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Speaker 1: this is like another Beyonce's Lemonade, except less tense. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: hi guys, welcome to Yeah another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: This is your girl Mandy be and I'm y and um,

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Speaker 1: think this will be advice for both of us because

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00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 1: I've only come from a man. Maybe my fingers are

425
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 1: not long enough. I can't reach the little button in there.

426
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: How would a woman make herself squirt? There is a

427
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: G spot. The G spot is what makes a female squirt. Correct. Well,

428
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 1: I think when you guys are talking about squirting, I

429
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 1: feel like it's like the abominable snowman and the thing

430
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 1: that exists that all women inc is. I think it

431
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 1: gets like hyper sexualized and sexually. You know, there's men

432
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: that are asking for it. I mean, to the point

433
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: where I was like, I might just passed on you.

434
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: He was like, fuck it, okay, Like, and I don't

435
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: think people have really in their head like squaring, Like

436
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 1: you can have a really strong like female like lubrication

437
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 1: like spurt and and that can be that. But then

438
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 1: I think some people getting confused with pee a little

439
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: too and because that stream and that doesn't happen. So

440
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: thank you for saying that. I knew a porn star

441
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: um that told me she wasn't doing squirting scenes, but

442
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: she knew somebody that was totally about them. And she

443
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: said she would drink a gallon of water before that.

444
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,679
Speaker 1: Remember me and talking about talk about that, and she

445
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 1: says that she would drink a gallon of water before

446
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: squirting scenes. And so, well, you have to be hydrated

447
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 1: because even when I squirting scenes, like they are scenes,

448
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: they are shooting it out. Yeah like you're peeing, Yeah

449
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 1: you're okay, squirting just flew it out if you. I've

450
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,360
Speaker 1: seen squirting scenes where it's smaller and I'm like, that

451
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 1: must be the real ship. I've squirted before, and I'm

452
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: not going to lie. Literally, the best feeling I've ever

453
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: had during sex, like my eyes walk a really good orgasm. Oh,

454
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: it was amazing orgasm. It was the best, like but

455
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, girl, clearly ten years later the one

456
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: I piss on mind you, well we he's it's something

457
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,959
Speaker 1: I hate you, um but he literally but it's and

458
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 1: he knows how to do. It's a finger thing because

459
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: every time that I've squirted, it's been with fingers. And

460
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: what they do is they stimulate me. They aroused me.

461
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 1: You have to be really aroused. And the one thing

462
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: that the whole time, they're just relaxed. You have to

463
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: be relaxed if you want to reach this. And it's

464
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 1: literally them finger and coltoral play and it just had

465
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 1: that you have to be relaxed to have a really

466
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: good orgasm. Like I'm really like shaking right now thinking

467
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 1: about it, Like I don't think you understand, Like I'm

468
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: literally shaking because I'm thinking was it now? Oh, like

469
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: the bed looked like I dumped water on it, Like

470
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 1: it was literally it sounds like it could be female ejaculate. No, well,

471
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 1: the sheets were wet, by the way, dr Give is

472
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: shaking your head now, So there was like well it

473
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:34,679
Speaker 1: was well, but there was no smell and there was

474
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 1: no color, which all you said if I drank enough

475
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 1: water there wouldn't be color. But there was also no

476
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: smell to it, like and it was right under like me. Bro,

477
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 1: it wasn't It didn't come from him. It came from

478
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: like and then like we recorded one session and it

479
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: got on the MacBook. So I know it came out Bro,

480
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: because went on the camera and it looked like you

481
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 1: had That's what I meant. She think it could be

482
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: a little bit of both. It could be Okay, what

483
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 1: doesn't are he liked me pissing on him? I I

484
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 1: don't think he cared if there was piss makes in it.

485
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: I'm just curious because when we were watching women shoot

486
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: it out like that and what up a bed? You're

487
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: saying that cannot just be ejaculated. It's y'all have been

488
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: getting piste off for years and we can leave. Okay.

489
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: So what is the next question that we have for

490
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: ms M d um let's do our listener question? Did

491
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: you screenshot it for us? No? Um, So it's a

492
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: very basic question. UM. I'm sorry my Instagram got blocked.

493
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: Can you pull up the horrible decisions? What about the

494
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: someone wrote in about let me see I've got it okay,

495
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,959
Speaker 1: um another gorgeous girl. We have so many pretty followers. Hey, ladies,

496
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: Love Love Love three loves your show. I listened to

497
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: every episode in a week. So the episode when Wheezy's friend,

498
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: oh ship, this wasn't the one I thought? Wasn't reading

499
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 1: this still good? When We's friend recommended the leather cleaner

500
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: slash po poppers? How would one safely do that during sex?

501
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: And how long do the effects last? So can we cover?

