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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. I feel like I

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Speaker 2: haven't seen well, I've seen you, but I feel like

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Speaker 2: we haven't done the podcast in a minute because we

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Speaker 2: kind of did.

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Speaker 3: An early one last week. That's right, so it's been

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Speaker 3: a minute.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I like doing a podcast on a different day,

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Speaker 4: though it was different energy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fun, good times. Great to see you.

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Speaker 4: Great to see you. Good I'm doing I'm tired, Okay,

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Speaker 4: I'm into well, no, I'm really into this new Jude show.

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Speaker 4: It's not new, it's old. It's called Yellow Jackets, but

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Speaker 4: it's new to me and I stayed up till eleven

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Speaker 4: thirty watching it last night.

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Speaker 3: You're a bad, bad girl.

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Speaker 4: No, it's like, yeah, on an early morning next day

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Speaker 4: for work, so it's really a problem.

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Speaker 2: But there's there's not there's how many seasons, like two, three, two,

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Speaker 2: so you could be caught up pretty soon and get on.

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Speaker 5: It's in its second season.

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Speaker 4: Okay currently, oh currently, Yeah, you know, it's so funny.

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Speaker 4: So we got showtime just to watch this show, Okay,

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Speaker 4: but we don't want to keep having showtime because I

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Speaker 4: don't want to watch anything else on show time. So

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Speaker 4: I put in my calendar for a month to like

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Speaker 4: be activated thing. But I don't know if we're going

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Speaker 4: to get it all in by that.

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Speaker 1: Time, like last night. That's going to help, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I got to push through.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, these nights are going to be big for you

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Speaker 3: the eleven thirties.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I'm so annoyed, like I don't want one

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Speaker 4: more streaming service that I have to buy.

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Speaker 1: But the nice thing about the streaming services is that

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Speaker 1: you can have it for a month and cancel it.

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Speaker 1: By the way, if somebody's really strapped for cash, on

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Speaker 1: these you can stop Netflix for a month and then

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Speaker 1: get it again in a month. You know you can

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Speaker 1: do that.

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Speaker 4: You can just going.

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Speaker 3: I was going to ask you. I was trying to

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Speaker 3: find it and I couldn't figure out what on showtime?

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Speaker 4: You have to download another app on your TV?

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Speaker 3: My do I have energy? I don't know? And to

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Speaker 3: like take the risk. What if I don't like the show,

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Speaker 3: you will You said that about a lot of shows

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Speaker 3: that I know.

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Speaker 1: It's so good.

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Speaker 4: It's a little darker than I usually like I am

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Speaker 4: in a.

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Speaker 1: Darker face because also breaking bad very Wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't watched it. Don't tell me.

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Speaker 1: Are you not caught up?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's gotten starting with episode four, which is mind blowing.

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Speaker 1: It's incredible.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, so great Yellow Jackets. I watched the pilot. It's

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Speaker 1: really good.

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Speaker 4: It's really good.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, I got some you got some backup

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Speaker 2: in here, although they also liked Ted Lasso and Dreary Duty.

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Speaker 1: So you know, you're in the minority, not just in

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Speaker 1: this room.

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Speaker 3: But the world.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, like I it's hard to say, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Tanya loves it, so I'm gonna love it. You know,

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Speaker 2: I don't, unfortunately, feel the trust in that. That's okay,

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Speaker 2: it's more on me though it's not your fault.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I went to last time we talked.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna I was like going to surprise Haley

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Speaker 2: Brought her friend Monica and she was in the room

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Speaker 4: That's probably why she knew it.

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Speaker 2: No, she was I told her I had to go

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Speaker 2: don't know, Like that's so uncomfortable. So like she was

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Speaker 2: totally one thousand percent bought my scheme.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if she did, though she did.

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Speaker 3: She admitted it. She was like I had lost hope

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Speaker 3: when you So then how did she know?

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Speaker 2: I think she just always had a feeling maybe I

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Speaker 4: That I show up, or maybe she you were gonna

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Speaker 4: show up but not exactly when you did.

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Speaker 2: No, I think she just had like a feeling because

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Speaker 2: we had talked about like, oh, we'll see each other.

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Speaker 2: That'll be like around the two week mark, so we'll

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Speaker 2: see each other around then and so anyways, but she

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Speaker 3: That was the surprise.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it wasn't a complete fail on the surprise aspect.

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Speaker 4: But she was so happy.

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Speaker 3: She was so happy. But she spends really sick.

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Speaker 2: She's had like a sinus infection that like will not

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I don't know how. I don't know how

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Speaker 4: Terrible, Like think about let's just say the Jonas brothers.

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Speaker 4: They're gone because they're going back out on tour, did they?

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Speaker 2: But they probably all have their own bus like they

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Speaker 2: probable the bus.

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Speaker 4: The bus is a bus is a bus.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think when you have your whole bus

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Speaker 2: with like however many sixteen people or whatever.

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Speaker 4: I don't know about that. Yeah, either way, it's not

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Speaker 3: I think there's like seven or something. A bus there's

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Speaker 3: sixteen people, not two buses.

