760
01:33:41,320 --> 01:33:44,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you know, I think when I free

1761
01:33:44,320 --> 01:33:46,360
Speaker 2: up a bit, I want to I want to get

1762
01:33:46,400 --> 01:33:48,840
Speaker 2: more into tantra And you were talking about.

1763
01:33:48,760 --> 01:33:52,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah really yeah yeah yeah. It's been very like yeah,

1764
01:33:53,080 --> 01:33:57,559
Speaker 3: super deep and super a lot of clarity. Yeah, and

1765
01:33:57,640 --> 01:34:00,640
Speaker 3: like just like I created the dialogue with myself that

1766
01:34:00,800 --> 01:34:02,960
Speaker 3: I like certain things I knew on the surface, but

1767
01:34:03,000 --> 01:34:06,960
Speaker 3: like in a much deeper space, I think that you

1768
01:34:07,000 --> 01:34:10,280
Speaker 3: would fuck with it. I'm thinking about you on acid

1769
01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:13,080
Speaker 3: because I asked it's one of my favorite drugs. I

1770
01:34:13,120 --> 01:34:16,479
Speaker 3: don't do it very often, but you can't. Yeah, like

1771
01:34:16,479 --> 01:34:20,280
Speaker 3: once or twice a year maybe, And actually it's been

1772
01:34:20,320 --> 01:34:22,320
Speaker 3: a while, like really, I haven't done it in a while.

1773
01:34:22,360 --> 01:34:24,000
Speaker 3: I haven't done it in a few years. But it changed

1774
01:34:24,040 --> 01:34:24,479
Speaker 3: my life.

1775
01:34:25,720 --> 01:34:28,920
Speaker 2: It changed mine too, you know. I mean, I don't

1776
01:34:29,800 --> 01:34:31,280
Speaker 2: I have to be conscientious of the shit.

1777
01:34:31,320 --> 01:34:34,599
Speaker 3: I say, yeah, we don't endorse the ship. We say yeah, no, no, no,

1778
01:34:34,600 --> 01:34:36,160
Speaker 3: I'm not I don't want to endorse it. We can

1779
01:34:36,200 --> 01:34:40,920
Speaker 3: trade stories. But what I was thinking about in just

1780
01:34:41,240 --> 01:34:43,719
Speaker 3: medicine and that type of medicine in general, plant medicine,

1781
01:34:43,720 --> 01:34:48,599
Speaker 3: I don't know. It allows you to access a different

1782
01:34:48,640 --> 01:34:52,160
Speaker 3: part of your mind that our human body often won't

1783
01:34:52,200 --> 01:34:54,080
Speaker 3: allow us to. I think that there's ways in which,

1784
01:34:54,160 --> 01:34:55,960
Speaker 3: you know, when you are able to really kind of

1785
01:34:56,000 --> 01:34:59,360
Speaker 3: be rooted and and dedicated to your practices and whatever

1786
01:34:59,400 --> 01:35:01,240
Speaker 3: that is for you, allows your mind to expand in

1787
01:35:01,240 --> 01:35:03,920
Speaker 3: that way, you can reach those levels of consciousness. But

1788
01:35:04,000 --> 01:35:09,760
Speaker 3: when you take acid or mushrooms, it just activates that

1789
01:35:09,920 --> 01:35:13,280
Speaker 3: opening to the other It's just imagine like if we

1790
01:35:13,280 --> 01:35:15,160
Speaker 3: were able to drop in that way all the time,

1791
01:35:15,200 --> 01:35:18,160
Speaker 3: and the amount of pleasure we could experience on a

1792
01:35:18,240 --> 01:35:22,479
Speaker 3: daily basis, just in eating food, just in experiencing a

1793
01:35:22,520 --> 01:35:25,840
Speaker 3: conversation or in exchange with a person.

1794
01:35:27,040 --> 01:35:28,360
Speaker 1: You don't need a third party.

1795
01:35:28,800 --> 01:35:31,240
Speaker 3: Now, Yeah, it's literally like getting high on your own

1796
01:35:31,280 --> 01:35:34,560
Speaker 3: pleasure supply, but you have to first cultivate that conversation

1797
01:35:34,680 --> 01:35:36,280
Speaker 3: to be like, I mean a lot of people don't

1798
01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:38,280
Speaker 3: even know what brings them joy, Like damn, am I

1799
01:35:38,439 --> 01:35:40,320
Speaker 3: is this pleasurable? Like a lot of people don't like,

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01:35:40,320 --> 01:35:42,360
Speaker 3: like on a simple level, like do I like potatoes

1801
01:35:42,400 --> 01:35:45,000
Speaker 3: or do I like mashed potatoes? Like simple shit. So

1802
01:35:45,040 --> 01:35:48,280
Speaker 3: it's like really a cultivating of your pleasures and utilizing

1803
01:35:48,280 --> 01:35:50,839
Speaker 3: it as medicine, just like you can utilize the forest

1804
01:35:50,960 --> 01:35:53,000
Speaker 3: is a pharmacy, you know. It's like so are we

1805
01:35:53,240 --> 01:35:56,000
Speaker 3: And if we can utilize that like and follow that pleasure,

1806
01:35:56,080 --> 01:36:00,200
Speaker 3: we can have like thirty minute orgasms, like Beatrice here,

1807
01:36:01,320 --> 01:36:04,360
Speaker 3: that was an interesting day. Well, thank you for sharing,

1808
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Speaker 3: and thank you for coming on our show, and thank

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Speaker 3: you for all that you do for for my pussy

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Speaker 3: and all the pussies all the owners around appreciate it.

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