502
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 1: Can you explain to us what poppers are again? Yeah,

503
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: poppers are a nitrate based solution that um is more

504
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: common in the Yeah. So the reason it works so

505
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: well is because it's a vasodilator and so it kind

506
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: of like vasodilators. So basically your blood, your blood vessels

507
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: basically expand and you like it's like when you get

508
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: really flushed, when you get like all the blood you

509
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: feel rushed to your extremities to you, it's like it

510
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: just means like all your blood vessels expand and you

511
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 1: get like this rush of blood comes. So when you're

512
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: really hot, that's when you're that's when your vessels like

513
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 1: vaso die, So you get like a rush in your head,

514
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: get like even flushed in your face. I haven't enjoyed

515
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: the feeling though. I got dizzy, yeah, which is what

516
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: happens when you get like a head rush. That's basically

517
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,479
Speaker 1: all the blood rushing to your head. And so what

518
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: ends up happening is that because all of your it's

519
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: basically all your orifices, feel like they're kind of throbbing,

520
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: like there's this like fullness and you just want something

521
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: to shove, like you need something to kind of push

522
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: it back in, like shove everything back in. Literally there's

523
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 1: a physical there's a physical like body piece, and there's

524
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: a brain piece. So you can get a little bit dizzy,

525
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,239
Speaker 1: you can get a little bit woozy, but then the

526
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: physical part is that it really feels like you want

527
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: to get fucked, like said quick, but it also does

528
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: it also relax you? Does it relax your body? Because

529
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: he had me doing the poppers to relax. I don't

530
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 1: know if you wanted antisex, but he didn't because he

531
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: he also made me squirt, bitch, that model boy. He

532
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 1: made me squirt, which is why I've been trying to

533
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: get you to fund them. But she don't ever want

534
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: to dick after me. But I want to say and again,

535
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: no judgment everybody. You do what you do, what makes

536
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: you feel good. But I think that when we're looking

537
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: at using these substances on a regular basis, no, it's

538
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: probably not the best thing for you all the time constantly. Yeah,

539
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: if she's doing it for a night to try, yeah,

540
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: like not going to be the worst obviously, not the healthiest,

541
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: but not the worst. Okay, So like you're not going

542
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: to die tonight, but we don't know yet. Okay, So

543
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: then you're a choice for her when you try it out,

544
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: then sure that would be your advice. I legally heif

545
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: just educated? Did our did our followers have any other questions? Um?

546
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: We did? If you could pull up our page, I

547
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: can't Jesus Christ. She's never prepared, guys. First of all,

548
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: she's never fucking prepared. Mind you. We've been waiting on

549
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: this doctor episode every day on my lunch break. By

550
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: the way, do you have any more questions? Because this

551
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 1: is another question that we're gonna ask. I thought she

552
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: had the ship written down well. In the meanwhile, I

553
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: just had so many happy I am to be here.

554
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: It's just I'm so such a fan girl of Dr

555
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: Kim because she's pretty and smart. Yeah, you know what

556
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 1: I mean. And then when I found out like you

557
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 1: cured cancer, like I really so honestly, we have a

558
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: mutual friend right, and she is the Beyonce of the friendship,

559
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: and I'm annoyed with being the Kelly. But I also

560
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 1: understand why. Okay, here's this one. I really really like

561
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: this one a lot because I think this is kind

562
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: of my issue with sporting um extra embarrassed. But I'm

563
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 1: afraid to come slash climax. It seems too powerful, and

564
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: I always pull away. I say, I want to just

565
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: wait and let it happen with my boo, but I

566
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: feel like I should know my body before being with

567
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: another person. My cherry has been popped, but I tapped

568
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 1: old dude too soon after to get the hell out

569
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: the cookie jar. No penetration since then. Okay, so I'm

570
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 1: guessing she's saying she lots of virginity and it was

571
00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: bad right, and hasn't been rushing. I'm ready to saddle

572
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: up again, but the roadbump is difficult. I masturbate, but

573
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: when that time comes, I let the pre charmers happen

574
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:06,959
Speaker 1: and I pull away before the big Oh, what advice

575
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: could you give? Her. She actually sent that in once

576
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: we told her we had a doctor. Yeah, what what

577
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 1: could what advice could you give someone that's scared to orgasm?

578
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:17,959
Speaker 1: That's like I'm really crying deep down inside for her.

579
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: And I think as women, like I think that there's

580
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: a lot that goes into somebody who feels like that

581
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: there's a lot of um. Sometimes women have this idea

582
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: there's a there's a lot of shame that goes into

583
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: our vaginas and touching ourselves culturally and historically, And I

584
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: think that a lot of it is there's probably a

585
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: lot going on in that capacity where it's like think

586
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: about like what she associates orgasms with, like why is

587
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: ask yourself kind of why is there the sphere around it?

588
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: Like where do you think is going to happen? And

589
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: and I really do think it has it really has

590
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: to do with knowing your body and being really comfortable.

591
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,719
Speaker 1: Like even what she said with forcing like kind of

592
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: hitting this too fast just to kind of get things

593
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 1: over and done with, why do women do that? Wait

594
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:07,719
Speaker 1: and enjoy yourself? That's well, that's why I don't do anymore.