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Speaker 4: No, how do you fit that many beds in there?

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Speaker 3: They're just two three toward each other.

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Speaker 4: I've never seen a bus that big.

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Speaker 6: Well it's a.

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Speaker 2: Double decker, but they're all the buses are on the

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Speaker 2: same level. Anyways, it's exhausting. I don't know how she

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Speaker 2: then she's in La tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: So just a little longer.

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Speaker 2: She on tour until like June or something June at

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Speaker 3: We were like into May, but June is in the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's like so two three weeks. Yeah, she has

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Speaker 4: so you're in the home stretch. Yeah, and I really

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Speaker 4: felt great, Like I'm a little concerned about that little

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Speaker 2: Why because she came in like a wrecking ball, and

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Speaker 2: she stirred some things up, and then she went away,

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Speaker 2: and so now I'm like, will it come back unexpectedly

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Speaker 4: Well what triggered it was the fact that she was away,

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Speaker 4: so you might be triggered for a while.

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Speaker 2: Right, and being in Europe thing, the time zone thing

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Speaker 3: That was really bad. Don't recommend that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hannah and I were actually talking about it because

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Speaker 2: we we went to we had a date night on

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Speaker 2: a Friday night. It was so fun and we were

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Speaker 2: talking about because your ex you were long distance but

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Speaker 2: same time zone, and that was still hard.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I couldn't do it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very it's very weird, like it messes.

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Speaker 2: It messed with my head in a way that I

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Speaker 2: wasn't expecting it to.

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Speaker 4: So it happens.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: It's okay.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you did long distance with your first

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Speaker 2: like your long term relation.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but that was just San Diego, San Diego, La.

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Speaker 4: So it's like long distance because we're not in the

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Speaker 4: same city. We couldn't see each other in Arizona. He

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Speaker 4: ended up moving to Arizona. Yeah, but like the first

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Speaker 3: Still, So, y'all never actually lived in the same city.

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Speaker 4: Never. No, that's shocking, Mom, what's clinging?

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Speaker 3: She said it first?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's true though, Like I could not imagine, like

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Speaker 4: if Robbie lived in San Diego, that would be horrendous

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Speaker 4: think at the point of my life when I was

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Speaker 4: had all weekend with him.

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Speaker 2: That I mean, when you're busy, when you have stuff

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I think that's the only reason why it was

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Speaker 4: like fine for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, I don't even have the capacity, Yes,

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Speaker 2: the girlfriend during the week, I'm correct, all right, well

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Speaker 2: that makes more sense. But now in these times of

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Speaker 2: your life. No, Like I probably was like, I have

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Speaker 2: to move to London for a year, what would you do?

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Speaker 4: See if I could do the show out in London? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Wow, she went straight to.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what I mean. If it was

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Speaker 4: for a year, I think I would be able to, Like,

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Speaker 4: if there was like a start in an end time,

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Speaker 4: I think I'd be okay with it. Okay, But if

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Speaker 4: it was like in perpetuity, not knowing when he'd be back,

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Speaker 4: that would be a major problem.

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Speaker 3: Great like big word throwing right there.

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Speaker 4: Which one.

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Speaker 3: What was it?

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Speaker 1: Perpetuity?

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Speaker 4: Perpetunity often? Oh yeah, word of the day. Yeah, no, perpetuity.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why, but I feel like I use

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Speaker 3: Great.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, proud of you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you because you did do a comparison.

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Speaker 2: Oh, because I post about the Denny Henry thing and

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Speaker 2: he said it's like comparing it.

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Speaker 4: Was actually perfect.

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Speaker 3: Oh what was it again?

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Speaker 4: Comparing a watermelon? Comparing Henry to Denny as I comparing

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Speaker 4: a watermelon to a penny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, can you explain that, maybe for.

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Speaker 3: What else have you been up to you? Okay? So

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Speaker 3: Oh love him, love him, love him. I've loved him forever,

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Speaker 4: The thing that's so cool about him is he's not

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Speaker 2: He just does what he loves and he's like if

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Speaker 4: She's so cool, and he's so humble, like he shakes

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Speaker 4: He just wears his normal clothes and he's got a

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Speaker 2: You walk away from a tailor show and you're like,

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Speaker 4: Just blame my time, my Hashi motos.

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Speaker 2: But then I got to see what the soccer game

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Speaker 4: First soccer game ever?

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Speaker 4: I pushed back on my hashymotives test two days so

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Speaker 6: That is it called diamond painted?

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00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:02,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, or like I don't know, are paint. Yeah. Anyways,

450
00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,000
Speaker 3: you're like sticking the little diamonds on.

451
00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:08,040
Speaker 2: It's a very mindless, just like relaxing craft, you.

452
00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,080
Speaker 1: Know, ires of it. I see what you're saying.

453
00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:11,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really cool.

