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Speaker 1: My mom is evicting me just because I saw the

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Speaker 2: Come on, Barbie, Let's go Barbie. Barbie's everything. She's just

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Speaker 3: No, let's see what else. Fucking don't all right?

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Speaker 1: So two things happened over the past few days, and

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Speaker 1: days ago, my mom, sisters twelve and seventeen, and I

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Speaker 1: went to a concert. My seventeen year old sister has

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Speaker 1: before the concert. Ooh, the concert started at seven. The

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we got the construction of the event.

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Speaker 1: The context it just started, though, so I said, no,

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Speaker 1: all of the good songs are at the end, and

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't give her the keys she was supposed to drive.

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Speaker 1: At ten thirty, she and my sisters left to take

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Speaker 1: They refused to wait another thirty or forty five minutes.

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Speaker 3: That's a long time. Though.

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Speaker 1: The thing is I was drinking, so I couldn't drive home.

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Speaker 1: I had to get an uber to take me home,

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Speaker 1: really fucking expensive. Then my boyfriend had to drive me

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Speaker 2: It sounds like these are all mistakes that OPI made them.

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Speaker 3: These are all they couldn't.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't drive home because I was drunk.

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Speaker 3: Also, why did she keep the keys if she was drinking?

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Speaker 2: She got towed because I parked in the wrong spot.

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Speaker 3: This is all her.

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Speaker 2: They wouldn't let me, They wouldn't wait for an hour

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Speaker 3: This is crazy.

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Speaker 1: My parents refused to pay to get it out, even

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Speaker 2: I don't know. That's a little bit of a stretch.

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Speaker 1: Yes, false, based off the series of events that OPI

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Speaker 2: Well, I guess. I mean, did the parents know that

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Speaker 3: But oh p knew that they were intoxicated?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, why would you drive your car there if

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Speaker 1: Mom was supposed to drive it by Oh but if

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Speaker 1: given the parents the keys, because they said they like

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Speaker 1: the mom and the sisters like, we want to go,

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Speaker 3: Ohp He was like, no, I'm not giving you the keys.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh he said, no. Oh yeah, that's your fault.

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Speaker 2: That's your your fault.

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Speaker 1: That's fully your fault. Then I checked my bank account

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Speaker 1: and they charged me for my ticket and parking. It's

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Speaker 2: Oh piece und spoiled.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, real Saturday spoil. My sisters and I had

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Speaker 1: made plans to see the Barbie movie on Tuesday. I

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Speaker 1: made plans to see it on Saturday. My mom and

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Speaker 1: movies are like twenty dollars versus the five dollars movies.

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Speaker 2: On Tuesdays it's five dollars.

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Speaker 3: It's five dollars Tuesdays. Yeah, is that.

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Speaker 2: Why we're going to Oppenheimergy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no way, Yeah, it's five dollars Tuesdays.

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Speaker 1: And Opie wants them to see it on Saturday so

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Speaker 2: On Ita. So OPI is mad because the parents aren't

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Speaker 1: So Opie's parents are like, hey, can your if your

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Speaker 2: They want him to pay for everything.

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Speaker 3: Well, they want him to pay for it, like the difference.

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Speaker 2: The difference, that's kind of I don't know, but I

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Speaker 3: The mom doesn't necessarily want him to do that.

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Speaker 1: She just wants to go and see it not Tuesday,

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Speaker 2: See it twice. Yeah, see it with your parents, see

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I don't know, easy solution here, we'll be saying.

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Speaker 1: It's an extra nine dollars, but that's nine dollars per

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like, do the math nine times three?

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Speaker 3: Syvia twenty four, Sophia twenty seven.

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Speaker 2: She was really good at math in like high school.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, that's twenty seven. You got it,

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Speaker 3: Wow, oh yeah, you made me doubt myself twenty seven.

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Speaker 4: All right, go, I'm a theater major.

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Speaker 2: I don't do what you can tell.

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Speaker 1: I don't do the past math in my head. Don't

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Speaker 2: Let's just let's keep going, Let's keep going.

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Speaker 1: So after the Barty movie, she gave me thirty days

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Speaker 2: She went, she went full, Ah, that's a lot, that's

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Speaker 3: Holy shit, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: I mean, to be fair, though, how old OP is twenty?

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Speaker 1: And if my parents were like, just get out it

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Speaker 2: But OP does sound pretty entitled. Oh sounds pretty title.

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Speaker 1: Seems like he's not in college and in seeing Barbie.

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Speaker 1: But it's also summer, so this is true.

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 3: This is a current thing.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: We just came out.

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Speaker 2: Mom went nuclear. I mean, OP does sound like a

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Speaker 2: lot to deal with. But this is happening today. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: She sent me what I paid for the car and

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Speaker 1: I had it coming, but others are saying she's crazy

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Speaker 1: For the question, am I the a whole for not

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Speaker 3: So on those parts, you're the whole.

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Speaker 2: But but the mom is also the a hole, Like

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Speaker 3: And I saw Barbie on Sunday and Sophia liked it.

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Speaker 4: We have seen some i mean world.

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Speaker 4: Like we've seen people do back to.

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Speaker 2: each section is more beautiful than the last.

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Speaker 4: Really beautiful? Do you mean likely utterly devastating?

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Speaker 2: it's like sharing interests, sharing interests, right, and it's it's

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Speaker 2: So someone pease this guy's life together as it's falling apart. Wow,

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Speaker 2: that's impressive, right. The wife and I have been married

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Speaker 2: We have a seven year old and since the kiddo,

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Speaker 2: these adventures have been a little tough to plan and

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Speaker 2: I like to get out at least once a week

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Speaker 2: You know, nothing wrong with that? Nothing wrong with thathing

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 2: Sir, I'm sorry, I let me Let me get my

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Speaker 4: Yeah, kind of like this, Tommy, who's your friend?

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Speaker 2: God? Now she won't speak to me and says I

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Speaker 2: I really scared my child, and of course I would

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Speaker 2: it was best to get hear asap. Things are quiet,

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Speaker 2: For the past week I've been working with a lawyer

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Speaker 2: Oh I feel so bad for this dude, because like,

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Speaker 2: Last week I received several text from my ex saying

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Speaker 4: What is wrong with this person?

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Speaker 2: I told her I would be willing to split the

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Speaker 5: As we As we always say on this show, there

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Speaker 2: It seems the guys like so nice, though, which is

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Speaker 4: Oh no, it keeps going, all right.

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Speaker 2: It's in a camping subreddit and it said, what are

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Speaker 4: Oh no.

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Speaker 2: And then there's no responses to this except any update

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. And then he says she was lying

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Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm short circuiting. So she lied about the

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Speaker 2: Yeah for what? Yeah? I have no idea. I just

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Speaker 5: Like like her logic doesn't even follow, Like she she

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Speaker 4: Bro, Wow, I.

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Speaker 2: Think she just wants to fuck up his life.

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Speaker 4: This woman is crazy.

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Speaker 2: I know. I feel so bad.

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Speaker 4: Who?

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Speaker 5: Honestly who shout out to whoever like pieced this together

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Speaker 4: We we we come camp with us?

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