595
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: But I used to say, you're like, Okay, he's waiting

596
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: too long, but why I don't even know, like, just

597
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: enjoy yourself. And it's crazy because I talked to my

598
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: friends about this a lot, and I I'll openly say,

599
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: because I want anyone in my d M s who

600
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 1: has the problem, Like I'm to the point where it

601
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: might be a problem as well. But I masturbate to

602
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: go to sleep, Like I literally masturbate every single night

603
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: if I'm on my period. Put this how along with

604
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: me sometimes and just hoping it ain't all on my

605
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: nails when I wake up. I literally like, I like

606
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: the feeling of making myself come, and it makes me

607
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: tired if I go to sleep without masturbating. I genuinely right,

608
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: it's now I have it. But I have so many

609
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: friends who are just like you play with like who

610
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,719
Speaker 1: don't play with themselves. And I want to ask you

611
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: something because I feel like it's contry be did to

612
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: me being able to come easier with my partners. The

613
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: fact that I masturbate so much, I know what feels good,

614
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: and not only that, I think coming is also very mental.

615
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: I know what to put in my mind and how

616
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: to think and how to make myself relax to enjoy

617
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 1: an orgasm and I think that's very important for our

618
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 1: male listeners, though, Can masturbation truly have a long term

619
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 1: effect as far as them enjoying vaginal sex? I got

620
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 1: this question from a male listener, and I've had guys

621
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: say that, oh shoot, if we're gonna fun, let me not.

622
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 1: I can't jack off for a couple of days otherwise

623
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to come. What advice do

624
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: you have for our male listeners who masturbate a lot?

625
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: Is that? Like I think that when you say, I'm

626
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: only laughing because when we were when we were younger,

627
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: it was we were definitely taught about masturbation when you're

628
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 1: in like church school, where you're like, if you masturbate,

629
00:34:56,520 --> 00:35:03,760
Speaker 1: you're going blind and sorry Sarah working ever, like you know,

630
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: it's definitely you know what it's It's down to the

631
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: science of a refractory period. So with guys, the longer

632
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: that they've gone without having sex, the stronger the So like,

633
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: if a guy masturbates an hour before you have sex

634
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: with them, it's going to be a bit harder for

635
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:26,959
Speaker 1: some men to sustain a um, to sustain erection. And really,

636
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: when it comes to masturbating, it's really you're you're getting,

637
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: you're getting your Their penis is kind of used to

638
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: a certain rhythm, a certain um texture, a certain um

639
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: level of intensity, and so when you think about sex

640
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: and orgasm, sometimes that has to be matched. It's like

641
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: guys who who have who basically masturbate, you know, if

642
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: they're doing that three times a day, four times a day,

643
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: it's going to be harder to get off to a

644
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:58,839
Speaker 1: vaginal intercourse. I think I've used a vibrator so much

645
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: that I've had like decent yeah, and that can definitely happen,

646
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: Like it's like I have to give it a break

647
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: and then it comes back, and it's crazy with me

648
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 1: because for masturbation, I literally can only do clatoral simulation

649
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 1: with my fingers. I don't think my arms are long

650
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 1: enough to really dig in my pussy, so I'd never

651
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,439
Speaker 1: really have vaginal masturbation like where I'm and I don't

652
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 1: believe in shoving plastic in my pussy. Oddly, but I

653
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: think I think a big point to take away from

654
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 1: this guy's is that your your body gets used to

655
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 1: whatever it is you're giving, or you build up a tolerance.

656
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: And so whether it be porn, whether it be masturbating,

657
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 1: whether it be whatever it is, your body will build

658
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,280
Speaker 1: up a tolerance to it. So sometimes I think deferred

659
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: gratification can sometimes be a good thing. I think, I

660
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: think getting back. I think there's a there's a theme here.

661
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 1: I don't we don't really say the word, but it's constant.

662
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: Anything constant doesn't seem to be really good. Huh, because

663
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: can be something so consistency is good, but something constant

664
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 1: isn't really good. I just think overdoing anything can be

665
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:08,359
Speaker 1: a problem if delayed gratification would you say? So? Kind

666
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 1: of unrelated but really cool. So you know, I'm going

667
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: to see a lover boy. I'm trying something just one week.

668
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: But apparently you can do it for a while called

669
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: edging right now, Okay, so I'm gonna let me explain

670
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: what explain what edging is when I think it's not

671
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: just masturbating, not just like keeping yourself waiting or like

672
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 1: getting anxious, but literally taking yourself to the point and stopping.

673
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 1: So just edging up to the point like it's a

674
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,760
Speaker 1: it's a little bit of commerceutra. But um, an Indian

675
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: girl I know mentioned it to me and she said

676
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 1: it would be amazing. So you can keep edging yourself

677
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: until you're literally about to fucking break, and then the

678
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 1: second that happens, you can have one of the most

679
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: amazing orgasms in the world. So when you were mentioning

680
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: masturbating too much and you can't get there, I've been

681
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: doing it and stopping. I'm only been doing it for

682
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: three days. It's going to be easy because I have

683
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: a friend in town, so I can't do it now.