454
00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,160
Speaker 2: Anyways, I just had a playlist going and the song

455
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,600
Speaker 2: comes on and I just kept hitting repeat, repeat, repeat,

456
00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,440
Speaker 2: and finally I look at it and it's Dermick Kennedy,

457
00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:22,359
Speaker 2: which I've heard his name, but I've never like known

458
00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,480
Speaker 2: his music or anything. And so I posted and I

459
00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:27,440
Speaker 2: posted on my Instagram like I just heard the song

460
00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,199
Speaker 2: for the first time. I'm obsessed, and everyone was like,

461
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,800
Speaker 2: he's amazing, and then people said he's gonna be in

462
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:33,720
Speaker 2: La tomorrow, Like, you have to go to his show.

463
00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,320
Speaker 2: He's incredible live and normally I'm not one to go

464
00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:37,680
Speaker 2: to a show if I don't like.

465
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:39,320
Speaker 3: Know a lot of the music.

466
00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I was like why not?

467
00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,240
Speaker 2: So I text Hana because we were dming about him,

468
00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:46,200
Speaker 2: and I'm like, what are you doing tonight?

469
00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:47,560
Speaker 3: And she was like nothing.

470
00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,800
Speaker 2: So we went and had a cute dinner and drinks

471
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,679
Speaker 2: and then we went to the show and it was.

472
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,359
Speaker 8: It was amenable. It was like one of the best

473
00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:58,480
Speaker 8: concerts I've ever been to.

474
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Speaker 3: It was this guy, I sent you this s Did

475
00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:02,760
Speaker 3: you listen? No?

476
00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,520
Speaker 2: I know you did it because you would have said something, yeah,

477
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:09,200
Speaker 2: this is this is where we're at in our friendship

478
00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:11,280
Speaker 2: right now. We're in like a little bit of like

479
00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,919
Speaker 2: a testy tension area, which is fine, you go through it.

480
00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:18,200
Speaker 2: But but anyways, it was at the YouTube Theater, which

481
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,480
Speaker 2: is by So five. It was my first time.

482
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 6: My first time too. It was amazing. It was amazing

483
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:24,640
Speaker 6: a YouTube theater. One night.

484
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's beautiful, good clean and new so clean.

485
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,200
Speaker 4: A lot of parking around there.

486
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,639
Speaker 2: Great park so then yeah, the parking we pull up

487
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 2: and we're like, hey, there's a guy standing We're like,

488
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,400
Speaker 2: where's the closest parking to the theater and he's like, well,

489
00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 2: right there, but that's VIP. I had to like pre

490
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:44,200
Speaker 2: purchase it. And we're like can we can we purchase it?

491
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 2: And he's like, here's what I'll do. He was like,

492
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,880
Speaker 2: I'm actually I'm scanning your ticket, but if you ven

493
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 2: me fifty dollars.

494
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 3: Really, we were like, soul, We're like, you got it.

495
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 3: We went parked right in front of the theater. It's amazing.

496
00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,320
Speaker 6: It was luxury.

497
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,360
Speaker 4: Tried to do that at the Angel City game and

498
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 4: did not work for me. Oh yeah, but she was no,

499
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,639
Speaker 4: we didn't. We tried to buy that, but she was

500
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 4: in She was in a booth with like another worker,

501
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:17,040
Speaker 4: So I don't know.

502
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 3: Maybe that was this guy was secluded. He may not

503
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 3: have been a parking attendant.

504
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:22,640
Speaker 1: We don't know.

505
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,439
Speaker 3: But we had great parking.

506
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 2: But one thing that Hannah and I talked about is

507
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:32,199
Speaker 2: that she went on a recent date last weekend and

508
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,639
Speaker 2: I want to talk about it, but we're going to

509
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,120
Speaker 2: take a break first.

510
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 3: All right, we are back.

511
00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:00,160
Speaker 2: So Hannah went on a date, and this was your

512
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:01,880
Speaker 2: first date since.

513
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,120
Speaker 8: I broke up with my ex boyfriend, which was when

514
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 8: about a year ago. So okay, I've been single like

515
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 8: officially for a year and we dated for about four

516
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 8: and a half years.

517
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 6: Okay, so this was a big deal.

518
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 2: And this was, like you were saying, one of your

519
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 2: just first like actual like a date because you and

520
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: your ex men in college.

521
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 8: Yeah, one of my first first dates because I met

522
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 8: my ex in college. And you know, when you're in college,

523
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 8: you don't actually go on real dates. You just like

524
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 8: come out at the frat parties. And we got to

525
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,640
Speaker 8: know each other drunk. It wasn't anything romantic at all.

526
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 3: It was college romance. Yeah, it was college at its

527
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 3: finest direct.

528
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 2: Well before you went on this, So y'all, you and

529
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 2: this guy met up at State. Y'all saw each other

530
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 2: at stage coach, and you knew each other from like

531
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,360
Speaker 2: from college. You went from college together, but had never

532
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 2: been out before.

533
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 6: No, never.

534
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 2: So we did the podcast we recorded before I went

535
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 2: to Denver on Thursday, and the date was happening on Saturday.

536
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 6: Is that right? Saturday?

537
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 3: So Hannah was very nervous during that.

538
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:00,919
Speaker 6: Do you remember this?

539
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, but we made her nervous, you guys. Yeah, she

540
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 4: was totally fine until we talked about it.

541
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,239
Speaker 8: Why do we say that made you nervous because we

542
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 8: were talking about all the alone time in the car

543
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 8: and what we were going to talk about, and if

544
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 8: I wanted to escape him, I couldn't.

545
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 6: I started spiraling.

546
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 2: So hard after telling you guys, Okay, Well, and I

547
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 2: don't know if Tanya wants to take this defense, but

548
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 2: my defense. My thought is like, if I'm going on

549
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,919
Speaker 2: a first date and I'm nervous, I don't know that

550
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a whole twenty four hours with that person.

551
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:31,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

552
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 4: I kept going back to the Chicago guy that I

553
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 4: dated that came in town to visit me, and I

554
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 4: wanted to like cry after an hour.

555
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 3: That was doctor screen time for those who have kept up.

556
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that was my only knee jerk. Is like

557
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 4: when somebody's traveling to you.

558
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 8: It definitely felt like a very intense first date. Yeah,

559
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 8: it wasn't just like dinner. It was a whole It

560
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 8: was a whole thing. But it ended up being great.

561
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 6: It ended up being really fun.

562
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 3: What did y'all do?

563
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 8: We went to the Warriors and Lakers game, so we

564
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,360
Speaker 8: had an activity to do, which is good.

565
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

566
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 8: Long, Yeah, and I'm a giant Warriors fan fortune.

567
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: I know, I know, well you guys they also be

568
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,479
Speaker 2: easy yeah, so easy.

569
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 6: No, but it was it was really fun.

570
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,360
Speaker 4: Oh they're out now, Yeah they lost because they lost

571
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 4: the Lakers. They're out completely. Yep, that's very devastate.

572
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 3: But y'all got to go see them.

573
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:23,880
Speaker 6: We got to go see them.

574
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 8: It was his first time seeing Lebron James in person,

575
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 8: so it was really funny. He was like all tickled

576
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 8: and really excited. Yeah, but I told him he had

577
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 8: to be a Warriors fan, and every time that the

578
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 8: Lakers like made a basket, he would get really excited

579
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 8: and then he'd be like, oh, never mind, like that

580
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 8: was actually bad. It was funny, endearing yeah, ok, yes,

581
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 8: cut Yeah, Like it was charming to see him like

582
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 8: geek out over athletes. Yeah, definitely, so was the conversation

583
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 8: did a flow? Conversations flowed. It was a good first date.

584
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,439
Speaker 8: I mean, I have nothing to compare it to, but

585
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 8: I thought it was pretty good.

586
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 3: Like you'd see him again, yeah, I would, Okay, were

587
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 3: there any X that happened?

588
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,719
Speaker 6: We talked about this at dinner.

589
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 8: I I just don't know if I'd actually ever find

590
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 8: someone that I could both because I get the ick

591
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 8: so easily. And the biggest thing for me, and I

592
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 8: know that you guys talk about this a lot. His

593
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 8: hands and feet, it's like the biggest thing. He didn't

594
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 8: wear flip flops, thank god, because then I would have

595
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 8: told him to just go home. Like there's no way

596
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 8: I would have like hung out with him if he

597
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 8: showed up in flip flops. But his hands aren't the best,

598
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 8: and it's it's kind of sh They're just not as

599
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 8: manly as I would like. And the fingernails are a

600
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 8: little too short.

601
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 3: Okay, there's too much skin of the nail.

602
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 6: He doesn't bite them. I just don't think they grow.

603
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 6: And it's no they grow.

604
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 4: He bites them.

605
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 3: They bite that to person, he may just have short bite,

606
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 3: and that's a whole other thing.

607
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 5: I'm like so much of my hands.

608
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 8: But we were talking about this at dinner, Like it's

609
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 8: such a fine line. Your nails can't be too short,

610
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 8: but they also can't be too long. If there's any

611
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 8: white showing on the nails, I'm freaked out.

612
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, can you evaluate my hands?

613
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 6: No, this is.

614
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: A live showing.

615
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,239
Speaker 1: Take me out of this. Yeah, I'm just looking at

616
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: your hands. Guy, I'm a.

617
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 4: Guy's doing that. I'm gonna get a picture of a

618
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 4: good parent.

619
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 1: Hand and these are my hands, and that's gonna.

620
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 4: Be nobody knows.

621
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 8: I think Mark, you have really good hands for a guy.

622
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 8: They're manly and muscular.

623
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: I haven't had a lot of hard work in my life, labor,

624
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: I don't.

625
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 8: Okay, though, No, those are good hands. Okay, I'm nervous

626
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 8: to see Easton's.

627
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 5: For delicates over here, all.

628
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 3: Right, staring, she's staring.

629
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 8: They're not as good as Marks, but they're not horrible.

630
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 6: They just look a bit too like.

631
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 8: They're very manicured and nice.

632
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 3: You'd like that. Let me see that makes you're not muscly.