684
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: So it'll kind of like be able to like, I

685
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: only like what a friends in town because by the

686
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: time they caught that part. Yeah, I'm saying, don't have

687
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: time to masturbate, so like by the time, So this

688
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: will kind of help for those days because seriously, when

689
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: I go home and go to bed, it's like, see

690
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: the excitement that I get when I have friends over

691
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: is that by the time they leave, there's probably new

692
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: porn videos that I haven't seen. Do you know how

693
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 1: long it takes me to find a video I haven't seen?

694
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: What are you looking at? Porn? Your vagina is like

695
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: a muscle, right, It's like an orgasm is a contraction.

696
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: It's like somebody just contracts and contracts and it builds

697
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,760
Speaker 1: and it builds and it builds and then the release

698
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: part is what feels so good, and you feel that

699
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 1: all over your body. So it's like you take yourself

700
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: to the edge of your delay firming up those muscles,

701
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: Like those contractions are getting stronger and stronger, and you're

702
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: learning how to control it like any other muscle already.

703
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,919
Speaker 1: I'm also so upset with myself because we just kept

704
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 1: saying she wants these questions before she comes on air

705
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,799
Speaker 1: because she doesn't want to give any misformed information. But

706
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: now that you just brought up muscles in your vagina,

707
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: I have a question and I hope you can answer

708
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: it because I just had a conversation with my friend

709
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: with this. I'm so excited we're talking about that, and

710
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 1: this is what I wanted to bring up because my friend, well,

711
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: not only not only yeah, you could do kiggles wrong,

712
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:08,760
Speaker 1: but not only that, just our vagina is a muscle.

713
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 1: My friend fucked one guy with a very large penis

714
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: and was concerned that her pussy would feel different and

715
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: a penis that was not as large. So how quick

716
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: does your vagina go back to being tight from a

717
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: big nick to a little dick? Or is there is

718
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: that just in our mind? No, it's it's just so

719
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: funny when I hear you guys ask questions. It's like

720
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: that girl is so concerned with how her perfect time

721
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: we feel for the guy, not how it would feel

722
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: for her, and who cares? So basically can we all

723
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: talk about when we talk about it's, it's like it's

724
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: it is a muscle. So basically what happens is is

725
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: that it can expand and contract over time. So if

726
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: if you haven't had sex for like, if you're going

727
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: from guy A to to guy B in like the

728
00:39:56,239 --> 00:40:00,479
Speaker 1: matter of hours or even day, like a day, then

729
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: things are gonna stay a little bit more loose. But

730
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: if you give it a week, give it a couple week,

731
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: if you give it a little bit longer than things

732
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: will firm up again. They'll they'll contract again. So you

733
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: see women who have been in long term relationships break

734
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 1: up so well, back well, back to the back to um.

735
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:20,760
Speaker 1: If I want to dick in a couple of hours

736
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: after I just had one, or dick the next day

737
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: and I still want it to be tight, what can

738
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 1: a woman do to maybe speed up the process. Yeah, well,

739
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: I guess having a strong pelvic floor would definitely help

740
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: doing keegos will help. Do you know how to do

741
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: keegos properly? I know how to squeeze with a dick

742
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 1: inside of me, so I'm very good with like I mean,

743
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: I like clinch my butt cheeks together and my pussy.

744
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 1: But I think in my mind that like it's always

745
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: so you want to do sets of three, So basically

746
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 1: hold like you're gonna pee, like I'm holding right now.

747
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: Don't let yourself squirt. You want to just contract, and

748
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,399
Speaker 1: you want to contract and hold for three to five

749
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: seconds and then realized to make sure do like do

750
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: that for like ten times. We're holding our vaginas like

751
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: you want to stop yourself from peeing, okay, stopping stop yep,

752
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: stop and then let it go and then repeat that

753
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 1: for ten times? And what's this going to do? Make much?

754
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: Like I mean? But I also want to say for

755
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: listeners and women out there, if you there's people that

756
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing keegels, like what wormen shouldn't be doing.

757
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: If your pelvic floor is too tight, then you shouldn't

758
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: be doing because they're gonna make problems. Where So a

759
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 1: tight pelvic floor comes along with problems, like if you're

760
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: having pain during intercourse, or you have to pee really frequently,

761
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: you can't hold you had pelvic floor therapy before. Great

762
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: you have. I'm so proud of you. Well, I don't

763
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: even know if it was a good thing. So like,

764
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: let me explain to you guys how this works. Okay,

765
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: I did this when I was with Okay, he really

766
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: sucked my head up right, and he was just such

767
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 1: an asshole to me and such an emotionally damaging relationship

768
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: that I was literally scared to have sex. So I,

769
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: how have I ever told you this? I think I

770
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: might have. So I went to a doctor and he's like,

771
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 1: I was clenching so much that I couldn't have sex. Um.