633
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 2: No, just takes some squeezing of like.

634
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 5: Block or anything.

635
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:20,880
Speaker 3: No, I let me see your's mark.

636
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: All right, let me get out. I got out of

637
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:22,880
Speaker 1: my chair.

638
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 4: Okay, I have a picture, but it's not the best angle.

639
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 6: But I'm just gonna is this if you know who? Yeah,

640
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 6: let's see.

641
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 2: I think you both have nice hands. Like I wouldn't

642
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 2: be like I wouldn't list y'all is like a problem.

643
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 4: They're not the best at all angle.

644
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 6: They're they're good hands.

645
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 8: The only thing and this is personal, it's a little hairy.

646
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I like that.

647
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Donny likes a lot of hair, got it.

648
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 6: I like zero hair.

649
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 1: So neither mind nor reasons would be deal breakers for

650
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 1: you on a date if our hands were attention.

651
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,719
Speaker 3: I don't actually think hers is a deal deal breaker.

652
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 6: It's just something.

653
00:27:58,640 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 3: It is something.

654
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 8: You never look at his hands.

655
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 3: Did you see his feet?

656
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: No?

657
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 8: And I'm scared to see his feet. And he's like

658
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 8: very athletic and goes on a lot of runs, and.

659
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 6: I'm just worried about.

660
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, there be some twisted, contorted situations.

661
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: With the tiny little toenail and the big like what.

662
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 3: Yeah like or the skin like fully overlapped.

663
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: His fingernails are too short, like.

664
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 4: A Chris toenail.

665
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 3: When you said that, I almost blocked.

666
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't think I know that.

667
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,199
Speaker 4: His Instagram he posted on the met Galley. He was like,

668
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 4: my met Gala looks like you saw this?

669
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 8: Yeah, you know it feels illegal.

670
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 3: There was another agch that we talked about.

671
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 6: The other one. I feel like bad saying this.

672
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 8: I don't know why, but he keeps sending me my

673
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 8: god like songs.

674
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 4: What's wrong with that?

675
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 6: It's just like, what do I say to that? And

676
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 6: why are you sending me that.

677
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: They're romantic?

678
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 8: Like some of them are like some of them are

679
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 8: songs that we like heard of Stagecoach or whatever, or

680
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 8: some are.

681
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 6: Just random songs.

682
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 4: But what are the lyrics?

683
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 8: The lyrics, I mean, they're all country songs, so they're.

684
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 4: Like, they're probably like cute lyrics, but.

685
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 6: Don't send it to me.

686
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 5: He's just sending Spotify links and what he said.

687
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 8: Luckily it's Apple Music, which is a green flag because

688
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 8: I use Apple Music.

689
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 5: Oh wow, yeah, name one song?

690
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 8: Oh goodness, something by Tyler Chiulders.

691
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 3: Oh, he's pretty emotional and romantic.

692
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 6: I feel No, it wasn't that.

693
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 8: It was Shake the Frost, which which is kind of

694
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 8: my gosh. Now I'm now I'm creeped out thinking about

695
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 8: him sending me songs.

696
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 4: What's not Shape the Frost?

697
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 3: Shake?

698
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: What's his motivation? Is totallylist?

699
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's probably I think I'm just reading too much

700
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 8: into probably, but he's sending too many Okay, no like daily,

701
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 8: no contact, No, not daily, And it hasn't he hasn't

702
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 8: done it in.

703
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 6: A couple of days, which is good. But I just

704
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 6: don't know how to respond to it.

705
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: And you don't think the lyrics are apropos, like, for example,

706
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: with shake the Frost, he's not saying to you, you

707
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: remind me of a Sunday back home in old Kentucky

708
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 1: with the church choirs. Just belt into the pineys.

709
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 6: No, I don't know.

710
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So I when I first met Haley, I would

711
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 2: send her songs all the time. So now I'm like,

712
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 2: I guess I'm lucky she stuck around because I love

713
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 2: music and if something reminded me of her, i'd send

714
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 2: it to her. And she's not like a huge like

715
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 2: she doesn't like love lyrics.

716
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 3: And music like I do. And so no one honest

717
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 3: said that.

718
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I'm always do that that all

719
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,239
Speaker 4: the time too. I still do that too.

720
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 6: Yeah.

721
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 8: I think I'm it's just a personal thing. I'm thinking

722
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 8: way too much into it. And when guys are too

723
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 8: nice to me or do things that are a little

724
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 8: bit romantic, I freak out.

725
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: Well that's a whole other episode. We should get a

726
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: therapist in here.

727
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 3: That's just walls being up.

728
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: And if I too had these things, so I don't know, maybe.

729
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: Relatable though, I think I think a lot of people

730
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: deal with that. Yeah.

731
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, And you can establish these patterns. You do that

732
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 4: because you are scared of something totally.

733
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: And I think those songs are just I'm thinking about

734
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: you right now. That's sweet.

735
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 2: If he was texting me like thinking of you, would

736
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: that grow like would that give you the ache?