772
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: This was maybe like six years ago. Doctor couldn't even

773
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 1: get his hand inside of me. He's like, you've got

774
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 1: to relax. So I started doing public floor therapy where

775
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: they would stick this thing in me that had like

776
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 1: electro waves and it felt like vibrations that would just loosen.

777
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,840
Speaker 1: So like, maybe I shouldn't be doing well. No, I

778
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: think that was definitely a mental Like I feel like

779
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: any kind of any kind of trauma or somebody not

780
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 1: treating you right, and even when we think about you,

781
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: I didn't know questions so much like if you think

782
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: about the way, like just the brain body connection and

783
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: how like your body needs to be in a pair sympathetic,

784
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,399
Speaker 1: like a relaxed mode for women to get more rounds.

785
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: It's just what happens. It's just our our nature. The

786
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 1: next person I started dating, I was having amazing sex with,

787
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 1: and I remember thinking, why am I not freaking out out?

788
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: And like it was just it wasn't the same person

789
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 1: probably treating thousands on my pussy and I felt so bad. Honestly,

790
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,720
Speaker 1: it was crazy because it was working. I was becoming

791
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 1: more relaxed, like I was loosening up, Like she was

792
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 1: telling me how much I was clenching the tool, like

793
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: it was almost unsafe. She was like, how like freaked

794
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: out I was. But I think that's to take home

795
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: the point of how important it is for women to

796
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 1: feel safe and like they and love what they're doing

797
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 1: and be like want to do what you're doing? Right

798
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: whenever you start forcing yourself to do stuff just for

799
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 1: for whatever reasons, like it has to feel good for you, right,

800
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 1: like honor that self, honor that part of yourself, honored

801
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 1: that that piece around sex should be good for us,

802
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: not just them because I feel like, I mean, we know,

803
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: I can't speak for you evenly fu one person, but

804
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: I definitely have sex as when I was like, let

805
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: me just let this happen, get it over with, like

806
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: and it's so crazy because I'm to the point now

807
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 1: where I won't do that, Like it's yeah, that's the

808
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: younger aren't recreational for me anymore. Like I genuinely will

809
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: not have sex with someone who I know will not

810
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 1: please me or like literally get me to that climax

811
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: that I'm seeking. And I think that that's important. I

812
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 1: think that women should reach that that that that part

813
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 1: in their life where it's just like sex isn't just

814
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 1: to do it. I'm twenty six, right, and I can't

815
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: tell you that maybe that part of me didn't even

816
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 1: happen until two years ago where I like, yeah, and

817
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: now it's just like I'm not gonna because you find

818
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: It wasn't like I was sleeping with people I didn't

819
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: want to. It was just I think I was just

820
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 1: like it didn't feel good, right, Okay, I've heard how

821
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: many girls have that problem though, when it's like I

822
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: had a young girl asked me that the other day,

823
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, i'm you know it hurts. I'm so

824
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,879
Speaker 1: tight we can't have sex. I'm like, you don't like it,

825
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: that's exactly what two And at that age you probably

826
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: don't realize that is genuinely your around. Well, no, I

827
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: think girls just don't honor them, say don't it's like

828
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel good. They all think it's their fault

829
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: when it's actually not our fault. He just doesn't know

830
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: what he's doing, like when a guy's hand is like,

831
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: that's not how you do it. And I am so

832
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: glad that you actually just said that, because it's something.

833
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: It's a campaign I kind of want to start. But

834
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 1: I want women and I said this on Twitter, on Instagram,

835
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: on snap I want women to start telling men that

836
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 1: their dick is mediocre. I want no, it's it's I'm

837
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 1: starting a movement because listen, you don't know how many

838
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: guys will come to the next female and be like, well,

839
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,880
Speaker 1: I ain't had no complaints, and that's the problem you

840
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: should have been complained about. And the fact that these

841
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 1: women are not letting men know when their dicks are

842
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,439
Speaker 1: not up to par, it's our problem. And now you're

843
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: spreading around mediocre dead we need to do. Adjustice to

844
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: each other and tell the man, listen, this is what

845
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 1: you could have done better, this is what you may

846
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: want to stop doing. And then let's do it for

847
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: our sisters. You know, it's a movement. It's a movement.

848
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 1: This is the vagina. Let's move bro. It's all of

849
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 1: that communication. Good sex has to be all that for sure.