737
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 8: Or I would appreciate that more than a song, because

738
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 8: then I could respond in many different ways rather than

739
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 8: just like what do I say to a song?

740
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 3: Like it's what would you say that I'm thinking of you?

741
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 3: Me too? You too?

742
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 4: Thanks?

743
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 3: No, you die?

744
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 6: I am not like a romantic emotion respond.

745
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: Oh I love that song, or oh I don't know

746
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: that one. I'll check it out. Yeah, thanks, that's that's

747
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: just one.

748
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 4: Back pocketing all these responds for thinking of me? Yeah yeah, okay,

749
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 4: that's so nice, feels so special.

750
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 3: No, no, no, don't don't.

751
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 5: What do you typically say to the song?

752
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: Though?

753
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 3: You would be my dream.

754
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 2: I'd be chasing her so hard, but I'd like, she's

755
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 2: like not giving me anything.

756
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 6: It's just so not my style.

757
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 8: But I'm learning, and it's it's uncomfortable for me. But

758
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 8: those were the two things that stuck out for.

759
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 2: They're pretty minors freaking out about that feet pending.

760
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 6: I think this guy's great report back on the feet.

761
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: But are there any guy's feet you're going to be into?

762
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: Like guys grosser, Some guys have pretty cool feet.

763
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 3: Ready to show.

764
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 8: It's like I'd rather a guy walk around like with

765
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 8: socks and no shoes.

766
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 4: That's your foot.

767
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 8: Yeah, keep your socks on.

768
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 4: Gross I'm saying it inaccurate.

769
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 3: I'm saying Bobby's eat her a treat.

770
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 2: You said on the last podcast, you were like, his

771
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 2: are nicer for men's feet.

772
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 3: But by no means.

773
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 4: Do I like love I mean, I don't love his

774
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 4: feet the way I love his hands, but I think

775
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 4: he has really great feet, Like I'm not grossed out

776
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 4: by them at all, actually like touch them.

777
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 8: Does he have like hair on his toes though? Yeah,

778
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 8: and that's fine with you totally? Then great, Yeah that's perfect.

779
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 8: More hair, the better, you know.

780
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: I once asked a girl out in college because of

781
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: her hands. Well, I sat behind her in class and

782
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: her hands are so great. I asked her to date

783
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: and she did. She said yes, but then I called

784
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: and she didn't been. Yeah. Yeah.

785
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:46,239
Speaker 4: You guys though that like bite their nails. It's so

786
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 4: deep into the skin.

787
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 7: It's like, just don't I tried biting my nails because

788
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 7: people have such a hard time quitting it and like

789
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 7: it must be good, right, let's be fine, right, do it.

790
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 5: I could not get the hair for you.

791
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 2: It's like, as soon as you break the habit, because

792
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 2: I used to buy my nails so bad, and as

793
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 2: soon as you break them, the thought of that I

794
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 2: even did that repulses me. That I put my hands

795
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 2: in my It is disgusting and sorry if you struggle

796
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 2: with that habit, but a.

797
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: Lot of people do. My daughter is struggling with it

798
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: and she gets sick a lot, and we think that's why.

799
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 3: It's it makes sense. I have to start getting my

800
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 3: nails done.

801
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 2: So I getting her nails done them.

802
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 3: Well, that's a very expensive.

803
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: Ye got the gross tasting stuff to put on there presses.

804
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 4: You can put the press on ones that are pretty cheap.

805
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 2: And thank you for sharing, Hannah.

806
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 3: But I feel I can't wait for the update because

807
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 3: I yeah.

808
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: Not just the feed, I want more information from the

809
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: next I just want to see how this goes. To

810
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: track this in real time, you.

811
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 6: Can track it.

812
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is great.

813
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 2: And I had told Tanya at the soccer game, I

814
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 2: was like, I want Hanna to talk about this and

815
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 2: Tanya goes, I'm very proud of the place I'm in

816
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: in my life, and I said, same, me too. But

817
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 2: a lot of people are still dating and having to

818
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 2: discover their x and turn offs and what they don't like,

819
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 2: and we're just.

820
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 3: Lucky that we have found people that we like their

821
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 3: hands and feet.

822
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 8: It's true, I would love to be in your guys'.

823
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: Position right now, but I'm just not is always great.

824
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 3: It's true. It's it's fun to date too, but.

825
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: Because people in relationships always love living through you vicariously

826
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: when you're dating, and the people dating would love to

827
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: be in that committed relationship. Yeah, no one's ever happy.

828
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: We say that again, like the people in relationships like

829
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: us love hearing all the details of her dating life

830
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: go out with like Sistney loves used to love to

831
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: swipe on yours and all that stuff. But the people

832
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: who are dating would love to be in the committed relationship.

833
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 4: Got it?

834
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 6: Is that register?

835
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,720
Speaker 4: Yeah? I thought he meant that people who are incommon

836
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 4: relationships wish they were single.

837
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 5: You know, someone news fine, you know it's just.

838
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 8: Intriguing to hear about other people's experiences.