850
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: And so going into all of this vaginal talk, I

851
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: want to go to this week's horrible decision Jesus. And

852
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 1: this is a decision that I made based off of

853
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 1: my other whole friends, and I want to know the

854
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:49,800
Speaker 1: health risks involved. So before I get into this horrible

855
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: dec I want Dr Kim to talk about what's in

856
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:58,359
Speaker 1: your hand? First? Okay, don't say it doesn't even look

857
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: like the good ones from for well, this is this

858
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: is from my friend who uses these, so she let

859
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: me put it in your hand. Put it. It hasn't

860
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: been used. I literally was with a friend the other

861
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 1: day and a foundation makeup spun. Okay, so this is

862
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: the horrible friends, I would say, is I don't know

863
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 1: what is that? Probably about three and we all okay,

864
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: so um, what she's holding in her hand? Guys? You

865
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: know the makeup sponge packs, UM for foundation or any

866
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:37,720
Speaker 1: type of liquid makeup. Yeah, they're they're definitely cheap. Well

867
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 1: this is what you buy, so they're the cheap ones

868
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: um and so this okay, I guess I'll get into

869
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: my start. I don't want to hurt your heart, so

870
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: I'll say this, so I talk. I have a lot

871
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: of friends who are escorts, a lot of friends who

872
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: who did porn or are currently doing porn. And my

873
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: question to them was, so, how do you funk if

874
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: you're on your period? So there was a guy who

875
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: came to town. I'll get straight into the story. There

876
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: was a guy who came to town who I had

877
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: been dealing with and I really wanted to dick, like

878
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: really bad. However, I had just started my period. So

879
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:17,919
Speaker 1: we know the myths, which I'm going to ask as well.

880
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 1: The one myth is, if you know your period is

881
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: coming on, you could pop a birth control pill and

882
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: it'll knock your cycle off a couple of days. That's

883
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 1: what we did when we were younger. I'll ask you

884
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: if there's a myth or if there's that, Oh she

885
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: doing still, So we'll talk about that. So what what

886
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 1: my friend said was well, do you have makeup sponges?

887
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,280
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, I gotta pack up my bottom.

888
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: It was cheat like one night and nine for lack

889
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: of packets wheel. So they were like, this is what

890
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: you do, so I was I'm just saying so basically,

891
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: the instructions that I got were, you just started your period.

892
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: There's not a lot of blood. What you can do

893
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: is take a makeup sponge. My friend puts four of these.

894
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,879
Speaker 1: However I only put one that day because it wasn't

895
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 1: super heavy, so I put She told me to take

896
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,919
Speaker 1: a makeup sponge, put a lot of lube on it.

897
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: Folded like this, wait, folded like this, and guys, I'm

898
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: folding it in half. And she was like, with the lube,

899
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: use your fingers and push it up into your pussy

900
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 1: as far as it will go. Take it with your fingers,

901
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:34,760
Speaker 1: so listen. So anyways, so I pushed the makeup sponge

902
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 1: in my pussy to block I guess the blood from

903
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 1: coming out. This is what they said. They said, listen,

904
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: when when he fuck flue, when he talks to you,

905
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: he won't even feel it because it'll feel like your

906
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: vagina walls. She don't you care if he knows if

907
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: you're on your period. Oh, I don't. I won't suck him. No,

908
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,359
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't funk my peer. But I really

909
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 1: want a dick like it was that series The Dick

910
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: was really good. So I went through it. We did

911
00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: it his dick. I guess did it feel Yeah, it

912
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 1: felt regular. He didn't even notice there was no blood

913
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: on the condom when he came out. I was talking

914
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,919
Speaker 1: a lot about this and he said he's felt the sponge. Oh,

915
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: we'll see. So there's a lot of girls who are

916
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: doing it. So anyways, he left. He left, and my

917
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:17,320
Speaker 1: friends said, you know, you're wet, like it's They normally

918
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: just pull it right out and it's fine. Again, mine

919
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't come out. I guess like the condom, like the

920
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 1: little areas that kind of branch out past. Well, I do,

921
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: which is where the condom was. Not only that, when

922
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 1: the when the guya was using the tool, she had

923
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 1: to get another because it like wentn't open, like my

924
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: vagina was point for you, Mandy is, don't put things

925
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: in your vagina accepted, accepted dick. I know, okay, So

926
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 1: basically why this was why this was a horrible decision,

927
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: possibly besides the health factors that we're going to find

928
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: out from the m d um, it wouldn't come out.

929
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:04,919
Speaker 1: So they God, my roommate was home. Um, she had

930
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: just dyed her hair. So I was like, get those gloves.

931
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: She had gloves, and so what we did, what we

932
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: did was what what we did. I'm always so she

933
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 1: had she had an actual glove, not the same ones

934
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: that she died the hair. She had another one that

935
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: she didn't use. So sorry it was listen, but she

936
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,879
Speaker 1: used gloves, so listen. I'm like, oh my god, it's

937
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: not coming out. So she's telling the glove part for you.

938
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,760
Speaker 1: There was a glove, so we put We were like okay,

939
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 1: and she was clearly my friend. She was like, I

940
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: can't believe you on me sticking my fingers up your vagina.

941
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 1: So we put lub on the gloves, and I guess

942
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you because I have to. So this

943
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: is like the tub, right, So this is the tub.

944
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: Hold on hate being away from the mic. So this

945
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: is a tub. And I literally put my leg like

946
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,919
Speaker 1: this so that she could like good, good for great

947
00:51:56,960 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: for me. You gotta know you gotta know how to

948
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,800
Speaker 1: reach it. She could like grab the sponge out vagina,

949
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 1: and it came out. Probably we were trying for like

950
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: eight minutes, you know, and then it came good advice.

951
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 1: I got this when I was driving a family friends car.

952
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,839
Speaker 1: Don't park a car anywhere that you don't. Don't drive

953
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: a car into somewhere where you don't think you can

954
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: get it out of. The same goes for anything you'll

955
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:29,439
Speaker 1: put in your vagina. Don't. Any of my friends said

956
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 1: it came right out. And maybe I guess our vaginas

957
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 1: are shaped different inside. I thought they were all just

958
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: a vagina um and so she's able to pour. She

959
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: was able to pull four of these out, so I

960
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: was like, it's just one. I'm sure it'll come right out,

961
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: and it didn't. So my question at this point, after

962
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 1: my horrible decision, I promised guys, nothing else has been

963
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: stuck in there except good this is it. I'm gonna

964
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 1: make a sponge. And Kim just told me I can't

965
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,799
Speaker 1: put nothing else on my pussy because it sounds like

966
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 1: she is deep. It's just it's just if things are

967
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: going to get lost in your vagina and all the

968
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,799
Speaker 1: it's basically like you have some little you know, It's

969
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 1: like your vagina is a tube and it has these

970
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: two little parts that can branch. I saw that, but

971
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 1: it isn't that where the eggs are. No, every time

972
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: I see that little diagrams looks like come and being

973
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 1: like like oh, basically there's just little deeper parts at

974
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: the very end that sometimes things can go in and

975
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: get stuck in and and penises can go up in there,

976
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,320
Speaker 1: and you can pat in certain walls and they do not.

977
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 1: Is that healthy? Real quick? Before we get into the

978
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: big dicks does knocking into stuff in there? Is that healthy?

979
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: Not the worst thing? You can move stuff around? Can

980
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: dicks move things around? Yeah? Well it's a force, it's

981
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 1: a piece of it's can it can sunk up an

982
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: iu D I've not a friend of that. Okay, So

983
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 1: I guess we're going to get into this answer about

984
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 1: the makeup sponge and the plan B. This is going

985
00:53:57,880 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: to be our last I guess. And I wanted to

986
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 1: know you can get pregnant from pre come though, yes,

987
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,439
Speaker 1: well okay, so so so we're gonna I know you can't.

988
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 1: We're gonna do this real quick makeup sponge. We're gonna

989
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:10,360
Speaker 1: go down the list real quick makeup sponge healthy or

990
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 1: not healthy. Okay, So ladies just don't even either. There's

991
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 1: they're made of all kinds of crap. They're so lay it.

992
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: Towel down, ladies. If you want to your period, yeah,

993
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: don't do the make up sponge trap. Listen. You know that.

994
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,280
Speaker 1: He said, if you walk through, you could through. Bood.

995
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 1: I have had a man come in my house, no bullshit.

996
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: Maybe third day was our first time I have a

997
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: sex and he was like, damn, like I want you

998
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: so bad. I was like me too. I was like,

999
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:38,439
Speaker 1: but I'm on my period. He goes, oh, you ain't

1000
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: got no tel see, I can't do it, can't do it.

1001
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 1: The guy says that he has to leave. I think

1002
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 1: you're disgusting. I know, I'm not fucking a guy. I

1003
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: really would like the male listeners to tells like you

1004
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 1: girls and female Well, we'll have to talk about that

1005
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: another episode. Um so off, I know, bitch, we're rushing through.

1006
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 1: We only pay for an hour. Okay, So make up

1007
00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 1: sponge no Plan B, not Plan B. Birth control pill

1008
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: knocking your period off miss or fause can't can't. They're

1009
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:08,879
Speaker 1: not the best thing for you ever. It can really

1010
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: mess up your hormones. Okay, so that's what mess up

1011
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 1: your hormones or get dick ladies, that's your decision. Um.

1012
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: And then the last one is, I guess we wants

1013
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: to know for our listeners, can you get pregnant from

1014
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: pre com? Yes? Why do people assume you can't because

1015
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 1: they're twelve and bad? Really really bad? I said, Guys

1016
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: can't control like pre come is just a little bit

1017
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: that comes out before, but they're sperm in the engineers,

1018
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:36,919
Speaker 1: like let me, let me pay. There is one part,

1019
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: and any guy that tells you you can control that

1020
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 1: is lying. So men cannot control pre they can't. Real quick,

1021
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,360
Speaker 1: but you got a half minutes. Someone wants to know

1022
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: if swallowing is unhealthy and if they can catch diseases

1023
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:53,800
Speaker 1: from swallowing, diseases from putting anything in your mouth like

1024
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: you have less like because you have stomach acid. There's

1025
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 1: a lot worse. But there's a whole lot of area

1026
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:01,800
Speaker 1: before you get to your stomach. So note to listeners

1027
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 1: and everybody what key points I wanted to say on

1028
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 1: the show. I was for them, guys, be careful of

1029
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: what you put in your mouth, Be careful of what

1030
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: you put in your ass, Be careful of what you

1031
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 1: put in your vagina. Be careful because you can get stuff.