839
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I was never like great at the first date,

840
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 2: because I'd be like, oh, like, I feel like I'm

841
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 2: on an interview asking the same questions, and then you

842
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 2: meet the right person you're like, oh, it wasn't that

843
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 2: was actually nice. Anyways, all right, we're going to take

844
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 2: a break and we'll be back with emails. All Right,

845
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 2: we are back and we have some emails.

846
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 1: Mark, all right, Becka, thank you very much. And by

847
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 1: the way, for this first email, it comes with a

848
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: trigger warning for anyone who's experienced disordered eating. Anonymous says,

849
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 1: I'm seeking advice and what to do about a friend

850
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,400
Speaker 1: who appears to be too thin and unhealthy looking for

851
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: contact with thirty years old. We've known each other and

852
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: best friends in second grade. Well that's beautiful. By the way,

853
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: I love that stuff. We haven't been as close since college,

854
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: but will always be friends no matter what. She's been

855
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: on a health kick, and in my opinion, she's taken

856
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: it too far. If I never knew her and was

857
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: meeting her for the first time, I would think she's

858
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: ill because of how thin she is. She's married, I'm

859
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 1: not super close with her husband. I do know her

860
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: younger brothers or mom or dad, and they all think

861
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 1: she's taken it too far, and that she looks awful

862
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: because she looks so sickly thin. She's very close to

863
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 1: her family, she works in the medical profession. She's a PA,

864
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: so she's very smart and well educated. She'd become so

865
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,919
Speaker 1: thin she doesn't get a period anymore. Do I say

866
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: something to my friend? What do I say? Do I

867
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: talk to her mom? Do I not say anything.

868
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 3: I've never had to.

869
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 2: Go through this, but I do think this is a

870
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: very delicate topic and subject.

871
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 3: Have you ever experienced this.

872
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 4: We had a friend in college. It was in a

873
00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 4: different eating disorders. She was bullemic, and we sussess expected

874
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,839
Speaker 4: it and we followed her and we saw her doing it.

875
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 4: So what we did is we got the friend that

876
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 4: was closest to her to go to her mom to

877
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 4: tell her to basically get her help. And that's kind

878
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 4: of how we went about it because it is very tricky.

879
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 4: You can't ambush them with like a bunch of people,

880
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 4: and so we felt it was best to go to

881
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 4: her mom to kind of handle the situation, and the

882
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 4: mom sent her to rehab, and that's how we dealt

883
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 4: with it. But it is really really tricky because you know,

884
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 4: eating disorders. You know, body issues are really really sensitive,

885
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 4: and I do feel like it could ruin a friendship

886
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 4: if that person's not accepting of it. So I don't know.

887
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 3: I was maybe gonna say even suggests maybe anonymously posting

888
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 3: this in the Facebook group because I know there are

889
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 3: scrubbers who have experienced disordered eating themselves, and maybe they

890
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 3: have some insight on a way to approach it that's

891
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 3: like sensitive and helpful. Yeah, because it says her.

892
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 2: Family seems to know. She says she's very close, but

893
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 2: they think she also it's gone too far. So I

894
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 2: don't know that I have any like helpful advice that

895
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 2: I would feel comfortable giving.

896
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, is it possible she is sick by the way

897
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 1: that she's not telling you because she's not comfortable through Maybe.

898
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I do think maybe there's a conversation of

899
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 2: like are you doing okay? And maybe it can open

900
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 2: up the conversation for her to say, like, I've been

901
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: struggling with this, But I think going into it saying

902
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 2: like you look too thin or worried about you might

903
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 2: be triggering and it might be too sensitive. But I

904
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 2: do think maybe there's just a heart to heart conversation

905
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 2: and maybe she will feel safe to open up. But

906
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:54,479
Speaker 2: otherwise I think that it's just.

907
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 3: A very delicate thing.

908
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 2: Like I said, I have an experience this, so I

909
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 2: don't feel like the this is a very serious topic.

910
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 2: I don't feel like, say, like comfortable giving sound advice on.

911
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 3: So yeah, I don't know.

912
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that we're not much help, But I do

913
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 2: think that maybe talking to her mom if you feel

914
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 2: comfortable having that conversation, and also just giving her maybe

915
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,839
Speaker 2: a conversation to feel safe enough to open up about

916
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,439
Speaker 2: it and see if she does.

917
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm really sorry you're going through this. It's really

918
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,839
Speaker 4: really tough, and it does put it does put your

919
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 4: relationship in a weird position. But all you can do

920
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 4: is show up for your friend the best that you can.

921
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: All Right, Next up, Anonymous. I feel like I've been

922
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: relating to Becca a lot lately when she talks about

923
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: Haley leaving. I've been with my boyfriend two years now.

924
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 1: He's the best guy I've ever dated. My ection and

925
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,359
Speaker 1: I are very toxic. He was narcissistic, he always talked

926
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 1: to other people and made me the crazy one. My

927
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: boyfriend now is understanding. He's patient, he's kind. We see

928
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 1: each other one the two times a week because I

929
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: live we live forty minutes apart. He's my safe place.

930
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: I would hang out with him twenty four to seven

931
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: if I could. I have an anxious attachment style, and

932
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: he is a really attached so I worry about him

933
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 1: thinking I'm too much, even though he never makes me

934
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: feel that way. How do you deal with the anxiety

935
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: anxious attachment style or worrying about what they might think.

936
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: My boyfriend knows what goes on in my head, and

937
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: I go to therapy, but I'm naturally a warrior.

938
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 3: I'm sorry you're going through this.

939
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 2: It's a crazy mental spiral that you can lead yourself down.

940
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 2: But I think for me, I've always been more like

941
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 2: on the avoidant secure attached, so the anxious attachment came

942
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 2: unexpectedly to me. I think it's been like building probably

943
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 2: since like the pandemic, because we spent so much time together.

944
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 3: But I kind of just.

945
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 2: Had a moment where I remembered that I have I've

946
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 2: always had such a healthy and like independent life outside

947
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 2: of my relationship with Haley, and I kind of just

948
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 2: like snapped into this headspace where I was like I

949
00:41:56,440 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: have the best friends, I have a really cool job.

950
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 2: I have things that I like to do outside of

951
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 2: and things that maybe Haley doesn't like to do, And

952
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 2: I just like really focused on those things because I

953
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 2: realized that as I was getting more anxious and spiraling,

954
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,959
Speaker 2: I was just needing her to like validate and hear

955
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: me on the certain things that I was anxious about.

956
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:21,479
Speaker 2: And as soon as she kind of just understood where

957
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 2: it was coming from, I felt seen and heard, and

958
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,280
Speaker 2: then I was able to like go back to feeling

959
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 2: more in a secure headspace. So I think it's it's

960
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 2: it's like finding the things that you like to do

961
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 2: with or without him, the things that you obviously you

962
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 2: would like enjoy everything with him more, maybe because Tanya

963
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 2: and I always talk about that, how like we would

964
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 2: like to have our partners with us regardless of what

965
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 2: we're doing. But I think that if you can find

966
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: those things and like cultivate the other friendships and relationships

967
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 2: in your life, it really helps just to get in

968
00:42:56,600 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 2: a healthier headspace and knowing that, like without him and

969
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 2: this relationship, you're going to be okay, Because I think

970
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 2: that's where it gets dark, is like you go, what

971
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 2: will I do if I don't have this person anymore?

972
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 2: What will I do if I push them away? And

973
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 2: that's not what you want?

974
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think there's a lot of power and beauty

975
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 4: in a relationship where you can just be open and

976
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 4: honest about your attachment style. I think there's like a

977
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 4: lot of benefit coming from just expressing that to your

978
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 4: partner and saying that it's not necessarily their fault or

979
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 4: anything they're doing that, Like you just happen to have

980
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 4: this anxious attachment and just acknowledging it, because if you're

981
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 4: not speaking it, you're storing it, and that's creating more

982
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 4: anxiety in you. And so I think just like expressing

983
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 4: that and hopefully he receives it and doesn't make you

984
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 4: feel bad about it. But I just think being open

985
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 4: with him, I think will also give you a lot

986
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 4: of relief.

987
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: Is Robby secure? What'd you say is a secure attachment?

988
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:52,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

989
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 3: So he doesn't.

990
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,919
Speaker 2: I think it helps when your partner secure because they're

991
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 2: able to like calm you down, because if they're avoidant,

992
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,479
Speaker 2: they'll just like almost shut down.

993
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:02,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

994
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 4: And like if I'm if I'm having anxiety about something,

995
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 4: he like knows that it's where it's coming from. He

996
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,760
Speaker 4: doesn't get angry, he doesn't get upset, He just listens

997
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 4: to me. And so it's I think I think you'll

998
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 4: feel a lot better if you explain to him what's

999
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 4: going on.

1000
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 3: Good luck.

1001
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 2: It's it's a very It's not a great place to

1002
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,879
Speaker 2: be when you get into that that headspace, but you're

1003
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 2: doing your best. We do have a Thursday episode coming.

1004
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 4: Up, Yes, we do it.

1005
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 3: Well, let us tell.

1006
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 2: You it's gonna be Roxy Diaz, who Kanye has described

1007
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 2: as one of the best hyphe women out there. A

1008
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 2: girl's a girl, she's like your number one fan.

1009
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 3: Huh. Yeah.

1010
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 4: I love her so much. I remember when I was

1011
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 4: doing the E carpets. She was always so welcoming to

1012
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 4: me and like made me always try to lift me

1013
00:44:59,880 --> 00:45:02,240
Speaker 4: up and make me feel good, never made me feel bad.

1014
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,800
Speaker 4: And I just I've admired her from the very beginning

1015
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,839
Speaker 4: when I started working with her. And so she's gonna

1016
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 4: come in and tell us about our story.

1017
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 3: Yay.

1018
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 2: So we will be back on Thursday, and I hope

1019
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 2: you have a great week, and we love you so much.

1020
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 4: Love you.

1021
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 3: Bye.