1032
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about HPV. There's so many things

1033
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: I want to talk about with you guys. But I

1034
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: just think that love yourself enough to pay attention to

1035
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: what's going and you look at it. In school, I

1036
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 1: actually got extra marks for the male genital exam with

1037
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:32,279
Speaker 1: my examiner. She was like, Wow, you really looked like

1038
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: that's what you're supposed to do. You look, look before

1039
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: anything goes inside. If you look, you know, I check

1040
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: it out, ask questions and real quick, real quick. Because

1041
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 1: and this is the last thing, because because I know

1042
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 1: we can't talk about HPV real quick. But I saw

1043
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 1: this on my Twitter line, my Twitter timeline, and it

1044
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: was going through can guys get pimples on their dicks?

1045
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 1: Or if it's a bump, just stay away? There was

1046
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 1: a guy. She said that there was a pimple on

1047
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,760
Speaker 1: the guy's dick. Can guys get pimples on their towards

1048
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:06,240
Speaker 1: the base? Okay, so you can't get pimples and razor bumps,

1049
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: but how do you tell the difference between that and

1050
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 1: a herpie bump? There's you the average person probably won't

1051
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 1: be able to guys like you got particular no, just

1052
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: if it looks like I just don't play. If you

1053
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 1: see bumps on there, you say questions, get a swab,

1054
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 1: don't put it in your mouth. That's going to end up.

1055
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Speaker 1: Herpies too ends up upstairs, okay, downstairs, herpes ends up

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Speaker 1: in upstairs. Okay, So you do not want that. Basically, guys,

1057
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: things transfer, so be careful. I love yourself or not

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Speaker 1: love yourself. But on my STD results though, every time

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00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: I get tested, when I look at the herpies section,

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00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 1: it's always as normal. So there's like a percentage, right,

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00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 1: So like, yeah, you can you can have a carrier,

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00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: so you could all have that, like you can have

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00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 1: a like there's like eight different there's like don't don't

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Speaker 1: you mother, I'm just down here. No, no, no, no,

1065
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: there's different kinds. And so basically herpes too is what

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00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: will end up on you on the body downstairs areas. Yeah,

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00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 1: and then herpies one is what's on the rade. So

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Speaker 1: a large percent of the population because there's up to

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Speaker 1: say that again, a large percent of the population has herpies,

1070
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Speaker 1: carries the virus but doesn't express it. Well know, a

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Speaker 1: lot of people, well a lot of people have HPOP.

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Speaker 1: But also it's it's also something that I want to

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Speaker 1: talk about real quick a and I learned all this

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Speaker 1: from me Googli and I have friends with stuff um,

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Speaker 1: and so I want to let you guys know herpes

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00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 1: to HPP whatever can be transferred even if the guy

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00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:54,439
Speaker 1: has a condom on yes, um to seventy less chance,

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Speaker 1: but you still can't catch it when they condom. Secondly,

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00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 1: it's not deadly. I did and we just looked it

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Speaker 1: up and I had cut cutting in. It turns into

1081
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: unless it turns into well, oh it could be cancerous. Yeah,

1082
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 1: it turns into circle cancer and anal cancer and men

1083
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: and men, women and women, okay um. And then another

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Speaker 1: thing that I did want to point out because a

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Speaker 1: lot of people do not know this, and this is

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Speaker 1: the last gem that we're going to drop on the show,

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Speaker 1: is when you do go to get STD checks, herpes

1088
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: is a test all by itself if you have and

1089
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Speaker 1: when you and so if you're pissing in a cup,

1090
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Speaker 1: you're nine times out of ten, your STD results are

1091
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Speaker 1: only going to check for lamydia simphilist trick all of

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Speaker 1: the other ones. But the blood testing is how they

1093
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Speaker 1: check for the HPV virus. So if you're not getting

1094
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Speaker 1: drawn blood besides for HIV, you have to specifically ask

1095
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Speaker 1: your guy know your doctor, Hey, can you also test

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Speaker 1: me for HPV because that is one in which people

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Speaker 1: can go get tested for st you got, Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: have to get a whole path to get it papped.

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Speaker 1: So when you're nearly you need to ask yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Perhaps I believe our requisition every three years, but in

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Speaker 1: my experience, if you're really sexually act, you need to

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Speaker 1: go more than one partner. And I've been in school,

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Speaker 1: so that should have been for you. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: letting us have you on. I'm looking at the time

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Speaker 1: right we're about to get kicked out, but um, I

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Speaker 1: want to go ahead and thank our guests so much

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Speaker 1: for coming on the show. I hope she answered your questions.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully we can maybe get you back down to motherfucking

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Speaker 1: New York to answer some more because we're gonna have

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Speaker 1: to have a part too. Um, thank you so much. Guys. Again,

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